WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.440 --> 00:00:04.519 We're going to start off the Minnesota Goodbye by welcoming somebody who is helping out 2 00:00:04.599 --> 00:00:08.400 with the Minnesota Goodbye, and she's actually been on the Minnesota Goodbye before. 3 00:00:09.000 --> 00:00:11.759 If you want to pull a microphone up to your mouth hole there, Brianna, 4 00:00:11.800 --> 00:00:15.759 Hi, Brianna, Hey, I'm back, Brianna. What to explain 5 00:00:15.880 --> 00:00:19.440 what your new job is on the Minnesota Goodbye. I am the official secretary 6 00:00:19.519 --> 00:00:23.440 of the Dave Ryan in the Morning Show. So what are your duties entail 7 00:00:23.519 --> 00:00:27.559 this morning? Filling out the envelopes, making sure I get the stamp on, 8 00:00:28.000 --> 00:00:31.039 sealing it, and then probably getting it in the mail of the staff 9 00:00:31.039 --> 00:00:33.600 writerer stickers. Yeah, yeah, you're gonna mail lot staff rider stickers, 10 00:00:33.799 --> 00:00:37.200 which I looked back through my when somebody writes in and they want a staff 11 00:00:37.240 --> 00:00:40.600 rider sticker because they deserve one, I take a picture of it with my 12 00:00:40.679 --> 00:00:45.399 phone. And I've been so far behind, partly out of via responsibility and 13 00:00:45.439 --> 00:00:48.399 bad time management. But then Bailey said, well, I'll do it for 14 00:00:48.479 --> 00:00:50.280 you, and I'm like, oh, good, thanks, because I really 15 00:00:50.280 --> 00:00:56.000 appreciate that. But Bailey has a Android phone and so yeah, so we 16 00:00:56.000 --> 00:01:00.159 couldn't air drop those to her. I just air dropped you thirty five or 17 00:01:00.200 --> 00:01:04.239 so excellent. Now, I will say that, in trying to rapidly choose, 18 00:01:04.599 --> 00:01:07.640 there is a possibility that I might have sent you something that I should 19 00:01:07.640 --> 00:01:11.439 not have sent you. And hopefully it's just a picture of like, you 20 00:01:11.439 --> 00:01:15.200 know, Josie or something. But if it's juice here, just make sure 21 00:01:15.200 --> 00:01:19.840 you send it then to me. Yeah, I can't even imagine. I 22 00:01:19.879 --> 00:01:23.400 hope there's nothing in my phone that's like I took a screenshot of something incriminating 23 00:01:23.480 --> 00:01:30.519 or something embarrassing or whatever. Need you Oh yeah, yeah, So thank 24 00:01:30.560 --> 00:01:36.200 you, Bree. We appreciate that one. Bree is a big supporter of 25 00:01:36.239 --> 00:01:38.920 the show, and you came in about a month or so ago. You 26 00:01:38.920 --> 00:01:41.239 said you want to come in and meet the show, and so you came 27 00:01:41.280 --> 00:01:42.920 in and you were delightful and you hung out for a while. I did. 28 00:01:44.000 --> 00:01:47.599 It was awesome, And you're helping it with Street Street clean up today. 29 00:01:47.680 --> 00:01:53.239 I am. I'm excited to be here. I think the thing is 30 00:01:53.280 --> 00:01:57.760 that gradually we're going to let Brie kind of take over my job on the 31 00:01:57.799 --> 00:02:02.239 show, so I can kind of just fade away. It would mind, 32 00:02:02.879 --> 00:02:07.640 Brie, what do you do normally? I'm a nurse. Normally I work 33 00:02:07.680 --> 00:02:13.120 in leadership every day. Right on, Yeah, okay, question for you. 34 00:02:14.000 --> 00:02:16.439 I hurt right here where like I woke up yesterday morning, right under 35 00:02:16.479 --> 00:02:20.960 my chin where the lymph nodes are. But they're not swollen. You know 36 00:02:21.000 --> 00:02:24.520 what? That is, just another chin growing in. Okay, thank you, 37 00:02:25.800 --> 00:02:30.960 dam growing pain, this growing pain. Start off with the emails good 38 00:02:30.960 --> 00:02:34.439 morning. Wanted to write in and give a shout out to Bailey for knowing 39 00:02:34.479 --> 00:02:38.759 where OGLV is. It's where I live, but not where I'm from. 40 00:02:38.840 --> 00:02:42.719 Originally, my husband grew up there. That's how I made my way here. 41 00:02:43.280 --> 00:02:46.800 We are the town where men Dot put up the population signs with the 42 00:02:46.879 --> 00:02:52.520 name of this town spelled wrong. Oh didn't they really awkward? Also, 43 00:02:52.520 --> 00:02:55.800 I just heard Tipsy by Shaboozi on a Saint Cloud country station last night. 