Speaker 1: Are you rethinking your purpose in life? Being centered in
Speaker 1: a strong spiritual connection is more important now than ever.
Speaker 1: Hi On Grand Blancanship, hydnotherapist, international instructor and author. Each episode,
Speaker 1: I'll share my experiences with guiding spiritual regression clients into
Speaker 1: the afterlife and the sole lessons gained, prompting you to
Speaker 1: explore your own soul's journey and empowering you by shifting
Speaker 1: your perception of yourself and your place in this world.
Speaker 1: I want you to know that you're here by design,
Speaker 1: not by accident. You are not alone, You were loved.
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Speaker 1: stand in your truth and fulfill your purpose, you support
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Speaker 2: Hey, everybody, Brand Blancanship here with the Afterlife teacher. And
Speaker 2: so today we're going to talk about spirit bonds and
Speaker 2: our loved ones, and specifically those loved ones who have
Speaker 2: passed but they're out of their physical body. That doesn't
Speaker 2: mean they're not going to be here to comfort you
Speaker 2: and connect with you so at death and we just
Speaker 2: need to hang on a second. I've got to change
Speaker 2: my setting here Okay, sorry about that. So at death,
Speaker 2: our earthly contact with our loved ones, the earthly physical
Speaker 2: contact ends, but contact does not end completely. And so
Speaker 2: when they die, they we've changed those earth contracts, that's
Speaker 2: what shifted. But air connection to our loved ones is
Speaker 2: multi dimensional and it goes beyond earth. So we have
Speaker 2: those agreements with the loved ones who are coming in
Speaker 2: to play various roles in our lives, and you know,
Speaker 2: we start and end our lives, lives all at different times.
Speaker 2: And we're talking about that multi dimensional love that transcends
Speaker 2: time and space, and the love lives on The contract
Speaker 2: is for an incarnation, it's for a lifetime, but the
Speaker 2: love that they have for us and that we have
Speaker 2: for them continues. We're just going to go through this
Speaker 2: for a moment. When they die, they leave their physical
Speaker 2: body and they go to a higher place, a higher
Speaker 2: dimension that is less dense than the earth dimension, less
Speaker 2: dense than the physical body that they're living in. But
Speaker 2: their spirit body, their soul body, you know, is released
Speaker 2: from this human suit that we live in and it's
Speaker 2: it's released, it goes back home and in that space,
Speaker 2: it's it's a space of lighter dimensions. They have the
Speaker 2: ability to communicate more freely, more easily without the restrictions
Speaker 2: that we have in the human body. So these are
Speaker 2: our deepest relationships that are shaped in the spirit realm,
Speaker 2: and they echo through lifetimes, but they continue beyond Earth. Okay,
Speaker 2: they continue to other planets, other incarnations with new agreements,
Speaker 2: but we're talking about more than one earthly lifetime. And
Speaker 2: you know, when they go back home, they're free, they're good.
Speaker 2: We're the ones that are left to manage without them,
Speaker 2: and we love them and then we miss them. So
Speaker 2: when we're talking about raising our vibration, sole expression, spiritual
Speaker 2: aggression and spiritual sessions such as the kind that I
Speaker 2: do are one way to do that. In the deeper state,
Speaker 2: clients are able to tap in and have an awareness
Speaker 2: that they don't have in their conscious mind or that
Speaker 2: they've been getting inklings of, yet they've been ignoring it.
Speaker 2: So this allows the client to connect emotionally and energetically
Speaker 2: with the loved one and to feel the love feeling.
Speaker 2: The love lifts Theurah energy feeling. The love lifts Theah
Speaker 2: energy field, and you know it, you know it, just
Speaker 2: it's like a cosmic hug. That's what I'm looking for.
Speaker 2: It's like a cosmic hug from our loved ones from
Speaker 2: beyond because we feel that and that alone is healing,
Speaker 2: and it lets us know that they're there. Sometimes they
Speaker 2: have messages for us. Sometimes they just want to let
Speaker 2: us know that they're okay. They're done, but they're okay.
