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Speaker 2: A face, sunny sun I had asion.

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Speaker 3: Nay, every ready, what's happening?

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm a little nasily me too. Is it the weather?

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Speaker 3: I started feeling like sore throat and crap like that

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over the weekend. That went away, and now it's just

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kind of like congested head stuff.

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Speaker 1: That's what I have had too. And I'm like, was

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I sick and I just didn't know it? But I

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don't Or was it the weather? I don't know? Yeah,

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I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, then there's the weather stuff I don't know. And

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then after I take Phil for his walks, when I

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get back, I'm always very like sneezy, eyes, watery, all

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that stuff. And I never used had allergies. But anyway,

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health talk with Stephanie Lynnette.

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Speaker 1: So speaking of the dogs, I have not had Pipo's

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teeth taken out yet.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you haven't done that yet.

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Speaker 1: So remember when I went in there with the jaw

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spasming thing, they said, well, she has an infection in

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her mouth. But then I had taken her for a

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second opinion to the other one and they said, oh,

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we don't really see infection, but she has two broken

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teeth which probably should come out. Yeah, So then I

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was like okay. But meanwhile, then her urine test came

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back positive for UTI. So then she was on two

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different antibiotics for two weeks age and she's just finished

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those and she seems better. So I'm like, okay, am

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I just buying time? The thing is this dog is

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you know, almost fourteen? Yeah, she's definitely thirteen. So like,

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do I put her on her anesthesia and take broken

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teeth out and hope that she feels even better because

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now I don't know if she's in pain still, I

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mean's not shaking anymore.

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Speaker 3: I would just ask them that they're gonna say to

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do it. They're gonna say to do it, because I'm

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always the one that's gonna err on the side of

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what the doctor says.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, I think we're gonna do it. It's

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just also, it's like a whole thing. I know. Yeah,

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you got to bring them in, then they have to

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you have to wait for them to feel better. Then

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you got to feed them different foods. She already barely

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eats as it is, like she doesn't. I mean she

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does eat, but she's so picky that she really only

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wants human food, so you have to wait for her

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to get so hungry to eat her regular food.

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Speaker 3: I just can't imagine that. I just can't imagine that. Ah,

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what must be like to have a dog that's picky?

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Speaker 1: I see all these dogs in videos like eating like

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carrots or you know, fruit and stuff. People's like, are

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you high? Like, no, I don't want a piece of pineapple.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Phil loves pineapple.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, she'll sniff stuff, even like watermelon stuff that's sweet.

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She smells it and is like, that's way too healthy. Nothing,

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Oh my gosh. I won't even lick it. She'll just

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smell it and just be like, no, nothing, walk away.

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Speaker 3: That's crazy. Yesterday I met my girlfriend Don and her

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husband and their daughter who's twenty six, at my condo

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because I think she's gonna rent it and she needs

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a place to lit. Yeah, her rent is upper so

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I think she's she's gonna rent it.

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Speaker 1: But I brought you listed it.

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Speaker 3: I was about to I was getting close to, yeah,

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to putting it up, and I was telling Don about it,

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and she's like, don't, don't do it yet, and we

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want to come look at it. So I brought Phil

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with me yesterday.

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Speaker 1: And now you can't charge the price that you would

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normally charge. I know.

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Speaker 3: I told her how much I was gonna charge, and

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she was like, okay, so.

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Speaker 1: All right, she's like, that's so funny. Though, remember how

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I just oh my god, that scared me. She's like,

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remember how I like took you to Vegas and like,

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oh I through your heels and you're like, uh huh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah no, she's like she's like, no, no, no, we don't

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expect anything, you know. And her daughter works full time.

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and it's actually cheaper than where she's renting now, oh

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So so it's perfect for her and it's nice and

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she's a she's a good kid, like I love her.

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She's a really good girl. So, but Phil was a

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big hit and don brought those duckheads again.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, for Phil.

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Speaker 3: She brought a whole bag of them, these freeze dry duckheads,

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which they look like little ducky heads and I don't

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know if they're real or not. I don't know, but

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they're like, you know, dog treats or whatever from her

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pet store. Phil just loves those things. Yeah, so he

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was a big head.

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Speaker 1: Ye Like like I love seafood, right, and I love fish,

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but I don't see that it once had eyes and

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little lips, Like, no, that's crazy. I want to delude

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myself into thinking that they're all just kind of like shrimps.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I was what was I watching the

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other day? They were showing them eating a goat head No,

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oh yeah, and the teeth were still there and the brain.

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like mashed potatoes.

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Speaker 1: What it was?

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Speaker 3: Oh it was ninety day Fiance that tracks.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: They were eating goat heads with the teeth and all

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four people at the table are like, oh okay, Like

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the Americans at the table are like, huh that's different.

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Speaker 1: Well let's try it dig right in it was. I

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had lua. I almost threw up. There's some stuff that

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I ate when I was a kid that now I'm like,

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who tried to force that on me? Like I didn't

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know better. I mean when I was a kid. We've

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talked about this because my father being a comedian lived

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in a rented a house in Malibu and we had

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like went to like French restaurants, and frog's legs was

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something that I thought was amazing, Like I loved them.

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Speaker 3: Well you would because you likedinking, like, ew, you're so right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would never. I would never order frog's legs. That's crazy.

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But also like s cargo I ate. When I was

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a kid, I would try es cargo.

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Speaker 3: I love cargo.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, ew, what.

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Speaker 3: The hell you get it at France.

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Speaker 1: Or a French restaurant.

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Speaker 2: It's like they just drown in garlic butter. It's just

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like eating the garlic butter and you put it on

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bread and it's like it's just like eating garlic butter.

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Speaker 1: Man of snails, there are slimy snails. I guess it's

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not that different than oysters, Like yeah, oysters, but.

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Speaker 1: I have a thing it's not I wouldn't call it

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a phobia, but is there such a thing where it

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doesn't it's not like it scares me. But it really

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really really grosses me out even just thinking about it.

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But I I don't like worms. I don't. I'm so

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freaked out by and grossed out by them. And there's

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just something about them, and I don't like talking about them.

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I'm horrified right now, I'm having chills. And so anything

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that's in the worm family, Oh god, no, thank you,

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and to me, slugs is like a worm.

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Speaker 3: Well then you should not watch it.

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Speaker 1: The New No, no, no, don't watch it. An I

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think you get through that sol the Park episode. Oh

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that whole movie that's given me the worst fucking nightmares,

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just the thought. Oh.

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Speaker 3: Now the Latest The Latest Traders season of Traders. They

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just did this challenge where uh, oh my god. I

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I was like they had to stand there and they

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were holding they were partnered up with each other. They

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were holding each other's hand in a glass box and

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then they were putting this First they put this long

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centipede on top of their hand.

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Speaker 1: Then they put a scorpion in there.

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Speaker 3: Then they dropped buckets of maggots and cockerroaches and worms,

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those three at the same time on top of their head.

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So the girls are like, you know, like with their

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extensions and shit getting that shit all in their hair

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and they're like, oh my god, and they have to

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stand still the whole time or they're going to lose

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the challenge. And they're like, oh my god, I could

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feel it in my Oh we just went down my

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bra and it's just in my ear. And it's like

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Tom Sandoval's got it all over his face and his

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head is like his was black one second and then

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was brown after they dropped it on his head. It

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was the most disgusting thing I've ever seen. Stephanie looks

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like she's gonna I'm gonna hurl.

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Speaker 1: That is so nasty, But don't scorpion sting.

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Speaker 3: I think they took the stinger out, but still to

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see that thing. And Boston Rob was like his partner

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was Sierra from Summer Summer House. She's so cute, by

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Speaker 1: Like, probably less cute with maggots all right. She was like,

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Speaker 3: She was freaking out, and Boston Rom was like, don't

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open your eyes, keep your eyes closed, and he's like,

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when's you like, trying to get her mind off of it,

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Speaker 1: Like what is that? What is that?

