Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, Hello everybody. Welcome back to another episode of
season four of your Manifesting Bestie podcast. I'm your host, Flora,
and we are diving into all things mindset and manifestation
like we always do. I want to thank everyone for
the amazing feedback from last week's episode regarding my daily routine.
I'm so glad you guys loved it, and honestly, it's
something you can apply in so many different areas just
by using that form of embodiment. Right, If we are
working on manifestation, embodiment means your energy, like the energy
that you embody, right, It's the identity that you choose
to step into, and it's so important to know that
that is what will bring your desire to you. It's
who you are choosing to show up as throughout the day.
And at first it's like a conscious effort. Then it
becomes unconscious because it becomes so natural to you. You
don't have to focus on it. You just naturally are it,
and it becomes beautiful, becomes simple, it becomes natural. And
what I wanted to talk about today is about overcoming
a lot of the scarcity that we carry still. And
I notice certain patterns in my life, which I'm like, Damn,
I thought I were through all these I thought that,
you know, I eliminated my scarcity mindset, but that fucking bitch, Okay,
scarcity mindset creeps in on me in areas outside of finances.
Still in finances, but a lot of them are outside
of finances, and it hinders me. And I feel like
if we can talk about it and bring it to
surface and become more conscious of it, we can start
to eliminate that feeling of scarcity, that feeling of limit
in different areas of our life to help us improve
and help us grow so that we can continue stepping
into that version of ourselves that does embody the most abundant,
the most loved, the most healthy version of ourselves. And
one of the things I noticed, which is why I
wanted to make this podcast episode, it has to do
with my weight, So it has to do with health.
I grew up in a way you know you guys
do on the term almond mom. Like when you have
an almond mom, she's always watching what you eat, making
sure you don't overeat. You can't eat too much of fat.
You have to eat protein, not a lot of carbs, right,
that's like what they considered almond mom. So I definitely
had an almond mom. I love her, but I had
an almond mom growing up. She's still an almond mom. Actually,
she has not changed her ways. Eastern European, what do
you know? And I grew up with this lack when
it came to food, So it almost was like I
felt like I was stingy with my food. I think
that's the best way I can put it. Like I
didn't like to share my food with other people. I
felt like I had to finish all the food on
my plate because I'm like, what if I get hungry
later and I can't eat later, or like it would
just be like an over consumption of my eating habits.
And maybe it was like emotional eating paired with it,
which now shows up in my adult life as weight gain, right,
simply because I still have those subconscious beliefs of scarcity
where I'm like, Okay, what if the food runs out?
What if I am bad for wasting my food? What
if it's a negative thing to not eat every last
ounce on my plate. I subconsciously forced myself to eat
everything in front of me, and that's not necessarily the
best thing for my body. My body doesn't need it
could probably survive off of half of that, right, I
don't need to overeat emotionally, And I realize it comes
from scarcity. It comes from this feeling of what if
there's not enough, what if I run out, what if
there's a limit. I should finish every single thing because
what if I don't get to eat again? And I
don't know why I still have that in me, but
I'm just noticing that it's a pattern and it affects
my weight. And when I became a bit more aware
of it, and I was like, Okay, first of all,
release the guilds that you didn't finish your plate. Second
of all, listen more to your body, not your mind
when it comes to eating, so that you can step
out of scarcity and just eat what you need. And
that's when I realized that the weight slowly was coming
off in a natural way where I'm not like constantly
thinking about the next meal. And this, like, all this
loud noise in my brain about food is because I'm
finally stepping out of scarcity around it. And I'm like, damn,
I can't believe even weight gain comes from lack mindset
So if you're somebody who maybe struggles with weight, this
can resonate with you where you feel like you have
to finish everything in front of you because you're afraid
it's going to run out, and like you don't like
to share your food because you're like, no, no, I
portion that for myself, you know, like little things like that.