44 00:02:55.840 --> 00:02:59.520 I was a bit surprised to have but happy to hear it. It is 45 00:02:59.560 --> 00:03:02.520 definitely my song of summer. Have a great day, guys. And it 46 00:03:02.560 --> 00:03:07.439 says no name please, So I'm gonna go back and I'm gonna edit her 47 00:03:07.520 --> 00:03:10.319 name out of the podcast. So I wonder why she doesn't want me to 48 00:03:10.319 --> 00:03:21.199 say her name? Okay, wow, After it says Howdy hoe my favorites. 49 00:03:21.879 --> 00:03:23.479 After hearing this segment on nicknames, I felt they must tell you a 50 00:03:23.479 --> 00:03:30.520 little story about how I got mine. Kelly Karate. Picture it nineteen ninety 51 00:03:30.520 --> 00:03:36.240 five, Nice suburban development. Little Kelly is five years old in her best 52 00:03:36.319 --> 00:03:39.360 dress for her first day of kindergarten. She and her best friend have been 53 00:03:39.360 --> 00:03:44.479 practicing their power Ranger moves all summer. She indeed held the strength of the 54 00:03:44.560 --> 00:03:47.919 yellow Power Ranger as she stepped aboard the first yellow school bus. Who was 55 00:03:49.000 --> 00:03:52.199 she to encounter but a group of fifth grade boys who yelled, who called 56 00:03:52.240 --> 00:03:59.759 her, who called her and her friend babies babies cue, best friend telling 57 00:03:59.800 --> 00:04:03.639 Kellylly, show him some of your moves. So she loyally stood up and, 58 00:04:03.639 --> 00:04:09.159 giving her best hi, yeah, gave a swift kick right to the 59 00:04:09.199 --> 00:04:14.360 shins of mean Jimmy. From that day forward, she was coined Karate Kelly. 60 00:04:15.680 --> 00:04:17.759 Did she flourish in the kick ass name? No, They would taunt 61 00:04:17.800 --> 00:04:23.639 her in the Nana Nana Nana Karate Kelly one hundred times a day. Did 62 00:04:23.680 --> 00:04:29.759 she continue to kick like a karate like Kelly Karate when teased? And yes, 63 00:04:30.199 --> 00:04:32.279 there's a photo attached to me the moment before I got my nickname. 64 00:04:32.639 --> 00:04:34.680 Oh and she wants a staff rider sticker. So I'm going to give you 65 00:04:34.680 --> 00:04:41.240 another one, Breeody. And it is a picture of a little girl getting 66 00:04:41.279 --> 00:04:44.639 on a bus. It is so first day of school. She's got her 67 00:04:44.680 --> 00:04:48.519 little backpack on, she is waving to mom goodbye, and she's wearing a 68 00:04:48.600 --> 00:04:54.720 beautiful blue five year old girl dress and it's very sweet. So karate Kelly, 69 00:04:55.040 --> 00:05:00.759 what a great story. Thank you. Next one, Okay, I 70 00:05:00.800 --> 00:05:04.079 don't think I can read this one because it has to do with ratings, 71 00:05:04.120 --> 00:05:09.959 and we're not allowed to talk about radio station ratings. I think I probably 72 00:05:09.959 --> 00:05:12.399 can on the podcast, but I'm not going to. I don't want to 73 00:05:12.439 --> 00:05:16.160 stray into anything that I'm not allowed to get into. So basically, she 74 00:05:16.240 --> 00:05:21.480 talks about how she listens to the show. And if your name is Ali, 75 00:05:23.279 --> 00:05:27.199 thank you. I cannot read your entire email, but I will say 76 00:05:27.199 --> 00:05:30.959 a question for Jenny, what has been your favorite Survivor season that you've watched 77 00:05:30.959 --> 00:05:35.759 so far? I would have to say the Millennials versus gen x ers or 78 00:05:36.160 --> 00:05:41.279 yea gen x that's