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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna read this because it's pretty fascinating. Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>The tourist guy was a guy who.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't I don't know if he didn't mean to or what,

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<v Speaker 1>but he photoshopped himself onto the observator. He was on

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<v Speaker 1>the observation deck, but took this photo and then photoshopped

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<v Speaker 1>it to his friends and he was like, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>for it to go viral.

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<v Speaker 2>That wasn't really a thing, right, of course, he just

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to be funny with his friends.

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<v Speaker 1>In two thousand, like people didn't. People don't understand the

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<v Speaker 1>event of two thousand and one of nine to eleven

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<v Speaker 1>changed the Internet.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh there.

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<v Speaker 1>They couldn't figure out really like the purpose of the

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<v Speaker 1>Internet at that time. Everybody had like Geocity pages and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that, Like it was kind of hard to

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out. I worked at an internet radio company

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<v Speaker 1>and programming four different stations, sorry, and it was like

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<v Speaker 1>hard to figure out like how to get people to

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<v Speaker 1>listen to them, like what the content would be we

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<v Speaker 1>were treating on like regular radio. We had a button,

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<v Speaker 1>like we had a little radio player and you had

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<v Speaker 1>a button that if an AD came on, you could

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<v Speaker 1>click it. That was like the big technology advancement. We

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<v Speaker 1>had it, just it didn't make it.

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<v Speaker 2>But it had to be a separate player, so nobody

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<v Speaker 2>could really figure it out. It was that super clunky

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<v Speaker 2>at the time. Still, yes, and then.

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<v Speaker 1>Nine to eleven happens and they realized that they need

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<v Speaker 1>the Internet to move faster, and it creates this technology

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<v Speaker 1>of how to use information and share it really fast.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really where So viral wasn't really a thing like, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we know it today.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't. It sure wasn't.

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<v Speaker 3>But I feel that was the catastrophe track, catastrophic event

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<v Speaker 3>that we needed to shift this into a another universe,

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<v Speaker 3>a parallel universe.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, catastrophe always there's something that comes out of oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah. People don't like to talk about that part,

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<v Speaker 1>right because it undermines the trauma.

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<v Speaker 2>Right. Uh.

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<v Speaker 3>The Internet was crap until then and then all of

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<v Speaker 3>a sudden, boom, pal it's everything and everywhere, you know

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<v Speaker 3>what I mean. Yeah, it's crazy. How just like with

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<v Speaker 3>the flip of a switch, basically is what I'm saying

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<v Speaker 3>is how quick it took off and took over the

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<v Speaker 3>world and now here we are in the digital age.

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<v Speaker 3>I often asked myself, and I know I'll never get

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<v Speaker 3>the answer. But you can find anything on the internet, right,

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<v Speaker 3>literally fucking anything. How did that information get there? Who

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<v Speaker 3>put that information there? Because you know, think about it,

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<v Speaker 3>like encyclopedias and shit like that. Somebody writes the book,

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<v Speaker 3>somebody has to put that information in the encyclopedia. Right,

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<v Speaker 3>How the hell did all the information that we know

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<v Speaker 3>of in the world get onto the Internet?

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<v Speaker 2>Who put it there?

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<v Speaker 3>Because it seems to me like that's a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>work And I don't give a damn how many nerds

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<v Speaker 3>you've gotten one building. That's a lot of fucking work

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<v Speaker 3>to be putting all that information out there in a

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<v Speaker 3>single database for somebody for us to just you know,

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<v Speaker 3>will and nearly grab whatever we want.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I think that's the argument.

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<v Speaker 1>Of why I don't freak out about AI, because you

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<v Speaker 1>think AI hasn't been here, But it has, right for

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<v Speaker 1>a while, right, the military has everything until the you know, eventually,

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<v Speaker 1>until the civilians get it.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean like there was already like a thing happening

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<v Speaker 1>to get stuff onto the Internet before AI became what

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<v Speaker 1>we know it today, And every time there's something.

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<v Speaker 2>New, it creates chaos.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to reference the horse people complaining about the

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<v Speaker 1>horses and like, why would I get a car?

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<v Speaker 2>I have a perfectly fine working horse.

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<v Speaker 1>Because that was a real argument that really happened, and

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<v Speaker 1>every Jimmy Carr has a really great comedy bit about this,

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<v Speaker 1>where he's like, it's it's gonna be fine. Oh, it's

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<v Speaker 1>always been fine, even the Cuban missile crisis literally probably

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<v Speaker 1>the height of when we thought extinction was among us.

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<v Speaker 2>It's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, absolutely, I will agree with you. Everything turns out

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<v Speaker 3>to be all right, right, that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>All right should be a two word thing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not.

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<v Speaker 1>It's one word, but everything will be all space right exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what. It doesn't feel like it, and some

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<v Speaker 1>people's trauma feels worse than others, not saying it isn't.

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<v Speaker 2>But even then it works out all right.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I've never been somebody who freaks out about

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<v Speaker 1>the those things.

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<v Speaker 2>I did have a good argument.

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<v Speaker 1>Though, for AI, where a guy used AI to fight

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<v Speaker 1>a speeding ticket in one very interesting wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Just let it give them the argument.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess chat GPT, how do I get out of

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<v Speaker 3>the speeding ticket?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Get the fuck out of here? Yeah, I use

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<v Speaker 2>it for recipes. They work, gives some awesome recipes.

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<v Speaker 3>See that just goes to show that there's people out

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<v Speaker 3>there that are going to use it for bad things.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not saying they trying to get out of a

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<v Speaker 3>speeding ticket isn't necessary. It's not fucking murder or child molestation.

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<v Speaker 3>But you got in trouble and now you're trying to

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<v Speaker 3>use it to tease your way out.

