Speaker 1: Minnesota. Goodbye time, kids are ready ready, Let's see what
Speaker 1: we got here. A lot of emails coming in today,
Speaker 1: so let's check them out. We're gonna start off with
Speaker 1: this one. Dave Jenny Bailey. Definitely skip if it's anything
Speaker 1: too personal. But some questions I've been wondering. Oh, I
Speaker 1: have a not pre read list, so let's see if
Speaker 1: they are too personal. Dave, did Chase and Beth have
Speaker 1: your last name? Is there a story there? This came
Speaker 1: out because you're talking about real names on the show,
Speaker 1: and Dave posted a video advertising Chase and it looks
Speaker 1: like his last name is not Kibbler. There is a
Speaker 1: story there, and I will go ahead and tell the story,
Speaker 1: even though it's a little bit dicey. So when Chase
Speaker 1: was born, Julie did not put my name on the
Speaker 1: birth certificate because we were not together. And Julie was,
Speaker 1: by many accounts, not just mine, a very difficult person.
Speaker 1: And even though I loved her with all my heart
Speaker 1: and soul at one time, she was a very difficult
Speaker 1: person if you wronged her. So I was not with her.
Speaker 1: So she put her last name, which is a beautiful
Speaker 1: last name, go lightly probably better than Kibler. She put
Speaker 1: it on the birth certificate and I said, I want
Speaker 1: that child to have my last name, and she said,
Speaker 1: I'll make you a deal. I won't ask for the
Speaker 1: full amount of child support now, and then when he's older,
Speaker 1: he can decide whether he wants to be Chase Kibbler
Speaker 1: or Chase go Lightly. So me being a dumb motherfucker,
Speaker 1: I decided to save the few hundred dollars a month
Speaker 1: and put off making his name Kibbler. Now I could
Speaker 1: have legally, I guess. I don't know if I could
Speaker 1: illegally demanded it, or it would have been court ordered
Speaker 1: that it would have been my last name. I don't
Speaker 1: know what the rules would have been on that or
Speaker 1: laws back then. But I said, okay, oh, save three
Speaker 1: hundred dollars a month and you can call him go Low. Now.
Speaker 1: I was stupid enough to think that when he was
Speaker 1: thirteen or fourteen he might want his dad's name. Well,
Speaker 1: of course not.
Speaker 2: No, because he's spent golightly his whole.
Speaker 1: Life exactly move No. So yeah, so best last name
Speaker 1: is Hancock. I was never really with Cricket, and I
Speaker 1: I mean I was until she had the baby. We
Speaker 1: broke up a couple of months before and then she married.
Speaker 1: She Cricket married a guy who was from out of
Speaker 1: the country for five hundred dollars so he could stay
Speaker 1: in the country. So this guy gave her five hundred
Speaker 1: dollars so he could marry Cricket and stay in the country.
Speaker 1: And at that point I was like, I don't care
Speaker 1: name or whatever. So you know, Beth, Beth's Cricket and
Speaker 1: I do not. I don't I've blocked her on my phone,
Speaker 1: I blocked her on in social media.
Speaker 2: Is she still with that guy?
Speaker 1: Oh? God, no, No. He was a psycho and I
Speaker 1: mean literally a psycho, deep deep mental problems, dangerous and
Speaker 1: he's gone now, and so yeah, there's you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, I've got some skeletons in the closet for sure,
Speaker 1: But the good news is long term. As much as
Speaker 1: Julie worked really hard to make Chase dislike me, I'm
Speaker 1: proud of the fact that I always did what I
Speaker 1: believe was the right thing and spent weekends with him
Speaker 1: and took him camping and took him to go go
Speaker 1: karts and the batting cages and all that stuff. And
Speaker 1: Chase and I love each other. He is you know,
Speaker 1: like I don't know. We're of my four kids, we're
Speaker 1: all close, but he and I are one of the
Speaker 1: closer relationships. So and I'm really proud of that that
Speaker 1: she really tried to keep us apart. And I think
Speaker 1: some parents do that if they don't like the other parent,
Speaker 1: they will talk shit about them. And I think Chase
Speaker 1: saw what I did and realized, Hey, Dad's not such
Speaker 1: a bad guy.
Speaker 2: Sure, So yeah, next.
Speaker 1: One, Jenny, I'll read it and you can decline to
Speaker 1: answer this one. I have not pre read it, Jenny.
