WEBVTT 1 00:00:04.799 --> 00:00:34.320 Calling All Beings, y'all, can I get an. 2 00:00:37.600 --> 00:00:42.159 For everybody in the free care read community. 3 00:00:44.119 --> 00:00:47.399 Welcome back to Calling All Beings. I'm your host, DJ. 4 00:00:47.640 --> 00:00:50.880 Oh my god, all plause is so loud. Luckily I'm 5 00:00:50.920 --> 00:00:55.200 controlling that. Good evening, everybody. I'm your host DJ, and man, 6 00:00:55.359 --> 00:01:00.320 I'll tell you what. I just left work about thirty 7 00:01:00.520 --> 00:01:04.040 five minutes before showtime, and now I have to transition 8 00:01:04.200 --> 00:01:07.120 my brain from space for us to free Karen Reid 9 00:01:07.519 --> 00:01:11.040 and what we're facing tonight. But together with you, I'm 10 00:01:11.040 --> 00:01:14.239 not gonna have a problem doing that because you're here. 11 00:01:14.560 --> 00:01:17.400 If you weren't here, I would just be a giggle 12 00:01:17.519 --> 00:01:21.439 of mess. Right now, my homegirl Beatrice is on with 13 00:01:22.439 --> 00:01:26.079 Oh man, she's on a show. I'm trying to remember 14 00:01:26.159 --> 00:01:31.040 if it's Tracy and the other folks. So yeah, uh yeah, 15 00:01:31.079 --> 00:01:33.359 so yeah. The reason I'm wearing the tie diet tonight. 16 00:01:33.439 --> 00:01:35.640 I want you guys to think Woodstock. I want you 17 00:01:35.760 --> 00:01:37.519 to think peace. What's up? Homes? 18 00:01:38.280 --> 00:01:43.719 Yeah, Deeparah homes from Franklin, mess home of Dean College. 19 00:01:44.120 --> 00:01:46.920 All right, let's get everybody. Let's say hello to everybody 20 00:01:46.920 --> 00:01:50.040 before we even get any further. All right, the jewel 21 00:01:50.120 --> 00:01:52.879 is in the house, No, Jewel, I haven't figured out 22 00:01:52.959 --> 00:01:55.319 why I can't pin this to the top of the chat. 23 00:01:55.760 --> 00:01:58.319 I don't know if you mods are seeing three dots 24 00:01:58.359 --> 00:02:01.359 to the side of your thing here where you could 25 00:02:02.200 --> 00:02:04.760 if I, oh, let me unstart it. But if you 26 00:02:05.000 --> 00:02:08.919 see three dots there when you click on this tweet 27 00:02:09.199 --> 00:02:12.879 like the free Karen read, you may be able to 28 00:02:12.879 --> 00:02:14.879 have an option to pin this to the top of 29 00:02:14.919 --> 00:02:18.000 the chat. So let me know, mods, okay, if you 30 00:02:18.039 --> 00:02:20.639 can do that, and if not, Oh boy, I did 31 00:02:20.639 --> 00:02:24.599 it once, I think, but oh boy, gobble gobble gobble, yes, yes, yes, 32 00:02:25.520 --> 00:02:29.840 uh yeah, we have all the wrenches here tonight. Sherryd 33 00:02:30.080 --> 00:02:33.919 is here, Kelly's here? Uh oh, Dennis Sweeney in the 34 00:02:34.080 --> 00:02:37.400 damn building? What's up, Dennis? I just try to call 35 00:02:37.439 --> 00:02:42.400 you through through Twitter and then they have an audio function. 36 00:02:42.520 --> 00:02:44.199 I tried to call you because of the fact that 37 00:02:44.599 --> 00:02:48.520 I don't have your phone number. So so yeah, so Kelly, 38 00:02:49.400 --> 00:02:53.560 Sherry's here, Deborah, what's up? Homes from Franklin? Who? Man? 39 00:02:53.759 --> 00:02:56.000 I cannot wait to come back to Franklin, Debra. I 40 00:02:56.039 --> 00:02:59.879 can't tell you. It makes me feel so good just 41 00:03:00.199 --> 00:03:04.479 being in Franklin. It makes me feel wonderful. All right, 42 00:03:05.199 --> 00:03:13.159 so uh, space for a man, all right. So I'm 43 00:03:13.199 --> 00:03:17.280 wearing this as woodstock as a sign of peace and unity. 44 00:03:17.360 --> 00:03:19.599 Is why I wore this shirt tonight. You guys have 45 00:03:19.719 --> 00:03:23.400 seen it before. But oh okay, so that's resistance to silence. 46 00:03:23.879 --> 00:03:26.599 I thought that was the Tracy and Dana, thank you 47 00:03:26.639 --> 00:03:30.479 so much. That's where you can see Jen and Beatriz 48 00:03:31.240 --> 00:03:33.159 there are a lot more pleasant to look at than 49 00:03:33.199 --> 00:03:38.000 I am. But such as life. So we came to 50 00:03:38.159 --> 00:03:43.400 talk about the community and the drama that unfolded and 51 00:03:43.520 --> 00:03:47.680 try to together come up with a framework that I 52 00:03:47.840 --> 00:03:53.879 think can help what's happened. Perhaps, And that's a big 53 00:03:54.360 --> 00:04:00.280 that's a big maybe, right because we have hurt feeling 54 00:04:00.960 --> 00:04:04.879 and we have harsh words that have been exchanged. Can't 55 00:04:04.879 --> 00:04:08.520 do it, DJ, I don't know, Yeah, thank you, thank you, Jules. 