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<v Speaker 1>From Workhouse Connect and aj Benze.

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<v Speaker 2>Fame. Uh, he'd liked to be walked on a leash

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<v Speaker 2>and play really dirty, kinky sex games. He's uh the

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<v Speaker 2>guy put the cock in the peacock network. Okay, bitch, Hey, everybody,

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<v Speaker 2>aj Ben's are here with same as a bitch. This

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<v Speaker 2>is your daily Unfiltered podcast for December tenth, twenty twenty five.

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<v Speaker 2>One two one two oh two five twelve ten, twenty

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<v Speaker 2>twenty five. Nice and stocky. It's a good date. It's

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<v Speaker 2>a good date. Feel good about yourselves today, whatever you do.

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<v Speaker 2>You got fifteen more days to get your shit together.

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<v Speaker 2>Get the gifts, Hope your trees are up right. You

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<v Speaker 2>overwhelmed with stuff to do? I get it. We all are.

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<v Speaker 2>I get it. You know it wasn't overwhelmed last week.

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<v Speaker 2>Pamela Anderson and Liam Neeson, what was it last week? Well,

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<v Speaker 2>let's say recently, the two of them, who we know

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<v Speaker 2>starred in the Naked Gun movie, they got together and

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<v Speaker 2>she said they had an intimate week, and she did

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<v Speaker 2>say what they have as a roller coaster romance. Can

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<v Speaker 2>I tell you right now why it's a roller coaster?

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<v Speaker 2>Because she doesn't fucking wear makeup every day. Let me

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<v Speaker 2>back off. It's too early to get too hot. But

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<v Speaker 2>when I see pictures of her looking like the Swiss

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<v Speaker 2>miss Girl, the hot chop the girl, it doesn't do

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<v Speaker 2>me any good. We need to pin up back. You

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<v Speaker 2>don't have to wear all the crazy eyeshadow and mess

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<v Speaker 2>gara and fake lashes and yeah, yeah, you could tone

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<v Speaker 2>it down to be the fifty eight year old woman

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<v Speaker 2>you are. It's okay, but you don't have to keep

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<v Speaker 2>showing us what you look like when you wake up

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<v Speaker 2>in the morning. Come on, show us what you look

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<v Speaker 2>like going to bed at night. But she did tell

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<v Speaker 2>the public, if you must know, Liam and I were

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<v Speaker 2>romantically involved for a short while, but only after we

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<v Speaker 2>finished filming. I don't believe that at all. There's no

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<v Speaker 2>way they waited eight weeks to fuck get out of here. No,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a lie. It's a lie. They messed around, but

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<v Speaker 2>they did have an intimate week together at his upstate

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<v Speaker 2>New York home. You know, I gotta tell you speaking

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<v Speaker 2>of homes really quickly. Listen to a podcast today. Neil Brennan,

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<v Speaker 2>the comedian great. He's a great writer. He wrote The

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<v Speaker 2>Chappelle Show. Neil Brennan is tremendously funny. And he's got

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<v Speaker 2>a podcast called Blocked or's it Blocks? I think it's Blocks.

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<v Speaker 2>But he had Russell Peters on, the comedian who's of

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<v Speaker 2>Indian descent, and yeah, I know, Russell Peters has done

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<v Speaker 2>well for years. I never found him particularly funny whatsoever.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, not at all. I'd rather watch Dick Van

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<v Speaker 2>Dyke or Bob Hope. Russell Peters does nothing for me.

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<v Speaker 2>But the guy has made a fortune. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 2>listen to him on this podcast talk about well, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I had to sell my eight million dollar house and

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<v Speaker 2>now it's worth fifteen million. I sold my other three

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<v Speaker 2>houses because I was in a hole. My business manager

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<v Speaker 2>put me in a nine million dollar hole. I saw

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<v Speaker 2>my convertible rolls, Royce, my Lamborghini, my business. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>what the fuck. I can't tell you one funny joke

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<v Speaker 2>he ever said. But the guy's that loaded. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what these these comedians in this decade are the

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<v Speaker 2>luckiest group of people in the world because eighty five

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<v Speaker 2>percent of them are absolute average, just average. But it's

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<v Speaker 2>the day and age of arenas and tours and podcasts

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<v Speaker 2>and the money they're making and don't get me started

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<v Speaker 2>on Tim Dillon. I used to enjoy his podcast when

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<v Speaker 2>Trump was running. He was more or less pro Trump

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<v Speaker 2>and got involved in the whole thick of it with

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<v Speaker 2>other comics, other podcasters who were behind Trump, like Rogan

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<v Speaker 2>and Vaughan and always. Now he's nothing but fat, fucking gay,

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<v Speaker 2>progressive Long Island liberal and it's disgusting to hear the

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<v Speaker 2>way he speaks. I'm done with him. I'm done done

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<v Speaker 2>with Tim Dillon. Fuck him. Pam says that she and

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<v Speaker 2>Liam kept things very pcy. She had her own room

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<v Speaker 2>in his house in upstate New York. There was assistance there,

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<v Speaker 2>both there since the assistance came. Excuse me, at this

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<v Speaker 2>point in your lives, can you leave the fucking assistance?

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<v Speaker 2>Can you just let them stay home? What do you

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<v Speaker 2>need assistance for you two? You're not even forget grown ups.

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<v Speaker 2>You're you're almost well, you're elderly, Pam, you're fifty eight, Liam,

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<v Speaker 2>god knows, what is he seventy something? Stop with the assistants.

