WEBVTT 1 00:00:15.759 --> 00:00:18.800 Turn that off right now? You're not allowing to watch 2 00:00:19.239 --> 00:00:21.079 Instagram videos? Well, we're about to do a show. 3 00:00:21.440 --> 00:00:23.359 Why because do you like my hat? 4 00:00:23.480 --> 00:00:25.960 He refuses to start engaging with the show until it's 5 00:00:25.960 --> 00:00:27.440 actually already happened. 6 00:00:27.760 --> 00:00:29.960 Or until the topic turns to him. 7 00:00:30.440 --> 00:00:33.399 No, he just like he's still on break more until 8 00:00:33.399 --> 00:00:35.560 like five seconds after we were already started. 9 00:00:36.479 --> 00:00:38.280 Hi, Eric Grimmer, what do you want? 10 00:00:38.439 --> 00:00:38.479 So? 11 00:00:38.920 --> 00:00:42.479 Why are you so mad? I mean this week should 12 00:00:42.520 --> 00:00:45.039 be like happy? I love you too, and I do 13 00:00:45.200 --> 00:00:45.759 love your hat? 14 00:00:46.000 --> 00:00:46.320 Thanks? 15 00:00:46.560 --> 00:00:47.759 Do you wear that out? 16 00:00:47.920 --> 00:00:48.960 And about sure? 17 00:00:49.200 --> 00:00:51.759 Or just for the show just to let you know 18 00:00:51.799 --> 00:00:56.719 how things are. Well, I'm sorry for you about that. 19 00:00:57.960 --> 00:01:01.079 I'm Laura Kane. This is Laura Kane. After Dark producer 20 00:01:01.119 --> 00:01:05.760 Brian runs. Everything he does, he does his best and 21 00:01:05.760 --> 00:01:10.840 he does a great job. And today tonight, whenever you're 22 00:01:10.879 --> 00:01:14.640 listening or watching, we are going to focus on being 23 00:01:14.799 --> 00:01:24.280 single in San Diego. Because my roommate number one Marie, 24 00:01:24.719 --> 00:01:30.079 my roommate number two Antonio, the three of us are single. 25 00:01:31.719 --> 00:01:37.439 So we did a thing this weekend where it was 26 00:01:37.480 --> 00:01:42.840 like speed dating, but it wasn't. It was something a 27 00:01:42.920 --> 00:01:47.239 little different. And you have to buy tickets. I think 28 00:01:47.239 --> 00:01:51.040 they're like nineteen bucks apiece, and it was at a 29 00:01:51.079 --> 00:01:55.760 brewery and it was like a meet and greet sort 30 00:01:55.760 --> 00:01:59.760 of dating thing, something out of the box. We decided, 31 00:01:59.799 --> 00:02:02.799 all three of us we went together to experience it. 32 00:02:03.680 --> 00:02:06.840 And I met the woman who is the marketing person 33 00:02:06.920 --> 00:02:11.319 for this place, for this company called Jigsaw, and they 34 00:02:11.360 --> 00:02:14.439 put on a bunch of events for singles all throughout 35 00:02:14.479 --> 00:02:17.039 the year. And so we're going to talk to her 36 00:02:17.599 --> 00:02:20.560 and interview her. But I wanted to give you some 37 00:02:20.680 --> 00:02:23.159 stats about singles in San Diego. 38 00:02:23.240 --> 00:02:24.960 Oh boy, they're all depressed. 39 00:02:25.520 --> 00:02:26.639 They're all very lonely. 40 00:02:26.919 --> 00:02:27.960 Do I seem depressed? 41 00:02:28.080 --> 00:02:29.000 Yeah? 42 00:02:29.159 --> 00:02:30.719 Do I no? 43 00:02:30.919 --> 00:02:31.599 Deep down? 44 00:02:33.599 --> 00:02:36.719 Deep down? Well I am on antidepressant. So there's that. 45 00:02:37.520 --> 00:02:38.159 So there is. 46 00:02:39.400 --> 00:02:42.639 So you're right, but I one of those things requires 47 00:02:42.639 --> 00:02:43.000 the other. 48 00:02:45.800 --> 00:02:47.919 The only reason is because they put them on that. 49 00:02:48.000 --> 00:02:50.159 They put me on them when I was in rehab. 50 00:02:51.800 --> 00:02:55.240 And my philosophy is I'm just going to keep taking 51 00:02:55.280 --> 00:03:00.439 them because I'm too afraid to see what happens if 52 00:03:00.439 --> 00:03:02.000 I go off of them. So why not. That's what 53 00:03:02.039 --> 00:03:03.000 they're for, a big deal. 54 00:03:03.400 --> 00:03:06.520 Okay, I'm calling on that. Okay, whatever. 