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Alexis Fox. Here's your hosts, Matt and Shane. You're watching YWF Going
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know her from such cinematic masterpieces as Gang Bang Me five and Lesbian Analingus eleven,
twelve, and thirteen, also known in my household as the trilogy Star
Wars, Lord of the Rings. Step Aside, she's also appeared in scenes
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which we're gonna talk about today and we thank her for our time with
us today. So check the episode description below regardless of what you're watching or
listening to this on and you will find links to everything she's doing. Ladies
and gentlemen, join us and welcome to the show. The Fiery, the
Spicy Miss Alexis Fox. Yeah much, that was girty. It was Yeah.
There's a lot of botching going on there and uh, you know,
but you know what our listeners mirror, Okay, is that what I should
do? Shane? Shane's the best of giving advice, no background work.
No, he's not even gonna try this, but hey, you should do
this differently. I love it. I love it because he's the dad kit
in the back. That's what it is. Yeah, you automatically become like
you can just like a sense you're just gonna observe and then you'd be like,
you know what you should try that. Boxers have a coach, right,
Yeah, thank you exactly, Yeah, thank you. Change changs the
Freddie roach of this. That is a boxing deep cut. Uh. Lets
we start every time, which is the basic how did you initially get into
the industry? If you could just give us that and then we will branch
off into areas you never imagined before. I assume on this interview, awesome,
let's do it. So I started in Miami, Florida. I actually
answered a Craigslist dad. I hold off and put everything on my corporate jobs
and stuff like that. I was a paralegal quit and I eventually, obviously
living in Miami, had to find a job to pay bills and stuff.
So I answered a Chriigslist dad to be an extra for Dancing Bear, which
I've seen before. And I'm a free spirit, I lot before and I've
done a lot of things. And I went down by myself. I took
a look at me. I was, you know, thin with big tits,
black hair at the time, and they were like, you know,
get over here in a group, and then they went down a laundry list
of things to make more money, like you can do there, just be
an extra, or you could you know, show your tits, kiss your
friends. And they were only going to blowjob that day, and they're like,
hey, we need a girl to do a blowjob, you know,
and you know, my hand just went straight up. I was like,
oh, yeah, I can do that. It's easy. You give them
in plenty in my life, and I got picked, and lo and behold,
I did my first blow John scene and dancing Bear and the next thing
I knew, I went his book for my first boy girl sex scene the
very next day for milk soup. This is it just roller coaster from there.
I mean, once you hit the first one, it's just yeah,
it was. It's crazy because I got like that first year. I God,
if you would have asked me in milk soup that very next day,
you know, working and having Preston parkerge or erect me at that particular to
time, I would have had no idea that I would be sitting here,
you know, having this discussion with you thirteen plus months later, you know,
being nominated and even being award winning and having you know, other things
going. It's just amazing. It actually exploded my life in a really beautiful
way. So I heard you mentioned in there when you were shooting you had
the dark hair. I was going over your Twitter the last few weeks,
just trying to grab any little information I can. When are you gonna dye
your hair blonde again? That's question? Yeah, so you've probably got the
sense of that. Anyway, It's funny that you asked, Yeah, no,
I'm not going to ever die it blonde again. And I'll tell you
the reason why. First of all, I live in Vegas. It's fucking
dry shit out here. Well, having blond hair living in Miami high moisture,
and you know, in the beginning, you know, it was great,
and then once you start coming out to the West Coast where it's much
drier and you're having your hair done, you know, twenty five days a
month with hot of tools, this, that and the other, and they're
teasing. My hair just became very dry and brittle because my hair isn't naturally
blonde, and it's started to break off and look like a mullet. And
I was like, if I don't do something now, and it's going to
be bald, and I don't want to be bald. So and I'm just
not like, I'm not I'm not a super girly girl that likes to have
a lot of shit to have to do, like getting my you know,
sitting there for two hours getting a manny and petty is like long enough,
Like let alone. I'm not going to sit there for extensions every single time
I need them. So that wasn't my options. So I was just like
you know what, I'll just go back to brunette. Let's ride this out.
I've already had black hair. Why not, you know, explore these
different parts of me. So that was my favorite thing. I go on,
I go, okay, let's go through Alexis stuff. Let's see if
there's anything recent. And I was like, I wonder, I wonder what
type of person she is off cameras, She like, you know, kind
of quiet, introvert, she like, oh, fiery, and this and
that, and some guys like why don't you just do the blonde hair again?
And you're like, hey, buddy, why don't you fuck off?
Like essentially in those terms, hey buddy, eat shit, please exactly why
don't you get a new program? File fit? I love it. I
love that. I love that because it's just it's it's and And this kind
of leads into my question, did you have you always had this fire and
this ability to shoot back or did it take getting to a plateau where you
had not a plateau in a negative way, but did you get to a
certain amount of followers or certain amount of scenes, or certain amount of nominations
where you just go, hey, this is Alexis. Fuck off? If
you don't like it or were you more of like a pleaser when you first
started and nice not nice? I don't want to say you're not you you
cut through the bullshit. It seems like I do. I've always been that
way. I don't know, I've always like throughout my entire life, I've
been that way. And you know, for me to you know, play
the role out of Alexis Fox, I also want to tow the line as
close to me as possible because it's let easier to be that person, you
know what I mean? And sin I don't actually aspire like I'm getting Maybe
sometimes I would just find to the jabrawls. Now I'm just like block it,
el, I'm not going to give you the time and effort into that
because it's just not worth anybody's time and breath. But and some of I'm
gonna just say, like they know by now, like come on, like
just stopping. Sometimes I got a fire back and be like you're dumb a
fuck, You're like just stop, just stop with it, and you know
whether and it's funny because I don't I'm not being paid and I'm not Alexis
Bots to be like nicety ninety pleasey pleasey. I'm not a nice person.
I'm a kind person. You know. There's a big difference in that.
