Speaker 1: You're listening to.
Speaker 2: Sorry for asking, Sorry for asking. I'm Cole Connor and
Speaker 2: I'm Adam Ramsey. This is where we talk, shop, ask questions.
Speaker 3: Tell stories, and laugh some laughs about being creators as well.
Speaker 1: As consumers of adult content.
Speaker 2: We love watching too.
Speaker 3: We certainly do. We also discussed the impact adult films
Speaker 3: have had on us, on our guests, and on the
Speaker 3: LGBTQ community.
Speaker 1: So strap on and strap.
Speaker 3: In and here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello.
Speaker 3: Hello, Hello, Hi Cole Connor, Hello Adam Ramsey.
Speaker 2: Oh we'll do that, Okay, we'll do that. Ready. Hi,
Speaker 2: I'm Adam Ramsey.
Speaker 3: I'm Cold Connor.
Speaker 2: That is sorry, welcome. How's it going today?
Speaker 3: It's good?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're good. Yeah, Yeah, I'm good. I'm good. Life
Speaker 2: is good. It's been moving along. I was just camping
Speaker 2: in Tennessee. Yeah, so I'm back. I'm like reintegrating. It's
Speaker 2: taking a minute.
Speaker 3: We'll have well, we have a lot to talk about
Speaker 3: on our catchup episode.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but in four weeks. Yes, sorry, y'all, we'll get
Speaker 2: our ketchup later. Because we have a guest today, Why
Speaker 2: don't you tell us about our guests? Mister Connor one.
Speaker 3: Of my favorite favorite human beings all the way from
Speaker 3: North Carolina. We have Heath Halo with us today.
Speaker 1: Hi.
Speaker 2: He you got applause? Yes, yes, yes, how you doing?
Speaker 1: I'm doing great?
Speaker 2: You look great.
Speaker 3: He always looks great.
Speaker 2: He always looks.
Speaker 3: One of my favorite things about Heath Halo is those legs.
Speaker 2: You want to lift him up and show us. Oh
Speaker 2: yeah yeah, just like yeah, give us a show.
Speaker 3: Just those big game big hamhocks yum.
Speaker 1: Not.
Speaker 3: Also a super sweet person, always been just a top
Speaker 3: notch guy to me, Yeah, I don't know, a bitch
Speaker 3: to others.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's just sitting.
Speaker 2: I have not had the pleasure yet. We almost made
Speaker 2: it happen, but it didn't work out.
Speaker 1: You got to take care of that.
Speaker 2: Can't wait.
Speaker 3: So what have you been up to lately, Heath?
Speaker 1: I've been all over the world actually, and I've never
Speaker 1: been all over the world. So this experience was like,
Speaker 1: everything was very exciting to me. So I just got
Speaker 1: back from Spain and went to the Grabby's and wow,
Speaker 1: it was a trip.
Speaker 3: How was that?
Speaker 1: I was there for the blackout?
Speaker 2: The blackout? What happened? Yeah, I don't know about this.
Speaker 1: The whole country like lost power.
Speaker 2: The whole country.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I missed this? Was this when I was out of town?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was off the grid camping in Tennessee, so
Speaker 2: I wasn't looking at my phone for six whole days. Wow.
Speaker 2: So all of it, all of Spain lost power? Yeah. Wow,
Speaker 2: that must have been scary.
Speaker 3: I saw pictures of like the people on trains and
Speaker 3: stuff that were like, just got off the train and
Speaker 3: they're like, where do we go?
Speaker 2: WHOA were you in the hotel in Tormolinos?
Speaker 1: So no, I had somehow Derek Cage and I took
Speaker 1: and just can't stop took a Troy Daniels. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: we took an uber together to the airport. Derek's flight
Speaker 1: was right behind mine, ten minutes behind mine. I got
Speaker 1: in the air and made it to Barcelona, and I
Speaker 1: guess all the planes right after us were grounded. Wow,
Speaker 1: it was intent. So I landed actually in Barcelona in
Speaker 1: the middle of it. WHOA Yeah?
Speaker 2: Was that when you found out? Or did they share
Speaker 2: it on the plane?
Speaker 1: No, nobody told us anything. I actually made it all
Speaker 1: the way to my uber and he is the one
Speaker 1: who told me about it.
Speaker 2: Wow. How long did that last?
Speaker 1: Like twelve hours?
Speaker 2: WHOA? Okay?
Speaker 4: All right?
Speaker 2: So was the were the Grabby's Europe Your main reason
Speaker 2: for the trip.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I had a couple of scenes with Raging
Speaker 1: Stallion and Naked Sword as well. Okay, so we had
Speaker 1: a meeting of the minds out there?
Speaker 2: Is that what we call it?
Speaker 1: You did to feel self important? Uh?
Speaker 2: Huh uh huh. When did you start this whole journey
Speaker 2: in adult films?
Speaker 1: So two years ago in April?
Speaker 2: Actually, Okay, what made you decide to take such a plunge.
Speaker 1: I was in the tech world. I worked for a
Speaker 1: startup that I guess was really no longer a startup
Speaker 1: over the period of time that I was there. And yeah,
Speaker 1: I was just working a lot, and I made myself
Speaker 1: a nice little salary and I had my best apartment
Speaker 1: in Fort Lauderdale and it was great, but I never
Speaker 1: got to enjoy anything because I worked all the time.
