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<v Speaker 1>If you've been in a relationship long enough, you know

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<v Speaker 1>that eventually you'll start getting on each other's nerves. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's the way they chew, or they don't help out

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<v Speaker 1>around the house much, or they don't support your passions.

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<v Speaker 1>The best solution is always good communication. Maybe bring in

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<v Speaker 1>a therapist and make sure you can get there. But

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<v Speaker 1>if that doesn't work out, you could always have the

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<v Speaker 1>neighbors over for a visit. It's the Invite. I'm Ronald

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<v Speaker 1>Young Junior, and I'm leaving the theater.

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<v Speaker 2>With you get what is to be sod Ever is

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<v Speaker 2>easy because and you based the fison the boos.

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<v Speaker 3>That you go today. All right, This is Ronald and

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<v Speaker 3>I am leaving the theater after seeing The Invite. The

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<v Speaker 3>Invite written by Will McCormack and Rashida Jones, directed by

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<v Speaker 3>Olivia Wilde, starring seth Rogen, Olivia Wilde, Penelope Cruz, and

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<v Speaker 3>Edward Norton.

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<v Speaker 1>And per Usual.

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<v Speaker 3>For a complete listing of the cast and crew, you

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<v Speaker 3>could check out the link in our show notes.

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<v Speaker 1>It is just me today, Okay. The Invite is a.

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<v Speaker 3>Movie about a disillusioned married couple who are going through

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<v Speaker 3>a tough time in their relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>And they have.

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<v Speaker 3>A dinner party, or they invite their neighbors over to

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<v Speaker 3>their upstairs neighbors to come over and see the new

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<v Speaker 3>renovations to their apartment and to have a bit of

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<v Speaker 3>a dinner, a little hangout, a little little chill session.

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<v Speaker 3>The disillusion married couple is played by Seth Rogan and

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<v Speaker 3>Olivia Wilde, and the neighbors are played by Penelope Cruz

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<v Speaker 3>and Edward Norton. One of the main conflicts of the

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<v Speaker 3>movie is that the upstairs neighbors, Edward Norton and Penelope

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<v Speaker 3>Cruz are having a lot of loud sex, which is

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<v Speaker 3>disruptive to Seth Rogan and Olivia Wilde, and it's also

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<v Speaker 3>highlighting the parts of the relationship that they are dissatisfied with.

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<v Speaker 3>I was told that the inspiration of this movie was

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<v Speaker 3>Twelve Angry Men. Twelve Angry Men is one of my

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<v Speaker 3>favorite movies. I think it's also a play if I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not mistaken. It's one of my favorites. I know that,

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<v Speaker 3>and I saw it when I was in eighth grade.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe I think our teacher showed it to us, and

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<v Speaker 3>it was very, very very good. It really set the

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<v Speaker 3>tone for any movie about a jury that came after

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<v Speaker 3>it will be compared to Twelve Angry Men, But one

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<v Speaker 3>of the main parts about that is that it was

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<v Speaker 3>all set in one room. The entire movie takes place

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<v Speaker 3>in one room, and that is what is happening in

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<v Speaker 3>the invite. This movie does a very good job of

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<v Speaker 3>playing with tension from the very beginning. There is an

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<v Speaker 3>instance in which Olivia and I'm forgetting their character name,

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<v Speaker 3>so you're gonna have to bear with me. Olivia and

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<v Speaker 3>Seth Rogan are in a fight from the very beginning,

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<v Speaker 3>and the tension is just continuing to ratchet up. They're

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<v Speaker 3>in a fight about whether or not they told each

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<v Speaker 3>other about the neighbors coming over. They're in a fight

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<v Speaker 3>about whether or not, Seth Rogan, you can eat the

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<v Speaker 3>cheese despite being hungry, or eat a pickle despite being hungry.

