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<v Speaker 1>It's the Minnesota Goodbye featuring myself, Jenny Bailey, Peru Hello, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Vaught who first MB of twenty twenty five.

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<v Speaker 3>Baby.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we're gonna jump right into emails here today. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously you were not the Minnesota Goodbye yesterday, but we

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<v Speaker 1>had a very long conversation about cast roles versus hot dishes?

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<v Speaker 3>And you're from Jersey. So did you know what a

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<v Speaker 3>hot dish was prior to coming to Minnesota?

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<v Speaker 2>I never heard of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I didn't really either. Like I said, in Wisconsin,

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<v Speaker 1>we just it was always cast roles to us slash

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't. We definitely didn't really have tater tot hot dish.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't speak for all Wisconsin, but in my area

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<v Speaker 1>we did not.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you eat castle role even before? Did you know

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<v Speaker 2>about because I've never even had it. I just knew

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<v Speaker 2>what a castro Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we definitely had cast roles, just not the hot

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<v Speaker 1>dishes slash tater to hot hot dish.

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<v Speaker 3>So this comes from our buddy Jim.

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<v Speaker 1>He says, I almost didn't write this because I always

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<v Speaker 1>fear coming across as a note at all.

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<v Speaker 3>But Jem's a chef just so everyone else.

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<v Speaker 1>However, did you know, there is a difference between cast

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<v Speaker 1>roles and hot dishes. While they have become interchangeable terms,

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<v Speaker 1>now there was a distinction between them at one time. First,

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<v Speaker 1>the hot dish is meant to be a one pot

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<v Speaker 1>dish that is mixed and then baked. Think of the

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<v Speaker 1>tato hot hot dish or galushe is that how you

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<v Speaker 1>said gloat coolass? So I was gonna say, I know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that right. And then a castroll is

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<v Speaker 1>meant to be layered like lasagna. Also, a hot dish

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<v Speaker 1>is baked in any vessel, Dutch, oven cake, pan castrole dish,

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<v Speaker 1>while a castrole is a specific dish. However, that ignores

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<v Speaker 1>cultural adoptions of the words and the pride that a

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<v Speaker 1>Minnesota has when they can tell someone not from Minnesota

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<v Speaker 1>that it's not a castrole, it's a hot dish, all

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<v Speaker 1>with a smile on their face. Now I'm hitting send

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<v Speaker 1>before I second guess myself. Thank you for being consistent

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<v Speaker 1>throughout the day. JEM not a no at all at all.

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<v Speaker 1>We appreciate the clarification between cast rolls and hot dishes.

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<v Speaker 1>That makes a lot of sense because I do feel

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<v Speaker 1>like the cast roles that I've experienced are exactly what

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<v Speaker 1>you described.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like a layered situation.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was gonna ask again, I've never had either one,

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<v Speaker 2>so I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Like the idiot.

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<v Speaker 2>I just thought it was what you call it different,

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<v Speaker 2>because I've said this to you, Jenny. In Jersey or

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<v Speaker 2>I guess on the East coast, they have pork roll

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<v Speaker 2>on one side of like New Jersey, which is like

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<v Speaker 2>some type of breakfast food. I don't know if it's

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<v Speaker 2>like a ham or sausage or whatever. And then there's

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<v Speaker 2>like another side North Jersey and New York and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>They'll call it Taylor Ham, and it's a big debate

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<v Speaker 2>versus like like you don't call a hot dog an

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<v Speaker 2>oscar may or whatever, like one of those stupid types.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's what I thought the castle roll situation was.

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<v Speaker 2>But there is a difference.

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<v Speaker 4>You've heard of either of those things pork roll or

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<v Speaker 4>Taylor Ham.

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<v Speaker 2>Which is so weird because I remember when I was

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<v Speaker 2>in Iowa, when I lived there for like a month,

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<v Speaker 2>I met I went to the Ioa State Fair and

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<v Speaker 2>I met the pork queen and I asked her, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, do you know so you know everything about pork?

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<v Speaker 2>She said, yes, And I was like, you know what

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<v Speaker 2>a pork roll is? And she was like, no, I

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<v Speaker 2>would assume that even if you don't know, even if

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<v Speaker 2>they don't have it out here, that you would know

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<v Speaker 2>what it is.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I just googled it.