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<v Speaker 2>Why you give her that look? Similarly, she tried to

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<v Speaker 2>get out of her speeding ticket. Right, I didn't have school,

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<v Speaker 2>but you tried to get out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>People's that's human nature, right to try and get out

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<v Speaker 1>of things.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever. Man, I guess you know it's a tool, use it.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, listen, surgical steel was meant for a certain thing, right,

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<v Speaker 1>people be people.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>I found the sex trend thing and I was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>I saved it for today. I wanted to bring up best,

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<v Speaker 1>but I saved it for today. And that is do

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<v Speaker 1>you know what hot wife?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, hot wife? Oh yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>You know yeah, that's when your wife is fucking other people.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's kind of it's kind of like a bull

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<v Speaker 3>and vixen sort of.

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<v Speaker 2>Thing, or how is it different?

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<v Speaker 3>That's where I was saying, it's your wife is fucking

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<v Speaker 3>other people and you let her do it.

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<v Speaker 1>But how's that different than than you.

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<v Speaker 3>May not be watching. You may not be watching, and

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<v Speaker 3>oh you don't watch, you know how you could?

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<v Speaker 2>You could if you wanted to.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, but hot wifing is basically she's married and she's

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<v Speaker 3>allowed to fuck other dudes.

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<v Speaker 2>So here, here's the article married. Here's the article.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>It says that couples are opening up the relationship to

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<v Speaker 1>a nutrient called hot wifing, which sees husbands watch their

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<v Speaker 1>wives sleep with other men, like letting your friends test

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<v Speaker 1>drive your car, but they give the car back, They

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<v Speaker 1>get to see how well it rides. It creates a

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<v Speaker 1>sense of pride. You get a little taste of what

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<v Speaker 1>my life is like. I don't know what the fuck

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking about right right the way Brady had explained

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<v Speaker 1>it to me. Sorry, Yeah, Brady needs to be in

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<v Speaker 1>here on this because he's into all that weird freaky shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe not into it, into.

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<v Speaker 2>It, but he knows his knowledge. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he listens to a lot of podcasts and they

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<v Speaker 3>talk about this shit. He was explaining it to me

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<v Speaker 3>one day that like, you know, like the bowling vixen

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<v Speaker 3>sort of thing is just like I like to sit

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<v Speaker 3>here and watch my old lady get reeled by other dudes. Right,

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<v Speaker 3>that's the bowling vixen sort of thing. The cuck holding

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<v Speaker 3>is I'm sitting here watching my wife get fucked by

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<v Speaker 3>this other guy, but also getting degraded at the same time. Yeah, right,

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<v Speaker 3>like you know, you know guys, you know, going to

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<v Speaker 3>poundtown on your old lady and sitting there while you're

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<v Speaker 3>in a corner telling you how much of a small

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<v Speaker 3>dick you have and how worthless you fucking are and

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<v Speaker 3>shit like that. That's the true definition of cuck holding.

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<v Speaker 3>And I get with the hot wife thing. It's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to sure, I want everybody to know what

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<v Speaker 3>my wife is.

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<v Speaker 2>What you think? Yeah, god damn.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you sit back with a survey and a clipboard afterwards?

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<v Speaker 3>So let me ask you a few questions.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it good? Was it tight? Did it smell funny?

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<v Speaker 1>Multiple couple's partnered with an adult site called Wifery so

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<v Speaker 1>that the wives can be bed professional porn stars as

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<v Speaker 1>part of the unconventional new practice, which is a modern

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<v Speaker 1>take on cutholding.

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<v Speaker 2>There we go, Uh, it'll be really cool for him.

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<v Speaker 1>To see me with two hot guys, just living my

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<v Speaker 4>No, right, I thought, you don't watch, You don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Know you watch? You watch these Yeah yeah, But if you're.

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<v Speaker 4>Watching and you're like, wait, she never fucking.

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<v Speaker 2>Does that with me, then you better control your fucking emotions.

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<v Speaker 1>One man named Alex admitted that he never tried kinky

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<v Speaker 1>axe until he met Rebecca, his wife. Now the married

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<v Speaker 1>couple are into hot wifing, and Alex can witness his

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<v Speaker 1>fantasy of his wife with two other men at once.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a fantasy for men.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh, to watch their wife with not one right, not one?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? Just getting double stuffed. Yeah wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Some may bristle at the thought of their partner with

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<v Speaker 1>another person, let alone too. Rebecca insists that the arrangement

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<v Speaker 1>has actually brought a whole other level of comfort and

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<v Speaker 1>security to the relationship. Bullshit, there's really nothing like being

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<v Speaker 1>able to share that experience with someone you love. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not sharing, I mean you're sharing, but not with that

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<v Speaker 1>part knowing that it doesn't diminish what we have.

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<v Speaker 2>Sex and love are two completely different things. That's true.

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<v Speaker 2>That is true. That is a true statement. Some men

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<v Speaker 2>love watching other guys have sex. With their wives.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's just stop with that statement right there. Some

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<v Speaker 1>men love watching other guys have sex.

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<v Speaker 2>With their wives. I believe that. Yeah, I believe that

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there are people out there that have a

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<v Speaker 1>kink that might I may not accept as okay or

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<v Speaker 1>normal or my lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>Oblivious to the idea that it doesn't exist. That doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>make it wrong, by the way or right. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>they like, okra.

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<v Speaker 2>That's their thing, and they can have that all they want.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not for me, it is not Maybe I'm too insecure.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's just the way I see things like pineapple

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<v Speaker 1>and pizza type of thing, you know, like it's just

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<v Speaker 1>the way I see it. I just don't Can you

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<v Speaker 1>eat pineapple on pizza? Of course? Yeah, we want all

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<v Speaker 1>the words to do whatever you'd like. It's just not

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<v Speaker 1>my thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe it's just me being an only child and I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not one to share. Maybe that's it, but that's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>You share, You share stuff in your house all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, so you are a sharer, but I'm not sharing

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<v Speaker 1>This is actually this says it's actually made made it

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<v Speaker 1>one now, I'll say this, you want your partner, now

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<v Speaker 1>take the sex part out of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want your partner to be happy?

