WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.760 --> 00:00:05.200 It is the Friday Minnesota Goodbyeman in a really good mood because it's Friday, 2 00:00:05.240 --> 00:00:09.279 it's beautiful, it's Mother'sday weekend. I don't fish myself, but it's fishing 3 00:00:09.320 --> 00:00:13.160 opener, and it's supposed to be gorgeous, like all three days, Friday, 4 00:00:13.199 --> 00:00:16.039 Saturday, Sunday. I mean, like eighties on Sunday. Are you 5 00:00:16.320 --> 00:00:20.239 serious? You're heading a nicer weather. I'm going to LA and it's gonna 6 00:00:20.239 --> 00:00:24.280 be probably seventy five or so. Carson lives in LA. And it's kind 7 00:00:24.280 --> 00:00:27.839 of funny because we when he moved out there a year and a half ago, 8 00:00:28.280 --> 00:00:30.160 we said, oh, we'll be back every couple of months. We're 9 00:00:30.160 --> 00:00:33.359 gonna come see you. We never once went to see him in LA, 10 00:00:33.439 --> 00:00:36.039 because he came to see us, and you meet us here, meet us 11 00:00:36.079 --> 00:00:39.679 in Colorado or whatever. He met us in Phoenix a couple of times to 12 00:00:39.719 --> 00:00:44.600 see Chase. He was just out to see He was just out to see 13 00:00:44.679 --> 00:00:50.079 Chase the other day, and he was going to Phoenix to meet his buddies 14 00:00:50.119 --> 00:00:53.079 there because one friend lives there and the rest we're all flying in for like 15 00:00:53.079 --> 00:00:57.159 a boy's weekend in Phoenix. And so he stopped by to see Chase, 16 00:00:57.200 --> 00:01:07.560 and Carson is so quiet it that he he has a million friends, so 17 00:01:07.640 --> 00:01:11.000 I know he's not quiet all the time because people his friends love him. 18 00:01:11.120 --> 00:01:15.840 Yeah, but they I got video of Chase handing Carson the baby, baby 19 00:01:15.879 --> 00:01:19.719 Gwyn, who's about a month and a half old, and Carson takes the 20 00:01:19.760 --> 00:01:23.400 baby. Let's act like I'm giving you the baby. Okay, all right, 21 00:01:23.439 --> 00:01:26.920 I'm going to hand you here. Oh, here you go, Jenny, 22 00:01:27.400 --> 00:01:33.480 Oh so cute. Oh my goodness, this is a baby. Carson 23 00:01:33.560 --> 00:01:38.239 didn't say a fucking word, not a fucking word, and he just looked 24 00:01:38.239 --> 00:01:40.879 at the baby. And Carson loves babies, and I know he loved that 25 00:01:40.959 --> 00:01:46.000 moment. But I was like, Carson, say something, Say Andy, 26 00:01:46.319 --> 00:01:49.239 say something. And that's just the way he is. He is, just 27 00:01:49.799 --> 00:01:53.359 if I think Carson is one of those people and I used to be this 28 00:01:53.400 --> 00:01:59.439 way too, that you think of what to say and then you realize that 29 00:01:59.519 --> 00:02:02.840 it might sounds stupid or it might sound like for Carson to go, oh, 30 00:02:02.879 --> 00:02:08.080 she's so cute. Cancel that might sound stupid, that might sound silly. 31 00:02:08.879 --> 00:02:14.080 Cancel it. Don't say anything. Oh look at her smile Cancel. 32 00:02:14.240 --> 00:02:17.280 No. So I think that some people like Carson, and he's such a 33 00:02:17.439 --> 00:02:23.560 sweet person. He edits himself in his head so much that he ends up 34 00:02:23.599 --> 00:02:29.800 not saying anything. And it's like, Carson, fucking say something. Yeah, 35 00:02:29.840 --> 00:02:31.479 you know. And Carson, I don't think you listen to the podcast, 36 00:02:31.479 --> 00:02:35.400 but if you do, I really hope that at one point in your 37 00:02:35.400 --> 00:02:39.280 life you'll realize it's okay to say something. Sometimes it's better to say something 38 00:02:39.319 --> 00:02:44.599 a little bit stupid than to say nothing. Well, I don't know about 39 00:02:44.599 --> 00:02:46.719 that. Oh, I think. I think sometimes because because there was an 40 00:02:46.759 --> 00:02:51.400 awkward silence and then Chase had to break the silence by saying something, and 41 00:02:51.400 --> 00:02:53.639 then Mattie said something and Carson just sit and stare at the baby. And 42 00:02:53.639 --> 00:02:59.560 I'm not critiquing my own son, but it's like, say something, Yeah, 43 00:02:59.599 --> 00:03:02.759 it would be I understand like the awkwardness of that situation, because then 44 00:03:04.120 --> 00:03:06.919 I retched Chase and Mattie are like, oh God, does he think our 45 00:03:06.919 --> 00:03:10.439 baby's ugly or something? That isn't what cat the baby's ugly? I can't 46 00:03:10.439 --> 00:03:16.039 say that, all right? Well, start off with an email from Nicole. 