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<v Speaker 1>And Enogy s Cancelt of the Haid Ecstasy set Cancelt Hama,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not sorry, Andogy.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want to know what a true sin looks like?

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<v Speaker 2>Come here, Come closer, lean in. A true sin looks

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<v Speaker 2>like you trying to get someone who does not even

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<v Speaker 2>like themselves to like you. Not even Jesus Christ himself

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<v Speaker 2>could get everyone to like him. Not even God can

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<v Speaker 2>get everyone to believe in his divinity. And you're out

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<v Speaker 2>here on this floating rock trying to get everyone to

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<v Speaker 2>like you, because that makes no damn sense. What's up,

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<v Speaker 2>positive bitches? How are we doing today? If you're hearing

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<v Speaker 2>this episode, you're meant to be here, So keep listening

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<v Speaker 2>on the Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, Baby,

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna cry, but we will always walk away feeling

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<v Speaker 2>O our most empowered positive bitch self. That is Babe

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<v Speaker 2>in true connection with herself himself, human self. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>care what you are. If you want to transcend your

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<v Speaker 2>current reality and get better results, you are welcome here. Hello.

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<v Speaker 2>On this podcast, we unbecome who we are not so

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<v Speaker 2>we can fully step into exactly who we came here

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<v Speaker 2>whatever we want around here, now, can't we wait? Seriously though,

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<v Speaker 2>If you're looking to become the highest version of your self, hottest, healthiest,

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<v Speaker 2>We also have the Pedestal Path if you want to

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<v Speaker 2>Shadow Alchemy if you're ready to understand your hitting gifts

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<v Speaker 2>and transcend who you've been attracting, And of course, the

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<v Speaker 2>art of alchemy, learning how to become a master alchemist,

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<v Speaker 2>taking those lower vibrational emotions of pain and turning it

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<v Speaker 2>into your power. Now, without further ado, let's get into

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<v Speaker 2>today's episode. Something really interesting about being a human is,

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<v Speaker 2>while it is our incarnation, it's not just about us.

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<v Speaker 2>What's what are you kidding me? It's not just about us. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>So here's the thing. The universe is quite literally expanding

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<v Speaker 2>through your unique perspective. I don't think will fully ever

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<v Speaker 2>understand really what God is because I think it's just

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<v Speaker 2>so beyond our comprehension as a human being. But we

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<v Speaker 2>can grasp at straws and try our best. We have

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<v Speaker 2>a limiting understanding that there is this divinity that is

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<v Speaker 2>the creator of all things, that is the creator of us,

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<v Speaker 2>that runs through our veins. And this divinity has been

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<v Speaker 2>expanding since the beginning of time and has expanded now

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<v Speaker 2>through you. There's an amazing quote by Rumy and it

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<v Speaker 2>says you are not a drop in the ocean. You

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<v Speaker 2>are the entire ocean. In a drop. You have a

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<v Speaker 2>divinity that runs through your veins, that wants to experience

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<v Speaker 2>this universe in physical form through your unique perspective. There

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<v Speaker 2>are gifts and talent and attributes that only you can

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<v Speaker 2>give to this world. It's not just about you but

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<v Speaker 2>how the universe wants to expand through you, How the

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<v Speaker 2>universe wants to gift to other people through your unique gift.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of us have grown up in judgmental environments,

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<v Speaker 2>whether that be our family or the playground. We have

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<v Speaker 2>learned in order to be accepted by the tribe, we

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<v Speaker 2>have to try to fit in. We have to perceive

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<v Speaker 2>how they're looking at us, rather than perceiving a world

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<v Speaker 2>through our own two eyes, and that is not going

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<v Speaker 2>to lead us anywhere. The grades that we think of

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<v Speaker 2>are not thinking, oh my god, what are they thinking

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<v Speaker 2>of me? What are they going to judge me for?

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<v Speaker 2>They listen to their internal voice more than they listen

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<v Speaker 2>to the external voices around them. If you want to

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<v Speaker 2>be great, if you want to find out what you

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<v Speaker 2>can really do, you have to take a more feminine

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<v Speaker 2>approach to your life, and that means tuning in more

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<v Speaker 2>than your tuning externally. It means listening to the inner

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<v Speaker 2>voice more than you're listening to everyone around you. At

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<v Speaker 2>the end of the day, the person who understands your

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<v Speaker 2>vision the most is you. You can't expect people to

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<v Speaker 2>understand your point of view when it's your point of view.

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<v Speaker 2>Trust me When it becomes successful, everyone else will jump

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<v Speaker 2>on board. But for now, you have to be both

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<v Speaker 2>boots on the ground and you have to go after

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<v Speaker 2>your desire like your life depends on it, because it

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<v Speaker 2>really does. How do you stop caring so much about

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<v Speaker 2>what other people are telling you to do or about

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<v Speaker 2>their judgments? You got to first consider the source. If

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<v Speaker 2>someone is judging you for your relationship, but you would

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<v Speaker 2>never want theirs, don't take their advice. If someone is

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<v Speaker 2>judging you for how you dress, but you hate how

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<v Speaker 2>they're dressed, don't take their advice. You have to consider

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<v Speaker 2>the source. They are their own human with their own

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<v Speaker 2>filters and their own fears and their own judgments, and

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<v Speaker 2>their limited beliefs are now just bleeding on you. It's

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<v Speaker 2>hard for people to carry these burdens of limiting beliefs

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<v Speaker 2>and fears. So what do they do? They word vomit

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<v Speaker 2>it on us when I get unsolicited advice on relationships,

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<v Speaker 2>because people will always ask me, oh, maybe you want

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<v Speaker 2>to date this person, or maybe you want this, or

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you want that. Even though I find it really

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<v Speaker 2>funny that no one has once ever asked me if

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<v Speaker 2>I'm looking for God, but they will ask me if

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<v Speaker 2>I'm looking for a man, I'm like, yeah, I'm looking

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<v Speaker 2>for the man upstairs divinity. I'm looking for a true

