WEBVTT 1 00:00:06.200 --> 00:00:09.400 Whoa, what's up, beautiful people, And it's your baby mama, favorite 2 00:00:09.400 --> 00:00:14.880 baby Mama, Stormy Pete and welcome to another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zip 3 00:00:15.160 --> 00:00:19.679 the modern day female perspective. Damn Son, back at it again, and 4 00:00:19.760 --> 00:00:22.039 back at it again. We got the home team in the building. We 5 00:00:22.079 --> 00:00:30.239 got Dannity Cane on set here and always holding us down on the visual. 6 00:00:30.280 --> 00:00:35.840 We got my man Cap the cat in the building. But bust the hearts, 7 00:00:35.880 --> 00:00:39.799 y'all. You know what it's just I mean, if you're watching on 8 00:00:39.840 --> 00:00:43.960 YouTube, you probably figured it out already. But we are in the first 9 00:00:44.079 --> 00:00:49.159 day of May, so you know what that means, absolutely right? How 10 00:00:49.200 --> 00:00:52.840 will we be in May and not have a freaking instinct it's gonna be May 11 00:00:52.960 --> 00:00:57.240 drop, okay, but not just any day in May. Today we are 12 00:00:57.280 --> 00:01:02.520 recording on May fourth, so you know what that means. That's absolutely right. 13 00:01:02.560 --> 00:01:06.879 Made the fourth fee with you and that's why the guys wearing their things. 14 00:01:07.000 --> 00:01:10.200 Yeah, that's great. Listen, Hey, hey, hey, don't 15 00:01:10.239 --> 00:01:11.519 you judge? Just god damn it, you don't know what's going on here. 16 00:01:11.719 --> 00:01:15.680 And if you're listening to an audio only go to YouTube so you can 17 00:01:15.000 --> 00:01:18.400 see what we're talking about. God damn it. Right, yeah, all 18 00:01:18.439 --> 00:01:21.640 right, listen, before we get into anything, I just want to say, 19 00:01:22.280 --> 00:01:26.840 with all my heart, all my chests, everything, bring back life 20 00:01:26.879 --> 00:01:30.640 tapings, okay. June twenty third, Atlanta, Georgia. Chocolate Chip and 21 00:01:30.680 --> 00:01:36.200 Sip will be at the se Content House doing a live taping and we want 22 00:01:36.200 --> 00:01:40.920 to see you there, baby, Absolutely right. And y'all when I say 23 00:01:40.920 --> 00:01:42.400 it's gonna be a vibe, I don't mean just any vibe, all right, 24 00:01:42.640 --> 00:01:46.959 I mean it's gonna be a vibe. Okay. Let me tell you 25 00:01:47.000 --> 00:01:51.040 what. You give it your ticket, you get live refreshments. Well I 26 00:01:51.079 --> 00:01:53.719 guess we'll be dead refreshments. Okay, take that off. Okay, You 27 00:01:53.840 --> 00:01:57.079 get lights and refreshments, you get an open bar, and you get to 28 00:01:57.120 --> 00:02:00.920 meet and greet with me, Stormy Pete. What is better than that? 29 00:02:00.319 --> 00:02:04.439 Nothing? God damn it? All right, as if that wasn't enough, 30 00:02:05.200 --> 00:02:08.919 as if you couldn't get any better than that. At the end of the 31 00:02:08.960 --> 00:02:15.199 taping, we're gonna shut this shit down and we're gonna do a Patreon episode 32 00:02:15.639 --> 00:02:20.360 with Miss Sexual Essentials herself. What's better than that? What's better than that? 33 00:02:20.800 --> 00:02:23.840 June twenty third, Atlanta, Georgia, se Content House. We want 34 00:02:23.840 --> 00:02:27.120 to see you there. Click the link of my bio and get your tickets 35 00:02:27.120 --> 00:02:30.280 now, or gored stormyp dot com and get your tickets now. We can't 36 00:02:30.280 --> 00:02:31.560 wait to see you guys. Just gonna be a vibe boom all right. 37 00:02:31.800 --> 00:02:36.319 Yes, you get food too, kay Walker south Side says you get food 38 00:02:36.319 --> 00:02:38.879 too. Yes, you get food too. Food and drinks, okay, 39 00:02:38.960 --> 00:02:42.199 and you get to chime in on the conversation. Where you get to do 40 00:02:42.240 --> 00:02:45.080 that at where you get to do that at. I've always wanted food and 41 00:02:45.199 --> 00:02:49.879 drinks. I've always wanted to chime in on conversations exactly, so you're doing 42 00:02:49.960 --> 00:02:52.840 here. June twenty three, se Content House, Atlanta, Georgia. What's 43 00:02:52.919 --> 00:02:55.879 up? Can't wait to see you? All right, y'all listen May the 44 00:02:55.919 --> 00:03:00.439 fourth Aside live taping Aside. I got a lot of stuff I gotta get 45 00:03:00.479 --> 00:03:04.560 off my chest this week because certain things just aren't, you know, adding 46 00:03:04.639 --> 00:03:07.560 up to me. This is the episode of things that don't add up all 47 00:03:07.639 --> 00:03:10.120 right. First, if you've been paying attention to like, you know, 48 00:03:10.319 --> 00:03:15.560 Al Gore's Internet, the social media's all right, So this week after like 49 00:03:15.919 --> 00:03:23.159 weeks some may even see it, say months of like Meach and Summer Walker, 50 00:03:23.240 --> 00:03:25.479 hinting that they were like dabbling with each other. They finally come out 51 00:03:25.520 --> 00:03:30.000 and the open, Yeah, we're hanging out all right, Meach, you 52 00:03:30.039 --> 00:03:34.639 know American rapper actor, Summer Walker, R and B Superstar. Right, 53 00:03:34.680 --> 00:03:38.599 they come out and say they're hanging out Now the team gets hotter, y'all. 54 00:03:38.560 --> 00:03:45.240 After this, Miss Selena Powe, who's the only Fans creator who's mostly 55 00:03:45.280 --> 00:03:49.479 known for being with various hip hop artists, she comes out, releases a 56 00:03:49.520 --> 00:03:53.599 picture of her with the B and Meth chain and in the background Summer Walker 57 00:03:53.680 --> 00:03:57.919 song playing, and then she releases a sex state with her in Meach. 58 00:03:58.159 --> 00:04:03.280 Right, And before I move forward, I really need all the fellas to 59 00:04:03.319 --> 00:04:06.560 come to the front of the congregation. Yeah, because I got a question. 60 00:04:06.759 --> 00:04:10.599 Fellas, come to the front of the congregation, and Stormy need to 61 00:04:10.599 --> 00:04:15.759 talk to you. I got a question. Is it okay for a woman 62 00:04:15.840 --> 00:04:21.680 to be ran through if she only ran through celebrities and athletes? And I'm 63 00:04:21.680 --> 00:04:25.920 gonna ask this again. I'm gonna ask this again, and I want you 64 00:04:26.000 --> 00:04:30.759 to answer honestly. Is it okay for a woman to be ran through if 65 00:04:30.800 --> 00:04:35.519 she only ran through celebrities and athletes? And the reason I say this is 66 00:04:35.560 --> 00:04:40.800 because y'all give women so much flag. I can't deal with a woman who 67 00:04:40.839 --> 00:04:43.800 got X amount of bodies. I can't deal with a woman who out here 68 00:04:43.839 --> 00:04:46.959 doing X, Y and Z. I can't deal with a woman who's putting 69 00:04:46.959 --> 00:04:50.360 her business out on front Street. But y'all continue to have these Selena pals 70 00:04:50.360 --> 00:04:56.800 in your bedroom. Y'all continue to have these skeletons in your bedroom. Y'all 71 00:04:56.839 --> 00:05:02.079 continue to deal with the same women who run through the same circles in all 72 00:05:02.160 --> 00:05:09.399 these Hollywood like neighborhoods. Like y'all deal with the same women in the same 73 00:05:09.439 --> 00:05:12.199 circles. That doesn't make sense to me, because then you'll turn around and 74 00:05:12.240 --> 00:05:14.360 say, well, I can't deal with a woman who's done X, Y 75 00:05:14.399 --> 00:05:17.360 and Z. Which is why I ask, is it okay for a woman 76 00:05:17.399 --> 00:05:21.959 to be ran through if she's only ran through celebrities and athletes, and if 77 00:05:21.959 --> 00:05:27.879 it's not, tell me why these women like Selena Powell keep getting access to 78 00:05:27.959 --> 00:05:31.959 you. Tell me why these women And I'm talking about the same for women. 79 00:05:32.040 --> 00:05:35.360 Y'all the same for women. And don't get me wrong, I understand 80 00:05:35.399 --> 00:05:40.519 that once you reach a certain level, you tend to deal with a certain 81 00:05:40.560 --> 00:05:44.319 type of female because she knows how to move in these circles. They understand 82 00:05:44.639 --> 00:05:47.560 discrepancy and things like that. But y'all be getting caught by the ones who 83 00:05:47.639 --> 00:05:51.920 don't understand discrepancy and things like that. So I'm confused and it makes me 84 00:05:53.000 --> 00:05:56.600 want to ask, is it okay for a woman to be ran through if 85 00:05:56.600 --> 00:06:00.399 she's only ran through celebrities and athletes and I'm a tapping on a live I'm 86 00:06:00.480 --> 00:06:04.079 see got to say, uh, sketch life dot or dot raw says, 87 00:06:04.160 --> 00:06:09.000 same difference. Gambling care bearer says, let me put this strap on an 88 00:06:09.000 --> 00:06:14.319 act like a man ran through its ran through Q just chilling food. It's 89 00:06:14.319 --> 00:06:17.399 an escalade with high knowledge. Still have high knowledge, I hear you. 90 00:06:17.959 --> 00:06:21.920 But in the same token, y'all keep getting trapped with these women. So 91 00:06:23.439 --> 00:06:26.319 it's not making sense to me. I just want somebody to explain it to 92 00:06:26.360 --> 00:06:30.639 me. Had Our Love says, at my stage of maturity, it's not 93 00:06:30.720 --> 00:06:36.040 how many but how she went about doing it. I'm not mad at this. 94 00:06:38.319 --> 00:06:42.079 I'm not mad at this. I'm not mad at this because I can 95 00:06:42.120 --> 00:06:45.399 respect this. You can be ran through, but don't nobody God know you've 96 00:06:45.399 --> 00:06:48.279 been ran through? How you're moving when you're getting ran through? Like? 97 00:06:48.399 --> 00:06:53.240 Are you getting treats? Are you getting bags? Are you getting closed? 98 00:06:53.240 --> 00:06:56.519 Are you getting cars? Are you getting your RNT paid? Cool? You 99 00:06:56.639 --> 00:07:00.439 still ran through, but you're a well kept ran through and I can respected 100 00:07:00.519 --> 00:07:01.759 well kept ran through. I like this. I like this a lot. 101 00:07:02.720 --> 00:07:09.879 Uh k dot Walker Underscore south Side says, what hell to the note that's 102 00:07:10.000 --> 00:07:15.079 viral wholeness? I hear you make it make sense for me? Then ran 103 00:07:15.199 --> 00:07:18.720 through is ran through? Yo, y'all saying that, but it's not making 104 00:07:18.800 --> 00:07:23.720 sense for me. Dark Men Underscore seventeen says, no way, Jose, 105 00:07:24.120 --> 00:07:28.480 she probably get impeded on whoa wait a minute, hold on, that's jumping 106 00:07:28.480 --> 00:07:34.079 the stuff. Jesus Christ, howda we get here? Hold On escalated quickly? 