what it was. I get confused because the millennials are 79 00:05:41.319 --> 00:05:44.199 like what I feel like, are gen z age now because it's such an 80 00:05:44.240 --> 00:05:46.600 old season, so I'm like, wait, what is it? But yeah, 81 00:05:46.639 --> 00:05:49.120 that's definitely it. I really liked Cook Islands and any season that has 82 00:05:49.160 --> 00:05:54.439 Stephen Fishbok the love of my life blood versus water. Ooh, blood versus 83 00:05:54.639 --> 00:05:58.480 I haven't seen that one yet. Oh, I love survivor what a vibe 84 00:06:00.399 --> 00:06:03.879 really like furiously reading something right now? Yeah, some of them are not 85 00:06:04.079 --> 00:06:09.480 for the Minnesota Goodbye, But this is somebody who says, check your mailbox 86 00:06:09.480 --> 00:06:12.560 tomorrow, Dave. You've been such a huge part of my life. It's 87 00:06:12.560 --> 00:06:16.759 the least I could do. Hours of running entertained by you. So I 88 00:06:16.839 --> 00:06:21.480 think she sent me a shirt. Yeah, okay, good, thank you, 89 00:06:21.560 --> 00:06:28.279 Shannon, appreciate that. Okay, next one, Minnesota Goodbye. I 90 00:06:28.319 --> 00:06:30.160 want to start out by saying how much I love this podcast. I drive 91 00:06:30.279 --> 00:06:34.079 all day for work, and y'all are literally the only thing that I like 92 00:06:34.199 --> 00:06:38.360 to listen to. My questions are for you, Dave. I was listening 93 00:06:38.439 --> 00:06:42.959 to an older podcast where you were all discussing the fear of flying and how 94 00:06:43.000 --> 00:06:46.680 you were saying that planes don't really don't crash anymore. I know you're a 95 00:06:46.720 --> 00:06:49.399 pilot, so I'm wondering if you've ever had any scary moments or close calls. 96 00:06:49.800 --> 00:06:53.439 Also, do you own your own airplane or do you rent one when 97 00:06:53.439 --> 00:06:56.199 you fly? I've always wondered how that works. Have a great day. 98 00:06:56.199 --> 00:07:01.879 Thanks for making my driving days a hoot from Hillary. Okay. Because of 99 00:07:02.000 --> 00:07:10.920 technology and so much more safety, there really hasn't been a serious commercial plane 100 00:07:10.920 --> 00:07:15.360 crash in the United States in fifteen ish years and back. You know, 101 00:07:15.480 --> 00:07:18.199 even like in the nineties or in the eighties, there was one probably two 102 00:07:18.279 --> 00:07:23.439 or three times a year, like a serious, fatal, massive, deadly 103 00:07:23.560 --> 00:07:27.800 plane crash, and there really hasn't been any lately. Knock on wood, 104 00:07:28.279 --> 00:07:30.839 just like random fires every once in a while, or like the window blew 105 00:07:30.839 --> 00:07:34.839 out on something. Yeah, and it doesn't mean there will never be another 106 00:07:34.879 --> 00:07:38.040 one, but the one of the reasons, I'll give you a little thing 107 00:07:38.160 --> 00:07:40.920 here on fline so you'll know, because I think it's kind of interesting. 108 00:07:42.079 --> 00:07:47.480 There used to be a real hierarchy of like the pilot was God. He 109 00:07:47.680 --> 00:07:50.600 was God or she was God. And if you are not and you're the 110 00:07:50.600 --> 00:07:56.519 first officer or the engineer, you never questioned the pilot. So you would 111 00:07:56.519 --> 00:08:01.240 get a pilot that would be fucking up basically, and you would not tell 112 00:08:01.439 --> 00:08:05.199 the pilot I don't think we should do that or that's wrong, or ever 113 00:08:05.600 --> 00:08:09.560 like grab the you know, the the throttle or whatever from the pilot. 