And if you're gonna come across and be a dick, I'm just gonna be
like, well, yeah, we'll go fuck yourself, like I don't really
care, Like your opinion doesn't pay me by bill buddy. So are you
even subscribed? Sure? Sure, you're just on my Twitter to tell me
go blonde hair? Well, you know what, there's a lot of blonde
content out there. Enjoy it. Maybe one day and I'll pull it on
a wig. I don't know, but I'm not gonna work with my hair
again. Here you go, they subscribe and order a custom Yeah, yeah,
exactly like if someone said, Hey, I like to order you a
blonde wig, would you mind doing some custom? Not Like I get that.
I'm I'm again, that's all me playing into a fantasy and I'm totally
down for that. And maybe that blonde part of me was me being my
blonde fantasy at that particular time, because I definitely feel now with the red
hair, it's a whole new leg I don't know. I think you know
as you will love you just become you new. I'm peel and you discover
these new parts of you and I'm just having a lot of fun. Shane,
did you have something I can just go on forever? That's why I
have to I have to allow Shane time to talk. I apologize for that
guy. And I want to know about the set of Dancing Bear. So
is it like when when when you shot with them that first time, with
the pool of girls who answer the ad who show up? What is like
the level of willingness and eagerness for the crowd. Are there people who are
like, oh, I don't know why I got dragged to this, or
I like is everybody down for whatever? It's it's always weird to watch those
videos because you never know, like like some of the girls will like push
the guy away if he gets too close and stuff, and you're like,
oh, okay, I can tell like all right, that's a boundary,
you know, like for for her at least, But then the next girl,
the girl next to her will get fucked, you know, like right
on the table. So it's like, what's that? What's the crowd like?
You know, well, everybody knows what they're there to see and do
and and and then at that particular moment they can decide whether or not they
just want to keep their clothes on and just you know, partially participate.
You know, which may be the more shy ones. And you know,
like a lot a lot of times people went with friends. I was like
the weird, eily wed solo. You know, so you're with a group
of friends. I mean, I'm sure you guysther may have done it too.
You're like, Wow, I don't really want to go to that bar,
but sure I'll go, you know, and you go along with it,
but you know, you might still have a good time, but you're
keeping your shirt on for the day. You're not like ripping your shirt off
when they make a score at the team or something like. Sure so,
but for the most part, I feel like everybody that was there, I
mean grasuals years ago, but the part everybody knew what they were there for.
You know, they're they're very honest in the very beginning, like you're
aware of this, you have to go through legal, you have to make
sure of that you're you know, everything's up to par. And then we
went down with like the whole laundry list to find out what people are comfortable
with. I would have to say now years later, I would say,
like boundary checklists and stuff like that. Now we do those on every set,
and much more at least with browsers and stuff like that, but with
much more bigger than you know, way back you know, thirteen, you
know, plus years. But I think that just comes up with the development
of people speaking up and saying, hey, you know I'm not comfortable with
that. Yeah I'm cool with that, and stuff like that, you know,
and you know, knowing boundaries and getting consent is like that that just
like relaxes sex to begin with. So totally yeah, yeah, my favorite
Dancing Bear videos were always the ones where was like the chick getting the cumshot
was was like with a group of friends, and her friends were always like
reacting like holy shit, we didn't know she was coming to get a fucking
facial, you know. Yeah, yeah, everyone knows to play a part,
you know in that sense. You know, it's I mean, I
got to say, like, well, they way back in the day when
Bangbros. And stuff would do these huge productions like fifteen five and College Dorm
and you know, Dancing Bear, they put an ad out so you're getting
you know, college, you know, young adults and all sorts of people
that are showing up. Some people are like, oh, are we going
to see sex to know, you know, excited somewhere? You like,
are you a virgin? Like what you're poor? I used towaar. I
remember specifically there was one guy I had to work with and he was so
shy I was. I was like, I really teetered on the fact that
he might have been a virgin at the top and I'm like, great,
okay, here we go. So fine. Sure that leads into into some
a little bit of an interesting territory. And we never we never talked bad
about porn or have any opinion other than you know, as long as it's
consenting adults, whatever, it is totally fine. But I saw you mentioned
this in maybe another interview. So you went into the Air Force at eighteen.
Yeah, yeah, I certainly did. I mean I almost said congratulations,
which is awkward. That's that's yeah, oh my god, one time.
Okay, I got a real awkward story about that. But Shane also
was a marine at eighteen. So my question is both of you were in
situations when you could have seen real war, right maybe potentially, And I
saw you bring this up in an interview, what should be the minimum age
for porn? I personally, you know, I've worked. It's not that
I have worked with eighteen and nineteen or old. I have, and some
eighteen nineteen year olds have been very mature and very like knowing what they're getting
into and emotionally intelligent, you know. So I don't want to say that
every eighteen and nineteen twenty year old or not. However, honestly, I
I'm not going to say it should be the age of porn or anything like
that. But personally, for me work as ethic wise, I prefer twenty
one and up totally. I just like that because I feel like, you
know, just even just a couple of years of you know, young adulthood
can change a lot to you know, how you think and what you were
getting into, maybe help you develop the better brand, you know, and
decide, Okay, well I'm going to develop this brand, how do I
want to branch out? O? Do you just I don't know. That's
how my mind works. But you know, a couple of years I feel
and you know, I don't know, it makes me feel like my maybe
not also because I am getting older in the industry and you know, there's
you know, eighteen nineteen just seems like a weird gap for me personally.
Nothing again wrong with sure people that have relationships with any of that, but
but yeah, I like twenty one. I like knowing there's that, you
know, there's maybe had a few maybe a year or two of the young
adulthood. Sure, I only ask because we've had an interview. We've done
lots of these interviews so far, and some performers have said, you know,
maybe move it up to twenty one, or maybe I wouldn't have started
so early or anything like that. And to me, it's always been eighteen
is you two can go to war, someone else can get the death penalty,
but none of you guys can have a drink at eighteen, right,
isn't it weird? Like you can even legit go Like, yeah I could.
I went into the military. Mm hmm. I got station in Grand
Ports dooreth Dakota in the US, and would go to Canada to have some
booze because I was eighteen and nineteen year olds in the military. What else
the fucker might even do? Sure, Yeah, it's it's it's insane and
those that we need I don't know there's a lot of insane, doesn't make
sense rules, regulations. What are you know? I mean, look,
look at the plan of cannabis. It's a fucking plans. M gross.