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<v Speaker 4>I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Is only knew because of you talking about it. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to explain why you were only in Iowa

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<v Speaker 1>for a month, because we always think that everyone understands

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<v Speaker 1>things like that, but you're just like, you know, when

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<v Speaker 1>I was in Iowa for a month, I was like

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<v Speaker 1>time or.

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<v Speaker 3>Like what was the deal?

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<v Speaker 5>Then?

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<v Speaker 1>My bid?

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<v Speaker 4>No.

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<v Speaker 2>When I graduated college May twenty twenty three and I

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<v Speaker 2>got a job with iHeart in Iowa that was like

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<v Speaker 2>my first radio job. But literally my first day there,

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<v Speaker 2>I had got a call from our boss, Rich and

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<v Speaker 2>he was like, oh, I want to hire you. And

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<v Speaker 2>it's not knocking Iowa or anything, but Iowa is what.

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<v Speaker 3>It's called it a smaller market yah yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, which means like people go there to get their

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<v Speaker 2>start or whatever. And my bosses said, like, yo, people

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<v Speaker 2>work in Iowa for three years to get to KATWB,

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<v Speaker 2>So go to KATWB even though you just got here.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was there for literally thirty six days before

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<v Speaker 2>I came.

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<v Speaker 1>So you moved cross country twice within my two months

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<v Speaker 1>basically sort of like at least you were coming from

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<v Speaker 1>Iowa then to Minnesota, but you like moved to Iowa

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<v Speaker 1>then came up to Minnesota.

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<v Speaker 2>So the Iowa station is where e White was before

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<v Speaker 2>he came here too.

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<v Speaker 1>So many people have gone to Iowa first. So intern

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<v Speaker 1>John who used to be on Dave Show like twelve

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<v Speaker 1>god I think actually like thirteen years ago, and now

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<v Speaker 1>he he went to Iowa and now he hosts his

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<v Speaker 1>own show in DC. And then also Dylan used to

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<v Speaker 1>be an intern on Dave Show. Dylan went to Iowa.

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<v Speaker 1>Then he was in Cincinnati or something like that, and

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<v Speaker 1>then he was in Colorado Springs.

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<v Speaker 3>Now he's in Portland. Dylan's been all over.

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<v Speaker 1>So yes, Iowa was kind of like this stepping stone

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<v Speaker 1>to get to like the next for so many people.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I know somebody in New York now, which is

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<v Speaker 2>the number one market, who started in Iowa. Shout out

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<v Speaker 2>Sean Streife who was in Michigan. Now he's in Vegas,

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<v Speaker 2>but he started in Iowa. But yeah, man, shout out Iowa.

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<v Speaker 3>Shout out Iowa. Shout out Iowa. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The next Emith says, don't say my name, but hi, Dave,

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<v Speaker 1>I just heard the podcast from a few days ago

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<v Speaker 1>and how you were trying to find me on Facebook.

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<v Speaker 1>So the person in this email is the person who

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<v Speaker 1>talked about being a swinger, and so we kind of

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<v Speaker 1>were curious, Like a week or two ago, we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about the swinging lifestyle, and Bailey and I joked about

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<v Speaker 1>how we would end up with the one ugly person

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<v Speaker 1>in the if we ever went to Want or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that, and so we were curious, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like what does the swinger even look like? There's only

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<v Speaker 1>one person I know who's a swinger, and so this

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<v Speaker 1>person had emailed in and I will just say, like

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<v Speaker 1>she is foinning, Okay, she's really good looking. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if this I think this might be her husband

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<v Speaker 1>that she sent a photo with. He's also a very

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<v Speaker 1>good looking person. But like, damn, I'm curious what everyone

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<v Speaker 1>else looks like in your swimmer swing groups.

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<v Speaker 3>Are they all good looking?

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<v Speaker 4>Because in my brain I don't imagine everybody looking good.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah it'll be, but granted we were saying that, like

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<v Speaker 4>it's likely everybody kind of looks like you're hot, h

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<v Speaker 4>gym teacher from high school where they were really hot

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<v Speaker 4>in high school and then they just grew up and

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<v Speaker 4>they're still kind of hot, like suburban hot.

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<v Speaker 3>And then there'd be like.