Speaker 2: We have to f and it's what we came to do, right.
Speaker 2: But it brings a lot of comfort and peace to
Speaker 2: feel this and to experience this. So let's talk for
Speaker 2: a moment about pre birth planning with our soul groups
Speaker 2: and our loved ones, because we have these sacred alliances
Speaker 2: that go through countless lifetimes, and we're playing many various
Speaker 2: roles throughout those lifetimes, recurring roles where we play one
Speaker 2: side of the situation, then we play the other with them,
Speaker 2: with some of the others in our soul group. So
Speaker 2: we have these agreements of what we're going to do,
Speaker 2: and souls have a discussion, They have like meetings, and
Speaker 2: then get together and talk about, Hey, this is what
Speaker 2: I learned from that lifetime. Remember when that happened and
Speaker 2: we did this together. Remember how that shifted some of
Speaker 2: the carbonic patterns that we've been working on well, in
Speaker 2: these meetings, we determine what roles we're going to take
Speaker 2: on for the next incarnation. We review roles that we've
Speaker 2: taken from previous incarnations, and then we serve as catalysts
Speaker 2: that are helping one another through our evolution as a soul,
Speaker 2: through our experiences. And so our loved ones leaving forces
Speaker 2: us to change because they're not there. Our circumstances are different.
Speaker 2: It's a forced change that we don't want, but it's necessary, right,
Speaker 2: and it's not fair to want to keep them here
Speaker 2: if they're ill and in pain. The biggest thing is
Speaker 2: if they're in pain, to make them stay when it's
Speaker 2: not for their highest good, and it's not for our
Speaker 2: highest good either, But it is what it is. And
Speaker 2: we have the agreements that we have, and we have
Speaker 2: tremendous love for one another as souls, and that love
Speaker 2: is what carries on. The love lives beyond the earthly contact,
Speaker 2: the earthly contract, and the earthly agreement that we have
Speaker 2: through our incarnations. So when a soul leaves, a loved
Speaker 2: one leaves, you know, not only is it changing our circumstance.
Speaker 2: Maybe we were their caretaker, maybe they were a friend,
Speaker 2: and we talked with them, and we loved them, you know,
Speaker 2: enjoy hanging out with them, and we can't hang out
Speaker 2: with them the same way, but they can still be
Speaker 2: there and continue offering wisdom and opportunities for healing. And
Speaker 2: so sometimes you'll feel them and you feel what they
Speaker 2: would have said if they were sitting there with you.
Speaker 2: That's them coming through to connect with you. Right, They're
Speaker 2: still there with their sense of humor and the little
Speaker 2: jokes and they're comforting messages that they're coming through in
Speaker 2: a different way because they're not physically sitting next to us.
Speaker 2: They're energetically sitting next to us, and so we feel that.
Speaker 2: And more and more people are aware of this. It's
Speaker 2: becoming more common because it's being talked about more, and
Speaker 2: as it's being talked about, people are awakening and opening
Speaker 2: up to these experiences that they're having in their own lives.
Speaker 2: So as the souls are reflecting on those past experiences,
Speaker 2: they can chart the course for the next one. They
Speaker 2: can start discussing what they're going to do next. Hey,
Speaker 2: why don't I take on this role? Why don't I
Speaker 2: do this? And then hey, I can do that, and
Speaker 2: then another member of the soul group chimes in, Okay,
Speaker 2: if you do that, I'll do this, and then it
Speaker 2: starts to evolve, and then we've etched out our roles
Speaker 2: for our next incarnation that are working on a theme
Speaker 2: that is a group, our soul is our soul group
Speaker 2: is working on, but are also working on our individual
Speaker 2: karmic patterns that we're working through through our experiences. So
Speaker 2: these soul group meetings are joyous and purposeful. There's a
Speaker 2: lot of fun, there's a lot of humor, but there's
Speaker 2: purpose to it. Right. So then we incarnate, we have
Speaker 2: our experiences, and then one of our sole group members,
Speaker 2: one of our loved ones, passes before the other. So
Speaker 2: we're still able to connect in the afterlife and they
Speaker 2: can give guidance, they can give comfort, they can give messages.
