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Speaker 1: Hey, fun time, peeps. My name is Chris Farah. Welcome

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back to Vanity Farah, where today we're talking ninety day Fiance.

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It's season twelve, it's episode eight. Love is a work

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in progress. Okay, I mean yeah, that's true. Life is

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a work in progress. This episode was interesting for sure,

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and it's a Katie themed episode. Lots of I'm sure

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chatter about her behavior and it's warranted. It's warranted chatter.

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And at the same time, some people like Paula and

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Thomas really don't have a lot going for them. I

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am going to make my prediction now that the only

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couple that should be together is Malory and Rashid, only one,

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the only one that makes sense. Okay, But we're going

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to start my babes with Edward and Marissa. So obviously

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there's a lot of talk online about Edward doing some

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like Sammy Sosa style skin bleaching. The Reddit streets have

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been like, have you noticed that his face is significantly

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wider than the rest of his body and in a

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way that indicates that there is some sort of chemical

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treatment happening. And you know, I have to probably hard

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agree as well as say I don't have an expertise

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about talking about this kind of stuff. And there's a

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lot of parts of there's a lot of cultures that

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you know, super prioritize skin color in that kind of way.

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And it's interesting because I'm like American an Arab and

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so I still come from a place where it's like

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people want to be tanned, because yeah, I mean I

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so it's interesting. It's just it feels very different from

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what I'm trying to do, you know, just to be

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a little tanner and then you know, like have like

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an evenness, kind of a caramelness to my skin. It

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makes me look better. So it's but you know, here

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we are, Edward doesn't feel that way. Edward's seemingly bleaching

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his skin. He doesn't have to. In fact, he shouldn't.

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And I don't know the process of skin bleaching enough

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to be like if he just stopped, now, would his

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skin you know, exfoliate, regenerate, and would it come back

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the way it was? Does? He just like, you know,

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can you do that anyway? Okay, So this was a

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hard walk. Sorry, this was a hard watch. Let's bring

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it up. So he feels like he has nothing to

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do and he wants to be useful, and she certainly

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wants him to be useful, and she's mad when he

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doesn't do anything and mad when he does do something,

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and so he's like, I gotta do things, okay. And

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then he's like, well, since I can't make any money,

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I'm just going to try and do things around her

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house that she would normally pay for, and I'll get

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it done. And we're like, oh, okay, you know, and

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he seemingly knows his way around a hammer and some nails.

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We're like, oh, okay, cool. And he is fixing the

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fence and he says that the person that previously fixed

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the fence was an imbecile, and we're like, oh okay, Edward, good,

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you have like wherewithal about fixing fences. You can like

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see what's good work and what's not good work. We're like,

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oh great, this is this is hopefully a good thing.

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So he does fix it, and then he brings her out,

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and then he fixed it biden by making it so

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you can't open the fence, which is not fixing it.

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And we're assuming that he would know that this very bossy,

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particular woman that he is fucking would want something done

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a certain way. We can pick that up, and we're like, Okay,

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this is your valiant effort to do that. Marissa looks

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at it asks him why I won't be able to

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be open. He says, that's how he fixed it. She

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is unimpressed by that answer, and she also is upset

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because she keeps giving him excuses like what if the

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gardeners need to come in through that? What if this

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needs to happen, He's like, just come through the airway.

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It's decidedly a different point of view on how to

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do things. It's like, you have to be taught to

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do something well, and you have to want to do

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something well, and you want to be able to be

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on the same wavelength of what But it looks like

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to accomplish something that you know truly benefits all Because

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I would hazard that he worked this whole time to

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fix this gate when he didn't fix it, So like,

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why did he even put that much effort into something

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if it wasn't going to be fixed? Because if he

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was like, look, I tried to fix it and then

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I realized I can't because your wood's dilapidated or this

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or that, Like it would have been better for him

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to tell her why it was too difficult, as opposed

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to saying the last person that fixed it was an imbecile,

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and then you say you fixed it, but you didn't

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fix it. So then they go to the other fence

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and she's like, Okay, well what'd you do here? And

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he really just got border would or whatnot, like a

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banister that she didn't need to use or I guess

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was extra, and he just slapped it across the front

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of the fence haphazardly. And as much as I'm on

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his side, you know, with how mean she is and

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how like controlling she is, when I saw his workmanship,

