You're listening to the Paranormal UK Radio Network, the best in paranormal talk radio
in the UK and around the world. This interview with Christoph Barker is an
extraordinary example of a share death experience with significant after death communications or ADCs.
Not only because of the depth and frequency of the ADCs, Krista now understands
with much more insight, the non physical world and our multidimensional selves. Welcome
to the Afterlife Files, where we investigate near death experiences, share death experiences
and how they affect you. Unlike podcasts that are just stories, we will
give you a heads up on what to look for in our conversation, and
then after the interview stick around. We will help you make sense of those
accounts so you can incorporate the insights into your life. I think you'll find
that once having your most profound questions answered, living life in the physical is
filled with more peace and joy. This is a story with many parts.
Krista does a beautiful job of describing the details of what happens, and the
sequence may seem to be a bit confusing as a result. I think it
would be helpful if you were introduced to the sequence ahead of time. Because
the non physical world exists outside of linear time we experience here in the physical.
Christoph Barker started having her ADC before her husband, Derek, died of
alcoholism. It starts with a share dream a couple of months before his transition.
Later, in a moment of anguished prayer about his condition, a female
voice speaks to her and tells her that all of the answers will come in
three months, one two. In the second of those three months, she
gets a phone call that her husband has been admitted to the emergency room and
is failing fast. Krista runs up the hill to where she hoped to engage
with the female voice and that voice's love and wisdom. Only this time,
the female voice teaches her a very specific meditation that will help Derek navigate his
transition. Seven days later, driving home after visiting Derek in hospice, she
felt her husband flow through her body as he made his transition. That's the
first part of her shared death experience. The day of the funeral, she
is visited by her husband in the parking lot of the funeral home. Krista
has the presence of mind, I'm sure I could to ask him hold on,
Hold on until she can go home. Upon arriving home, Christa goes
out onto the deck has an out of body experience where she can see him
and Krista then continues her shared death experience. Derek explains about the true nature
of life and living. Krista then asked Derek to prove that what is happening
is real. In her bedroom, son and granddaughter see Derek witness the light
and his presence. That's the general sequence and it should help orient you as
Krista tells her story. Please stick around after Krista's interview for my summary of
all that she learned and the insights she's giving to us in this interview.
It's really impressive. On a technical note, the cat and the dog at
Christa's home keep wanting to participate in the interview. We start and stop several
times to accommodate them. It made me wonder, though, is this Derek
participating in the interview through their pets? I don't know. As you watch,
what do you think? Here is my extraordinary conversation with Kristah Barker Ali.
Krista, we are so glad that you could join us on the Afterlife
Files. Hello, how are you I'm awesome, and we are really interested
in hearing your story. So let's just jump right in and find out what
was going on between you and your husband. Well, it was awesome.
It was an awesome experience out of a tragedy. But so I'll started at
the beginning. We were having issues. We were married for three years,
and the issues started when he was getting into things that I didn't get into.
It was drugs and alcohol, and so I was contemplating on whether I
was going to leave or not. And I had a dream one night and
it changed everything. I In this dream, we both were in it,
and we were in this great, big, huge white marble place with these
big pillars, and I remember this like hooded woman coming in and telling us
to go into this other room. And as we walked in, there was
a casket at the end of the room. And uh so we set down
in the middle of the chairs and all of a sudden, this smarty starts
scrolling and scrolling across the casket markey like in front of a theater, all
lit up in lights kind of thing. Well, it had his name,
just his name, Derek Barker, scrolling across up above the casket and I
went, oh, my gosh, Derek, we're at your funeral and imagined
em and he was like, yeah, that's all right, I'm not afraid
to die. And I was scared, so I went the dream kind of
takes me to another part, like in a grieving room at the funeral homes.