114 00:08:09.759 --> 00:08:13.079 You would basically let the pilot just do whatever, do whatever. Yeah, 115 00:08:13.120 --> 00:08:18.639 And pilots are human, uh, And there's been so many where it's like, 116 00:08:18.720 --> 00:08:20.920 are you sure we're ready to go? Are you sure we're good to 117 00:08:20.959 --> 00:08:22.920 go? And they're like, oh, yeah, we're fine, and then 118 00:08:22.959 --> 00:08:26.600 they would go and then the pilot would kill everybody on. So now they've 119 00:08:26.680 --> 00:08:31.319 had a shift in the way of thinking in the last twenty or thirty years 120 00:08:31.519 --> 00:08:33.360 where even if you're like the you know, second officer on the flight, 121 00:08:33.759 --> 00:08:39.080 you should question the pilot if you think they're doing something wrong. There's like 122 00:08:39.120 --> 00:08:41.039 a checks and balances system. Yeah, and it used to not be that 123 00:08:41.080 --> 00:08:45.159 way. And there were several instances where they let the pilot do whatever and 124 00:08:45.200 --> 00:08:50.080 they all died even though they knew that he was doing something wrong. And 125 00:08:50.120 --> 00:08:52.960 how do they know this because there's a cockpit voice recorder. Yeah, I 126 00:08:54.000 --> 00:08:56.519 was gonna say, how did they all die? And then how did they 127 00:08:56.559 --> 00:08:58.519 say? Hey, he didn't listen to me, right exactly. So there 128 00:08:58.600 --> 00:09:03.039 was a cock pit voice recorder that would record all the dialogue in the cockpit 129 00:09:03.120 --> 00:09:09.039 and on the radio, and there were several instances where, without getting too 130 00:09:09.080 --> 00:09:11.720 specific, where they'd be like, do you really think we should do that? 131 00:09:11.120 --> 00:09:13.480 Oh? Yeah, it's fine. Are we cleared? Is the runway 132 00:09:13.519 --> 00:09:16.759 clear? Oh yeah, it's fine, And then we'd take off and they 133 00:09:16.799 --> 00:09:20.000 literally hit another plane they couldn't see in the fog because whatever. So yeah, 134 00:09:20.039 --> 00:09:24.759 so filet flying is a whole lot safer. I've never really had a 135 00:09:24.799 --> 00:09:28.679 scary moment or a close call. When I was a student, I was 136 00:09:28.679 --> 00:09:33.679 flying to Fergus Falls and it was over SOT Center and my engine sputtered, 137 00:09:35.399 --> 00:09:37.519 and I thought the first thing I thought was this is how I'm going to 138 00:09:37.600 --> 00:09:41.080 die. That was my first thought. And it sputtered and then it came 139 00:09:41.120 --> 00:09:46.399 back to life, so it was no big deal. But for a minute 140 00:09:46.399 --> 00:09:50.240 there I really thought, oh shit. So not really a close call, 141 00:09:50.279 --> 00:09:54.759 but the closest I've come to a close call engine cuts out is are you 142 00:09:54.919 --> 00:09:58.639 like dead for sure? Or can you like slowly float to the ground. 143 00:09:58.320 --> 00:10:05.200 You can slow float to the ground. There's actually something called best glide speed 144 00:10:05.960 --> 00:10:11.320 that we pilots have to memorize. So if the engine goes out, they 145 00:10:11.360 --> 00:10:15.120 say, the first thing that you do is fly the airplane. So don't 146 00:10:15.159 --> 00:10:18.159 panic. You will, but don't panic. Don't start like playing around with 147 00:10:18.200 --> 00:10:22.279 all the equipment. Don't start trying to whatever. Fly the airplane. Because 148 00:10:22.360 --> 00:10:26.600 you are dicking around inside the cockpit trying to restart it, you look up 149 00:10:26.639 --> 00:10:30.960 and you're like crashing into a field or whatever. So fly the airplane. 150 00:10:31.799 --> 00:10:33.879 But then they call it best glide speed. And every airplane has its speed 151 00:10:33.919 --> 00:10:37.960 that it glides the farthest. Okay, so in my little airplane it might 152 00:10:39.000 --> 00:10:43.120 be sixty seven miles per hour. So I'll get it to sixty seven miles 153 00:10:43.159 --> 00:10:46.000 an hour. Now I can glide for a really long way. I look 154 00:10:46.039 --> 00:10:48.120 for a field over there or a road, and then I go, oh, 155 00:10:48.240 --> 00:10:52.519 I'll land in that farmer's field. Do you like, is there a 156 00:10:52.519 --> 00:10:56.480 way to like tell someone that you're gonna land in a space that no one's 157 00:10:56.519 --> 00:10:58.840 expecting a plane to be in. Good question, Bailey. Yeah. The 158 00:11:00.080 --> 00:11:05.000 rule is aviate, navigate, and communicate. So in other words, aviate. 