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<v Speaker 1>Lindsay, of course, want them to experience all the joys

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<v Speaker 1>that are out there in life. No, you can't take

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<v Speaker 1>the sex out of it. You know what I'm about

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<v Speaker 1>to ask. So you have to remove that thought process.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want him to enjoy all the happiness that

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>When is he happiest doing something?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? Do you like watching him fish and being happy?

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<v Speaker 1>So it's easy then for me to transfer my mind

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<v Speaker 1>of why would you not want your partner to see

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<v Speaker 2>Right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, you can't. I know what you're gonna do,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't disagree, but I can understand that thought process.

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<v Speaker 2>I can.

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<v Speaker 1>That makes sense to me. Why would you not want

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<v Speaker 1>to watch your partner fish?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>But when I guess because sex is so intimate for

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<v Speaker 1>me that I'm like, I nah, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>I want to participate and be the one making you

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<v Speaker 2>You let it, let have some other guy, rely on

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<v Speaker 5>And I feel like the reason why they're doing this

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<v Speaker 5>is because you're clearly not satisfying your your spouse.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I don't know about that.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I don't know about that.

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<v Speaker 4>You're allowing this to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about I think that's diminishing what's happening

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<v Speaker 1>by making it that simple, that you're rationalizing it as

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<v Speaker 1>that is why people go have sex with other people

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<v Speaker 3>No, she just wants a lot of dick, and she

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<v Speaker 3>has spun it into a way to where the guy

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think she just if one individual at least

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<v Speaker 1>in this So far we've only heard women doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>But like you just like having sex. That doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>you're not having good sex, right, That doesn't mean the

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<v Speaker 3>Right, That's what I'm saying, And it very well could be.

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<v Speaker 3>You could be just like the sex. And I guess,

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<v Speaker 3>just like with anything else, you do too much of it.

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<v Speaker 3>He gets old, you have to do different things to

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<v Speaker 3>spice it up. And yeah, it's either fucking let Tommy

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<v Speaker 3>But I think I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Right there with you, man.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just it's there's a difference between watching him fish

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<v Speaker 3>and enjoying the time and then doing something that is

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<v Speaker 3>so private and intimate, and that's something that only you,

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<v Speaker 3>you guys do That motherfucker goes fishing with his friends whenever, however, right,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, But he's not, at least I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>he's fucking.

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<v Speaker 1>But some people simplify sex. They don't give it the

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<v Speaker 1>same level of guard that we three are, right, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to have like thought of how other people

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<v Speaker 1>see things, right, I'm not trying not to let my

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<v Speaker 1>morals stop from the rationale of why someone would do this.

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<v Speaker 3>As a guy who worked in swingers clubs, right and

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<v Speaker 3>saw that lifestyle every fucking been a part of it,

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<v Speaker 3>I never understood it. I never understood, you know. And

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<v Speaker 3>maybe that's just me because I be down fucking two girls.

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<v Speaker 3>Hell yeah, sign me the hell up. You know, my lady,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, some rando or whatever whatever the case is, right,

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<v Speaker 3>But it's and and there's that double standard, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>when it comes to well, you know, I want two dicks, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you're only getting one. So listen to this.

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<v Speaker 1>One man named Richard is looking forward to seeing his

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<v Speaker 1>wife Danielle be quote defiled in a way that I've

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<v Speaker 1>never seen.

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<v Speaker 2>Her defiled before. End quote.

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<v Speaker 1>And she plans to wear her wedding dress for the

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<v Speaker 1>occasion quote and I just love the pristine wedding dress.

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<v Speaker 1>Beautiful girl, My own wife just destroyed. He explained that

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<v Speaker 1>every hot wife and experience is a building block of

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<v Speaker 1>love and trust, and it keeps getting stronger and stronger

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<v Speaker 1>and stronger. Is she saying, do you trust me yet?

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<v Speaker 1>With every thrust from the other man. So we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>strengthen our relationship and I'm gonna get some entertainment in

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<v Speaker 1>a dren for from the defilement. A former Colorado Sheriff's deputy, Shannon,

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<v Speaker 1>is also planning to take part in the experience. Why

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<v Speaker 1>we need to know she's in the former sheriff I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, the forty four year old who left her

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<v Speaker 1>position in law enforcement when her SI gig as an

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<v Speaker 1>adult film star was outed. Okay, then we'll be sleeping

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<v Speaker 1>with another porn star while a husband records. It feels different.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, yeah, that's your job. Yeah yeah, they're professionals.

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<v Speaker 1>We hope we're able to provide insight into the hot

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<v Speaker 1>wife lifestyle and show that a couple can remain deeply

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<v Speaker 1>in love and stay together, stay strong together, even when

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<v Speaker 1>there are experiences with other partners, adding that the pair

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<v Speaker 1>is just like any other couple despite their sexual fantasies.

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<v Speaker 1>I could feel my un my husband's unconditional love and support.

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<v Speaker 1>You can feel another debt.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, there's some kind of support in there for you.

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<v Speaker 1>This was a once in a lifetime experience for both

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<v Speaker 1>of us, and it has made our bond even stronger.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, once in a lifetime. So it only happened one time?

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<v Speaker 3>Or is this something you do on the wreck?

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<v Speaker 2>You know how?

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<v Speaker 3>I know that I'm not made for that fucking lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 3>So you remember when I caught my girlfriend getting fucked

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<v Speaker 3>in front of a bus at a biker rally in August.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I seem to not recall the story.