And I woke up and I went to go get my husband and tell
him that we were going to have to do something. You know, I
was discussing a split, try a temporary split first, see how it goes,
and I said, he goes. He was like why, and I
told him. I said, I feel like I'm watching you die and I
don't want to be a part of that. And he paused, like,
wait a minute. I had a crazy dream and it was about me dying,
and I was like really, Now, there was some differences that he
had said, but the main theme was he was dying, and I was
shocked. I was like wow. So I didn't think much about it then
until I left. And well, it was about a month or two later
and I got the phone call which we communicated and we had talked at least
once a week, and I finally I got a phone call that he had
gotten sick and it was the nurse. It was the nurse at the hospital,
and you know, she's telling me that she's about to put my husband
on life support. He could barely speak, he was so sick, and
no, I just I broke. I was like, wow, I can't
believe it. So she's letting me know this because by the time I get
there, I'm not going to be able to talk to him. So she's
basically telling me everything he wants me to know. So I dropped the phone
and I run to the cabin. We have a cabin where I live.
We have eighteen acres and there's a cabin, a lot of woods. Feels
really good out here, and so it's interesting how I got let up that
hill. But I got let up the hill with a cat and I went
up the hill. He took me up this deer trail. It was like
we were in scene and I thought that was weird too. But we get
up the hill and I find this big rock. He wanted to say hello
clearly, see, is there a chance that we can stabilize your computer a
little bit? It's kind of wiggling around. Yeah, if you want to
pause, I'll go ahead and put the dog in the house. He's the
one that's shaken everything four three two one, Christas. So you were telling
us you were let up a hill by a cat. Yes, And so
I get up there and I find this huge rock. We have a lot
of big rocks here, and I'm already aware of the fact that everything is
frequency, there's energy to this. So it's like instincts took over and I
sat on this rock and I touched the tree. Now I had watched Greg
Braden and he was telling about how you know you could do this and push
your love into things and pull it. So I did that and wow,
the it was so beautiful, like the voices and the experience that come out
was amazing. I'll never forget it. It's brings me back every time I
talk about it. So at first I thought God was a woman because this
featmale voice comes through and she's telling me that everything's gonna be okay and that
I'm gonna have the answers that I'm looking for in about three months or that
was the first experience that I had. She was telling me how to meditate
for Derek, and she's telling me the answers are gonna come right, and
I was like, okay, but you know, so she started guiding me
into this meditation, and she's telling me every day, for three times a
day, ten to fifteen minutes, send this loving frequency through and through him,
like pull it up from the earth, pull it through me, through
him, and back down. Now I knew in my heart that he wasn't
gonna make it, but I had studied and learned about how sometimes souls can
get stuck because of sudden death. Maybe or I was worried about it.
I didn't know if it was true, and I was worried about it.
I loved him. I loved him so much, and all I wanted was
for him to find the greatest happiness that you can find. And so she's
telling me this and I start doing it. I'm guided every day into these
meditations, and seven days later, I get the call that we gotta go.
They're pulling him off a life support. He was so sick. He
had become septic and it had come out on the side of his hip,
so there was really no chance, you know, this was better. So
we're all in there and they take him off a life support. I left
before they took him off. I couldn't deal with it. So I was
gone and I was in my vehicle actually when I felt him passed through me
and I knew it was like four or forty four, and I knew.
I was like, oh God. So I got home and my mom tells
me Christa Derek passed away. I said, I know, Mom, Well,
she's used to I stay with my parents. My mom has cancer and
I'm taking care of her. I knew, I just knew, and she
was used to it. So I start calling family and then I go I
go back to the spot. I run immediately back to the spot and I'm
meditating. Then I hear a male's voice, so then I'm like, okay,
I'm kind of conflicted. There's male and female voice, but that's okay.
What I had found out through the experience was that it's like bringing your
masculine and feminine together, becoming one with your soul is what I gathered from
the experience as well. So during this meditation, though, I started seeing
orbs, like I've seen this eridescent orb and it kind of like floated past
me, and I had these little knots in it and nodules around it.
And when I went to go look that up, I found out that is
the soul without a body. So I knew. I was like, oh,
fuck, it's slob. You know, I knew it was him positive
so I knew. I just knew that it was him. I went I
went to bed that night. In the middle of the night, I got
woke up to the TV and it was blasting, and it was in the
family room where my kids, my grandkids, I'm raising my grandkids, and
so it goes up sky high and it's flipping through the channels and the newslands,
and I knew it was him. He loved the news. I did
not. And I was like, Okay, I know he's trying to communicate.
