1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:06,599 You're listening to the Paranormal UK Radio Network, the best in paranormal talk radio 2 00:00:06,799 --> 00:00:12,599 in the UK and around the world. This interview with Christoph Barker is an 3 00:00:12,599 --> 00:00:21,000 extraordinary example of a share death experience with significant after death communications or ADCs. 4 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:28,239 Not only because of the depth and frequency of the ADCs, Krista now understands 5 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:35,920 with much more insight, the non physical world and our multidimensional selves. Welcome 6 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:41,880 to the Afterlife Files, where we investigate near death experiences, share death experiences 7 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:47,119 and how they affect you. Unlike podcasts that are just stories, we will 8 00:00:47,119 --> 00:00:50,039 give you a heads up on what to look for in our conversation, and 9 00:00:50,079 --> 00:00:55,759 then after the interview stick around. We will help you make sense of those 10 00:00:55,799 --> 00:01:00,640 accounts so you can incorporate the insights into your life. I think you'll find 11 00:01:00,679 --> 00:01:06,200 that once having your most profound questions answered, living life in the physical is 12 00:01:06,239 --> 00:01:23,439 filled with more peace and joy. This is a story with many parts. 13 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:30,840 Krista does a beautiful job of describing the details of what happens, and the 14 00:01:30,879 --> 00:01:34,040 sequence may seem to be a bit confusing as a result. I think it 15 00:01:34,079 --> 00:01:40,359 would be helpful if you were introduced to the sequence ahead of time. Because 16 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:45,719 the non physical world exists outside of linear time we experience here in the physical. 17 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:52,599 Christoph Barker started having her ADC before her husband, Derek, died of 18 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:59,120 alcoholism. It starts with a share dream a couple of months before his transition. 19 00:02:00,159 --> 00:02:05,400 Later, in a moment of anguished prayer about his condition, a female 20 00:02:05,519 --> 00:02:08,919 voice speaks to her and tells her that all of the answers will come in 21 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:15,240 three months, one two. In the second of those three months, she 22 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:19,879 gets a phone call that her husband has been admitted to the emergency room and 23 00:02:20,039 --> 00:02:24,800 is failing fast. Krista runs up the hill to where she hoped to engage 24 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:31,400 with the female voice and that voice's love and wisdom. Only this time, 25 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:38,560 the female voice teaches her a very specific meditation that will help Derek navigate his 26 00:02:38,759 --> 00:02:46,080 transition. Seven days later, driving home after visiting Derek in hospice, she 27 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:52,840 felt her husband flow through her body as he made his transition. That's the 28 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:57,520 first part of her shared death experience. The day of the funeral, she 29 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:01,599 is visited by her husband in the parking lot of the funeral home. Krista 30 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:07,400 has the presence of mind, I'm sure I could to ask him hold on, 31 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:12,960 Hold on until she can go home. Upon arriving home, Christa goes 32 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:16,759 out onto the deck has an out of body experience where she can see him 33 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:23,919 and Krista then continues her shared death experience. Derek explains about the true nature 34 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:29,599 of life and living. Krista then asked Derek to prove that what is happening 35 00:03:29,719 --> 00:03:36,719 is real. In her bedroom, son and granddaughter see Derek witness the light 36 00:03:37,199 --> 00:03:42,400 and his presence. That's the general sequence and it should help orient you as 37 00:03:42,479 --> 00:03:47,639 Krista tells her story. Please stick around after Krista's interview for my summary of 38 00:03:47,879 --> 00:03:53,000 all that she learned and the insights she's giving to us in this interview. 39 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:58,800 It's really impressive. On a technical note, the cat and the dog at 40 00:03:58,879 --> 00:04:03,840 Christa's home keep wanting to participate in the interview. We start and stop several 41 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:10,400 times to accommodate them. It made me wonder, though, is this Derek 42 00:04:10,759 --> 00:04:15,800 participating in the interview through their pets? I don't know. As you watch, 43 00:04:15,879 --> 00:04:30,839 what do you think? Here is my extraordinary conversation with Kristah Barker Ali. 44 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:33,879 Krista, we are so glad that you could join us on the Afterlife 45 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:44,319 Files. Hello, how are you I'm awesome, and we are really interested 46 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:49,079 in hearing your story. So let's just jump right in and find out what 47 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:57,279 was going on between you and your husband. Well, it was awesome. 48 00:04:57,319 --> 00:05:02,879 It was an awesome experience out of a tragedy. But so I'll started at 49 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:10,439 the beginning. We were having issues. We were married for three years, 50 00:05:10,959 --> 00:05:15,000 and the issues started when he was getting into things that I didn't get into. 51 00:05:15,759 --> 00:05:21,920 It was drugs and alcohol, and so I was contemplating on whether I 52 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:29,160 was going to leave or not. And I had a dream one night and 53 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:33,720 it changed everything. I In this dream, we both were in it, 54 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:42,959 and we were in this great, big, huge white marble place with these 55 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:49,399 big pillars, and I remember this like hooded woman coming in and telling us 56 00:05:49,439 --> 00:05:54,560 to go into this other room. And as we walked in, there was 57 00:05:54,600 --> 00:06:00,240 a casket at the end of the room. And uh so we set down 58 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:02,079 in the middle of the chairs and all of a sudden, this smarty starts 59 00:06:02,079 --> 00:06:09,439 scrolling and scrolling across the casket markey like in front of a theater, all 60 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:13,000 lit up in lights kind of thing. Well, it had his name, 61 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:18,480 just his name, Derek Barker, scrolling across up above the casket and I 62 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:26,319 went, oh, my gosh, Derek, we're at your funeral and imagined 63 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:29,120 em and he was like, yeah, that's all right, I'm not afraid 64 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:35,120 to die. And I was scared, so I went the dream kind of 65 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:41,120 takes me to another part, like in a grieving room at the funeral homes. 