Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, I'm back.
Speaker 2: With something for you to think about.
Speaker 1: What refusing to look in the mirror does to you.
Speaker 1: Let me say it again, what refusing to look in
Speaker 1: the mirror does to you?
Speaker 2: I tell you right now. Most people will point them fingers.
Speaker 1: And blame others, but they will not look in the
Speaker 1: mirror atself. Most people have gone their entire lives never
Speaker 1: looking in the mirror to be accountable and responsible for
Speaker 1: their own lives, and it is the main reason why
Speaker 1: people remain the same. You can never mentally mature if
Speaker 1: you remain the same. You can never grow in progress
Speaker 1: if you remain the same. It takes looking in the
Speaker 1: mirror at yourself and being honest. If you can't be
Speaker 1: honest with yourself, forget about trying to be that individual
Speaker 1: who pretend that you're this and that with other people, because.
Speaker 2: It won't work. You have to be honest with yourself.
Speaker 1: When you're not honest with yourself, it keeps you where
Speaker 1: you've always been, in that same negative mental state, faking
Speaker 1: in pretense. I've told you many times, it gets you nowhere.
Speaker 1: You remain stuck faking and pretending. A lot of people
Speaker 1: don't want to face that man or that woman in
Speaker 1: the mirror because of all of the negativity that they
Speaker 1: have inside.
Speaker 2: You're holding on to past pain.
Speaker 1: You're angry at people from your past, but it does
Speaker 1: not benefit you. You're unwilling to forgive. When you don't forgive,
Speaker 1: it don't hurt the other people.
Speaker 2: It hurts you.
Speaker 1: Some of you are so stubborn. I'm never gonna forgive them.
Speaker 1: It don't hurt them, Boo boo. It hurts you. It
Speaker 1: keeps you stagnant, It keeps you in the same negative
Speaker 1: state of mind. That's what I want you to understand.
Speaker 1: It does not hurt the other people. It hurts you.
Speaker 2: It hurts you. But people go through.
Speaker 1: Life and they believe that, oh, I'm holding in this pain,
Speaker 1: and they don't necessarily think of it like that, but
Speaker 1: they definitely do think I will never forgive him.
Speaker 2: I will never forgive her.
Speaker 1: Okay, you don't have to, but you hurt yourself when
Speaker 1: you don't. I challenge any person on earth to look
Speaker 1: in the mirror. Look in the mirror. If you have insecurities,
Speaker 1: look in the mirror. You have issues trusting, or you
Speaker 1: trust too much, look in the mirror. If you have
Speaker 1: hated you, look in the mirror. If you're desperate and
Speaker 1: eager for love, look in the mirror. If you can't
Speaker 1: be by yourself, look in the mirror. If you're in
Speaker 1: the same financial position that you've been in for years
Speaker 1: and years and years and years.
Speaker 2: Look in the mirror. If you're addicted to anything.
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna name particular things because the list
Speaker 1: could be endless.
Speaker 2: Look in the mirror.
Speaker 1: If you're in an abusive relationship, look in the mirror.
Speaker 2: If you feel that you're not enough, look in the mirror.
Speaker 1: If you're a person who have fallen prey to what
Speaker 1: society says about how you should look, how much you
Speaker 1: should weigh, what you should wear, the color of your skin,
Speaker 1: look in the mirror. I can go on all day,
Speaker 1: but I hope my point is clear. It's time to
Speaker 1: look in the mirror. No one can change you. I
Speaker 1: don't care how much they love you. They cannot change you.
Speaker 1: People can influence you, motivate you.
Speaker 2: I've talked about all of this.
Speaker 1: Educate you, inspire you, but they cannot change you.
Speaker 2: You have to be willing to change yourself.
Speaker 1: Most times, when people change themselves, it's for the worst.
Speaker 1: They become angry, bad, sad, suicidal, anxiety, feeled, and so on.
Speaker 1: Instead of saying, you know what, this person did this
Speaker 1: or that to me. Okay, I've gone through that. I'll
Speaker 1: never allow that to happen to me again. I'm better
Speaker 1: than that. I deserve the best. No, most people take
Speaker 1: it in that negativity and they internalize it. Think they're worthless.
