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Speaker 1: What's up, besties. Welcome back to another amazing episode of

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your Manifesting Bestie podcast. I'm your host, Flora, and we

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are diving into all things of mindset and manifestation like

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we always do, you guys know the drill. I am

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so freaking happy and excited. Who remembers last week's episode

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when I was boohoo crying over someone taking down my

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ig account and losing everything and being super sad and

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emotional and telling you guys how I just haven't been

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able to work through these emotions for like the last

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month and throwing myself a pity party literally last Wednesday

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morning when I uploaded that episode into the system and

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you guys all listen to it. Like two hours after

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we got the freaking account back out of nowhere, one

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of my good friends calls me. She's like, Flora, your

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page's back up. I'm like, shut the fuck up, No,

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it's not. I was literally crying too when she called me,

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because I just had another mental breakdown over it, and no,

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she was right. It was back up somehow, someway after

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getting deleted for like a month and I wasn't really

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operating my business just because of I guess the emotions

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and stuff. It was back and I'm back in my groove.

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I'm feeling good and feeling happy. I'm feeling excited. I

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can't believe how quickly that happened. After we all spoke

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about that to get well, I spoke to you guys

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about it, and it just kind of goes to show

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you that when we do take these steps like we

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walked through last week, it works. Like exactly what I

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mentioned that I was doing, even though I was going

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through the thick of it and going through the mess

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and still trying to understand like why me, you know,

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like going into that victim mode, we did those little

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steps that we went over last week, and it works.

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So if you are going through something and you don't

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see the way out, and you don't understand why it's

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happening for you, and you have been on a fast

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track train to the problem, just kind of not you know,

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not getting better, it's not progressing in your favor. Please

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make sure that you reference last week's episode and the

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steps that we took to make things better to get

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you on the opposite direction of the train, to get

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you going into the direction of your desire unfolding and

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things getting better and things improving and you just feeling

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better emotionally because it really really does work. Guys. I

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cannot stress it enough that these practices work. I would

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not be teaching them if they didn't. They work for me,

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they work for my clients, they work for people on

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a grand scale when they get a hold of these processes. Okay,

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So whatever you're going through, don't give up on yourself.

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But today's a new day, today's a new episode. I

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have something really important to share. I think I say

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that on every episode. So so what I want to

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get into today is the power of being bold and

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the favor that you receive from your boldness, from no

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longer shrinking and taking up space. And this is really important.

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And I'm really talking to my girls right now specifically.

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I mean this can apply to literally anyone. I just

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know how girls are raised. We are raised to be small.

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We are raised to shrink ourselves. We are raised to

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be polite and to be overly kind and to be

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people pleasers and to always have a smile on our

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face because god forbid, we don't it makes someone else uncomfortable.

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Oh my god, right, So we always played so small

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and we never want to take up space, and we're

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always over apologizing. Oh I'm sorry, Oh I'm so sorry

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for them, I'm sorry for that, right, and we overthink

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everything because we were raised that way. Whereas the majority

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of men, for example, they're raised to have like the audacity, right,

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They're raised to be like, I can do it, I

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can have it all, I can be it. I can

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conquer the world. I can be the president, I could

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be top you know, CEO of a fortune five hundred company.

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I can do this. I can have all the women

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in the world. Right. So men are raised with super

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powerful belief systems, whereas women are raised with the belief

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system to be smaller, be shrunken, be more digestible, more

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palatable for other people. Don't be too bold, doyn't think

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you're aggressive, okay, don't speak your mind. You're gonna be

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considered a bitch. Right, So that is how women are raised.

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Don't be too much, don't overdo it. In my opinion,

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you need to be doing too much. Why why not?

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Why not do too much? Why not be so authentically you?