56 00:04:08.520 --> 00:04:12.800 I don't know why. Uh, because when I click it, 57 00:04:12.800 --> 00:04:15.639 it doesn't have that it doesn't give me that option. 58 00:04:16.560 --> 00:04:20.399 So I'm gonna end up. I'm gonna end up. Hey, 59 00:04:20.639 --> 00:04:27.160 look at that. Hey, Ken Hathaway from Nottingham is here. Hello, Ken, 60 00:04:28.319 --> 00:04:31.040 one love to mister missus Sweeney and Rita of course 61 00:04:31.680 --> 00:04:36.879 and bach fa one foe. Hey you like me now? 62 00:04:36.920 --> 00:04:41.240 Homegirl and look at that all the way from Manchester 63 00:04:42.120 --> 00:04:43.879 in the north of England. 64 00:04:44.399 --> 00:04:53.160 Manchester, Christine Mitchell. Hello, I am well and I'm happy 65 00:04:53.199 --> 00:04:56.040 to be here with you. Guys. I love you too, 66 00:04:56.199 --> 00:04:58.639 love you to, I love man. There's so much love 67 00:04:58.680 --> 00:05:01.759 in this chat man that you can't you can't but 68 00:05:01.920 --> 00:05:05.279 be like super excited. If you're on Twitter and you 69 00:05:05.319 --> 00:05:08.759 want to tweet out this YouTube, that would be really awesome. 70 00:05:09.519 --> 00:05:11.399 If you want to hit the like button, that would 71 00:05:11.399 --> 00:05:18.120 also be awesome. Cello, I love Yello. Sherry's a New 72 00:05:18.199 --> 00:05:18.959 Yorker like me. 73 00:05:19.680 --> 00:05:23.160 So oh and look we got the fourth modern here, 74 00:05:24.160 --> 00:05:30.720 Jessica and bzy miss Jessica, and oh my goodness. 75 00:05:30.680 --> 00:05:32.079 The legend. 76 00:05:33.759 --> 00:05:43.120 Terry Robbins. Hi, Terry Robbins, how already love my new friend. 77 00:05:44.720 --> 00:05:47.240 Happy Thanksgiving to you, ma'am. I'm gonna be happy to 78 00:05:48.079 --> 00:05:49.600 get out of that turkey tomorrow. 79 00:05:50.160 --> 00:05:52.480 Yeah. If you would hit the like button, if you 80 00:05:52.600 --> 00:05:55.160 are watching on YouTube and you would want to share 81 00:05:55.199 --> 00:05:58.000 this on Twitter, that would be really awesome of you 82 00:05:59.319 --> 00:06:03.360 and hashti ad free Karen Reid as you do that. Okay, 83 00:06:03.720 --> 00:06:05.839 so I guess we can start to talk about this, 84 00:06:06.000 --> 00:06:10.040 and please if you would chime in with your thoughts 85 00:06:10.040 --> 00:06:14.000 on what I'm saying, and then we'll go from there. 86 00:06:14.079 --> 00:06:18.079 Probably we're only gonna do an hour tonight. That's probably 87 00:06:18.120 --> 00:06:20.720 all we'll need to get through this. Uh but yeah, 88 00:06:20.720 --> 00:06:27.800 everybody's saying hello to everybody. Christine Mitchell, Terry and Cherry 89 00:06:27.879 --> 00:06:31.639 Dezy Cherry Dee also known as Shrry Dizzel. All right, 90 00:06:31.759 --> 00:06:37.319 so here we go, So just real quickly. Obviously everybody 91 00:06:37.399 --> 00:06:41.639 is quite aware that there was obviously a gala that 92 00:06:42.199 --> 00:06:45.680 a lot of the content creators came out for. Melnie 93 00:06:47.199 --> 00:06:50.800 flew in or drove in from Nueva York. Obviously the 94 00:06:50.800 --> 00:06:53.600 Glare flew in again and has been there even since 95 00:06:53.639 --> 00:06:57.800 today and went to Coot and Michael Moyers's got Yeah 96 00:06:58.199 --> 00:07:04.720 and Notholk, you know, obviously Turtle Boy, Kim Mark Betteroh, 97 00:07:06.319 --> 00:07:09.240 you know, one of us, Mizzy was there. There was 98 00:07:09.240 --> 00:07:12.680 a number of people there, and obviously there's a lot 99 00:07:12.720 --> 00:07:15.720 of people that deserve to be there that weren't there. 