66 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:49,839 And I woke up and I went to go get my husband and tell 67 00:06:49,959 --> 00:06:56,360 him that we were going to have to do something. You know, I 68 00:06:56,399 --> 00:07:00,800 was discussing a split, try a temporary split first, see how it goes, 69 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:04,319 and I said, he goes. He was like why, and I 70 00:07:04,399 --> 00:07:08,120 told him. I said, I feel like I'm watching you die and I 71 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:15,079 don't want to be a part of that. And he paused, like, 72 00:07:15,079 --> 00:07:20,759 wait a minute. I had a crazy dream and it was about me dying, 73 00:07:23,839 --> 00:07:27,759 and I was like really, Now, there was some differences that he 74 00:07:27,879 --> 00:07:33,959 had said, but the main theme was he was dying, and I was 75 00:07:34,079 --> 00:07:40,040 shocked. I was like wow. So I didn't think much about it then 76 00:07:41,759 --> 00:07:47,120 until I left. And well, it was about a month or two later 77 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:58,240 and I got the phone call which we communicated and we had talked at least 78 00:07:58,319 --> 00:08:01,399 once a week, and I finally I got a phone call that he had 79 00:08:01,439 --> 00:08:05,480 gotten sick and it was the nurse. It was the nurse at the hospital, 80 00:08:05,759 --> 00:08:09,240 and you know, she's telling me that she's about to put my husband 81 00:08:09,279 --> 00:08:16,040 on life support. He could barely speak, he was so sick, and 82 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:22,199 no, I just I broke. I was like, wow, I can't 83 00:08:22,199 --> 00:08:24,959 believe it. So she's letting me know this because by the time I get 84 00:08:24,959 --> 00:08:26,160 there, I'm not going to be able to talk to him. So she's 85 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:33,919 basically telling me everything he wants me to know. So I dropped the phone 86 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:37,919 and I run to the cabin. We have a cabin where I live. 87 00:08:39,039 --> 00:08:43,639 We have eighteen acres and there's a cabin, a lot of woods. Feels 88 00:08:43,759 --> 00:08:52,480 really good out here, and so it's interesting how I got let up that 89 00:08:52,639 --> 00:08:54,480 hill. But I got let up the hill with a cat and I went 90 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:58,080 up the hill. He took me up this deer trail. It was like 91 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:03,600 we were in scene and I thought that was weird too. But we get 92 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:09,840 up the hill and I find this big rock. He wanted to say hello 93 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:16,879 clearly, see, is there a chance that we can stabilize your computer a 94 00:09:16,879 --> 00:09:20,240 little bit? It's kind of wiggling around. Yeah, if you want to 95 00:09:20,279 --> 00:09:24,480 pause, I'll go ahead and put the dog in the house. He's the 96 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:39,440 one that's shaken everything four three two one, Christas. So you were telling 97 00:09:39,519 --> 00:09:43,240 us you were let up a hill by a cat. Yes, And so 98 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:48,519 I get up there and I find this huge rock. We have a lot 99 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:56,000 of big rocks here, and I'm already aware of the fact that everything is 100 00:09:56,039 --> 00:10:01,399 frequency, there's energy to this. So it's like instincts took over and I 101 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:07,600 sat on this rock and I touched the tree. Now I had watched Greg 102 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:11,120 Braden and he was telling about how you know you could do this and push 103 00:10:11,159 --> 00:10:18,200 your love into things and pull it. So I did that and wow, 104 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:26,720 the it was so beautiful, like the voices and the experience that come out 105 00:10:26,039 --> 00:10:33,480 was amazing. I'll never forget it. It's brings me back every time I 106 00:10:33,519 --> 00:10:39,120 talk about it. So at first I thought God was a woman because this 107 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:48,759 featmale voice comes through and she's telling me that everything's gonna be okay and that 108 00:10:48,879 --> 00:10:56,840 I'm gonna have the answers that I'm looking for in about three months or that 109 00:10:56,960 --> 00:11:01,600 was the first experience that I had. She was telling me how to meditate 110 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:07,320 for Derek, and she's telling me the answers are gonna come right, and 111 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:16,399 I was like, okay, but you know, so she started guiding me 112 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:24,480 into this meditation, and she's telling me every day, for three times a 113 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:33,159 day, ten to fifteen minutes, send this loving frequency through and through him, 114 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:37,879 like pull it up from the earth, pull it through me, through 115 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:41,720 him, and back down. Now I knew in my heart that he wasn't 116 00:11:41,759 --> 00:11:48,799 gonna make it, but I had studied and learned about how sometimes souls can 117 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:54,000 get stuck because of sudden death. Maybe or I was worried about it. 118 00:11:54,039 --> 00:11:56,000 I didn't know if it was true, and I was worried about it. 119 00:11:56,360 --> 00:12:03,039 I loved him. I loved him so much, and all I wanted was 120 00:12:03,159 --> 00:12:11,159 for him to find the greatest happiness that you can find. And so she's 121 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:15,519 telling me this and I start doing it. I'm guided every day into these 122 00:12:15,519 --> 00:12:24,759 meditations, and seven days later, I get the call that we gotta go. 123 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:28,240 They're pulling him off a life support. He was so sick. He 124 00:12:28,639 --> 00:12:35,080 had become septic and it had come out on the side of his hip, 125 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:41,320 so there was really no chance, you know, this was better. So 126 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:46,840 we're all in there and they take him off a life support. I left 127 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:52,120 before they took him off. I couldn't deal with it. So I was 128 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:58,799 gone and I was in my vehicle actually when I felt him passed through me 129 00:13:00,519 --> 00:13:03,679 and I knew it was like four or forty four, and I knew. 130 00:13:03,799 --> 00:13:09,320 I was like, oh God. So I got home and my mom tells 131 00:13:09,399 --> 00:13:18,879 me Christa Derek passed away. I said, I know, Mom, Well, 132 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:24,279 she's used to I stay with my parents. My mom has cancer and 133 00:13:24,759 --> 00:13:31,080 I'm taking care of her. I knew, I just knew, and she 134 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:37,440 was used to it. So I start calling family and then I go I 135 00:13:37,519 --> 00:13:41,159 go back to the spot. I run immediately back to the spot and I'm 136 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:46,000 meditating. Then I hear a male's voice, so then I'm like, okay, 137 00:13:46,039 --> 00:13:50,360 I'm kind of conflicted. There's male and female voice, but that's okay. 138 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:58,000 What I had found out through the experience was that it's like bringing your 139 00:13:58,039 --> 00:14:03,240 masculine and feminine together, becoming one with your soul is what I gathered from 140 00:14:03,279 --> 00:14:09,799 the experience as well. So during this meditation, though, I started seeing 141 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:16,159 orbs, like I've seen this eridescent orb and it kind of like floated past 142 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:20,279 me, and I had these little knots in it and nodules around it. 143 00:14:20,159 --> 00:14:26,919 And when I went to go look that up, I found out that is 144 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:31,240 the soul without a body. So I knew. I was like, oh, 145 00:14:31,399 --> 00:14:37,559 fuck, it's slob. You know, I knew it was him positive 146 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:46,679 so I knew. I just knew that it was him. I went I 147 00:14:46,799 --> 00:14:50,159 went to bed that night. In the middle of the night, I got 148 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:56,799 woke up to the TV and it was blasting, and it was in the 149 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:03,840 family room where my kids, my grandkids, I'm raising my grandkids, and 150 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:13,799 so it goes up sky high and it's flipping through the channels and the newslands, 151 00:15:13,879 --> 00:15:18,320 and I knew it was him. He loved the news. I did 152 00:15:18,399 --> 00:15:26,080 not. And I was like, Okay, I know he's trying to communicate. 153 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:31,480 How can how can I do this? So low and bold? The 154 00:15:31,639 --> 00:15:35,559 meditations that come to me when he was dying is what I went to. 155 00:15:35,759 --> 00:15:41,399 I went back to that, and so I started meditating. There was several 156 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:46,879 things that had happened. But so he sat at the funeral home for seven 157 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:50,960 days and you know, until we could come up with the money to bury 158 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:56,919 him. His mom, I let her do everything, and no parents should 159 00:15:56,919 --> 00:16:03,279 ever have to bury their child. And so he didn't want to be buried. 