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So we're gonna be diving into being bold and how

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you receive favor from the universe for being your bold

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ass self, okay, from being powerful, from making really big

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decisions on a whim. Okay, so we're gonna talk about

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that right now. Something that I have noticed is that

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the universe will move freaking mountains in your way when

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you make a bold decision. Okay, when you take a

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huge leap of faith on yourself reci favor, You receive

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favor from the universal laws. You get the red carpet

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rolled out for you where the universal laws go. Ah,

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finally she trusts herself. Finally she turned inward and believes

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in herself. Finally, let's move these big mountains, these big

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obstacles that she always thought were in her way. Let's

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make it easier for her. Let's catch her when she

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takes that leap. Okay, you receive favor. You are highly

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highly favored when you are bold. Okay. So what do

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we do in our life when we have to make

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tough decisions. We normally shrink ourselves and we kind of

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take the easier way out, the less scary way. And

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we do this simply out of fear, because we think

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that if we take a leap of faith on ourselves,

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no one's going to be there to catch us. We

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think that we're alone. Okay, So think of like you

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standing on the edge of a cliff and there's another

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cliff on the other side, and you have to take

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a huge leap. But if you make that leap, that's

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where your success is. And if you make that leap,

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that's where your joy is. And if you make that

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leap and you land it, that's where your abundance is.

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And that's where your happiness is, and your fulfillment is,

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and your love, your endless, endless love lives. Okay, But

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you think that if you take that leap of faith,

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you're not good enough to make it to the other side.

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to make that leap. So you say, I'm not making

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that decision. Actually, I'm gonna turn around. Actually it's looking

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a little risky for me. Actually it's not looking safe. Actually,

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I don't have a harness on. Oh my god, where's

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my harness? Actually I don't have the bungee cord. Okay,

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there's no trampoline at the bottom that's gonna catch me.

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Oh my god, there's no helicopters to catching I'm alone.

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I can't do this. I'm turning back. I'm not taking

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a bold stance to go for what I want. Okay,

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So that is how the majority and I am gonna

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talk to my girls here, that is how the majority

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of women take action. Is they don't or they go backwards.

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They kind of like like go they take several steps

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back because they're like, I just can't make that jump.

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I know someone else could, and I've seen other people

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make that big jump and they succeeded, but I don't

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think I can because this time I failed and I

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failed as spelling being elementary school, and someone told me

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I was unworthy in middle school, and then I failed,

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you know, a science class in high school, and I

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didn't make the volleyball team. So I'm just not good enough, right,

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So we run through all these things of where we

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have seen failure in our life to convince ourselves that

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that failure is going to keep happening. So we do

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not make bold decisions. We're too afraid to stand the

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fuck up and take that leap of faith. We don't

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think anyone's going to catch us. We don't think we're

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going to make it. We don't think we're strong enough. Okay,

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what actually happens though, when you come across something that

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you truly want, you really want to go after it,

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and you have to make a difficult decision. Maybe that

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decision is leaving your job. Maybe that decision is making

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a big move across country or a completely different country overall.

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it's all you know, it's the only relationship you know,

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and you're like, I don't think I'll survive without this

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lousy relationship. It's all I know. Or maybe that decision

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has to do with cutting ties with somebody, or maybe

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you know, standing up to maybe narcissistic parents who have

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diminished you over time. It could be so many things, right,

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It could be starting a new business that you really

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really want and it's been on your heart, maybe for

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four or five years, but you keep convincing yourself that

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I know other people can start businesses and generate income,

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but I don't think I can. I just don't think

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I can. So we talk our way out of these

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really bold decisions. But what we don't realize is that

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bold decision that's been calling you in, calling you in,

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calling you in. You already know that's what it is.

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Kind of destined for you. That's your higher self saying, hey,

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I have a harness for you. I actually tie the

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hardness around your waist to help you make that leap

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over that giant jump over the cliff. Okay, I'm going

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to carry you. But the only way I can do

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that is if you turn inward and you trust yourself,

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and then you're bold about it. Okay, you're bold in

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making that decision. You're bold and starting you're like, you

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know what, Fuck everything. Forget my failures, Forget the pass,

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Forget the naysayers, Forget what my parents think, Forget what

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my friends think who talk down about me. Forget what

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society says of what I can and cannot have. Okay,

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forget the people who tell me success is really hard

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and it's going to take ten years to climb up,

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you know, forget it, leave it all behind. It's the

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picture yourself with like a super heavy backpack on before

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you jump over that cliff. Okay, just get take the

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backpack off because it's weighing you down. That backpack that

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it feels like it has tons of bricks in it

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is just the opinions of everyone else. It's the beliefs

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other people have imprinted onto you when you've accepted them

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as your own. But you can release them. You can

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drop them right there before you make that leap, and

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you can say, you know what, it can work for me,

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because now I'm going to redirect my focus and look

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at all the people it has worked for. Actually, I

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can count on ten people on my two hands of

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how many people this this decision has worked for. They

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became successful, they were able to do it. They look

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really happy, they're actually thriving. Yeah, they moved across country

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and it was really scary for them, but look they

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survived a year later and they're fucking killing it. So

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let me start looking at all the people who are succeeding.