55 00:03:06.960 --> 00:03:13.439 Anyway, So in San Diego County currently there are four 56 00:03:14.000 --> 00:03:17.719 hundred and thirty three thousand and seventy four single women. 57 00:03:18.719 --> 00:03:21.879 Sounds a little ass from the internet. I looked up 58 00:03:21.879 --> 00:03:22.319 who knows? 59 00:03:22.360 --> 00:03:24.719 Oh, okay, so we know it's the best available information. 60 00:03:25.000 --> 00:03:26.680 This is the information I just got. 61 00:03:26.520 --> 00:03:28.080 On the site of your sources, Laura. 62 00:03:28.800 --> 00:03:33.560 Fifty two percent of the two point five million people 63 00:03:33.759 --> 00:03:37.439 twenty years and older in San Diego County are unmarried. 64 00:03:38.080 --> 00:03:40.080 Doesn't mean they're single, but they're unmarried. 65 00:03:40.400 --> 00:03:44.039 Fifty two percent of the two point five millions. 66 00:03:43.319 --> 00:03:48.360 People who are above twenty and older okay in the 67 00:03:48.400 --> 00:03:54.479 county are unmarried. Okay, fifty one point one percent of 68 00:03:54.520 --> 00:03:56.360 those are men, so it's very even. 69 00:03:56.639 --> 00:03:59.680 Wait, so half of all adults are single in San Diego. 70 00:04:02.719 --> 00:04:04.560 I don't know, I just wrote down. I don't. 71 00:04:04.879 --> 00:04:07.719 Okay, anyways, continue don't confuse me. 72 00:04:09.719 --> 00:04:13.479 So there are many ways to not be single. There 73 00:04:13.479 --> 00:04:16.959 are many dating apps. I've tried many of them, including 74 00:04:17.720 --> 00:04:20.680 sugar Daddy ones. We won't go back into that. It 75 00:04:20.759 --> 00:04:22.800 was many, many years ago when I was work a 76 00:04:22.839 --> 00:04:29.839 lot more stupid than I am now. I've tried bumble, 77 00:04:29.920 --> 00:04:33.839 I've tried plenty of fish, I've tried hinge, I've tried 78 00:04:35.040 --> 00:04:38.079 e harmony, I even did that way back in like 79 00:04:38.160 --> 00:04:40.439 two thousand and eight, because I thought that would be 80 00:04:40.439 --> 00:04:42.120 the best one because you have to fill out like 81 00:04:42.240 --> 00:04:46.079 pages upon pages upon pages of things about your personality and. 82 00:04:46.040 --> 00:04:48.319 You were desperate, and. 83 00:04:48.160 --> 00:04:49.680 I thought it was the best one. 84 00:04:49.959 --> 00:04:54.560 Because what's the one that the the women say hi 85 00:04:54.639 --> 00:04:56.040 to the men and every time he said hi to 86 00:04:56.120 --> 00:04:57.199 guyd'd send you a dick peck? 87 00:04:57.920 --> 00:05:01.360 What bumble hinjs? Are you talk about one where the 88 00:05:01.399 --> 00:05:03.519 chicks had the message first or. 89 00:05:03.480 --> 00:05:05.519 Are you just talking about well, every single it seemed 90 00:05:05.519 --> 00:05:07.920 like every single time she messaged the guy and said hi, 91 00:05:08.360 --> 00:05:11.319 they did oh it was hook up. They didn't even 92 00:05:11.360 --> 00:05:13.439 say hello, they just sent a dick pic. Yeah, and 93 00:05:13.480 --> 00:05:15.480 then she would be like, oh my god, she'd send 94 00:05:15.519 --> 00:05:16.959 it to me and I'd make it into it like 95 00:05:17.000 --> 00:05:19.439 a lollipop or be careful with that. 96 00:05:20.279 --> 00:05:22.319 You know what you should do because he covers them 97 00:05:22.399 --> 00:05:24.480 up so well with his artistic drawings. 98 00:05:24.720 --> 00:05:27.639 We cannot show it now, you can't tell it. No, 99 00:05:27.800 --> 00:05:29.519 we can't show it. That's illegal. 100 00:05:29.759 --> 00:05:33.040 I would really love to show, like do a gallery art. 101 00:05:33.360 --> 00:05:34.199 No, it's so illegal. 102 00:05:34.240 --> 00:05:37.079 We cannot do that. Don't ever show anyone that stuff. 103 00:05:37.079 --> 00:05:37.759 It's so illegal. 