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<v Speaker 1>Sure.

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<v Speaker 2>What's that, beautiful people? It is your baby Mama, Favorite

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<v Speaker 2>Baby Mama, Stormy Pe And this is another episode of

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<v Speaker 2>Chocolate Chip and Zip the modern day female perspective. Damn

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<v Speaker 2>Son back at it again, Boom, back at again with

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<v Speaker 2>another promo. What's up? Listen? I know I told y'all

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<v Speaker 2>last week, but I feel like some of y'all might

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<v Speaker 2>not have heard me because, for whatever reason, we still

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<v Speaker 2>not sold out. What the fuck is this? This ain't

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<v Speaker 2>how we play family. This ain't how we play family.

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<v Speaker 2>We are less than three weeks away from the most

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<v Speaker 2>Me and the Talk Heavy podcast is shutting the city

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<v Speaker 2>think barbershop talk meets girls group chat. You want to

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<v Speaker 2>have some wild ass conversations. I got you, Okay, Sip

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<v Speaker 2>Heavy A live show with the Talk Heavy and Chocolate

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<v Speaker 2>shit all right. I'm not gonna hold y'all. I've been

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<v Speaker 2>seeing all this pop the balloon stuff, and I said,

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<v Speaker 2>I want some of that. I want some of that,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm on real conversations. I want real questions, I

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<v Speaker 2>want real interactions. And you know where you can get

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<v Speaker 2>it at the damn live show Sip and Talk Heavy

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<v Speaker 2>all right, April thirteenth at Punchline. Get your tickets now.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't say I ain't tell you. Don't say I ain't

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<v Speaker 2>warn you. Bring y'all ass. Okay, your future husband's waiting

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<v Speaker 2>for you. Your future wife is waiting for you.

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<v Speaker 1>More.

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<v Speaker 2>Some motherfuckers that share yourself to humor, who might end

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<v Speaker 2>up being a new cousin or something they weighing for you.

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<v Speaker 2>They all have to show. Okay. April thirteenth at Punchline, Philadelphia,

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<v Speaker 2>Chocolate Chip and Sip and Talk Heavy podcast, it's going

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<v Speaker 2>down all right. With all that being said, y'all know

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<v Speaker 2>what every week I like to come to y'all what

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<v Speaker 2>a theme that helps me gear my thoughts or vaguely

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<v Speaker 2>pin them together. So today's theme is gonna be Diary

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<v Speaker 2>of a mad band. Okay, makes absolute no sense. They

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<v Speaker 2>have no connection, but I'm in my feelings. Okay, that's

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<v Speaker 2>what it's gonna be. That's what we're talking about today. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>that's where we are. Ty Die Grind says, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like I'd feel so cure with you anywhere we go, sleeveless.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't piss me off. We're doing so good. We're like

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<v Speaker 2>five minutes in and you're already starting your shit. Don't

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<v Speaker 2>piss me off. Okay, I shut up. I should have

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<v Speaker 2>named the title the Live I made it Green Giant.

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<v Speaker 2>I should have made it the hawk. Y'all pissed me

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<v Speaker 2>off so bad outfit, said diarrhea of a mad man.

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<v Speaker 2>You can get the fuck out with tygrind. Okay, y'all

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<v Speaker 2>not gonna get on my nerves today. Thank you and

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<v Speaker 2>thank you. But yeah, like I said, man, not really

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<v Speaker 2>sure if they have a correlation, not really sure if

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<v Speaker 2>they made sense. But you know, not be my feelings

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<v Speaker 2>and not be thinking about shit. And it's just where

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<v Speaker 2>we are right. So today's topics are interesting. Stay with

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<v Speaker 2>me or don't, but nine times out of ten, you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna have a good time, all right. First, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if it's just me, but I feel like we

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<v Speaker 2>are seeing more of this long day distance dating pop

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<v Speaker 2>up on our timelines. Is it just me? Is it

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<v Speaker 2>just me? Do y'all see these videos pop up on

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<v Speaker 2>your timeline of oh how far would you fly for sneaking?

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<v Speaker 2>Like to blame for that? Men?

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<v Speaker 1>Now?

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<v Speaker 2>Shut up, shut up, shut up? Okay, shut up? Who

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<v Speaker 2>did that? Somebody on a lie? I did that. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know how that worked. It was just fire works

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how to work. Okay, bet, thank you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And I feel like we have been seeing these love

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<v Speaker 2>stories of oh, ten days before I see my fiance,

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<v Speaker 2>nine days before I see my long distance girlfriend, and

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<v Speaker 2>they hug and they keep going, like through all the days.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like we already having the honest conversations about

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<v Speaker 2>long distance dating, like and I want to know if

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<v Speaker 2>I'm by myself when I say like, I don't mind

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<v Speaker 2>long distance dating, but I don't want to pin pal.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to pin pal. I don't want that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want that. I don't mind long distance dating,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't want a pinpal. If I wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>hear a man tell me sweet nothings but never get

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<v Speaker 2>to see him, I just write to a nigga in jail. No,

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<v Speaker 2>that's just me. I don't want that. I don't need that.

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<v Speaker 2>I thank you. They're mind cuddles. I want them now.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Call JG.

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<v Speaker 2>Wentworth give me my shit. Okay, yeah, I want my

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<v Speaker 2>shit now. Like when the few times that I've attempted

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<v Speaker 2>to do the long distance dating, like bro, if we've

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<v Speaker 2>been talking for like a month and neither one of

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<v Speaker 2>us has said something about going to see the other one,

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<v Speaker 2>this isn't it for me. I don't want that. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want that. Dion Smith CZ says, nah, I need

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<v Speaker 2>the scout Rubs live and in living color. tyDi Grind

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<v Speaker 2>says Snapple facts. I feel like a month it's enough

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<v Speaker 2>for us to decide when we're going to see each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Outfit says two hours driving distance is a max of

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<v Speaker 2>a long distance I can handle. Were not even gonna

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<v Speaker 2>get into the hour qualifications. Yet, We're not even gonna

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<v Speaker 2>get into the hours because honestly, a two hour drive

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<v Speaker 2>is that's barely long distance.

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<v Speaker 3>That's like imagine driving two hours in New York traffic

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<v Speaker 3>and then getting there and having an argument having drive back.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, no, because I'll say that's what I was gonna say.

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<v Speaker 2>If I'm if I have a like if I'm dating

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<v Speaker 2>a guy in New York, I don't think that's long distance.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not that's like a day trip. That's an afternoon trip. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>I've gone to New York and done a podcast and

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<v Speaker 2>come home. So it's like I can go to New

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<v Speaker 2>York and date a nigga and come home, Like, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think that's long distance to me. To me, it

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<v Speaker 2>would have to be like at least three and a

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<v Speaker 2>half hours. Three and a half hours is long distance

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<v Speaker 2>and even still I don't even feel like because what's

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<v Speaker 2>that DC on a like trash day? That's not bad?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you can't is different.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess you're gonna make some money, I mean, but

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<v Speaker 3>then you won't get some office.

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<v Speaker 2>Is exactly my point. I've been through enough of them. Okay, whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta give me a topic that's not even what

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<v Speaker 2>we're wants to be talking about, Like what grind says

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<v Speaker 2>is not long distance for you though, Okay, okay, whatever whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, my point being, I want to see you.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to see you, like it can't just be

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<v Speaker 2>us texting us, calling us FaceTime and like, bro, I

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<v Speaker 2>need the romance. I need the cuddles. I need to

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<v Speaker 2>face to face. Like I want to go on dates.

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<v Speaker 2>And don't get me wrong, virtual dates count. We both

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<v Speaker 2>can go out to eat and set the phone up

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<v Speaker 2>on FaceTime and we did da da da dah. But like, eventually,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to see you in my space, like the

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<v Speaker 2>digital get down is not enough for me. Okay, Like huh,

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<v Speaker 2>I think emojis can't replace a hug. I know that

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<v Speaker 2>you know that, we know that what we're gonna do

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<v Speaker 2>about it, it can't just be us booboo loving on

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<v Speaker 2>the phone all day, You sitting on top of a

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<v Speaker 2>washing machine kicking your feet up, Like God, I know

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<v Speaker 2>that's cute, it's fun. But now because the pin pals,

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<v Speaker 2>shit ain't enough to me. Like when we get to

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<v Speaker 2>the point where my phone has more motion than I do, Baby,

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<v Speaker 2>this is a problem. My phone is not my soulmate.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up? What are we doing? How are we making

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<v Speaker 2>this a difference? Like if I don't see you or

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<v Speaker 2>we aren't talking about seeing each other within a month,

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<v Speaker 2>what are we doing here? Because I'm now no longer interested?

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<v Speaker 2>And you know what else? I think the problem is

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<v Speaker 2>so growing up, I did have pin pals. What the

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<v Speaker 2>fuck you mean? Of course? Shot? Okay? So what.

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<v Speaker 1>So?