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Speaker 3: He goes, don't worr and it's such a cute little thing.

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Don't look, don't look, you know, And then when they

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dropped all that shit, he was like, when's your birthday?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: That's my bird, like trying to get her mind off

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of it. And they won actually the challenge, but yeah,

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she she had all that shit all in her hair.

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Speaker 1: No? No.

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head cheese, which I think is brains.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, it's something really gross. But I would

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just be given stuff and I'd eat it and be

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like delicious. And now I'm like, what the fuck was you?

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Speaker 3: My mom used to make eel on Christmas Eve, which

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I don't remember eating, but when I got older, I

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was like, I'm not eating that. But then she would

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make spaghetti la lech which had the anchovies, which is

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angew like.

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Speaker 1: I love I love ancho.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I know we were talking about fish having eyes, but right,

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I don't know why we got on that either.

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Speaker 2: We're talking about food and then you started talking about worms,

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like no one's eating worms.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but why were we even talking about fish and

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fish heads?

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Speaker 2: Because the duckheads that she gets.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh yeah, back to.

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Speaker 2: Which I googled, and they're real.

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Speaker 1: That's they are real. You googled it.

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Speaker 2: Well they look real.

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Speaker 1: They do look real. Okay, So down comes over to

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the condo.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, drops off the duckheads.

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Speaker 1: So is this happening? Is she?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: In her place?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think she's gonna move in in March.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's easy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 1: Nice.

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and stuff for them to fill out. I guess I

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don't know.

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Speaker 1: You can download a rental agreements.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've done it before in the past. But yeah, So.

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Speaker 1: What was I going to say, I took my kids? Well,

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first of all, I want to say this Sadie's home today. Now,

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my kids have been going to school so regularly like

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they have they I don't think they've had an absence

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since well, definitely, they had a couple of absences at

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the beginning of the school year, and that's it because

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they both were sick for a couple days. But this

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morning I go into Sadie's room, and you know when

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your kids are like, well, you know, because your kids

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missed a bit of school junior year after senior year,

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after COVID, Yeah, they couldn't get back into it. Yeah.

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But Sadie's I don't know. I just feel like she's

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been a little low lately anyway. And then she told me, oh, mystery, Saul,

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that got my period And this was yesterday. She's like,

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that's why I just feel like murdering everybody. And I

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was like, yeah, I get it. So today is going

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to be like one of the worst days of her period.

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So I go to wake her up this morning and

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she was just like looked like she was gonna cry.

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And I'm like, uh, oh, are you okay? And she's like,

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she goes, I didn't fall asleep until six. Ah.

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Speaker 3: I hate that ugh.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, do you need to stay home?

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So they have a play rehearsal tonight, but she has

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a teeny part, as everybody knows, in a movie that

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we've never seen, but she has it. I've got to

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see it. I've got to watch it. Okay, I commit

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to this week watching well, there's no point of watching

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it without Xander, and it's sure to get it should Yeah, okay,

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I'm going to watch it. So Xander has a lot

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more to rehearse than Sadie does anyway. But also it's

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it's been long days for my kids because a lot

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of the days of the week they have play rehearsal

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and it goes so they don't get out of school

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until three forty five, and then they're at school till

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six o'clock doing their rehearsals. And you know, when you

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pick them up at six o'clock these days, it's dark out,

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so it feels like it's even later than it is,

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and then they're already getting tired. And it's just it's

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been a lot. Even Xander's been kind of like a

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little bit down just not having downtime. And I just

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looked at Sadie and I was like, look, do you

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need to stay home today? And she was like, oh

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my gosh, please can. I I'm like yeah, And then

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I just thought, oh my god, the school's going to

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give us a hard time about it.

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Speaker 3: But like, but if she hasn't missed much of school,

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oh yeah, it's just hard because junior year is the toughest.

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It is junior years like they're just burnt out, just done.

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Speaker 1: All her classes are hard for her, but hard, but

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like who cares? What? So she misses one day of school? Yeah,

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I mean she'll catch up. And she just she hadn't slept.

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I don't know's well, that's.

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Speaker 3: The worst when you know you got to get up

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early and then you just you're tossing and turning, you're

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looking at the clock on the Oh, that's the worst.

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That's a horrible feeling. I just had that a couple

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of weekends ago when one was coming in here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you have to come in here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I could not fall asleep. I fell asleep and

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then I woke up, and then I was up, couldn't

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fall back asleep.

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Speaker 1: So I feel, I feel fine about my decision, and

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yeah it's okay. And then and then I feel fine,

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Thank you, mom, thank you so much. A little heartbreaker.

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It was like if it was me, if I'd had

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a horrible night, let's just say, and it was just

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looking down the barrel at like a shitty ass work day,

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I'd probably call him sick. Yeah right, yeah, yeah, I'd

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give kids a little bit of agency.

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, what are you gonna do when they're both gone?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm going to be sad. Although I

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have a feeling Sadie's not going anywhere soon. I have

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a feeling Xander is going to be up out yea,

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and Sadie's going to be like hello right this minute.

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She has no plans of going anywhere. Yeah, she wants

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to be home. Yeah, but no, no.

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Speaker 3: Take a break.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I don't blame her.

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Speaker 1: I mean, listen, I I didn't want to go to school.

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I didn't want to go to college. And I look

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at it a little bit differently now, like I kind

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of understand a little bit more where my mom was

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coming from. Where she was like, well, you can't just

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live at home and do nothing. At the time, I

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thought it was very harsh that in my mind I

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got kicked out of the house at the time. But

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I do kind of see it a little bit differently now.

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I think my mom's attitude was like, well, you know,

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first of all, my home life was a lot different.

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It was bad, so there were a lot of fights.

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You know, neither of my parents wanted me around, my

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mother or stepfather, so her reasons were not great but

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at the same time, I kind of also understand, like, well,

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you can't just be directionless, like you're going to have

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to either go rent an apartment and start figuring it

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out or if you're not going to school, right. I

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think my mom was like the opposite of us. My

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mom was like, oh my god, days, can't you walk out?

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I don't get that.

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Speaker 3: That's just so crazy, it's so sad, Like, how can

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you want your kids out of the house, Like just yeah,

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I do. I know different, Yeah, but I guess like

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now it's harder too, because you know a lot of

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us parents, your kids go to college, then they come,

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then they finish college. There's no like people keep asking

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me this about LB, like ogo, so, oh, she's majoring

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in sociology, what's she.

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Speaker 1: Going to do with that? And I'm like, I don't know,

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she doesn't know. She's not going to be a sociologist obviously,

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but she's good. She'll have to find a job. But

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it's like, if you think about it, rents are super high.

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You know, it's out of control in California, Yes, it is.

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How are you going to rent somewhere on the salary

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of a job that's straight out of college. Half these

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people that graduate college are making minimum wage at jobs.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I know it's so tough.

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Speaker 1: So that's why I think a lot of kids end

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up living at home for a while while they try

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to save up to move.

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Speaker 3: Out if their parents let them, right, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Or I guess you get a place with a bunch

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of roommates, right like you live like you were in college.

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Speaker 3: That's what I did, got moved out and got.

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Speaker 1: What I always did too. Yeah, I always had at

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least two. I always had at least one roommate, if

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not two at rims.

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Speaker 3: I had two roommates when I first moved out. Yeah,

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and it kind of sucked.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, share one roommates. It would like steal all our food.

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Oh yeah, I had two roommates at one point. Well,

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what I always did is I always paid more and

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then let the other two share a bathroom. This. I

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had this one place for a while, North Hollywood. That

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was where I lived across the street.