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Let me flood my subconscious mind with the things that

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show me I can do it. It is possible, I

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can achieve it. Right. Let me take off that heavy

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ass backpack and try to leap over a mountain. Let

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me just leave the backpack that feels like he has

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bricks of way down emotions and old ichy memories and

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old failures and old assumptions that never ever benefit me.

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They never did all that backpack did with all those bricks,

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and it was weigh me the fuck down and hold

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me back. It just keeps holding me back. I cannot

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get ahead. It's too heavy. I'm literally carrying the weight

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to on my shoulders because I just care too much

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about the worst case scenario. But what I really need

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to start focusing on and becoming more bold is understanding

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that the second I started to trust myself, that is

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when the best case scenario can start to unfold. Because

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the reason I'm standing at the very edge of this

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cliff is because I was brought to this decision by

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my higher self. My higher self knows me. It is me.

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It's the God source inside of me, guiding me through impulses, emotions, feelings,

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downloads that weren't even mine. They just come to me.

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I'm like, whoa, I have an idea. Okay, your higher

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self has been leading you to the edge of that

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cliff to take a leap of faith. You will make

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it over to the next mountain. It has a literal

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like cord around your waist, and you don't see that

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you have a harness on you. You're being guided and supported.

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So the universe favors the bold. It favors the people

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who stand up and say I trust me. I got this.

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If there's anything in this world I shouldn't believe in,

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it's myself. It's not the government, and it's not the politics.

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And it's sure as hell isn't the inflation in the economy.

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And it doesn't need to be old school teachers who

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told me that I can't have this and I can't

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do that, And I don't need to believe in what

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other people before me are saying. I just need to

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trust in myself. I need to be bold in myself

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and in the decision I make, whatever that decision is.

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things right now. I'm looking through like the comments section

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in my membership, I'm going through the comments I get

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every single day on TikTok, on Instagram, Pinterest, I get

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emails from people. A lot of people are going through it.

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There's some type of like transitional thing going on. I

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don't know. It does feel heavy, but what it looks

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like to me is just a shift, almost like a

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new timeline for everyone. Something better is coming. So it

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feels like everything is kind of crumbling and we have

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to start making tough decisions to move because sometimes we're

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just too fucking comfortable. That's how we come to the

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edge of that cliff and we're ready to make that jump,

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and we're like, yeah, it's too scary. I'm going back.

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I'm going back into my cubicle. I'm going back. Nope, nope, no,

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I can't do it. My nervous system is telling me

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I shouldn't do it. I don't feel safe. So I'm

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going to go back and take it easy. I'm going

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to go back and play it safe. I'm going to

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walk backwards and go back to what I know, just

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because it's comfortable, just because it's routine, it's boring, so

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it doesn't scare me. Right, So we shrink ourselves, we

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diminish ourselves, We put ourselves in a box all over again.

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We become people please resolve over again, instead of pleasing

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ourselves and going after the things that we want. But energetically,

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we're being called to make a change, and sometimes we're

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just not doing it. We're not doing the changes that

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are required for the new manifestations to come in, for

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the new timeline to come in, for the new desires

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to come in, because we're still trying to play it safe.

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We're a little bit scared, right, we still kind of

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operate through the energy of fear, which just leads to

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more results of being stuck on a hamsterheel, which leads

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to more fear. No changes really being made. So what

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is the universe actually doing here? It's trying to force

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the change that you've been manifesting. You've been calling getting,

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you've been affirming it, you've been creating the new story.

