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<v Speaker 1>This is Pastor Rick's Daily Hope, the audio broadcast ministry

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<v Speaker 1>of Pastor Rick Warren. Today we continue with a series

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<v Speaker 1>called how God Turns Setbacks into Comebacks. We're so glad

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<v Speaker 1>that you've joined us today. Now, if you know someone

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<v Speaker 1>who needs some encouragement right now, be sure to invite

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<v Speaker 1>them with a text or a phone call to listen

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<v Speaker 1>along with you. But first studies have shown the more

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<v Speaker 1>grateful a person is, the happier they are. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>not always easy to be thankful. That's why Pastor Rick

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<v Speaker 1>developed the Power of Gratitude. It's a special interactive Bible

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<v Speaker 1>study to help you grow your gratitude. You can find

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<v Speaker 1>out more by going to Pastorick dot com while you

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<v Speaker 1>listen to today's message. If you want, you can just

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<v Speaker 1>text the word hope to eight hundred six hundred five

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<v Speaker 1>thousand and four for more information. That's the word hope

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<v Speaker 1>to eight hundred six hundred five thousand and four. Right now,

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<v Speaker 1>here's Pastor Rick with part two of a message called

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<v Speaker 1>when your Setback Seems Irreversible.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, job Wood.

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<v Speaker 3>He says this, when everything bad happened to him, I

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<v Speaker 3>came naked from my mother's womb and I shall have

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<v Speaker 3>nothing when I die. Now, let me just pause there.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I have three kids. I was there when

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<v Speaker 3>they were all, you know, born, and they did come

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<v Speaker 3>in with nothing. They none of them brought toys, none

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<v Speaker 3>of them brought a portfolio, none of them had a briefcase.

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<v Speaker 3>And so I know nobody comes into this world with something.

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<v Speaker 3>You come in naked. And also I would say that

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<v Speaker 3>I have done hundreds, maybe thousands of funerals and I've

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<v Speaker 3>never seen a U hall parked on a gravesite. So

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<v Speaker 3>in this passage, you come with nothing, you leave with nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>That's true, he says, the Lord gave me everything I have,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's his right to take anything away.

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<v Speaker 2>Blessed be the name of the Lord.

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<v Speaker 3>And it says in all of this, I want you

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<v Speaker 3>to underline this Job did not sin by blaming God.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, if you were to study the book of Job,

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<v Speaker 3>you'd find that the main question of the book is

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<v Speaker 3>will you love God and will you trust God no

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<v Speaker 3>matter what happens? Why do you worship God? Why do

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<v Speaker 3>you love God only when things go good? Or will

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<v Speaker 3>you love God and serve God no matter what happens?

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<v Speaker 3>For INDs, this is the ultimate test of your faith.

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<v Speaker 3>Will you worship God even though everything's going wrong in

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<v Speaker 3>your life? You see, you are not promised a perfect life.

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<v Speaker 3>This is not heaven, this is earth, and so your

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<v Speaker 3>faith will be tested and untested faith there is really

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<v Speaker 3>no faith at all. And a lot of times things

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<v Speaker 3>happen in your life. In fact, most of the times

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<v Speaker 3>we don't have an explanation, and you're never going to

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<v Speaker 3>get it an explanation.

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<v Speaker 2>When bad things happen.

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<v Speaker 3>There may be times you just have to say, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know, I don't get the big picture, but I

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<v Speaker 3>trust that God is good. Life is not always good,

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<v Speaker 3>but God is always good. And when I'm in the

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<v Speaker 3>presence of God in eternity one day in heaven, then

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to fully understand it. Right now, my brain

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<v Speaker 3>isn't big enough to comprehend it. How do you trust

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<v Speaker 3>God when your heart is breaking? How do you put

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<v Speaker 3>your eyes on God when they're filled with tears? Well,

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<v Speaker 3>the antidote to bitterness is not to just say I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to be bitter. The antidote to bitterness is

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<v Speaker 3>actually praise. It's worship. What is worship? It means focusing

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<v Speaker 3>on God. Now, if you are sitting here today listening

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<v Speaker 3>to me talk to you, and maybe you've never even

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<v Speaker 3>been in church before. Maybe this is the first time

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<v Speaker 3>you hear there's some things you need to know that

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<v Speaker 3>he as Christians, no matter what happens in life, are

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<v Speaker 3>thankful for Job talks about these things in his book.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's some facts of life that I know are true

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<v Speaker 3>no matter what happens to me. Number one, God will

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<v Speaker 3>never stop loving me. That's a big deal. Number two,

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<v Speaker 3>God has a plan for my life and your life.