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I was like, oh, no, Edward, No that's not good enough. No,

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I mean, that's just not good enough. I feel bad

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to say that, and like maybe we just have to, like,

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you know, reshape some viewpoints. But if you say you're

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going to do something and it looks that shoddy, and

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you know it does, then you have to be honest

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about it, because I don't know if I can trust

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you for other things. Yeah, it's definitely a missmash of

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different woods. It definitely doesn't look good. And at the

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same time, I would need to know what work he's

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done before, because we only know Edward as someone who

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is like a vivacious activities like you know, sorry, activities

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host at like a hotel or something. I mean to me,

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this person has to like, you know, should get like

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a karaoke job or something like that. He has to

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be someone having, you know, a good time and also

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making sure other people have a good time around him.

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But Marissa is unimpressed, like I said, and she's upset

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by this, and we like know she's going to be

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And I don't quite understand how Edward thought that this

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was going to be okay. Knowing this kind of woman.

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He says that she's a lot different in America than

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she was in the dr And it's like, yeah, you

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guys were staying in the lap of luxury, and if

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she wanted to complain, she could to someone she was paying,

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and then you just got to be there while she complained,

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you know, like it was never about you, It was

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about whatever her eggs that morning. She of course keeps

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saying that she is wondering whether she's taking on another

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child in this life, that she wants him to be

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like a strong man, that she wants him to be

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self sufficient, and you know, I understand where she's coming from.

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But I wonder what it was like when she was

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with him outside of the resort, because assumingly she went

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to the dr and then spent some time like away

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from the resort, like in his daily life. And what

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did she see there that made her think that this

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was a possibility for him. Was he holding down, you know,

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like his mom's household in such a way that she

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was like, Oh, this person knows how to take care

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of people and himself. I don't know. Oh, she is like,

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this fence looks trashy and the neighbors are going to

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think that I'm poor. And he's like, who cares? They

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don't pay the bills, And she's like, right, I do,

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and I'm gonna tell you right now, you're gonna have

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to pay another bill, and the bill is going to

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be for a fence person to come fix all this. Also,

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can you please pay a bill at like a pottery

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barn for some serve wear? Marissa is very interesting. Yeah.

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I whether she just believed him that he was going

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to go outside with like one makita and one hammer

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and get all this done, you know, I don't know,

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or if she knew that he was going to do

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a shitty job, a shoddy job, and was like, Okay,

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let's put this on TV. She is right though, that

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it doesn't look good and that if this was my home,

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I also would be like, no, no, We're going to

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have to find you something else you can do around

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the home. Listen, he wants to cook, he wants to

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and I feel like, maybe just let him cook, like gorilla,

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let him cook. You know, he also wants to take

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care of the kids and be around the kids. But like, yeah,

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I think that she really wants him to have a

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skill or trade that makes him feel confident that he

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can like do, and or for him to know what's

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in her mind at all times and what she expects,

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because I'm assuming that she knows that there might not

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be extra wood that perfectly matches her fence in her garage.

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So where does she think that he was going to

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get the extra wood? Like from like, because it doesn't

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feel like she took him to home depot for this job.

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It seemingly seems like she should have, like she if

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she had taken to home depot and then just being

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like here by this would so that you know, you

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can all the fence could be the exact same or

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you know, patched in some way that would have been better.

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I don't know if she was just testing him to

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see if he can get this done to her liking,

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and then he failed that test. He's like, she's always

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cutting me down. I'm like, well, yes, but about the fence,

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she's right, and now she has to cut down the

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whole fence. After she sees the fence, she's like, and

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can you clean this up? And there's like a big,

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like dirty black wicker table and chair set. I want

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to be like, where did that come from? And why

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does he have to clean that up? Yeah, he feels

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like he is just trying to, you know, appease her

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in whatever way possible, and it like is a knowing

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for him because he can't even have loud face times

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with his family anymore, and that brings his spirits up.

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So the next shot is that they're driving to New

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York because she has to go back to work. We're like, okay,

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you know, and when you're your two day a week job,

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you know when or why she got fired? I'm not

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quite sure. Okay, but it's good news because she's eating

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a gram cracker and Graham crackers are great, and he's like,

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I don't want a gram cracker. Those are stupid. She's like, okay,

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but they're good. And so then he has a gram

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cracker and he's like, yeah, you know what, You're right,

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Graham Crackers are great, really great crackers. I enjoy them.