Speaker 1: Nobody needs to know the details reason. But I'm curious
Speaker 1: if your breakup reason was similar to the first time
Speaker 1: you and Andrew broke up. I asked because people say
Speaker 1: you broke up for a reason, and it's why people
Speaker 1: advise not to get back together. So I'm wondering if
Speaker 1: that's holding true here. No, it's not, okay, Bailey, are
Speaker 1: you being pressured to talk about your new relationship on
Speaker 1: the radio. I feel it's so public for something in
Speaker 1: the early stages, and I wonder if that led to
Speaker 1: the end of you and Trip. I can understand talking
Speaker 1: about going on a dat or starting to see someone,
Speaker 1: but saying their name makes it more of a thing.
Speaker 3: Uh No, I don't feel like I'm being pressured a
Speaker 3: lot of Like the poo poo poo pooing that I
Speaker 3: do on air is a part of the bit that
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to commit to.
Speaker 1: The bit for the bit, Yeah, for the laughs.
Speaker 3: Yeah, But I mean I wouldn't say I'm dating this man.
Speaker 3: I've gone on one date with this man where not
Speaker 3: like seeing each other.
Speaker 2: I text him what about I didn't have one of those.
Speaker 1: Oh I thought you did a good bit though, if.
Speaker 3: It would be a good bit. But yeah, for Trip,
Speaker 3: I don't think being on air was a problem for Trip.
Speaker 3: Trip loves being a celebrity. So honestly, Trip kind of
Speaker 3: shanked himself over by ghosting me because he could have
Speaker 3: gotten a lot of airtime and he loves airtime.
Speaker 4: I don't want You don't want a relationship with someone
Speaker 4: who's literally talking to you because of that, right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, which I don't think he was either, but the
Speaker 3: freak happened to that dude.
Speaker 1: Two things. Do you have another date plan with Bradley?
Speaker 2: Not right now? Possibly?
Speaker 3: Honestly, I'm really really busy doing a bunch of stuff
Speaker 3: and he's going home this weekend, so I.
Speaker 1: Wear his home South Dakota.
Speaker 2: Oh, okay, Sue fall South Dakota.
Speaker 1: That's beautiful down there.
Speaker 2: Is it never been?
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's beautiful down there. I have definitely dated girls
Speaker 1: who thought it was really cool that I was on
Speaker 1: the radio, but it gets sold really fast after a while.
Speaker 1: I remember I was in bed with a girl one time,
Speaker 1: Fran and we're laying there in the afterglow, and she's like, ah,
Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm laying here with Dave Ryan And
Speaker 1: that was such an ick kind of a moment. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: But I would have said the same thing if I
Speaker 1: was in bed with Nicole Kidman.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Who I used to have a hot sport. She's way
Speaker 1: too old for me now. But if I was in
Speaker 1: bed with Nicole Kidman in the afterglow, I'd be like,
Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm in bed with Nicole Kidman.
Speaker 4: But you understand that you're a radio DJ. You are
Speaker 4: not Nicole Kidman's slub status.
Speaker 1: We're close, We're close.
Speaker 2: I'm super close about that.
Speaker 3: I also wouldn't say it if I was laying in
Speaker 3: bed with Nicole Kidman. I wouldn't be like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 3: I can't believe it. I would just think it in
Speaker 3: my head and tell my friends.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. But with Susan, she could not care less.
Speaker 1: And I don't think she really ever did. And I've
Speaker 1: dated other girls who they might have been proud of
Speaker 1: what I did. Like you'd be proud of your your
Speaker 1: husband or your wife was a successful doctor. Yeah'd be like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: he owns his own dermatology clinic or she has her own,
Speaker 1: you know, like a pediatric clinic or whatever. You'd be
Speaker 1: proud of it, but it wouldn't be the attraction. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So if anybody has attracted you because you're on the radio,
Speaker 1: it just you'll you'll find out it gets old really quick.
Speaker 1: Not old, right, but it becomes less of a novelty.
Speaker 2: Keep bringing it up. You're like, oh my gosh, shut up.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, And I dated another girl and I went to
Speaker 1: her softball game one time. And this is back in
Speaker 1: my twenties, and I showed up at the softball game
Speaker 1: and she introduced me as Dave Ryan from WNCI. Oh,
Speaker 1: this is Dave Ryan from WNCI. And she was proud
Speaker 1: of it. And it was a novelty and people were
Speaker 1: you know, moderately impressed, but you would never say, like
Speaker 1: this is Dave Ryan from Minards.
