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It's the two seventeenth Recovery Podcast with
Corey Winfield. I think that's pretty fair

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for a guy once a quarter,
four times a year, trim and toenails.

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If it needs to be done,
it needs to be done. I'll

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think you that you can go by
the calendar year. You probably wish I

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would because I probably maybe really do
it like twice a year. And Cole

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holds Marnie Winfield the people that really
are drawn to twelve step program. One

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piece of those twelve step groups is
because it's people from all different varieties in

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lengths of time of sobriety. It
is the seventeenth of December twenty twenty three.

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My name's Corey Winfield, my name
is Marnie Winfield, and this is

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the two seventeen Recovery podcast. And
I think i'm because I know it's getting

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close to th end of the year
and I could write it out with the

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toenails. But I think we did
that in like March or something. Didn't

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we did you cut them? No
that I did that? Oh yeah,

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maybe it was January. I'm not
sure. I don't know a rule.

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Well, once a quarner, yeah, like but they kind of need it.

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I was looking at one of them
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probably could clip that one. But
then it brings me back to that,

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well, how many times have I
done it already this year? And I'm

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thinking I've done it three times already. Yeah, it's I can see him

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from here. So they're daggers.
Well, no, they're not daggers,

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but they could use a clipping.
They're like a quarter of an inch long

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past your actual toe. No,
there's they're supposed to be like that.

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They're not. They're French tip.
That's gross. It's not gross. It's

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so gross. Huh. Well that's
a different opinion, okay, because I

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look at your toenails they look like
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they're pretty Yeah, just saying I
just wanted to clear that up for everybody,

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because I know people were wondering,
like, has Corey clipped his toenails

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for the fourth time? Acquiring minds
want to know, I know, stay

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tuned to let you know when the
clipping happens. Something tells me it's going

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to be this week. Yeah,
it's gonna be, it's gonna be okay,

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yeah, but let me make it, Like I make the decisions though

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for it you shouldn't. You shouldn't
have drawn attention to them. I probably

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would have let it go. Well, it's the open. I had to

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answer back, I know, I
had to answer back. So and like

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I said, so many people were
wondering. Yeah, so Friday, I

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got my five years. I know, I got you a beautiful coin.

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Yes you did, and I left
it at work because' where I'm going to

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keep it? Nice I have?
Well, I had mother coins here in

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the home office. I just looked
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they're not here. So either I
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decided they were going to move them
around. I don't know. I don't

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know, but they replaced it with
a Christmas ornament from the tree that isn't

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upstairs living or Yeah. That was
very nice of them, So maybe it

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was trade off. I really don't
know. That's weird because they were right

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there. I'm looking like down at
the base of my HP computer. You

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have like the base and that's where
I have my other drive like external drive

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plugged in where I keep all the
podcasts, and I have some those little

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USB drive things, and you sued
to have the coins right there. My

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guess is you probably when you did
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important. But that is important.
That's where I cut them, I know.

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But when you move the computer,
when you moved everything over here,

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honey, we've moved. It was
like six months ago. I know.

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Have you seen them since then?
I thought, yeah, like I would.

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I looked right where they should be. I was talking about them.

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I'm like, I have my three
in my two, but they're gone.

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Maybe it was a Opa loopa lately
because they sneaky. We'll talk about that

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and we'll rate to the Walk a
movie in just a minute. But yeah,

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getting the five years was pretty cool
back in the day. I just

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pay attention to a lot of stats
and they say, if you get to

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five years, there's whatever amount x
percent that you're gonna make it the rest

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of your life. Which, okay, that's cool, that's what they say.

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I don't really do stats really much
anymore. And I know I've met

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people that said that they've had eight
years and ten years and twenty years,

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and I met them in treatment.
So like, I still have to,

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you know, be careful, but
I think I'm on pretty good trajectory to

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get six years, you know,
but keep badding them days up and it'll

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happen. Yeah, you know,
I still have a lot of goals.

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I still have a lot of things
I'm working towards, and I can't do

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that if I'm drinking, if I'm
drunk, So I got no time for

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that. I think stats are interesting, but with something like sobriety, it's

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kind of goes back to like,
you can't base your involvement or your adherence

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to staying sober on something outside of
yourself. It's got to just it's still

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always about you, not about what
other people did now to other people did

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before you or we'll do after you. It's about what you do with your

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time and the and the importance of
staying sober because there's no guarantees. No.

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And I had a real close call
twenty twenty three. Can you remember

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that on your birthday at the Sakki
moomb place? Oh yeah, okay,

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I got you the not the soaky
mom place, the rest of these steakhouse.

