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Speaker 1: You guys ready to help somebody out. Yeah, let's do it.

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Speaker 2: We got Kevin on the line in New Britain who

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went on a great first date and he's getting ghost

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did and he wants answers.

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Speaker 1: So let's say good morning to Kevin Ey Kevin.

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Speaker 3: Hey, good morning, Hey, Well, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna try to get some answers and find out

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why you're getting ghosted. So tell us about the first

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date you had with a girl named Emma.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean Emma was It was cool. You know,

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we had a lot of we had a lot of banster.

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Dinner was great. I'm not I'm not really sure why

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we didn't. You know, I'm getting ghosts over here.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you did you pay for the date?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 1: Did you drink? Did you drink too much?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: Okay, uh no, I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: Were you late?

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Speaker 2: I mean I was.

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Speaker 3: I was running a bit behind. I'm just uh, I

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was coming. I was coming from work.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, were you very later? You're just saying a

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little bit late. You were just rushing?

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Speaker 3: I was just rushing.

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Speaker 5: Really okay. I didn't answer any like food eating contests,

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did you? I know those are this time. You hear

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you're out on your date. Next thing you know, you're

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in the wing contest and you're up there looking like

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a sloppy.

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Speaker 1: Mess giant t bone. Yeah, no, no, okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: So and you felt a connection Kevin with Emma, Like

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you felt like there was like good, good conversation and

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you felt a connection.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought so. I thought she was cute and

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I thought it was a great time.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: Did you reach out to her, like to say hey

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and ask her for another date?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I did. I just have her back.

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Speaker 5: All right, that's enough with the questions, a lot of questions, Kevin.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna put you on hold.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna call Emma, and I'm just gonna ask her

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to be honest, You're gonna be listening in at any

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point if you want to talk to her, you can, Okay.

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Speaker 3: All right, cool, let's do it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like he needs a little more fire, a

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little more pep in his step. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I feel like if this is how he was on

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the date, like there's a lack of enthusiasm.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that was a little chill. I mean, I like

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a guy at the plays are cool but not too cool. Hello,

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hi's Emma. There. This is Hey Emma. It's Courtney, Emma,

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it's Walmart. Jeff. Hey, Emma, it's Savannah.

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Speaker 2: We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. You're on

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the radio this morning. Emma, Hi, welcome to the show.

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You're on second Date Update. Hopefully you've heard of it.

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If somebody goes on a first date, they get ghosted,

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they call us and we get answers.

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Speaker 1: You were on second date update this morning?

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, all right, yeah, I've heard of so.

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Speaker 1: Kevin called us, said, you guys went on a date.

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Speaker 2: He said, you're great, good conversation, had a lot in common.

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Speaker 1: He really wants to see you again. He's reached out

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to you, but you're ghosting him. Is there a research? Well?

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How is okay? How is the date for you?

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Speaker 4: I mean I had fun and he's definitely like a

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nice guy, like super cute, but he sort of like

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had an I don't know when I go out with someone,

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I expect him to maybe just be put together and

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he seemed a little dishoveled. I would say it's the

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word and huh I think he yeah, and he kind

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of he had he had some bo whoa whoa.

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Speaker 1: Wo Okay, so you're so that he didn't.

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Speaker 2: He looked dishoveled, like he didn't spend time getting ready

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for this date.

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Speaker 1: And then he had bo.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like it kind of looked like you just kind

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of rolled out of bed and like maybe didn't shower.

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And that was kind of off putting because I feel

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like for a first date, you should you should put

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in an effort. And if that's how he's going to

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do first date, then you know.

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Speaker 5: What if you can't love me at my worst, you

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can't love me at my best, it's date.

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Speaker 1: One you're supposed to be put before. Cannot bring him?

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Speaker 2: I want to bring him on the line. EM, Kevin's there, Kevin?

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Were you disheveled? Did you just roll out a bed?

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Speaker 3: You know what's up? EM?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I was.

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Speaker 3: I was coming from work and work in construction, so

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you know I was rushing. I know I was a

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little late, but you know, I really I made an

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effort to show up and I didn't shower and I

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may have smelled, but I wanted to be there, so

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you know, I could have really been late and showered,

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but instead of being late, I got there, you know,

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as soon as I could and it came at the

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cost of my sense, my scent.

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Speaker 1: Ken.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna ask you a question, though, just because I

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think EMA's probably maybe thinking it.

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Speaker 1: Kevin, Normally, when you have.

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Speaker 2: Time to prepare for a date, do you, you know, shower,

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put yourself together, look good, we're a little cologne, a

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nice little outfit.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I do, But this was just the circumstances didn't

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allow me to do that. So I came. I came

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straight from work, straight from my construction site.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I appreciate you not wanting to be late and show

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me and you know, stand me up or anything. I mean,

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that makes sense. I work outside too, so I wouldn't

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I wouldn't want to be on a date with me

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after being at work.

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Speaker 1: Can I just can? I?

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Speaker 2: This is what I want to do, because I feel

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like I know that you said, Kevin, you really wanted

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to see her again, and Emma you said, he's a

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great guy.

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Speaker 1: And he's really good looking.

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Speaker 2: If the only problem is he didn't look like he

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was really prepped for the date. Let's say he worked

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late and he didn't shower, whatever, would you consider going

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on another date providing Kevin, you can you know, put

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yourself together? Maybe put put put aside some time for

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the date instead of going straight from work. Hell, yeah, okay,

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you know what, Kevin, why don't you ask her out

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for another date.

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Speaker 3: Let's go out. Let's go out again, Let's go out again.

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I'll put myself together for sure. And I'm sorry again

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for that first, the first mishap, but that won't happen again.

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Speaker 4: I think, I think yeah, and you know what, I

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think we could try it again.

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 2: And Kevin, next time, if you're running late, you could

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always give her a call or a text, say hey,

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I'm gonna be a little late. I gotta jump in

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the shower real quick, and maybe she'll want stand. I mean,

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I don't like that either, but that's probably what you

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should have done.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely absolutely.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well listen, I'm gonna put you guys on

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hold because we're going to pick up the tab. If

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you guys go out again and you follow through and

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go on this second date, we're going to pay for it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, great, thank you you, thanks guys,