How can how can I do this? So low and bold? The
meditations that come to me when he was dying is what I went to.
I went back to that, and so I started meditating. There was several
things that had happened. But so he sat at the funeral home for seven
days and you know, until we could come up with the money to bury
him. His mom, I let her do everything, and no parents should
ever have to bury their child. And so he didn't want to be buried.
He wanted to be cremated. But I let her do it. So
we're waiting seven days and on the seventh day and all this time, I'm
meditating and praying and communicating. Like the microwave went off one night, and
it was just it was crazy, the paranormal activity that was going on here.
I found orbs outside the blue one, the gold one like it was
nuts so, and the aridescent one. So we go to the day of
his funeral, and I'm excited. It's weird. It's weird when it's someone
that you love because you're like, you know they're not there in that shell,
but you can't wait to see them. Like I had to make sure
I looked good. It was crazy, just so I could see him.
But I get there to gripe at him. And so I got there early,
and I was griping at him and I was telling him, why,
why did you have to go through that, Why couldn't you have stopped?
Why this whether I go to leave and his mom hands me the contents of
his wallet and his wedding band is there, wrapped up in our vows and
she handed that to me. It was like she handed him over to me,
and I immediately it was like an am radio or FM radio is shoved
in my head. And it's weird because you can hear, you know what
they're saying, but you can't exactly hear the words. You know. You
just know it's a feeling. And so I knew, and I was like,
gotta wait till I get home. I don't want to do this in
the parking lot of the funeral. You gotta wait till we get home and
we will talk. We will talk. So I get home, I run,
I run from the van. I go in the house and I get
dressed as I'm excited, and I come outside and something happened to me that
had never happened to me before. My soul shot up out of my body.
My crown was tingling. I seen myself. I seen him. He
was wearing the clothes he wore when we got married. He looks so handsome
and young, and he's telling me he's going to be here for a little
while and guide me if I will allow it to show me some things I
had been searching for God my whole life. He was the one that showed
me that there was definitely a source creator, So I said, immediately,
I got scared. Then a little bit of fear come in and then he
shot this love and it was so overwhelming, most beautiful love I had ever
felt in my life. And the atmosphere was so beautiful and different. It
was different, and I could hear like a symphony. It clicked immediately that
we are all connected and that everything has sound, even our earth has a
beautiful frequency sound. And I was like, you gotta prove it. So
I ran in the house. My granddaughter, she was two years old.
She runs in front of me, goes to my bedroom and the light was
on in the closet but not the room. So she stops and she went
me, me, there a guy in your closet. So I was like,
oh wow. My son, he was thirteen at the time. He
was on my bed playing with his game boy. He looks up and he
goes with the blanket. He goes and then like peaks down slowly, and
then I was like, oh my gosh, so they can see you too.
Okay, I'm listening. And it was cool because she's seen him,
like she's like, that's delick. That's Delick. I love that, and
I know I loved it too, And I was like, and she said
she felt the most beautiful she because he feels so good. Me me,
She's waving, she's blowing kiss. Was like, all right, okay,
this is cool. So I had to go to researching after this. I
had to because I was like, how has anybody ever had Has this happened
to anybody else? Can your family be your guide? Can people do this?
Like? Am I losing my mind? Because I even told him I'm
going to get a cat scan tomorrow. He was telling me about how we're
all energy, we're all connected, which is what I already knew. And
he said that there is a divine creator and that we are all a part
of that creation, and that this journey is to get back to source,
and that we have to go through certain trials, you know, to make
ourselves a better version of ourselves to be in that gracious life. It made
sense for the first time in my life. It made sense, and I
felt it the love. I felt it for months and months and now when
I meditate, I take and I go back to that experience, I feel
my body it's just all the love. The love, it's the love.
