Speaker 1: I was gonna read this because it's pretty fascinating. Uh.
Speaker 2: The tourist guy was a guy who.
Speaker 1: Didn't I don't know if he didn't mean to or what,
Speaker 1: but he photoshopped himself onto the observator. He was on
Speaker 1: the observation deck, but took this photo and then photoshopped
Speaker 1: it to his friends and he was like, I mean
Speaker 1: for it to go viral.
Speaker 2: That wasn't really a thing, right, of course, he just
Speaker 2: wanted to be funny with his friends.
Speaker 1: In two thousand, like people didn't. People don't understand the
Speaker 1: event of two thousand and one of nine to eleven
Speaker 1: changed the Internet.
Speaker 2: Oh there.
Speaker 1: They couldn't figure out really like the purpose of the
Speaker 1: Internet at that time. Everybody had like Geocity pages and
Speaker 1: stuff like that, Like it was kind of hard to
Speaker 1: figure it out. I worked at an internet radio company
Speaker 1: and programming four different stations, sorry, and it was like
Speaker 1: hard to figure out like how to get people to
Speaker 1: listen to them, like what the content would be we
Speaker 1: were treating on like regular radio. We had a button,
Speaker 1: like we had a little radio player and you had
Speaker 1: a button that if an AD came on, you could
Speaker 1: click it. That was like the big technology advancement. We
Speaker 1: had it, just it didn't make it.
Speaker 2: But it had to be a separate player, so nobody
Speaker 2: could really figure it out. It was that super clunky
Speaker 2: at the time. Still, yes, and then.
Speaker 1: Nine to eleven happens and they realized that they need
Speaker 1: the Internet to move faster, and it creates this technology
Speaker 1: of how to use information and share it really fast.
Speaker 1: That's really where So viral wasn't really a thing like, no, no,
Speaker 1: we know it today.
Speaker 2: It wasn't. It sure wasn't.
Speaker 3: But I feel that was the catastrophe track, catastrophic event
Speaker 3: that we needed to shift this into a another universe,
Speaker 3: a parallel universe.
Speaker 1: Yeah, catastrophe always there's something that comes out of oh yeah,
Speaker 1: oh yeah. People don't like to talk about that part,
Speaker 1: right because it undermines the trauma.
Speaker 2: Right. Uh.
Speaker 3: The Internet was crap until then and then all of
Speaker 3: a sudden, boom, pal it's everything and everywhere, you know
Speaker 3: what I mean. Yeah, it's crazy. How just like with
Speaker 3: the flip of a switch, basically is what I'm saying
Speaker 3: is how quick it took off and took over the
Speaker 3: world and now here we are in the digital age.
Speaker 3: I often asked myself, and I know I'll never get
Speaker 3: the answer. But you can find anything on the internet, right,
Speaker 3: literally fucking anything. How did that information get there? Who
Speaker 3: put that information there? Because you know, think about it,
Speaker 3: like encyclopedias and shit like that. Somebody writes the book,
Speaker 3: somebody has to put that information in the encyclopedia. Right,
Speaker 3: How the hell did all the information that we know
Speaker 3: of in the world get onto the Internet?
Speaker 2: Who put it there?
Speaker 3: Because it seems to me like that's a lot of
Speaker 3: work And I don't give a damn how many nerds
Speaker 3: you've gotten one building. That's a lot of fucking work
Speaker 3: to be putting all that information out there in a
Speaker 3: single database for somebody for us to just you know,
Speaker 3: will and nearly grab whatever we want.
Speaker 2: Well, I think that's the argument.
Speaker 1: Of why I don't freak out about AI, because you
Speaker 1: think AI hasn't been here, But it has, right for
Speaker 1: a while, right, the military has everything until the you know, eventually,
Speaker 1: until the civilians get it.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: I mean like there was already like a thing happening
Speaker 1: to get stuff onto the Internet before AI became what
Speaker 1: we know it today, And every time there's something.
Speaker 2: New, it creates chaos.
Speaker 1: I'd like to reference the horse people complaining about the
Speaker 1: horses and like, why would I get a car?
Speaker 2: I have a perfectly fine working horse.
Speaker 1: Because that was a real argument that really happened, and
Speaker 1: every Jimmy Carr has a really great comedy bit about this,
Speaker 1: where he's like, it's it's gonna be fine. Oh, it's
Speaker 1: always been fine, even the Cuban missile crisis literally probably
Speaker 1: the height of when we thought extinction was among us.