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Yeah, and the guy who's gonna
try to squirt some shit in my

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mouth, And I was like nope, yeah, but I don't think I

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mean as soon as you would have
I don't think that would have because if

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it would have been me, I
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split that crap out like across the
room. I don't care in its fade,

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doesn't matter, that wouldn't have gotten
in my way. But I mean

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it would have been a kind of
a funny. Really, I've been so

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pissed. Yeah, I would have
been pissed too. Well, that's see,

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that's not something you would do anyway. I don't care if it was.

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No, you don't let people shoot
stuff in your mouth like that,

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and that is just a warning.
And hopefully I prevented somebody else from falling

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through that same same trap or that
same mistake. And that bottle has been

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on that cart being wheeled around for
I probably would have puked with like with

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like you know, hibachi juice all
over it. So I don't care what

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was in it. I wouldn't have
wanted it to be thinking of what makes

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me want to puke. And I
bet you I would have puked. I

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want to just spit it out.
It have been you would have had you

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would have had to be a part
of it, you know. Yeah,

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But I don't let people shoot stuff
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in my mouth shoot or squirt.
Here you go not doing it. I've

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never seen a woman about you grow
person. I've not either. It's a

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cultural thing maybe, hm, okay, just throwing that out there. Yeah,

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it's good. I'm making judgments.
I'm just saying that's really good.

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That's really I mean, that's you
noticed it. That's good observation. Never

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had a white guy do it either. I've had a male nail tech.

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WHOA, Now that's racist. Why
I don't know that sounded like it was.

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I was racist because I'm talking about
a style of like cuisine I'm talking

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about where I'm just talking about in
general something I mean like there's also like

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male hair artists, like they do
last ones, things that are primarily done

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by one gender. Okay, I
got nothing. I don't know. Let's

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say I just wish I probab move
on. Okay, So yeah, the

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five years though, I was pretty
cool, though, very cool, and

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I was reading like a post because
my mom shared it, I think from

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like my three years and I sent
her a message before I read that.

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I pretty much said the same thing, like I can't believe where I'm at

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today, and thanks for not giving
up on me, and I love you,

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and and then I saw that I
was on Facebook or something, and

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I was like, oh, so
I just say the same shit every year,

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like every couple of years, you
know. But I'm still like amazed.

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But that's crazy, though, and
I'm still amazed by I still wouldn't

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believe where I'm at. If you
were like at my three year marketing,

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if you just said this is where
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I said, you're nuts. You
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Marty and I have been married for
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on the way, a baby boy. Like what stop? I would have

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just stop, that's just that's too
much good stuff, you know, and

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you employee people and recovery what ow? That's that's crazy. One day,

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yeah, I'd have been like,
is my movie done yet? I got

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my book out. Justin was telling
me the other day, He's like,

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you should write a book. Like
I'm finnam. It's on my list of

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things to do. And but you
know me, I want to do what's

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fun, and to me, a
movie would seem more fun. I know.

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Normally I think the book should be
written, then the movie can kind

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of follow the book. There you
go, right, that's probably what will

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happen. But but your movie ideas
are kind of all over the place.

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Yeah they are. They're not just
about you and your journey. No,

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no, no, And I think
it would be it'd be interesting story.

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You know, in the perfect world, I think you would have a movie

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called Corey. Who would play you
in your movie? Brad Pitt? What?

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Oh other you're going to see?
Nicholas Cage. Oh yeah, well

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he'd be cheap, he'd say,
yes, Yeah, he'd do it.

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He would do it. He's trying
to break the world record for most movies

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ever made. No, he got
the whole acting drunk thing down. Yeah,

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we know that. Probably Willy Wonk
a guy. Why not. No,

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I don't know who would play me. But if we have one movie

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called Corey, and that was like
part one, and then we had a

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movie called Marnie and that's part two, and then we had the third,

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the trilogy Marnie and Corey, I'll
be part three. So like my movie

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would start off with I don't know, me killing it on the baseball field

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or something. I was kid throwing
balls against the wall. Yeah, see,

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I don't playing with myself. I
don't know if I would or not

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playing with myself but you know,
like playing ball with myself against Yeah,

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you got it. You know,
like I don't mind. I don't mind.

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I think open talks are helpful and
I don't mind. I mean,

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I don't know. It varies.
There's times where I feel depending on my

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audience. And I know it's kind
of ironic because when you're talking into a

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microphone, I'm here, I don't
know who I'm talking to, so I

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don't really know who my audience is, but I kind of have an idea.

