WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.760 --> 00:00:05.000 You're listening to the Paranormal UK Radio Network, the best 2 00:00:05.120 --> 00:00:08.919 in paranormal talk radio in the UK and around the world. 3 00:00:09.919 --> 00:00:15.439 Hello and welcome everybody to trans Dimensional Realities. I'm your host, 4 00:00:15.480 --> 00:00:20.640 Melissa Ly, and here we talk about all things strange 5 00:00:21.440 --> 00:00:26.480 and weird and wonderful that is all part of our reality, 6 00:00:26.559 --> 00:00:29.719 even if we don't realize it. This is our first 7 00:00:29.719 --> 00:00:33.000 show of twenty twenty six and I'm really excited. This 8 00:00:33.039 --> 00:00:35.960 is our third show and we've got a lot of 9 00:00:36.000 --> 00:00:39.039 great guests already lined up for the next couple of months. 10 00:00:39.479 --> 00:00:42.119 I'm going to try to be doing a weekly show here. 11 00:00:43.200 --> 00:00:48.200 It will come out on Thursdays both on our podcast station, 12 00:00:48.719 --> 00:00:54.159 Paranormal UK Radio Network or paukradio dot com. But then 13 00:00:54.200 --> 00:00:58.280 the video portion is on my YouTube page, so look 14 00:00:58.320 --> 00:01:02.039 up Melissa Ly the way I spell it, and you'll 15 00:01:02.719 --> 00:01:06.560 see the video interviews, same interviews, but with video. I 16 00:01:06.560 --> 00:01:11.879 feel it's much more personal. So I figured being the 17 00:01:11.879 --> 00:01:14.920 first show of the new year, let's get down to basics. 18 00:01:15.280 --> 00:01:18.680 When you think paranormal, what do you think of ghosts? 19 00:01:19.560 --> 00:01:23.879 And I have been a paranormal investigator for over twenty years. 20 00:01:24.640 --> 00:01:28.079 I've seen and done a lot. I've experienced a lot 21 00:01:28.079 --> 00:01:33.120 of weird things, and it's always been a fascinating subject 22 00:01:33.319 --> 00:01:37.239 to me, trying to figure out not only what happens 23 00:01:37.280 --> 00:01:39.200 to us when we die, but also what are we 24 00:01:39.359 --> 00:01:46.799 experiencing right now. People sometimes think of ghosts doing things, 25 00:01:46.840 --> 00:01:50.920 and I think it's sometimes a lot more complex than that. 26 00:01:51.400 --> 00:01:54.680 So in any case, we have a great couple of 27 00:01:54.680 --> 00:02:00.400 guests lined up for tonight, both paranormal investigators. We have 28 00:02:00.640 --> 00:02:06.719 Regina Blatt from PPF Investigations, and we have a Lee 29 00:02:06.799 --> 00:02:11.159 Pig who is part of the Medics for Paranormal group. 30 00:02:11.879 --> 00:02:16.439 So welcome both Regina and Lead to the program. Hi. 31 00:02:16.520 --> 00:02:17.599 How are you guys? 32 00:02:17.879 --> 00:02:18.240 Hi? 33 00:02:18.280 --> 00:02:19.199 Thanks for having us. 34 00:02:19.479 --> 00:02:21.800 Hi, thank you well. 35 00:02:22.280 --> 00:02:27.599 You both are paranormal investigators. So if you could tell 36 00:02:27.680 --> 00:02:30.080 us a little bit about your group, how long you've 37 00:02:30.080 --> 00:02:34.199 been investigating, and you know, then we'll start talking about 38 00:02:34.240 --> 00:02:36.960 some really fun stuff. So Regina, why don't you go first? 39 00:02:37.360 --> 00:02:42.919 Okay, my name is Regina. My team is called PPF Investigations, 40 00:02:42.960 --> 00:02:47.000 which is pursuing paranormal facts and there's a story behind 41 00:02:47.039 --> 00:02:50.520 that which we can get into if you want. I 42 00:02:50.560 --> 00:02:55.159 am going on my fifteenth year of being a paranormal investigator. 43 00:02:56.680 --> 00:03:00.919 I have always seen things and experiencing as a child 44 00:03:02.199 --> 00:03:05.400 and as an adult, I came to learn that I 45 00:03:05.439 --> 00:03:09.039 have empathic powers, and I know everybody's as different. 46 00:03:09.240 --> 00:03:13.599 I can actually sense and feel emotions of the living 47 00:03:13.639 --> 00:03:16.199 and the dead. So that does help me when I'm 48 00:03:16.240 --> 00:03:20.639 doing paranormal investigations. But yeah, I got into the field 49 00:03:21.439 --> 00:03:25.759 because just about fifteen years ago, probably maybe going on 50 00:03:25.840 --> 00:03:29.719 sixteen years ago, my sister committed suicide and she started 51 00:03:29.719 --> 00:03:30.960 coming to me in dreams. 