Speaker 2: It's fine.
Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, I will agree with you. Everything turns out
Speaker 3: to be all right, right, that's it.
Speaker 1: All right should be a two word thing.
Speaker 2: It's not.
Speaker 1: It's one word, but everything will be all space right exactly,
Speaker 1: no matter what. It doesn't feel like it, and some
Speaker 1: people's trauma feels worse than others, not saying it isn't.
Speaker 2: But even then it works out all right.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I've never been somebody who freaks out about
Speaker 1: the those things.
Speaker 2: I did have a good argument.
Speaker 1: Though, for AI, where a guy used AI to fight
Speaker 1: a speeding ticket in one very interesting wow.
Speaker 2: Just let it give them the argument.
Speaker 3: I guess chat GPT, how do I get out of
Speaker 3: the speeding ticket?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Get the fuck out of here? Yeah, I use
Speaker 2: it for recipes. They work, gives some awesome recipes.
Speaker 3: See that just goes to show that there's people out
Speaker 3: there that are going to use it for bad things.
Speaker 3: I'm not saying they trying to get out of a
Speaker 3: speeding ticket isn't necessary. It's not fucking murder or child molestation.
Speaker 3: But you got in trouble and now you're trying to
Speaker 3: use it to tease your way out.
Speaker 2: Why you give her that look? Similarly, she tried to
Speaker 2: get out of her speeding ticket. Right, I didn't have school,
Speaker 2: but you tried to get out of it.
Speaker 1: People's that's human nature, right to try and get out
Speaker 1: of things.
Speaker 2: Whatever. Man, I guess you know it's a tool, use it.
Speaker 2: I guess.
Speaker 1: Hey, listen, surgical steel was meant for a certain thing, right,
Speaker 1: people be people.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 1: I found the sex trend thing and I was gonna
Speaker 1: I saved it for today. I wanted to bring up best,
Speaker 1: but I saved it for today. And that is do
Speaker 1: you know what hot wife?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, hot wife? Oh yeah?
Speaker 3: You know yeah, that's when your wife is fucking other people.
Speaker 3: And it's kind of it's kind of like a bull
Speaker 3: and vixen sort of.
Speaker 2: Thing, or how is it different?
Speaker 3: That's where I was saying, it's your wife is fucking
Speaker 3: other people and you let her do it.
Speaker 1: But how's that different than than you.
Speaker 3: May not be watching. You may not be watching, and
Speaker 3: oh you don't watch, you know how you could?
Speaker 2: You could if you wanted to.
Speaker 3: Okay, but hot wifing is basically she's married and she's
Speaker 3: allowed to fuck other dudes.
Speaker 2: So here, here's the article married. Here's the article.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 1: It says that couples are opening up the relationship to
Speaker 1: a nutrient called hot wifing, which sees husbands watch their
Speaker 1: wives sleep with other men, like letting your friends test
Speaker 1: drive your car, but they give the car back, They
Speaker 1: get to see how well it rides. It creates a
Speaker 1: sense of pride. You get a little taste of what
Speaker 1: my life is like. I don't know what the fuck
Speaker 1: you're talking about right right the way Brady had explained
Speaker 1: it to me. Sorry, Yeah, Brady needs to be in
Speaker 1: here on this because he's into all that weird freaky shit.
Speaker 1: Maybe not into it, into.
Speaker 2: It, but he knows his knowledge. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he listens to a lot of podcasts and they
Speaker 3: talk about this shit. He was explaining it to me
Speaker 3: one day that like, you know, like the bowling vixen
Speaker 3: sort of thing is just like I like to sit
Speaker 3: here and watch my old lady get reeled by other dudes. Right,
Speaker 3: that's the bowling vixen sort of thing. The cuck holding
Speaker 3: is I'm sitting here watching my wife get fucked by
Speaker 3: this other guy, but also getting degraded at the same time. Yeah, right,
Speaker 3: like you know, you know guys, you know, going to
Speaker 3: poundtown on your old lady and sitting there while you're
Speaker 3: in a corner telling you how much of a small
Speaker 3: dick you have and how worthless you fucking are and
Speaker 3: shit like that. That's the true definition of cuck holding.
Speaker 3: And I get with the hot wife thing. It's like, yeah,
Speaker 3: I want to sure, I want everybody to know what
Speaker 3: my wife is.
Speaker 2: What you think? Yeah, god damn.
Speaker 3: Do you sit back with a survey and a clipboard afterwards?
Speaker 3: So let me ask you a few questions.