Was amazing, and so yeah, it was a big thing. I was
afraid to tell family because I didn't want them to think I was crazy,
But I had to tell my parents. They are right here with me and
my grandkids, and I didn't want my granddaughter to go and say something and
then my mom be thinking something else, right, So I went to tell
her. It took me about two days to tell her, so I told
her and Sissy she wouldn't sleep with me for about a month after that because
she's seen him. He was right beside me and I had eventually, you
know, had had we had agreed that it was like he what he had
told me was it helped him go to the other side that he said he
thought he was that I was there the whole time. He said, I
thought you never left my side at the hospital, and I said I had
to. I couldn't stay all the time. And he was like, you
know in this reality. And what he had done was he took me to
the other side. The light changed. I didn't go all the way,
but it was so cool because when he when he finally went, I could
see young beautiful Derek waving at me like bye. And I told my sister
in law because she had always said, you know, after this experience,
I don't think about are you going to hell, are you going to heaven?
I don't think like that anymore, because for one thing, I felt
like it's a judgment. But for another reason is no matter what he went,
no matter what people thought about him or his addictions, he went to
God. And I know it because I felt it, and I met him
or her source. I communicated with it. And so after that experience,
it was like for months, a lot of more things happened paranormally. The
blue orbs showed up. It was Paul sating my I've seen it too.
That was the thing. My son was getting Mike Season d's in school,
and he shot up to straight a's. He's seventeen now and he's doing college
courses already, coding. I know my granddaughter, we had her reading before
kindergarten. It's like it did something to our enlightenment. It gave us,
It helped give us some sort of enlightenment, a change in our thinking in
you know, learning. I couldn't read enough books because of course I had
to research what happened and how it could have happened. But it was the
most beautiful experience I've ever been through in my life. And since then,
you know, a few family members have passed and only one other has communicated,
but it it definitely opened that door. And I do believe that like
my mother, she has cancer, and I don't look at death the same
anymore because I know that they go on, and so I know it'll be
another chapter for her that I'm hoping that I'm privileged enough to watch her go
on like I did, Derek. I mean, it was. It was
the best thing that ever happened to me. For sure. Changed the way
I looked at life, changed the way I think, what a story.
Yeah, so I got a couple of things that were I think kind of
cool. So you were standing there and you lifted up out of your body
and you went to another place. Yes, you said, the light shifted.
Yes, and how did it shift? Okay, it's like it was
almost dusk to begin with, it was evening time, and when it shifted,
it's hard to explain. There were no corners, there were no corners,
and everything was like a almost a fall, but not in. The
colors were prettier and there was a beautiful sound. And yeah, so you
were you were outside right, yes, right here, and you were and
you were still outside but the world changed, Yes, yes, it just
wasn't what we see. But I feel like that's actually how it should be,
you know. Okay, And while you were in this state, you
had a chance to communicate with Derek. But it was it was telepathic.
It wasn't in English. Yeah, it was telepathic. It was like and
it was cool because he was answering my questions before I could even get the
question out, and it just would shoot this love through my body. And
he wasn't talking in Hey, Krista, this is how life really is.
It was an energy and I felt it and I can feel his energy too,
so I know it's him. You know if we call that an energy
signature. Yes, yeah, you don't. You don't see people, but
they're there. You can. You can sense them, and you know exactly
who it is because they have a signature. Yes, yes, they And
then you also talked that I think it was the same time when you communicated
with Source. Yes, that happened right before he got sick. I was
out in the same spot that I ran to when the nurse had called that
he was sick. Now this was about a month before. It was three
months before he got sick. I was devastated that my marriage was ending,
I didn't want to go through this anymore. I need help, God,
where are you? And I went up the hill and I sat on that
rock and that's when communication comes through. Now, my granddaughter had witnessed part
of that as well, the same one, because she was like, she
couldn't hear what communication I had going on with Source. But she was like,
Mimi, the sky looks different. Everything looks different. And I feel
like that's because they're younger and their pineal gland isn't calcified by you know,
ours gets. And so I was like, yes, maybe it. You
know, I'm communicating with an angel. I didn't want to say too much,
but now I teach them, so yeah. And she told me,
Christie, your answers will be here in three months. And do you know
when he got when I actually when he got sick and everything happened, it
was three months to the day. She was right, and I did get
my answers. So you were asking questions like what's going on, and the
female voice came and told you that it was going to be three months and
you'd figured out yep. And so when you say you had you communicated with
Source, that's the female voice that you were talking about, Well there's something
else. The female voice come through first, and I thought it was God
and I was like, wow, God's a female I was right. And
then the male boys come through. Love that I was right, and he's
like, not quite. It's like our soul was a balance of both,
and if we are in the liking of Creator, that would be we're a
balance of both. So immediately I'm like, oh, I make that connection.
