Speaker 1: It's the Minnesota Goodbye featuring myself, Jenny Bailey, Peru Hello, and.
Speaker 2: Vaught who first MB of twenty twenty five.
Speaker 3: Baby.
Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna jump right into emails here today. Now,
Speaker 1: obviously you were not the Minnesota Goodbye yesterday, but we
Speaker 1: had a very long conversation about cast roles versus hot dishes?
Speaker 3: And you're from Jersey. So did you know what a
Speaker 3: hot dish was prior to coming to Minnesota?
Speaker 2: I never heard of it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't really either. Like I said, in Wisconsin,
Speaker 1: we just it was always cast roles to us slash
Speaker 1: we didn't. We definitely didn't really have tater tot hot dish.
Speaker 1: I can't speak for all Wisconsin, but in my area
Speaker 1: we did not.
Speaker 2: Did you eat castle role even before? Did you know
Speaker 2: about because I've never even had it. I just knew
Speaker 2: what a castro Oh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we definitely had cast roles, just not the hot
Speaker 1: dishes slash tater to hot hot dish.
Speaker 3: So this comes from our buddy Jim.
Speaker 1: He says, I almost didn't write this because I always
Speaker 1: fear coming across as a note at all.
Speaker 3: But Jem's a chef just so everyone else.
Speaker 1: However, did you know, there is a difference between cast
Speaker 1: roles and hot dishes. While they have become interchangeable terms,
Speaker 1: now there was a distinction between them at one time. First,
Speaker 1: the hot dish is meant to be a one pot
Speaker 1: dish that is mixed and then baked. Think of the
Speaker 1: tato hot hot dish or galushe is that how you
Speaker 1: said gloat coolass? So I was gonna say, I know
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that right. And then a castroll is
Speaker 1: meant to be layered like lasagna. Also, a hot dish
Speaker 1: is baked in any vessel, Dutch, oven cake, pan castrole dish,
Speaker 1: while a castrole is a specific dish. However, that ignores
Speaker 1: cultural adoptions of the words and the pride that a
Speaker 1: Minnesota has when they can tell someone not from Minnesota
Speaker 1: that it's not a castrole, it's a hot dish, all
Speaker 1: with a smile on their face. Now I'm hitting send
Speaker 1: before I second guess myself. Thank you for being consistent
Speaker 1: throughout the day. JEM not a no at all at all.
Speaker 1: We appreciate the clarification between cast rolls and hot dishes.
Speaker 1: That makes a lot of sense because I do feel
Speaker 1: like the cast roles that I've experienced are exactly what
Speaker 1: you described.
Speaker 3: It's like a layered situation.
Speaker 2: So I was gonna ask again, I've never had either one,
Speaker 2: so I'm.
Speaker 3: Like the idiot.
Speaker 2: I just thought it was what you call it different,
Speaker 2: because I've said this to you, Jenny. In Jersey or
Speaker 2: I guess on the East coast, they have pork roll
Speaker 2: on one side of like New Jersey, which is like
Speaker 2: some type of breakfast food. I don't know if it's
Speaker 2: like a ham or sausage or whatever. And then there's
Speaker 2: like another side North Jersey and New York and stuff.
Speaker 2: They'll call it Taylor Ham, and it's a big debate
Speaker 2: versus like like you don't call a hot dog an
Speaker 2: oscar may or whatever, like one of those stupid types.
Speaker 2: So that's what I thought the castle roll situation was.
Speaker 2: But there is a difference.
Speaker 4: You've heard of either of those things pork roll or
Speaker 4: Taylor Ham.
Speaker 2: Which is so weird because I remember when I was
Speaker 2: in Iowa, when I lived there for like a month,
Speaker 2: I met I went to the Ioa State Fair and
Speaker 2: I met the pork queen and I asked her, I
Speaker 2: was like, do you know so you know everything about pork?
Speaker 2: She said, yes, And I was like, you know what
Speaker 2: a pork roll is? And she was like, no, I
Speaker 2: would assume that even if you don't know, even if
Speaker 2: they don't have it out here, that you would know
Speaker 2: what it is.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just googled it.
Speaker 4: I have no idea.
Speaker 1: Is only knew because of you talking about it. Do
Speaker 1: you want to explain why you were only in Iowa
Speaker 1: for a month, because we always think that everyone understands
Speaker 1: things like that, but you're just like, you know, when
Speaker 1: I was in Iowa for a month, I was like
Speaker 1: time or.
