Speaker 1: Hey, hey, I'm bad. Listen.
Speaker 2: Why do people give up their power? Why do people
Speaker 2: give up their power? People give up their power in many, many,
Speaker 2: many ways. But the reason people give up their power
Speaker 2: is because of who people are, not who people pretend
Speaker 2: to be, but who people really are. What's going on
Speaker 2: inside of you will always and forever dictate what you
Speaker 2: allow in accept in your life, who you allow in
Speaker 2: accept in your life.
Speaker 1: What you will and what you won't do.
Speaker 2: It dictates everything about you and about your life. Most
Speaker 2: people don't understand it because they're not on that level
Speaker 2: of thinking. And that's why, in my opinion, we see
Speaker 2: people go through life year after year after year after
Speaker 2: year after year after year, never changing, many becoming worse
Speaker 2: because they're seeking this and they're seeking that to never
Speaker 2: find what they're looking for, or to gain something, to
Speaker 2: obtain something only to get it and can't handle it.
Speaker 2: It all comes from what's going on inside of you.
Speaker 2: I've told you before that your bad experiences, although we
Speaker 2: have good experiences.
Speaker 1: Too, but people hold.
Speaker 2: On to the negative and they allow the negative to
Speaker 2: cause disruption and dysfunction in their lives. So people go
Speaker 2: through good and the bad, but they quickly push the
Speaker 2: good away and hold on to the bad, and then
Speaker 2: they go through life giving power to people.
Speaker 1: When you should give it to no one. On their jobs.
Speaker 2: They give power to the coworkers to take advantage of them.
Speaker 2: They give power to their supervisors to take advantage of them.
Speaker 2: They give power to their bosses to take advantage of them.
Speaker 1: People will do to you.
Speaker 2: Whatever you give them the power to do, nothing other
Speaker 2: than what you have given them the power to do.
Speaker 1: People will try you. But if you let people know
Speaker 1: they cannot do you any kind of way, they're gonna
Speaker 1: get it.
Speaker 2: But when you just go through life allowing people to
Speaker 2: do it whatever they want, say whatever they want, treat
Speaker 2: you anyway they want, you.
Speaker 1: Are giving your power.
Speaker 2: And people will freely take advantage of you, use and
Speaker 2: abuse you because you have allowed them to. People do
Speaker 2: it everywhere they go because you don't change. Wherever you go,
Speaker 2: you take you along with you. All of that unresolved
Speaker 2: inside of you is what causes you.
Speaker 1: To give your power. Because people are seeking after things
Speaker 1: and they are hoping to fill voids in their lives.
Speaker 2: Some people don't even understand that they have voids in
Speaker 2: their lives. They just know they're seeking something always seeking something,
Speaker 2: looking for people to feel voids when they don't even
Speaker 2: understand what's going on inside of them. We as individuals,
Speaker 2: as human beings, we must be accountable and responsible for
Speaker 2: our own lives. Nobody can do it for us. When
Speaker 2: people are looking to other people to make them feel better,
Speaker 2: all it does is cause more issues and more dysfunction
Speaker 2: in their own lives because you always gravitate towards people
Speaker 2: who are worse off than you, and it's just a mess.
Speaker 2: I've told you many many times. If you want to
Speaker 2: know if you love yourself, if you want to know
Speaker 2: if you are a person of a heal hearted mind,
Speaker 2: just look at your own life. Look at your own
Speaker 2: your own life, Look at what you are allowing in
Speaker 2: your own life. Look where you are in your own life.
Speaker 2: If you're in the same place, you have not grown.
Speaker 2: If you're thinking, feeling, and acting the same, you have
Speaker 2: not grown.
Speaker 1: If you're going alone to get along to be long,
Speaker 1: you have not grown.
Speaker 2: If you believe any and everything you hear, when you
Speaker 2: have intuition telling you or signs.
Speaker 1: Of red flats telling you it's wrong, you have not grown.
Speaker 2: Specifically, when you take these things in and believe them.
Speaker 2: Is true, or you take them in and you paired
Speaker 2: and regurgitate. Even if it's wrong. People know right from wrong.
Speaker 2: They just choose to do whatever they want to do.
Speaker 2: They choose to do whatever makes them feel better. And
Speaker 2: it's the saddest thing because so many people put themselves
Speaker 2: in situations they never had to be in. You're seeking
Speaker 2: after things you don't even understand. Many people are seeking love.
Speaker 2: How do you know what love is? When you don't
Speaker 2: love yourself, You don't you give your power to the
Speaker 2: men in your life, the women in your life, because
Speaker 2: you think it's the proper way to love, and it's not.