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But there are sometimes where you're talking
to people and you feel like more

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comfortable about what you're sharing, or
you're more open or kind of the the

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route that the conversation is going in
whatever meeting it is. You know,

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you tend to touch on stuff that
maybe you normally wouldn't have but in terms

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of like a movie from like beginning
of Me to like everything in between,

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don't I don't know if I would
want that on something that like out there,

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a lot of dudes be like hey
hold on, you'd be like,

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I do only remember your dude?
No, no, But there, I

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mean, there are a lot of
upsetting things that happened. Yeah, outside

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of just me getting drunk and being
dumb. But you know, a lot

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of painful, painful stuff, a
lot of traumatic things. Yeah, that

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I don't think I would want captured
in a movie that people could watch over

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and over and over again. Okay, we'll call your movie something else then,

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or I don't have a movie.
People will be really confused, like,

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who's Jeff? Why see that in
this movie? I don't know.

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That's just what I'm saying thinking about. So maybe I do it loosely based

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off your life. Let's have some
Harley chick ex tripper who like beats up

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people and writes her Harley around town
getting revenge. None of that is me,

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but okay, just a baseball bat
with nails through it, that'd be

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awesome. So it just has nothing
to do with me. No, but

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she has a drinking problem. Okay, well there you go. So you

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can just yeah, this this was
based on a true story. Loosely,

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just put that in the beginning,
having it have that like claimer disclaimer,

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and then have it like right after
to say, loosely, after her wrestling

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career ended, she lost everything because
of her drug use. Tell she make

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Corey, she stops slamming shots,
and bodies, slamming people after she lost

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your third trailer in a fire,
leaving cigarettes lit met the explosion to yeah,

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the guy she was gonna marry.
Yeah, I don't know, all

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right, So we'll just have Corey
then, and then part two will never

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happen, and then we'll have the
trilogy just hit'll kind of do a Star

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Wars style just all over the place
and however we want to do it.

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Just show us like at the moment
of like building our lives and stuff.

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But see a lot of that people
don't like to see, right, like,

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oh, they're doing great, thinks
that struggle, Yeah, attention,

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Yeah I don't. You wouldn't want
to watch it your movie. Yeah,

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but my movie be funny though m
hm. I will keep out the bad

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parts. It's just now. But
I really I think just the stories I

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could tell from just me going to
treatment centers like that would be enough to

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make a movie, a two hour
movie easily. We could probably have four

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of those. Corey goes to Grand
Rapids, just like Corey goes the Sacred

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Heart, Corey goes to Pine Rest, Corey goes to Bear River, Corey

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goes to California. Cory goes back
to Pine. Yeah, eight of those

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people stop watching, I don't think, so that's some crazy shit that happened.

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I would just combine all of those
and just one though. Anyway,

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that's just a thought. But that's
if I don't know. We'll see how

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the book comes along. And then
if I want to do a movie on

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my life, I don't know,
we'll see, but I don't know.

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I just want to make a movie
about something else. We thought about making

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a movie the other day, and
I can't say what it's about because then

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somebody was still my idea. There
you go. It's pretty good though,

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Okay, yeah, just give me
pulse it. Anyway. We had an

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anniversary, yeah, anniversary, and
then I had a work anniversary four years

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working at the treatment center and I
work at three years of marriage, like

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back to back awesomeness. Yeah,
we had. We had like two anniversaries

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and then you're so soberversary m hm. So yeah, and then Christmas is

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coming up. That's going to be
here in a couple of days, and

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of course, of course, so
it's not a Monday, so I think

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a lot of people are going to
celebrate it before it gives you more time

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to you know. Yeah, if
you have to go multiple places to celebrate,

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you got a little more time for
those people that can't don't have the

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luxury of taking off as much time
of work as they want. You know,

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I'm going to refuse to celebrate Christmas
after Christmas this year. Yeah,

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it's gonna draw a line. Well, you kind of can't because we kind

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of have my mom's Christmas the day
after Christmas. Okay, after the twenty

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sixth that I'm drawing the line in
the sand. No more Christmases. Okay,

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it's New Year's stuff. But see, we still got to get in

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contact with your your father. Like, this is the thing about being married

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that I just love, and I'm
sure you do too, honey, I'm

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sure you really love it is that
the in laws and you've got to make

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plans and you have to like do
the things that you're like, Okay if

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I have to because you're married,
you know, so it's like, yes,

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I have to go to your family's
things, and yes, you have

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to come to my family's things.
You know. It's just like a which

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should be a joy, right,
like, hey, more Christmases, But

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it's kind of a beatdown because you
don't just have two Christmases, you have

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four or five sometimes. Oh yeah, Like it's a lot of work,

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and your mother lives relatively close to
us, but everybody else is spread out

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way far, way gone. Yeah, it's just one of those things.