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Speaker 3: From Yeah, that's right, that's right.

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Speaker 1: Lived in a townhouse with I had the master bedroom

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and my own bathroom.

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Speaker 3: Wonder we lived close because I was living in North Hollywood,

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lived on Houston Street. I live on Weddington.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's more studio city though, right, No, it did's more.

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It's pretty.

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Speaker 3: It's like past I think it's past Riverside or park anyway. Okay,

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it's like near Riverside, Okay, in Laurel Canyon.

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Speaker 1: Okay. So I lived right by Tohunga. I lived. I

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lived right by where we are right now. We're in

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North live right over there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, on Lamida Street.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, So I lived on Houston Street,

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which is if you go, if you and go up

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a block, like a block.

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Speaker 3: Adam grew up on Houston.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's where I lived, right there, between Lancasham and

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uh to Hunga. Uh huh.

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Speaker 2: Even this is still kind of studio city. I think

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technically it's north, but it's still kind of considered studio city.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, but I had so I had these two

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roommates that shared a bathroom and listen, both of them

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were crazy, but one of them was extra crazy, and

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the extra crazy one was always stealing the other one's food,

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stealing her shampoos, who like, see all her stuff, and

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then she would come to me. I feel like my

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name was on the lease. Anyway, they both got into

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a huge fight one time, and then the one girl

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moved out like mid month and like didn't pitch, Like

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she never paid her rent, she broke the lease or whatever,

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but she was probably like, don't I'm not on the lease. Wow,

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I'm pretty sure I was the name on the lease. Somehow,

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both of those girls kind of fucked me over. I

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was having like a rotating Like one girl moved out,

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so then I got someone to replace her, but then

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they both like left mid month, and then they let

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me not pay my rent, but only for like one month,

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but then I couldn't find It was always a nightmare. Yeah. Mine.

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Speaker 3: It was the this like girlfriend of a friend. She

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I think she owned the house. It was her first

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house because she was the director of preschool and she

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owned the house. And then she had the two bedrooms

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and we had to share a bath And then so

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the girl that I had to share the bathroom with,

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she had two little dogs that would follow her everywhere,

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and I always thought it was weird that the dogs

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went in the bathroom with her every time she went to.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I get it.

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Speaker 3: Fucking Phil is in the bathroom with me every day.

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He follows me everywhere I go It's just like collapses

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at my feet no matter where I am.

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Speaker 1: She comes in Lease gets her body all curled up

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on like the tiny little shower mat. Uh huh. You

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know Phil does stares at me while I poop.

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Speaker 3: No, it's so yeah, now I totally get it. But

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that's the house I was living in during the Northward earthquakes.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So my North Hollywood apartment is where I

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was living during the northwardch Oh you were living in Northwide.

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I was in Santa Monica staying with my boyfriend. But

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that was my apartment. Wow, that's where I lived, Yeah,

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with a totally different roommate at that time.

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Speaker 3: This house was in Chatsworth. That was the first house

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I moved into. It was in Chatsworth. Then Susanna and

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I moved into North Hollywood on Weddington.

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Speaker 1: So, you know, speaking of college and finishing college and

492
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:58,039
then nothing what to do. Sometimes people don't even make

493
00:24:58,079 --> 00:24:59,599
it through the whole college experience.

494
00:24:59,599 --> 00:24:59,839
Speaker 2: This is.

495
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 3: But so I was going to tell you I wanted

496
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,279
to talk about because I have a friend and I'm

497
00:25:05,279 --> 00:25:07,279
not gonna say her, doesn't matter who it is, but

498
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:11,160
a friend, her daughter is going to college on the

499
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:15,680
on the East Coast, and this is her first year

500
00:25:16,319 --> 00:25:20,559
at college. And she grew up in California, southern California

501
00:25:20,599 --> 00:25:23,440
girl and really wanted to go to college on the

502
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:30,039
East Coast. And she has been doing okay, doing really good, good,

503
00:25:30,319 --> 00:25:34,960
great grades, has a couple solid friends, you know, and

504
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:40,720
she's got like her dorm roommates that she likes, excuse me.

505
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:42,880
Speaker 1: And she's been doing okay.

506
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 3: But after she went back after this last break of

507
00:25:47,279 --> 00:25:51,119
the holiday of the holidays, she's kind of not been

508
00:25:51,279 --> 00:25:54,440
feeling it. And she called my friend and said, I

509
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,160
really don't think that this is where I really want

510
00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:00,279
to be. And my friend told me that she told

511
00:26:00,319 --> 00:26:04,960
her this a few times, but her she's she's encouraged

512
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,599
her daughter to, like, you know, stick it out, stick

513
00:26:07,599 --> 00:26:11,000
it out. And finally she just was like, I'm I'm

514
00:26:11,039 --> 00:26:15,279
really like, I'm I'm I'm really sorry, and I don't

515
00:26:15,279 --> 00:26:18,440
know what to do, but I'm just not happy. I'm

516
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,200
just I don't think that this is where I really

517
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:25,720
want to be. So she's like, Okay, well, you know,

518
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,839
we're not going to make any decisions right now. When

519
00:26:27,839 --> 00:26:31,240
you come home from first spring break, we're gonna sit down,

520
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,839
we're going to talk about it, and it through you know,

521
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:36,440
through a loop for my friend.

522
00:26:36,599 --> 00:26:37,759
Speaker 1: And then I.

523
00:26:37,759 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 3: Was talking to her and I'm like, well, you know,

524
00:26:39,279 --> 00:26:43,359
your daughter is she's just, you know, she's not used

525
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,799
to the first of all, the winters in on the

526
00:26:45,839 --> 00:26:48,279
East Coast have been just brutal.

527
00:26:48,519 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 1: And she's she's.

528
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,720
Speaker 3: Not used to that kind of weather. And then also,

529
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:56,119
her daughter's the kind of kid that likes to be

530
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:59,000
close to home. She's always been she's not in Italia.

531
00:26:59,079 --> 00:27:01,640
She's been a home body. She likes to be around

532
00:27:01,799 --> 00:27:05,440
her family, her friends here, you know, and so to

533
00:27:05,519 --> 00:27:09,720
be so far away from home and not being able

534
00:27:09,759 --> 00:27:12,279
to come home at the drop of a hat, you know,

535
00:27:12,839 --> 00:27:15,839
like LB and Natalie. You know, it's it's been I

536
00:27:15,839 --> 00:27:17,680
think taking a toll on her. And it's just like,

537
00:27:17,799 --> 00:27:22,000
what what do you do when your kid calls you

538
00:27:22,039 --> 00:27:24,039
and says that this is not for me, I want

539
00:27:24,079 --> 00:27:24,599
to come home.

540
00:27:25,839 --> 00:27:31,039
Speaker 1: That is so hard because there's so much involved in it.

541
00:27:31,079 --> 00:27:34,359
Like there's a part of I think most parents, and

542
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,119
you know, I'm talking out of my ass right now

543
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:38,720
because I haven't experienced this, but I think there's a

544
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,240
part of all of us that are like, well, you know,

545
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,279
our kids have to learn to do hard things. And

546
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,799
if they say they want to do this thing and

547
00:27:45,839 --> 00:27:48,119
then they try it, you have they have to go

548
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:52,039
through the hard part, the transition, and get used to it,

549
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,759
and then they might be like so thrilled they did. Right.

550
00:27:55,079 --> 00:27:58,599
On the other hand, we're like, okay, am I gonna

551
00:27:58,759 --> 00:28:01,160
is my kid gonna end up having mental health issues

552
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:05,079
because they're sad and forcing them it's hard? How do

553
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,119
we know? Right? Right?

