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Good morning, Mother Sphere? Good
morning male commonic sphere of the fountain.

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Good morning, Mother Wait Welcome one
more day to our podcast, the podcast

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of the community of content creators on
parenting in Spanish, the podcast of mother

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sphere in which in each episode we
want to bring you to your sound space,

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people, initiatives, challenges, projects, blogs or interesting profiles and that

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can help us all as a community, because to face this stage of parenting

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in the best way, a little
bit, in a more positive way and,

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above all, in the end,
also to spend a pleasant little while

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and accompany you on your journeys,
in your moments of walk or in those

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moments in which you suddenly decided to
listen to a podcast that, by the

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way, we appreciate, because you
are more and it is a wonder that

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the people who listen Podcast will grow
this audience. So thank you for always

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listening to us. I don'
t think I' m saying much.

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Today we are going to talk about
an issue that is not talked about as

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much as it should, because maybe
it worries alarming or maybe because you may

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think it is generated there is a
bit of excessive concern. Sometimes then we

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don' t talk as much as
I think, in my humble opinion,

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we don' t talk about first
aid and prevention techniques or about trying to

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prevent or trying to prevent accidents or
questions that we can then regret, but

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that we must talk about, that
we must address and for that today we

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are accompanied by Nerea Moya. Good
morning, I' ll come to the

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first thing, how you are.
Very good morning, very good. Thank

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you very much, Monica, for
inviting me to the podcast. For me

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it is an honor, you know, and being able to bring the issue

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of prevention and first aid a little
bit closer than, as you have said

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well, because it is like a
little bit killed families, because it is

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always good yes, indeed, in
Nereat tell us a little bit worth,

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tell us a little who you are
What you do and why you have dedicated

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yourself to spreading about first aid,
also on other issues that we will talk

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about later, like Babysin, which
seems to me a wonderful thing, and

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why do you decide to create the
project? See or go and feel that

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you can find so much on your
blog? In seeing today and feeling com

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that, by the way, has
become finalist in the awards Be inspired in

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the health category. Wait so in
good time and it' s also your

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Instagram profile. Tell us a little
bit, who you are and how you

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get to the networks and to set
up this project, because look I arrive

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basically, because like almost all of
them by conciliation, I am technical health

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emergencies. I' ve been in
the profession for fifteen years now and being

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24 hours on duty is a little
incompatible with wanting to raise in a more

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conscious way and create that attachment to
a baby. When I got pregnant,

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I was lucky, in quotation marks
that I got fired from work, because

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well, not what a rat to
have a pregnant woman working not but they

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say it doesn' t happen.
That doesn' t happen, doesn'

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t it? But yes, doesn' t it? Doesn' t it

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happen? It' s not happening, is it? But it worked out

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very well for me because, as
I denounced the little money I used when

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we went to trial and so on, it served me to ride, but

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or go and feel and be two
years looking after my baby, who is

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now five years old the oldest.
I' m another thirteen months old,

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and I really liked it. And
then, when I was a mom,

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I really realized how important it is
to stay calm, how important it is

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to have an established protocol, because
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a mom, when I was going
to give the courses, I went to

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the talks, because I have also
been a trainer for ten years, I

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saw those moms who came to me
worried and said they were exaggerated. If

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it is not for so long he
has fallen, the wound is healed and

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already or, because in the end
is worried the mother that the child.

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I also have to say that I
am part of international cooperation and I am

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also trained in psychological first aid.
And this is very important And this I

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implement also in the courses, because
one thing goes hand in hand with the

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other. If I attend to the
physical part, but I don' t

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understand the emotional part of the child
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m taking at that moment, because
I don' t do anything when I

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have a little one who' s
crying, that this is saying that I

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don' t know if he'
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of the situation, because he'
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So these things have to go hand
in hand with the first physical asylums,

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with psychological psychologists, sorry. But, friend, when you' re

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the mom, who' s on
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this emotional component, everything changes.
Then I realized that the first aid courses

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that were given and that were given
until then and that are still being given

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today, this part has not been
contemplated. Then believe, but and feel,

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first to reconcile with my faith that
it is being able to be present

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and, as it is not,
to help those families control fear, control

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the situation and be able to save
their lives I knew that if necessary and

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from there was born. But and
feel in which I give lectures, I

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go to schools, because I also
help teachers and especially, because of children

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' s schools that we already know
that the ratio is horrifying and they have

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to take care of a lot of
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And well, as there is often
a teacher, it also helps them to

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establish these protocols of action. In
case something happens, then well, because

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basically seeing go and feel encompasses that
physical part with that emotional part so that

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the whole situation, as it comes
out in the best way possible. And

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how have you focused the part of
moving those contents to networks in your case,

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for example, on Instagram, how
you have handled it, that you

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have found yourself, what people ask
you for, what they receive There,

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then, I find two things many
times, one that, when I put

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raw things that I actually explain how
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People alarm me and leave because they
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' t want to see what'
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people who usually are the majority who
thank me for teaching just what they'

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re seeing, because it seems that
if you don' t live it doesn

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' t happen and many times families
come to me to my courses after something

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has happened. It' s like
good until it doesn' t happen to

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me, because this doesn' t
exist, but things happen and they can

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be prevented and prevented with information,
and information is good power. That I

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think in the end happens a little
to all of us who don' t

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think, we don' t fall
into what we may need until we need

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it. And in the case of
first aid it is very widespread. We

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focus on families because we' re
in the motherosphere, obviously, but how

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much knowledge of first aid? There
is very little, very little, at

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the general level in our society.
And also, the little knowledge that there

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is of first aid is always the
CPR and in a general way, not

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that we go to the pediatric part, is almost null and there are many

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aspects that are very different in an
adult person than in a baby or in

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a child. And sometimes we have
people who implement those adult steps in babies

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and children and of course it'
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it is a question that you normally
have to look for, that is,

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it is like a knowledge that you
have to take care of finding that there

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is no, it is not offered
or not included in the regular formations,

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it is not spoken of until you
decide to form and you decide to go

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to a course. There is a
great lack of thinking that it may be

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some knowledge that everyone should have,
it should be a part of for example,

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when there was the subject of education
for citizenship that had already taken it

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out of the educational system, it
would have been ideal to have put in

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there a part of first aid so
that from children they learn what to do

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if they see an emergency or how
to act correctly, because we think many

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times that good. This is nothing
or good, because something does happen.

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I call the ambulance right now,
but since we called until the ambulance arrives,

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we can do a lot of things
and implementing certain guidelines can save someone

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' s life. So, I
think it' s essential that from little

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kids at school even in kindergarten,
guidelines and things that can serve us day

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- to- day are introduced as
a game. This is like the Declaration

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of Income, which nobody teaches you
and everyone else, but in which it

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is that they should not teach it, because the first aid is the same,

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because total the economic part and make
an invoice, for example, how

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important, not to see that it
is the irpf or that it is tied

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and who charges it, where these
things are paid then little joke that then

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happen, because that people cheat or
cheat on them. Or we have an

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ignorance that in the case of first
aid, because it has circums has serious

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consequences, it can have very serious
consequences and in the economic case also,

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that is to say that it is
not for me to put more subjects in

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school that it is true that then
they always tell us not to put any

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more subjects. They can' t
beat each other better, but somehow we

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should all be a little aware.
And I don' t know if in

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asinatura or in tails, or I
don' t know, but I do

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think that both financial information and first
aid information should be eh because then you,

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as a first aid technician, will
have seen everything. I imagine yes,

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of all things, because besides,
TV does a lot of damage.

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That' s right, it does
a lot of damage, because then you

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find those people doing what you'
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' ve seen in the previous week
in the chapter, and it' s

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awful, because, for example,
in football games, that everything, then,

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when those big games, everyone is
watching what' s going on,

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how there' s a footballer who
falls unconscious in the field. What they

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all do is they' re running
to hold his tongue and they' re

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heroes because they' ve saved their
partner' s life and they don'

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t do that then, in later
days, when we' re on guard

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and we have someone unconscious on the
street, we have people unknown, holding

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the tongue of unknown people instead of
looking if, for example, he breathes

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he' s unconscious, which is
what we really should look at. So

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the TV news also does a lot
of damage, but especially in the series,

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because people think it' s what
the series is like and don'

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t remember cs that then we all
thought we were real forensics. Yeah,

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yeah, criminalists and forensics. We' re not looking there for prints,

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the bullet, the trajectory, because
we' re so nerea. This is

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a bit inevitable, and as for
the sooner you didn' t comment a

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little bit. But what is the
main difference between general first aid for the

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general population and for children, for
look, because mainly young children are not

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miniature adults. Then your constant forgiveness. You can tell I don' t

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sleep vitals. They' re different
from ours, their bones. There are

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many who are still cartidago, who
are not closed, are not hard,

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They are different than ours. Babies
and children make up in a way we

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don' t do adults. Then
there are many values to keep in mind

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that they do not work with young
children. First of all, because I

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don' t know why you'
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re gradually changing it from ignoring babies
and children. You' re the little

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one, for example, he'
s fallen no and you' re with

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the baby and what everyone does.
Don' t look at him, don

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' t look at him, don' t be crying. And it'

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s like why we do this.
When a grown- up person who is

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what we do falls off, it' s okay he' s hurt himself,

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helps him get up starting out there. No, then why don'

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t we do the same with the
children and with the babies, because in

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emergencies the same thing happens. We
don' t take them into account at

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all. We don' t speak
directly to them, we don' t

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ask them. We always ask the
mom or dad and we start implementing there

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based on what the dad or mom
tells us. But and mom and dad

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really know how much it hurts that
pre that he' s scared or what

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' s going on with his little
head. Well, when they already have

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understanding, we should take them a
little bit more into account, because they,

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well, you know you are,
Mom, they' re not dumb

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too, they' re small,
but they' re stupid and they'

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re afraid and they' re uncertain
and we have the mania to lie to

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them constantly. It' s okay, it' s not gonna hurt or

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hurt after we hurt them what happens
they stop trusting us. It' s

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as if, for example, you
go to the doctor' s office,

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don' t sit there and the
doctor gets up, he picks you up,

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he takes you to the stretcher,
he starts stripping you, he starts

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driving you without telling you anything and
he hurts you without warning you. Not

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how you' d feel terrible,
because you see the children, the same

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thing happens to them. Then they
should be taken a little more into account.

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There' s no people telling me
but good. But as he sees

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me if he won' t understand
you, because with a year and a

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half two little ones already understand much
more than we think. And I remember.

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For example, I am always putting
examples, especially in the talks of

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my personal experience with my children,
and I remember when my three- year

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- old son, on his birthday, fell out of bed jumping and broke

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his head that I explained to him
before going to the emergency room, what

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they were going to do to him. And my son was super quiet why,

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because he prepared for that moment.
But a three- year- old

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like me, what I can do
is that if my son has a gap

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that hurts him that he' s
in bad shape, I take him urgently.

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If I tell him don' t
worry, they' re not gonna

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run you, come on, you' re a brave man, it won

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' t hurt and suddenly they hurt. What' s going to happen?

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First, you' re going to
feel super bad, Second, you'

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re going to stop trusting me,
and now you' re not just going

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to stop trusting me, but you' re going to stop trusting the health

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personnel we' ve had, we' ve had little cut. I'

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m going to put some music in
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first aid, it has resuscitation techniques, sometimes they work, sometimes they don

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' t, and technology, because
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I don' t know if we' ve done it right, nerea

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Look, I' m a first
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what Mira' s technology is,
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it' s just that I'
m wearing it bad. I can cut

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it. But I like that I
also think it' s good that people

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know that a lot of things happen
in a recording and that and that basically

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between a while and another it'
s been a long time and then it

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takes a little bit to get the
thread. So it' s all right

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to say that we' ve fallen
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re fine, we haven' t
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we' re going to resume our
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on boys, on girls. What
are the main concerns of families, parents,

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mothers who come to you, your
profile or, your workshops, you

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to ask for advice, as a
person, I knew that you are,

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because lately especially people who are going
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the way to start feeding has changed
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the BLV, the good beles,
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crushed, because it is what scares
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but of course what happens to this. The nets know it and there

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are many people who infuse fear about
groceries food things that really don' t

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have the risk to sell. Then
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we have to give the information it
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alert and fear of families, because
hear yes it is true that there is

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no food with zero, risk choking, but neither are we going to demonize

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giving a chickpea to a child who
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example. So it is true that
those energy capoto or peas, who have

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even asked me if the peas,
because it is not true. We agree.

