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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, I'm bad. Listen.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do people give up their power? Why do people

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<v Speaker 2>give up their power? People give up their power in many, many,

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<v Speaker 2>many ways. But the reason people give up their power

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<v Speaker 2>is because of who people are, not who people pretend

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<v Speaker 2>to be, but who people really are. What's going on

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<v Speaker 2>inside of you will always and forever dictate what you

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<v Speaker 2>allow in accept in your life, who you allow in

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<v Speaker 2>accept in your life.

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<v Speaker 1>What you will and what you won't do.

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<v Speaker 2>It dictates everything about you and about your life. Most

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<v Speaker 2>people don't understand it because they're not on that level

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<v Speaker 2>of thinking. And that's why, in my opinion, we see

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<v Speaker 2>people go through life year after year after year after

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<v Speaker 2>year after year after year, never changing, many becoming worse

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<v Speaker 2>because they're seeking this and they're seeking that to never

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<v Speaker 2>find what they're looking for, or to gain something, to

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<v Speaker 2>obtain something only to get it and can't handle it.

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<v Speaker 2>It all comes from what's going on inside of you.

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<v Speaker 2>I've told you before that your bad experiences, although we

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<v Speaker 2>have good experiences.

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<v Speaker 1>Too, but people hold.

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<v Speaker 2>On to the negative and they allow the negative to

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<v Speaker 2>cause disruption and dysfunction in their lives. So people go

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<v Speaker 2>through good and the bad, but they quickly push the

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<v Speaker 2>good away and hold on to the bad, and then

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<v Speaker 2>they go through life giving power to people.

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<v Speaker 1>When you should give it to no one. On their jobs.

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<v Speaker 2>They give power to the coworkers to take advantage of them.

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<v Speaker 2>They give power to their supervisors to take advantage of them.

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<v Speaker 2>They give power to their bosses to take advantage of them.

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<v Speaker 1>People will do to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever you give them the power to do, nothing other

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<v Speaker 2>than what you have given them the power to do.

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<v Speaker 1>People will try you. But if you let people know

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<v Speaker 1>they cannot do you any kind of way, they're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get it.

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<v Speaker 2>But when you just go through life allowing people to

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<v Speaker 2>do it whatever they want, say whatever they want, treat

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<v Speaker 2>you anyway they want, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Are giving your power.

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<v Speaker 2>And people will freely take advantage of you, use and

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<v Speaker 2>abuse you because you have allowed them to. People do

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<v Speaker 2>it everywhere they go because you don't change. Wherever you go,

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<v Speaker 2>you take you along with you. All of that unresolved

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<v Speaker 2>inside of you is what causes you.

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<v Speaker 1>To give your power. Because people are seeking after things

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<v Speaker 1>and they are hoping to fill voids in their lives.

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<v Speaker 2>Some people don't even understand that they have voids in

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<v Speaker 2>their lives. They just know they're seeking something always seeking something,

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<v Speaker 2>looking for people to feel voids when they don't even

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<v Speaker 2>understand what's going on inside of them. We as individuals,

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<v Speaker 2>as human beings, we must be accountable and responsible for

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<v Speaker 2>our own lives. Nobody can do it for us. When

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<v Speaker 2>people are looking to other people to make them feel better,

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<v Speaker 2>all it does is cause more issues and more dysfunction

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<v Speaker 2>in their own lives because you always gravitate towards people

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<v Speaker 2>who are worse off than you, and it's just a mess.

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<v Speaker 2>I've told you many many times. If you want to

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<v Speaker 2>know if you love yourself, if you want to know

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<v Speaker 2>if you are a person of a heal hearted mind,

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<v Speaker 2>just look at your own life. Look at your own

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<v Speaker 2>your own life, Look at what you are allowing in

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<v Speaker 2>your own life. Look where you are in your own life.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're in the same place, you have not grown.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're thinking, feeling, and acting the same, you have

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<v Speaker 2>not grown.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're going alone to get along to be long,

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<v Speaker 1>you have not grown.

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<v Speaker 2>If you believe any and everything you hear, when you

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<v Speaker 2>have intuition telling you or signs.

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<v Speaker 1>Of red flats telling you it's wrong, you have not grown.

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<v Speaker 2>Specifically, when you take these things in and believe them.

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<v Speaker 2>Is true, or you take them in and you paired

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<v Speaker 2>and regurgitate. Even if it's wrong. People know right from wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>They just choose to do whatever they want to do.

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<v Speaker 2>They choose to do whatever makes them feel better. And

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<v Speaker 2>it's the saddest thing because so many people put themselves

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<v Speaker 2>in situations they never had to be in. You're seeking

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<v Speaker 2>after things you don't even understand. Many people are seeking love.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you know what love is? When you don't

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<v Speaker 2>love yourself, You don't you give your power to the

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<v Speaker 2>men in your life, the women in your life, because

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<v Speaker 2>you think it's the proper way to love, and it's not.

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<v Speaker 2>You let people take advantage of you. They steal from you,

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<v Speaker 2>they take things from you, and you don't even notice

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<v Speaker 2>at the time because you're too caught up, you're too emotionally.