Speaker 2: So what do clients discover in session? Right, How are
Speaker 2: these sessions when they're in that higher state allowing them
Speaker 2: to connect. Couple of examples for you, and you know,
Speaker 2: we've been teaching class and sometimes I'll have someone as
Speaker 2: the class demo and demonstrate in front of the group
Speaker 2: so they can experience they can see me facilitate a
Speaker 2: session and watch the student experience this. And we're just
Speaker 2: finishing up. A class just finished up on Sunday, and
Speaker 2: we have a group from the fall that is finishing
Speaker 2: up their certification, while we have a new group rolling in.
Speaker 2: And it's really exciting when we watch this in class
Speaker 2: and watch them, you know, have those revelations the same
Speaker 2: way I do in session. No, two sessions are the same.
Speaker 2: It's so exciting. I'm sitting on the edge of my
Speaker 2: seat as i do this. So one of the students
Speaker 2: her experience was that her mother was still alive, but
Speaker 2: her father passed when she was four months old. Okay,
Speaker 2: So as part of the what she wanted to discover
Speaker 2: in the session, she said, do you think I could
Speaker 2: reconnect with my father? Well, I knew we could, but
Speaker 2: I don't know what's going to happen in the session,
Speaker 2: but I knew we could, so I said, well, let's
Speaker 2: see what happens. In addition to exploring a past life
Speaker 2: and some of the messages and themes that were coming
Speaker 2: through for her with that. So, just to back up
Speaker 2: for a moment, she is in this country. She came
Speaker 2: from a different country to the US. She didn't know anyone,
Speaker 2: she didn't speak the language, she had to learn the language,
Speaker 2: learn how to meet people. She's great now, I mean,
Speaker 2: but it took these challenges, took a lot of work
Speaker 2: on her part to get past all of that. So
Speaker 2: and she's made a beautiful life for herself and now
Speaker 2: she's studying to be a hypnotherapist. So in the session,
Speaker 2: almost immediately in the womb part of the session, on
Speaker 2: the way to the past life, on the way to
Speaker 2: the afterlife, she connected with her father, her mother. You know,
Speaker 2: we discovered her mother's energy and her mom's happy, but
Speaker 2: the focus really was on her father this time. And
Speaker 2: at different times when you're going through the womb experience,
Speaker 2: you might connect with different emotions in different times during
Speaker 2: the womb the time that you're in the womb. So
Speaker 2: in this moment, she's connecting with her father, who's protective.
Speaker 2: He is very happy and he's smiling, and she sees
Speaker 2: him and knows that's him. And like I said, he
Speaker 2: passed when she was four months old suddenly, So there's
Speaker 2: that connection in the womb. We went on with the
Speaker 2: session and then lay in the afterlife, when she's meeting
Speaker 2: with her guides and other loved ones are coming forward,
Speaker 2: her father comes forward and she could feel his love,
Speaker 2: and it was a beautiful thing to watch because she's
Speaker 2: trembling as she's crying and telling me about this, and
Speaker 2: that's how powerful the love was coming through time and
Speaker 2: space right and her dad had some message for messages
Speaker 2: for her. He said, I'm still your protector. I'm still
Speaker 2: watching over you. So we discovered that his leaving taught
Speaker 2: her courage, it taught her strength, it taught her courage,
Speaker 2: and then she came to this country as a young woman,
Speaker 2: overcame those challenges and has made a beautiful life for herself.
Speaker 2: So another message that came through is that he's proud.
Speaker 2: He's very proud of her. He's always with her, and
Speaker 2: there's just so much love there. So just because he
Speaker 2: left doesn't mean there wasn't love. The deeper love is
Speaker 2: that he left to give her soul what it needed.
Speaker 2: It wasn't going to get this experience any other way.
Speaker 2: But now it was time to come back and say, look,
Speaker 2: I'm here, I'm still here and I've got you, okay.