Speaker 1: And finally one day I was just like, you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go do something else. And it started out
Speaker 1: I was going to do a podcast with my husband.
Speaker 1: It was supposed to be about kinks, and we were
Speaker 1: going to you know, travel around and try different kinks.
Speaker 1: And we didn't know anything about this business, so we
Speaker 1: were going to do it. On OnlyFans, and then we
Speaker 1: learned you can't do that kind of stuff on a
Speaker 1: kind of stuff, So that fell apart rather quickly.
Speaker 3: What to do everything?
Speaker 1: I mean, the first one that we filmed and talked
Speaker 1: about was fisting, and neither one of us, well he
Speaker 1: had a little bit of experience with it and I
Speaker 1: had zero. So that was that was super fun.
Speaker 2: So was the premise going to be that you wanted
Speaker 2: to like try kinks for the first time, or you
Speaker 2: wanted to explore kinks that you were already into.
Speaker 1: No, try try things for the first time. Warb shine
Speaker 1: some light on some things that I was already into,
Speaker 1: you know, just kind of demystified a little bit. Talk
Speaker 1: about it, talk to the creators and.
Speaker 4: Why they why they enjoyed it, and then why they
Speaker 4: made content about it.
Speaker 2: Especially so oh so you would invite other guests onto
Speaker 2: these scenes who had more experiments.
Speaker 3: You would like collab with people and then talk about
Speaker 3: it exist.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, who's your husband Nico bet is he a big
Speaker 2: creator as well.
Speaker 1: He's got a really nice bear Niche his his fans
Speaker 1: have been good to him throughout this whole journey. He's
Speaker 1: had like the same loyal folks with him the whole time.
Speaker 1: So yeah, he kind of just does it as he
Speaker 1: does does it where I've taken it a bit more serious,
Speaker 1: as I do everything to hard.
Speaker 2: Did you guys did you guys start at the same
Speaker 2: time or was he already pretty established?
Speaker 1: No, we started at the same time.
Speaker 2: Oh cool, So it was a joint venture. You guys
Speaker 2: were like, let's do something. It was cool. So so
Speaker 2: what were some of the kink scenes that you guys filmed?
Speaker 1: We only did one?
Speaker 2: Oh, you only did the one the fisting, okay, one one.
Speaker 1: Podcast episode and filmed one for it okay. And then
Speaker 1: I got going and started making money on my own,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'll do this.
Speaker 2: So this is interesting to me. You know, we talk
Speaker 2: about this podcast a lot. Like I started in the
Speaker 2: studio world, Cole kind of started doing both around the
Speaker 2: same time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was quick.
Speaker 2: How were you able to find an audience because I
Speaker 2: feel like you kind of got big really quickly. If
Speaker 2: I'm not mistaken, how are you able to find an
Speaker 2: audience so quickly?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't think I had a typical
Speaker 1: experience either. You know, when it was happening, it all
Speaker 1: seemed to be going and happening rather quickly, and I
Speaker 1: was like, whoa, where is this coming from? And I
Speaker 1: don't know. I met Cole probably when I had about
Speaker 1: I give it to people like him. Really, I just
Speaker 1: I think a few of the more popular folks took
Speaker 1: a chance on me, you know, let me play out
Speaker 1: and visit with him and do our thing, and they
Speaker 1: promoted me. Well, so I really think that's the secret.
Speaker 1: It was just a great It was just some really
Speaker 1: kick ass collabs right there at the beginning.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so you had a bunch of collapse first,
Speaker 2: and then did Steve Cruz find you or Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean I worked with Sean Cody first, but I
Speaker 1: would say that my real introduction came with working with
Speaker 1: Steve Cruise on that that beach movie Beach.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, yeah. Steve is a huge fan of yours.
Speaker 2: He's told me, yeah, and you are you guys neighbors.
Speaker 1: He lives about two hours away.
Speaker 2: Oh okay cool, so yeah I can get to him
Speaker 2: you too. What is that collapse? What has that partnership been?
Speaker 1: Like? We started talking on set how we kind of
Speaker 1: became friends as we kind of nerded out on set.
Speaker 4: We were like talking.
Speaker 1: About Dune and some other nervous cracking each other up.
Speaker 1: And I think that that was kind of where the
Speaker 1: friend shit came from and where we both noticed that
Speaker 1: we had like an eye for a creative eye for
Speaker 1: different stuff. But we just talked about making some parody
Speaker 1: porn movies. And then it was like, we're not gonna
Speaker 1: make parody porn movies, but we can make some movies.
Speaker 1: And we wanted to do something that was a little
Speaker 1: bit more theatrical and have it for OnlyFans. So we
Speaker 1: filmed a few what we called heathens vignettes. I guess.
Speaker 1: One of them, I guess was a full movie in
Speaker 1: a cabin, and it went really well on Instagram. I
Speaker 1: don't think. I think at that kind of point was
Speaker 1: when everybody was starting to speak more. I don't know
Speaker 1: if you've noticed, but it seems like the fans are
Speaker 1: starting to demand more from creators. They want to hear
Speaker 1: from us a little bit more. They like to get
Speaker 1: a little bit of insight into our lives and things
Speaker 1: like that, and we gave them a story and it
Speaker 1: moved really quickly. One of the posts went viral on Instagram,
Speaker 1: and then I had a ton of people coming to
Speaker 1: my only fans to grab that movie. That was cool,
Speaker 1: That was really really cool.