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<v Speaker 2>definition of God. Do you have that? I'm looking to

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<v Speaker 2>transcend this reality and teleport into the king's chamber in

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<v Speaker 2>ancient Egypt? Do you have that machine where I can

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<v Speaker 2>do that? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>You do?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Then we're not on the same wavelength here, are we?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>We're not. No, we're not. People will give me random

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<v Speaker 2>advice about relationships, and I look at their relationship and

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<v Speaker 2>I think, holy shit, I would never never want what

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<v Speaker 2>they have. I don't like their dynamic. I don't like

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<v Speaker 2>how they fight with one another. I would never allow

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<v Speaker 2>that in my relationship. Life is truly just whatever you

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<v Speaker 2>want to tolerate, whatever you allow, you amplify. And I

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<v Speaker 2>look at them and I'm thinking, huh ba humbug. Yeah

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<v Speaker 2>you know that's cool and all that you want to

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<v Speaker 2>give me advice. I think you have good intentions. Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>you're trying to help me, even though I did not ask.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want what you have, though, So what I

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<v Speaker 2>do is I smile and I nod and I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>like yeah, yeah, And then I just changed the subject

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<v Speaker 2>because I literally don't care. And these people they're not

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<v Speaker 2>trying to hurt me. I do think they have positive

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<v Speaker 2>intention to help me. And I wouldn't go so far

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<v Speaker 2>to say that people who are giving you advice want

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<v Speaker 2>to hurt you. If they're trying to give you advice,

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<v Speaker 2>they probably think that they're helping you. Maybe they just

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<v Speaker 2>like to hear themselves talk. Maybe they're delusional. Who really knows.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't want to take ever. But I'm also

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<v Speaker 2>not going to do harm, especially when I know someone

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<v Speaker 2>is just in a limited consciousness and they have limited

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<v Speaker 2>capacity for understanding what I understand. And it's not that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm better than them, We're just operating on two different channels.

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<v Speaker 2>And when someone does want to give me their advice

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<v Speaker 2>on relationships and they're looking at me and they're like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>you're single, maybe you could try this or this or this,

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<v Speaker 2>you gotta take it with a grain of salt. If

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<v Speaker 2>you're looking for answers, go to God, go to the divine,

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<v Speaker 2>go to your spirit team, or just sit in silence.

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<v Speaker 2>No one can give you the answer you're really really

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<v Speaker 2>looking for besides yourself. Because people can talk all day,

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<v Speaker 2>no one truly knows what's best for you besides you.

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<v Speaker 2>You now, if you really want to get the best

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<v Speaker 2>advice possible, it means turning off your egoic mind and

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<v Speaker 2>leaning into your intuition. You got to slow down, you

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<v Speaker 2>have to make you got to step into meditation, go

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<v Speaker 2>for a walk and just listen to meditative music. You

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<v Speaker 2>need to flush out all the blah blah blah blah

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<v Speaker 2>blah to get to the true answers. Recently, I've had

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<v Speaker 2>to tell my mom like fifteen thousand times, I want

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<v Speaker 2>to go to you and talk to you because I

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<v Speaker 2>love you and I value what you have to say.

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<v Speaker 2>But there are times I'm looking for comfort, not criticism.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm looking for space, not unsolicited advice. There's a difference.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes we're just looking for a shoulder to cry on,

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<v Speaker 2>we're not looking for someone to talk at us. And

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<v Speaker 2>I found, after telling her multiple times, it has now

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<v Speaker 2>successfully gotten through the brain barrier and we're getting somewhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes you literally have to tell someone, look, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>need criticism right now, I just need comfort. I know

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<v Speaker 2>what I have to do, but it's a difficult decision

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<v Speaker 2>and right now I just need a shoulder to lean

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<v Speaker 2>on communicate what it is you need from people. Before

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<v Speaker 2>you take someone's advice, you need to look at their life.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want their relationship? Do you like how they

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<v Speaker 2>show up every single day? Their belief system has built

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<v Speaker 2>their life, because our belief builds our world. If you

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<v Speaker 2>don't like their life, then do not adopt their belief.

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<v Speaker 2>If people are not just giving you advice but literally

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<v Speaker 2>hating on you, let them. Whether someone's sending you positive

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<v Speaker 2>energy or negative energy, it's still energy you can use

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<v Speaker 2>to alchemize and transmute into power. When I go on

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<v Speaker 2>a walk and I feel like there's people staring at me,

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<v Speaker 2>I will literally just say to myself, I transmute any

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<v Speaker 2>energy sent my way into power, into wealth, into hotness,

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<v Speaker 2>into abundance, because at the end of the day, people

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<v Speaker 2>are going to send me all different types of energy.

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<v Speaker 2>I like to show up how I like to show up,

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<v Speaker 2>and not every one's going to agree with that, So

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<v Speaker 2>of course they're going to judge me. Of course they're

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<v Speaker 2>going to send me energy. I'm not going to walk

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<v Speaker 2>around and be like, oh, no one can perceive me,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no one's judging me. No. I live in reality,

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<v Speaker 2>which means that yeah, people do judge you. They are

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<v Speaker 2>going to send you energy. And if they're going to

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<v Speaker 2>do that, you can bet your ass that I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to use their energy to transmute it into my power

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<v Speaker 2>because I don't get mad. I get everything that I've

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<v Speaker 2>ever wanted. And that's what you have to learn to do.

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<v Speaker 2>You have the god given ability to transmute energy other

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<v Speaker 2>people send you into your power. So literally say to yourself,

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<v Speaker 2>any energy sent my way is turned into abundance. Any

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<v Speaker 2>energy is sent my way is turned into my power.