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It is a round food, but
not all round foods are susceptible to

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triggering atlantments. Yeah, it'
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' s depressible, because it'
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' s what I' ve had
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But they forget about here there are
things above which are much more important,

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because atlantamiento is not one of the
emergencies and emergencies that we have most

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and most attend. In fact,
it is like between the fifth and this

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post of emergencies, depending on whether
we look at the WHO or the Spanish

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Association of Pediatrics, which is what
we have in the first place, which

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is what causes the most mortality in
small traffic accidents. And this is a

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melon, because we really don'
t have chairs, a proper child care

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system. They sell them to us
like they are the best, so to

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speak the best, the machattipirulis,
the safest on the market, because they

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have x marks of poricultures that I
don' t want to do. You

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know what I mean, and they' re often not the safest chairs.

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I mean, this won' t
tire me of saying it. When I

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' m called for a traffic and
I look at this car and I see

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what kind of chair it wears that
p that I can already get an idea

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of what injuries it' s going
to have, although then, already,

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they are implicit. If he'
s wearing a harness, a crush,

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or how I' ve killed,
because it' s often good that he

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' s a five- minute ride. I' ll take it from school

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and come home. There' s
nothing. Three minutes. I' m

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not gonna tie him up,'
cause he' s gonna cry. No,

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for example, I will not fasten
it, because it is that I

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will ride the chicken well, because
the most common traffic accidents are in village

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roads. If we don' t
tie them up, if we don'

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t bring them properly subjects, because
it is more likely that things will happen

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already passing from the chairs that we
have to have, a chair that has

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the plus test seal to be able
to be and that has all the security

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elements, they always recommend the official
countermatch page, because besides they have the

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girls of countermatch, they have a
pdf with all the safe and reliable chairs

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that are in the market. If
you are no longer on this list,

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I' m really sorry, but
it' s not a really safe chair,

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no matter how branded it is,
and no matter how much it cost

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you. So to buy a good
chair you have to go to a site,

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to a specialized store for an inventile
restraint system. Purification shops generally do

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not have such chairs and cannot be
purchased on Amazon, Leitrel, Carreful or

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on large surfaces. And because the
chair, because the chairs aren' t

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worth it. All chairs for all
cars need a specific reclining. Maybe the

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reclining that your car seat has is
too much for the chair you' ve

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chosen. Then you have to try
the chair in the car always to see

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if it goes well, if the
leg supports well, that it is very

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important to have the silver of support
the isofiac, then it is very important

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that that chair is installed And if, moreover, if you can try with

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the child much better, because moreover
it is already completely adjusted. And another

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thing that good, because we buy
the chair and what lasts not, because

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if they are all groups, there
has been so for having together, because

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great and I never review it.
What happens is that they hit the balls

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and with the movement of the little
ones, the chairs go down. They

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must be periodically reviewed, at least
twice a year, to ensure that everything

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goes well, that everything goes according
to the height and weight of p that

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evolves with it. So this has
to go through it. And well,

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other than that, it' s
true that if we live in a city,

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in a city, the parks,
I don' t know why they

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' re near the roads, I
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like that And besides the traffic accidents, there are also many run- ins.

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Then you have to be careful with
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give it any importance. And the
second place we have falls, which is

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something else that, well, we
don' t give importance to and that

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' s what we should also be
more aware of. We should never leave

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the little ones alone, because the
ones with the tronas, the falls of

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changers, the falls of bed,
not the ones with the height of the

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hobogans, for example, because they
are also usually the most common cause of

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emergency. We are not in second
place, but what happens that we underestimate

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them too much. There are times
when we leave them alone. Not that

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it' s been a second.
I' m the first. I'

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ve got two, I' m
mom and I' ll leave it for

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a second too and I' ll
run into the kitchen and get something and

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we think they' re not capable
of and they' re very capable of

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many things, because I' m
going to leave this table here. I

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don' t think he' s
capable of getting on and you turn the

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baby or the one on the table
hasn' t gone, but how he

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' s been able to, because
we have to be careful about those things,

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not leaving them alone you' re
always watched by an adult and we

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don' t believe, they'
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' t get there when I watch
those videos, when I get into social

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media and you watch those videos of
little all painted or that he' s

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allied with me so much, that
you say, but how long you'

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ve had that little Solo. That' s what' s coming, because

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to keep that from being very funny
in the videos. Yeah, we used

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to talk about it a little bit
earlier. The problem when it comes to

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spreading first aid, how you put
in the balance between not scaring and causing

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discomfort also to the mother who is
exhausted and that you are saying to her,

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hey, you don' t leave
your baby alone for a minute and

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the poor girl is there that they
don' t know and when we fight

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that is, how we find there
nerea the balance, especially in the face

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of disclosure, because it is complicated. I myself pose it so as not

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to generate that rejection, but at
the same time to be conscious and hard.

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And he hears that this has to
be said, because it happens to

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have more accidents and there are children
who can die. For this, then

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look. I often use myself in
the first person, because it seems that

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if you read someone' s story
you feel more identified. No. And

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besides, I have two kids who
put me all the egg posts has happened

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to them all. They tell me,' cause it' s better that

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they ask you as a mom why
I do and it' s true,

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I mean, there are days I
don' t have to publish. No,

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and I look at my son what
you' re going to mess with

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me today and then, putting me
in the first person as well and seeing

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how explaining how I managed that situation, how I could have avoided the best

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and what I' ve done afterwards, because it also helps a lot these

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posts, or this prohibitive disclosure of
not doing this or not so look.

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We' re moms, we'
re surviving this stage of motherhood, especially

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in early motherhood, where you seem
to see them and the children want to

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kill themselves constantly because you have to
be there with a thousand eyes all the

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time and as much as you are. Sometimes here you pass and you have

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to flow, you have to have
some things in mind. But if it

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' s happened to the client,
we' re not gonna hit you either.

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We' re not going to whip
it up, it' s okay,

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because it' s happened. Now
let' s see what we have

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to do to keep the situation from
getting worse. So that part of empathy

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and hearing that I' m a
mom, too. These things happen to

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me, too. I think it
helps a lot and not be all with

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him. No. If you do
this, you' re a bad mother.

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If it' s happened to you, this is because you haven'

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t been looking, don' t
look at it or it' s enough

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to blame backpack. We' re
behind to add even more. I don

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' t think that' s logical. This reminds me and this also relates

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to the subject of cars. With
every time it happens in summer, unfortunately,

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the case of a child staying in
the back of the car, as

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happened last summer. You remember then
I think the mom and she had gone

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to work, she had left it
in the car. That has a scientific

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explanation and it' s because we' re really exhausted in our day to

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day and instead of thinking I have
a baby in the car that I have

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to leave them with childish or I
have to get him out of the car,

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we' re already thinking about the
next task, because we' re

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super accelerated and it' s not
that the mom wanted to leave the baby

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in the car on purpose, that
is, that mom wants to leave her

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baby in the car and that something
happens to her. None if you are

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in your right mind, none that
is a good majority, but we are

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going to be accelerated in this present
society, which is already thinking about the

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next task, without finishing the one
we have now. Then I remember last

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year' s news. The top
was judged very hard on that mom and

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besides that there was another news with
a dad and he didn' t judge

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it so much, that is,
notice, because of course, since he

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wasn' t used to carrying the
pe que school infantil. Well, you

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know, but it' s your
baby, too. Then we are like

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very critical and very hard with moms, because it is assumed that that cannot

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happen to us, to dads,
well it can happen to them, because

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of course, poor little ones are
not used in their day to day.

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But with us we are very critical
and very hard and in the scientific evidence

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tells us that this happens to us. It can happen to any of those

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comments about me It wouldn' t
have happened to me, because that mother

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of yours can happen to you.
Dude, it can happen to you,

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because your head and mind when you' re out of sleep doing a lot

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of things running, because in the
end, Mommy and Daddy spent the day

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running from getting up to getting the
kids to bed. It can happen to

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you. And we cannot judge so
much and so hard a mother who is

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suffering a duel because she has lost
what she wants most in this world that

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is assumed, then to divulge,
yes, to be aware, yes,

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but also to understand the situation of
the moment and if that can be explained

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or not, because to see I
understand that there are situations and situations in

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which yes, that have scientific evidence
that can be passed, and there are

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other situations of hearing look is that
your son has drowned in the pool because

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for an hour you have not given
an eye to the child, because different

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situations must be able to differentiate.
So, well, you have to be

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a little careful. And yes,
then, for example, that you be

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made a child in a swimming pool
because you have not paid attention to it,

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because you must not judge it either. I mean, I understand that

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every different circumstance, but they'
re totally different motives. I don'

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t know if you understand me Yes, yes, no. And besides,

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perfectly, and besides, I was
thinking about the name of your project,

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seeing or going and feeling and that
we needed to stop seeing or going and

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feeling. No, so we go
so fast, we go so fast and

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so in autopilot that on many occasions
and then, adding the precariousness in many

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situations, how we experience the stress
that is handled that I don' t

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mean in the case of this mother, because I don' t remember it,

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but in many situations they can be
single mothers or single people. I

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am not going to personalize, but
if we talk about mothers, recent mothers

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with the burden they can have of
health, it is the loneliness that you

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can get to have at that moment
the stress is talked about for example,

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not leaving the children alone mothers who
work in two places and who have no

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more help monoamental families, where,
obviously, the risks, because they are

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the same as in the other case. But here increased because, indeed,

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there are many children alone, but
who is also looking after that caring person,

416
00:29:49,359 --> 00:29:56,480
not in other words, because in
addition, the postpartum is terrifying.

417
00:29:56,640 --> 00:30:00,640
Of course, if you' re
already living a postpartum in a life where

418
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:04,039
there' s someone else taking over, it' s terrible. You with

419
00:30:04,079 --> 00:30:08,880
that tribe with that network living it
alone has to be, because you don

420
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,799
' t want to imagine it,
because, well, there are many moms

421
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:15,200
who don' t know it and
who also go through postpartum depression. Because

422
00:30:15,359 --> 00:30:21,440
yes, well, because this set
of hormones, this amalgam of things,

423
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:25,799
that happen to us in the postpartum
is hunchbacked and if you don' t

424
00:30:25,799 --> 00:30:29,279
sleep and feel sorry, you have
a little one that keeps crying, because

425
00:30:29,319 --> 00:30:32,440
it has colic, it is complicated
and that you have to survive your day

426
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:36,519
by day without a support network,
because it has to be brutal and that

427
00:30:36,519 --> 00:30:37,720
above society. I' m judging
you, he sends it as hard as

428
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,920
he does. Yeah, it'
s awful. In the end, it

429
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:47,119
is an individual question, not of
whether you have not cared for your Baby,

430
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:51,759
obviously, because it is your fault
and the rest of society I know

431
00:30:51,759 --> 00:30:52,359
that bad person, that goes to
the mother, that goes to the woman,

432
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:57,960
that bad father, that bad family
and look how good we are the

433
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:03,000
others how well we do it,
obviously, it does not take away individual

434
00:31:03,559 --> 00:31:10,039
responsibility, but that as a society, because we always have to make a

435
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:14,599
call to the tribe and to the
group, because we are not alone or

436
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:18,519
we should not be alone and to
take care of a baby, for much

437
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:22,359
less, because g is really very
demanding, but I no longer have it,

438
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:27,079
it is not necessary and it is
a simple emergency clear when a mother

439
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:33,920
takes a baby to the children'
s school because she has to work and

440
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:36,759
takes it bad because she has no
other remedy left the whole world jo is

441
00:31:36,759 --> 00:31:37,319
that clear how bad or bad as
you take it to school, is that

442
00:31:37,319 --> 00:31:37,240
clearly you contag me to everyone else. Hey, I' m the first

443
00:31:37,279 --> 00:31:40,880
one I' m suffering. That' s, uh, that my son

444
00:31:41,559 --> 00:31:42,720
is always loved me, because it' s true that every time we go

445
00:31:42,759 --> 00:31:45,240
to school, there' s always
someone who' s sick and I have

446
00:31:45,319 --> 00:31:48,759
the bad luck that my baby gets
it all. But it is true that

447
00:31:48,759 --> 00:31:51,200
we will have to judge the jo
a lot, for this might be.