554
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 3: So she I told her, you know, I said I

555
00:28:12,279 --> 00:28:15,839
because she's like, I didn't my friend, she didn't. She

556
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:18,920
went to college, but she went to season. She didn't

557
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,200
go out of state, and she's like, I just don't

558
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:23,079
want her to I don't want her to have that.

559
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,200
I don't want her to just live at home and

560
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,880
go to school at home. I want her to experience

561
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,920
and be out in the world and have, you know,

562
00:28:31,039 --> 00:28:33,759
the experience of college and if I can afford it,

563
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,319
like let her go and have that kind of life.

564
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,200
And I just don't want her to come home and

565
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:41,160
just get complacent and just go to local college here

566
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:44,279
and just stay living at home. Right, Yeah, So I said,

567
00:28:44,519 --> 00:28:47,200
why don't you just come up with like a couple

568
00:28:47,279 --> 00:28:50,000
options for her and say, Okay, if you're going to

569
00:28:50,079 --> 00:28:53,200
come home, these are your options. Like, you know, you

570
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:57,160
can go transfer Santa Barbera or San Diego or wherever, like,

571
00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,400
find out ahead of time where she can transfer, and

572
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:02,599
just come up with a couple options. So it's just

573
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,960
not like, okay, I don't The.

574
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 1: Problem is she can't transfer to like until well, she

575
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,599
would have to have to go to city college, so

576
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:15,240
she'd have to she'd have to transfer to a junior college. Yeah,

577
00:29:15,559 --> 00:29:17,839
and then in November apply.

578
00:29:17,839 --> 00:29:20,519
Speaker 3: Well, I think she would definitely finish out the year

579
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:25,200
and then figure out where she's going to where she

580
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,279
could transfer from the school she goes.

581
00:29:27,079 --> 00:29:30,559
Speaker 1: To but she so, but she can't because she missed

582
00:29:30,559 --> 00:29:33,119
the deadline. She missed the right. Oh yeah, that's right.

583
00:29:33,279 --> 00:29:36,400
She just finished. So she didn't know if she was

584
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:40,079
thinking about transferring, she should have died. So now she

585
00:29:40,119 --> 00:29:43,559
would have to go to like a junior college for

586
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:45,839
one year. She could do it somewhere else. She could

587
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,119
do like what Natalia is doing.

588
00:29:47,359 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 3: That's what I told her City College.

589
00:29:49,319 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 1: And then at the application period this November, she said apply.

590
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,079
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, she said that, so she wouldn't.

591
00:29:56,759 --> 00:29:58,559
Speaker 1: And then do her last two years somewhere else.

592
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 3: Right, So that's what she's going to come up with.

593
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,599
She's going to talk to her over the spring break.

594
00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:06,880
But I don't know if like you knew any other

595
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:08,200
people who's.

596
00:30:08,119 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 1: Yes, so I do know somebody else? Same thing. One

597
00:30:14,759 --> 00:30:19,799
you're past your friend's daughter. Hold on, I feel like

598
00:30:19,799 --> 00:30:24,599
I'm gonna sneeze you. Here are cubs that was violent.

599
00:30:24,759 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 3: You and Kaylen sneezed.

600
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 1: What's going on in this room? Man? So my friend's

601
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:36,240
kid went to school on the East Coast as well,

602
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:42,160
really dead set on that school, like do not had

603
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:45,519
options to go in California? Was like absolutely, do not

604
00:30:45,559 --> 00:30:48,720
want to be in state not for me. Had option

605
00:30:48,839 --> 00:30:53,720
to go on the west coast Pacific Northwest, No, it's

606
00:30:53,799 --> 00:30:56,559
too close. I want to be on the East coast.

607
00:30:56,640 --> 00:31:00,200
That's where I'm meant to be. Chose a school on

608
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,599
the East coast that's like a decent school. Got in.

609
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:05,200
It's a decent school. It's kind of in the middle

610
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:08,359
of nowhere, the big school. A lot of people really

611
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:11,640
like this school. I just don't want to be too specific,

612
00:31:12,559 --> 00:31:15,079
although it doesn't really matter, I get anyway, it doesn't

613
00:31:15,119 --> 00:31:20,240
matter what school it is. Yeah, big school. Yeah, social kid,

614
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:26,039
but like the first year partying a lot, a lot

615
00:31:26,039 --> 00:31:29,400
of partying, a lot of like. But then also I

616
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,799
don't know if this is for me. I'm not not

617
00:31:32,039 --> 00:31:35,160
totally making making some friends, but then like missing the

618
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:38,359
friends back home and then at some point, but then

619
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:43,519
went back for the second for a second year. Early

620
00:31:43,599 --> 00:31:46,759
on was just like I don't like it because every

621
00:31:46,759 --> 00:31:49,880
time every time they would come home for like holidays,

622
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,559
they would see all their old friends and they would

623
00:31:52,599 --> 00:31:55,720
be like, oh my god, I really miss my house,

624
00:31:55,799 --> 00:32:01,880
I miss my bed. But unfortunately, so their grades apparently

625
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:05,880
are not great and they did they also didn't apply

626
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:10,640
in November, so now they had to come. So they

627
00:32:10,759 --> 00:32:13,680
dropped out basically in sophomore year because they were like,

628
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:14,960
I can't do it anymore. I don't want to do

629
00:32:15,039 --> 00:32:17,839
it anymore. So they came home and now they're just

630
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:21,359
apparently living at home and like playing video games all day.

631
00:32:22,079 --> 00:32:26,519
No job. It's exactly your friend's kind of nightmare. Yeah, yeah,

632
00:32:26,599 --> 00:32:32,559
it hasn't did not apply to school in November, even

633
00:32:32,599 --> 00:32:34,559
knowing they were going to leave school, they didn't apply

634
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:36,880
and didn't have the credits to get into a school

635
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,319
they really want to go to, like a UC. So

636
00:32:39,559 --> 00:32:42,319
now they're going to have to go to a junior college,

637
00:32:42,759 --> 00:32:46,680
but like haven't registered for that yet, right, So now

638
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:48,960
they're probably going to have to go to junior college

639
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:55,559
for at least a full year, which wouldn't start until like, yeah,

640
00:32:55,599 --> 00:32:58,960
that's right, like September then, so I don't know.

641
00:32:59,079 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 3: So now they're thinking maybe not even going back to school. Maybe, well,

642
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:07,319
you know, that's the thing. It's like, so like my

643
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:11,160
friend's daughter, her school was. The other thing is that

644
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:14,359
she's like I was just saying, she's she's kind of shy.

645
00:33:14,599 --> 00:33:17,759
She's not you know, she doesn't she's more of a homebody,

646
00:33:17,799 --> 00:33:19,799
and so she was going to school in the city,

647
00:33:20,319 --> 00:33:23,640
you know, and having to like to get around, you know,

648
00:33:23,759 --> 00:33:27,000
take cabs and stuff like that. She's not used to that,

649
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:31,559
you know, and so like having all So so my

650
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:33,920
girlfriend is like, I see why it's kind of a

651
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,960
culture shock to her and why she's probably not that

652
00:33:37,079 --> 00:33:38,920
kind of kid that's cut out to be in that

653
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:43,359
you know, environment or whatever. But I again, like, there's

654
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,920
got to be a clear cut thing. And if you

655
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,759
don't want to go to school, then when you come home,

656
00:33:48,799 --> 00:33:51,240
you got to get a job, like time to start,

657
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:55,519
you know, or be enrolled in junior college and get

658
00:33:55,519 --> 00:33:58,200
credits so that you can get an internship somewhere or

659
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:02,160
something like something. But just to come home and not

660
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:05,599
you know, take it. Because if you're going to take

661
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:08,960
a time off a year or semester, it's going to

662
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:11,960
be really tough to get back into the swing of things.