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<v Speaker 3>They are Olivia Wilde is making a soufle. There is

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<v Speaker 3>just a lot going on. He gives her a compliment

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<v Speaker 3>at one point and says that her top looks very

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<v Speaker 3>nice on her, and she responds, you could say things

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<v Speaker 3>like that to me, or you never say anything like that,

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<v Speaker 3>So there was it was a response that indicated that

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<v Speaker 3>he never says stuff like that to her, even though

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<v Speaker 3>he just did, which was it's very indicative of a

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<v Speaker 3>couple who is sick of each other that type of fighting,

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<v Speaker 3>and so that is the initial tension that Edward Norton

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<v Speaker 3>and Penell Cruise are kind of walking into. This is

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<v Speaker 3>a very performance driven film, and it's it's wild because

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<v Speaker 3>plot wise, we're really going from charged moment to charged moment.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not necessarily going from.

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<v Speaker 3>It's really just like a work up to a certain point,

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<v Speaker 3>and then the movie is about to end. It's an

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<v Speaker 3>hour and forty seven minutes. I think it probably could

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<v Speaker 3>have been even tighter, but an hour and forty seven

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<v Speaker 3>minutes is pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm sitting in one ro I'm like, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess would that be considered real time?

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<v Speaker 3>There weren't really a lot of cuts, I would say,

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<v Speaker 3>from one part to a different part, So yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>think it's pretty close to real time, if not completely

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<v Speaker 3>in real time, not like one shot or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the easiest way to talk about this is

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<v Speaker 3>to talk about the performances and then to talk about

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<v Speaker 3>maybe some of the fights.

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<v Speaker 1>Olivia Wilde directs this movie, but she also to me, is.

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<v Speaker 3>The standout actor in this film followed very closely by

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<v Speaker 3>Seth Rogan, then followed very closely by their interactions between them.

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<v Speaker 3>Ed Norton and Penelope Cruz also did a good job,

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<v Speaker 3>but what they had to do was different from what

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<v Speaker 3>Seth Rogan and Olivia Wilde had to do. They were really,

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<v Speaker 3>in some ways oblivious to the tension, or better yet,

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<v Speaker 3>not engaging the tention, or engaging the tension in a

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<v Speaker 3>way that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oblivious to the tension is the wrong word.

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<v Speaker 3>The way in which they engaged the tension was often

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<v Speaker 3>to diffuse. It was to acknowledge that it was there,

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<v Speaker 3>directed in a different, different way, or acknowledge it was

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<v Speaker 3>there an attempt to resolve it.

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<v Speaker 1>But it wasn't like the tension.

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<v Speaker 3>They weren't experiencing the discomfort that the audience is feeling

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<v Speaker 3>from this relationship that's kind of unraveling in front of us,

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<v Speaker 3>so they didn't have to do as much work. Olivia

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<v Speaker 3>Wilde is performing white woman ness in a very, very

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<v Speaker 3>excellent way. It almost reminds me of Oh, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>forget her name. I think it's Kate, Oh I forgot

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<v Speaker 3>her name. She's on Instagram. She always does these white

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<v Speaker 3>woman characters and they're always hilarious. It's gonna I'm not.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even think I can look up her name

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<v Speaker 3>to she only pops up. I follow her on Instagram

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<v Speaker 3>and I do not know her name, but every time

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<v Speaker 3>she shows up in something, I'm so happy to see her. Ugh. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>she does very good job of being like the trope

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<v Speaker 3>of the white woman, and Olivia Wilde is kneeling just

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<v Speaker 3>a particular type of white woman that we all know.

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<v Speaker 3>If you see the film, you'll be like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 3>know her. Yeah, this is like there's there's some anxiety there.

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<v Speaker 3>There is this sense of wanting to be liked and

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<v Speaker 3>wanting to be accepted, but also wanting things in a

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<v Speaker 3>very particular way, but also not wanting to be seen

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<v Speaker 3>as uncool or as a Karen, or as any type

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<v Speaker 3>of unacceptable white woman. Just very this kind of crippling

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<v Speaker 3>self awareness I would call it. Olivia Wilde's performing it excellently, excellently.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's just it's palpable through the screen. I

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<v Speaker 3>really really feel what's happening her with Seth Rogan. The

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<v Speaker 3>fact that they're allowed to kind of in some ways