448
00:31:51,279 --> 00:31:55,559
That mom can' t keep the
little one at home because her job doesn

449
00:31:55,720 --> 00:32:00,599
' t allow her to lose days
of work, because she loses wages and

450
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:04,079
is in a precarious situation. And
we don' t understand. No,

451
00:32:04,079 --> 00:32:07,200
we don' t want to understand
it, because I don' t think

452
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:07,960
understanding it' s that hard either. But we don' t want to.

453
00:32:08,359 --> 00:32:15,039
We do not want because it is
to look at the responsibility of others

454
00:32:15,039 --> 00:32:21,119
and if between neighbors, that is, if between the community, the educational

455
00:32:21,119 --> 00:32:24,519
community, in the cabbages, the
neighbors, the neighborhood. We don'

456
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:30,119
t look out for each other,
because in the end this happens that it

457
00:32:30,279 --> 00:32:32,119
' s all everyone' s fault. You haven' t managed to blame

458
00:32:32,359 --> 00:32:37,599
yourself You already know about the others, and this is obviously all carried away.

459
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:40,799
Of course, it does not take
away is that we have said it

460
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:45,640
before, but it does not take
away that we do not have individual responsibility,

461
00:32:46,799 --> 00:32:54,559
obviously, as my daughter would say, obviously, but let us also

462
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:54,920
be aware that we are a society
and that we should take care of each

463
00:32:54,920 --> 00:33:00,920
other. It would also be easier
and, perhaps, fewer accident things would

464
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:04,599
happen. Yeah, but so far, like, well, motherhood has been

465
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,680
moms'. Basically it' s
true that lately you hear that' s

466
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:15,559
changing mogollón and there are parents involved
and parents present, but so far motherhood

467
00:33:15,559 --> 00:33:19,119
exclusively ours then. How you had
to take him to it like you were

468
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:22,759
the happiest woman in the world without
any kind of trouble and you couldn'

469
00:33:22,839 --> 00:33:25,480
t really ask anyone for help that
you can' t leave your little one

470
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:29,440
with someone. We have not yet
established that network because society has not allowed

471
00:33:29,519 --> 00:33:31,640
us to do so either. You' ve always been like ah well,

472
00:33:31,799 --> 00:33:36,279
you have a son, because it' s your problem and don' t

473
00:33:36,279 --> 00:33:38,200
complain that you' re a mother
and you have to do it right and

474
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,000
you have to manage it yourself and
get through it. So let' s

475
00:33:40,039 --> 00:33:45,440
hope that little by little this will
also change, just as we have parents

476
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:47,759
present, we have a part that
will have a little more awareness that we

477
00:33:47,839 --> 00:33:52,160
have to create a little tribe and
help those moms, those dads that at

478
00:33:52,279 --> 00:33:54,559
a given time need it, as
they change too. So, besides,

479
00:33:54,920 --> 00:34:00,839
now it even looks bad, that' s a little bit me who can

480
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:04,519
ask a neighbor to stay with your
son for a while, that is,

481
00:34:05,079 --> 00:34:08,400
he doesn' t do that anymore. It' s not bad how it

482
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:16,239
' s not your problem don'
t organize and even it looks better to

483
00:34:17,039 --> 00:34:22,400
hire someone who stays with your children
at home, than to ask a favor

484
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,400
from the neighbor, next door family
and no longer generate those nets that makes

485
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:30,639
me think is that that I go
more, they stay with your dog first,

486
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:37,039
if you have to go or the
plant stay with the plants. Yeah,

487
00:34:37,119 --> 00:34:39,440
yeah, well, now we know
what' s going on, that

488
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:46,800
I don' t want to get
in, I don' t want to

489
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:52,639
get in instead, but it just
seems like it' s more fashionable to

490
00:34:52,639 --> 00:34:53,239
have plants than having kids or pets. You know, and with all the

491
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,920
love of plants, of course,
and pets, but let' s see

492
00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:01,000
what people are, the kids,
they' re sons. We say it

493
00:35:01,039 --> 00:35:08,079
all the time. Okay. Turning
to first aid, we have the tendency,

494
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:15,159
that is, we have as at
the moment we have to protect and

495
00:35:15,159 --> 00:35:17,280
be aware and there is more and
more dissemination about it and it is very

496
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:22,039
good that it exists. And then
the voices always arise as you are overprotecting,

497
00:35:22,119 --> 00:35:25,880
do not let them fall, you
are not allowing them to harden.

498
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:34,719
No, that' s because there' s truth and I' m there

499
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:39,159
too, so we have to leave
a little free play. More and more

500
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:44,599
voices are coming out, demanding that
children be allowed to recover that eight-

501
00:35:45,119 --> 00:35:51,440
year- old spirit. But let' s see, we came from gignation,

502
00:35:51,599 --> 00:35:54,920
which has survived mecromine, which has
survived a bleeding from an oxidized nail,

503
00:35:55,239 --> 00:36:00,280
and so you said things like that, then, well, neither so

504
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:04,800
much nor so bald. I mean, you have to have a middle ground.

505
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:07,599
It' s true that kids have
to fall, because they also have

506
00:36:07,599 --> 00:36:10,000
to learn how to put their hands. We cannot give them a bubble,

507
00:36:10,519 --> 00:36:15,800
for example, but neither can we
live how we lived before we survived many

508
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:21,280
things and there have also been many
accidents that before, since there was not

509
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:22,039
so much information, there were not
so many networks. They' re good,

510
00:36:22,119 --> 00:36:24,400
there were no social networks, because
they didn' t know us.

511
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:29,960
But we always know someone who happened
to him in the village. I don

512
00:36:30,039 --> 00:36:35,920
' t know what fell with the
little note, he choked and well,

513
00:36:36,119 --> 00:36:39,519
because in the last second he arrived, I don' t know who turned

514
00:36:39,599 --> 00:36:43,360
him around and managed to untie him
then, well, neither so much nor

515
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,800
so expensive. Now, it'
s true that lately there' s been

516
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:49,840
like a stream of we' re
going to protect them from hurting us.

517
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:54,079
But it even sells that the Mini
horrifies like a cushion that gets on the

518
00:36:54,079 --> 00:36:58,679
baby' s head so that when
you feel them if they fall, they

519
00:36:58,679 --> 00:37:01,360
don' t get hurt. They
don' t see it on a Chinese

520
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:04,159
platform. Yeah, well, you
get a lot of video. I don

521
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:07,519
' t know if it' s
because of course I get clear about the

522
00:37:07,519 --> 00:37:08,360
algorithm and it' s like a
wet. Now they' re gonna start

523
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:12,719
us on a one- way.
You don' t really know that you

524
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:16,000
' ll do the following when we
come in and those who are listening to

525
00:37:16,079 --> 00:37:22,360
us are going to start putting these
things on their screen You' ll see

526
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:25,400
Write us then, it' s
like a backpack they have, as if

527
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:25,840
it were a big cushion in the
head that goes from behind. Then he

528
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:29,880
sees that if you sit him down
and he falls and he won' t

529
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:34,360
hurt himself it' s like a
clear bowl of yellow humor. But that

530
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:38,119
' s not the right thing to
do, because besides, when a falling

531
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:42,119
fish realizes the limits of its body, it realizes that it gets hurt and

532
00:37:42,159 --> 00:37:44,519
when it gets hurt, that it' s going to do the next time

533
00:37:44,559 --> 00:37:47,760
it falls, that it' s
going to prepare and strain. If I

534
00:37:49,199 --> 00:37:51,639
don' t let the fish fall
and protect it I put bubbles everywhere,

535
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:53,000
that won' t do it and
the day it falls it' s going

536
00:37:53,119 --> 00:37:58,400
to hurt. Really, then we' re going to relativize a little bit

537
00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:02,079
to see what we really should put
in them and that I' m not

538
00:38:02,159 --> 00:38:07,360
telling you to put the skin on
her coming and that I know all the

539
00:38:07,519 --> 00:38:09,599
harm in the world, but we
have to be there. But he hears

540
00:38:09,679 --> 00:38:13,400
that nothing happens, because he falls, because he learns what the limits of

541
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:16,280
his body are, that what is
happening to him is pain and that he

542
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:20,400
needs to be remedied and that next
time he will be more careful. When

543
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:23,960
you start to walk or when you
are going to fall you learn to put

544
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:30,800
your hands, then yes, yes, we are there sailing between two waters,

545
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:36,280
because if we have the moment to
padded that already I personally do not

546
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:42,199
like much. In addition, it
generates a lot of heat and is a

547
00:38:42,199 --> 00:38:45,760
slightly grissilla texture. I don'
t and then what we don' t

548
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:50,639
want to be stained with mud too
because we get stained, they stain,

549
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:57,039
they stain the house. You know
sometimes kid has to get dirty, it

550
00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:00,239
' s true, and they look
weird to me because I' m my

551
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:04,480
kids who take off their shoes and
sneakers and often barefoot or you' re

552
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:07,400
playing with the sand. You eat
the sand and you look at me a

553
00:39:07,599 --> 00:39:10,800
little weird it' s sand and
it' s apart that I already tell

554
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:15,079
you that I don' t go
to the park very much because I don

555
00:39:15,159 --> 00:39:19,880
' t like it, I don' t like being in the park very

556
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:22,199
much, because in the end you' re looking after your son and you

557
00:39:22,199 --> 00:39:22,199
' re not going to care for
someone else who' s there, because

558
00:39:22,199 --> 00:39:22,719
it' s true that good.
I am not your parks, but in

559
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:28,239
my parts there are many times that
it is horrifying not that there are many

560
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,840
parents who are in the bank with
their mobile phone and do not pay any

561
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:35,199
attention to them and how well that
you are playing, because they come to

562
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:38,079
play with you and in the end
you end up the park with a lot

563
00:39:38,119 --> 00:39:42,239
of children who are not yours playing
with you giving them of medi has happened

564
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:50,519
to me. Don' t be
those fathers, those mothers, don'

565
00:39:50,519 --> 00:39:52,679
t be. But besides, you, as an emergency first aid technician on

566
00:39:52,679 --> 00:39:59,920
top ideal. There' s an
eye, you don' t rest,

567
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:00,960
you' ve got radar swimming at
some point or you' re always on

568
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:05,760
the street. Yeah, yeah,
no, he' s also at a

569
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:07,400
blacksmith' s house, stick knife. I remember in the first fall my

570
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:10,440
son had that I had nothing at
home, but if he has no gauze,

571
00:40:10,639 --> 00:40:15,039
I went with the child, with
his knees scorched and arms to the

572
00:40:15,159 --> 00:40:20,920
pharmacy. Please, I need lords
and I came to gauze because I like

573
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,320
the child and the pharmaceuticals that know
me and says or Nerea you have nothing

574
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:28,719
at home. I don' t
have anything at home and things happen in

575
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:32,559
my house and many times my partner
tells me jolin nerea because it' s

576
00:40:32,599 --> 00:40:36,920
like he sees it as a sword. My partner has cut us off so

577
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:39,079
nothing is nothing and like Joly that
it hurts me, that I' ve

578
00:40:39,159 --> 00:40:42,199
married, that he listens to everyone, except me, no, because at

579
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:44,400
the house of gold knife of sticks
and yes, when we go to the

580
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,239
park or when it was a place, it' s true that, because

581
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:52,320
the profession takes away and many times
like or that doesn' t seem good

582
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:55,559
idea, or that looks dangerous,
or you anticipate that it won' t

583
00:40:55,559 --> 00:41:02,920
fall. Yeah, that' s
also very baby mother, more than all

584
00:41:04,079 --> 00:41:06,440
the presences many times I try to
disconnect. It' s good, there

585
00:41:06,639 --> 00:41:12,679
' s her mother me. But
it' s also that when we went