We inhale and exhale, and I'm like, okay with weed. The worst
decision I ever make is overeating. So I'm going tom get a belly ache
and I'm gonna have to sleep it off. Boothe I'm bad. I'm not
saying I do have a beer. I do drink once in a while,
very selectively. But like man, when I was younger, Booth, I
would make some bad decisions. Sure, sure, you know what, I
guess, like good, I you know, learned since learned in those bad
decisions or whatever. But cannabis never did that. But look, you know,
we want to throw that on a schedule one this way or the other
way, and we're still arguing whether or not it should be federally legal.
It's just insane, you know. So I don't really think that there's a
lot of rules and regulations out there that make any sense whatsoever. I agree
with that, yeah, yeah, I just it's just it's the first time
when I've heard performers saying it that it's so like, I don't know.
I don't want to hear about how bumpy a flight was from a person.
I'd rather hear about it from a pilot. So when I'm hearing about performers
saying like, yeah, maybe twenty one would be a better age, blah
blah blah. Again, everyone on this fucking interview right now, whatever you
choose to do, as long as it's between a legal, consenting adult,
and I don't give a shit. None of us give a shit. It's
just you're right. There are there must be plethoras of eighteen nineteen year old
girls on smaller no name websites who maybe got put into a bad situation and
now is now up on the internet forever, and maybe a couple more years
of maturity, or even just watching interviews like this listening to people talk about
how did you get your start? What should do we do different? Like
nowadays? I assume you wouldn't recommend reaching out to Craigslist and finding an ad
right, probably not? There you go, right, probably not? And
I think that's what I'm saying with like, you know, a couple of
years of a young adult experience that can help you make better decisions you know,
because like a performer and putting your body out there, it's out there
forever. You can contact the company have them take it down, but it's
already been shared. It's all over Reddit. Somebody's got it somewhere else.
It's locked into some link, and it's going to creep up and say,
you know, come up again. So you've got to really understand what you're
getting yourself into and understand this is an adult decision. This is an adult
business, this is adult entertainment, and I mean you have to face the
back that sometimes because that you're in adult entertainment, it may limit you in
certain things that you do if it allows you to do, you know,
So you just really aware. I think it's a very adult decision to make.
And I don't know if I mean I made an adult decision at eighteen
to join the military, but I think how I grew up and how maybe
some people are growing up today maybe a little bit different. I agree with
that. But to play a little Devil's advocate going forward, they may not
even care, you know, like would you if you were running a if
you were running a business business, Not not that this isn't a business,
but you know, what I mean, you're running a storefront or some like
that, and you found out, oh my god, the new girl working
the register shot three scenes for a small webs I'd be like, good for
her, who gives a shit? Yeah, but that's your personality. But
E grab people out of getting fired, you know, the teachers that are
trying to make up their because they're not getting paid. I mean, teachers
aren't getting paid squat anywhere in this country, right, So you're like,
okay, well, I've got to make bills because you know, carton of
eggs is nine dollars whatever it is. Anyway, they're getting fired and they're
not you know, they might not be showing their face. They're not promoting
that on their you know, school websites, or not even using their real
name whatever, whatever the case may be. It's not my it's not my
business. But I see that, and I'm like, this person is just
trying to fucking make ends meet at this point in time. Give people a
break, yeah and now fire, Well, you know what's fine. Now
she has more time to put into that. But she might have been a
really also amazing teacher. And I think like people can separate, you know,
like I was a massage therapist, and I would never give anybody a
BG ending just because I do what I do. Sure, because I have
respect and honor for that profession, just like I have respect and honor for
the profession that I'm currently also in. Makes sense, So would your recommendation
be that once you are mature enough to make this decision, which, again
going back to it, it could be eighteen. There's mature eighteen year olds,
but there's also immature twenty five year olds, like we know that it's
more personality or forty year olds. Okay, it doesn't have like a particular
age. So I know, like I think like the you know, emotionally
intelligent is you know, like knowing you know also that like don't be going
like just running away from one bad situation to go and think this is going
to be a fixed all to you know fact like when you're fighting, Yeah,
you're fighting with your wife, so you say let's have a kid.
I mean that's a terrible idea. Yeah, that's a terrible idea, Like
oh, this is going to fix a relationship now, or this is going
to bring me love. No, like you know you're not thinking, you
know really you know you're not taking a step back. I'm observing everything that's
going to go on. What can happen? Come to it with a plan
you know of some sort, and it you know, And I just knew
once I stepped through. I didn't have a whole lot of planning before it.
Obviously, I just saw a cris legs. I said, hell,
yeah, I'm a yes type of person, and then I'll figure it out.
But that's who I am and what I was I gonna do with this.
But like once I stepped my foot into the arena of adult I knew
this I had to. I either had to jump all the way in and
go for it, or what was the fucking point of it? Right?
Right? I think that too. I think personally, my thing is if
you've made the decision to step in and you don't immensely hate the first few
things you do in it, you got to go full boar. I mean,
it's got to become a job job now, like you have to treat
it like a job, like a business, like everything else. And if
you do that, I think personally, regardless of looks, there is a
niche for everybody out there. If someone shot right, if someone say this
industry taught me anything. There is There is absolutely a nuture everybody and there's
still looking for terms of finishes and this, that and the other. And
as you grow as a human being and more, you know, edge of
grow and involved, you become more open and your sexuality changes. Things that
you maybe liked before, maybe you don't like it. Maybe things that you
didn't like now you really love it all. Like you know, you just
have to be open to the opportunity. Sure, And that's in like you
know, and that's in real life too. It's not like just in my
porn life, sure for sure. So how spread thin art, Well,
that's probably a bad term to use. How spread thinn are you on your
day business wise, entrepreneurship wise? And so it seems like you're just I
mean, is your g cow like back to back to back back back,
like all day long, my little breaks and stuff like that. I realize
ballance is super important if I want to be productive. I can't like And
that's not like I don't ever run my candle down thin. Sometimes I do
because I know, like oh okay, I'm like, for instance, I
knew that I was getting surgery, I'm going to have to take some time
off of hardcore sex, or I'm going to do you know, my you
know, yearly face maintenance, whatever you want to call it. And I
know when I'm being taking time off camera, so I might step it up
and double up my time and have a little bit longer days and do a
little harder traveling because I know I'm going to have to take two or three
months off in the interim. And in that interim, you know, then
I work on all the little things that I maybe not I always get to.