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<v Speaker 2>Any energy sent my way is turned into whatever it

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<v Speaker 2>is that you want to manifest in that season. Most

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<v Speaker 2>people are just children in adult bodies. Yes, we physically

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<v Speaker 2>age thirteen to fourteen to fifteen to sixteen. But when

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<v Speaker 2>you ask someone, oh do you feel older today? Do

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<v Speaker 2>you feel twenty seven? Do you feel fifteen? They always

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<v Speaker 2>say no, I feel exactly the same. Yeah, because we're

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<v Speaker 2>physically aging, but mentally and emotionally, unless you're doing the work,

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<v Speaker 2>you're reading the books, you're not really maturing. That's why

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<v Speaker 2>there's so many adult humans and we're thinking, WTF. They

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<v Speaker 2>and emotionally, spiritually, there's still a five year old having

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<v Speaker 2>I look at them, I just see them as children.

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<v Speaker 2>I see them in their own mental cage. Because the

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<v Speaker 2>The only real limit in this life is you. You

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<v Speaker 2>are your own biggest obstacle. You are your own biggest limits.

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<v Speaker 2>We have to surpass all the limiting beliefs, all the

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<v Speaker 2>We have to surpass all our insecurities, all of our

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<v Speaker 2>And it actually puts the power back in our own hands.

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<v Speaker 2>well the powers in their hands. Now, what are you

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<v Speaker 2>gonna do? No, no, no. The person who has the most

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<v Speaker 2>power over your life is simply you. Your biggest enemy,

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<v Speaker 2>your biggest obstacle, your biggest limit is also you. It's you.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to unravel all the bs going on in

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<v Speaker 2>your life will change. Your life will change. You are

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<v Speaker 2>both the programmer and the program So growing up we

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<v Speaker 2>got programmed, and now as an adult we have to say,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, I want to become a conscious co creator

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<v Speaker 2>now and I'm going to rewrite my program. That's why

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<v Speaker 2>listening to this podcast is so important, because you're rewiring

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<v Speaker 2>thoughts that you thought were fact. That's why last week

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<v Speaker 2>the Making Mind affirmation track is so important. It's going

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<v Speaker 2>to rewire your brain for you so you can get

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<v Speaker 2>episode over and over and over again for at least

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<v Speaker 2>twenty one days, and you're going to see a huge

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<v Speaker 2>transformation in your life. At this point, I can't even

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<v Speaker 2>get mad at people because I feel bad. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>bad they don't have the tools. I feel bad that

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<v Speaker 2>someone as much as they hate themselves. I couldn't. I'll

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<v Speaker 2>never forget. I was in Brooklyn once getting CA and

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<v Speaker 2>I just chuckled to myself because I thought, damn, I

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<v Speaker 2>could never hate that little human as much as she

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<v Speaker 2>hates herself. And I sent her love because I feel

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<v Speaker 2>bad she hates herself. And at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 2>you can say whatever you want to me, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>really care. I care what I think about me. I

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<v Speaker 2>care about what God thinks of me, not a mere

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<v Speaker 2>mortal no, unless your divinity. I don't really care what

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<v Speaker 2>much I've worked on myself. I know how many times

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<v Speaker 2>I've burnt myself down just to stand back up. I

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<v Speaker 2>know how many hours I have spent on becoming a

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<v Speaker 2>better person, a better version of me. I don't need

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<v Speaker 2>your validation because I validate me. I don't need your

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<v Speaker 2>opinion because I have a good opinion of myself. And

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<v Speaker 2>unless you're God. I don't really care. Another time, I

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<v Speaker 2>because it was after yoga and I was praising God,

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<v Speaker 2>I was talking to Jesus and I was like crying

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<v Speaker 2>of gratitude. It was a special moment for me. And

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<v Speaker 2>then I look up and someone's flipping me off, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh, lovely. And in that moment a channel

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<v Speaker 2>message came through, and what that message said was there

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<v Speaker 2>are constant invitations to either evolve or devolve. You could

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<v Speaker 2>be in a higher vibration, but there's always going to

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<v Speaker 2>be that invitation to get to the next higher vibration,

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<v Speaker 2>to the next higher state, or an invitation to devolve,

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<v Speaker 2>to go down a peg. And that is just what

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<v Speaker 2>being a human is. Healing is not linear. It's much

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<v Speaker 2>more like a spiral, and we're constantly being invited to

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<v Speaker 2>go to a higher state, from neutral to happiness, to

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<v Speaker 2>love to authenticity. And then when you're at that state

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<v Speaker 2>of authenticity, you're also going to get an invitation where

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<v Speaker 2>someone fells you off to go back down to neutrality,

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<v Speaker 2>where maybe you get a little confused, and then you

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<v Speaker 2>get pissed off and you're going down to anger. There

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<v Speaker 2>are always going to be invitations, and honestly, you don't

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<v Speaker 2>have to get bent out of shape about this. We're human.

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<v Speaker 2>Enjoy the journey evil to devolve, devolve to evolv You're

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<v Speaker 2>not meant to be perfect, You're meant to be human.

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<v Speaker 2>If someone has enough time to hate on me, to

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<v Speaker 2>judge me, wow, they must be so bored. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>have time to leave a negative comment on someone's post.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have time to hate on someone. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>have time to talk bad about someone. That's a luxury.

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<v Speaker 2>Having free time to hate on someone is such a luxury.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have it. I'm building an empire, I'm writing

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<v Speaker 2>another book, I'm posting content, I have a podcast to

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<v Speaker 2>get to, I have clients to speak to. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>have the luxury the boredom to talk negatively about other people.

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<v Speaker 2>If somebody does, they must not have a lot going on. Oh, demo, demo, damn.

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<v Speaker 2>And at the end of the day, if they want

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<v Speaker 2>to talk bad about me, okay, Karma knows everyone's address.

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<v Speaker 2>They're just hurting themselves. It has nothing to do with me.

