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Speaker 1: This is tj Amanda and j Ron's.

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Speaker 2: Second date update on kJ one O three Rachel and Okay,

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see welcome to the second date update here.

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Speaker 1: Rachel, Hi, Okay, you met the.

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Speaker 2: Guy, that guy that's also looking for a relationship. That's

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the guy but doesn't want to go on a second date.

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So what's the whole story here, Rachel?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So we met on a dating app and we

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were both looking for a serious relationship like that was

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both on our profile, okay, and we had a really

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good first date. It was like the best connection and

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that's super rare.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Sure, so I was one hundred percent like confident we

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would be going out again. But then after the date,

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his text started getting like really weird. He kept making

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big comments about.

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Speaker 1: Me being divorced. Now, let me ask you a question,

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m did he know, oh, you were divorced when you

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went on the date?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because I put it.

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Speaker 3: On my profile.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, okay, okay, so maybe that's not it. Okay, weird,

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I don't know.

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Speaker 3: No, I never had the divorce part. I'm not going

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to talk about.

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Speaker 2: It all the time.

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Speaker 4: It's been five years, so.

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Speaker 3: It's not like something that I'm always like, might have ours,

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you know, but he basically stopped talking to me, and

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I think we were like a really good match.

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Speaker 4: And the dating world is really really.

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Speaker 3: Rough right now, so another date would be great or

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just knowing why anyways, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Just okay, I don't know what's going on unless he

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found someone that hasn't been divorced and he's like, well,

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I don't know, it might be I don't know what

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he I don't know what he say.

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Speaker 1: What's with the divorce comments?

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Speaker 2: If you already knew she was divorced, and you're right

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if you if you feel you have a match in

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this data, and then we'll see what's going on with

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Ethan for the second date update, kJ went O three,

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tj Amanda, Jay Rod in the morning the.

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Speaker 1: Second date update with tj Amanda and.

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Speaker 2: J Rod on kJ three got Ethan on the second

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date update. Hi ethanthan Hey, how are you a little confused?

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Actually went on the State with Rachel and both looking

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for a serious relationship and she felt really good about it.

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And then she said in the text after the date,

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you were making some big comments about her divorce. What

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she said was in her profile, so what I.

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Speaker 1: Knew she was divorced. What I didn't know was that

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she was divorced twice.

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Speaker 3: And look, I don't know whither of her husbands.

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Speaker 2: And all that, but I know that the common denominator

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in both of those marriages was Rachel. So that makes

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you think, makes you think, what, like it's it's her fall.

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Speaker 1: Wait, Rachel, come Rachel.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm going to need you to explain how

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you know me well enough to make that conclusion. So

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you were married twice and divorced twice. Maybe I made

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the mistake of marrying two jerks in a row, which

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you didn't know the full story, and one of them

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cheated on me, by the way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, how is it her fault?

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Speaker 1: If the guys were the reason.

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Speaker 3: Then maybe you're just bad at picking men.

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Speaker 1: Oh maybe yeah, maybe.

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Speaker 3: Or maybe you just jump into marriage too quickly.

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Speaker 4: Or maybe I just trusted men that did me.

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Speaker 3: Wrong and I'm trying to find a good guy. I mean,

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either way, two divorces just a pattern. I mean, that

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is so insulting. Even yeah, I'm not trying to insult you, And.

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Speaker 4: It's just like you're just like out there just sleeping

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around with the Bazilian girls. At least I was in

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too stable marriages, two relationships that I made work. You

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don't even look.

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Speaker 3: At the positive.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, I mean, divorce me twice.

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Speaker 3: Shame on you.

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 4: I mean what you're judging.

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Speaker 3: Me for things you know nothing about.

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Speaker 1: I'm not here to judge. I just it sounds like

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you judge it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I just don't want to be your third divorce.

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Speaker 3: Good because you're not going to even be my third marriage?

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Speaker 4: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: All right? I'm good with that.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Gross, this is gross.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Ethan, we appreciate you coming on. Thanks for coming on.

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Speaker 3: The second, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Rachel, you're twice divorced. The amount of times

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really shouldn't matter, but you're twice divorced and people think, okay,

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I mean, what's wrong with her? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Is this sometimes yes, but they don't know.

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Speaker 3: The circumstance is I was a mistake. It was a

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very short marriage, and then one was longer and anyways.

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Speaker 4: It's a long story, all of it is.

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Speaker 3: All relationships are.

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Speaker 4: But it's just unfair. I've heard it before, and it's

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like the second people here twice divorce, they decide your

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damage are broken or.

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Speaker 3: The problem, not twice that you found two relationships that

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might have been successful. Right, and he doesn't know anything.

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Speaker 4: Nobody does. It's like, I can't give you the full

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history breakdown.

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Speaker 3: You're not a counselor, right, you give too much information.

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Speaker 1: That's a problem.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, sorry, this happens to you, and it happens

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a lot, and you know, we don't know the story,

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so I don't think we can judge. Thanks for coming

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on the second date update.

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Speaker 1: Well, good luck?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks guys.

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Speaker 1: All right, I want I don't know four or five, six,

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one or two.

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Speaker 2: Seventy you want to chime in on this second day.

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It was kind of a matter. I mean, maybe someone

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who's never been married is like, guys, two divorces, may

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that's more than I want to deal with or whatever else.

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Speaker 1: But to say, well, it must be your fault.

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Speaker 2: If you're divorced twice, then common you know, I mean

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common denominators. I believe in the common denominator theory, but

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I don't think it always it always.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that it applies here. She explained it

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so well.

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Speaker 2: The person that always gets kicked off the baseball team,

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and what's the common denominator?

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Speaker 1: The person that's always fired.

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Speaker 2: What's the common denominator but you? But it's not always

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the circumstance. It's just I'm talking into a corner. You

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call it.

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Speaker 1: Tell me what you think. Four five for six L

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one O two seven