Speaker 1: Made a decision.
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Speaker 3: Night.
Speaker 4: So reach that's up everybody. Hey, what's happening.
Speaker 1: It's Friday.
Speaker 4: It is Friday. Oh we should talk about maybe Phoenix.
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, let's talk about that.
Speaker 1: We want to do a live show in Phoenix. Yes,
at the w Hotel potentially beginning of December.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we have a date. I think it's December seventh
that they possibly gave us. The thing is is they
at the Double. So Mike lives out there and he
has I guess he's got friends or people that work
there that he knows, and he talked to them about
us doing a live show and they they asked for
like our numbers, they for our advertisers, and I gave
them all that and then after that they were like, yeah,
we can do something. And they said they would create
a link and to make it easy if people flew
in to book rooms, they would give discounts. But they
want to know. Here's the hard part is they want
to know about how many people to expect.
Speaker 1: Right, So we're going to put a little poll on
Facebook to see who would be able to come.
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, and we could do it could be fun
like we might be able to get Teresa Strasser.
Speaker 1: That's what we're thinking of doing. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4: To do a show with us. That would be fun.
And I've been to that W. It's really nice and
they have this outdoor patio, you know, and it's December,
but like, well they have heating lamps and stuff. But
it's a pretty big area and it's in a great
it's in a great area of town. I think it's
in Scottsdale. Oh yeah, it's nice.
Speaker 1: Well I thought you said Phoenix, Phoenix.
Speaker 4: Guys, it might be like Helencino and Sherman Oaksie.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I don't know. I could be wrong, but it's the W. Like, yeah,
it's out there, okay, so.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll put it on our Facebook. And you guys,
did you.
Speaker 3: Like twenty three minutes away Phoenix, Scottsdale other.
Speaker 4: Twenty minutes apart? Yeah, okay, yeah whatever, same thing. Yeah,
So if anybody's interested that might want to come out
to our show out there, let us know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we should just do it. People will come. Yeah,
I think if you build it, they will come. That's true.
I heard that in a movie or something. Yeah, So yeah,
Caitlin yes, you you're you have children. You have children now, right? Yeah? Girls?
Boys want to yeah, girls, Yeah, what's happening? It's like
back to school? Are they going? Where? What's ones in kinder.
Speaker 3: One's in kidder at starting at one school, and the
other one's still at pre K at a different school,
and so they both have different drop off times and
different pickup times. So that's gonna be a big Headacheyla
starting in kindergarten, she starts at like eight am, so
we got to start getting her up early at the door.
No more TV for us. Maybe you take thirty eight
or eight thirty.
Speaker 1: That's a big difference to see. That is such a
dad thing though, right, that's a pretty big difference. And
the fact that you're like eight and thirty eight forty
five somewhere around.
Speaker 3: Well, Amy's the one that's going to take her in
the morning because she's got to get there earlier. I'm
going to take Blake, who's still at her just preschool
that we've been at for two years now, because Isla
was there for Blake. So yeah, it's gonna be And
then on top of that, they're both in soccer now too,
so Isla's soccer practices Mondays, Blake's is Thursdays, and they
both have games on Saturdays. So yeah, Monday's, Thursday, Saturdays.
We're done for now. On top of all the school
and oh many this schools requiring so many things, so
many meetings and participations.
Speaker 1: And oh yeah, all that just in general.
Speaker 3: Yeah no, well, I mean before Amy already went to
one meeting and then we got to go to another
one on Amy's birthday later this month, same day my
mom's coming into town. I had to call and be like,
can't pick it from the airport. Amy can't have a
great birthday. We gotta do this fucking school meeting, like.
Speaker 1: A school wide meeting. Like it's not optional or.
Speaker 3: It's not optional ex mandatory for the parents. Yeah, what.
Speaker 4: I mean was this for the kindergarten.
Speaker 3: The kindergarten.
Speaker 4: Kindergarten, I remember, like there was a meeting that wasn't
optional for the preschool that we went to, but the
kindergarten was a big school. I don't know, it's hard
to remember back then, but you know, it's so funny
that I love. It's refreshing for me, is that Caylin
is going to the meetings.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, some of them.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't go to the first one, but.
Speaker 4: You're like, you're planning on not picking your mom up
to go to.
Speaker 1: The right to the other one.
Speaker 3: That's right.
Speaker 1: I just remember a shit ton of paperwork, like more
paperwork than you've ever dealt with in your life. And
then times too for yeah, for worse than like passports
or any kind of time. It's just like one thing
after another after another. And then after the first day
of school, they bring home all of these forms about
like do you consent to having their photo taken? And
if you do, do can we use it wherever we want?
Speaker 4: And emergency cards and stuff like that. Did you You're.
Speaker 1: Okay? There's so much. And then when you twins, you
got to do it for two.