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<v Speaker 1>Involved.

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<v Speaker 2>But all it does is lead to heartbreak at the end,

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<v Speaker 2>because sooner or later, the truth is coming out.

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<v Speaker 1>Sooner or later.

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<v Speaker 2>There are people who are in horrific relationships, being abused

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<v Speaker 2>every day in every way, mentally, physically, emotionally, I mean verbally,

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<v Speaker 2>any kind of way. They're being abused, and they stay

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<v Speaker 2>because of their own insecurities, their own lock lack within,

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<v Speaker 2>make people believe that that's the best that they can have,

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<v Speaker 2>make people believe it's as good as it's going to get,

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<v Speaker 2>make people believe they're not worthy of anything better. That's

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<v Speaker 2>because you give your power. A person cannot abuse you

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<v Speaker 2>unless you allow them to.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care what you believe.

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<v Speaker 2>A person cannot abuse you in any type of way

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<v Speaker 2>unless you give power for them too.

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<v Speaker 1>People are used so badly, but they still go alone.

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<v Speaker 2>Anytime a person is doing you wrong in any type

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<v Speaker 2>of way, they don't love you and they don't love themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>Anytime a person is talking about you, disrespecting you, belittle

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<v Speaker 2>and degrading, putting you down, laying hands on you, none

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<v Speaker 2>of it has anything to do with love.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you allow it, you are giving your power.

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<v Speaker 1>People can't take your power unless you give it.

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<v Speaker 2>And no one, not one single person, person is worth it.

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<v Speaker 2>If they're mistreating you, they don't love you, and they

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<v Speaker 2>don't love themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of you.

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<v Speaker 2>You're satisfied as soon as they give you flowers, some

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<v Speaker 2>type of gift, stroke your ego, make you feel good.

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<v Speaker 2>You totally forget the abuse, the neglect, the total mistreatment.

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<v Speaker 2>In a just in an instance, because now you feel good.

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<v Speaker 2>But I've told you the very thing that made you laugh,

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<v Speaker 2>made you smile, you thought it was so good, it's

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<v Speaker 2>the same thing that would make you cry when your

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<v Speaker 2>eyes open. In every situation in your life, every situation

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<v Speaker 2>in your.

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<v Speaker 1>Life, people do to you what you allow.

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<v Speaker 2>If someone in any way remotely is mistreating you, and

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<v Speaker 2>you stay, you try to.

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<v Speaker 1>Further that relationship, you messed up.

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<v Speaker 2>If someone act out of pocket, talk out of pocket,

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<v Speaker 2>and you allow it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna get more. Some of you may be saying,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean, I'll allow it.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean just what I said. I did not stutter.

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<v Speaker 2>I meant exactly what I said. Because the first time

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<v Speaker 2>it happens and you do nothing, you stay in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>It don't fall on that person. It falls on you

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<v Speaker 2>because they're gonna do what you allow them to do.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you allow a person to get away with

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<v Speaker 2>something the first time, oh they're gonna try it again.

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<v Speaker 2>They're gonna try it again. You have to love yourself

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<v Speaker 2>and you have to know yourself. So if someone come

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<v Speaker 2>into your life with mess, bringing shenanigans, drama, chaos, instantly, instantly,

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<v Speaker 2>you'll be able to walk away.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll be able to walk away.

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<v Speaker 2>No one will ever do to you anything other than

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<v Speaker 2>what you allow. When you allow anything, anything is what

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<v Speaker 2>you probably will get. People are following your leads when

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<v Speaker 2>you give your power. They know you're given your power.

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<v Speaker 2>They know you're a vulnerable person. They know they can

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<v Speaker 2>get away with it because you let them get away once.

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<v Speaker 2>They know you're not gonna do anything, because you are

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<v Speaker 2>the individual who teaches that individual, that other person, how

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<v Speaker 2>they can treat you.

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<v Speaker 1>You teach them.

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<v Speaker 2>When you do nothing and you go alone and allow things,

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<v Speaker 2>you are teaching that other person how they can treat you.

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<v Speaker 2>Many people are in relationships that are one sided period,

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<v Speaker 2>one side, and it's not working for either person. Nothing

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<v Speaker 2>has gotten better. People are still struggling, especially financially. Struggling financially, nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Has gotten better.

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<v Speaker 2>You think that's enhancing your life, No, that's making situations

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<v Speaker 2>worse than your life. You struggling, You're with someone who's

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<v Speaker 2>struggling to and neither one of you are doing anything

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<v Speaker 2>to make your situation better.

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<v Speaker 1>That self inflicted pain.

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<v Speaker 2>When you give your power, Ah, I love him so much,

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<v Speaker 2>but I just love him, so you don't even know

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<v Speaker 2>what love is.

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<v Speaker 1>I just love her I just love her.

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<v Speaker 2>You have no clue what love is, because no way,

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<v Speaker 2>no way on this earth is it love.

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<v Speaker 1>No way.

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<v Speaker 2>A person doing you wrong, a person not contributing, a

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<v Speaker 2>person who's just taking advantage of you.