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They're almost like American digestives. Okay, he's going to be

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in New York all by himself, and he is excited.

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In fact, he keeps saying that he's going to be free,

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which is an interesting word to say because it's like

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if I was going to go to a major, beautiful

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city for the first time that I've always wanted to

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be in, my first thought was, oh, I'll be free here.

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My first thought would be like, oh, I can't wait

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to explore or see this or whatnot. But like, yeah,

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his first and foremost is that he gets to be

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free from her, from her like judgment, whatnot. And then

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what happened was he doesn't have credit cards, like we know,

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because he's not an American citizen, Like, you know, he

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doesn't why would he have, you know, I'm a full

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on like Chase Sapphire. But this is a weird conversation

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where she's like, okay, well, then how are you gonna

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get around? He's like, I have a couple hundred dollars bills,

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but he left them at the house. So she's like, okay, well,

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how are you going to pay for things in New

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York then? And we're just supposed to believe that he

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walks around as an adult male without any sort of

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wallet accouterments. He says he doesn't have a wallet, which

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is like, okay, funny, you don't have a wallet, but

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do you have the things that are in a wallet? Cash?

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He's credit card and I'm sorry, idea of some kind

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or like paperwork passport he should be, you know, god

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bless having some sort of passport around him and or

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like a photo slash copy of a passport. He doesn't, though,

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he doesn't have his cash on him, and that gives

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her pause, and it, unfortunately also gives me pause because

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he is an older gentleman. This is not like a

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twenty three year old. This is someone who walks around

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all the time. And maybe he's like, I don't need

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cash where I am most of the time, but we

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have to assume that he has the wherewithal to know

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that in New York City, you need stuff? Was he

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just not gonna eat all day? Did he expect her

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to give him like a twenty? Like? Is he like

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Alison da Shay, like I'm gonna get ten dollars or

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the Biscuits or my family? She says, they live very

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different lifestyles. We know, but we thought you already understood this.

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She definitely talked about and is right that they are

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different people. But I still don't know where and where

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she feels like he wins Immerius's mind. What are the

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heroic acts that Edward does that makes her like fall

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in love with him. I'm not saying that like every

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female has to look at a man and be like

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he's a hero, but like, there are things when you

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like someone that you feel like in dear them to you.

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And it usually is like ways in which they succeed

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in areas of their lives. And it can be like

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when I say succeed, it can be like and how

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kind and compassionate they are to people in how they

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connect with people, and you know the way that they

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do this one talented thing, the way they play guitar,

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the way that they you know, it's like, what are

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the things that he does that she looks at and like,

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you know, when she's in witness of She's like, oh

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my god, yes he did it. He is awesome. It

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can't just be having sex with her, and if it is,

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that's not good enough and why wouldn't she know that? Okay,

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so she's just like, I don't have bandwidth more so

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than in the crazy parts of my day to be

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able to take care of you as well. And he's like,

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what I mean when you say that you're choosing your life.

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You're a grown hoss woman. So if you don't have bandwidth,

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that's on you for doing too much. And she he

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does not like this answer, because in her mind, she

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wants him to be like, maybe, don't worry. I'm not

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going to cause too much strain on you. I'm going

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to step up and take this off your play and

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take that off your play. You don't have to worry

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about me. I know how to bring cash around and

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move in this world. And that's what she wants him

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to say, but what he hears is like a spoiled

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brat complaining about her life that she chooses to live

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every day. He's like, if you don't want this job,

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let's go get some miniatures and you can manifest a

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new job. Okay, it doesn't look good for them, it

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truly doesn't. I mean it. Also, I think that this

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is how I choose whether I like a couple. Could

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I spend time with them, like over dinner, like would

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I be like charmed by them in a soul setting?

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And you know, with them Marissa and Edward, I truly wouldn't.

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I wouldn't want to hear her talk to him or

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put him down. I wouldn't want to see him roll

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his eyes because he knows that she like is too much.