Speaker 4: Yeah, times two. Everything was time.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I mean we were just going to be cause they
have like a pre K class that we were going
to put Blake in, but we figured like, no, let's
keep her in the other one. It's a lot less stuff.
We don't want to overwhelm her. So we decided to
for just separating them. And and it's gonna be a
little harder on us, but I think it's better better
for Blake.
Speaker 4: So there's drop off at eight, and then there's drop
off at nine. Is nine okay? And then what time? Well,
kindergarten's out at it's a full day, right, yeah.
Speaker 3: I think they get out at three and then Blake
gets out at one.
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's so long like kindergarten. I mean they're
only five now, they're just little baby their whole day
and they're already the way life is now. I mean
when I was in kindergarten, I remember it being pretty cush.
There was Dick and Jane books.
Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure, yeah, Dick and Jane.
Speaker 1: And there was a lot of singing songs, and I
remember like around I remember a lot of songs. I
remember scale a tin jumping up and down. I remember
very few things. I remember map, like learning about a
map because I remember this story that I've told probably
several times where I had to pee. I went to
the bathroom and then I came back and they were like, uh,
where are you from? And looking at a map and
I was like the bathroom and then everybody laughed, and
I'll never forget how humiliated I was because they were
laughing uproariously, like you're the funniest thing. My fellow five
year olds had ever heard in their life, and my
face was just burning. I was like, once I realized,
they're like no, we meant like, what where were you born?
And I was like, where are you from the bathroom? Yeah?
You still I have some scars. I have a viiral
scar from a kid chasing me around with like a
gummy worm or something, which you wouldn't think so whereas
around at the time at that age for me, but
maybe it was like a piece of licorice that the
kid was going it's a worm. And I was running
and I slipped and I fell against a trash can
and I ripped open my and I remember I had
to leave school and go get bitches. And I still
have a little scar there. So yeah, kindergarten.
Speaker 4: Scarring, Yes, scarring.
Speaker 1: Well, remember kindergarten.
Speaker 4: I was thinking about it recently about how far back
could I remember I was. I do remember kindergarten. I
remember my teacher's name was Missus Hines because we used
to call her Missus Hines ketchup, and she had blonde hair.
And I do remember being on the carpet a lot.
I remember I got to read a book in front
of the class, which was The Green Eggs and Ham
and I read it in front of the class. I
remember that.
Speaker 1: Advanced for kindergarten.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and maybe it was first grade. I just remember
when we were starting to read. I loved that book.
That was my j I'm that book. I don't know why,
and I wanted to read it in front of the class.
It was in sixth grade.
Speaker 1: No, I'm kidding. Last year.
Speaker 4: Yes, year, but and then I was gonna I was
one of the things I wanted to ask Natalia, like
what's your earliest memory of childhood kind of thing? And
I don't know, just because you know, I've been spending
a lot of time with her and they're all going
to college and we talked about it last episode. But yeah,
just remembering early memories of childhood and good memories and bad.
I had a lot of bad memories too, of my
parents fighting. Do you remember anything from when you were
little like I remember.
Speaker 3: I remember snippets from kindergarten.
Speaker 1: You ye, snippets from kinder art like what.
Speaker 3: I remember, like the jungle gym, Like for the first
day we were there and we were all playing on
the jungle gym and back. I remember one day when
we were like all watching like a video and one
of the kids like pulled on the TV chord and
the whole TV fell onto his hand and then like
cut his finger and you had to go to the
nurse and yeah, in.
Speaker 4: Your kid's memory. Yeah, And then then I don't know
if you guys watch Modern Family, you watch Modern Family.
Speaker 3: I did back like the first four or five seasons,
back when it was on.
Speaker 4: So there was an episode where they take their daughter
go on No No, Well, so Phil is named after
Phil Dunphe, the dad, and because Natalia loved Phil, loves
Phil Dumphy and he's a funny guy. And there's an
episode they take their daughter to drop her off at
college and they kind of embarrass her or whatever, and
like he's wearing a T shirt of when she was
little and she's like, oh my god, you guys are embarrassing,
Like go home, like I'm good, I'm good.
Speaker 1: And then he.
Speaker 4: Leaves her a book of philosophies, which is really funny.
And so anyway, just like little things. At the end
of the episode, he's reading some of his philosophies. You know,
I maybe Caylin, you can look it up for some
of Philosophies from Modern Family from the book when they
dropped him off. There's just like little things, you know,
like when life gives you lemons mate, but he puts
his own spin on it anyway. So I was thinking, like, Okay,
I'm not going to make a book of philosophies for Natalia,
but I thought it would be nice if I made
like a playlist on Spotify of songs that she used
to love when she was young that she grew up
listening to.
Speaker 1: That's so cool for.
