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<v Speaker 1>All right, we're going to Glastonbury. We've good Jared on

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<v Speaker 1>the line, who went on a first date and I

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<v Speaker 1>was getting ghosted.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning, Jared, Hey, good morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey. All right, so welcome to the show. Tell us

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<v Speaker 3>about this great first date.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So I went on a great date with a woman.

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<v Speaker 2>Her name is mel short from Melissa, and I took

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<v Speaker 2>her to a really nice Italian restaurant. Okay, we sat outside,

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<v Speaker 2>the weather was perfect, and the conversation was smooth, was great.

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<v Speaker 2>I honestly felt a real connection, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>reached out to her after the date. But I'm totally

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<v Speaker 2>getting ghosted, and I kind of want to know why.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, here's one.

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<v Speaker 1>When you guys are at dinner, did you ask anything

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<v Speaker 1>about her?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you try to get to know her?

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<v Speaker 1>Or did you talk about yourself for hours on end

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<v Speaker 1>like the last time I ever went out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with a guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, I asked her everything. We Uh, okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>good at that. I promise you know. I'm not like

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<v Speaker 2>just like me, me me, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And you didn't do anything gross like blow your nose

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<v Speaker 1>in the napkin or anything, right, because I've seen something.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, of course you didn't hug the free breadsticks and

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<v Speaker 3>salad and soup that they give you the Olive Garden.

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<v Speaker 2>Nope, nope, nope, not at all. You didn't do too

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<v Speaker 2>many bread sticks?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. Please tell me to bring you to the Olive Garden? Please?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you it was not the Olive Garden? Thank? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>It nice Italian restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay that the don't as the resident Italian, I don't care.

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<v Speaker 3>The Olive Garden is fabulous anyway, I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Just a little more updale.

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<v Speaker 3>That God ever shared? Did you pay for the day? Okay? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like to me, you're you're outside, You're you're

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<v Speaker 1>having wine, you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Eating fabulous food, the conversations full. It sounds like a

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<v Speaker 3>great date. It was all right, Ron, we're gonna call

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<v Speaker 3>her up.

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to be listening in and you can join

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<v Speaker 1>in on the conversation at any time. But we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>ask her why she's ghosting you. Are you okay with that?

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<v Speaker 2>Please?

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<v Speaker 3>I think he's nervous. Can you tell he was?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>I think he's nervous.

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<v Speaker 4>I think you guys got a step saying that the

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<v Speaker 4>Olive Garden is like good Italian food.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that's where we're going for lunch. Not stop. Thank you, Courtney.

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<v Speaker 3>I know she's wrong with me. It's wrong with the food.

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<v Speaker 2>There.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi is Mel, There, Hi Mel, it's Courtney, Mel. What's

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<v Speaker 3>going on? It's Walmart, Jeff. Hey, Mel, it's Savannah.

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<v Speaker 1>We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. You're on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio this morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Mal.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, all right, you're on second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>If somebody gets ghosted after a first date, they call

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<v Speaker 1>us when we get answers, I will tell you.

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<v Speaker 3>Jared called us. He said he had a great date

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<v Speaker 3>with a woman named Mel short for Melissa.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys, went out to dinner like an Italian restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>drank wine and sat outside. He felt a connection, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're ghosting him.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, okay, how how was the date for you?

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<v Speaker 1>Because there's always two sides, mostly three sides to a story,

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<v Speaker 1>but we want to hear your side.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean the date was mostly good, okay, Like it

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<v Speaker 4>was going well for a while, okay, And you know, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>I at the beginning of it, okay, you know, I

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<v Speaker 4>did no a connection and I thought I probably would

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<v Speaker 4>see him again and all that, but then he just

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<v Speaker 4>did something that just really kind of put me off.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I was wondering this. He said, he paid,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't overdrink, he was polite. What did he do

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<v Speaker 1>that turned you off?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm a server and you know, like I said,

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<v Speaker 4>most of it was fine, but that at one point

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<v Speaker 4>he was he like snapped, get the we get our

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<v Speaker 4>service attention.

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<v Speaker 3>And wait, did he.

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<v Speaker 1>Snap his finger or snapped like yelled at somebody snapped?

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<v Speaker 4>Had he put his hand up in the air, like

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<v Speaker 4>snapped his fingers like oh, waiter type of move, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what I mean? And it just like it was

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<v Speaker 4>really off putting, Like I hate when people do that

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<v Speaker 4>to me. I just feel like it's so rude, Like

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<v Speaker 4>I kind of just wait a minute, like you know

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<v Speaker 4>what I mean, like, don't come back, you don't melt

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<v Speaker 4>snapping your fingers.

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<v Speaker 2>Mal nab Mels, Jared, I don't remember snapping my fingers

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<v Speaker 2>at at the server, but I just raising my hand.

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<v Speaker 1>Mel, I should like, you know, Jared's on the line.

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead, Jared. Did you really snap your fingers at

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<v Speaker 1>the waitress?

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<v Speaker 2>Jared, No, I don't remember snapping my fingers. I just

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<v Speaker 2>just raised my hand. She was she was walking around

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<v Speaker 2>with wine and our glasses were empty. I just wanted,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, to get her attention. I apologize if I

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<v Speaker 2>snapped my fingers.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not like obviously it's all I'm saying, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>you're a terrible person that hates your and it's just

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<v Speaker 4>like I don't think I would date somebody that I

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<v Speaker 4>like that at all.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I get it. I did not mean to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just you know, having a really great time

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<v Speaker 2>and I just, you know, I saw that we didn't

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<v Speaker 2>have any wine. I just raised my hand and now

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<v Speaker 2>I realized that, you know, I've never worked in restaurants before,

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<v Speaker 2>so I I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>The guy was just trying to get you drunk.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Mel, do you accept Jared's apology?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I do. Like it's not it's not the

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<v Speaker 4>biggest deal in the world. It's just like, at the time, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>it's a little you know, it was, yeah, maybe I

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<v Speaker 4>did actually over rats a little bit. Like I feel

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<v Speaker 4>actually kind of bad now that work talking about it

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm saying it loud.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, oh, maybe I did. It's kind of that

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<v Speaker 2>a proportion a.

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<v Speaker 1>Little, but well, it sounds like it was a trigger

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<v Speaker 1>for you, mal like you know, sometimes you get triggered

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<v Speaker 1>by things.

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<v Speaker 4>Jared exactly exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's what I.

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<v Speaker 1>Want to do, because I feel like it was just

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<v Speaker 1>like a misunderstanding. You both said the date was great

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<v Speaker 1>up until that point. Mal you thought it was a

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<v Speaker 1>great day too. So I would love for you guys

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<v Speaker 1>to try again, go on another date, and we will

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<v Speaker 1>pick up the tab and pay for it.

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<v Speaker 3>How about that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm okay with you. Yeah, I mean that's great. You

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<v Speaker 2>guys really don't have to pick up the tab. I

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<v Speaker 2>can do it. But that's that's so nice of you.

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<v Speaker 2>Smell please.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure okay, he.

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<v Speaker 3>Said, please?

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<v Speaker 2>Yay.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that because I was gonna jump in and said, Jared,

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<v Speaker 1>whann't you just ask her? And you jumped in and

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<v Speaker 1>you asked her. So I love that you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>going to go on another date. We're going to pick

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<v Speaker 1>up the tab, and you guys keep us posted on everything.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Hey, thanks,