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<v Speaker 2>One of the energetic principles is the law of karma.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever you put out, you're gonna get back. You don't

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<v Speaker 2>have to worry about people who are hating on you,

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<v Speaker 2>who are sending you negative energy. You take that energy,

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<v Speaker 2>you transmit it, you alchemize it, and you let Karma

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<v Speaker 2>do her thing. Okay, those people, they need to learn

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<v Speaker 2>how to get a life, They need to learn how

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<v Speaker 2>to get a hobby. Honestly, send them this podcast. This

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<v Speaker 2>would help them. Let's let's not gate keep, let's allow

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<v Speaker 2>them in. Let's help them. The best thing you can

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<v Speaker 2>do towards a hater, towards someone who's sending you negative energy,

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<v Speaker 2>is simply laugh. That will allow you to maintain a

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<v Speaker 2>high frequency, and it also really communicates. You don't get

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<v Speaker 2>to bully me into a lower vibration. You don't get

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<v Speaker 2>to dictate how I'm going to feel. You're miserable. Why

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<v Speaker 2>would I lower myself down to your state. I'm instead

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<v Speaker 2>going to influence other people around me to rise. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't come to the planet to allow other people to

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<v Speaker 2>bring me down. When I was in Charleston, some girl

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<v Speaker 2>kept spilling her drink all over me, And instead of

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<v Speaker 2>getting mad at her or allowing that to ruin my night,

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<v Speaker 2>because that only hurts me, I took my drink, poured

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<v Speaker 2>it on top of my head and said I was

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<v Speaker 2>dancing in the rain. That's what I did. I transmute

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<v Speaker 2>negative energy into humor. I'm telling you that will change

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<v Speaker 2>your life. When someone wants to ghost me, I just

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<v Speaker 2>laugh and say, Okay, someone better's coming in. When I

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<v Speaker 2>get freaking traumatized, I'm like, okay, what the f was that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a human being and I don't know what's going on,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's okay. I just laugh. At the end of

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<v Speaker 2>want people to bully me into a lower vibration. I

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<v Speaker 2>will not allow other people to dictate my emotional state.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not what I came here to do. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>a feather in the wind. I'm not a leaf in

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<v Speaker 2>the wind. I am CC and I'm going to be

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<v Speaker 2>in control of my frequency and my vibration because at

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<v Speaker 2>the end of the day, that is what's controlling my reality.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna let Joe Schmoe tinker me into a

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<v Speaker 2>lower vibration and then f up my reality. That's not

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<v Speaker 2>what I came here to do. I take my power

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<v Speaker 2>back by responding with humor rather than reacting from a

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<v Speaker 2>past wound or anger, or allowing them to dictate how

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna feel. People who hate on you, think about it,

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<v Speaker 2>or below you. They say it's lonely at the top.

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<v Speaker 2>No it's not. It's lonely at the bottom. And that's

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<v Speaker 2>why misery will always try to rip you down. People

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<v Speaker 2>who are miserable try to take you, take your energy.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like parasites. They want to just bleed their misery

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<v Speaker 2>all over you. They just want you to hear their

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<v Speaker 2>miserable story over and over and over again. People who

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<v Speaker 2>are below you are lonely, they are miserable, and they

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<v Speaker 2>are trying to pull you down to their state. That's

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<v Speaker 2>not because they're evil, it's just how energy works. All

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<v Speaker 2>energy seeks to expand. Think about it. When someone has

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<v Speaker 2>good energy, you want to be around that person. You

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<v Speaker 2>want to hear their story, you want to listen to them,

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<v Speaker 2>you want to dance with them. But when someone's always

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<v Speaker 2>in a crabby mood, you try to get away from them.

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<v Speaker 2>Because energy is always seeking to expand, and it expands

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<v Speaker 2>through us. It's contagious. If they're in a bad mood. Somehow,

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<v Speaker 2>now we're in a bad mood. But if they're in

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<v Speaker 2>a good mood somehow, Now we're in a good mood.

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<v Speaker 2>Energy is contagious. It's not lonely at the top, it's

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<v Speaker 2>lonely at the bottom. And that is why miserly loves company.

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<v Speaker 2>No one really doing better than you mentally, emotionally, spiritually

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<v Speaker 2>is gonna hate on you. So if you know someone's

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<v Speaker 2>hating on you, it's because they're below you and trying

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<v Speaker 2>to get you down to their level. But you're not

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<v Speaker 2>going to give them that power because you're smarter than that.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like people who hate on me, people who

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<v Speaker 2>hate on you, I feel like they're actually just fans

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<v Speaker 2>in disguise. They're secret fans, like they want to do

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<v Speaker 2>what we're doing so badly that they're just envious. That's

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<v Speaker 2>what it is they are reflecting back to you. Damn,

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<v Speaker 2>you get to be free, you get to be happy,

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<v Speaker 2>you get to be confident in your own skin, and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't get to do that. Well, now I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>hate on you. I find it very hysterical when people

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<v Speaker 2>hate on what someone else is wearing, and they'll tell me,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I don't hate with there. Why would I

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<v Speaker 2>hate what someone's wearing. Why would I care that much

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<v Speaker 2>to comment on another person's outfit? Why would I care

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<v Speaker 2>about that. I don't care what anyone does as long

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<v Speaker 2>as they're not hurting another individual. I do not care

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<v Speaker 2>if someone comes up to me and says, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>look at that girl. Her outfit is horrible. It's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 2>I know there's something about that girl, standing in her confidence,

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<v Speaker 2>in her unique combination of clothing that is triggering that

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<v Speaker 2>other person. They want to be as confident as her.

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<v Speaker 2>They want to be as free as her, they want

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<v Speaker 2>to be as bold as her, and because they don't

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<v Speaker 2>When someone is hating on someone, when someone is judging someone,

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<v Speaker 2>I know it says so much more about the hater

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<v Speaker 2>than it does about that other person. They really are

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<v Speaker 2>a secret band. They want to be able to do

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<v Speaker 2>what that other person is doing. So when someone is

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<v Speaker 2>hitting on you, it's really not even about you. It's

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<v Speaker 2>about them what they wish they can embody, what they

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<v Speaker 2>wish they could have in their own reality. You're inspiring them,

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<v Speaker 2>You're making them feel something, You're triggering them. Honestly, you

416
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<v Speaker 2>should be a saying you're welcome to them because you're

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<v Speaker 2>helping them heal while on their incarnation, because you're showing

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<v Speaker 2>them where their shadows lie. Your energy is expensive. My

419
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<v Speaker 2>energy is expensive, So that means we're not just going

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<v Speaker 2>to spend it on anyone. There are people who are

421
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<v Speaker 2>just not worth us spending our attention and energy on.