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<v Speaker 3>be openly hostile to each other makes this the type

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<v Speaker 3>of movie that a different version of this would be

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<v Speaker 3>watching people play nice and then unravel over the film,

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<v Speaker 3>whereas this one is more like, there's no there's no

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<v Speaker 3>hiding the tension that exists between these two. There's no

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<v Speaker 3>hiding it. So it is still simmering and it is

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<v Speaker 3>still kind of sometimes played beneath the surface, but it's

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<v Speaker 3>also seth Rogan's role is kind of there to be like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm upset, and I am and I do want to

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<v Speaker 3>talk about this and this is upsetting to me. But yeah, sure,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll play along for your dinner party. That's kind of

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<v Speaker 3>what he's doing. He's like, yeah, sure, let's go eat, Yeah, sure,

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<v Speaker 3>let's take a tour. I'm gonna smoke a jay. It's

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<v Speaker 3>very much that is kind of what he's doing throughout

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<v Speaker 3>the course of the movie. Whereas Olivia Wilders where like

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<v Speaker 3>is everybody okay, okay, oh honey, don't do that, don't

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<v Speaker 3>do that, And she's showing anxiety in a way that

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<v Speaker 3>I think she thinks that she's still trying to do

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<v Speaker 3>a good job of hiding it, but everyone can tell

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<v Speaker 3>that she is having a tough time. And so when

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<v Speaker 3>this movie gets to kind of its main point, which

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<v Speaker 3>is that relationships are hard, especially if you've been in

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<v Speaker 3>one with a person for a long time, and the

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<v Speaker 3>ways in which we blame each other, i e. The

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<v Speaker 3>closest person that we can find for our dissatisfaction. It

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<v Speaker 3>does that very well. I've been in many relationships in

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<v Speaker 3>which I felt many is the wrong word. I've been

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<v Speaker 3>in relationships in which I felt ultimately dissatisfied about what

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<v Speaker 3>was happening in the relationship, and I have blamed I've

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<v Speaker 3>blamed partners for it. I've been like, this is not

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<v Speaker 3>this is obviously this is happening because I'm in the

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<v Speaker 3>wrong relationship, not because I'm unhappy in any other way,

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<v Speaker 3>or not because I'm failing to communicate in a way

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<v Speaker 3>that would be effective. And several times the ethos of

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<v Speaker 3>this movie is really saying, what are you going to

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<v Speaker 3>do about it?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you going to change that?

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<v Speaker 3>How are you going to change your circumstances in front

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<v Speaker 3>of you?

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<v Speaker 1>What can you do differently?

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<v Speaker 3>And it's wild because I watch a movie like this

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<v Speaker 3>and I automatically start thinking about myself and say, yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 3>what would I change about me? What could I do differently?

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<v Speaker 3>The problem is I often assume that it's me, which

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<v Speaker 3>Seth Rogan does well. Seth Rogan does a very good

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<v Speaker 3>job of there's an allusion to something happening and Seth

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<v Speaker 3>being surprised that he would be included in the something

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<v Speaker 3>that's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a very thinly veiled.

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<v Speaker 3>Try to keep it away from spoilers here, but he's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>also me, and I feel that with him, where I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just like, oh, I would also be included in this,

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<v Speaker 3>or oh, you're interested in me, or oh, yes, you're

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<v Speaker 3>talking to me that type. Whenever I think about that feeling,

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<v Speaker 3>I know that that is very the feeling of self

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<v Speaker 3>inadequacy or surprise to be desired or to be wanted

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<v Speaker 3>in a certain way. Is it is something that it

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<v Speaker 3>hurts relationships. And I think that they performed it that well.

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<v Speaker 3>Is I mean, it's just very good. I'm not doing

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<v Speaker 3>a very good job because it's hard to talk about

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<v Speaker 3>this movie without just straight up saying what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'll jump into spoilers real quick starting now.

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<v Speaker 3>I would encourage you that if you're going to see

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<v Speaker 3>this movie, to go see it and then come back

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<v Speaker 3>and listen to the spoilers. But I think it's important

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<v Speaker 3>to really like get into the nitty gritty of what

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<v Speaker 3>the movie's about.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna talk about some spoilers.