47 00:03:16.520 --> 00:03:21.400 Yesterday we were talking about company parties. She says, Dave, Jenny 48 00:03:21.439 --> 00:03:23.439 Vant, good morning and happy Friday. I have a reason why company party 49 00:03:23.479 --> 00:03:29.400 should not offer an open bar at a holiday party. The reason is me, 50 00:03:29.879 --> 00:03:34.360 Oh boy. Years ago, I attended my husband's holiday party, which 51 00:03:34.439 --> 00:03:38.800 was held at a hotel. There was an open bar for a happy hours, 52 00:03:38.840 --> 00:03:42.400 so I decided I probably should take advantage of the situation. Bad idea. 53 00:03:42.919 --> 00:03:46.240 I drank my fair share of white Russians on an empty stomach. I 54 00:03:46.520 --> 00:03:51.240 wanted to get into our room, but since it was my only my husband's 55 00:03:51.319 --> 00:03:53.520 name on the room, they would not give me a card. I didn't 56 00:03:53.560 --> 00:03:57.560 have shoes, I couldn't find him anywhere, so I ended up in the 57 00:03:57.599 --> 00:04:02.240 pool area having a great conversation with a very elderly man in a speedo. 58 00:04:02.840 --> 00:04:05.680 Nice. Needless to say, my husband was not impressed with me, and 59 00:04:05.719 --> 00:04:10.280 it took many years before we attended another company party, and I had to 60 00:04:10.319 --> 00:04:13.759 promise to be on my best behavior. I will not end this with a 61 00:04:13.840 --> 00:04:15.560 dark lick, because that is not my thing. I would be afraid of 62 00:04:15.560 --> 00:04:19.000 finding Okay, now you're getting gross. I would be afraid of finding a 63 00:04:19.079 --> 00:04:24.920 dingleberry lurking around, and that would make me gag. Oh right, Nicole, 64 00:04:25.000 --> 00:04:29.720 thank you very much. Honest, you know I'm not going to get 65 00:04:29.720 --> 00:04:31.920 too into that, but you know, maintain your butthole. You know what 66 00:04:31.920 --> 00:04:35.399 I mean. Man, I'm marry a day baby. Maintain your buttthole. 67 00:04:35.439 --> 00:04:43.040 Well, don't. Don't walk around with your butthole not maintained. And that's 68 00:04:43.120 --> 00:04:47.319 very important your beehole. Maintain your beehole. I like it. I'm going 69 00:04:47.399 --> 00:04:50.879 to tell you this. If you are an eight year old or ten year 70 00:04:50.920 --> 00:04:55.720 old child and you take off your underpants and there's a brown streak, you're 71 00:04:55.759 --> 00:04:59.800 a kid. It's fine. If you're over the age of fifteen and you 72 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:03.879 take off your underpants and there's a brown streak, consistently, maintain your butthole. 73 00:05:04.120 --> 00:05:06.600 If you are a thirty four year old man, and I'm going to 74 00:05:06.639 --> 00:05:10.839 guess right now there is a woman listening who's married to a thirty four year 75 00:05:10.839 --> 00:05:13.920 old or forty eight year old or twenty five year old man, and he's 76 00:05:14.000 --> 00:05:17.399 always got a brown streak in his underpants. That guy needs to grow up 77 00:05:17.439 --> 00:05:23.519 and learn to maintain his butthole. Am I right? You are completely right. 78 00:05:23.639 --> 00:05:28.639 I don't really understand. Like for me, I'll use an entire toilet 79 00:05:28.680 --> 00:05:31.079 paper roll if that's what it takes. Kid, you gotta maintain your butthole. 80 00:05:32.160 --> 00:05:38.439 I dated a woman one time, and I remember after we did the 81 00:05:38.480 --> 00:05:40.680 thing and I got up to go to the bathroom or whatever, I came 82 00:05:40.720 --> 00:05:44.560 back or underpants or by the bed, and there were white like probably you 83 00:05:44.600 --> 00:05:47.360 know, like regular underpants yep, with a big brown streak in him. 84 00:05:47.399 --> 00:05:53.639 And I was like, God, seriously, you're an adult. Clean that 85 00:05:53.720 --> 00:05:56.879 thing up. Maintain your butthole. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I agree. 