52 00:03:31.319 --> 00:03:32.599 I am so sorry to hear that. 53 00:03:33.080 --> 00:03:36.159 Thank you. Three years after that, my father passed away 54 00:03:36.199 --> 00:03:40.280 from lung cancer and he started visiting me too, and 55 00:03:40.400 --> 00:03:43.199 I thought to myself, there's more to this life than 56 00:03:43.199 --> 00:03:47.080 this physical body, and I started my journey on trying 57 00:03:47.120 --> 00:03:48.000 to find answers. 58 00:03:49.520 --> 00:03:53.560 Wow, we're going to have to talk about those two events. Yes, 59 00:03:54.000 --> 00:03:58.280 for sure, I've had some experiences too, Lee, What about yourself. 60 00:03:58.520 --> 00:04:01.719 I've investigating for right at a ten year mark. I 61 00:04:02.080 --> 00:04:04.159 need to look up exact day, but it's right at 62 00:04:04.159 --> 00:04:07.719 ten years as a child growing up, I grew up. 63 00:04:08.039 --> 00:04:10.039 I don't think the house was haunted per se, but 64 00:04:10.120 --> 00:04:13.800 I think the land was because the whole street there 65 00:04:13.840 --> 00:04:16.040 was like a rumor about every third or fourth house. 66 00:04:16.079 --> 00:04:17.879 You know, we were told, okay, don't go there, that 67 00:04:17.959 --> 00:04:21.319 house is haunted. The house is haunted. Then things started 68 00:04:21.360 --> 00:04:25.000 happening in my home well as I grew to an 69 00:04:25.040 --> 00:04:29.279 or do and started pursuing m mass. Actually I started investigator, 70 00:04:29.519 --> 00:04:32.120 getting into the investigation side of it a little bit more, 71 00:04:32.120 --> 00:04:34.480 trying to find out the you know, the where and 72 00:04:34.519 --> 00:04:37.800 the why, if at all possible. And just like Regina said, 73 00:04:37.800 --> 00:04:39.399 there there had to be more out there than what 74 00:04:39.439 --> 00:04:44.360 we actually see. So during that my first job as 75 00:04:44.399 --> 00:04:48.160 an ant, my partner that I worked with, she had 76 00:04:48.160 --> 00:04:50.600 done it before, so we kind of you know, joined 77 00:04:50.639 --> 00:04:53.319 forces for a little while and we investigated for several 78 00:04:53.399 --> 00:04:56.079 years and then we parted ways. But in the meantime, 79 00:04:56.720 --> 00:04:59.120 like Regina also said, I discovered that I do have 80 00:04:59.120 --> 00:05:02.279 some empathica Billy as well, not like her. I don't 81 00:05:02.360 --> 00:05:08.040 so much since emotion as much, but I do. I can, 82 00:05:08.439 --> 00:05:11.439 and I feel confident enough to say about one hundred 83 00:05:11.439 --> 00:05:13.360 percent of the time can tell if something's in the 84 00:05:13.439 --> 00:05:17.040 room with us and where that person or entity is. 85 00:05:18.079 --> 00:05:21.920 So then I joined up with Regina, and I got 86 00:05:21.920 --> 00:05:23.560 to tell you right now, just to start, that's been 87 00:05:23.600 --> 00:05:25.920 the best thing ever happened to be right there as 88 00:05:26.000 --> 00:05:29.279 far as an investigator. That's why I sported into it. 89 00:05:29.360 --> 00:05:33.160 My team, by the way, medics for paranormal. We were 90 00:05:33.279 --> 00:05:38.720 all emergency medical services personnel trying to incorporate work into 91 00:05:38.839 --> 00:05:40.839 the you know, taking care of the living and the dead, 92 00:05:40.879 --> 00:05:45.199 if you will. And then, like I said, I joined 93 00:05:45.240 --> 00:05:46.879 up with Regina, and I kind of feel like that 94 00:05:46.959 --> 00:05:50.680 I'm almost a part of her team just you are, 95 00:05:51.079 --> 00:05:52.759 and could not be more proud of her. 96 00:05:54.759 --> 00:05:58.000 That's awesome. Well, the team that you run, Regina, is 97 00:05:58.079 --> 00:05:59.800 mostly a female team. 98 00:06:00.560 --> 00:06:03.040 We are an all female team, but we're a small team, 99 00:06:03.160 --> 00:06:06.439 so we do pair up with other paranormal teams a lot. 100 00:06:06.560 --> 00:06:09.639 And you know, Lee, since we met, you know, he 101 