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I wouldn't want to see you know, him do something

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he thinks he does well and in fact it's not

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at least up to snuff for her. And I can

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recognize that, you know what I'm saying. Whereas like you would,

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I mean, I would be so happy to have a

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meal with Rashid. He's so funny to me. Okay, let's

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move on. Okay, Katie and Josh, so he's like outside

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with her and Ryan. And Ryan has just dropped that

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he talks to Katie and he's here because he knows

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that she is dealing with whatever she's going to want

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in her life and Josh is like, well, what we're

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doing is we're going to get married, and Katie is like,

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I think so, which is a bad sign. Then Katie

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admits that she is the problem. She says it like

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I'm the problem. He's like, well, no, I think it's

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fifty to fifty. We're like, okay, you know. It's like, Josh,

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your problem is you don't stand up for yourself or

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assert your boundaries. But it's I mean, if that's your problem,

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you don't respect yourself or the way that you want

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to be treated enough to demand it low key in

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a relationship. He's like, Josh to Ryan's like, why are

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you here? And I told you I never wanted to

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see you again. And Ryan's like, well, Katie is hard

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to say no to that crazy bitch. She's so funny,

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she's so great, she's so charming, she's so eccentric. He

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can't say no to her, especially when you're drunk, and

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especially when you want to get kissed as well and more,

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and you have a drunk Katie being like, man, I

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can't say no, no, I say no to you. I

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won't say no to her. Josh takes this moment to

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blame Ryan for the Katie cheating situation. He's like, you

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knew we were together and you did the things anyway.

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Katie's just there in the middle being like, yeah, he

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did the things anyway. See, like, I hate when people

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seemingly blame the person that their lover cheated with instead

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of their lover. Like I think it's a moot point

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to even talk to Ryan. But also I feel like

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you see this a lot, you know, ladies doing like

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you know, it's kind of like the Debbie getting mad

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at Meadows social media co star and one post where

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she's like, fuck that bitch, but you're just like, Nope,

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that's exactly what you should be saying to Meto. You know.

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By the way, we don't have any Meto this episode,

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which was devastating. I mean, I think that's what made

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it not a great episode. Okay, anyway, So Katie's like,

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you don't have to worry about Ryan. We're just like

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chill friends now, which is so like Generation Z or whatever.

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We're just chill friends now. We're just chill friends as

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supposed to fuck friends. So this talk ends with absolutely

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no resolution, except now Josh and Katie are standing side

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by side and she's like do you think I can

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make out with everyone we know? And he's like no,

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and she's clearly drunk and she's like, I've only had

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one tequila and that's not true. And then she's like

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I want an espresso martini and he's like, how about

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walk her? And she's not happy with that answer, so

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she floats over to her other friends and then immediately

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does like we can only be described as like a

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weird full backbend to get at her friend's faces. No,

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I find it. Sorry, it's oh I thought I have

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a better picture. Okay, sorry. Anyway, Basically what happened was

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she gets back and starts talking with Ryan, and I

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mean after he had his confrontation with Josh, she tries

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to make out with Ryan. Ryan's like stop it, don't

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do it. And then Josh watches that happen, and then

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her other friend walks outside and is like, hey, Josh,

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what's your take on what's happening in there? And he

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asks this question we know. The producers are like, you

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need to go ask Josh a question because Josh has

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no friends, so they need someone to do this leg work,

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and this man's going to do it. And this is

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the most produci producer led question, and the problem is

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you should give this guy like a little bit of

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a soft intro, like, hey, hey Josh, how are you man? Yeah,

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how's it been going? You get that table? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

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well you look nice. This is nice jacket. Yeah yeah.

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I just wanted to see, like how you're doing. Man.

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I know she's she's already you know, having fun in there.

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And then Josh is like, you saw that, and the

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guy's like, yeah, I saw, but what what are you thinking?

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You know, like that's the intro. You need to not

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have an abrupt Hey, Josh, what's your take on what's

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happening in there? What's your take? That's just so hosty. Meanwhile,

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her take is that she's like I am in normal mode,

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just kidding. I want to be in a crazy mode.

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She's like, you know, fully running around. This guy talks

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to Josh and he's like, you need to be respected

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and at some point you got to put your foot down.

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And Josh was like, well, you know, she's just so

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good at one in back hearts. I don't know what

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my problem is. It's either my timidness or it's britishness.