Speaker 2: You let people take advantage of you. They steal from you,
Speaker 2: they take things from you, and you don't even notice
Speaker 2: at the time because you're too caught up, you're too emotionally.
Speaker 1: Involved.
Speaker 2: But all it does is lead to heartbreak at the end,
Speaker 2: because sooner or later, the truth is coming out.
Speaker 1: Sooner or later.
Speaker 2: There are people who are in horrific relationships, being abused
Speaker 2: every day in every way, mentally, physically, emotionally, I mean verbally,
Speaker 2: any kind of way. They're being abused, and they stay
Speaker 2: because of their own insecurities, their own lock lack within,
Speaker 2: make people believe that that's the best that they can have,
Speaker 2: make people believe it's as good as it's going to get,
Speaker 2: make people believe they're not worthy of anything better. That's
Speaker 2: because you give your power. A person cannot abuse you
Speaker 2: unless you allow them to.
Speaker 1: I don't care what you believe.
Speaker 2: A person cannot abuse you in any type of way
Speaker 2: unless you give power for them too.
Speaker 1: People are used so badly, but they still go alone.
Speaker 2: Anytime a person is doing you wrong in any type
Speaker 2: of way, they don't love you and they don't love themselves.
Speaker 2: Anytime a person is talking about you, disrespecting you, belittle
Speaker 2: and degrading, putting you down, laying hands on you, none
Speaker 2: of it has anything to do with love.
Speaker 1: And when you allow it, you are giving your power.
Speaker 1: People can't take your power unless you give it.
Speaker 2: And no one, not one single person, person is worth it.
Speaker 2: If they're mistreating you, they don't love you, and they
Speaker 2: don't love themselves.
Speaker 1: Some of you.
Speaker 2: You're satisfied as soon as they give you flowers, some
Speaker 2: type of gift, stroke your ego, make you feel good.
Speaker 2: You totally forget the abuse, the neglect, the total mistreatment.
Speaker 2: In a just in an instance, because now you feel good.
Speaker 2: But I've told you the very thing that made you laugh,
Speaker 2: made you smile, you thought it was so good, it's
Speaker 2: the same thing that would make you cry when your
Speaker 2: eyes open. In every situation in your life, every situation
Speaker 2: in your.
Speaker 1: Life, people do to you what you allow.
Speaker 2: If someone in any way remotely is mistreating you, and
Speaker 2: you stay, you try to.
Speaker 1: Further that relationship, you messed up.
Speaker 2: If someone act out of pocket, talk out of pocket,
Speaker 2: and you allow it.
Speaker 1: You're gonna get more. Some of you may be saying,
Speaker 1: what do you mean, I'll allow it.
Speaker 2: I mean just what I said. I did not stutter.
Speaker 2: I meant exactly what I said. Because the first time
Speaker 2: it happens and you do nothing, you stay in a relationship.
Speaker 2: It don't fall on that person. It falls on you
Speaker 2: because they're gonna do what you allow them to do.
Speaker 2: And if you allow a person to get away with
Speaker 2: something the first time, oh they're gonna try it again.
Speaker 2: They're gonna try it again. You have to love yourself
Speaker 2: and you have to know yourself. So if someone come
Speaker 2: into your life with mess, bringing shenanigans, drama, chaos, instantly, instantly,
Speaker 2: you'll be able to walk away.
Speaker 1: You'll be able to walk away.
Speaker 2: No one will ever do to you anything other than
Speaker 2: what you allow. When you allow anything, anything is what
Speaker 2: you probably will get. People are following your leads when
Speaker 2: you give your power. They know you're given your power.
Speaker 2: They know you're a vulnerable person. They know they can
Speaker 2: get away with it because you let them get away once.
Speaker 2: They know you're not gonna do anything, because you are
Speaker 2: the individual who teaches that individual, that other person, how
Speaker 2: they can treat you.
Speaker 1: You teach them.
Speaker 2: When you do nothing and you go alone and allow things,
Speaker 2: you are teaching that other person how they can treat you.
Speaker 2: Many people are in relationships that are one sided period,
Speaker 2: one side, and it's not working for either person. Nothing
Speaker 2: has gotten better. People are still struggling, especially financially. Struggling financially, nothing.
Speaker 1: Has gotten better.
Speaker 2: You think that's enhancing your life, No, that's making situations
Speaker 2: worse than your life. You struggling, You're with someone who's
Speaker 2: struggling to and neither one of you are doing anything
Speaker 2: to make your situation better.
Speaker 1: That self inflicted pain.
Speaker 2: When you give your power, Ah, I love him so much,
Speaker 2: but I just love him, so you don't even know
Speaker 2: what love is.
Speaker 1: I just love her I just love her.