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<v Speaker 3>So the whole thing is that they're upstairs neighbors, are

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<v Speaker 3>their polyamorous, their swingers, and they have come downstairs because

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<v Speaker 3>they want to invite.

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<v Speaker 1>Seth Rogen and Olivia.

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<v Speaker 3>Wilde to have sex with him, to have group sex

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<v Speaker 3>with them, and it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Seth Rogan Is is surprised.

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, wait, also me, like you would also want

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<v Speaker 3>me to be a part of this, which is very subtle,

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<v Speaker 3>but it also speaks to like something very specific that

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<v Speaker 3>I know of myself as a man. And I won't

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<v Speaker 3>talk more generally about men, but it will say the

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<v Speaker 3>idea that I could be included or I could be

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<v Speaker 3>desired is somewhat novel, and I think he does a

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<v Speaker 3>very good job of performing that. Penelope Cruz is meant

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<v Speaker 3>to be kind of like the facilitator, very sexy throughout

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<v Speaker 3>connection for all four of them, followed closely by Edward Norton,

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<v Speaker 3>resistance is coming from Seth Rogan. And this kind of

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<v Speaker 3>happen next between them. She doesn't need much convincing to say, yes, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>I would like that. How can I also be a

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<v Speaker 3>And so like, the tension that exists between Olivia Wilde

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<v Speaker 3>towards each other, for each of them being the perceived

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<v Speaker 3>And it's funny because seth Rogen at one point says,

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<v Speaker 3>Wilde is like, you have nothing to be miserable about.

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<v Speaker 3>You are working in the field that you graduated in,

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<v Speaker 3>talking past each other in this specific way. And there's

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<v Speaker 3>she would rather be using her art skills to be

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<v Speaker 1>School and is an artist.

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<v Speaker 3>And then there's an indication that they used to be

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<v Speaker 3>they play around with all of the tension, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>interesting that the vehicle to kind of express the tension

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<v Speaker 3>ultimately is group sex with their neighbors, or the idea

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<v Speaker 3>or possible group sex with their neighbors.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll say so.

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<v Speaker 3>Overall, I really enjoyed the movie. I thought it was

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<v Speaker 3>it feels like in the same family movie family of

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<v Speaker 3>movies as the drama. Definitely more going on emotionally in

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<v Speaker 3>this film than in quite a few other films. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I just saw The Odyssey, so I think there's more

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<v Speaker 3>going on emotionally in this film than in The Odyssey.

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<v Speaker 1>I think The Odyssey does a pretty good job.

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<v Speaker 3>But someone described it as saying it was a beautiful

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<v Speaker 3>technical film, but it didn't make them feel anything, and

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<v Speaker 3>I remember thinking, yeah, I could see that this is

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<v Speaker 3>factor than on the feelings factor, even though it tries

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<v Speaker 3>to insert the feelings in there, and I did feel things,

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<v Speaker 3>but I feel like in terms of feelings to impressive ratio,

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<v Speaker 3>the impressive ratio impressive was higher than feelings, whereas this

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<v Speaker 3>one very high on the feelings. Like the performances were

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<v Speaker 3>very good, very impressive. There's nothing technically great about this film.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's just technical in the sense of there's

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<v Speaker 3>no big set pieces or anything like that. They're just

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<v Speaker 3>in a house having a discussion.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very much.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a one act play or a two act play,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not even important. The props or the thing that's

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<v Speaker 3>in there. It's really the performances that matter the most. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>but it really did make me feel and make me

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<v Speaker 3>and I watched it first thing in the morning, so

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<v Speaker 3>I still little groggy waking up all that, but it's

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<v Speaker 3>still hit me right in the fields. It kind of

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<v Speaker 3>reminds me of I just watched The Roses, and I

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<v Speaker 3>think the Roses used more of all of the movie

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<v Speaker 3>making toolkit that they have, meaning the scenes and the

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<v Speaker 3>places and the sets, the costume design, all of that

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<v Speaker 3>is way more important in a movie like that, which

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<v Speaker 3>also is about relationships, than something like The Invite, where

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<v Speaker 3>this is more about the bare bones performances. With all

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<v Speaker 3>of that being said, I think it's a four star movie.