00:06:09.720 --> 00:06:14.000 has always been invited and has all intended almost everything 102 00:06:14.040 --> 00:06:17.279 that we have been on. So and I wouldn't think 103 00:06:17.319 --> 00:06:21.240 of doing any investigations without him, you know. Moving forward, 104 00:06:22.439 --> 00:06:26.319 we just have a really really special bond and it's 105 00:06:26.439 --> 00:06:30.120 really interesting and different for both of us because we've 106 00:06:30.160 --> 00:06:33.959 never experienced that before. But I think being empathic, we 107 00:06:34.639 --> 00:06:38.759 always call it like a spiritual umbilical cord. It's like 108 00:06:38.920 --> 00:06:42.079 when we're together, it just amps it up even. 109 00:06:41.959 --> 00:06:52.279 More fantastic so let's talk about the paranormal in general. Okay, 110 00:06:52.759 --> 00:06:58.519 we've gone through for the last twenty years, and I've 111 00:06:58.519 --> 00:07:03.399 been investigating longer than that. The plethora of ghost shows, 112 00:07:03.639 --> 00:07:08.120 ghost investigation shows, everything from Ghost Hunters, the Ghost Adventures 113 00:07:08.160 --> 00:07:13.519 to Little God Knows Everything else, and most of the shows, 114 00:07:13.600 --> 00:07:20.800 I'm just gonna say, oh crap, and uh, it's just 115 00:07:20.879 --> 00:07:24.600 my opinion. Although I will say Ghost Adventures for just 116 00:07:25.279 --> 00:07:27.959 all the issues they have, it's still make guilty pleasure 117 00:07:29.120 --> 00:07:31.319 because I love. 118 00:07:31.199 --> 00:07:34.360 Ghak like I will be a Ghak fan forever. I 119 00:07:34.399 --> 00:07:37.160 don't care how many people hate Zach. I love him. 120 00:07:37.560 --> 00:07:39.839 And you have to give the man credit for twenty 121 00:07:39.879 --> 00:07:42.600 seven seasons on TV. Can't fake all of it. 122 00:07:43.079 --> 00:07:46.120 Oh, he's a very entertainer. But anybody that can get 123 00:07:46.160 --> 00:07:49.040 that much evidence and one. 124 00:07:48.920 --> 00:07:52.480 Night, well they're there for three or four nights. 125 00:07:52.959 --> 00:07:56.959 Like you said, they're great. They're great and entertainers they are. 126 00:07:57.360 --> 00:07:59.839 And I will say this, it's one of the few 127 00:07:59.839 --> 00:08:06.160 shows that I think really shows legitimate evidence that they capture. 128 00:08:07.519 --> 00:08:11.680 I don't always agree their interpretations of that evidence, but 129 00:08:11.839 --> 00:08:14.240 they are capturing and experiencing things. 130 00:08:14.639 --> 00:08:17.160 Okay, people have to remember too, it is TV and 131 00:08:17.240 --> 00:08:19.639 they go over and above. You know, they get really 132 00:08:19.680 --> 00:08:22.240 scared and it may not be that scared, but that's entertainment, 133 00:08:22.279 --> 00:08:25.600 that's part of it. Yeah, I say it's right, but. 134 00:08:25.680 --> 00:08:29.639 I'm saying right right. Well, I was on a on 135 00:08:29.639 --> 00:08:33.919 one of the shows many years ago, and that was 136 00:08:33.960 --> 00:08:41.840 a horrible experience because of the producers misrepresenting evidence, cutting 137 00:08:41.879 --> 00:08:46.120 things to make things look like they happen differently, abusing 138 00:08:46.200 --> 00:08:51.279 my my, my clients. So yeah, I'm not a real 139 00:08:51.360 --> 00:08:56.639 big fan of production companies, so I should make my 140 00:08:56.679 --> 00:09:04.679 own anyway. So ghost investigations, paranormal investigations, they really have 141 00:09:04.879 --> 00:09:09.399 taken off because of I think a lot of these shows, 142 00:09:09.919 --> 00:09:12.679 although there are a lot of teams that go back 143 00:09:12.720 --> 00:09:20.799 for decades investigating. What would you say is one of 144 00:09:20.840 --> 00:09:27.639 your most fascinating things about investigating the paranormal? What really 145 00:09:28.279 --> 00:09:29.159 gets you excited? 