And I was like, I wonder if this is something
that is like universal for people where it also affects
their health, because you know, if we have scarcity mind
and set when it comes to food, for example, and
this is just one area I'm talking about, we're gonna
get into all the other areas. If I have scarcity
mindset around food, that also means that if I have
food in front of me that's not ideally like healthyer,
like if it's junk food and stuff, and I still
have that scarcy like I have to finish it now,
that's going to impact my health. So I need to
understand that I don't have to consume everything. Nothing is
actually running out. There is always more. There will always
be a surplus of food I can choose from. There's
always super markets I can walk into, There's always restaurants
that are open. There's always enough water and beverages to
go around, like nothing is running out. And I just
always had this like feeling in my nervous system like
something's gonna run out. Something's gonna run out. It's not enough, right,
And we do that with our finances, like, for example,
we are like, no, I can't. I can't get my
nails done, even though I want to. It's something so
small where you feel good about yourself, but you turn
yourself down. You're like, no, I can't do that because
I only made X amount of money this month, and
even though I already paid my bills, and even though
I have food in the fridge, and even though I
have you know, clothes on my back and I have
all my necessities, I'm afraid to go spend my money
on something that I think is a surplus or something
that's just too much or too extravagant. I'm not worthy
enough to spend it on getting my nails done or
whatever the topic is. It could be any little thing
that makes you feel good, but you're operating through scarcity
where you're like, I'm not going to allow myself to
do that. I have to restrict, Okay, And this is
a little bit opposite of what the food version was,
which is the food version, which is we overeat, but
when it comes to finances, we over restrict from scarcity mindset.
It's funny how scarcity creeps up in so many different
freaking ways, so financially right, The way I would see
scarcity mindset playing out for me is like I always
say no to myself and I really want to say yes,
and I overrestrict and I overly save, and I would
overly pinch my pennies, And the signal that I was
sending out then is again, there's not enough there. There
has to be a limit. There is a finite pie
of finances that I can only have a cut from,
and I cannot go over that, I cannot exceed it.
It's almost like money is like a limited resource, which
is what we were born into thinking. It's a belief
that our government and systematic practices kind of push upon us.
But when we realize that money is literally everywhere it
comes in all forms. Money is just a form of energy. Hello,
the government fucking prints out I don't know how many
dollars a day because they're always more, more, more and more,
more and more, more and more and more, more and
more and more money. Right, So there's always a surplus
of finances. And I'm not talking about focusing on like
inflation and stuff. I literally mean there's an infinite amount
of reserve waiting for you in your own personal reality. Therefore,
over restriction sends out the wrong signal to universal laws
because and what this over restriction signals out to the
universe is since there's a limit, I myself am limited.
So I'm a limited individual. I'm a limited being. I
do not deserve a surplus. I do not deserve to
splurge on myself. I do not deserve an excess of resources.
I am not deserving of it. I am not worthy
of it. Therefore, what I do have, I will pinch
and I will save. But what happens when we do that?
What happens when the money sits in the bank account, right,
And it's like, oh, I could have done that, and
I could have done this to feel better. I could
have spent it on this, which would have felt really
good for me, and I could have invested in this,
which would have benefited me more. But instead, if I
let it sit in my bank account, what happens in
a bank account the dollar, the value of the dollar
or the value of wherever you live your money. Right,
it depreciates in value because as everything it's more expensive,
prices go up, Inflation happens, are money our reserve diminishes.
So the money sitting in my bank account that I
thought was like a really good thing for absolutely no reason,
because I had absolutely no intention of saving it for anything,
it would depreciate in value anyway. So as I restrict
the flow of money because I'm afraid to spend it
because I'm living in scarcity mindset, I'm also restricting my income. Right, Because,
like we talked about money being like a currency like water,
everything that we discuss around money is like terms of water,
like currency, liquid assets, right, all these things different streams
of income. It's all about water, the way water flows,
as how we refer to money. So if we look
at the term of money as a stream of water, right,
if I restrict the outflow, then I'm restricting the inflow.