Speaker 1: Think you already thought you was worthless. That's why you
Speaker 1: got into the relationship in the first place. You didn't
Speaker 1: think you deserved better. Now you feel even worse about yourself.
Speaker 1: You have to look in the mirror when you go
Speaker 1: to work and all you do is cause problems. Look
Speaker 1: in the mirror when you go to work and you
Speaker 1: allow your bosses to sexually harass and sexually assault you,
Speaker 1: Look in the mirror. Not just your bosses, anyone. Look
Speaker 1: in the mirror when you eat your feelings, meaning you
Speaker 1: eat when you're stressed. You're just a person who who
Speaker 1: use food. Look in the mirror, drugs and alcohol to cope.
Speaker 1: Look in the mirror, blaming your past, your parents, people
Speaker 1: of your past.
Speaker 2: Look in the mirror.
Speaker 1: Fearful of everything, how phobias because of what other people
Speaker 1: have said or are told you, or made you feel.
Speaker 1: Look in the mirror. When you keep generational habitual habits,
Speaker 1: look in the mirror, when.
Speaker 2: You keep living psycho in your life. Look in the mirror.
Speaker 1: Every single thing, every single thing goes back to you.
Speaker 2: It goes back to you. No matter what a person.
Speaker 1: Does to you, you play a role in it. No
Speaker 1: matter how they treated you, you played a role in it.
Speaker 1: No matter what they said to you, and you let
Speaker 1: them get away.
Speaker 2: You play the role in it. You have to look
Speaker 2: in the mirror.
Speaker 1: Every single thing goes back to you. You are the
Speaker 1: way you are because of the mindset that you have.
Speaker 1: You must look.
Speaker 2: In the mirror.
Speaker 1: I can see many things in people, but you have
Speaker 1: to look in your own mirror, just like I have
Speaker 1: to look in mind. Too many people go through life
Speaker 1: looking outward for other people and things to fix what's
Speaker 1: broken inside of them.
Speaker 2: It won't work.
Speaker 1: It has never worked. It never will work. It don't work.
Speaker 1: You have to do inside work. It's a must. Meaning
Speaker 1: you have to look in the mirror. You must look
Speaker 1: in the mirror. That's the only way change is going
Speaker 1: to occur. Blaming other people is not gonna fix what's
Speaker 1: broken inside of you.
Speaker 2: Gaining all the money in the world.
Speaker 1: It make most people, the majority of the people, worse,
Speaker 1: far worse off.
Speaker 2: Because it does not change what's inside of people.
Speaker 1: It makes them worse because they become greedy, they become mean,
Speaker 1: they become loveless, they become heartless.
Speaker 2: Because they have an abundance of things.
Speaker 1: They have money, they're not worrying about things that the
Speaker 1: average people have to endure, so they begin to think
Speaker 1: they're above reproach, and some of them are not approachable.
Speaker 1: Because money changes people who already had underlining issues. They
Speaker 1: need to look in the mirror. When people chase after anything,
Speaker 1: you need to look in the mirror to figure out why,
Speaker 1: especially when you're chasing things that are not good for you,
Speaker 1: when you're chasing people that are not.
Speaker 2: Good for you, look in the mirror.
Speaker 1: When you get into relationships with individuals who belittle you
Speaker 1: and degrade you, mistreat you, take you for granted, abuse,
Speaker 1: you look in the mirror.
Speaker 2: It starts with you.
Speaker 1: Thinking other people and other things are going to make
Speaker 1: you feel better about yourself.
Speaker 2: You are wrong. You will nine out of ten times begin.
Speaker 1: To feel worse about yourself because you went into that
Speaker 1: relationship based on how you felt, not reality, how you
Speaker 1: felt the way you wanted things to be the way
Speaker 1: they were. You missed all the signs in the red flags.
Speaker 1: That means you need to look in the mirror. You
Speaker 1: are the one who can change your life. People can
Speaker 1: affect your life, good or bad, but internal change only
Speaker 1: you can do that.
Speaker 2: You're the only person who can do that.