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You've been trying to shift your identity, you've been trying

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to visualize the future. Right, But then you're called to

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these difficult decisions. You need to make them, but you

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don't trust yourself, so you take ten steps backwards, right,

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And we can all relate to this. I've been there,

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and I feel like I'm approaching this season right now

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where I need to start making bolder desis decisions and

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I need to really trust in me, trust in my

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gut instinct that's telling me you got this, You freaking

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got this. If not you, who who else got this? No? No, no,

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you got this. But we're so paralyzed. We're stuck in

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analysis paralysis where we overanalyze everything over and over and

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over and we don't jump, so we feel like our

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life is crumbling, and I'm here, like you guys know

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my story of when my life crumbled two years ago.

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It just kept getting worse. It kept getting worse, It

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kept getting worse. It kept getting worse until I made

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the big change and said enough enough of everything, enough

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with losing all my finances, enough with the pity party

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and the poverty cycle and the struggle mindset. I have

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to be bold, right, I have to do it. Whatever

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inside of me is calling me to this, it's doing

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it because it has a hardness for me. I have

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favor from my higher self. I have favor from the creator,

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I have favor from universe soul laws. It's going to

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catch me when I jump. So when I did jump

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and I said, forget everything, I'm gonna start mentoring people.

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I'm gonna just start doing it for free online. I'm

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gonna start creating content and have fun with it. That

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was me making that decision where even though it was like, Okay,

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I know people who know me from my hometown are

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going to judge me. People for my old job are

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really going to judge me. My parents are going to

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be like, you're nuts. Go get a you know, a

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nine to five job, right, I had to block all

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that out and make the difficult decision to go all

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in and just bet it all on me. Trust me,

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turn inward and make this decision for myself where I'm like,

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I got this, I got me. I know the creator

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in me is guiding me, so I know I have favor.

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By making this bold decision, I'm going to receive favor.

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It's like all the mountains are gonna move for me somehow.

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I can't see it. I don't know how, and I

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don't need to know how. I need to trust in

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the outcome. And this is where everyone gets it mixed up.

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This is wherever like, no, I need to see it

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first to believe it, rather than I want to believe

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in it so that I can see it. So we

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don't trust in the process. We don't become bold in

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making those decisions. We don't take the action necessary. Bold

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action is inspired action right when it feels really good,

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when you feel really aligned, take action, go all in

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and go fast because success loves speed, okay, and success

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favors the bold too. Like people who make very risky decisions,

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but they do it from a gut instinct, they get

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the highest rewards. They get the largest returns on their investments,

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and no matter what it is that they're doing, because

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their gut instinct is guiding them, it's your inner guidance system.

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This is when you know you will receive favor. This

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is when you know mountains are going to start to

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move somehow. So let go of how just let it go.

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I don't know how it's going to work out. Nothing

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in my reality shows me evidence that it is going

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to work out. So my logical brain is trying to

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piece together the puzzles of how is this going to

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happen for me? I just can't see it. But you

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don't need to. That's not your job. So let go

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of the notion that you need to know everything right

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now and start harnessing the power of just making the

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decision and go okay, because that decision, that intention of

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I bet it all on me. I trust in me,

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I have the favor. I am the creator. I know

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I'm the operant power. I believe in myself. Just by

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doing that, you're already setting yourself up for the success

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that you're calling in because you're operating from your gut,

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knowing your gut knows the creator internally, the higher self knows,

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so it's sending you these impulses. Please go take action,

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Go do that, Go take that leap of faith. I'm

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gonna catch you. I swear I'm gonna catch you. I

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already have you tied up to a harness. I'm gonna

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it'll be like flying. You're gonna be soaring. You're gonna

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really feel like you're flying through the clouds when you

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take that leap. I'm not gonna let you go. So

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when you get these impulses, realize that calling is therefore

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a very specific reason. When you're being called to these

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very bold decisions. It's to benefit you. It's to get

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you to stop playing so small. It's to get you

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to leave the past version of you exactly where it

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is and move on from it. So when you get

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yourself to that decision, when you're on that cliff, when

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you're on the edge and you feel the rush and

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you feel the adrenaline, you're ready to go, but you

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want to talk your way out of it because the

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leap looks a little too far, it looks a little

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too scary, and you're not trusting in your ability to

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take the leap. I want you to just pause instead

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of running away from it and visualize the proper outcome.