Or I can find tune home and out weak it out whatever I need
to do with that particular time, organize it, maybe come up with a
better action plan on how I want to run like a my podcast. Maybe
I start outsourcing some of the things that I want to do, marketing of
my coffee, possibly hiring a marketing company to do that for me, you
know, because I got to get to a point where you gotta hand some
of the things off. And I'm also a person that I prefer to hire
people that excel in the things that I don't excel in, so I can
go ahead and tredge forward in the things that I do love and make sel
in, which is more of the creative side of stuff. And I like
to create things and I like to make things move forward. And it's it's
fun, it's so got, it's so rewarding. I just really love it.
So we love it a lot. So on a daily you know,
I do start my day early. I spend some time with myself. I
like to have my cup of coffee, dick around my phone, whatever I
want to do, and then and then I kind of just really start and
I try to like come up with a plan. I put a lot of
stuff on my calendar, like today like it's been like back to back zooming
calls, things that of that nature. Tomorrow I'll have a content day where
I'll shoot a bunch of more safer work stuff in the beginning for like YouTube
and tiktoks and the reels, because you got to do that nowadays, right,
And then at night, I have a live show which is going to
be you know, fun on my on my only fans and on my subscriber
side of the only fans, and and that will be my day. And
then I you know, as soon as I'm done with the live show,
that I'm like, okay, I'm I'm going to put everything to decide and
spend time with my dogs. I'm going to spend time with myself. I'm
going to listen to some meditation, I'm going to eat good food, and
I'm going to set the day aside. I did whatever I could. I
got over the fact that I'm not going to get everything on that list done.
So don't try myself fucking nuts about it. Don't beat myself up at
night, Be like, oh man, oh man, you know, if
if you didn't get to that email that day, okay, so be it.
You're going to eventually get to it and do something. You know.
I have to sometimes just prioritize my whole life over making a work decision that
day. You know, sometimes you do sometimes, you know, like,
oh, my house needs my house needs attending to. So now I've got
to go into my personal you know, time, and and then I don't
know, I somehow manage it, and I remember a lot of really good
people in my life to help me out with that. I just I love
the response. These girls don't work. They just show up and get fucked
and then sit on Instagram m all day. And meanwhile that guy's tweeting that
from a cubicle where he's fucking you know, just because he gets sucked and
then sits on Instagram all day yea, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
yeah. He's like he's in his like a little car and he's like work
parking garage on his thirty minute lunch break because for a whole hour podcasting.
Two weeks off for vacation. Good luck getting a day off for vacation so
you can go to a doctor's appointment. Yeah, I at that vacation for
a doctor's appointment. People are like, you know, oh my god,
these os whorers and hose and this that, And I'm like, dude,
does it really bother you that I make more money than you'll need you to?
What are you gonna strue protect me? Come on, give me a
fucking break. Uh uh real quick, just to follow that and then Shane
jump in. But to me, it's it's there are shitty workers in every
industry, like we've interviewed, we've we did a series called Brand New Faces,
which was girls who are just starting on only fans and we wanted to
get a little exposure for them and everything else. And then some you check
back and it's a year later and they've got seventeen posts on their media thing,
and it's like, hey, I don't mind giving you the platform.
All I could do is get your name out there to people. You have
to take it from there, you know. And that person is somebody who
just maybe sits on Instagram all day and does whatever. But then the top
of the top, you really can't say that, or even the middle of
the middle, as far as this industry goes, you can't say that these
people are working incredibly hard when it comes to stuff like that, or just
as you do when you have a nice house and you pay a landscaper or
whatever. They're working enough to cover people to be able to do their social
media or whatever else. Well, you have to outsource a little bit.
I learned that, like, you're never gonna be capable of doing everything yourself.
It's going to take me twice as long to figure out how I did
do editing where I can hand that off to my best friend, my business
partner, and be like, Okay, he's the editor. He can handle
the things that I can't handle. I can handle the things I can handle,
and then we can get a lot more done in a day than like
me trying to be like fuck do I work this I movie. I don't
want to. I don't want to take my time to fucking do that.
I want to pay someone to do that. It takes me less time and
I could push out more content that way, you know, Like I have
someone come with me, like we're going to go, Like, I have
some I write down my ideas, right I Also, I'm just I love
writing. I love writing scripts. I write down ideas I can. I
don't know. I have been a very active imagination. So I have some
stuff writing down you know that we're going to do tomorrow, some skid ideas.
And then you have someone to help me out and that I help me
film it, and I help me like set things up, so I don't,
you know, get it done. That's a good idea. My wife
does that with me. I have to edit and film all her content,
but I don't get paid for it. It's kind to do what I can
to watch the shit for free. It goes into a big part of your
house. Does she specifically take the only fans money and the many bids money
and then go like, well, now, Shane, you can't have any
of this, but I'm going to go get a new purse. Or something
like that. Astly goes back into like hair and eyelashes and nails and stuff.
That's reinvesting in the business. You can't blame her on that. I
always reinvest in the business. If you see me with fans to shoes,
fancy purses, that's because a fan bought it. I'm not going to waste
my money on it. To me, it's not well again, I'm not
I'm I'm not a super girly girl, so those things are not super important
to me. What's important to me is growing as a human being and growing
as a business and be able to adapt to that, reinvest into that,
and just continue this progression. I'm I'm blessed to be here, so I
don't want to and I'm not going to just sit on it. Sure,
I mean I sit on it. But I got a business question for you
in terms of that, and feel free to answer what you will and what
you want or what you you know. You can always give a hypothetical of
somebody else. This amazing blonde performer Alexis Foxes Fox, you I understand I
was making an alternative person. I was inventing a human being. Oh Fox
Fox you mean yeah, Okay, coats. Most important thing to me,
I think to tell new performers and new girls coming into the industry, and
you tell me how important this is. Don't give away a percentage of your
business? Now? Is that now? Personally you have someone who edits for
you and that's a close friend and whatever is somebody like that or somebody on
your staff. Are they paid a set amount or is it a percentage?