422
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<v Speaker 2>And if you don't want something to be a big deal,

423
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<v Speaker 2>do not give it big attention. Think about it. When

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<v Speaker 2>you don't give something your attention. Your attention is the

425
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<v Speaker 2>greatest commodity that you have. When you don't give something

426
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<v Speaker 2>your attention, it can't steal from your energy bucket, it

427
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<v Speaker 2>can't take from your life. Something really only solidifies into

428
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<v Speaker 2>your three D reality when you observe it. It's called

429
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<v Speaker 2>the observer effect in quantum physics. When you observe something,

430
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<v Speaker 2>it goes from wavelength into solid electron form. But when

431
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<v Speaker 2>you remove your attention from it, it really ceases to

432
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<v Speaker 2>exist within your reality. Your energy is expensive, so do

433
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<v Speaker 2>not spend it trying to prove your work to people

434
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<v Speaker 2>who've already decided not to see it. Do not spend

435
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<v Speaker 2>your energy trying to prove yourself to people who do

436
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<v Speaker 2>not even like themselves. It is not worth it to

437
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<v Speaker 2>burn yourself out for what For people who are still

438
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<v Speaker 2>operating at the capacity of a five year old. Trying

439
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<v Speaker 2>to prove yourself to someone who literally is already committed

440
00:25:12.160 --> 00:25:16.519
<v Speaker 2>to misunderstanding you not worth it. Go talk to God instead,

441
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<v Speaker 2>Go read a book, Go learn something new. Boundaries are

442
00:25:20.759 --> 00:25:24.039
<v Speaker 2>the sexiest thing you can do for yourself. Unfollow them,

443
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<v Speaker 2>mute them, walk away. Not everything deserves a reaction, and

444
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<v Speaker 2>you know what, not everything even deserves a response. Some

445
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<v Speaker 2>things deserve an attention, some things just deserve a moment

446
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<v Speaker 2>of I'm calling all my power back to me. I'm

447
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<v Speaker 2>going to look in the other direction. I'm going to

448
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<v Speaker 2>take my power, my presence, and I'm going to go

449
00:25:46.039 --> 00:25:50.079
<v Speaker 2>place it into an environment where I am celebrated rather

450
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<v Speaker 2>than tolerated. You aren't for everyone. I'm not for everyone.

451
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<v Speaker 2>I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I definitely am ayahuasca.

452
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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to trigger people. I'm going to shed light

453
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<v Speaker 2>on things for people. I'm going to make people feel something.

454
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<v Speaker 2>I'm okay with that because I didn't come to planet

455
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<v Speaker 2>Earth to be liked. I don't care if mere mortals

456
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<v Speaker 2>like me or not. I came here to really walk

457
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<v Speaker 2>on CC's journey of learning to love herself unconditionally, of

458
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<v Speaker 2>creating to inspire other human beings. I have my own

459
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<v Speaker 2>mission that needs my time, attention, and focus. I'm not

460
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<v Speaker 2>going to worry about Joe Schmo, who does not like himself.

461
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<v Speaker 2>You weren't created to be liked by everyone. You were

462
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<v Speaker 2>created to learn how to love who you incarnated as.

463
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<v Speaker 2>And you do have purpose here, and you are needed here.

464
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<v Speaker 2>And you're not meant to be that other person, because

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<v Speaker 2>if you were meant to be that other person, you

466
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<v Speaker 2>would have incarnated as them. You have your own journey,

467
00:26:49.519 --> 00:26:53.559
<v Speaker 2>your own obstacles, your own celebrations that needs your attention.

468
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<v Speaker 2>Give your attention to things that you can grow, not

469
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<v Speaker 2>to people who are committed to misunderstanding you. You have

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<v Speaker 2>to basically reframe their hate. Let them be judgmental, let

471
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<v Speaker 2>them hate. It means you're probably doing something right. It

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<v Speaker 2>means you're being loud enough that you're not conforming to

473
00:27:12.279 --> 00:27:16.480
<v Speaker 2>everybody else. Haters give you a spotlight. They give you energy. Okay,

474
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<v Speaker 2>efitt use it. Every successful person I can think of

475
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<v Speaker 2>has people who are hating on them. The first reframe is, oh,

476
00:27:24.240 --> 00:27:26.559
<v Speaker 2>people are hating on me. That means I'm not conforming.

477
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<v Speaker 2>It must mean I'm doing something right. The second thing

478
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<v Speaker 2>is reframing what they're hating on. When I was growing up,

479
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<v Speaker 2>my older brother always used to make fun of me

480
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<v Speaker 2>for having a big forehead, and so did this kid

481
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<v Speaker 2>in my grade. And thank god, thank God for my

482
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<v Speaker 2>sister because she I remember sitting in her room and

483
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<v Speaker 2>I was crying to her because my brother and this

484
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<v Speaker 2>kid in my school would call me a five head

485
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<v Speaker 2>all the time. And she was like, Cci, she did

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<v Speaker 2>something really important. Actually, she didn't deny that I had

487
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<v Speaker 2>a big forehead. She wasn't like, no, you have a

488
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<v Speaker 2>small forehead. I don't have a small forehead. I do

489
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<v Speaker 2>have a bigger forehead. But she didn't deny the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that I had a big forehead, So she didn't gaslight

491
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<v Speaker 2>me into saying, no, you have a small forehead. I don't.