146 00:09:33.039 --> 00:09:37.080 I just think, like, let me back up and say 147 00:09:37.200 --> 00:09:41.159 that ghost hunting is not what you see on TV. 148 00:09:41.399 --> 00:09:44.279 As we all know. It's sitting in the dark for many, 149 00:09:44.399 --> 00:09:47.399 many eight twelve hours and getting absolutely nothing but that 150 00:09:47.519 --> 00:09:50.399 one time, that one one time when you hit something 151 00:09:50.919 --> 00:09:53.639 and you get a voice or answers, and it is 152 00:09:53.679 --> 00:09:55.919 amazing and that's what keeps most of us going into 153 00:09:55.960 --> 00:10:02.639 this field. I was over re location, ran the ghost 154 00:10:02.679 --> 00:10:06.360 hunting tours for seven years at this old it's one 155 00:10:06.360 --> 00:10:11.679 of the oldest opera houses in the South, and we 156 00:10:11.759 --> 00:10:16.360 just got amazing evidence out of their names and voices 157 00:10:16.399 --> 00:10:19.360 and footsteps to where I could take the evidence and 158 00:10:19.399 --> 00:10:22.480 go back to the historian and match it up. And 159 00:10:22.480 --> 00:10:24.840 those are the types of things that excite me in 160 00:10:24.919 --> 00:10:27.720 this field. It's like the spirit is giving us the 161 00:10:27.799 --> 00:10:33.759 information and here I can coordinate it with a historian 162 00:10:33.799 --> 00:10:36.000 to make sure that it's real. And I even had 163 00:10:36.000 --> 00:10:37.879 the owners, you know, I'd come to them with with 164 00:10:38.000 --> 00:10:40.279 different things that spirit gave us and they're like, how 165 00:10:40.320 --> 00:10:42.720 did you know that? Nobody knows that. It's like spirit 166 00:10:42.759 --> 00:10:45.720 gave it to me. Like we're hearing the same things 167 00:10:45.759 --> 00:10:50.039 over and over. They're trying to communicate. But to answer 168 00:10:50.080 --> 00:10:54.080 your question, I think it's that it's that one clear answer. 169 00:10:54.159 --> 00:10:57.720 It's that one clear evp. It's that one clear even 170 00:10:57.720 --> 00:11:02.279 if it's a yes no that is like so amazing, 171 00:11:02.919 --> 00:11:06.159 or if you get a message from a loved one 172 00:11:06.240 --> 00:11:08.919 that is just for you, which I have gotten those 173 00:11:08.960 --> 00:11:11.919 two It's just those are the things that keep me going. 174 00:11:12.000 --> 00:11:15.279 And it's not all what Hollywood makes it out to be. 175 00:11:15.360 --> 00:11:17.799 It's not all you know, we're breaking out Ouiji boards 176 00:11:17.840 --> 00:11:19.679 and things are flying all over the place and all 177 00:11:19.720 --> 00:11:22.840 that kind of stuff. It's not that I always set 178 00:11:22.840 --> 00:11:27.679 out to show and prove that there is a lighter, 179 00:11:28.039 --> 00:11:31.200 loving side to this than what we see on TV. 180 00:11:32.279 --> 00:11:37.919 Well, that's the problem with these television shows is fear selves, yes, 181 00:11:37.960 --> 00:11:41.240 and if you can make people afraid or freaked out, 182 00:11:41.320 --> 00:11:45.279 they'll stay tuned in. So that's the problem with most 183 00:11:45.279 --> 00:11:49.720 of these shows. That's why even with ghost Adventures, they 184 00:11:49.759 --> 00:11:52.799 look at a lot of things from a negative standpoint, 185 00:11:53.480 --> 00:11:56.639 because that's what keeps people tuning in to see the 186 00:11:56.639 --> 00:12:01.080 freaky stuff, right, I mean, and of course, I'm sorry. 187 00:12:01.480 --> 00:12:04.240 Almost fifteen years, I've never come across a demon. Now, 188 00:12:04.240 --> 00:12:06.519 I don't put myself into situations where I know there 189 00:12:06.519 --> 00:12:09.799 possibly might be one, But I'm not going on there 190 00:12:09.799 --> 00:12:11.679 and claiming, oh, that's a demon. That's a demon, that's 191 00:12:11.679 --> 00:12:12.799 a growl, that's a you. 192 00:12:12.720 --> 00:12:16.639 Know, yeah, I understand Lee. What about you. 193 00:12:17.840 --> 00:12:20.159 Well, one of the things that I really love about 194 00:12:20.159 --> 00:12:23.360 it is the history of you know, a lot of 195 00:12:23.360 --> 00:12:26.200 these locations that we go to you know, there's so 196 00:12:26.279 --> 00:12:28.120 much history or so much blood soak, you know, able 197 00:12:28.159 --> 00:12:28.600 to kind. 198 00:12:28.440 --> 00:12:31.519 Of keep it alive, keep people aware of what was 199 00:12:31.600 --> 