160 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:06,360 He wanted to be cremated. But I let her do it. So 161 00:16:07,679 --> 00:16:11,480 we're waiting seven days and on the seventh day and all this time, I'm 162 00:16:11,519 --> 00:16:22,039 meditating and praying and communicating. Like the microwave went off one night, and 163 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:26,080 it was just it was crazy, the paranormal activity that was going on here. 164 00:16:26,559 --> 00:16:30,120 I found orbs outside the blue one, the gold one like it was 165 00:16:30,279 --> 00:16:37,879 nuts so, and the aridescent one. So we go to the day of 166 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:42,559 his funeral, and I'm excited. It's weird. It's weird when it's someone 167 00:16:42,679 --> 00:16:48,799 that you love because you're like, you know they're not there in that shell, 168 00:16:49,559 --> 00:16:53,440 but you can't wait to see them. Like I had to make sure 169 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:57,879 I looked good. It was crazy, just so I could see him. 170 00:16:57,919 --> 00:17:03,440 But I get there to gripe at him. And so I got there early, 171 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:04,759 and I was griping at him and I was telling him, why, 172 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:07,960 why did you have to go through that, Why couldn't you have stopped? 173 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:17,359 Why this whether I go to leave and his mom hands me the contents of 174 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:22,839 his wallet and his wedding band is there, wrapped up in our vows and 175 00:17:22,079 --> 00:17:27,519 she handed that to me. It was like she handed him over to me, 176 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:34,720 and I immediately it was like an am radio or FM radio is shoved 177 00:17:34,759 --> 00:17:38,440 in my head. And it's weird because you can hear, you know what 178 00:17:38,599 --> 00:17:45,200 they're saying, but you can't exactly hear the words. You know. You 179 00:17:45,319 --> 00:17:48,839 just know it's a feeling. And so I knew, and I was like, 180 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:52,920 gotta wait till I get home. I don't want to do this in 181 00:17:52,039 --> 00:17:56,920 the parking lot of the funeral. You gotta wait till we get home and 182 00:17:57,160 --> 00:18:03,680 we will talk. We will talk. So I get home, I run, 183 00:18:04,079 --> 00:18:07,440 I run from the van. I go in the house and I get 184 00:18:07,599 --> 00:18:15,400 dressed as I'm excited, and I come outside and something happened to me that 185 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:19,920 had never happened to me before. My soul shot up out of my body. 186 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:27,559 My crown was tingling. I seen myself. I seen him. He 187 00:18:27,759 --> 00:18:33,759 was wearing the clothes he wore when we got married. He looks so handsome 188 00:18:33,839 --> 00:18:41,480 and young, and he's telling me he's going to be here for a little 189 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:47,720 while and guide me if I will allow it to show me some things I 190 00:18:47,799 --> 00:18:52,440 had been searching for God my whole life. He was the one that showed 191 00:18:52,480 --> 00:19:00,920 me that there was definitely a source creator, So I said, immediately, 192 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:03,519 I got scared. Then a little bit of fear come in and then he 193 00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:11,680 shot this love and it was so overwhelming, most beautiful love I had ever 194 00:19:11,799 --> 00:19:18,039 felt in my life. And the atmosphere was so beautiful and different. It 195 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:23,319 was different, and I could hear like a symphony. It clicked immediately that 196 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:30,240 we are all connected and that everything has sound, even our earth has a 197 00:19:30,319 --> 00:19:37,319 beautiful frequency sound. And I was like, you gotta prove it. So 198 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:44,720 I ran in the house. My granddaughter, she was two years old. 199 00:19:44,839 --> 00:19:51,680 She runs in front of me, goes to my bedroom and the light was 200 00:19:51,799 --> 00:19:56,440 on in the closet but not the room. So she stops and she went 201 00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:07,720 me, me, there a guy in your closet. So I was like, 202 00:20:07,319 --> 00:20:12,559 oh wow. My son, he was thirteen at the time. He 203 00:20:12,799 --> 00:20:19,839 was on my bed playing with his game boy. He looks up and he 204 00:20:21,039 --> 00:20:27,680 goes with the blanket. He goes and then like peaks down slowly, and 205 00:20:27,799 --> 00:20:32,079 then I was like, oh my gosh, so they can see you too. 206 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:38,400 Okay, I'm listening. And it was cool because she's seen him, 207 00:20:38,799 --> 00:20:47,440 like she's like, that's delick. That's Delick. I love that, and 208 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:51,960 I know I loved it too, And I was like, and she said 209 00:20:52,079 --> 00:20:56,079 she felt the most beautiful she because he feels so good. Me me, 210 00:20:56,160 --> 00:21:03,240 She's waving, she's blowing kiss. Was like, all right, okay, 211 00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:07,920 this is cool. So I had to go to researching after this. I 212 00:21:07,039 --> 00:21:11,440 had to because I was like, how has anybody ever had Has this happened 213 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:18,200 to anybody else? Can your family be your guide? Can people do this? 214 00:21:18,799 --> 00:21:22,880 Like? Am I losing my mind? Because I even told him I'm 215 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:27,920 going to get a cat scan tomorrow. He was telling me about how we're 216 00:21:29,079 --> 00:21:33,519 all energy, we're all connected, which is what I already knew. And 217 00:21:33,759 --> 00:21:38,920 he said that there is a divine creator and that we are all a part 218 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:47,960 of that creation, and that this journey is to get back to source, 219 00:21:48,599 --> 00:21:53,400 and that we have to go through certain trials, you know, to make 220 00:21:53,519 --> 00:22:02,119 ourselves a better version of ourselves to be in that gracious life. It made 221 00:22:02,319 --> 00:22:07,720 sense for the first time in my life. It made sense, and I 222 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:12,319 felt it the love. I felt it for months and months and now when 223 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:19,440 I meditate, I take and I go back to that experience, I feel 224 00:22:19,519 --> 00:22:23,799 my body it's just all the love. The love, it's the love. 225 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:32,680 Was amazing, and so yeah, it was a big thing. I was 226 00:22:32,759 --> 00:22:37,880 afraid to tell family because I didn't want them to think I was crazy, 227 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:44,119 But I had to tell my parents. They are right here with me and 228 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:48,279 my grandkids, and I didn't want my granddaughter to go and say something and 229 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:53,039 then my mom be thinking something else, right, So I went to tell 230 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:59,480 her. It took me about two days to tell her, so I told 231 00:22:59,519 --> 00:23:06,200 her and Sissy she wouldn't sleep with me for about a month after that because 232 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:11,079 she's seen him. He was right beside me and I had eventually, you 233 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:18,400 know, had had we had agreed that it was like he what he had 234 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:23,880 told me was it helped him go to the other side that he said he 235 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,920 thought he was that I was there the whole time. He said, I 236 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:33,279 thought you never left my side at the hospital, and I said I had 237 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,759 to. I couldn't stay all the time. And he was like, you 238 00:23:36,839 --> 00:23:44,319 know in this reality. And what he had done was he took me to 239 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:48,200 the other side. The light changed. I didn't go all the way, 240 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:55,920 but it was so cool because when he when he finally went, I could 241 00:23:56,000 --> 00:24:03,839 see young beautiful Derek waving at me like bye. And I told my sister 242 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:07,559 in law because she had always said, you know, after this experience, 243 00:24:07,599 --> 00:24:11,559 I don't think about are you going to hell, are you going to heaven? 