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And we're like mm m I guess I don't know

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if this guy. I think everyone's name is Ryan here

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and I wrote down I know Ryan's the other guy,

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and maybe this guy's name Ryan too. I think there's

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too many Ryan's. I forgot what this guy's name outside,

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But it's not the first Ryan, not the Ryan that

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she made out with that in Boston. But this other

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guy is like, Josh is not a manly man, is

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what he says? Yeah, that's true. And then she goes

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in and tries to make out with that guy and

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he's like nope, and he's like pushing her face. He's like, no, Katie,

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stop it, and she's like, what am I doing wrong?

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And Josh walks up and he like sees that, and

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she's like what I mean. This is one of the

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more bizarre scenes to witness, and it feels violating for

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us to watch it because we're either watching someone like

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in a psychosis or super hard dealing with OCD. But

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at the same time, she just keeps telling people that

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this is a problem, but then it keeps happening and

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no one seems to be able to do anything or

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help her through it. But also it's because she doesn't

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want to be helped through it. Like it doesn't seemingly

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seem like she wants to not be in a situation

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where she's drunk making out with people. It very much

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seems like she wants to be in a situation where

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she's drunk and has the like the excuse of alcohol

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to lessen her inhibitions and therefore make out with all

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the people and therefore feel the love and validation she

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really wants to feel. It's kind of like, and this

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is what's shitty about it. It's like someone on a

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season just being like, I'm an addict, I'm an addict,

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I'm an addict. And then what we keep watching is

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this person go score their drugs and then shoot up

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on camera over and over again. It's like intervention, I

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guess in that way. But it's a really hard watch because,

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you know, I think that it leads us with a

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bunch of questions like where is her psychologist? And does

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does she actually want help? Because she's cognitively, you know,

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able to understand her situation, but she's so defensive and

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she keeps putting herself in this situation and no one's

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helping her, and it's because they know she doesn't want

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help or she would get mad that like, we just

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keep watching it. It's so awkward. You would neither need

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her to just be like, you know what, I want

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to be single obviously, and then you can follow me

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on single life where I'm single and making out with

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all the people I want to and that's what's happening.

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Because I probably would watch that. I would watch it

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like it's only awkward for me in that she says

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that this is a problem and you know, and she's

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acknowledging it, and then she just won't fix it. But

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if she's like this is where I am. I'm a

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young girl and a guys fucking love me, and I like,

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you know, having fun in Portland and drinking, and this

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is what I want to do, it like, well, okay,

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because if you took away like the OCD and you

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took away that you were just like this girl likes

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getting drunk and making out with people. It's not so

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different from what other people are doing her age. They

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just don't think it's a problem. Like a lot of

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young kids live in cities and go out at night

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and like hook up with people. What makes it awkward

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is that she's like and I'm in a committed relationship

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with this dufist who really wants this relationship, and he

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refuses to tell me that it's that it's hurting him.

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That's the only annoying thing about watching the story. And

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I'm also like annoyed because she gets a lot of

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hate online and I get why. I get why, But

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at the same time, I'm like, she's doing herself no favors,

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but neither is Debbie. You know, for all of the

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Meto hate online, Debbie has done absolutely no favors for

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herself by continually allowing it. Debbie is the Josh where

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we just see their other uh choosing to do harm

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and they're like willing to put up with it. Like

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if Mito was just an obnoxious person that wanted to

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be an actor and had you know, foolish, delusional dreams,

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and we could just watch this person try and make

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it in Louisiana as opposed to La like, it would

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be like hilarious, right, and he'd be like prancing around

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and like you know, taking an acting class, and we'd

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be like, oh, this ridiculous person. Like it would be

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a little more lighthearted, except what makes it dark is

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that this person is using Debbie and like lying to

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her and this Debbie's getting so upset about it. Like

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that's what makes it a real toxic situation that those

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that are my thoughts, Those are my thoughts about that.

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But you know what I mean. Okay, let's talk about

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Paula and Thomas. So she has been ordering more miniatures

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and he finds them to be a waste of time

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and a waste of cash, and she's like, they're my

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religion and sometimes I cry when I think about how

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much I love them. And he's like, oh my god.

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She's gotten a bunch of packages recently, and so they

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open one up and it's like a mini couch and

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she's like, I love it. He's like, how much was this?

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And she's like I got it on clearance, which is hilarious.

