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<v Speaker 1>Let's say you're in the hospital bed and you're getting

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<v Speaker 1>ready to die and somebody walks in the.

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<v Speaker 2>Room and you have one copy of your book and.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sitting right there on the table, and you're taking

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<v Speaker 1>your last breath and you're talking to this person. You

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<v Speaker 1>say to them, I want you to read this book

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<v Speaker 1>as you're dying. Think about this, that book that you

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<v Speaker 1>just wrote, when it changed your life forever, And if

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<v Speaker 1>it's not changing their life forever, you have to rewrite

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<v Speaker 1>your book.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to start rewriting it right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to live my life in a way that

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<v Speaker 1>when I died, I was proud of myself.

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<v Speaker 2>I know what pride felt like.

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<v Speaker 1>And if it took pushing myself to death, I was

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<v Speaker 1>willing to do that. If I wanted to look in

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<v Speaker 1>that mirror, not impress anybody, not money, not fame.

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<v Speaker 2>Not nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to impress the guy in the dagone mirror.

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<v Speaker 1>And I worked endlessly and tirelessly to do that, and

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<v Speaker 1>it happened. I see what is not the norm was

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<v Speaker 1>impossible with all the theorists say you shouldn't be doing this,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the wrong way to go, And I'm like, hmm,

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<v Speaker 1>let me see if I can pull this shit off.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so easy to be great nowadays, my friend, because

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<v Speaker 1>most people are weak. Most people don't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>to that extra mile. Most people don't want to find

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<v Speaker 1>that extra because it sucks, it's miserable, it's lonely. I

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<v Speaker 1>really started to enjoy seeing what the human mind was

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<v Speaker 1>capable of and seeing that what is so horrendous, There's

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<v Speaker 1>so much joy and glory in this shit. The most

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<v Speaker 1>important conversation is the one you have with yourself. You

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<v Speaker 1>wake up with it, you walk around with it, you

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<v Speaker 1>go to bed with it. Eventually you act on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you act on it good, sometimes bad. You got

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<v Speaker 1>to change the internal dialogue that person in your head

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<v Speaker 1>that's talking that shit to you, Until you change the

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<v Speaker 1>internal dialogue in your head, until you callous over the

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<v Speaker 1>victim's mentality that the world is out to get you.

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<v Speaker 2>You because of you, are the only you got to

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<v Speaker 2>change that shit, man. I get that mentality. I once

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<v Speaker 2>had that mentality that no one understands what I'm going through.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you keep that mentality, you're going to stay

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<v Speaker 1>in the same exact spot that you're in. I saw

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<v Speaker 1>myself as the weakest human being on the planet, and

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to transform that into.

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<v Speaker 2>The hardest man God ever created. Your mind takees control

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<v Speaker 2>of you.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to say you I run this mother flu

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<v Speaker 1>You have to be your best self and your least motivated.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to have these different things.

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<v Speaker 1>In your mind on where you want to go and

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<v Speaker 1>know that motivation is not going to get me there.

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<v Speaker 2>The only thing that changes your DNA is disciplined. If

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<v Speaker 2>you can get through to doing things that you hate

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<v Speaker 2>to do. On the other side is greatness.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to be willing to fail one hundred times

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<v Speaker 1>to succeed once.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're not going to.

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<v Speaker 1>Do that, man, you're not going to even get a

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<v Speaker 1>fraction of what you're looking for. There's a new bar

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<v Speaker 1>that you must always set in your life. And once

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<v Speaker 1>you become complacent and you become civilized, you've arrived.

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<v Speaker 2>You're no good for anybody. Everybody's journey's different. Everybody's journey

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<v Speaker 2>is different.

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<v Speaker 1>I was on the journey to see who David Goggins was,

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<v Speaker 1>and that journey took me in some of the hardest

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<v Speaker 1>areas of human being.

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<v Speaker 2>Can even imagine.

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<v Speaker 1>And right now I'm the happiest person on the planet

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, I had to climb out every several

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<v Speaker 1>times just to look down all my life to see where.