00:12:35.080 here before all of us. Somebody had told me when 200 00:12:35.080 --> 00:12:38.200 I first started investigating, they said, pay attention to everything 201 00:12:38.240 --> 00:12:40.600 around you. You're going to see a lot more you 202 00:12:40.639 --> 00:12:42.480 know not you know, and that right, they are just 203 00:12:42.559 --> 00:12:44.840 kind of rung, you know, hung true with me, and 204 00:12:45.320 --> 00:12:49.600 it's the truth. For example, And this is kind of 205 00:12:49.600 --> 00:12:52.559 the best example I can give of what I was 206 00:12:52.559 --> 00:12:54.840 talking about. I was vacationing down in Florida at the 207 00:12:54.840 --> 00:12:57.000 beach and it was an old civil war for it, 208 00:12:57.080 --> 00:13:00.000 and we were camping out and we went to investig 209 00:13:00.039 --> 00:13:02.960 get one of the old metal batteries that the soldiers 210 00:13:03.000 --> 00:13:05.200 had used to protect the coastline back during the back 211 00:13:05.279 --> 00:13:08.720 during the war days. Uh Me and my friend we 212 00:13:08.759 --> 00:13:10.720 walked into this room and it was all mital room 213 00:13:10.759 --> 00:13:12.679 and I said, we're not in here by ourself, and 214 00:13:12.840 --> 00:13:14.960 you know, she's like really, I'm like, yeah, we're not. 215 00:13:15.080 --> 00:13:17.639 We pulled out my phone and I did just a 216 00:13:17.720 --> 00:13:22.120 quick burst VP session. Very first question I asked, I 217 00:13:22.120 --> 00:13:23.960 got a response and it was loud enough and it 218 00:13:24.000 --> 00:13:26.440 was powerful enough you could hear it reverberating off the wall, 219 00:13:26.759 --> 00:13:28.559 and I wish I had it loaded up here now, 220 00:13:29.200 --> 00:13:32.960 but it was just a clear, very resient Regina's heard 221 00:13:32.960 --> 00:13:36.080 it is just said yes, and you know, and I 222 00:13:36.120 --> 00:13:38.120 told my friend, I said, yeah, I said, there's there 223 00:13:38.159 --> 00:13:40.960 was people here before and they're still here. So I 224 00:13:40.960 --> 00:13:43.480 think the history of it is really what keeps me going, 225 00:13:43.559 --> 00:13:45.120 you know, because I mean, I walk into a building, 226 00:13:45.159 --> 00:13:49.080 I can't walk into Walmart, and I just wonder what's 227 00:13:49.080 --> 00:13:52.840 in there. I'm so sorry about the smoke detector in 228 00:13:52.879 --> 00:13:56.440 the next room. I don't hear it. My good, because 229 00:13:56.440 --> 00:13:57.519 I'm embarrassed right now. 230 00:13:57.840 --> 00:13:58.879 No, we don't hear it at all. 231 00:13:58.960 --> 00:14:03.320 So okay, well, very good, so good. The other night, 232 00:14:03.360 --> 00:14:05.679 when I was at the hospital working, I had came 233 00:14:05.720 --> 00:14:07.960 out to the ambulance and I was outside of the 234 00:14:08.000 --> 00:14:10.759 ambulance bay and I was standing there just talking to 235 00:14:10.799 --> 00:14:14.120 my partner and there's two sets of doors. One of 236 00:14:14.159 --> 00:14:17.360 them is just a regular door log just like you 237 00:14:17.440 --> 00:14:19.480 got to keep had to get in, and all of 238 00:14:19.519 --> 00:14:22.840 a sudden, the inside door opened up, and then the 239 00:14:22.879 --> 00:14:25.039 outside door opened up from the inside. I said, do 240 00:14:25.120 --> 00:14:27.039 you see that, I said, somebody just walked out They're like, 241 00:14:27.039 --> 00:14:29.200 what do you mean. I said, somebody just walked out. 242 00:14:29.240 --> 00:14:32.440 He says, I didn't see anybody. I said, exactly, you know, 243 00:14:32.639 --> 00:14:35.440 And well, like I said, the history of it. I'm sorry, 244 00:14:35.440 --> 00:14:37.480 you gotta tell me to quit talking. I know. 245 00:14:38.200 --> 00:14:40.440 That's what the show is for. That's why we're here 246 00:14:40.480 --> 00:14:43.279 to talk about these things. And I love these types 247 00:14:43.320 --> 00:14:47.879 of stories that you know, so many things happen. Part 248 00:14:47.919 --> 00:14:49.919 of the reason I named the show what it is 249 00:14:49.919 --> 00:14:55.320 is because all of these things are part of our