107 00:07:34.240 --> 00:07:41.680 Dad escalated? Wow quickly? Uh huh? Why do BodyCount matters? 108 00:07:42.079 --> 00:07:44.360 Sir? You're a man. You know why body killing matter? I don't 109 00:07:44.399 --> 00:07:46.839 have to explain that to you. You you know why? Don't get on 110 00:07:46.040 --> 00:07:49.040 here? Y'all blame me like you trying to bait me. You trying to 111 00:07:49.079 --> 00:07:54.120 get me into this. Huh mister two four Underscore low Carbs, you're trying 112 00:07:54.120 --> 00:07:57.240 to bait me into this conversation. You don't know why body kilt matter. 113 00:07:57.360 --> 00:07:59.839 And I'm a woman, and I'm gonna be honest with y'all and say, 114 00:08:00.199 --> 00:08:03.360 we understand that body account matters. We get it, we get it, 115 00:08:03.399 --> 00:08:09.160 we get it. So I think that I think another question that I have 116 00:08:09.199 --> 00:08:13.399 when it comes to women like Selena Powell, Right, if you choose to 117 00:08:13.439 --> 00:08:16.199 deal with a woman of this caliber, you know what you're getting with it. 118 00:08:18.240 --> 00:08:20.920 So my second question would be how y'all keep laying her catch you slipping? 119 00:08:22.519 --> 00:08:26.319 Like why is she even near the BMF chain? Like, this is 120 00:08:26.319 --> 00:08:31.879 not a woman that you want photographed with the BMF chain, So why are 121 00:08:31.879 --> 00:08:35.279 you giving her the freedom to take pictures with the BMF chain? Y'all? 122 00:08:35.559 --> 00:08:37.159 I don't understand. Like, even if I am gonna, like, you 123 00:08:37.200 --> 00:08:41.039 know, deal with a woman like Selena Powell, she gonna be on a 124 00:08:41.159 --> 00:08:45.200 low level. Okay, the lowest of the lows. I don't even mean 125 00:08:45.759 --> 00:08:52.039 wine cellar basement. I mean fucking non restored underground railroad. Okay, like 126 00:08:52.080 --> 00:08:54.039 that shit in the basement that you don't really go down. Yeah, her, 127 00:08:54.200 --> 00:08:58.000 that's where she's gonna be. Like I would not want to be seen 128 00:08:58.039 --> 00:09:00.200 in public with her, and this is no shade to her. Shout to 129 00:09:00.200 --> 00:09:03.000 you, Selena Pole, do what you do. I'm just saying, when 130 00:09:03.039 --> 00:09:07.600 you accept certain roles, you accept certain circumstances, and by you moving the 131 00:09:07.639 --> 00:09:09.759 way you do, you understand that you're not the type of woman that a 132 00:09:09.799 --> 00:09:13.159 man will want to have on a sleeve. And that's that's that's out of 133 00:09:13.200 --> 00:09:16.440 respect, that's out of respect. I'm not saying you're not worthy of it. 134 00:09:16.679 --> 00:09:20.000 I'm saying in today's culture, in today's society, you understand that doesn't 135 00:09:20.000 --> 00:09:24.639 come along with the way that you move. Right. So hate our love 136 00:09:24.720 --> 00:09:28.399 says, body count matters, but men like jumping hose. Every man loves 137 00:09:28.399 --> 00:09:33.879 a sexually experienced woman until they run into a sexually experienced woman who wants more, 138 00:09:33.879 --> 00:09:35.320 and then it's not okay. So that's the part that I don't really 139 00:09:35.360 --> 00:09:39.399 understand. That's the part that's getting me. Q just chilling our view says, 140 00:09:39.399 --> 00:09:43.440 But after that experience, I'm at a point I ain't dealing with none 141 00:09:43.440 --> 00:09:46.039 of that shit. If you break the boundary, I ain't fucking with you. 142 00:09:46.679 --> 00:09:52.279 Cool. Cool, But I'm just saying, if you don't wife her, 143 00:09:54.639 --> 00:09:58.639 like, what's the point even giving her that type of access. And 144 00:09:58.679 --> 00:10:01.320 then another another point that I want to say is no shade the summer. 145 00:10:01.360 --> 00:10:05.720 Do you think girl and Jerry relationship meech about to catch your unnecessary strength? 146 00:10:05.759 --> 00:10:09.440 So I apologize. If you fucking want a woman like Selena Powe, why 147 00:10:09.440 --> 00:10:13.480 would I want to fuck with you? Like you're now damaging your level of 148 00:10:13.480 --> 00:10:20.600 stock out here, Like you're now making yourself seem less desirable because I don't 149 00:10:20.639 --> 00:10:22.200 want to. Oh my god, you fuck with that nigga? Who fuck 150 00:10:22.240 --> 00:10:26.559 with Selena Powe? Ill? Now my friends talking about man in a group 151 00:10:26.639 --> 00:10:31.080 chat? Now? Now now now, now it's back on me. How 152 00:10:31.080 --> 00:10:35.840 did this happen? Like the same way that men don't want to mess with 153 00:10:37.120 --> 00:10:41.600 certain women, women don't want to mess with men who deal with certain women. 154 00:10:41.919 --> 00:10:45.919 So it's like I don't really understand it. I don't really answer something 155 00:10:45.960 --> 00:10:48.480 to think about. You know, I may not get my answers today, 156 00:10:48.879 --> 00:10:50.440 but I just want you all to think about that. And men, I 157 00:10:50.480 --> 00:10:56.840 want you to really sit down and think to yourselves. Make it make sense, 158 00:10:58.360 --> 00:11:00.919 Make it make sense? Is it on only okay for a woman to 159 00:11:00.919 --> 00:11:03.120 be ran through if she's ran through celebrities or athletes? Because it's the only 160 00:11:03.200 --> 00:11:07.440 time when when it seems like it's school for y'all full throttle. UYR says, 161 00:11:07.519 --> 00:11:11.279 you don't care if he smashed Helena Pale as long as he has a 162 00:11:11.279 --> 00:11:16.240 bag. Who don't, who don't, oh, and respect Selena. I 163 00:11:16.279 --> 00:11:20.159 just want to keep editing in respect Selena, respect, get your coin and 164 00:11:20.159 --> 00:11:22.600 sense, get your coin. That's just not the type of shit that I 165 00:11:22.639 --> 00:11:26.639 want to any saying the school for you, school for you, the school 166 00:11:26.679 --> 00:11:31.080 for the niggas that be sucking you. But for me, I don't want 167 00:11:31.120 --> 00:11:33.559 that. I don't want that. I want that, I don't want that 168 00:11:33.600 --> 00:11:39.200 at all. Another thing I don't want y'all. Like I said just the 169 00:11:39.200 --> 00:11:43.000 episode where I'm just gonna try to figure some shit out because should ain't make 170 00:11:43.000 --> 00:11:46.679 an sense to me. It's nothing wrong with being Polly, but I'm trying 171 00:11:46.679 --> 00:11:52.960 to figure out why Polly people don't want to be what people who are actually 172 00:11:54.000 --> 00:11:56.879 Polly. And I'm gonna say that again. I'm gonna say that again. 173 00:11:56.960 --> 00:12:01.360 I'm gonna say that again. It's nothing wrong with being Polly. I'm just 174 00:12:01.399 --> 00:12:05.960 trying to figure out why people who are Polly don't want to be with people 175 00:12:05.960 --> 00:12:09.639 who are Polly. And the reason I say this is because there are exposed 176 00:12:11.000 --> 00:12:15.639 There are clubs, there are lifestyle events, there are all these things where 177 00:12:15.679 --> 00:12:20.519 you can meet people who have your same interests. Yet and still a majority 178 00:12:20.559 --> 00:12:24.679 of y'all take pleasure in going out to find women who want to be monogamous. 179 00:12:24.120 --> 00:12:28.039 A majority of you will go out and find a man who's only centered 180 00:12:28.080 --> 00:12:31.840 on you, But then you're gonna hit them with some fly shit like why 181 00:12:31.879 --> 00:12:33.960 I was just thinking, maybe we can bring somebody else? No, no, 182 00:12:35.600 --> 00:12:39.000 go on. What of these events and find that make it make sense 183 00:12:39.080 --> 00:12:43.279 to me? Why don't people who are Polly want to be with people who 184 00:12:43.320 --> 00:12:46.360 are Polly? Okay? And the reason I say this is because you'll get 185 00:12:46.399 --> 00:12:50.480 with people who have no interest in that lifestyle. And I don't want to 186 00:12:50.519 --> 00:12:56.320 hear that, Oh you never know until you try. Oh you might not 187 00:12:56.600 --> 00:13:01.159 know until you're exposed to its. Babe. I know, baby, I 188 00:13:01.320 --> 00:13:05.639 know that I want one man. I don't need you to try to convince 189 00:13:05.679 --> 00:13:09.600 me why I should have three men or why I should let you have three 190 00:13:09.600 --> 00:13:13.720 bitches that senior hand. I don't want it. I don't want it. 191 00:13:13.159 --> 00:13:18.279 Why don't people who are Polly want people who are Polly so Q just chilling 192 00:13:18.360 --> 00:13:24.240 div you says they see it as more of a challenge and more attractive that 193 00:13:24.879 --> 00:13:30.000 Dan, I'm gonna say, like actually agreeing with that. Yeah, especially 194 00:13:31.080 --> 00:13:35.679 relating it to you know, talking to gay friends and who, like, 195 00:13:35.720 --> 00:13:37.519 you know, they see a hot straight person, they're like, oh, 196 00:13:37.559 --> 00:13:41.879 I'm going to turn them. Yes, It's like, yes, okay, 197 00:13:41.639 --> 00:13:46.759 Why why are you purposely going for the highest fucking tree. Now I'm not 198 00:13:46.840 --> 00:13:50.399 saying you gotta go for a low hanging fruit, but why are you purposely 199 00:13:50.399 --> 00:13:54.080 going for things that are out of your reach? Like? Make that make 200 00:13:54.159 --> 00:13:56.399 sense to me. Joanisha says, they're not really Polly, just following a 201 00:13:56.440 --> 00:14:03.000 wave. They are definitely a portion of people who are like that, right, 202 00:14:03.360 --> 00:14:07.720 And that's the crazy part. I think that mostly applies to women. 