86 00:05:57.040 --> 00:05:59.720 Okay, if you have any comments on that, please send me an 87 00:05:59.720 --> 00:06:04.639 email. Well, maybe your husband or your eighteen year old son or maybe 88 00:06:04.680 --> 00:06:08.480 your twenty year old daughter, you do their laundry and you still got a 89 00:06:08.519 --> 00:06:13.399 brown streak in the underpants that needs to stop. How would you approach that 90 00:06:13.519 --> 00:06:16.240 with Carson if you saw that, I just wouldn't. I would not at 91 00:06:16.240 --> 00:06:18.279 this age. It's like, no, you know what, you got to 92 00:06:18.319 --> 00:06:23.040 learn it on your own. H I don't think I've had brown streaks in 93 00:06:23.040 --> 00:06:26.439 my underpants since I was probably eight or ten. Yeah, you know what 94 00:06:26.439 --> 00:06:29.399 I mean. That's good. It was a few years ago for me. 95 00:06:30.040 --> 00:06:32.839 Yeah, you know. And sometimes you have a little slippage and then you 96 00:06:32.920 --> 00:06:35.639 have to throw it in the laundry. But that should never be a common 97 00:06:35.680 --> 00:06:41.160 thing. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah all right. Next 98 00:06:41.199 --> 00:06:44.839 one is mostly for Jenny. They show a picture of an adorable dog with 99 00:06:44.920 --> 00:06:49.480 a purple bandana and this is like a cute little poodaly losso opso looking little 100 00:06:49.560 --> 00:06:54.720 dog. You can use my name, Nate, I get a question for 101 00:06:54.800 --> 00:06:58.839 Jenny. I was catching up on old episodes. Listen to one where Jenny 102 00:06:59.079 --> 00:07:02.560 talked about tips on Rover that's the app, and how sometimes she can tell 103 00:07:02.600 --> 00:07:05.920 right away when people will or won't tip. My question is what is an 104 00:07:05.959 --> 00:07:11.319 appropriate tip for somebody watching my dog through Rover? Is it fifteen to twenty 105 00:07:11.360 --> 00:07:15.399 percent like you do in a restaurant? More less does it make a difference 106 00:07:15.480 --> 00:07:20.000 percentage wise if it's somebody doing doggy daycare for a few hours or versus boarding 107 00:07:20.040 --> 00:07:24.720 my dog at their house for a few days. Here is my puppy for 108 00:07:24.800 --> 00:07:27.920 reference, mostly to show you how cute she is. She is adorable. 109 00:07:28.279 --> 00:07:32.360 Thank you, and don't forget that dart licking is right? Okay, that 110 00:07:32.560 --> 00:07:36.720 was clever. Nate. First of all, explain the Rover app. Rover 111 00:07:36.920 --> 00:07:41.480 is just an app. You can find dog watchers, walkers, whatever in 112 00:07:41.519 --> 00:07:44.560 your area or wherever you want. It doesn't matter. You can set your 113 00:07:44.639 --> 00:07:47.040 distance wide like you do like Facebook, Marketplace or something, and then you 114 00:07:47.120 --> 00:07:50.480 hire them. And then for me, we only do dog sitting at our 115 00:07:50.519 --> 00:07:54.759 house. I used to do some dog walking, but honestly that was like 116 00:07:54.800 --> 00:07:59.519 a little two time consuming for me for like maybe making like seven bucks, 117 00:07:59.560 --> 00:08:01.959 you know, wasn't like a payday to go walk a dog or whatever. 118 00:08:03.399 --> 00:08:07.879 So yeah, I would say for tipping, if people tip, it's usually 119 00:08:07.959 --> 00:08:13.279 ten to twenty percent, okay, And then I usually, like I mean, 120 00:08:13.319 --> 00:08:16.040 I do I not to pat myself on the back, but I do 121 00:08:16.079 --> 00:08:18.680 take dogs for walk a lot. I take them to dog parks, Like 122 00:08:18.720 --> 00:08:20.839 I'm pretty active with the dogs that we watch, So I think that people 123 00:08:20.879 --> 00:08:24.800 really appreciate that. And then it reflects in the tip a lot of times. 