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Speaker 1: All right, Lindsay, and Windsor is on the line. Good morning, Lindsay, Hi,

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good morning.

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Speaker 2: Well, welcome to second Date Update. Obviously you know what

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it's all about.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So the producer says, you went on a date

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with a guy named Max.

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Speaker 1: Tell me about this fabulous date with Max.

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Speaker 4: I did.

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Speaker 3: He's like, very sweet, we had a very hallmark estate.

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So we went to the shore. We got some ice cream,

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and we walked along the beach like it was very cute.

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And I'm just so confused on why I feel like

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I'm getting ghosted right now because I thought the date

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went perfectly fine, like it was magical.

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Speaker 2: Good conversation. Did you feel like there was flirting? Was

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there any flirting going on?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely? Yeah. I felt like we hit it. We had

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an amazing you know.

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Speaker 1: Chemistry when you guys were on the beach.

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Speaker 2: Did he stop and pick up like seashells and needles

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for you and stuff like that, needles to get beaches,

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Let's be.

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Speaker 3: Honest, definitely like pick us some shelves.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, okay, And you reached out to him

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to thank him for the date or whatever, hoping for

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a second date, and that's he's just not returning your

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call or text.

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Speaker 3: Yeah I did. I uh, like thirty minutes after our date.

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I was like, you know, I made it home, like

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I was texting him thank you and all that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, And so you're getting totally ghosted and you want

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you just want answers.

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Speaker 1: You want to find out why you're getting ghosted.

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Speaker 4: M hmm.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well this is what we're gonna do.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna have you on hold. We're gonna call Max.

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We're gonna ask him about the date as well. You're

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going to be listening in at any point if you

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want to chat with Max or talk to him, feel

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free to jump on the line.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Let's call him.

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Speaker 2: I would do a sure date, but but don't want

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to wear a bathing suit.

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Speaker 1: We don't have to wear.

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Speaker 2: But if you're going to go to the beach, if

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it's a beach day, you do.

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Speaker 1: Hello is Max there?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Hey is Max? Hey?

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Speaker 1: Hey Max, it's Courtney Max. It's Walmart chef. Hey Max,

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it's Savannah. You're on the radio. You're on Kiss ninety

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five to seven this morning.

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Speaker 4: Oh hey guys, Hey, how's it going on?

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Speaker 1: It's going.

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Speaker 2: Well, listen, I have to tell you you're on the radio

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because it is Second Date Update, And if you're familiar

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with the show, then you know about Second Date Update.

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Speaker 4: Yeah I do. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So that means you're ghosting someone after a great first

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date and I'll refresh your memory.

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Speaker 1: Because you could be like a data halic. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Lindsey called us and said, she went on like a

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date that was so beautiful. It was like a Hallmark movie.

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You went to the shore, you walk the beach, you

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had a great time. But now you're ghosting her.

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Speaker 4: No, a date was good, it was great, she's great

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and we had a really good time together.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, then why if the date was great and

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she's great, was there just not a connection?

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Speaker 1: Did you not feel like a romantic connection?

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Speaker 4: No? I felt like there could be something there, but

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I just didn't. There's something, uh, like like life stuff

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that that I'm just that that wasn't working for me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, like long term values or like marriage, kids, religion,

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like what what are what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Secret throughout?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: So so she said on a profile like what she

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does for work, and she says, you know dancer and uh,

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And I was like cool, like works with kids or

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you know, does ballet recitals or you know, teaches kids

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or whatever. Nice, but yeah, but I found out it

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is that she's actually a stripper.

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Speaker 2: Oh nice, Oh oh dancer dancer Okay, oh.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is lindsay Himax. I just have to jump

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in right now, and I'm I'm completely appalled and offended

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by your opinion right now.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well it's my I mean, you didn't say anything.

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It's pretty different to say you're like a dancer, like

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are you in a are you like a ballet dancer?

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You teach kid? Like that's a I actually.

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Speaker 3: Have a background in ballet. I do have a background

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in ballet, but I did choose to be a stripper,

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and I don't understand why, like there's so much stigma

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around that. And then coming I didn't get that vibe

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from you when we were on the date, so I'm

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very surprised.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know if there's like stigma. It's

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just like I feel weird taking it home to see

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my grandma. If like that's what you do for it,

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like whatever, people have it as a job, but it's

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just I don't want to It's not really for me,

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you know, Okay, Wow.

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Speaker 3: It's a legitimate job though, Like I have to do

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customer service, I have to like be physically fit. There's

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a lot of skills that go into my job.

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Speaker 1: And you probably make good money. Do you make good money? Lindsay?

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Speaker 3: I make six figures?

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Speaker 1: Oh go girl, there's a lot of lap dancers figures.

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It's over one hundred thousand, you know, I know.

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Speaker 2: I kind of feel like we should reconsider our career

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choices at this point. So can we just so, yeah,

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I made.

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Speaker 3: One hundred thousand dollars last year and this year I'm

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like heading to almost two hundred thousand dollars.

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Speaker 2: So she's a really good stripper, then you're really good,

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all right. So so Max, it's more like a lifestyle

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thing for you.

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Speaker 1: It's just you're not you.

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Speaker 4: Don't yeah long term, like oh great, I'm going to

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the office and then you're just like going to the

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strip club and like I have to think about that

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when you come home from work. Like I get that

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it's a job, but it just makes it makes me uncomfortable.

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I don't want you.

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Speaker 3: Want to share a really hot girl. I'm sorry, Well, okay.

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Speaker 2: I would usually offer to pay for a second date,

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if you guys wanted to try and make it work

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through a second date. But I feel like it's probably

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just not a connection, and it's it's just you guys

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think totally different and I don't. I just I'm not

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going to offer the second date.

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Speaker 4: I just I don't think it is the right fit.

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And I thought that was just cool to just move

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on from that. But I didn't know I was being

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attacked here.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, nobody's attacking you, and I appreciate you for

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being honest and finally letting Lindsay know. And Lindsay, you've

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got closure, You've got the answers.

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Speaker 1: Now you know why you were getting ghosted.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, as I thought, So okay, Lindsey, Max, thank you

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guys for being on a second date update.

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Speaker 3: Thank you