492
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<v Speaker 2>She said, your forehead is a beautiful size. It's not small,

493
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<v Speaker 2>it's a statement size. And she says, do you know

494
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<v Speaker 2>who has bigger foreheads? Models? And she always used to

495
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<v Speaker 2>show me a picture of Gema Ward and she said, Ceci,

496
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<v Speaker 2>you look like jem Award. When I was younger, apparently

497
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<v Speaker 2>I looked like this model gem Award or I have

498
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<v Speaker 2>similar features as her, for example my forehead. And she

499
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<v Speaker 2>used to tell me all of the girls on America's

500
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<v Speaker 2>Next Top Model have unique features like gaps or a

501
00:28:40.960 --> 00:28:44.000
<v Speaker 2>larger forehead, and she says, this is what makes them

502
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<v Speaker 2>stand out, This is what makes them beautiful, and you

503
00:28:46.920 --> 00:28:50.000
<v Speaker 2>have that and it is beautiful. And she would even

504
00:28:50.039 --> 00:28:52.240
<v Speaker 2>show me Rihanna when I got a little bit older.

505
00:28:52.319 --> 00:28:54.640
<v Speaker 2>She was like, look you and Rihanna, you have this

506
00:28:54.759 --> 00:28:59.319
<v Speaker 2>beautiful feature about you. And she saved me with that

507
00:28:59.559 --> 00:29:03.359
<v Speaker 2>because my sister's ten years older than me. Having another

508
00:29:03.440 --> 00:29:05.799
<v Speaker 2>woman who I looked up to because she's older than me,

509
00:29:05.960 --> 00:29:09.039
<v Speaker 2>tell me, this is so beautiful about you and reframing

510
00:29:09.119 --> 00:29:12.240
<v Speaker 2>it from a five head to models and celebrities have

511
00:29:12.359 --> 00:29:15.519
<v Speaker 2>this beautiful feature and it's what makes them stand out.

512
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<v Speaker 2>Really help me see it in a new light. If

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<v Speaker 2>people are hating on you for your skin, your hair,

514
00:29:22.799 --> 00:29:26.039
<v Speaker 2>your body. Even Cindy Crawford, they told her you got

515
00:29:26.039 --> 00:29:27.599
<v Speaker 2>to take off your mole. You got to take off

516
00:29:27.640 --> 00:29:30.200
<v Speaker 2>your mole, and she refused. That mole was the thing

517
00:29:30.240 --> 00:29:33.240
<v Speaker 2>that ended up making her book all of these modeling

518
00:29:33.599 --> 00:29:36.680
<v Speaker 2>projects and making her famous You have to reframe what

519
00:29:36.720 --> 00:29:39.319
<v Speaker 2>people are hating on you for. If they hate on

520
00:29:39.359 --> 00:29:41.400
<v Speaker 2>you for your voice, they don't think you're a good singer,

521
00:29:41.480 --> 00:29:44.200
<v Speaker 2>good actress. You have to realize that you have a

522
00:29:44.359 --> 00:29:47.359
<v Speaker 2>special talent that the universe is trying to expand through

523
00:29:47.519 --> 00:29:50.440
<v Speaker 2>only you. Only you can do what you are sent

524
00:29:50.480 --> 00:29:52.839
<v Speaker 2>to this planet to do, and you have to lean

525
00:29:52.880 --> 00:29:56.200
<v Speaker 2>into it. So reframe it. How is it different? How

526
00:29:56.279 --> 00:29:59.519
<v Speaker 2>is it beautiful? Where do you see in your reality

527
00:29:59.519 --> 00:30:02.279
<v Speaker 2>that someone else who's doing what you want to do

528
00:30:02.640 --> 00:30:06.240
<v Speaker 2>has maybe something similar to you. You have to reframe it.

529
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<v Speaker 2>You have to see the truth of the situation that

530
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<v Speaker 2>they're hating on you because they actually want to be you.

531
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<v Speaker 2>They're hating on you because they're jealous that you can

532
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<v Speaker 2>stand in your boldness, that you can stand in your authenticity,

533
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<v Speaker 2>that you're willing to go out on a limb and

534
00:30:21.160 --> 00:30:25.000
<v Speaker 2>see what you can create. Fortune favors the bold, and

535
00:30:25.039 --> 00:30:27.960
<v Speaker 2>if they're hating on you, it's because they're really fans

536
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<v Speaker 2>in disguise. I want to give you another tool that

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<v Speaker 2>I call Messy makeup Mode. This will really help you

538
00:30:34.240 --> 00:30:36.759
<v Speaker 2>ground yourself in your present moment so you can focus

539
00:30:36.799 --> 00:30:40.079
<v Speaker 2>on having fun, being in your authentic energy and attracting

540
00:30:40.119 --> 00:30:42.880
<v Speaker 2>the best of the best rather than worried about what

541
00:30:42.880 --> 00:30:45.920
<v Speaker 2>people are thinking of you. This is on page one

542
00:30:46.079 --> 00:30:49.200
<v Speaker 2>fifty eight of my book show Up as her grounding

543
00:30:49.200 --> 00:30:52.519
<v Speaker 2>through messy makeup mode. The divine feminine exists in and

544
00:30:52.599 --> 00:30:56.720
<v Speaker 2>expresses herself through her body, not our head, where our

545
00:30:56.799 --> 00:31:01.480
<v Speaker 2>masculine lives. I used to do something I call body bouncing.

546
00:31:02.119 --> 00:31:05.720
<v Speaker 2>Body bouncing means you're decentering yourself from your own life

547
00:31:05.839 --> 00:31:08.759
<v Speaker 2>energetically by switching your point of view from your own

548
00:31:08.799 --> 00:31:11.960
<v Speaker 2>to someone else's point of view of you. So instead

549
00:31:12.000 --> 00:31:14.640
<v Speaker 2>of you thinking, am I having fun? Instead of you

550
00:31:14.759 --> 00:31:17.279
<v Speaker 2>enjoying your own night, you're thinking, what is that person

551
00:31:17.359 --> 00:31:17.839
<v Speaker 2>thinking of me?

552
00:31:17.880 --> 00:31:18.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh?