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<v Speaker 2>Just get along. But Pam said that Liam would introduce

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<v Speaker 2>her at dinner, as you know, at this little, tiny

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<v Speaker 2>French restaurant, as the future missus Niesen. She spent time

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<v Speaker 2>in his garden. She said she tended to a rose

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<v Speaker 2>bush which was overgrown with mint a kid. First of all,

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<v Speaker 2>this couldn't have happened this time of year because mint

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<v Speaker 2>is not still growing overtaking roast bushes upstate New York

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<v Speaker 2>in December. So maybe I got my timing loft. But

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure exactly when this happened. But mint is

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<v Speaker 2>not taken over. I know I've had I grew up

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<v Speaker 2>with mint in our backyard all the time. My father

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<v Speaker 2>loved to pick mint and put it in genitonics. We

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<v Speaker 2>put mint in our iced tea. We had mint. It

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<v Speaker 2>grew wild, We threw it everywhere in the yard, front yard, backyard,

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<v Speaker 2>side yard. But she said that after that week, she

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<v Speaker 2>called it a lost week. They went their separate ways

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<v Speaker 2>to work on other films, but they did connect while

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<v Speaker 2>they were promoting The Naked Gun, and they were having fun,

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<v Speaker 2>she admits. And she said she was laughing when people thought, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just a publicity's done the two and she' said no,

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<v Speaker 2>it was not. This was real. We have real feelings.

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<v Speaker 2>But now they say they're better friends. In full honesty,

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<v Speaker 2>he is such a supporter of this new trajectory in

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<v Speaker 2>my career and kindly tells me he's very proud of me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure we will always be in each other's lives.

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<v Speaker 2>That's great. I can absolutely understand that the family was

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<v Speaker 2>in my life. I wouldn't want to lose her either,

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<v Speaker 2>But I can't say it enough. I don't need to

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<v Speaker 2>see the blank palette that she keeps her face at now.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need to see it. It doesn't look good.

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<v Speaker 2>And the bangs now, I'm sorry. No. People rooted for

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<v Speaker 2>them to have more of a relationship, but pam says

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<v Speaker 2>it just never came to be anything more. I guess

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<v Speaker 2>she got tired of the heavy on bottle in his pants.

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<v Speaker 2>As it's been described to me, he does have a

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<v Speaker 2>special skill set and it begins below his belt. But

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<v Speaker 2>here's my question, how come Liam Neeson still looks like

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<v Speaker 2>Liam Neeson but Pamela Anderson looks like I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>who she looks like, but not like her. That's what

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<v Speaker 2>bothers me because I always lament the fact that she's

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<v Speaker 2>the pin up in my life more than Farah. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>Parah was amazing, but you talk about a body and

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<v Speaker 2>just a woman, you can't stop craving. It ain't Farah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's Pamela Farah, beautiful wife material. Jacqueline has meant the

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<v Speaker 2>same thing. Come on, pam Oh my god, she's the fantasy.

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<v Speaker 2>Doesn't want to be the fantasy anymore anyhow. I hate

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<v Speaker 2>to turn my horse toward a sad story. But James Vanderbeek,

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<v Speaker 2>we all know James Varsity Blues, Dawson Creek. We'd always

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<v Speaker 2>been sick with colorectal cancer. Apparently he sells a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of merchandise. Member some months back he seld merchandise, and

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<v Speaker 2>first cancer battle was merchandise from Dawson's Creek days. He

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<v Speaker 2>raised forty seven thousand dollars in change, and he teamed

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<v Speaker 2>up with some company that gave fans a chance to

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<v Speaker 2>buy his memorabilia from that show. It was a live

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<v Speaker 2>auction a few days ago. And the payday is going

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<v Speaker 2>towards his cancer treatments for stage three colorectal cancer. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't understand this because I know he was and probably

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<v Speaker 2>still is wealthy. I know he's got Screen Actors Guild insurance.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't understand what's going on, why he needs an

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<v Speaker 2>extra fifty I don't understand it. Yeah, sag after is

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<v Speaker 2>tremendous insurance. What's going on? If I'm a reporter and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm writing this story, I have to get to the

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<v Speaker 2>bottom of that. Do you not have insurance? What's happened

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<v Speaker 2>to James Van Derbeek's insurance. No one's asked that question.

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<v Speaker 2>It dries me crazy. He said, I was healthy, I

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<v Speaker 2>was doing the cold plunge. I was an amazing cardiovascular shape,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I had stage street cancer and I had

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<v Speaker 2>no idea. That's That's the worst I can't even imagine.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, A lot of us are gonna

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<v Speaker 1>come to the same kind of point in our lives,

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<v Speaker 1>the same fucking concrete wall where we might feel great,

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<v Speaker 1>might be eating well and laughing like crazy, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>that phone call.

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<v Speaker 2>Four words. We found a lump, and then the real

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<v Speaker 2>fight begins. And many of you who are listening have

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<v Speaker 2>waged that battle, and my god, I admire all of

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<v Speaker 2>you who've waged it. The price is auction. A prices

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<v Speaker 2>item at this auction was a necklace that he gave

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<v Speaker 2>to Katie Holmes on the show. It went for twenty

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<v Speaker 2>six thousand and changed. I'm not trying to make fun. Thankfully,

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<v Speaker 2>these people bought this merchandise to help him. Who the

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<v Speaker 2>fuck has spent a twenty six thousand on a necklace

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<v Speaker 2>that James Van Derbeek's character gave Katie Holmes character who

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<v Speaker 2>has that kind of money to just blow? Do you

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<v Speaker 2>think it's gonna be worth fifty grand one day, one

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<v Speaker 2>hundred grand? I don't think so. I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a stuff from his bedroom on Dobson's Creek.

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<v Speaker 2>An Et action figure went for six grand. A flower

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<v Speaker 2>little shirt he wore went for twenty three hundred. Now, look,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't understand it, and maybe I'll find out soon enough.

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<v Speaker 2>It's got six kids. This poor bastard has six kids

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<v Speaker 2>from fourteen to three years old. That breaks my heart.

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<v Speaker 2>And he said he was storing these treasures for years,

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<v Speaker 2>waiting for the right time to do something with them.