reality, 250 00:14:56.200 --> 00:15:02.399 and yet mainstream science and media everybody else you would 251 00:15:02.840 --> 00:15:05.720 only look at it as a novelty if they believe 252 00:15:05.759 --> 00:15:10.759 in it at all. But the truth is, there's so 253 00:15:10.879 --> 00:15:14.960 much more going out there that we don't understand, that's 254 00:15:15.240 --> 00:15:18.720 right underneath the surface. But yet it's still there with us. 255 00:15:19.360 --> 00:15:21.960 And that's what fascinates me the most about the paranormal, 256 00:15:22.039 --> 00:15:27.320 because there's just so much to learn and experience if 257 00:15:27.360 --> 00:15:28.120 you're open to it. 258 00:15:29.919 --> 00:15:34.559 I agree, completely agree, Regina. 259 00:15:34.600 --> 00:15:38.600 I wanted to ask you about when when your sister 260 00:15:38.720 --> 00:15:44.919 passed and your father, the experiences of being visited. Could 261 00:15:44.960 --> 00:15:46.200 you talk a little bit about that. 262 00:15:46.679 --> 00:15:52.480 Sure, they both visit me quite often, not so as 263 00:15:52.519 --> 00:15:54.279 the years go on it kind of is less and 264 00:15:54.320 --> 00:15:57.159 less to say. My belief is they feel like I 265 00:15:57.200 --> 00:16:00.519 don't really need them anymore, but I love to have 266 00:16:00.639 --> 00:16:05.480 them around. But I had a very, very vivid dream 267 00:16:05.559 --> 00:16:09.919 when my sister first came to me. We were in 268 00:16:10.000 --> 00:16:13.559 a room. There was a bed with someone in it. 269 00:16:13.639 --> 00:16:15.360 You could see the form of the body, and my 270 00:16:15.399 --> 00:16:19.559 sister was sitting on the edge of the bed, like caretaking. 271 00:16:19.759 --> 00:16:24.360 And she was a surgical text, so she was in 272 00:16:24.399 --> 00:16:27.039 the medical field, so that wouldn't have been too off 273 00:16:27.240 --> 00:16:32.120 color for her to be, you know, assisting someone. And 274 00:16:32.360 --> 00:16:36.039 she saw me and she got up and came to me, 275 00:16:36.679 --> 00:16:41.080 and she didn't speak verbally. She spoke to me in 276 00:16:41.120 --> 00:16:46.360 my mind and I said to her, are you okay? 277 00:16:47.080 --> 00:16:50.840 And she was glowing just in white and blonde hair 278 00:16:50.919 --> 00:16:54.919 and big blue eye and just beautiful, just beautiful. And 279 00:16:55.919 --> 00:16:57.799 you know, I said to her, are you okay? And 280 00:16:57.840 --> 00:17:01.840 she said back into my mind, She's like, yes, are 281 00:17:01.919 --> 00:17:05.839 you okay? And that just has stuck with me my 282 00:17:06.039 --> 00:17:10.400 whole life moving forward without her. It's like, I know 283 00:17:10.519 --> 00:17:13.880 she's okay, I know where she is, she's fine, and 284 00:17:13.960 --> 00:17:17.119 now it's okay for me to be okay with that 285 00:17:18.160 --> 00:17:21.759 she's here, she'll visit me, She'll she'll give me little 286 00:17:21.799 --> 00:17:26.480 clues and hints that she's around. She was a big 287 00:17:26.799 --> 00:17:32.319 cure the Cure fan, musical fand the Cure. So about 288 00:17:32.359 --> 00:17:34.400 two years after she had passed, I was in a 289 00:17:34.440 --> 00:17:39.640 department store in Christmas during Christmas time, and of course 290 00:17:39.640 --> 00:17:42.039 we're playing Christmas music, and all of a sudden it stops. 291 00:17:42.480 --> 00:17:46.079 One of her favorite cure songs came on, played and 292 00:17:46.119 --> 00:17:48.000 then went right back to Christmas music, and I'm like, 293 00:17:48.200 --> 00:17:53.279 that is such an extreme difference in music. I'm like, okay, 294 00:17:53.319 --> 00:17:55.559 I got you. So you know, they do give me 295 00:17:55.680 --> 00:18:00.559 little signs and symbols. My dad passed away from love cancer, 296 00:18:00.640 --> 00:18:04.480 and he has visited me and told me that he's okay. Actually, 297 00:18:05.920 --> 00:18:08.960 my best friend and I were out at the Stanley 298 00:18:09.000 --> 00:18:12.200 Hotel in Essas, Colorado or Stephen King was shining for 299 00:18:12.319 --> 00:18:16.759 our very very first ghost hunt and he was in 300 00:18:16.880 --> 