Speaker 2: Describe the scene that went viral justin.
Speaker 1: The Jack and I and we're in the woods and
Speaker 1: I'm like watching him stretch on a tree, and basically
Speaker 1: the scene turns around that he was kind of leaving
Speaker 1: me around the whole time, and I thought I was
Speaker 1: like scoping him out, but he was leading me around.
Speaker 1: So yeah, just me talking like that and get in
Speaker 1: in the angst of wanting to suggesting the jock.
Speaker 3: It is, I want to talk about childhood and where
Speaker 3: you come from and what your parents were like. Can
Speaker 3: you tell us a little bit about how you grew up?
Speaker 1: Sure, I mean I grew up in a small town
Speaker 1: in Texas. You know, pretty typical lower middle class type
Speaker 1: of family situation. And you know, a Texas family is
Speaker 1: of course one form of the Christian Church, whether Baptist
Speaker 1: or Lutheran or Abouthodist or you're one of those. So
Speaker 1: we were more of a Baptist family and all that
Speaker 1: that entails. I was not exactly an evident kid growing
Speaker 1: up that I was gay.
Speaker 4: But I did.
Speaker 1: I didn't really get along with some of the more
Speaker 1: like super masculine guys like the ones that hunted and
Speaker 1: fished and things like that. But nobody really assumed I
Speaker 1: was gay. They just kind of thought I was a wush.
Speaker 1: So I kind of skirted by on that just being
Speaker 1: a buss.
Speaker 3: And I'm not gay, I'm.
Speaker 1: I'm just scared of everything. So I really had a
Speaker 1: decent childhood growing up, and I stayed in Texas pretty
Speaker 1: much all the way through my my young years and
Speaker 1: my teen years. I graduated from there and I stuck
Speaker 1: around for a while in the Dallas area.
Speaker 3: Do you remember what your first exposure to pornography was?
Speaker 1: It was a video tape, a video tape that got
Speaker 1: passed around with my friends, and I remember just being
Speaker 1: so enamored that watching this dude's dick go inside of
Speaker 1: this chick. It was a straight point of course. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I just was just like fascinated, just like full scene. Why,
Speaker 1: I was just like so enamored with just that section,
Speaker 1: And you know, as as it went on, I realized
Speaker 1: that I was just mostly enamored with the dick itself.
Speaker 1: So I remember that.
Speaker 3: I remember a common Do you remember what the do
Speaker 3: you remember who the guy was in it?
Speaker 1: No? No, no way, how.
Speaker 2: Old were you when you made this discovery.
Speaker 1: I think I saw that video the first time when I.
Speaker 2: Was like eleven eleven.
Speaker 1: I don't know about Chall's experience, but you didn't really
Speaker 1: come into contact with pornographic materials. It was always like
Speaker 1: some dudes uncle like had a box or something. I
Speaker 1: stole this out of it and it's like half of
Speaker 1: a magazine. It's all stuck together and shit against. He
Speaker 1: didn't come in contact. So for me to see like
Speaker 1: a full on movie, yeah, that was a big deal.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I remember seeing penetration for the first time too and
Speaker 2: being like, holy crap, that's amazing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the first double penetration that I saw, Oh yeah,
Speaker 3: I had that. I like would look for and look
Speaker 3: for and never find it, and I found I finally
Speaker 3: ended up finding it. And who was the guy in it?
Speaker 3: One of the guys, Peter North. Peter North did double penetration.
Speaker 2: He has a view. I don't know if I've ever
Speaker 2: seen that.
Speaker 3: I know, I'll show you them.
Speaker 2: Wow please.
Speaker 1: That was always my stuff too. As it progressed and
Speaker 1: I like started looking at internet point, I realized that
Speaker 1: I always liked it when there was two dudes going
Speaker 1: to one female totally and like the thinking kind of
Speaker 1: developed on from there.
Speaker 2: As in you realized you were gay or you just
Speaker 2: like okay, okay, yeah, what was that process?
Speaker 1: Like, I guess I always kind of knew in a
Speaker 1: way I was always you know though, I never fit
Speaker 1: in with those big, burly, masculine guys I was talking about.
Speaker 1: They always seem to be like who I was interested in,
Speaker 1: who I would have liked.
Speaker 4: To then, like, and I think that was an.
Speaker 1: Early form of attraction for them. And you know, as
Speaker 1: it went on, you know, I just really started noticing
Speaker 1: muscles and but and I also noticed that I would
Speaker 1: look at a female and be like, oh, she's very attractive.
Speaker 1: But this this like is like you can feel it inside.
Speaker 1: It's like this this tug that I wasn't getting with them.
Speaker 1: I lived this straight life until twenty.
Speaker 2: Seven, you know, twenty seven.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not proper to do that in Texas. You
Speaker 1: just don't do that. Do what you don't come out
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 3: But did you I mean did you experiment with friends?
Speaker 3: Like did you do.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, totally Yeah, So you were fucking girls
Speaker 2: and guys.