And I said, why is this happening to me? And he said,
you're pure of heart, you have a pure soul. And because I
was only asking for help for Derek and love and I want God to help
me, and he said, it's like Jacob Sladder. That's what he put
in my head. Like immediately I thought about the story of Jacob Sladder and
I was like wow. And it went from there, you know, everything
snowballed. So what was the correlation between Jacob's ladder and your experience? Because
where Jacob's ladder where he goes through all these trials and struggles and at the
end he asks God, you know what can I do? You know how
can I find you? And God eventually saves his life, but by killing
him first it's like it's like rebirth or being born from the inside. And
that's what I had gathered, is that that's what we are supposed to do,
is you know, bring our soul into this vessel or a soul.
We're not a body with a soul or a soul with a body. And
I figured that out. I had never thought about any of that stuff before
either, and I just it came to me. There is a wonderful study
that was done by PMH Atwater about children who have have been touched by the
light right and how their brains are rewired, and how they become more they
developed new skills. They're infinitely smarter than they were. Yeah, I was
wondering about that because that clearly happened to my grandson or my granddaughter and my
son and me. I mean, I sat down one night to read a
three hundred page book and by seven o'clock it was done, and I had
to do homeschool. I didn't do that again because I was too tired the
next day, but I couldn't stop cramming information into my brain, like and
then it got easier to teach the kids math and to STEPH started clicking,
and I thought that, but I've never found the study like I know that's
what happened to them. I'll send it to you and i'll put it in
the links below for a whole the rest of you. Thank you. So
the other thing, you said that your mom has cancer and that she'll be
making her transition sometime, right, and that the two of you would like
to share that experience. Yes, and we know a lot about share death
experiences now and the and the best way to do it is for the two
of you to agree that that's something that both of you would like to have
happened. And that's what Derek and I did now that I think about it,
because he were joking around one day, just joking around, and he
said, I promise you if I go before you and I can come back
and show you, I will, And I said, okay, do it.
That's exactly how it works. So the person who's making the transition in
this case, your mom, she needs to reach back into the physical and
pull you up. And it's it's about matching your vibratory levels, which you
told me yet, and so she's at a higher vibratory rate and it's easier
for her to drop down, to drop down and than it is for you
to go up and so and the trigger here's the here's the fun part is
that when she'll go through a life review, and and then at the life
review, there will be some significance scene between the two of you. And
so when you guys agree, yes, we would like this thing to happen,
and talk about the life review, remember, and then pick a scene
that was really meaningful for the both of you. Christmas when you get your
bicycle when you were seven years old, right, I made that up.
But so when she's going through her life review and that scene comes up where
she's giving you the bicycle, that's her trigger to remember to come back to
the physical and pick you up. And in that way she can join you
and be with you during you know, all phases of the transition or that
period. I'm looking forward to it, but you know, not in a
morbid way. Yeah, it's just that they let you know. Like he
let me know, Christian, I'm very much alive, and he told me
about the life review. I never knew about the life review. I always
thought judgment. No, it's a life review. We actually judge ourselves.
He also told me that we're going to go through a time in living that
we actually can go through the life review before we go and it's easier to
transition. And then he kept telling me that he got to see the pain
he put me through through my eyes, through my lenses. That moved me.
I mean that moved me. And do you have a sense that that
was the agreement between the two of you. Oh, yeah, that he
was going to be sick and he's going to test you, and yeah,
because you're going to grow as a result of it. That kind of thing.
Yes, Because when we talked about the dream, when he's telling me
I had to have a life review and I'm asking him, why did you
come back? And he's telling me he's gonna guide me And I'm like,
wow, I never heard of that stuff before, and he's like, we
agreed to this. We agreed to this before we came. And I was
like really, And now it brought back sometimes because I knew Derek his whole
life. He was six years younger than I and my great aunt raised him.