124 00:08:24.120 --> 00:08:26.319 So it's really up to you. But like I said, some people 125 00:08:26.360 --> 00:08:30.959 don't tip, and I'm not mad about that if they don't. But also 126 00:08:31.160 --> 00:08:33.559 this is like just a little side thing for me. I don't want to 127 00:08:33.600 --> 00:08:37.919 speak for people who like this is a job for them, because for them, 128 00:08:37.440 --> 00:08:41.840 I'm sure they're a lot more reliant on tips, but I also expect 129 00:08:41.840 --> 00:08:45.960 them to be really good dog watchers and walkers and stuff. Too than if 130 00:08:46.000 --> 00:08:52.919 they are reliant on tips. I I was talking to somebody the other day 131 00:08:52.080 --> 00:08:58.799 about you and your dog walking and dog sitting, and they were like, 132 00:08:58.840 --> 00:09:01.679 I don't know who to live my dog with, and kennel's are so expensive 133 00:09:01.720 --> 00:09:05.879 and blah blah blah. And I think it was it might have been Susan, 134 00:09:05.039 --> 00:09:11.240 because Josie is fifteen. She is a handful. She just peas at 135 00:09:11.279 --> 00:09:15.440 will whenever she wants. She'll squat on the carpet right in front of me 136 00:09:15.519 --> 00:09:20.679 and pee. She'll leave a giant puddle the size of a open newspaper on 137 00:09:20.720 --> 00:09:24.799 the floor because she'll just pee. Yeah, And I said, you know, 138 00:09:24.039 --> 00:09:28.559 Jenny watches dogs. I said, kennel's are so expensive because they have 139 00:09:28.639 --> 00:09:31.200 the camera and the bed and they have the treats and the outdoor time whatever. 140 00:09:31.679 --> 00:09:37.799 I said, we could get Jenny to watch, but wouldn't. I 141 00:09:37.799 --> 00:09:39.799 would not put Josie on you. She's really We got her in a kennel 142 00:09:39.799 --> 00:09:43.159 this weekend. Yeah, you know, I love Josie, but I would 143 00:09:43.960 --> 00:09:48.639 say no to Josie because she's too difficult. It's not I mean, she 144 00:09:48.799 --> 00:09:52.840 is such a sweet dog. But if I'm constantly having it clean up after 145 00:09:52.879 --> 00:09:54.960 a dog like that's like a one and done situation, because there are some 146 00:09:56.039 --> 00:10:00.000 dogs I've watched before where I don't say yes anymore when they've reached out because 147 00:10:00.120 --> 00:10:03.519 they've peed all over my house. And it's just I don't get paid that 148 00:10:03.639 --> 00:10:05.720 much to watch these dogs. Like whateverything's said and done, It's really not 149 00:10:05.840 --> 00:10:09.759 like a ton of extra money, so I'm kind of like it's not really 150 00:10:09.799 --> 00:10:13.240 worth the stress of having to constantly clean up. I had a friend that 151 00:10:13.320 --> 00:10:18.919 watched Josie and I overpaid her, deliberately played her like three times what I 152 00:10:18.960 --> 00:10:22.440 should have paid her, and I still got the idea that she doesn't want 153 00:10:22.480 --> 00:10:26.240 Josie back. Yeah, because Joe, we put diapers on Josie. It 154 00:10:26.279 --> 00:10:30.159 doesn't do any good because she'll fill the diaper and then walk around the house 155 00:10:30.200 --> 00:10:33.639 with her diaper leaking. And she's just such a sweet girl and I just 156 00:10:33.679 --> 00:10:37.679 love her so much, but you know, she is not an easy dog 157 00:10:37.720 --> 00:10:39.360 to watch. Yeah, next one, don't say my name. Thanks for 158 00:10:39.399 --> 00:10:46.080 putting that up front. An instant cringe worthy memory comes to mind talking about 159 00:10:46.080 --> 00:10:48.879 getting drunk at a work function. I love this. I was twenty six, 160 00:10:48.559 --> 00:10:52.440 I had just started a new job maybe a month, and we had 161 00:10:52.480 --> 00:10:56.759 some reps fly into town. There was an afterwork happy hour on a super 162 00:10:56.879 --> 00:11:01.679 cute downtown Saint Paul patio for a meet and great type of situation. All 163 00:11:01.840 --> 00:11:07.440 was going really well. I'd only planned on slowly sipping one Core's light in 164 00:11:07.480 --> 00:11:09.840 front of me when one of the reps ordered another round, then another, 165 00:11:09.919 --> 00:11:16.840 and another round, until my new boss had to drive me home because I'd 166 00:11:16.879 --> 00:11:22.600 become a liability. He was super annoyed. The ride home was silent, 167 00:11:22.399 --> 00:11:26.639 aside from me giving him directions to my house. Of course, this happened 168 00:11:26.919 --> 00:11:30.440 on a Tuesday, so I had the rest of the week to deal with 169 00:11:30.440 --> 00:11:35.200 my shame and embarrassment. In my defense, I'd had my first baby six 170 00:11:35.200 --> 00:11:37.440 months prior, and I had only stopped nursing when I started that job. 171 00:11:37.480 --> 00:11:41.320 It genuinely did not occur to me that after a year and a half of 172 00:11:41.360 --> 00:11:46.399 not drinking, my alcohol tolerance