Or how would that work? And what would be the best way for new
girls coming. I've heard horror stories recently of managers coming in going twenty percent
of you are only fans, just give me that and won't take care of
all your stuff. Yeah, they've got a lot of crazy teams out there
asking for a lot more than just twenty percent. And I don't agree with
that at all. So that's not my route, and I think, you
know, it takes a little bit more time, But I think getting people
in your inner circle that you can really trust in this business you're gonna need.
You're gonna need that because you're gonna need you're gonna need the support.
You're gonna need that. You need to need a little foundation, a little
structure really will help you well. And that that's what My best friend is
web Master Joe. He's also my co post so on the on the podcast.
He you know, and I can I know, I can trust him.
He's gonna tell me the truth, and he has my back period.
Sure, Sure, And I think it's it's I we agreed upon a rate
for him, and then for the other people, I pay what the rates
are. Gotcha, gotcha, you know, like tell me what you want,
you know, and then let's discuss that. And and honestly, most
of the people I'm hiring because I've gotten to a point I don't like to
hire strangers because a the training, and two they don't really know you,
and three I have gotten fucking burned. So the people I'm also hiring ten
to people that I've had in my life for around in my life for a
while, that actually have really been proven friendships. So I have no problem
paying their raise. I rather pay my friends, and knowing that at I'm
helping put money and you know, put some growth in their pockets in some
way, shape or form or just having an enriching experience. Then you know
someone that's going to be like, oh, for the fort you know,
six months until maybe something else comes around and they're like peace, sure,
and you're like, fuck, I just spent much treating you, Now what
else? Or like my last personal as the stance was embubbling from me and
I oh, Now, how much do you set aside to have their face
so like now, I'm like, you know what to get into this inner
circle that you're going to be really like I have a lot of friends a
quaintances, but to be this you know where I'm going to call upon you
that you're in that text every day and you know we're we're communicating, Hey,
where's this, what's that? How's that going? Do we need to
get this? You know, even in as simple as fact of like hey's
your jeep stolen? Maja and maintenance? Are you going to get it out?
And I'm like, I don't know. It's on national backwarder. You
know that it's it's it's I'm not like a hard cookie, but like it's
now I've known him to be like really said up with the boundaries and be
selective. So how much budget you put aside to have your former assistants fingers
broken from buzzling money from you? I mean, is it is it less
than they took from you or are you willing to pay a little bit more
to make sure they're mutilated an attorney to put to you know, I paid
an attorney because I wasn't very first, I didn't know what to do,
and I wanted to do it in you know, the right way, and
like because essentially I'm an employer, DA DA DA contract low it was,
so I called it. I called my attorney, you know, and I'm
like, you know, and I already had like NDAs and stuff like that
signs. So like we went over all of that, and he told me
what to do and I followed his instructions to the tea. I had witness
there, Joe, so that there wasn't like, you know, I didn't
know. I did never had to confrench that one from that was literally what
I guess essentially in very basic terms, taking from me, stealing from me,
and you know, I was the person I thought I could trust.
And then I was recommended to also file up the police report, so I
had to go down to the police report and do all of that. And
that's that's quite a time and effort. That's money, and that's you know,
and I you know, hey, everybody eventually show their own colors.
You know, she just got you know, that person just got sloppy.
Sure, yeah, yeah, they got sloppy. They got cocky, and
they thought, oh, she's too busy to notice. But this is the
I notice. Yeah, I maybe really need like here there, there,
but I'm also all like I spent a lot of time observing. Oh yeah,
yeah, it's it's I mean, I can't wait for shame to find
out how much money I've stolen from him on this. But I'm just kidding.
It's not gonna do it for free anyway, for the love of the
game. Yeah, yeah, it's it's it hurts when it's a friend.
You know, I've had a few failed business things and you dump money into
something and you get there. No, this is gonna work. This is
gonna work. I understand this is completely different and what you're talking about,
but it just bothers me. When I'm willing to hand off money, do
you either to manage it for me, watch it for me, or put
it into this business. You better have all your fucking ducks in a row,
because if you don't, you're wasting my ship. And that's when I
start xing people waste. Yeah, you know, I don't. I think
it's like, you know, I could argue. I get so many different
arguments I can make about time, like I are, like, yeah,
time doesn't exist. Time does that. But also time is very impressious impressive,
like like a very precious because no matter what, you'll never gain that
time back you lose in my sleep, you never gain that back. It
doesn't matter if you can sleep the whole next day, you still don't get
that night of sleep back. So you know, don't waste my fucking time
and that time. I could have done this. I could have done that.
You know. I respect your time, respect mine. I think it's
an honor to be in your presence, So make sure it's an honor for
me to be in yours. I think that makes no sense. Shane,
got anything? I got some Oh, you know you had mentioned taking time
off like from filming, so you know, whether it's for getting maintenance or
or or vacation what or whatever. And it it sparked a question that I
haven't thought of in a long time. But I've been meaning to ask a
performer who's got some experience. So, is there like a a best method
for birth control for like your controlling your your time of the month, because
like I know, like some birth controls make you irregular, some make you
have like a two week period, some make you not have your period for
three months at a time. So when you are in the height of your
filming, like like when you were shooting scenes and you're booking with pros all
the time, what do you do? You have a way of managing that
that's like the best way. Yeah, I well, I'm beginning to you.