Speaker 2: I mean I'm going to start yep, that's funny.
Speaker 1: Again. I understand if I'm too nosy, but I'm home
Speaker 1: on maternity leave and listen to the show all morning.
Speaker 1: Is my main adult interaction I get all day. So
Speaker 1: I feel more connected to you than I do then
Speaker 1: you do me. So apologies if I'm overstepping. I appreciate
Speaker 1: you all. Love the show. Keep being awesome. Cheers from Sydney.
Speaker 1: I love that you brought up some questions that were
Speaker 1: a little bit spicy to answer. I really do so.
Speaker 4: It's spicy, just intrusive, which it's fine. I mean people
Speaker 4: are curious. We share so much of our lives on
Speaker 4: the radio, and I think that there's like certain things
Speaker 4: that you question, Like it took me years of me
Speaker 4: working on the show for me to understand.
Speaker 5: Dave's family tree.
Speaker 4: So I feel like every once in a while it
Speaker 4: comes out of like, wait, so whose mom is.
Speaker 2: This or whatever?
Speaker 5: And you're just curious and you want to know answers.
Speaker 1: No, I mean we're curious. I mean I'm curious about
Speaker 1: what happened with you and Andrew. But I am not
Speaker 1: asking you because I figured if you wanted to tell me,
Speaker 1: you haven't said it on like Falance podcast, have you.
Speaker 5: No, it's nobody's business.
Speaker 1: Okay. Can I make some guesses and then you tell
Speaker 1: me whether.
Speaker 2: Or right ahead?
Speaker 1: Go ahead and see. I'm glad you're laughing about this
Speaker 1: when because I'm the kind of person who will make
Speaker 1: a joke before it's time, like too soon, Dave, too
Speaker 1: soon and so and I said something a couple of
Speaker 1: like a month or two ago, something about well, Jenny,
Speaker 1: now you've got you know, your pick of the litter whatever,
Speaker 1: and Ginny's like, I'm not ready for you being funny,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, okay, well shit, but now you're
Speaker 1: ready for me to be funny. You're ready, I'm ready.
Speaker 5: What do you got?
Speaker 1: You need to go get some dick?
Speaker 2: Oh that's the joke.
Speaker 5: I listen. Yeah, I was gonna say, that's your joke.
Speaker 1: The best I can come up.
Speaker 2: I get it.
Speaker 4: And I feel like that's what a lot of people
Speaker 4: want to tell me right now. But when I tell you,
Speaker 4: it's the very last thing I want to do in
Speaker 4: my life is get some dick. It is I'm being
Speaker 4: honest I don't have any interest in anyone else. I
Speaker 4: just like, oh, you know, you're with the same person
Speaker 4: for so long, and I think men probably honestly think different,
Speaker 4: but I don't. I don't want to get comfortable sexually
Speaker 4: with someone else. I don't want to like get after
Speaker 4: it with someone else and want Like, the first time
Speaker 4: is almost never great with anyone new, so the thought
Speaker 4: of having to get back out there and do that
Speaker 4: shit it makes me sick.
Speaker 5: Honestly, I feel you fair.
Speaker 1: Enough, I feel you. It's an interesting conversation to explore.
Speaker 1: The first time with almost anyone is never really that good. However,
Speaker 1: once in a while, you'll hook up with somebody in
Speaker 1: the very first time is like fuck, I mean, am
Speaker 1: I right? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 5: I mean yeah.
Speaker 4: I've definitely had my fair share of those things, but
Speaker 4: like for me, those usually came with like meeting someone
Speaker 4: when I was out and I was probably a little
Speaker 4: bit tipsy and going home with them, and that's not
Speaker 4: my life anymore. So, like, I don't think I'm going
Speaker 4: to come across any situations like that anymore. Like I'm
Speaker 4: going to have to genuinely fucking date people, and I
Speaker 4: don't want to sounds awful.
Speaker 1: I gotcha. Okay, next email, Hello, my favorite crew. Kristen
Speaker 1: is back with another random question. What is your dream car?