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<v Speaker 2>One of my pimpals was one of the girls I

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<v Speaker 2>met when I was doing pageants. Her name was Rebecca.

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<v Speaker 2>She was really nice. We wrote to each other a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>My other pimp don't laugh, Shot, because I know you

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<v Speaker 2>about to get on. I feel like Donell when he

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<v Speaker 2>was like, don't laugh, y'all, I'm serious, and then Charlemagne

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<v Speaker 2>started laughing. Anyway, all right, listen, Shot, really Rebecca buzz white,

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<v Speaker 2>duh uh? But Shot, don't laugh? Okay, my other pimpal

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<v Speaker 2>she was a member of the Sioux tribe. She was

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<v Speaker 2>a Native American on a reservation in South Dakota. Shot,

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<v Speaker 2>I said, it's not funny. She lived in South Dakota

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<v Speaker 2>and she was a member of the Sioux tribe. The

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<v Speaker 2>two Native Americans. She lived on a reservation. And so

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<v Speaker 2>before you say it's cap she was lying, right, I was.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, But that's not the bad part.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's not the bad part. I was so excited

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<v Speaker 2>about my Native American pin pow that I told my teacher.

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<v Speaker 2>I told my teacher, but I didn't know this white

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<v Speaker 2>woman was obsessed with Native Americans. Right, So then she

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<v Speaker 2>like went to the school district and got funding for

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<v Speaker 2>my pen pal and like ten of her friends to

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<v Speaker 2>come to Philadelphia because none of them had ever been

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<v Speaker 2>off the reservation. So they came to Philly, right, but

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<v Speaker 2>they all had such bad shell shock because they had

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<v Speaker 2>never been off the rest animation. They all have fucking anxiety.

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<v Speaker 2>Ended up having to leave like a day or two

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<v Speaker 2>early because they were shutting down so bad. Long story, shirt,

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<v Speaker 2>I had a pen bald Like we talked for like

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<v Speaker 2>maybe a month or two after that, and then that

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<v Speaker 2>was it? That was it?

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<v Speaker 1>That was it?

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, no, what did you say? I'm not shot

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<v Speaker 2>has cut? The funk cut is Mike. That is my

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<v Speaker 2>good shot. I gets canceled. It's South Dakota. She's from

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<v Speaker 2>the suit Try. I'm so serious. Gross said, changing lives

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<v Speaker 2>one man at a time. If y'all hate me, just

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<v Speaker 2>say that, like, yeah, I don't know, Fuck you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Long story short, you know, like I said, I want

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<v Speaker 2>to see you within a month, right, that's that's the

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<v Speaker 2>long story of it. Sue tribe, Sally is wild. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's crazy. I don't even I don't. I cannot remember

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<v Speaker 2>her name. No, I don't remember her name. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>remember her name. That's crazy. But yeah, shout out to

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<v Speaker 2>one ninety nine says, what great were you in when

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<v Speaker 2>this happened? I was in sixth grade? Pop says, are

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<v Speaker 2>those binos we see the back? Yeah? Those not mine?

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<v Speaker 2>Those are shots though, those are shots. But yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>we want to see each other as that month closes.

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<v Speaker 2>Is if somebody's funds aren't right right. So that's another

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<v Speaker 2>part of the conversation. I feel like we're not having

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<v Speaker 2>We always like, well, oh what you doing long distance relationship?

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<v Speaker 2>You got long distance relationship money? Okay? Because the further

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<v Speaker 2>you are a part, the more expensive it is. I know,

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<v Speaker 2>you think, oh, well, we don't see each other all

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<v Speaker 2>the time, so you know, we don't have to spend

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<v Speaker 2>that much money on dates. But like, the money comes

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<v Speaker 2>out other ways. It comes out in plane tickets okay,

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<v Speaker 2>out in ubers to and from the airport. Okay, do

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<v Speaker 2>you got relationship money?

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<v Speaker 1>Five planes and fell out the sky and like come

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<v Speaker 1>what so Like at the end of the day, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm just saying, uh I, I don't mind being

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<v Speaker 2>in a long distant relationship, but how long before you come?

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<v Speaker 2>Sit on the edge of my bed like that foxing

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<v Speaker 2>an't mean because if it's more than a month, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>probably not to girl for you. Okay, you know I'm

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<v Speaker 2>talking about Yes, I don't like shod Outfite says the

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<v Speaker 2>chat is perfect tonight, y'all, don't fix me off please? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>all that aside. I told you all. Today's theme was

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<v Speaker 2>gonna make sense, but you know it's what I be feeling.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, mad band, Oh jo.

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<v Speaker 1>Deasy, No, I thought you said man. I was.

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<v Speaker 2>As nigga t I Grind says long distant relationships are

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<v Speaker 2>dangerous in this political climate. Hip hop vis Pop says,

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<v Speaker 2>as a person currently in a long distance relationship, I understand,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you and thank you. Uh Grind says that scretched

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<v Speaker 2>out fox, So what because I'm gonna scratch you out?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, yeah, that's what I want. Hip Hop vibes

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<v Speaker 2>Pod says, Luckily, she just wants stayed over. That's not bad.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not bad, And depending on the state, it might

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<v Speaker 2>not even long distance. Okay, if I live in if

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<v Speaker 2>I live in Philly and you live in Jersey, that

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<v Speaker 2>song this is my nigga, he said, one state over.

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<v Speaker 2>That's one state. No I'm saying it's not Oh. I

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<v Speaker 2>thought she was saying it was. No no, no no no

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<v Speaker 2>no no. I said depending on the state, because technically,

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<v Speaker 2>if I live in Philly, but you live in like,

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<v Speaker 2>what's the next one over?

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<v Speaker 1>This way?

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<v Speaker 2>Pennsylvania?

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<v Speaker 1>This way?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it Connecticut? Mm hmm, Yeah, geography is hard.

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<v Speaker 1>Is hard?

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<v Speaker 2>Dionne Smith says, forget the car fox she said, she

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<v Speaker 2>showed me the boofox tyed that grind says, and I

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<v Speaker 2>want to reciprocate that energy. You sit on the other

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<v Speaker 2>side of the bed. Fuck y'all. All right, next topic.

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<v Speaker 2>I made a post about this, and I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>it went a little bit left and niggas didn't really

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<v Speaker 2>understand what I was saying. But any man in the

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<v Speaker 2>gym right in a notebook is in his villain error.

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<v Speaker 2>I said what I said. Okay, I don't care who

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<v Speaker 2>you are, I don't care how you raise, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>care what you got going on. Any man in the

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<v Speaker 2>gym writing in a notebook is in his villain error.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay this They're not there to work, Okay, they are

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<v Speaker 2>planning something way darker. Okay. They are in the gym

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<v Speaker 2>every day trying to figure out how they gonna get revenge. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>that's it. It's just for revenge. You ain't never seen death.

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<v Speaker 2>Note no, you don't know what this is for. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Any man in the gym writing in a notebook is

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<v Speaker 2>in his villain error. Okay, baby, he don't play. Okay, Sis,

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<v Speaker 2>just worry about yourself. Leave that man alone. And I

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<v Speaker 2>mean it from the bottom of my heart because I

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<v Speaker 2>care about you. Okay, leave that man alone. Okay. He

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<v Speaker 2>is in the gym for revenge and that's it. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>The only thing he's worried about is that how you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna make all them bitches that did is wrong. Sorry, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>he don't care about nothing else. Huh, you need receipts.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I've seen nigga jos.

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<v Speaker 2>They work exactly. They are in the gym writing down

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<v Speaker 2>extensive workouts. Okay. They are strict on their p rs.

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<v Speaker 2>They are firmly focused on what they are doing. They

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<v Speaker 2>are not worried about bitches. I mean that from the

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<v Speaker 2>bottom of my heart. They are not worried about bitches.

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<v Speaker 2>They are in their villain era.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, because you brought the notebook, you ain't saying death note.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't saying this writing numbers and reps not names.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what those number and reps are for

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<v Speaker 2>each rep is for the bitches who hurt him. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>trying to tell you it is not a game. It

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<v Speaker 2>is not a game. It is not a game. He

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<v Speaker 2>uh lie day e e da a d li day

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<v Speaker 2>day says, why is everything now? Man versus woman? Are

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<v Speaker 2>you new here? I think he may be new here.

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<v Speaker 2>We like, we actually love each other over here. Every

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<v Speaker 2>once in a while we tell the joker too, this

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<v Speaker 2>is one, it said, jokes or too, but thank you,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you. Our fitz said, what's this attack about. It's

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<v Speaker 2>about what I saw. I was walking through the gym

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<v Speaker 2>and his nigga was writing in his notebook, and he

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<v Speaker 2>was so angry writing in the notebook though. I said, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>you show that bitch. No, you're gonna show that bitch

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<v Speaker 2>like I knew. I knew, I knew, I knew. When

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<v Speaker 2>I saw that man writing it, I was cheering for him, honestly.