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<v Speaker 2>And with all the recent unexpected twists and turns that

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<v Speaker 2>life has presented, it's clear that the tide is now.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very sad. I got to get to the bottom

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<v Speaker 2>of it. It's so hard to watch him and other

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<v Speaker 2>people go through this hell. And the other one that

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<v Speaker 2>kills me is Eric Dane. That you know what, never

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<v Speaker 2>a big fan of Gray's Anatomy where he played big steamy,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, but I do like his acting. He's good

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<v Speaker 2>on eph you. Now, this poor guy is sitting in

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<v Speaker 2>a wheelchair with suffering from als only has the use

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<v Speaker 2>of one arm now, and on top of that, his

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<v Speaker 2>ex wife Rebecca Gayheart, somehow or another, has landed the

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<v Speaker 2>billionaire co founder of the hard Rock Cafe, Peter Morton,

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<v Speaker 2>who's a spry seventy eight years old. I'm just gonna

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<v Speaker 2>round it off to eighty. I like to round up.

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<v Speaker 2>He's fucking eighty. She's fifty four, and you know, here's

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<v Speaker 2>her ex and they're close, they're tight, they got two daughters.

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<v Speaker 2>He's locked into a wheelchair using one fucking arm, and

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<v Speaker 2>she's out there in public making out, making out in

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<v Speaker 2>Beverly Hills last week with this octogenarian. That's gotta suck.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're Eric Dane, I know he wants the best

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<v Speaker 2>for her and the kids, of course, But I'm a man, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't fathom losing the life inside me. You lose

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<v Speaker 2>your looks, your mobility, the fact that you can no

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<v Speaker 2>longer work, only to see your wife making out with

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<v Speaker 2>an eighty year old billionaire that has to suck somewhere

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<v Speaker 2>deep in a man's heart. I don't care what you

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<v Speaker 2>tell me. I was a perfectly able bodied man in

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<v Speaker 2>my late thirties doing mysteries and scandals at the Knickerbocker hotel.

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<v Speaker 2>We were doing. The show was the death of the

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<v Speaker 2>model cup of Chin, who I think jumped from a

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<v Speaker 2>Knickerbocker and she was there for a day or two

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<v Speaker 2>before they found her. And I remember, I'm in the

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<v Speaker 2>law because I was in between shoots, and I just

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<v Speaker 2>pick up a magazine and I see Kara and Donald

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<v Speaker 2>Trump at some fucking Halloween party. He's wearing a flannel shirt,

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<v Speaker 2>she's wearing a sexy dress, and I just it destroyed me.

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<v Speaker 2>And here I am very able bodied, plenty of women

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<v Speaker 2>around me, but it killed me. If you're Eric Dane

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<v Speaker 2>and you can't move your body, you're one fiftieth of

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<v Speaker 2>the man who used to be. You don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>see pictures of your ex wife making out with a

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<v Speaker 2>fucking billionaire. Come on, Rebecca, don't don't save that for

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<v Speaker 2>inside the walls of a home. Don't do it in public.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's bullshit. These two had been together for

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<v Speaker 2>two years, gay Heart and Morton. They went to the

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<v Speaker 2>Battalian drunk Ebaldi. That's where you go to be seen.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sick of people doing shit like this and acting

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<v Speaker 3>We didn't know he'd be caught by Papa Rozzie. They

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<v Speaker 3>always hang out of Eat Baldy, Spago, Craigs Nobu. There's

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<v Speaker 3>said full makeout session.

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<v Speaker 2>That bothers me. They're still legally married, still legally married,

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<v Speaker 2>but of course they dismissed their pending divorce last year

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<v Speaker 2>weeks before he revealed he had als, which makes sense because, look,

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<v Speaker 2>there's money at stake. Just in case the love affair

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<v Speaker 2>with the octogenarian boyfriend doesn't work out. Rebecca is going

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<v Speaker 2>to need some dope, right who knows. Look, I'm sure

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<v Speaker 2>Eric is fine with that whole thing, because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you can't take your money with you and she is

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<v Speaker 2>gonna raise your daughters. And the other side of the

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<v Speaker 2>coin is it's probably better my daughters have a man

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<v Speaker 2>in their lives that have has money for days and days.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't have to worry about shit, So you know

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<v Speaker 2>it's better she's not with some crackhead on the corner,

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<v Speaker 2>but still it hurts. Guy's gotta use a wheelchair just

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<v Speaker 2>you know, the last role he played with somebody with als.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't do that two or three times. It's over.

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<v Speaker 2>It's done, he's done. We're gonna wait for him to

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<v Speaker 2>die like Christina Applegate. It's it's it's not good. The

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<v Speaker 2>only good news about this is that the two of them,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess they can stay a good graces together, want

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<v Speaker 2>the best for each other, and that you know that

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<v Speaker 2>makes sense. Look like last night, had the wife and

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<v Speaker 2>the kids come over. Well, wife and roxy come by

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<v Speaker 2>to finish decorating the tree. I threw it up the

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<v Speaker 2>other day, but you know it needed a woman's touch.

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<v Speaker 2>You know I love doing the tree, but you know

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have the same energy I used to as

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<v Speaker 2>a kid. It needed more, more stuff, and she came

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<v Speaker 2>and made it look better. I cooked for everybody, made

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<v Speaker 2>a bunch of fried chicken, string beans with pistachio nuts, butter,

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<v Speaker 2>homemade garlic, mashed potatoes, cressingh cressing buns. What do you

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<v Speaker 2>call those fucking things? You know, you know it was

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<v Speaker 2>a nice, fun dinner. We all laughed. It was fun,

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<v Speaker 2>lots of laughs, reminiscing cracking jokes. I even made a

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<v Speaker 2>joke that, look, I'm gonna go to Chicago, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>in a week or so, and maybe it'll be the

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<v Speaker 2>first Christmas in years that there won't be a huge

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<v Speaker 2>fight between us, because there's always a huge fight with

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<v Speaker 2>me and Chris. I think it's because my mom, dad.

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<v Speaker 2>I just the holiday gets to me. Always drama with me.