244 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:18,200 I don't think like that anymore, because for one thing, I felt 245 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:26,519 like it's a judgment. But for another reason is no matter what he went, 246 00:24:26,519 --> 00:24:32,440 no matter what people thought about him or his addictions, he went to 247 00:24:33,559 --> 00:24:38,519 God. And I know it because I felt it, and I met him 248 00:24:40,599 --> 00:24:48,559 or her source. I communicated with it. And so after that experience, 249 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:55,759 it was like for months, a lot of more things happened paranormally. The 250 00:24:55,880 --> 00:25:00,960 blue orbs showed up. It was Paul sating my I've seen it too. 251 00:25:00,559 --> 00:25:07,640 That was the thing. My son was getting Mike Season d's in school, 252 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:15,200 and he shot up to straight a's. He's seventeen now and he's doing college 253 00:25:15,279 --> 00:25:22,839 courses already, coding. I know my granddaughter, we had her reading before 254 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:30,279 kindergarten. It's like it did something to our enlightenment. It gave us, 255 00:25:30,839 --> 00:25:33,799 It helped give us some sort of enlightenment, a change in our thinking in 256 00:25:36,759 --> 00:25:41,160 you know, learning. I couldn't read enough books because of course I had 257 00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:48,039 to research what happened and how it could have happened. But it was the 258 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:52,039 most beautiful experience I've ever been through in my life. And since then, 259 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:57,400 you know, a few family members have passed and only one other has communicated, 260 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:03,680 but it it definitely opened that door. And I do believe that like 261 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:10,079 my mother, she has cancer, and I don't look at death the same 262 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:15,279 anymore because I know that they go on, and so I know it'll be 263 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:25,039 another chapter for her that I'm hoping that I'm privileged enough to watch her go 264 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:27,680 on like I did, Derek. I mean, it was. It was 265 00:26:27,759 --> 00:26:32,519 the best thing that ever happened to me. For sure. Changed the way 266 00:26:32,599 --> 00:26:37,440 I looked at life, changed the way I think, what a story. 267 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:41,880 Yeah, so I got a couple of things that were I think kind of 268 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:48,799 cool. So you were standing there and you lifted up out of your body 269 00:26:49,599 --> 00:26:56,279 and you went to another place. Yes, you said, the light shifted. 270 00:26:56,039 --> 00:27:03,119 Yes, and how did it shift? Okay, it's like it was 271 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:11,200 almost dusk to begin with, it was evening time, and when it shifted, 272 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:17,640 it's hard to explain. There were no corners, there were no corners, 273 00:27:17,759 --> 00:27:22,200 and everything was like a almost a fall, but not in. The 274 00:27:22,319 --> 00:27:30,000 colors were prettier and there was a beautiful sound. And yeah, so you 275 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:37,680 were you were outside right, yes, right here, and you were and 276 00:27:37,799 --> 00:27:42,000 you were still outside but the world changed, Yes, yes, it just 277 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:49,559 wasn't what we see. But I feel like that's actually how it should be, 278 00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:56,519 you know. Okay, And while you were in this state, you 279 00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:02,880 had a chance to communicate with Derek. But it was it was telepathic. 280 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:08,240 It wasn't in English. Yeah, it was telepathic. It was like and 281 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:15,200 it was cool because he was answering my questions before I could even get the 282 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:22,680 question out, and it just would shoot this love through my body. And 283 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:27,519 he wasn't talking in Hey, Krista, this is how life really is. 284 00:28:29,279 --> 00:28:33,720 It was an energy and I felt it and I can feel his energy too, 285 00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:37,519 so I know it's him. You know if we call that an energy 286 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:44,000 signature. Yes, yeah, you don't. You don't see people, but 287 00:28:45,119 --> 00:28:48,400 they're there. You can. You can sense them, and you know exactly 288 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:53,839 who it is because they have a signature. Yes, yes, they And 289 00:28:53,880 --> 00:29:00,720 then you also talked that I think it was the same time when you communicated 290 00:29:00,799 --> 00:29:07,160 with Source. Yes, that happened right before he got sick. I was 291 00:29:07,319 --> 00:29:11,599 out in the same spot that I ran to when the nurse had called that 292 00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:18,839 he was sick. Now this was about a month before. It was three 293 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:22,480 months before he got sick. I was devastated that my marriage was ending, 294 00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:27,319 I didn't want to go through this anymore. I need help, God, 295 00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:33,680 where are you? And I went up the hill and I sat on that 296 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:41,400 rock and that's when communication comes through. Now, my granddaughter had witnessed part 297 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:48,640 of that as well, the same one, because she was like, she 298 00:29:48,799 --> 00:29:53,039 couldn't hear what communication I had going on with Source. But she was like, 299 00:29:53,240 --> 00:30:00,759 Mimi, the sky looks different. Everything looks different. And I feel 300 00:30:00,839 --> 00:30:07,359 like that's because they're younger and their pineal gland isn't calcified by you know, 301 00:30:07,559 --> 00:30:11,880 ours gets. And so I was like, yes, maybe it. You 302 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:15,640 know, I'm communicating with an angel. I didn't want to say too much, 303 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:19,960 but now I teach them, so yeah. And she told me, 304 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:23,960 Christie, your answers will be here in three months. And do you know 305 00:30:25,279 --> 00:30:30,039 when he got when I actually when he got sick and everything happened, it 306 00:30:30,279 --> 00:30:33,720 was three months to the day. She was right, and I did get 307 00:30:33,799 --> 00:30:41,720 my answers. So you were asking questions like what's going on, and the 308 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:45,400 female voice came and told you that it was going to be three months and 309 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:55,400 you'd figured out yep. And so when you say you had you communicated with 310 00:30:55,599 --> 00:31:00,079 Source, that's the female voice that you were talking about, Well there's something 311 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:04,440 else. The female voice come through first, and I thought it was God 312 00:31:06,079 --> 00:31:08,640 and I was like, wow, God's a female I was right. And 313 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:17,680 then the male boys come through. Love that I was right, and he's 314 00:31:17,799 --> 00:31:22,160 like, not quite. It's like our soul was a balance of both, 315 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:26,680 and if we are in the liking of Creator, that would be we're a 316 00:31:26,759 --> 00:31:32,480 balance of both. So immediately I'm like, oh, I make that connection. 