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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, I'm bad. Listen. I know that what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about to talk about some people will not like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Little feelings are gonna be hurt, toes are gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>stepped on. But it's all right. You will be okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I promise you you'll be okay. This is not to

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<v Speaker 1>hurt or harm. It is to help. It is to encourage,

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<v Speaker 1>It is to educate, it is to inspire. But hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to take it however you take it. Millions

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<v Speaker 1>of people in this world label themselves and then use

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<v Speaker 1>it as a crutch. Okay, I have to let that

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<v Speaker 1>seek in for a couple of minutes or seconds. I

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<v Speaker 1>should say, millions of people in this world label themselves

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<v Speaker 1>and then use it as a crutch. Let's talk about

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<v Speaker 1>it in all honesty. How many people have you seen

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<v Speaker 1>in person, on television, over the radio, on podcast, on

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<v Speaker 1>social media, etc. How many people have you seen? Some

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<v Speaker 1>you know, some you don't know, mostly you don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>How many people have you seen that say they have

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<v Speaker 1>some type of mental illness? Oh okay, listen, I've done

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<v Speaker 1>episodes about mental illness. I was in the field for

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<v Speaker 1>thirteen fourteen years. For a long time, I worked with

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<v Speaker 1>juvenile services, detention centers, corrections, psych hospitals for the military,

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<v Speaker 1>so military and civilian. And I'm here to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>that I never met one person that was truly born

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<v Speaker 1>with a disorder. Now I've I've been in the school

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<v Speaker 1>system having class or or or teaching classes to individuals

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<v Speaker 1>who were born mentally challenged and with obvious physical impairments.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm talking about specifically individuals who developed PTSD, bipolar,

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<v Speaker 1>schizophrenic depression, anxiety over the years. If you knew people

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<v Speaker 1>when they were little kids, you wouldn't you wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>heard them say those things or saw signs of those things.

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<v Speaker 1>What happens is and I'm not giving any money for this, soul.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't have no reason to sit here

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<v Speaker 1>and make anything up, or glamorize something or or lie period.

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<v Speaker 1>What happens is people go through life and they go

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<v Speaker 1>through it comes from negativity, some form of negativity. People

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<v Speaker 1>go through life, many many, many go through life, and

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<v Speaker 1>they go through trauma as young children. I mean, some

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<v Speaker 1>people go through the most atrocious things you could ever

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<v Speaker 1>imagine a child going through. I mean, horrible, horrible, horrible things.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not even gonna list those things because I've done

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<v Speaker 1>it several times on different episodes, but horrible things as

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<v Speaker 1>a child and are traumatized, and a lot of those children,

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<v Speaker 1>most of those children are not able to cope. So

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<v Speaker 1>they go through that trauma and then they go continue

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<v Speaker 1>through their developmental stages into adulthood carrying that same stuff

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<v Speaker 1>because they didn't know how to cope. With Some people

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<v Speaker 1>lives are changed forever because of what they went through

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<v Speaker 1>as a little kid. So you go through the trauma

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<v Speaker 1>as a little kid, and you go to adulthood harboring

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<v Speaker 1>the same feelings and thoughts, and then on top of

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<v Speaker 1>what you already have going on, you get into relationships

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<v Speaker 1>and normally with people who are like minded, people who

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<v Speaker 1>are struggling to When I say struggling, I'm talking about

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<v Speaker 1>internally mentally. And all that does is compile what you've

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<v Speaker 1>always carried with the things that you're adding to that

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<v Speaker 1>in stress develops outside of what you always carry. Stress develops,

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<v Speaker 1>and because of unhealed hearts and minds, people are blind

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<v Speaker 1>to a lot of things. So people are seeking love

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<v Speaker 1>and all of these things. They meet individuals who rehabit

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<v Speaker 1>in their lives and don't understand why these people are

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<v Speaker 1>wreaking habit in their lives, so it's more stress. On

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<v Speaker 1>top of that, the person you love can't love you back,

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<v Speaker 1>or the person you love is mistreating you, treating you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just doing you any kind of way, or taking advantage

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<v Speaker 1>of you, and the list is endless. So you develop