100 00:07:16.519 --> 00:07:19.560 I am not one of those people much as any 101 00:07:19.600 --> 00:07:22.199 one of us. So let's let's kind of start to 102 00:07:22.240 --> 00:07:29.959 deconstruct this and then we'll put it back together. Every everyone. Yeah, man, 103 00:07:30.000 --> 00:07:33.279 there's there was so much love. Yeah, put something in 104 00:07:33.399 --> 00:07:36.879 caps if you want to talk to me or or 105 00:07:37.240 --> 00:07:39.439 or share an idea with me. But yeah, everybody just 106 00:07:39.519 --> 00:07:42.720 loved Terry and the other beautiful ladies the other night. 107 00:07:42.800 --> 00:07:46.759 You guys just really Terry. I mean the amount of 108 00:07:46.879 --> 00:07:49.839 views we had. We had something like thirty seven hundred 109 00:07:49.920 --> 00:07:54.959 views the next day after y'all's episode. So you just, guys, 110 00:07:55.160 --> 00:07:58.879 really really wowed the people who are fans of calling 111 00:07:58.920 --> 00:08:04.639 all beings And I thank you for that, okay, uh, 112 00:08:04.680 --> 00:08:07.560 And I know everybody is so friendly hare. I just 113 00:08:07.600 --> 00:08:10.519 love you guys. You are totally the the CAV audience 114 00:08:10.560 --> 00:08:13.879 that I would hope for. So let's go. So we 115 00:08:13.920 --> 00:08:17.720 had the gala and then there this morning. I'm very 116 00:08:17.759 --> 00:08:22.000 fortunate to have spoken with one of the organizers of 117 00:08:22.040 --> 00:08:25.279 the event. Yesterday after work, I got to speak with 118 00:08:25.319 --> 00:08:28.240 one of the organized guys who helped organize that event, 119 00:08:30.319 --> 00:08:33.320 the Queen of Dean you not kidding say it again, 120 00:08:33.440 --> 00:08:37.159 Sherry Dean, the Queen of Dean, Terry Robbins. Can I 121 00:08:37.200 --> 00:08:47.879 get a man? All right? So so I spoke with 122 00:08:47.919 --> 00:08:50.320 one of the organizers. I got to speak with someone 123 00:08:50.840 --> 00:08:56.519 who was an attendee in Scott McGinnis and then this morning, Uh, 124 00:08:56.639 --> 00:09:00.279 somebody from the area shared with me what some of 125 00:09:00.320 --> 00:09:04.840 the dialogue was between our friend Aidan Turtle Boy and 126 00:09:04.919 --> 00:09:09.320 our other friend Rita Lombardi and Rita I only know 127 00:09:09.440 --> 00:09:11.159 I got to meet her at the Halloween party. She 128 00:09:11.200 --> 00:09:14.679 has absolutely no idea who I am, which is fine 129 00:09:14.720 --> 00:09:17.440 and she shouldn't know who I am. Hey, Carrie B 130 00:09:18.159 --> 00:09:20.919 Welcome to a new a new and Hi Carrie. Actually 131 00:09:20.919 --> 00:09:22.679 I think you have been here, but not in a while, 132 00:09:23.080 --> 00:09:26.440 so correct me if I'm wrong on that. Carrie. I'm 133 00:09:26.440 --> 00:09:28.279 gonna just get a drink of water because, like I said, 134 00:09:28.279 --> 00:09:29.960 I'm just out of work, woof down a little bit 135 00:09:30.000 --> 00:09:44.120 of food. So so you have those two that went 136 00:09:44.159 --> 00:09:46.399 at it a little bit, And this is what I 137 00:09:46.399 --> 00:09:50.200 would want to say to both parties, both content creators 138 00:09:50.240 --> 00:09:55.679 who were in attendance and folks that should have been 139 00:09:55.720 --> 00:09:58.519 invited and we're not. And you can argue whether they 140 00:09:58.519 --> 00:10:03.399 should have been invited or not. We're talking about, you know, essentially, 141 00:10:03.399 --> 00:10:06.039 who deserve to be invited. People that are going to 142 00:10:06.080 --> 00:10:09.720 the standouts and that are warriors for this movement that 143 00:10:09.919 --> 00:10:15.879 show up. Uh yeah, yes, yeah, yes, I know I've 144 00:10:15.879 --> 00:10:17.720 seen you before. It's just been a while, Thank you 145 00:10:17.840 --> 00:10:19.559 very much, and the same to you. Love. If I 146 00:10:19.559 --> 00:10:21.519 could make that symbol and make it look good, I 147 00:10:21.519 --> 00:10:27.159 don't know. So there were hurt feelings obviously on both 148 00:10:27.200 --> 00:10:31.120 sides of this, and understandably so. And I think that's 149 00:10:31.159 --> 00:10:38.200 the key word here, is that we have to as humans. 