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Checking the wave form Jenny to make
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right. Let's dive into the emails
on the Minnesota Goodbye and get right to

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it. Here we go, Brianna
writes in She says this is in response

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to the weird food convo. Did
we have a weird food convo yesterday?

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Yeah, yesterday we talked about just
weird foods we ate. I think my

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weirdest one was I a summer sausage
sandwich with ketchup on the summer sausage,

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and it's super good. Okay,
not a bad choice. I would say

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Mayo would be a better choice with
a little mustard on there. But I

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do love summer sausage. She says. When I was a kid, I

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saw the Hanson Brothers make a sandwich
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pickles, and mustard. I loved
it. Okay, I mean I

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would try it, and all of
those are good potato, chips, pickles,

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and mustard. I would try it. I don't know that I would

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do it more than once. Yeah, it almost doesn't feel as much like

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a sandwich. I almost feel like
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there. Yeah, but still it
does sound good. You ever make a

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sandwich like a turkey sandwich and then
crunch up with your hands a bunch of

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potato chips on top of the sandwich. I haven't done that inside the sandwich,

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right, I've seen plenty of people
do it. Or you can even

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get like gourmet sandwiches at restaurants like
that before. Oh really, yeah,

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I mean it probably is at like
a sandwich restaurant. They're probably not going

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to go down and beat ups and
get that. But yeah, what is

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the best sandwich that you make?
The best sandwich that you personally make.

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I don't really make sandwiches, so
I feel like I don't have one.

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I mean I used to be,
but I just don't as much anymore.

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I just I'm a simple gal.
I love my turkey breast with cheese and

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some lettuce on it and then mayo
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No, I'm not a mustard person. I only like that on brat's,

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like a spicy mustard. Oh that
sounds good. Here's Jessica. Oh

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my god, Dave, why would
you go to work while doing colonoscby prep?

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Because I did that on Thursday and
I was doing the prep for a

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klonoscby schedule that eleven. I have
an autoimmune condition and have had almost a

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dozen colonoscopies to monitor my condition.
I'm in my mid thirty so I know

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exactly what prep is like you,
sir, are an American hero or a

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crazy person. Haha. When doing
prep, I sometimes had to run in

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the bathroom ten times in an hour. That's every five minutes. I just

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hope that you made it home from
the radio station without ruining the fabric on

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your car seats. Oh, Jessica, come on, I have leather seats.

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Come on there, Come on.
Anyway, you are the best.

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Hope it went well, and hope
you had some yummy food. After we

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stopped at McDonald's. Susan was like, what do you want to eat?

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Do you want McDonald's? And I'm
like, nothing really sounds good, but

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I feel like I should because I
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like, oh, I'm so hungry. I haven't eaten in more than twenty

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four hours. I just wasn't hungry, so I had some McDonald's and threw

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the rest away. Anyway, she
goes pro tip the best time to dart

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lick is after a colonoscopy prep.
So there's a little silver lining. Okay,

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so interesting. I guess that's true
because you're so cleaned out. Yeah

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yeah, apparently. So Jenny is
wrinkling up her nose at that idea.

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So I'm not a dart liquor.
Not a dart liquor. No, Jenny,

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you should try it. Well.
I think I'm good on that one.

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All right, okay, fine,
uh here we go next one,

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Caroline says, Dave Jenny Drake,
you can say my name question for the

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Dave Ryan Show or the Minnesota Goodbye. I am twenty seven and dating via

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hinge and bumble. I went on
a date with a man recently, and

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I have a question for all for
you all for context. The date was

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drinks at pie Pire's Brewery. The
date was going well, but he told

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me he has co custody of a
dog with his ex. She drops the

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dog off whenever he wants to see
it or if she is busy. Thoughts

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on this is that a big red
flag? If I continue to see this

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man, will his ex forever be
dropping off their dog? Love y'all from

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Caroline, I would say, no, it doesn't seem like that big of

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a thing unless he puts the dog
visits ahead of quality time with you,

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so they just drop off, or
they share custody of the dog. They

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said they have co custody. She
drops the dog off whenever he wants to

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see it, so it sounds like
she has if you will primary custody and

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he'll be like, hey, bring
buddy over because I want to see him

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this weekend, so she'll bring him
over. Or she's like I gotta go