I started eventually scheduling around my period just because it was uncomfortable and putting
sponges up there and then having to pull them out. It was just I
don't think that vagina needs to go through that much trauma totally. But again,
sometimes I thought, you know, I scheduled properly and decided to come
early, or he decided to you know, stay a little later than expected,
or whatever the case may be. But I mean, shit happens,
right, and then I just deal with that at that particular day. But
as far as birth control, I'm always going to recommend that a if ladies
are going to you know, participate in birth control, go to the doctor
and go and decide what's best for their physical, emotional and mental health because
it is changing your hormones and make sure you understand what that's doing, and
then that's going to follow from there. Get to know your body. I
think being in this industry number one is understanding and be able to feel things
out and read things when things are off on or indifferent, right, and
go with that one. Birth control tears my body up. It does not
work well with me. And also I'm not really into changing, you know,
my full hormones and everything around that totally. So for me, scheduling
around my period a it's just a lot more comfortable. My periods are extremely
uncomfortable and crampy, So I just try to work around that as much as
possible and do a lot more Younal cream pies. Sure. I feel like
that's a huge difference with between men and women performers. I feel like women
have the compassion and the empathy to recommend go to your doctor and do what's
best. But yeah, like men will be like, no, I heard
drinking battery acid. It really does make you come a lot more. Try
it, right, Yeah, exactly, Please don't do that. Yeah,
And for guys, you know, if you feel like you want larger cumloads,
or your cumeloads are more watery. You know, look into your nutrition,
look into your supplements, Look into what you're putting into your body,
because that's a direct reflection. Like if you're a guy that's you know,
you know, beef caken and you're taking steroids and stuff that creating and all
that is going to come out into your semen and it's going to burn the
skin off that lady's face. And don't give her facials like little like you
like you like, get them know your body like I get you down,
like did you off yourning? Get to know your body. But number one,
always reach out to a doctor or a physician that you trust. And
whether it's holistic or whatever style of you decide to go with, and go
go with what best fits you in your body as an entire whole, like
not just physical, Look how it's going to affect you emotionally, mentally.
And because that those three things do you go hand in hand. If one
to offer, the more likely they're all going to be off in some way.
Balance, So you know, look into that, make sure it's gonna
fit. Because not all hormonal birth controls, not all women should be taking.
You know, some may want to take an oral conscious sceptives I may
want to do an iut you gonna go with what's best going to be better
for you and your body, and you know what you want for the long
run in that and for men same thing, you know, like you know,
getting a best DEX, you know, get a BESTX A me is
not is not that bad. Like you know, if you're intity industry and
you don't want to spread your seat and you're not with anybody that wants to,
you know, you're not in a relationship that's children, you know you're
not going to take that path anytime soon because I guess you know it's supposed
to be reversible and stuff. Again, I'm not a guy. I'm not
having my I'm not I'm not. I don't have that deal with that.
You know, maybe look into that as well. You know there's that but
that you're gonna do whatever is right for for your own person and not like
you know, and put all of those things in perspective. Man, it
is just so much easier to use I'll tell you what sponges pH balance it
just jesus, it's it's a deal, man, nothing but simple reaching down
there. I'm doing taste tests, metal test Lucky you signus prodier do in
my bathroom. I'm like, come on, I gotta lap cote. I
was like, could you put your white shoes on and all this? I
got a question mixing beakers and ship together. Yeah, bring my record set,
you, bring your chemistry set YouTube videos, be like how to prepare
your pussy makes it? Yeah, get a home of blue ship, pour
some stuff in and have it fizze over and be like a used infection.
Does it look like cheese? You might have a problem. Yeah, okay,
all right. So so you love everybody who subscribes to your only fans
and they're all wonderful and whatever clip that sended out. Have you ever actually
had anything sent to you on OnlyFans that's actually aroused you? Or is it
all just like weird noodle dicks and you're like, that's an eight bud?
Oh god, I have. I've seen some nice looking dicks turned on by
just looking at it. A dick though immediately. But you know, honestly,
I got to tell you the couples that send me in a little similar
like groups, like their little little sexy pains or whatever, that's fucking hot.
Again, like, you know, I get to see their own little
private porn, which which is actually nice because I was like, if I
like search porn. Nowadays, I'm like trying to look for like the ship
that's not not on. I'm like, I don't want to look at my
I love my friends great scenes, but sometimes I'm looking for like where's the
home videos, where's that home swinger video? Google image search? Yeah,
exactly, So those are always hot. Those are always like actually having the
couples are probably my biggest turn on anybody, you know, But a lot
of I am dealing with like different fetishes and stuff like that, and I
I just, you know, I guess it's for me. I just see
it so much as like I want to provide them with, you know,
a service of them enjoying whatever fantasy or whatever it is that they want to
see or have me do, so that the am result is them coming or
getting off or they're released in some way, shape or form. So that's
always my high. That's always my first priority before I guess I get my
own kicks off. I always get my own kicks off in my live shows.
I'm like, if I'm going to do this for an hour or so
manam gotta do it as well mails a jergraph until the money shot. You
know, I try that on Instagram live. I keep getting banned. You.
Uh, that's time, You're only buddy. He's on a y WF
Matt thirteen. Yeah yeah, I just keep adding on numbers to the numbers.
Let that's where I'm at. Now. You gave it undercover, So
all right. You own a coffee company, haf Coffee, right, yeah,
Shane doesn't drink coffee. I drink about a pot and a half a
day. I'm that guy who sleeps three hours this night. Yeah, I
just just I'll just buy something. You can send me some. I smell
coffee right now. That's great, that's what she wants to do. Here,
smell my product, dump it down your here. Here's the thing is,
I'm waiting for the guy to ask me to rub my coffee beans in
my panties. And second, oh yeah, how about the fucking grinds,
you know, out of the goddamn out of the god fresh like beans like
ground up, oh my god like smell in my nostrils. I just want
to like, oh, tickle me. So that's what I was I want
to ask about your coffee before I ask why you got into it and how
you got into it, and what's the best bean? Does your coffee taste
like it smells, because that's my my gripe with coffee. It's like you
smell it and it's amazing, and you taste it and it all tastes like
bong water. Some coffee does it is a little bitter. You just gotta
know your beans and figure out what your taste buds like the most. Like,
for instance, I fit starting to figure out different coffee flavors by traveling
in different countries and cities and trying like local roasters. So for instance,
like I was traveling Europe, but I was going from like France to Italy,
and I was like, oh, yeah, let me drink this espresso
and France and this like fancy boom like nice bold place. It burned a
hole my stomach and I was like, Oh, that's the worst fucking coffee
ever. Then I go over to Italy and I have the expresso over there
and that shit like rolls over your tongue like you're eating chocolate out of someone's
ass, and it's just fucking amazing, you know what I mean. So
Is that your recommendation for the best bean Italian ass chocolate beans? Yeah,
you know what everys fucky coffee because I have got i a I love coffee
and coffee class storing, so like, if it's like some weird, weird
random bean, I'll like, I'll try to get it. So I was
in snide too, I've I've spent a couple hundred dollars on weird ass beans
before, but I won't go into thousands over it now that way. But
honestly, it's not even any better half the time. But I'm enjoying my
coffee beans. They're they're pretty luxury and there. I like dark roast probably
most of all, unless I'm looking for a harder, speedier pickup, and
then I'll drink something that more of a light roast. You know, just
kind of know your roast coffee. It does have a bitter flavor, but
if you know the region of which is being grown in you can kind of
start pulling out the flavors. Like for instance, Costa Rica, you know
you have peco and bananas and a lot of the fields in which the coffee
beans are also being grown, so the bees are pollinating all of that so
after a while you can be like, oh, like I love Costa Rican
coffee. I love Guatemala and coffee. I love a tidy coffee. Sure
French apparently I am French roast. That's a good I I'm writing that down
Costa Rican Coffee. I'm gonna order some some of yours too, go ahead,
sorry, yeah, yeah, I let me know if you have any
questions or on the different roaster or whatever. We also have a hot coca.
