Speaker 1: This is tj Amanda and j Ron's.
Speaker 2: Second date update on kJ one O three Rachel and Okay,
see welcome to the second date update here.
Speaker 1: Rachel, Hi, Okay, you met the.
Speaker 2: Guy, that guy that's also looking for a relationship. That's
the guy but doesn't want to go on a second date.
So what's the whole story here, Rachel?
Speaker 3: Okay, So we met on a dating app and we
were both looking for a serious relationship like that was
both on our profile, okay, and we had a really
good first date. It was like the best connection and
that's super rare.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Sure, so I was one hundred percent like confident we
would be going out again. But then after the date,
his text started getting like really weird. He kept making
big comments about.
Speaker 1: Me being divorced. Now, let me ask you a question,
m did he know, oh, you were divorced when you
went on the date?
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I put it.
Speaker 3: On my profile.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, okay, okay, so maybe that's not it. Okay, weird,
I don't know.
Speaker 3: No, I never had the divorce part. I'm not going
to talk about.
Speaker 2: It all the time.
Speaker 4: It's been five years, so.
Speaker 3: It's not like something that I'm always like, might have ours,
you know, but he basically stopped talking to me, and
I think we were like a really good match.
Speaker 4: And the dating world is really really.
Speaker 3: Rough right now, so another date would be great or
just knowing why anyways, I'm.
Speaker 2: Just okay, I don't know what's going on unless he
found someone that hasn't been divorced and he's like, well,
I don't know, it might be I don't know what
he I don't know what he say.
Speaker 1: What's with the divorce comments?
Speaker 2: If you already knew she was divorced, and you're right
if you if you feel you have a match in
this data, and then we'll see what's going on with
Ethan for the second date update, kJ went O three,
tj Amanda, Jay Rod in the morning the.
Speaker 1: Second date update with tj Amanda and.
Speaker 2: J Rod on kJ three got Ethan on the second
date update. Hi ethanthan Hey, how are you a little confused?
Actually went on the State with Rachel and both looking
for a serious relationship and she felt really good about it.
And then she said in the text after the date,
you were making some big comments about her divorce. What
she said was in her profile, so what I.
Speaker 1: Knew she was divorced. What I didn't know was that
she was divorced twice.
Speaker 3: And look, I don't know whither of her husbands.
Speaker 2: And all that, but I know that the common denominator
in both of those marriages was Rachel. So that makes
you think, makes you think, what, like it's it's her fall.
Speaker 1: Wait, Rachel, come Rachel.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm going to need you to explain how
you know me well enough to make that conclusion. So
you were married twice and divorced twice. Maybe I made
the mistake of marrying two jerks in a row, which
you didn't know the full story, and one of them
cheated on me, by the way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, how is it her fault?
Speaker 1: If the guys were the reason.
Speaker 3: Then maybe you're just bad at picking men.
Speaker 1: Oh maybe yeah, maybe.
Speaker 3: Or maybe you just jump into marriage too quickly.
Speaker 4: Or maybe I just trusted men that did me.
Speaker 3: Wrong and I'm trying to find a good guy. I mean,
either way, two divorces just a pattern. I mean, that
is so insulting. Even yeah, I'm not trying to insult you, And.
Speaker 4: It's just like you're just like out there just sleeping
around with the Bazilian girls. At least I was in
too stable marriages, two relationships that I made work. You
don't even look.
Speaker 3: At the positive.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, I mean, divorce me twice.
Speaker 3: Shame on you.
Speaker 2: Wow?
Speaker 4: I mean what you're judging.
Speaker 3: Me for things you know nothing about.
Speaker 1: I'm not here to judge. I just it sounds like
you judge it.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I just don't want to be your third divorce.
Speaker 3: Good because you're not going to even be my third marriage?
Speaker 4: Are you kidding me?
Speaker 1: All right? I'm good with that.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: Gross, this is gross.
Speaker 2: Okay, Ethan, we appreciate you coming on. Thanks for coming on.
Speaker 3: The second, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Rachel, you're twice divorced. The amount of times
really shouldn't matter, but you're twice divorced and people think, okay,
I mean, what's wrong with her? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Is this sometimes yes, but they don't know.
Speaker 3: The circumstance is I was a mistake. It was a
very short marriage, and then one was longer and anyways.
Speaker 4: It's a long story, all of it is.
Speaker 3: All relationships are.
Speaker 4: But it's just unfair. I've heard it before, and it's
like the second people here twice divorce, they decide your
damage are broken or.
Speaker 3: The problem, not twice that you found two relationships that
might have been successful. Right, and he doesn't know anything.
Speaker 4: Nobody does. It's like, I can't give you the full
history breakdown.
Speaker 3: You're not a counselor, right, you give too much information.
Speaker 1: That's a problem.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, sorry, this happens to you, and it happens
a lot, and you know, we don't know the story,
so I don't think we can judge. Thanks for coming
on the second date update.
Speaker 1: Well, good luck?
Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks guys.
Speaker 1: All right, I want I don't know four or five, six,
one or two.
Speaker 2: Seventy you want to chime in on this second day.
It was kind of a matter. I mean, maybe someone
who's never been married is like, guys, two divorces, may
that's more than I want to deal with or whatever else.
Speaker 1: But to say, well, it must be your fault.
Speaker 2: If you're divorced twice, then common you know, I mean
common denominators. I believe in the common denominator theory, but
I don't think it always it always.
Speaker 1: I don't know that it applies here. She explained it
so well.
Speaker 2: The person that always gets kicked off the baseball team,
and what's the common denominator?
Speaker 1: The person that's always fired.
Speaker 2: What's the common denominator but you? But it's not always
the circumstance. It's just I'm talking into a corner. You
call it.
Speaker 1: Tell me what you think. Four five for six L
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