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<v Speaker 4>The one George Costanza in the group, like the kind

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<v Speaker 4>of fruity looking guy. Not fruity. I don't know why

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<v Speaker 4>I said fruity, but you know, like frumpy looking guy

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<v Speaker 4>that I end up with at the swingers party. I'm like, God,

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<v Speaker 4>dang it, of all the people, of all the hot

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<v Speaker 4>suburban people here.

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<v Speaker 3>And I get the George Costanza. Yeah. Rats, Let's see.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't go.

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<v Speaker 2>Ahead, you guys. Ever, let's just say, right, for Jenny

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<v Speaker 2>Andrew and another couple that you guys are friends with,

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<v Speaker 2>let's just say you wanted to experiment, would you.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just say, oh gosh, this is so well. First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, if he brought it up, I absolutely not. No,

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<v Speaker 1>It would only work if it was on my terms, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I have to be the person who brought it

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<v Speaker 1>to the table. If he brought it to the table,

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<v Speaker 1>insecurities would have started flying immediately, And some people might

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<v Speaker 1>say that's unfair, but yeah, if he brought it to

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<v Speaker 1>the table, I'd probably be like, no, I don't think so,

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<v Speaker 1>and we need to know if you're thinking you want to.

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<v Speaker 1>But if I brought it to the table, that might

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<v Speaker 1>be a different situation.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I don't know. I don't listen.

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<v Speaker 1>We're still all of us are still very young, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like to knock something that you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>anything about would be I don't know, It's just not

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<v Speaker 1>a smart thing to do in my opinion. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>there's many people out there who think swinging is completely

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<v Speaker 1>off the table, will never be a thing for them.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know what twenty years down the road

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<v Speaker 1>looks like for me. You know, like there's so many

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<v Speaker 1>things that I've changed my mindset on in the last.

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<v Speaker 3>Like ten years ago. Yeah, exactly that. Who knows what

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<v Speaker 3>about you, Bailey.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's say you're in a relationship and you or your

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<v Speaker 1>partner bring something like that to the table.

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<v Speaker 3>Would you bring that to the table. I probably wouldn't,

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<v Speaker 3>just because I'm busy, so like.

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<v Speaker 4>I've got stuff going on. It probably wouldn't even cross

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<v Speaker 4>my mind at all. But I mean, I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>if I would want to partake, but I wouldn't mind

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<v Speaker 4>like going to one and just being like a fly

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<v Speaker 4>on the wall.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I have a friend named Kai. You're right.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a friend named Kai who is like polyamorous

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<v Speaker 4>and would always tell me like, yeah, I went to

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<v Speaker 4>this party the other day and on each floor of

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<v Speaker 4>this house there was some freaky thing going on, blah

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<v Speaker 4>blah blah, and just like tell me these stories.

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<v Speaker 3>And I would always end these.

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<v Speaker 4>He would be done talking to me, and I would

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<v Speaker 4>be like, Wow, we live different lives. But it was

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<v Speaker 4>always just so fascinating because I just think anyone's life

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<v Speaker 4>that's different than mine is fascinating, and I want to

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<v Speaker 4>learn more about everything all the time. So if somebody

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<v Speaker 4>invited me to one and didn't expect me to partake,

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<v Speaker 4>I would go just to see what it's like, just

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<v Speaker 4>to learn something by stand as a bystander. Yeah, give

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<v Speaker 4>me whatever color bracelet. I need to not have to

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<v Speaker 4>talk to anyone or interact with anyone.

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<v Speaker 3>Great.

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<v Speaker 2>I only asked because I was listening to this podcast

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<v Speaker 2>Funny Enough on the Way in today about these There's

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<v Speaker 2>like two couples and they started like showering and like

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<v Speaker 2>swapping off like wives or whatever, shower at each other,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just was like I could not do anything

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<v Speaker 2>related to swinging or doing like that. Not knocking it

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<v Speaker 2>to the people that do it. I'm just so insecure

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<v Speaker 2>in myself. I would be worried that my girlfriend Alyssa

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<v Speaker 2>So disappointed and they're looking off at Alyssa and the

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<v Speaker 1>That's got to be the number one fear if you

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<v Speaker 1>got to be the gamble that you take, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think a lot of people do set rules

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<v Speaker 4>The whole open communication thing because I have like pretty

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<v Speaker 4>Harvard and then they tell you all about it. Same

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<v Speaker 4>thing with anyone who's polyamorous. They'll tell you all about

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<v Speaker 4>it and I know it, so yeah, and I'll be

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<v Speaker 4>like you, we live different lives.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, we will.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't have a ton of emails today, so just

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Show at katiewb dot com. It's going to be

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<v Speaker 1>a three tomorrow for Friday as well, so if there's

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<v Speaker 1>something specific you want to talk to us about, let

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<v Speaker 1>us know. This one specifically also does come in for

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<v Speaker 1>a day. But I think we can all answer this.