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted him to achieve all the things that girls

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<v Speaker 2>said he couldn't. I can tell how vigorously he was

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<v Speaker 2>writing in the goddamn book. I'm bruting for you, sir,

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<v Speaker 2>I love this for you. I want Blaird seventeen on

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<v Speaker 2>one says, I can't.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying, so you just made an old story

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<v Speaker 3>about this nigga. I thought I was the only one

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<v Speaker 3>to do.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know, I mean, but did I lie?

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<v Speaker 1>You probably are.

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<v Speaker 2>How many men do you know in the gym writing

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<v Speaker 2>in a notebook that are at peace and just happy?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know because the niggas who have notebooks are

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<v Speaker 3>also like jacked, so they're usually like when they lift things,

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<v Speaker 3>they usually scream.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's kind of hard.

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<v Speaker 2>If you are in the gym writing in a notebook,

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<v Speaker 2>you were either training for a role as a superhero

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<v Speaker 2>or you're trying to figure out how to turn your

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<v Speaker 2>ex's heartbreak into a six package. There's no between you.

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<v Speaker 1>Do nothing anymore. I mean, you know, and all you

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<v Speaker 1>do is walk past the nigga right vigorously.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not lying though. I'm not lying though, That's what

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<v Speaker 2>I need to understand. I'm not lying. Yes, you wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to see this ship right here? Okay, I seen it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's real. It's real, and they mean like the same

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<v Speaker 2>niggas that be at the gym calling it therapy. No,

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<v Speaker 2>you need to talk to somebody. Gym therapy is one thing,

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<v Speaker 2>but sitting on somebody couch is another. Get on somebody zoom. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we need to figure out what's happening because you trying

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<v Speaker 2>to take over the world one bic up curl at

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<v Speaker 2>a time. It's too much. We can't handle it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we cannot. But yeah, that's that's my thoughts. Strike the villain,

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<v Speaker 2>say hey, I made it, tidy grind, say he gonna

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<v Speaker 2>kill that pussy. If you get it, then write it down,

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<v Speaker 2>don't show on twenty eight cent. I send it because

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<v Speaker 2>it's a real thing. It's a real thing, absolutely, long

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<v Speaker 2>story short. If you see a man in the gym

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<v Speaker 2>vigorously writing in a notebook, especially if he has one

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<v Speaker 2>of those skinny strap tank tops on, just work on

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<v Speaker 2>yourself sys, not him, not him, that's it. How long

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<v Speaker 2>was that shot? Boom? But yeah, like, once you get

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<v Speaker 2>a notebook, I feel like the biceps and traps just

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<v Speaker 2>come with the notebook like it's a baggage deal. But

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<v Speaker 2>all that aside. I told y'all today's theme is Diary

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<v Speaker 2>of a mad band. Shit might not go together, but

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<v Speaker 2>I be in my feeling, so here we are right.

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<v Speaker 2>The next thing I have to say, fellas I know

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<v Speaker 2>this one might put y'all on y'all tools a little bit,

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<v Speaker 2>which is hard because we're just coming off like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all in y'all notebook. But what I say is real.

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<v Speaker 2>Females might not, you know, say it often, but it

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<v Speaker 2>exists and it's real. Okay, and I want y'all to

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<v Speaker 2>just listen for a second before y'all try to chop

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<v Speaker 2>my head off. Okay, just listen for a second before

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<v Speaker 2>y'all try to shot my head off.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>The only thing worse than a deadbeat dad is a

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<v Speaker 2>dad who suddenly becomes a dad because he's trying to

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<v Speaker 2>impress a girl. I know, I know, I know, hear

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<v Speaker 2>me out though hear me out now, Fellas, y'all might

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<v Speaker 2>not know this because y'all don't see this side of

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<v Speaker 2>the fence, right unless you like men. But if you don't,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't see this side of the fence. But the

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<v Speaker 2>ladies know what I'm talking about. The only thing worse

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<v Speaker 2>than a dead beat dad is a dad who's only

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<v Speaker 2>a dad when he's trying to impress a girl. I know,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I know, Fellas, y'all don't really see this

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<v Speaker 2>part because you know what I'm saying, y'all don't like men. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>if some of you do. But fellas the only time

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<v Speaker 2>you gonna see this part is if you like men.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's just say it like that, right, But if you

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<v Speaker 2>are a man who only chooses to show up and

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<v Speaker 2>be a dad when you're trying to impress a new girl, bro,

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<v Speaker 2>do better, do fucking better, Do fucking better. Coach McGee says, huh.

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<v Speaker 2>Chevy Chris says, didn't know that was a thing. Exactly

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<v Speaker 2>if you like women, you wouldn't know what was saying, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Rasta Fuego TV says dudes are having kids to impress women.

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<v Speaker 2>That's od weird. Shrected Villain says I ain't got kids,

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<v Speaker 2>so that don't apply to me. Joe Power twelve says

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<v Speaker 2>that's pathetic as fuck. Alfie says Diary of a mad

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<v Speaker 2>Bad equals cut my life into pieces. This is not

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<v Speaker 2>my master sort. Don't don't. Don't y'all pissed me off

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<v Speaker 2>so bad. Y'all pissed me off so bad, so bad,

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<v Speaker 2>so bad, so bad. But mym Blair seventeen or one

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<v Speaker 2>says that's a thing, while Maul b Lion says I've

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<v Speaker 2>seen guys raise their step kids better than their real kids. Uh,

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<v Speaker 2>Troy Time TV sent the hand raising emojis, got city kicks,

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<v Speaker 2>says them, just in time for Father's Day, exactly, exactly,

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<v Speaker 2>exactly exactly, those same dudes that only show up for

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<v Speaker 2>their holiday on father Day's picks. These these these men exist,

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<v Speaker 2>These men exist, right, These men absolutely exist. And I

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<v Speaker 2>know you probably thinking, like, you know, well, what do

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<v Speaker 2>you mean they only trying to be a dad when

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<v Speaker 2>they're trying to impress a girl. But yes, there are

412
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<v Speaker 2>men who will become more active in their kids' lives

413
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<v Speaker 2>when they get a new girl that they are dating.

414
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<v Speaker 2>And the crazy part is I've seen dudes like you know,

415
00:24:15.839 --> 00:24:18.680
<v Speaker 2>try to be od with the fathering like you know, oh,

416
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<v Speaker 2>trying to put the baby in FaceTime and picking the

417
00:24:20.960 --> 00:24:23.680
<v Speaker 2>kid up more and me and the kid be confused, like, nigga,

418
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<v Speaker 2>you don't act like that. What's happening? What's happening? This

419
00:24:27.000 --> 00:24:29.599
<v Speaker 2>is a real thing. Like, all of a sudden, you're

420
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<v Speaker 2>trying to be the best dad ever cause you got

421
00:24:32.160 --> 00:24:35.759
<v Speaker 2>a new bitch. That's corny. That's corny, that's corney. You

422
00:24:35.759 --> 00:24:37.480
<v Speaker 2>don't want her to see all the lame shit you

423
00:24:37.599 --> 00:24:40.039
<v Speaker 2>be doing. Nah, no, let her see it.

424
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<v Speaker 1>Stank.

425
00:24:40.720 --> 00:24:42.119
<v Speaker 2>Let her see it, what she got? Comments to her,

426
00:24:42.240 --> 00:24:45.640
<v Speaker 2>she stick around, let her see it, let her see it.

427
00:24:45.880 --> 00:24:49.559
<v Speaker 2>They'll be shy, show it all, show it all, like

428
00:24:50.039 --> 00:24:53.880
<v Speaker 2>you will have men that men. It's like you'll have

429
00:24:53.960 --> 00:24:56.079
<v Speaker 2>men as soon as they start talking to a new girl.

430
00:24:56.440 --> 00:24:58.039
<v Speaker 2>Now all of a sudden, this, I want to see

431
00:24:58.079 --> 00:25:00.359
<v Speaker 2>my saw any vet nigga. Don't even see you s

432
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<v Speaker 2>son in two years? Why why you want to see

433
00:25:02.319 --> 00:25:05.839
<v Speaker 2>him now? What's happening? What's her name? What's her name?