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<v Speaker 1>There is no love in it.

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<v Speaker 2>You allowing a person to control you.

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<v Speaker 1>You thought it was so cute.

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<v Speaker 2>You thought it was so cute until you find out

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<v Speaker 2>it's a freaking nightmare.

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<v Speaker 1>It was never cute.

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<v Speaker 2>A person trying to control you, tell you what you

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<v Speaker 2>can can't do, where you can can't go, who you

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<v Speaker 2>can and can't be, with, what you can and can't wear.

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<v Speaker 1>That is not cute. That is never cute. That is

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<v Speaker 1>not love.

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<v Speaker 2>But unfortunately many people think it is he just loved me,

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<v Speaker 2>she just loved me so much. No, that's a form

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<v Speaker 2>of control. You are giving away your power. Even the

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<v Speaker 2>weakest person has power. It's within all of us.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't activate it, if you go alone with any and everything,

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<v Speaker 2>and you just keep going through life allowing.

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<v Speaker 1>People to do whatever to you, they're gonna do it.

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<v Speaker 2>A person can never ever abuse you, They can't take

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<v Speaker 2>advantage of you, They can't mistreat you in any way

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<v Speaker 2>unless you allow it.

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<v Speaker 1>Granted, people will try. Oh, people are.

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna try you because of who they are, because of

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<v Speaker 2>their own inner unresolved issues.

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<v Speaker 1>But let me tell you, it'll be one time. It

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<v Speaker 1>will be one time because people are gonna try you,

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<v Speaker 1>they're gonna test you, but you.

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<v Speaker 2>Have to stand up for yourself the first time. Never

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<v Speaker 2>give anyone a second chance. I don't care who it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Never give anyone a second chance to curse you out,

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<v Speaker 1>to hit you, to spit on you, to talk down

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<v Speaker 1>to you, to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Physical with you, or anything that is not good for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't give anyone a second chance. You have to nip

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<v Speaker 2>it in the bud right away, whatever it.

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<v Speaker 1>Is, whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 2>See, too many people allow their hearts and their unhealed minds.

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<v Speaker 2>Unhealed hearts lead them into terrible situations with terrible people

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<v Speaker 2>because you think it's love and you're eager and desperate

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<v Speaker 2>to share with someone and give your power. You're so

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<v Speaker 2>eager to do that. I keep seeing my voice spiking

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<v Speaker 2>too much, but the levels are set low. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what's going on. It's your life. You only get

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<v Speaker 2>one to live. I don't understand why so many people

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<v Speaker 2>in this world, millions upon millions of people choose to

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<v Speaker 2>live life and never truly be happy, never truly experience love,

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<v Speaker 2>never find peace.

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<v Speaker 1>People are willfully and with consistency.

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<v Speaker 2>Choosing to live life this way. Most people you see

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<v Speaker 2>that smiling and acting all jovial, you know, just happy

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<v Speaker 2>and giddy.

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<v Speaker 1>They're miserable. They're just faking trying to make it to

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<v Speaker 1>another day. But like I've always told you.

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<v Speaker 2>Faking and pretense only keep you where you've always been,

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<v Speaker 2>in that same negative, false state of mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Lies, pretense, covering up it doesn't benefit you.

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<v Speaker 2>So whatever power you give will be taken from whomever,

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<v Speaker 2>not just your significant other, but whoever crosses your path

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<v Speaker 2>that you give it up to, it will be taken.

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<v Speaker 2>So you have to look at yourself because you're the

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<v Speaker 2>biggest problem. Your mindset is your worst enemy. All of

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<v Speaker 2>that inside of you that's unhealed, that you're still holding

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<v Speaker 2>on to it is what's causing you to think, feel,

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<v Speaker 2>and act the way that you do. It's why people

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<v Speaker 2>run over you, They take advantage of you, They use you,

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<v Speaker 2>and they abuse you in some form or another because

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<v Speaker 2>you have given them the green light to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>You have given up your power. And those who give

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<v Speaker 2>up their power it's because of the unresolved inside of them.

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<v Speaker 2>It's how they think, it's what they believe because of

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<v Speaker 2>how they think. And you're on all of these different

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<v Speaker 2>quests for these different things in life when the most

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<v Speaker 2>important thing is you, your peace of mind, self love,

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<v Speaker 2>your happiness. People can add to it, sure, but you

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<v Speaker 2>will never be able to experience it.

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<v Speaker 1>When it does not start with you.

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<v Speaker 2>It must start within you first, and it cannot until

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<v Speaker 2>you clean up what's messed up. And that's it. That's

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<v Speaker 2>all I'm saying. I'm leaving it right there. Thank you

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<v Speaker 2>for listening. Much much love to each and their one

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<v Speaker 2>of you.

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<v Speaker 1>All over the world. Much love.

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<v Speaker 2>Please reach out to me. You're always welcome my podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>My main podcast will tell you exactly how to contact me.

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<v Speaker 2>My email is there, reach out. I will respond. Please

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<v Speaker 2>share this episode. I end all episodes the same because

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<v Speaker 2>I like it and it makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank going it