Speaker 1: Okay, that is a very scary life. You like always
Speaker 1: are worried that like it's gonna slip.
Speaker 2: Out, like someone's gonna find out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so who were you?
Speaker 2: So what guys were you fucking?
Speaker 1: This is like one of my big gripes with people
Speaker 1: who consider this alternate lifestyle and things like that, is that,
Speaker 1: you know, growing up, there was always these guys that
Speaker 1: were you know, the men's men or the you know,
Speaker 1: the guys on the football teams and things like that
Speaker 1: you would never think, but they were interested in it,
Speaker 1: and you could like you get the eyes and things
Speaker 1: pass and and you know, we end up finding each
Speaker 1: other Somehow.
Speaker 2: Were you kind of masculine presenting during that time as well? Okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: so there are so many ways to unpack this, you know, Like,
Speaker 2: I mean you're kind of saying that that was sort
Speaker 2: of what you were finding I think for a lot
Speaker 2: of guys, and I mean I would put myself in
Speaker 2: this category as well. It's like you're sort of attracted
Speaker 2: to the thing that felt like it was furthest away
Speaker 2: from you. Like the people you wanted most attention from
Speaker 2: were the ones you wanted to kind of emulate and
Speaker 2: be around. So makes sense to me that you guys
Speaker 2: were all kind of fucking each other on the side
Speaker 2: and secretly did any of them end up coming out
Speaker 2: that you know of?
Speaker 1: You know, I've never actually heard of a person from home,
Speaker 1: Okay coming out this day. I'm sure there are, yeah,
Speaker 1: sure there are.
Speaker 2: So what was it about age twenty seven? What was
Speaker 2: it when you were like, Okay, now it's time to
Speaker 2: kind of make moves and make this my truth.
Speaker 1: I was in a program or in a fellowship that
Speaker 1: kind of urged you to or urges you to take
Speaker 1: inventory of yourself. And I had come to that point,
Speaker 1: and I felt like I had already been in the
Speaker 1: fellowship for a long time, but I was redoing this
Speaker 1: process and I came to this sticking point something that
Speaker 1: I couldn't get over that always kind of made me sad,
Speaker 1: I guess, and you know, it was whole me back
Speaker 1: in some way, lots of fear and inner resentment and
Speaker 1: things like that. And I came to that point and
Speaker 1: I realized that I had to just finally come out
Speaker 1: and say admitted to myself. And then realized I was
Speaker 1: gonna have to finally admit it to everyone else that
Speaker 1: I was gay, not by not curious or whatever the
Speaker 1: hell I told myself even though I was a dancer
Speaker 1: on the Dallas strips when I was like twenty one,
Speaker 1: twenty two, Like I didn't know then.
Speaker 3: So you mean I got a dancer?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, you did?
Speaker 2: You go go dance at gay bars?
Speaker 1: I did? Oh wow, I did in my early twenties.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So at twenty seven when you made this
Speaker 2: big change, was a big part of it also recognizing
Speaker 2: that you no longer wanted to sleep with girls. Were
Speaker 2: you even attracted to girls or were you just doing
Speaker 2: it as like a front?
Speaker 1: I never had it was a front.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 1: I never had a problem getting hard. I never had
Speaker 1: a problem performing ever. I always enjoyed it. You know.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like that's just you know it. It was
Speaker 1: an enjoyable experience. But like I said, there was no
Speaker 1: urge for it. It was like a check the box type
Speaker 1: of situation. You know, yeah, yeah, yeah, you know, it's
Speaker 1: just this animal I need to get this out of
Speaker 1: any type of deal. So after I came out, No,
Speaker 1: I no longer pursued women. It wasn't even really a
Speaker 1: conscious thing. I don't think. I was just like, oh,
Speaker 1: I can do this now as much as I want.
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Speaker 2: So what kind of changes did you make in your
Speaker 2: life going forward? Did is that when you moved to Florida?
Speaker 1: No, I actually was in Texas for a while. I
Speaker 1: met someone not long after coming out, so I kind
Speaker 1: of came out and then jumped right into a new
Speaker 1: I knew, you know, potentially oppressive experience.
Speaker 2: Oh was it?
Speaker 1: It jumps into No, he was cool, okay, but it
Speaker 1: was a relationship. I was brand new and I jumped
Speaker 1: right into a relationship which takes commitments and all the
Speaker 1: things that you would normally, you know, maybe do later on.
Speaker 3: Like into a monogamous relationship.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, eeke, not monogamy.
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2: So how long did that last?
Speaker 1: Two years? Wait?
Speaker 2: How old are you? I know it's a crass question.
Speaker 2: Thirty six?
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I mean.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I you could have told me any
Speaker 2: age and I would have believed you.
Speaker 3: You look ageless, timeless, timeless beauty.
Speaker 1: I'm like all slovenly in my bed, slovenly quiet spot.
Speaker 1: I was like, I want to show them how I
Speaker 1: really am.
Speaker 2: Just this, Yeah, I want a full show on these pillows.
Speaker 2: I want I want you like, yes, yes, suppose?
Speaker 4: All right?
Speaker 2: What was the reason for moving to Florida.
Speaker 1: I moved to Florida because of my job. Reopened some
Speaker 1: very prominent restaurants in in Miami Beach right after COVID,
Speaker 1: so I was already working with those restaurants while I
Speaker 1: lived in Dallas, and everything got very busy again, really fast.