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<v Speaker 1>all of the stress from that. Then the stress from

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<v Speaker 1>your employment or unemployment and all of that is just

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<v Speaker 1>breaking you down by little. It's breaking you down. And

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<v Speaker 1>people get into the workforce, whether it's celebrity, politician, janitor

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<v Speaker 1>at the school, teacher, judge, police officer, doctor, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>any in every profession you can name, you have unhealed

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<v Speaker 1>hearts and minds. So people are fully grown adults, but

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<v Speaker 1>they have their mental status is still that of that

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<v Speaker 1>young person. And that's why they make the choices and

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<v Speaker 1>the decisions that they make. That's why they allow the

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<v Speaker 1>things that they allow into their life. That's why they

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<v Speaker 1>get into the things that they get into because they

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<v Speaker 1>have not healed. That's why they continue to go in

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<v Speaker 1>and out of relationships with similar people, or they go

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<v Speaker 1>back for a double dose or what they got out

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<v Speaker 1>of us. I mean, I can just go on and

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<v Speaker 1>on and on and on. But it all, it all

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<v Speaker 1>goes back to what I said earlier, unhealed hearts and minds.

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<v Speaker 1>So people start developing anxiety. Never had anxiety before, but

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<v Speaker 1>they start developing anxiety. And let me say this, when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to anxiety, I think other things can cause

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<v Speaker 1>anxiety too, like all this stuff in the air. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're breathing in these microwaves. You know that I could

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<v Speaker 1>be wrong about that, but I'm I'm kind of leaning

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<v Speaker 1>towards it. But we're gonna take that out of the equation. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>But I just wanted to mention that. But people open

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<v Speaker 1>themselves up to so much stress trying to obtain this,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to obtain that, the inability to love self, trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be famous, getting famous, and trying to stay famous.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, doing nefarious things to get ahead, allowing people

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<v Speaker 1>to do horrible things to them to get ahead, going

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<v Speaker 1>along with wrong to get ahead. I mean, people are

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<v Speaker 1>chasing the mighty dollar hard and they doing things that

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<v Speaker 1>they should never do. They're going along with things they

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<v Speaker 1>should never go along with. In all of this stuff

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<v Speaker 1>from I mean p p peop darks, darks, barks, barks,

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<v Speaker 1>dark from every corner that you open yourself up to

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<v Speaker 1>who wouldn't be stressed, And then on top of it,

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<v Speaker 1>people don't know how to manage it. So you have

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<v Speaker 1>mental illnesses that are developed in stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar,

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<v Speaker 1>schizophrenic because you're harboring all of this new stuff as

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<v Speaker 1>an adult, compiled with what was already there that you

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<v Speaker 1>never healed from. So when you when you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to handle your stress, your stress will handle you. Fact,

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<v Speaker 1>when you don't know how to handle your stress, your

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<v Speaker 1>stress will handle you. It will give you a ride

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<v Speaker 1>for your money. It will rehab it in your life

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<v Speaker 1>when you open yourself up to and you welcome anxiety

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<v Speaker 1>and depression and all of that stuff in your life.

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<v Speaker 1>It'll stick around. When you think the medications and the

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<v Speaker 1>booze and the this and that is what is keeping

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<v Speaker 1>it at bay, it's not. It alters you for a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>but once you come off of whatever it is, you

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<v Speaker 1>right back and square one again. So people are leaning

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<v Speaker 1>and depending on things and different tools. But you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>do inside work so the outside can work properly for you.

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<v Speaker 1>You must do inside work. Most people don't. Most people don't.

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<v Speaker 1>You go through life the same the very same year,

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<v Speaker 1>after year after year after year. You equip for many

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<v Speaker 1>things in life, but you are not equipped for the

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<v Speaker 1>journey of life. You're not equipped for the journey of

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<v Speaker 1>life because you have not allowed healing to occur. So

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<v Speaker 1>now you get these different mental illnesses and you run

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<v Speaker 1>with the label and you use it everywhere. Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>have this, I have that. Because you listening to a

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<v Speaker 1>woman that I could definitely say that I have PTSD.