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Man, it's just like ah ah
it. You know, it's being married.

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Yeah, it's not into the world. And it's actually I like it.

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I'm just saying. Yeah, I'm
just saying, but people are who've

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been married for a while know what
the hell I'm talking about. It's a

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lot of coordinating it. It's a
lot of I guess, maneuvering schedules and

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having to prioritize to based and then
you got to fit work in there.

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Well you know, how are you
going to figure that out? Because that's

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you know, that's part of that's
part of reality. Talk to the boss.

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Yeah. Yeah, And it's not
so much. It's not like missing

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a shift at a restaurant or something
where it's like all you need to do

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is somebody to cover you. I
mean, you have responsibility to your clients.

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And you know, it's not not
saying it's not a job anybody else

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can do, but it's you know, I'm on this journey with them and

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so not being there, you know, when I said when when I'm supposed

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to be, I mean they understand
that it's holiday and I have my own

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life and you know that's expected.
So that's cool. But it's not like

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you can't imagine being away for a
long time, you know. And sometimes

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when people go to treatment, you
know, based on who their funding sources.

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I think it's getting a little bit
better now. And I don't know

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if you guys even take different insurance
are different and I don't want to say

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insurances work with different PHPs throughout the
state because there's ten different ones. Sometimes

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they'll give them two weeks, you
know, and if you're gone a week,

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that's half the time. You know, Like it's hard to work on

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stuff with people when taking time off. That's their air filter, air filter,

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always something going on. Yeah,
I don't know, exciting background,

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just know it's real, it's legit. Yeah, how we do it the

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home studio obviously today, but missing
that time though, it is tough.

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And do you have to give employees
time off for holidays or how does that

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work? You know? I think
it well, whatever their policy, whatever

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their employee handbook states, and far
as far as like by law, you

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mean, yeah, can I get
away with because if you have to have

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so many employees for you, I
don't know how that works. I'm not

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sure. I don't know. And
I know, like lots of places of

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work will offer time and a half
for working on holidays because obviously it needs

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to be staffed. Man, But
you know I used to do. I

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used to do a lot of the
holidays. Does not do that. Well,

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we don't have any part time employees. We just have salary people.

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Yeah, but it doesn't like I
know, next year, I'm scheduled to

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work because they have to have certain
therapists do meetings on holidays, you know,

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and so every therapist has to pick
up a holiday to work. And

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I somehow because I started later in
the year, I think I somehow got

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overlooked for this year, which is
fine, But next year, She's like,

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which holiday do you want to work? And I was like, I

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don't know. I was like,
I'm usually gone Thanksgiving and Christmas, but

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I know that's usually when people probably
people want it off. So I'll be

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I'm gonna be doing meetings on the
January first next year. This in like

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a couple of weeks, No twenty
twenty five twenty Yeah, that's my girl,

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because we don't know what's going to
happen. Jesus could come back before

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then, just like those student loans
that you think we need to pay back.

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No, I actually already started paying
on my student loans. Yeah,

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and that's that's great for you.
I'm apprecire. I love the fact that

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you do that, and you will
be too. I just don't know.

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Jesus. Like I said, he
could come back and now we're I'm going

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with them a big fan. I'm
a big fan too. So unless he

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would leave me here, I really
hope he won't, and he's supposed to

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take me with him. I'm just
saying, you got these more and this

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moral compass and things like that that
you need to pass along to your unborn

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child in the future. That's what's
up. You know. What I'm saying

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is you've acquired though, you have
acquired those loans, and you pay them

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back. But I'm not doing art. Your your failures did not does not

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mean that you don't have to.
But I've yet to become an artist,

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Like, how can I pay that
back? I know that you're joking because

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you just are trying to get under
my skin right now. Oh whatever,

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honey, Yeah, maybe I am. Maybe you figured me out. We'll

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see again. Not sure how we
got on that topic, but Justin,

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I'm just throwing this out there because
I know Justin listens to the podcast,

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we are not doing more vacation time. If anything, we're going to be

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doing less because he's going to try
that. Well, I'll work one holiday,

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I will work on the twenty the
first of twenty twenty five. The

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rest of my want off. I
should make a rule to where nobody gets