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<v Speaker 1>It says, Hi, It's Chris from Northfield again with a

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<v Speaker 3>Dave.

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<v Speaker 1>You've said before that the social media aspect of your

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<v Speaker 1>job isn't your favorite, but I'm just wondering how exhausting

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<v Speaker 1>it is. I follow all of you on Instagram and

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<v Speaker 1>see that you have been doing a lot of collapse

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<v Speaker 1>with all of you making small videos to make one

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<v Speaker 1>big video. I can only imagine that it takes a

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<v Speaker 1>ton of work for you to document your life outside

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<v Speaker 1>of work for work. Love seeing it, but I feel

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<v Speaker 1>it would be exhausting trying to get the perfect video

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<v Speaker 1>of your life. Just curious on how everyone heals about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Lickety dart, lickety dart, love y'all. There's certain things that

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<v Speaker 1>we do that might look like it's complicated, but it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>So like us clipping together videos of ourselves to promote

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<v Speaker 1>the show is.

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<v Speaker 3>Really pretty simple. Honestly, would you say it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Easier now that we do that versus when you used

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<v Speaker 1>to create a graphic for the show every morning? Or no?

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<v Speaker 3>Or about the same. No, it's about the same, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>because like I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like, I don't know, maybe this takes a little

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<v Speaker 1>less time for vant to do versus you having to

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<v Speaker 1>go in and create a graphic. But yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it just it like depends. Because the three of us

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<v Speaker 1>actually had a conversation yesterday just about social media and stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>and Bailey was like, Okay, so I pretty much should

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<v Speaker 1>just like document everything I do, And I go, no,

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<v Speaker 1>don't do that, because then your life you're not living

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<v Speaker 1>your life for yourself, you're living there for social media,

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<v Speaker 1>and I do document a lot of things that I

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<v Speaker 1>do if I have the time to do it. So

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<v Speaker 1>for instance, I hung a disco ball that was easy

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<v Speaker 1>for me to throw my camera up record myself doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>And once you start doing social media, obviously it becomes easier.

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<v Speaker 1>So pupping that video together cutting it up really didn't

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<v Speaker 1>take me long at all. And same with just like

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<v Speaker 1>the editing aspect of it on reels or TikTok and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Once you start doing something like that, you get good

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<v Speaker 1>at it and really doesn't take that long. Other people

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<v Speaker 1>it might take them a couple hours. I see Andrew

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<v Speaker 1>do an Instagram post that's just a video or just

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<v Speaker 1>and a caption, and he will take it such a

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<v Speaker 1>long time on it because social media is not really

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<v Speaker 1>second nature like it is to us, right.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel the same about like that with like Andrew,

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<v Speaker 4>because it's not something that I have like grown up

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<v Speaker 4>as an adult doing necessarily, like I have social media,

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<v Speaker 4>but it's never occurred to me like I should be

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<v Speaker 4>posting on social media and like making videos or whatever

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<v Speaker 4>until I.

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<v Speaker 3>Got this job.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's it's definitely something you have to like learn

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<v Speaker 4>to do. Like I'll go to an event, have a

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<v Speaker 4>really great time, and be driving home and think, wow,

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<v Speaker 4>I should have recorded something for that. And then Vaughn

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<v Speaker 4>actually like taught me what b role was because we

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<v Speaker 4>went to an event together and he was like recording

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<v Speaker 4>stuff and was like, what are you doing. He's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just recording b roll so that he could turn

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<v Speaker 4>it into a video. And so now like I'll go

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<v Speaker 4>somewhere and I'll have to be like, Bailey, you need

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<v Speaker 4>to record b role.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to record b roll b roll, b roll

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<v Speaker 3>b roll whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>But the thing is, I hate getting my picture taken.