104 00:05:37.839 --> 00:05:39.560 Well, I haven't gotten a dick pick in a long time. 105 00:05:39.600 --> 00:05:42.360 But actually I shouldn't even have said that because I don't. 106 00:05:42.040 --> 00:05:44.079 I really know they're not really going to get a bunch. 107 00:05:44.720 --> 00:05:49.240 So this company is called Jigsaw Dating San Diego and 108 00:05:49.279 --> 00:05:53.360 they have happy hours they where they play games. The 109 00:05:53.399 --> 00:05:56.199 game that we played was like a Bingo and and 110 00:05:56.240 --> 00:05:58.800 you had to go around and like mingle with people 111 00:05:59.000 --> 00:06:02.279 and then ask the questquestions on this bingo sheet and 112 00:06:02.639 --> 00:06:04.120 you had to write down the name of the person 113 00:06:04.120 --> 00:06:06.399 that answered it and then if you got bingo, I 114 00:06:06.399 --> 00:06:06.759 don't know. 115 00:06:07.360 --> 00:06:09.439 It was my god, I want to create one of 116 00:06:09.439 --> 00:06:14.759 those Bengo sheets. The questions like what kind of questions? 117 00:06:14.759 --> 00:06:15.680 Really a horrible one? 118 00:06:15.800 --> 00:06:18.399 Yes, have you ever had chlamydia? Oh? 119 00:06:18.480 --> 00:06:19.000 My god? 120 00:06:19.240 --> 00:06:20.560 Like do you like anal? 121 00:06:21.759 --> 00:06:27.399 So I pulled the woman who is the marketing person 122 00:06:27.519 --> 00:06:29.879 for Jigsaw, and I pulled her aside and I did 123 00:06:29.879 --> 00:06:31.480 a little interview and I said, would you be on 124 00:06:31.519 --> 00:06:36.879 our show to talk about this company and the different 125 00:06:36.879 --> 00:06:40.120 ones that you represent in dating in San Diego and 126 00:06:40.160 --> 00:06:42.519 being single in San Diego in general, And she said, 127 00:06:42.560 --> 00:06:45.519 of course. So we're going to call this number right now. 128 00:06:45.759 --> 00:06:49.079 I call Her name is Carolyn Mattini. She was super 129 00:06:49.199 --> 00:06:55.079 nice and when I was annoyed talking to some of 130 00:06:55.079 --> 00:06:56.959 the men that were there. Oh, by the way, that's 131 00:06:56.959 --> 00:06:58.920 why I had to lie about my age because it 132 00:06:58.959 --> 00:07:01.680 was forty five, was the app But I didn't want 133 00:07:01.680 --> 00:07:04.279 to be in the fifty to sixty five year old group. 134 00:07:04.519 --> 00:07:05.000 Wow. 135 00:07:05.319 --> 00:07:07.399 Yeah, but plus I wanted to be with Marie in 136 00:07:07.439 --> 00:07:08.800 my roommate. She's twenty nine. 137 00:07:08.879 --> 00:07:10.920 I think the age pool that you guys are interested in, 138 00:07:11.319 --> 00:07:12.720 at least it should be different. 139 00:07:13.680 --> 00:07:15.439 That age pool is called deadpool. 140 00:07:17.199 --> 00:07:20.360 That's so mean, except yeah, that's Laura's. 141 00:07:20.079 --> 00:07:22.319 I Actually, the reason I did it is just for 142 00:07:22.360 --> 00:07:23.279 the experience and. 143 00:07:23.279 --> 00:07:26.240 Just to see it trying to snack a twenty five 144 00:07:26.319 --> 00:07:26.680 year old. 145 00:07:27.800 --> 00:07:30.920 You know, I do like them young, not that young, though, 146 00:07:30.920 --> 00:07:34.560 Oh I do. I can't help what I'm attracted to. Okay, 147 00:07:34.839 --> 00:07:39.560 for teacher, not that young though, My god, you're years younger. 148 00:07:39.879 --> 00:07:40.959 Graduate lord. 149 00:07:41.360 --> 00:07:42.720 Okay, So this is Carolyn. 150 00:07:43.279 --> 00:07:46.279 And does Carolyn know that you took ten years shape 151 00:07:46.279 --> 00:07:47.480 ten years off your life? 152 00:07:47.639 --> 00:07:49.480 No one, she won't know that, Okay. 153 00:07:49.360 --> 00:07:52.600 She will. I tell her. What she watches herself on is. 154 00:07:52.800 --> 00:07:54.959 My phone up? Is the is the sound up? Because 155 00:07:54.959 --> 00:08:02.040 here we go it's not connected. Why is it not 156 00:08:02.959 --> 00:08:03.439 who it is? 157 00:08:03.560 --> 00:08:03.759 Oh? 158 00:08:03.920 --> 00:08:06.879 I always do this, I always get confused. 