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<v Speaker 2>It's my fault always, you know. Two years ago was

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<v Speaker 2>maybe it was three years ago. Yeah, three years ago

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<v Speaker 2>Jackie dragging my luggage outside of his apartment in the rain,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, my laptop and there my podcast equipment. He

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<v Speaker 2>was mad at me. I had to drive to his

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<v Speaker 2>place to get it and fight with him in the street.

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<v Speaker 2>Two years ago, outside the fucking motel. My wife came

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<v Speaker 2>by with roxy and exchanged gifts. I put a little

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<v Speaker 2>tree up in a motel room, some lights around the room,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, to the best I could to make it christmasy.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, my anger got the best alcohol field

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<v Speaker 2>of course, and she bought me a nice pan to

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<v Speaker 2>cook with. But I was so upset because I wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>able to cook so I did that. The sight of

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<v Speaker 2>a pan made me insane, Like why would I need

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<v Speaker 2>a pan if I live in a fucking motel. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not her fault. In fact, she's probably thinking, well, you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna get out of here soon and cook again. But

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<v Speaker 2>I just felt like, I don't want to see a

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<v Speaker 2>fucking pan. Why you can buy me a heavy bag.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't do nothing with that either, And I got

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<v Speaker 2>mad and I threw it and it was a whole

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<v Speaker 2>fucking thing. But you know, last night we laughed about it.

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<v Speaker 2>We did. We laughed about things. We laugh about hardships.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the best way to get over things. That's the

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<v Speaker 2>way I've always been, you know, the other day we're

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<v Speaker 2>not there every day. Every day I take rock a home.

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<v Speaker 2>We get off the highway Metnia Boulevard in the one seventy,

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<v Speaker 2>and there's always a guy. Could look. You could tell

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<v Speaker 2>the guy was a good looking in his day. He's

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<v Speaker 2>probably maybe seventy. Baby, he's on his ass, he's got

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<v Speaker 2>a walker, he's homeless. It's just the same. And I've

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<v Speaker 2>talked to him a few times. I always, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>have rocco. Hear me talk to these guys. Get this

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<v Speaker 2>story what happened to you? And I want him to

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<v Speaker 2>understand how life can just quickly change for some people.

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<v Speaker 2>This guy's not a drug addict, he's not that kind

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<v Speaker 2>of person. He just his life went to shit. His

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<v Speaker 2>wife died, he lost his business. It's a terrible story.

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<v Speaker 2>I always give him a buck. And I said to Rocco,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it's a hard thing, you know, these people homelessness.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, some people have springs in their brain that break.

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<v Speaker 2>Some people go through horrible situations in life, they lose

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<v Speaker 2>all their money. It just depends. But you know, it's

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<v Speaker 2>you have to imagine what it's like to be homeless.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was a beat in the car and Rocco said, well,

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<v Speaker 2>we kind of know what that's like. And I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you're right, we do. We've been there. You're right. See

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<v Speaker 2>we laugh about it. We even laughed about it last night.

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<v Speaker 2>That's part of our journey. Speaking of Vanderbeek selling off memorabilia,

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<v Speaker 2>did I tell you this guy? Did I tell you this?

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<v Speaker 2>A couple of days ago. I'm losing track because I

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<v Speaker 2>can't follow the Patreon show on the Patreon app, so

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<v Speaker 2>losing track, but I wanted to mention about memorabilia. Many

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<v Speaker 2>many years ago, my uncle Sal was a He worked

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<v Speaker 2>on the Ann Sullivan Show. He was a cameraman. He

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<v Speaker 2>was there when the Beatles performed in nineteen sixty four,

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<v Speaker 2>February ninth, nineteen sixty four. I was not even two

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<v Speaker 2>years old yet. But there was a shot sheet. In

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<v Speaker 2>other words, all the people performing on the show that day,

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<v Speaker 2>what commercials were running. In fact, I do remember telling

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<v Speaker 2>you this. The point is this Frank Gorshen, there was

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<v Speaker 2>a comedy duo, all this kind of shit, and my

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<v Speaker 2>uncle Sal got the four Beatles to sign the back

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<v Speaker 2>of that shot He gave it to me. Well, it

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<v Speaker 2>ended up in my possession. I don't even know he

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<v Speaker 2>just he gave it to me. Put it in a

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<v Speaker 2>jewelry box. And many years later, when I was in

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<v Speaker 2>my twenties, my friend's brother, Ronnie's brother Glenn, was a crackhead,

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<v Speaker 2>robbed us, burglarized our home, i should say, and emptied

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<v Speaker 2>that jewelry box into a pillowcase. He didn't know there

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<v Speaker 2>was a sheet of paper with the four Beetles signature

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<v Speaker 2>on there on the back of an Ed Sullivan shot sheet.

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<v Speaker 2>I looked it up. One of my patrons told me.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not gonna want to know what that's worth if

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<v Speaker 2>you still had it. It's between a half a million

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<v Speaker 2>and a million dollars. Not even forget about when McCartney

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<v Speaker 2>and Ringo Starr died. God knows what that would have

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<v Speaker 2>been worth then, But it ended up in the garbage.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a blown fortune. Oh my god. Why my mother

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<v Speaker 2>and father didn't say, let's put this in a security box.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't have this flying around because we didn't understand money.

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<v Speaker 2>We just didn't understand the value of things like that. Unbelievable. Yeah, so,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I mean the whole memorabilia thing. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>really understand that. I made jokes about somebody buy the

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<v Speaker 2>costume for the movie l for three hundred and nineteen

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<v Speaker 2>thousand the other day. I just don't get what these

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<v Speaker 2>people are doing. But you know, God bless them. They

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<v Speaker 2>think that they there's a big Actually, there was a

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<v Speaker 2>big wall on the Ed Sullivan Show that some guy

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<v Speaker 2>and the crew would have all these guests assigned the wall.