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<v Speaker 3>Number three, God cares about every detail of my life

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<v Speaker 3>and your life. Number four God is in control of

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<v Speaker 3>things even when I don't understand it. And number five

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<v Speaker 3>God will protect me. Those are things that I can

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<v Speaker 3>build my life on when I don't understand why things

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<v Speaker 3>are happening in my life. God is here, God is near,

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<v Speaker 3>God cares. God is powerful. God can change it. God

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<v Speaker 3>has a plan, purpose, and He's going to use it

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<v Speaker 3>all for good. You know, earlier I mentioned that guy

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<v Speaker 3>named Hebakak, and I said that in the first those

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<v Speaker 3>three chapters of that book, they're all about the question

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<v Speaker 3>why why God? Well, look at this first one your

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<v Speaker 3>outl and Habacco three seventeen and eighteen Here's what Tobacca

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<v Speaker 3>did when he had a setback that looked like was irreversible.

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<v Speaker 2>He says this, even though the fig leaves.

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<v Speaker 3>Have no fruit, and even though no grapes grow on

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<v Speaker 3>the vine, and even though the olive crop fails and

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<v Speaker 3>the fields produce no grain, and even though the sheep

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<v Speaker 3>all die and the cattle stalls are empty. What he's

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<v Speaker 3>saying there, even though everything in my life is a disaster,

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<v Speaker 3>he says this, I'll still be joyful and glad because

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<v Speaker 3>the Lord God is my savior. What are you bitter

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<v Speaker 3>about today? What is some bitterness that you've allowed to

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<v Speaker 3>take root in your life? Said it earlier, Bitterness is

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<v Speaker 3>a poison. Bitterness destroys. It will eat you alive. It's

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<v Speaker 3>like a cancer that will take over your life. When

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<v Speaker 3>you are bitter, it always hurt you more than it

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<v Speaker 3>does the person you're bitter It problem with bitterness is

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<v Speaker 3>it doesn't hurt anybody else. It only hurts you. You

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<v Speaker 3>can be bitter and the person you're bitter at they

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<v Speaker 3>don't even know it. They can be out having a party,

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<v Speaker 3>eat the steak, celebrating, and it's destroying you. Now, if

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<v Speaker 3>you're going to break through, the setback. To come back,

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<v Speaker 3>you've got to tell God exactly how you feel. But

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<v Speaker 3>then you've got to resist bitterness. And you need to

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<v Speaker 3>realize two things. First, in an imperfect world, everything has

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<v Speaker 3>been broken by sin, and there's always going to be

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<v Speaker 3>plenty of disappointments to become bitter about. So don't be

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<v Speaker 3>surprised at that, Jesus said, in the world, you will

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<v Speaker 3>have tribulation and trials. But second, you need to remember

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<v Speaker 3>that both bitterness. Listen, both bitterness and happiness are choices,

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<v Speaker 3>and every moment of your life, you're always choosing one

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<v Speaker 3>or the other. And if you choose to be bitter

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<v Speaker 3>at the same moment, you're choosing to not be happy

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<v Speaker 3>because you can't have both the same time in your

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<v Speaker 3>heart and your mind. So my question is your pastor

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<v Speaker 3>someone who loves you, is this which one do you want?

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<v Speaker 3>Happiness or bitterness? Job said, the Lord gave me everything

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<v Speaker 3>I've ever had, and if he allows it to be

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<v Speaker 3>taken away, I'm still going to trust him because I

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't even exist if it wasn't for God. I refuse

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<v Speaker 3>to be bitter because of the setback. Now here's the

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<v Speaker 3>third step in trusting God. It's t ru This is

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<v Speaker 3>the you uh in trust when you want to have

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<v Speaker 3>a comeback from a setback that seems irreversible. The tea

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<v Speaker 3>in trust tell God how I feel, the r refuse

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<v Speaker 3>to be bitter, and the you in trust. Cross stick

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<v Speaker 3>stands for unite with other people who will help me

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<v Speaker 3>focus on God. Unite with people who will help me

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<v Speaker 3>focus on God. Now I want you to get this

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<v Speaker 3>is very important. For any comeback, You're going to need

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<v Speaker 3>other people with faith to back you up. You're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>need other people in your life who can actually believe

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<v Speaker 3>God for you when your faith is shaky. This is

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<v Speaker 3>why you must be in a small group of believers

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<v Speaker 3>for regular fellowship. It's why I talk about the importance

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<v Speaker 3>of a small group practically every other week. That's why

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<v Speaker 3>this church is built on small groups. We have over

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<v Speaker 3>seven thousand of these small groups. They will be your

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<v Speaker 3>safety net when you're setback happens in your life and

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<v Speaker 3>you cannot isolate yourself. Now, God never intends for you

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<v Speaker 3>to go through life on your own. He never intends

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<v Speaker 3>for you to go through grief or sorrow or tragedy

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<v Speaker 3>or loss or difficulty or set back by yourself. He

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<v Speaker 3>made us for each other. He wired human beings to

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<v Speaker 3>need each other. We're better together, we're better in community.

