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I have to admit doing these videos
about the caregiving experience has been very therapeutic

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for me, and I was thinking
myself, I'm want to do another one.

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I mean, I wasn't planning on
doing I don't really plan what I'm

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gonna do them. I said,
I'm gonna do it right now. I

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have James Algenius's fifty plus here on
JLJ Media, and you're gonna listen to

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us or watch us all the streaming
services, YouTube, all that stuff.

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I am as my mother gets better
and it's a little more independent. I'm

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trying to get some of my life
back. And it's been months between my

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stepdad and herning's been going on,
and I'm very far behind on a lot

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of stuff, just because Jammy came
first and I took care everything first.

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I was hard to hear and the
whole thing. So now I'm starting to

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complete projects. I'm starting to complete
tasks. I'm starting to see some light

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at the end of tunnel. It's
about a train coming at me. And

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I said Latin the previous one.
I said, I've now got an appreciation

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of what I do and how much
I love it. I found my calling.

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I've been so fortunate find my calling. I have so many ideas,

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I have so many people coming after
me. I have so many things that

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I want to get in. But
one of the things I was realizing,

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like before this stuff happen my parents, I was like I was handling all

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this stuff and I had all into
control and it was really good. And

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so when something major happens, that's
interesting life lesson for me and business lesson

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for me. And so now I
want to try to set up stuff so

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if this happens again, or something
else major happens, because it's life things

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like they do, that I will
be a little bit prepared. This was

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a whole this thing with my mother
said that was almost gonna happen. It

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was like that not right now.
This was like we never just never expected

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anything to happen. And it's like
life, right, you just never expected

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to happen, and then it does. And I know the promersonal experience that

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you could wake up one day and
move your face, it lasts for almost

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year. I mean the other thing, you know, people die, birth

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happens, and all kind of stuff
happens. Just go, oh my goodness,

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you never know. But I never
really dealt with it. So heavily

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with the type of business that I
have, and that's what's really new about

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this. I was like, oh, trying to manage this, which I

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just have a nighbor to you,
that's where the lesson is this time,

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and I have to I have a
bunch of ideas to re just redesign and

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reconfigure my business, but I still
do everything, possibly get some assistance and

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do all this stuff. So I'm
gonna work towards that. And I was

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like, that's like my thing now. The next step of this is working

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towards that because this is I had
no I'm sitting here going I have all

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I have stacks and stacks of stuff. But I'm like, as an organizer,

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which is part of one of my
businesses, I know how to just

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take it one step at a time. I'm taking my own advice. So

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anybody who follows me organizer, I
take my own advice because I know it

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works. But it works. So
for me, it's like just step by

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step, take a pile and handle
what's on top, and you go from

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there. And I am getting stuff
done and getting things out the way.

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So this is it is working.
It would take a while for me to

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get back on any kind of track. I'm not gonna come seriously far behind.

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But if things are happening at the
same time, because I'm a creative,

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my creative juices are starting to flow, which is great because I was

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dry as a bone. I couldn't
think of nothing, and now the stuff's

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happening. So just know that it's
it's everything's a lesson. Of course,

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everything's a lesson. But this has
been very interesting for me business wise,

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going Okay, I got put some
stuff in place. I put some stuff

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in place before that got me through
this, so thank god. But now

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I got tightened it up some more
and maybe change a few things because I

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had no idea because you don't know
how long it's gonna take. I am

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blessed that Rispandita is doing better in
a faster time because some people takes years

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for things and you never know.
So it's this is this is good,

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this is all. It's all good
news. It's all. It's all good

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news, nothing nothing bad. Um. And that's why I'm going to do

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these videos because I want to show
you the good bad any ugly because it's

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just it's all these different things.
Um, that's the whole thing of caregiving

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and caretaking and and all that stuff
and taking and taking helping someone else get

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better. It's it's it's it's it's
everything. It's not one thing, and

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it's not just one thing. It's
a million things. My brother and I

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were discussing stuff that we have learned
now, um that will be valuable for

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later and valuable for you for me
to share. I'm gonna do some stuff,

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um, some some kind of broken
breakdown some of the stuff. And

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in a way that's almost like a
class about caregiving, and it's kind of

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some of the stuffs general stuff that
I went through and talk to you about

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it. And so I'm using this
platform form as that. Plus Also it's

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this fifty plus and my birthday is
coming up in less than a month,

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so I would just say for my
birthday on here too. My birthdays May

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tenth, I'll be fifty four.
I have no problem saying that. And

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that's coming up Bostel, so I'll
be do something on here with that too.

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So this, this whole fifty plus
platform was originally written as a series,

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which I have so I have somewhere
hidden our series I wrote a little

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bit of and I decided I wanted
to be a catchall like part series,

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part thoughts, part interviews, and
so I want to do a little bit.

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It was me a little bit of
everything, and I rebranded it a

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little bit so and so far it's
been it's been up being a success.

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It's been getting a higher and high
and higher. So thank you for that.

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Um. I love hearing your reactions
in your stories you've been sharing with

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me this whole time, because it's
very interesting to see what you've gone through

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also and so you go do the
same things different. I'll go a shout

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out to my girl Pole Branch from
Miss Jesse. She knows why I love

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you guys, and I will see
you out there. Zero