159 00:11:05.639 --> 00:11:09.080 The first thing you do is fly the plane, navigate, look for 160 00:11:09.159 --> 00:11:13.840 a place to land, and then when you have time, if you have 161 00:11:13.919 --> 00:11:16.279 time, then you communicate and you say, hey, this is two four, 162 00:11:16.399 --> 00:11:24.279 three, six November and we're going down. We're going down. So 163 00:11:26.000 --> 00:11:28.639 yeah, you can call them and you can say, hey, I'm four 164 00:11:28.679 --> 00:11:31.320 miles west of Hutchinson. Yeah, and so they know where to find the 165 00:11:31.360 --> 00:11:37.399 plume of smoke. Jez oh. And then I rent a lot of people 166 00:11:37.480 --> 00:11:39.120 low on airplanes. I rent because then at the end of the day, 167 00:11:39.159 --> 00:11:43.159 when I'm done, I hand them the keys and I say I'll see you 168 00:11:43.240 --> 00:11:46.080 next time. I think a lot of people have that misconception that you have 169 00:11:46.159 --> 00:11:50.440 your own plane since you go to Colorado, because I used to think that 170 00:11:50.519 --> 00:11:52.639 you flew yourself to Colorado every time you went there. I had no idea. 171 00:11:54.120 --> 00:11:56.799 I'm not. I thought the same thing for a long time. Yeah, 172 00:11:56.840 --> 00:12:00.240 a lot of people do. No. I just fly commercial, and 173 00:12:00.759 --> 00:12:03.600 it would take a long day to fly to Colorado, and a lot of 174 00:12:03.639 --> 00:12:07.679 the time the weather is not clear all the way from here to Colorado, 175 00:12:09.039 --> 00:12:13.759 and I can't fly in anything but moderately clear way. Are you only licensed 176 00:12:13.759 --> 00:12:16.279 to fly in Minnesota? Oh? No, I can fly anywhere. Well, 177 00:12:16.320 --> 00:12:18.240 I just don't ever hear you saying that you fly in Colorado, is 178 00:12:18.240 --> 00:12:22.679 they're not some more close. I have flown in Colorado. But it's a 179 00:12:22.759 --> 00:12:26.200 process. So when you go to a place they're not familiar with you, 180 00:12:26.200 --> 00:12:30.200 you have to check out with an instructor and go up with an instructor and 181 00:12:30.240 --> 00:12:33.240 they fly for an hour and make sure you're competent, and then you get 182 00:12:33.240 --> 00:12:35.879 to sign out all the paperwork. But when I go to where I go 183 00:12:35.960 --> 00:12:39.559 now Thunderbird, they know me, and I come in, I sign in, 184 00:12:39.919 --> 00:12:43.240 and I get in the plane and I go. So but yeah, 185 00:12:43.279 --> 00:12:46.919 I can fly in other states too. Okay, here's one about the podcast. 186 00:12:48.000 --> 00:12:52.440 It says, hello from Chelsea. I'm writing in response to the person 187 00:12:52.480 --> 00:12:54.399 that wrote in the other day about the podcast not playing in order. I 188 00:12:54.519 --> 00:12:58.360 have the same issue, and it must be for Apple podcasts. That's where 189 00:12:58.399 --> 00:13:01.759 I listen. If you play an episodisode once it ends, it will automatically 190 00:13:01.759 --> 00:13:05.480 play the episode posted after that. So let's say I play the six am 191 00:13:05.519 --> 00:13:09.440 episode from Monday, it will next play the nine am episode from Tuesday, 192 00:13:09.879 --> 00:13:15.000 then eight am from Tuesday, so it's backwards. However, you can sort 193 00:13:15.039 --> 00:13:18.480 and add to your queue to get them in order. So I see how 194 00:13:18.480 --> 00:13:22.080 it's confusing. I also like when the show was posted in one chunk rather 195 00:13:22.159 --> 00:13:24.679 than hour by hour. Still love