Speaker 2: Was it good? Was it tight? Did it smell funny?
Speaker 1: Multiple couple's partnered with an adult site called Wifery so
Speaker 1: that the wives can be bed professional porn stars as
Speaker 1: part of the unconventional new practice, which is a modern
Speaker 1: take on cutholding.
Speaker 2: There we go, Uh, it'll be really cool for him.
Speaker 1: To see me with two hot guys, just living my
Speaker 1: best life.
Speaker 4: No, right, I thought, you don't watch, You don't.
Speaker 2: Know you watch? You watch these Yeah yeah, But if you're.
Speaker 4: Watching and you're like, wait, she never fucking.
Speaker 2: Does that with me, then you better control your fucking emotions.
Speaker 1: One man named Alex admitted that he never tried kinky
Speaker 1: axe until he met Rebecca, his wife. Now the married
Speaker 1: couple are into hot wifing, and Alex can witness his
Speaker 1: fantasy of his wife with two other men at once.
Speaker 2: That's a fantasy for men.
Speaker 1: Huh, to watch their wife with not one right, not one?
Speaker 2: All right? Just getting double stuffed. Yeah wow.
Speaker 1: Some may bristle at the thought of their partner with
Speaker 1: another person, let alone too. Rebecca insists that the arrangement
Speaker 1: has actually brought a whole other level of comfort and
Speaker 1: security to the relationship. Bullshit, there's really nothing like being
Speaker 1: able to share that experience with someone you love. You're
Speaker 1: not sharing, I mean you're sharing, but not with that
Speaker 1: part knowing that it doesn't diminish what we have.
Speaker 2: Sex and love are two completely different things. That's true.
Speaker 2: That is true. That is a true statement. Some men
Speaker 2: love watching other guys have sex. With their wives.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's just stop with that statement right there. Some
Speaker 1: men love watching other guys have sex.
Speaker 2: With their wives. I believe that. Yeah, I believe that
Speaker 2: one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: I think there are people out there that have a
Speaker 1: kink that might I may not accept as okay or
Speaker 1: normal or my lifestyle.
Speaker 2: But I'm not.
Speaker 1: Oblivious to the idea that it doesn't exist. That doesn't
Speaker 1: make it wrong, by the way or right. It's just
Speaker 1: they like, okra.
Speaker 2: That's their thing, and they can have that all they want.
Speaker 1: It's not for me, it is not Maybe I'm too insecure.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's just the way I see things like pineapple
Speaker 1: and pizza type of thing, you know, like it's just
Speaker 1: the way I see it. I just don't Can you
Speaker 1: eat pineapple on pizza? Of course? Yeah, we want all
Speaker 1: the words to do whatever you'd like. It's just not
Speaker 1: my thing.
Speaker 4: Maybe it's just me being an only child and I'm
Speaker 4: not one to share. Maybe that's it, but that's not true.
Speaker 1: You share, You share stuff in your house all the time.
Speaker 4: Sure, so you are a sharer, but I'm not sharing
Speaker 4: my husband.
Speaker 1: This is actually this says it's actually made made it
Speaker 1: a lot stronger. And it's weird to say, but I
Speaker 1: actually love him so much more because of it. Meanwhile,
Speaker 1: one now, I'll say this, you want your partner, now
Speaker 1: take the sex part out of it.
Speaker 2: Do you want your partner to be happy?
Speaker 1: Lindsay, of course, want them to experience all the joys
Speaker 1: that are out there in life. No, you can't take
Speaker 1: the sex out of it. You know what I'm about
Speaker 1: to ask. So you have to remove that thought process.
Speaker 1: Do you want him to enjoy all the happiness that
Speaker 1: he is potentially capable of?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: When is he happiest doing something?
Speaker 2: Okay? Do you like watching him fish and being happy?
Speaker 1: So it's easy then for me to transfer my mind
Speaker 1: of why would you not want your partner to see
Speaker 1: them being happy doing the things they like?
Speaker 2: Right now?
Speaker 1: Hold on, you can't. I know what you're gonna do,
Speaker 1: and I don't disagree, but I can understand that thought process.
Speaker 2: I can.
Speaker 1: That makes sense to me. Why would you not want
Speaker 1: to watch your partner fish?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 1: But when I guess because sex is so intimate for
Speaker 1: me that I'm like, I nah, I don't know if
Speaker 1: I want to participate and be the one making you
Speaker 1: enjoy the fishing.