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So before you're like, no, no, no, I can't create

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that content people are going to judge me. Or I

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can't start that business because people are gonna think I'm

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going to fail at it. Or I can't leave this

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relationship it's the only thing I've ever known, or I

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can't you take on a new identity because people are

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going to look at me and be like, who the

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fuck does she think she is? Right before you talk

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your way out of it, for whatever reason, whatever that

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fear is that surfaces before you make that leap, I

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want you to just pause and visualize the proper outcome,

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see the success of the decision. Okay, see the success,

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and allow that to kind of like take over your brain,

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take over your visualization, take over your subconscious mind, submerge

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yourself and it soak it up. And then once you're

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visualizing it and you're seeing the successful outcome, feel it.

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Be like Damn, this feels good, Damn, this feels powerful,

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This feels like the real me, This feels like the

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next logical step. This is the feeling of what is

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destined and lined up for me. I know this is

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my calling I know this is what I need to

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do and what I want, and I'm ready for it. Okay,

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So visualize it, feel it, submerge the subconscious mind in

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the outcome. Instead of worrying about how is it going

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to happen, just focus on the fact that it's already happened.

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And I think the reason that we don't take that

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leap is because we're using the energy in the wrong place.

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So we put all of our energy into operating from

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a state of fear rather than operating from a state

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of faith. Because if we were to operate from a

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state of faith, we would always be taking leaps. We

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would always be jumping over that cliff onto the next one. Right,

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we would always be just trusting ourselves. We like, just

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flying through life, just soaring, just making bold decisions, just

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having fun and traveling and opening up this business and

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buying that property and just doing all these really cool things. Right,

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if we were always led by faith, we would be

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living beautifully. Honestly, who else is there to trust in

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but yourself? But unfortunately, end the same amount of energy

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is used up to be living through the fear state,

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through being afraid, through being in worry, and being anxious

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about things, So we're always directing our folks into the

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wrong side of the pole. If there's a pole in

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front of you, one side is faith, one side is fear.

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Which side of the poll do you normally operate from?

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Which one are you sitting on? Because I think most

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people lend to lean on fear just because it's the

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common state to operate from, just because it's the state

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their parents operated from, just because it's a state that

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the world chooses to operate from. It's always fear, a

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lot of fear mongering. We turn on the news and

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it's always fear. Don't do this, don't do that. This

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is bad things that happen out there. Oh my god,

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no one's safe right and everything's crashing. The world is burning.

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So we are always kind of living through the state

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of fear, so we don't make the bold decisions for ourselves.

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But what we don't realize is nothing that has ever

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happened in the world matters based on what I'm trying

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to manifest, So the past does not dictate the future

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outcome of my vision. So the whole world could be

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burning and then I say, well, that's not going to

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affect my decision. I'm still going to do this right

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now because because of how I feel, because my higher

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self has led me to this. It's a knowing that

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I have inside of me. So I'm gonna make a

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bold decision, and I'm gonna start operating from faith and trust. Okay.

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Self trust is like it's right up there with high

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self love and just self adoration. Okay. When you trust yourself,

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you are in the knowing always. You're literally living through

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your knowing state twenty four seven. When you have self trust,

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the majority of people just simply do not trust themselves.

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Why is that? Why don't we trust ourselves? Who else

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in the world am I gonna trust? If not me?

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I'm gonna tell you why. The reason people dominantly cannot

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trust themselves is because they always break promises that they

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make to themselves, and then their confidence plummets. I'm gonna

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start the gym on Monday, and then they don't go.

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I'm gonna wake up early in the morning to start

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taking walks, and then they snooze their alarm clock. I'm

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gonna to buy healthy groceries and start meal prepping. They

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don't do it right. I'm going to start that side hustle.

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I'm gonna post content four times a week. The week comes,

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they don't show up for themselves. And what happens when

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you always let yourself down. You don't have any self trust,

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and you don't have self confidence. Your confidence freaking plummets.