00:18:20.319 hospice by then, but his wife said he'd want you 301 00:18:20.359 --> 00:18:22.039 to go on the trip, so go ahead and go, 302 00:18:23.119 --> 00:18:25.799 and I did, and there just happened to be a 303 00:18:25.880 --> 00:18:28.480 medium out there, so I went and had a session 304 00:18:28.519 --> 00:18:31.519 with her, and she said, there's a man coming through 305 00:18:31.680 --> 00:18:34.039 he's like your father, but not like your father. And 306 00:18:34.079 --> 00:18:36.960 we didn't have that close of a relationship until the end. 307 00:18:36.960 --> 00:18:39.880 There a lot had happened. So she said, he's like 308 00:18:39.920 --> 00:18:43.119 your father, but not your father. So I immediately understood 309 00:18:43.119 --> 00:18:48.039 that and immediately knew that he had already passed, you know. 310 00:18:48.359 --> 00:18:50.400 And of course he said he was sorry for the 311 00:18:50.400 --> 00:18:52.200 things that he's done, and he will be with me 312 00:18:52.279 --> 00:18:54.960 and he will protect me, and you will always be 313 00:18:55.000 --> 00:19:00.640 by my side. So it's death is something that we 314 00:19:00.680 --> 00:19:03.920 all have to deal with. But I think it's easier 315 00:19:04.160 --> 00:19:07.880 to understand if you know that they're still with us 316 00:19:08.039 --> 00:19:10.680 and they're always watching over us, and they're you know, 317 00:19:10.799 --> 00:19:13.119 standing by us, and you could feel them and you 318 00:19:13.119 --> 00:19:14.759 could sense them and they give you signs. And I 319 00:19:14.799 --> 00:19:18.400 think it's just a wonderful thing. And that's what got 320 00:19:18.440 --> 00:19:20.559 me into this. It's like if I could help somebody 321 00:19:21.240 --> 00:19:23.720 feel that way, let them know that their family is 322 00:19:23.799 --> 00:19:28.839 still here and proof, because like Lee said, with every ghost, 323 00:19:29.240 --> 00:19:31.640 there's a story, With every location, there's a story. And 324 00:19:31.640 --> 00:19:34.279 if we can tell that side of it and not 325 00:19:34.400 --> 00:19:37.440 be like, oh, there's a demon here, that that's what 326 00:19:37.599 --> 00:19:40.079 keeps me going and keeps me wanting to ghost hunt 327 00:19:40.240 --> 00:19:43.640 is showing, like I said earlier, the lighter, softer side, 328 00:19:43.680 --> 00:19:45.359 the loving side. 329 00:19:45.559 --> 00:19:47.799 What about you, Lee? Have you ever had an experience 330 00:19:47.920 --> 00:19:49.839 like that of a past loved one. 331 00:19:50.279 --> 00:19:55.839 I have actually for the past year, up until this 332 00:19:55.960 --> 00:20:01.240 past August, I was battling cancer. Right after I was diagnosed, 333 00:20:02.720 --> 00:20:04.880 there was only one cousin that I had. Her name 334 00:20:04.920 --> 00:20:08.480 is Janis. She battled cancer for fourteen years before she 335 00:20:08.559 --> 00:20:13.400 finally passed away to it. She was like a begen 336 00:20:13.440 --> 00:20:15.559 of light. I mean, she was like a rock, you know. 337 00:20:15.680 --> 00:20:18.960 She never let it get her down emotionally. Of course 338 00:20:19.000 --> 00:20:21.519 it did physically, but she never lost her smile or 339 00:20:21.519 --> 00:20:24.240 her sense of humor or anything like that. So after 340 00:20:24.480 --> 00:20:28.119 I found out what I was dealing with, I just 341 00:20:28.200 --> 00:20:29.839 told her out loud, you know, I to wish you 342 00:20:29.880 --> 00:20:34.519 were here. I got so many questions, and I don't 343 00:20:34.519 --> 00:20:36.279 remember if it was that night or if it was 344 00:20:36.319 --> 00:20:38.720 a nine or two layter. She came to me in 345 00:20:38.759 --> 00:20:42.079 a dream, heard my grandmother. I'm standing in a parking 346 00:20:42.119 --> 00:20:45.519 garage and all of a sudden, down come around the corner, 347 00:20:45.559 --> 00:20:47.839 come flying around the corner was with little Toyota Corolla. 