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<v Speaker 2>I used to sign Joan Rivers wall. A lot of

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<v Speaker 2>TV shows have a wall you sign and it's like

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<v Speaker 2>four foot by two foot plastic wall. And this guy

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<v Speaker 2>collected it. He has it. God knows what he paid,

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<v Speaker 2>but the Beatles are on there. So many names are

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<v Speaker 2>on there, that's going to be a fortune anyhow. Earlier

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<v Speaker 2>today on the Relationships Is Ave Me, Mike and Arena

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<v Speaker 2>talked about Tallis Swift and Travis Kelsey, the fact that

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<v Speaker 2>the two of them have never had an argument. He

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<v Speaker 2>says it over two years since they've been together. And

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<v Speaker 2>I can believe that because they both had very busy lives.

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<v Speaker 2>She was on an international tour making a billion dollars,

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<v Speaker 2>also in the studio putting out another album. He was

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<v Speaker 2>winning super Bowls. Not this year, though, because everything I

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<v Speaker 2>said has come true. I said they'd fall apart. I said,

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<v Speaker 2>mahomes have turned this shit, and I said Travis Kelsey

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<v Speaker 2>will never be the man who used to be. And

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<v Speaker 2>last week, oh my god boy, he bobbled the past.

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<v Speaker 2>I would have put them in position to win. And

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<v Speaker 2>by bobbling it, it was intercepted Casey Law. They now

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<v Speaker 2>have a record of six wins and seven losses and

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<v Speaker 2>they're in great peril of making the postseason. But if

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Travis Kelsey, I'm telling my girlfriend you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't care that Selena Gomez came Selena even though there's

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<v Speaker 2>a dwarf for the family tree. She can look sexy sometimes.

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<v Speaker 2>But don't bring Lena Dunham. We don't need Lena Donham

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<v Speaker 2>in the skybox. No one wants to see her. Why

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<v Speaker 2>bring Lena Dunham. The point is this, with these two,

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<v Speaker 2>Travis and Taylor the inside word, there is supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>be this big wedding in the off season. You've heard

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<v Speaker 2>about it. They secured the hole in Rhode Island. They're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna Taylor's fixing up her backyard to be magnificent, a

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<v Speaker 2>million bucks worth of landscaping and flowers and it's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be crazy. But uh ire, things are a little tough now,

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<v Speaker 2>which makes sense when you're planning a wedding, especially a

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<v Speaker 2>wedding with a woman like her. She's got definite opinions.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, she's been thinking of this wedding since she's

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<v Speaker 2>five years old. Okay, there's no doubt that she didn't

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<v Speaker 2>think of a wedding until she was twenty eighth. No,

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<v Speaker 2>this is a five year old girl who's now about

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<v Speaker 2>to have her perfect wedding to her football hero, and

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<v Speaker 2>things are not well. There's been some problems. There's financial

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<v Speaker 2>negotiations I've heard behind the scenes that have been pretty

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<v Speaker 2>cold hearted. The word is that, believe it or not,

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<v Speaker 2>Travis doesn't want to end his career on this shitty

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<v Speaker 2>year and may want to play one more year and

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<v Speaker 2>then get into broadcasting, which is a cushy job like

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<v Speaker 2>Tony Romo had, like Tom Brady has. She doesn't want

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<v Speaker 2>him to do that, any of it. She's against him

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<v Speaker 2>playing again, and she even against the whole broadcasting thing,

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<v Speaker 2>which I don't understand. What does she want him to do?

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<v Speaker 2>Just carry her bags while she tours the world. That

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't seem pretty, that doesn't seem cool. But here we go,

410
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<v Speaker 2>Here we go. There's gonna be some problems before these

411
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<v Speaker 2>two well, let's put it this way. My spody sense

412
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<v Speaker 2>says there will be issues until their wedding day and

413
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<v Speaker 2>once they're married. I'm not saying they'll break up. This

414
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<v Speaker 2>is gonna be a good wedding, a good marriage for

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<v Speaker 2>a while, but there's gonna be some bullshit leading up

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<v Speaker 2>to it. And we're gonna have a ringside seat. That's

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<v Speaker 2>all I'm waiting for. Not that I want it to fail.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't. I think she's she's absolutely climbed up the

419
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<v Speaker 2>charts in my uh, in my opinion about her looks

420
00:28:52.240 --> 00:28:55.920
<v Speaker 2>and her sexuality. She stopped being like a teeny bopper

421
00:28:56.000 --> 00:28:58.759
<v Speaker 2>sing and shake it off, and now there's like some

422
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<v Speaker 2>depth and I don't I just think she's, if I

423
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<v Speaker 2>could be blunt, she's getting laid right and she's become

424
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<v Speaker 2>this woman that she wasn't before. So I'm not rooting

425
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<v Speaker 2>against them, but I do think there's gonna be some issues,

426
00:29:14.039 --> 00:29:24.400
<v Speaker 2>and there are some right now. Speaking of issues, don't

427
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<v Speaker 2>don't be surprised if things get really ugly between Ariana

428
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<v Speaker 2>Grande and her former ginger head boyfriend Ethan Slater that

429
00:29:35.799 --> 00:29:40.079
<v Speaker 2>he looks like a guard gnome. I mean, well, she's adorable,

430
00:29:40.119 --> 00:29:42.759
<v Speaker 2>but we all know that she needs about twenty five

431
00:29:42.799 --> 00:29:46.440
<v Speaker 2>pounds on her frame. But otherwise she's adorable. Her voice

432
00:29:46.480 --> 00:29:49.759
<v Speaker 2>is amazing, she's comedic. I like her a lot, but

433
00:29:49.920 --> 00:29:53.400
<v Speaker 2>not the way she looks now, it's alarming. I think

434
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<v Speaker 2>Cynthia Revo, her Wicked co star, has really gotten into her.