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out of town or whatever, then
she'll bring the dog over. I don't

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have a problem with that at all. If you like dogs, great,

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If she is in and out,
great, I will say, if he's

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obsessed with the dog, where like
the dog is his child and it's like

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our long walks with the dog and
just you know, the dog can get

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up on the chair during dinner,
or the dog is allowed to do whatever

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they want to, that's no,
huh. I have friends that have been

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in both scenarios where they broken up
and they one of the person got the

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dog. And then I have a
friend who does do like full blown shared

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custody bi weekly with their ex and
she's been doing it for like five years

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because I think they got the dog
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year or two, and they loved
the dog so much that they were not

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willing, either of them willing to
part with the dog. So once a

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week they meet up and they exchange
the dog or I mean, it's obviously

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not always like that. Sometimes someone's
on vacation or has work or something.

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But it works out well for them. They're both in relationships with other people

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now, and I think her ex
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she has a very serious relationship and
it works for them. So I don't

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know. I don't think it's like
a red flag in my mind. No,

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I don't think so at all.
I think it's fine. If he's

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normal and he puts you ahead of
the dog, I get it. He

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loves the dog and he's got shared
custody of the dog. But if he

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like is like, oh, you
know what, Sparky is coming over this

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weekend. I know it's our date
night, but Sparky's coming over this weekend.

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Well, okay, fine, And
can Sparky stay home while you guys

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go out on a date or is
Sparky all always the center of everything?

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Because I could not stand that and
I love dogs. If Susan and I

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were to split up, I would
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loves Josie, but not the way
I love Josie. Yeah, although I

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got so mad at that freaking dog
last night, it happens. She's getting

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older. She's starting to lose her
mind a little bit, and so she's

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had the invisible fence, and she
knows where the yard is, even though

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we don't have the invisible fence on
her anymore. If I let her out

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the front door, she will want
literally wander into the street, across the

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street, down the street, and
she could easily get hit by a car.

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And so I let her out last
night. I look out like two

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minutes later, and instead of being
in the yard, she is in the

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middle of the street, crossing to
the neighbor's house. And so I had

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to run and get my shoes,
and then I had to walk down the

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street to find where she was.
Josie Josie, and she'll look at me

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like, what what do you want? But she won't come. It's like

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I'm out here wandering around, and
so I get really mad at her.

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So we're gonna have to get a
tie out, so we can tie her

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out in the yard and so she
can, you know, wander around without

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wandering off. But the problem with
a tie out. Guess what the problem

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is with a tie out. I
don't know. They get tangled around everything.

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Okay, So because dogs are smart, but not always smart enough to

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like if they go around a tree
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Now you've got to wander out in
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get her untangled from the tree.
So I love her, but she is

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getting on my nerves lately. Here's
the last email. We only got a

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few for today. Hey, guys, don't say my name. First of

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all, I'm four and a half
weeks pregnant. I am one of the

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lucky ones who gets sick instantly and
doesn't wait until six or so weeks.

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So the random weird foods from yesterday's
podcast was beyond disgusting. Oh I'm sorry

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for that, But the real reason
I have three other kids. We've been

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trying for about three years and have
had two losses. I'm finally pregnant.

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Yeay. My husband's family knows our
infertility struggles. I was talking to his

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brother's wife and she told me.
Since they've walked this infertility path with me,

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they deserve to know right away when
I get pregnant. I haven't told

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them. Now. Remember she's four
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really really early. Yeah, we
almost don't even know at that point.

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Sometimes the reason is because in twenty
twenty two, I was pregnant and we

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told our then four year old and
he was heartbroken when I lost it.

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So now we're waiting until the first
ultrasound and letting him tell everyone is our

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announcement. I know she was a
little hurt last year in twenty twenty three

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when I lost another baby and I
had not told them I was pregnant,

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but it's to protect my son's heart. I'm a little worried she'll be mad

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when I tell or how would you
go about this? Just do what you

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want and explain to her later.
My husband is the kind of effet mentality

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and with it because it's us who
have been trying so hard, not anybody

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else. Thanks, I'm with your
husband. You don't know anybody an explanation

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or know nothing at all, especially
not after going through everything you've been through.