Speaker 3: Like what was the deal?
Speaker 5: Then?
Speaker 1: My bid?
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 2: When I graduated college May twenty twenty three and I
Speaker 2: got a job with iHeart in Iowa that was like
Speaker 2: my first radio job. But literally my first day there,
Speaker 2: I had got a call from our boss, Rich and
Speaker 2: he was like, oh, I want to hire you. And
Speaker 2: it's not knocking Iowa or anything, but Iowa is what.
Speaker 3: It's called it a smaller market yah yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, which means like people go there to get their
Speaker 2: start or whatever. And my bosses said, like, yo, people
Speaker 2: work in Iowa for three years to get to KATWB,
Speaker 2: So go to KATWB even though you just got here.
Speaker 2: So I was there for literally thirty six days before
Speaker 2: I came.
Speaker 1: So you moved cross country twice within my two months
Speaker 1: basically sort of like at least you were coming from
Speaker 1: Iowa then to Minnesota, but you like moved to Iowa
Speaker 1: then came up to Minnesota.
Speaker 2: So the Iowa station is where e White was before
Speaker 2: he came here too.
Speaker 1: So many people have gone to Iowa first. So intern
Speaker 1: John who used to be on Dave Show like twelve
Speaker 1: god I think actually like thirteen years ago, and now
Speaker 1: he he went to Iowa and now he hosts his
Speaker 1: own show in DC. And then also Dylan used to
Speaker 1: be an intern on Dave Show. Dylan went to Iowa.
Speaker 1: Then he was in Cincinnati or something like that, and
Speaker 1: then he was in Colorado Springs.
Speaker 3: Now he's in Portland. Dylan's been all over.
Speaker 1: So yes, Iowa was kind of like this stepping stone
Speaker 1: to get to like the next for so many people.
Speaker 2: Like I know somebody in New York now, which is
Speaker 2: the number one market, who started in Iowa. Shout out
Speaker 2: Sean Streife who was in Michigan. Now he's in Vegas,
Speaker 2: but he started in Iowa. But yeah, man, shout out Iowa.
Speaker 3: Shout out Iowa. Shout out Iowa. Okay.
Speaker 1: The next Emith says, don't say my name, but hi, Dave,
Speaker 1: I just heard the podcast from a few days ago
Speaker 1: and how you were trying to find me on Facebook.
Speaker 1: So the person in this email is the person who
Speaker 1: talked about being a swinger, and so we kind of
Speaker 1: were curious, Like a week or two ago, we're talking
Speaker 1: about the swinging lifestyle, and Bailey and I joked about
Speaker 1: how we would end up with the one ugly person
Speaker 1: in the if we ever went to Want or something
Speaker 1: like that, and so we were curious, like, you know,
Speaker 1: like what does the swinger even look like? There's only
Speaker 1: one person I know who's a swinger, and so this
Speaker 1: person had emailed in and I will just say, like
Speaker 1: she is foinning, Okay, she's really good looking. I don't
Speaker 1: know if this I think this might be her husband
Speaker 1: that she sent a photo with. He's also a very
Speaker 1: good looking person. But like, damn, I'm curious what everyone
Speaker 1: else looks like in your swimmer swing groups.
Speaker 3: Are they all good looking?
Speaker 4: Because in my brain I don't imagine everybody looking good.
Speaker 4: Yeah it'll be, but granted we were saying that, like
Speaker 4: it's likely everybody kind of looks like you're hot, h
Speaker 4: gym teacher from high school where they were really hot
Speaker 4: in high school and then they just grew up and
Speaker 4: they're still kind of hot, like suburban hot.
Speaker 3: And then there'd be like.
Speaker 4: The one George Costanza in the group, like the kind
Speaker 4: of fruity looking guy. Not fruity. I don't know why
Speaker 4: I said fruity, but you know, like frumpy looking guy
Speaker 4: that I end up with at the swingers party. I'm like, God,
Speaker 4: dang it, of all the people, of all the hot
Speaker 4: suburban people here.
Speaker 3: And I get the George Costanza. Yeah. Rats, Let's see.
Speaker 3: We don't go.
Speaker 2: Ahead, you guys. Ever, let's just say, right, for Jenny
Speaker 2: Andrew and another couple that you guys are friends with,
Speaker 2: let's just say you wanted to experiment, would you.