Speaker 1: Technology changed really really quick. So my company moved me
Speaker 1: over to the East Coast and that was pretty awesome.
Speaker 1: It was like right on time.
Speaker 2: And it was what you moved lived in Miami Beach.
Speaker 1: I didn't. I lived in for Lado Downtown for Laderdo.
Speaker 2: A great place to be gay.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, I just Miami. I am just not cool enough
Speaker 1: for Miami. Everybody looks so good all the time, and
Speaker 1: I have to I cann't do it. Like for Lauderville
Speaker 1: is more of like a beach.
Speaker 4: Bumped town and you can you know.
Speaker 3: I don't connect with Miami at all either.
Speaker 2: I've only been to South Beach and it to me,
Speaker 2: it just felt like Vegas on the beach.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a little and I had worked there,
Speaker 1: and my entire experience with South Beach was like working
Speaker 1: on things there. So I don't know I would. I've
Speaker 1: gone out there one time and it was like, okay cool,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I was more of a Fort Lauderdell boy.
Speaker 2: Gotcha?
Speaker 3: Can we talk about your parent?
Speaker 1: I am you are waiting?
Speaker 4: What terrifying?
Speaker 2: Are you?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Oh cool?
Speaker 1: That's why my only quiet spot is myn.
Speaker 3: Oh that's your client spot. I okay, sorry, I didn't.
Speaker 2: Know why I didn't here, Oh tell us about that.
Speaker 3: Did you have any fears about that starting to do porn?
Speaker 1: Absolutely? It was my biggest fear and it had to
Speaker 1: unfold slowly, just out of appropriateness right for the age
Speaker 1: level that my child is. So it's just been an
Speaker 1: evolving conversation over time, and I don't really worry about it.
Speaker 1: My life is very separate, you know, like work is work,
Speaker 1: and I'm never here for work. So yeah, rest of
Speaker 1: the time, I'm just goofy, stay at home dead.
Speaker 2: Wow, you have one kid?
Speaker 1: Just one?
Speaker 2: How old?
Speaker 1: Fourteen fourteen?
Speaker 2: So this came from your straight days?
Speaker 1: Absolutely?
Speaker 3: Were you married? Were you married or.
Speaker 1: We were together for four years? We lived together in Texas.
Speaker 1: That's common law here, so yeah, innocence, but never ceremony married.
Speaker 2: Is she still in the picture?
Speaker 1: Absolutely?
Speaker 2: Oh lovely? Okay, Yeah, that's okay, we're a team. Oh
Speaker 2: that's great.
Speaker 3: Is it all out in the open for everybody?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: Well, I went to her before I even started doing this,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, are you okay with this? Can I
Speaker 1: do this? If she would have told me no, I
Speaker 1: would have.
Speaker 2: Done that, really, you know, ok? Yeah, Okay, she was
Speaker 2: supportive and is supportive. Yep, congratulations, that's so cool.
Speaker 1: I'm super lucky on that one.
Speaker 2: Does your kid know she she.
Speaker 1: Knows that I am in an adult industry.
Speaker 4: That that's about it.
Speaker 3: She doesn't know if you're a performer like behind the game.
Speaker 1: She doesn't even know that far. It's an adult thing,
Speaker 1: just as if I was, you know, working with cannabis
Speaker 1: or alcohol or what I make for you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it got it, got it cool. That's so fun.
Speaker 2: And your husband is obviously supportive and.
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, he's the best gloss.
Speaker 2: That's great.
Speaker 3: And you guys moved from Fort Lauderdale what was it
Speaker 3: like last year? To North Carolina? And you got describe
Speaker 3: where you moved to because I think you were talking
Speaker 3: about at the beginning of it making kind of like
Speaker 3: a place where you could film a lot of stuff.
Speaker 1: It's a really large property, well not really large, but
Speaker 1: it's it's big enough. It's over four acres, so my
Speaker 1: house sits at the very far end of it, and
Speaker 1: then there's great land out in the very back, so
Speaker 1: I you know, I thought about putting water and electric
Speaker 1: out there, maybe a metal building, and you can use
Speaker 1: it for all kinds of things. You know to make
Speaker 1: sense whatever. But the land itself is really beautiful. So
Speaker 1: the most of the time that I've been here, I've
Speaker 1: just been clearing trees ring land because it was just
Speaker 1: all hardwood, and so yeah, I'm outside most days chain
Speaker 1: song things.
Speaker 2: Are you still doing studio scenes and stuff?
Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, it's gonna It's been a busy, busy time
Speaker 1: with studio for sure. Ranging Stallion and Nicked sort of
Speaker 1: put me in a ton of stuff and it's been
Speaker 1: super fun. So I got to go to Spain twice
Speaker 1: within a month of each other. Wants to film with
Speaker 1: Altersin and Raheem. I think that movie is like about
Speaker 1: to come out. It's a that's a Raging Stallion co
Speaker 1: production with Boyer and Raging Stallion. It's gonna be really
Speaker 1: really really good, really really good.
Speaker 3: He just won what was that Best DP and best
Speaker 3: Best Oral Scene?
Speaker 2: Where did you win those? Ata? Oh congratulations best DP?