He's not her son, but she raised him and that's how we knew
each other. And I remember when he was like six months old and I
had things happened to me. When I was little, I used to ask
for project him. I thought every kid knit it. And I walked in
this room and I heard this voice telling me we're going to get married,
We're going to have kids. My mom got so mad at me over that,
Krista, stop with that, stop with the imaginary friends, stop with
all this stuff. And you know what, I remembered that I couldn't didn't
remember it until he brought that memory back to me. And I was like,
you know what, Derek, I got big trouble for that. And
he's like, I know, he said, but Krista, I'm trying to
tell you that we that's proof that we agreed. That's proof that you can
communicate like this. That's proof that we are more than what they say that
we are. And I was like, okay, So, as you've told
this story, Krista, how is your family received it? How is the
community that you live in receive it that? What's that been? Like?
I just now started with the community because I got I got the nerve,
I guess or the I got enough information to understand that I'm not crazy and
that people have went through this and I wanted to share my story to help
someone because that's something I was told to by source that I had to share
my story, and he told me to write a book, and I didn't
know how to do, like how to get it published or how to do.
So it took me some time to research and to unpack everything that I
was told. And so now Mom and Dad they say I have a beautiful
energy, that I feel great, and that they're glad that that happened.
And Dad told me that my grandfather and back then, you know, it
was definitely who used to communicate with his brothers that have passed. And so
when I told him, he's like, I'm not surprised my dad did it.
And I was like, cool, Like, I feel so much better
now. And the community is doing good because I have a little community on
YouTube and there's about twelve to fifteen people from our town that's in it,
and they know my story now so well. I've done a lot of speaking
all over the United States about near death experiences and shared death experiences, and
I think that I've talked to more Catholic churches than any place else, so
you will find it at least a receptive audience with some of the priests.
So I agree with that. I grew up Catholic, and I feel like,
you know, even though I was wondering and kind of straying away from
religion, I was grateful I was Catholic my whole life because we were taught
about purgatory, we were taught about an astro life, and they believe in
reincarnation. So that kind of kept those doors open for me. I believe,
you know. So is Derek still around, is he talking to you?
Or is he moved on? Sometimes I still can't communicate with him.
What he told me at the beginning was that it's a cycle and that when
I grow past what knowledge he can give, you know, like I may
end up with another guide. He had also told me that when my brother
had passed when I was younger, because see, I had something happened when
I was a kid too, and my brother he walked in the room after
he died and he told me everything would be okay. So he told me
that this had been kind of going on my whole life. I just wasn't
aware of it or you know, realizing that's what was going on. And
so I can go outside and communicate and I feel about love and then sometimes
if I'm not meditating. He'll get me through a song, or he can
manipulate my cell phone and pop up a video like it'll unlock itself and play
some video and I'll be like okay, I know, and I'll go communicate
with him. So he is around, definitely, definitely. So you mentioned
that you have a YouTube community. Tell us about that and how we can
get ahold of you. Okay. It is called Psychic Soul Sences. And
you can also reach me on my email, which is I have a business
one a't CRG six one nine eight at gmail dot com. And yeah,
I'm writing my book too. I'm excited about it because I'm going back to
my childhood experiences. I'm going to put it all out, so that should
be a fun read. I agree. Well, thank you Christopher for being
with us on the Afterlife Files. This has been a really enjoyable afternoon.
Thank you too, Scott. I am so glad that I joined you today.