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It's something I would say too. She's like, I want

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a couch. So if you don't want me to have this,

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00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:41,200
buy me a couch. It makes sense for her to

470
00:30:41,279 --> 00:30:45,279
want furniture, just like it makes sense for Josh to

471
00:30:45,319 --> 00:30:50,640
want furniture. People want to live in a space that

472
00:30:50,759 --> 00:30:58,559
looks and feels livable, and I don't think it's too

473
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,400
much to ask if Tom miss can afford to get

474
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,440
her a credit card, to just get her a fucking

475
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:08,359
couch set. You can just go to living Space, as Josh,

476
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:09,920
you know what I'm saying, and get that done. Er

477
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:14,519
Ashley's furniture. I mean, get a Memorial Day sale or something, Honey,

478
00:31:14,559 --> 00:31:21,960
go to Costco. By the way, it's so funny because

479
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,400
he's complaining right about money to her and says that

480
00:31:24,519 --> 00:31:27,000
all her things that she buys are like so stupid

481
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,599
and you know, it's not necessary. And then he at

482
00:31:29,599 --> 00:31:33,279
one point he sits down to three different huge ass

483
00:31:33,319 --> 00:31:39,400
monitors with like two different Rubik's cubes and they, you know,

484
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:43,400
censor the screen so we can't see, but it's very

485
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:46,359
obvious that he's playing some weird game. We're like, oh,

486
00:31:46,359 --> 00:31:48,400
that's what you spend your money on. Okay, He's like,

487
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,000
it's my money. I don't know, I don't know why

488
00:31:50,039 --> 00:31:53,119
he's arguing with me in my head. So the good

489
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:56,599
news is Paala has met two other Brazilians that live

490
00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:00,720
in the same building, Felix and Anderson. And Felix and

491
00:32:00,799 --> 00:32:03,680
Ander center are two cute gay guys that wear navy

492
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:06,599
and have an apartment that they put a lot of

493
00:32:07,279 --> 00:32:09,680
time and energy to decorate, although it looks just kind

494
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:14,039
of like the apartment that this building uses to sell

495
00:32:14,079 --> 00:32:19,279
other apartments. It's like a show piece apartment. All of

496
00:32:19,319 --> 00:32:24,519
their apartment has like modern furniture with an emphasis on shape.

497
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:28,960
Some are just like planters on a square, and then

498
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:32,640
there's a lot of circles happening. It's just like a shapely, geometric,

499
00:32:32,799 --> 00:32:36,599
modern kind of industrial looking apartment and it's not really

500
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,480
real looking. But she, you know, goes in. She's like,

501
00:32:39,559 --> 00:32:42,759
I loved things that look staged. And she's like, see

502
00:32:42,799 --> 00:32:45,400
how you have furniture that's not what's happening in his apartment.

503
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:47,720
He has nothing on the walls, there's no sconces to

504
00:32:47,759 --> 00:32:49,880
be had. He won't even get a rug, honey, he

505
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:51,640
won't get a rug. And these two gay guys are like,

506
00:32:51,839 --> 00:32:55,119
absolutely fucking not, that's crazy, and you know they're right

507
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:56,920
at the same time they're right, of course, It's like,

508
00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:00,559
I don't understand at this point why they're not like,

509
00:33:01,359 --> 00:33:04,759
have him pay us and will decorate for him. I

510
00:33:04,839 --> 00:33:07,200
feel like sometimes people just don't know how to decorate.

511
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,720
I also just you know, here's a thing. Money is money,

512
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,079
and it's annoying to spend but it's funny how when

513
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:17,640
you see what someone can do with a better eye

514
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:21,480
than you, you might not appreciate it at first, but

515
00:33:21,559 --> 00:33:25,920
then as you like accustom or acclimate your eye to

516
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,519
their design choices, you'll start to see design choices in

517
00:33:30,599 --> 00:33:33,160
life that other people do, and then you can, I mean,

518
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:38,079
really appreciate. For instance, you may go through your life

519
00:33:38,079 --> 00:33:42,720
and be like, I never need a clothing stylist, not necessary.