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It plummets into like a dark hole and then into

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a fucking sinkhole beneath your feet. Your confidence is gone

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because you don't trust you. You cannot even keep a

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single promise to yourself. So you look around and you're like, damn,

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I'm just not good enough to do this. I'm not

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good enough to do that. I can't trust myself to

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do that. It's simply because you break promises to yourself,

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and that root cause of breaking promises to ourselves really

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is the foundation of why we live through fear, because

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we just always let ourselves down. So when we get

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to that cliff to make a bold decision, something that

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feels really good, something we're really excited about, something we

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wanted for a long time, and we can make a

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choice right now to make that work, but we always

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choose the mundane life that we already know instead of

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stepping into the unknown. It's just simply because the lack

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of self trust, the lack of self confidence normally because

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we've broken so many promises to ourselves over the years.

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So if I can maybe look at my life and

474
00:25:24,319 --> 00:25:26,279
start small and be like, Okay, what promise have I

475
00:25:26,319 --> 00:25:29,400
been breaking over and over? And it could be something small.

476
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,640
Let me stop breaking that promise and commit to it.

477
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:35,359
Start there, and then you can go into another promise

478
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:38,640
that you've broken to yourself. Repair that one. Start doing

479
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,039
that thing that you did promise yourself months ago or

480
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,599
years ago that you were going to start doing. Make

481
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:48,240
yourself proud, make yourself trust you, okay, develop a better

482
00:25:48,279 --> 00:25:53,200
relationship with yourself, don't let yourself down. You're worthy of

483
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,599
way more. You're worthy to do those things that you

484
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,920
may promise is about and get the outcome that you

485
00:25:58,039 --> 00:26:01,400
really really want, because ultimately that's why we make promises.

486
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,319
There's a certain outcome we desire. Okay, if I can

487
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:07,359
do this, maybe every month I find a new promise

488
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:10,839
that I've broken to myself and I act on it,

489
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:14,440
and I repair the trust within me. I repair the

490
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,279
trust that I have with me and my higher self.

491
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,359
I can start trusting in me. I can start making

492
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:25,160
bolder decisions bigger decisions, bigger moves, creating more impact on

493
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:27,480
my life right, so that when I do get myself

494
00:26:27,519 --> 00:26:29,720
on the edge of that cliff where I'm like, damn, this,

495
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:33,119
this decision can change my whole life. I can bet

496
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:36,000
it all on me, and I look back and I'm like, damn.

497
00:26:36,039 --> 00:26:40,319
I've been keeping promises to myself month after month after

498
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:43,079
month and increasing me. My life is feeling better. I'm

499
00:26:43,079 --> 00:26:46,519
getting more confident. I'm feeling better about who I am.

500
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:50,160
My emotions are improving. I see myself in the mirror

501
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:52,400
and I have a new glow about me, a new

502
00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:55,920
confidence about me, a new power that has come over me.

503
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,799
I'm not playing small anymore. I'm not a fucking dormat.

504
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:01,240
I'm not a people please I'm doing things for me

505
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:04,240
that feel good. I know how to say no to

506
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:07,079
other people and say no to things that don't feel good.

507
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:11,359
I'm learning how to trust me right. My confidence is

508
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:15,599
now skyrocketing. Now I feel fucking good. Now, I feel

509
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:17,799
like I'm hot shit. Now I feel like I got

510
00:27:17,839 --> 00:27:20,759
it in the bag. Now I feel like, damn, I

511
00:27:20,799 --> 00:27:24,079
am that bitch, like I am that girl who if

512
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,720
not me? And then who? Right? I start feeling better

513
00:27:27,799 --> 00:27:31,119
about who I am in my own skin, I develop

514
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:34,559
a new love for me and a higher level of

515
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:38,000
self worth. Now I know that when I get to

516
00:27:38,039 --> 00:27:40,839
the cliff and that decision has been waiting for me,

517
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:45,079
I'm taking a fucking leap because I'm strong enough and

518
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:46,960
I can bet it all on me, because I always

519
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,720
make it happen, and I can make the right decisions

520
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,319
for myself. I trust my gut instincts, I trust my

521
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,799
higher self, and most importantly, I trust me because I

522
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:59,680
know I'm gonna make it happen no matter what life

523
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,440
throws me. I know I got me because I always

524
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:06,160
have my back and I keep my promises to myself.

525
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,960
So if there's anyone in this world that I can trust,

526
00:28:10,039 --> 00:28:14,200
I need to turn inward and realize it's myself. When

527
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:17,440
you get to this point, you guys, you are unbreakable.