159 00:08:06.959 --> 00:08:12.759 Well, Hi Laura, Hi. 160 00:08:12.759 --> 00:08:16.000 Carolyn, you are on Laura Kane after Dark. Welcome to 161 00:08:16.040 --> 00:08:17.319 the podcast. 162 00:08:17.759 --> 00:08:20.680 Thank you, pleasure to be here. Thanks for having me. 163 00:08:20.920 --> 00:08:21.639 Hye, Carolyn. 164 00:08:21.759 --> 00:08:23.759 That's Eric Rimmer, my co host. 165 00:08:24.879 --> 00:08:26.560 Hi Eric, how dooey? 166 00:08:26.839 --> 00:08:27.600 Good? How are you? 167 00:08:27.959 --> 00:08:31.920 And this is producer the earthquake? You too? Did you? Guys? 168 00:08:32.360 --> 00:08:32.759 We did? 169 00:08:33.919 --> 00:08:35.559 Are you okay? Did you survive? 170 00:08:36.919 --> 00:08:39.480 Yeah? Yeah, I didn't even feel it at all. I 171 00:08:39.600 --> 00:08:42.399 was evacuated from work for like one minute. We went 172 00:08:42.440 --> 00:08:44.480 out by that was it. 173 00:08:45.279 --> 00:08:46.399 And you didn't even feel it? 174 00:08:46.480 --> 00:08:46.639 Oh? 175 00:08:46.720 --> 00:08:49.480 Well, it was very short, but Brian felt because he 176 00:08:49.559 --> 00:08:52.559 was close to the closer to the epicenter. But anyway, 177 00:08:52.559 --> 00:08:54.159 the reason we have you on the phone is because 178 00:08:54.159 --> 00:08:56.639 we had such a great conversation at the event on 179 00:08:56.720 --> 00:09:00.399 Saturday at the Brewery, and I thought it'd be great 180 00:09:00.440 --> 00:09:03.360 to have you on to talk about being single in 181 00:09:03.440 --> 00:09:06.840 San Diego and the different things that are available now 182 00:09:07.000 --> 00:09:11.799 to meet other singles in this county. And I really 183 00:09:11.840 --> 00:09:16.039 thought that the event was unique. And I love the 184 00:09:16.120 --> 00:09:18.840 idea of speed dating, and I know that that's something 185 00:09:18.879 --> 00:09:22.120 that's out there as well. But I was hoping Carolyn 186 00:09:22.279 --> 00:09:26.919 Mattini that you could talk about what it is Jigsaw 187 00:09:27.000 --> 00:09:30.919 does and the different events that you're involved in and 188 00:09:30.960 --> 00:09:31.600 that kind of thing. 189 00:09:32.759 --> 00:09:36.080 Yes, absolutely, Yeah, that was a lot of fun this weekend. 190 00:09:36.279 --> 00:09:39.320 It was great to see you there. And yeah, so 191 00:09:39.639 --> 00:09:43.840 Jigsaw is a new type of dating app that's not 192 00:09:44.240 --> 00:09:47.639 just wiping through photos because as you know, it's really 193 00:09:47.679 --> 00:09:52.200 difficult to meet people nowadays, you know, online you're hiding 194 00:09:52.240 --> 00:09:54.679 behind the screens and you never know what you're going 195 00:09:54.759 --> 00:09:58.320 to get and it's nerve wrecking having to you know, 196 00:09:58.559 --> 00:10:01.919 just chat back and for message message keep track of 197 00:10:01.960 --> 00:10:06.399 all the emails. But Jigsaw is actual, you know, it's 198 00:10:06.399 --> 00:10:11.240 an online app, but it's also you know, in person 199 00:10:11.320 --> 00:10:15.360 events that they have nationwide in every major city and 200 00:10:15.639 --> 00:10:19.600 several times a month there is a Jigsaw meet up. 201 00:10:19.759 --> 00:10:25.840 There's a mid day happy hour mixer, there's a painting 202 00:10:25.919 --> 00:10:31.000 and wine event, there's the you know, speed dating at 203 00:10:31.039 --> 00:10:35.960 different cafes. There at really really fun venues all over 204 00:10:36.000 --> 00:10:41.360 the city. And this past weekend it was at the 205 00:10:41.360 --> 00:10:46.279 the Brewery. The Oh I'm drawing a blank and I've 206 00:10:46.320 --> 00:10:48.879 got to say their name because they were an excellent venue. 