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any vacation time because I like that
except me. Why would do you want

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that? I don't know, because
I want to be a dictator. No,

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maybe at least the first part of
that word. I don't think you

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really want that. No, I
don't. And the guy's work really hard

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and we and I asked him actually
before that, I was like, I

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was talking with Adam, I like, is there a vacation you want to

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take in here? And he's like
that I would do anything. Yeah,

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that that time off is very important
too. And I know Justin he likes

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to take it off to go to
concerts and stuff like that. So he

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takes like days here and there.
And you know, if you're just like

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I'm gonna take a week off to
just sit at the house and do not

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shit, it's kind of boring,
right, you know. But if you

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can actually save up a comple or
you know, just keep going to concerts

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and taking days off, you know, that's another way to do it too.

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But you know it's it's boring sometimes
when you just take off to take

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off. But oh yeah, I
don't know. I'm pretty leaning on myself

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when I put up my requests.
That's good. I'll talk about myself,

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like Cordy, you really need to
take the Friday too, Yes, boss

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man, I do. Okay,
you're approved anyway. Marty's over there,

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ya, and we have a football
game to watch because I didn't make the

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playoffs. Fancy football, you did. I did, but I am not

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doing well today. But you got
your boy, Josh Allen. Looks like

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it's seven to nothing flo Bills,
So yeah, we'll see how it goes.

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But it's I don't think it's gonna
shake out in my favor. He's

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been known to put up fifty he
has, He's saved your team many times,

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so that's true. Let's see what
happens. But wait real quick,

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Yes we saw Wanka. Yeah,
so we were a few movies all the

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time on here that we see you
know, the stream or whatever, but

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this is the first movie we've gone
to in a long time, like a

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wow, yeah, And it was
kind of like I just heard Wanka and

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I'm like, I'm in Well,
actually that's not completely true because I know

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that Johnny Depp did Charlie and the
Chocolate Factory and I was not I was

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like, I'm not interested just because
I kind of it heard a little bit

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about how it was and not a
huge Johnny Depp person, and so I

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was just like, it's just going
to ruin it for me because I absolutely

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love the original and so but I
saw a couple of advertisements for it,

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and I think the oople Lupa thing
sold me with helped me with the name.

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And I Hugh Grant, who he
does look like an oople lupa,

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like his faith like it. No, I mean his face like the if

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you look at the once a Little
Person, if you look at if you

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look at the oople Oopus from the
original, Ah, like you could see

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how that would work like his They
did a good job. Anyway, I'm

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but yeah, I think it was
very entertaining and not even close. I

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can't even hold a candle to the
original at all, you know, but

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it was it was entertaining and Q
I guess you must have that sunmental factor

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in there for the original, because
if you watched the original once, the

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last time you watched the original mmm
twenty years ago. Oh, probably like

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two years ago. I've put it
on since I don't know if it was

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COVID I watched it or I can't
remember. That doesn't really hold up.

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And a lot of people were mad
that they didn't use actual little people for

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the Hugh Grant part. Oh yeah, they wouldn't have made sense, Like

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you couldn't put a real little person
in a bottle, right, you know.

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I think that they used little people
because they didn't have the technology.

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If they would have had the technology
back in the day when they made that,

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they probably would have. But I
guess they still could have used a

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little person. And then just I
don't know, I see what you're saying.

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Yeah, so there were some people
that were up in our arms.

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But whatever you do in life,
you're gonna make some money. Mad,

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But the movie wasn't too bad and
the whole time, I'm thinking, I'm

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about to watch this with Parker one
day. Yeah, and it'll be fun.

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And it was. It was cute, it was, it was all

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right. Yeah, so I give
it three and a half out of five

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stars. Yeah, it's about the
same for me, bem the best movie

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ever. But is is what it
is. And if you're a fan of

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that, then yeah, so go
check it out. Yeah, definitely a

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family movie for sure. Absolutely,
we're good. We're good, Okay,

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now we can yeah, because I
did say we were going to talk about

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that, yeah and rate it.
But there was something I was going to

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talk about though with Wonka. Yeah, having bad memory problems the last few

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days. So anyway, if it
does come to me and I think I

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need to bring it back up again, you know I will. So go

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watch Wanka and enjoy your fantasy football
run. If people are on fantasy football

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leagues and in the playoffs, that's
the luck to you. Yep. And

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we'll talk to for sure coming up
on the holidays or ill will I will

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be around for that. I'm sure
he'll do one before Okay, Yeah,

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we'll see. Okay, sounds good, all right, take care everybody to

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