528
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:21,599
You are untouchable. You become one of those people who

529
00:28:21,839 --> 00:28:26,839
every every three months, your life is improving every three months, Right,

530
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:28,839
so every quarter of the year you're just better and

531
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:31,440
better and better. You're leaving people in the dirt. You're

532
00:28:31,519 --> 00:28:34,119
leaving people in the dust. They're looking at you like, God, damn,

533
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:39,400
what happened in this person? They're soaring, they're skyrocketing. They're there,

534
00:28:39,519 --> 00:28:42,839
they left that shitty relationship. Look at their high value

535
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,599
friendships that they're surrounding themselves. They're they're reading all the books,

536
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,559
they're taking power walks every day, they're going to the gym,

537
00:28:48,839 --> 00:28:51,559
they're reading, they're listening to the right podcast. They're they're

538
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:55,039
into personal development. They're launching a new business. Oh my god,

539
00:28:55,079 --> 00:28:57,400
did they just buy a new car? Did she just

540
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:00,680
get a new condo? Holy shit? What happened to this person?

541
00:29:01,599 --> 00:29:05,480
In six months, you're unrecognizable. In a year, people won't

542
00:29:05,519 --> 00:29:09,480
even know who you are anymore. That is how powerful

543
00:29:09,519 --> 00:29:11,920
you are when you can make these really bold decisions.

544
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:15,240
So every year you level up. Because I don't know

545
00:29:15,279 --> 00:29:18,240
about you, but I remember looking back and realizing every

546
00:29:18,319 --> 00:29:22,759
single year I lived looked the same because I never

547
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:26,359
was able to get myself to the cliff and actually

548
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:31,200
take a leap of faith on myself until recently. Right,

549
00:29:31,279 --> 00:29:35,680
So for decades, for nearly three decades, I couldn't make

550
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:39,480
the right decisions. I would always cower in fear and

551
00:29:39,599 --> 00:29:41,799
go backwards and be like no, no, no, no, I can't

552
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:45,359
then talk myself out of everything. You just get to

553
00:29:45,359 --> 00:29:47,559
a point where you're like, fuck it, fuck it. They're

554
00:29:47,599 --> 00:29:49,920
gonna love me or hate me anyway. I'll be judged anyway,

555
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:52,359
doesn't really matter. I should just do things that make

556
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:54,839
me happy. I should just make the decisions have feeled right.

557
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,279
I should just start to trust my gut. I should

558
00:29:57,279 --> 00:29:59,640
just start to show up for myself because it feels good.

559
00:30:00,519 --> 00:30:02,720
I should just be me and be authentic because it

560
00:30:02,799 --> 00:30:05,759
feels like who I am and what I'm destined for. Right,

561
00:30:06,799 --> 00:30:10,200
your whole life starts to change. Everything starts to change,

562
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:14,720
and you receive favor from the universe because you are

563
00:30:15,079 --> 00:30:20,039
your bold self. You are self trusting and self knowing

564
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:25,720
and living in your truth. You are unstoppable. You are unbreakable.

565
00:30:25,759 --> 00:30:29,799
You cannot be diminished, you cannot be forgotten. You're literally

566
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:34,720
too powerful to resist. You're too powerful to be rejected.

567
00:30:35,279 --> 00:30:39,400
Everyone is gonna want a piece of you, Okay, Every

568
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,759
opportunity is gonna start to show up and feel aligned.

569
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,599
It's gonna feel like, oh my god, I just took

570
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:51,440
a miracle pill. Everything I'm doing turns into a miracle.

571
00:30:51,519 --> 00:30:55,440
Everything I touch turns into a blessing. Every morning, where

572
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:58,279
when I open my eyes, it's like new opportunities start

573
00:30:58,319 --> 00:31:01,400
to welcome me and I keep making the best decisions

574
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:04,400
about them. Wow, it feels so fucking good to finally

575
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,440
trust myself and trust my gut and understand that I

576
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:12,160
am being led by my higher self and that is

577
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:17,599
why the universe will always favor the bold. Thank you

578
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:20,319
guys so much for tuning in again to this week's

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00:31:20,319 --> 00:31:23,599
episode of your Manifesting Bessie podcast, and we will be

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00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:28,480
back again next Wednesday with a brand new episode.