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<v Speaker 4>So like if I can, like sometimes our weeken in

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<v Speaker 4>five photos, which isn't even like social media necessarily, but

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<v Speaker 4>I'll forget that I wasn't in any pictures and I'll

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<v Speaker 4>be like oops, oops, my bad and try and throw

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<v Speaker 4>one in last second. But it is hard for me personally,

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<v Speaker 4>so I have to get better at that. But it

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't take like a ton of time. It's just like

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<v Speaker 4>time that you weren't planning on doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think it's tough for all I know it's

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<v Speaker 2>tough for all of us, and there are some people

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<v Speaker 2>that are more gifted at it than others. I just

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<v Speaker 2>somewhat what's very discouraging for us as well. We all

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<v Speaker 2>the three of us, even in this room, have a

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<v Speaker 2>different amount of Instagram followers or like things that we're

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<v Speaker 2>known for our niches or whatever. And obviously, Jenny, you've

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<v Speaker 2>been at this longer than we have. But sometimes it

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<v Speaker 2>sucks because I will go and post I love doing

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<v Speaker 2>like little rants like I did one about like why

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<v Speaker 2>I won't eat at the pot luck, or like my

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<v Speaker 2>Grammy predictions, or when people got pissed in me for

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<v Speaker 2>the whole red light thing. And I put a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of work into those videos and then they just really

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<v Speaker 2>kind of do shit. But then I'll post to something

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<v Speaker 2>like that I didn't think twice about.

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<v Speaker 3>And people will love it.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's just a bit discouraging. But I mean it's

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<v Speaker 2>part of the game. It happened with radio bits.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it is part of the game. Fom came in

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<v Speaker 1>here with something slung across his shoulder. Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to tell us what you've got?

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<v Speaker 2>I got a gift from shout out Juanita regular, She

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<v Speaker 2>writes into the show, allough, Oh yeah, we.

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<v Speaker 1>Have Janita's rants that we play. We just had one yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>If you listened to yesterday's episode, Oh I did that

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<v Speaker 1>Minnesota Goodbye?

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<v Speaker 3>No he did it, You're he did not. Why do

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<v Speaker 3>you not support us? Excuse me?

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<v Speaker 4>I know he doesn't listen, but that he's always texting

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<v Speaker 4>me being like, did you guys talk about me on

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<v Speaker 4>the Minnesota Goodbye today?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I' getting texted about it at one time. You've

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<v Speaker 3>texted me like fifteen hundred times.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a gift from Wanita. She was texting the

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<v Speaker 2>station and my dming me on Instagram at vant leak

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<v Speaker 2>like you should follow me to saying hey, there's a

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<v Speaker 2>gift coming to you Monday, Monday Monday, And it finally came.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a shirt that with a gabble on it says.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, that is Janita. You are so good

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<v Speaker 3>at gims.

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<v Speaker 5>That's hilarious, so funny, and I love it because it

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<v Speaker 5>is kind of hideous and I feel like Jandita, you

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<v Speaker 5>know that is a little hideous because it is a

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<v Speaker 5>giant picture of a gavel and then it says Justice

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<v Speaker 5>vont right at the bottom.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it. It's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a regular show or like I think mainly what

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<v Speaker 2>makes tape game usually because I always lose that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>always saying justice for vont because Jenny just hates me.

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<v Speaker 3>It always makes me literally not true.

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<v Speaker 1>I give you points sometimes and then it's still justice

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<v Speaker 1>for vont no matter if I give you a point

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<v Speaker 1>or not. But also you literally say that at every segment.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like justice for Vonta.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, it's almost like every segment.

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<v Speaker 1>Any game we play, it's Justice vont Usually it's certain games.

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<v Speaker 3>But Janita, nice job. That was a great little gift

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<v Speaker 3>for Von Studio. Bailly and I are size medium to large.

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<v Speaker 3>If you want to make we don't need anything, and

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<v Speaker 3>we love that you did that for Von. That's awesome,

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<v Speaker 3>the best.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that'll do it for the Minnesota Goodbye today. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, it'll be the three of us on the

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<v Speaker 1>Minnesota Goodbye for Friday. So if you want to send

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<v Speaker 1>us an email, go ahead and do that at Ryan's

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<v Speaker 1>show at katiewb dot com. And as always, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much for listening.