317 00:31:33,279 --> 00:31:37,720 And I said, why is this happening to me? And he said, 318 00:31:37,759 --> 00:31:41,480 you're pure of heart, you have a pure soul. And because I 319 00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:48,160 was only asking for help for Derek and love and I want God to help 320 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:53,839 me, and he said, it's like Jacob Sladder. That's what he put 321 00:31:53,920 --> 00:32:00,119 in my head. Like immediately I thought about the story of Jacob Sladder and 322 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:06,680 I was like wow. And it went from there, you know, everything 323 00:32:06,759 --> 00:32:12,680 snowballed. So what was the correlation between Jacob's ladder and your experience? Because 324 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:17,720 where Jacob's ladder where he goes through all these trials and struggles and at the 325 00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:22,720 end he asks God, you know what can I do? You know how 326 00:32:22,759 --> 00:32:28,799 can I find you? And God eventually saves his life, but by killing 327 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:35,880 him first it's like it's like rebirth or being born from the inside. And 328 00:32:36,039 --> 00:32:38,960 that's what I had gathered, is that that's what we are supposed to do, 329 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:45,240 is you know, bring our soul into this vessel or a soul. 330 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:52,119 We're not a body with a soul or a soul with a body. And 331 00:32:52,279 --> 00:32:55,079 I figured that out. I had never thought about any of that stuff before 332 00:32:55,279 --> 00:33:01,839 either, and I just it came to me. There is a wonderful study 333 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:09,799 that was done by PMH Atwater about children who have have been touched by the 334 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:21,200 light right and how their brains are rewired, and how they become more they 335 00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:27,880 developed new skills. They're infinitely smarter than they were. Yeah, I was 336 00:33:28,119 --> 00:33:36,200 wondering about that because that clearly happened to my grandson or my granddaughter and my 337 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:40,519 son and me. I mean, I sat down one night to read a 338 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:45,440 three hundred page book and by seven o'clock it was done, and I had 339 00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:50,240 to do homeschool. I didn't do that again because I was too tired the 340 00:33:50,359 --> 00:33:55,240 next day, but I couldn't stop cramming information into my brain, like and 341 00:33:55,319 --> 00:34:00,440 then it got easier to teach the kids math and to STEPH started clicking, 342 00:34:00,799 --> 00:34:06,039 and I thought that, but I've never found the study like I know that's 343 00:34:06,119 --> 00:34:09,480 what happened to them. I'll send it to you and i'll put it in 344 00:34:09,559 --> 00:34:17,800 the links below for a whole the rest of you. Thank you. So 345 00:34:19,199 --> 00:34:22,519 the other thing, you said that your mom has cancer and that she'll be 346 00:34:22,679 --> 00:34:30,400 making her transition sometime, right, and that the two of you would like 347 00:34:30,599 --> 00:34:37,039 to share that experience. Yes, and we know a lot about share death 348 00:34:37,119 --> 00:34:45,239 experiences now and the and the best way to do it is for the two 349 00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:51,159 of you to agree that that's something that both of you would like to have 350 00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:58,480 happened. And that's what Derek and I did now that I think about it, 351 00:34:58,599 --> 00:35:02,360 because he were joking around one day, just joking around, and he 352 00:35:02,519 --> 00:35:07,840 said, I promise you if I go before you and I can come back 353 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:10,199 and show you, I will, And I said, okay, do it. 354 00:35:12,039 --> 00:35:16,360 That's exactly how it works. So the person who's making the transition in 355 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:22,360 this case, your mom, she needs to reach back into the physical and 356 00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:29,400 pull you up. And it's it's about matching your vibratory levels, which you 357 00:35:29,519 --> 00:35:35,119 told me yet, and so she's at a higher vibratory rate and it's easier 358 00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:39,840 for her to drop down, to drop down and than it is for you 359 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:47,960 to go up and so and the trigger here's the here's the fun part is 360 00:35:49,039 --> 00:35:54,599 that when she'll go through a life review, and and then at the life 361 00:35:54,639 --> 00:36:00,639 review, there will be some significance scene between the two of you. And 362 00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:06,800 so when you guys agree, yes, we would like this thing to happen, 363 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:12,119 and talk about the life review, remember, and then pick a scene 364 00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:16,000 that was really meaningful for the both of you. Christmas when you get your 365 00:36:16,519 --> 00:36:21,320 bicycle when you were seven years old, right, I made that up. 366 00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:28,079 But so when she's going through her life review and that scene comes up where 367 00:36:28,199 --> 00:36:34,719 she's giving you the bicycle, that's her trigger to remember to come back to 368 00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:38,679 the physical and pick you up. And in that way she can join you 369 00:36:39,119 --> 00:36:46,119 and be with you during you know, all phases of the transition or that 370 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:51,679 period. I'm looking forward to it, but you know, not in a 371 00:36:52,079 --> 00:36:57,400 morbid way. Yeah, it's just that they let you know. Like he 372 00:36:57,679 --> 00:37:02,639 let me know, Christian, I'm very much alive, and he told me 373 00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:07,519 about the life review. I never knew about the life review. I always 374 00:37:07,679 --> 00:37:13,480 thought judgment. No, it's a life review. We actually judge ourselves. 375 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:19,760 He also told me that we're going to go through a time in living that 376 00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:23,360 we actually can go through the life review before we go and it's easier to 377 00:37:23,519 --> 00:37:30,079 transition. And then he kept telling me that he got to see the pain 378 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:37,320 he put me through through my eyes, through my lenses. That moved me. 379 00:37:37,199 --> 00:37:46,679 I mean that moved me. And do you have a sense that that 380 00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:52,880 was the agreement between the two of you. Oh, yeah, that he 381 00:37:52,159 --> 00:37:57,719 was going to be sick and he's going to test you, and yeah, 382 00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,599 because you're going to grow as a result of it. That kind of thing. 383 00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:04,480 Yes, Because when we talked about the dream, when he's telling me 384 00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:08,360 I had to have a life review and I'm asking him, why did you 385 00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:13,840 come back? And he's telling me he's gonna guide me And I'm like, 386 00:38:14,199 --> 00:38:16,960 wow, I never heard of that stuff before, and he's like, we 387 00:38:17,079 --> 00:38:22,000 agreed to this. We agreed to this before we came. And I was 388 00:38:22,119 --> 00:38:28,599 like really, And now it brought back sometimes because I knew Derek his whole 389 00:38:28,679 --> 00:38:36,039 life. He was six years younger than I and my great aunt raised him. 390 00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:40,079 He's not her son, but she raised him and that's how we knew 391 00:38:40,159 --> 00:38:45,079 each other. And I remember when he was like six months old and I 392 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:47,920 had things happened to me. When I was little, I used to ask 393 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:53,800 for project him. I thought every kid knit it. And I walked in 394 00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:59,000 this room and I heard this voice telling me we're going to get married, 395 00:38:59,119 --> 00:39:02,400 We're going to have kids. My mom got so mad at me over that, 396 00:39:02,559 --> 00:39:07,199 Krista, stop with that, stop with the imaginary friends, stop with 397 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:12,599 all this stuff. And you know what, I remembered that I couldn't didn't 398 00:39:12,679 --> 00:39:15,639 remember it until he brought that memory back to me. And I was like, 399 00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:20,039 you know what, Derek, I got big trouble for that. And 400 00:39:20,159 --> 00:39:22,320 he's like, I know, he said, but Krista, I'm trying to 401 00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:29,480 tell you that we that's proof that we agreed. That's proof that you can 402 00:39:29,559 --> 00:39:34,159 communicate like this. That's proof that we are more than what they say that 403 00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:38,159 we are. And I was like, okay, So, as you've told 404 00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:45,039 this story, Krista, how is your family received it? How is the 405 00:39:45,159 --> 00:39:49,360 community that you live in receive it that? What's that been? Like? 406 00:39:50,639 --> 00:39:57,800 I just now started with the community because I got I got the nerve, 407 00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:07,800 I guess or the I got enough information to understand that I'm not crazy and 408 00:40:07,079 --> 00:40:13,599 that people have went through this and I wanted to share my story to help 409 00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:17,840 someone because that's something I was told to by source that I had to share 410 00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:22,639 my story, and he told me to write a book, and I didn't 411 00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:27,920 know how to do, like how to get it published or how to do. 412 00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:32,559 So it took me some time to research and to unpack everything that I 413 00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:39,480 was told. And so now Mom and Dad they say I have a beautiful 414 00:40:39,639 --> 00:40:45,960 energy, that I feel great, and that they're glad that that happened. 415 00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:52,639 And Dad told me that my grandfather and back then, you know, it 416 00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:58,960 was definitely who used to communicate with his brothers that have passed. And so 417 00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:02,000 when I told him, he's like, I'm not surprised my dad did it. 418 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:07,159 And I was like, cool, Like, I feel so much better 419 00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:13,440 now. And the community is doing good because I have a little community on 420 00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:20,400 YouTube and there's about twelve to fifteen people from our town that's in it, 421 00:41:20,519 --> 00:41:24,239 and they know my story now so well. I've done a lot of speaking 422 00:41:24,559 --> 00:41:30,320 all over the United States about near death experiences and shared death experiences, and 423 00:41:30,679 --> 00:41:36,880 I think that I've talked to more Catholic churches than any place else, so 424 00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:43,760 you will find it at least a receptive audience with some of the priests. 425 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:49,360 So I agree with that. I grew up Catholic, and I feel like, 426 00:41:50,199 --> 00:41:53,239 you know, even though I was wondering and kind of straying away from 427 00:41:54,199 --> 00:42:00,559 religion, I was grateful I was Catholic my whole life because we were taught 428 00:42:00,559 --> 00:42:07,880 about purgatory, we were taught about an astro life, and they believe in 429 00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:13,360 reincarnation. So that kind of kept those doors open for me. I believe, 430 00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:17,760 you know. So is Derek still around, is he talking to you? 431 00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:24,199 Or is he moved on? Sometimes I still can't communicate with him. 432 00:42:25,159 --> 00:42:30,639 What he told me at the beginning was that it's a cycle and that when 433 00:42:30,679 --> 00:42:37,840 I grow past what knowledge he can give, you know, like I may 434 00:42:37,079 --> 00:42:43,480 end up with another guide. He had also told me that when my brother 435 00:42:43,599 --> 00:42:46,079 had passed when I was younger, because see, I had something happened when 436 00:42:46,119 --> 00:42:50,119 I was a kid too, and my brother he walked in the room after 437 00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:54,360 he died and he told me everything would be okay. So he told me 438 00:42:54,559 --> 00:42:59,880 that this had been kind of going on my whole life. I just wasn't 439 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:05,760 aware of it or you know, realizing that's what was going on. And 440 00:43:06,039 --> 00:43:12,599 so I can go outside and communicate and I feel about love and then sometimes 441 00:43:12,679 --> 00:43:15,760 if I'm not meditating. He'll get me through a song, or he can 442 00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:22,599 manipulate my cell phone and pop up a video like it'll unlock itself and play 443 00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:25,320 some video and I'll be like okay, I know, and I'll go communicate 444 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:31,639 with him. So he is around, definitely, definitely. So you mentioned 445 00:43:31,679 --> 00:43:37,000 that you have a YouTube community. Tell us about that and how we can 446 00:43:37,079 --> 00:43:43,880 get ahold of you. Okay. It is called Psychic Soul Sences. And 447 00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:52,679 you can also reach me on my email, which is I have a business 448 00:43:52,760 --> 00:44:00,760 one a't CRG six one nine eight at gmail dot com. And yeah, 449 00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:05,719 I'm writing my book too. I'm excited about it because I'm going back to 450 00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:10,280 my childhood experiences. I'm going to put it all out, so that should 451 00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:15,320 be a fun read. I agree. Well, thank you Christopher for being 452 00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:20,880 with us on the Afterlife Files. This has been a really enjoyable afternoon. 453 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:25,440 Thank you too, Scott. I am so glad that I joined you today. 454 00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:30,800 Everybody else, stick around because I've got a couple of insights that I 455 00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:34,920 think you're going to want to hear. So in the meantime, see here, 456 00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:49,480 Christa. All right, Wow, that was quite the story. Here's 457 00:44:49,519 --> 00:44:52,239 what I learned Just to be clear, these are my viewpoints. But that's 458 00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:58,280 why you watch the afterlife files to gain more perspective by using more than one 459 00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:04,960 lens with which to view the this rich information. Let's start with the shared 460 00:45:05,119 --> 00:45:10,440 dream. Our guides often arrange our near death experiences, shared death experiences, 461 00:45:10,679 --> 00:45:21,719 and spiritually transformative experiences using metaphorical devices to get their point across. Christa's story 462 00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:27,679 is one of those. It starts with a beautiful, hooded lady appearing in 463 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:34,199 a marble hall. Both the attire of the figure and the setting screams pay 464 00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:38,559 attention. What I'm going to tell you and show you is important, and 465 00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:45,800 it is. What she says is I've got to tell you a beautiful love 466 00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:51,440 story. This invites Krista to look at her life and the experience that she's 467 00:45:51,519 --> 00:45:57,760 now having with a different lens. I'm going to show you a beautiful love 468 00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:04,760 story. Not about the trials or the sickness, or the alcoholism or the 469 00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:10,320 death. It's a beautiful love story. Then she is ushered into a room 470 00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:16,000 where she is looking at Derek's casket. This is foreshadowing her shared death experience 471 00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:25,559 months later. Next, Krista is guided up a prayer and sorry a prayer 472 00:46:25,679 --> 00:46:31,800 hill. The hill by a cat animals are often used to communicate with humans 473 00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:37,360 by those on the other side. In a moment of anguished prayer, a 474 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:40,599 female voice speaks to her and tells her that all answers will come in three 475 00:46:40,679 --> 00:46:45,119 months. During the second of those three months, she gets a phone call 476 00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:50,079 that her husband has been admitted to the emergency room, and failing fast, 477 00:46:50,679 --> 00:46:54,679 she runs up that same prayer hill to where she heard the female voice, 478 00:46:55,559 --> 00:47:00,840 hoping to engage with that same voice as love and was only this time the 479 00:47:01,039 --> 00:47:07,800 female voice teaches her a very specific meditation that will help Derek navigate his transition. 