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<v Speaker 3>Excuse me, my ex girlfriend instead of sitting there watching intently,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, and possibly masturbating into a fucking patch of

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<v Speaker 3>grass somewhere, No, I fucking went off on the bitch

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<v Speaker 3>and made her do a naked walk of shame all

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<v Speaker 3>the way back to the campground after I tried to

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<v Speaker 3>throw the dude's boots into the fucking pond. That's how

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<v Speaker 3>I know that I am not made for that fucking lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't walk up on that.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't see I can't see that sort of thing

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<v Speaker 3>happen and not fucking have fire and rage you go.

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<v Speaker 1>Over my I guess my pushback on that is, please

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't know, you didn't know it was happening. If

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<v Speaker 1>you were in on it from the beginning and the setup,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe the response would not be either. I'll give you that,

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<v Speaker 1>if that was an agreement that was made upon you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if any of these people are being

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<v Speaker 1>caught off guard right right. Maybe that is the case.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that is the case.

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<v Speaker 3>But even then, just the mere thought of it, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>the mere thought of it starts to boil some shit

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<v Speaker 3>up and you're just like, now I want to go

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<v Speaker 3>punch somebody for no random reason. You know how you

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<v Speaker 3>get yourself worked up, you know, real easy, and now

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<v Speaker 3>you're just angry for the rest of the day over

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<v Speaker 3>an imaginary scenario that you made up.

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<v Speaker 2>In your head. It's kind of how I am right now.

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<v Speaker 1>This feels like like some sort of washing of the

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<v Speaker 1>term cut holding to try and make it a little

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<v Speaker 1>more palatable. Yeah, of course, like hot wifing. Other people

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<v Speaker 1>I see that do cut holding online. They're not attractive, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and so to call it hot wifing, don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even understand the correlation of the turn, like hot plating,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't understand the hot Like why are we

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<v Speaker 1>putting the word hot in there?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, because it sounds sick. I think that's again.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we're like washing the turn to try and

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<v Speaker 1>make it more palatable. Maybe so, because I don't understand

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<v Speaker 1>this at all, And I'm fascinated with the idea of

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<v Speaker 1>how do.

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<v Speaker 2>You approach Is it a club? Is a group? Do

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<v Speaker 2>you find other people?

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<v Speaker 1>Like swingers, you know, tend to find ways to communicate

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<v Speaker 1>and find other people that are also into that lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, right, right, Yeah, there's websites and stuff out there

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<v Speaker 2>like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure there's a Facebook group out there, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>because they have a face book group for everything. Facebook

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<v Speaker 3>group for people who were into classic cars and motorcycles

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<v Speaker 3>and fucking getting cooked.

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<v Speaker 5>So The cuck holding ones are the guys that let

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<v Speaker 5>their girls get railed by someone while they watch and

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<v Speaker 5>they get belittled.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what Brady tells me.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So I feel like I'm watching I just started

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<v Speaker 5>watching Love after lock Up because I was bored and

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<v Speaker 5>it just happened to pop on.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, oh, what's this. And there's a few guys.

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<v Speaker 5>On there that have like never been in real relationships before,

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<v Speaker 5>and then they meet these women that have been locked

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<v Speaker 5>up and they're like, I'm going to pick them up

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<v Speaker 5>from prison and oh we met online and I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to marry her.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm like, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 5>These guys, I feel like those are the guys that

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<v Speaker 5>would be into cuck holding.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe so, and be abused maybe so.

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<v Speaker 3>The people that have low self esteem finally got somebody

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<v Speaker 3>and they're like, you know, I just I'll do anything

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<v Speaker 3>to make sure that I hold on to this broad Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. It's again, it ain't for me.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is the only difference between hot wifing and

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<v Speaker 1>cuckolding is there's a dom scenario with cuckholding, okay, which

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of what you said, Like, there's a shame,

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<v Speaker 1>some shame involved in it.

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<v Speaker 2>The yeah, the degrading or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>But I so in hot wifing does the does then

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<v Speaker 1>the woman watched the husband have sex too that.

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<v Speaker 2>I tried searching for that.

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<v Speaker 3>What's the opposite of heigh hot wifing or what's that

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<v Speaker 3>the male version of hot wifing?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>And I couldn't find any anything. Maybe it hasn't been

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<v Speaker 3>made up yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's another example. A hot wife is a woman who

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<v Speaker 1>is generally submissive. She has sex with bulls with her

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<v Speaker 1>husband's approval and encouragement. The husband is usually a voyeur

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<v Speaker 1>and enjoys to see his wife have sex, pleasure other guys,

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<v Speaker 1>see his wife pleasure other guys, or being satisfied by others.

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<v Speaker 1>There are many varieties of hot wives. However, in a

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<v Speaker 1>hot wife relationship, the husband is still the driving force

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<v Speaker 1>behind the sexual activities and.

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<v Speaker 2>Cut holding relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>The cut gooldriss has all the power, she chooses who,

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<v Speaker 1>when he when she fucks, and her cuck husband has

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<v Speaker 1>nothing to say about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, he can be caged.

431
00:20:43.759 --> 00:20:48.599
<v Speaker 1>He can also service the bull at her command. Oh god,

432
00:20:49.160 --> 00:20:53.559
<v Speaker 1>it is mostly female led sexual activities. Cut holding also

433
00:20:53.640 --> 00:20:56.720
<v Speaker 1>extends beyond sexual life. A cook usually does all the

434
00:20:59.200 --> 00:21:01.599
<v Speaker 1>that's not how you spelt chores, you fuck, So he's

435
00:21:01.640 --> 00:21:06.279
<v Speaker 1>a simp chores of a woman through a day. I mean, yeah,

436
00:21:06.359 --> 00:21:09.400
<v Speaker 1>that I think when it's led with sexual yes, it's a.

437
00:21:09.480 --> 00:21:12.319
<v Speaker 3>Say you imagine that here, I need you to put

438
00:21:12.319 --> 00:21:14.279
<v Speaker 3>this cage on, which, if you know what a cage is,

439
00:21:14.319 --> 00:21:15.720
<v Speaker 3>that's fucking weird in itself.