Speaker 1: I asked this because I just got mine. I bought
Speaker 1: a You're ready for it, I'm ready. You're never gonna
Speaker 1: guess what she bought A hearse. Oh it is a
Speaker 1: two thousand Cadillac Deville Eagle Hearse, which probably means nothing
Speaker 1: to anybody else. I know that my fourteen year old
Speaker 1: goth self thinks I'm cool. Other than that, I love
Speaker 1: the nineteen thirties cars with the swooping fenders. Anyway, Happy Spring,
Speaker 1: Bring on the warm weather. Margarita is in dart licking
Speaker 1: the salt rim Love you guys from Kristen. We love
Speaker 1: you back. I am not a car guy, so I
Speaker 1: don't really have a dream car. If I thought about it,
Speaker 1: I'd probably say a Corvette, because the Corvettes are just cool,
Speaker 1: and I grew up around Corvettes. And here's why I
Speaker 1: grew up like going to school. My dad worked at
Speaker 1: the Air Force Academy, and back in the day when
Speaker 1: I was a kid, seniors at the cadets at the
Speaker 1: Air Force Academy could buy a car and they'd always
Speaker 1: buy a Corvette, and Corvettes to me growing up were
Speaker 1: just the fucking epitome of like that's a badass car. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I think corvettes are really cool. I'll never have one,
Speaker 1: not a car guy, cars anything. No.
Speaker 4: I mean, I always say a pink Lambo, And I
Speaker 4: only feel like I say that because I've seen lambos
Speaker 4: in like rap videos, and I think they're really cool.
Speaker 4: But I've never been close to one in my life,
Speaker 4: and I don't know anything else about cars, So I
Speaker 4: don't know what other cool cars are out there.
Speaker 1: Well, there's Ferrari.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I really don't know what they like even honestly,
Speaker 4: you can say that, but I don't know what it
Speaker 4: looks like in my head.
Speaker 1: To look the same. They're flat and they have gold
Speaker 1: door groups. Yeah about you.
Speaker 3: I really like the the cars from like the fifties
Speaker 3: that are like, you know, teal or pink, that looks
Speaker 3: like a car that Elvis would have driven, those like
Speaker 3: really old kind of boxy ones. But I always wanted
Speaker 3: a Volkswagen bus, like my whole life, I wanted a
Speaker 3: Volkswagen bus that was yellow, And I actually saw one
Speaker 3: the other day that's like been modernized so it still
Speaker 3: looks like a bus, but I think it's some kind
Speaker 3: of hybrid car and it looks so cool. And I
Speaker 3: almost stopped my car and pulled over and been like, Hey,
Speaker 3: where'd you get your car?
Speaker 2: That seems pretty dope. That'd be fun. I want a
Speaker 2: little bus.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know what, I'm going to tell you that
Speaker 1: they are dope. They are cool. I grew up. Mom
Speaker 1: drove Volkswagen bugs. Dad drove a Volkswagen bus all the time.
Speaker 1: We probably went through three or four of them during
Speaker 1: my childhood.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: And Volkswagen buses are you see one now? Is like,
Speaker 1: that's cool, that's retro, that's really dope. They are the
Speaker 1: most underpowered vehicle on the road. Oh they're cylinderpower. They
Speaker 1: got a four stroke in four cylinder engine and they're underpowered.
Speaker 1: And usually with a van or a bus you loaded
Speaker 1: up with kids or camping gear. And I remember very
Speaker 1: clearly my dad would climb hills in Colorado at about
Speaker 1: fifteen miles an hour in first gear. Wow, because you
Speaker 1: just couldn't get that motherfucker to go any faster. It
Speaker 1: would cruise going down the other side of the hill.
Speaker 1: But they are very underpowered. But still they are dope.
Speaker 2: They're called the ide Electric Buzz Cool all right.
Speaker 1: Next email, this is from Emily more Ranger jests that
Speaker 1: turtle fact was so interesting, love that she tied it
Speaker 1: back to a recent email discussion topic. Sorry a bit
Speaker 1: stir the pot opinion. Don't hate me, but oh, she
Speaker 1: talks about something she's getting tired of and I don't
Speaker 1: want to name it, but she's getting tired of something.
Speaker 1: And so we will definitely can take that into consideration
Speaker 1: on the show because you know, well, here's the thing.
Speaker 1: I mean. If you get tired of something and one
Speaker 1: person writes in, we don't go, oh, we got to
Speaker 1: kill that bit because one person wrote in. And it's
Speaker 1: very tempting to do that, Like if I do a funny,
Speaker 1: like if I do a dad joke and somebody writes in,
Speaker 1: goes Dave, if I love that dad joke, I might
Speaker 1: be like, oh, well, we got to do more dad jokes.