We also I added teas. I'm gonna might be adding some more actual
loose leaf teas as well, which is gonna be exciting because I had a
lot of people ask me, oh, do you have teas? I can
drink coffee, And I'm like, okay, I'll I had them, so
I did. But it's really interesting. I love coffee. I did start.
My whole little coffee thing just came. You know. It just became
a thing for me to travel around and that would be like, Oh,
where's the local roaster. I want to try their their brew. I went
down to Costa Rica once and I think I gave myself like legit, like
caffeine poisoning or something, because you go to one area, it's Monte Verde.
It's like north of where you would fly in in San Jose, and
you just go up north and there's like all these coffee plantations, mountains,
jungle. It's fucking phenomenal. Do it. But there's a lot of little
local spots you can stop off and you can have a like cacal chocolate that
they'd hit like Grandma's handmaking. Fucking phenomenal Coffee's great. I drink so much
I had to pull over. I thought my heart was going to explode.
I thought I was gonna ship myself vomit all the things. I was like,
here Ago, I'm going to die in Costa Ricae is Oh that that's
a bummer too, because if you die in Costa Rica, you want it
to be from like cliff diving, or like some kidnap something by jaguar E
by jaguar falled off three kidnappers. The fourth one got her like that's what
you want? You don't want? Oh she shut herself drinking coffee. What
was it poisoned? No? No, no, it was much of it.
So that's real. No, Hey, we love it. We love
it. That's available. H A f Dot coffee uh as always Episode everything
in the episode description. Now it seems like your other love and you've mentioned
a couple of times here is weed. Do you have your own strain yet
or no? You know, everybody keeps asking me this, Okay, a
question, I'll stop. Yeah. I have gotten a lot of offers and
it's funny and I'm like, yeah, sure, let's try it out,
you know whatever. But I feel like the weed business has gotten so weird
and it's also gonna be very diluting, and it just seems like, you
know, I'm like, yeah, I'll go full force. Just tell me
what you need from me, and then I you know, like all of
a sudden, people will disappear. And I also want to be careful about
who I work with. Huh yeah, yeah, yeah, you know,
I just want to be careful with like what you know, like, you
know, how's the weak being grown? Its sustainable? You know. All
that stuff is actually truly important to me because I actually do know a lot
of growers, and some growers grow it's phenomenal, you know, Bud,
I do. Actually it's funny because I've been smoking for a really long time.
I missed the old days where you just call your call your guy,
you go down to the corner and you get a vacuum seal pack in the
back of his Honda Sua, can drive around the block, you can smoke
a little bit, and you get out and then you're high and got your
weed for the week. There you go. Yeah, I don't miss that.
I had to drive thirty minutes to my guy, so, like the
drive home, I was so fucking paranoid, like I'll get pulled over.
I'll get pulled over, you know. Yeah that could be a bit.
Yeah, I get that. I get that. No, it's definitely made
it easier. It's maybe lazier. Like I'm like, roll a joint.
I'll just quiet free roll. Yeah, I do. One of my dads
I have. I have a lot of dab brigs and stuff downstairs. I
can't get I can't get Shane behind a microphone unless he's had about three hits
of his dab brig. Otherwise it's just he's like, I don't want to
talk on him. We don't start until the afternoon. Man, it's yeah,
three three times how many hours I've been awake before the time I saw
you. Yeah, yeah, I like it. Okay, all right,
Uh Shane, do you have any other questions here for alexis what's the best
loop? Best loop I would like to say, Well, for anal,
I prefer anything silicone. Just make sure you get like a good silicone,
spend a little money on it. I mean I've used pure silicone. I've
used you know, silicon, a silicone. There was actually a shit I
don't know the name of it. It's probably my other room that I really
liked. It was a nice slocone, very sleek, super slippery, and
I prefer that. And they ask only because you know they ask. Definitely
is not lubricating, and you could put a little bit of that lube along
with the little CBD up your ass, which is going to just relax you
a little bit and also help with any inflammation or tears. I can come
from anal sex and if you square a little LUBA up there, it just
helps kind of keep everything a little bit more lubricated than normal if you're into
it. For the pussy, I'm actually pretty well lubricated, just naturally brow
my mouth on a a day. I actually read somewhere that you really shouldn't
but can tell you. I tell you that sometimes if the person is not
so much a weed smoker. But if it's a cigarette smoker, I don't
like them to use their spit on my privates. Yeah it's weird. I'm
like, like, I don't like, I mean, I don't like stop
it and be like, oh my god, like I'm not that much.
But I'm like, I really wish they weren't a smoker. When it's at
she's your field and nicotine like stimulating. If they just smoked, like just
smoked, they're like there was like I don't know, like smoked and then
ran and put their mouths on my pussy. That might be like a little
tiggy. But yeah, smoking is not my favorite. But so if you
are a smoker, I make sure you brush your tea mouth. You don't
want to. You don't want a couple of nice, bright yellow fingers getting
jammed up. That's what I look at too, like because you know,
like some smoke smokers. But it's not my business. That's your's your business.