Speaker 2: You let it, let have some other guy, rely on
Speaker 2: some other dudes.
Speaker 5: And I feel like the reason why they're doing this
Speaker 5: is because you're clearly not satisfying your your spouse.
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know about that.
Speaker 1: And that's why I don't know about that.
Speaker 4: You're allowing this to happen.
Speaker 1: I don't know about I think that's diminishing what's happening
Speaker 1: by making it that simple, that you're rationalizing it as
Speaker 1: that is why people go have sex with other people
Speaker 1: because they're not getting what they want.
Speaker 3: No, she just wants a lot of dick, and she
Speaker 3: has spun it into a way to where the guy
Speaker 3: is alright with it.
Speaker 1: Well, I think she just if one individual at least
Speaker 1: in this So far we've only heard women doing it.
Speaker 1: But like you just like having sex. That doesn't mean
Speaker 1: you're not having good sex, right, That doesn't mean the
Speaker 1: sex you're going to be getting is good.
Speaker 3: Right, That's what I'm saying, And it very well could be.
Speaker 3: You could be just like the sex. And I guess,
Speaker 3: just like with anything else, you do too much of it.
Speaker 3: He gets old, you have to do different things to
Speaker 3: spice it up. And yeah, it's either fucking let Tommy
Speaker 3: come in or fucking start throwing maloney on each other, right, whatever,
Speaker 3: But I think I'm.
Speaker 2: Right there with you, man.
Speaker 3: It's just it's there's a difference between watching him fish
Speaker 3: and enjoying the time and then doing something that is
Speaker 3: so private and intimate, and that's something that only you,
Speaker 3: you guys do That motherfucker goes fishing with his friends whenever, however, right,
Speaker 3: you know, But he's not, at least I don't think
Speaker 3: he's fucking.
Speaker 1: But some people simplify sex. They don't give it the
Speaker 1: same level of guard that we three are, right, I'm
Speaker 1: just trying to have like thought of how other people
Speaker 1: see things, right, I'm not trying not to let my
Speaker 1: morals stop from the rationale of why someone would do this.
Speaker 3: As a guy who worked in swingers clubs, right and
Speaker 3: saw that lifestyle every fucking been a part of it,
Speaker 3: I never understood it. I never understood, you know. And
Speaker 3: maybe that's just me because I be down fucking two girls.
Speaker 3: Hell yeah, sign me the hell up. You know, my lady,
Speaker 3: and you know, some rando or whatever whatever the case is, right,
Speaker 3: But it's and and there's that double standard, you know,
Speaker 3: when it comes to well, you know, I want two dicks, like.
Speaker 2: Well, you're only getting one. So listen to this.
Speaker 1: One man named Richard is looking forward to seeing his
Speaker 1: wife Danielle be quote defiled in a way that I've
Speaker 1: never seen.
Speaker 2: Her defiled before. End quote.
Speaker 1: And she plans to wear her wedding dress for the
Speaker 1: occasion quote and I just love the pristine wedding dress.
Speaker 1: Beautiful girl, My own wife just destroyed. He explained that
Speaker 1: every hot wife and experience is a building block of
Speaker 1: love and trust, and it keeps getting stronger and stronger
Speaker 1: and stronger. Is she saying, do you trust me yet?
Speaker 1: With every thrust from the other man. So we're gonna
Speaker 1: strengthen our relationship and I'm gonna get some entertainment in
Speaker 1: a dren for from the defilement. A former Colorado Sheriff's deputy, Shannon,
Speaker 1: is also planning to take part in the experience. Why
Speaker 1: we need to know she's in the former sheriff I
Speaker 1: don't know, the forty four year old who left her
Speaker 1: position in law enforcement when her SI gig as an
Speaker 1: adult film star was outed. Okay, then we'll be sleeping
Speaker 1: with another porn star while a husband records. It feels different.
Speaker 2: Yep, yeah, that's your job. Yeah yeah, they're professionals.
Speaker 1: We hope we're able to provide insight into the hot
Speaker 1: wife lifestyle and show that a couple can remain deeply
Speaker 1: in love and stay together, stay strong together, even when
Speaker 1: there are experiences with other partners, adding that the pair
Speaker 1: is just like any other couple despite their sexual fantasies.
Speaker 1: I could feel my un my husband's unconditional love and support.
Speaker 1: You can feel another debt.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, there's some kind of support in there for you.
Speaker 1: This was a once in a lifetime experience for both
Speaker 1: of us, and it has made our bond even stronger.