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Oh, that is like completely up
to your discretion of how you want

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to handle it and moving forward,
because it's a really hard thing to deal

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with, and especially if your son
is getting affected by it, Like you

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got to look up for your family
first before it is sister or sister in

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law either way, sister in law, yeah, either way, you look

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up for your family first. I
know she's family, but yeah, and

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I think that you know. I
think that she is well intended in saying

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hey, I care, and I
deserve to know because I've been following the

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whole struggle. If she doesn't understand
why you don't want to tell her,

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then maybe she's not the nicist person. So I'm going to tell you quick

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story, and I hope that Beth, my daughter, if she's listening,

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does not get mad when I tell
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do with what we just talked about. But we have some time. So

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I like to send Beth's kids,
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Like on Halloween, I send them
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course, Christmas I send them something. So for Valentine's Day, I got

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one a box of Hershey's Kisses,
and I got one a bunch of like

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Nerds, Ropes or something like that, and a card with twenty bucks in

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it. You know it's twenty bucks, A no big deal. So Beth

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and I have had a discussion and
they don't say thank you. And I

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am a gratitude kind of a person, and I always say, I don't

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expect anybody to kiss my ass for
doing something nice for them, but I

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expect gratitude, like, hey,
I appreciate that. And so i'd gotten

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annoyed with Beth the last couple of
years because the kids don't write or call

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or text to say hey, thank
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opened it on Valentine's Day Wednesday,
and she sent me a picture of the

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kids holding up their Valentine's candy and
their twenty dollars bill and she said,

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the kids say thank you. They
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sat there and I stewed on it
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wrote to Beth and I said,
Beth, I gotta tell you, I'm

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disappointed, I'm hurt, and I'm
frustrated that we have talked about this before.

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I want I expect to thank you. Yeah, And like I said,

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I don't expect them to like kiss
my ass. I don't expect them

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to bend over backwards, but a
personal text that says thank you or a

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phone call would be nice because it
just it's like that's a life lesson,

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same thank you. So you want
the kids to individually reach out to you,

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not just like this group text from
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I mean, Mom can say thanks, but I want the kids because

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I think that is what results in
a good human is when you teach your

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kids to say thank you one day
down the road when their boss buys them

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a present, or one day down
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to work, or one day down
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start because their car won't start.
You've got to learn gratitude. You got

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to say thank thank you very much
for that. And if you don't learn

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it at a young age, then
I think, and I think overall,

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there's a lack of gratitude in the
world. I really think sometimes I get

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so tired of doing nice things for
people and nobody wants to do anything for

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me. I'll give you an example. Somebody texted me the other day and

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they said, Hey, do you
have a promo code for Motley Crue tickets?

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Do you guys have a promo code? And I'm like, I was

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kind of like, fuck you,
you know, like this is somebody that

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I like but I never hear from
unless they want something. Yeah, and

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here it is, Do you have
a promo code for the Motley Crue concert?

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And I was like, no,
we really don't. We don't play

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Motley Crue music on our show,
so we don't have a connection. And

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I was kind of like I would
never say this, but it was like,

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what do you ever do for me? I am tired of doing things

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for you and you never do anything
for me. What don't you think there

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should be some equity there? Like
you and I will do nice things for

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each other. Yeah, but if
you've got a one sided friend who never

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does anything for you, You always
buy the drinks, you always buy coffee,

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you always pick up the uber,
don't you just kind of get burnout

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on it? Absolutely? I do. I mean I feel like my situations

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have probably been different, but like
I've probably like been there for friends or

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like lifted friends up in moments of
like where there they've achieved success of some

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sorts, And I've really like lifted
them up in those moments, but then

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they never reciprocated it back with me
when I was excited about something, like

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to the point where one friend almost
made me feel like I was conceited about

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talking about some kind of success in
my life. And I am not friends

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with those people anymore because I just
was like, this isn't good, This

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isn't a healthy friendship or relationship.
But I mean, I'm on your side

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with gratitude. I think my number
one experience I have with that is I

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am the group trip planner for almost
every trip I got on YEP. And

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you always know the people who are
grateful because they are saying, thank you

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for planning this, thank you for
getting the grocery list together, thank you

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for cookiing or whatever, while others
just like don't think much of it.