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<v Speaker 3>I did not like it as much as I liked

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<v Speaker 3>the drama. I think the drama did a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>better job of conveying the isolation of truth in a

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<v Speaker 3>way that this one is more about the conflict of reality.

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<v Speaker 3>And it might feel like I'm just making up words,

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<v Speaker 3>but the conflict of reality meaning that to exist and

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<v Speaker 3>to be in partnership with someone means that in reality

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<v Speaker 3>you are living in conflict. Now, some people would be like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>you're not well, there is some conflict there because it's

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<v Speaker 3>a different person. You have to make decisions together. You're

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<v Speaker 3>never really just thinking of something you want to do.

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<v Speaker 3>You're thinking of what is best for both of you,

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<v Speaker 3>which is a conflicted reality, as opposed to having stated

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<v Speaker 3>something and having to deal with the fallout of the

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<v Speaker 3>truth being out in the open, which is what the

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<v Speaker 3>drama is doing. Both of them are dealing with relationships

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<v Speaker 3>with other people, and maybe I just prefer one over

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<v Speaker 3>the other, but I just think the drama, it just

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<v Speaker 3>it drew me into this better. It's kind of like

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<v Speaker 3>the same way that I've really recently really would have

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<v Speaker 3>been wanted to rewatch past lives. I've really wanted to

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<v Speaker 3>rewatch that because I think that is another thing that

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<v Speaker 3>is very good at confronting kind of both the conflict

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<v Speaker 3>of reality and the isolation of truth, meaning that when

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<v Speaker 3>the truth is out, how isolating it can feel, and

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<v Speaker 3>then living in a reality that is by many that's

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<v Speaker 3>conflicted by all accounts, is very conflicted.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I give this four stars.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even know if I reviewed this movie as

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<v Speaker 3>much as I just talked existentially about a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>things that are bothering me while losing some of my words.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, this is Yeah, it's a four star movie.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's a four star movie. I give it

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<v Speaker 3>the same as The Odyssey because I think it's the

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<v Speaker 3>feeling spectrum in the opposite direction while not being a

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<v Speaker 3>big visual spectacle, but feelings wise, I really felt this

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<v Speaker 3>movie four stars and with that leaving the theater. Is

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<v Speaker 3>a production of Oh It's Big Ron Studios. Currently it

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<v Speaker 3>is Friday morning. Right now, it's noon. I got to

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<v Speaker 3>this movie at nine twenty, watching it first thing. So

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<v Speaker 3>I can edit this on Sunday or maybe later today

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<v Speaker 3>or tomorrow, who knows, so I can get this out

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<v Speaker 3>for Monday. Keep the train rolling along. Just got back

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<v Speaker 3>from a week and a half long recording trip. Went

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<v Speaker 3>to LA for a week, then to New York for

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<v Speaker 3>three days. Now I'm back and I am writing and

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<v Speaker 3>editing and about to announce the newest oh It's Big

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<v Speaker 3>Ron Studios project. That announcement will come first on Patreon.

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<v Speaker 3>My goal is to announce it very soon on Patreon.

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<v Speaker 3>I am my own biggest enemy. I have to actually

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<v Speaker 3>film the announcement. Make sure I know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 3>make sure it's a video that makes sense. Then I

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<v Speaker 3>also planning to watch a movie. Put that out while

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<v Speaker 3>also writing, listening to highlighting, editing, cutting tape, getting.

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<v Speaker 1>Ready to give it to my editors.

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<v Speaker 3>We can go back and forth about writing full episodes

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<v Speaker 3>the link in our show notes. Show art from Heather Wilder,

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<v Speaker 3>be back soon. Thanks for listening. I'm Ronel Young Junior and.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm performing

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<v Speaker 3>White Woman Nests in a very very excellent way.