Speaker 4: Me and her dad because her dad had his music
that she liked. So I'm working on that right now
for tomorrow.
Speaker 1: That's so funny. I have some mixes I want to
see if I have it on my phone really quick,
from what the kids liked to listen to, like when
they were going to sleep at night. Oh yeah, yeah,
I literally have a hold on my Would you find
any philosophy?
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know if it's from that episode,
but there's I just found a Reddit page where someone's
putting together all of Phil's quotes, well any quote. The
first one is when life gives you lemonade, make lemons,
life will be like what.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, life gives you lemonade makes the Yeah, what's
another one?
Speaker 3: If you get pulled over for speeding, tell the policeman
your spouse's diarrhea. You only get one chance at a
first impression. I suggest Julia Child because it's easiest to
do impression Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then he does yeah, and then he goes,
where's le jibluets? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Okay, take a lesson from Para keys. If you ever
feel lonely, just eat in front of a mirror.
Speaker 4: Oh, parakeets.
Speaker 3: Marry someone who looks sexy disappointed.
Speaker 1: That's funny.
Speaker 4: Life gives you lemons. Make lemonade, life will be all
like what?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 4: Any other ones?
Speaker 3: I mean there's a lot of them. If you love something,
said it free, unless it's a tiger.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna look. So it's on Reddit. I'm gonna put
it together for her anyway. I'm gonna give her philosophies
too with my playlist.
Speaker 1: That's so cute.
Speaker 4: So what'd you find, Stephanie?
Speaker 1: I found okay, well, I found a mix of songs
that we would listen to. That I when we went
to Late Gregory a couple of years ago. I looked
up a bunch of songs that they used to like
when they were younger, and I put them on here.
One was girlfriend Avril Levine Somebody Loves You, which is
Betty Who. I don't know if you know that song?
Huh oh, somebody loves You? I wish Sharon Lloyd? Do
you remember that song? Wait? How's it go? I wish
I had uh boobs and it's not remember. Yeah, here,
I'll I'll play it for a second. Why not, let's see.
I wish I was a little bit tall. That's short. Yeah,
this one.
Speaker 2: I remember the song No, but don't feel bad.
Speaker 1: Kaylen would get mad at us, but of course he
left again, right and yeah, I wish I was tall.
I wish I was fast. I wish I could shop
with the bag full of caffine. Kaylen would be mad,
but I'll keep playing it. Here's to the chorus anyway,
that's cute. Yeah, that was one of the songs they
really liked.
Speaker 4: So are you doing a playlist too?
Speaker 1: Oh? We all loved flow Rider Club Can't Handle huh
you know that? I'm sure you know that song broken
Hearted by Carmen Cool It now new edition exactly Hey
Ma by Cameron You know that song? Right?
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Okay, you're gonna you know this song? Hold on to
play a second of it.
Speaker 4: You don't know the song now?
Speaker 1: Oh, this is such a Me and Lynette song.
Speaker 4: It as sound I mean, it sounds familiar. It sounds
like something I would.
Speaker 1: Have hilariously Hit him up by Tupac. Oh yeah, yeah,
it's like a family favorite.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a good one with me in Italian The
car jay.
Speaker 1: Z ninety nine Problems Run DMC, King of Rock, Kasha TikTok,
Pretty Girl Rock by uh Carrie Hilson. Mm hmm. You
know Bonfire Sessions by King Fantastic by any chance?
Speaker 4: No, isn't that a Mark Wahlberg podcast? Oh?
Speaker 1: It is called that right on Fire Talks. Okay, hold on,
you just gotta hear a moment of this song. It's
so freaking it's my favorite. He had a long day,
got a rough gutsucking travel to my nurse, asked the
fuck wife got an attitude?
Speaker 3: Why she got an attitude?
Speaker 1: I don't fuck you know, I'm the one that should
be mad.
Speaker 3: Dude, drink with it, doctor say.
Speaker 1: Stopping tottle baby, I'm a pocket, grab my phone, got
the closet, and.
Speaker 3: I smug and now I ain't shipping.
Speaker 4: I'm on the fucking miss you to get to this.
Speaker 1: Kids, don't act ship because I'm gonna fish.
Speaker 4: You know this now you don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't guys all this is everybody's homework. I know,
go down with Sessions by King Fantastic and it's the
greatest song. We We love this song. We usually play
it like once a day. Really yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, see I'm doing like John Hyatt stuff and Bruce Springsteen.
Speaker 1: No, I get it, I get it. But like my
kids have been listening to the Thos song since they're young.
We got House on Pook Corner and like stuff like that. Yeah,
some stuff they listen to in the but they never
really had They never really liked a lot of.
Speaker 4: Just that old like rock stuff. Yeah yeah, yeah. They
like more rapping, more hip hop.