207 00:10:49.360 --> 00:10:53.759 It was I remember I was drawing a blank too, Mesa. 208 00:10:53.799 --> 00:10:54.919 It was really nice. 209 00:10:55.440 --> 00:11:02.600 It's on the tip of my tongue, okay it so anyways, 210 00:11:02.960 --> 00:11:07.799 Oh Ballast Point, Yeah, sorry, Ballast Point. They have amazing 211 00:11:07.919 --> 00:11:11.879 We did one at their location in Little Italy and 212 00:11:12.080 --> 00:11:16.320 the past weekend it was at the other Carmel Valley 213 00:11:17.039 --> 00:11:21.919 Carrol Canyon Road location and it's such a big space, 214 00:11:22.080 --> 00:11:26.799 great venue, great food, great drinks, and people had a 215 00:11:26.879 --> 00:11:29.600 lot of fun. So you know, you get to actually 216 00:11:29.679 --> 00:11:35.720 see the people in person, and it's great networking and 217 00:11:35.759 --> 00:11:39.559 it's just you know, expanding your social circle and putting 218 00:11:39.559 --> 00:11:42.960 yourself out there. And it's a lot of fun because 219 00:11:44.360 --> 00:11:47.679 at each of the venues, you know, there's just like 220 00:11:47.720 --> 00:11:51.399 we did one at the Aero Club and Mission Hills 221 00:11:51.879 --> 00:11:54.840 and it's like Chucky Keys. You know, you're just playing 222 00:11:54.840 --> 00:11:57.480 a lot of fun games and you know, getting to 223 00:11:57.559 --> 00:12:00.000 know people. So it's like it takes the edge off 224 00:12:00.080 --> 00:12:05.279 up and Jigsaw provides all these tools, like these fun 225 00:12:05.399 --> 00:12:10.399 ice breakers cards and the speed dating is very structured, 226 00:12:10.519 --> 00:12:14.440 so it's like you get this dedicated time with each person. 227 00:12:15.240 --> 00:12:18.639 The the men will sit down across from a woman 228 00:12:18.799 --> 00:12:21.159 and then you'll have like, you know, a few minutes 229 00:12:21.200 --> 00:12:24.000 to have a conversation. You can use the ice breakers 230 00:12:24.120 --> 00:12:27.080 or just kind of improv and you know, make up 231 00:12:27.120 --> 00:12:32.919 your own conversations and then at the sound of the bell, 232 00:12:33.039 --> 00:12:35.720 the men stand up and you know, rotate to the 233 00:12:35.759 --> 00:12:42.039 next person. And it's also you know, we have every population, 234 00:12:42.600 --> 00:12:47.159 age group and persuasion too, so you know, we're we 235 00:12:47.240 --> 00:12:53.240 have LGBTQ events. We have just a little something for everyone, 236 00:12:53.480 --> 00:12:57.320 and so you know, it's just it's something different because 237 00:12:57.399 --> 00:13:02.480 how can you really, you know, get a feel for 238 00:13:02.559 --> 00:13:06.480 who that person is just through you know, the app 239 00:13:06.600 --> 00:13:08.480 and it's and. 240 00:13:08.480 --> 00:13:12.879 The cat fishing possibility and everything like that. That's always 241 00:13:12.879 --> 00:13:15.840 a scary thing because you don't really know at least 242 00:13:15.879 --> 00:13:16.200 you see. 243 00:13:17.840 --> 00:13:20.840 So I saw people have been vetted through the app, 244 00:13:20.919 --> 00:13:22.679 and it's that's great. 245 00:13:23.000 --> 00:13:25.759 There was a man who was there who was he 246 00:13:25.799 --> 00:13:28.960 looked very, very shy, and of course I went up 247 00:13:29.000 --> 00:13:31.039 and I talked to him because you know, I wanted to, 248 00:13:31.399 --> 00:13:33.440 you know, break the ice with somebody. But what would 249 00:13:33.519 --> 00:13:36.279 you say to somebody who thinks this is a good 250 00:13:36.320 --> 00:13:38.879 idea and says, you know what, I really want to 251 00:13:38.879 --> 00:13:41.559 do it, but it is shy? Is a person that 252 00:13:41.759 --> 00:13:44.519 doesn't normally put themselves out there. Why should they do this? 253 00:13:45.720 --> 00:13:49.000 Yeah, so we we have the support. You know, we're 254 00:13:49.080 --> 00:13:53.399 like really good wingmen or wing women, and so we 255 