150 00:10:38.879 --> 00:10:40.960 And then you know, you learn this in yoga training 151 00:10:41.159 --> 00:10:47.480 exactly is that is to create open up space, is 152 00:10:47.799 --> 00:10:52.279 to open up space for people that disagree. So if 153 00:10:52.320 --> 00:10:55.879 I'm an attendee of that event and I'm a content creator, 154 00:10:56.320 --> 00:11:00.600 and obviously I'm extremely excited, Yeah and and yeah, they 155 00:11:00.600 --> 00:11:03.240 said it was mainly family. You can parse this out 156 00:11:03.279 --> 00:11:05.879 any way you want to write. What I'm saying is 157 00:11:05.879 --> 00:11:10.480 that if you is not, I'm not trying to make 158 00:11:10.519 --> 00:11:13.000 an excuse for one side or the other. Oh, it 159 00:11:13.039 --> 00:11:16.720 was mainly family, and therefore you have to be understanding. No, 160 00:11:16.879 --> 00:11:19.639 you don't necessarily have to. We have to open up 161 00:11:19.679 --> 00:11:30.759 space for people to feel differently. Okay, So you have 162 00:11:31.559 --> 00:11:37.240 a hello Dennis Sweeney. As I was saying earlier, Dennis, 163 00:11:37.480 --> 00:11:40.039 I tried to call you on Twitter because I don't 164 00:11:40.039 --> 00:11:42.960 have your phone number. I was unsuccessful in doing so, 165 00:11:43.000 --> 00:11:48.399 but I wanted to touch base with you, Yes, exactly. Yeah, 166 00:11:48.440 --> 00:11:50.960 if I didn't announce you, it's just because I'm talking 167 00:11:51.039 --> 00:11:53.840 and I have to digress in order to say hello. 168 00:11:53.879 --> 00:11:55.519 But I love the fact that every one of you 169 00:11:55.679 --> 00:11:58.360 is here. So yeah, I tried to call Dennis because 170 00:11:58.360 --> 00:12:01.600 I wanted to hear his perspective before going on air, 171 00:12:01.639 --> 00:12:04.399 because I've been working on Space Force all day and 172 00:12:04.440 --> 00:12:07.759 then I have to immediately drive home in thirty minutes 173 00:12:07.840 --> 00:12:10.440 and get on air and speak about free Karen Reid. 174 00:12:10.639 --> 00:12:13.240 But believe you me, when I get a break and 175 00:12:13.279 --> 00:12:15.799 I can get to my cell phone, I am always 176 00:12:15.919 --> 00:12:19.440 checking in to see what's happening with you guys, what's 177 00:12:19.480 --> 00:12:23.799 happening in Canton, what's happening at standouts, all these kinds 178 00:12:23.799 --> 00:12:27.600 of things. I'm always checking in, and I'm always wanting 179 00:12:28.000 --> 00:12:30.679 to see that you're okay and know how you're feeling. 180 00:12:31.399 --> 00:12:33.879 So I did get to speak with Scott who spoke 181 00:12:33.919 --> 00:12:37.399 with Dennis. Thank you, brother. I appreciate that Dennis. I 182 00:12:37.440 --> 00:12:39.879 did get to speak with Scott who spoke with Dennis. 183 00:12:41.279 --> 00:12:43.399 And there are a lot of people like Dennis that 184 00:12:43.480 --> 00:12:47.679 should have been invited. Frankly, but now gets to the 185 00:12:47.759 --> 00:12:50.960 part of not that we feel the way we feel, 186 00:12:51.039 --> 00:12:55.720 we're allowed to feel how we feel. The issue is 187 00:12:55.759 --> 00:13:01.279 to open up space that someone feels or views this 188 00:13:01.360 --> 00:13:05.799 situation through a different lens and from a different perspective. 189 00:13:06.720 --> 00:13:10.159 So for the content creators there obviously feel that. Look, 190 00:13:10.600 --> 00:13:13.639 this was mostly family. There was only a smattering of 191 00:13:13.679 --> 00:13:17.240 content creators there. Out of the two hundred people, we 192 00:13:17.240 --> 00:13:22.440 were a very very small percentage. This was organized. I'm 193 00:13:22.480 --> 00:13:24.159 not going to say who was organized by. I know 194 00:13:24.200 --> 00:13:26.759 one of the people. I'm not going to necessarily name 195 00:13:27.240 --> 00:13:30.080 that person if they're if their name is not out there, 196 00:13:30.360 --> 00:13:35.240 but I spoke with one of them, and they invited. 197 00:13:35.440 --> 00:13:40.039 It was based as a fundraiser. Now, does that I 198 00:13:40.080 --> 00:13:44.200 also think that these folks from Canton that stand out 199 00:13:44.240 --> 00:13:48.159 that they should have been invited. Is it my right 200 00:13:48.240 --> 00:13:51.559 to say that? Do they have a right to feel differently? Absolutely? 