Speaker 2: Did you get DP or did you do the dping?
Speaker 4: I was getting DP.
Speaker 2: Yeah, by Hoops.
Speaker 1: That would be Hazel Hofxer.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, damn nice. They're both very saxavior by himself.
Speaker 3: It's a lot to say.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't, I haven't, I've only seen pictures and
Speaker 2: it's beautiful. Well, congratulations. Did you do anything in Tomlinos
Speaker 2: as well?
Speaker 4: I did it.
Speaker 1: I was a purely spectator there, but it was super fun.
Speaker 2: Yeah you did.
Speaker 1: It's so naughty for me, I've never done.
Speaker 2: You seem like the naughty type. You seem like a
Speaker 2: lot of mischief is mischief you can tell. I mean it,
Speaker 2: so you can see. You can see it in your content,
Speaker 2: you can hear it in your voice. Yeah, there's a
Speaker 2: lot of Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he has like, uh, he has like a little
Speaker 3: boy quality, like I don't want to say little boy quality,
Speaker 3: but he has a youthful air too. You know, he
Speaker 3: has got a little twinkle in his eye that says
Speaker 3: like I.
Speaker 2: Want to get out to you're immature data fourteen? Who's immature?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Okay, you ride the line. You ride the line. So
Speaker 2: clearly you must be enjoying it, are you? How's the
Speaker 2: process been?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 2: Are you enjoying making film? Do you prefer studio stuff
Speaker 2: over over content stuff? Or what's it? What's it all
Speaker 2: been like?
Speaker 1: You know what, I really don't have a preference to
Speaker 1: one over the other. They're both kind of different experiences,
Speaker 1: you know, they're so drastically different for sure. I mean
Speaker 1: when you're when you're doing a studio see you're you're
Speaker 1: you're a model. You know that you're going to be
Speaker 1: twisted and moved and put the way another person sees
Speaker 1: it and wants it to turn out, And whereas content
Speaker 1: creation is so much more free flow. And you know,
Speaker 1: I've done it different ways with just like you know,
Speaker 1: raw and nasty with just a tripod, and then I've
Speaker 1: done it with a camera person. It's all just a vibe.
Speaker 1: It depends on which one. I think. I'm preferring the raw,
Speaker 1: nasty tripod stuff these days.
Speaker 2: Yeah, why is that you think?
Speaker 1: Yeah, explain, I don't know. You know, that was just
Speaker 1: always the porn that I watched. No offense to all
Speaker 1: the studios out there. I love you guys, but I
Speaker 1: never watched studio for it.
Speaker 2: I was always more of an amateur video.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Do people still use that term amateur to describe like
Speaker 2: the down home like tripod stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the way that's the way I kind of see it.
Speaker 1: In the with a cameraman, you call it pro am.
Speaker 1: I guess maybe because I've never heard that A little
Speaker 1: step above it is a different quality, a different perspective.
Speaker 2: Prom prom Okay, yeah, I have not heard that you
Speaker 2: taught me something there.
Speaker 1: I just made it up. We all want to.
Speaker 2: Wait you made up am okay? Cool?
Speaker 1: Cool?
Speaker 2: Was there ever like a moment where you were like, yeah,
Speaker 2: this makes sense for me, Like I like doing this
Speaker 2: and I want to do it more.
Speaker 1: I think when I started getting the response on Twitter
Speaker 1: so quickly, I was like, all right, cool a lock, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm jam and I'm vibing with these people. And then
Speaker 1: the I went in my first couple of claps. My
Speaker 1: first big clap trip was into La That's actually where
Speaker 1: I met Cole, my first my That was my first
Speaker 1: big you know four a out there, and I had
Speaker 1: a great time. I met really cool people. One thing
Speaker 1: was leading to another, you know, a shoot led to
Speaker 1: a photo shoot, which led to another photo shoot, which
Speaker 1: lands you know, I ended up being on you know,
Speaker 1: Erotico and and all this other stuff happened from that
Speaker 1: one little trip and I was like this, can this
Speaker 1: can be done? You know, this can be maximized, I think,
Speaker 1: And I was just so blown away that I was
Speaker 1: doing it. It was a trip, It really is a trip.
Speaker 1: I never had considered that it was going to go
Speaker 1: that way. We just wanted to pay our rent to
Speaker 1: see if we can take nineteen hundred dollars, you know,
Speaker 1: let's just try and pay for.
Speaker 4: Our little one bedroom apartment.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so, I know, I think we both tried to
Speaker 3: get some help with like an agency. Can you talk
Speaker 3: about your experience with that. I think I've talked about mine.
Speaker 1: If the one that you're mentioning, I think that that
Speaker 1: they were just more geared towards women.
Speaker 4: I really don't think that they knew how to.
Speaker 1: Handle rather exposed gay creators, is what I was. You know,
Speaker 1: we are our buttholes are literally everywhere, like everything. You know,
Speaker 1: you can go type in her knees and like see
Speaker 1: us any way, shape or form. So it's just a
Speaker 1: different stance from the you know, slowly uncovered bits of
Speaker 1: my nipple, you know, kind of stuff that they wanted
Speaker 1: to sell.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So, but kudos to them. I think that they have
Speaker 1: a cool they had a cool program.