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And I mean I witnessed it at
this bachelorette party. I was overly grateful

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this past weekend because I did not
plan this stuff the other girls planned for

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once and I said thank you to
the main girl who got all the presents

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for everyone. I was like,
this is so sweet, and I was

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like, thanks for planning all of
this and getting in organized. And then

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one girl was doing all the cookie
and I was like, thank you for

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making the meal, you know,
like I always made sure to say thank

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you because I have been on the
other side so many times we'll say thank

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you. Yeah, yeah, good. No. I think that is exactly

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right. And I think that I'm
a big gratitude person in saying thank you

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to people too, like the boss. This morning. I think the boss

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wrote and said, hey, how
are you feeling? And I said good,

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thanks for asking, because you know, it's just nice. Yeah,

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And when somebody says, hey,
how are you feeling, you go good,

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how are you feeling? I think
it's just then it's not all about

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you. Anyway, back to the
Beath story. So five minutes later,

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she writes back, She's like,
you're absolutely right. We've talked about this

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before. You're absolutely right. And
so within a couple of minutes, Liam,

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he's the eleven year old, he
texted me and he's very chatty,

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he's very conversational. So we're chat
chat chat, and he was very fun

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to talk to and he said thank
you for the gift and blah blah blah.

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And then Kelsey, who's very shy, she wrote and she did her

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best you know, and I said, well, what are you doing.

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She's like, oh, we're going
skiing tomorrow and blah blah blah. So

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you know, I mean, Beth
did get them on that, but I

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and again, I love Beth so
much, but it does get frustrating because

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again, I don't expect anybody to
bend over backwards to say thank you,

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but just a simple thank you means
so much. It does, It really

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does. And I think that's all
I had to say on that one,

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although there was seems like there's something
else. Maybe not. I can sit

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here and think about it. You
can think about it. If you have

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something else you leave you doutally do
No. Not really, I think that's

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it. I would say thank you
for listening to the Minnesota Goodbye. We

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really appreciate it because I know you
get a lot of stuff to do during

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the day, and I'm glad that
you make time for our fifteen or twenty

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minute podcast when you can appreciate that. Send your emails in because we need

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more content. You are the official
staff writer. If you don't have anything

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to say with a we don't have
a you know, an email to send

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us, then we're going to talk
about like I don't know crockpot recipes or

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boy or toenail fungus. No,
have you ever had toenail fungus? No?

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Well I did add that black toe
after my half of Earth on that

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one time, and I went to
a podiatrist and he's like, that's just

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the results of being a runner,
and I was like, that is not

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fun. No, No, it's
not tomorrow toenail fungus or your emails on

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the Minnesota Goodbye. Actually, we're
off on Monday, so there won't be

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one until Tuesday, so you do
anything with your three day weekend. We

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have two dogs coming today and we
haven't had dogs in like a month,

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so I Andrew and I are so
excited because we feel like the house has

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felt kind of empty for a little
bit, so we're excited about that.

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But then we also our friend has
I think he built a sauna or something

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at his house, So we're going
to go to his house and have like

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a sauna. Oh maybe cold plunge
day because he lives by a lake.

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We might be doing that too.
But other than that, pretty low key.

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I was just at a bachelor at
party last weekend, so I'm just

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trying to hang this week Anday just
kind of hang out. What about you.

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The girls are coming over this afternoon, and they are three and one,

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and they are wonderful, and you
try to appreciate, even during the

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midst of all the chaos, you
try to appreciate how wonderful this is.

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How Like, in a few years
they're going to be different, and in

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ten years they're going to be totally
different. But when they are three and

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one, especially three, you are
the center of their world. Think about

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like a three year old and looking
up to their mom and dad. You

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are the center of their world.
And I'll leave you with one thought.

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They said, why do grandparents love
their grandparents that love their grandkids so much?

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And I think this is kind of
true, and I'm kind of paraphrase.

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It said something like, because playing
with my grandkids reminds me of raising

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you. So like when I play
with Ava, it reminds me of when

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Allison was little, and Alison was
the most fun, sweet little girl.

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She was so happy and full of
smiles. And Ava is a lot that

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way too. And so if you're
a grandparent and you're playing with your little

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grandbabies, there's a part of you
that's like, ah, this reminds me

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of when my daughter or my son
was little, So all right, send

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your emails to Ryan Show at kadiwb
dot com and we'll see you next week