1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: All right, you guys, are you ready for second date updates? Yeah, 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:03,240 let's do it. 3 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:06,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, We've got Ashley on the line from Windsor Locks. 4 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:07,919 Ashley went on a great first date with a guy 5 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,160 named Derek and wants to know why she's getting ghosted. 6 00:00:10,199 --> 00:00:12,839 Speaker 1: Hey, Ashley, Hi, Hey. 7 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. I hope we can get you 8 00:00:14,439 --> 00:00:17,039 some answers. Tell us about this great first date you 9 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:17,440 went on. 10 00:00:17,879 --> 00:00:21,559 Speaker 3: Sure, his name is Derek, Okay, and we went to 11 00:00:22,199 --> 00:00:23,640 a brewery. 12 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:26,199 Speaker 4: Together, nice cue. 13 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:31,199 Speaker 3: It was good. We had beer, we talked the whole time, 14 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:35,000 and then afterwards we went pumpkin picking too. 15 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:38,079 Speaker 1: Perfect time of year, Like you went to a pumpkin patch. 16 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm so into like the fall, into pumpkin picking, 17 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:48,799 into all the Halloween events, like I'm here for it. 18 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 1: Okay, So it sounds like it was a great first date. 19 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, absolutely. I had so much fun. And then afterwards, 20 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:59,280 you know, I was being polite. I wanted to reach 21 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:01,320 out to him to just thank him for such a 22 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:01,719 good time. 23 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:03,359 Speaker 1: Okay. 24 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've just I've been ghosted. 25 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:06,239 Speaker 1: Okay. 26 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,879 Speaker 2: So that's you did reach out to him, you thanked 27 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:12,000 him for the date, and he has not responded. 28 00:01:12,079 --> 00:01:12,799 Speaker 1: Is that what's going on. 29 00:01:13,519 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 3: That's pretty much it. Okay, it's the weirdest thing, like 30 00:01:17,159 --> 00:01:18,599 we had really the best time. 31 00:01:19,599 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 5: Question question you mentioned doing fall things you guys didn't 32 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:24,920 go on, like a haunted hay ride or anything, right, 33 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:26,640 like did he get scared and like he's feeling a 34 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:27,239 shame that you. 35 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:32,079 Speaker 3: Know, yeah, you go right, and no, it's nothing like that. Okay, 36 00:01:32,159 --> 00:01:33,480 literally just a pumpkin patch. 37 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 2: Okay, less, all right, let's calm. I'm gonna put you 38 00:01:35,799 --> 00:01:38,480 on hold, Ashley. You're gonna be listening in. I'm gonna 39 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:40,840 ask Derek just to be honest and tell us how 40 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:42,560 he thought the date went, and then you can talk 41 00:01:42,599 --> 00:01:43,439 to him at any point. 42 00:01:43,439 --> 00:01:44,719 Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, thank you. 43 00:01:45,159 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 5: It sounds like a great sounds like a great first 44 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:49,840 date to make I know, it sounds like so cute, 45 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:51,159 like something I do with my friends. 46 00:01:51,799 --> 00:01:53,519 Speaker 1: Oh maybe maybe that's the problem. 47 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 5: It was too frenzy. He felt like he was one 48 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:59,239 of the girls, like drinking beer. Instagram photos you know, 49 00:01:59,400 --> 00:01:59,799 could be. 50 00:02:01,079 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 1: Hi, is Derek there? 51 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey Derek, it's Courtney, Derek. 52 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: It's Walmart chef. Hey Derek, it's Savannah. 53 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:11,039 Speaker 2: We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. You're on 54 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:12,240 the radio this morning, Derek. 55 00:02:13,199 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 4: Oh boy, Okay, how's it going, guys? 56 00:02:15,479 --> 00:02:17,599 Speaker 6: It's good I win something. 57 00:02:18,199 --> 00:02:21,039 Speaker 2: Well, you won the chance to be on second date update. 58 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:25,639 That's what you won this morning, Derek. Okay, so well 59 00:02:25,719 --> 00:02:28,560 obviously by that, by that sound, you know what it is. 60 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:30,560 You went on somebody went on a first date with you, 61 00:02:30,599 --> 00:02:32,240 and now you're ghosting them. And I'm just gonna go 62 00:02:32,319 --> 00:02:34,240 straight up and say it. Ashley said she had a 63 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:37,280 great date with you, brewery, pumpkin patch. 64 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 1: She reached out to you, and you're ghosting her. 65 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, what's the what's the reason? 66 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: Why was the date not? She told us? What did 67 00:02:46,879 --> 00:02:48,599 she say? It was like the perfect date or the 68 00:02:48,599 --> 00:02:51,960 best date or a I don't know. Yeah, I wasn't listening. 69 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:54,400 It was basically a really cute fall kind of date. 70 00:02:54,439 --> 00:02:57,240 It was like her was a dream date, a dream day. 71 00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:58,080 There it is. 72 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 5: There you go, Jeff, Was it a dream date for you? 73 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:04,039 Speaker 6: No? I mean I planned it and I wanted it 74 00:03:04,039 --> 00:03:06,000 to be a good date, and I was hoping it would. 