you guys, though, and we'll listen 196 00:13:24.679 --> 00:13:28.080 no matter how it's posted from Chelsea. Any updates on that, I mean, 197 00:13:28.600 --> 00:13:31.639 if it does it that way in Apple, then that's I'm sorry, 198 00:13:31.679 --> 00:13:35.000 Like, that's just how you're gonna have to deal with it, because iHeart 199 00:13:35.080 --> 00:13:37.080 is the main one that we use, and it works in iHeart that's what 200 00:13:37.200 --> 00:13:41.320 you listen to it, right, really, I hear. So that's just 201 00:13:41.399 --> 00:13:43.720 kind of how it is, unfortunately. I mean, I was just listening 202 00:13:43.720 --> 00:13:46.799 to something on Apple podcast yesterday and as soon as the podcast was done, 203 00:13:46.840 --> 00:13:52.000 it took me to another random like musician I listened to, like it didn't 204 00:13:52.000 --> 00:13:56.720 even go to that same podcast, So I don't understand how Apple works. 205 00:13:58.480 --> 00:14:00.919 Yeah, I don't listen to our podcast, so I don't really know. 206 00:14:01.039 --> 00:14:05.039 But it's always why would I you know, don't you want to relive your 207 00:14:05.320 --> 00:14:11.080 good times? No? No, no, no, I mean I love 208 00:14:11.120 --> 00:14:13.159 the show, but I don't really want to go back and listen to it. 209 00:14:13.320 --> 00:14:18.399 I love the show, but not that well. Next one from Nicole, 210 00:14:18.759 --> 00:14:22.799 She's a She lives in Hayfield, Minnesota. She says, good morning, 211 00:14:22.879 --> 00:14:26.240 Dave and Crew. I wanted to talk about living in a small town 212 00:14:26.279 --> 00:14:28.960 I grow. I grew up in the Twin Cities from when I was to 213 00:14:30.360 --> 00:14:35.480 until last summer when I was thirty eight and I moved to Hayfield. Population 214 00:14:35.679 --> 00:14:39.480 one thousand, three hundred and twenty four. Wow, everybody knows everyone. 215 00:14:39.519 --> 00:14:43.120 We got a bar, little grocery store, gas station, homecoming parades. 216 00:14:43.480 --> 00:14:46.360 Their town festival is next weekend. The town is so small. How small 217 00:14:46.440 --> 00:14:50.039 is it? The elementary, middle school, and high school are all in 218 00:14:50.039 --> 00:14:52.519 one building. Wow. Yes, I will get bored in this small house 219 00:14:52.559 --> 00:14:56.840 town. But Rochester is only about twenty five minutes away, so I'm not 220 00:14:56.879 --> 00:15:01.519 going to go so crazy. I love this community seems to really do watch 221 00:15:01.559 --> 00:15:05.519 out for each other. If someone is in need of something, it sees 222 00:15:05.600 --> 00:15:09.159 the community will jump into help. I feel like my theme song right now 223 00:15:09.720 --> 00:15:15.360 is y'all Life by Walker Hayes. I don't know that song that money there, 224 00:15:16.120 --> 00:15:22.480 but probably like country, it is all right. Last email from Charrase 225 00:15:22.600 --> 00:15:24.960 and she is a regular staff writer. She says, I find myself needing 226 00:15:24.960 --> 00:15:30.360 some advice, and you might remember she's had some you know, like relationship 227 00:15:30.559 --> 00:15:33.519 things and she says she broke up with the younger guy that I was seeing, 228 00:15:35.240 --> 00:15:37.480 and I took your advice, Dave. I've decided I'm not going to 229 00:15:37.559 --> 00:15:41.559 deal with his behavior anymore. He actually sent me a text message trying to 230 00:15:41.559 --> 00:15:46.480 explain his behavior. He said they didn't want the same things. She wants 231 00:15:46.519 --> 00:15:48.799 marriage and kids one day, which I was fine about. He just assumed 232 00:15:48.799 --> 00:15:52.960 that I didn't want these things, and instead of discussing it anyway, I'm 233 00:15:52.000 --> 00:15:54.840 over the whole thing. Here's the problem. He's got some of my shit. 234 00:15:56.360 --> 00:15:58.679 Now I'm paraphrasing, but he's got some of her stuff. And I 235 00:15:58.720 --> 00:16:02.720 said give it back, please, and he said I'm not ready. I 236 00:16:02.759 --> 00:16:06.039 don't know what that means. I don't want to send an angry message demanding 237 00:16:06.039 --> 00:16:08.039 my things back because I don't want him to destroy or throw away anything. 