00:13:53.399 --> 00:13:56.159 we get a lot of that. Like I have seen 256 00:13:56.320 --> 00:14:01.440 so many you know, people with social anxiety, and you know, 257 00:14:01.480 --> 00:14:04.399 they'll show up and they'll tell me that and you know, 258 00:14:04.440 --> 00:14:06.879 they're not really used to this, and we just kind 259 00:14:06.919 --> 00:14:10.480 of were there to support and you know, we we 260 00:14:10.639 --> 00:14:14.120 really do a lot of like you know, coaching, and 261 00:14:14.159 --> 00:14:16.559 we help them through it and and by the end 262 00:14:16.639 --> 00:14:19.200 of it, they're like, I'm so glad I did this. 263 00:14:19.519 --> 00:14:22.320 You know, at first I was nervous, but you know, 264 00:14:22.360 --> 00:14:24.559 and then they keep coming back and they just kind 265 00:14:24.559 --> 00:14:27.840 of get more comfortable with it, and they make new 266 00:14:27.879 --> 00:14:31.159 friends and they go out on dates and they just 267 00:14:31.360 --> 00:14:33.480 you know, a lot of people, I've had a lot 268 00:14:33.480 --> 00:14:38.120 of successful you know matches, a lot of people I've 269 00:14:38.200 --> 00:14:40.440 run into. I'm like, oh, I haven't seen you at 270 00:14:40.480 --> 00:14:43.639 the Jigsaw events and they're like, yeah, I met this. 271 00:14:44.120 --> 00:14:47.200 You know, I'm dating this person through Jigsaw and you 272 00:14:47.240 --> 00:14:51.679 know we're exclusive now, and so it all works. Yeah, 273 00:14:51.799 --> 00:14:55.120 the statistics really have shown, Like I saw one study 274 00:14:55.159 --> 00:15:00.000 that said people that meet through you know and online 275 00:15:00.080 --> 00:15:02.960 and dating app they're more likely. I think it was 276 00:15:03.000 --> 00:15:07.399 something like in the ninetieth percentile of success rates of 277 00:15:07.480 --> 00:15:12.039 really you know, finding their perfect match that they're really 278 00:15:12.120 --> 00:15:17.840 satisfied with and in a committed relationship long term. So 279 00:15:17.840 --> 00:15:21.080 so yeah, it's it's a great way to do it 280 00:15:21.240 --> 00:15:23.960 because as you know, we get in our comfort zones, 281 00:15:24.039 --> 00:15:27.240 we get in our you know routine where we're just 282 00:15:27.360 --> 00:15:32.840 you know, work home, watch Netflix, and we don't go out, 283 00:15:33.000 --> 00:15:36.759 you know. So it's yeah, and even if you do 284 00:15:36.879 --> 00:15:38.840 go out to the bar, you don't know if that 285 00:15:39.039 --> 00:15:43.679 person out there is really you know interested with their 286 00:15:43.720 --> 00:15:48.679 relationship status is So having that dedicated spase of you know, 287 00:15:48.679 --> 00:15:52.480 knowing this group of people are you know, people that 288 00:15:52.559 --> 00:15:56.720 are have been vetted, they've got great careers or they've 289 00:15:56.759 --> 00:15:59.960 got you know, great personalities, and they're you know read 290 00:16:00.320 --> 00:16:03.759 and interested in a relationship. 291 00:16:04.399 --> 00:16:07.480 So if somebody wants to know when the next event is, 292 00:16:08.039 --> 00:16:12.159 where should they go and uh and find it? 293 00:16:13.639 --> 00:16:16.559 So they should download the Jigsaw app or go to 294 00:16:16.600 --> 00:16:21.080 the Jigsaw website and just sign up and you'll see 295 00:16:21.120 --> 00:16:24.720 all the fun events that we have coming up. And 296 00:16:24.879 --> 00:16:27.960 like I said, they're in every major city nationwide. 297 00:16:28.720 --> 00:16:33.720 Oh jig science. Yes, yeah, are you a single person? 