434
00:25:06.240 --> 00:25:08.359
<v Speaker 2>What's her name? Because the only time you come around

435
00:25:08.359 --> 00:25:09.920
<v Speaker 2>on that energy is when you've got somebody new. So

436
00:25:09.920 --> 00:25:12.480
<v Speaker 2>what's her name? What's her name? Like now I'm saying

437
00:25:12.480 --> 00:25:16.119
<v Speaker 2>he bringing new toys, he's dropping off clothes, he making

438
00:25:16.160 --> 00:25:18.359
<v Speaker 2>time for photo ops. And don't get me wrong, I

439
00:25:18.400 --> 00:25:20.440
<v Speaker 2>know some of you are saying, well, at least he's

440
00:25:20.480 --> 00:25:24.359
<v Speaker 2>being a dad. At least he's showing up. At least

441
00:25:24.359 --> 00:25:28.160
<v Speaker 2>he's trying, is he or is he just showing his

442
00:25:28.240 --> 00:25:30.279
<v Speaker 2>child that it's okay for people to come in and

443
00:25:30.319 --> 00:25:33.759
<v Speaker 2>out their lives as long as they're bringing something, Because

444
00:25:33.799 --> 00:25:36.279
<v Speaker 2>that's what it shows, that's what it shows, especially if

445
00:25:36.319 --> 00:25:39.039
<v Speaker 2>he got a daughter. Is he really being a dad

446
00:25:39.160 --> 00:25:41.480
<v Speaker 2>or is he just teaching his kids that it's okay

447
00:25:41.640 --> 00:25:43.400
<v Speaker 2>for people to come in and out your life as

448
00:25:43.400 --> 00:25:47.000
<v Speaker 2>long as they're bringing you a gift, giving you money,

449
00:25:47.119 --> 00:25:50.559
<v Speaker 2>having something for you, because it goes hand in hand,

450
00:25:51.200 --> 00:25:54.119
<v Speaker 2>it goes hand in hand. Is he teaching them that

451
00:25:54.200 --> 00:25:55.759
<v Speaker 2>it's okay for a man to come in and out

452
00:25:55.799 --> 00:25:59.640
<v Speaker 2>their life as long as they're bringing gifts, because that's

453
00:25:59.640 --> 00:26:03.079
<v Speaker 2>what it is. That's what it is. All add energy

454
00:26:03.240 --> 00:26:06.720
<v Speaker 2>and da da da Okay, unless you're going down to

455
00:26:06.759 --> 00:26:09.119
<v Speaker 2>the course to try to get some custody paperwork done.

456
00:26:09.359 --> 00:26:13.279
<v Speaker 2>I don't believe you. I don't believe you. I don't

457
00:26:13.279 --> 00:26:15.920
<v Speaker 2>believe it. Don't believe it. I don't believe it. I

458
00:26:15.920 --> 00:26:19.480
<v Speaker 2>don't believe it because when he when that girl leaves,

459
00:26:19.799 --> 00:26:23.160
<v Speaker 2>do you know what's gonna happen? So will he? Okay?

460
00:26:23.440 --> 00:26:24.839
<v Speaker 2>And I know some of y'all I just want to

461
00:26:24.839 --> 00:26:27.000
<v Speaker 2>cirgle back. I know some of y'all can be like, well,

462
00:26:27.039 --> 00:26:29.440
<v Speaker 2>at least he's trying. At least he's trying to be

463
00:26:29.480 --> 00:26:33.599
<v Speaker 2>a dad, is he, though, Because when that girl leaves,

464
00:26:34.039 --> 00:26:37.279
<v Speaker 2>nine times, i'd attend the dad do too. And it's like, bro,

465
00:26:38.440 --> 00:26:41.759
<v Speaker 2>come on, as soon as that girl leaves bock them kids,

466
00:26:41.839 --> 00:26:44.079
<v Speaker 2>just like it's been the whole time before, Like.

467
00:26:44.119 --> 00:26:46.519
<v Speaker 1>Come on, talk to my dad because he left and

468
00:26:46.599 --> 00:26:47.240
<v Speaker 1>never came back.

469
00:26:48.799 --> 00:26:56.079
<v Speaker 2>Respect business. Yeah, shout out to your dad for standing

470
00:26:56.119 --> 00:27:00.279
<v Speaker 2>on business. Okay he said, he said he there got.

471
00:27:00.160 --> 00:27:02.799
<v Speaker 1>A new girlfriends. Georgia's like, that's crazy, bro.

472
00:27:02.920 --> 00:27:05.680
<v Speaker 2>Not even that. Shout out to the real dads, the

473
00:27:05.720 --> 00:27:08.160
<v Speaker 2>one that show up regardless, the one that's fighting it

474
00:27:08.240 --> 00:27:10.279
<v Speaker 2>be in their kids life. The ones that are showing

475
00:27:10.359 --> 00:27:11.880
<v Speaker 2>up day in and day out, whether they have it

476
00:27:12.000 --> 00:27:14.279
<v Speaker 2>or not, just so that their child sees them and

477
00:27:14.319 --> 00:27:16.880
<v Speaker 2>knows that they're trying. Those are the ones. I'm applaued.

478
00:27:17.079 --> 00:27:19.720
<v Speaker 2>Not you funky ass Father's Day photo op niggas, get

479
00:27:19.759 --> 00:27:22.240
<v Speaker 2>out of my face. I don't want that. I don't

480
00:27:22.240 --> 00:27:27.960
<v Speaker 2>want that. I don't want that father photo op. Yes, yes, yes,

481
00:27:28.400 --> 00:27:30.640
<v Speaker 2>not you Father's Day photo op niggas. I I don't

482
00:27:30.680 --> 00:27:32.960
<v Speaker 2>like that energy. I don't like that energy. Shout out

483
00:27:32.960 --> 00:27:34.960
<v Speaker 2>to the ones that don't let nothing come between them

484
00:27:34.960 --> 00:27:37.079
<v Speaker 2>and their legacy speak real MVPs.

485
00:27:37.240 --> 00:27:38.720
<v Speaker 3>One day went to my friend's house. Well he's not

486
00:27:38.720 --> 00:27:41.839
<v Speaker 3>my friend anymore, Jesus Christ. He was so mad, he

487
00:27:41.880 --> 00:27:44.960
<v Speaker 3>was assuming. He's like, yeah, daughter, wish me have birthdare

488
00:27:45.000 --> 00:27:47.319
<v Speaker 3>nothing blah blah blah. Well happy fathers there nothing blah

489
00:27:47.319 --> 00:27:51.920
<v Speaker 3>blah blah. I was like, you have a kid, Oh

490
00:27:51.960 --> 00:27:55.440
<v Speaker 3>my god.

491
00:27:56.279 --> 00:28:00.319
<v Speaker 2>Can you no when we go and break he passed

492
00:28:00.319 --> 00:28:06.240
<v Speaker 2>my lip cloth? Thank you? Can you bring me the

493
00:28:06.240 --> 00:28:13.480
<v Speaker 2>bag then? Okay? Oh my god, mister Chuck, what's up

494
00:28:13.519 --> 00:28:17.920
<v Speaker 2>big dog? Jerima Edward says, sole custody of mind for

495
00:28:17.960 --> 00:28:20.599
<v Speaker 2>the last twelve year. Oh he a man, I know

496
00:28:20.640 --> 00:28:25.960
<v Speaker 2>he got good snacks at his house. Don't piss me off.

497
00:28:26.799 --> 00:28:29.480
<v Speaker 2>Tyder Ground says, thank you, man, We appreciate you. Aaron

498
00:28:29.559 --> 00:28:31.640
<v Speaker 2>d Nash seven three, what's up? Aaron dy Nash? He

499
00:28:31.680 --> 00:28:36.000
<v Speaker 2>says he's trying trying to get some cucci exactly exactly.

500
00:28:36.480 --> 00:28:39.079
<v Speaker 2>Subject Matter says, what she's saying is keep that did

501
00:28:39.079 --> 00:28:41.680
<v Speaker 2>be energy, my guy, You can, you can. If you're

502
00:28:41.680 --> 00:28:43.160
<v Speaker 2>gonna go back to it anyway.

503
00:28:42.960 --> 00:28:43.880
<v Speaker 1>Why not just keep it?

504
00:28:44.119 --> 00:28:49.119
<v Speaker 2>Why switch it up? Be consistent? Outfit says sir, go

505
00:28:49.160 --> 00:28:51.160
<v Speaker 2>help that one with those kids for real before you

506
00:28:51.160 --> 00:28:57.559
<v Speaker 2>help yourself to some hot crotch. Exactly exactly. Sorry. Uh.

507
00:28:57.880 --> 00:29:00.480
<v Speaker 2>Blow by the Oh says I'm an active father and

508
00:29:00.519 --> 00:29:03.359
<v Speaker 2>I'm not a fan of dead beat on any level exactly.

509
00:29:03.599 --> 00:29:05.160
<v Speaker 2>And you know what I always wanted to know. This

510
00:29:05.240 --> 00:29:06.599
<v Speaker 2>is gonna I'm sorry, I just want to say this

511
00:29:06.599 --> 00:29:10.599
<v Speaker 2>one thing for we go to the next topic. Y'all

512
00:29:10.640 --> 00:29:12.480
<v Speaker 2>don't know that y'all friends be dead be dads? And

513
00:29:12.519 --> 00:29:16.240
<v Speaker 2>I say disrespectfully, this is a genuine question. This is

514
00:29:16.240 --> 00:29:20.000
<v Speaker 2>a genuine question. Do y'all not know that y'all friends

515
00:29:20.039 --> 00:29:23.559
<v Speaker 2>be dead beat dads? Right? Or does the thought of

516
00:29:23.599 --> 00:29:26.880
<v Speaker 2>their kids never cross your mind? Right? Because I feel like,

517
00:29:26.960 --> 00:29:28.960
<v Speaker 2>whether I was male or female, if I know my

518
00:29:29.000 --> 00:29:31.640
<v Speaker 2>friend got a kid and it's been like two three

519
00:29:31.640 --> 00:29:34.079
<v Speaker 2>weeks and I heart them, say nothing about the kid,

520
00:29:34.640 --> 00:29:37.519
<v Speaker 2>this is a red flag because whether it's good or bad,

521
00:29:37.599 --> 00:29:40.240
<v Speaker 2>your kids are always gonna do something that has to

522
00:29:40.279 --> 00:29:44.039
<v Speaker 2>come out your mouth, okay, because they just they're just

523
00:29:44.079 --> 00:29:46.279
<v Speaker 2>so special and unique. It's something where we're like, oh

524
00:29:46.359 --> 00:29:48.559
<v Speaker 2>my god, I just love them so much, or it's like,

525
00:29:48.640 --> 00:29:51.119
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I promise I just love them so much.