435
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<v Speaker 2>And I think Cynthia Revo had a lot to do

436
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<v Speaker 2>with pushing her toward dumping this ginger boyfriend of hers

437
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<v Speaker 2>and this is a weird. This is tough because this guy,

438
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<v Speaker 2>the Ariana Grande, busted up his marriage and now I'm

439
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<v Speaker 2>sure his ex wife is laughing about this situation because

440
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<v Speaker 2>she's not gonna take him back. And I don't know

441
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<v Speaker 2>how many girls are on his ledger who's waiting to

442
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<v Speaker 2>be with him. I don't see him being that kind

443
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<v Speaker 2>of guy. I think a Revo is so overprotective of

444
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<v Speaker 2>Ariana Grande that, at the slightest mention of any kind

445
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<v Speaker 2>of dissension in her relationship with Ethan Slater. I think

446
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<v Speaker 2>a Revo in her LGBTQ manner when ape shit and

447
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<v Speaker 2>made sure that ended. It's my feeling. It's not based

448
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<v Speaker 2>on anything I've read or a fact. It's just my

449
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<v Speaker 2>gut and I want to end this show on something

450
00:31:00.119 --> 00:31:03.880
<v Speaker 2>I heard that's I was laughing so hard the other

451
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<v Speaker 2>morning when I had no sleep. I listened to the

452
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<v Speaker 2>smartlest podcast What's his Name, Dak Shepherd's podcast Armchair Expert,

453
00:31:15.160 --> 00:31:18.519
<v Speaker 2>and finally Colin O'Brien needs a Fred and he had

454
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<v Speaker 2>Will Arnett on who I Love Will, And that's one

455
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<v Speaker 2>of the three hosts of SmartLess. I love that show.

456
00:31:25.519 --> 00:31:28.960
<v Speaker 2>I love our net car his sense of humor kills me.

457
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<v Speaker 2>And he's on this season. This new movie coming out

458
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<v Speaker 2>Cohol is this thing on with Laura Dern that I

459
00:31:34.839 --> 00:31:39.720
<v Speaker 2>hear is like really great. He wrote it. It's supposed

460
00:31:39.759 --> 00:31:42.799
<v Speaker 2>to be tremendous. I'm looking forward to seeing that. But

461
00:31:44.240 --> 00:31:48.839
<v Speaker 2>I wanted to tell you what. I laughed like hell

462
00:31:48.960 --> 00:31:51.440
<v Speaker 2>at and I could not go. I couldn't get any

463
00:31:51.440 --> 00:31:55.200
<v Speaker 2>shut out. It was just too funny. A lot of

464
00:31:55.240 --> 00:32:00.000
<v Speaker 2>people deal with grief in different ways. A lot of people,

465
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<v Speaker 2>including myself and buddies of mine, we have dealt with

466
00:32:04.240 --> 00:32:07.680
<v Speaker 2>the grief we felt that our parents have died or

467
00:32:07.839 --> 00:32:11.440
<v Speaker 2>people close to us with making each other laugh and

468
00:32:11.519 --> 00:32:16.039
<v Speaker 2>saying very inappropriate things that the funerals we attended. I

469
00:32:16.119 --> 00:32:19.680
<v Speaker 2>told you what my buddy Mike Gallagher Godzilla had said

470
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<v Speaker 2>when my father was dead and my cousin Raymond came,

471
00:32:23.440 --> 00:32:26.440
<v Speaker 2>who was like an old hippie from Vietnam with a

472
00:32:26.480 --> 00:32:30.279
<v Speaker 2>long beard, long hit like Duck Dynasty and you know,

473
00:32:30.359 --> 00:32:34.720
<v Speaker 2>and Godzilla was like, we were very very sad, desponded.

474
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<v Speaker 2>My father's there in the casket, and Mike came over

475
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<v Speaker 2>to me and said, it's good to see the grateful dead.

476
00:32:41.359 --> 00:32:45.079
<v Speaker 2>Came to see your dad's a funeral, you're just shit

477
00:32:45.240 --> 00:32:49.640
<v Speaker 2>like that, Well, you can't help it. Laugh. My brother

478
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<v Speaker 2>in law, Jack got the giggles at my mother's funeral

479
00:32:53.000 --> 00:32:57.799
<v Speaker 2>because the person talking, the pastor priest whatever, had like

480
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<v Speaker 2>a list and he kept calling a Willian instead of

481
00:33:02.079 --> 00:33:06.799
<v Speaker 2>Lillian Willian and Jack couldn't handle it, so he left

482
00:33:06.799 --> 00:33:10.000
<v Speaker 2>the church laughing. But people thought he was hysterical crying.

483
00:33:10.400 --> 00:33:15.920
<v Speaker 2>He wasn't We all handle grief differently. So Colin O'Brien

484
00:33:16.039 --> 00:33:18.440
<v Speaker 2>lost two parents of the span of two or three

485
00:33:18.519 --> 00:33:25.240
<v Speaker 2>days last year, horrible. There's always been a thing between

486
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<v Speaker 2>Colin O'Brien and the other host of Smartness who love

487
00:33:31.680 --> 00:33:35.039
<v Speaker 2>his acting, Jason Bateman. Those two have a thing. It's

488
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<v Speaker 2>a made up thing that they don't like each other.

489
00:33:38.319 --> 00:33:41.359
<v Speaker 2>It's a thing they've concocted that It's been very funny.

490
00:33:41.920 --> 00:33:46.720
<v Speaker 2>It all happened because of Look, there's two big Christmas

491
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<v Speaker 2>parties in Hollywood, Aniston Jennifer Aniston's and Colin O'Brien's. They're

492
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<v Speaker 2>very well attended affairs, and Bateman is best friends with Aniston,

493
00:33:55.200 --> 00:33:58.160
<v Speaker 2>so he typically goes there and doesn't go to O'Brien's.

494
00:33:58.480 --> 00:34:01.240
<v Speaker 2>But guys like well, Onnette, we'll go to both houses.