Speaker 3: Okay, once in a lifetime. So it only happened one time?
Speaker 3: Or is this something you do on the wreck?
Speaker 2: You know how?
Speaker 3: I know that I'm not made for that fucking lifestyle.
Speaker 3: So you remember when I caught my girlfriend getting fucked
Speaker 3: in front of a bus at a biker rally in August.
Speaker 2: No, I seem to not recall the story.
Speaker 3: Excuse me, my ex girlfriend instead of sitting there watching intently,
Speaker 3: you know, and possibly masturbating into a fucking patch of
Speaker 3: grass somewhere, No, I fucking went off on the bitch
Speaker 3: and made her do a naked walk of shame all
Speaker 3: the way back to the campground after I tried to
Speaker 3: throw the dude's boots into the fucking pond. That's how
Speaker 3: I know that I am not made for that fucking lifestyle.
Speaker 2: You can't walk up on that.
Speaker 3: You can't see I can't see that sort of thing
Speaker 3: happen and not fucking have fire and rage you go.
Speaker 1: Over my I guess my pushback on that is, please
Speaker 1: you didn't know, you didn't know it was happening. If
Speaker 1: you were in on it from the beginning and the setup,
Speaker 1: maybe the response would not be either. I'll give you that,
Speaker 1: if that was an agreement that was made upon you.
Speaker 1: I don't know if any of these people are being
Speaker 1: caught off guard right right. Maybe that is the case.
Speaker 1: Maybe that is the case.
Speaker 3: But even then, just the mere thought of it, you know,
Speaker 3: the mere thought of it starts to boil some shit
Speaker 3: up and you're just like, now I want to go
Speaker 3: punch somebody for no random reason. You know how you
Speaker 3: get yourself worked up, you know, real easy, and now
Speaker 3: you're just angry for the rest of the day over
Speaker 3: an imaginary scenario that you made up.
Speaker 2: In your head. It's kind of how I am right now.
Speaker 1: This feels like like some sort of washing of the
Speaker 1: term cut holding to try and make it a little
Speaker 1: more palatable. Yeah, of course, like hot wifing. Other people
Speaker 1: I see that do cut holding online. They're not attractive, right,
Speaker 1: and so to call it hot wifing, don't. I don't
Speaker 1: even understand the correlation of the turn, like hot plating,
Speaker 1: Like I don't understand the hot Like why are we
Speaker 1: putting the word hot in there?
Speaker 2: I don't know, because it sounds sick. I think that's again.
Speaker 1: I think we're like washing the turn to try and
Speaker 1: make it more palatable. Maybe so, because I don't understand
Speaker 1: this at all, And I'm fascinated with the idea of
Speaker 1: how do.
Speaker 2: You approach Is it a club? Is a group? Do
Speaker 2: you find other people?
Speaker 1: Like swingers, you know, tend to find ways to communicate
Speaker 1: and find other people that are also into that lifestyle.
Speaker 2: Right, right, right, Yeah, there's websites and stuff out there
Speaker 2: like that.
Speaker 3: I'm sure there's a Facebook group out there, you know,
Speaker 3: because they have a face book group for everything. Facebook
Speaker 3: group for people who were into classic cars and motorcycles
Speaker 3: and fucking getting cooked.
Speaker 5: So The cuck holding ones are the guys that let
Speaker 5: their girls get railed by someone while they watch and
Speaker 5: they get belittled.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what Brady tells me.
Speaker 5: Okay, So I feel like I'm watching I just started
Speaker 5: watching Love after lock Up because I was bored and
Speaker 5: it just happened to pop on.
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, what's this. And there's a few guys.
Speaker 5: On there that have like never been in real relationships before,
Speaker 5: and then they meet these women that have been locked
Speaker 5: up and they're like, I'm going to pick them up
Speaker 5: from prison and oh we met online and I'm gonna
Speaker 5: I'm going to marry her.
Speaker 4: And I'm like, oh my god.
Speaker 5: These guys, I feel like those are the guys that
Speaker 5: would be into cuck holding.
Speaker 2: Maybe so, and be abused maybe so.
Speaker 3: The people that have low self esteem finally got somebody
Speaker 3: and they're like, you know, I just I'll do anything
Speaker 3: to make sure that I hold on to this broad Yeah,
Speaker 3: I don't know. It's again, it ain't for me.
Speaker 1: So this is the only difference between hot wifing and
Speaker 1: cuckolding is there's a dom scenario with cuckholding, okay, which
Speaker 1: is kind of what you said, Like, there's a shame,
Speaker 1: some shame involved in it.