Speaker 1: And yeah they do.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Sonny, I wish he did. He doesn't. Sonny's you
know Pink Floyd led Zeppelin, The Doors.
Speaker 1: That's pretty cool though, No, that is cool.
Speaker 4: And I think he listens to a lot of rap
that I don't know, like new rap, because his friends
will tell him what to listen to. His friends were dog,
His friends are bagging Natalia. Oh my god, oh the weekend,
I guess Adam posted a picture of Sonny in front
of a car and an auction and uh, Natalia went
out the other night while Sonny was gone, and Sonny's
friends drove her home and they were all cracking up
because they saw the post and somebody posted under somebody
wrote underneath the picture, Uh, can you move the homeless
kids so we could see the car? Tell the homeless
kid to get out of the way so we could
see the car. They were dying. They were laughing so hard.
And I asked Sonny, I go, did you hear about that?
And he goes, yeah, yeah, yeah, like he doesn't care,
like but but anyway, so back to the playlist for
the kids. I think, you know, that'll be kind of
something nice to give, like a sentimental gift, you.
Speaker 1: Know what I was thinking of doing. And I feel
like Robin gave me this idea a long time ago.
But I kind of want to make a Shutterfly book
and go back and dig up all old pictures because
when I was little, I had a photograph of baby book. Yeah,
of all baby pictures, right. I thought it would be
really sweet to make a picture of like through the
years and like give it to to remember, I don't know,
with like family pictures, but also her as a baby
and then her as a little girl. Yea. His only
drawback to this idea is that I feel like I've
shown Lbie pictures of her, like I oftentime get caught
up and like, look at this. Yeah, I found a
bunch of these baby pictures and they're all on our
Flicker account, So I know Elbie's gone through them a
lot and shown them people or whatever. So would she
care about having a keep? So?
Speaker 4: I think so. I think the kids love that, And
actually Natalia will like I have some books of them
when they were little, like actual photo albums, and she'll
ask me, like, where's those photo albums? Like they like it,
even though they have every picture on their phone. I
think they kind of like that old school being able
to have something to open up and show their friends
or whatever or even just look at you know why.
Speaker 1: Might do that either either I could do it for
I don't know if I could do it a quick
enough turnaround to give it to her at college, but
I could make each of them a book and give
it to them as one of their like Christmas presents.
Speaker 4: That's what I think I'm gonna do. Yeah, I think's
a good idea.
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Speaker 4: Well, I watched I watched the Lacy Peterson thing on Netflix.
Speaker 1: Well let's talk about that. Is there new information or
is this because I feel like I've seen and heard
a lot about.
Speaker 4: I mean, there's really it's it's kind of just all
stuff kind of already knew, but it's it's interviewed like
Lacey's mom and her friends now, like how they feel
about it now, and it just kind of shows like
old most of the stuff we've seen. There's a lot
of like the voice call, the voice messages to Amberfry
and then Amber Fry like putting two and two together
and like coming forward to the police. So there's not
but then it's funny to see though. It is funny.
There's three episodes. At the third episode, you see him
getting his well, he tries to flee first of all,
the state, tries to go to Mexico.
Speaker 1: Right, he tries to kind of pull an oj Yeah,
has a bunch of cash with him, and he dyed
his hair blonde, right yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And then he gets high Power defense attorney Mark Garrigos.
And it's funny because Garagos does not look like how
he looks nowadays, like total dork.
Speaker 1: Back then, I.
Speaker 4: Don't know what happened, but uh yeah. And then just
basically it's it goes through like the whole timeline and
what happened, and it's not anything new, but it was
good to watch. It was good to watch. I mean,
you forget about all the details and stuff. So I
watched that.
Speaker 1: I mean, the guy is so guilty and you forget
because you know, a couple of years ago they had
the whole little resurgence of like, oh, Scott Peterson didn't
get a fair trial and here's why. And then you
had that Robbie a woman and you know, the one
that was saying that ad no on with the one
from Cereal, the woman that was saying that ad Noon
was innocent, which I am not weighing in on, but
Robbia Chardre, I want to say her last name is,
did a podcast with somebody else and they gave all
this like here's why Scott Peterson is innocent, and it's
like such bullshit, such bullshit. And then I don't feel
like Mark Garret gos was. I mean, he was saying,
you didn't get a fair trial. But the stuff they
were bringing up is so the details are so like
these huge things lead to the fact that he's guilty. Huge, huge, yes,
but they're like, yeah, but well, teeth on the dog.