586
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:16,280
out, because I know the other
day we went to the movies, we

587
00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:19,280
dropped a person in front of us. I mean, I' m a

588
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,320
little jinxed in that sense, well, in the end it' s always

589
00:41:23,639 --> 00:41:28,679
up to me to help someone hears
and as for news like that about new

590
00:41:28,679 --> 00:41:31,519
accidents. I' m thinking,
for example, of skateboards, what incidence

591
00:41:31,599 --> 00:41:35,960
it' s having, whether you
perceive it more or not. It'

592
00:41:36,079 --> 00:41:39,960
s not being a very significant thing
either. No, because when you see

593
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:43,559
that it is charged on the mat
or it is usually a blow to the

594
00:41:43,559 --> 00:41:49,159
head, mouth or knees and usually
cures the papís at home. What'

595
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:52,679
s more is the theme of the
babysitter choir, that' s to take

596
00:41:52,679 --> 00:41:58,320
the kids by the hand for the
overprotection issue we talked about before. We

597
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:00,559
take them by the hand all the
time until we' re seven or so

598
00:42:00,559 --> 00:42:04,239
years old. Then, when they
are going to fall, we do not

599
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:07,039
let them fall because they have stumbled, because they have stepped wrong. We

600
00:42:07,079 --> 00:42:09,760
don' t let them fall or
we pull our arms so they don'

601
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:15,559
t fall. And in that tug
a dislocation of the elbow is caused and

602
00:42:15,559 --> 00:42:19,920
the lunar ligament between the two bones
is separated. And then it' s

603
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:22,679
left with a rotation of the elbow
inwards, outwards, and it' s

604
00:42:22,679 --> 00:42:27,320
called a babysitting code. That'
s precisely why, and we' re

605
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:30,519
seeing more lately. And what'
s coming back, which I don'

606
00:42:30,599 --> 00:42:36,000
t like at all and good is
considered child abuse, is that we have

607
00:42:36,079 --> 00:42:40,199
it as already forgotten and it'
s coming back again is the wetting of

608
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:45,679
babies with hot water to teach them
how to make feet or poop without diaper,

609
00:42:46,159 --> 00:42:49,119
and that causes a lot of burns
and is being seen again. You

610
00:42:49,199 --> 00:42:52,719
' re seeing the repoint again after
the pandemic. It' s amazing and

611
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:55,719
the baby' s coming, so
imagine they' re getting caught. That

612
00:42:55,960 --> 00:43:00,920
' s right Back legs and butt
stays here and just as they put them

613
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:07,119
in the water they think it'
s warm, but for kids it'

614
00:43:07,119 --> 00:43:10,519
s too hot. The whole belly, butt and everything burned ends and he

615
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:16,079
' s seeing more lately and it' s a shame because it' s

616
00:43:16,079 --> 00:43:21,840
more classified as child abuse. One
question. In those cases, you have

617
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:25,599
to report it. If we,
when we have a warning, are stated

618
00:43:25,679 --> 00:43:30,760
by the team that attends first and
then also in the hospital, we fill

619
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:36,880
out a report for social services.
That is to say, we have a

620
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:40,079
part of intervention in which we fill
in all the data of the child what

621
00:43:40,079 --> 00:43:45,119
happened, how he was when we
arrived, what practice we have done to

622
00:43:45,199 --> 00:43:50,880
him, that we have implemented him
and in what conditions we leave him in

623
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:53,360
the hospital and in the back,
because we have the intervention with police.

624
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:59,920
How to look at a section where
we explain why they should act socially.

625
00:44:00,599 --> 00:44:04,559
It' s like a wake-
up call that today you have to look

626
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:12,519
at this case because they need help
and you' re sensing. There are

627
00:44:12,519 --> 00:44:15,840
more cases apart from this one that
you tell us that the truth leaves me

628
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:22,320
perplexed. I can' t believe
it, but you notice more cases than

629
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:28,599
before. Either you see an evolution, or how you see it, then

630
00:44:28,599 --> 00:44:32,280
look. I' ve been guarding
for sixteen years and it' s true

631
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:37,440
that sixteen years ago there were a
few cases, but lately it' s

632
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:38,840
from the pandemic. There' s
been one more evolution. It' s

633
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:45,639
like the moment we got locked up, everything got worse, and I'

634
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:50,519
ve heard the involution in respect,
action to the little ones, even with

635
00:44:50,599 --> 00:44:53,960
the baby syndrome shaken. There is
also more to the pandemic. I make

636
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:59,920
an uptick you must be shaken.
But in a situation, an exceptional situation,

637
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:07,159
we were at home, we got
out a lot of people, because

638
00:45:07,199 --> 00:45:10,639
it was the three I had every
day and having a baby at home crying

639
00:45:10,679 --> 00:45:15,000
constantly with which you can' t
go out, because we' ve all

640
00:45:15,039 --> 00:45:17,639
suffered that time when you have a
little baby, with which you don'

641
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:21,559
t sleep, but you go out
on the street and it looks like he

642
00:45:21,559 --> 00:45:22,559
hears the air gives you the air
is another story. But when you have

643
00:45:22,599 --> 00:45:24,800
a nine, twenty- four or
seven at home that keeps crying and you

644
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:30,719
can' t get out, because
I don' t think I' m

645
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:31,920
justifying it at all, because it' s still ill- treatment and the

646
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:36,199
aftermath is horrific. But there has
been an upturn through the pandemic if you

647
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:39,880
haven' t shaken me the same
way. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

648
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:49,239
Clearly, the situation behind it is
painful, that is, it is a

649
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:54,320
pandemic. I think we can consider
it in a very critical situation, but

650
00:45:54,400 --> 00:46:00,800
it is a pity that precisely the
most vulnerable should not miss me, I

651
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:04,079
should not be surprised, unfortunately,
but the most vulnerable are those who suffer

652
00:46:04,079 --> 00:46:08,159
the most. But notice that they
have been talking about this phenomenon for a

653
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:14,840
long time and that it should not
be done. But it does not seem

654
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:17,039
to end well, and it is
also very difficult to control it. Sometimes

655
00:46:17,079 --> 00:46:22,639
it' s not that you get
to a point where you lose self-

656
00:46:22,639 --> 00:46:25,280
control. In addition, in the
pandemic In addition, reports have already come

657
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:30,239
out that the most harmed were the
small ones and the women who suffered much

658
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:36,079
more abuse and ill- treatment,
and the small ones the child sexual abuse

659
00:46:36,639 --> 00:46:40,400
that also occurred. And well,
that' s horrible to live with your

660
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:44,519
aggressor and you can' t get
out and you can' t ask for

661
00:46:44,519 --> 00:46:49,719
help. And well, uff Look, we' re coming back to memories

662
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:52,079
of that time that looks like we' ve been through it for a long

663
00:46:52,079 --> 00:46:55,039
time. I don' t know
if it' s happening to you,

664
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:58,280
but I kind of kind of got
you locked up, yeah, that'

665
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:00,800
s true. I don' t
know listeners if it happens to you too

666
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:06,880
others that I have like a mental
fog, I have it very diffuse and

667
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:10,800
even I don' t, but
there are many people who already romanticize this

668
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:16,400
moment of ay we didn' t
have to leave when there wasn' t

669
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:22,559
that stress, empty streets and such
and then we found, we made bread,

670
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:28,400
we made Gymnastics at home, telework
and so much and eye, little

671
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:34,760
eye, let' s not forget
what was there in the background and the

672
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:39,079
unprivileged situations that if they lived at
that time, that how did you get

673
00:47:39,119 --> 00:47:43,000
the worst out of our society made
soling, of course not everyone did it

674
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:43,000
in the best way or in the
best conditions, of course it' s

675
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:50,119
true. And besides, we are
talking here with a ng precisely dedicated to

676
00:47:50,119 --> 00:47:52,960
the protection of children that I don' t remember now, that I don

677
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,440
' t know if it was that
way, I don' t think it

678
00:47:55,440 --> 00:48:02,159
was that way for Children, but
now I don' t remember what it

679
00:48:02,199 --> 00:48:10,800
was precisely about the increase of cano
of violence in childhood and adolescence and of

680
00:48:12,039 --> 00:48:12,519
requests for help to this platform,
because it really was a terrible time.

681
00:48:12,639 --> 00:48:17,519
But well let' s do there
as I don' t want to take

682
00:48:17,519 --> 00:48:22,760
it back and at least learn a
little bit about whether there' s something

683
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:27,519
positive left or try to repeat ourselves, not try to learn from what was

684
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:32,960
lived and what we said before,
recover that feeling of tribal protection that on

685
00:48:34,079 --> 00:48:37,400
many occasions we can' t do
everything alone or alone. And the moment

686
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:42,519
that, plus your metepeta because already
for a moment you don' t have

687
00:48:42,599 --> 00:48:46,000
a baby. Your body has changed. You also have a hormonal component that

688
00:48:46,199 --> 00:48:51,159
' s a brutal cocktail. There
are times when you can' t anymore.

689
00:48:51,639 --> 00:48:53,760
If you have someone who can give
you a hand, because I know

690
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:58,280
he takes the kid for two hours
and you can sleep, you can rest,

691
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:01,960
you can take a shower. It' s just that it helps a

692
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:07,320
lot. So that tribe that part
is fundamental in any mom and it'

693
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:12,119
s true that lately it' s
being taken very seriously. But much remains

694
00:49:12,159 --> 00:49:19,440
to be done. And I don' t want to come in with you

695
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:21,519
because I also want to address other
issues and you' re specialized in childhood.

696
00:49:21,599 --> 00:49:27,719
But just yesterday I saw some news
of a child' s death eleven

697
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:34,559
or twelve years. I don'
t know if it was much more than

698
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:42,079
because he had been drugged into an
energy, ethical drink, yes, and

699
00:49:42,079 --> 00:49:43,480
he had passed away vegetable. And
besides, yes. Yeah. That is

700
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:50,079
Madrid, a town of Madrid,
a crazy city, that is, and

701
00:49:50,079 --> 00:49:54,360
it is not for alerting. We
go back to before that it seems you

702
00:49:54,440 --> 00:50:00,639
don' t know how alert you
are, you get scared or not,

703
00:50:01,079 --> 00:50:06,559
but guys, there you have to
say that things happen, things happen and

704
00:50:06,559 --> 00:50:09,320
things exist. So, good to
this guy who wasn' t eleven dyes,

705
00:50:10,119 --> 00:50:14,760
fourteen or fourteen. The group of
friends can be called friends, because

706
00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:19,480
I don' t know to what
extent. They distracted him and put that

707
00:50:19,639 --> 00:50:23,119
in his drink and ran him off. They abandoned him to his fate and

708
00:50:23,119 --> 00:50:25,840
of course, he, without knowing
anything, drank his drink and within a

709
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:35,760
few minutes died intoxicated. Only then
is it very important that we make our

710
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:40,119
own children aware of what companies they
have. You have to be very careful

711
00:50:40,119 --> 00:50:44,559
and I' m not still living
in the teenage or preteen stage. I

712
00:50:44,599 --> 00:50:49,079
think you' re at that stage
and you have to be very aware of

713
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:51,280
who you' re going with,
who are you talking to? It seems

714
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:52,840
fundamental to me, but not only
that, but I think there is a

715
00:50:52,960 --> 00:51:00,000
previous job, as in first aid
and prevention of talking to our children.

716
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:04,320
They will listen no more, they
will listen less, but at least they

717
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:08,239
have that information that part of mom
and dad, because they tell him that

718
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:13,000
they have to be careful, because
they are friends, but to what extent

719
00:51:13,079 --> 00:51:17,440
they have to set limits. Just
as this issue of boundaries has not been

720
00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:23,519
a subject that has been opened up
so far. Not because now we start

721
00:51:23,599 --> 00:51:28,800
putting limits, we start putting limits
on grandma, we start putting limits on

722
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:32,000
the couple, we start putting limits
on friends and teaching a kid that he

723
00:51:32,039 --> 00:51:39,400
has to put limits even to his
parents are now and still willing, uh

724
00:51:39,519 --> 00:51:52,119
they still play hippite mother. So
yes, these things happen, but just

725
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:58,639
like many others happen and we only
see a very small percentage that comes out

726
00:51:58,679 --> 00:52:02,639
in the press that maybe, for
example, of me a week on a

727
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:07,800
guard. I have attended twelve fourteen
speeches on the same watch and there has

728
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:14,760
been no mention of any of them. Then things happen, but we don

729
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:17,119
' t want to see them.
We don' t want to see them

730
00:52:17,119 --> 00:52:19,199
or we don' t want them. There' s a lot of eyes.