201 00:13:52.200 --> 00:13:57.759 Is somebody wrong here? No, nobody's wrong. And so the 202 00:13:57.799 --> 00:14:01.080 content creators are are saying that, and I I understand 203 00:14:01.120 --> 00:14:04.000 and respect that. And I'm gonna tell you I want 204 00:14:04.240 --> 00:14:08.000 you to I want you to listen to this show 205 00:14:09.080 --> 00:14:15.320 through the filter of I have not watched Brian Ltl's 206 00:14:15.360 --> 00:14:18.480 coverage on this. I have not watched Mike's coverage on this. 207 00:14:19.039 --> 00:14:22.200 I have not watched Kim's coverage on this, or Turtle 208 00:14:22.200 --> 00:14:25.480 Boy's coverage or anybody's coverage on this. These are my 209 00:14:25.799 --> 00:14:30.440 organic thoughts, having spoken with Scott and gotten his perspective 210 00:14:30.840 --> 00:14:35.559 for nearly an hour and forty five minutes, having spoken 211 00:14:35.679 --> 00:14:39.960 with one of the organizers, having spoke with other people 212 00:14:40.000 --> 00:14:44.799 who are standout warriors, and then hearing their thoughts. So 213 00:14:45.279 --> 00:14:47.200 that's where I'm coming to you from. I have not 214 00:14:47.440 --> 00:14:52.080 consumed one minute of someone else's content that I am 215 00:14:52.440 --> 00:14:55.879 responding to. I am not responding to anybody's content. I 216 00:14:55.879 --> 00:14:58.840 am only responding to the little bit of information that 217 00:14:58.840 --> 00:15:01.679 I've been given and what I'd like to encourage us 218 00:15:01.720 --> 00:15:04.480 all to do, because we're all a family here, and 219 00:15:04.519 --> 00:15:06.080 I'm going to post this in the chat. We are 220 00:15:06.120 --> 00:15:14.720 the hashtag FK are family here, we are one hundred 221 00:15:15.240 --> 00:15:19.360 there we go okay, So we are the free care 222 00:15:19.360 --> 00:15:24.399 and read family, and families will have disagreements and arguments 223 00:15:23.720 --> 00:15:29.879 and fights and and say DJ DJ DJ, trying let 224 00:15:29.879 --> 00:15:32.519 me see what Cherry has to say, because Cherry's really 225 00:15:32.600 --> 00:15:36.320 really smart, trying to explain helping people not to feel 226 00:15:36.399 --> 00:15:39.480 left out, helping people not to feel less important, as 227 00:15:39.639 --> 00:15:42.200 all are important in this movement. And that's that's one 228 00:15:42.279 --> 00:15:45.080 hundred percent right. So what are we doing about that? 229 00:15:45.240 --> 00:15:48.039 So let me talk about what we're doing. We're going 230 00:15:48.120 --> 00:15:51.759 to have in fk our dinner. We are going to 231 00:15:51.879 --> 00:15:57.879 have some stars there. I have. I don't want to 232 00:15:58.000 --> 00:16:01.399 name them and put them on blast, but I have 233 00:16:02.200 --> 00:16:05.720 a couple of stars confirmed. One is a maybe, and 234 00:16:05.759 --> 00:16:09.519 I've reached out to two others today after getting word 235 00:16:10.039 --> 00:16:14.080 early this morning at five point forty from someone in 236 00:16:14.200 --> 00:16:19.600 town about how people were feeling. So this dinner that 237 00:16:19.600 --> 00:16:25.440 we're setting up, I can only book two tables at 238 00:16:25.559 --> 00:16:31.080 the Tavern on the Square, January twelfth, at six thirty 239 00:16:31.120 --> 00:16:36.279 pm in Debtum. Now why is that? The reason is because, 240 00:16:37.120 --> 00:16:41.039 thank you, Kelly Love. The reason is because they would 241 00:16:41.039 --> 00:16:44.919 only without me booking a room which included service charges, 242 00:16:44.960 --> 00:16:49.000 which includes a buffet, food and a per head amount 243 00:16:49.080 --> 00:16:51.480 and all this kind of stuff, I was able to 244 00:16:51.480 --> 00:16:54.519 book two tables of ten. And beyond that, I would 245 00:16:54.559 --> 00:16:57.159 like to invite people to come and book a table 246 00:16:57.399 --> 00:17:01.480 and join us, and we'll all gather together and mill 247 00:17:01.559 --> 00:17:05.480 about and intermingle with one another, and I will get 248 00:17:05.519 --> 00:17:08.839 as many of the stars there as I can, as 249 00:17:08.920 --> 00:17:12.039 we'll say as to me. Essentially, I'm not going to 250 00:17:12.079 --> 00:17:15.039 put their names out there because