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Speaker 1: Are you guys, are you ready for a second date? Update? Yeah,

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let's do it.

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Speaker 2: Go on to West Hartford today, hopefully making a love connection.

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Natasha's on the line. She went on a great first

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date and for some reason, she says she's getting ghosted

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and wants to know why. So good morning, Natasha.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Hey, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: Well, I hope I can help you out.

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Speaker 2: The producer says, you want on a date with a

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guy named Mark.

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Speaker 1: Tell us about this great first.

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Speaker 4: Date I did.

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Speaker 3: And why I'm calling in is because I don't really

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know why I'm getting ghosted because everything kind of seemed

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super great.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 3: So we went on a first date. We was only

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had one date, and we went to this brewery and

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I love breweries because you know, you could go and

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they have like food trucks and stuff, and it's also

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like you know, pick and choose whatever you want. And

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we just kind of like sat and talked the whole

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evening and you know, nobody was looking at their phones.

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We had great conversations. I think ew both of us

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had like two beers or whatever. And now I like

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can't get a hold of him, and I like want

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to go on a second date, and I don't really

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know what's going on.

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Speaker 2: So you felt chemistry, you felt like there was a connection,

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you were attracted to him. Did you feel like he

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was attracted to you?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, And like I said, like like nobody was

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like distracted by their phones. Like we were just kind

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of talking to each other, and like we both were

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in the moment and it was just kind of nice

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to have a genuine human connection, you know.

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Speaker 2: Do you feel like maybe you had too much to

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drink with two beers?

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know. You don't know two beers. Somebody

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who doesn't drink could be a lot. That's valid. That's valid.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, I have a very high tolerance.

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Speaker 1: I'm not all right kind of girl.

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Speaker 3: It's not like we were doing stouts or anything. You know,

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Like I had a few. So I had two sours,

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which I think was like maybe five point six. Okay, okay,

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But we had like poutine fries and everything, and we

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were there for a couple of hours, So all right,

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you know, totally fine.

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Speaker 1: Well you weren't talking the whole time, were you? So

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go on, No, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Talking a lot now, but no, I wasn't, you know,

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I was asking a lot of questions. He was asking

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a lot of questions like it just it really just

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kind of seems super genuine.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you sound great and it sounds like it was

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a great date. So we're gonna give him a call.

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We're listen, we're gonna call him. We're gonna ask him

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why he's ghosting you. If you're ready for us to

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just come right out and ask him and get the answers,

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we're ready to call him.

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Speaker 3: Let's do it.

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Speaker 1: Let's call.

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Speaker 2: She sounds fabulous. I would like to go to a winery.

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Weather forget the brewery.

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Speaker 5: I mean she knows a lot about beer, Like I

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feel like guys would be like really into that.

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Speaker 1: Or maybe he was intimidated by her beer knowledge. Oh,

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toxic masculinity.

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Speaker 2: Let's see.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi is Mark there?

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Speaker 4: Uh yes, hey.

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Speaker 1: Mark, it's Courtney marky Mark, it's Walmart chef.

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Speaker 2: Hey Mark, it's Savannah and we're calling from Kiss ninety

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five to seven.

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Speaker 1: Yes, good morning, you're on the radio.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, wow, good morning guys, Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Good howdy good.

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Speaker 2: So I gotta tell you you're on something called second

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date update. When somebody goes on a first date and

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they have a great time, but then they get ghosted.

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They call us and we try to get the answers.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, yeah you know what I think I heard

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about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So we just want you to be honest.

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Speaker 2: Natasha called us, said, you guys went to a brewery.

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Speaker 1: She said it was fabulous.

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Speaker 2: You didn't even have your cell phones out, Like, it

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was a great conversation. She felt a connection, maybe a

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little bit of flirting back and forth. She reached out

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to you because she wants to see you again, but

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you're a ghostinger.

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Speaker 4: Yeah so I mean, look, okay, so, like honestly, yeah,

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so I go on a date with Natacha. I think

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she's great, right, Like, yeah, I don't. I don't feel

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great about about her. I think she's great. But the

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thing is, like I just I don't really feel like

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she she has like the time to date.

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Speaker 2: Okay, to be honest, like, but what what makes you

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think she doesn't have the time to date? If she

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called you, if she told you for a second date?

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Speaker 4: I mean so, yeah, So we had a great date

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that first time. But while we were going out, right, like,

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while we were kind of getting to know each other

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and stuff, she mentioned at one point that she she

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goes to the gym, right, but like she she's like

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kind of a full gym rat. Like she goes to

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the gym Monday through Thursday.

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Speaker 1: What does that got to do with going on another date?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 1: I mean why you ghost?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she goes Monday through Thursday and Saturdays and those

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are her gyms. Mean she got Fridays and Sundays. She

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I don't think she's got time for like a love interests,

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you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, okay, can I I'm gonna bring he

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wrong because she's been listening in that's what we do.

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I feel like you're jumping to conclusions without even talking

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to her. Natasha Mark said he's been ghosting you because

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he thinks you're too busy to have a relationship or

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at least, you know, go on dates.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess I'm just kind of conduced to to like,

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why you think I'm too busy?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 3: Like what what gave you that impression?

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Speaker 4: I mean, like, I don't did you hear like what?

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I just so like, I mean, if you go in

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the gym like Monday through Thursday and Saturday, that gives

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you like two days a week, Like maybe to kind

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of squeeze me in.

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Speaker 5: Wait, hold on, question, Natasha, how long do you spend

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at the gym? Is this like an hour session or

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are you there for like three or four hours at

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a time?

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Speaker 1: Because I don't understand me.

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Speaker 3: I'll do like an hour and a half of like

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weight training and then like forty five minutes of cardios,

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so it's like fifteen or something. But I go, I

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have I have an early job in the morning, so

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I like go in the PM, you know, like during

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dinner time and everything. And I told him that, like,

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I mean, like that, I just wouldn't want to, you know,

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go out drinking one of those days because we wouldn't

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be able to go out until like nine thirty or something.

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But I don't, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, can I just I feel like it's all a

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big misunderstanding. You had a great time, he said, he

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had a great time. But Natasha, if we were to

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pick up the tab for a second date, would you

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take one night off for that date? Would you say, like, yeah,

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let's go out on a Thursday night. I'm not going

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to go to the gym. Is that something you could do?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely? I mean if you would have just asked, I

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would have been like, yeah, I'll take a Thursday off.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm thinking. Here we go, Mark, you were

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making too many assumptions.

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Speaker 4: If she's down to take a look, I mean, I'm

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super I'm with it. If she's taking time off for me,

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then like, I mean, that's something that we could work out.

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You know.

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Speaker 2: All right, Natasha, are you still interested after hearing it

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all he had to say to go on a third

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d second date?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think a misunderstanding.

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Speaker 1: I think so too. And this is what I'm gonna do.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna put you guys on hold for a second

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because I do want to offer to pay for the date.

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Speaker 1: We are going to pay for this date and then

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just keep us posted.

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Speaker 2: Either Natasha or Mark call us back after the next date,

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let us know how it goes. Okay, sure, okay, hold on, Yes,

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you guys are going to do it.

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Speaker 1: Hold on and thanks for being on second date. Update