75 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:09,639 But I I really should have probably I should have 76 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:11,400 been more upfront and I should have just seen the. 77 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 4: Red flags, you know, along the way. 78 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 6: She was she was pretty rude to the staff and 79 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:19,759 short with them. 80 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: Okay, at the brewery or the pumpkin patch. 81 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:27,360 Speaker 6: At the brewery, Yeah, And I think it's a it's 82 00:03:27,439 --> 00:03:29,719 a really a not not a great sign when you 83 00:03:29,759 --> 00:03:33,240 see someone rude to service workers. And uh, that was 84 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:36,960 that was not great. She just complained about just everything. 85 00:03:37,159 --> 00:03:39,479 Speaker 4: I mean, complained about the beer. 86 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,639 Speaker 6: You know, nothing was good enough for her. And we 87 00:03:43,759 --> 00:03:46,719 went to the pumpkin patch and I swear to God, 88 00:03:46,759 --> 00:03:48,759 no pumpkin was good enough for her. It's like she 89 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,639 would literally just go down the line picking up, looking 90 00:03:51,639 --> 00:03:52,560 at each pumpkin. 91 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:56,159 Speaker 4: Saying nope, nope, nope. You know, she was so perfectionist. 92 00:03:56,159 --> 00:03:59,560 She actually she got so annoyed she like threw a 93 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:02,199 pumpkin out of anger, like a little one. 94 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,039 Speaker 1: So on a date, she actually threw a pumpkin. 95 00:04:06,039 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, I picked it up and like threw it across 96 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:11,080 like the thing. It was. I was like, She's like, 97 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:12,919 this one the stem is too long, this one of 98 00:04:12,919 --> 00:04:14,520 the stems too effing short. 99 00:04:14,599 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 2: You know. 100 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:19,639 Speaker 6: I was like, it just was not I wanted it 101 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:23,600 to be fun, but okay, it was it really wasn't. 102 00:04:23,639 --> 00:04:26,639 Speaker 2: I'm gonna put but she's listening in Ashley, did you 103 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:29,079 throw a pumpkin like out of anger? 104 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:33,399 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, look like if something feels uncomfortable for 105 00:04:33,439 --> 00:04:36,680 me or if I don't like the service, I'm gonna 106 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:40,519 say it like. I was polite the whole time. I 107 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:44,279 know I am a perfectionist. Okay, I'm not gonna deny that, 108 00:04:44,439 --> 00:04:48,680 but there's no reason for somebody not to. 109 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 6: Call me back. 110 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:53,879 Speaker 3: I was very friendly to you, Derek. I didn't do 111 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:54,399 anything wrong. 112 00:04:54,439 --> 00:04:57,079 Speaker 4: No, you you you were, you were friendly to me. 113 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 6: It's just that you know, you say you were polite 114 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:01,680 to the stem and everything. It's like, it's not what 115 00:05:01,759 --> 00:05:05,000 you say, it's how you say it sometimes. And you 116 00:05:05,079 --> 00:05:09,519 were you were very short with people, generally speaking, anyone 117 00:05:09,519 --> 00:05:10,360 in your field division. 118 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:11,759 Speaker 4: That wasn't me. I mean, you were, you were, you 119 00:05:11,759 --> 00:05:13,360 were nice enough with me, but. 120 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 6: It was just very very much a turn off and 121 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:22,000 nothing everything was It was a comment, a complaint the pumpkins. 122 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 4: I mean, my god, pick a pumpkin. 123 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:30,319 Speaker 6: I truly, Oh my god, it was I don't know, 124 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:32,000 it was just not my speed. 125 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. 126 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:33,399 Speaker 4: I'm sorry. 127 00:05:33,399 --> 00:05:35,759 Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm so I can't even believe that this 128 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,800 is happening right now. I didn't even I didn't even 129 00:05:38,959 --> 00:05:41,519 like what you were wearing on the date. I should 130 00:05:41,519 --> 00:05:42,160 have told you that. 131 00:05:42,319 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 6: Oh, probably the only thing that she didn't make a 132 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:47,360 comment about was my outfit. Probably it would have been 133 00:05:47,399 --> 00:05:49,439 the only thing she didn't have a complaint about until now. 134 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:50,079 Speaker 4: There you go. 135 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 1: Here's the deal, Ashley. 136 00:05:51,759 --> 00:05:53,720 Speaker 2: You now you know, and I mean you may not 137 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:57,000 agree with them, but Derek, basically I says that you 138 00:05:57,079 --> 00:05:59,480 were rude to the staff. He should have saw the 139 00:05:59,519 --> 00:06:03,439 red flag. Nothing was good enough. All you do is complain, Ashley. 140 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:06,199 You think it's just your perfectionists. You want what you want. 141 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:06,759 I got it. 142 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:08,600 Speaker 1: Hold on, don't forget the airborne pumpkin. 143 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, and you tossed and you through a pumpkin that 144 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:12,519 poor Gord had to die for no reason. 145 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,720 Speaker 1: All right, well, listen, guys, it's okay. Listen. We got 146 00:06:16,759 --> 00:06:17,439 to the bottom of it. 147 00:06:17,519 --> 00:06:17,639 Speaker 3: Now. 148 00:06:17,639 --> 00:06:20,199 Speaker 1: At least you've got answers and you know what's going on. 149 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:24,879 So I listen. I wish you guys the best out there, and. 150 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 2: Keep us posted on on your dating journeys. 151 00:06:29,399 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 4: Thank you, guys. 152 00:06:31,519 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 6: Okay, Oh my god, are you kidding me? 153 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:35,519 Speaker 4: Oh my god.