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<v Speaker 3>And the first thing God said to man when he

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<v Speaker 3>created man is it's not good for men to be alone.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's the problem when you have a setback, or I

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<v Speaker 3>have a setback, when we're going through pain or suffering

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<v Speaker 3>or sorrow or sadness or loss, the problem is our

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<v Speaker 3>natural reaction to pain is to withdraw from others, to

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<v Speaker 3>pull back. And we want to build a wall around ourselves.

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<v Speaker 3>We want to build a shell, We want to put

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<v Speaker 3>up barriers. We want to keep people in the distance.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't want anybody close to us when we're in deep,

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<v Speaker 3>deep pain.

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<v Speaker 2>And God says, no, no, no, no no. That's the

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<v Speaker 2>exact opposite of what you need to do.

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to Pastor Rick's Daily Hope. Rick will be

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<v Speaker 4>Did you know experts have discovered that gratitude is the

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<v Speaker 4>healthiest human emotion. It makes you more resistant to stress

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<v Speaker 4>and increases your overall happiness and satisfaction. In fact, study

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<v Speaker 4>show the more grateful a person is, the happier they are.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the power of gratitude. The Bible tells us to rejoice, always,

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<v Speaker 4>pray continually, and give thanks in all circumstances, so it's

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<v Speaker 4>clear that God wants us to develop an attitude of gratitude.

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<v Speaker 4>But we all know it's not always easy to feel grateful.

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<v Speaker 4>That's why Pastoric developed a Bible study called the Power

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<v Speaker 4>of Gratitude. This innovative study is filled with scripture, teaching, exercises, quotes, prayers,

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<v Speaker 4>and journal pages. As you go through the study, you'll

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<v Speaker 4>discover the many and often unique things you have to

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<v Speaker 4>be grateful for every day. You'll develop the lifelong habit

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<v Speaker 4>of expressing gratitude to God, a habit that leads to

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<v Speaker 3>When we're going through pain or suffering, or sorrow or

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<v Speaker 3>sadness or loss, the problem is our natural reaction to

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<v Speaker 3>pain is to withdraw from others, to pull back, and

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<v Speaker 3>we want to build a wall around ourselves. We want

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<v Speaker 3>to build a shell, we want to put up barriers.

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<v Speaker 3>We want to keep people in the distance. We don't

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<v Speaker 3>want anybody close to us when we're in deep, deep pain.

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<v Speaker 3>And God says, no, no, no, no, that's the exact

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<v Speaker 3>opposite of what you need to do. One of Job's

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<v Speaker 3>friends gave this wise advice in job. Notice this that

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<v Speaker 3>on your outline. His name was Elihu, and in Job

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<v Speaker 3>thirty six he says to Job, Job, don't let your

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<v Speaker 3>anger and the pain that you've endured make you sneer it. God,

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<v Speaker 3>reputation and riches can't protect you from distress, nor can

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<v Speaker 3>here's his first advice. Never use evil to escape pain.

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<v Speaker 3>you spend hanging out with God's people. He says, join

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<v Speaker 3>are focusing on God. That's what worship is. And he says,

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<v Speaker 3>join with them. When you are needing a comeback, don't

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<v Speaker 3>who are God's people who can build you up and

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<v Speaker 3>have lost it all, don't turn from God. Turn to God.

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<v Speaker 3>If you turn away from God, what's the alternative? Bitterness, despair, hopelessness.

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<v Speaker 3>First Chronicle sixteen eleven says, go to the Lord for

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<v Speaker 3>help and worship him. That means focus. Worship means focus

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<v Speaker 3>on God's goodness. Life is not always good, I said that,

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<v Speaker 3>but God is always good. Now, what should you ask

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<v Speaker 3>ask God for strength because you're going to need both

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<v Speaker 3>God's wisdom and God's strength for your comeback. You can't

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<v Speaker 3>this true wisdom and real power belong to God. From

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<v Speaker 3>him we learn how to live and also what to

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<v Speaker 3>want to know what to live for. You're gonna need

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<v Speaker 3>God's wisdom. Where do you get that from God? The

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<v Speaker 3>but you ask him for strength. Verse Chronicles sixteen eleven

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<v Speaker 3>for help and worship him. Do you know that worshiping

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<v Speaker 3>God actually relaxes you? Studies have shown it actually slows

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<v Speaker 3>go to church studies have shown this every week, Live longer.