663
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:13,199
And it's kind of a shame.

664
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 1: I feel like, I'm not really sure how to put this,

665
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,760
but you guys will both completely understand what I'm saying.

666
00:34:21,159 --> 00:34:25,159
But for a lot of people, it really has to

667
00:34:25,159 --> 00:34:27,239
be kind of swimming upstream to figure out what the

668
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:29,280
fuck to do with your life. Yeah, because it was

669
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,079
really difficult for me. And when I look back and go,

670
00:34:32,199 --> 00:34:35,159
I didn't have a quote unquote real job, like a

671
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:37,480
cool job that was something I wanted to be doing,

672
00:34:37,519 --> 00:34:39,920
which was working on a TV show. Yeah. My first

673
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:45,079
job was the big date writing with our boyfriend Mark Wahlberg, right,

674
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,599
And that was when I was twenty eight, So I

675
00:34:48,679 --> 00:34:52,360
felt so old and I was like literally still waiting tables,

676
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:55,119
and I just thought I'm the only person on the

677
00:34:55,159 --> 00:34:57,960
planet who didn't go to car I thought everybody who

678
00:34:57,960 --> 00:34:59,519
went to college just.

679
00:34:59,559 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 3: Autumn went into the work people or knew.

680
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:05,280
Speaker 1: People went into the workforce and had like cool, high

681
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:08,320
paying jobs, which wasn't really the case. Like a lot

682
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,119
of people work their way up. A lot of it

683
00:35:11,159 --> 00:35:13,800
is who you know, finding somebody who can help you

684
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:16,920
get like an entry level job somewhere. A lot of

685
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:20,079
it is who you know. But also, like, let's say

686
00:35:20,119 --> 00:35:22,480
you go to school and you get a degree in

687
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:26,559
I don't know what, Like let's just say psychology, and

688
00:35:26,599 --> 00:35:28,719
you're like, I'm going to be a therapist. Well, then

689
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:31,320
you got to freaking put yourself through grad school, right,

690
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:33,599
You can't just go get a job as a therapist.

691
00:35:33,639 --> 00:35:36,280
So then you're talking about another few years of school.

692
00:35:36,559 --> 00:35:38,360
Where are you going to live during that? Are you

693
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:39,039
living at home?

694
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 3: Right?

695
00:35:39,519 --> 00:35:41,800
Speaker 1: Are you living at grad school? I don't know, But

696
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:45,960
then you come home again. You don't automatically just unless

697
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:47,960
you're like on a doctor track and then you do

698
00:35:48,039 --> 00:35:50,880
a fellowship and then you do you know, you're in

699
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:54,039
med school and you're in a hospital. Like I know

700
00:35:54,119 --> 00:35:56,159
a lot about that because I've been watching Er from

701
00:35:56,199 --> 00:35:58,920
the beginning, right, so I kind of understand the track

702
00:35:59,039 --> 00:36:01,960
of how it works. You know, you're Noah Wiley, You're

703
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:06,039
a fourth year medical student. You're at the hospital. Okay,

704
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,440
But my point is unless you have that motor and

705
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:13,159
that kind of hustle that you and I had, where

706
00:36:13,199 --> 00:36:15,880
I was always like, okay, who do I know? Like

707
00:36:16,119 --> 00:36:17,679
the way that I got the job at the Big

708
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:20,960
Date was literally getting asked by some woman. I was

709
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:24,400
at Barney's Beanery and this woman, this casting director named

710
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:27,800
Jackie Pittman, who's still fully in the business, asked me

711
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:29,800
if I wanted to be a contestant on the show

712
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:33,119
The Big Date. I was just young and you know,

713
00:36:33,199 --> 00:36:34,719
hanging out in a bar, and she was like, do

714
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:37,000
you want to be on this dating show? And I

715
00:36:37,079 --> 00:36:39,280
was like, no, but I'd like to write for it.

716
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,960
I didn't have the proper credentials, and then I like

717
00:36:42,079 --> 00:36:45,760
hustled my way into it. But that was like a

718
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:49,519
fluke almost, you know, right place, right time. I don't

719
00:36:49,519 --> 00:36:51,400
know what would have happened to me. Would I just

720
00:36:51,639 --> 00:36:54,760
have like eventually gotten a job at Trader Joe's and

721
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:56,760
that just worked there for my whole life, or like,

722
00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:00,440
because I see a lot of people, you know, you

723
00:37:00,519 --> 00:37:02,920
see people working let's just say, at a grocery store,

724
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:06,199
and you're like, well, if I would imagine a lot

725
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:08,679
of people that either don't go to college or drop

726
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,960
out of college, or can't afford college, you know whatever,

727
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,719
you don't ever get to have your like dream job,

728
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,159
or you know, it takes a certain kind of personality

729
00:37:18,199 --> 00:37:21,039
to like be a hustler start a business. Yeah, figure

730
00:37:21,079 --> 00:37:23,519
it out. So what happens to the rest of us? Right?

731
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 3: I just I feel lucky because I remember, you know,

732
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:29,639
when I was enrolled at Pierce College and I was

733
00:37:29,679 --> 00:37:31,920
talking to my dad and like the school's not for me,

734
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:35,079
blah blah blah, and he constantly would say, what do

735
00:37:35,079 --> 00:37:36,920
you want to do? And I would say, I want

736
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:40,960
to work in showbiz, but I'm not I want to work.

737
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:42,719
I don't want to be on the production side. I

738
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,360
don't want to be in front of a camera. I

739
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,199
want to work, you know, in the corporate side, but

740
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,760
I don't know where what. And then he was like,

741
00:37:50,039 --> 00:37:53,360
go to the Samuel Frenchis bookstore and like I've talked

742
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:55,559
about this before, and get a list of all these

743
00:37:55,599 --> 00:37:58,800
production companies, and he helped me put a resume together

744
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,920
and I got my first entry level job at a

745
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:05,840
at a syndication company, which is that's how. Then I

746
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:08,119
went to Carcon Warner, and then I went to New

747
00:38:08,159 --> 00:38:11,960
World and then ABC. But like, thank god I had that,

748
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,639
like some just figuring out. But if I didn't have that,

749
00:38:16,199 --> 00:38:18,239
I don't I would be dead in the water, like

750
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:21,239
I would. And I think the other key thing, too,

751
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:25,039
is to try and get an entry level job and

752
00:38:25,079 --> 00:38:28,199
in the field that you want to work in, instead

753
00:38:28,199 --> 00:38:31,920
of just going and waiting tables or bartending or something

754
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:35,000
where you get all cash and then you get drunk

755
00:38:35,039 --> 00:38:38,239
on that cash, you know, and then it's hard to

756
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:41,880
go from that to like minimum wage at a company.

757
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Speaker 1: Heck yeah, hell yeah. Yeah. So in conclusion at the

782
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:13,199
college talk and kind of being a hustler, I do.

783
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:15,440
I think it's important to like, but I was such

784
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,519
a late bloomer even knowing what I wanted to do.

785
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,960
I changed my mind all the time. I was the

786
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:22,760
same like I want to be in show business, but

787
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:25,400
I also was like, I just don't want to be

788
00:40:26,599 --> 00:40:28,760
really low level. I don't like to be told what

789
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:32,039
to do. I wanted to jump in right away. Being

790
00:40:32,119 --> 00:40:35,079
like a writer and stand up was kind of my

791
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:39,280
entry to that because I could kind of write. So

792
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:43,119
I got hired based on a writing sample. But that's

793
00:40:43,199 --> 00:40:48,679
not always the way it works now. Yeah, yeah, kind

794
00:40:48,679 --> 00:40:51,599
of have to have that fire in your belly, I know.

795
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:53,480
So what about people that don't.