203 00:14:07.240 --> 00:14:11.080 I'm gonna take that back. I originally said I think it mostly applies to 204 00:14:11.080 --> 00:14:13.080 women because a lot of times they'll be like, oh, yeah, I'm 205 00:14:13.080 --> 00:14:16.000 Polly, I'm down, when really they're just trying to make their man happy. 206 00:14:16.600 --> 00:14:22.279 But I think there's also a large, large, large quantity of men 207 00:14:22.679 --> 00:14:26.000 who aren't really Polly. They just want to have sex with multiple people. 208 00:14:26.320 --> 00:14:28.960 You're not really, Polly, you're a swinger. You're not interested in building 209 00:14:28.960 --> 00:14:33.600 a family, building generational wealth, using these incomes to push your family forward. 210 00:14:33.840 --> 00:14:37.759 That's not what you went too. You're not interested in having all your 211 00:14:37.799 --> 00:14:41.279 kids and win household and raising them up. That's not what you're into. 212 00:14:41.480 --> 00:14:45.919 You're just interested in having sex with multiple people. That's not really what we're 213 00:14:45.919 --> 00:14:48.919 talking about. A good brother, that's not it. It's more than that. 214 00:14:48.440 --> 00:14:52.200 It's more than that. Like I think you all are aware of, 215 00:14:52.600 --> 00:14:56.360 there is a lot of men out there who say they are Polly, but 216 00:14:56.399 --> 00:15:01.279 they really just want to have sex with multiple people. Not interested in having 217 00:15:01.320 --> 00:15:07.000 all their wives under one household, or having enough income to make sure every 218 00:15:07.080 --> 00:15:11.519 household is taken care of, having enough income to make sure every wife is 219 00:15:11.519 --> 00:15:16.080 taken care of. That's not what they into. They just want to have 220 00:15:16.120 --> 00:15:20.279 sex with multiple people. And that's cool. But that's not it, it's 221 00:15:20.320 --> 00:15:22.120 not it at all. And then same things go for women, like there 222 00:15:22.120 --> 00:15:26.279 are women who just want to have their cake and eat it too. Sis, 223 00:15:26.279 --> 00:15:28.720 it's not that. That's not what this is. That's not what this 224 00:15:28.879 --> 00:15:33.600 is. It's just that. But all the circles back around too. Why 225 00:15:33.679 --> 00:15:37.720 you can't find people who want to do that shit. Huh wait, wait, 226 00:15:37.720 --> 00:15:39.039 why do you keep trying to turn everybody? Why do you try to 227 00:15:39.039 --> 00:15:43.759 be a vampire and turn the whole city? Relax, Relax, Okay, 228 00:15:45.039 --> 00:15:48.639 that that that's not a part of our ministry. The Lord damn't bless us 229 00:15:48.679 --> 00:15:52.240 with that vision. The Lord damn bless us with that vision. The Lord 230 00:15:52.320 --> 00:15:56.240 damn bless us with that vision. Why you keep trying to give it to 231 00:15:56.320 --> 00:15:58.840 us? Won't want that? No way with the recipes. Your mom shouldn 232 00:15:58.879 --> 00:16:07.279 say out a bitch y'all. Listen. Like I said, this is the 233 00:16:07.320 --> 00:16:11.720 episode of questions that I can't get answers to and I still ain't got it. 234 00:16:11.080 --> 00:16:15.559 Hold on, let me tap into the live When it comes down to 235 00:16:15.840 --> 00:16:18.120 it, they shouldn't be in a relationship marriage, They should just be single. 236 00:16:18.399 --> 00:16:22.120 Hate Our Love says. Women will be more strict on sharing their finances 237 00:16:22.120 --> 00:16:32.639 than sharing a man's badness. Full Throttle yr says a man won't accept a 238 00:16:32.679 --> 00:16:36.240 woman that's the wife he being with another man. Hell now speak for yourself, 239 00:16:36.240 --> 00:16:38.720 brother, it's a whole colony of people who feel that way. Dark 240 00:16:38.759 --> 00:16:45.480 Man Underscores seventeen says they want to have control Q just chilling dot view says 241 00:16:45.639 --> 00:16:48.840 it's weird to me, but that's my opinion. When they are Polly, 242 00:16:48.960 --> 00:16:51.960 I feel like they want to be greedy. Well, that's a whole different 243 00:16:51.960 --> 00:16:55.840 conversation. I just feel like, you know, I don't don't. I 244 00:16:55.840 --> 00:16:57.440 don't want to go off on a tangent and get away from my point. 245 00:16:59.159 --> 00:17:02.799 I do want to get back down and say a lot of times I see 246 00:17:02.840 --> 00:17:06.599 that men who are Polly don't want women who are probably. They want to 247 00:17:06.599 --> 00:17:11.200 find a woman that's interested in monogamy and change her mind, turn her out. 248 00:17:11.759 --> 00:17:14.359 Why don't people who are probably want to be with people who are Polly? 249 00:17:14.640 --> 00:17:15.839 That's all, that's all. And women, I said, men, 250 00:17:15.920 --> 00:17:19.119 but I'm talking about you too. Women, I said, men, but 251 00:17:19.160 --> 00:17:22.319 I'm talking about you too. Y'all be on that ship too, okay. 252 00:17:23.440 --> 00:17:29.480 Answers that I might not get the questions from Monee underscore, She underscore Joett, 253 00:17:30.240 --> 00:17:33.079 Hey girl, Hey Monee, I hope you're paying attention to this because 254 00:17:33.240 --> 00:17:36.799 these New York dates gonna be dropping soon and I want to see you there. 255 00:17:36.880 --> 00:17:42.240 So what's that? What's that? Uh? Yeah, that's it. 256 00:17:42.319 --> 00:17:48.200 And that's all. Um. Next right, and y'all don't judge me when 257 00:17:48.240 --> 00:17:52.480 we talk about this next thing. Please don't judge me. Don't judge. 258 00:17:52.720 --> 00:17:57.200 Just just listen with your your your mind open, okay, listen with your 259 00:17:57.200 --> 00:18:00.160 heart open, okay, Because I have a question and I wanted to know 260 00:18:00.160 --> 00:18:03.759 if this ever happened to y'all, because it happened to me, and I 261 00:18:03.920 --> 00:18:06.720 want to know if it's ever happened to y'all. Right, So, like 262 00:18:07.079 --> 00:18:11.720 you ever had sex so good that you just immediately think who hurts you? 263 00:18:17.079 --> 00:18:23.799 Don't ask it again? Y'all ever had sex so good that you just stop 264 00:18:23.839 --> 00:18:29.039 and think who hurts you? Like it's not making sense to me, Like 265 00:18:29.400 --> 00:18:34.200 certain levels of demon time can only be obtained by trauma, all right, 266 00:18:34.279 --> 00:18:40.119 and it's not funny. I'm laughing, but it's not funny. Okay, 267 00:18:40.640 --> 00:18:48.400 certain levels of demon time can only be obtained by trauma. And hate this 268 00:18:48.960 --> 00:18:51.839 like you you you ever really had to sit back like, oh shit, 269 00:18:52.640 --> 00:18:56.640 somebody touched him as kid? Like I know, it's no way, it's 270 00:18:56.759 --> 00:19:02.559 no way you sucking my toe like this while you and missionary, if you 271 00:19:02.599 --> 00:19:06.640 had a peaceful life, it's no way. It's no way, it's no 272 00:19:06.920 --> 00:19:11.599 way. There is no way, there's no way. Okay, there's no 273 00:19:11.640 --> 00:19:15.759 way. I'm the only person who'd be thinking about that. That's just me. 274 00:19:15.319 --> 00:19:18.640 It's just me. It's cool, But I just want to know, 275 00:19:18.720 --> 00:19:22.680 like, is that just me? I feel like that might have been holding 276 00:19:22.279 --> 00:19:27.519 that in for a good while. Someone said, or lust. I don't 277 00:19:27.559 --> 00:19:33.000 know, y'all. Gambling care Bear says, as long as it ain't about 278 00:19:33.039 --> 00:19:40.400 Lamborghini doers, no Lamberger drors needed, Okay, gambling gambling care Bear underscore 279 00:19:40.440 --> 00:19:44.039 says, not gonna lie. Yeah, but I'm gonna be singing Miss bydu 280 00:19:44.160 --> 00:19:47.640 on the way out the door and having them weird crocheted shirts. Y'all. 281 00:19:47.720 --> 00:19:51.200 Y'all know exactly what I'm talking about. Like you ever dealt with somebody, 282 00:19:51.319 --> 00:19:53.160 it was just a certain level of filth. It was like, Yo, 283 00:19:53.359 --> 00:19:59.079 it's no way you had a peaceful life and you have sex like this respectfully, 284 00:20:00.039 --> 00:20:03.559 respectfully, like respectfully. And that don't mean I'm not gonna do it 285 00:20:03.599 --> 00:20:07.039 again. Okay, I want to reiterate that don't mean I'm not gonna do 286 00:20:07.119 --> 00:20:11.079 it again. I'm just saying I know that if we are to like prosper 287 00:20:11.079 --> 00:20:15.720 in our relationship, we're gonna have to go talk to the lady because someone 288 00:20:15.839 --> 00:20:22.079 hasn't been discussed, um hay, and our love says for hubby, it's 289 00:20:22.079 --> 00:20:26.759 a stress reliever. So I get all of it. Hey men, hey 290 00:20:26.039 --> 00:20:29.640 men, See instead of talking to the lady, he give it to her. 291 00:20:29.839 --> 00:20:33.559 This is what I'm saying. Like certain things, it's just be like, 292 00:20:33.599 --> 00:20:37.480 oh God, damn it. And then and then like sometimes right if 293 00:20:37.519 --> 00:20:41.480 I don't go straight to that, it then jumps to give me fucking everybody 294 00:20:41.519 --> 00:20:45.720 like this. Oh man, damn, maybe I do want a boyfriend, 295 00:20:48.079 --> 00:20:52.079 you know what, maybe we can't get married, Like I was thinking, 296 00:20:52.200 --> 00:20:55.440 like maybe I didn't like think it all the way through yet, but I'm 297 00:20:55.440 --> 00:21:00.599 like, damn, like maybe we could have been a relationship. Now that's 298 00:21:00.640 --> 00:21:03.920 just me. That's just me. No, I got fine, it was 299 00:21:03.960 --> 00:21:07.880 just me. Whatever. I'm just saying, Yo, that would be crazy. 