Speaker 4: I'm not going to name them by name anyway.
Speaker 2: No need.
Speaker 3: I think you're a lot nicerer than I.
Speaker 1: I think. Whatever I have, I have talked to others
Speaker 1: and I've just decided to do it myself. Right, I'll
Speaker 1: just do it myself. If I have the time to
Speaker 1: do the fun stuff, I should have time to do
Speaker 1: the I wish I could be like you though cool.
Speaker 4: I don't know how you are at him, but.
Speaker 1: He's like, you know, mister spreadsheet, and it's super.
Speaker 2: I am not terribly active. I kind of do it
Speaker 2: when I feel like it. I don't schedule. I just
Speaker 2: kind of It's like if something happens, somebody offers or
Speaker 2: I offer, and there's time to do it, I do it.
Speaker 2: I was actually going to ask you if, like, aside
Speaker 2: from the scheduling and like the type a you know
Speaker 2: that kind of stuff, like, are you good at the
Speaker 2: upkeep of the content site and the social media aspect
Speaker 2: of it? Do you like respond to comments? Do you
Speaker 2: post every day? What is that like for you?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I'm better at that stuff than you know,
Speaker 1: editing and things like that. I'll make that part as
Speaker 1: easy as possible with myself. But you know, I do
Speaker 1: stay on top of the socials. Sometimes it's a kick
Speaker 1: in the balls though. Sometimes I just don't want to
Speaker 1: open that stuff, so I give myself mental breaks, maybe
Speaker 1: sometimes too many, but you know what, fuck it. I
Speaker 1: have spent a whole summer, I say, last summer where
Speaker 1: every single day was dedicated to you know, engagement, Like really,
Speaker 1: you know, every single day I posted every day. You know,
Speaker 1: there was stuff I put thought into, getting to meet
Speaker 1: with those other guys and as collaborators things like that,
Speaker 1: And now this summer, I just want to chill it
Speaker 1: out a little bit, you know. Okay, maybe I'll catch
Speaker 1: some stuff on the way, but I don't want to
Speaker 1: make it the way you know, right, does it make sense?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I try to. Yeah, I'm like, I have ideas
Speaker 3: for reels and stuff all the time, which I know
Speaker 3: you have to do because a lot of your subscribers
Speaker 3: are going to come from Instagram by doing reels that
Speaker 3: are allowed on Instagram. And I have ideas, but then
Speaker 3: like I'm like, I'm not very good with the follow
Speaker 3: through because I would need a few more people to
Speaker 3: help me do it. And then it's like, I'm like,
Speaker 3: when do I put this shit together? It's much easier
Speaker 3: to do collab when I have someone film me have
Speaker 3: sex with another person. Yeah, and I don't always have
Speaker 3: time or the other person doesn't always have time to
Speaker 3: do a reel on top of that.
Speaker 2: Also, yeah, you know, yeah, but I don't.
Speaker 3: Know you were. Yeah, you were good with reels for
Speaker 3: a while. I remember, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean it takes a ton of creet, don't you know.
Speaker 1: I don't want to sound like complaining like I have
Speaker 1: to think of something and no.
Speaker 2: No, but you do. It's work. It's work, you really do.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you do if it wanted to be worth anything,
Speaker 1: you know, otherwise you're literally just wasting your time and
Speaker 1: jerking off.
Speaker 4: Yeah you know.
Speaker 1: Oh here's my face on Instagram again. You know. So
Speaker 1: I've just been more chill about it. It's literally not
Speaker 1: changed a ton anyway.
Speaker 2: So what's not changed the ton?
Speaker 1: The engagement. I mean, it stays up there. I've you know,
Speaker 1: I feed it every now and then I feed it
Speaker 1: when I when I want, instead of believing that I
Speaker 1: had to post something every day.
Speaker 2: Sure do you see it lasting much longer?
Speaker 1: It never was supposed to anyway. From the very beginning,
Speaker 1: when I was talking to my husband about doing this,
Speaker 1: I was like, I think it should have a time limit,
Speaker 1: Like I don't think it should be. I don't not
Speaker 1: trying to like go out in like porn, star history
Speaker 1: or something. I just want to go in. Well, maybe,
Speaker 1: like I said, we just wanted to pay our rent.
Speaker 1: Then when we realized that we could actually make like
Speaker 1: real money with it, I was like, Okay, here's the plan.
Speaker 1: We're just going to go in and out just like bank. God.
Speaker 1: So I didn't want to stick with it for a
Speaker 1: long time. So I had a three year expiration date
Speaker 1: on it from when we started.
Speaker 2: And how long has it been too?
Speaker 1: It's been too, It's been It's all a couple of
Speaker 1: well it's may.
Speaker 2: So, okay, do you see yourself sticking to the three
Speaker 2: year plan or you're going to be like, we'll see
Speaker 2: when we get there.
Speaker 1: My contract with Falcon is coming up soon, like here
Speaker 1: in the next month and a half or so, I
Speaker 1: won't have any obligations to anyone else, So I'm gonna
Speaker 1: kind of just see where it goes some there. There
Speaker 1: are there are some things in this business I would
Speaker 1: still like to do. I'd still like to do a
Speaker 1: live sex show. I would still like to work for
Speaker 1: Minute Play because I love minute Play. Be a porn guy.