298 00:16:35.919 --> 00:16:40.480 I am dating and I host the events and so 299 00:16:40.840 --> 00:16:45.279 I am you know, with someone exclusively, but you know, 300 00:16:45.519 --> 00:16:48.559 I am a very good wing woman and I would 301 00:16:48.600 --> 00:16:53.120 love to help people and so yeah, so I'm just 302 00:16:53.200 --> 00:16:56.320 the host of the event. So I am just there 303 00:16:56.440 --> 00:17:02.399 to to support and facilitate the games. Last weekend we 304 00:17:02.519 --> 00:17:08.240 had the fun bingo scavenger hunt type game. So yeah, 305 00:17:08.279 --> 00:17:10.480 all kinds of things like that. So that's that's my 306 00:17:10.680 --> 00:17:14.839 role in the Jigsaw Dating app world. 307 00:17:15.160 --> 00:17:17.799 Well that's a good one, and thank you for doing that, 308 00:17:19.079 --> 00:17:21.599 absolute and thank you for being on the phone with us, 309 00:17:21.680 --> 00:17:26.000 Carolyn Mattini and Jigsaw Dating App. That's what we were 310 00:17:26.039 --> 00:17:29.680 talking about, and we really appreciate your time and your knowledge, 311 00:17:29.799 --> 00:17:33.680 and uh, good luck to you in the future events 312 00:17:33.759 --> 00:17:35.920 and hopefully I'll see it one. 313 00:17:36.160 --> 00:17:39.440 Thank you. Yes, absolutely, Okay, I have a great night. 314 00:17:39.559 --> 00:17:40.400 Thanks for having me. 315 00:17:41.039 --> 00:17:41.680 Bye Carolyn. 316 00:17:42.400 --> 00:17:42.759 Bye. 317 00:17:44.880 --> 00:17:50.880 Okay, So we sat around this table. Okay, this is 318 00:17:50.920 --> 00:17:54.200 totally something I would do because I was getting uncomfortable 319 00:17:54.480 --> 00:17:57.839 because there it was there. It was men heavy, believe 320 00:17:57.839 --> 00:17:59.359 it or not. I thought it was gonna be a 321 00:17:59.359 --> 00:18:01.200 lot more women men I. 322 00:18:02.839 --> 00:18:04.319 Feel like I'd see more men of these things. 323 00:18:04.720 --> 00:18:08.519 So there was a big round table and I, Marie 324 00:18:08.519 --> 00:18:10.960 and I set ourselves down and we each had those 325 00:18:11.039 --> 00:18:13.359 cards where you ask the questions or whatever, and they 326 00:18:13.400 --> 00:18:17.759 were like they were such softball questions. I'm like, I'm 327 00:18:17.759 --> 00:18:19.400 gonna spice this up a little bit. 328 00:18:19.440 --> 00:18:20.000 Oh no. 329 00:18:21.359 --> 00:18:23.880 And there was this one guy that just kept talking 330 00:18:25.000 --> 00:18:28.039 and hogging the whole conversation. So there was some other 331 00:18:28.119 --> 00:18:29.799 men that I was like, I feel like they need 332 00:18:29.839 --> 00:18:32.880 to participate. So I was coming up with all sorts 333 00:18:32.880 --> 00:18:35.200 of questions. So I felt like, all right, everybody, we're 334 00:18:35.200 --> 00:18:36.440 gonna go around the table. 335 00:18:38.279 --> 00:18:41.799 I totally was so BOSSI is bossy. 336 00:18:42.400 --> 00:18:44.440 I don't even what were they doing working, Like what 337 00:18:44.559 --> 00:18:46.759 was my problem? But I'm like, all right, go around 338 00:18:46.799 --> 00:18:50.000 the table, and I want you each to say one 339 00:18:50.039 --> 00:18:54.119 word describing yourself best. And then I did a lot 340 00:18:54.200 --> 00:18:56.839 of other things like that, and then people started to 341 00:18:56.839 --> 00:18:58.279 get up and leave the tape. 342 00:18:58.400 --> 00:19:02.519 Oh I colored, Oh my god. 343 00:19:02.640 --> 00:19:04.720 I also want to tell you about something that Marie did, 344 00:19:04.759 --> 00:19:08.880 which I think is great because as a single young 345 00:19:09.440 --> 00:19:13.640 person in San Diego with a business, she runs three restaurants, 346 00:19:13.880 --> 00:19:15.319 she has no time. 347 00:19:15.640 --> 00:19:17.240 She's such an ambitious dater or too. 348 00:19:17.519 --> 00:19:23.240 She really is. She gives it, she tries, she does, 349 00:19:23.480 --> 00:19:27.680 but she also you know, she's from France, she's been 350 00:19:27.720 --> 00:19:29.440 here for a while. She has some friends, but she 351 00:19:29.519 --> 00:19:34.000 also wanted to meet new people. But