300 00:21:07.880 --> 00:21:10.440 As soon as y'all finished, you just gotta sit there after that post 301 00:21:10.480 --> 00:21:15.880 nut clarity and be like you good, yes, yes, And then after 302 00:21:15.920 --> 00:21:19.960 it's done, if I don't have those thoughts, I immediately immediately that post 303 00:21:21.079 --> 00:21:25.119 nut clarity kicked in, like, well, now I don't know who's filthy 304 00:21:25.200 --> 00:21:27.279 or me or him, because technically I'm up with all that shit. I 305 00:21:27.319 --> 00:21:32.519 don't know. I don't know. And then like days later, you just 306 00:21:32.599 --> 00:21:37.759 be doing random shit in flashbacks Papa being your head, You're like you damn, 307 00:21:40.039 --> 00:21:42.960 Like those were the worst too. Those all are like conjoined with each 308 00:21:44.000 --> 00:21:47.480 other. Like if I don't think like automatically, who hurts you? If 309 00:21:47.519 --> 00:21:48.160 I don't think like, damn, maybe we do need to be in a 310 00:21:48.200 --> 00:21:52.640 relationship. My thought that I'm going to have one thousand percent. Two days 311 00:21:52.680 --> 00:21:56.920 later, when I'm putting away fucking dishes, I'm like, shit, that 312 00:21:57.079 --> 00:22:02.839 nigga really had me kissing my kneecap. That's crazy, that's crazy, that's 313 00:22:02.880 --> 00:22:06.599 crazy. Like wow, he really had me out here folded like an Auntie 314 00:22:06.640 --> 00:22:11.640 Enn's pretzel. That's crazy. Wow, Damn I really let him spit in 315 00:22:11.680 --> 00:22:15.680 my mouth. Damn, that's crazy. Oh and then I keep going on 316 00:22:15.839 --> 00:22:19.279 mother, but it's like, yo, you really have that, And like 317 00:22:19.319 --> 00:22:22.519 if it's real good, like a real, real, real good flashback, 318 00:22:22.720 --> 00:22:26.359 and ladies know what I'm talking about. If it's a real, real, 319 00:22:26.440 --> 00:22:30.039 real good flashback, your pussy thump a little bit, it makes the butterfly. 320 00:22:30.200 --> 00:22:34.480 It's just a it like flutters, it's a little heartbeat, Like Okay, 321 00:22:34.720 --> 00:22:40.559 yes, every lady, every lady, Every lady knows exactly what I'm 322 00:22:40.599 --> 00:22:45.519 talking about. If it's real, real good. Immediately you get that flutter 323 00:22:45.559 --> 00:22:53.240 in your coach like people them flashbacks, baby, them flashbacks, them flashbacks. 324 00:22:53.279 --> 00:23:03.640 Baby. Yeah, that's it, that's it. There's nothing else of 325 00:23:03.759 --> 00:23:07.359 that. Um Anna Underscore Grade eighty six says Yo. I thought it was 326 00:23:07.400 --> 00:23:11.880 only me, baby. It's not just you. It's not just you. 327 00:23:11.160 --> 00:23:15.960 We're all in this together. Okay, we're all in this together. Uptown, 328 00:23:15.000 --> 00:23:18.599 as eleven says, you'd be thinking, are they really into me? 329 00:23:18.880 --> 00:23:22.839 Or you just nasty with everybody? Yes? Yes, And now your life 330 00:23:22.839 --> 00:23:27.480 goes on a fucking pondering journey like damn, what if they really is out 331 00:23:27.519 --> 00:23:32.240 here just putting their probably big tony mouth and then I let them spit in 332 00:23:32.279 --> 00:23:36.119 my mouth. Oh my god. Now we're spiraling. Now we're spiralaling. 333 00:23:36.640 --> 00:23:42.200 Yes, absolutely, not the rematch, exactly, the rematch, not plead 334 00:23:42.240 --> 00:23:45.079 the fifth. Y'all know what I'm talking about. Y'all do what I'm talking 335 00:23:45.079 --> 00:23:48.480 about. And I can tell by the way y'all laughing in this live y'all 336 00:23:48.480 --> 00:23:51.079 know what I'm talking about. Okay, it's a safe space. I've said 337 00:23:51.119 --> 00:23:52.759 this before, I'll say it again. It's a safe space, and I 338 00:23:52.880 --> 00:23:59.119 know y'll be having them flashbacks one more time. It's a safe space, 339 00:24:00.000 --> 00:24:02.960 and I know y'all be having them flashbacks. I know, y'all. Y'all 340 00:24:03.039 --> 00:24:04.440 gotta tell me. I know, I know, I know what I know. 341 00:24:04.640 --> 00:24:15.880 All right, Um, what's that being said? I know that sometimes 342 00:24:15.920 --> 00:24:18.680 we had those conversations, so you know, your mind gets the best of 343 00:24:18.759 --> 00:24:23.400 you and you start pondering, you start wondering. I just want y'all to 344 00:24:23.440 --> 00:24:30.119 know. I don't care how many times my feelings get hurt. I don't 345 00:24:30.119 --> 00:24:33.519 care how many fun boys I run into. I don't care how many times 346 00:24:33.559 --> 00:24:37.640 people have showed me that they ain't shit. I'm still going to be a 347 00:24:37.680 --> 00:24:41.759 hopeless romantic, okay, And I'm still going to get my happily ever after. 348 00:24:42.200 --> 00:24:45.559 And I'm still going to believe that me and Prince Charming are going to 349 00:24:45.559 --> 00:24:51.160 write off into the sunset. And I say that because I see a lot 350 00:24:51.160 --> 00:24:55.599 of times on social media, especially, people be saying things like, oh, 351 00:24:55.680 --> 00:24:57.920 I got one more relationship in me before I marry an immigrant for ten 352 00:24:57.960 --> 00:25:04.599 bands. Cool? Cool, But that ain't me. That ain't my story. 353 00:25:04.839 --> 00:25:10.759 Like, I don't care how many times men show you that they ain't 354 00:25:10.759 --> 00:25:15.279 shit. I don't care how many times women may use you for your finances 355 00:25:15.319 --> 00:25:18.519 or things that you may have going for yourselves. We can't stop believing it 356 00:25:18.559 --> 00:25:25.960 happily after and I realized that because all jokes aside, you can't control how 357 00:25:26.000 --> 00:25:30.200 people were raised. You can't control what people will win through that turned them 358 00:25:30.240 --> 00:25:33.799 into the savages that they are. Okay, all you can do is focus 359 00:25:33.880 --> 00:25:38.440 on realizing red flags and understand that your person is out there. Everybody that 360 00:25:38.480 --> 00:25:44.400 you run into isn't going to end up being your spouse. They're not everybody 361 00:25:44.440 --> 00:25:48.000 that you run into isn't going to beat your spouse. They're not going to 362 00:25:48.039 --> 00:25:51.119 be your husband. They're not going to be your wife. Everything isn't going 363 00:25:51.200 --> 00:25:53.960 to work out. The only thing that you can do is focused on my 364 00:25:55.000 --> 00:25:57.759 person is out there. Like, and if you honestly believe that you're a 365 00:25:57.799 --> 00:26:02.599 good person, if you honestly believe that your unicorn, if you honestly believe 366 00:26:02.640 --> 00:26:06.759 that you are the catch, right, you think your person going be easy 367 00:26:06.799 --> 00:26:10.440 to find? If you're so special, when you're so unique, why would 368 00:26:10.440 --> 00:26:14.640 your person be so easy to run into? You like that it's gonna be 369 00:26:14.680 --> 00:26:17.319 hard for them to find you, just like it's hard for you to find 370 00:26:17.359 --> 00:26:21.440 them. If y'all are equally yoked and y'all both bring that to the table, 371 00:26:21.799 --> 00:26:23.160 you have to keep that in your spirit, Like, Yo, I 372 00:26:23.359 --> 00:26:29.000 know that I am specialist fuck and somebody specialist fuck like me ain't gonna coming 373 00:26:29.279 --> 00:26:33.440 into your grace, ain't gonna run past you every day, Like this is 374 00:26:33.480 --> 00:26:37.799 a moment. So I can't be mad if it's taking me a long time 375 00:26:37.839 --> 00:26:41.880 to find my moment, because baby, I'm a fucking moment. Baby, 376 00:26:41.880 --> 00:26:45.880 I'm a fucking moment. Baby, I'm a fucking moment. So like I 377 00:26:47.000 --> 00:26:49.400 really get sometimes I get like down when I see y'all post and stuff like 378 00:26:49.400 --> 00:26:52.559 that, because I'm like, wow, that's crazy. You shouldn't feel that 379 00:26:52.640 --> 00:26:59.079 way, like your person is out there, like and I know that it's 380 00:26:59.119 --> 00:27:03.240 hard to digest, but like, yo, you're gonna have to kiss quite 381 00:27:03.240 --> 00:27:06.640 a few frogs before you meet your prince. Like that's just what it is. 382 00:27:06.680 --> 00:27:10.279 That's the reality of it all. Okay, But yeah, he coming. 383 00:27:10.359 --> 00:27:11.200 I want you all to know he's coming, and I want to speak 384 00:27:11.200 --> 00:27:15.480 that into everybody. I want you to know that they are coming. Whether 385 00:27:15.519 --> 00:27:17.720 it be your prince, whether it be your princess, whether it be your 386 00:27:17.799 --> 00:27:19.240 king, whether it be your queen, they are coming. And I don't 387 00:27:19.240 --> 00:27:22.079 want that for you. And I also want an invitation to the wedding. 388 00:27:22.319 --> 00:27:29.920 I mean, goddamn, like the fuck the fuck Golie hold on the recent 389 00:27:29.920 --> 00:27:37.759 stuff from Alive so Taborism ninety one says, I feel to give up on 390 00:27:37.880 --> 00:27:40.880 happily ever after, it is to give up on yourself, and that you 391 00:27:40.960 --> 00:27:44.279 deserve the love you want and need. Yes, you can't give up on 392 00:27:44.319 --> 00:27:48.200 that ship like it's out here. It's happening, the Lex Studio said, 393 00:27:48.240 --> 00:27:49.759 And you can run into a good person that just isn't right for you. 394 00:27:49.799 --> 00:27:56.759 Compatibility matters. That's true too. And I really that part right there, 395 00:27:56.839 --> 00:27:59.319 hold on, hold on, hold on, give me a second, let 396 00:27:59.319 --> 00:28:03.200 me get to it, that part right there, right And I honestly believe 397 00:28:03.839 --> 00:28:07.319 that my child's father is a great man and he gonna make somebody very happy, 398 00:28:07.440 --> 00:28:11.519 but it's not gonna be me. I honestly believe my ex is a 399 00:28:11.559 --> 00:28:14.160 great man and he gonna make somebody happy, but it's not gonna be me. 400 00:28:14.519 --> 00:28:18.160 Like I genuinely believe that I have run into good men, they just 401 00:28:18.160 --> 00:28:22.079 weren't compatible for me, Like they're just not meant to be my men, 402 00:28:22.319 --> 00:28:25.759 Like and that's fine. I wish them the best. I hope everyone finds 403 00:28:25.799 --> 00:28:27.440 what they need, but I just don't think they're for me. And I 404 00:28:27.480 --> 00:28:32.160 think that a lot of times when people break up, it's just the sense 405 00:28:32.200 --> 00:28:34.000 of, oh, we have to be if we have to fight, I'm 406 00:28:34.039 --> 00:28:37.599 gonna problem with none of you'll, like, I really wish you all the 407 00:28:37.599 --> 00:28:41.240 best, Like in all actuality, we're just not compatible. Like you trying 408 00:28:41.240 --> 00:28:44.839 to put a