It cannot move, right. So it's okay for me to
have healthy spending habits and not to live in scarcity
mindset around my finances. It's good for me to invest,
it's good for me to put my money into things
that feel good and that have a good return right
on me, on my mental health, on my emotional state,
whatever it is. Because scarcity mindset is the block. It's
like a universal block in every area of our life,
whether it's health, whether it's finances, whether it's even relationships.
And I just had a conversation with my girlfriend about this.
We were talking about how a lot of people in
the dating pool are putting up with things they shouldn't
be putting up with. They are dealing with partners they
don't want to be dealing with. But why, I'm like,
why would they think that's a good idea? And we
kind of narrowed it down to everyone is dating with
scarcity mindset. They are dating with the idea that there
is a pool that is running out of potential lovers, right,
And so we have to settle for the bad ones.
We have to settle for the trashy ones, we have
to settle for the abusive ones. We have to settle
for a narcissist, because that's all that's left. And like,
once we start believing that that's true, it shows up
as true. So we are constantly placing this like mental
limit and mental blockage on ourselves even in dating, and
then we're not happy in our relationship right because we
operate from this like I can't lose this person because
there's no one left. Imagine how scary that feels, and
like how scary that sounds. It's like, yeah, this person
sucks and like they kind of hurt my feelings all
the time, but I have to hold on to them
because there's no one left and I'll never get married
and I'll never have children, and oh my god, what's
gonna happen to me? I'm gonna be a lonely catwoman.
Like I don't know, babe, Being a lonely catwoman sounds
so much better, so much more fulfilling to me than
being in a relationship with a person I can't fucking
stand right, Like, I would rather choose me day and
night over somebody who does not meet my needs, who
is abusive or who is controlling or whatever, who's not
the ideal partner. So if I step into the dating
pool with scarcity mindset, I'm literally limiting my own love.
I'm limiting my capacity to receive better and the pattern
that I see, and it's a lot, it's a lot
of girls. Obviously, I hang out with more girls and
I do guys. So what I see in girls is
like they have scarcity mindset, So they're constantly checking their
partners or their love interests social media all day. They're
checking it. They're checking their stories, they're checking to see
songs in their stories, They're checking to see their posts,
their snapchat, their TikTok, all these things. And they go
fucking crazy because in their mind, that's the last man
on earth, that's the last person on earth that would
ever have interest in them. So they have scarcity mindset
and they want to clench onto this person, so they're
checking heavily under a microscope what that person is doing,
and making sure that person stays in line and making
sure they don't have ice for anyone else. I'm like, babe,
you're destroying yourself. It's so destructive, right, And we will
literally accept anything if we are living in scarcity mindset
and dating, will accept anything, any bad behavior. We go
crazy because we really think no one out there is left,
and it's so not true. There's billions of people out there, billions.
And I'm not saying you have to be on a
like a dating app to find them, But you need
to start operating from abundance mindset in your dating life too.
You're restricting yourself to people who aren't even that great
for you, and then you're settling for the crumbs. You're
really just taking crumbs, and you're like, uh, well, you
know who else is going to love me? Everyone? Is
that really a question? Who else is going to love me?
Do you not think you are lovable? Do you not
think that you're fucking incredible? Do you not think that
you're amazing? Do you not see your own worth? Do
you not believe in your own value? I don't think
you should go near anybody who doesn't see you for
those things. I will live and die on this hill
that if you operate in the dating pool with scarcity mindset,
you're always always going to lose it, Like you're always
going to lose everything. That person's gonna leave, that person's
gonna cheat, that person's gonna hurt you. You're gonna be like,
what is wrong with me? I'm unlovable? And then repeat
the cycle over and over and over again. And this
again stems from scarcity. There's not enough, it's running out right,
and what is this scarcity mindset. Due to our nervous system.
It forces us to live and fight or flight mode.
We are under chronic stress because of our own scarcity mindset.
So we're doing it with food, right. That was like
my little tidbit from when I was growing up. Since
I was restricted by my parents, or more so by
my mom, I would then start overeating. Whenever I had
the chance, I would eat way more than I should.
So that scarcity mindset fucked up my weight, and it
fucked up my health, and it messed up my hormones. Right.