480 00:47:09,519 --> 00:47:17,000 Krista learns to meditate using the bridge technique. This technique has Krista use 481 00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:22,199 energy bridges. So here's how it goes. It starts in the earth, 482 00:47:22,119 --> 00:47:27,960 flows the energy up through the self, then heart to heart to Derek, 483 00:47:28,159 --> 00:47:32,880 and then back again into the earth. So it goes Earth through Krista, 484 00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:37,880 heart to heart to Derek and then back into the Earth. And then this 485 00:47:38,079 --> 00:47:46,400 cycle then is repeated over and over. Krista is reminded that we live in 486 00:47:46,559 --> 00:47:52,280 a reactive universe. What you put out is what you get back. What 487 00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:57,360 you put out is what you get back, not the other way around. 488 00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:02,159 I believe this is the essence of the golden rule. She is reminded of 489 00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:08,119 that with a memory where she put your love into that tree, it will 490 00:48:08,159 --> 00:48:15,480 be returned to you. It helps her to become pure of heart. Okay, 491 00:48:15,119 --> 00:48:22,000 why do share death experiences happen? Four things are necessary. There's a 492 00:48:22,079 --> 00:48:27,360 heart connection between the two parties. There's agreement ahead of time that they would 493 00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:31,679 like to share this adventure. Three, the experiencer Krista in this case, 494 00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:37,119 is open and receptive. And four, there is an invitation from the deceased 495 00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:45,039 to the living to share their experience. All four requirements are present here. 496 00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:52,559 Clearly, Krista and Derek love each other. The agreement takes place early in 497 00:48:52,639 --> 00:48:57,760 their marriage. Krista is receptive standing in the parking lot of the funeral home. 498 00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:04,199 The invitation takes place in the parking lot, and again later on the 499 00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:09,079 deck where this interview is taking place. Let's look at this deck experience. 500 00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:14,960 Upon arriving home, Krista goes on to the deck, has an out of 501 00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:21,400 body experience where she can see Derek, and she continues her shared death experience. 502 00:49:22,039 --> 00:49:25,960 He explains about the true nature of life and living. So let's look 503 00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:34,320 at that treasure trove of information Derek has Krista experience. One. Everything in 504 00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:39,519 both the physical and non physical world has a sound. Two unity. We 505 00:49:40,039 --> 00:49:46,079 everything is connected. Three our journey, our mission is to get back to 506 00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:53,440 source. Four our non physical multidimensional cells can be in multiple places at once. 507 00:49:54,400 --> 00:50:00,199 Remember Derek saying that Krista never left his side at the hospital, even 508 00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:06,719 though her physical body did. Five. We signed up for this. We 509 00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:12,119 signed up for this life it's trials so that we can have a better version 510 00:50:12,199 --> 00:50:19,159 of ourselves. Six We review our life from different perspectives. So you may 511 00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:23,800 remember Derek reviewed his life, and he reviewed that life again from the perspective 512 00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:30,679 of Krista. I've had other experiencers described this also with a third perspective, 513 00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:37,000 viewpoint of the omniscient kind of God's perspective. If you will, okay. 514 00:50:37,559 --> 00:50:45,280 Seven. During that life review, we are the only judges. Eight we 515 00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:50,559 get to pick how we present ourselves to others in the non physical. When 516 00:50:50,679 --> 00:50:54,679 Krista meets Derek during their out of body episode, he is his best self, 517 00:50:55,360 --> 00:51:02,360 young, wearing his best wedding suit. His form and his clothing return 518 00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:07,360 us back to the theme we discovered way at the beginning with that hooded figure. 519 00:51:07,199 --> 00:51:13,199 This is a beautiful love story. So there's this completion of the cycle. 520 00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:19,760 Number nine non physical beings Derek in this case can become visible to anyone. 521 00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:25,119 Christa asked Derek to prove that what is happening is real. I could 522 00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:31,679 just imagine the fingerweg her son and granddaughter see and witness the light and Derek's 523 00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:36,679 presence. We know this because of the reaction of the sun pulling the sheet 524 00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:43,159 up to his face and the granddaughter telling Kristad's delick he felt so good. 525 00:51:44,039 --> 00:51:49,159 Sorry for that invitation, but best I can do. And number ten witnesses 526 00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:57,079 can be touched and transformed, some say rewired by the light. Superior intellect 527 00:51:57,320 --> 00:52:01,000 is a classic after effect of being touched by the light, in this case 528 00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:07,199 clear light. I have a couple of other videos where I describe black light 529 00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:13,039 and white light. This is a clear light experience. That's quite a list. 530 00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:16,760 Each one of them is significant and probably deserves its own video. However, 531 00:52:17,119 --> 00:52:22,679 when they're all in one shared death experience, it's extraordinary. In addition 532 00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:29,280 to her detailed insights, there are some overall themes that became apparent to me 533 00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:37,039 through my repeated viewing. Number one, NDEs and SDEs seem to be customized, 534 00:52:37,519 --> 00:52:43,400 designed especially for the experiencer. Because Christa was raised Catholic, she was 535 00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:50,440 giving experiences that she was familiar with, purgatory, afterlife reincarnation. Second big 536 00:52:50,559 --> 00:52:58,079 theme here communication slash. Information is delivered to the experiencer in one or more 537 00:52:58,599 --> 00:53:04,840 of eight ways. The first five are in our five basic physical senses only 538 00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:09,559 non physical visual you get to see things with your non physical eyes. Kinesthetic 539 00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:15,079 you get to feel sense it smell. I have a guy who shows up 540 00:53:15,119 --> 00:53:20,920 and I smell jasmine. Taste. I had a woman who was in one 541 00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:24,840 of my classes, and when her mother showed up, she could taste gin. 542 00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:30,360 Mom was an alcoholic. Gin was her favorite drink. Information communicated there, 543 00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:36,239 and of course auditory you can hear what people say and they speak to 544 00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:44,239 you. But there are three more senses that are really extraordinary that we need 545 00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:47,960 to be aware of. Synesthesia and that great word synesthesia. What it means 546 00:53:49,119 --> 00:53:53,559 is that our senses are combined to form new senses, like we can hear 547 00:53:53,760 --> 00:54:00,880 colors and see sounds. Pretty cool, huh. Then there is gestalt or 548 00:54:01,119 --> 00:54:08,760 intuition. Krista twice references this in the interview where she said she was presented 549 00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:15,480 with information it clicked immediately, and then later she said it made sense. 