Speaker 2: The yeah, the degrading or whatever.
Speaker 1: But I so in hot wifing does the does then
Speaker 1: the woman watched the husband have sex too that.
Speaker 2: I tried searching for that.
Speaker 3: What's the opposite of heigh hot wifing or what's that
Speaker 3: the male version of hot wifing?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 3: And I couldn't find any anything. Maybe it hasn't been
Speaker 3: made up yet.
Speaker 1: Here's another example. A hot wife is a woman who
Speaker 1: is generally submissive. She has sex with bulls with her
Speaker 1: husband's approval and encouragement. The husband is usually a voyeur
Speaker 1: and enjoys to see his wife have sex, pleasure other guys,
Speaker 1: see his wife pleasure other guys, or being satisfied by others.
Speaker 1: There are many varieties of hot wives. However, in a
Speaker 1: hot wife relationship, the husband is still the driving force
Speaker 1: behind the sexual activities and.
Speaker 2: Cut holding relationship.
Speaker 1: The cut gooldriss has all the power, she chooses who,
Speaker 1: when he when she fucks, and her cuck husband has
Speaker 1: nothing to say about it.
Speaker 2: Okay, he can be caged.
Speaker 1: He can also service the bull at her command. Oh god,
Speaker 1: it is mostly female led sexual activities. Cut holding also
Speaker 1: extends beyond sexual life. A cook usually does all the
Speaker 1: that's not how you spelt chores, you fuck, So he's
Speaker 1: a simp chores of a woman through a day. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: that I think when it's led with sexual yes, it's a.
Speaker 3: Say you imagine that here, I need you to put
Speaker 3: this cage on, which, if you know what a cage is,
Speaker 3: that's fucking weird in itself.
Speaker 2: No, thank you.
Speaker 3: I like my erections to be fully not cut off.
Speaker 3: And then it's like, all right, so you can't have
Speaker 3: a full boner and you're gonna have to jerk this
Speaker 3: guy off while he's fucking mayor whatever he lick his
Speaker 3: butthole because that's what she says for you to do,
Speaker 3: you know, right, I mean, that's what you said.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not day, but if my wife tells me
Speaker 2: to be listen to this.
Speaker 1: I love comments on some of this stuff. Too many
Speaker 1: damn labels. My wife and I go out always together
Speaker 1: to swing clubs, house orgies and adult theaters and fucking
Speaker 1: suck anyone we want. The one thing that turns us
Speaker 1: off is people who want to label us. I guess
Speaker 1: I would say, settle the fuck down right if you're
Speaker 1: gonna do shit people are gonna label if you're gonna
Speaker 1: put it out doing it, people are gonna label Who
Speaker 1: the fuck cares what I put on it?
Speaker 2: If you're happy sucking and fucking do.
Speaker 4: It, Yeah, yes, sucker, fucker fucker.
Speaker 2: Another one.
Speaker 1: People need to stop thinking of them as hard to
Speaker 1: find categories. Yes, there is some hard truth, but your
Speaker 1: specific dynamic will not be exactly like someone else who
Speaker 1: identifies as a cook or hot wife. For example, I
Speaker 1: will clean her, have sex with her, share her. She
Speaker 1: is free to do whatever, either solo or with me.
Speaker 1: She has all the say, but we don't really get
Speaker 1: into the humiliation aspect of it.
Speaker 3: So you have a version of it, right, He's like,
Speaker 3: I don't mind if you do the cuck holding thing,
Speaker 3: just don't make fun of my small wainer.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think it comes down to this phrase, and like
Speaker 1: it matters if you want it to So like my wife,
Speaker 1: I don't she can do whatever she wants. I don't
Speaker 1: give a shit, right dot dot dot real, there are
Speaker 1: things I'm not okay with her doingever the fuck you want, right,
Speaker 1: And I'm sure she would say the same thing about absolutely.
Speaker 4: And said Corby, and you want to try how hot wifing.
Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead, Yeah.
Speaker 4: Would you be down with that?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 4: Exactly?
Speaker 2: No, Hell, I mean I wouldn't.
Speaker 1: It wouldn't be a hard, definitive no out of the gate,
Speaker 1: only because I would try to under I don't want
Speaker 1: to jump to this autumn. This is somebody I'm I've
Speaker 1: build a life with, right, So I'm not going to
Speaker 1: automatically be like fuck you know and.