Speaker 2: So that happened. Then another example would be like one
Speaker 2: of my clients in my book who in the chapter
Speaker 2: in Search of True Love. So she had been through
Speaker 2: abuse and trail betrayal, abuse, and past lives betrayal. In
Speaker 2: current life, she had ended the relationship with someone. In
Speaker 2: the afterlife, she connected with her mother who had passed,
Speaker 2: and her mother showed up and there was a beautiful
Speaker 2: healing energy that was melting the heartache and the betrayal
Speaker 2: that my client felt. It was a beautiful reconnection, and
Speaker 2: her mother said, you know, I'm helping you right now
Speaker 2: to lift all of this. I'm with you in spirit.
Speaker 2: Everything is on track, honey, everything's on track. Your soulmate
Speaker 2: is coming. He's been working on his stuff or you've
Speaker 2: been working on yours, and he will love you more
Speaker 2: than you ever thought that you could be loved. That
Speaker 2: was the message that she left my client with. And
Speaker 2: so then she gave her a big red heart in
Speaker 2: the afterlife that was like the one that she had
Speaker 2: given my client before she passed. Her grandmother came through
Speaker 2: and said, you've already broken the pattern. You've broken the
Speaker 2: pattern and her current life and the outcome is going
Speaker 2: to be different than the other times and those times
Speaker 2: we were viewed in the past life and in the between.
Speaker 2: So she said, it's time for joy now. So she
Speaker 2: had two loved ones come through, supporting her, lifting her up,
Speaker 2: giving her just that beautiful energy. Okay, each experience can
Speaker 2: be different in the in the afterlife with our loved ones.
Speaker 2: I had another student who, again, when I choose someone
Speaker 2: for the demo, I don't know it's going to happen.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to teach a technique to my students, but
Speaker 2: I have to give the client who is my demo client,
Speaker 2: whatever it is that they need. So this time an
Speaker 2: ancestor came through, and this is someone that she hadn't
Speaker 2: met before, but she came forward to assist the client
Speaker 2: with something that was unresolved in the family and it
Speaker 2: was still impacting the family today. I'm going to leave
Speaker 2: out some personal details, but I'll say that. So when
Speaker 2: the loved one came through in the afterlife, she came
Speaker 2: forward and told my client where to look for some
Speaker 2: important information that would bring closure. She also told her
Speaker 2: where her grave was because these the family. The family
Speaker 2: was in another country and my client is from another country,
Speaker 2: but she lives in the US now, so she told
Speaker 2: her where to go look for the missing information. She
Speaker 2: told her where to find her grave, the ancestor's grave,
Speaker 2: so that she could put flowers on the grave because
Speaker 2: she was a family member, a blood relative, and it
Speaker 2: would bring closure, and it would bring it would honor her.
Speaker 2: It would also bring some peace to the family. She
Speaker 2: also told her where to find the missing child. That
Speaker 2: she was forced to give up all of this in
Speaker 2: the afterlife, right, So we just don't know what's going
Speaker 2: to come through, but it brings closure. And then I
Speaker 2: had another another client who her daughter died suddenly, and
Speaker 2: in session, in the afterlife, her daughter came through watching
Speaker 2: over her. But my client's grief, she had tremendous grief,
Speaker 2: and this was blocking the client from really feeling the love,
Speaker 2: from feeling her daughter. So let me just back up
Speaker 2: for a moment. We did a past life as part
Speaker 2: of the session, and in the past life, she was
Speaker 2: a goat herder. In that lifetime, she was a goat
Speaker 2: herder day in and day out, moving moving those goats
Speaker 2: around the mountain. That was the entire life. Every time
Speaker 2: I said, tell me what happens next, she's moving those goats.
Speaker 2: She's a little she's a he, a male in the
Speaker 2: past life, and he's moving those goats along the mountain. Okay,
Speaker 2: So when she was in on her way home after
Speaker 2: the session, and you know, I'm you know, if you
Speaker 2: want to know more about the session, we've got I've
Speaker 2: got the whole chapter in the book, uh, the goat Herder.