Speaker 1: Now, if you've been listening to me, you know, I
Speaker 1: know God could do any and everything, but I'm talking
Speaker 1: about you right now. I'm talking about you because change
Speaker 1: starts with you. Too many people looking for other individuals
Speaker 1: to change them, to say them, to fix them, when
Speaker 1: they can't even do it for themselves. How can two
Speaker 1: trauma feel people, two broken people to unheal people. Please
Speaker 1: tell me how one gonna fix the other. No, you're
Speaker 1: gonna feed off of that, each of you and and
Speaker 1: the relationship will be chaotic and drummer field.
Speaker 2: So many people look for other people to.
Speaker 1: Make them happy when they themselves are not happy. You
Speaker 1: cannot make an unhappy person happy. I don't care what
Speaker 1: you give them, I don't care what you say to them,
Speaker 1: I don't care what you do for them.
Speaker 2: You cannot make an unhappy person.
Speaker 1: Happy because that unhappiness is deep within them.
Speaker 2: You can make them.
Speaker 1: Smile and all of that temporarily, but it was ever
Speaker 1: be lasting until they're truly happy inside. I've told you
Speaker 1: many times it takes inside work.
Speaker 2: For things to work functionally.
Speaker 1: Outside because the inside is invisible, but it have visible
Speaker 1: effects in your life, which is what we see outside
Speaker 1: of the internal part of us.
Speaker 2: So until people choose to look in the mirror and
Speaker 2: who they are, who they have chosen to be, nothing changes.
Speaker 2: So many people.
Speaker 1: Live most of their lives faking and pretending to be
Speaker 1: something they know they're not, and they think that they're
Speaker 1: doing it.
Speaker 2: To just make it through the day. But all it
Speaker 2: does is keep you where you've always been mentally.
Speaker 1: It keeps you stuck in the same mindset, thinking, feeling,
Speaker 1: and acting the same. It does not benefit you when
Speaker 1: you're doing things secretly or you think it's in secret.
Speaker 2: When you're doing things.
Speaker 1: Nefariously, you know you may gain something in the process,
Speaker 1: but it does not benefit you internally. It does not
Speaker 1: take away what's broken inside of you, what needs fixed
Speaker 1: inside of you.
Speaker 2: That's what I want you to understand.
Speaker 1: You may get all the way to the top, whatever
Speaker 1: that may look like for you, but you will not
Speaker 1: enjoy it. You will display who you really are because
Speaker 1: what's inside have not changed. You must look in the mirror.
Speaker 1: Most people are so busy focused on the lives of
Speaker 1: other people, people they don't even know, but they worship
Speaker 1: these people. They'll do anything for these people that they
Speaker 1: don't even know, like celebrities, politicians, people are some status
Speaker 1: individuals will do anything for these people don't even know.
Speaker 1: They will kill still and destroy your life for these people.
Speaker 2: You need to look in the mirror. Up if you're worshiping.
Speaker 1: Another human being, you need to look in the mirror.
Speaker 1: I don't care who they are or who they think
Speaker 1: they are. You need to look in the mirror. You
Speaker 1: spend all of your time on social media, digging into
Speaker 1: the lives of other people, but yet your life is
Speaker 1: falling by the wayside.
Speaker 2: You're nelecting yourself. You have not grown at all in
Speaker 2: any way. You need to look in the mirror.
Speaker 1: I've tried to name different scenarios because it does not
Speaker 1: matter what part of the globe you're on. It does
Speaker 1: not matter who you are, the skin you're in, your looks,
Speaker 1: you're tight as your position, just that it doesn't die.
Speaker 1: Dade none of that matters. I couldn't get it out.
Speaker 1: But none of that matters because who you really are,
Speaker 1: not that person you're pretending to be, not that impostor
Speaker 1: who you really are, always, always, always, always is gonna
Speaker 1: show in some way, always gonna show somehow, you're gonna
Speaker 1: show who you really are. So the fake and the
Speaker 1: pretense does not benefit you. You may think you're getting by,
Speaker 1: and like I said, you.
Speaker 2: May obtain things in.
Speaker 1: The process, but it does not change what's inside of you, which,
Speaker 1: in other words, does not benefit you.
Speaker 2: If there's no.