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<v Speaker 2>Hell I came from.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what kept me going through all this stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I envisioned myself going through, like when I was

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<v Speaker 1>a young kid and they called me all the time

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<v Speaker 1>that my dad beat the hell out of me, and

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<v Speaker 1>I had no self esteem.

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<v Speaker 2>I had this vision of if I.

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<v Speaker 1>Can make it to where I want to go, imagine

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<v Speaker 1>when I look back on my damn.

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<v Speaker 2>Life, how proud I will be.

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<v Speaker 1>And now I'm here, I'm able to look back on

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<v Speaker 1>this life I lived that many people will never understand

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<v Speaker 1>because why when you're passionate, they think you're crazy and

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<v Speaker 1>you can't even explain to people why you're doing or

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<v Speaker 1>why you did what you.

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<v Speaker 2>Did, because you found your purpose. And once you find

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<v Speaker 2>your purpose, you can't.

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<v Speaker 1>Really explain it to normal people because they don't understand

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<v Speaker 1>passionate because they live everyday life is going not really

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<v Speaker 1>find their purpose.

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<v Speaker 2>So I become a foreign language to people. They think,

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<v Speaker 2>so they put me in a category if you're just crazy. No, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm passionate. I found my purpose in this life. If

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<v Speaker 2>you want to be great, you want to be a

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<v Speaker 2>bad mother.

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<v Speaker 1>Ever, at which you do, you can be misunderstood by

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<v Speaker 1>everybody because you're going to be.

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<v Speaker 2>So obsessed and so driven to get there. That's what

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<v Speaker 2>it takes.

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<v Speaker 1>The first step you have to do is face yourself

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<v Speaker 1>and be accountable for what you're not, so then you

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<v Speaker 1>can be what you want to be. I call myself

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<v Speaker 1>fat because I was fat, and people don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>do that.

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<v Speaker 2>They want to say, oh, what call you? You're so fat?

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<v Speaker 2>Don't call yourself dumb.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're not real and raw with who you are,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing's gonna change. And in this nice new world that

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<v Speaker 1>we live in, we want to hear you're just a

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<v Speaker 1>little big no man. You might be fat. How you

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<v Speaker 1>address it is you face it. You face it every day,

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<v Speaker 1>You face it every single day of your life.

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<v Speaker 2>Where you say, okay, like if you're fat, you need

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<v Speaker 2>to lose weight.

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<v Speaker 1>It's patience. It's patience in this fact of accepting who

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<v Speaker 1>you are. Right now, I'm fat. I don't like myself,

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<v Speaker 1>accepting the fact that if you lose three or four pounds,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a huge accomplishment. I started realizing man, just by

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<v Speaker 1>going to war with myself every day and putting these

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<v Speaker 1>challenges in these goals and these obstacles, these insurmountable obstacles.

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<v Speaker 1>So it what about losing one hundred and six pounds?

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<v Speaker 1>Me losing five pounds was an accomplishment. We losing ten

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<v Speaker 1>pounds and then fifty pounds. The more I did, the

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<v Speaker 1>more I gain confidence. I was just working, I was

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<v Speaker 1>just sacrificing, and then through that all these different tools

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<v Speaker 1>started coming up. But I would have never found these

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<v Speaker 1>tools if I didn't put myself in a very uncomfortable place.

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<v Speaker 1>We all look for toughness, we all want it, but

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<v Speaker 1>we look for it in a comfortable environment. You will

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<v Speaker 1>not find toughness in a comfortable environment. Those of you

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<v Speaker 1>who are listening to this, whoever hear this, you will

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<v Speaker 1>not find it. I was trying to look for it everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>The only way you find it is to drown yourself

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<v Speaker 1>in a position where you're just out of sorts, where

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<v Speaker 1>you can't swim, and you're drowning. You're drowning, You're drowning

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<v Speaker 1>in life. But you say, know what, man at, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to figure.

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<v Speaker 2>Out how to backstroke or something. When you quit your

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<v Speaker 2>mind sets, we're done.

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<v Speaker 1>So it doesn't expand there's no expansion when you quit,

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<v Speaker 1>when you say you this sucks. I'm drowning, I'm miserable,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm suffering, I'm broken, but I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Not going anywhere. What happens to your mind is it

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<v Speaker 2>does this, It says he's not leaving.