238 00:16:08.440 --> 00:16:12.200 I even offered him a way to return stuff without talking to me or seeing 239 00:16:12.240 --> 00:16:15.399 me, but he didn't take it. I'm at a loss what to do. 240 00:16:15.759 --> 00:16:19.279 I really want my things back, but I don't want to antagonize him. 241 00:16:19.360 --> 00:16:23.960 Any advice would be appreciated, I would. I'm curious, what are 242 00:16:25.000 --> 00:16:29.039 your things? Is it? If it's a hoodie and a smart speaker. 243 00:16:29.559 --> 00:16:32.840 Then I think you might just want to cut your losses and say fuck it. 244 00:16:32.960 --> 00:16:34.840 Yeah, you know, because it sounds like you're a little bit frightened 245 00:16:34.879 --> 00:16:40.919 of his reaction, and you should never be frightened of somebody's reaction, you 246 00:16:40.919 --> 00:16:42.600 know what I mean. So him saying like I'm not ready to give it 247 00:16:42.639 --> 00:16:45.919 back yet, well, I'm ready to get it back, so give me 248 00:16:45.000 --> 00:16:49.240 my stuff. That's totally disrespectful. That's so weird. Are you sleeping with 249 00:16:49.240 --> 00:16:52.799 the sweatshirt? Like why? Yeah, I don't know. And I think 250 00:16:52.799 --> 00:16:56.039 it sounds to me like he's just holding it ransom, like he wants to 251 00:16:56.080 --> 00:17:00.200 somehow still control you. To me, it's like, you know what, 252 00:17:00.320 --> 00:17:03.440 I would block him. I would say keep the shit. Unless it's really 253 00:17:03.519 --> 00:17:07.000 valuable, then I guess you could maybe call the police. I don't know, 254 00:17:07.759 --> 00:17:11.880 but it sounds like if it's not something that you can replace, if 255 00:17:11.880 --> 00:17:15.640 you can replace it, let him have it. I wonder if you could 256 00:17:15.680 --> 00:17:19.680 go get it from him, but bring somebody with you as like okay, 257 00:17:19.880 --> 00:17:22.119 kind of you know, not a shield, but you know, like, 258 00:17:22.240 --> 00:17:27.640 as I guess, just a way to hold him accountable, like he won't 259 00:17:27.680 --> 00:17:32.160 be like, no, you can't leave stay forever. If you have like 260 00:17:32.200 --> 00:17:34.880 somebody with you to also be there, yeah, like bring along a friend 261 00:17:36.000 --> 00:17:37.559 or something like that, saying I'm coming over, I want I'm bringing my 262 00:17:37.640 --> 00:17:41.519 dad, yeah exactly. Or I'm bringing my big friend yeah uh, and 263 00:17:41.599 --> 00:17:45.279 we want my shit back. Yeah. I don't know. It sounds there's 264 00:17:45.319 --> 00:17:48.039 a I'm reading between the lines. I think there's something that she is a 265 00:17:48.079 --> 00:17:52.319 little bit afraid of his reaction because you never know, and you should never 266 00:17:52.359 --> 00:17:57.720 be afraid of your person and the weird way they'd react. Yeah. Also, 267 00:17:57.759 --> 00:18:00.720 it sucks that she feels response for his emotions, which is stupid. 268 00:18:00.799 --> 00:18:04.359 He should have those in check, sir. All right, that is it 269 00:18:04.400 --> 00:18:08.640 for the Minnesota Goodbye. I love your emails. That's what makes the whole 270 00:18:08.680 --> 00:18:14.240 podcast, Bri. You're gonna send out these staff writer stickers which are literally 271 00:18:14.400 --> 00:18:18.400 like four or five months overdue. Come on it. So thank you very 272 00:18:18.480 --> 00:18:22.400 much and we will see you tomorrow here on the Minnesota Goodbye email address. 273 00:18:22.440 --> 00:18:27.400 As always, Ryan Show at kadiwb dot com.