731
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:22,559
I' ll tell you one thing. I' ve even been the

732
00:52:22,599 --> 00:52:25,840
same one who didn' t want
to read things when she' s pregnant.

733
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:30,320
You say I can' t.
I can' t read certain news.

734
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:32,960
I can' t read certain things
because I get bad and I know

735
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:37,320
that there are a lot of people
who do the same thing when they see

736
00:52:37,559 --> 00:52:38,079
news, that' s how it
goes to slip. They don' t

737
00:52:38,559 --> 00:52:43,079
want to know anything and many times, knowing what' s going on around

738
00:52:43,119 --> 00:52:45,039
you, you can get to prevent
an accident in your own family. Then

739
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:52,320
don' t close your eyes,
because we live in a society and good

740
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:55,920
things happen. I want to be
aware of there, yes, yes,

741
00:52:57,559 --> 00:53:00,960
totally. And if it happens to
me so much that I don' t

742
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:07,960
have times when I don' t
have a hard time looking at certain things,

743
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:08,639
but don' t look at it. I don' t mean it

744
00:53:08,639 --> 00:53:13,920
doesn' t happen. And this
is a background race. Friends and friends,

745
00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:19,000
you have to be there constantly,
watch out all the time. Sometimes

746
00:53:19,039 --> 00:53:22,400
we' ll sin a little bit, you might get a little bit of

747
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:25,119
a break. I' m also
remembering personal anecdote lives total. But my

748
00:53:25,119 --> 00:53:30,480
son told me the other day that
on the courts where he plays football,

749
00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:35,159
because they had a friend, an
elderly man, a clear, accurate friend,

750
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:40,239
exactly. That' s the face, and if you' re not

751
00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:43,119
watching us on YouTube, you can
see it. That' s the face

752
00:53:43,159 --> 00:53:49,159
that stayed with me while we were
having dinner and he told me that and

753
00:53:47,039 --> 00:53:50,920
who' s that he' s
another father, that' s a friend

754
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:52,400
' s father. No, no, no, no, it' s

755
00:53:52,440 --> 00:54:01,519
not a gentleman I what sir for
Paul what, gentlemen, is not a

756
00:54:01,519 --> 00:54:08,000
lord. He knows the whole neighborhood. I didn' t feel comfortable in

757
00:54:10,679 --> 00:54:15,280
a clear dress and we already had
a serious conversation there, which my son

758
00:54:15,119 --> 00:54:17,800
looked at me as it is,
if it' s very nice and I

759
00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:22,760
mean, as he was telling me, I was having more red alarms everywhere,

760
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:30,840
but well, regardless of this case, we will follow very carefully from

761
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:32,079
this house and to which poor person
will be very good. But I already

762
00:54:32,199 --> 00:54:37,559
have a lot of attention to him
and I have already told him not to

763
00:54:37,559 --> 00:54:39,440
ride with him, to which he
has told me goes in misci Do not

764
00:54:40,519 --> 00:54:44,360
worry or eat anything that he gives
him. Sure, sure, I look

765
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:50,360
the same. Don' t give
him anything, you' re fine Hi

766
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:52,760
Don' t give him his phone. Please, and this thing that we

767
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:59,920
take to Risa, of course,
is that it happens to her, that

768
00:55:00,199 --> 00:55:05,039
is really yes, yes, it' s one thing that you skip and

769
00:55:05,039 --> 00:55:07,239
you have to skip. It'
s just that I was just saying to

770
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:09,000
my son, I' m your
mother. If I wasn' t your

771
00:55:09,159 --> 00:55:14,880
mother, I might say very well, but it' s that my duty

772
00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:17,599
and duty doesn' t and besides, when you' re conscious and you

773
00:55:19,039 --> 00:55:19,880
see all the things that happen,
it' s worse. I mean,

774
00:55:20,079 --> 00:55:22,440
I see a lot of things and
I see a lot of raw things.

775
00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:25,559
There isn' t. Sometimes my
partner tells me to relax a little because

776
00:55:27,119 --> 00:55:30,119
the child has to live, not
the other day you invite him to sleep

777
00:55:30,159 --> 00:55:32,440
in a house. And I don' t, no, no, my

778
00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:35,960
son doesn' t stay to sleep
at anyone' s house why,'

779
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:38,639
cause I' ve got a lot
on my mind about infatious sexual abuse.

780
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:42,559
Then it' s like no.
No, no, no, the kid,

781
00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:45,000
I mean, he' s five
years old where he' s going

782
00:55:45,079 --> 00:55:46,280
to sleep if it' s not
at his house. And I' m

783
00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:51,360
sure I never let him sleep at
anyone' s until I' m older.

784
00:55:51,639 --> 00:55:54,480
And then sometime I' ll have
to give in to that part that

785
00:55:54,519 --> 00:55:58,800
I also have to let him live
that experience and have a good time.

786
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:01,599
But I will be, for as
you no longer go home, who you

787
00:56:01,599 --> 00:56:04,960
go from and what the father'
s name is, what the mother'

788
00:56:04,960 --> 00:56:07,440
s name is. And of course, of course it' s the good

789
00:56:07,519 --> 00:56:12,360
thing that my son told me that
they had already explained it to him in

790
00:56:12,559 --> 00:56:17,159
school and that you knew that I
knew it, which I liked because well,

791
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:22,480
well, it' s not okay, we' re not doing it

792
00:56:22,559 --> 00:56:23,079
wrong ok, but I don'
t know who you are. If you

793
00:56:23,079 --> 00:56:24,559
' re arguing with me, I
don' t know who you are.

794
00:56:24,639 --> 00:56:34,920
Get away from my son. I' ll put you down, sir,

795
00:56:35,199 --> 00:56:37,960
or you' ve got another park
that visits what you' re doing there,

796
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:40,400
what you' re doing. I' m sorry, uh, but

797
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:45,199
it' s just that these things
can only be commented on suddenly at other

798
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:50,239
times, because if they can'
t cross you off a little bit,

799
00:56:50,639 --> 00:56:53,800
I don' t know, but
they happen, and I always have in

800
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:59,360
me I don' t know if
you' ve read the James Roads instrumental

801
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:04,639
book, but I always recommend it
to everyone, even though it' s

802
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:07,199
very hard, that you cry enough, that it' s tremendous, but

803
00:57:07,199 --> 00:57:09,719
I leave it there. I'
m on it. I didn' t

804
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:15,039
know him, but I write him
down, because piece of history, it

805
00:57:15,119 --> 00:57:16,400
' s not the only thing that
his testimony has told. But in the

806
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:21,760
history of abuse he suffered by his
gym teacher, I' m sorry Gymnastics

807
00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:28,800
teachers, but continued for several years. No one found out about any teacher,

808
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:36,280
or his mother, anyone, and
with horrible sequels, horrible ones,

809
00:57:37,199 --> 00:57:42,800
and that book to me is that
it marked me a lot then always,

810
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:45,239
that is, because always, besides, you put yourself in the place of

811
00:57:45,239 --> 00:57:51,320
that mother. I couldn' t
help it, not and I said it

812
00:57:51,559 --> 00:57:58,840
' s my mother. So nothing. That closes the chapter, strange chapter,

813
00:57:59,119 --> 00:58:00,519
yes, a chapter that suddenly did
not enter here, but that has

814
00:58:00,599 --> 00:58:05,679
arisen and that, well, we
could also enter into prevention, not only

815
00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:09,760
first aid. But there because here
we also talk about many situations that good,

816
00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:15,920
because if we can avoid, then
much better, obviously, and passing

817
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:17,920
on that he ay sorry, do
not tell me that of no. It

818
00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:21,599
hasn' t happened to me,
it doesn' t exist, because yes,

819
00:58:21,679 --> 00:58:24,480
yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, of course and it

820
00:58:24,559 --> 00:58:28,920
doesn' t happen to you until
what happens to someone, and precisely in

821
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:34,159
the case of sexual abuse in childhood, they are people, most of the

822
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:39,840
environment, of the closest environment,
family around friends, teachers, educational environment

823
00:58:40,039 --> 00:58:44,960
with which they spend the most time, our little coaches, now the case

824
00:58:45,039 --> 00:58:47,519
of gymnastics has come up again.
I don' t know if artistic gymnastics,

825
00:58:47,719 --> 00:58:54,079
but they' ve reported abuse by
a coach again. Yes, you

826
00:58:54,159 --> 00:58:59,000
' re afraid of sometimes leaving them
with someone, because it' s clear,

827
00:58:59,159 --> 00:59:02,519
of course, then and they'
re no longer friends, but nothing

828
00:59:02,519 --> 00:59:07,719
happens to ask a lot and be
there and still don' t be calm.

829
00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:12,679
You never go into this anymore It' s already as a universal rule

830
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:15,400
of motherhood and parenthood You' re
not going to be calm. He'

831
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:24,159
s never still crazy to pick a
plant, this thing we' re gonna

832
00:59:24,199 --> 00:59:28,440
see and I' m dying.
I have them artificial because they don'

833
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:30,400
t survive me, so imagine.
There' s no look at my time,

834
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:32,440
either. It has a terrace full
of plants. It' s got,

835
00:59:32,719 --> 00:59:36,320
like, two hundred and five floors
and three floors, you take suddenly,

836
00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:40,800
I don' t, not that
in the squares give it a chance

837
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:44,519
to live that I all die.
Not good. We are going to pass

838
00:59:44,599 --> 00:59:46,360
on a nice topic, which is
the theme of the babysigne, which I

839
00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:51,639
like very much and which you also
offer inside your website and which seems to

840
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:54,719
me a little known topic that here
in mother fera we have also talked about

841
00:59:54,719 --> 00:59:58,880
some time ago. But tell us
a little bit, how you get into

842
00:59:58,920 --> 01:00:05,599
this babysign topic and why. Because
for a lot of people who say so

843
01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:09,960
look, I get in because my
son wept a lot and with a few

844
01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:13,519
months I said Mira. There'
s got to be something I can understand

845
01:00:13,559 --> 01:00:16,480
you with. No, as I
am a lot of scientific evidence to look

846
01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:20,360
for information and so, one of
these typical nights at three in the morning

847
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:22,280
with the little one here on the
boob and the mobile in the hand,

848
01:00:23,039 --> 01:00:27,360
because looking for information, came out
of Bavis and I say good. But

849
01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:30,360
I don' t think this will
work. I mean, abeth signs,

850
01:00:30,559 --> 01:00:34,880
animal signs. I don' t
know about me, and the truth is,

851
01:00:35,199 --> 01:00:36,320
I was very skeptical and I kind
of didn' t want to implement

852
01:00:36,320 --> 01:00:38,920
it. But look at another super
desperate day with a high- demand baby

853
01:00:39,360 --> 01:00:42,880
that I couldn' t even leave
on the floor and I said look I

854
01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:45,960
just need to. I need to
know what the hell' s wrong with

855
01:00:46,039 --> 01:00:50,719
you because I changed your diaper and
fed you. I need to know and

856
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:53,280
tell me how to find out what' s happening to you right now,

857
01:00:54,199 --> 01:00:59,679
not and I decided to implement it
without having much hope in it, and

858
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:01,760
since it' s true that you
have to try to happen a period of

859
01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:06,920
time when the baby realizes that I' m doing that sign, he'

860
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:07,199
s communicating with me, because I
don' t know if I remember.