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<v Speaker 1>So we got to expand, we gotta grow, We got

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<v Speaker 1>to figure this thing out.

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<v Speaker 2>We're only one percent away from true grace.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a big difference between ninety nine percent and one hundred.

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<v Speaker 2>I always thought that I was given one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't, But I was only one percent from making

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<v Speaker 1>that money, from being where I want to be, from.

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<v Speaker 2>Having everything in life I've ever dreamed of. But it's

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<v Speaker 2>that one percent that we sleep on. Is that one

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<v Speaker 2>percent that we wake up in that morning You're like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, not today, maybe tomorrow. Well guess what.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why it's so easy to be great nowadays, because most.

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<v Speaker 2>Mothers are weak.

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<v Speaker 1>And if all you do is when you are trying

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<v Speaker 1>to hit that month, this news, but on life, not

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, all life. Just know this, all the

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<v Speaker 1>it tastes is thinking about all those week mothers who are.

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<v Speaker 2>Taking a day off. And trust me, you will come

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<v Speaker 2>up real fast. Like I say, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Easy to be great nowadays because mother is just weak,

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<v Speaker 1>very soft.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I believe that he has to build belief.

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<v Speaker 1>Belief is like there's an after school special belief where

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<v Speaker 1>the mom says, believe in yourself and that's all great,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's also a built belief and the build belief

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<v Speaker 1>is one where you are constantly Like for me, I

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<v Speaker 1>came from a bad place. How I build belief is

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<v Speaker 1>through the daunting tasks I put myself through.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's proof positive that I can. So it correlates.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's how this pieceous kid I once thought I

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<v Speaker 1>was built belief by saying hmm, I was in three

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<v Speaker 1>hell weeks. I went to Ranger School. I tried out for.

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<v Speaker 2>Delta selection, undeniable stack of proof. That is proof mother.

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<v Speaker 1>So whenever you think, whenever you think you can't, confidence

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<v Speaker 1>comes from the thing that you built. You must build belief.

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<v Speaker 1>You must build confidence. It can't be like, hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go knock that shit out. You got to look

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<v Speaker 1>It's a belief and it's built on what you put

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<v Speaker 1>in to yourself. And one thing I was able to

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<v Speaker 1>do was to dream. I was able to dream outside

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<v Speaker 1>those four walls of that small town. And until you're

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<v Speaker 1>able to really put yourself into that dream.

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<v Speaker 2>But don't make dreams your master.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where you truly become what you're destined to become.

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<v Speaker 2>What you mean, don't make dreams your master. A lot

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<v Speaker 2>of people sit back and they dream about being a.

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<v Speaker 1>Sports figure, or dream about being a seal, or dream

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<v Speaker 1>about being an astronaut, and all it is is a

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<v Speaker 1>mother dream. They don't put the work behind the dream.

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<v Speaker 1>That dream has become their master. When you become the

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<v Speaker 1>master of your dream is when you say I want

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<v Speaker 1>to go be a Navy seal and you say, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to lose one hundred and six pounds in

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<v Speaker 1>less than three months. The dream was the one thing

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<v Speaker 1>I thought about, and the dream was now gone. Now

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<v Speaker 1>what comes in the dream goes away and the boundary

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<v Speaker 1>list of details and tasks come up. God, do this,

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<v Speaker 1>got you this, got do this, got do this.

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<v Speaker 2>That's when you.

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<v Speaker 1>Become the master of your dream. So a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people out there dreaming, we are all great. No matter

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<v Speaker 1>if if you think you're dumb, no matter if you

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<v Speaker 1>think you're fat, No matter if you are fat, no

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<v Speaker 1>matter if you've been bullied.

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<v Speaker 2>We all have greatness. It just you gotta find the courage.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta find the courage to put your bows headphones

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<v Speaker 1>on and silence the noise out of this world. And

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<v Speaker 1>to find it, you have to get in a quiet

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<v Speaker 2>We all live on our phones, we all live on.

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<v Speaker 1>Google, we all live and in this whole social media

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<v Speaker 1>world that I really hate.

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<v Speaker 2>I absolutely hate it. Why you can't find purpose because

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<v Speaker 2>in your head there's a bunch of noise.