would simply not It would not simply pick up 173 00:11:46.399 --> 00:11:50.440 where I left off, Dummy. Many life lessons learned from that one happy 174 00:11:50.480 --> 00:11:56.600 hour never again, over and out dart lickety split. I love that you 175 00:11:56.600 --> 00:12:03.679 know, I don't I know what you mean when you have a drink and 176 00:12:03.720 --> 00:12:05.639 you're fine. Yeah, Then you have another drink and then you don't even 177 00:12:05.679 --> 00:12:09.399 realize that you're not fine anymore. You're just drinking. Yep. And sometimes 178 00:12:09.399 --> 00:12:13.720 if you're quiet and nervous, you drink more because you want to have something 179 00:12:13.720 --> 00:12:18.200 to do besides sit. So yeah, you know, it's something that comes 180 00:12:18.200 --> 00:12:22.600 with experience, yes, And definitely if you're sitting down and drinking, that 181 00:12:22.679 --> 00:12:24.200 will take a toll on you too, because I'll never forget. In college, 182 00:12:24.200 --> 00:12:28.559 one time I was drinking tequila and we were just playing games around a 183 00:12:28.600 --> 00:12:31.720 table, and after like an hour and a half of taking like shot after 184 00:12:31.759 --> 00:12:35.399 shot after shot, I stood up and everything went downhill. I passed out 185 00:12:35.440 --> 00:12:39.080 in front of the door to my apartment complex. The guy who works at 186 00:12:39.120 --> 00:12:43.159 the apartment had to help me into the complex and everything was good. But 187 00:12:43.720 --> 00:12:46.799 I definitely did not touch tequila for a very long time and learned to never 188 00:12:48.000 --> 00:12:50.240 just sit and booze for like an hour and a half straight. Right, 189 00:12:52.600 --> 00:12:54.480 Yeah, I totally get you know, you learn that when you're younger. 190 00:12:54.559 --> 00:12:58.639 I drank a lot in high school, and I learned a lot of drinking 191 00:12:58.720 --> 00:13:01.799 less since in high school, and I know that when my face is getting 192 00:13:01.879 --> 00:13:05.320 numb, it tingles, and that's when I'm getting drunk. And that's when 193 00:13:05.320 --> 00:13:07.679 I need to slow down, because I learned that when I was probably fifteen 194 00:13:07.759 --> 00:13:13.039 years old. God. Next one. If you're just joining us for the 195 00:13:13.039 --> 00:13:16.720 first time in the Minnesota, goodbye. It's ninety percent emails and then commentary, 196 00:13:18.279 --> 00:13:22.039 and it's really just it's a lot of fun to find out what you 197 00:13:22.159 --> 00:13:24.360 want to talk about and what you want to respond with to something we say 198 00:13:24.360 --> 00:13:28.679 on the show. And that's why we call the people who listen staff writers, 199 00:13:28.720 --> 00:13:31.639 and people will send in an email and they'll give me their address and 200 00:13:31.679 --> 00:13:37.120 I'll mail them an official staff writer sticker that will go on. It's about 201 00:13:37.120 --> 00:13:41.240 the sides of a flatten baseball and it goes on your yetti or your computer 202 00:13:41.480 --> 00:13:46.480 or whatever, and you are the writers of the show. Here we go, 203 00:13:46.960 --> 00:13:50.120 Hey, their morning show crew. A while back, he asked if 204 00:13:50.120 --> 00:13:54.320 anybody had moved due to heartbreak and said it would be a bit too much. 205 00:13:54.960 --> 00:14:00.960 I actually move states three times due to breakups and heartbreak. First time, 206 00:14:01.360 --> 00:14:03.720 I had just turned nineteen after a three year relationship. I had to 207 00:14:03.759 --> 00:14:09.080 leave a very toxic and manipulative relationship. I moved from South Dakota to Wisconsin 208 00:14:09.120 --> 00:14:15.080 with my mom. Second time, I was twenty two, just got done 209 00:14:15.120 --> 00:14:18.320 with a two year relationship. The breakup was my idea, personality differences, 210 00:14:18.360 --> 00:14:22.960 but I was heartbroken. My mom had since moved to Minnesota, so I 211 00:14:22.000 --> 00:14:28.799 did two. Third time, I was twenty five. Three year relationship breakup 212 00:14:28.879 --> 00:14:31.919 is my idea, personality differences, but I was very heartbroken, so I 213 00:14:33.080 --> 00:14:39.440 moved back to Wisconsin. Now that's interesting that moving that a heartbreak would