526
00:29:51.200 --> 00:29:53.720
<v Speaker 2>Like your kids are gonna do something that you're gonna

527
00:29:53.759 --> 00:29:56.400
<v Speaker 2>have to tell your friends. How do you know your

528
00:29:56.480 --> 00:30:02.640
<v Speaker 2>kid's father is a dead beat? And weld on, how

529
00:30:02.640 --> 00:30:05.759
<v Speaker 2>do you know your friends have like kids and their

530
00:30:05.880 --> 00:30:09.680
<v Speaker 2>dead beat like how does that work? Jay to the

531
00:30:09.839 --> 00:30:13.480
<v Speaker 2>Jones says, dead beat tanged with Dead Beats. That makes sense,

532
00:30:15.240 --> 00:30:17.759
<v Speaker 2>That makes sense? Is that what it is? Do dead

533
00:30:17.759 --> 00:30:18.359
<v Speaker 2>Beats haang with?

534
00:30:18.400 --> 00:30:23.359
<v Speaker 3>Debby told me all the ship and I ain't no homeboy.

535
00:30:27.559 --> 00:30:37.319
<v Speaker 2>Oh it's outfit, says, y'all know how much I want

536
00:30:37.319 --> 00:30:42.839
<v Speaker 2>to go to the Poconos. Oh snaps dang all right, y'all,

537
00:30:42.839 --> 00:30:44.640
<v Speaker 2>hold on, hold on, y'all know how much I want

538
00:30:44.640 --> 00:30:46.359
<v Speaker 2>to go to the Poconos and my friends this weekend

539
00:30:46.400 --> 00:30:50.000
<v Speaker 2>instead of going to my daughter's colored garden margin competition.

540
00:30:51.079 --> 00:30:54.480
<v Speaker 2>I love my weirdo lots soul. Sep and four says

541
00:30:54.759 --> 00:30:57.680
<v Speaker 2>if I haven't seen the kid, seen him with them,

542
00:30:57.880 --> 00:31:02.359
<v Speaker 2>or heard about something they together, I started asking hard questions.

543
00:31:02.640 --> 00:31:06.359
<v Speaker 2>Don Don Block says we can't chill, hang out, be friends,

544
00:31:06.440 --> 00:31:08.720
<v Speaker 2>none of that. If you got kids and don't spend

545
00:31:08.720 --> 00:31:11.599
<v Speaker 2>time with them. I love that energy. Tighty Grind says,

546
00:31:11.640 --> 00:31:14.599
<v Speaker 2>that's exactly what it is. Malby Lyon says Dead Beats

547
00:31:14.640 --> 00:31:17.359
<v Speaker 2>got all the free time in the world. Grind says,

548
00:31:17.359 --> 00:31:20.640
<v Speaker 2>because I don't know nothing, honestly, that really must be

549
00:31:20.680 --> 00:31:22.759
<v Speaker 2>what it is. Maybe dead Beats just head when they

550
00:31:22.960 --> 00:31:24.720
<v Speaker 2>hang with dead beats, and that's why. Oh you know what,

551
00:31:24.839 --> 00:31:27.640
<v Speaker 2>I take the back. Dead beats hang with dead beats,

552
00:31:28.160 --> 00:31:30.920
<v Speaker 2>or they hang with people who don't have kids, so

553
00:31:30.960 --> 00:31:33.799
<v Speaker 2>they don't notice, right, because I feel like that's the

554
00:31:33.839 --> 00:31:35.920
<v Speaker 2>only other way you wouldn't notice that they're not saying

555
00:31:36.000 --> 00:31:41.000
<v Speaker 2>something about their kids, or that they aren't with their kids.

556
00:31:39.240 --> 00:31:44.519
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, Oh my god.

557
00:31:44.599 --> 00:31:48.200
<v Speaker 2>Shot, I moved my chair down and it moved a frame.

558
00:31:49.279 --> 00:31:58.559
<v Speaker 2>It's okay now now I know. I'll just added this.

559
00:31:59.599 --> 00:32:01.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't know because hold on, hold on, y'all. I

560
00:32:01.680 --> 00:32:04.440
<v Speaker 2>gotta s thank you, mister Chock. Just border badge. Thank you,

561
00:32:04.440 --> 00:32:05.119
<v Speaker 2>hold on, y'all.

562
00:32:05.000 --> 00:32:11.039
<v Speaker 1>I just that's nice. That's a nice green.

563
00:32:13.359 --> 00:32:13.720
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

564
00:32:13.759 --> 00:32:14.359
<v Speaker 1>This is old.

565
00:32:14.480 --> 00:32:18.000
<v Speaker 2>Actually, my arms really don't fit. They really are choking hand.

566
00:32:19.160 --> 00:32:23.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying, mister Chalk brought another badge. Thank you baby,

567
00:32:23.319 --> 00:32:27.119
<v Speaker 2>Thank you baby. Tye grind says real fathers have too

568
00:32:27.119 --> 00:32:31.680
<v Speaker 2>many play dates to hang with dead beats. I just

569
00:32:31.720 --> 00:32:34.839
<v Speaker 2>get alarmed when, like if I'm dating somebody new, like

570
00:32:35.279 --> 00:32:37.640
<v Speaker 2>if you tell me you have kids, my first two

571
00:32:37.680 --> 00:32:41.880
<v Speaker 2>follow up questions are immediately, what's your arrangement and when's

572
00:32:41.920 --> 00:32:45.000
<v Speaker 2>the last time you've seen them? Okay, because a nigga

573
00:32:45.039 --> 00:32:46.759
<v Speaker 2>will be real quick to tell you, like, oh, you know,

574
00:32:47.240 --> 00:32:50.039
<v Speaker 2>I get them every weekend. I get them every other weekend.

575
00:32:50.240 --> 00:32:52.880
<v Speaker 2>We rotate holidays, and when's the last time you time?

576
00:32:53.920 --> 00:32:57.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh man, Now, as soon as your response starts with

577
00:32:57.480 --> 00:33:01.759
<v Speaker 2>a deep sigh, I'm good. Nothingk you, no thank you,

578
00:33:01.799 --> 00:33:06.440
<v Speaker 2>no thank you, I'm good. So yeah, diar a mad

579
00:33:06.559 --> 00:33:11.480
<v Speaker 2>band or onto the next topic, y'all. And you know,

580
00:33:11.519 --> 00:33:14.160
<v Speaker 2>maybe I'm just speaking for the ladies today. I feel

581
00:33:14.240 --> 00:33:17.599
<v Speaker 2>like it's a lot of stuff women be thinking, but

582
00:33:17.839 --> 00:33:21.480
<v Speaker 2>sometimes we don't articulate it in the best way. And

583
00:33:21.559 --> 00:33:23.480
<v Speaker 2>so I feel like that's what a lot of what

584
00:33:23.599 --> 00:33:29.759
<v Speaker 2>today is as well. Because this next part, Oh, it

585
00:33:29.880 --> 00:33:34.920
<v Speaker 2>burns my fucking grits. Okay, it burns my grits. Okay,

586
00:33:35.000 --> 00:33:39.960
<v Speaker 2>it grinds my gears, It burns my grits. Okay, it

587
00:33:40.000 --> 00:33:42.559
<v Speaker 2>puts not some in my panties. Okay, all of it,

588
00:33:43.039 --> 00:33:45.759
<v Speaker 2>all of it, all of it, all of it. From

589
00:33:45.799 --> 00:33:50.440
<v Speaker 2>the bottom of my heart. When I say I want

590
00:33:50.480 --> 00:33:54.680
<v Speaker 2>a man who knows how to communicate, When I say

591
00:33:55.079 --> 00:34:00.480
<v Speaker 2>communication is important to me, okay, when I say I

592
00:34:00.519 --> 00:34:03.599
<v Speaker 2>want a man who knows how to communicate, that does

593
00:34:03.680 --> 00:34:05.240
<v Speaker 2>not mean I want you to check in with me

594
00:34:05.400 --> 00:34:08.440
<v Speaker 2>every hour on the hour. Okay, baby, I don't want

595
00:34:08.440 --> 00:34:11.239
<v Speaker 2>to be your CEO. That's absolutely not what I want

596
00:34:11.280 --> 00:34:13.840
<v Speaker 2>to be. I don't want to be your parole officer.