But I do look at all of that, like wash your hands,
like and the same thing when I smoke blunts or I smoke joints and I
or to dad hits. Hey, I don't do any of that before my
scenes just because I want to be of like really super clear mind and spirit,
like even though I getting high doesn't do it, Like I'm pretty much
really were while I'm high, But I just I don't ever want there to
be a situation where something happened and be like, well, well you were
stoned. You know. I'm just I'm like that. Now I'll just say,
you know, I'll go in do my thing, and then I leap
and then I'll get really high. But yeah, that's why I also suggested
ce met because it's non psychoactive, so you're not going to get high,
but it may help with like you know, anal on scenes or anal just
in personal life. It's a little terrifying at first. You know, you're
like, what's gonna happen? Back there? I have one more question for
you, and then Shane has his go to question every time, and then
we will get you out of here. You started in what twenty ten?
I believe, yeah, twenty ten. Okay, so you are a mix
between the older school. We just had a director, Jim Powers on recently
and that was Shane and I's era was we graduated in high school twenty two
thousand and six, So right, around two thousand and four to twenty ten,
is like the girls we liked and the production companies and this and that,
and this was a question I asked him, and I've asked other performers
this, Are you against fluffing male performers on set? No, okay,
a lot of newer girls are a lot of newer girls have been yelling at
us, like, tell them to do their fucking job. I'm like,
well, what if a guy needs a little help, Like, first of
all, I'm not saying I got my Plus he's always jumping at every sexty
and that we're you know, it's involved. I mean sometimes you know that's
you know, but I could get myself in the right mojo of mine and
it might need lube at that particular time. But guys, it's, oh
shit, it's either hard or it's not. So I think, you know,
I didn't even tell a difference from somebody who's just trying to fuck you
off camera versus someone's like, hey, let's try to get this little connection
then going to me. So because you got to get in his little head,
I shouldn't say a little head. You gotta get you head of that
as well, like of being wanted and that you know, his heart on
is you know, going to do the job and everything like that, Sure
it is, my child is talking. Sorry, Okay, check that you're
right. No, they're fine. They're probably. Oh it's not bothering us
audio what you're good? No, no, no, you're totally fine.
So I'm not against it because I want, I want. I want the
scene to pop off. I want to I want. I want the viewers
on the other side and be like, oh my god, did you see
that scene with her and Isadiy and Maxwell? Holy ship, they were so
into it. They absolutely I don't want to know the fucking difference if I'm
into it or not. Sure, I don't And I don't think that you
know, they're you're not hiring me to you know. Like I said,
I think you can tell the difference of somebody that just wants to suck you
off then versus somebody that's like, hey, you know whatever, because first
of all, they're not pulling, you know, to have another room.
They're just getting be like, hey, can you know, give me a
little help here, and they might you know, need you to pinch the
nipple, give them a kiss, stop going a little dick. You know,
hey, I want to dick raving hard and also you to set,
you know, I want this like again, I want the scene to pop
up. I'm not trying to turn my scene partner on because I think there's
anything there. It's not it at all, but I want that scene partner
to also, Okay, I got a raging part on. I got to
get the seed through. And they're gonna be in their own minds as well,
because they're they're gonna they also they got to think about where the camera
is angles they are lifting either leg up, some of these positions are not
comfortable for them either. And they still got to keep a raging hard on.
So get your scene by like you know, you talk it out with
your scene partner, you know. But and then if you're one of those,
you know, individuals that do not want to do the flipping or I
hate to use the word flupping, I ain't like, you know, like
I'm just open amalogis to get the scene going, you know, going,
and sometimes you know, they it just really pops it off. I'm just
kind of like it's just kind of how like it it's always been done,
you know, for me in the structions I don't. Yeah, I've never
really had a problem with anything. Okay. I think that is the big
difference in learning to differentiate between this guy actually needs help and this guy's trying
to get extra you know. Yeah, I mean the guy might be nervous
as fucked too. Sure he might be just a little bit newer or a
little you know, maybe he's not. You know, it's a nervous thing.
Like every time I staid run and said, I'm not like, oh,
I'm as confident. I mean, shit, I don't you know,
I put the puzzy to state, you know, look at everythink after a
while, you know, and I'm still nervous every time I walk on set.
I want to be put at ease as well. I want to feel
that I'm attracted and I that must be why. I also like, you
know, like I want to feel like there's it's the connection for that time
period. It's that connection is going to lead when I walk out the doors.
Since that scene done, boom, we get back. Hey, nice
to work with. You know, everybody's everybody's getting paid to be there anyway.
Sure, absolutely no one's showing up there as much as good looking as
you are. And a great sex partner. You may be. No one's
showing up for free, so they got a job to do as well.
Makes sense, Shane, Your question you always end with, oh, yeah,
I always like to ask, you know, just uh, just for
my record keeping, do you like piss? I like to piss on people.
I mean I do the sporting thing, so you know, I would
say, you know me saying I don't like to piss on this. I
have no problem being on people. I don't personally. I know, like
drinking, it is a new health thing, a new health thing. Been
doing a lot of research on that. There's a gentleman who's been drinking his
own when you're in since like two thousand and five and has all like these
super benefits of it. Like there's there's a gentleman who says he's been drinking
his own piss since two thousand and five. He's secretly laughing behind the camera
going piss. I know, get these guys to drink the greatest fucking ranks
that we see out there. I'm just like long con stupid, right,
But that there's but what I you know, they like to on them.
They want to you know, I have people that I ask for you can't
do that on only fans. You could do it on fansly and stuff like
that. So my heart more my more hardcore fetish. Again, I don't
have any problems with any fetish things. Well, let me rephrase that.
I mean, there are some that I would never do for for obvious fucking
reasons. But when it comes down like pee or like I'm not gonna I'm
not into drinking my own. But I don't you know, doing com eating
or piss drinking or you know, any of those things, or really loved
having pee outside being problem with that, you know, that's your fetish.
Just you know, if I'm just making content at that point, sure makes
sense. Contract. We are going to wrap up here, ladies and gentlemen.
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thank you very much for coming on with us tonight, Alexi, Thank
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really had a great time for worst totally for your worst friend. I'm Matt,
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