Speaker 4: So I will say, now that I think about it,
there's an nightline sometimes I see on Hulu Nightline. It's
called I don't I think it's called X or something,
but it's basically Nightline, and it's all these different episodes
from Nightline. And recently they did one on Scott the
Innocent Project to trying to get Scott Peterson off and
they did like, you know, twenty minutes on it on
the new information they had, and if you watch it,
it's on Hulu, you could find it. If you watch it,
I'm with you. The guy's guilty. But then they're like,
there was a truck that was found that was abandoned
with blood in the back the week that she went missing,
and nobody tested the blood or tested the DNA, and
that truck nobody the cops didn't check it out or whatever,
or the cops did check it out, but they didn't
try and tie it to they didn't see if it
had anything to do with the Lacy Peterson missing case
or whatever. And then there was like a home close
by for halfway house for I don't know that was
people were there that were kind of riff raff.
Speaker 1: I don't know that was close by her house. I
always want to blame it on the riff rack.
Speaker 4: R I know. And then there was the burglary across
the street that they got more into. There was about that,
So then you're like.
Speaker 1: They kind of ruled out that burglary across they did anyway. Yes, yes,
Scott was fishing on Christmas Eve and that's where they
found the freaking body. Yeah, so that would have to
be the biggest coincidence in the entire world.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and didn't tell people he bought the boat, remember that. Yeah,
bought a boat like that week or a couple weeks before,
and then doesn't tell anybody and keeps it in a
stored place. And then oh, I was going to go golfing,
but then I was going to go fishing. Oh that
was another thing. He said he was going to go golfing,
but it was too cold, so he went fishing.
Speaker 1: Right, that makes sense.
Speaker 4: That didn't make any sense, right, right?
Speaker 1: So yeah, and he told his girlfriend that he was
in Paris, right, and that his wife was uh oh
she died, right, yeah, I had died before she died,
so hello, yeah, I mean yeah, but Garret goes will say, listen,
he's not a great guy. He's a cat and meets
on his wife, right and tells his wife and tells
his girlfriend that his wife died. Well, if his wife
didn't die, that would have been a really hard thing
to cover up. That's true. Oh shoot, yeah, no, she
came back from the dead and we're really happy again.
I mean, how are you gonna explain that unless she's
really dead because you killed.
Speaker 4: Her, I know, And you know, it's so sad. In
a show he told and we kind of knew this,
but when you're watching it again, it kind of reminds you.
So he told Lacey that he had to go out
of town for this. It was in the beginning of December.
There was a Christmas party that they were supposed to
go to together and he had like had to go
do something. So she she was kind of complaining to
her and her friends were talking to the camera, like
to the to the documentary about how she was like
kind of feeling lonely during this pregnancy and that he
kind of didn't want to have a kid, and but
he agreed to and then he hasn't been participating in
the pregnancy as much as she wanted. She was felt
feeling alone a lot because he wasn't around because he
was with freaking Amber Fry. So she's that famous picture
that you see when she went missing. She's sitting pregnant
in the chair and she's wearing like a burgundy dress
and her like her jewelry, and she's like all like
like trying to like and they they the girls were like,
that was the party we had. She was at our
house that night. That picture was taken at our house,
and she was bummed, but she put on a good
she put on a good face, like she got dressed up.
We were like, just come to the party anyway, you know,
we'll be here. You don't need Scott. And she's so
she did, and she's trying to make the best of it.
She's just sitting in the chair. Meanwhile, he's taking pictures
selfies of him and Amber with the you know, all
dressed up. He has a red tie and she's got
a red dress on and they're going to a Christmas party. Wow,
the same night, they're going out to a Christmas party
together while she's sitting at this house by herself pregnant,
like eight months pregnant.
Speaker 1: Just sad. You know the number one cause of death
for pregnant women. Yeah, that men from men from partners.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they talked about that.
Speaker 1: That's crazy to me, isn't that insane?
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's really that's sad. Yeah, yeah, it's horrible anyway,
But so I watched that then on Max it just
came out who killed Lyric and Elizabeth? I think it's called.
Speaker 1: See that looked too sad for me.
Speaker 4: I remember when that they went missing. I remember because
I was watching a lot of Nancy Grace at the time,
and my kids were like, I think they were around
the same age or close to it. And I remember
these two cousins went for a bike ride and they
they were under the care of the grandma and they
just they went missing. And they were talking about the
statistics like there's there's was only like seven kidnappings within
ten years of a dual kidnapping, like it just is
very rare, or even like twenty year span, like it
just kind of doesn't happen very often, huh. So. Then
but then after they went missing, then another two girls
were kidnapped. One got away and told her story, but
her friend didn't make it, like killed her friend. And
it is sad. It is sad. And then they and
then like two years after these girls go missing, then
there was the Delphi right right, Yeah, that was sad too.
Speaker 1: You know what's interesting is being uh, when you're a parent.
I can only speak for moms. It probably has to
do with dads, but like whenever there's something happens to
somebody and they're the same around the same age. Yeah,
when the new Town tragedy happened, my kids were that age.