flathead screwdriver into a Phillips hole, Like that's not gonna work. 409 00:28:45.079 --> 00:28:48.119 It's not gonna work. And there's nothing wrong with being mature enough to 410 00:28:48.119 --> 00:28:49.960 say it's not gonna work. It's fine, Like you're still gonna screw the 411 00:28:51.000 --> 00:28:53.559 funk out of somebody. It's just not gonna be me. That's it. 412 00:28:53.839 --> 00:28:57.799 That's it, that's all. You can't shut off love. People gotta grow 413 00:28:57.920 --> 00:29:03.720 up one percent, one thousand percent, one thousand percent. And these people 414 00:29:03.680 --> 00:29:06.200 who'll be out here really beefing what they exits, I'd be like, what's 415 00:29:06.200 --> 00:29:08.079 wrong with you? Like you don't still love that person, Like when you 416 00:29:08.160 --> 00:29:12.039 be flattening and tires, knocking out windows, sending people to beat them up, 417 00:29:12.079 --> 00:29:15.559 Like you don't still love that person, Like you don't still genuinely care 418 00:29:15.599 --> 00:29:18.799 about that person. That's crazy to me. I don't get that. I 419 00:29:18.799 --> 00:29:22.519 don't get that at all. I thought I was the only one that thought 420 00:29:22.519 --> 00:29:25.839 there was someone that loves Mario Kart, anime and sex as much as I 421 00:29:25.880 --> 00:29:29.960 do. Did you see my real movie slide in my DM so we could 422 00:29:29.960 --> 00:29:33.160 talk about it? I saw it? He did, Yeah, do you 423 00:29:33.279 --> 00:29:36.200 like it? I actually really liked that. I was surprised. I'm not 424 00:29:36.640 --> 00:29:41.000 why. And I really love like kid movies that have like grown up humor. 425 00:29:41.279 --> 00:29:44.559 Yes, so like we all having a good time. There was there's 426 00:29:44.559 --> 00:29:48.359 a fair amount of there. Yo. When he was singing, bro, 427 00:29:48.759 --> 00:29:52.039 I want that to bring my ring tone, I'm bringing ring tones bad and 428 00:29:52.119 --> 00:29:59.440 that's something my ring tone boom boom boom boom um. Thank you Terrorism ninety 429 00:29:59.480 --> 00:30:03.640 one the first badge. I thank you and I received that. Hey, 430 00:30:03.640 --> 00:30:07.039 Bruce Thompson, it's me here I go. People think that the end of 431 00:30:07.119 --> 00:30:11.400 relationships always is a negative thing. It's not. It's a lesson in its 432 00:30:11.400 --> 00:30:17.519 growth. Yes, the Lex Studios it absolutely is one thousand percent in the 433 00:30:17.920 --> 00:30:22.640 La B Sports says I gotta see it. Joel's dad says it was amazing, 434 00:30:22.880 --> 00:30:26.440 it was The Lex Studio says that song was funny. It's fun it 435 00:30:26.720 --> 00:30:27.640 is, y'all, And I just want to say it right now, if 436 00:30:27.640 --> 00:30:30.880 you happen to see me out in public, as somebody calls my phone and 437 00:30:30.960 --> 00:30:36.559 all you hear is pe be, just don't you judge me. Don't you 438 00:30:36.640 --> 00:30:38.160 judge me because that was a good song. It was a great song. 439 00:30:38.400 --> 00:30:47.720 Thank you. Um. Now, this last thing I'm gonna say. I 440 00:30:47.759 --> 00:30:52.240 know it's gonna get some of y'all painties in a bunch, right, and 441 00:30:52.279 --> 00:30:53.720 I want to say it's okay. This is a safe space. This is 442 00:30:53.720 --> 00:30:56.119 where we talk, This is where we share our thoughts. And I know 443 00:30:56.200 --> 00:30:59.039 some of y'all ain't going to like, but I'm about to say, right, 444 00:31:00.720 --> 00:31:04.200 just because you have a penis doesn't mean you were meant to lead. 445 00:31:06.319 --> 00:31:12.599 Oh yeah yeah. And I'm gonna say this again, just because you have 446 00:31:12.680 --> 00:31:18.200 a penis doesn't mean you were meant to lead. Right then, I say 447 00:31:18.240 --> 00:31:22.279 this to this whole community of men that think that because I'm a man, 448 00:31:22.680 --> 00:31:26.160 she should let me lead, and y'all are so aggressive giving me all this 449 00:31:26.240 --> 00:31:30.480 pushback. That's why you're never gonna find somebody and blah blah blah blah blah 450 00:31:30.480 --> 00:31:33.200 blah. Now said in the beginning of the show, this is the episode 451 00:31:33.240 --> 00:31:37.960 about stuff that doesn't make sense to me. Right, So when you say 452 00:31:37.000 --> 00:31:41.400 to me, just because I'm a man, I should lead, right. 453 00:31:41.960 --> 00:31:47.200 But here's the thing. There are men in your circle. There are men 454 00:31:47.319 --> 00:31:52.200 in your family that you wouldn't let lead. Hold on, hold on, 455 00:31:52.880 --> 00:31:56.240 hold on. Hear me out, hear me out. There are men in 456 00:31:56.400 --> 00:32:01.680 your circle that you would not let lead. There are cousins in your family, 457 00:32:02.079 --> 00:32:07.400 uncles, nephews that you wouldn't let lead. But I don't closing, 458 00:32:07.680 --> 00:32:08.960 but fucking me, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. 459 00:32:09.759 --> 00:32:14.440 There are men that you will not let borrow money because you know they 460 00:32:14.519 --> 00:32:16.720 won't give it back. There are men that you wouldn't give money to because 461 00:32:16.759 --> 00:32:20.440 you know they're not responsible enough to do what they gotta do to have the 462 00:32:20.440 --> 00:32:22.079 funds to give it back. And I'm not gonna say this is just a 463 00:32:22.119 --> 00:32:27.920 man thing, because since ladies you yeah, ladies, this ain't for y'all. 464 00:32:28.200 --> 00:32:30.119 Don't don't hop on a bandwagon, thinking, oh, we bash your 465 00:32:30.240 --> 00:32:35.400 nuggas. Noah, hold on, okay, because there are women in your 466 00:32:35.440 --> 00:32:38.759 circle and in your family that you wouldn't let watch your kids. There are 467 00:32:38.839 --> 00:32:45.119 women in your circle in your family that you wouldn't let them use you as 468 00:32:45.160 --> 00:32:51.200 a reference at your job. Why because you know they're unreliable, right right, 469 00:32:51.839 --> 00:32:55.680 right, So when we have these conversations of oh, woa, men 470 00:32:55.720 --> 00:33:00.799 are natural born leaders, or oh well, you know women for equal rights, 471 00:33:00.799 --> 00:33:02.000 they should be leaders too, I don't want to hear that. I 472 00:33:02.000 --> 00:33:07.720 don't want to hear any of it. A leader going lead regardless of their 473 00:33:07.720 --> 00:33:12.039 sexual orientation, regardless of what body parts they were born with, regardless of 474 00:33:12.079 --> 00:33:15.160 what body parts they were born with. So I hate when we had these 475 00:33:15.160 --> 00:33:17.680 conversations of because I'm a man, I should lead. Oh well, I'm 476 00:33:17.680 --> 00:33:21.200 a woman and I think things out and I know how things should be, 477 00:33:21.240 --> 00:33:22.880 so I should not. I don't want to hear that. I don't want 478 00:33:22.880 --> 00:33:25.279 to hear that. I don't want to hear that. I don't want to 479 00:33:25.319 --> 00:33:29.000 hear that, right, And the reason I don't want to hear that is 480 00:33:29.039 --> 00:33:31.480 because there are many in your circle, and there are women in your circle 481 00:33:31.680 --> 00:33:36.519 that you would not trust to lead. So let's stop that. Let's stop 482 00:33:36.559 --> 00:33:37.720 saying that. I don't want to say that. No more, y'all, 483 00:33:37.720 --> 00:33:43.079 I don't want to do that no more. Okay, this is a non 484 00:33:43.240 --> 00:33:46.680 gender led space. Okay, we lay leaders lead over here, a big 485 00:33:46.720 --> 00:33:52.359 dog. Okay, we lay leaders lead over here, big dog, regardless 486 00:33:52.359 --> 00:33:54.440 of a body parts she was born with. Okay, let's just keep it 487 00:33:54.480 --> 00:34:00.200 at that. Hate our love says, Each partner has their own avenue where 488 00:34:00.240 --> 00:34:04.200 they lead. I have certain strengths over hubby and same for him with me 489 00:34:04.480 --> 00:34:07.039 where both alpha. But I respect him no matter what area as my man 490 00:34:07.079 --> 00:34:10.639 and as my husband. And that is why they are gonna thrive. That 491 00:34:10.800 --> 00:34:15.320 is exactly why they are gonna thrive. Okay, because once you have that 492 00:34:15.440 --> 00:34:20.880 mindset, baby, Scott's the limit. Scott is the limit. There is 493 00:34:20.920 --> 00:34:24.360 no coming down from that. A Q just killing view says, I know 494 00:34:24.480 --> 00:34:29.639 in my group chat, everybody legit has their own roles that they lead in 495 00:34:29.880 --> 00:34:32.239 right now. I don't want to be that guy, but I'm gonna be 496 00:34:32.280 --> 00:34:35.920 that guy real quick. Not to you, though, because it wasn't you 497 00:34:35.960 --> 00:34:39.360 who said it. This man just said in my group chat, everyone has 498 00:34:39.360 --> 00:34:43.239 the roles and they know what roles to play that they can lead in. 499 00:34:43.760 --> 00:34:49.159 But when I say everybody can't be Jordan and you have to know your role, 500 00:34:49.719 --> 00:34:54.719 now I'm getting attacked on al Gore's Internet. Why why why why why 501 00:34:55.079 --> 00:35:00.000 if at the end of the day, leaders lead, why why? Thank 502 00:35:00.039 --> 00:35:07.079 you? Thank you, thank you, thank you. M after hour six 503 00:35:07.079 --> 00:35:09.039 says, you can use me as a reference where you work at baby, 504 00:35:09.679 --> 00:35:13.079 so so I can let the people know we can use you as a reference. 505 00:35:13.119 --> 00:35:15.159 What's that? Drop the tea side into my dms, drop the tea 506 00:35:17.480 --> 00:35:22.880 que just killing Abe says, And certain occasions you should just shut the fuck 507 00:35:22.960 --> 00:35:25.039 up and follow in certain topics, It's okay to know you are the alpha 508 00:35:25.119 --> 00:35:30.199 in one thousand percent one thousand percent. I honestly wish I can get that 509 00:35:30.239 --> 00:35:36.039 tattooed on my lower back. So niggas understood, Yes, yes and yes, 510 00:35:36.400 --> 00:35:43.360 yes and yes and yes. Um okay? So Dan, ye would 511 00:35:43.360 --> 00:35:47.360 you like to get into edibles? Sure? Okay? So the edible portion 512 00:35:47.400 --> 00:35:53.000 of the show is when we read questions, comments, stories that you guys 513 00:35:53.360 --> 00:35:58.280 send in and every Thursday I always put on all of my social media stories. 