And then obviously finances, We a lot of us grow
up with scarcity mindset. We feel like we cannot spend,
we have to pinch pennies, we have to go for
the cheapest option everywhere we go. And what this is
doing to us energetically by constantly living in scarcity, it
actually just means we're living in fear. We are living
in this fear based environment. And that could be due
to what we see on the news, what we see
in politics, what our government is telling us, what we
have from social conditioning, from growing up in school. Right.
It could be a lot of external factors. But what
it does is it number one. It keeps us in
control as a society because we're constantly living in fear.
Number two, it's wreaking havoc on our nervous system because
we're under chronic stress. That is the fear based living
of fight or flight mode. And when your nervous system
is under fighter flight mode for x amount of years
or even decades for a lot of people, you are
so fucking burnt out. You have no energy, you have
a no will to live at this point. And again,
it's from that fear. It's from the scared city. It's
from running around like our fricking heads are cut off
because we think we live in a limited universe. We
are not opening up our eyes and realizing this is
an infinite universe. We have infinite resources, there's an infinite supply,
and then you know, logically, we're like, now that can't
be true. Earth is a certain size and there's only
so much things on Earth that we can have access to,
and da da da da da. That's what science tells us, right,
But let's really think of this from quantum physics. Quantum
physics tells you that what we observe will expand that's it.
That is the basis of it. Whatever I put my
focus on must expand, and whatever I release my focus
from will die off. Okay, So if I am the
perceiver and I am the creator, and whatever I place
my focus on must grow, that means everything is unlimited, right, everything,
everything can keep growing, It will ten x because the
law of increase has to kick in. That alone eases
my scarcity around so many things. That alone makes me
feel better and like takes my nervous SYSM out of
fight or flight mode when I hear that, and I
actually do believe in that because I see it. I
see that there is always more. There's always more coming always,
even when I'm like, oh my god, I'm at a
dead end. What is the dead end. There is no
dead end in life. There's just always more. There's always more.
There's always more expansion, more learning, more opportunity, more knowledge,
more resources, more love coming your way. Okay. Even when
we pass over to the non physical form, Okay, when
we leave the physical realm and we pass over to
non physical, life keeps continuing, The soul keeps evolving. Everything
is infinite. Okay, So there is no set reserve. There
really is none. Everything is unlimited and we live in
an abundant universe, and God is an abundant God. And
it feels so good to know this and to say
it out loud, and I want you to repeat that
to your I live in an unlimited universe. I am
an unlimited being. My God, the Creator, is an unlimited
God who lives inside of me. How fucking blessed am
I remind yourself of this every day when scarcity kicks in.
Unlimited that that word unlimited, or maybe you like the
term limitless. That sounds even fucking cooler and more badass.
I like the term limitless too. I am limitless. Okay,
Everything coming to me is limitless. There is no limit,
there is no end to it. Whatever it is that
I'm trying to focus on is going to continue to grow.
So scarcity doesn't have a home inside of me anymore.
Scarcity is not welcome inside of me anymore. Scarcity destroys me.
It forces me to live in fear. It forces me
to be afraid to bet on myself. It forces me
to be afraid of the world, to be afraid of people.
How dare I when there's an unlimited reserve that was
built for me, that was creative for me. Through universal laws.
How dare I? I live in fear every day. I
don't need to. It's unnecessary. It's just set up for control.