My kids are that age first grade, I believe in
It was kindergarten and first graders. And I could not
get over that. I mean, I'm still not. And it
was around Christmas time.
Speaker 4: I was horrible.
Speaker 1: And then we used to go to Candy Cane Lane
and every time listening to any Christmas songs that were sad,
I would just not be able to handle it. I
remember everything. If you hear about like a kid, you know,
in their first year of college. Now we're going to
be like what, I'm all years like, it's you know,
because but if your kids are young and you hear
about something happening to a college kid, your brain just goes, oh, well,
that's an adult, you know. But now that we were like, no,
that's not an adult, that's an eighteen year old baby.
Speaker 4: No, nineteen year.
Speaker 1: Old baby, little baby girl. Yes, you know, like it's
just whatever age. I'm scared by whatever stuff happens to
kids that age.
Speaker 4: I agree, I know, And that's why I was telling you,
Like I was telling Natalia like all these different dateline
stories and you know, just be careful, and she's like,
all right, I don't, you don't need to Can we
talk about something fun?
Speaker 1: And I was okay, I would be all kidnapping all
the time, like in my conversations. Listen, you could get abducted.
And I don't care how old you are. I don't
care if you're twenty seven. You need to lock the
doors at night. Albee does this thing where, uh, it
doesn't matter how many times we tell her, yeah, it
forgets to lock the door behind me.
Speaker 4: I'm with you. I've been having this issue with Natalia.
Sonny is so on top of it, like he always
when he comes home, and he's usually the last one
to come home because you know, we're in bed. He's
always out with his friends. He comes home, he locks
the door. So I got I got a since we
moved into this house, I got the ADT security on
our windows and stuff. But we also have the ADT app,
which makes it's simple. All you have to do is
when you come home, hit the app and unlocks, you know,
and then or when you leave, hit the.
Speaker 1: App and it locks.
Speaker 4: When Sunny leaves late at night and goes on his
bike rider goes with his friends, he will leave and
lock the door behind him. Not Natalia. She comes and
goes to the doors open. Sometimes this week I wake
up in the morning the door has been unlocked all night.
Same yeah, And I'm like, Natalia, could you please? And
so I'm trying to get her to get in the
habit of it, especially now they're going off to college.
Lock your freaking doors exactly. It's just maddening. How do
you get them to pay attention?
Speaker 1: I don't know. And I don't understand how they even
feel safe in the house leaving the door online. I
don't understand.
Speaker 4: I know, and our neighborhood. I'm on the citizens app.
It's gone up a lot of burglaries, a lot of
like break ins and stuff like that in our neighborhood.
And I have to tell her that, and then she's
like oh, and then she'll do it for like a
night and then she forgets again where her fucking friends
come over and she'll unlock the door from her bed
and they come in and then of course they're not
locking the door behind them.
Speaker 1: I'm like, just get on your app and lock.
Speaker 4: It when they come home, when they when they come
in your room.
Speaker 1: That's simple, I know, because we're really good about we
lock the door. Like John and I lock the door
when we're in the house, walk in the house, lock
the door. I will lock the door behind me when
I go to walk the dog, even if everybody's home.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I know. It's just like why leave your
eyy door unlocked?
Speaker 1: It's not that safe, right, But yeah, but Elby will
come home at like two in the morning and just
forget to lock the door or doesn't ever lock it
behind her leaves for work in the morning sometimes and
just doesn't lock the door, and I will, yes, I'll
be like, LB, please lock the door, or we'll say,
if you're the last one in the house, like if
you're coming home at two in the morning from a party,
set the alarm. Yes, because we won't set the alarm
if we know she's coming in, because I don't want
her to accidentally trip the alarm, right and I don't
it'll wake us up. So if we have the alarm
set for stay, it's ad t as well, so we
don't ever do the way we're never we're completely gone, Yeah,
because we I think it might. It's motion detector if
people walks around, I don't want it to set off.
That's what we have. Yeah, so we set it to stay,
which is doesn't do the emotion, but if somebody tries
to get in a door or window, it goes off exactly.
So I don't want her to trip the alarm coming
in the house, so we won't set the alarm, but
I want her to set it as soon as she
gets in the house, as soon as the last person's
in the house, set the alarm. Does she do it? No,
she does not. Now what the hell do you guys
have alarm? You have a lot? Yeah?
Speaker 4: No, Yeah, Well, I just won't worry about like when
they go to college, like you do, lock the doors
behind you.
Speaker 1: Yes, exactly.
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we're back. I watched a documentary. You know, I have
to watch a lot of shows for my other for
Rose pres I've been watching because we're covering Real Housewives OC. Yes,
we're covering and you know what, I have an unpopular
opinion about that show. Are you up to day?