make 214 00:14:39.480 --> 00:14:45.960 you move. Why Why do you think is it because you don't want to 215 00:14:46.000 --> 00:14:48.759 run into them, or you see the same things, or you just need 216 00:14:48.799 --> 00:14:50.879 a new start. I was gonna say, I think it's more like a 217 00:14:50.879 --> 00:14:52.799 new start situation, because I mean, if you're living in the Twin Cities 218 00:14:52.840 --> 00:14:56.200 area, there's a good chance you could like avoid them. You know, 219 00:14:56.320 --> 00:15:00.559 it's not small town Wisconsin of five hundred people. I would say that. 220 00:15:00.600 --> 00:15:03.639 I mean, I just I was out to dinner with a girlfriend a couple 221 00:15:03.639 --> 00:15:07.080 of weeks ago, and our server had just moved a year ago from Dori 222 00:15:07.159 --> 00:15:09.879 County, Wisconsin because he had gone through a breakup, and he was like, 223 00:15:09.960 --> 00:15:11.559 you know, I just needed a new start, and so I moved 224 00:15:11.600 --> 00:15:16.200 here and but loving it ever since. So she does explain. She says 225 00:15:16.960 --> 00:15:20.919 moving helped me with a fresh perspective, eliminated the chance of running into my 226 00:15:22.000 --> 00:15:24.720 ex and memories. That's exactly what we said. But it's easier if you 227 00:15:24.759 --> 00:15:28.200 don't have any close friends or family that you would miss being around and having 228 00:15:28.240 --> 00:15:33.279 a flexible job. By the way, I'm in a new relationship over two 229 00:15:33.320 --> 00:15:37.799 years now. Guess you can say that I'm in love with love. You 230 00:15:37.879 --> 00:15:46.080 got heartbroken three times in six years, so I hope this one works out. 231 00:15:46.240 --> 00:15:48.919 And I won't say their name. I don't think they don't say say 232 00:15:50.000 --> 00:15:54.159 my name, but I won't say it. Next one. This is from 233 00:15:54.240 --> 00:15:58.120 somebody named Bailey, not our Bailey, but it was kind of interesting, 234 00:15:58.120 --> 00:16:00.639 even though it is about flying. I got a question for day of regarding 235 00:16:00.679 --> 00:16:06.240 the FAA. I saw video that talked about pilots and pilots in training and 236 00:16:06.320 --> 00:16:08.840 therapy. In the video, they talked about how some pilots and pilots in 237 00:16:08.879 --> 00:16:15.039 training are now ignoring their mental health issues due to the fact that the FAA 238 00:16:15.080 --> 00:16:19.919 may ban them from flying for even seeing a therapist and deem them unfit to 239 00:16:21.000 --> 00:16:23.279 fly. I would love to hear your thoughts and opinions on this and if 240 00:16:23.279 --> 00:16:27.480 you personally experienced anything like this yourself or with fellow pilots. Thank you for 241 00:16:27.519 --> 00:16:30.200 reading. I would love a staff writer sticker if you have any available. 242 00:16:30.240 --> 00:16:37.000 I do dart lick from Bailey in Minnetaka. Years ago, when I was 243 00:16:37.080 --> 00:16:41.440 going through some really hard, hard stuff, the doctor put me on a 244 00:16:41.480 --> 00:16:48.320 prescription for I think it was anxiety depression. It was a daily dose, 245 00:16:48.519 --> 00:16:52.679 not like you know, klonopin was like as needed. This was a daily 246 00:16:52.919 --> 00:16:56.000 dose. And when you go to get your flight physical, you have to 247 00:16:56.080 --> 00:17:02.200 report or maybe the doctor has report to the FAA, Hey Dave is on 248 00:17:02.279 --> 00:17:06.240 this, you know whatever, And they said, oh the doctor said, 249 00:17:06.279 --> 00:17:08.720 oh yeah, we got to suspend your license. You can't fly while you're 250 00:17:08.880 --> 00:17:15.200 on this. Oh shit. So it wasn't working for me anyway, because 251 00:17:15.319 --> 00:17:21.880 my anxiety depression was situational. In other words, it was caused by something. 