796
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:57,639
Speaker 3: Well, that's where the parents come involved, that's where they

797
00:40:57,679 --> 00:40:58,960
got it. Like kind of So that.

798
00:40:59,079 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 1: Takes me right back to like, so do you force

799
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:03,760
your kids? Do you do you have to create that

800
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:05,880
fire in their belly? Do you force them into too

801
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:06,880
being uncomfortable?

802
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:10,039
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean if they want to, if they want money,

803
00:41:10,639 --> 00:41:12,199
they got to go to work and they got to

804
00:41:12,199 --> 00:41:15,119
figure out what they want to do. You know, and

805
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:17,599
like my dad helped me, I'll help my kids.

806
00:41:18,679 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: I know so many kids that don't have jobs like that,

807
00:41:22,079 --> 00:41:26,480
don't try to work. Yeah, And I feel bad because

808
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:29,199
my kids, both Sadie and Xander want to work. Yeah,

809
00:41:29,199 --> 00:41:34,079
and tried to find jobs and couldn't get hired. And

810
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:38,960
Albie loved working. And now she understands what it feels

811
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,440
like to have money, your own money. I know it's

812
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:43,400
hard to go. It's hard to not have your own

813
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:44,519
money once you've had it.

814
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:48,559
Speaker 3: Right and then lose that. Sonny just told me yesterday

815
00:41:48,559 --> 00:41:52,440
that he's been helping people move here and there. He's

816
00:41:52,599 --> 00:41:56,880
on Him and his friend have been doing like I

817
00:41:56,920 --> 00:42:01,679
think it's Facebook marketplace where they helped some lady move

818
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:05,400
like seventy bucks, fifty bucks, this and that, like h

819
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:09,440
on the weekends, he's been doing that. Oh good, Why

820
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:11,400
don't you tell me that? He's like I thought, I

821
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,039
told you. I must have told dad. I go, No,

822
00:42:13,159 --> 00:42:17,840
you didn't tell me. I was like, good, great hustle. Yeah, well,

823
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:19,880
somebody's got to fund his gambling habit.

824
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:24,599
Speaker 1: And I'm just kidding hilarious. I mean, but is he

825
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:25,400
is he happy?

826
00:42:25,599 --> 00:42:29,119
Speaker 3: He's not a big spender Yeah, he's happy. He is

827
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:32,840
he's uh, he's happy. He's like, we just had to

828
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:36,159
give notice to let the building know if he's gonna

829
00:42:36,519 --> 00:42:39,000
come back again in the fall or if he's going

830
00:42:39,079 --> 00:42:42,239
to keep his stuff there during the summer, and so

831
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,639
we re reup that for that day.

832
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, So how does that work because it's not can

833
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:51,159
he leave his stuff there? Yeah? Are they supposed to

834
00:42:51,199 --> 00:42:52,079
move out over the summer?

835
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,639
Speaker 3: No, he can full for it's not that much. For

836
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:56,440
like a small fee, he can keep it there. And

837
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:59,559
then if then you sign the contract to re up

838
00:42:59,599 --> 00:43:03,159
for the fall, which we did. And then his friend

839
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:06,719
that has had his first year, well at the end

840
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:08,719
of this year it will be done at his first year

841
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:12,039
at the university and was living in a dorm. He

842
00:43:12,079 --> 00:43:15,480
wants to move into Sonny's building because he doesn't want

843
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:17,679
to live in the dorm on his second year.

844
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,639
Speaker 1: So would Sonny want to do like a double with

845
00:43:20,679 --> 00:43:21,039
that kid?

846
00:43:21,039 --> 00:43:22,519
Speaker 3: And he was thinking about it, so he wanted to

847
00:43:22,559 --> 00:43:25,039
know how much it was and let him his friend know. So,

848
00:43:25,159 --> 00:43:27,440
I don't know, maybe they will live together or not.

849
00:43:27,559 --> 00:43:30,639
I don't I don't know. Sonny sure does like his

850
00:43:30,639 --> 00:43:33,159
his alone time, though he does he likes, he likes

851
00:43:33,159 --> 00:43:33,599
his space.

852
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:40,119
Speaker 1: I'm really starting to think about for Xander some options

853
00:43:40,519 --> 00:43:43,840
for him to look at even right, and he was

854
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:47,199
saying that he was open to Oregon. Oh really Yeah,

855
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:49,599
I was thinking about looking into some some of those

856
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:55,039
some of the smaller private colleges in Oregon that might

857
00:43:55,079 --> 00:43:57,199
give a lot of like scholarship money.

858
00:43:57,440 --> 00:44:01,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, that would be good. I could see him in Oregon.

859
00:44:01,639 --> 00:44:04,880
Speaker 1: Elbe was so specific. Elber was just like, this is

860
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:07,000
what I want and nothing else. As a lot of

861
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:10,000
you guys know, because you would send me letters and go,

862
00:44:10,079 --> 00:44:12,039
but what about she she should try this, and I'd

863
00:44:12,079 --> 00:44:14,800
be like, good luck, she won't try anything. Yeah, she's

864
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:18,320
not open. Yeah, which you gotta kind of respect. She's

865
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:20,519
a kid who she knows her own mind. Right. There

866
00:44:20,559 --> 00:44:23,039
are things that light her up that she's interested. When

867
00:44:23,039 --> 00:44:25,360
she's interested in something, she will go to the ends

868
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:27,039
of the earth to make it happen. If she's not,

869
00:44:27,199 --> 00:44:28,639
she just does not care. Yeah.

870
00:44:28,679 --> 00:44:33,039
Speaker 3: And same with Natalia. Like she loves the environment she

871
00:44:33,119 --> 00:44:37,880
lives in, loves the weather. She facetimes me in the morning.

872
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:40,800
She gets up at like seven and goes for a

873
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,719
walk on the like down this trail to the beach

874
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:47,320
and she'll FaceTime me or call me when she's you know,

875
00:44:47,639 --> 00:44:49,559
she's like, are you up. She'll just call me and

876
00:44:49,599 --> 00:44:52,039
start keep me company because none of her friends are

877
00:44:52,119 --> 00:44:54,880
up that early, and she'll just call and chit chat

878
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:56,920
with me, and she's like, let me FaceTime. You can

879
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,440
see how pretty it is. She's like, I'm so happy

880
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:01,679
I got to go to school here. She loves it.

881
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:04,199
Speaker 1: Oh my god. We are living the same life with that.

882
00:45:05,039 --> 00:45:09,039
Elbe just was. Elbe just called me she hardly ever does.

883
00:45:09,199 --> 00:45:13,400
On her way home from she was doing a tour

884
00:45:14,199 --> 00:45:17,760
with another new hire, and she was like, hey, mom,

885
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:20,880
Like she basically was telling me how much fun she had,

886
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:22,480
and she was like, will you keep me company on

887
00:45:22,519 --> 00:45:24,480
my walk? I'm going to walk instead of take the

888
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:26,840
bus back to my apartment. And I was like, of course.

889
00:45:27,679 --> 00:45:29,639
And then she was going like, oh my god, I

890
00:45:29,679 --> 00:45:32,599
love it here so much. It's a best I love

891
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:36,320
my school, I love my new job. Yeah. She went

892
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:39,360
on a retreat for the tours. She did a weekend.

893
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:43,119
I think when we our last show, she was going

894
00:45:43,199 --> 00:45:47,000
that weekend. It was last weekend, So had she already

895
00:45:47,079 --> 00:45:50,639
gone no, because it wasn't this weekend. So it was

896
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:53,440
last weekend. She went away for the weekend. Anyway, she

897
00:45:53,599 --> 00:45:56,199
was just like, oh my god, I had the best time.

898
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:57,519
I'm so bonded with that.