348 00:20:47.880 --> 00:20:49.720 I don't know where this car came from, but my 349 00:20:49.799 --> 00:20:51.839 cousin Janie was driving and my grandma was in the 350 00:20:51.839 --> 00:20:54.799 passenger seat. They pulled it beside me. She got out. 351 00:20:55.119 --> 00:20:56.720 My grandma did. She come over there and gave me 352 00:20:56.720 --> 00:20:58.440 a big hug and I told her, I said, I 353 00:20:58.480 --> 00:21:00.480 have missed you since you've left. I said, let's go 354 00:21:00.519 --> 00:21:03.000 see Jennis. I ain't seen her either, you know, since 355 00:21:03.000 --> 00:21:04.759 she died. And we walked over there and she just 356 00:21:04.799 --> 00:21:09.400 had the most beautiful smile. Just I've never seen anybody 357 00:21:09.400 --> 00:21:11.359 look more happy and more at peace. And when I 358 00:21:11.400 --> 00:21:14.119 woke up, I still felt that I still felt love, 359 00:21:14.160 --> 00:21:17.599 I still felt every emotion that I felt in that dream, 360 00:21:17.599 --> 00:21:19.440 and I have no doubt that they came to me 361 00:21:19.480 --> 00:21:21.480 to say, hey, you know what, You're going to be okay. 362 00:21:23.000 --> 00:21:25.880 And another experience that I had that I find kind 363 00:21:25.920 --> 00:21:28.359 of odd. My father passed away nine years ago to 364 00:21:28.440 --> 00:21:32.839 be ten years in May, and during the whole cancer battle, 365 00:21:33.680 --> 00:21:36.160 I asked him, I said, are you really there for me? 366 00:21:36.319 --> 00:21:39.119 And I'm not kidding. This is the very same day 367 00:21:40.200 --> 00:21:43.000 my iPhone and when it comes to phone, it's technology 368 00:21:43.039 --> 00:21:46.599 and I know it, but it popped up with the 369 00:21:46.680 --> 00:21:49.920 memory of pictures of my dad, all of my dad, 370 00:21:49.960 --> 00:21:52.039 and like I said, he'd been gone for nine years. 371 00:21:52.559 --> 00:21:55.640 And to figure that for that one particular day, for 372 00:21:56.039 --> 00:21:58.839 that memory production to come on is when I needed 373 00:21:58.839 --> 00:22:02.039 it most. So I have no doubt that my family 374 00:22:02.079 --> 00:22:05.640 was there with me through the entire cancer. 375 00:22:06.920 --> 00:22:11.200 Wow, I'm getting a little emotional because I've had the 376 00:22:11.200 --> 00:22:17.079 same experience. I had a twin brother who had died 377 00:22:17.079 --> 00:22:22.160 of a heart attack ten years ago, and it was funny. 378 00:22:22.200 --> 00:22:26.640 It took a couple of months and then all of 379 00:22:26.680 --> 00:22:31.880 a sudden, I had a vivid dream where I found 380 00:22:31.880 --> 00:22:35.279 myself in just this white It looked like a bathroom 381 00:22:35.279 --> 00:22:38.039 with all white subway child but there was no urinals 382 00:22:38.079 --> 00:22:43.279 and dolls, just some columns, but it was all white. 383 00:22:43.440 --> 00:22:46.599 And I just turned and there was my brother standing 384 00:22:46.599 --> 00:22:52.319 there smiling at me. Now, it's like what Lee mentioned. 385 00:22:52.359 --> 00:22:55.680 You would think that you know right away, you would like, oh, 386 00:22:55.759 --> 00:22:58.480 hug em or you know, be all excited or whatever. 387 00:22:59.039 --> 00:23:02.880 My brother and I had a very interesting close relationship. 388 00:23:04.319 --> 00:23:06.839 This shows you what our relationship was. Like I just 389 00:23:06.880 --> 00:23:08.839 turned and looked at him with a smirk, and I said, 390 00:23:08.880 --> 00:23:10.519 it's above fucking time you showed. 391 00:23:10.319 --> 00:23:13.039 Up, right. 392 00:23:13.680 --> 00:23:17.000 Yeah, But then I know we had a conversation. I 393 00:23:17.039 --> 00:23:21.960 can't remember it, and then he's appeared a couple of 394 00:23:22.000 --> 00:23:26.119 times since, although it's been a very long time. I 395 00:23:26.160 --> 00:23:30.799 also lost my spouse three years ago, and they've appeared 396 00:23:30.839 --> 00:23:33.640 in my dreams a couple of times, very vividly. And 397 00:23:34.880 --> 00:23:37.920 I still don't get visitations. I think they've gone off 398 00:23:37.960 --> 00:23:40.599 to do something else and said, you're on your own. 399 00:23:40.759 --> 00:23:45.279 But yeah, I totally get the experience. It's wonderful when 400 00:23:45.279 --> 00:23:45.839 it happens. 401 00:23:46.279 --> 00:23:48.599