514 00:35:58.320 --> 00:36:00.719 Asked me a question. Now, if you have a question and you 515 00:36:00.760 --> 00:36:02.960 can't wait till Thursday, or it's a little lengthy and it doesn't fit in 516 00:36:02.960 --> 00:36:08.280 that little box, you can always email me. We gotta grow up. 517 00:36:09.840 --> 00:36:14.000 If it doesn't fit in a little box, that's what she said, you 518 00:36:14.039 --> 00:36:20.320 can just email me. Inquiries at stormyp dot com, inquiries at stormy pea 519 00:36:20.480 --> 00:36:24.480 dot com. Okay, so the first question, Now, this first question, 520 00:36:24.800 --> 00:36:28.400 it really got to me all, and it got to me so much 521 00:36:28.480 --> 00:36:30.440 that I had to check in and put this on my story to see what 522 00:36:30.480 --> 00:36:36.119 your response was. So the question was, is it long? Excuse me? 523 00:36:36.599 --> 00:36:39.119 Is it bad if I take too long to bust? My girl has 524 00:36:39.119 --> 00:36:42.599 been upset and I don't know why? And I want to ask that one 525 00:36:42.639 --> 00:36:46.000 more time. This listener said, is it bad if I take too long 526 00:36:46.039 --> 00:36:50.519 to bust? My girl has been upset and I don't know why? Y'all, 527 00:36:50.519 --> 00:36:53.199 this was so good. This is so good to me, This is 528 00:36:53.199 --> 00:36:55.639 so good to me, This is so good to me. Now, like 529 00:36:55.719 --> 00:37:01.480 I said, I was, I was so curious to hear what you guys 530 00:37:01.559 --> 00:37:06.960 response was. So I put a pole up and the options were, hell, 531 00:37:07.079 --> 00:37:09.199 yeah or nah, take your time past them. Right. If you 532 00:37:09.239 --> 00:37:13.239 go to church, you understand that reference like when it past to be like, 533 00:37:13.519 --> 00:37:15.000 oh I wish I had more time than the old ladies in the front 534 00:37:15.079 --> 00:37:19.119 rope. They nappis be like take your time pasta and then church goes on 535 00:37:19.280 --> 00:37:23.920 like another hour. But whatever. Okay, so listen, I put up. 536 00:37:24.119 --> 00:37:28.199 Is it a bad thing? Thirty four percent of you said hell, 537 00:37:28.320 --> 00:37:32.320 yeah, and sixty six percent said nah, take your time pasta. Okay, 538 00:37:32.400 --> 00:37:37.679 y'all, listen. Is it a bad thing if a man takes too 539 00:37:37.679 --> 00:37:42.480 long to come? Me personally, right, I just want to start this 540 00:37:42.559 --> 00:37:46.119 with me personally, Me personally, I sent me personally, Okay, me 541 00:37:46.280 --> 00:37:55.360 personally. I don't think if it's a bad thing right necessarily. However, 542 00:37:58.000 --> 00:38:01.519 if we're talking about like a two hour recession and you were just pounding my 543 00:38:01.599 --> 00:38:05.719 back wall for two hours, yes it's a bad thing. Yes, it's 544 00:38:05.760 --> 00:38:08.599 a bad thing. It's only a good thing if you're making her come in 545 00:38:08.599 --> 00:38:14.079 that time span. If you are literally just fucking her walls up for two 546 00:38:14.159 --> 00:38:19.159 hours, just jack rabbing back to back to back, jack rabbit, No, 547 00:38:19.480 --> 00:38:22.360 it is not a good thing. Women don't care about you taking long 548 00:38:22.519 --> 00:38:28.199 to ejaculate if you are making sure she's being pleased in the meantime all right, 549 00:38:28.239 --> 00:38:30.119 And it doesn't always have to be to completion, she doesn't always have 550 00:38:30.159 --> 00:38:35.519 to orgasm. But are you making sure she's enjoying herself all right? Or 551 00:38:35.760 --> 00:38:37.840 are you literally just treating her like a sex doll and just sucking her? 552 00:38:38.199 --> 00:38:44.079 Because that's not enjoyable for us. We don't want that. We don't want 553 00:38:44.079 --> 00:38:47.480 that, we don't want that, right. So I think that when it 554 00:38:47.480 --> 00:38:52.000 comes to is it taking too long for you to bust? Is she having 555 00:38:52.000 --> 00:38:55.840 a problem with it? No, not, as long as you're making sure 556 00:38:55.880 --> 00:38:59.760 she's enjoying herself too. Now. Another thing I want to say is, 557 00:39:00.079 --> 00:39:07.039 sometimes if you allow her to bust too fast and it's taking you too long 558 00:39:07.119 --> 00:39:13.159 to come afterwards, sometimes the time gap gets in our head and sometimes you 559 00:39:13.199 --> 00:39:15.800 get self conscious, like, it's my bussy not good? Is it not 560 00:39:15.920 --> 00:39:21.400 good? Is it dry enough? Is it smelling? Like? Sometimes we 561 00:39:21.519 --> 00:39:22.639 get in our heads and now we're like, oh my god, he's taking 562 00:39:22.679 --> 00:39:28.840 too long come because he's not enjoying himself right. And then sometimes you're post 563 00:39:28.960 --> 00:39:34.119 nut clarity clicks in. Yes, sometimes you're post nut clarity clicks in and 564 00:39:34.159 --> 00:39:37.800 you're like, damn, I'm letting him fuck me like this. I know, 565 00:39:37.840 --> 00:39:39.039 I just seen him texting three other bitches. I don't even know why 566 00:39:39.079 --> 00:39:42.039 I'm here. See, I need to just pick my drawers up off the 567 00:39:42.039 --> 00:39:45.320 floor and get the fuck out. Yeah yeah, yeah, So I think 568 00:39:45.360 --> 00:39:52.400 that when we talk about like, you know, why she's been complaining or 569 00:39:52.440 --> 00:39:53.679 you know, is it a problem, It's just other stuff we need to 570 00:39:53.719 --> 00:39:58.760 factor in, you know. So let me temp into the live. Y'are 571 00:39:58.840 --> 00:40:04.119 so funny, by the way, the Xcel Studio says, after about twenty 572 00:40:04.119 --> 00:40:09.760 five minutes, wrap it up. Fam Jael's dad says, eats popcorn frantically. 573 00:40:12.480 --> 00:40:15.599 Y'all get on my nerves so much, the Xcel Studio says, And 574 00:40:15.719 --> 00:40:22.000 it also depends on the quality of the material. Whom would you like to 575 00:40:22.559 --> 00:40:23.800 vulge a little deeper into that? But what do you mean by that? 576 00:40:24.599 --> 00:40:29.760 White boy underscore Ots says, if someone go too long, her ish might 577 00:40:29.800 --> 00:40:35.800 not be it. I'd be fighting for my life after ten minutes. But 578 00:40:35.920 --> 00:40:37.400 this is what I'm saying, And this is what we start thinking in our 579 00:40:37.400 --> 00:40:40.719 head, like it's been ten minutes. Why he's selling that yet it's the 580 00:40:40.800 --> 00:40:44.960 pussy not good. Now we're thinking about how much water we drink during the 581 00:40:45.039 --> 00:40:47.320 day. How much fruit did we have? Should we have had an extra 582 00:40:47.360 --> 00:40:51.519 pineapple slice? Now we're in our heads, so that's not just y'all like 583 00:40:51.559 --> 00:40:52.719 it'll make us get in our head too, you know what I mean? 584 00:40:54.159 --> 00:40:58.960 Q just killing that Voo says I've been told that a quickie can just do 585 00:40:59.079 --> 00:41:01.400 the trick. Listen, I'm telling job before I say again, I'm an 586 00:41:01.400 --> 00:41:05.559 old bitch. I ain't trying to suck all night. I ain't trying to 587 00:41:05.599 --> 00:41:07.159 suck all night. I ain't trying to suck all night unless I'm on techi 588 00:41:07.360 --> 00:41:09.960 la. But other than that, baby, I ain't got it in me. 589 00:41:10.079 --> 00:41:15.840 I have no desire to be going longer than like twenty minutes and now, 590 00:41:15.840 --> 00:41:19.079 to be fair, though, you know, let me go wipe off, 591 00:41:19.480 --> 00:41:22.559 or we can do like maybe another session, but just like an hour 592 00:41:22.639 --> 00:41:25.639 straight. Get somebody else to do it, respectfully, get somebody else to 593 00:41:25.679 --> 00:41:28.159 do it. I don't want to. I don't I don't want to do 594 00:41:28.199 --> 00:41:31.320 that. I don't want to do that. Um case specific. They're not 595 00:41:31.400 --> 00:41:35.960 kissing during sex, stormy. Don't get me started on the kissing. Don't 596 00:41:35.960 --> 00:41:40.159 get me started on the kissing. Okay, postline clarity is about it is? 597 00:41:40.840 --> 00:41:44.559 Jasmine Dot Talley says, no, bro, you got ten minutes My 598 00:41:44.639 --> 00:41:47.760 legs hurt exactly. And you know what my problem is, y'all be trying 599 00:41:47.800 --> 00:41:52.480 to have us folded like a pretzel, bent in half like a safety pin. 600 00:41:52.719 --> 00:41:54.639 Like, Bro, if I did that to you, you wouldn't even 601 00:41:54.719 --> 00:42:00.920 last one minute. Have some fucking respect, have some courtesy. Where's your 602 00:42:00.920 --> 00:42:04.519 fucking common courtesy? So can we factor that into why we don't want to 603 00:42:04.519 --> 00:42:07.880 fuck for a long periods of time too, Like, aside from I just 604 00:42:07.880 --> 00:42:12.079 don't want you knocking out my back wall for an hour, Maybe I didn't 605 00:42:12.199 --> 00:42:16.519 drink enough water, or I don't have the flexibility to be fucking or gami, 606 00:42:16.679 --> 00:42:20.800 Okay, everything about that, everything about that. Maybe I don't want 607 00:42:20.800 --> 00:42:22.920 to be folded in half. Okay, it's a thing. It's a thing. 608 00:42:24.280 --> 00:42:29.400 The XCEL Studio says, The LX Studio says, And when sex starts 609 00:42:29.400 --> 00:42:31.599 taking too long, I know a position to get in and get this over 610 00:42:31.679 --> 00:42:36.960 with. I think that comes with knowing your partner and being with someone for 611 00:42:37.000 --> 00:42:39.880 a really long time. Like, yeah, I know if we try and 612 00:42:39.960 --> 00:42:43.039 go along, we're gonna do this. But if I'm trying to get this 613 00:42:43.079 --> 00:42:45.280 shit over and catch the game at five. Yeah, let me put you 614 00:42:45.320 --> 00:42:47.519 in this position real quick. You know what I mean? Like, I 615 00:42:47.760 --> 00:42:53.320 agree with that, I agree some Da lab Sports says, sometimes were just 616 00:42:53.400 --> 00:42:57.760 not ready to finish and want you to enjoy. Baby, Did you ask 617 00:42:57.800 --> 00:43:02.199 me if I'm ready to finish? Maybe I'm ready to take a nap, 618 00:43:02.679 --> 00:43:07.599 all right, Maybe I'm ready to finish that bottle of sangria I had chilling 619 00:43:07.760 --> 00:43:13.639 waiting for me. Did you ever think about that? Who? Who? 620 00:43:14.719 --> 00:43:19.280 Yes? Like what? Sometimes the couchie don't be hitting like she thinking? 