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<v Speaker 1>I could definitely say that I should be depressed, full

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<v Speaker 1>of anxiety. I mean I literally should should be just

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<v Speaker 1>unable to be doing what I'm doing now. I am

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<v Speaker 1>so serious because I've been through the storm. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>through the storm right now. I've told you for months,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going through something that I will have to live

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<v Speaker 1>with for the rest of my life. And most people

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<v Speaker 1>will not be able to handle it. Most will not

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<v Speaker 1>be able to handle it. I know it for fact,

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<v Speaker 1>because it is horrific. But guess what, I don't give

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<v Speaker 1>in to anything or no one because I know things

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<v Speaker 1>gonna happen in life, and I mean things will happen

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<v Speaker 1>that it's so unexpected you would never think it would

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<v Speaker 1>happen to you in a billion years. But when it happens.

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<v Speaker 1>You just gotta take that punch in the face or

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<v Speaker 1>in the gut, regroup, and keep it moving. Because I

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<v Speaker 1>can't speak for anyone else but myself. I refuse to

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<v Speaker 1>give what God gave me my life. I refuse to

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<v Speaker 1>give it up and succumb to what somebody else done.

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<v Speaker 1>Let it ruin me, or if someone passed or way,

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<v Speaker 1>let it warn me, because I can't handle it. Because no,

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<v Speaker 1>you know why, Because we all gonna pass away one day,

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<v Speaker 1>some way, somehow, some unexpected, some horrifically. It's gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 1>No one is exempt. So in my mind, I understand

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<v Speaker 1>that tenfold. I understand that tragedy is gonna come. I

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<v Speaker 1>understand that. I literally understand that. I understand that the

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<v Speaker 1>storm will bring waves that they rock me from side

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<v Speaker 1>to side. But it's gonna come sooner or later. I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't choose to give my power to no situation,

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<v Speaker 1>no person, nothing, I just don't. Yes, I hurt like

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<v Speaker 1>everyone else, I cry like everyone else, I feel things

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<v Speaker 1>like everyone else, but I don't allow it to overtake me.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't. I can'tnot do it, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>care what people think about me because those who know

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<v Speaker 1>me and know what I'm dealing with. If they may

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<v Speaker 1>look at me and just can't understand why I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>just somewhere broken into a million pieces. No, I refuse

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. I refuse to do it because if

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<v Speaker 1>not me, it be somebody else. Do I like it? No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the worst thing ever, but it is what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm not claiming no PTSD, no depression, none of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not labeling myself and you're not gonna label me.

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<v Speaker 1>Well you can, but it don't mean it to me.

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<v Speaker 1>So people look at me like a crazy one, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>They look at me like, what is wrong with her? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you what's wrong with me. What's wrong with

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<v Speaker 1>me is I believe in Jesus Christ, the Soulling and God,

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<v Speaker 1>the Father and the Holy Spirit. And you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to believe. I'm just saying what I stick and stay

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<v Speaker 1>with what I believe, and nothing or no one is

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<v Speaker 1>greater than that to me. And as I say it,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not that I don't love. I don't hurt another. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I go through it all like anybody else. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>made of stone. I'm still flesh, blood and bones. But

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't give into things. I just don't. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, every day I pray, I say, Lord,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what, I don't care if the sun fall

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<v Speaker 1>out the sky right as my feet, let me be

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<v Speaker 1>able to withstand it. That's my prayer. I pray that

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<v Speaker 1>every single day, no matter what happens, Lord, let me

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<v Speaker 1>be able to withstand it. And I'm ooh, y'all just

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. You just don't know how He's given me

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<v Speaker 1>power to withstand what I'm going through. And I hurt

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<v Speaker 1>and I cry sometimes, but I don't stay there. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't stay there. So I'm just saying, when you label

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<v Speaker 1>yourself and use it as a crutch, that don't allow

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<v Speaker 1>any room for healing to occur. It just don't it.

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<v Speaker 1>Just don't. People label themselves for a lifetime. They label

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<v Speaker 1>their children just because you don't take time and discipline

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<v Speaker 1>your children and have structure and boundaries and things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You let them run them up. Now you label them

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<v Speaker 1>or they have this, they have that. No, they need discipline,

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<v Speaker 1>they need structure. And I'm not saying that it's the

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<v Speaker 1>case for every parent, but a lot of them it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It definitely is. So just be careful about doing those things.