I don't want to. 251 00:17:16.000 --> 00:17:18.119 I don't want to put them on blast in case 252 00:17:18.160 --> 00:17:21.319 they can't come. We don't know if they're going to 253 00:17:21.359 --> 00:17:24.480 be able to come. Yes, our friends from the UK 254 00:17:25.160 --> 00:17:32.039 who stay up, stay up late. We love it, so okay, 255 00:17:32.480 --> 00:17:34.440 So that's what we're going to do. I also want 256 00:17:34.480 --> 00:17:37.200 to say to you that this is not the last 257 00:17:37.240 --> 00:17:39.839 one that we're going to do. This is the first 258 00:17:39.920 --> 00:17:43.519 one we're going to do. And perhaps we'll wait a quarter, 259 00:17:43.759 --> 00:17:46.400 you know, like three months, and we'll do another one 260 00:17:46.960 --> 00:17:50.720 and I will fly back from Colorado in order to 261 00:17:50.799 --> 00:17:53.359 join you at that. I also plan on being at 262 00:17:53.359 --> 00:17:59.319 the Standout as well on that Sunday, January twelfth, and 263 00:17:59.359 --> 00:18:02.240 then go to the dinner. Part of it is going 264 00:18:02.319 --> 00:18:04.880 to be I might have to get somebody to pick 265 00:18:04.960 --> 00:18:08.400 up brit because Britt is going to come in around 266 00:18:08.480 --> 00:18:10.960 eleven or so from Florida, and I'm afraid I would 267 00:18:10.960 --> 00:18:13.400 miss I don't know if I'm going to miss the Standout, 268 00:18:14.519 --> 00:18:16.960 so because I'm going to be coming from New York 269 00:18:17.039 --> 00:18:23.839 over to Massachusetts, so I'm going to endeavor to organize 270 00:18:23.839 --> 00:18:30.960 this dinner and more dinners and whereby us, you know, 271 00:18:31.119 --> 00:18:35.119 fans of the content creators and fans of the stars, 272 00:18:35.319 --> 00:18:38.920 and people who stand out and have put their literally 273 00:18:38.920 --> 00:18:42.519 their sweat and their tears. I won't say blood because 274 00:18:42.519 --> 00:18:45.480 hopefully none of them been bloodied yet, but they're sweat 275 00:18:45.519 --> 00:18:49.039 and their tears into These standouts can come to these 276 00:18:49.079 --> 00:18:52.839 dinners and hang out with the stars and essentially that's 277 00:18:52.880 --> 00:18:55.440 what you did at the Halloween party. And we will 278 00:18:55.519 --> 00:18:58.680 endeavor to do more dinners and just get as many 279 00:18:58.720 --> 00:19:01.599 people as we can. As Dennis said, it will be 280 00:19:01.599 --> 00:19:03.920 a great time. These people are phenomenal. I know that, 281 00:19:04.279 --> 00:19:08.039 which is why I'm I'm committing to coming to this one, 282 00:19:08.559 --> 00:19:11.200 and I'll and I'll come to another one. I may 283 00:19:11.279 --> 00:19:14.480 have some stuff to do at Dean as well. Hopefully 284 00:19:14.839 --> 00:19:17.279 some some thing's going on at Dean that I can 285 00:19:17.319 --> 00:19:21.160 attend and and maybe it'll it'll all fit together. But 286 00:19:21.240 --> 00:19:24.519 it doesn't matter if I have to buy a plane 287 00:19:24.519 --> 00:19:26.440 ticket and come out there, I'll buy a plane ticket 288 00:19:26.440 --> 00:19:30.119 and come out there, simple as that, easy speasy. Now 289 00:19:30.200 --> 00:19:34.079 let's get to how we feel. And I want to 290 00:19:34.160 --> 00:19:39.079 use somebody who has pissed many of us off that 291 00:19:39.119 --> 00:19:45.440 we've been a little upset with, you know, But somebody 292 00:19:45.480 --> 00:19:48.920 that you know also has contributed to community in Sean. 293 00:19:49.240 --> 00:19:50.920 And the reason I bring up Sean is not to 294 00:19:50.960 --> 00:19:54.480 bring up all the drama, but Sean obviously was hurt 295 00:19:54.640 --> 00:19:58.200 by that he didn't receive a message of condolence from Karen, 296 00:19:58.400 --> 00:20:01.039 whether it be an emoji, a text, or what have you. 297 00:20:01.799 --> 00:20:03.680 And what I want to say about that is Sean 298 00:20:03.759 --> 00:20:09.200 has a right to feel that way. And even though 299 00:20:09.599 --> 00:20:13.400 I even though I will and we'll we'll tag this 300 00:20:13.519 --> 00:20:16.680 Ken because I'll get you here in the second brother, 301 00:20:17.599 --> 00:20:21.079 even though