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<v Speaker 3>Psalm sixty nine, verse thirty two says this, those who

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<v Speaker 3>worship God will be encouraged. Worship makes you wiser, Worship

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<v Speaker 3>problem and the set back you're facing. And no TV

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<v Speaker 3>program can offer that. So to come back from a setback,

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<v Speaker 2>Do, you need to do what David did.

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<v Speaker 3>He went to church, He went to worship, and Psalm

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<v Speaker 3>sixty three, David says this, here I am in the

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<v Speaker 3>place of worship, eyes open, drinking in your strength and glory.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what you do in worship. You put your eyes

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<v Speaker 3>on God. Your problem gets smaller, God gets bigger, and

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<v Speaker 3>Philippians Chapter one. In the Bible, Verse nineteen, Paul talks

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<v Speaker 3>a small group, and he says this to the Philippian Christians.

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<v Speaker 3>Because you're praying for me and the Spirit of Christ

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<v Speaker 3>is helping me. I know that this trouble will bring

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<v Speaker 3>my freedom circle that word freedom. What is Paul saying here,

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<v Speaker 3>He's saying that prayer is the path back to your comeback.

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<v Speaker 3>Prayer is the path back to your comeback. So you

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<v Speaker 3>want to join a small group where you've got people

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<v Speaker 3>praying for you when you're going through tough times. Now,

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<v Speaker 3>pray specifically for people in pain in all of our

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<v Speaker 3>seven thousand plus small groups. Sometimes we like to do

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<v Speaker 2>And I'd like to do that right now.

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<v Speaker 3>So what I'd like everybody to do is just bow

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<v Speaker 3>your head in all of our campuses if you valuer

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<v Speaker 3>it for a minute. And if you're going through a

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<v Speaker 3>or any kind of setback. I want to lead our

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<v Speaker 3>entire Saddleback Church family in all of our four different

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<v Speaker 3>continent to pray together for you right now and what

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<v Speaker 2>Faith with our heads bowed.

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<v Speaker 3>No matter what campus you're at, if you are going

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<v Speaker 3>from your church family, I'm going to ask you to

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<v Speaker 3>right now to just quietly stand with your head bowed.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't have to say anything, just quietly stand with

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<v Speaker 3>People are standing up in all of our campuses right now,

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<v Speaker 3>and if you're sitting next to someone who stood up

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<v Speaker 3>just now, you might want to just reach over and

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<v Speaker 2>We're with you.

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<v Speaker 3>We're a family, we're in this together, and we're supporting you.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's pray together as a church family for all of

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to Pastor Rick's Daily Hope. We are so

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<v Speaker 1>But first, experts have discovered that an attitude of gratitude

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<v Speaker 1>bolsters your health and happiness. So how do you practice

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<v Speaker 1>daily gratitude even when life is tough. Here's Rick to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you about a Bible study he's developed to help

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<v Speaker 3>One of the things that God wants us to do,

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<v Speaker 3>and he says it over and over scripture, is to

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<v Speaker 3>practice gratitude. Did you know that gratitude is good for us?

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<v Speaker 3>The Bible tells us in First Essalon Ins five eighteen,

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<v Speaker 3>give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's.

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<v Speaker 2>Will for you. In Christ Jesus.

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<v Speaker 3>You want to know God's will is for you right now,

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<v Speaker 3>Either that you learn gratitude in all circumstances, there's always

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<v Speaker 3>something you can be thankful for. In fact, I've discovered,

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<v Speaker 3>that gratitude makes you more resistant distress? Did you know

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<v Speaker 3>that gratitude makes you less susceptible to illness? Did you

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<v Speaker 3>know that gratitude increases your overall happiness and satisfaction? That

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<v Speaker 3>So I want you to live with the attitude of gratitude,

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<v Speaker 3>the attitude of thankfulness. Now I've put together a brand

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<v Speaker 3>it you'll find scriptures and teaching and exercises that'll help

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<v Speaker 3>discover how to state in God's will, how to defeat discouragement,

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<v Speaker 3>help you develop a deep and a profound attitude of gratitude.

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<v Speaker 3>The world is craving people like this, and you will

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<v Speaker 3>of Gratitude. Bible study. I just want to say thanks

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