Speaker 1: Oh that's kind of a well I call that a
Speaker 1: focus group of one. But if you don't like something,
Speaker 1: you really like something on the show, let us know,
Speaker 1: because it's important to us to know that you enjoy
Speaker 1: the things that you hear. So if you got any opinions,
Speaker 1: let us know and if we hear an overwhelming opinion
Speaker 1: like Dave needs to retire now and don't consider it,
Speaker 1: then we would consider it. Love you guys. Are you
Speaker 1: planting any garden vegetables this year? What are you planting
Speaker 1: in your garden? Is it Bailey that had the garden
Speaker 1: or somebody else at the complex ate some of the
Speaker 1: vegetables that she grew?
Speaker 4: Ha?
Speaker 2: Yes, so I do have a garden.
Speaker 3: I haven't planted it yet because honestly, I'm dealing with
Speaker 3: this stuff with my bathroom, so it's kind of my
Speaker 3: least worry right now. But I have planned cucumbers, cherry tomatoes,
Speaker 3: regular tomatoes. I have basil, and then I don't know
Speaker 3: after that. Those are I kind of like things that
Speaker 3: I can snack on or like eat right away. And
Speaker 3: this is going to be the first year i'd plant
Speaker 3: cucumbers because they take up a lot of space. But yes,
Speaker 3: my neighbor in the building next to me, she comes
Speaker 3: out once a year while I just happened to be
Speaker 3: in the garden and asks if she can eat things
Speaker 3: and like just come over and take stuff whenever, and
Speaker 3: I'm always.
Speaker 2: Like ha, No, please no. But technically she could, because
Speaker 2: it's all just sitting right there.
Speaker 1: Technically she could, but not ethically.
Speaker 2: Not ethically she couldn't.
Speaker 1: Is it your How do you put the DIBs on
Speaker 1: that garden?
Speaker 3: I just asked my landlord a few years ago, because
Speaker 3: it's literally a dirt slab on the side of my building,
Speaker 3: And I just said, can I take this dirt slab
Speaker 3: and plant plants?
Speaker 2: And he said fine?
Speaker 1: Is it kind of a miracle when you think about
Speaker 1: what you get. You put a little plant to a
Speaker 1: little seed or whatever, and then you get these delicious
Speaker 1: big tomatoes or carrots. Susan grows peppers like Klipanno's and
Speaker 1: tomatoes and maybe some other things. Cucumbers, I think, Yeah,
Speaker 1: Cucumbers is usually one of those things where you get
Speaker 1: like fifty dozen big fatties and you don't want that many,
Speaker 1: so you bring them into work and put them on
Speaker 1: the table in the break rying basket.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's what I want to happen, because cucumbers
Speaker 3: are my fixation food right now.
Speaker 2: That's all I want to eat.
Speaker 1: Susan made pickles a year or two ago, and they
Speaker 1: were actually okay, Yeah, they weren't Gedney, but they were okay. Yeah,
Speaker 1: last one we were talking about there was somebody who
Speaker 1: wrote in and said, my husband is now masturbating two
Speaker 1: or three times a day. Is that too much? Is
Speaker 1: that should I you know? Is it a problem? This
Speaker 1: person says, I've been married for twenty eight years, together
Speaker 1: for thirty one. If he wants to masturbate two or
Speaker 1: three times a day, go ahead. That keeps him off
Speaker 1: of me and I don't have to do any work.
Speaker 1: I got other shit to get done. Five finger method, baby,
Speaker 1: just not in front of me and clean up your
Speaker 1: own mess. Okay, well can you imagine not can you
Speaker 1: imagine just like finishing off and just be like leaving
Speaker 1: the puddle puddle there on wherever it happens to be.
Speaker 1: So that's kind of funny. That was the only comment
Speaker 1: we got on that email. So if you have anything
Speaker 1: to add to that, let me know and thank you
Speaker 1: for your opinion. Send your emails in because we love emails.
Speaker 1: We got a good amount left, but we're still there's
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks. We need more for tomorrow. And
Speaker 1: I love the intrusive questions. That was fun and if
Speaker 1: we decide not to answer it, then we just don't
Speaker 1: answer it. So yeah, send those down two the usual address,
Speaker 1: Ryan Show at kadiwb dot com