Speaker 4: I think I'm up to date.
Speaker 1: Yeah? Uh? Did you want the last seat? The last
episode was Big Bear versus Lakita.
Speaker 4: Well I didn't see it, but tell me, well, basically
the girl.
Speaker 1: There's eight Real Housewives I think on this season, and
they were split into basically two parties. They are not
getting along with each other, so half the group went
to Lakita with Gina. It was Gina, Heather, Emily, and
Shannon and then Tamra, Alexis, Katie and somebody else that
I'm forgetting when she would make it.
Speaker 4: Very funny that Tamra is all buddy buddy with Jesus jugs.
Speaker 1: Right, you know, she used to make fun of merciless.
Speaker 4: And just because she's mad at Shannon, so she can't
write right.
Speaker 1: But here's my very unpopular opinion, because everybody's really mad
that Tama is being so mean to Shannon, and I
I agree that it's crazy bullying behavior and she's just
doing it for her storyline. On the other hand, eh so,
Shannon to me is just such a perpetual victim. Everyone's like,
oh my god, John Jansen is so was so mean
to Shannon and he's suing her and he's just thirsty.
But on the other hand, Shannon says this thing, this
might have been the coming attraction for this week's episode.
But she's like, let me tell you an example of
how horrible John was to her. She's like, I paid
for all of this stuff. She's like, we went on
this trip and we brought all the kids, and I
paid for like the London hotel and blah blah blah
for us to stay there for this trip, and it
costs ten thousand dollars. Okay, but John Jansen is saying
that he lent you seventy five thousand dollars. So and
so she's like and then basically one of the other
women is talking to her, is like, okay, but why
don't you just pay him back, like pay money and
get rid of him? And she's like, I just don't
want to. I shouldn't have to. It's the principle of
the thing. It's like, okay, so do you think that
because you paid for something when you guys were together,
like that should offset the fact that you owe him money.
It's like if you pay for somebody, you do it
because you want to, not because like so, now does
he owe you the ten thousand dollars or she'd get
tit for tech? Yeah, but also like so now I
should be able to borrow money for a facelift and
I shouldn't owe it to him because well, I paid
for a lot of dates.
Speaker 4: That's weird to me.
Speaker 1: That's weird. And it's also like every relationship in her
I feel like her thing is they were. She was
so wronged, she was so wrong by David Badore, she
was so wrong by John, Like everybody's so mean to her.
I don't know.
Speaker 4: To me, it's it's like, all right, well, like sponsibility.
Speaker 1: Doesn't really want to take that much responsibility for the
drunk driving thing, which she doesn't. She's not quitting drinking
over it. She's like, I don't need to. I'm not
an alcoholic. I don't know. But then everybody's like, oh
my god, poor Shannon.
Speaker 4: Yet not me. I don't know. I don't feel Shannon's
always kind of bugged me.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 4: There's sometimes where I'm like, all right, I could see
like where they think she's fun Shannon or whatever. But
then for the most part, though, yeah, she doesn't that
problem I have with her, so she Yeah, she doesn't
take responsibility for anything. You know, she was like a
whole and we don't know both sides were with her divorce,
you know, we don't know the ins and outs, but
it was it seemed like, yeah, she was like he
was trying to screw her over and then she meets
John Jansen. Yeah, that's a whole. I think there's a
lot going on between that went on between her and
John Jansen that we don't know that I'd like to know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, listen, he seems terrible. Yeah, nobody in
their right mind is standing up for John Janssen and
now he's with Alexis. But I'm just saying, like she
got involved with him, then she paid for everything or whatever.
I don't know. I'm just like, yeah, you were with
him for a few years, right, and now he's saying
that he lent you money. I don't know. Let's then
then prove that he didn't. But and apparently she's been
offering to pay him back all the money. But she
wants him to sign a non disparage agreement, which is
pretty common a lot of people. You know, I sign that,
but he's saying, no, I won't sign it. So like
I'm I don't know. I'm thinking, like maybe he has
some stuff on her that he's like keeping in his
back pocket. Well, I just think it's I don't know,
I just think none of it sounds doesn't totally on
the level, right right, Well.
Speaker 4: I'm sure there's a lot between she's already.
Speaker 1: Disparaged him, she's already calling him a monster and saying
all these terrible things about him. So maybe he's just like,
I don't know that I want my money back. You
have to pay me the money regardless, and then you
think you can destroy my reputation. But I can't like
speak up for maybe I don't know, just like maybe
there's two sides.