553
00:31:18.039 --> 00:31:20.240
<v Speaker 2>My god? Are they judging me? Do they not like

554
00:31:20.279 --> 00:31:23.359
<v Speaker 2>my outfit? Now I'm insecure. You're gonna notice you're not

555
00:31:23.400 --> 00:31:26.319
<v Speaker 2>insecure when you just live through your own perception instead

556
00:31:26.319 --> 00:31:30.039
<v Speaker 2>of Josh Moo's. Instead of enjoying myself or even having

557
00:31:30.039 --> 00:31:32.640
<v Speaker 2>an inner dialogue about what I was seeing, I would

558
00:31:32.680 --> 00:31:35.240
<v Speaker 2>have an inner dialogue about how I thought other people

559
00:31:35.279 --> 00:31:38.160
<v Speaker 2>saw me. Let's say I aligned with a man named

560
00:31:38.200 --> 00:31:41.359
<v Speaker 2>Brad at a bar. Instead of me having an internal

561
00:31:41.440 --> 00:31:44.599
<v Speaker 2>dialogue about what I thought about Brad, I would be

562
00:31:44.680 --> 00:31:46.960
<v Speaker 2>trying to pick up on what Brad thought of me.

563
00:31:47.680 --> 00:31:50.359
<v Speaker 2>I had no time to even assess whether this was

564
00:31:50.359 --> 00:31:54.200
<v Speaker 2>a good or bad match, because I was consumed by

565
00:31:54.240 --> 00:31:57.559
<v Speaker 2>making sure I was making a good impression. How can

566
00:31:57.599 --> 00:32:00.400
<v Speaker 2>we see red flags and others when we are obsessing

567
00:32:00.519 --> 00:32:04.200
<v Speaker 2>over potential red flags in ourselves? This is how we

568
00:32:04.279 --> 00:32:07.680
<v Speaker 2>pick the wrong dudes. This is also how we exit

569
00:32:07.759 --> 00:32:12.000
<v Speaker 2>our own magnetic energy, because what is magnetic energy. Magnetic

570
00:32:12.079 --> 00:32:15.000
<v Speaker 2>energy is just being in your authentic state, whatever that

571
00:32:15.119 --> 00:32:17.920
<v Speaker 2>might be that day. A really easy way to get

572
00:32:17.920 --> 00:32:21.440
<v Speaker 2>into a magnetic authentic state is just say fit, I'm

573
00:32:21.480 --> 00:32:23.519
<v Speaker 2>gonna do what I want, and proceed to do what

574
00:32:23.559 --> 00:32:27.880
<v Speaker 2>you want, and you'll be in a magnetic frequency positive

575
00:32:28.000 --> 00:32:31.240
<v Speaker 2>bitch tip. The egg does not swim to the sperm.

576
00:32:31.519 --> 00:32:35.200
<v Speaker 2>It's science. The divine feminine does not chase the masculine.

577
00:32:35.319 --> 00:32:39.240
<v Speaker 2>It's energetic law. Instead of body bouncing from your point

578
00:32:39.279 --> 00:32:42.400
<v Speaker 2>of view to their point of view, use your divine

579
00:32:42.440 --> 00:32:46.000
<v Speaker 2>feminine to get back into your own body. There are

580
00:32:46.079 --> 00:32:49.039
<v Speaker 2>two ways to do this. The first way is to

581
00:32:49.119 --> 00:32:52.759
<v Speaker 2>use your light divine feminine to regain connection to yourself.

582
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<v Speaker 2>Instead of ghosting your own point of view. This is

583
00:32:56.319 --> 00:33:00.440
<v Speaker 2>a grounding practice. We have long been told to keep sweet,

584
00:33:00.920 --> 00:33:03.359
<v Speaker 2>but I'm telling you forget that and keep in touch

585
00:33:03.400 --> 00:33:07.440
<v Speaker 2>with yourself while you're out, Pause and feel into your

586
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<v Speaker 2>body by using one or more of your five senses

587
00:33:10.279 --> 00:33:14.240
<v Speaker 2>to reground your spirit. Ask yourself, what am I sensing

588
00:33:14.319 --> 00:33:17.640
<v Speaker 2>right now? Who am I talking to? What do I see?

589
00:33:18.359 --> 00:33:22.039
<v Speaker 2>What do I feel? What do I hear? Am I

590
00:33:22.160 --> 00:33:25.319
<v Speaker 2>enjoying myself right now? Am I behaving in a way

591
00:33:25.359 --> 00:33:28.240
<v Speaker 2>that feels good to me? When you check in with

592
00:33:28.240 --> 00:33:30.720
<v Speaker 2>one of your five senses, you ground your spirit back

593
00:33:30.759 --> 00:33:34.079
<v Speaker 2>into your own body and regain your perspective. You can

594
00:33:34.119 --> 00:33:36.960
<v Speaker 2>then decide how you wish to proceed. Maybe you want

595
00:33:37.000 --> 00:33:39.559
<v Speaker 2>to stop the conversation and go dance, Maybe you need

596
00:33:39.599 --> 00:33:42.640
<v Speaker 2>a bathroom break, or maybe you are perfectly happy where

597
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<v Speaker 2>you are. Whatever the answer is, it will allow you

598
00:33:45.960 --> 00:33:47.720
<v Speaker 2>to act in a way that grounds you in your

599
00:33:47.759 --> 00:33:51.319
<v Speaker 2>own human experience. The second way to get back into

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<v Speaker 2>your own body is by tapping into your dark divine

601
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<v Speaker 2>feminine energy and activating messy makeup mode. Messy makeup mode

602
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<v Speaker 2>means getting out of your head and into your body

603
00:34:03.000 --> 00:34:04.920
<v Speaker 2>by dancing in any way that feels good to you

604
00:34:05.440 --> 00:34:09.239
<v Speaker 2>in act of recentering yourself energetically, which magnetizes your energy

605
00:34:09.280 --> 00:34:12.119
<v Speaker 2>and takes your power back. I swear to you, the

606
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<v Speaker 2>most people come up to me when I'm dancing like

607
00:34:14.480 --> 00:34:17.719
<v Speaker 2>no other I'm not kidding. I dance like God himself

608
00:34:17.760 --> 00:34:20.039
<v Speaker 2>told me to start shaking it. I don't care what

609
00:34:20.079 --> 00:34:22.199
<v Speaker 2>it looks like. I don't care how people perceive it.