how do you 352 00:19:34.079 --> 00:19:36.240 meet new people when you're running a business and you 353 00:19:36.279 --> 00:19:38.119 have no time? And where do you go to meet 354 00:19:38.160 --> 00:19:43.160 like girlfriends? So she found this site, this group of people, 355 00:19:43.799 --> 00:19:45.559 and she met up with them. It was like a 356 00:19:45.559 --> 00:19:49.640 breakfast meeting and it was like networking and also exchanging 357 00:19:49.720 --> 00:19:53.240 numbers and meeting new friends, meeting new friends. It was 358 00:19:53.279 --> 00:19:57.799 like a friendship meeting service. So I thought I'd give 359 00:19:57.799 --> 00:20:00.680 you a couple of different ones that I saw online 360 00:20:01.079 --> 00:20:03.400 because I think this is a great idea, because how 361 00:20:03.440 --> 00:20:05.759 do you meet people? Well, she's young, but like at 362 00:20:05.799 --> 00:20:06.640 my age, how do you. 363 00:20:06.559 --> 00:20:10.599 Meet me at funerals? 364 00:20:11.519 --> 00:20:16.359 That's what I do, other people's funerals, like are friends that? 365 00:20:16.839 --> 00:20:22.039 Yeah? Geez, So you're like so so sorry to hear 366 00:20:22.160 --> 00:20:25.000 about so and so what do you think when do 367 00:20:25.039 --> 00:20:28.880 you think you'll be ready to date again? Well? 368 00:20:29.279 --> 00:20:31.839 I wish she was home, which she's she works so 369 00:20:32.000 --> 00:20:35.039 long and so late. But she really enjoyed it. She 370 00:20:35.160 --> 00:20:36.759 got a lot out of it. She got some phone 371 00:20:36.799 --> 00:20:42.480 numbers and it's just really special. So sorry, have you 372 00:20:42.480 --> 00:20:47.200 been taking your medicine? Okay. One of them is called 373 00:20:47.319 --> 00:20:54.559 City Swoon. The other one is Creative Mornings San Diego Dreamers, 374 00:20:54.599 --> 00:20:59.839 San Diego Adventure Hub, girls who walk like if you 375 00:21:00.079 --> 00:21:02.240 if walking is your thing and you want to find 376 00:21:02.279 --> 00:21:05.720 a fellow person who likes to do the same thing hiking, 377 00:21:05.920 --> 00:21:08.720 There's all sorts of people who like to paint people 378 00:21:09.039 --> 00:21:11.359 girls pint out. If you just want to go drinking 379 00:21:11.440 --> 00:21:15.319 with somebody, there's the worst names I've ever heard. 380 00:21:15.440 --> 00:21:17.559 Are bad, bad names. 381 00:21:17.559 --> 00:21:19.559 I would no offense. I would not join any of 382 00:21:19.559 --> 00:21:20.720 these on the names alone. 383 00:21:21.119 --> 00:21:24.880 Well, it's like creative Mornings. I would change mornings to 384 00:21:25.000 --> 00:21:28.039 spell m O. You are yes. 385 00:21:28.839 --> 00:21:32.839 Yeah, this says to me, this is a morning meeting 386 00:21:33.000 --> 00:21:35.599 because for those of you that work in the evening, 387 00:21:35.640 --> 00:21:38.920 it's perfect and it's creative. I like it. 388 00:21:38.920 --> 00:21:42.759 It's but you're way too optimistic for anything. It's so 389 00:21:42.799 --> 00:21:43.519 hard to convince you. 390 00:21:43.799 --> 00:21:47.160 Is Brian and I have Hearts of Stone girls pint out. 391 00:21:47.680 --> 00:21:49.000 That's awful. 392 00:21:49.400 --> 00:21:52.359 That is actually the most. 393 00:21:51.720 --> 00:21:54.400 Yes, but so cringey. 394 00:21:54.440 --> 00:21:55.839 It seems like that would be the most one of 395 00:21:55.880 --> 00:21:58.640 the most popular ones because it's you have something to 396 00:21:58.799 --> 00:22:00.240 ply yourself, Brian. 397 00:22:00.279 --> 00:22:02.839 We should we should communicate. We should do a men's one, 398 00:22:02.880 --> 00:22:04.240 and I'll just call it circle jerks. 399 00:22:04.400 --> 00:22:07.240 There was one I didn't because it's funny. 400 00:22:07.319 --> 00:22:10.759 Yeah, see look at that. Look how creative I am. 401 00:22:11.079 --> 00:22:14.400