252 00:17:22.640 --> 00:17:25.119 It wasn't just out of the blue, like your anxiety is kind of 253 00:17:25.160 --> 00:17:29.240 like you just it's not for a particular reason necessarily. Yeah, I mean 254 00:17:29.240 --> 00:17:32.079 it's a mixture of both. Like certain things, yeah can cause me anxiety, 255 00:17:32.359 --> 00:17:36.400 higher things, but are like higher stress things, but also it can 256 00:17:36.440 --> 00:17:40.039 come out of nowhere, out of nowhere, So I had to get off 257 00:17:40.039 --> 00:17:42.799 the medication, and then I had to have my doctor, my personal doctor, 258 00:17:45.079 --> 00:17:48.559 write a letter saying, yeah, Dave is fine, and he displays 259 00:17:48.640 --> 00:17:56.720 no whatever evidence blah blah blah, and so it was fine and I'm flying 260 00:17:56.720 --> 00:17:59.960 again, and you know, it wasn't a long suspension. But I don't 261 00:18:00.200 --> 00:18:04.119 think that it is just because you go to therapy. Therapy can be for 262 00:18:04.319 --> 00:18:11.480 anything. Therapy can be for marriage or grief or whatever. So I don't 263 00:18:11.519 --> 00:18:14.920 think it's just because you go to therapy. I would hope not, because 264 00:18:14.960 --> 00:18:18.480 I think that like you could be like doing so so well in life, 265 00:18:18.519 --> 00:18:22.200 not having like barely any mental health issues, but you certainly had someone to 266 00:18:22.200 --> 00:18:26.640 talk to that's not your friends or family. So I would hope that wouldn't 267 00:18:26.640 --> 00:18:29.519 stop pilots from being able to fly just because they're going to therapy. But 268 00:18:29.559 --> 00:18:34.119 I do think that there are probably pilots who don't take their medication or don't 269 00:18:34.119 --> 00:18:38.319 get on medication because they would have to suspend their flying. Hopefully they're not 270 00:18:38.599 --> 00:18:45.079 airline pilots, but I think they're pretty rigorous with airline pilots do you ever 271 00:18:45.119 --> 00:18:47.920 hear the story you want to hear a horrible story. I don't know, 272 00:18:48.400 --> 00:18:52.319 I guess. So this happened about tennis years ago as an airline in Germany 273 00:18:52.440 --> 00:18:57.720 called German Wings I think. And the pilot, the pilot of the co 274 00:18:57.799 --> 00:19:03.240 pilot, they're in the cockpit, and the pilot leaves to go to the 275 00:19:03.240 --> 00:19:07.000 bathroom. And you know, with doors today since nine to eleven, they're 276 00:19:07.440 --> 00:19:11.240 secure. You can't you couldn't blow them open with his stick of dynamite. 277 00:19:11.319 --> 00:19:15.480 Yep. So that keeps people from breaking into the cockpit, which is a 278 00:19:15.480 --> 00:19:18.359 good thing. That's kind of what caused nine to eleven people broke into the 279 00:19:18.359 --> 00:19:23.559 cockpit and crash the planes. So now the pilot leaves to go to the 280 00:19:23.599 --> 00:19:30.200 bathroom. The co pilot locks the door and then decides to he's going to 281 00:19:30.279 --> 00:19:36.680 crash the plane. So the pilot and the flight attendant are outside screaming and 282 00:19:36.799 --> 00:19:38.440 yelling, let us in, let us in, let us in, and 283 00:19:38.519 --> 00:19:44.319 the co pilot, who had some sort of horrible mental suicidal disorder, he 284 00:19:44.599 --> 00:19:49.240 crashed the airplane into a mountain and killed everybody on board. That's how important 285 00:19:49.240 --> 00:19:56.759 it is to have a mentally healthy pilot. That's not suicidal. So I 286 00:19:56.759 --> 00:20:00.160 don't want to put any fear into you, but it's just you know, 287 00:20:00.240 --> 00:20:03.640 they get it. They're just very rigorous about, you know, the pilot's 288 00:20:03.680 --> 00:20:10.880 mental health. Right, let's do something happier. Okay, okay, okay, 289 00:20:10.920 --> 00:20:14.359 So this is It's from Tammy. I listened to the Morning Show and 290 00:20:14.400 --> 00:20:15.839 I now listen to the podcast. Thank you. I'm glad you listened. 291 00:20:17.240 --> 00:20:19.359 I'm interested to hear more about Jenny's dog sitting. I'd love to find out 292 00:20:19.400 --> 00:20:22.160 how I can hire her. I don't know that you can. You got 293 00:20:22.200 --> 00:20:25.680 to be why guess, you know, meet the requirements or whatever, But 294 00:20:25.720 --> 00:20:30.400 how would somebody hire you Jenny for dog sitting or any person for dog sitting. 