899
00:45:57,639 --> 00:46:00,800
Speaker 3: She just she's so lappy, so happy. I know, it's

900
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:02,559
so nice. It's the best.

901
00:46:02,679 --> 00:46:04,639
Speaker 1: Every time I say, like, oh, she went to a party,

902
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:08,840
she went to some dance for a fraternity or sorority,

903
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:11,000
and she, you know, I was like, did you have fun?

904
00:46:11,039 --> 00:46:14,400
And she was like, oh my god, all caps the

905
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:18,480
best time. Like everything is always like the best. But hey,

906
00:46:18,679 --> 00:46:21,480
that's where she wanted to go. She made it happen

907
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:23,320
there you go.

908
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:26,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, she had a fire in her belly to make

909
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:26,639
it happen.

910
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:30,320
Speaker 1: She was not into you know, when people were like

911
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:32,679
what about this school for her? And I'm like, dude,

912
00:46:32,679 --> 00:46:35,400
she's not open. She's like, I want to go to

913
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:38,239
school in California, Like I want to go to a UC.

914
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:41,320
I want to go to UCLA, not any UC I

915
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:45,920
want to go to. But like Xander is way more like, yeah,

916
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:47,679
I don't know. I could go out of state.

917
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:52,400
Speaker 3: It really depends, right, Like Sonny is so happy where

918
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,719
he He was telling me about hikes that he wants

919
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:56,840
to go, these trails that he wants to go on.

920
00:46:57,599 --> 00:47:02,199
They're looking into going I guess skiing one weekend coming

921
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:04,760
up and stuff like it. He could not be happier.

922
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:09,719
I'm talking to him. He's walking like it's it's freezing outside.

923
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:13,400
It's like there's it was it was snowing where he

924
00:47:13,639 --> 00:47:16,920
was recently, and there was like there it was hailing

925
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,480
and it just was a shit show and freezing. God,

926
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:22,039
and he loves it. He loves it. And it is like,

927
00:47:22,079 --> 00:47:24,480
that's my worst nightmare. I could not be in that

928
00:47:24,559 --> 00:47:27,239
cold me too, No way, I have to be where

929
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:30,719
it's sunshine. She's like my mom, you know, whoop.

930
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:36,880
Speaker 1: Sunshine. Oh my god. I could totally see her. If

931
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:38,719
she'd been an eighties kids, she would have been like

932
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:42,440
convertible cabriolet. Oh, totally white.

933
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 3: That's what my mom drove. My mom drove a convertible

934
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:47,079
white Mustang.

935
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:52,199
Speaker 1: Yes, wooo oh yeah, it's a personality type. It's Alby

936
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:57,079
as well. Yeah, I'll be inaliarc similar, yes that way, yes, yeah,

937
00:47:57,119 --> 00:47:59,880
it's so funny. She just say she just loves life,

938
00:48:00,159 --> 00:48:04,440
just loves life. And I got Sadie who's like very

939
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:07,360
specific but in a different way than Albie, Like so

940
00:48:07,519 --> 00:48:11,000
Xander is my open kid, like he's he's albeish in

941
00:48:11,039 --> 00:48:12,719
the way of like, hey, you want to go to

942
00:48:13,039 --> 00:48:15,920
I'm gonna go to Ralph's. Oh, I'll come. I want

943
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:18,480
to look at out. He'll like literally like window shop

944
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:22,039
at Ralph's. Like, oh, i'n't ever tried these crackers? Should

945
00:48:22,039 --> 00:48:24,000
we try these crackers and throw them in the car?

946
00:48:24,679 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 2: You know?

947
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, He's just mister like whatever kind of And then

948
00:48:28,639 --> 00:48:31,519
Sadie is like, do you want to go do this? No?

949
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:34,440
Do you want to go do this? No? Definitely not.

950
00:48:34,639 --> 00:48:37,360
Do you want to go do this? Maybe I'll think

951
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:40,159
about it, you know. And she's like, you know, I

952
00:48:40,199 --> 00:48:44,239
don't want to live far from home. Yes, she's a homebody.

953
00:48:45,119 --> 00:48:48,360
She also likes her alone time, so like, I'm not sure.

954
00:48:48,599 --> 00:48:52,199
I'm not sure how that would go with her with roommates,

955
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:53,679
Like I Do'm not sure.

956
00:48:55,159 --> 00:48:57,079
Speaker 3: What was she gonna mean if she she could do

957
00:48:57,199 --> 00:49:00,280
with what Sonny's doing or I don't know, you know,

958
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:03,000
get a place alone.

959
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 1: I don't know.

960
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:06,360
Speaker 3: I mean the fact that he's going to junior college

961
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:11,840
like saves a lot of money, yeah, is great? Yes, yeah, so.

962
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:16,079
Speaker 1: I mean she might do that maybe season maybe a

963
00:49:16,159 --> 00:49:19,400
school just like close by. But you know, I don't

964
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:22,920
know there's options. We're meeting with the college counselor from

965
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:23,440
the school.

966
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:28,159
Speaker 3: Right they're in eleventh grade. They're gonna have to start.

967
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 1: Looking thinking about it. Yeah, I mean literally this is

968
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:37,079
We're still in February, but this November they'll be right

969
00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:41,559
this October do it all over applications?

970
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 3: Oh my god, one year Offvey. I don't envy you,

971
00:49:48,559 --> 00:49:50,320
but at least now you've been through it, so you

972
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:52,960
know what to expect twice two years in a row.

973
00:49:53,119 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, hardest thing, hardest stuff I went through with LB

974
00:49:57,519 --> 00:50:01,400
in our mother daughter relationship with college ops, because that's

975
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:03,880
where you walk that line between like do I leave

976
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:05,960
them alone to make their mistakes? But this is a

977
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:09,639
big fucking mistake to make. And then do I how

978
00:50:09,679 --> 00:50:12,320
hard do I push them? How much do I micromanage

979
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:17,000
them getting certain things done? And as you remember senior

980
00:50:17,039 --> 00:50:19,360
year of high school for Lbie, I had to basically

981
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:21,559
ground her for the first time in her life and go,

982
00:50:21,639 --> 00:50:25,480
you're not going anywhere until you finish applications, some of

983
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:30,480
them because you have to figure out with your kids

984
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:36,800
whether it's fear, laziness, you know, laziness or fear right

985
00:50:37,039 --> 00:50:40,360
right right? One of those two things is causing procrastination.

986
00:50:40,559 --> 00:50:41,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true.

987
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 1: So either they just don't care enough because they're just

988
00:50:44,039 --> 00:50:47,719
they can't really visualize their future, so they're like, it's

989
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:50,280
not that important. What's the worst that can happen if

990
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:53,960
I miss deadlines? Or they're scared and they're like, that

991
00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:56,320
seems really hard, And what happens if I don't get

992
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:58,559
in and I want to put myself out there and

993
00:50:58,559 --> 00:51:03,000
then get disappointed? Yeah, So with LB that was really

994
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:05,480
difficult because I think it came down to fear for

995
00:51:05,559 --> 00:51:07,519
her first year, and it had to just be like

996
00:51:07,679 --> 00:51:09,239
you're gonna have to sit down and do this and

997
00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:16,239
ye put yourself and then to get completely disappointed, feel devastated,

998
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:19,960
have a breakup and see all your friends go to school,

999
00:51:20,199 --> 00:51:23,679
and find the motivation in you to like, I know

1000
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:26,800
all that stuff is happening, but now, if you want

1001
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:29,559
to do Pierson one year, you've got to sign up

1002
00:51:29,559 --> 00:51:31,239
for these classes and you've got to take some of

1003
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:33,079
them in the summer. Yeah mm hmmm.