621 00:43:19.360 --> 00:43:22.480 Dude, see, and this is what we'd be thinking in our heads. 622 00:43:22.960 --> 00:43:24.639 Maybe it's my hitting the way I think it is, Like I don't know, 623 00:43:25.000 --> 00:43:29.679 like maybe his shape doesn't fit my shape the way I needed to. 624 00:43:30.199 --> 00:43:31.360 And now I'm in my head about it, and now I just wanted to 625 00:43:31.400 --> 00:43:34.599 be over. Like. I still like you. I still like you, 626 00:43:34.639 --> 00:43:37.320 bookie. It's just the way it took you two hours the nut and make 627 00:43:37.320 --> 00:43:44.280 me not want to fuck with you again. I'm done. I'm done to 628 00:43:44.440 --> 00:43:46.239 me. I want to make sure my mission that she's satisfied. First, 629 00:43:46.440 --> 00:43:52.360 A king, a king, a king knee Jay says, yeah, you 630 00:43:52.440 --> 00:43:57.000 had three position max for me. I'm not doing ten positions in ten minutes? 631 00:43:57.239 --> 00:44:00.960 Exactly? What the fuck is this pilates? No? I'm not doing 632 00:44:01.039 --> 00:44:06.599 ten positions in ten minutes? The fuck is this pilates? No? I 633 00:44:06.639 --> 00:44:09.559 don't want to. I don't want Tom. You knew I was coming over. 634 00:44:09.599 --> 00:44:14.039 You should have stretched properly. Now hold on, good brother, you 635 00:44:14.079 --> 00:44:17.599 didn't even ask to stretch us out. See see see that's what I'm talking 636 00:44:17.639 --> 00:44:20.840 about. I'm sick of y'all. I'm sick of y'all, and I'm sick 637 00:44:20.840 --> 00:44:22.880 of y'all. All right, Um, yeah, so that's my answer. 638 00:44:23.079 --> 00:44:25.440 It all depends. Is it a good thing, is it a bad thing? 639 00:44:25.800 --> 00:44:29.239 It all depends. It depends on you and your partner, and that's 640 00:44:29.280 --> 00:44:36.800 it. Um. Next, how far how long are you on time? 641 00:44:37.159 --> 00:44:39.760 Ah? We got like about fifteen minutes? Okay, I'll let this be 642 00:44:39.800 --> 00:44:45.159 the last question. Um, Next question, do you like to kiss after 643 00:44:45.239 --> 00:44:50.639 receiving and given oral? I don't want to ask us again. I want 644 00:44:50.639 --> 00:44:52.719 to ask us again because I want if you're listening to this, if you're 645 00:44:52.719 --> 00:44:55.039 watching this, I want you to hear what I'm about to say. I 646 00:44:55.039 --> 00:45:00.039 want you to internalize it and think before you speak who you like to kiss 647 00:45:00.159 --> 00:45:07.679 after receiving and giving oral? Baby, I don't know how many ways to 648 00:45:07.719 --> 00:45:13.000 say it, but I take your son, Candy. I don't give a 649 00:45:13.000 --> 00:45:22.519 fuck. Kiss me baby, Okay, kiss me baby, kiss me baby, 650 00:45:22.679 --> 00:45:27.800 all right. I think that people who don't like to kiss after receiving 651 00:45:28.000 --> 00:45:30.400 oral, especially you need to worry about what's going on with you in your 652 00:45:30.400 --> 00:45:35.760 pH that you don't like it. It's yours, it's yours, it's yours. 653 00:45:35.880 --> 00:45:38.159 I'm not gonna lie. I can kind of understand giving, but not 654 00:45:38.199 --> 00:45:45.480 really, but receiving means that it's yours, right, it's you. If 655 00:45:45.480 --> 00:45:47.559 you don't like the way it tastes, that's you, right. So if 656 00:45:47.599 --> 00:45:52.519 you don't like, you know, kissing after receiving, especially, baby, 657 00:45:52.519 --> 00:45:55.199 you got some other things that you need to work out. Okay, drink 658 00:45:55.239 --> 00:45:59.639 a little bit more water. Drink a little more water, all right? 659 00:46:00.159 --> 00:46:05.039 Like nah, I want you to I want you to taste me and then 660 00:46:05.119 --> 00:46:07.519 let me taste me. And if I'm not comfortable with me tasting me after 661 00:46:07.599 --> 00:46:12.000 you taste me, I shouldn't be doing it. I don't got no business 662 00:46:12.039 --> 00:46:15.320 here. This is outside of my arena. Like, if you can't spit 663 00:46:15.400 --> 00:46:17.679 in my mouth afterwards. This is outside of my my arena, This is 664 00:46:17.679 --> 00:46:21.960 outside of my dog Joe, I don't belong here now, giving us something 665 00:46:22.000 --> 00:46:29.079 else because I know that, I know that men especially aren't too keen on 666 00:46:29.280 --> 00:46:32.519 you know, kissing after especially, you know, coming to completion. Like, 667 00:46:32.599 --> 00:46:37.519 everybody ain't used to the snowball. Everybody's not down for a snowball, 668 00:46:37.119 --> 00:46:40.360 dan keV. Y'all know what a snowball is. I have an idea. 669 00:46:40.400 --> 00:46:45.280 I mean contacts clothes. I've never heard that term. So the snowball is 670 00:46:45.280 --> 00:46:50.320 when a man ejaculates in your mouth and then you spit it back in his 671 00:46:50.400 --> 00:46:53.440 mouth. Okay, I understand everybody's not down for that. I understand everybody's 672 00:46:53.480 --> 00:46:58.159 not down for that. I understand everybody's not down for that. Okay, 673 00:46:58.320 --> 00:47:02.679 I get it, I get it. I get it. But like after 674 00:47:02.960 --> 00:47:06.559 you know, we clean up, or you know, I spit our wife, 675 00:47:06.599 --> 00:47:08.280 I swallow whatever in the case may be, you still don't want to 676 00:47:08.320 --> 00:47:12.599 kiss me, sweetie. These your kids? Why I gotta be a fucking 677 00:47:12.639 --> 00:47:15.480 daycare center? Hello? Hello, you need to be able to pick your 678 00:47:15.559 --> 00:47:20.760 kids up after daycare. You can't, Well, then that sounds like a 679 00:47:20.840 --> 00:47:25.119 your problem. I'm lying, no, just me, just me, Like 680 00:47:25.119 --> 00:47:28.280 I said, everybody in there from the snootball, I get it, I 681 00:47:28.280 --> 00:47:30.920 get it, I get it, I get it right. But I think 682 00:47:30.960 --> 00:47:35.400 that the people who fly into these fits of rage like, oh, how 683 00:47:35.480 --> 00:47:39.679 dare you so disgusting? So disgusting? Bro? It's you yours? Huh. 684 00:47:40.280 --> 00:47:45.440 I'm that. I'm that I missed something like you think like I had 685 00:47:45.480 --> 00:47:47.440 time to shug another deck and come back to yours and then trying to get 686 00:47:47.480 --> 00:47:52.840 I don't wear what it's so disgusting. I don't understand can can can someone 687 00:47:52.920 --> 00:48:00.000 understand? What's what's so disgusting? I don't understand it's yours, it's yours. 688 00:48:00.000 --> 00:48:02.239 It is you too. If you don't like a man kissing you after 689 00:48:02.320 --> 00:48:06.880 he has tasted you, we need to focus on why you taste like that, 690 00:48:07.119 --> 00:48:10.960 Okay, we need to focus on Hey, maybe you might be allergic 691 00:48:12.000 --> 00:48:15.960 to a certain type of condoms. Okay, maybe those type of condoms. 692 00:48:15.960 --> 00:48:17.559 Throws a pH off. I'm not gonna lie. I'm one of them bitches. 693 00:48:19.000 --> 00:48:22.559 I cannot do magnum condoms. A magnum condom will have me smelling like 694 00:48:22.599 --> 00:48:28.639 a fish market in two days. Stat okay, two days, stat I 695 00:48:28.719 --> 00:48:34.280 will smell like a fucking fish market in the Italian part of South Philly. 696 00:48:34.320 --> 00:48:38.360 I will. That's me now. To be fair, though, I also 697 00:48:38.519 --> 00:48:42.960 keep like the condoms that I use on me at all times, Like in 698 00:48:43.079 --> 00:48:45.880 every purse that I have, my my I D my wallet, none of 699 00:48:45.880 --> 00:48:50.239 that can be in it, but they'll be like two skin condoms in there, 700 00:48:50.440 --> 00:48:52.000 like because that's just what I like. I know how to protect myself, 701 00:48:52.000 --> 00:48:54.960 like you know what I mean, Like a nigga ain't never gonna tell 702 00:48:54.960 --> 00:48:57.280 me like, oh I got a condom, and I'm like, oh, 703 00:48:57.400 --> 00:49:00.760 I guess we're going raw dog jabal not today, not today, Get somebody 704 00:49:00.760 --> 00:49:05.400 else to do it, okay, not today, not me. Okay. 705 00:49:05.800 --> 00:49:10.920 So yeah, that's it. That's that's all. I feel like that escalated 706 00:49:12.000 --> 00:49:14.599 so quickly. I'm so sorry, y'all. But the moral of the story 707 00:49:14.760 --> 00:49:16.840 is, if you don't like kissing and receiving, if you don't like kissing 708 00:49:17.000 --> 00:49:22.719 after giving him receiving oral, I think we need to look internally and find 709 00:49:22.719 --> 00:49:25.639 out why you don't. That's it. Um, So you let me go 710 00:49:25.639 --> 00:49:29.480 onto some of these comments. I'm sorry, I wasn't pattention you live and 711 00:49:29.519 --> 00:49:32.280 I know y'all was saying here. Okay, so from what I'm saying on 712 00:49:32.719 --> 00:49:36.320 the Live, y'all don't like the snowball, that's cool. It's not for 713 00:49:36.360 --> 00:49:38.320 everybody, Like I said, it's not for everybody, right, I said 714 00:49:38.360 --> 00:49:42.159 that in the beginning. I said, it's not for everybody. Okay, 715 00:49:42.639 --> 00:49:46.960 um Q just chilling that Voo says, I mean I have kissed her after 716 00:49:47.000 --> 00:49:51.159 I finished, to be honest, but definitely not spitting it because it's not 717 00:49:51.199 --> 00:49:53.000 for everybody. I said that. All right, fine, it's not for 718 00:49:53.039 --> 00:49:59.800 everybody. You don't gotta get it back, okay whatever. Um Chef Underscoring 719 00:49:59.880 --> 00:50:05.880 Night Underscore Wing says, kiss me, oh okay baby, Yes. Jamage 720 00:50:05.960 --> 00:50:08.760 dot nine three says niggas don't want to accept the effects of their diets. 