Speaker 1: I've always like just they're stills. I always found sexy
Speaker 1: with the suits.
Speaker 2: Okay, are you like?
Speaker 3: I hate see into suits all. I hate being in
Speaker 3: a scene with a suit, because it's like the amount
Speaker 3: of times that you have to take every piece of
Speaker 3: the suit off and then put it back on.
Speaker 1: It's just okay, I can heal.
Speaker 3: That drives me.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 3: I haven't worked with them, but I've had to do
Speaker 3: scene some suits before and I'm like, oh god, I
Speaker 3: have to like for it gets crumpled on the floor
Speaker 3: over here, and then they're like, all right, putting all
Speaker 3: your clothes back on. We gotta do stills. You're like,
Speaker 3: are you fucking kidding me? Can we do this all
Speaker 3: like in stages so I don't have to put on Yeah,
Speaker 3: a fucking tie again. Oh my god, that's the worst.
Speaker 2: Okay, So so men, it plays a bucket list item.
Speaker 1: Maybe take one more trip or something like that, one
Speaker 1: more lesser raw.
Speaker 2: Make it to La please. Yeah, I need to come
Speaker 2: back summer. Here is cute.
Speaker 1: I think it would be appropriate.
Speaker 2: When you started doing gay film work, were you a
Speaker 2: fan of the industry or were you just like whatever?
Speaker 1: I was just like one of those shitty people that
Speaker 1: watched it on porn home and I would get clips
Speaker 1: and that was an easy place to find. Probably all
Speaker 1: these creators' content was fed up to porn. I didn't
Speaker 1: have an understanding of the porno hierarchy at that time.
Speaker 1: I wanted to jerk off. It only took a few seconds,
Speaker 1: so you know, I would get on. But I didn't
Speaker 1: have like these guys. I didn't realize that there was
Speaker 1: these guys who were a force into themselves and they
Speaker 1: were like so many people wanted to watch them fuck
Speaker 1: and I didn't know that. Yeah, I started doing it.
Speaker 2: Was there anyone that you were like a huge fan
Speaker 2: of that you were very excited to work with?
Speaker 1: There was, But I don't want to say, Okay, they've
Speaker 1: all been amazing, Okay, cool, for sure.
Speaker 2: Nice.
Speaker 3: The last time we had the scheduled for IS to
Speaker 3: be on, we did not get at taped because Zoom
Speaker 3: was down for the count.
Speaker 2: It wasn't meant to be. We clearly need did another
Speaker 2: couple of weeks before we talk to you. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: well here we are cool.
Speaker 1: It's going great. I feel like I'm doing great.
Speaker 2: You're killing it. I mean that voice, that voice is killing,
Speaker 2: is killing, It's kind of killing.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 3: He's a Southern accident.
Speaker 1: Hm.
Speaker 3: I think of anybody if you ask me, like what
Speaker 3: my type is, it's this one.
Speaker 2: I totally see it. I totally see it. Well well done, sir.
Speaker 2: Is there anything else you want to share before we
Speaker 2: let you go? Anything you're excited about coming up?
Speaker 3: Are you going to the American Grabs this month?
Speaker 5: I'm hired, she's tired, she's a dad, she's got stuff
Speaker 5: to do that kicked really for two days, my god.
Speaker 1: But no, I guess I'll just be out here making
Speaker 1: this piece of land beautiful and see what happens with it.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Do you think do you think you'll plan kind
Speaker 3: of like a content trip where do you think you'll
Speaker 3: host one sometime?
Speaker 1: M I mean that if it's beautifying, it's got like
Speaker 1: a just beautiful creek running through it, and it's really
Speaker 1: really cool stories that can happen out there. I don't
Speaker 1: see a reason we can like have a weekend out
Speaker 1: there and use those spots.
Speaker 2: I love scenes in nature for sure too.
Speaker 1: That was That was Unchaine. That was kind of the
Speaker 1: point of this play.
Speaker 3: Nice, Well, I think you would like. I think the
Speaker 3: Nashville content house that I just went to like a
Speaker 3: couple of weekends ago. Those guys are great and they
Speaker 3: mentioned you and that we should both go to the
Speaker 3: Nashville one at some point.
Speaker 2: Can I come.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we could. That could be a fun
Speaker 3: That could be a fun.
Speaker 1: Group to put together. Cool.
Speaker 2: Yeah, count me in. Yeah all right, Well, it's so
Speaker 2: lovely to meet you officially. Hope to do it in
Speaker 2: person sometime.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Do you have anything else, mister Connor?
Speaker 3: I think I'm good?
Speaker 2: All right, Well, thanks for joining us, mister Halo, Thank
Speaker 2: you guys for watching at home, and we'll be back
Speaker 2: next time with mister Land and Conrad. I'm very excited
Speaker 2: to talk to you. Thank you guys so much. I'm
Speaker 2: Adam Ramsey, I'm Cole Connor. Thank you, Heath, Thank you Heath,
Speaker 2: thank you, Tony and Susan. Sorry for asking.
Speaker 3: We'll see you next time. Bye, guys, this has been
Speaker 3: sorry for asking.
Speaker 2: Be sure to like, comment and subscribe, and until next time,
Speaker 2: stay sexy.