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<v Speaker 1>Be careful about labeling yourself because we all go through

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<v Speaker 1>and I guarantee you most other people listening have now

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<v Speaker 1>gone through what I'm going through. And when I say

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<v Speaker 1>horrific on the tenth power on the tenth level and above.

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<v Speaker 1>But I will not, I will not allow it to

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<v Speaker 1>take me out. I just want and I'll take it

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<v Speaker 1>to the grave because what is done is done. It

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<v Speaker 1>can be redone. So I just have to live with

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<v Speaker 1>it for the rest of my life. You know, when

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<v Speaker 1>you empower or you give power to people to destroy

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<v Speaker 1>you mentally, it's going to happen. When you give power

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<v Speaker 1>to things to destroy you mentally, physically, in every way,

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to happen. I just choose not to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I just choose not to do it. So I'm just saying,

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<v Speaker 1>you can be better, but you have to want to

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<v Speaker 1>be better. Every day that we live, you, me, all

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<v Speaker 1>of us, we have a chance to be better than

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<v Speaker 1>the day before. We have the opportunity to change our lives.

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<v Speaker 1>We have an opportunity to become to become the best

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<v Speaker 1>that we can be. But most people don't. They live

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<v Speaker 1>day in day out going through the motion the same

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<v Speaker 1>exact way for years, not even remotely trying to be better.

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<v Speaker 1>And that is a disservice to yourself. It's a disservice

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<v Speaker 1>to yourself, to your children, to your relatives, your friends,

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<v Speaker 1>anyone in your circle. Is a disservice because you are

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<v Speaker 1>not the best that you could be. And you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>that's it. That's all I'm saying on it. Tak it

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<v Speaker 1>for what is worth. Everything that I've said is with love.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you want to, if you want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>I am? I don't know any other way to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you than what I've told you. But I'm willing to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to anybody, anybody because, like I said, I guarantee

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<v Speaker 1>you most of you have not dealt with what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>dealing with, you know. And as far as losing someone, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I lost someone, Well guess what since twenty eighteen, I've

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<v Speaker 1>lost about thirty people. I know, it's from twenty eight

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<v Speaker 1>to about thirty maybe thirty one, thirty two people in

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<v Speaker 1>my life since twenty eighteen. It took my mom, my dad,

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<v Speaker 1>my grandson. I mean, I can go on host of

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<v Speaker 1>aunts and uncles, cousins, all of those people in such

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<v Speaker 1>a short time. So I mean death in tragedy, and

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<v Speaker 1>I mean different ways, different ways, So I mean some

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<v Speaker 1>very tragic, but it's just life. We don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>we're going. That's why I want to live right as

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<v Speaker 1>I live, because on the other side, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>be in the right place. That's for me. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>speak for any of you. It's for me. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I choose for my life because guess what if I

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<v Speaker 1>walk outside of my door and someone take my life,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm okay because I know I've lived the best that

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<v Speaker 1>I could. I know that I live with intention of

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<v Speaker 1>being the best that I could be intentionally, so I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be good on the other side. I don't fear none

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<v Speaker 1>of that because it's gonna happen one day. It's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>happen one day. We all will leave this natural body

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<v Speaker 1>one day. I just pray that you end up on

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<v Speaker 1>the right side, on the other side of life, the

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<v Speaker 1>right side. So that's all I'm gonna say. I'm leaving

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<v Speaker 1>it right there. I just want you to know if

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<v Speaker 1>you deserve better, you can be better. You just have

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<v Speaker 1>to want it. Thank you for listening. Please share this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Much love to each and every one of you. I

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<v Speaker 1>encourage you that to be grateful every day. Stop worrying

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<v Speaker 1>about what you don't have, be grateful for what you got,

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<v Speaker 1>because when you're not grateful, then you're seeking and you're searching,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're to do anything and in everything for something

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<v Speaker 1>and it's not even worth it. Please share this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>I end every episode is the same, and I hope

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<v Speaker 1>and I pray, I pray you do it, thank on it.