Speaker 1: Let's just say, oh gosh, this is so well. First
Speaker 1: of all, if he brought it up, I absolutely not. No,
Speaker 1: It would only work if it was on my terms, Okay,
Speaker 1: Like I have to be the person who brought it
Speaker 1: to the table. If he brought it to the table,
Speaker 1: insecurities would have started flying immediately, And some people might
Speaker 1: say that's unfair, but yeah, if he brought it to
Speaker 1: the table, I'd probably be like, no, I don't think so,
Speaker 1: and we need to know if you're thinking you want to.
Speaker 1: But if I brought it to the table, that might
Speaker 1: be a different situation.
Speaker 3: No, I don't know. I don't listen.
Speaker 1: We're still all of us are still very young, and
Speaker 1: I feel like to knock something that you don't know
Speaker 1: anything about would be I don't know, It's just not
Speaker 1: a smart thing to do in my opinion. I'm sure
Speaker 1: there's many people out there who think swinging is completely
Speaker 1: off the table, will never be a thing for them.
Speaker 1: But I don't know what twenty years down the road
Speaker 1: looks like for me. You know, like there's so many
Speaker 1: things that I've changed my mindset on in the last.
Speaker 3: Like ten years ago. Yeah, exactly that. Who knows what
Speaker 3: about you, Bailey.
Speaker 1: Let's say you're in a relationship and you or your
Speaker 1: partner bring something like that to the table.
Speaker 3: Would you bring that to the table. I probably wouldn't,
Speaker 3: just because I'm busy, so like.
Speaker 4: I've got stuff going on. It probably wouldn't even cross
Speaker 4: my mind at all. But I mean, I don't know
Speaker 4: if I would want to partake, but I wouldn't mind
Speaker 4: like going to one and just being like a fly
Speaker 4: on the wall.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a friend named Kai. You're right.
Speaker 4: I have a friend named Kai who is like polyamorous
Speaker 4: and would always tell me like, yeah, I went to
Speaker 4: this party the other day and on each floor of
Speaker 4: this house there was some freaky thing going on, blah
Speaker 4: blah blah, and just like tell me these stories.
Speaker 3: And I would always end these.
Speaker 4: He would be done talking to me, and I would
Speaker 4: be like, Wow, we live different lives. But it was
Speaker 4: always just so fascinating because I just think anyone's life
Speaker 4: that's different than mine is fascinating, and I want to
Speaker 4: learn more about everything all the time. So if somebody
Speaker 4: invited me to one and didn't expect me to partake,
Speaker 4: I would go just to see what it's like, just
Speaker 4: to learn something by stand as a bystander. Yeah, give
Speaker 4: me whatever color bracelet. I need to not have to
Speaker 4: talk to anyone or interact with anyone.
Speaker 3: Great.
Speaker 2: I only asked because I was listening to this podcast
Speaker 2: Funny Enough on the Way in today about these There's
Speaker 2: like two couples and they started like showering and like
Speaker 2: swapping off like wives or whatever, shower at each other,
Speaker 2: and I just was like I could not do anything
Speaker 2: related to swinging or doing like that. Not knocking it
Speaker 2: to the people that do it. I'm just so insecure
Speaker 2: in myself. I would be worried that my girlfriend Alyssa
Speaker 2: would like doing whatever with other person more then, and
Speaker 2: then not only that, I feel bad that whoever I
Speaker 2: get stuck, whoever.
Speaker 3: Gets stuck with me, whoever get stuck, they just gets.
Speaker 2: So disappointed and they're looking off at Alyssa and the
Speaker 2: other person on the side, like, damn.
Speaker 3: Most's nice.
Speaker 1: That's got to be the number one fear if you
Speaker 1: decided to go into the swinging lifestyle, is is your
Speaker 1: partner going to fall for someone else because they have
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously it's mostly just a sexual connection, but
Speaker 1: then what if they feel like they have more than
Speaker 1: that with somebody else. So it's kind of like that's
Speaker 1: got to be the gamble that you take, you know.
Speaker 1: And I think a lot of people do set rules
Speaker 1: ahead of time, yeah, with their partner.
Speaker 3: Yeah, But yeah, I think it's.