495
00:34:01.839 --> 00:34:04.839
<v Speaker 2>Bateman for two years didn't do it, even though Colin

496
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<v Speaker 2>invited him, and the third and fourth year Coen stopped

497
00:34:08.719 --> 00:34:12.280
<v Speaker 2>inviting them. And that's where the rift is. It's friendly,

498
00:34:12.400 --> 00:34:18.760
<v Speaker 2>but it's funny. So this is how brilliant it is

499
00:34:18.800 --> 00:34:22.599
<v Speaker 2>to be to just have a handful of guys you

500
00:34:22.679 --> 00:34:26.039
<v Speaker 2>could just be fucking great friends with and nothing gets

501
00:34:26.079 --> 00:34:28.400
<v Speaker 2>in the way of a laugh because you'll love each

502
00:34:28.440 --> 00:34:32.320
<v Speaker 2>other that much. This reminds you of things that we did.

503
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<v Speaker 2>You know, my buddy Gate Kevin would call me and

504
00:34:36.039 --> 00:34:39.280
<v Speaker 2>all seriousness, go, how do you get a five year

505
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<v Speaker 2>old's handprints off your bed sheets? I had so much

506
00:34:42.039 --> 00:34:45.519
<v Speaker 2>peanut butter and jelly on my pillowcases. This kid won't leave.

507
00:34:45.960 --> 00:34:49.480
<v Speaker 2>Just pedophile jokes, stupid shit that if anybody heard it,

508
00:34:50.320 --> 00:34:52.000
<v Speaker 2>and I have friends who've heard it and go, you

509
00:34:52.000 --> 00:34:54.760
<v Speaker 2>guys are sick. I'm like, that's what we do. We

510
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<v Speaker 2>just we say the worst things to each other. Anyhow,

511
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<v Speaker 2>his father dies first, Conan is up in Boston. Will

512
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<v Speaker 2>on that text them a day or two later and says,

513
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<v Speaker 2>sorry about your dad, sending you love from my family

514
00:35:12.440 --> 00:35:18.079
<v Speaker 2>to yours. Conan texts back thank you. Will to be honest,

515
00:35:18.239 --> 00:35:25.079
<v Speaker 2>I blame Bateman and will on That writes back, it's

516
00:35:25.119 --> 00:35:30.639
<v Speaker 2>not a terrible theory. Conan writes back, he killed my dad.

517
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<v Speaker 2>This is a day after his father's death, and an

518
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<v Speaker 2>old fantas Colin O'Brien said, my mother and father would

519
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<v Speaker 2>have loved this kind of shit, and I understand it.

520
00:35:43.280 --> 00:35:48.639
<v Speaker 2>I'm from those people. The next day, Jason Bateman since

521
00:35:48.800 --> 00:35:52.519
<v Speaker 2>Colin O'Brien a text and says, our Nette tells me

522
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<v Speaker 2>you're on to me and Coenan says, Bateman, do yourself

523
00:35:57.360 --> 00:36:02.800
<v Speaker 2>a favor and turn yourself in. Two days after that,

524
00:36:03.719 --> 00:36:07.800
<v Speaker 2>Conan's mother dies very unexpectedly. No one knew what was

525
00:36:07.840 --> 00:36:12.519
<v Speaker 2>gonna happen. Will or Not sends him another text and

526
00:36:12.679 --> 00:36:16.159
<v Speaker 2>says in a text, Bateman is asking for your sister's

527
00:36:16.480 --> 00:36:20.159
<v Speaker 2>street address. Is it okay to give it? Come on?

528
00:36:21.000 --> 00:36:24.880
<v Speaker 2>Conan writes back, oh, just seeing this now, six twenty

529
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<v Speaker 2>five Boston Tree Department twelve, and tell Bateman to make

530
00:36:28.320 --> 00:36:32.000
<v Speaker 2>it look like a robbery. I can't see. To me,

531
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<v Speaker 2>that is such huge love between friends, because a big

532
00:36:39.320 --> 00:36:43.559
<v Speaker 2>driving force in Colin O'Brien's life was making his parents laugh.

533
00:36:44.199 --> 00:36:47.599
<v Speaker 2>A big force in my life was the fact that

534
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<v Speaker 2>my mother and father told me you could do anything

535
00:36:50.159 --> 00:36:53.079
<v Speaker 2>you want, and I set out to do just that.

536
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<v Speaker 2>And that's why Conan got into comedy. That's why I

537
00:36:57.880 --> 00:37:01.719
<v Speaker 2>got into what I got into, you know. And it

538
00:37:01.800 --> 00:37:05.280
<v Speaker 2>got to a point where when his parents died, he thought,

539
00:37:06.159 --> 00:37:08.840
<v Speaker 2>am I gonna still want to do comedy after my

540
00:37:09.000 --> 00:37:13.000
<v Speaker 2>parents are gone? But of course he does. It just

541
00:37:13.079 --> 00:37:18.519
<v Speaker 2>takes a different shape. I mean, look, it's just the

542
00:37:18.559 --> 00:37:21.440
<v Speaker 2>way people handle things, like I gotta be honest with you.

543
00:37:21.519 --> 00:37:25.679
<v Speaker 2>To this day, Jack, who we all love, my brother

544
00:37:25.719 --> 00:37:28.760
<v Speaker 2>in law, we all love him. The guy's pretty much better,

545
00:37:28.800 --> 00:37:32.320
<v Speaker 2>and he'll come downstairs maybe once a day, but he

546
00:37:32.440 --> 00:37:38.239
<v Speaker 2>spends his day and night in bed. And sometimes they'll

547
00:37:38.280 --> 00:37:40.960
<v Speaker 2>say shit to Roselie and it's aggravating because he can't

548
00:37:40.960 --> 00:37:43.079
<v Speaker 2>do anything. He's in bed. It's been a couple of

549
00:37:43.119 --> 00:37:46.719
<v Speaker 2>years now, and you know, it's just Roselee is a dynamo.