Everybody else, stick around because I've got a couple of insights that I
think you're going to want to hear. So in the meantime, see here,
Christa. All right, Wow, that was quite the story. Here's
what I learned Just to be clear, these are my viewpoints. But that's
why you watch the afterlife files to gain more perspective by using more than one
lens with which to view the this rich information. Let's start with the shared
dream. Our guides often arrange our near death experiences, shared death experiences,
and spiritually transformative experiences using metaphorical devices to get their point across. Christa's story
is one of those. It starts with a beautiful, hooded lady appearing in
a marble hall. Both the attire of the figure and the setting screams pay
attention. What I'm going to tell you and show you is important, and
it is. What she says is I've got to tell you a beautiful love
story. This invites Krista to look at her life and the experience that she's
now having with a different lens. I'm going to show you a beautiful love
story. Not about the trials or the sickness, or the alcoholism or the
death. It's a beautiful love story. Then she is ushered into a room
where she is looking at Derek's casket. This is foreshadowing her shared death experience
months later. Next, Krista is guided up a prayer and sorry a prayer
hill. The hill by a cat animals are often used to communicate with humans
by those on the other side. In a moment of anguished prayer, a
female voice speaks to her and tells her that all answers will come in three
months. During the second of those three months, she gets a phone call
that her husband has been admitted to the emergency room, and failing fast,
she runs up that same prayer hill to where she heard the female voice,
hoping to engage with that same voice as love and was only this time the
female voice teaches her a very specific meditation that will help Derek navigate his transition.
Krista learns to meditate using the bridge technique. This technique has Krista use
energy bridges. So here's how it goes. It starts in the earth,
flows the energy up through the self, then heart to heart to Derek,
and then back again into the earth. So it goes Earth through Krista,
heart to heart to Derek and then back into the Earth. And then this
cycle then is repeated over and over. Krista is reminded that we live in
a reactive universe. What you put out is what you get back. What
you put out is what you get back, not the other way around.
I believe this is the essence of the golden rule. She is reminded of
that with a memory where she put your love into that tree, it will
be returned to you. It helps her to become pure of heart. Okay,
why do share death experiences happen? Four things are necessary. There's a
heart connection between the two parties. There's agreement ahead of time that they would
like to share this adventure. Three, the experiencer Krista in this case,
is open and receptive. And four, there is an invitation from the deceased
to the living to share their experience. All four requirements are present here.
Clearly, Krista and Derek love each other. The agreement takes place early in
their marriage. Krista is receptive standing in the parking lot of the funeral home.
The invitation takes place in the parking lot, and again later on the
deck where this interview is taking place. Let's look at this deck experience.
Upon arriving home, Krista goes on to the deck, has an out of
body experience where she can see Derek, and she continues her shared death experience.
He explains about the true nature of life and living. So let's look
at that treasure trove of information Derek has Krista experience. One. Everything in
both the physical and non physical world has a sound. Two unity. We
everything is connected. Three our journey, our mission is to get back to
source. Four our non physical multidimensional cells can be in multiple places at once.
Remember Derek saying that Krista never left his side at the hospital, even
though her physical body did. Five. We signed up for this. We
signed up for this life it's trials so that we can have a better version
of ourselves. Six We review our life from different perspectives. So you may
remember Derek reviewed his life, and he reviewed that life again from the perspective
of Krista. I've had other experiencers described this also with a third perspective,
viewpoint of the omniscient kind of God's perspective. If you will, okay.
Seven. During that life review, we are the only judges. Eight we
get to pick how we present ourselves to others in the non physical. When
Krista meets Derek during their out of body episode, he is his best self,
young, wearing his best wedding suit. His form and his clothing return
us back to the theme we discovered way at the beginning with that hooded figure.
This is a beautiful love story. So there's this completion of the cycle.
Number nine non physical beings Derek in this case can become visible to anyone.
Christa asked Derek to prove that what is happening is real. I could
just imagine the fingerweg her son and granddaughter see and witness the light and Derek's
presence. We know this because of the reaction of the sun pulling the sheet
up to his face and the granddaughter telling Kristad's delick he felt so good.
Sorry for that invitation, but best I can do. And number ten witnesses
can be touched and transformed, some say rewired by the light. Superior intellect
is a classic after effect of being touched by the light, in this case
clear light. I have a couple of other videos where I describe black light
and white light. This is a clear light experience. That's quite a list.
Each one of them is significant and probably deserves its own video. However,
when they're all in one shared death experience, it's extraordinary. In addition
to her detailed insights, there are some overall themes that became apparent to me
through my repeated viewing. Number one, NDEs and SDEs seem to be customized,
designed especially for the experiencer. Because Christa was raised Catholic, she was
giving experiences that she was familiar with, purgatory, afterlife reincarnation. Second big
theme here communication slash. Information is delivered to the experiencer in one or more
of eight ways. The first five are in our five basic physical senses only
non physical visual you get to see things with your non physical eyes. Kinesthetic
you get to feel sense it smell. I have a guy who shows up
and I smell jasmine. Taste. I had a woman who was in one
of my classes, and when her mother showed up, she could taste gin.