Speaker 4: The whole open communication thing because I have like pretty
Speaker 4: good friends that are polyamorous and they talk about their
Speaker 4: other partners like openly in front of the person they're
Speaker 4: married to. Yeah, And it's weird for me because they
Speaker 4: it's like a new thing for them, and gosh, it's
Speaker 4: kind of like if you ask somebody who went to
Speaker 4: Harvard where they went to school, and they were like
Speaker 4: Harvard and then they tell you all about it. Same
Speaker 4: thing with anyone who's polyamorous. They'll tell you all about
Speaker 4: it and I know it, so yeah, and I'll be
Speaker 4: like you, we live different lives.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, we will.
Speaker 1: We don't have a ton of emails today, so just
Speaker 1: a heads up if you want to send an email.
Speaker 1: Ryan Show at katiewb dot com. It's going to be
Speaker 1: a three tomorrow for Friday as well, so if there's
Speaker 1: something specific you want to talk to us about, let
Speaker 1: us know. This one specifically also does come in for
Speaker 1: a day. But I think we can all answer this.
Speaker 1: It says, Hi, It's Chris from Northfield again with a
Speaker 1: random question.
Speaker 3: Dave.
Speaker 1: You've said before that the social media aspect of your
Speaker 1: job isn't your favorite, but I'm just wondering how exhausting
Speaker 1: it is. I follow all of you on Instagram and
Speaker 1: see that you have been doing a lot of collapse
Speaker 1: with all of you making small videos to make one
Speaker 1: big video. I can only imagine that it takes a
Speaker 1: ton of work for you to document your life outside
Speaker 1: of work for work. Love seeing it, but I feel
Speaker 1: it would be exhausting trying to get the perfect video
Speaker 1: of your life. Just curious on how everyone heals about it.
Speaker 1: Lickety dart, lickety dart, love y'all. There's certain things that
Speaker 1: we do that might look like it's complicated, but it's not.
Speaker 1: So like us clipping together videos of ourselves to promote
Speaker 1: the show is.
Speaker 3: Really pretty simple. Honestly, would you say it's.
Speaker 1: Easier now that we do that versus when you used
Speaker 1: to create a graphic for the show every morning? Or no?
Speaker 3: Or about the same. No, it's about the same, okay,
Speaker 3: because like I.
Speaker 1: Was like, I don't know, maybe this takes a little
Speaker 1: less time for vant to do versus you having to
Speaker 1: go in and create a graphic. But yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: it just it like depends. Because the three of us
Speaker 1: actually had a conversation yesterday just about social media and stuff,
Speaker 1: and Bailey was like, Okay, so I pretty much should
Speaker 1: just like document everything I do, And I go, no,
Speaker 1: don't do that, because then your life you're not living
Speaker 1: your life for yourself, you're living there for social media,
Speaker 1: and I do document a lot of things that I
Speaker 1: do if I have the time to do it. So
Speaker 1: for instance, I hung a disco ball that was easy
Speaker 1: for me to throw my camera up record myself doing it.
Speaker 1: And once you start doing social media, obviously it becomes easier.
Speaker 1: So pupping that video together cutting it up really didn't
Speaker 1: take me long at all. And same with just like
Speaker 1: the editing aspect of it on reels or TikTok and stuff.
Speaker 1: Once you start doing something like that, you get good
Speaker 1: at it and really doesn't take that long. Other people
Speaker 1: it might take them a couple hours. I see Andrew
Speaker 1: do an Instagram post that's just a video or just
Speaker 1: a picture one of his clients that bought a house
Speaker 1: and a caption, and he will take it such a
Speaker 1: long time on it because social media is not really
Speaker 1: second nature like it is to us, right.
Speaker 4: I feel the same about like that with like Andrew,
Speaker 4: because it's not something that I have like grown up
Speaker 4: as an adult doing necessarily, like I have social media,
Speaker 4: but it's never occurred to me like I should be
Speaker 4: posting on social media and like making videos or whatever
Speaker 4: until I.
Speaker 3: Got this job.
Speaker 4: So it's it's definitely something you have to like learn
Speaker 4: to do. Like I'll go to an event, have a
Speaker 4: really great time, and be driving home and think, wow,
Speaker 4: I should have recorded something for that. And then Vaughn
Speaker 4: actually like taught me what b role was because we
Speaker 4: went to an event together and he was like recording
Speaker 4: stuff and was like, what are you doing. He's like, oh,
Speaker 4: I'm just recording b roll so that he could turn
Speaker 4: it into a video. And so now like I'll go
Speaker 4: somewhere and I'll have to be like, Bailey, you need
Speaker 4: to record b role.