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh I'm sure there is. But you know, the
I did was I was on the OC episodes. I
don't know why I didn't watch the recent one, but
my my what to call peacock app was like going
to like older episodes.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I got onto like season you know, like five seasons ago,
and there was Alexis in one episode, like she's out
to lunch. Who was she out to lunch with? She
was out to lunch with Gina, I think, or no Emily,
I don't know. One is some Oh no, I think
it was Emily because Emily and her husband were fighting
at the time and they were kind of talking about
maybe getting a divorced whatever. So then she went to
lunch with Alexis. Jesus jugs and Alexis. It was interesting
because she was because she was asking her like you
were in a bad marriage and now you got out
of it. And you're happy you have a boyfriend. And
then they showed pictures of her with her boyfriend, like
in Tibet, like you know, or just traveling, you know,
around the world, and she was like, yeah, we're in love,
like when you just know it's right, it's right. And
then she was like, are you know, like you're gonna
get this is the one. She's like, oh, yeah, this
is the one, like and now she here she is
fast forward like years later.
Speaker 1: Here she was with John Jansen, and just before John Jansen,
she had another boyfriend who she was engaged with who
she was like, this is this is the one constant
social media pictures of her with her the love of
her whole life. Yeah, and then they broke up and
then she immediately was with, yeah, there's no one to
root for on the season. Yeah, anyway, watching that so
that I can do coverage of it. Watching ninety Day
Fiance the.
Speaker 4: Other way, Oh, I gotta watch that.
Speaker 1: Is it good? It's okay? Yeah, I'm starting to feel
like that's kind of the doing work. I watched Love
Is Blind UK from start that was just fun. But
then so then last night I was like I just
wanted to go to bed early and I was looking
for stuff to watch and I found this documentary about
a famous chef named Charlie Trotter, and it was really interesting.
He's from the age of like Anthony Bourdain and Emerald Legassi,
and it's just he's kind of like this troubled guy.
And he died young. I think you're it says he
had like a tragic end. But it was a really
interesting documentary. It makes you want to know more about
the world of chefs, the whole intricate thing. And a
lot of these chefs are kind of like troubled people.
Speaker 4: I know, I was thinking, I don't know, I was cooking.
It's funny, because yeah, it's funny that you brought this
guy up. Because when I picked Sonny up the other
night from being gone all week. In Monterey, there's a
guy that cooks every year. He's a chef, and he
brings his son. He's twelve years old this year, brings
his son with him in exchange for getting like tickets
into the and I don't know if it's not Adam
that gets it, but his partner, I don't know, in
exchange for tickets to get into the Monterey or the
pebble beach shows and stuff like that. He comes and
he and he's also a meat broker, so he gets
high end quality meat for not a lot for a discount,
and so he comes and son. He's like, it's the
best food I've ever eaten in my entire He's like, mom,
he was grilling wagou steak and he was first of all,
he gives us appetizers with caviare your favorite, with like
that cream cheese and I'm like crem fresh and he's like, yeah,
it's not cream cheese and I'm like crem fresh and
he's like on a cracker. But then he gives Then
he's giving slices of wago beef with a doll up
of like caviare and like an apricot on. He's like
it sounds crazy, I know. And he's like, mom, it
is the best food I've ever had in my life.
This guy, But I go, is he kind of weird?
Because I was like last chefs are kind of weird.
He's like no, he's the nicest, sweetest, like very warm
guy you'll ever want to meet. And his son's so
super cool too. He's like every year he comes, he
remembers things I'm doing. He's like super cool. I'm like,
well that's interesting. He's like yeah, and I'm like I'm
snow starving, like what a lucky kid man.
Speaker 1: Yeah, chef stuff is interesting. It is chef stuff.
Speaker 3: I love Gordon Ramsey. I have a ton of just
Gordon Ramsey's floods my algorithm. Anything, any video he's on,
I watch it.
Speaker 1: Son he likes him too. Yeah, I just like him
when he yells at people.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, love that show.
Speaker 4: It's good. I can't watch those shows unless I have
a full stomach because I get hungry. Like even watching
The Bear, I would get hungry, Like I could not
watch it on an empty stomach.
Speaker 1: Yeah, although with those with those high end chefs, the
portions always look so small, so small that you're like, yeah,
I don't know how I would eat that and be full.
Speaker 4: Sonny told me he got cut off at like one
of the like parties last year in Monterey. He's like,
because they were serving like shrimp with that was like
encrusted with whatever. And he's like, I don't even know.
He goes, but they only give you like a half
a shrimp, like oh, like a little skewer of it
and He's like, I'm I was starving. Like we knew
there was gonna be food at the party, but you know,
so I'm going by there and I'm like, can.
Speaker 1: I get another one? Can I get?
Speaker 4: And the guy just had to cut him off.
Speaker 1: Oh that's when you need a bread basket, you know. Yeah, Like,
let me like put the first layer. We'll just be
bread and better then I could deal with eating just
a couple of shrimps.
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, yeah, all right, let's go home and eat.
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