Mom was an alcoholic. Gin was her favorite drink. Information communicated there,
and of course auditory you can hear what people say and they speak to
you. But there are three more senses that are really extraordinary that we need
to be aware of. Synesthesia and that great word synesthesia. What it means
is that our senses are combined to form new senses, like we can hear
colors and see sounds. Pretty cool, huh. Then there is gestalt or
intuition. Krista twice references this in the interview where she said she was presented
with information it clicked immediately, and then later she said it made sense.
So this idea that there's no precursor, it's not linear or all of a
sudden, you get this thought ball and you understand it all just like that.
Okay. And lastly, emotion. Emotion can really give us some insight
into what's being communicated to us, and it gives us a really nuanced version
of what it is that this information and what it is and how it's important
to us. Okay, So we have this overall theme of communication. Communication
in the non physical world is telepathic, which frankly is a much superior form
of communication because you don't have the limitations of words and the cultural nuances on
that language. You don't have to interpret. The meaning comes through with true
understanding. However, it does require having to get used to understanding without words.
There's a little bit of that at the beginning, but it's really quite
extraordinary. And here's some insights into how communication styles reinforce our new understanding of
the nature of the afterlife. So let's take unity. Krista said, Derek
was answering her questions before she could even think of them, before she could
formulate them, which tells us that all information is available to all of us
all the time. Everything is interconnected, So we can pull this information,
we can divine intent. I like this one. Colors are more real and
some don't exist in the physical world. The reference here is Christa's son granddaughter
having a clear light experience. And how do you know you're having a clear
light experience being in the same place, but it feels like a different dimension.
Remember she said that the sky looked different. How about the nature of
self, the merger of male and female. We are inherently both, we
just choose to express one or the other to play a role here in the
physical world. Remember when Krista said I didn't go in the whole way.
I thought for a second that was just like a throwaway comment. But then
what it made me realize was that Christa had a knowing sense of the geography
of the afterlife. She knew was here and that there was more in farther,
maybe at a higher vibratory level, at a different location. So she's
probably been there thousands of times before or not, But she had a sense
of the geographic location of the afterlife and where she was in relation to that.
That's pretty cool. What we know about near death experiences, A lot
of it was given to us by pm H Atwater. One of the things
that she told us was that to know whether or not you've had a near
death experience or a shared death experience, you measure it by the after effects.
Because some people, frankly, don't remember their experience or don't remember it
very well because maybe they had a head injury and affected their brain a lot
of that. But you can look at them and look at the after effects
and know whether or not they've had a near death or shared death experience.
Frankly is a poster child for near death and shared death experience after effects.
Here's just a couple that I picked up. You might find more fear of
disclosure. She overcame that now I was talking to all kinds of people that
she has the ability to see the non physical, remember those blue orbs that
show up in her life, remembering what it felt like, and just by
remembering, can go back to that state. Again. That's a cool thing
that the light, in this case clear light rewires a person the sun becomes
a math whiz, applying it to computers, and the granddaughter reading much ahead
of time before kindergarten. After death communications using electronic devices, TV, microwave,
cell phone, all Derek uses to communicate with Krista. And here's another
one. I it is so evident Christa had to research. She was driven
to be curious, a really common after effect of near death experiences. In
the life review, there's no judgment. We judge ourselves. That's it.
Nobody else gets to do it. And my favorite, no fear of death.
Krista said she witnessed. Because they go on that Christa was free to
live her life more fully, and she's doing that today, reaching out to
create community, writing a book speaking about her experiences, and Krista continues to
interact with the non physical world. I do hope that videos such as this
can give you some insight on what near death and shared death experiencers discover about
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Okay, So what's Christa going to do? With her knowledge, well,
she formed a group that supports each other's spiritual search. Isn't that wonderful?
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the veil. How to live a life consistent with what you have found out
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