597
00:34:14.079 --> 00:34:15.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be your wharton. I don't want

598
00:34:15.800 --> 00:34:18.400
<v Speaker 2>to be none of that. Okay. I just want you

599
00:34:18.480 --> 00:34:21.480
<v Speaker 2>to know how to communicate. That's it. You ain't got

600
00:34:21.559 --> 00:34:23.440
<v Speaker 2>to check in with me every hour. I don't need that.

601
00:34:23.920 --> 00:34:25.719
<v Speaker 2>I don't need that. I don't need you to tell

602
00:34:25.719 --> 00:34:27.639
<v Speaker 2>me you getting up going to the bathroom. I don't

603
00:34:27.679 --> 00:34:29.400
<v Speaker 2>need you to tell me you're about to run to

604
00:34:29.440 --> 00:34:31.559
<v Speaker 2>the store and get some celery. I don't need none

605
00:34:31.559 --> 00:34:35.119
<v Speaker 2>of that. I just need you to know how to communicate.

606
00:34:35.480 --> 00:34:39.440
<v Speaker 2>Like for some reason, men think when you say you

607
00:34:39.719 --> 00:34:43.159
<v Speaker 2>want somebody who knows how to communicate, you gotta let

608
00:34:43.199 --> 00:34:47.960
<v Speaker 2>me know what color your piss was, Okay, what time

609
00:34:48.119 --> 00:34:50.159
<v Speaker 2>you left out the house for the gym, and how

610
00:34:50.239 --> 00:34:53.159
<v Speaker 2>much water you drink at the gym? Okay, what time

611
00:34:53.639 --> 00:34:57.480
<v Speaker 2>you leaving for work? Okay. I don't need none of that.

612
00:34:58.280 --> 00:34:59.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't need none of that. I don't need you

613
00:34:59.880 --> 00:35:02.519
<v Speaker 2>to check in. That's not what communicate means to me.

614
00:35:02.960 --> 00:35:05.679
<v Speaker 2>I need you to be able to articulate when you're happy,

615
00:35:06.360 --> 00:35:09.639
<v Speaker 2>when you're sad. Things you like, things you don't like,

616
00:35:09.960 --> 00:35:13.119
<v Speaker 2>things I can improve on, things you appreciate from me,

617
00:35:13.559 --> 00:35:16.679
<v Speaker 2>things that mean a lot to you, things that upsets you,

618
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<v Speaker 2>things that don't rub you the right way. And I

619
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<v Speaker 2>need you to be able to communicate that without being arrogant,

620
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<v Speaker 2>without being angry, without being off putting, without being aggressive.

621
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<v Speaker 2>That's what communication means. The next time a woman tells

622
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<v Speaker 2>you she wants a girl, a guy who knows how

623
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<v Speaker 2>to communicate, seven you good? Seven seven seven's here guys also,

624
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<v Speaker 2>But the next time a woman tells you she wants

625
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<v Speaker 2>a man who knows how to communicate, please do not

626
00:35:48.079 --> 00:35:49.679
<v Speaker 2>think she wants to be your parole out for ser

627
00:35:49.800 --> 00:35:53.360
<v Speaker 2>because I promise you that's not what she means. Tyed

628
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<v Speaker 2>I grind says, this makes me feel like you're dating

629
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<v Speaker 2>in the special education spectrum.

630
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<v Speaker 1>Yo, yo, about.

631
00:36:02.239 --> 00:36:06.679
<v Speaker 2>It's not. It's not. And if you feel like this

632
00:36:06.760 --> 00:36:11.119
<v Speaker 2>sounds like I'm dating in the special education curriculum, okay,

633
00:36:12.039 --> 00:36:16.079
<v Speaker 2>go ask a woman, actual sister act your cousin asks

634
00:36:16.599 --> 00:36:19.280
<v Speaker 2>what's her experience when she tells men she wants a man,

635
00:36:19.320 --> 00:36:22.599
<v Speaker 2>who knows how to communicate automatically that processes in their

636
00:36:22.599 --> 00:36:25.440
<v Speaker 2>brain is she wants to control me, she wants to

637
00:36:25.480 --> 00:36:28.000
<v Speaker 2>restrict me. She wants to tell me what to do

638
00:36:28.039 --> 00:36:31.920
<v Speaker 2>and what I can't do. Nope, not it, not it.

639
00:36:32.639 --> 00:36:36.480
<v Speaker 2>Johnny Elva says, isn't it different though? Based on women

640
00:36:36.519 --> 00:36:42.000
<v Speaker 2>to women? No, no, no, I promise you there is

641
00:36:42.039 --> 00:36:44.960
<v Speaker 2>not one woman on this earth who says, you know

642
00:36:45.039 --> 00:36:46.920
<v Speaker 2>what I want A man who knows how to communicate,

643
00:36:47.599 --> 00:36:49.519
<v Speaker 2>which means I want you to tell me where you're going,

644
00:36:49.599 --> 00:36:51.840
<v Speaker 2>what you're going, who you're doing it with, how long

645
00:36:51.880 --> 00:36:55.039
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna be there. No, no woman wants that. Why

646
00:36:55.079 --> 00:36:58.159
<v Speaker 2>y'all think? No, that's not fun to me. That's fun

647
00:36:58.199 --> 00:37:00.679
<v Speaker 2>to y'all because it's not fun to me. It's not

648
00:37:00.719 --> 00:37:04.119
<v Speaker 2>fun to me. Lynn three three four says dating is

649
00:37:04.159 --> 00:37:07.119
<v Speaker 2>so difficult and different than it once was. What's going

650
00:37:07.159 --> 00:37:10.079
<v Speaker 2>on now? You want the truth for you want to lie?

651
00:37:10.719 --> 00:37:12.079
<v Speaker 2>You want the truth for you want to lie because

652
00:37:12.079 --> 00:37:14.039
<v Speaker 2>I can tell you, but you tell me what you

653
00:37:14.039 --> 00:37:21.039
<v Speaker 2>want to hear first. Oh thank you, Lynn, mister Chock

654
00:37:21.119 --> 00:37:24.280
<v Speaker 2>saying she may want a girl. J Night two on

655
00:37:24.360 --> 00:37:26.800
<v Speaker 2>five says, I just left the casino with a thousand

656
00:37:26.840 --> 00:37:29.039
<v Speaker 2>dollars what you want to go eat tonight? I'm cracking

657
00:37:29.639 --> 00:37:33.800
<v Speaker 2>tie diagram. Please please hold on, hold on, let me

658
00:37:33.840 --> 00:37:37.280
<v Speaker 2>scroll back down. Uh Outfie says, in return for my

659
00:37:37.320 --> 00:37:40.119
<v Speaker 2>effective communication skills, tell me what you want to eat?

660
00:37:40.119 --> 00:37:42.840
<v Speaker 2>Whoa woo woo woo boo. Too much dip on your

661
00:37:42.880 --> 00:37:48.280
<v Speaker 2>chip play you know it a lot right now. You're

662
00:37:48.280 --> 00:37:50.760
<v Speaker 2>doing a lot right now. Ain't know another thing. Since

663
00:37:50.760 --> 00:37:55.400
<v Speaker 2>we're on this topic a lot of times when we

664
00:37:55.480 --> 00:37:59.039
<v Speaker 2>say we don't know what we want to eat. For me,

665
00:37:59.239 --> 00:38:01.039
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna say for me. I'm only gonna speak for

666
00:38:01.079 --> 00:38:03.840
<v Speaker 2>myself if I say I don't know what I want

667
00:38:03.840 --> 00:38:08.280
<v Speaker 2>to eat, I'm just sick of fucking cooking. I'm sick

668
00:38:08.320 --> 00:38:11.159
<v Speaker 2>of fucking cooking. I'm so sick of cooking that I

669
00:38:11.239 --> 00:38:15.079
<v Speaker 2>don't care what I put into my body. Pauls no Diddy,

670
00:38:15.400 --> 00:38:18.719
<v Speaker 2>I don't care what I put into my mouth. Pauls

671
00:38:18.760 --> 00:38:21.920
<v Speaker 2>no Diddy. I don't care what I eat as long

672
00:38:21.920 --> 00:38:23.519
<v Speaker 2>as I don't have to cook it. I don't care

673
00:38:23.639 --> 00:38:26.159
<v Speaker 2>my picky. I'm not picky. Whatever you want, whatever you

674
00:38:26.199 --> 00:38:28.079
<v Speaker 2>want to sign with me, I'm just sick of fucking cooking.

675
00:38:28.400 --> 00:38:31.920
<v Speaker 2>As someone who cooks every goddamn day, sometimes two or

676
00:38:31.960 --> 00:38:34.719
<v Speaker 2>three times a day. I am sick of fucking cooking.