861
01:01:07,239 --> 01:01:12,760
If it took three weeks, four
weeks for the Pirmer sign to return me,

862
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:16,800
then I said oysters, this does
work, then I started putting in

863
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:22,760
more signs and my son started communicating
with me through signs. Then my c

864
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:28,519
instructor and you learn the whole thing
about how it worked all the benefits I

865
01:01:28,639 --> 01:01:30,519
had. And it is true that
in the case, for example, of

866
01:01:30,519 --> 01:01:32,599
Braice, because not in all cases
it is the same. My five-

867
01:01:32,719 --> 01:01:38,400
year- old son, at the
age of two, spoke perfectly because as

868
01:01:38,480 --> 01:01:42,679
we had implemented the theme of signs, he communicated through signs. And as

869
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:47,239
you are making the sign while you
are saying the word is more exposed to

870
01:01:47,320 --> 01:01:52,440
this word than on another normal occasion. For example, carin lle let'

871
01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:54,119
s eat take baby and take it
to the kitchen, but when you implement

872
01:01:54,159 --> 01:01:59,440
the signs, repeat it several times
let' s eat baby come, let

873
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:01,920
' s eat we' ll eat
this rich food. Then, in the

874
01:02:01,920 --> 01:02:07,239
end, they understand and go internalizing
those words and have a much broader vocabulary.

875
01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:09,880
And I remember that when we got
to the two- year review,

876
01:02:10,159 --> 01:02:14,679
the doctor said, but you see, there' s going to be about

877
01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:17,400
two or the four, because,
of course, my son was perfectly speaking

878
01:02:17,440 --> 01:02:20,199
that a lot of people think the
signs are being implemented. There' s

879
01:02:20,239 --> 01:02:22,199
going to be a setback in oral
language that they won' t want to

880
01:02:22,199 --> 01:02:25,679
talk about. But it' s
the opposite, because as they are communicating

881
01:02:25,679 --> 01:02:30,320
with you. They' re even
more eager to do it, and they

882
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:32,519
' re starting to make the signs
while they' re uttering the words.

883
01:02:32,519 --> 01:02:36,119
He hasn' t agreed on my
son. Eighteen months later, you told

884
01:02:36,159 --> 01:02:42,599
him what you wanted for banana money. Then he was forcing himself, even

885
01:02:43,039 --> 01:02:47,280
saying the word earlier. And that
helps them a lot with the development of

886
01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:52,599
oral language. It helps them a
lot with the fine motor, motor capacity

887
01:02:52,599 --> 01:02:57,719
in general, because well, because
they have to manipulate, they have to

888
01:02:57,719 --> 01:03:00,599
do the signs with their hands.
They are more aware from their bodies of

889
01:03:00,719 --> 01:03:06,000
where they put their hands and their
heads in their guts. Then it helps

890
01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:07,199
a lot The theme of vision.
And then I specialized in language, if

891
01:03:07,199 --> 01:03:13,840
not Spanish, because the Baviysain is
origin is native to the United States and

892
01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:17,639
many people think that the signs are
universal and not that it will be defining

893
01:03:17,719 --> 01:03:22,639
even in the same language of signs
in Madrid, in the north of Madrid

894
01:03:22,719 --> 01:03:25,599
you can say a sign in one
way, a word in one way and

895
01:03:25,719 --> 01:03:30,039
in the south you can say of
another. So it is true that the

896
01:03:30,079 --> 01:03:34,239
language but American is much more oriented
to the motor capacity of babies, because

897
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:37,519
they are, as the signs are, as much more intuitive. They are

898
01:03:37,599 --> 01:03:43,480
much more prepared than the Spanish sign
language, which is for adults. Basically,

899
01:03:44,239 --> 01:03:50,719
and well, we say implement ourselves. It worked and I say she

900
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:52,119
' s 13 months old now.
I started doing it to her since she

901
01:03:52,599 --> 01:03:57,519
was born and after three months I' ve already started returning signs. In

902
01:03:57,599 --> 01:04:02,840
fact, and babies that when I
live in a family of non- hearing

903
01:04:03,239 --> 01:04:05,960
people sign from good looks then I
said. Well, I' m going

904
01:04:06,039 --> 01:04:11,960
to try it on and it worked
from the age of three months and it

905
01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:13,880
started returning signs to me and to
this day, who is thirteen. And

906
01:04:13,960 --> 01:04:16,000
then, when he wants to ask
you, when he wants to sleep,

907
01:04:16,320 --> 01:04:21,000
he asks me. When you want
to eat too then it' s a

908
01:04:21,079 --> 01:04:25,639
way to communicate that it helps them
a lot to deal with that frustration of

909
01:04:25,639 --> 01:04:26,679
hearing, which is that I want. I' m not, but you

910
01:04:26,719 --> 01:04:27,760
' re giving it up and I
don' t know how to tell you.

911
01:04:28,159 --> 01:04:30,679
And, above all, in the
most important part that is linked to

912
01:04:30,679 --> 01:04:34,440
my profession, he knows if something
hurts and where. Because, well,

913
01:04:34,440 --> 01:04:38,800
this part isn' t researched,
and I' d love to be able

914
01:04:39,519 --> 01:04:44,880
to do a study of this,
because I remember that I shine at fourteen

915
01:04:44,880 --> 01:04:46,360
months, the pain in babies is
like something very abstract. They don'

916
01:04:47,119 --> 01:04:50,079
t really know how to name it, because, well, if you get

917
01:04:50,119 --> 01:04:54,360
a wound, it says pupa and
the sign of the wound and they'

918
01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:56,039
re seeing it, that' s
a wound, that hurts me. But

919
01:04:56,079 --> 01:05:01,320
a bellyache or a headache is something
very difficult to understand and express. I

920
01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:04,559
remember fourteen months that I was very
little, very lying on the couch not.

921
01:05:05,119 --> 01:05:10,159
I told him what' s wrong
with you. You' re okay,

922
01:05:11,079 --> 01:05:15,079
I' m fine, and he
told me that pupa hurt and pointed

923
01:05:15,119 --> 01:05:17,719
his head and it can' t
be anymore. This is by chance,

924
01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:23,119
and I' m gonna ask him
eventually, if you' re okay,

925
01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:28,320
something' s wrong, you'
re in pain, and I re-

926
01:05:28,639 --> 01:05:30,599
allocated my pupa and my head,
I put the thermometer on and I had

927
01:05:30,599 --> 01:05:31,199
agitated, so yes, I can
understand that it hurt his head. It

928
01:05:31,239 --> 01:05:34,000
is true that it was still a
lot of credibility. I mean, this

929
01:05:34,199 --> 01:05:40,400
will be a coincidence, no,
but it' s weeks later he signified

930
01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:45,639
me pupa and pointed out the belly
that hurt his belly and I stayed the

931
01:05:45,719 --> 01:05:47,119
same again. It can' t
be that you' re telling me to

932
01:05:47,119 --> 01:05:50,199
give you the garriga. I'
ll give you your belly, honey,

933
01:05:50,800 --> 01:05:56,079
and at the moment one day you' re out of the blue, and

934
01:05:56,159 --> 01:05:59,519
you' re going everywhere, and
I' m saying yes, son,

935
01:05:59,760 --> 01:06:00,320
yes, I' m going to
give you my belly. For me it

936
01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:02,119
was fundamental, not only because of
the whole issue of benefit it has,

937
01:06:02,320 --> 01:06:06,079
of tantrum reduction, that it can
communicate with you in a much more effective

938
01:06:06,159 --> 01:06:12,239
way, etc, language development,
but because so I can understand and what

939
01:06:12,239 --> 01:06:16,760
hurts you? If something hurts,
because many times we over- medicate,

940
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:20,960
we read a little bit and it
hurts something, because I' m going

941
01:06:21,000 --> 01:06:24,400
to give you the progenus or the
paracetamol to do better. But oysters,

942
01:06:24,639 --> 01:06:28,599
if we' re able to know, then it hurts them and what hurts

943
01:06:28,639 --> 01:06:31,199
them maybe. We can implement other
guidelines instead of not going directly to America

944
01:06:31,920 --> 01:06:34,079
and, for example, already from
the belly, because what I did to

945
01:06:34,199 --> 01:06:39,960
catch a seed cushion I put it
in the gut and we didn' t

946
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:42,320
overmedicate so much. And when we
go to a pediatrician, many times it

947
01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:45,920
' s what happens to him,
because look is that he' s decayed,

948
01:06:45,719 --> 01:06:48,679
is that this patchuc I have a
fever and many times I ask her

949
01:06:48,840 --> 01:06:49,800
back is making ah of her cabals
to know well, look at me heard.

950
01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:53,800
The ear isn' t what the
robe looks at, because it was

951
01:06:53,800 --> 01:06:56,840
a virus. It was such if
they were able to tell us that I

952
01:06:56,920 --> 01:06:59,960
gave her my belly, because I
was already beautyizing her directly to look at

953
01:06:59,960 --> 01:07:01,920
her belly. So that part was
very important to me, and it'

954
01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:06,559
s still important today. With that
and on the part of healthcare professionals,

955
01:07:06,679 --> 01:07:15,079
how they accept that communication from babies
through baby signals without that is, they

956
01:07:15,079 --> 01:07:19,159
take it like when you get to
the pediatrician they say it' s not

957
01:07:19,199 --> 01:07:26,159
that you said with three months,
that my son has said with three months

958
01:07:26,239 --> 01:07:30,119
that his gut hurts. No,
man, at three months, it'

959
01:07:30,239 --> 01:07:32,000
s still not impossible. They can' t tell you, ah well,

960
01:07:32,159 --> 01:07:36,320
but example that assigned me to take
him and such then I, when I

961
01:07:36,440 --> 01:07:40,559
comment on this in the pediatrician,
look at me as clear. Of course

962
01:07:40,559 --> 01:07:43,679
we have the typical mother who thinks
I' m a little four months old.

963
01:07:43,840 --> 01:07:47,880
I' ll take you now,
Father, how you are. And

964
01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:51,000
many times I have to explain no
because and lately I' m already quiet.

965
01:07:51,079 --> 01:07:55,440
I don' t say anything,
but the grandmother who often comes with

966
01:07:55,519 --> 01:07:58,760
me, she' s super mega
proud, that grandson and you' re

967
01:07:58,760 --> 01:08:02,760
letting him go. That way shut
up because of course and besides it is

968
01:08:02,840 --> 01:08:04,679
that lately the healing is as it
is. And every time I give you

969
01:08:04,719 --> 01:08:08,440
a different pellatra to a different nurse. Then of course, my mother,

970
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:12,199
but I' m letting it go
and nurse tells me well, it'

971
01:08:12,199 --> 01:08:15,320
ll be coincidence. I' m
not by chance, but of course,

972
01:08:15,440 --> 01:08:18,279
many times they look at me like
it' s impossible, they' re

973
01:08:18,399 --> 01:08:25,479
telling me and they rarely surprise me
and they say yes and it works and

974
01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:31,239
they ask me for information, but
it' s the least because they look

975
01:08:31,279 --> 01:08:35,399
at me like good that yes,
of course, it already comes to the

976
01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:41,359
mother if it already costs me sometimes
that she goes to the boob that she

977
01:08:41,359 --> 01:08:41,359
doesn' t already put on already
when you tell them that her head exploded.

978
01:08:41,840 --> 01:08:44,880
But this is, I mean,
tea so eugenic. Please, there

979
01:08:45,800 --> 01:08:48,800
are still many places, many professionals
that are not good, because imagine if

980
01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:51,399
I was going to say it is
going to say that it is that the

981
01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:54,880
child has assigned and tells you that
with thirteen months I give him the sweep.

982
01:08:55,039 --> 01:08:57,800
Yes, I see him in a
congress commenting because I did not come

983
01:08:57,960 --> 01:09:01,680
to a mother who combed and the
child had told him that he was worth

984
01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:08,920
the gut with love to the congresses. But I' m imagining it,

985
01:09:09,479 --> 01:09:15,399
I see it, I see it
well, they' re good. Well,

986
01:09:15,239 --> 01:09:18,600
it' s just that I was
thinking that it' s just you,

987
01:09:18,800 --> 01:09:20,880
who also talk about living Winning Law, that you have everything you'

988
01:09:20,880 --> 01:09:24,159
re saying. Not that my son, plus Conan he was making yor bby

989
01:09:24,239 --> 01:09:27,800
the Winning while I was giving him
the boob and all of a sudden I

990
01:09:27,880 --> 01:09:30,439
' ll throw the baby into it
you already have the whole pack to look

991
01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:34,800
at you. So some others.
No, obviously, and do, ma

992
01:09:36,039 --> 01:09:42,760
' am, or be good,
Mommy Look, I' ve been forgiven

993
01:09:42,840 --> 01:09:45,720
for once doing a nurse review that
also told me not to first give her

994
01:09:45,760 --> 01:09:47,880
the puree and when it' s
already full, you already give her pieces.