440
00:21:16.119 --> 00:21:16.680
<v Speaker 2>No, thank you.

441
00:21:16.920 --> 00:21:19.680
<v Speaker 3>I like my erections to be fully not cut off.

442
00:21:20.000 --> 00:21:21.880
<v Speaker 3>And then it's like, all right, so you can't have

443
00:21:21.920 --> 00:21:23.880
<v Speaker 3>a full boner and you're gonna have to jerk this

444
00:21:23.960 --> 00:21:27.680
<v Speaker 3>guy off while he's fucking mayor whatever he lick his

445
00:21:27.759 --> 00:21:29.960
<v Speaker 3>butthole because that's what she says for you to do,

446
00:21:30.440 --> 00:21:33.599
<v Speaker 3>you know, right, I mean, that's what you said.

447
00:21:33.880 --> 00:21:36.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm not day, but if my wife tells me

448
00:21:36.279 --> 00:21:39.839
<v Speaker 2>to be listen to this.

449
00:21:40.200 --> 00:21:42.240
<v Speaker 1>I love comments on some of this stuff. Too many

450
00:21:42.279 --> 00:21:44.599
<v Speaker 1>damn labels. My wife and I go out always together

451
00:21:44.640 --> 00:21:48.519
<v Speaker 1>to swing clubs, house orgies and adult theaters and fucking

452
00:21:48.599 --> 00:21:52.279
<v Speaker 1>suck anyone we want. The one thing that turns us

453
00:21:52.359 --> 00:21:55.519
<v Speaker 1>off is people who want to label us. I guess

454
00:21:55.519 --> 00:21:58.359
<v Speaker 1>I would say, settle the fuck down right if you're

455
00:21:58.359 --> 00:22:00.880
<v Speaker 1>gonna do shit people are gonna label if you're gonna

456
00:22:00.880 --> 00:22:03.319
<v Speaker 1>put it out doing it, people are gonna label Who

457
00:22:03.359 --> 00:22:04.799
<v Speaker 1>the fuck cares what I put on it?

458
00:22:05.839 --> 00:22:07.920
<v Speaker 2>If you're happy sucking and fucking do.

459
00:22:08.000 --> 00:22:11.160
<v Speaker 4>It, Yeah, yes, sucker, fucker fucker.

460
00:22:13.079 --> 00:22:13.559
<v Speaker 2>Another one.

461
00:22:13.599 --> 00:22:15.799
<v Speaker 1>People need to stop thinking of them as hard to

462
00:22:15.839 --> 00:22:19.480
<v Speaker 1>find categories. Yes, there is some hard truth, but your

463
00:22:19.519 --> 00:22:22.599
<v Speaker 1>specific dynamic will not be exactly like someone else who

464
00:22:22.640 --> 00:22:26.039
<v Speaker 1>identifies as a cook or hot wife. For example, I

465
00:22:26.079 --> 00:22:28.920
<v Speaker 1>will clean her, have sex with her, share her. She

466
00:22:29.000 --> 00:22:31.880
<v Speaker 1>is free to do whatever, either solo or with me.

467
00:22:32.559 --> 00:22:35.480
<v Speaker 1>She has all the say, but we don't really get

468
00:22:35.480 --> 00:22:37.160
<v Speaker 1>into the humiliation aspect of it.

469
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<v Speaker 3>So you have a version of it, right, He's like,

470
00:22:40.519 --> 00:22:42.480
<v Speaker 3>I don't mind if you do the cuck holding thing,

471
00:22:42.559 --> 00:22:44.079
<v Speaker 3>just don't make fun of my small wainer.

472
00:22:44.279 --> 00:22:44.519
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

473
00:22:45.119 --> 00:22:47.160
<v Speaker 1>I think it comes down to this phrase, and like

474
00:22:47.279 --> 00:22:50.079
<v Speaker 1>it matters if you want it to So like my wife,

475
00:22:50.119 --> 00:22:52.079
<v Speaker 1>I don't she can do whatever she wants. I don't

476
00:22:52.119 --> 00:22:57.519
<v Speaker 1>give a shit, right dot dot dot real, there are

477
00:22:57.599 --> 00:23:00.359
<v Speaker 1>things I'm not okay with her doingever the fuck you want, right,

478
00:23:00.480 --> 00:23:04.279
<v Speaker 1>And I'm sure she would say the same thing about absolutely.

479
00:23:03.920 --> 00:23:06.200
<v Speaker 4>And said Corby, and you want to try how hot wifing.

480
00:23:07.960 --> 00:23:10.079
<v Speaker 2>Okay, go ahead, Yeah.

481
00:23:10.640 --> 00:23:11.680
<v Speaker 4>Would you be down with that?

482
00:23:11.839 --> 00:23:12.079
<v Speaker 2>No?

483
00:23:12.480 --> 00:23:13.039
<v Speaker 4>Exactly?

484
00:23:13.240 --> 00:23:15.160
<v Speaker 2>No, Hell, I mean I wouldn't.

485
00:23:15.200 --> 00:23:17.440
<v Speaker 1>It wouldn't be a hard, definitive no out of the gate,

486
00:23:18.640 --> 00:23:21.519
<v Speaker 1>only because I would try to under I don't want

487
00:23:21.559 --> 00:23:24.279
<v Speaker 1>to jump to this autumn. This is somebody I'm I've

488
00:23:24.279 --> 00:23:26.000
<v Speaker 1>build a life with, right, So I'm not going to

489
00:23:26.039 --> 00:23:28.640
<v Speaker 1>automatically be like fuck you know and.

490
00:23:28.720 --> 00:23:30.680
<v Speaker 2>Be like what do you what are you talking about? Right?