I wouldn't have gotten upset if if I 302 00:20:21.359 --> 00:20:24.759 had spoken with Karen and we had developed some you know, 303 00:20:24.839 --> 00:20:27.799 I've been a closer advocate and she and I had 304 00:20:27.799 --> 00:20:29.720 a death in the family and she didn't message me. 305 00:20:30.680 --> 00:20:32.599 It's not something that would really bother me or that 306 00:20:32.640 --> 00:20:34.920 I would go on air and talk about. But Sean 307 00:20:35.079 --> 00:20:38.240 has a right to feel that way. Now does that 308 00:20:38.440 --> 00:20:41.640 mean that okay it's okay for him to take a 309 00:20:41.680 --> 00:20:45.359 plunger and to make an explosion and blow up the community. No, 310 00:20:45.759 --> 00:20:50.400 I wouldn't. I wouldn't I wouldn't endure something like that, okay. 311 00:20:50.599 --> 00:20:53.799 But the whole part is about understanding that just because 312 00:20:53.839 --> 00:20:57.319 you don't feel a certain way about an issue doesn't 313 00:20:57.400 --> 00:20:59.720 mean that someone else doesn't have another right to feel 314 00:20:59.720 --> 00:21:02.119 about it. So if you're a content creator and you 315 00:21:02.160 --> 00:21:05.599 attended the event, you have to open up space and say, 316 00:21:05.640 --> 00:21:09.960 you know what, I can understand why one of these 317 00:21:10.000 --> 00:21:13.720 standout warriors is upset and wanted to be involved and 318 00:21:13.799 --> 00:21:16.880 wanted to be there and deserve to be there. And 319 00:21:17.000 --> 00:21:20.680 that is the key part of it. That's the key 320 00:21:20.720 --> 00:21:22.079 part of it, okay. 321 00:21:23.440 --> 00:21:23.720 Is that. 322 00:21:25.359 --> 00:21:28.400 Is that is that people open up space that someone 323 00:21:28.400 --> 00:21:30.599 has a different feel of it. If you are a 324 00:21:30.640 --> 00:21:35.480 standout warrior and you are looking at a content creator 325 00:21:35.480 --> 00:21:38.640 who was invited to this event and they said, look, 326 00:21:39.000 --> 00:21:42.279 I was invited. I didn't create the guest list. It 327 00:21:42.400 --> 00:21:45.440 wasn't my you know, I didn't have the authority to 328 00:21:45.599 --> 00:21:49.359 invite others. And by the way, there was a whole 329 00:21:49.359 --> 00:21:52.079 bunch of Karen Reied's family and friends there and it 330 00:21:52.119 --> 00:21:54.559 was it was men as a fundraiser. I don't I 331 00:21:54.599 --> 00:21:57.319 didn't do anything. I didn't mean for anyone to be 332 00:21:57.480 --> 00:22:01.240 left out. I I, as as a standout warrior, can 333 00:22:01.319 --> 00:22:04.119 should be able to open up space for that content 334 00:22:04.200 --> 00:22:08.559 creator and understand that instead of talking past each other, 335 00:22:08.880 --> 00:22:13.160 maybe what happened with our brother Aiden and our sister Rita, 336 00:22:13.480 --> 00:22:16.960 Maybe they're talking past one another. Right, they're not meeting 337 00:22:17.920 --> 00:22:21.000 and having a conversation. One is here and the other 338 00:22:21.039 --> 00:22:25.559 one's here. They're talking, but they're talking here and talking here. 339 00:22:26.079 --> 00:22:36.279 They didn't meet here and have a conversation. Okay, So 340 00:22:36.279 --> 00:22:39.920 so that is, you know what I am thinking about 341 00:22:40.039 --> 00:22:44.440 relative to how we can look at this and not 342 00:22:44.559 --> 00:22:48.279 be angry and upset. But you know, and it's okay. 343 00:22:48.359 --> 00:22:51.440 It's okay to feel angry and upset. Do you think 344 00:22:51.519 --> 00:22:53.720 I didn't want to be invited? Of course I did. 345 00:22:54.480 --> 00:22:58.119 Everybody wanted to be Everybody who's in this chat right 346 00:22:58.160 --> 00:23:03.920 now wanted to be invited. We all wanted to be invited. Okay, 347 00:23:04.039 --> 00:23:06.640 I wanted to be invited. I don't I want to 348 00:23:06.640 --> 00:23:09.759 be there among my colleagues, the content creators. But then 349 00:23:09.799 --> 00:23:11.480 when I look at it, do I deserve to be 350 00:23:11.559 --> 00:23:14.519 there out of this, out of all the people. No, 351 00:23:14.680 --> 00:23:17.599 I don't deserve to be there. Would I have wanted? 