Speaker 2: You have no clue what love is, because no way,
Speaker 2: no way on this earth is it love.
Speaker 1: No way.
Speaker 2: A person doing you wrong, a person not contributing, a
Speaker 2: person who's just taking advantage of you.
Speaker 1: There is no love in it.
Speaker 2: You allowing a person to control you.
Speaker 1: You thought it was so cute.
Speaker 2: You thought it was so cute until you find out
Speaker 2: it's a freaking nightmare.
Speaker 1: It was never cute.
Speaker 2: A person trying to control you, tell you what you
Speaker 2: can can't do, where you can can't go, who you
Speaker 2: can and can't be, with, what you can and can't wear.
Speaker 1: That is not cute. That is never cute. That is
Speaker 1: not love.
Speaker 2: But unfortunately many people think it is he just loved me,
Speaker 2: she just loved me so much. No, that's a form
Speaker 2: of control. You are giving away your power. Even the
Speaker 2: weakest person has power. It's within all of us.
Speaker 1: But if you.
Speaker 2: Don't activate it, if you go alone with any and everything,
Speaker 2: and you just keep going through life allowing.
Speaker 1: People to do whatever to you, they're gonna do it.
Speaker 2: A person can never ever abuse you, They can't take
Speaker 2: advantage of you, They can't mistreat you in any way
Speaker 2: unless you allow it.
Speaker 1: Granted, people will try. Oh, people are.
Speaker 2: Gonna try you because of who they are, because of
Speaker 2: their own inner unresolved issues.
Speaker 1: But let me tell you, it'll be one time. It
Speaker 1: will be one time because people are gonna try you,
Speaker 1: they're gonna test you, but you.
Speaker 2: Have to stand up for yourself the first time. Never
Speaker 2: give anyone a second chance. I don't care who it is.
Speaker 1: Never give anyone a second chance to curse you out,
Speaker 1: to hit you, to spit on you, to talk down
Speaker 1: to you, to be.
Speaker 2: Physical with you, or anything that is not good for you.
Speaker 2: Don't give anyone a second chance. You have to nip
Speaker 2: it in the bud right away, whatever it.
Speaker 1: Is, whatever it is.
Speaker 2: See, too many people allow their hearts and their unhealed minds.
Speaker 2: Unhealed hearts lead them into terrible situations with terrible people
Speaker 2: because you think it's love and you're eager and desperate
Speaker 2: to share with someone and give your power. You're so
Speaker 2: eager to do that. I keep seeing my voice spiking
Speaker 2: too much, but the levels are set low. I don't
Speaker 2: know what's going on. It's your life. You only get
Speaker 2: one to live. I don't understand why so many people
Speaker 2: in this world, millions upon millions of people choose to
Speaker 2: live life and never truly be happy, never truly experience love,
Speaker 2: never find peace.
Speaker 1: People are willfully and with consistency.
Speaker 2: Choosing to live life this way. Most people you see
Speaker 2: that smiling and acting all jovial, you know, just happy
Speaker 2: and giddy.
Speaker 1: They're miserable. They're just faking trying to make it to
Speaker 1: another day. But like I've always told you.
Speaker 2: Faking and pretense only keep you where you've always been,
Speaker 2: in that same negative, false state of mind.
Speaker 1: Lies, pretense, covering up it doesn't benefit you.
Speaker 2: So whatever power you give will be taken from whomever,
Speaker 2: not just your significant other, but whoever crosses your path
Speaker 2: that you give it up to, it will be taken.
Speaker 2: So you have to look at yourself because you're the
Speaker 2: biggest problem. Your mindset is your worst enemy. All of
Speaker 2: that inside of you that's unhealed, that you're still holding
Speaker 2: on to it is what's causing you to think, feel,
Speaker 2: and act the way that you do. It's why people
Speaker 2: run over you, They take advantage of you, They use you,
Speaker 2: and they abuse you in some form or another because
Speaker 2: you have given them the green light to do it.
Speaker 2: You have given up your power. And those who give
Speaker 2: up their power it's because of the unresolved inside of them.
Speaker 2: It's how they think, it's what they believe because of
Speaker 2: how they think. And you're on all of these different
Speaker 2: quests for these different things in life when the most
Speaker 2: important thing is you, your peace of mind, self love,
Speaker 2: your happiness. People can add to it, sure, but you
Speaker 2: will never be able to experience it.
Speaker 1: When it does not start with you.
Speaker 2: It must start within you first, and it cannot until
Speaker 2: you clean up what's messed up. And that's it. That's
Speaker 2: all I'm saying. I'm leaving it right there. Thank you
Speaker 2: for listening. Much much love to each and their one
Speaker 2: of you.
Speaker 1: All over the world. Much love.
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