677
00:38:35.239 --> 00:38:36.880
<v Speaker 2>If a woman tells you she don't know what she

678
00:38:36.920 --> 00:38:39.079
<v Speaker 2>want to eat, maybe she's just sick of cooking, because

679
00:38:39.079 --> 00:38:41.480
<v Speaker 2>I know I am, I am, I'm done, I'm spent,

680
00:38:41.960 --> 00:38:45.440
<v Speaker 2>I am tired, I'm tired. That's Grandpa and my sum

681
00:38:45.440 --> 00:38:48.400
<v Speaker 2>me in it back like that's two dam bad. So yeah,

682
00:38:48.480 --> 00:38:52.239
<v Speaker 2>maybe she's just sick of cooking. Mister Shock says, fellas,

683
00:38:52.280 --> 00:38:54.159
<v Speaker 2>just order what you get for yourself, because she always

684
00:38:54.199 --> 00:38:56.880
<v Speaker 2>gonna reach for yours. And I'm the cheek codesby right there.

685
00:38:56.960 --> 00:38:59.800
<v Speaker 2>The cheek's codesy right there, y'all. Don't never think like yo.

686
00:38:59.840 --> 00:39:02.559
<v Speaker 2>When whenever I get fries, my girl always eat half

687
00:39:02.599 --> 00:39:04.719
<v Speaker 2>my fries. I asked her what she wanted to eat.

688
00:39:04.880 --> 00:39:07.480
<v Speaker 2>She says, she didn't know. I want fries. Let me

689
00:39:07.519 --> 00:39:09.800
<v Speaker 2>get me some fries and get her some fries too,

690
00:39:09.840 --> 00:39:11.960
<v Speaker 2>because I know she like fries. How do I know?

691
00:39:12.000 --> 00:39:16.559
<v Speaker 2>Because she usually eats all my fucking fries. No, no, no,

692
00:39:16.920 --> 00:39:17.960
<v Speaker 2>that don't make sense to y'all.

693
00:39:18.400 --> 00:39:21.519
<v Speaker 1>They don't or could say yeah, or I.

694
00:39:21.480 --> 00:39:25.639
<v Speaker 2>Can say, I'm tired of this, Grandpa, Thank you, okay,

695
00:39:26.079 --> 00:39:29.559
<v Speaker 2>thank you. Shak de Villain says, lies be cause y'all

696
00:39:29.559 --> 00:39:33.840
<v Speaker 2>shut down every suggestion. Once again, I said for me,

697
00:39:33.920 --> 00:39:38.639
<v Speaker 2>then I stand corrected for me, for me, because for me,

698
00:39:38.679 --> 00:39:42.519
<v Speaker 2>I just be sick of cooking. J Ninetewen one five says,

699
00:39:42.599 --> 00:39:44.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna bring you chicken fries, shrimp, but a side

700
00:39:44.840 --> 00:39:50.159
<v Speaker 2>of turkey. That'll fix the indecisiveness. I don't care. Sounds

701
00:39:50.199 --> 00:39:53.800
<v Speaker 2>good to me. Good to me, two plates, I said,

702
00:39:53.840 --> 00:39:56.679
<v Speaker 2>two plates. Office says, then I pull up the Chick

703
00:39:56.719 --> 00:40:00.119
<v Speaker 2>fil a. No, I don't want that, like God, damn it. Okay,

704
00:40:00.599 --> 00:40:03.400
<v Speaker 2>once again, I started this statement was I started the

705
00:40:03.400 --> 00:40:06.360
<v Speaker 2>statement with for me, maybe it's just me, Maybe it's

706
00:40:06.400 --> 00:40:07.960
<v Speaker 2>just me. I don't know. I don't know, I don't know.

707
00:40:10.880 --> 00:40:13.480
<v Speaker 2>Blarry seventeen on one says, back to what's going on

708
00:40:13.519 --> 00:40:16.000
<v Speaker 2>with dating, tell the truth and shame the devil. I'm

709
00:40:16.000 --> 00:40:16.480
<v Speaker 2>cracking up.

710
00:40:16.480 --> 00:40:19.079
<v Speaker 3>I got an answer for you. Depends on the type

711
00:40:19.079 --> 00:40:21.079
<v Speaker 3>of man. I've had men try to gas like me.

712
00:40:21.280 --> 00:40:24.400
<v Speaker 3>Either that's in being nonchalant blah blah blah. I've had

713
00:40:24.400 --> 00:40:27.119
<v Speaker 3>mess step up and do better. If that's truly him,

714
00:40:27.199 --> 00:40:29.840
<v Speaker 3>that then she has to make the decision. If that's

715
00:40:29.880 --> 00:40:31.639
<v Speaker 3>something we're talking about food.

716
00:40:32.760 --> 00:40:33.719
<v Speaker 2>Oh, what's the problem with Dave?

717
00:40:34.360 --> 00:40:37.480
<v Speaker 1>What the community want? The community?

718
00:40:37.800 --> 00:40:38.119
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

719
00:40:38.239 --> 00:40:38.960
<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay.

720
00:40:41.159 --> 00:40:45.719
<v Speaker 2>I feel like the problem with dating is a vicious circle.

721
00:40:46.280 --> 00:40:48.920
<v Speaker 2>You can start at any point in this circle, but

722
00:40:49.000 --> 00:40:51.400
<v Speaker 2>it's going to continue to go around and go around,

723
00:40:51.480 --> 00:40:53.639
<v Speaker 2>and go around and go around, and it's not going

724
00:40:53.719 --> 00:40:56.920
<v Speaker 2>to stop until majority of these problems are fixed. Okay,

725
00:40:57.119 --> 00:41:00.000
<v Speaker 2>in no particular order, but these are all like cop

726
00:41:00.400 --> 00:41:01.119
<v Speaker 2>in this circle.

727
00:41:01.320 --> 00:41:01.480
<v Speaker 1>Right.

728
00:41:02.480 --> 00:41:05.519
<v Speaker 2>Number one, social media has allowed a lot of you

729
00:41:05.880 --> 00:41:08.280
<v Speaker 2>to believe that you have access to options that you

730
00:41:08.320 --> 00:41:10.599
<v Speaker 2>don't really have access to. And a lot of people

731
00:41:10.639 --> 00:41:14.880
<v Speaker 2>will say, oh, social media, it gives you all these options. No,

732
00:41:14.960 --> 00:41:17.639
<v Speaker 2>we don't, No, we don't. No, we don't. Let me

733
00:41:17.679 --> 00:41:20.239
<v Speaker 2>tell you why. The same way you can scroll through

734
00:41:20.239 --> 00:41:25.199
<v Speaker 2>your phone and see models and fitness influences and celebrities

735
00:41:25.400 --> 00:41:27.360
<v Speaker 2>and have them all at the swipe of your finger.

736
00:41:28.280 --> 00:41:30.599
<v Speaker 2>They had that twenty years ago, but it wasn't a

737
00:41:30.639 --> 00:41:32.400
<v Speaker 2>swipe of a finger. It was a turn of a

738
00:41:32.440 --> 00:41:36.239
<v Speaker 2>page in a magazine. We've always had access to people

739
00:41:36.280 --> 00:41:40.199
<v Speaker 2>that we didn't actually have access to. Right, So now

740
00:41:40.320 --> 00:41:43.800
<v Speaker 2>you think just because you are able to DM said person,

741
00:41:44.400 --> 00:41:46.679
<v Speaker 2>you have a better chance of being what's said person.

742
00:41:46.679 --> 00:41:49.039
<v Speaker 2>But I am here to tell you that you DM

743
00:41:49.079 --> 00:41:51.960
<v Speaker 2>that person does not mean you are actually gonna get

744
00:41:52.000 --> 00:41:55.039
<v Speaker 2>to that person. Okay, if I slide in Jacob Latimore,

745
00:41:55.199 --> 00:41:58.199
<v Speaker 2>Chris Brown, Luke James DM right now, they are not

746
00:41:58.280 --> 00:42:01.320
<v Speaker 2>gonna see it. It's gonna go to they're fucking general

747
00:42:01.360 --> 00:42:03.639
<v Speaker 2>folder or what's the photo that you can't really see

748
00:42:03.639 --> 00:42:06.159
<v Speaker 2>the message requests. They are not gonna see that. It's

749
00:42:06.159 --> 00:42:09.039
<v Speaker 2>gonna go to the message request. Okay, I know because

750
00:42:09.039 --> 00:42:13.320
<v Speaker 2>I be doing it. Okay, they wanna see that shit.

751
00:42:14.880 --> 00:42:17.440
<v Speaker 2>Y'all be thinking that y'all got access to people that

752
00:42:17.519 --> 00:42:20.280
<v Speaker 2>y'all don't have access to. Back in the day, when

753
00:42:20.280 --> 00:42:23.480
<v Speaker 2>people were swiping through these magazines and writing fan mails

754
00:42:23.480 --> 00:42:26.079
<v Speaker 2>to these pee old bloxes, thinking they could actually talk

755
00:42:26.119 --> 00:42:29.199
<v Speaker 2>to these people, they couldn't. They couldn't. Just like right now,

756
00:42:29.280 --> 00:42:32.199
<v Speaker 2>you're swiping through your phone up and down your timeline

757
00:42:32.239 --> 00:42:34.239
<v Speaker 2>thinking you could talk to these people and you can't.