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<v Speaker 1>When I was younger, growing up, they called me this,

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<v Speaker 1>They called me that I had all that noise in there.

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<v Speaker 1>The second I put on the kind of quote unquote

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<v Speaker 1>bows headphones and silence the.

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<v Speaker 2>Noise, I listen to my internal voice. Half of us

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<v Speaker 2>live our whole lives and never even listen to what

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<v Speaker 2>the hell we want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Get off the podcast, don't be on social media too much,

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<v Speaker 1>cut out all the noise, get back to the mental lab.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't know what you.

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<v Speaker 1>Want to be because you haven't spent time, real time

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<v Speaker 1>with yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Spend time with yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Trust me, and once you find that passion, that purpose,

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<v Speaker 1>your goals, your purpose, everything when they start lining up,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you'll find the courage to start that journey.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to believe that you are here on this

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<v Speaker 2>earth for a reason.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you don't believe that you're here for a reason,

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<v Speaker 1>your life will seriously hurt. And I started looking at

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<v Speaker 1>my life and all this shit I went through as

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<v Speaker 1>God put me some God, whatever you believe in putting

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<v Speaker 1>me here to go through this. And now I see

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<v Speaker 1>all the hundreds of thousands of lives I'm changing by

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<v Speaker 1>the hell I went through.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of power in that.

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<v Speaker 1>So my purpose as I started going through this journey

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<v Speaker 1>instead of looking at.

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<v Speaker 2>Like woe is me? God?

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<v Speaker 1>Man?

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<v Speaker 2>Why the man? Why? I started looking as it's the

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<v Speaker 2>perfect training ground. You knew exactly what you were doing.

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<v Speaker 2>You knew exactly what you were doing.

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<v Speaker 1>You put me in every situation possible to tell a

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<v Speaker 1>story that needs to be told. The reason why my

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<v Speaker 1>story resonates with people because I don't hide.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll tell you exactly who I am. I will admit

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<v Speaker 3>People are great at hiding, so they wanted to find peace. No,

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<v Speaker 3>you gotta take your ship, fix you up in. You

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<v Speaker 3>don't just shove it under rug. Fix it and then

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<v Speaker 3>you'll find some peace later. How the two or ninety

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<v Speaker 3>seven pounds concerts.

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<v Speaker 1>Guy who quit on everything is now considered one of

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<v Speaker 2>How is that possible? It means I had to change

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<v Speaker 2>one thing my mindset.

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<v Speaker 3>I had to believe and make that belief work and

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<v Speaker 3>do hard work.

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<v Speaker 2>I did that.

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<v Speaker 1>I also believe that we're going to end up one

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<v Speaker 1>day meeting a Maker, and I believe that Maker knows

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<v Speaker 1>everything about you, everything about you, knows else could be

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<v Speaker 1>here and is talking to you.

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<v Speaker 2>He knows everything. And the one thing that.

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<v Speaker 1>Scares me to death in my life is getting to

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<v Speaker 1>heaven and not being what else.

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<v Speaker 1>And I believe that God has a chart and he

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<v Speaker 1>of you and get to heaven.

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<v Speaker 2>He says, hey, this is what you're supposed to be.

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<v Speaker 2>And one of my biggest fears in life was to

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I want to make sure that I'm constantly

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<v Speaker 1>pursuing whatever it is I'm pursuing, just constantly grinding myself

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<v Speaker 1>into a fine powder.

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<v Speaker 2>That's my purpose now, to continue to push myself so

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<v Speaker 2>others can see what is possible.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's say you're in the hospital bed and you're getting

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<v Speaker 1>ready to die, and somebody walks in the room and

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<v Speaker 1>you have one copy of your book and it's sitting

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<v Speaker 1>right there on the table, and you're taking your last

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<v Speaker 1>breath and you're talking to this person. You say to them,

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to read this book as you're dying.

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<v Speaker 1>Think about this, that book that you just wrote, when

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<v Speaker 1>it changed their life forever. And if it's not changed

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<v Speaker 1>their life forever, you have to rewrite your book.

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<v Speaker 2>I started writing it right now.