Speaker 2: Be like what do you what are you talking about? Right?
Speaker 2: What are you envision in this? Let's let's talk about.
Speaker 1: I mean, just because you're I think there's a great philosophy.
Speaker 1: Is take any meeting. You don't know what's going to
Speaker 1: come out of it. So I consider this a meeting
Speaker 1: at this point. So what are we talking about? As
Speaker 1: Ghimpie said, what are we talking about? Where did this
Speaker 1: come from? Why do you want to do this? We've
Speaker 1: been together fifteen years right now?
Speaker 2: Why is this? What film did you watch?
Speaker 1: Where did this come from? Is this something you've been oppressing?
Speaker 2: You?
Speaker 1: See what I'm saying? Like, I want to know more.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't go with fuck no, right, I would whatever
Speaker 1: each his own?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 2: Would you gimpy let him do it? If she came
Speaker 2: to me and she was like, Hey, I want to
Speaker 2: be a part of Hot Wife, and I want a
Speaker 2: hot wife this you might have the best scenario.
Speaker 1: For this hypothetical because you're in a fairly new relationship
Speaker 1: compared to us.
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure, I would. Normally, I do not ask
Speaker 3: a lot of questions. I think you guys know that
Speaker 3: about me. I'm gonna just let it fucking go, all right,
Speaker 3: whatever that's what you want to do.
Speaker 2: Fine, have at it.
Speaker 3: This is where I start asking that why, much like
Speaker 3: Gorman's why why?
Speaker 2: What is this? And I guess that now there's gonna.
Speaker 3: Be a double standard there because and I'm just being
Speaker 3: honest with you.
Speaker 2: If she said, hey, let's have.
Speaker 3: A threesome meet you and one of my friends. Okay, done,
Speaker 3: let's do it. Which friend you know not gonna be
Speaker 3: that big friend of yours?
Speaker 2: Is it?
Speaker 3: You know I'm gonna have some standards here or whatever.
Speaker 3: But if she came to me and said, uh, hey,
Speaker 3: I want to have a threesome with you and one
Speaker 3: of your friends or a guy of my my choosing.
Speaker 2: Answer, hey, I saw this guy a quick trick.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna have to be like, no, what am
Speaker 3: I not good enough for you? Is that what it is?
Speaker 3: Is our sex so boring? Am I that bad? Where
Speaker 3: you feel like you have to add a whole nother
Speaker 3: body because it's one thing just to you know, go
Speaker 3: to Patricia's and get some toys, you know, let's let's
Speaker 3: bring some toys into some handcuffs, some blindfolded, you know,
Speaker 3: tickle me with a feather, you know, whatever sort of thing.
Speaker 3: And then there's a whole nother fucking living, breathing gonna
Speaker 3: come on your face, fucking body, you know what I mean,
Speaker 3: And and and and that's like, okay, okay, let's have
Speaker 3: a discussion here, because one, I'm not really comfortable right now.
Speaker 2: I do not like this. But I am curious as
Speaker 2: to why, all of a sudden, is this the thing
Speaker 2: your husband brings it up?
Speaker 1: Hey, I met some of so came to buy a car,
Speaker 1: and I'd like to have a threesome with her, and
Speaker 1: you obviously are like no, and he goes, You're right.
Speaker 2: That was wrong.
Speaker 1: Your relationship is damaged, Right, it's troubled.
Speaker 4: I don't know if it's damaged, but there's.
Speaker 2: The trust is erodated. Yes, for sure, I would agree,
Speaker 2: because I would.
Speaker 1: Be I'd be like, now, I'm questioning everything every time
Speaker 1: you have to go to town for work. Now I'm questioning
Speaker 1: things that I would have totally not questioned because now
Speaker 1: I know the cat's dead. Now I know this is
Speaker 1: a thing that exists.
Speaker 2: For you sold another car today? What's her name? You
Speaker 2: want to fuck her too? Huh?
Speaker 5: Right?
Speaker 1: Yeah, because even if let's switch it around. He comes
Speaker 1: home and he's like, hey, i'd like to I met
Speaker 1: I sold this car today, And you're like, great, that's awesome.
Speaker 2: Yeah, commission.
Speaker 1: And then his name's George, and I'd like, I think
Speaker 1: we could have a threesome with him?
Speaker 2: What do you think?
Speaker 1: And You're like, no, man, I'm I want to be
Speaker 1: I'm with you. I don't want You're right, I don't
Speaker 1: know what that's crazy.