758
00:42:34.599 --> 00:42:38.400
<v Speaker 2>You can't. All right, that's it. It doesn't exist. Okay.

759
00:42:38.599 --> 00:42:41.559
<v Speaker 2>You didn't allow yourself to believe you have options and

760
00:42:41.679 --> 00:42:45.320
<v Speaker 2>access to people that you actually don't. That's first stop. Okay,

761
00:42:45.719 --> 00:42:50.280
<v Speaker 2>that's the first stop. That's first stop. Okay, the next stop. Okay.

762
00:42:51.400 --> 00:42:57.039
<v Speaker 2>For some reason, some of you get in relationships with

763
00:42:57.079 --> 00:43:01.199
<v Speaker 2>people that you don't actually like for a variety of reasons.

764
00:43:01.239 --> 00:43:01.599
<v Speaker 1>All right.

765
00:43:02.000 --> 00:43:05.840
<v Speaker 2>It might be because financial, It might be because you

766
00:43:05.920 --> 00:43:08.480
<v Speaker 2>didn't been around them so long. It might be because

767
00:43:08.719 --> 00:43:10.960
<v Speaker 2>society says, these are the people you are supposed to

768
00:43:10.960 --> 00:43:13.480
<v Speaker 2>be with, but you don't actually fucking like them. So

769
00:43:13.519 --> 00:43:15.800
<v Speaker 2>what you do is you end up cheating, or you

770
00:43:15.880 --> 00:43:19.320
<v Speaker 2>end up self sabotaging the relationship or not being a

771
00:43:19.360 --> 00:43:21.920
<v Speaker 2>good partner in a relationship because you don't have to

772
00:43:21.960 --> 00:43:23.840
<v Speaker 2>cheat or self sabotaze you. Then you just not show

773
00:43:23.840 --> 00:43:30.559
<v Speaker 2>what physically, mentally, emotionally, physically right. And then you fuck

774
00:43:30.639 --> 00:43:33.239
<v Speaker 2>them over. You fuck over the good guys and send

775
00:43:33.280 --> 00:43:36.679
<v Speaker 2>the good guys back into the dating pool as hurt people.

776
00:43:37.199 --> 00:43:40.760
<v Speaker 2>And you know what hurt people do? They hurt people. Okay,

777
00:43:41.199 --> 00:43:46.159
<v Speaker 2>So now this says, another fucking peg and the circle.

778
00:43:46.599 --> 00:43:50.599
<v Speaker 2>All right, another peg in the circle? Right. I think

779
00:43:50.679 --> 00:43:55.440
<v Speaker 2>another problem with dating right now is we aren't being realistic.

780
00:43:56.559 --> 00:44:00.920
<v Speaker 2>We aren't being realistic. Okay, on every front, do the

781
00:44:00.960 --> 00:44:05.840
<v Speaker 2>people you want want you, That's all I'm gonna say.

782
00:44:06.079 --> 00:44:08.599
<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna add in finances. I'm not gonna add

783
00:44:08.599 --> 00:44:11.400
<v Speaker 2>in looks. I'm not gonna add in job titles. I'm

784
00:44:11.400 --> 00:44:13.960
<v Speaker 2>not gonna add in social status. You know none of that.

785
00:44:14.440 --> 00:44:20.239
<v Speaker 2>All I'm saying is do the people you want want you? No?

786
00:44:21.559 --> 00:44:26.519
<v Speaker 2>Yes or no? M h hold on, let me scroll

787
00:44:26.559 --> 00:44:29.599
<v Speaker 2>back up, mister chock says, or you're trying to dunp

788
00:44:29.679 --> 00:44:32.800
<v Speaker 2>water from a sinking ship with a shotglass. Come on, somebody,

789
00:44:33.199 --> 00:44:37.280
<v Speaker 2>come on, somebody. Uh go City Kick says, yes you

790
00:44:37.360 --> 00:44:43.960
<v Speaker 2>can because eminem red stand letter on the album. Why

791
00:44:44.440 --> 00:44:45.880
<v Speaker 2>let me ask you a questions. Why y'all like this?

792
00:44:46.679 --> 00:44:50.599
<v Speaker 2>Why y'all like this? What happened? What happened? What happened?

793
00:44:51.400 --> 00:44:54.199
<v Speaker 2>Hold on, I'm trying to score. Back up, y'all. Uh

794
00:44:55.000 --> 00:44:58.960
<v Speaker 2>Shrafton Villain says, Stormy replay to make jokes from time

795
00:44:59.000 --> 00:45:02.519
<v Speaker 2>to time. Uh J Knight says, you don't see my shit,

796
00:45:02.639 --> 00:45:06.599
<v Speaker 2>so it's definitely true. Don't piss me off. Mister jock says,

797
00:45:06.639 --> 00:45:10.079
<v Speaker 2>social media gets you degrees of separation closer, but your

798
00:45:10.119 --> 00:45:15.840
<v Speaker 2>little DM don't ring any bells. I hate it here,

799
00:45:16.000 --> 00:45:17.719
<v Speaker 2>I fucking hate her, I forget hate her. Let me

800
00:45:17.800 --> 00:45:23.360
<v Speaker 2>go down. Hold on, outfit says, hurt people will be

801
00:45:23.519 --> 00:45:28.599
<v Speaker 2>in gym what they know, what's exactly, exactly exactly bring

802
00:45:28.639 --> 00:45:35.719
<v Speaker 2>it around. Ty Grind says that's the big one right there.

803
00:45:36.199 --> 00:45:38.639
<v Speaker 2>Lyn through three seven four says you must become what

804
00:45:38.760 --> 00:45:43.360
<v Speaker 2>you want to attract. Agree. Agree. My Bogsman five says

805
00:45:43.400 --> 00:45:45.239
<v Speaker 2>folks need to be able to tell the difference between

806
00:45:45.280 --> 00:45:48.920
<v Speaker 2>attention and intention. Everyone thinks they have all these options,

807
00:45:48.920 --> 00:45:56.079
<v Speaker 2>but they don't. They fucking don't, and they don't. They

808
00:45:56.119 --> 00:45:59.679
<v Speaker 2>really don't. On God, they don't, they don't, mister Chock says,

809
00:45:59.679 --> 00:46:07.239
<v Speaker 2>And if they don't move on.

810
00:46:04.039 --> 00:46:07.280
<v Speaker 3>On the internet, you gotta listen. You gotta watch what

811
00:46:07.280 --> 00:46:10.039
<v Speaker 3>you listen to. If you're listening to guys talk about

812
00:46:10.159 --> 00:46:12.559
<v Speaker 3>dating and I can only talk about guys. But if

813
00:46:12.559 --> 00:46:14.639
<v Speaker 3>you're listening to guys I only talk about dating, Scalli

814
00:46:14.719 --> 00:46:15.360
<v Speaker 3>wags yes.

815
00:46:15.440 --> 00:46:19.239
<v Speaker 1>And then if that's what you're going through for a vice,

816
00:46:19.280 --> 00:46:20.400
<v Speaker 1>then what do you think you're going to attrack?

817
00:46:20.679 --> 00:46:24.079
<v Speaker 2>Or you're listening to guys who tell you that women

818
00:46:24.239 --> 00:46:27.679
<v Speaker 2>are one thing, but you only see them dating the

819
00:46:27.719 --> 00:46:29.920
<v Speaker 2>type of women that they say you shouldn't have.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything good women. Yeah, I can only talk about guys.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what girls do, but they only talk

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<v Speaker 3>about scalli wag if you want to talk about scali wax.

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<v Speaker 1>And all I can assume.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that's what you have access to.

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<v Speaker 1>You.

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<v Speaker 3>I like good girls, know I like girls who put

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<v Speaker 3>snacks in my cole pocket. Then you know, like scalliwags

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<v Speaker 3>what they might, but they do it for money or ship.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm cracking up, Daddy says, I think some are

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<v Speaker 2>programmed to not like what likes us. I agree. I

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<v Speaker 2>agree on that. I agree on that.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree on that.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree on that one thousand percent, one thousand percent.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, y'all, I told you I was running late.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm running super super late, and I have another pod

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<v Speaker 2>to do, so uh listen, I'm all righty here, I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't even get to my last point. But we're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>talk about this in a little bit. I'm actually about

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<v Speaker 2>to go do another pod, so you're gonna go live again.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, my message is always gonna be the same.

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<v Speaker 2>Follow me on the gram at Stormy p p e

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<v Speaker 2>A at Chocolate, Chip and Chip And if you don't

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<v Speaker 2>remember anything else, please remember you think cities. I love you, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>go I see you next week. Peace,