1004
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:37,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, my gosh. I was thinking about it with Sonny

1005
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:40,119
and Italia, Like Sonny was the one that I had

1006
00:51:40,119 --> 00:51:41,760
to get on top of and get on on top

1007
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:43,559
like you know, come on, did you work with your

1008
00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:46,400
did do you work with the counselor today? Are you

1009
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:50,800
you know, when's your deadlining? Blah blah. Natalia didn't have

1010
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:53,320
to worry about any of that, Like she took it

1011
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:55,800
like she was just like okay. She was on top

1012
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:58,599
of the counselor going like let's go like what do

1013
00:51:58,639 --> 00:52:01,159
I okay, what do I need? No da, because she

1014
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:03,679
Natalia wants to keep up with the Joneses, like she

1015
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:06,079
does not want to miss out. And she's got these

1016
00:52:06,079 --> 00:52:08,559
two friends that were doing what she wants to do

1017
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:11,360
a year ahead of her, so she wanted to make

1018
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:15,280
sure that she got, you know, everything done exactly. And

1019
00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:18,079
now she's like telling me, if she doesn't get the

1020
00:52:18,159 --> 00:52:20,920
right GPA by you know that what she needs at

1021
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:23,320
the end of this year, she's gonna take summer classes

1022
00:52:23,559 --> 00:52:25,000
to pull up her GPA.

1023
00:52:25,199 --> 00:52:26,719
Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah.

1024
00:52:27,159 --> 00:52:29,199
Speaker 3: So she's like, I don't want to take summer classes.

1025
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:32,039
So and I said, well, if you need account if

1026
00:52:32,039 --> 00:52:35,679
you need you know, tutor, whatever, let me know. I'll

1027
00:52:35,679 --> 00:52:37,400
help you. And she's like, no, I think I'm okay.

1028
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:40,800
And again like she's got these roommates that have taken

1029
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:42,679
those classes and they can help her. And you know,

1030
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:44,800
and she's got friends that are in her class, a

1031
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:47,480
lot of her classes, so they go study together and

1032
00:52:47,679 --> 00:52:51,159
they pounded out get their assignments done. It's a lot

1033
00:52:51,159 --> 00:52:55,119
of tedious work. She's she's really tired. She's like, I'm

1034
00:52:55,199 --> 00:52:58,679
just constant, like so many assignments, so many you know,

1035
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:02,480
it's just a lot of work, busy work. But she's

1036
00:53:02,519 --> 00:53:03,199
on top of it.

1037
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:06,280
Speaker 1: So Elb got to skip a lot of those classes

1038
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:08,760
because she had taken all these aps in high school.

1039
00:53:09,199 --> 00:53:11,760
But like Sadie and Xander are not taking those same

1040
00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:16,159
type of aps. So like Elbi had taken AP biology,

1041
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:20,159
so she literally never had to do classes. She wasn't

1042
00:53:20,199 --> 00:53:23,840
that interested in high school at Peers because she'd already

1043
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:26,679
done them. So she had to do actually, she had

1044
00:53:26,679 --> 00:53:30,880
to do one science She had one geology class and

1045
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:38,119
one history class. Literally other than that, she took sociology

1046
00:53:38,119 --> 00:53:42,000
classes and she took like a music appreciation class, and

1047
00:53:42,079 --> 00:53:44,639
she took only stuff that had to do with her major.

1048
00:53:45,159 --> 00:53:48,519
She never had to take a math or the one

1049
00:53:48,599 --> 00:53:52,760
science class. But it was like an easier but I

1050
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:55,280
don't think it would be the same. First, if Sadie

1051
00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:58,800
went to junior college, she would be the same as Natalia,

1052
00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:01,280
having to take a bunch of right, which is gonna

1053
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:04,760
feel high schoolish, Yeah and hard. I was saying that.

1054
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:07,000
Speaker 3: I was asking Italia. I said, you know, it's weird

1055
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:10,400
because you and Sonny we're not great students in high school,

1056
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:12,440
but like now you guys are getting a's and b's

1057
00:54:12,519 --> 00:54:15,480
and getting your shit done in college. She's like, it's

1058
00:54:15,559 --> 00:54:19,000
just different. It's different feeling like we're not up every

1059
00:54:19,119 --> 00:54:22,000
day and they're all day long, five.

1060
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:22,519
Speaker 1: Days a week.

1061
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:25,480
Speaker 3: Yes, you know, She's like, with the schedules are different.

1062
00:54:25,519 --> 00:54:28,119
You know there's online classes and then you get out

1063
00:54:28,199 --> 00:54:31,320
you can like then you're actually going to campus and

1064
00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:33,400
going there for a couple hours and then going to

1065
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:36,280
the library with your friend. Like she's like, it's just different. Yeah,

1066
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:38,119
and you know you have a goal you're working towards.

1067
00:54:38,119 --> 00:54:41,039
So I could see that. I was like, good, more

1068
00:54:41,079 --> 00:54:41,599
power to you.

1069
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:45,920
Speaker 1: It's amazing because LB's junior at UCLA, which you'd think

1070
00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:48,639
would be so hard, having the time of her life,

1071
00:54:49,039 --> 00:54:52,599
loves her classes. She only has three classes right now,

1072
00:54:53,079 --> 00:54:56,920
tons of free time, tons of just living life, she'll

1073
00:54:56,960 --> 00:54:59,639
have like a class and then a discussion and it's

1074
00:54:59,639 --> 00:55:01,239
all fun. She's like, oh my god, I had the

1075
00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:03,280
best time in my discussion today, Like and I met

1076
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:05,079
I met some new friends, and I have this friend

1077
00:55:05,079 --> 00:55:07,800
in this class, and it's like it's nothing like high school.

1078
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:10,679
Speaker 3: Right yeah. I'm like, wait till you start to take

1079
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:13,599
classes that you really are interested in, because now they're

1080
00:55:13,639 --> 00:55:15,159
just taking all that crap to get it out of

1081
00:55:15,159 --> 00:55:16,000
the way, right.

1082
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:19,320
Speaker 1: You know, right yeah, I mean I think I told

1083
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:22,360
you that Elbie's trying to get into this sociology and crime.

1084
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:25,800
Oh wow, I'm like, can I take it? I know?

1085
00:55:27,559 --> 00:55:28,679
Speaker 3: That would be awesome.

1086
00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:30,679
Speaker 1: Wouldn't it be cool if you could just like take

1087
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:33,480
a take a class with the clay, Like, let me

1088
00:55:33,519 --> 00:55:34,320
just sign up for this.

1089
00:55:34,639 --> 00:55:35,480
Speaker 3: That would be fun.

1090
00:55:35,639 --> 00:55:38,360
Speaker 1: Well, they do have UCLA Extension class, yes you can take,

1091
00:55:38,639 --> 00:55:44,280
but probably not Sociology and Crime. Now AnyWho, let's say

1092
00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:47,760
hello to Dick frolicking and Kelly Lottie Da and Katie's

1093
00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:51,559
going to fire Festival, and Nikki call your girls, and

1094
00:55:51,639 --> 00:55:54,679
Elizabeth Williamson's popping out more kids as we speak. I

1095
00:55:54,679 --> 00:55:57,239
think she's in the delivery room, and Rita's going to

1096
00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:59,599
rock them in her Basinette and Polly, we live your

1097
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1098
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1099
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1104
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You love your dancing. Stephanie's a stinker wrinker. By the way,

1105
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I want to say that I am doing a workshop

1106
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with our friend Meredith Lynch. Oh yeah, so we're doing

1107
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a thing on increasing your platform for if you want

1108
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1110
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1111
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1113
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1122
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All right, thanks everybody. Thanks Kaylin her parent. Now, don't

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have it up. It's good letting.

1148
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Speaker 2: No h