721 00:50:08.760 --> 00:50:14.360 Thank you, Thank you. Bro. All you do is drink red bull 722 00:50:14.400 --> 00:50:16.480 and smoke cigarettes and now you don't want to kiss her after you not. 723 00:50:16.639 --> 00:50:21.119 But it's like, bro, look at what you're doing on a daily basis. 724 00:50:21.119 --> 00:50:24.800 No wonder, okay, no wonder. That shit tastes like fucking hot 725 00:50:24.840 --> 00:50:32.400 gasoline. Okay, you consequence of your actions, nigga. Yes, The 726 00:50:32.440 --> 00:50:38.079 Blue Professor says, folks, you can't just enjoy sex to see her in 727 00:50:38.159 --> 00:50:43.840 Nicole saying please, Benshi says, she said, stat I'm not joking. 728 00:50:44.079 --> 00:50:49.440 I one percent. My kuchi has a forty eight hour bake time. If 729 00:50:49.480 --> 00:50:53.480 I use a magnum condom in forty eight hours, I will smell like the 730 00:50:53.559 --> 00:50:59.320 krusty krab. I know that. I know that. I don't need many 731 00:50:59.320 --> 00:51:01.760 trial and errors. I understand what it is. I've rectified the problem. 732 00:51:01.920 --> 00:51:06.360 I understand I fixed it. I fixed it. But thank you. M 733 00:51:06.480 --> 00:51:08.559 J. Tim says, yeah, I'm tonguing down after loo. If you're 734 00:51:08.559 --> 00:51:13.760 not grabbing me by the neck to kiss after get away, oh queen, 735 00:51:14.679 --> 00:51:19.599 say that shit? Then yes, yes, yes, yes, if you're 736 00:51:19.679 --> 00:51:22.920 not eating coucy and coming up to grab the fucking neck and kiss, boy, 737 00:51:23.000 --> 00:51:28.639 what are we doing? What are we doing? Oh my god, 738 00:51:29.000 --> 00:51:31.840 my titty started tingling just thinking about it. What are we doing? What 739 00:51:32.360 --> 00:51:35.400 is this? I don't want to. I don't want to. I don't 740 00:51:35.400 --> 00:51:37.320 want to participate. I'm good, I'm good. I don't I don't want 741 00:51:37.320 --> 00:51:40.719 to participate, that's good. Yes, every purse, yes, every purse 742 00:51:40.800 --> 00:51:44.519 has a condom that I use in it because I don't never want to get 743 00:51:44.519 --> 00:51:52.119 caught out there. Okay, Jamal, Na get to this, y'all. 744 00:51:52.119 --> 00:51:53.719 Don't say raw dog Jamal. I'm the only one who's say rawa Jamal. 745 00:51:54.039 --> 00:51:59.360 I just feel like going raw isn't enough. We have to go raw dog 746 00:51:59.440 --> 00:52:06.079 Jamal. That's it. I don't care and forget y'all. Coach Tray three 747 00:52:06.119 --> 00:52:09.280 says kissing cool, Snowball crazy against the law. It's not against the law, 748 00:52:09.400 --> 00:52:14.239 y'all. It's a thing. It's a thing. Snowball just reminded me 749 00:52:14.239 --> 00:52:19.320 of the movie Clerks. I've never seen that. What it's a good movie? 750 00:52:19.480 --> 00:52:22.440 Is it? Snowball? In there? I'm trying to remember. It's 751 00:52:22.480 --> 00:52:25.039 been a while since I've seen the original one. But they they cover some 752 00:52:25.119 --> 00:52:31.400 crazy ass shit in there. Oh man. Um Jasmine Dot Talley says, 753 00:52:31.480 --> 00:52:35.960 Magnum definitely makes you want to get checked out. So why is it making 754 00:52:36.000 --> 00:52:38.559 me smell like that? So I'm not by myself? The crazy part is 755 00:52:38.639 --> 00:52:40.760 right. I'm gonna get a little bit information at YEA might not know this, 756 00:52:40.840 --> 00:52:46.639 but Magnums were originally designed for anal play. They weren't designed for vaginal 757 00:52:46.679 --> 00:52:51.079 sex. If you don't believe me, google it. Magnums were originally designed 758 00:52:51.119 --> 00:52:55.599 for anal play, so the pH and all these other things weren't factored into 759 00:52:55.599 --> 00:53:00.679 it. That's why a lot of women can't use magnums without thrown off their 760 00:53:00.719 --> 00:53:05.400 pH. And I know there are like a certain population of women who's just 761 00:53:05.400 --> 00:53:07.880 been like, oh I'm allergic to Okay, we're not talking about them. 762 00:53:07.960 --> 00:53:13.480 We talk about people who who who real life, their pH will get thrown 763 00:53:13.519 --> 00:53:16.199 off if you use a magnum. This is a very real topic. And 764 00:53:16.239 --> 00:53:19.760 fellas if you want to make sure you know, maybe you worry about that 765 00:53:19.800 --> 00:53:22.360 you're poking the holes an econom I don't know how paranoil you might be. 766 00:53:22.480 --> 00:53:23.440 I don't know how much money you got maybe, but she's in trying a 767 00:53:23.480 --> 00:53:28.719 tribute. I don't know. A good alternative is skin. So it's s 768 00:53:28.800 --> 00:53:31.079 k y n y'all skin, come come in and check nigga because I know 769 00:53:31.119 --> 00:53:34.280 y'all about to go up. What's up with the what's up? All right? 770 00:53:34.719 --> 00:53:39.599 Um? But yeah, it's a good alternative. Um U up top 771 00:53:39.679 --> 00:53:44.199 Geo says, what it's a weirdos and economs. This is a safe space, 772 00:53:44.280 --> 00:53:46.159 babe, This is a safe space. We we all in here getting 773 00:53:46.159 --> 00:53:51.239 it in. Um I'm carry Underscore said why, I'll never knew that Anna 774 00:53:51.360 --> 00:53:55.519 Underscore grade eighty six says anything else my couchie giving stank. Same j Tim 775 00:53:55.559 --> 00:53:59.320 says, yeah, they ain't got me either, some mush mush llo. 776 00:53:59.440 --> 00:54:02.440 I thought I was the only one, bro. You see, you see, 777 00:54:02.519 --> 00:54:06.000 you see. This is what I'm saying. And this is why I 778 00:54:06.039 --> 00:54:09.679 love when we have these conversations like this, because you see that you're really 779 00:54:09.719 --> 00:54:14.559 not the only person. Like Magnums just don't do it. And I don't 780 00:54:14.599 --> 00:54:16.880 think it's a coincidence that magnums themselves just don't do it. And I know 781 00:54:16.960 --> 00:54:22.199 that in the African American community especially, it's all like, oh you know, 782 00:54:22.400 --> 00:54:25.760 oh I need that gold Rapper, that Magnum, and you need booty 783 00:54:25.760 --> 00:54:29.199 play because you're going through from my pH and the other way. Like that's 784 00:54:29.239 --> 00:54:32.440 that's not gonna happen. So eternal Sincere says, I wasn't feeling those skin 785 00:54:32.519 --> 00:54:37.880 joints. What I will say is there is a lot of variations of skins. 786 00:54:37.599 --> 00:54:39.639 Mangna try to come at you right away. Oh they're too small for 787 00:54:39.679 --> 00:54:43.280 me. They have large, they have excel, they heavy leaked, all 788 00:54:43.360 --> 00:54:46.639 right, same sizes as Magnums just different names, all right. They also 789 00:54:46.719 --> 00:54:51.960 have different options. You know, I think they have like a ribbed. 790 00:54:52.039 --> 00:54:57.039 Maybe I think they have like cooling pleasures type things like as there's an extra 791 00:54:57.119 --> 00:55:00.199 lubricated, they have little they got a little sauce on them. You just 792 00:55:00.199 --> 00:55:02.840 gotta find one that matches for you, or finding a better alternative, because 793 00:55:02.920 --> 00:55:07.880 the Magnums ain't gonna hit it for me. Me dog not carrying your preferred 794 00:55:07.960 --> 00:55:10.760 condom in every purse, and it's just like not carrying every usable bag in 795 00:55:10.800 --> 00:55:15.519 your purse and getting more than a few things at the grocery loo mone underscore 796 00:55:15.599 --> 00:55:21.159 she you're at right, I'm not gonna lie. I do have a like 797 00:55:21.400 --> 00:55:24.320 reusable bag that I keep in my car for groceries, like if I'm going 798 00:55:24.360 --> 00:55:27.960 to the grocery store, I'll use that. But also in Philly, y'all 799 00:55:28.000 --> 00:55:30.519 know, they charge us for plastic bags, like the plastic bags that you 800 00:55:30.559 --> 00:55:34.440 get at the grocery store to put like your cereal, your milk, all 801 00:55:34.440 --> 00:55:37.719 the shit. And Philly they charge you for that. So I do keep 802 00:55:37.719 --> 00:55:39.519 my reusable bag in my trunk because maybe I need my coins, like what's 803 00:55:39.599 --> 00:55:44.440 up? What's up? Um? Okay? So listen, y'all. We 804 00:55:44.480 --> 00:55:47.760 had a great conversation today. We talked about a lot of things. First, 805 00:55:49.559 --> 00:55:53.960 we asked, and we discussed it's ran through women, Okay, if 806 00:55:53.960 --> 00:55:59.599 they only run through celebrities and athletes. Right. We also talked about it's 807 00:55:59.639 --> 00:56:02.760 nothing wrong with being polly as long as you look for and date people who 808 00:56:02.800 --> 00:56:06.800 want to be polly. Stop trying to change niggas with your vampire ass, 809 00:56:06.920 --> 00:56:12.000 all right. We also discuss having sex so good that you just immediately think, 810 00:56:12.079 --> 00:56:15.800 damn, who hurt you? Because it's a real thing. This level 811 00:56:15.800 --> 00:56:20.639 of filth can only be obtained by trauma, and that's real. We also 812 00:56:20.639 --> 00:56:22.159 talked about, you know, I don't care how many times I get my 813 00:56:22.159 --> 00:56:25.719 feelings hurt. I'm still gonna keep believing in my happily ever after. I'm 814 00:56:25.719 --> 00:56:29.679 not gonna let these fun boys get the best of me. Um. And 815 00:56:29.840 --> 00:56:31.760 we also talked about just because you have a penis, that doesn't mean you're 816 00:56:31.760 --> 00:56:36.880 mental lead all right. We also talked about is taking too long to bus 817 00:56:36.960 --> 00:56:42.039 a thing? We discussed you know, receiving and giving oral and kissing afterwards, 818 00:56:42.079 --> 00:56:45.480 and most importantly, we talked about how we are recording on May fourth, 819 00:56:46.320 --> 00:56:53.000 so May the fourth, May the fourth, May the fourth, git 820 00:56:53.079 --> 00:56:59.079 with you absolutely listen y'all um, follow me on the Gram, ask Starming, 821 00:56:59.119 --> 00:57:02.079 p pe a at chocolate Chip and zip And if you don't remember anything 822 00:57:02.119 --> 00:57:07.920 else, please remember Magnums ain't for pussies. I love you guys that I'll 823 00:57:07.920 --> 00:57:07.840 see you next week. Piece