352 00:23:17.720 --> 00:23:20.160 Would I have given my ticket to a Dennis Sweeney 353 00:23:20.599 --> 00:23:23.000 or somebody like that. Yes, I would have done that, 354 00:23:23.920 --> 00:23:26.480 because that's you know that that that's the kind of 355 00:23:26.640 --> 00:23:29.359 those are people that deserve to be there, people that 356 00:23:29.480 --> 00:23:34.119 have stood out and really really put themselves on the 357 00:23:34.160 --> 00:23:37.279 line here, maybe put their safety on the line. You know, 358 00:23:37.799 --> 00:23:41.440 Terry talks all the time about lucy nut, lucy lugnuts. 359 00:23:41.880 --> 00:23:44.119 You know that someone loosened the lug nuts on her car. 360 00:23:46.119 --> 00:23:48.279 You think that was an accident that all of a 361 00:23:48.279 --> 00:23:52.359 sudden they loosened the lugnuts on her car. No, it's 362 00:23:52.400 --> 00:23:54.240 it's not an accent. Let's let's go into some of 363 00:23:54.279 --> 00:23:59.720 the chat and get what you guys have to say. So, yes, 364 00:24:00.640 --> 00:24:03.519 and it's perfectly okay to lose it. You know, I 365 00:24:03.559 --> 00:24:06.319 lost my mom too in nineteen ninety four. That was 366 00:24:06.359 --> 00:24:12.200 what eight years after our left Dean or less. Yeah, 367 00:24:12.720 --> 00:24:16.440 so eight years after our left Dean, I lost my mom. 368 00:24:17.359 --> 00:24:21.000 And not everybody reached out and was compassionate, and and 369 00:24:21.000 --> 00:24:23.559 and and not. Even just because someone didn't reach out 370 00:24:23.599 --> 00:24:26.039 to you doesn't mean that they didn't you know, they 371 00:24:26.079 --> 00:24:29.799 don't feel a certain way about it. But Sean is okay, 372 00:24:29.880 --> 00:24:32.880 it's okay that he was hurt by that. Now, I 373 00:24:32.880 --> 00:24:36.440 don't think that should have manifested itself, perhaps in the 374 00:24:36.440 --> 00:24:39.000 way it did. So let's let's go through the comments. 375 00:24:39.000 --> 00:24:41.160 We're gonna go up and I'm gonna try to get 376 00:24:41.680 --> 00:24:43.279 I'm gonna try to get to you guys. So let 377 00:24:43.279 --> 00:24:46.880 me let me start with Ken here, and let's let's 378 00:24:46.880 --> 00:24:49.640 start with Sheridy Dennis Sweeney speaking, saying it out loud, 379 00:24:50.160 --> 00:24:52.759 the truth, love wins. Working together, we get more done. 380 00:24:52.839 --> 00:24:57.880 That's correct. Let's get Ken here. Ken is saying, yes, 381 00:24:58.039 --> 00:25:02.000 it's ten to one when miss it think the thing 382 00:25:02.119 --> 00:25:06.160 is my other half who's DJ's best, biggest fan and 383 00:25:06.279 --> 00:25:09.400 me to you know, and someone who's genuine. Thank you 384 00:25:09.480 --> 00:25:12.680 so much, sir, I appreciate that. And I don't know 385 00:25:12.720 --> 00:25:16.799 your wife's name, but please pass on a hug from me. 386 00:25:17.039 --> 00:25:21.720 I would really appreciate that. Please pass the pepper. What 387 00:25:21.880 --> 00:25:26.960 a legend she is. Just yeah, Jesus, just awesome. Hope 388 00:25:26.960 --> 00:25:29.160 to meet you. I'm headed there from New York road trips. 389 00:25:29.160 --> 00:25:34.000 Sean can't feel however, keep it private. No, yeah, absolutely, yeah, 390 00:25:34.000 --> 00:25:37.319 that was our point right there. It's it's it's not 391 00:25:37.599 --> 00:25:41.400 how he manifested it. It manifested itself in a way 392 00:25:41.440 --> 00:25:44.599 that was not constructive for our community, right, it ended 393 00:25:44.720 --> 00:25:48.160 up being a net negative so that part I can 394 00:25:48.200 --> 00:25:51.119 disagree with him on right and and he could disagree 395 00:25:51.119 --> 00:25:54.680 with me on stuff, but the point is is he's 396 00:25:54.720 --> 00:25:58.720 allowed to feel hurt. Okay, I gotta make sure your 397 00:25:58.799 --> 00:26:01.119 name's on there too. So what we aim to do, 398 00:26:01.319 --> 00:26:06.279 please pass the peppa is we aim to get We've 399 00:26:06.279 --> 00:26:09.799 booked two tables, but we want people to book other tables. 400 00:26:10.359 --> 00:26:14.880 So I'm encouraging you to book other tables so that 401 00:26:15.039 --> 00:26:17.720