491
00:23:30.720 --> 00:23:33.960
<v Speaker 2>What are you envision in this? Let's let's talk about.

492
00:23:33.799 --> 00:23:37.119
<v Speaker 1>I mean, just because you're I think there's a great philosophy.

493
00:23:37.160 --> 00:23:39.160
<v Speaker 1>Is take any meeting. You don't know what's going to

494
00:23:39.200 --> 00:23:41.079
<v Speaker 1>come out of it. So I consider this a meeting

495
00:23:41.160 --> 00:23:43.440
<v Speaker 1>at this point. So what are we talking about? As

496
00:23:43.440 --> 00:23:45.519
<v Speaker 1>Ghimpie said, what are we talking about? Where did this

497
00:23:45.599 --> 00:23:47.799
<v Speaker 1>come from? Why do you want to do this? We've

498
00:23:47.839 --> 00:23:50.359
<v Speaker 1>been together fifteen years right now?

499
00:23:50.519 --> 00:23:52.480
<v Speaker 2>Why is this? What film did you watch?

500
00:23:52.720 --> 00:23:56.279
<v Speaker 1>Where did this come from? Is this something you've been oppressing?

501
00:23:56.519 --> 00:23:56.640
<v Speaker 2>You?

502
00:23:56.680 --> 00:23:58.359
<v Speaker 1>See what I'm saying? Like, I want to know more.

503
00:23:58.559 --> 00:24:04.440
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't go with fuck no, right, I would whatever

504
00:24:04.759 --> 00:24:05.359
<v Speaker 1>each his own?

505
00:24:05.559 --> 00:24:05.759
<v Speaker 3>Right?

506
00:24:06.319 --> 00:24:09.359
<v Speaker 2>Would you gimpy let him do it? If she came

507
00:24:09.400 --> 00:24:10.880
<v Speaker 2>to me and she was like, Hey, I want to

508
00:24:10.920 --> 00:24:12.279
<v Speaker 2>be a part of Hot Wife, and I want a

509
00:24:12.279 --> 00:24:14.640
<v Speaker 2>hot wife this you might have the best scenario.

510
00:24:14.240 --> 00:24:18.359
<v Speaker 1>For this hypothetical because you're in a fairly new relationship

511
00:24:18.359 --> 00:24:19.039
<v Speaker 1>compared to us.

512
00:24:19.160 --> 00:24:24.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, for sure, I would. Normally, I do not ask

513
00:24:24.440 --> 00:24:26.400
<v Speaker 3>a lot of questions. I think you guys know that

514
00:24:26.480 --> 00:24:28.640
<v Speaker 3>about me. I'm gonna just let it fucking go, all right,

515
00:24:28.680 --> 00:24:29.960
<v Speaker 3>whatever that's what you want to do.

516
00:24:29.920 --> 00:24:30.720
<v Speaker 2>Fine, have at it.

517
00:24:31.680 --> 00:24:34.359
<v Speaker 3>This is where I start asking that why, much like

518
00:24:34.400 --> 00:24:35.519
<v Speaker 3>Gorman's why why?

519
00:24:35.720 --> 00:24:38.920
<v Speaker 2>What is this? And I guess that now there's gonna.

520
00:24:38.680 --> 00:24:41.240
<v Speaker 3>Be a double standard there because and I'm just being

521
00:24:41.319 --> 00:24:42.000
<v Speaker 3>honest with you.

522
00:24:42.440 --> 00:24:44.240
<v Speaker 2>If she said, hey, let's have.

523
00:24:44.160 --> 00:24:48.799
<v Speaker 3>A threesome meet you and one of my friends. Okay, done,

524
00:24:48.920 --> 00:24:53.480
<v Speaker 3>let's do it. Which friend you know not gonna be

525
00:24:53.480 --> 00:24:54.279
<v Speaker 3>that big friend of yours?

526
00:24:54.400 --> 00:24:54.599
<v Speaker 2>Is it?

527
00:24:54.720 --> 00:24:58.440
<v Speaker 3>You know I'm gonna have some standards here or whatever.

528
00:24:59.119 --> 00:25:01.599
<v Speaker 3>But if she came to me and said, uh, hey,

529
00:25:02.319 --> 00:25:04.359
<v Speaker 3>I want to have a threesome with you and one

530
00:25:04.359 --> 00:25:07.839
<v Speaker 3>of your friends or a guy of my my choosing.

531
00:25:07.839 --> 00:25:11.319
<v Speaker 2>Answer, hey, I saw this guy a quick trick.

532
00:25:11.519 --> 00:25:13.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm gonna have to be like, no, what am

533
00:25:13.640 --> 00:25:16.680
<v Speaker 3>I not good enough for you? Is that what it is?

534
00:25:16.400 --> 00:25:20.880
<v Speaker 3>Is our sex so boring? Am I that bad? Where

535
00:25:20.920 --> 00:25:23.599
<v Speaker 3>you feel like you have to add a whole nother

536
00:25:23.680 --> 00:25:26.839
<v Speaker 3>body because it's one thing just to you know, go

537
00:25:26.880 --> 00:25:29.599
<v Speaker 3>to Patricia's and get some toys, you know, let's let's

538
00:25:29.599 --> 00:25:33.400
<v Speaker 3>bring some toys into some handcuffs, some blindfolded, you know,

539
00:25:33.880 --> 00:25:36.720
<v Speaker 3>tickle me with a feather, you know, whatever sort of thing.

540
00:25:36.839 --> 00:25:39.640
<v Speaker 3>And then there's a whole nother fucking living, breathing gonna

541
00:25:39.640 --> 00:25:42.000
<v Speaker 3>come on your face, fucking body, you know what I mean,

542
00:25:42.400 --> 00:25:45.319
<v Speaker 3>And and and and that's like, okay, okay, let's have

543
00:25:45.359 --> 00:25:48.480
<v Speaker 3>a discussion here, because one, I'm not really comfortable right now.