Speaker 3: You have to record b roll b roll, b roll
Speaker 3: b roll whatever.
Speaker 4: But the thing is, I hate getting my picture taken.
Speaker 4: So like if I can, like sometimes our weeken in
Speaker 4: five photos, which isn't even like social media necessarily, but
Speaker 4: I'll forget that I wasn't in any pictures and I'll
Speaker 4: be like oops, oops, my bad and try and throw
Speaker 4: one in last second. But it is hard for me personally,
Speaker 4: so I have to get better at that. But it
Speaker 4: doesn't take like a ton of time. It's just like
Speaker 4: time that you weren't planning on doing it.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's tough for all I know it's
Speaker 2: tough for all of us, and there are some people
Speaker 2: that are more gifted at it than others. I just
Speaker 2: somewhat what's very discouraging for us as well. We all
Speaker 2: the three of us, even in this room, have a
Speaker 2: different amount of Instagram followers or like things that we're
Speaker 2: known for our niches or whatever. And obviously, Jenny, you've
Speaker 2: been at this longer than we have. But sometimes it
Speaker 2: sucks because I will go and post I love doing
Speaker 2: like little rants like I did one about like why
Speaker 2: I won't eat at the pot luck, or like my
Speaker 2: Grammy predictions, or when people got pissed in me for
Speaker 2: the whole red light thing. And I put a lot
Speaker 2: of work into those videos and then they just really
Speaker 2: kind of do shit. But then I'll post to something
Speaker 2: like that I didn't think twice about.
Speaker 3: And people will love it.
Speaker 2: So it's just a bit discouraging. But I mean it's
Speaker 2: part of the game. It happened with radio bits.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is part of the game. Fom came in
Speaker 1: here with something slung across his shoulder. Do you want
Speaker 1: to tell us what you've got?
Speaker 2: I got a gift from shout out Juanita regular, She
Speaker 2: writes into the show, allough, Oh yeah, we.
Speaker 1: Have Janita's rants that we play. We just had one yesterday.
Speaker 1: If you listened to yesterday's episode, Oh I did that
Speaker 1: Minnesota Goodbye?
Speaker 3: No he did it, You're he did not. Why do
Speaker 3: you not support us? Excuse me?
Speaker 4: I know he doesn't listen, but that he's always texting
Speaker 4: me being like, did you guys talk about me on
Speaker 4: the Minnesota Goodbye today?
Speaker 3: Because I' getting texted about it at one time. You've
Speaker 3: texted me like fifteen hundred times.
Speaker 2: I got a gift from Wanita. She was texting the
Speaker 2: station and my dming me on Instagram at vant leak
Speaker 2: like you should follow me to saying hey, there's a
Speaker 2: gift coming to you Monday, Monday Monday, And it finally came.
Speaker 2: It's a shirt that with a gabble on it says.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that is Janita. You are so good
Speaker 3: at gims.
Speaker 5: That's hilarious, so funny, and I love it because it
Speaker 5: is kind of hideous and I feel like Jandita, you
Speaker 5: know that is a little hideous because it is a
Speaker 5: giant picture of a gavel and then it says Justice
Speaker 5: vont right at the bottom.
Speaker 3: I love it. It's hilarious.
Speaker 2: It's a regular show or like I think mainly what
Speaker 2: makes tape game usually because I always lose that I'm
Speaker 2: always saying justice for vont because Jenny just hates me.
Speaker 3: It always makes me literally not true.
Speaker 1: I give you points sometimes and then it's still justice
Speaker 1: for vont no matter if I give you a point
Speaker 1: or not. But also you literally say that at every segment.
Speaker 1: It's like justice for Vonta.
Speaker 3: Yes, it's almost like every segment.
Speaker 1: Any game we play, it's Justice vont Usually it's certain games.
Speaker 3: But Janita, nice job. That was a great little gift
Speaker 3: for Von Studio. Bailly and I are size medium to large.
Speaker 3: If you want to make we don't need anything, and
Speaker 3: we love that you did that for Von. That's awesome,
Speaker 3: the best.
Speaker 1: Okay, that'll do it for the Minnesota Goodbye today. Like
Speaker 1: I said, it'll be the three of us on the
Speaker 1: Minnesota Goodbye for Friday. So if you want to send
Speaker 1: us an email, go ahead and do that at Ryan's
Speaker 1: show at katiewb dot com. And as always, thank you
Speaker 1: so much for listening.