Speaker 2: I'm just I'm joking. No, you're not.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have a ton of fucking questions. Yeah, Like
Speaker 1: I'm just being on. I'm just speaking of the cuff here,
Speaker 1: being honest.
Speaker 2: We're going to fucking therapy.
Speaker 4: Absolutely.
Speaker 1: You either are not the person who I thought you were,
Speaker 1: you're not the person who you wanted to be, but
Speaker 1: we whatever, something's changed, Yeah, and we got.
Speaker 2: To figure this out. And me, I want you to
Speaker 2: be happy.
Speaker 1: And if that's your happy, I'm sure it's fucking gonna
Speaker 1: keep you in this right or force you to. So
Speaker 1: we gotta go figure out. You definitely need to go
Speaker 1: fucking figure out what you want. Yes, but like the
Speaker 1: relationship you have.
Speaker 2: Is over, Oh yeah, it's it's reached a different level.
Speaker 2: You're not cuddling on the couch watching AGT what you're
Speaker 2: thinking about? Guy you sold a car too, yeah, right right?
Speaker 1: Or or they're on their phone a lot, right, Or
Speaker 1: they're staying later at work, yeah, or there have a
Speaker 1: lot of out of town trips.
Speaker 3: Yeah, at that point, you might as well just be
Speaker 3: having a full, long fucking affair, or at least your
Speaker 3: brain will take you that way.
Speaker 2: Anyway.
Speaker 1: I think there's an argument to be made that once
Speaker 1: you make that emotional commitment, you've already cheated now physically
Speaker 1: and actually no, but you've damaged the relationship.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and could you go back to that sort of thing.
Speaker 3: It's gonna take a lot of work, a lot of
Speaker 3: work to get back to where he was.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say yes, as long as party ed, the
Speaker 1: offending party stands by what they said they would do,
Speaker 1: no more contact, no whatever, changes their playground, change their
Speaker 1: play friends, whatever those parameters are, and party B the
Speaker 1: ones that didn't know what the fuck was happening, can
Speaker 1: accept and move on. Yeah, so that's two giant things
Speaker 1: that have to happen.
Speaker 3: A lot of that's going to have to be on
Speaker 3: party B. I feel, Oh, I don't think so, because well,
Speaker 3: I mean, because you're always going to be thinking that
Speaker 3: one person Party A could easily change their playground and
Speaker 3: not talk to those people anymore. But it's on party
Speaker 3: B that it's always going to be in the back
Speaker 3: of their head that you've had this one thought one
Speaker 3: time when and and and you.
Speaker 2: Say everything's fine, But I gotta why know.
Speaker 3: That's not going to resurface anytime soon. I think Party
Speaker 3: A is just as equal. It's right there, itch.
Speaker 2: And just wanting to do it. Yeah, Okay, you.
Speaker 1: Ever wanted to buy something and you know you could,
Speaker 1: but you're like, I can't spend that money right now?
Speaker 2: Right what fucking happens?
Speaker 1: You sit there like fucking you know, I think I
Speaker 1: can buy it in like a month, start pulling money away. Yes,
Speaker 1: I'll just I'll just look at it online, which I'll
Speaker 1: just go by the store.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there ain't nothing wrong with I get eighteen months,
Speaker 2: same as.
Speaker 1: Fucking cash exactly. It's slippery slope, right, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You've got to be hard and fast, both of you.
Speaker 1: I'm not toying thinking participating.
Speaker 2: It's over right, right, that's not easy.
Speaker 3: Set your rules, set your boundaries, which they say on
Speaker 3: the swingers community that that's what a big part of
Speaker 3: it is is having your rules and your boundaries and
Speaker 3: following those rules and communicating exactly. And if you can't
Speaker 3: do any of that, then it's not going to work
Speaker 3: out for you. Me personally, I just assume stay away
Speaker 3: from all that.
Speaker 2: I'm pretty happy the way when it's working.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm good with my going to bed at seven,
Speaker 1: getting up at six. I'm pretty happy with all that
Speaker 1: I eat every night.
Speaker 2: It's okay.
Speaker 1: I like being excited about the trip to lows.
Speaker 2: Uh huh, that's just me, my weird life.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Smelling candles on your way out the door.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, you guys have a fantastic week and
Speaker 1: March Badness giveaway on Tuesday. We don't know the bar yet,
Speaker 1: but we will as the games get played out here.
Speaker 2: It'll be a good time win some good shit. Guys,
Speaker 2: have a great week.
Speaker 1: Say bye bye.