Speaker 1: Change taking place internally, it's not benefiting you. What is
Speaker 1: it to gain the whole world? But you can't enjoy
Speaker 1: anything because you're still full of insecurities, don't believe in yourself.
Speaker 1: People think you're strong, they think you're so courageous and
Speaker 1: all of this, and you know yourself it's a lie.
Speaker 2: You know it's a lie.
Speaker 1: You know you have all types of insecurities. You know
Speaker 1: you don't love yourself, but you've been so put on
Speaker 1: pedestals and pumped up that you have to.
Speaker 2: Play this role that you've allowed people to put you in.
Speaker 1: That's why I tell individuals all the time, I'm not
Speaker 1: on social media platforms, and all the time people are
Speaker 1: telling me, you need to get on this platform, you
Speaker 1: need to get on that platform, blah.
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah blah blah. No I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't care about that stuff. I'm into other things.
Speaker 1: I love, love, love.
Speaker 2: My mission.
Speaker 1: My ministry is writing, singing, That's what I love. And
Speaker 1: talking that's what I love. That's my mission. That's my ministry.
Speaker 1: Everything I write, everything I speak about, everything I do
Speaker 1: is to try to help people to open their eyes
Speaker 1: and to glorify God.
Speaker 2: That's it. I don't care about nothing else. All the.
Speaker 1: Riches, and I don't care about it because I believe
Speaker 1: whatever God.
Speaker 2: Has for me is for me. Whatever door he opens
Speaker 2: for me is for me. I'm not chasing after money.
Speaker 2: I won't do it.
Speaker 1: I'm not chasing after fame. I just won't do it.
Speaker 1: You can think of me whatever you want to think.
Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't care at all because I
Speaker 1: want my life the best for me that it can be.
Speaker 1: I want to be the best that I can be,
Speaker 1: to be pleasing in the sight of God, not man.
Speaker 1: Man has nothing for me but pain and suffering. They
Speaker 1: have no heaven or hell, to put me in their
Speaker 1: needs got a bowl just like mine. So I don't
Speaker 1: give power to man. I don't care who it is.
Speaker 1: I don't give power to things. Call me plain, simple,
Speaker 1: whatever you want to. I am who I am. I'm strong, beautiful.
Speaker 1: I know who I am. I know who I am
Speaker 1: because I chose to look in the mirror.
Speaker 2: I chose healing.
Speaker 1: I chose my worth to know my worth, to know
Speaker 1: that I'm worthy and I'm valuable.
Speaker 2: I chose to open.
Speaker 1: My eyes long long ago because I've had my share.
Speaker 1: I've had my shares of ups and downs. Believe me,
Speaker 1: I have. I have been tried by the fire.
Speaker 2: But I learned.
Speaker 1: From every experience. That's the difference. And I know forgiveness
Speaker 1: is for you. You must look in the mirror. If
Speaker 1: you want to continue in life the same, so be it. It's
Speaker 1: your life. If you don't want to become better, it's
Speaker 1: your choice. I'm just giving you the information like I
Speaker 1: always do, so I'm leaving it right there.
Speaker 2: I hope I said enough. Please share, share, share much
Speaker 2: love to each and every one of you. Listen. Let
Speaker 2: me tell you this.
Speaker 1: I ask you to share, not because I'm looking for
Speaker 1: people to subscribe. Matter of fact, I didn't even know
Speaker 1: I had subscribers. And that's the god UND's truth, because
Speaker 1: I don't look at that stuff. I didn't even know
Speaker 1: that I had a few subscribers. I don't ask you
Speaker 1: to share for people to subscribe. I want people to
Speaker 1: learn something. I want people to grow. I want people
Speaker 1: to choose change. I don't care if I never give
Speaker 1: one single dollar, one penny. I want people to grow
Speaker 1: and change, learn, understand, get some wisdom and knowledge, which
Speaker 1: those are.
Speaker 2: Those two things are gifts of the spirit.
Speaker 1: All you have to do is pray for him. That's
Speaker 1: why I ask you to share. So please share. Thank
Speaker 1: you so much for listening. Much much much love. I
Speaker 1: end every episode the same, and I pray.
Speaker 2: You do it.
Speaker 1: Please for yourself, no one else, yourself, think on it.