And I don't want anyone controlling my mind anymore. I
don't want anyone to put shackles on me anymore. I
don't want it. I want to free myself. So I
have to understand that I am a limitless being and
there's a limitless expansion happening every time I want something new. Okay,
So the universe must expand to meet my desires. It
is a law. This is so important to know. And
it will relieve you. It will relieve your heart, it
will relieve your mind, it will ease you. It will
ease your nervous system as you hear these words. Okay,
take a deep breath with me. I am limitless. Okay,
stay it out loud. Every day I'm limitless. I live
in a limitless universe. I don't need to operate through
scarcity anymore. And I was working with some of my
entrepreneur clients who are inside of my manifestation programs, and
they're so oh my god, they're so fucking amazing. These girls, man,
even a lot of them are now male. We have
a new male client, which it's just really exciting for
me to see how different men think from women and
what we can all learn from each other. But a
lot of the girls I was talking to, like they're
expanding into this crazy, like resilient version of themselves and
they're like, no, I'm ready for more and I can
have more and there is no scarcity. So before they
would they will get really upset over things like losing
a client. Right, they would lose a client and they're like,
my life is over. I'm unwanted, I'm unloved, i am unworthy,
i am not good enough. Right, so the limit would
kick in. They felt like there's a limit of clients
they can work with in their business. And I'm like, listen,
if you have access to social media, which we all do,
we are limitless. We can access anybody in the world.
And so as they flood their mind with this new knowledge,
they are fucking killing they are they are shooting for
the moon with their financial goals, where their business goals,
with their community goals, and they are expanding. We're seeing
people making six figures monthly now, and it gets me
so excited because that's something that took me years to develop,
and I'm seeing people cut down the time into like three,
four or five months. That's really really fast, And it's
because they're understanding their power. They're understanding that they are limitless.
They're understanding that they don't need to operate from scarcity.
So you lost one client, you just made space for
ten more. They are seeing that everything is abundant and
there's just always more. There's always more on its way,
so we don't have to mentally put like a blockage
on it or mentally put ourselves into these shackles like
we're limited. There's always expansion happening. More and more people
are coming your way, so there's no reason to cry
over the loss. Look at every loss is just space
being made for more, more expansion, more coming your way,
more money, more love, more everything. If you're in a
relationship and you're like, I just lost the love of
my life, like they're gone, do you realize that you
just made space for even more love to come in,
better love, bigger love, more accepting love, more soft and
nurturing and healthy love. You just made space for more.
You experienced one already, and that's beautiful, and you'll have
those memories and guess what, Now there's room for more.
Now there's space for them because you operate through abundance
mindset and you do not cling on to things that
need to leave you let them go. You're detached. You're like,
that's wonderful. Go go be free, love them on their
way in and love them on their way out. This
is the healthiest way to operate your life, and you
will be so stress free. I'm not saying bad things
can't happen. They do, and then we get sad. It's
all part of life. But imagine just not having to
be in chronic, fucking stressed over the same topic for
years and years and years. You can just kind of
free yourself. You can feel ease, you can regulate your emotions,
and you can realize that I was brought here to
understand my own limitless power. I was brought into this
physical three D realm to understand how far I can
really go, how much more I can push and push,
and how much more I can receive, and how much
more I can expand, and how much more I can feel,
and how much more I can experience, and how much
more I can love, and how much more I can
create and how much more things I can have passion
for because there's no limit. There's no limit in this life.
Once we believe there is a limit, we have crushed it.
We've literally stopped ourselves. So we have to redefine who
we think we are and what we believe we're capable of.
Because scarcity mindset is making us sick, it's making us poor,
It's making us unloved and unworthy and unhealthy. Scarcity is
like the root of fear. Scarcity is what has all
of us hating each other. It has religions hating each other,
it has countries hating each other, it has genders hating
each other. We're all hating each other because of scarcity mindset.
Isn't that fucking wild? Instead of loving each other and
coming together and be like, oh, accept you. I'm going
to learn new things from you. I love you. You're
different from me. I love that. I love all these
different people, all these different options, all these different topics,
all these different things. I can learn from it and
I can expand myself from it because we're really all
here to teach each other. No scarcity minds and makes
us hate each other. Look at the world. It's burning.
Look at the conflicts in other countries and even in
our own country. Wherever you live, there's probably a conflict.
Right wherever we look on the news, there's conflict. And
it's all from fear based operations. It's all from scarcity mindset.
Why do we need to do this to ourselves when
we're here for expansion, not for limit. We're here for growth,
not for limit. Stop the limit, stop the internal limits. Okay,
we have to reprogram scarcity on every level, Scarcity in
our friendships, scarcity in our love life, and the options
that we believe that we have. We don't need to
believe that there's there's a limit, because there isn't one.