544
00:25:48.519 --> 00:25:51.400
<v Speaker 2>I do not like this. But I am curious as

545
00:25:51.440 --> 00:25:56.000
<v Speaker 2>to why, all of a sudden, is this the thing

546
00:25:56.839 --> 00:25:58.119
<v Speaker 2>your husband brings it up?

547
00:25:58.440 --> 00:26:01.599
<v Speaker 1>Hey, I met some of so came to buy a car,

548
00:26:02.240 --> 00:26:05.279
<v Speaker 1>and I'd like to have a threesome with her, and

549
00:26:05.319 --> 00:26:08.319
<v Speaker 1>you obviously are like no, and he goes, You're right.

550
00:26:08.279 --> 00:26:08.920
<v Speaker 2>That was wrong.

551
00:26:09.599 --> 00:26:18.440
<v Speaker 1>Your relationship is damaged, Right, it's troubled.

552
00:26:18.519 --> 00:26:21.400
<v Speaker 4>I don't know if it's damaged, but there's.

553
00:26:21.279 --> 00:26:24.559
<v Speaker 2>The trust is erodated. Yes, for sure, I would agree,

554
00:26:24.799 --> 00:26:25.640
<v Speaker 2>because I would.

555
00:26:25.480 --> 00:26:28.480
<v Speaker 1>Be I'd be like, now, I'm questioning everything every time

556
00:26:28.519 --> 00:26:30.759
<v Speaker 1>you have to go to town for work. Now I'm questioning

557
00:26:31.000 --> 00:26:34.119
<v Speaker 1>things that I would have totally not questioned because now

558
00:26:34.119 --> 00:26:37.079
<v Speaker 1>I know the cat's dead. Now I know this is

559
00:26:37.119 --> 00:26:38.319
<v Speaker 1>a thing that exists.

560
00:26:37.960 --> 00:26:40.440
<v Speaker 2>For you sold another car today? What's her name? You

561
00:26:40.519 --> 00:26:41.759
<v Speaker 2>want to fuck her too? Huh?

562
00:26:41.839 --> 00:26:42.000
<v Speaker 5>Right?

563
00:26:43.599 --> 00:26:47.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because even if let's switch it around. He comes

564
00:26:47.400 --> 00:26:49.759
<v Speaker 1>home and he's like, hey, i'd like to I met

565
00:26:49.799 --> 00:26:51.599
<v Speaker 1>I sold this car today, And you're like, great, that's awesome.

566
00:26:51.680 --> 00:26:52.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, commission.

567
00:26:52.720 --> 00:26:57.440
<v Speaker 1>And then his name's George, and I'd like, I think

568
00:26:57.480 --> 00:26:58.640
<v Speaker 1>we could have a threesome with him?

569
00:26:58.680 --> 00:26:59.240
<v Speaker 2>What do you think?

570
00:26:59.359 --> 00:27:01.759
<v Speaker 1>And You're like, no, man, I'm I want to be

571
00:27:01.839 --> 00:27:03.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm with you. I don't want You're right, I don't

572
00:27:03.880 --> 00:27:04.960
<v Speaker 1>know what that's crazy.

573
00:27:04.960 --> 00:27:08.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm just I'm joking. No, you're not.

574
00:27:08.440 --> 00:27:11.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you have a ton of fucking questions. Yeah, Like

575
00:27:12.279 --> 00:27:15.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm just being on. I'm just speaking of the cuff here,

576
00:27:15.359 --> 00:27:15.920
<v Speaker 1>being honest.

577
00:27:16.000 --> 00:27:17.240
<v Speaker 2>We're going to fucking therapy.

578
00:27:17.359 --> 00:27:17.920
<v Speaker 4>Absolutely.

579
00:27:18.880 --> 00:27:21.039
<v Speaker 1>You either are not the person who I thought you were,

580
00:27:21.359 --> 00:27:24.119
<v Speaker 1>you're not the person who you wanted to be, but

581
00:27:24.200 --> 00:27:28.240
<v Speaker 1>we whatever, something's changed, Yeah, and we got.

582
00:27:28.200 --> 00:27:31.119
<v Speaker 2>To figure this out. And me, I want you to

583
00:27:31.160 --> 00:27:31.759
<v Speaker 2>be happy.

584
00:27:32.119 --> 00:27:35.039
<v Speaker 1>And if that's your happy, I'm sure it's fucking gonna

585
00:27:35.119 --> 00:27:38.640
<v Speaker 1>keep you in this right or force you to. So

586
00:27:38.680 --> 00:27:41.480
<v Speaker 1>we gotta go figure out. You definitely need to go

587
00:27:41.519 --> 00:27:46.000
<v Speaker 1>fucking figure out what you want. Yes, but like the

588
00:27:46.039 --> 00:27:47.519
<v Speaker 1>relationship you have.

589
00:27:47.799 --> 00:27:51.200
<v Speaker 2>Is over, Oh yeah, it's it's reached a different level.

590
00:27:51.240 --> 00:27:59.079
<v Speaker 2>You're not cuddling on the couch watching AGT what you're

591
00:27:59.079 --> 00:28:05.400
<v Speaker 2>thinking about? Guy you sold a car too, yeah, right right?

592
00:28:05.680 --> 00:28:09.920
<v Speaker 1>Or or they're on their phone a lot, right, Or

593
00:28:09.960 --> 00:28:14.880
<v Speaker 1>they're staying later at work, yeah, or there have a

594
00:28:14.880 --> 00:28:16.559
<v Speaker 1>lot of out of town trips.

595
00:28:16.640 --> 00:28:18.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, at that point, you might as well just be

596
00:28:18.240 --> 00:28:20.160
<v Speaker 3>having a full, long fucking affair, or at least your

597
00:28:20.200 --> 00:28:21.039
<v Speaker 3>brain will take you that way.