Speaker 2: But anyway, on her drive home, she's driving along, she
Speaker 2: sees a goat herder on the side of the road
Speaker 2: and at the same time, a song comes on the
Speaker 2: radio that says, do not stand over my grave and weep,
Speaker 2: I am not there, I do not sleep, and she
Speaker 2: felt her daughter's presence and she could feel the love.
Speaker 2: So sometimes we're opening up these energetic connections that continue
Speaker 2: after the session. Well not sometimes that's what we're doing.
Speaker 2: It's continuing after the session. And then it helps to
Speaker 2: recognize the moments when they happen. Sometimes there are tiny moments,
Speaker 2: and sometimes they're big ones, like the examples I've been
Speaker 2: giving you here, But these are all different client experiences
Speaker 2: and examples of how loved ones connect with us through
Speaker 2: songs on the radio, through phrases, through a funny moment,
Speaker 2: through a shared moment in life that is shared in
Speaker 2: the spirit world. So that influence and that love that
Speaker 2: they have for us continues through time and space. And
Speaker 2: I want you to think about some of your loved ones.
Speaker 2: Do you recognize those moments when you're feeling their connection?
Speaker 2: Do you have that feeling that comes over you and
Speaker 2: you just feel the love. It's beyond words, And when
Speaker 2: you're in a deeper state, like in a session, we
Speaker 2: can access that. But you don't have to be in
Speaker 2: that state. It's happening around you when you're paying attention.
Speaker 2: It's there. For me. My husband who passed a few
Speaker 2: years back, came to Thanksgiving, felt him in the room,
Speaker 2: felt him the whole time, felt the love like a
Speaker 2: warm blanket that just permeated. It brings me to tears
Speaker 2: right now, just feeling it well up within me because
Speaker 2: he was there, free of the pain, free of the
Speaker 2: body that he had once inhabited, but free to connect.
Speaker 2: So what are some of the ways that your loved
Speaker 2: ones come through and you feel them or you hear them?
Speaker 2: You know, we process information in different ways. Does a
Speaker 2: smell remind you of them, like your favorite meal that
Speaker 2: your mother or your grandmother used to cook for you,
Speaker 2: or a clone or just something that you see remind
Speaker 2: you of them. I just want to pose that question
Speaker 2: and let you discover ways that your loved ones are
Speaker 2: coming through and if you would like to open that
Speaker 2: awareness and open that channel, just sit quietly and ask
Speaker 2: them to connect and then just be an open channel,
Speaker 2: an open vessel. Feel it in your heart. Let your
Speaker 2: heart be open to the possibility and the ability that
Speaker 2: they can come through and connect with you. Because they're
Speaker 2: right there. We just have to line it up and
Speaker 2: recognize it. And we do that by not forcing it,
Speaker 2: by not trying to make it happen. We do that
Speaker 2: from the heart connection. The way in is through the heart,
Speaker 2: not the head. We can't think it into happening, but
Speaker 2: we can't feel it. We can open and when we
Speaker 2: open our heart, we allow that heart heart connection from
Speaker 2: them their spirit to ours to come through. So I'm
Speaker 2: Brand Blankenship, the Afterlife Teacher. Thank you for tuning in
Speaker 2: and have a wonderful evening and until next time you've
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Speaker 2: for more discussions of the soul's journey across different lifetimes
Speaker 2: and sole lessons gained helping you to consider the deeper
Speaker 2: reason you were here. Brin shares her wisdom spanning twenty
Speaker 2: years of guiding spiritual regression clients into the actlife and
Speaker 2: connecting them with their spiritual team and soul's purpose to
Speaker 2: bring them full circle. Helping you gain insight into your
Speaker 2: own soul's purpose while supporting others and fulfilling theirs. Living
Speaker 2: in partnership with your soul, with less worry and greater trust,
Speaker 2: you can be in divine flow and thrive. For more
Speaker 2: information on becoming a certified hypnotherapist and regressionist and assisting
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