520
00:33:42,839 --> 00:33:44,680
I know what I like, I know what I want

521
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:47,400
to wear whatever, God bless, I have good tapes people

522
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:51,480
like what I wear. But the minute, if you do

523
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:55,799
ever have like someone who truly knows style and like fashion,

524
00:33:55,799 --> 00:33:58,119
and like who works in it in such a way

525
00:33:58,319 --> 00:34:01,920
actually style you and actually like consider your body shape

526
00:34:02,279 --> 00:34:08,920
and tailor things. It's such a radically different experience, and

527
00:34:09,199 --> 00:34:12,639
it takes like a month after it happens for you

528
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,800
to or at least for me, to see in the

529
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:20,760
world how this manifests, how much better you look and

530
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,159
feel in pictures when you're wearing those garments, and how

531
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:26,840
you can see how other people who are styled or

532
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,400
styled in such a way, how it does look better.

533
00:34:29,519 --> 00:34:33,440
It's almost like the details you don't see, but the

534
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,880
same thing with an apartment or a home. Like if

535
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,960
you think, you know, like you did a good job,

536
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,719
and then you go into a space that has had

537
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:47,400
an in tailor designer, you're like, oh, wallpaper okay, and

538
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,119
this there's so many just different aspects that can really

539
00:34:50,159 --> 00:34:54,000
make a place look put fucking together that you just

540
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:58,719
might not be, you know, accessible, like in your mind's eye,

541
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:01,719
in your eye of like see things. I can be

542
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:04,000
quite blind. I'm really talking about myself. I can be

543
00:35:04,079 --> 00:35:07,880
quite blind and think that something is good enough or

544
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:12,320
whatnot until I see a professional do it and I'm like, oh,

545
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,960
oh yeah, it's hard though. It's hard to like no

546
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:19,800
when want to spend money or whatever. So then they

547
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,719
decide to do like a little outdoorsy warzy moment and

548
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:26,119
they're skating. By the way, Paul I can skateboard, and

549
00:35:26,159 --> 00:35:29,199
I was so happy for her. If they're like in

550
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:32,280
Venice or something, it looks real beach like, you know,

551
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:35,719
like palm trees. He has like roller blades on. You know,

552
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:40,719
it's quintessential. I've never been able to move, I've never

553
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:45,920
been able to skate. I can't imagine being able to

554
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:49,320
put on roller blades and just getting to a different place.

555
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:56,199
It must be so freeing. But I, yeah, my body

556
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:59,760
on wheels feels like I'm about to fall and hurt

557
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:08,599
mysel health, and that'd be great. He is eternally upset

558
00:36:09,079 --> 00:36:13,159
that she isn't more appreciative of what he's done and

559
00:36:13,199 --> 00:36:16,760
what he's spent. He's like, I did the entire visa process,

560
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,679
I printed everything out, I paid for everything. I gave

561
00:36:19,679 --> 00:36:23,039
her this credit card. She doesn't care. She just wants furniture,

562
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,360
and her viewpoint is I just want what I had

563
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:32,119
in Brazil. And this is the crux of their segment

564
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:36,480
and all of their segments. It's interesting how unwatchable they are.

565
00:36:36,599 --> 00:36:40,400
Like I barely can tolerate them. I mean, I would

566
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,199
fast forward them if I wasn't doing this podcast. The

567
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:45,039
only times I fast for people is when they're like

568
00:36:45,079 --> 00:36:47,719
truly toxic or negative. And these people are just boring.

569
00:36:48,519 --> 00:36:58,239
They're just boring. Yeah, I really would like just a

570
00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:00,719
little more fun with them. I would like a little

571
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:03,159
I would enjoy someone telling me what the fuck is

572
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:06,960
up with what's going to happen in their storyline or

573
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:12,039
why no fiance thought they were like watchable this whole time? Okay,

574
00:37:12,079 --> 00:37:16,079
my loves. There ends part one of this recap, and

575
00:37:16,119 --> 00:37:18,960
I'm going to go on to talk about Mallory and

576
00:37:19,079 --> 00:37:23,639
Rasheet and I still have Aisha and Malcolm, and I

577
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,360
still have Shay and Annabel. So thank you guys so

578
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:29,559
much for listening. If you haven't yet, please follow at

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580
00:37:33,039 --> 00:37:38,039
a Patreon It's patreon dot com, slash Chris Farah, as

581
00:37:38,039 --> 00:37:40,679
well as a Facebook group Vanity Farah and my page

582
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,599
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583
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:48,320
as well as Please give this podcast five stars wherever

584
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:52,159
you listen to podcasts. Okay, my Babes Part two is

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coming up