550
00:37:46.880 --> 00:37:50.480
<v Speaker 2>She's working, she's doing, she's cleaning, she's cooking, and he'll

551
00:37:50.519 --> 00:37:53.840
<v Speaker 2>say things that just hiss her off. And she'll come

552
00:37:53.880 --> 00:37:56.639
<v Speaker 2>down the stairs and look at me with this anger

553
00:37:56.679 --> 00:38:01.480
<v Speaker 2>and her face and say, he's fucking driving me fucking crazy,

554
00:38:02.800 --> 00:38:07.039
<v Speaker 2>and I would say sometimes, you know what, a little

555
00:38:07.079 --> 00:38:10.599
<v Speaker 2>olive oil on the top step at night the troubles

556
00:38:10.599 --> 00:38:14.039
<v Speaker 2>are over, think about it. I'm downstairs. Let me know

557
00:38:14.079 --> 00:38:17.480
<v Speaker 2>if you're gonna handle it. Will we ever do it? No?

558
00:38:18.000 --> 00:38:22.719
<v Speaker 2>But we laugh. That's how we cope. When you laugh

559
00:38:23.840 --> 00:38:29.440
<v Speaker 2>amid heavy sorrow, it's not only normal, it's I think

560
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<v Speaker 2>it's very powerful. I think it's a powerful way to

561
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<v Speaker 2>heal because grief, those of us who have felt it,

562
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<v Speaker 2>and I'm sure all of us have, it's very complex.

563
00:38:41.400 --> 00:38:45.159
<v Speaker 2>Grief is a grief comes at you at all angles.

564
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<v Speaker 2>It's it's multifaceted bullshit, it really is. It's not just

565
00:38:49.679 --> 00:38:53.960
<v Speaker 2>being sad. It's a rollercoaster of feelings that you get angry,

566
00:38:54.199 --> 00:38:57.719
<v Speaker 2>you feel guilty, you feel regret, sometimes you feel relief,

567
00:38:58.199 --> 00:39:03.239
<v Speaker 2>sometimes you feel joy and laugh there just because you're laughing.

568
00:39:03.280 --> 00:39:05.239
<v Speaker 2>It doesn't administer the fact that you love the person

569
00:39:05.360 --> 00:39:10.800
<v Speaker 2>you lost. It's just the way it is. It's they're

570
00:39:10.800 --> 00:39:18.639
<v Speaker 2>a testament to the way those people around them can

571
00:39:18.960 --> 00:39:22.840
<v Speaker 2>still live and be resilient even though they're gone. It's

572
00:39:22.880 --> 00:39:28.679
<v Speaker 2>what we need to do to stay strong. So you know,

573
00:39:30.119 --> 00:39:33.880
<v Speaker 2>heavy time of year, you know we've all gone through loss,

574
00:39:34.280 --> 00:39:39.599
<v Speaker 2>you know mine, I know some of yours, especially this

575
00:39:39.679 --> 00:39:43.400
<v Speaker 2>time of year, Allow yourself to laugh without feeling guilty.

576
00:39:43.960 --> 00:39:47.159
<v Speaker 2>You have to do that. It doesn't mean you're over it.

577
00:39:47.159 --> 00:39:50.239
<v Speaker 2>It doesn't mean you don't care. It means you're trying

578
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<v Speaker 2>to take care of yourself while you deal with this nonsense.

579
00:39:56.039 --> 00:40:01.320
<v Speaker 2>There's an old Indian proverb that goes, I saw grief

580
00:40:01.599 --> 00:40:05.800
<v Speaker 2>drinking a cup of sorrow and cold out. It tastes sweet,

581
00:40:06.239 --> 00:40:11.039
<v Speaker 2>doesn't it? And grief answered, you caught me, and now

582
00:40:11.079 --> 00:40:14.840
<v Speaker 2>you've ruined my business. How can I sell sorrow when

583
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<v Speaker 2>you know it's sometimes a blessing? It certainly can be,

584
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<v Speaker 2>even though it's impossible to imagine it. But when you're there,

585
00:40:26.679 --> 00:40:30.519
<v Speaker 2>when you're going through it, you know what I mean.

586
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<v Speaker 2>And I guess that's what I want to impart on

587
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<v Speaker 2>you folks before I split for the night and regroup

588
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<v Speaker 2>and talk to you guys tomorrow. But hopefully you're out

589
00:40:44.760 --> 00:40:49.960
<v Speaker 2>there doing your shopping, getting shit done and keeping your

590
00:40:50.039 --> 00:40:52.840
<v Speaker 2>chin up. It's a rough time a year. It's a

591
00:40:52.880 --> 00:40:54.679
<v Speaker 2>happy time a year, but a rough time of year.

592
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<v Speaker 2>So my heart's with all you guys. I know yours

593
00:40:57.840 --> 00:41:01.239
<v Speaker 2>is with mine as well, So that's it. That's your show.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't forget. By the way, there's still time to get

595
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<v Speaker 2>an Eric Javits hat. I just did that. I just

596
00:41:08.480 --> 00:41:10.800
<v Speaker 2>went from grief and sorrow to Eric Javit. Why not?

597
00:41:11.719 --> 00:41:15.000
<v Speaker 2>Why not? You guys have broken records with buying these hats.

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<v Speaker 2>Eric Chavitz dot com, E R I C. Jav I

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<v Speaker 2>t S dot com. The hats are gorgeous. They're usually

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<v Speaker 2>twenty percent off to forty percent off, plus you get

601
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<v Speaker 2>another twenty percent off with my promo code fame. You

602
00:41:32.159 --> 00:41:34.480
<v Speaker 2>got two weeks left. What are we talking about? Yeah,

603
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<v Speaker 2>get some fucking hats. They're gorgeous. Erik Chavitz dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it, Gaang, I'm aj Benson. That was your daily

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<v Speaker 2>on The Filtered Podcast for December tenth, twenty twenty five.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk to us tomorrow.