295 00:20:30.519 --> 00:20:33.400 So I go through the Rover app like we discussed earlier, and you 296 00:20:33.519 --> 00:20:37.079 just kind of have to search your area if you're looking for a dog sitter 297 00:20:37.119 --> 00:20:40.680 for me specifically, if you're looking to reach out to me, honestly, 298 00:20:40.720 --> 00:20:42.839 you'll probably just have to like DM me on Instagram so I can send you 299 00:20:42.920 --> 00:20:47.440 my link, because I don't think you can just like search like Jenny and 300 00:20:47.519 --> 00:20:49.920 the Rover app and find me. It's kind of hard because I've had people 301 00:20:51.079 --> 00:20:52.599 message me before and be like I tried to find you, like I can't 302 00:20:52.640 --> 00:20:56.920 find you anywhere. So if you feel like dming me on Instagram, it's 303 00:20:56.960 --> 00:21:00.920 just at Jenny KATWB and then I can just send you the director. I 304 00:21:00.960 --> 00:21:03.680 think I would love to be a dog sitter. I love dogs, and 305 00:21:03.759 --> 00:21:07.759 I'm not you know. I hope Josie is around for another twenty years. 306 00:21:07.799 --> 00:21:11.559 She's fifteen, and you gotta you get a little bit guilty because you start 307 00:21:11.559 --> 00:21:15.000 thinking about will I get another dog in the future, And of course I 308 00:21:15.079 --> 00:21:19.039 will because I love dogs so much. They're just dog is God spelled backwards. 309 00:21:19.039 --> 00:21:22.920 And I know that's only in English, in Greek, it's not in 310 00:21:22.039 --> 00:21:26.039 French, it's not. But it's almost like, you know, God is 311 00:21:26.119 --> 00:21:29.720 showing you, Hey, here's a little gift for you. Yeah, I 312 00:21:29.759 --> 00:21:33.079 mean, is the best pet in the world. Some people prefer pet cats, 313 00:21:33.079 --> 00:21:37.960 but yeah, they're the best. They're just the best. And she 314 00:21:37.119 --> 00:21:41.119 does say she wraps up her email with something that I like. She says, 315 00:21:41.119 --> 00:21:45.119 I'm a long ass time listener back to the Lee and Pat days, 316 00:21:45.119 --> 00:21:51.279 And that is from Tammy Lee and Pat Days go back twenty twenty four years 317 00:21:51.400 --> 00:21:56.799 or so long a time ago. And that is going to pretty much do 318 00:21:56.000 --> 00:22:02.799 it for the Minnesota Goodbye. Somebody did find a cool retro KDWB hat. 319 00:22:03.519 --> 00:22:06.359 I don't know where they found it, but apparently it's something we used to 320 00:22:06.400 --> 00:22:10.519 sell at the KDW or the State Fair booth. And it's a KWB baseball 321 00:22:10.559 --> 00:22:15.359 cap and it's old because it's way out of style, but thank you down 322 00:22:15.440 --> 00:22:18.880 for sending that one in. I've got a KTWB hat that we used to 323 00:22:19.440 --> 00:22:22.480 sell at the State Fair and I wear it once in a while. It's 324 00:22:22.519 --> 00:22:26.640 twenty years old, but I don't like to wear it because I don't want 325 00:22:26.680 --> 00:22:30.319 anybody to think, oh, there's Dave Ryan and he's showing off by letting 326 00:22:30.319 --> 00:22:33.240 everybody know that he's a KTWB hat once, So I don't wear it, 327 00:22:33.400 --> 00:22:36.240 you know what I mean? I'll wear it to like the State Fair, 328 00:22:36.519 --> 00:22:37.640 Do you get what you mean? Because I have like a winter hat that 329 00:22:37.799 --> 00:22:41.680 sometimes I'm like, I don't really want to like wear this. It says 330 00:22:41.720 --> 00:22:44.920 KATIEWB on it and whatever, but I still wear my a lot of like 331 00:22:44.960 --> 00:22:48.839 T shirts and sweatshirts and stuff from here. Yeah, I really I don't. 332 00:22:48.960 --> 00:22:52.079 Honestly, I'll wear him if we're going to do a station event or 333 00:22:52.119 --> 00:22:59.559 you know whatever. But I don't like to call attention to myself, and 334 00:22:59.599 --> 00:23:03.359 I don't like to look like I call it like I'm calling attention to myself. 335 00:23:03.880 --> 00:23:07.359 So thanks for showing me the hat. I think that's super cool. 336 00:23:08.119 --> 00:23:11.720 I can't imagine how old it is. And that's going to do it for 337 00:23:11.759 --> 00:23:15.559 the Minnesota Goodbye. Thanks for sending in your emails. You got one that 338 00:23:15.640 --> 00:23:18.279 you want to talk about. You're the star of the show. You're the 339 00:23:18.279 --> 00:23:21.880 staff writer. You are like the writers on Grey's Anatomy. If it wasn't 340 00:23:21.920 --> 00:23:25.200 for you, there would be no show. So send your emails into Ryan's 341 00:23:25.200 --> 00:23:27.559 show at KDWB dot com.