610
00:34:22.559 --> 00:34:25.719
<v Speaker 2>All I care about is that I feel good. When

611
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<v Speaker 2>I'm dancing and messy makeup mode is activated, I'm having

612
00:34:28.960 --> 00:34:31.840
<v Speaker 2>so much fun. I literally cannot even worry about what

613
00:34:31.880 --> 00:34:35.599
<v Speaker 2>others think. I'm enjoying myself so much nothing else matters.

614
00:34:36.039 --> 00:34:38.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm usually so sweaty it looks like I just walked

615
00:34:38.480 --> 00:34:40.679
<v Speaker 2>out of the shower and my makeup is a mess,

616
00:34:40.960 --> 00:34:44.320
<v Speaker 2>hence messy makeup mode. You would think that when your

617
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<v Speaker 2>hair is dripping sweat and your makeup is just all

618
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<v Speaker 2>over the place and no one would want to come

619
00:34:49.119 --> 00:34:52.079
<v Speaker 2>within two feet of you. But this is actually when

620
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<v Speaker 2>I get the most positive attention to enter messy makeup mode.

621
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<v Speaker 2>Stop thinking and start dancing. Let your body just move

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<v Speaker 2>with the music, no judgment, just movement. When messy makeup

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<v Speaker 2>mode is activated, there's no shame about how you wish

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<v Speaker 2>to move. Maybe people are watching, but who cares. This

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<v Speaker 2>is your life and you will dance how you want

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<v Speaker 2>to MESSI makeup mode shuts down all image associated shame

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<v Speaker 2>women have been plagued with. This mode is about completely

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<v Speaker 2>embracing your beautiful body and sexuality. Trying to look perfect

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<v Speaker 2>all the time places others on the pedestal. Instead of

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<v Speaker 2>trying to look perfect, you will feel perfectly aligned, which

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<v Speaker 2>will allow perfectly aligned people to come up to you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not kidding you. This weekend, when we went to

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<v Speaker 2>a club in Vegas, me and my friends were dancing,

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<v Speaker 2>it was like there were sharks around us, just circling,

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<v Speaker 2>trying to intercede in our little circle, trying to dance

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<v Speaker 2>with us because we were having so much fun. I

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<v Speaker 2>had this little scarf and I was twirling around my scarf,

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<v Speaker 2>but I was completely sweating. My makeup, My hair was

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<v Speaker 2>a mess. It was like out to the walls because

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<v Speaker 2>it was so so frizzy at that point. But it

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<v Speaker 2>didn't matter because we were exuding such amazing energy. We

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<v Speaker 2>were so in our own bodies, we were being so

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<v Speaker 2>authentic to ourselves that so many people just wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>come and get a taste of our energy. They wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to feel what we were feeling because it looked like

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<v Speaker 2>we were having so much fun. Truly, because we were

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<v Speaker 2>having so much fun, And that's what people want. They

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<v Speaker 2>don't want the perfect person who looks miserable just sitting there.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't want the person who's trying to act cooler

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<v Speaker 2>than everyone else. People want to feel good. People want

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<v Speaker 2>to have fun, and they can sense it energetically. When

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<v Speaker 2>you're just in your magnetic energy, it will attract everyone

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<v Speaker 2>towards you. The funny thing is, the ironic thing is

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<v Speaker 2>when you don't care what other people think of you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's when everyone wants to be your friend. But when

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<v Speaker 2>you're so worried what did they think of me? How

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<v Speaker 2>are they gonna judge me? You're sending out so much

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<v Speaker 2>energy that it repels people. When you chase validation, it

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<v Speaker 2>ends up running further from you. Instead of chasing validation

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<v Speaker 2>and around, look at yourself in the mirror and say,

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<v Speaker 2>how can I learn to like myself? You're too externally focused,

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<v Speaker 2>and you need to learn how to make peace with

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<v Speaker 2>your internal world. I don't chase validation. I attract it

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<v Speaker 2>by just being myself my light irritates the insecure, and

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<v Speaker 2>that is not my problem. Mosquitoes love the light, but

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<v Speaker 2>the light is never affected by a mosquito. No, that's

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<v Speaker 2>okay with me. I really don't mind if I trigger.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't mind if I grab someone's attention because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna transmute it. Either way. You can send me positive energy,

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<v Speaker 2>you can send me negative energy. I know the power

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<v Speaker 2>I bring into every single room that I walk into,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's bound to happen. But it doesn't mean it

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<v Speaker 2>has to bring me down. In fact, I'm gonna use

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<v Speaker 2>it to empower me, and now so will you. It's

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<v Speaker 2>okay if your lights irritates the insecure, it's okay. If

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<v Speaker 2>not everyone likes you, it's okay if people even hate

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<v Speaker 2>on you. Because you're going to use that energy and

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<v Speaker 2>alchemize it into power. And if you want to learn

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<v Speaker 2>how to do that exactly, take the Art of Alchemy

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<v Speaker 2>course and it will show you how to use that

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<v Speaker 2>energy as fuel to build a reality in which you

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<v Speaker 2>are happy to wake up to every single morning and

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<v Speaker 2>every single night. If you want to learn more about

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<v Speaker 2>Messy Makeup Mode, you can get my book Show Up

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<v Speaker 2>as Her. There are a bunch of laws in here,

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<v Speaker 2>and different modes you can tap into to alchemize your

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<v Speaker 2>energy and become your most magnetic self. I hope this

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<v Speaker 2>podcast episode resonated with you. I'm sending you so much

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<v Speaker 2>love and I'll see you in the next one.

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<v Speaker 1>Energy can.

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<v Speaker 3>Energy story kinds asked me kin'st ask me

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hm