Is there really is no limit. There's perceived limits that
other people will tell you exist, but you don't have
to accept it as your truth. And I don't want
you to accept it as your truth. I want you
to go above and fucking beyond. And I get so
excited talking about this just because I get to work
with so many people from so many different countries and
different walks of life, because they're in my programs, especially
in my Manifestation Academy, and I just see these people
turning into warriors. They're like, no, I'm not accepting it anymore.
I don't care what my mom and dad said. I
don't care what my country said, I don't care what
the government said. I'm not accepting anymore. They go against
the grain. They embed it all in themselves. It's like
they take this cap that was on their brain and
they take it off. It's like a limiting cap, almost
like a metal cap that I'm picturing in my mind,
and they rip it off, and then they grow and
then they expand and they welcome in new things and
they believe in themselves more. And it's so thrilling. It's
so invigorating and so exciting. It like turns me on
watching these people grow and receive and they're believe they're
worthy of receiving more because they're no longer operating from
scarcity mindset. So when we can reprogram ourselves, we take
off the freaking hat, the limiting hat, the metal cap
that was on our brain, keeping us small, keeping us
living in fear, keeping us controlled, keeping us indoctrinated, and
we say, hell, no, I'm setting new standards for myself.
I'm believing in my own expansion. I'm believing in God,
I'm believing in the force of universal laws. I choose
to believe in the limitless power and use it for good,
and use it for growth, and use it for bettering
myself and bettering the people around me. Are you become unstoppable?
You become a person you didn't even recognize three months ago.
You become somebody that everyone else sees as an example,
and they're like, that person doesn't know scarcity. They don't
know scarcity. They are limitless. They don't even identify themselves
as with any limit. They just go for it. Like
you set the standard for other people. You make other
people want to become better. You make other people want
to think bigger, want to evolve. You are the standard.
You make people believe in themselves. Imagine that that's how
we change the world is we have to change ourselves, right,
We have to become the change that we wish to experience.
So take off the cap of scarcity. There is no
scarcity in your life. It's all just perceived. It's all
just an assumption, and it can be thrown away, it
can be rewritten, it can be reconstructed. Because you are
literally like many God in the most beautiful way, possible
writing scripture. It says we were all mating the image
of God, men and women, and we were gifted the
ability to create and to use our power for good.
And we need to we need to break through our
limiting barriers of scare city, because it is keeping us
stuck in a circle. Like think of like a hamster wheel.
It's keeping us stuck on a hamster wheel. The hamster
just needs to jump off the wheel. Who put the
hamster in the fucking wheel? Anyway? Who put me there?
I don't want to be in the wheel. I want
to go run in another direction, right, get off the wheel.
There's no limit, Okay, it's all in our mind. It's
literally all in our head. It's all perceived limits. They're
not real. And if my reality is like a three
D hologram and I accept perceived limits, then I'm putting
blockages physically in front of me. And I need to
remove those blockages by eliminating scarcity mindset. And you guys
already know how I do this, how I remove scarcity
from my life, and how my clients do it. We
follow the same formula. It's a formula that reprograms the mind.
It's the meditations, the focus work, the self talk rampage
is a sleep tracks, the nervous as and regulation exercises.
It's all in the programs. You guys, have access to
it every single day. Reprogram yourself and take off the
perceived limits. It is pointless to believe in a limit.
It's pointless to believe in your own scarcity. It's pointless
to not understand your own God given power. Okay, you
are limitless, you are expansive. You are here for growth
and you're here for more, and it's really time to
dig our fingers into the reprogramming work. Do the work
and feel the benefit, and feel the passion and feel
the joy of the beautiful outcome that you're about to
create because you are a limitless manifestor you are literally magic.
Thank you guys so much for tuning in to this
week's episode of Your Manifesting Bestie podcast, and we will
be back again next Wednesday with a brand new episode.