995
01:09:47,960 --> 01:09:49,760
I wasn' t already saying,
but I, for example, had

996
01:09:49,800 --> 01:09:53,439
a snack the other day. But
I' m in charge. I mean,

997
01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:57,159
whatever he wants and he looked at
me like whatever you want. I

998
01:09:57,239 --> 01:10:00,800
ask him clearly and I say I
ask him if he wants an orange or

999
01:10:00,920 --> 01:10:04,920
if he wants a banana or if
he wants prey, and the boy tells

1000
01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:09,000
me what he wants. Well,
the nurse looks at her with her eyes

1001
01:10:09,079 --> 01:10:12,479
disorbited as clear that the child tells
you what she wants to snack and I

1002
01:10:12,560 --> 01:10:18,079
do, yes, but where she' s going to uchar r. But

1003
01:10:19,039 --> 01:10:21,960
that' s right, they'
re like this, there' s the

1004
01:10:21,960 --> 01:10:25,359
new generations. Uh, please,
have him pick the kid what he wants

1005
01:10:25,399 --> 01:10:27,600
to snack. That' s what
they' re like after they' re

1006
01:10:27,600 --> 01:10:31,119
despots. They don' t come
out clear it' s general, it

1007
01:10:31,199 --> 01:10:34,199
' s got glass, not such
that it' s cinda and on top

1008
01:10:34,239 --> 01:10:34,760
and it tells you that it wants
to snack the banana instead of the orange.

1009
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:40,479
But there will be. I'
ve seen nerea this with a lot

1010
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:43,159
of love. I really mean,
it is. In addition, here we

1011
01:10:43,159 --> 01:10:49,399
interview many pediatrics and nurses and nurses
and healthcare people who hire creatures and families

1012
01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:55,880
in a super respectful manner. But
there is still a lot to do and

1013
01:10:55,880 --> 01:10:59,520
if we have talked many times about
living the winning and the reluctances that exist

1014
01:10:59,560 --> 01:11:02,439
in many cases or of the mater, for example, or breastfeeding, that

1015
01:11:02,479 --> 01:11:08,000
will not have gone around already and
will have been studied and has scientific evidence

1016
01:11:08,039 --> 01:11:12,560
and keeps putting and raising his eyebrow
when you say that you are breast-

1017
01:11:14,000 --> 01:11:17,239
feeding after the two years that already
tell you no longer leaves home until forty.

1018
01:11:19,800 --> 01:11:21,680
It happened to me the other day. What happens is that when you

1019
01:11:21,720 --> 01:11:26,760
already have the information, like you
segment, you don' t and the

1020
01:11:26,800 --> 01:11:29,319
brain disconnects when it starts to receive
you and they' re going to start

1021
01:11:29,439 --> 01:11:31,079
saying things to you and it says
hangs peace and yes, and the sooner

1022
01:11:31,079 --> 01:11:32,840
you get out of the comfort.
But it' s true that they can

1023
01:11:32,880 --> 01:11:35,800
do a lot of damage and more
when you' re probably in a vulnerable

1024
01:11:35,840 --> 01:11:41,800
period, which is the postpartum that
comes to you with phrases of these that

1025
01:11:41,840 --> 01:11:43,720
stick to you and I remember.
My son was born with four kilos in

1026
01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:48,520
a microsomal medium, Microsomal Baby and
went up the pediatrician who also looked me

1027
01:11:48,520 --> 01:11:51,520
in the face and said well,
I will leave you the formula milk,

1028
01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:55,800
why you will not be able to
feed your Baby and I stayed like this

1029
01:11:55,840 --> 01:12:00,880
and even having the information, I
even came down, not only the information

1030
01:12:00,880 --> 01:12:05,279
that is given, but how that
information will be. It is also important

1031
01:12:05,279 --> 01:12:10,000
in this respect. And, on
the other hand, there are the mega

1032
01:12:10,119 --> 01:12:14,760
influencers that have a hundred- and- a- thousand followers, 200 zero

1033
01:12:14,800 --> 01:12:17,560
followers that sometimes give a piece of
information that you say but good and how

1034
01:12:17,560 --> 01:12:24,159
it says this. I' m
going to talk about a very particular case

1035
01:12:24,239 --> 01:12:27,840
of a man who has, because
I don' t know if a million

1036
01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:32,960
and peak of followers that the other
day I made a video of colcho and

1037
01:12:33,479 --> 01:12:39,359
has another sudden death with a brutal
disinformation, but since he has so many

1038
01:12:39,359 --> 01:12:43,800
followers, as they are more heeded, then I come with my thirty zero

1039
01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:45,600
followers, to deny this information.
And it' s like you who will

1040
01:12:45,720 --> 01:12:49,960
know that you have more followers and
of course, you have more information and

1041
01:12:51,039 --> 01:12:57,319
it often costs to demystify things from
other people you say. But, well,

1042
01:12:57,680 --> 01:13:01,119
how to divulge this if this isn' t evidence and costs a lot.

1043
01:13:01,159 --> 01:13:04,600
Not first of all a professional when
you go to the consultation where you

1044
01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:10,079
trust fully that I have mentioned many
times, but simitediate my nurse has told

1045
01:13:10,119 --> 01:13:13,199
me that and they bring Albanians to
your head, but how he told you

1046
01:13:14,039 --> 01:13:15,880
that about a person you trust.
And then, of course, we get

1047
01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:20,600
into networks and we see another mega
influencer that lets you get into a lot

1048
01:13:20,640 --> 01:13:26,840
of weirdness, and those of us
who are aware and up- to-

1049
01:13:27,439 --> 01:13:30,479
date sometimes find it hard to give
that visibility in their hard work. I

1050
01:13:31,319 --> 01:13:36,000
' m not going to ask you
who it is but what it was,

1051
01:13:36,079 --> 01:13:41,199
because the truth is, I haven' t heard what it was that he

1052
01:13:41,199 --> 01:13:45,359
said and how, I mean,
what the mistake was to leave it,

1053
01:13:45,640 --> 01:13:48,079
just in case he' s listening
to someone who has some doubt about the

1054
01:13:48,079 --> 01:13:53,159
rape and death. Sudden, because
it is a little clarified, because basically

1055
01:13:53,199 --> 01:13:57,199
in the College bad ah well already
clearly made a video that the school that

1056
01:13:57,560 --> 01:14:01,000
the baby has to sleep, made, room and in his crib that no

1057
01:14:01,119 --> 01:14:04,920
sleep, because you can kill him. I mean yes, with these words

1058
01:14:05,119 --> 01:14:09,760
it' s like but if you' re taking on breastfeeding, in case

1059
01:14:09,760 --> 01:14:12,279
you kiss your mother' s stay, you' re ruining your mother'

1060
01:14:12,720 --> 01:14:15,079
s sleep, because we already know
that she gets very little sleep and if

1061
01:14:15,119 --> 01:14:17,000
you have you, baby favors the
baby' s and mother' s sleep.

1062
01:14:18,319 --> 01:14:20,960
You' re making me feel bad. There' s a lot of

1063
01:14:21,039 --> 01:14:26,319
moms that we have more choice but
to make a baby, because so they

1064
01:14:26,439 --> 01:14:27,279
can rest a little longer and because
they want to do it. As a

1065
01:14:27,279 --> 01:14:30,479
matter of fact, I do college
with both of them and one is five

1066
01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:31,920
and a half years old and the
other is thirteen months old. So I

1067
01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:36,399
' m sick of even good nurses
and family when the child will sleep alone

1068
01:14:36,399 --> 01:14:42,640
in his room, never when the
child wants to why we' re in

1069
01:14:42,720 --> 01:14:45,520
that hurry. And, on the
other hand, the subject of sudden death,

1070
01:14:45,000 --> 01:14:48,039
which compared it to an asfixe shrapnel
and had nothing to do with it.

1071
01:14:48,520 --> 01:14:51,960
And here there were a lot of
people who wrote to me because I

1072
01:14:51,960 --> 01:14:55,640
have followers who have suffered the subject
of sudden death and it' s something

1073
01:14:55,640 --> 01:14:57,920
that happens in the baby' s
brain. It' s not something that

1074
01:14:58,159 --> 01:15:01,920
can be associated with asphyxiation, it' s also worth it and this gentleman,

1075
01:15:02,039 --> 01:15:08,239
because he' s a gentleman,
what he said was that sudden death

1076
01:15:08,319 --> 01:15:12,439
was the fault of the parents because
they put things in the crib with which

1077
01:15:12,439 --> 01:15:14,479
he ended up choking. And it' s not real. Sudden death happens

1078
01:15:14,560 --> 01:15:17,479
because there are receptors in the brain
that do not suggest that he had stopped

1079
01:15:17,520 --> 01:15:24,279
breathing and has nothing to do with
asphyxiation or heeling. They' re two

1080
01:15:24,279 --> 01:15:29,159
different things. Then there were many
families who wrote me affected by this not

1081
01:15:29,239 --> 01:15:31,680
and hurt you hear, this gentleman
is blaming me for having had a loss

1082
01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:36,359
of my baby. Then you have
to be careful what you say. I

1083
01:15:36,399 --> 01:15:42,079
beg your pardon. It was the
subject of sudden death. Besides, there

1084
01:15:42,159 --> 01:15:49,640
' s no literature, it'
s still being studied, it' s

1085
01:15:49,960 --> 01:16:00,479
still talking about this topic and I
wish there was true the correct scientific evidence

1086
01:16:00,479 --> 01:16:05,359
to say don' t do this, this and this and done and with

1087
01:16:05,359 --> 01:16:05,960
that you make sure it doesn'
t happen. But it' s not

1088
01:16:06,039 --> 01:16:10,239
a phalan, it' s not. It' s not because you have

1089
01:16:10,319 --> 01:16:14,359
a lot of prevention. If it
has to happen, it' s going

1090
01:16:14,560 --> 01:16:20,039
to happen and it' s a
nightmare for every family that suddenly listens to

1091
01:16:20,039 --> 01:16:25,079
us. No, please, you' re trying not to consider it,

1092
01:16:25,319 --> 01:16:29,359
but it' s true that you' re facing it, because it'

1093
01:16:29,359 --> 01:16:31,520
s true that it really happens.
But from there to link it. You

1094
01:16:31,520 --> 01:16:36,159
can' t blame families and something
that escapes or at their hand. Of

1095
01:16:36,159 --> 01:16:45,239
course, regardless of whether there are
risk factors that we all know and that

1096
01:16:45,279 --> 01:16:47,920
must be avoided, we already know
that in the case of the school it

1097
01:16:47,960 --> 01:16:54,640
has always been said, moreover,
in an era where it is when parents

1098
01:16:54,960 --> 01:16:59,479
are or have drunk or have taken
drugs, or there is a situation or

1099
01:16:59,479 --> 01:17:01,399
take medication, for example, of
course they cannot be fired. He'

1100
01:17:01,159 --> 01:17:06,520
s not overweight, either. There
are situations of risk that physically or psychologically

1101
01:17:06,520 --> 01:17:12,319
eye, as it can affect when
caring for that creature. But everyone who

1102
01:17:12,359 --> 01:17:15,479
' s slept with babies that I' ve also made up, we know

1103
01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:23,640
what it means, I mean,
you don' t lie there and sleep

1104
01:17:23,680 --> 01:17:27,079
peacefully and it' s over.
It' s not like that. Then,

1105
01:17:27,119 --> 01:17:32,439
keep the rooms airy, do not
smoke, have no junk around the

1106
01:17:32,600 --> 01:17:41,760
cribs or where they sleep. But
there' s no prescription to prevent sudden

1107
01:17:41,840 --> 01:17:46,399
death. Unfortunately, there isn'
t. And the guy' s wonderful,

1108
01:17:47,359 --> 01:17:53,439
wonderful, wonderful. Yeah, plus, it' s a subject that

1109
01:17:53,479 --> 01:17:56,239
I, as a family, have
lived it, too, and that'

1110
01:17:56,239 --> 01:17:58,680
s how you did it. You' d put your little fingers on when

1111
01:17:58,680 --> 01:18:02,359
you said no, I' d
do some pussy and look at you as

1112
01:18:02,359 --> 01:18:09,359
sorry. You have to get that
baby out of the room and it'

1113
01:18:09,399 --> 01:18:11,159
s been alive, because I work. That' s one of the things

1114
01:18:11,359 --> 01:18:14,039
I wouldn' t do. I, then, when the time comes for

1115
01:18:14,159 --> 01:18:17,000
you, because you think about it, because it really is a help for

1116
01:18:17,039 --> 01:18:23,680
many mothers, especially in my case, for example, for me and breastfeeding

1117
01:18:23,680 --> 01:18:30,399
was wonderful. So if you want
to do some colcho, report to me

1118
01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:31,439
and follow profiles, then I'
m going to ask you. You can

1119
01:18:31,439 --> 01:18:36,640
do it in a safe way.
It is clear that and it must be

1120
01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:41,079
done is like anything else, it
must be done in a safe way.