550 00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:20,199 So this idea that there's no precursor, it's not linear or all of a 551 00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:24,199 sudden, you get this thought ball and you understand it all just like that. 552 00:54:25,119 --> 00:54:31,039 Okay. And lastly, emotion. Emotion can really give us some insight 553 00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:37,960 into what's being communicated to us, and it gives us a really nuanced version 554 00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:44,559 of what it is that this information and what it is and how it's important 555 00:54:44,599 --> 00:54:52,159 to us. Okay, So we have this overall theme of communication. Communication 556 00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:57,840 in the non physical world is telepathic, which frankly is a much superior form 557 00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:02,840 of communication because you don't have the limitations of words and the cultural nuances on 558 00:55:04,039 --> 00:55:09,320 that language. You don't have to interpret. The meaning comes through with true 559 00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:16,360 understanding. However, it does require having to get used to understanding without words. 560 00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:21,679 There's a little bit of that at the beginning, but it's really quite 561 00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:29,159 extraordinary. And here's some insights into how communication styles reinforce our new understanding of 562 00:55:29,199 --> 00:55:35,239 the nature of the afterlife. So let's take unity. Krista said, Derek 563 00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:39,199 was answering her questions before she could even think of them, before she could 564 00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:45,159 formulate them, which tells us that all information is available to all of us 565 00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:51,480 all the time. Everything is interconnected, So we can pull this information, 566 00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:58,000 we can divine intent. I like this one. Colors are more real and 567 00:55:58,199 --> 00:56:04,000 some don't exist in the physical world. The reference here is Christa's son granddaughter 568 00:56:04,519 --> 00:56:07,719 having a clear light experience. And how do you know you're having a clear 569 00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:15,559 light experience being in the same place, but it feels like a different dimension. 570 00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:22,559 Remember she said that the sky looked different. How about the nature of 571 00:56:22,679 --> 00:56:28,639 self, the merger of male and female. We are inherently both, we 572 00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:32,679 just choose to express one or the other to play a role here in the 573 00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:39,920 physical world. Remember when Krista said I didn't go in the whole way. 574 00:56:42,199 --> 00:56:45,159 I thought for a second that was just like a throwaway comment. But then 575 00:56:45,559 --> 00:56:51,519 what it made me realize was that Christa had a knowing sense of the geography 576 00:56:51,559 --> 00:56:55,840 of the afterlife. She knew was here and that there was more in farther, 577 00:56:57,360 --> 00:57:02,280 maybe at a higher vibratory level, at a different location. So she's 578 00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:08,280 probably been there thousands of times before or not, But she had a sense 579 00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:14,840 of the geographic location of the afterlife and where she was in relation to that. 580 00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:22,039 That's pretty cool. What we know about near death experiences, A lot 581 00:57:22,079 --> 00:57:27,840 of it was given to us by pm H Atwater. One of the things 582 00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:30,920 that she told us was that to know whether or not you've had a near 583 00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:37,800 death experience or a shared death experience, you measure it by the after effects. 584 00:57:39,519 --> 00:57:44,199 Because some people, frankly, don't remember their experience or don't remember it 585 00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:47,199 very well because maybe they had a head injury and affected their brain a lot 586 00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:53,440 of that. But you can look at them and look at the after effects 587 00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:58,800 and know whether or not they've had a near death or shared death experience. 588 00:57:59,079 --> 00:58:06,239 Frankly is a poster child for near death and shared death experience after effects. 589 00:58:07,119 --> 00:58:12,920 Here's just a couple that I picked up. You might find more fear of 590 00:58:13,039 --> 00:58:17,519 disclosure. She overcame that now I was talking to all kinds of people that 591 00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:22,039 she has the ability to see the non physical, remember those blue orbs that 592 00:58:22,159 --> 00:58:28,320 show up in her life, remembering what it felt like, and just by 593 00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:31,960 remembering, can go back to that state. Again. That's a cool thing 594 00:58:34,519 --> 00:58:39,000 that the light, in this case clear light rewires a person the sun becomes 595 00:58:39,039 --> 00:58:45,239 a math whiz, applying it to computers, and the granddaughter reading much ahead 596 00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:54,440 of time before kindergarten. After death communications using electronic devices, TV, microwave, 597 00:58:54,559 --> 00:59:00,920 cell phone, all Derek uses to communicate with Krista. And here's another 598 00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:07,000 one. I it is so evident Christa had to research. She was driven 599 00:59:07,079 --> 00:59:13,199 to be curious, a really common after effect of near death experiences. In 600 00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:17,000 the life review, there's no judgment. We judge ourselves. That's it. 601 00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:22,199 Nobody else gets to do it. And my favorite, no fear of death. 602 00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:30,559 Krista said she witnessed. Because they go on that Christa was free to 603 00:59:30,679 --> 00:59:34,719 live her life more fully, and she's doing that today, reaching out to 604 00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:40,079 create community, writing a book speaking about her experiences, and Krista continues to 605 00:59:40,239 --> 00:59:46,360 interact with the non physical world. I do hope that videos such as this 606 00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:52,079 can give you some insight on what near death and shared death experiencers discover about 607 00:59:52,119 --> 00:59:57,880 the afterlife, the nature of consciousness, and how to live your life more 608 00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:01,280 fully. If you've not already, do you hit that subscribe button? I 609 01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:05,960 would encourage you to do so. It really helps us on this end. 610 01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:10,280 Okay, So what's Christa going to do? With her knowledge, well, 611 01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:16,440 she formed a group that supports each other's spiritual search. Isn't that wonderful? 612 01:00:17,239 --> 01:00:22,320 And then they try to live the life they've discovered on the other side of 613 01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:29,519 the veil. 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