598
00:28:21.039 --> 00:28:21.400
<v Speaker 2>Anyway.

599
00:28:21.680 --> 00:28:23.519
<v Speaker 1>I think there's an argument to be made that once

600
00:28:23.519 --> 00:28:27.599
<v Speaker 1>you make that emotional commitment, you've already cheated now physically

601
00:28:27.720 --> 00:28:31.359
<v Speaker 1>and actually no, but you've damaged the relationship.

602
00:28:33.400 --> 00:28:38.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and could you go back to that sort of thing.

603
00:28:40.000 --> 00:28:42.160
<v Speaker 3>It's gonna take a lot of work, a lot of

604
00:28:42.160 --> 00:28:43.519
<v Speaker 3>work to get back to where he was.

605
00:28:43.680 --> 00:28:47.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say yes, as long as party ed, the

606
00:28:47.039 --> 00:28:50.400
<v Speaker 1>offending party stands by what they said they would do,

607
00:28:50.519 --> 00:28:53.000
<v Speaker 1>no more contact, no whatever, changes their playground, change their

608
00:28:53.000 --> 00:28:57.200
<v Speaker 1>play friends, whatever those parameters are, and party B the

609
00:28:57.680 --> 00:29:00.880
<v Speaker 1>ones that didn't know what the fuck was happening, can

610
00:29:01.000 --> 00:29:07.039
<v Speaker 1>accept and move on. Yeah, so that's two giant things

611
00:29:07.039 --> 00:29:07.960
<v Speaker 1>that have to happen.

612
00:29:08.160 --> 00:29:09.799
<v Speaker 3>A lot of that's going to have to be on

613
00:29:09.960 --> 00:29:14.440
<v Speaker 3>party B. I feel, Oh, I don't think so, because well,

614
00:29:14.519 --> 00:29:16.440
<v Speaker 3>I mean, because you're always going to be thinking that

615
00:29:16.480 --> 00:29:20.400
<v Speaker 3>one person Party A could easily change their playground and

616
00:29:20.440 --> 00:29:23.519
<v Speaker 3>not talk to those people anymore. But it's on party

617
00:29:23.640 --> 00:29:26.039
<v Speaker 3>B that it's always going to be in the back

618
00:29:26.119 --> 00:29:29.279
<v Speaker 3>of their head that you've had this one thought one

619
00:29:29.400 --> 00:29:32.079
<v Speaker 3>time when and and and you.

620
00:29:31.960 --> 00:29:36.480
<v Speaker 2>Say everything's fine, But I gotta why know.

621
00:29:36.680 --> 00:29:40.599
<v Speaker 3>That's not going to resurface anytime soon. I think Party

622
00:29:40.759 --> 00:29:45.039
<v Speaker 3>A is just as equal. It's right there, itch.

623
00:29:44.920 --> 00:29:47.160
<v Speaker 2>And just wanting to do it. Yeah, Okay, you.

624
00:29:47.119 --> 00:29:50.359
<v Speaker 1>Ever wanted to buy something and you know you could,

625
00:29:50.400 --> 00:29:52.119
<v Speaker 1>but you're like, I can't spend that money right now?

626
00:29:52.319 --> 00:29:54.160
<v Speaker 2>Right what fucking happens?

627
00:29:54.440 --> 00:29:57.519
<v Speaker 1>You sit there like fucking you know, I think I

628
00:29:57.519 --> 00:30:02.319
<v Speaker 1>can buy it in like a month, start pulling money away. Yes,

629
00:30:03.200 --> 00:30:08.359
<v Speaker 1>I'll just I'll just look at it online, which I'll

630
00:30:08.440 --> 00:30:09.920
<v Speaker 1>just go by the store.

631
00:30:10.119 --> 00:30:12.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there ain't nothing wrong with I get eighteen months,

632
00:30:12.319 --> 00:30:12.799
<v Speaker 2>same as.

633
00:30:12.640 --> 00:30:18.319
<v Speaker 1>Fucking cash exactly. It's slippery slope, right, That's what I'm saying.

634
00:30:18.319 --> 00:30:19.880
<v Speaker 1>You've got to be hard and fast, both of you.

635
00:30:20.519 --> 00:30:23.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm not toying thinking participating.

636
00:30:24.720 --> 00:30:27.039
<v Speaker 2>It's over right, right, that's not easy.

637
00:30:27.119 --> 00:30:29.079
<v Speaker 3>Set your rules, set your boundaries, which they say on

638
00:30:29.160 --> 00:30:31.960
<v Speaker 3>the swingers community that that's what a big part of

639
00:30:32.000 --> 00:30:35.119
<v Speaker 3>it is is having your rules and your boundaries and

640
00:30:35.200 --> 00:30:38.440
<v Speaker 3>following those rules and communicating exactly. And if you can't

641
00:30:38.519 --> 00:30:40.119
<v Speaker 3>do any of that, then it's not going to work

642
00:30:40.160 --> 00:30:43.839
<v Speaker 3>out for you. Me personally, I just assume stay away

643
00:30:43.920 --> 00:30:44.400
<v Speaker 3>from all that.

644
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<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty happy the way when it's working.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm good with my going to bed at seven,

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<v Speaker 1>getting up at six. I'm pretty happy with all that

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<v Speaker 1>I eat every night.

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<v Speaker 2>It's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I like being excited about the trip to lows.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh huh, that's just me, my weird life.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Smelling candles on your way out the door.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, you guys have a fantastic week and

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<v Speaker 1>March Badness giveaway on Tuesday. We don't know the bar yet,

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<v Speaker 1>but we will as the games get played out here.

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<v Speaker 2>It'll be a good time win some good shit. Guys,

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<v Speaker 2>have a great week.

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<v Speaker 1>Say bye bye.