1121
01:18:41,159 --> 01:18:43,359
Feed, it must be done in
a safe way. You' re not

1122
01:18:43,439 --> 01:18:47,720
going to give anything to the baby, you don' t look aphic,

1123
01:18:47,920 --> 01:18:53,079
that the battery is very hard and
you have to flow and you can'

1124
01:18:53,119 --> 01:18:55,960
t judge what other moms do.
Not then, because within each of its

1125
01:18:56,000 --> 01:18:58,720
possibilities and its circumstations, we do
it as best we can and know.

1126
01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:02,000
And from there, I think,
well, there are things where we can

1127
01:19:02,039 --> 01:19:09,399
' t judge so lightly. No
good, so blame the parents for certain

1128
01:19:09,439 --> 01:19:14,479
things. I mean, there are
things and things, obviously, and for

1129
01:19:14,479 --> 01:19:15,760
example, food. You' re
giving cookies to your child every day,

1130
01:19:16,159 --> 01:19:19,159
because he' s usually going to
be overweight. But if one day you

1131
01:19:19,239 --> 01:19:21,800
give him cookies because you don'
t have any more namedia, I didn

1132
01:19:21,840 --> 01:19:25,439
' t give you tie to prepare
the snack, go through the supermarket and

1133
01:19:25,439 --> 01:19:27,600
it was the first thing you got, then look. Listen, we'

1134
01:19:27,640 --> 01:19:30,239
re not going to judge her mom
that that afternoon she brings a bag of

1135
01:19:30,640 --> 01:19:35,560
cookies or potatoes to her little one
or that one weekend, because they go

1136
01:19:35,640 --> 01:19:40,960
to the typical desert or to the
Burger to eat a hamburger, because nothing

1137
01:19:40,960 --> 01:19:47,079
happens either. You have to influence, because in NBA it is only left

1138
01:19:47,239 --> 01:19:55,199
to recommend to our audience that they
visit your website to see or go and

1139
01:19:55,279 --> 01:20:00,359
feel like visiting your profile, that
they find out about the workshops that you

1140
01:20:00,039 --> 01:20:06,159
do that you already saw, since
of benefits it has, on the one

1141
01:20:06,159 --> 01:20:09,640
hand, to know about first aid. It' s good for everyone,

1142
01:20:11,000 --> 01:20:12,680
for everyone you have children or you
don' t have children. Please,

1143
01:20:13,039 --> 01:20:18,960
this already as well, as obviously, we should not all know first aid,

1144
01:20:19,520 --> 01:20:23,880
because we live in society. We
can all get through to your neighbor

1145
01:20:24,279 --> 01:20:28,359
going down the street traveling on the
plane. Not the typical John wants you

1146
01:20:28,439 --> 01:20:33,159
to be a doctor, yes,
you can save lives. I' m

1147
01:20:33,159 --> 01:20:36,319
still a lot. I also recommend
a lot always when I talk about first

1148
01:20:36,399 --> 01:20:42,720
ausilios, there is RCP des de
mi cole that divulges on Twitter, in

1149
01:20:42,920 --> 01:20:45,159
this case it is in x always
on Instagram. I don' t even

1150
01:20:45,239 --> 01:20:45,720
know if he' s here,' cause I think he' s gone.

1151
01:20:45,880 --> 01:20:49,119
I don' t even think so. She' s from Twitter,

1152
01:20:49,680 --> 01:20:56,159
from the oll school. But follow
profiles, because that is what they tell

1153
01:20:56,159 --> 01:20:59,479
you, because as in the case
of Nerea, of CPR of my school,

1154
01:20:59,600 --> 01:21:04,960
also that they tell anecdotes and stories
about cases that many times, even

1155
01:21:05,000 --> 01:21:11,239
if we don' t want because
they are hard and they are things that

1156
01:21:11,239 --> 01:21:15,720
hurt as fathers, as mothers,
we worry that it happens to us,

1157
01:21:15,640 --> 01:21:19,119
but they also give you information,
they give you clues about things that can

1158
01:21:19,279 --> 01:21:21,000
happen and, above all, how
to handle them and that we have the

1159
01:21:21,000 --> 01:21:23,560
ability to manage them. That this
is, in the end, the most

1160
01:21:23,560 --> 01:21:30,199
important thing, that there is an
option to try to avoid and that there

1161
01:21:30,239 --> 01:21:35,399
are things that we can do and
hear that are within our reach, that

1162
01:21:35,399 --> 01:21:41,079
we can do the good thing To
all this is that lately I have many

1163
01:21:41,199 --> 01:21:45,239
grandparents here come to the courses and
the tapis are getting more and more encouraged,

1164
01:21:45,319 --> 01:21:46,840
because I remember that there were moms
who called me jope It is that

1165
01:21:46,880 --> 01:21:49,399
I had to be here my partner
and not just for the child, it

1166
01:21:49,399 --> 01:21:54,640
is that if to me something happens, I am sold, because if my

1167
01:21:54,680 --> 01:21:57,960
partner knows how to identify you,
it is unconscious and that not respirital you

1168
01:21:57,960 --> 01:21:58,439
will not see if I have to
do CPR or not. No. So

1169
01:21:58,720 --> 01:22:01,000
it' s important, not just
because it' s true that I go

1170
01:22:01,479 --> 01:22:04,640
to schools and schools and companies,
but the workshops I do, that grandparents

1171
01:22:04,680 --> 01:22:09,159
and daddies come. I love it, yes, if not everyone, even

1172
01:22:09,159 --> 01:22:12,960
the boys and girls who know who
they have to call, what they have

1173
01:22:13,720 --> 01:22:15,960
to do in case something happens to
the adults they are with, that they

1174
01:22:16,039 --> 01:22:19,000
are the only ones who are alone
or alone and they don' t know

1175
01:22:19,000 --> 01:22:25,520
what to do, that they have
their information there and that it is something

1176
01:22:25,640 --> 01:22:30,600
that works as a family. It
seems to me very important and they are

1177
01:22:30,640 --> 01:22:33,760
sponges, eh they stay with everything
because I used to give, before the

1178
01:22:33,760 --> 01:22:40,880
pandemic, workshops, the Pitti space
flu that there were cortingleses yes, and

1179
01:22:40,880 --> 01:22:44,159
every time I went, for example, every weekend I went to a different

1180
01:22:44,800 --> 01:22:47,600
space and there were families that followed
me slowly a space because the little one

1181
01:22:47,720 --> 01:22:51,960
of four and five years had kept
all the information and they follow me for

1182
01:22:53,000 --> 01:22:56,720
different workshops. And they' re
real sponges that learn from all or families

1183
01:22:56,720 --> 01:22:59,479
that have written games messages that happened
to me and Grandma and me and I

1184
01:22:59,239 --> 01:23:00,960
said that or I thought you weren' t going to react and knew how

1185
01:23:01,079 --> 01:23:06,479
to pick up the phone, call, call the neighbor or be really amazing

1186
01:23:06,560 --> 01:23:10,960
they really can' t do it
because it' s not effective until they

1187
01:23:11,000 --> 01:23:13,680
' re ten years old or so, because they don' t have the

1188
01:23:13,680 --> 01:23:16,920
strength, of course, but they
can do a lot of other things that

1189
01:23:16,920 --> 01:23:26,079
can help that person who' s
at risk and they stay all very important

1190
01:23:26,079 --> 01:23:30,479
and for ampas, for cabbages,
for neighborhood associations, for communities, for

1191
01:23:30,560 --> 01:23:33,359
people who are a little bit,
who have concerns, that this happens to

1192
01:23:33,359 --> 01:23:36,119
us, that we all need,
we can need at some point and that

1193
01:23:36,119 --> 01:23:41,279
' s super useful. So he' s been there alertly and then I

1194
01:23:41,319 --> 01:23:45,840
' ll put in the notes of
the program YOUR Web your Blog so that

1195
01:23:45,880 --> 01:23:48,520
people can come by and see the
workshops, both of first aid and in

1196
01:23:48,560 --> 01:23:51,199
the case of Ibisn, which is
super interesting. And in addition, so

1197
01:23:51,399 --> 01:24:00,520
we give joy to the pediatric consultations
and then they will send us a little

1198
01:24:00,520 --> 01:24:05,479
greetings. You know what it'
s got on us. This has been

1199
01:24:05,479 --> 01:24:12,399
a pleasure chatting with you and congratulations
on your enormous work, which you are

1200
01:24:12,439 --> 01:24:15,199
doing a phenomenal one and have thirty
thousand or three hundred thousand followers. The

1201
01:24:15,239 --> 01:24:20,319
most important thing is to know what
you' re doing, to divulge with

1202
01:24:20,359 --> 01:24:24,720
scientific evidence that I' m going
to tell you, no, for me

1203
01:24:24,800 --> 01:24:27,600
it' s fundamental and for people
to trust you. Precisely because of that

1204
01:24:27,680 --> 01:24:31,720
you know or yes that the number
of followers at my side, I say

1205
01:24:31,720 --> 01:24:35,079
it always because when I go to
the courses. I do not tell you

1206
01:24:35,159 --> 01:24:39,239
to write to me if you have
doubts, it is written that as I

1207
01:24:39,239 --> 01:24:40,439
am not influencing or anything. Every
time I see that I' ve written

1208
01:24:40,479 --> 01:24:44,039
to someone, I get super happy. So, then that nothing that thank

1209
01:24:44,119 --> 01:24:46,640
you very much, mnígicate. It
is an honor for me to be here

1210
01:24:46,720 --> 01:24:51,079
today talking to you and to be
able to listen to us and raise awareness

1211
01:24:51,279 --> 01:24:58,119
a little more about prevention and the
first aid than about a lot of shit,

1212
01:24:58,159 --> 01:25:00,119
things yes, doubts and things so, that they can contact me and

1213
01:25:00,119 --> 01:25:02,560
thank you very much. Nothing a
pleasure, thanks to you and your connection

1214
01:25:02,600 --> 01:25:13,479
gives light. There is also already
a hug from Nerea and there is a

1215
01:25:13,520 --> 01:25:15,119
hug to all who have listened to
us today and thank you for your patience.

1216
01:25:16,199 --> 01:25:19,039
To see it will be a little
shorter than for us that it has

1217
01:25:19,119 --> 01:25:24,359
been a talk. It' s
been like we' ve been here for

1218
01:25:24,359 --> 01:25:30,239
hours. We' ve been here
for hours, we' ve known each

1219
01:25:30,239 --> 01:25:31,960
other like it' s a lifetime. This is what I have to leave

1220
01:25:32,039 --> 01:25:35,640
all the info in the program notes
as always and we listen to each other.

1221
01:25:35,720 --> 01:27:00,279
In an upcoming episode of Good Morning, will you mother goodbye or n

1222
01:27:02,800 --> 01:27:31,479
o n o S S? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah?