1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:11,080 Made a decision. I'll face sunny sumone on. I had a vision night 2 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:23,120 to meet. What's up everybody? Hey, Thanksgiving week, y'all. Yeah, 3 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:27,800 we're here on a Sunday morning recording. Yeah. So I leave tomorrow 4 00:00:27,839 --> 00:00:33,399 for Chicago, flying out with just me and Sonny, and then Natali is 5 00:00:33,399 --> 00:00:38,799 gonna come and on Tuesday Wednesday? Oh why not till Wednesday? Because she 6 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:44,399 wanted to have a little Thanksgiving at her boyfriend's house a couple of days before. 7 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:49,079 So it was fine. That shit ain't gonna last, I know, 8 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:53,640 but okay, okay, and last thing I need is a moping teenager in 9 00:00:53,799 --> 00:00:57,039 Chicago, right, so I don't care. Was no skin off my nose. 10 00:00:57,039 --> 00:01:00,560 She's going on the same the same time as arriving, but just a 11 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:07,799 couple of days later. So yeah, but so then you're staying through the 12 00:01:07,879 --> 00:01:10,840 end of the week. Yeah, then we get back on Saturday. Oh 13 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:15,439 okay, yeah, stay in at Anti Wendy's. It's gonna be fun. 14 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:19,040 Yeah. The babies, a lot of babies. Oh my gosh, what 15 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:25,959 are you doing for Thanksgiving? Every Thanksgiving I go to my brothers, and 16 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:33,640 last Thanksgiving I was I remembered John was sick. John was getting over the 17 00:01:33,719 --> 00:01:38,719 flu and Xander was sick, so those two stayed home. Oh and just 18 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:44,719 the girls went. And yeah, and we didn't bring the dog. Usually 19 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:49,079 we bring people with us, right, people is like our babies. She 20 00:01:49,159 --> 00:01:53,359 cannot She can't be home for like the whole day, like from twelve to 21 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:57,200 seven or eight o'clock at night. Like that's just it. It's like a 22 00:01:57,239 --> 00:02:00,840 long time. I agree. And it's not even the she needs a walk, 23 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:02,480 because I think she could be okay without a walk, she can go 24 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:07,680 eight hours. It's that she would just it's just sad, it is. 25 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,120 I know. It's like what do they do all day? Don't gay get 26 00:02:10,159 --> 00:02:14,439 bored? Yeah? You know. Yeah, she is a dog that does 27 00:02:14,599 --> 00:02:17,080 not like to be alone. It's not that she's bad. She won't like 28 00:02:19,199 --> 00:02:23,639 bark or be caredring or anything like that. She's just sad. Yeah. 29 00:02:23,719 --> 00:02:29,319 I know Phil too, he's a people person, which I'll tell you about 30 00:02:29,319 --> 00:02:34,759 Phil. Can I just tell you a quick thing that happened to me the 31 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:38,879 other day that dog related. So I'm at I'm at one of my special 32 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:45,960 meetings, and afterwards, there's like a guy standing outside with this really cute 33 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:52,360 looking kind of puppyish looking white dog, no collar though, no leash. 34 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,319 It's just kind of standing there like by his feet, and a few of 35 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:59,840 us are like, oh my gosh, like you do. And apparently people 36 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,159 know the dog. So I forgot the dog's name. What if I was 37 00:03:02,199 --> 00:03:08,520 like, I'm not gonna say the dog's name. I don't remember. Let's 38 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:12,879 just say it was like Lucy. They're like Lucy, Oh my gosh, 39 00:03:13,199 --> 00:03:16,520 let me cute Lucy and they go over. So, of course I've never 40 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:19,639 met a dog. I didn't want a pet, so I'm like, don't 41 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:23,639 leave me out. So I come over there, and I like and somebody 42 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:27,120 like reaches out to pet the dog, and I like, get down low, 43 00:03:28,479 --> 00:03:30,840 and the guy is like, Lucy, go say hi to these people, 44 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:34,599 like you know. The guy's like, Lucy, go say hi, 45 00:03:34,759 --> 00:03:38,400 you know. So she kind of comes over towards me, and I'm I 46 00:03:38,479 --> 00:03:43,680 don't I understand dogs. I didn't like get in her face or do anything 47 00:03:43,719 --> 00:03:46,360 weird or make any sudden movements. I was just like, hi, how 48 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:49,439 are you? And she looks me straight in the face, and then all 49 00:03:49,479 --> 00:03:53,680 of a sudden, out of nowhere, she just the dog just goes and 50 00:03:54,039 --> 00:03:58,120 jumps at my face and tries to bite my face. Oh my god, 51 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:00,520 I swear to god. It was like like angry. This was not like 52 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:04,400 a puppy like going to like like playing. This was not playing. The 53 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:08,879 dog was not wagging its tail. The dog got fucking pissed and went for 54 00:04:09,039 --> 00:04:12,680 me, and I was shocked out of my mind. It was like the 55 00:04:12,759 --> 00:04:15,480 scariest thing. If that had been a kid, it would have caused a 56 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:20,959 lifelong fear of dogs. You know. It was fucked up, and I 57 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:24,800 was like, of course, I mean I almost had a heart attack. 58 00:04:24,879 --> 00:04:29,000 I thought the dog was going like it tried to bite my face. I 59 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,360 pulled back really quick and it went to like kind of bite at my arm. 60 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:35,240 And then the guy's like, oh, she's fine, she's fine. 61 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:41,720 I hate when people do that. And I go I was like, uh, 62 00:04:41,879 --> 00:04:45,879 your dog's not fine. And then I just turned around and like I 63 00:04:45,959 --> 00:04:50,279 walked away very fast. He did not say like Lucy, don't correct, 64 00:04:50,639 --> 00:04:56,120 Nope, he was like she's fine. And then it was like I felt 65 00:04:56,120 --> 00:05:00,759 so gaslighted. Right for a minute. I was like I guess she's fine, 66 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:04,920 like and there's people no gas by the guy like like oh she's fine, 67 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:09,079 Like oh, I'm crazy that your dog didn't try to bite my face. 68 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:13,600 I wasn't crazy because then this other woman who I'm friends with was like 69 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:17,279 she she turns around, she was like, Stephanie, wait wait, and 70 00:05:17,319 --> 00:05:20,839 I was like I was. I was like goodbye. I was like power 71 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:27,319 walking out of that parking lot. And then this other woman she's she looks 72 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:29,680 at me. She goes Stephanie, and I like turn around to look at 73 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:31,800 her, and she gives me a look like what the fuck? So I 74 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:35,639 knew I wasn't crazy, and then she and then she sort of started walking 75 00:05:35,639 --> 00:05:39,360 towards me, and I was like, she was like that dog was not 76 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,879 fine, and I was like I know, and she goes, he needs 77 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:45,680 to put a freaking leash on the dog. I was like, that dog 78 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:48,240 is no leash, no caller. It's like dog could have chased me, 79 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:51,480 I tried to bite me. To get these people that don't put a leash 80 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:57,120 on their dog, especially if their dog gets aggressive like that, I know 81 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:01,120 there's you don't think that's the first time that's and I guarantee you what's happened 82 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:05,439 before. You know, either dogs have it in them to do that or 83 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:10,079 they don't. They don't have the bone in their body, a mean bone 84 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:13,199 in their body, or they do, or they can get a little testy, 85 00:06:13,399 --> 00:06:16,240 right, and even if they're young, it's not like even a young 86 00:06:16,319 --> 00:06:21,120 dog shouldn't be like attacking people, right, right, we put a leish 87 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:26,720 on it, you fuck, especially like in a public place, public place 88 00:06:26,759 --> 00:06:30,160 with a bunch of people, who are you know, just trying to make 89 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:33,920 them their ladder. Just we're just over here trying not to drink, all 90 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:39,319 right, right, I had to have a beer just to calm down. 91 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:43,399 And I don't even count that against my sobriety, Like that's what's just necessary. 92 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,639 I was just medicinal. Oh my god. Yeah, like seriously, 93 00:06:47,199 --> 00:06:53,639 co fuck, it's wrong with people. Watch watch the reddit thread come out. 94 00:06:53,959 --> 00:06:58,240 She's not sober. No, right, I'm joking. Okay, you 95 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:01,240 know what we have to do. Let's say say hi to these assholes. 96 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:09,519 Yeah, okay. I was listening to my old co host of Rose Pricks, 97 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:15,000 Ronnie Carum my my og co host his podcast Watch What Crappens is huge, 98 00:07:15,199 --> 00:07:19,480 by the way these days, very very big podcast, very very very 99 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:25,040 very big in America podcast, and he was so he they don't give a 100 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,759 fuck, just like we don't like they swear all the time. And he 101 00:07:27,879 --> 00:07:30,519 was talking about how he used to like do cocaine and like proud of it, 102 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:32,560 and I was like, yeah, you don't have to like water it 103 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:36,079 down. Like I don't know our audience right anyway. Like share Bear, 104 00:07:36,399 --> 00:07:45,720 you know, share Bear is like girls and Amy kunt Ah. So somebody 105 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:49,160 on our Facebook posted that they were at work and they were like joking around 106 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:55,120 and they said something called people cunts, and she was like everybody like freaked 107 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,439 out, Like everybody looked at her like, oh my god. They were 108 00:07:57,439 --> 00:08:01,800 shocked. And then she realized, oh, I got it the sea words. 109 00:08:01,879 --> 00:08:09,000 Not for everyone else. I think that mistake a lot sometimes when I'm 110 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:11,519 up coming up to like a group of women and I want to go, 111 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:13,600 what's that, bitches, you know? But then I realize, like some 112 00:08:13,639 --> 00:08:18,480 people don't like that. I know, I don't like those people. For 113 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:24,160 me, Katie Murphy with a lot of ease and also Lori Gory with a 114 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:28,199 lot of ease that those two have like eighteen ease between them. Uh and 115 00:08:28,639 --> 00:08:35,039 uh not Anna Faris and Kelly Lottie dun and Uh, Nikki you call you 116 00:08:35,039 --> 00:08:39,639 a girl? And Ashley's so Chic and the luslies. But between one over 117 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:45,200 there at target this time and the other one with h with her coughing in 118 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:48,879 this wind, the wind is really like kicking out. She's as bad as 119 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:52,960 kaelin right now. Also, Jacob is very growly in these days because of 120 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:58,720 the wind, very growling, very very growlly. Rita rocks a lot of 121 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:01,320 people's kids in her bust. Thing is getting crowded. She's got heroes, 122 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:05,799 multiple kids. Elizabeth Williamson's like seven kids. They're all in there. Yeah, 123 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:09,559 they're all in there. They needed to sleep though, Athena. We 124 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:11,759 love your dancing, Polly, We love your pancakes. Valerie, Bubba Fenwick, 125 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:16,320 Katerina, check that Bowler. Trust Trust Gabby. Tell us about Gaby 126 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:18,519 and Missy. What are they up to do? They went turkey hunting? 127 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:24,960 They are killing their own turkey? Oh am gathering it? Wow? Yeah, 128 00:09:26,039 --> 00:09:28,440 did you see it on Facebook? I have to look I gotta look 129 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:37,200 at that. Check them out, Peg, Rebecca little Bit. Kelly Brandt 130 00:09:37,279 --> 00:09:39,879 is not your aunt, but she will do some stuff for you. 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But if you want to see us 139 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:28,919 videos, clips, shorts and please engage with us because that's the thing that 140 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:31,960 gets us going into more PPS feeds and that will help us grow our show. 141 00:10:33,039 --> 00:10:35,399 If you comment, if you like it, if you like say hello, 142 00:10:35,919 --> 00:10:39,879 if you call us cunts, whatever you want to do, do it 143 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:43,279 and we're reading them. We see them, We see you, We see 144 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:50,200 you. Hewan. What's happening with your cough? It's just not going away. 145 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:54,320 It's just not going away. It's been months, and I do you 146 00:10:54,399 --> 00:10:58,159 think you should see a doctor? Probably I don't really want to have a 147 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:03,360 doctor. Maybe I shouldn't. Everybody kind of has this cough in my house 148 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:05,919 right now, and it's just it's just not going away. It's not like 149 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:13,159 a huge burden, but it's not really going away either. Yeah, my 150 00:11:13,279 --> 00:11:16,600 kids they got a little cold going on too, and it's like, really 151 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:20,559 right before we have to travel, Oh, you know, but what and 152 00:11:20,639 --> 00:11:26,120 tell me what's going on with Sonny. So Sonny is you know we've been 153 00:11:26,159 --> 00:11:28,559 doing. I can't remember the last way I left off what we were doing. 154 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:33,080 I left off that doctor Bruce was like, that kid needs a CT 155 00:11:33,279 --> 00:11:37,440 scan and I will order it. Yes, Yeah, So I sit for 156 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:41,639 an MRI something he wanted him and to have an MRI. So I talked 157 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:46,559 to his doctor and I got him on the ball and I tell you, 158 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:48,519 like Wendy, and I called the doctor. Wendy, no, tell me. 159 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:52,080 Wendy goes, uh, she goes, you want me to get on 160 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:54,559 the phone with this doctor and a lot of fire underneath them, And I 161 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:58,320 go, yeah, it sounds like me. Yeah, that's how I would 162 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:00,840 be. Yes, let me call him. Let me. So I was 163 00:12:00,879 --> 00:12:03,000 like, okay, She's like, so I know everything. He's on this 164 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:07,559 medication, he's been on it for this long blah blah blah blah blah. 165 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:11,799 So so I call the doctor's office and it's her right, I go, 166 00:12:11,919 --> 00:12:16,600 you do the talking, and it's like, bring hello, mister urology, 167 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:20,200 can I help you? And she's like, yes, I'm calling for my 168 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:26,279 son, Santino Corolla. He's been seeing the doctor for three months now. 169 00:12:26,399 --> 00:12:28,919 He's not getting any better. He's been on the same medication. Now the 170 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:33,080 doctor upped his medication. I've been told from family friend doctor that he should 171 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:35,919 probably have an MRI. No other test have been done except for the da 172 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:41,000 da da da da da. Then she goes, oh yeah, hell yeah. 173 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:46,279 She goes, what's your son's state of birth? She goes O June 174 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:54,200 seventh, two thousand and five. Six, I go, I go two 175 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:56,720 thousand and six, and she goes. The other lady starts laughing because she 176 00:12:56,720 --> 00:13:00,639 can hear. She's like, what was there an echo in here? Oh? 177 00:13:00,759 --> 00:13:03,559 No? Then she can and then she's like, okay, what pharmacy 178 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:09,159 do you go to? And she's like the one in Lacquersenna, and like 179 00:13:09,279 --> 00:13:11,879 I had to like step in, and the lady like, okay, I 180 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:16,879 understand that there's a couple of people on the phone, so just one person 181 00:13:18,039 --> 00:13:22,759 answer, but we were like laughing, like oh my god. So anyway, 182 00:13:22,919 --> 00:13:26,519 so then the doctor called and he was like he said, I really 183 00:13:26,519 --> 00:13:31,039 want to do is a ultrasound on his kidneys and liver, just to make 184 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:35,440 sure because everything every other test is coming back normal. So he did did 185 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:39,159 an ultrasound. Now, so he did do an ultra So he said, 186 00:13:39,159 --> 00:13:41,840 bring him in tomorrow eight forty five am. We'll do the ultrasound. I 187 00:13:41,879 --> 00:13:46,039 bring him in. The parking at this place is horrendous. So I pull 188 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:48,480 in front of the building and I said, go upstairs, Sonny, I'll 189 00:13:48,519 --> 00:13:52,919 meet you upstairs. So I go to park, I get inside and he's 190 00:13:52,639 --> 00:13:58,360 already done with his ultrasound like that fast. Yeah, he didn't see the 191 00:13:58,399 --> 00:14:01,200 doctor. He saw a technician. Just did a quick ultrasound. Done. 192 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:05,240 That was it. I was like, okay, now when am I going 193 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:09,159 to hear back from the doctor. Well, you should hear something tomorrow morning. 194 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:13,039 Okay, tomorrow morning comes tomorrow afternoon. Get Wendy on the blow or 195 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:18,200 now I call I got I want what's going Yeah, like, what's going 196 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:22,720 on? Again? We're heading into Thanksgiving week. If things don't change, 197 00:14:22,919 --> 00:14:24,879 we're gonna waste another week. He's got to get on a plane. This 198 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:28,919 kid's uncomfortable for sitting too long. He's missed school. He can't sleep, 199 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:35,159 he's suffering, blah blah blah. And so I call and then he's like, 200 00:14:35,559 --> 00:14:37,960 uh, the doctor's not in until later today, so you'll get a 201 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:41,720 call back either at the end of the day or first thing in the morning. 202 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:43,279 And I was like, you gotta be fucking kidding. So anyway, 203 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:48,200 they call me back for the doctor calls me first thing in the morning and 204 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:52,799 he said his test results came back fine. Everything is fine. He said, 205 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:54,919 I gave you I said, because when we went for the MRI, 206 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:58,240 he gave us a new medication to start, and he said, try the 207 00:14:58,279 --> 00:15:03,840 new medication and and you should start. He should hopefully start to feel better 208 00:15:03,879 --> 00:15:09,320 by like next week. So by Thursday, Friday sat by like Monday after 209 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:13,399 a few days. So here we are Sunday, he is starting to feel 210 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:18,759 a bit of a difference, okay, And tomorrow we travel. So I'm 211 00:15:18,759 --> 00:15:22,440 gonna tell the doctor's going to touch base with me on Monday. So we'll 212 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:26,120 talk tomorrow. But so he doesn't want any more tests. He doesn't want 213 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:30,960 to do an MRI. I asked him, and he said, he said 214 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:33,480 he wanted to start with with the kidneys. That was the most important. 215 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:39,919 So and then he was like, let's try this new this new medication. 216 00:15:39,159 --> 00:15:41,879 So I don't know. I don't know. Do we order an MRI? 217 00:15:41,919 --> 00:15:46,000 I mean, maybe I should call Bruce, But does he know what this 218 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:50,799 what could be causing this? Because the medication is going to be is it 219 00:15:50,799 --> 00:15:54,279 going to fix the problem or is it going to be does he have to 220 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:56,519 be on medication? Can No, it can't. It's what it's got to 221 00:15:56,559 --> 00:16:00,240 do, is he has to be on this medication for a while so it 222 00:16:00,279 --> 00:16:03,240 can correct. The bladder just corrects itself. It's an overactive bladder basically, 223 00:16:03,799 --> 00:16:11,200 And that's that's it, I guess. And it's like and it's common in 224 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:15,039 kids his age, because I've never heard of that. I had a friend, 225 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:18,759 Suzanne's friend's son had pretty much the same thing, so I have. 226 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:22,759 Suzanne's been telling me about her friend who went through it with her teenage son. 227 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:27,399 Sounds about the same. He did physical therapy blah blah blah. And 228 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:32,799 Sonny's doing a little bit of physical therapy, but really, like, you 229 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:34,120 know, whatever the doctor has told him to do, we haven't. He 230 00:16:34,159 --> 00:16:40,720 hasn't. He's not going to physical therapy right, but but he has noticed 231 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:44,480 a change. She's noticed a difference, like he doesn't have to constantly, 232 00:16:44,559 --> 00:16:47,960 like you know, go to the bathroom all the time. So we'll see. 233 00:16:48,679 --> 00:16:52,519 Uh, but it's just been it's been daunting, like every day, 234 00:16:52,679 --> 00:16:56,120 you know, it's extraining and he used to do. You're just trying to 235 00:16:56,159 --> 00:17:00,080 find out what the fuck is the problem. Yeah, but you know, 236 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:04,200 but we'll see, you know, we'll see. Well, let's take a 237 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:08,880 quick break and talk about our sponse. Something really pleasant. Yeah. One 238 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:14,119 pleasant thing is quints. Quints, by the way, is you know these 239 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:22,359 this is high uh luxury items for pretty cheap. Like they have fourteen carrot 240 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:26,640 gold jewelry starting at thirty dollars. Yeah, they have one hundred percent European 241 00:17:26,799 --> 00:17:30,319 linen which are just under fifty dollars. I got my cashmere sweater that I 242 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:33,599 love. I love that sweater. 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You ever texting with somebody like 277 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:11,960 an old friend, right, Like you think of somebody that you're like, 278 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:12,759 oh, I haven't talked to that person in a while, and you send 279 00:20:12,839 --> 00:20:15,880 them a text and you go, hey, how have you been, you 280 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:18,880 know, and then they're like, oh my gosh good and then they start 281 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:22,319 texting you back and then like you're just going back and forth for like a 282 00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:26,599 while, and then they go, we should like get together for like lunch 283 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:30,839 or coffee, and you're like, bitch, we just did what do you 284 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:36,519 think this was? No? No, we're good right right? Right? 285 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:40,640 Like yeah, then what what would we talk about? Like we just talked 286 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:44,880 like, yeah, we're we're caught up right. I don't need to see 287 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:48,200 you in person, Like I never made that much time for you before. 288 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:53,359 Why are we right? Why did you do that recently? Oh? It 289 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,519 totally happened to me recently. Yes, I was texting with somebody and they 290 00:20:56,519 --> 00:20:59,559 were like, we should go have coffee and I was like, no, 291 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:06,000 we did this counts. How about this? Brew yourself a cup of coffee? 292 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:11,920 Read my test. I was like, these people don't understand, like 293 00:21:11,079 --> 00:21:15,400 what a tight schedule, right? You know? Even though I don't have 294 00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:18,640 a tight schedule. But I was like, I think I'm gonna stay home 295 00:21:18,799 --> 00:21:29,279 and like catch up on Netflix. Like I know, now you gotta get 296 00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:32,799 dressed, you gotta go put Like yeah, brush your hair, get your 297 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:36,920 car. I was like, it's not to say that, like if a 298 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:41,000 friend of mine, let's just say, was like like, I like, 299 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:45,279 I literally do have a friend of mine listener of our show. Oh give 300 00:21:45,319 --> 00:21:48,440 her a shout out. My friend Tory Tory Weber listens to this show. 301 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:52,039 I don't know if she still listens to it, but anyway, Uh, 302 00:21:52,599 --> 00:21:56,279 she's she moved, she's coming back in town. I would hate for her 303 00:21:56,359 --> 00:22:00,440 to think I was talking about her. She what, We don't have long 304 00:22:00,519 --> 00:22:02,920 texting. She just happened to go like, Hey, I'm going to be 305 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:04,160 in town. You want to get together for lunch or coffee? And I 306 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:07,200 was like, oh, yes, that's the kind of that's an appointment, 307 00:22:07,559 --> 00:22:12,000 that's like oh I haven't seen, but not an acquaintance that I wouldn't have 308 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:15,119 been having coffee or lunch with anyway. Do you know what I mean? 309 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:18,319 Yeah, no, I know what you mean. But you're a better person 310 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:22,039 than me, because I wouldn't even reach out to these views because they're just 311 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:29,160 an acquaintance. I ain't reaching out to anybody you ever, like barely answer 312 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:32,480 the people that are talking to me now on my text. I know, 313 00:22:32,799 --> 00:22:34,480 I know, I know what you're saying. But that's what I mean. 314 00:22:34,519 --> 00:22:37,960 When it's like, oh, you just thought of somebody or there was some 315 00:22:38,039 --> 00:22:41,480 situation. You know, you mostly see them on Facebook, but then like 316 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:45,200 there's something happens and then you like reach out. So you're like, oh, 317 00:22:45,279 --> 00:22:48,880 hey, I heard about the blah blah blah, you know, and 318 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:51,359 then they start writing me back and forth. Then they want to go out 319 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:56,960 coffee, and you're like, oh no, no, no, slow down, 320 00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:02,160 no yeah no, yeah yeah. Then I have friends that like, 321 00:23:03,079 --> 00:23:06,759 okay, I'm thinking of one in particular who doesn't listen to this show so 322 00:23:06,799 --> 00:23:11,920 it doesn't matter, but who like who will be like do you want to 323 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:12,640 get together? Do you want to get together? Do you? And I 324 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:17,000 kind of feel sorry, I kind of feel bad for the person. It's 325 00:23:17,039 --> 00:23:22,839 an older person in my life who like I feel a little bit caretakery of 326 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:26,720 like, so when they guilt me like oh I never see you and like 327 00:23:26,759 --> 00:23:29,640 we should get together, and then I go like I don't want to. 328 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:33,880 But then I'll go all right, how about like this day, you know, 329 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:37,240 okay, next week, I can do it this day. And then 330 00:23:37,279 --> 00:23:40,039 they go okay, great, like we'll go off lunch, you know, 331 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,359 and then like the day before that, you then you don't hear from them, 332 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,480 and then you're like, okay, so are we a meeting because I 333 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:49,440 didn't want to meet in the first place. I don't want to meet who 334 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:52,519 don't Yeah, And then they're like, oh, this thing came up, 335 00:23:52,559 --> 00:23:56,839 and it's like, say less, you know what I mean, But like, 336 00:23:56,920 --> 00:24:00,839 then don't start coming back to me in a week, Like if I'm 337 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:06,000 going to like assuage my guilt by by going like, let me get this 338 00:24:06,039 --> 00:24:07,200 out of the way, let me go meet up with this person, buy 339 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,839 them lunch so that I don't have to see them again for a month, 340 00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:15,119 you know, or so or longer. And then they're like this other friend, 341 00:24:15,319 --> 00:24:19,680 like good, don't come out a week later ago. We never have 342 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:26,519 what like you had your chance, get on it, or you're out or 343 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:32,160 you're out. I barely want to go to lunch with my own kids, 344 00:24:33,799 --> 00:24:37,000 I know, and my kids are always ready to go to lunch, yes, 345 00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:38,759 they were, just like, you know, I'd rather stay home and 346 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:41,359 cook than like, you know, yeah, why we got to get up 347 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:45,680 and go and like, yeah, you know what, I have a problem 348 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:51,200 now, Like everybody's driving. I get freaking pissed because they these kids just 349 00:24:52,279 --> 00:25:00,359 park in my driveway blocking me in, and then they leave and sometimes don't 350 00:25:00,759 --> 00:25:04,279 come back. There's one kid that left her car at our house and she 351 00:25:04,519 --> 00:25:11,920 drives her brother's Ford f one fifty truck. It's huge and it's it's in 352 00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:15,359 and she kids don't know how to park. They just pull right in and 353 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:18,400 then goodbye, and then they go off in somebody else's car and then their 354 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:22,319 car is left at my house. Last weekend, she left her truck at 355 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:26,920 our house all weekend, and it just it was I'm like maneuvering going in 356 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:30,880 apt like trying to get my car. I gotta like maneuver around her truck 357 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:36,759 all weekend, right, So then it's like, yeah, so then I 358 00:25:36,799 --> 00:25:38,039 tell her to tell you. I go tell your friend, not the parker. 359 00:25:38,279 --> 00:25:41,880 Why are you being so mean? You know? And it's like what 360 00:25:41,759 --> 00:25:45,240 I'm trying to get in, I'm just trying to live my life, right, 361 00:25:45,279 --> 00:25:47,640 I'm trying to get groceries out of the car. I'm trying to just 362 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:49,839 pull in, pull out, I'm trying to maneuver. I'm trying to do 363 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:55,880 like this whole thing around this Ford f one fifty truck. Then last night, 364 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:57,680 where is she going by the way that she has to leave her car 365 00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:02,240 there for all weekends? Where she's did That's what I said. She left, 366 00:26:02,279 --> 00:26:04,759 She went home and she lives like around the block. She can walk 367 00:26:04,839 --> 00:26:08,440 back and pick up her car. Rah, But no, she just left 368 00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,000 it all weekend. It was just there all weekend. Sonny and I were 369 00:26:11,039 --> 00:26:14,599 like, what the fuck is going on with this kid? Come get your 370 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,640 car? Like why are you just leaving it? And to me, it's 371 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:22,799 kind of like no respect, have some respect, Like you're you know that 372 00:26:22,839 --> 00:26:27,599 there's multiple people all got me out of Sonny's car. Everybody's coming and going. 373 00:26:27,799 --> 00:26:30,480 You're just parking your car in the middle of in the middle of the 374 00:26:30,559 --> 00:26:34,160 road. Pretty much in the real pri ad didn't get well because Adam wasn't 375 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,160 there that weekend. It was my weekend. Oh, believe you me, 376 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:41,240 he would have said something, Yes, he would have been And so I 377 00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:42,680 say something and then it's like, why are you being so mean? Why 378 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,960 are you being such a bitch? You know what's why are you in a 379 00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:51,279 bad mood? I'm like, I'm just trying to move. Then last night 380 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:55,799 what happened? Uh? So Phil? As you? We? You and 381 00:26:55,839 --> 00:27:00,680 I text last night Phil. I was so excited. Phil supposed to come 382 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:06,440 back on Tuesday of right before Thanksgiving, and I was like, why why 383 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,119 are we doing that? Why not? We we have an offer on the 384 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:12,079 house, We're gonna be home. Well, Adam's gonna be around for Thanksgiving. 385 00:27:12,079 --> 00:27:15,839 We're gonna be gone, but Sunny and I want to see Phil. 386 00:27:15,839 --> 00:27:18,480 We're gonna miss him. We're gonna be gone for a week. Why is 387 00:27:18,519 --> 00:27:21,480 he gonna come home on Tuesday? Why not I just go get him on 388 00:27:21,559 --> 00:27:25,279 Saturday? Let me go get him and bring him home and all because like, 389 00:27:25,559 --> 00:27:29,720 don't go just leave him there until the last And I was like, 390 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:33,920 no, I'm gonna go get Phil. So Saturday comes, I go pick 391 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,640 him up. And so you're not because you have an offer, you're not 392 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:41,680 showing the house anymore, not right now because it's Thanksgiving, we're not doing 393 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:45,839 any open houses or so so we go, I go pick up Phil on 394 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,319 Saturday. I had a bunch of stuff to do. So she's like com 395 00:27:49,319 --> 00:27:52,079 at like four thirties, I go at four thirty, I pick him up. 396 00:27:53,279 --> 00:28:00,319 By eight thirty, I was in the er with Phil at all, 397 00:28:02,079 --> 00:28:04,680 just back again, and I called Olga and she's like, I told you 398 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:10,839 not to go pick him up? What happened? So what happened is what 399 00:28:11,079 --> 00:28:15,319 happened was I went. I was so excited by the way Natalia, who 400 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,440 doesn't care for Phil that much, even she was excited to see him. 401 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:22,319 She was like in bed with her friend, like watching TV, and I 402 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:25,240 go, Phil's here, and she like, oh, she got out of 403 00:28:25,279 --> 00:28:27,920 bed and came and hugged him and patting him. And Phil lost a ton 404 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,839 of weight. Oh, I would say a ton, but he got very 405 00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,519 thin. He's you could see his little waistline, you know, they say, 406 00:28:33,759 --> 00:28:37,480 yeah, labs, you want to be able to see that waistline. 407 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:41,640 Yeah, he's lost weight because I'm sure he's not doing anything at this place 408 00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:48,039 except for eating his food and not eating leftovers, right, Adam do so? 409 00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:51,720 Anyway, so I'd pick him up, and Sonny was everybody was so 410 00:28:51,759 --> 00:28:53,440 excited to see Phil. I was like, oh, Phil, I'm so 411 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:59,000 happy to see. And then I'm doing laundry, getting ready for this trip, 412 00:28:59,359 --> 00:29:03,359 and and I go upstairs and I'm on the phone, and I realized, 413 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:07,839 like, Phil's not Usually Phil follows me everywhere. He's glued to my 414 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:11,920 side, right, Okay, So the kids went out, I'm alone with 415 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:17,839 Phil. I'm doing laundry and it's like eight seven thirty at night and I'm 416 00:29:17,839 --> 00:29:19,200 on the phone and I don't see Phil. I'm like, where's Phil? 417 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:23,160 Where's Phil? So I go and I already did a sweep of the house 418 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:27,880 to make sure that there's nothing that Phil, you know, would get into. 419 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:32,640 So where is he? So I go? And then he comes. 420 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,440 He's starting to come up the stairs and he's licking his lists oh, like 421 00:29:36,519 --> 00:29:38,680 you could tell, and he's licking his paws like he got in And I 422 00:29:38,759 --> 00:29:42,039 go, what the fuck did you get into? But I go around the 423 00:29:42,079 --> 00:29:45,319 house. All the doors are closed, all the bedrooms doors are closed. 424 00:29:45,599 --> 00:29:49,519 Nothing go in the kitchen, nothing, go in the living room, nothing, 425 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:55,519 my room, nothing, What the what? And I was like, 426 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:59,160 really, were you just not doing any were you just hanging out downstairs and 427 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:03,279 you're just licking your chops? I don't know. So then I go, 428 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:07,480 hold on, So I go back down in the kitchen. There's a pantry 429 00:30:07,759 --> 00:30:14,880 closet and I just like looked in there and there's a big bag, empty 430 00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:21,440 bag of one of those switched. They're like, are they're truffle balls? 431 00:30:21,759 --> 00:30:25,680 I know what you're talking about, lindor lindor truffle balls. And there's four 432 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:30,759 different flavors. There's carameuth, there's milk, chocolate, dark extra dark chocolate, 433 00:30:30,839 --> 00:30:36,839 dark chocolate, like four different flavors a bag. That's about about a 434 00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:41,079 pound worth of truffle balls in this bag. And I don't know if it 435 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:45,079 was I don't know where this whose bag it is, I've never seen it. 436 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,960 I was like, where did this come from? And it was just 437 00:30:48,079 --> 00:30:53,680 torn No, no wrappers. Each ball is individually wrapped. You think Phil's 438 00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:57,480 gonna sit there and peel the wrapper off of of these things. No, 439 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:03,160 it's just a bag, ripped apart, and no wrappers to be, no 440 00:31:03,359 --> 00:31:07,759 tinfoil wrappers at all, no lawn. And I don't even know how many 441 00:31:07,759 --> 00:31:14,599 balls are in this bag or what I just pantry was reclosed. No, 442 00:31:12,799 --> 00:31:18,119 no, no, we don't close the doors. It's not a pantry with 443 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:22,119 food. It's pantry with like like plates and dishes and stuff. There's no 444 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:26,200 food in there. But I went back down there and I saw. I 445 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:30,079 don't. I was just like, let me go, and it was you 446 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,079 saw something that had been on the shelf, right, No, I saw 447 00:31:33,119 --> 00:31:37,759 something on the ground. I saw a bag ripart on the ground, okay, 448 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:41,559 because I was like something he must have got into something somewhere. So 449 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:45,440 I was like, what, whose bag of chocolates is this? Where did 450 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:49,759 it come from? And and in the closet I look and there's a there's 451 00:31:49,839 --> 00:31:56,559 a cardboard box and it's all of like business cards of the realtor and flyers 452 00:31:56,559 --> 00:32:00,680 of the house, and it's closed, but fill opened it got it open. 453 00:32:01,119 --> 00:32:06,759 And apparently the realtor had these balls that he would put out in a 454 00:32:06,799 --> 00:32:09,400 dish during open house, and he put it in his box and he left 455 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:14,839 it in that pantry where there's no food except for these chocolate balls in that 456 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,720 pantry. And because I was like, because I sent, I was like, 457 00:32:19,039 --> 00:32:22,279 whose chocolate is this? I asked old Ga and she goes, I 458 00:32:22,279 --> 00:32:24,240 don't know. She goes, Lynette, I've never seen that bag. And 459 00:32:24,279 --> 00:32:28,960 then I said it's sitting next to like, I think it's it. You 460 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:32,359 think it's pe it's it's our realtor's stuff. And she goes, oh, 461 00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:37,519 I think so because he puts that stuff out during open house and I was 462 00:32:37,599 --> 00:32:44,279 like, what a fuck? Like really, and it was like Saturday night, 463 00:32:44,359 --> 00:32:46,759 it was raining. I had so much to do before this trip. 464 00:32:46,839 --> 00:32:50,000 We have to you know, I had to come here today. I mean, 465 00:32:50,079 --> 00:32:52,079 I was like, I was just like, you got to be kidding 466 00:32:52,119 --> 00:32:57,319 me. So I call the hospital. They could say, call poison control. 467 00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:00,920 I call poison control. They said, poison control. Dog dog a 468 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,960 separate one. There's a separate one, okay. And that they do is 469 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,359 they give you a if your dog gets into something and they think that it 470 00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:10,079 should be seen immediately, they'll give you a case number and a call back 471 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:16,119 phone number which the hospital deals with. You call the hospital and they will 472 00:33:16,119 --> 00:33:21,880 take the dog right away. So I said, So I'm on the phone 473 00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:25,480 and then she's like she's doing her calculations. How much does fill way? 474 00:33:25,559 --> 00:33:29,079 How much was in the bag? I go, I don't I think it 475 00:33:29,319 --> 00:33:32,759 just let's assume it was a full bag. And she's like, then the 476 00:33:32,839 --> 00:33:36,480 lady on the hotline, she goes, well, she goes, you could 477 00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:40,240 it's a little too much chocolate for comfort. And I was like, okay, 478 00:33:40,279 --> 00:33:45,160 that's your technical Yeah. So she was like he should be he should 479 00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:49,039 be too close for comfort, right, like, he should have induced vomiting. 480 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,680 She's like, you can do it at home, or you could take 481 00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:53,880 him to the hospital. And I go, well, what what does it 482 00:33:54,119 --> 00:33:59,119 entail if I do it at home sticking my finger down his throat And she's 483 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,720 like, no, you give him like three teaspoons of hydrogen peroxide. And 484 00:34:01,759 --> 00:34:04,920 I'm like, how's he gonna get I'm gonna get him. She goes, 485 00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,480 well, you put a peanut butter at the bottom of the bowl and then 486 00:34:07,519 --> 00:34:10,519 you put the hydrogen peroxide and labs. Usually we'll just lick it up. 487 00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:15,519 And I was like, I know this, no, and he has seizures 488 00:34:15,559 --> 00:34:19,519 when he throws up, and what if he has So she's like, I 489 00:34:19,559 --> 00:34:22,760 would take him. So I was like okay. So now it's eight thirty 490 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:28,119 at night and I called the hospital. I said, I'm bringing him in. 491 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,719 Here's his case number. They say he should have induced vomiting, and 492 00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:35,039 they say, you only have like two hours now, really, yes, 493 00:34:35,199 --> 00:34:37,559 because then their body starts to process. Yes, So you got to about 494 00:34:37,599 --> 00:34:42,280 two hours and it was about an hour at this point where I called the 495 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:45,559 hospital. They're pretty close by, and I said I'm bringing them in. 496 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:51,519 Here's the case number. And then they said, uh, okay, well 497 00:34:51,559 --> 00:34:53,159 just so you know, we'll bring them in right away and induce vomiting. 498 00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:59,079 But there's a three to five hour wait for what That's what I said. 499 00:34:59,519 --> 00:35:00,960 I said, but you're gonna bring him in and make him throw up? 500 00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:06,239 Then what he's like, Well, if there's there's about until the doctor can 501 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,760 like fully examine him and everything, and then we deem him okay to go 502 00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:13,800 home. It could be three to five hours. Not saying it will be 503 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:15,639 that, but it could be that okay. And at first I was like, 504 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:19,519 maybe I'll make him throw up at home, but then I was like, 505 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,800 I don't think it's gonna be that. It can't be that. But 506 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:27,960 then I pull in and it's all packed. Every spot is taken at this 507 00:35:28,079 --> 00:35:31,480 hospital. It's a twenty four hour hospital. Everything, every spot. There's 508 00:35:31,599 --> 00:35:37,480 people waiting in the waiting room. Is it an access access whatever, it's 509 00:35:37,519 --> 00:35:42,039 a it's a no, it's a it's called something else. Okay. Anyway, 510 00:35:42,079 --> 00:35:44,920 it's in Glendale. It's a twenty four hour hospital, pet hospital. 511 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:47,800 And and so I bring him in and they're like, Phil Corolla, Yep, 512 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:51,719 right this way you know, he's got to get induced as vomiting, 513 00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:55,159 right, And luckily I was out and back home by ten fifteen. Ten 514 00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:59,840 thirty, oh, because they did bring him in right away. The doctor 515 00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:04,159 can even talk to me. He's fine. Did he throw up lindor rappers? 516 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:07,679 He threw up thirty? She said that the tech counted thirty rappers at 517 00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:15,079 least, Oh my god, threw up a lot of chocolate. Mm hmm. 518 00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:20,920 That's crazy. Thirty of them? He ate? Yes, what's wrong 519 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:24,519 with this fucking dog? Understand too? If they were fully wrapped, how 520 00:36:24,559 --> 00:36:29,039 do you even enjoy that? I don't. I'm not like you can't. 521 00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:32,639 You can't taste the flavor through the wrappers, I know, and there's not 522 00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:36,840 There wasn't any rappers. It was just the bag, right, That's what 523 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:38,360 it was. We ate them all rap, all rap, Like? How's 524 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:42,400 he couldn't like you said, he can't can a peel him apart? Right? 525 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:47,199 That just doesn't sound tasty. I know, Philip just swallows food whole 526 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:51,960 anyway, yes, or socks, yes, but that's what I'm saying. 527 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:53,679 But how can that? How can that taste that good? I just I 528 00:36:53,679 --> 00:36:55,920 don't know? But what am I going to do with this dog because he's 529 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,800 like on a mission. You think he's trying to kill himself or something. 530 00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:04,239 He's very self destructive. He is. I think he needs like a meeting, 531 00:37:06,159 --> 00:37:10,159 he needs therapy. It's ridiculous, like he's gonna kill himself. Can 532 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:14,039 we introduce him? You say he's a therapy dog, and people are like, 533 00:37:14,119 --> 00:37:16,159 oh, like he gives people therapy. Like no, he's like he's 534 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:22,960 in therapy. He's like a dog that's getting therapy exactly. I'm gonna get 535 00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:27,199 him a muzzle. You know. 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It's like I just want them to say, if you 564 00:39:35,599 --> 00:39:37,079 say, like this is what it is, we're going to bring her back 565 00:39:37,119 --> 00:39:42,400 and we're gonna open it up and drain it and then like she should be 566 00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:45,519 good to go. Otherwise it might come back. But then you know what 567 00:39:45,559 --> 00:39:47,519 you do. You google it and it says like, oh no, these 568 00:39:47,519 --> 00:39:51,880 things always come back. Like you got to find out what the cause is. 569 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,880 Why are they like shaking their heads? It's usually happens because dogs shake 570 00:39:54,920 --> 00:40:00,079 their heads. Well I had never noticed that up before, but John was 571 00:40:00,119 --> 00:40:01,960 like, oh, yeah, she does that all the time. You haven't 572 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:06,440 seen that, Like she just starts violently. She just shakes her head back 573 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:10,039 and forth really fast. Sometimes. I always think it's like kind of likes 574 00:40:10,079 --> 00:40:15,159 people stretch. It's like just shake shaky, you know. I don't know, 575 00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:20,440 so I never thought that much of it, but apparently that can continue 576 00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:22,519 to bring it back. So the things I read were like, you got 577 00:40:22,559 --> 00:40:25,159 to find out the root cause of it. So I said to John, 578 00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:30,320 Hey, I checked with Google, and Google says we got to find out 579 00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,719 the root cause of it. I really like her a vet, by the 580 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:37,719 way, so this isn't a matter of like, I'm not like vet hopping 581 00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:42,519 right now, because this vet. I think he's really smart and knowledgeable, 582 00:40:42,639 --> 00:40:47,920 and he's so great with her and very well reviewed on Yelp. People love 583 00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:52,199 that. So I wasn't like trying to second guess the vet. But I 584 00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:54,800 was like, didn't they say, like doing the call, you know, 585 00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:59,440 and what did they say happens once it comes back? You know? It's 586 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:04,599 like the guy they don't like. I'm more detail oriented, right, like 587 00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:07,440 John, I'll just come home and be like, well they said it's We're 588 00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,519 all good, and I'm like, okay, But they said it could come 589 00:41:09,559 --> 00:41:14,400 back, and then what I think it should resolve? I said, did 590 00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:16,840 they say it? So two days later, it's back and it's just as 591 00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:21,400 bad as ever. So now it seems to have gone down a little bit. 592 00:41:21,519 --> 00:41:22,920 Okay, So we call the vet back. Yeah, We're like, 593 00:41:23,039 --> 00:41:28,920 hey, so this is back just as bad as it was before, and 594 00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,159 she doesn't have an ear infection or anything. No, So that's the thing. 595 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:35,639 They so they said they had checked her ears and said, no, 596 00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,559 her ears are clear. She's good. So I'm like, well, what 597 00:41:38,639 --> 00:41:42,880 do we do? Do we just wait for it to But I had also 598 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:45,800 read that if you let it resolve on its own, it could be I 599 00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:51,320 guess technical term is fucked up, Like it could be like cauliflower ear but 600 00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:53,840 with a dog like it could get the fluids trapped in there, but then 601 00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:57,559 a scar tissue go. I don't know, but it didn't sound good, 602 00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:00,119 right, So not like she's not like a show pony or anything, but 603 00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:02,679 I don't want her to have a fucked up ear. So I was like, 604 00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:07,880 well, what do we So I think I was maybe coming here. 605 00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:09,000 I don't know what I was doing, but I was like, can you 606 00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:14,480 call the vet back and find like, tell him it's back. So he 607 00:42:14,559 --> 00:42:17,119 called the vet back and they were like, Okay, what we're gonna do 608 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:22,599 next is we're gonna open it back up. Oh, because they wanted to 609 00:42:22,599 --> 00:42:27,719 give her steroids, but she does not. She had steroids once when we 610 00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,039 first got her, like, and she had a bad reaction to them. 611 00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:36,000 She went crazy, like she was running back, pacing back and forth through 612 00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,719 the house and then she like pooped on Elbie's rug. Yeah, and then 613 00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:43,840 felt really bad about like she was. I feel like she got very disoriented 614 00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,519 and didn't know and was it was bad. So I was like, So 615 00:42:46,599 --> 00:42:51,400 they said, what they're going to do is they're gonna drain her ear again 616 00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:58,199 and put steroid directly into her ear. Oh earflap, It's not like in 617 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:01,440 into her inner ear. So then we had to take her off of her 618 00:43:01,559 --> 00:43:08,840 arthritis meds for a week. So it's been now tomorrow will be seven days 619 00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:15,559 off of her arthritis medicine. So she's just been a little stiff and maybe 620 00:43:15,679 --> 00:43:21,000 uncomfortable. But I guess it should get resolved tomorrow. So they're going to 621 00:43:21,079 --> 00:43:23,559 put the shot in her ear and then that's gonna help it so it doesn't 622 00:43:24,039 --> 00:43:30,119 fill up I guess with fluid. I guess. So, and then does 623 00:43:30,159 --> 00:43:34,719 she get to go back on her arthritis? I don't That is a very 624 00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:39,079 good question. I don't know, I would think, because if she is 625 00:43:39,199 --> 00:43:43,440 arthritis, how do you know when somebody's got how do you know when a 626 00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:49,840 dog's got arthritis? Well, because years ago, not long after we had 627 00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,320 her, which is why I suspected she was older than her age she was 628 00:43:53,360 --> 00:44:00,320 having trouble standing up like she was her She couldn't like stand and she was 629 00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:04,159 kind of like wobbly, and so we took her in and we got her 630 00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:07,480 x rayed and they found it on the x ray. Okay, so they 631 00:44:07,519 --> 00:44:12,519 can see it, like they can see the I don't know the bones how 632 00:44:12,559 --> 00:44:15,880 they're like rubbing against each other or whatever. So she's been on meds like 633 00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:21,239 ever since then, and every now and then she gets an x ray and 634 00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:23,840 they're like, yeah, that's the but it's just like in her back a 635 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:30,239 little bit. It's not that bad. And honestly, she hasn't there's days 636 00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:34,199 I've missed giving her the meds. It's not like she has any trouble walking 637 00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:37,960 or standing. She just gets She's very slow, right, Yeah, Phil's 638 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:43,679 getting slow, slowing down. Yeah, I noticed that he's slowing down a 639 00:44:43,679 --> 00:44:47,440 little bit. How old is he now? He's like seven, Okay, 640 00:44:47,599 --> 00:44:52,559 that's still young. It's young, but you know, I mean if he 641 00:44:52,599 --> 00:44:54,719 plays his cards right, he can go for a while still. But he's 642 00:44:54,760 --> 00:45:00,599 not taking care of himself. No, he's really not. No, And 643 00:45:00,639 --> 00:45:04,639 he hasn't said much since he got home. Like I was like, Phil, 644 00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:07,360 Phil, are you excited to be home, and he just like plops 645 00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:09,280 down on my bed. You know, how was the picking when you went 646 00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:13,480 to get him? So when we last recorded, you were going to spring 647 00:45:13,559 --> 00:45:15,920 him for that day, did you? No? Okay? No, So 648 00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:20,280 when you went I went to go get him. Yeah, he was super 649 00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:23,119 excited because I because he likes anybody that likes him. So I was like 650 00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:27,440 Philly boy, Philly boy, and he like, I think it took him 651 00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:30,000 a second, like because he walked out with her and he was just kind 652 00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:34,440 of smelling on the ground and then when he heard me kept talking. I 653 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:36,639 go, Philly, come here, Philly, come here, and then he 654 00:45:36,679 --> 00:45:38,960 looked up at me and it was like then he ran to me and he 655 00:45:39,039 --> 00:45:43,400 like jumped, like he jumped on me, like he was jumping and jumping 656 00:45:43,519 --> 00:45:46,559 and wagging and wagging and wagging. Yeah, it was really nice. And 657 00:45:46,599 --> 00:45:50,000 then I took him home and he was like, wow, look at this 658 00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:54,159 reception I'm getting like Natalian, her friends and Sonny and everybody's petting him in 659 00:45:54,159 --> 00:45:59,679 the hallway and he's like wagging his tail and then and then everybody went back 660 00:45:59,679 --> 00:46:06,480 to their room and he's like, well, this is boring. And then 661 00:46:06,519 --> 00:46:09,440 I took him for a little walk and then all hell broke loose after that 662 00:46:09,519 --> 00:46:12,719 and then he ended up in the hospital. Oh my god. And that 663 00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,920 was just last night. That was just last night. And Sonny was leaving 664 00:46:16,199 --> 00:46:20,440 with his friends and he was like right down the street. He didn't know 665 00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:24,400 what happened. And I put him in the car and he goes. So 666 00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:27,360 I call Sonny, I go where are you? And he goes, I 667 00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:29,719 just left with my friends. He goes, that was that you that just 668 00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:31,760 went down the street like a bat out of hell? And I go yes, 669 00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:34,400 and he goes, where are you going? And I go, I'm 670 00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:37,239 taking pill to the hospital And he's like, what, Phil just got home 671 00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:40,800 like three hours ago. I go, I know, well, somebody left 672 00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:45,559 freaking chocolates in the pantry that I didn't know about. And there you go. 673 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:50,440 I really do think I'm gonna buy him a muzzle thing he should be. 674 00:46:50,599 --> 00:46:53,840 He should have a muzzle, like one of those things you know that 675 00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:58,480 they it's gonna hurt my feelings, but I don't know what to do, 676 00:46:58,679 --> 00:47:01,400 Like it's gonna ar be able to like drink water now, I think they 677 00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:07,119 can with those. I think there's something something's gotta give this guy. He's 678 00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:12,559 just But how did I know he Everything would have been fine. I didn't 679 00:47:12,639 --> 00:47:16,599 know that chocolates were left right in the closet. Right. You thought you 680 00:47:16,679 --> 00:47:22,960 were doing your due diligence, right, You paroled the house patrolled, yes, 681 00:47:22,159 --> 00:47:27,079 pearol, Yes, I did her house on parole. Yeah, looked 682 00:47:27,079 --> 00:47:30,840 for the contraband did a sleep of the house, shut all the doors. 683 00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:35,280 But then like this morning, I go to leave Natalia's doors open. He 684 00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,280 goes into her bathroom, he gets into her trash, you know, but 685 00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:40,679 she leaves her door open. You know. It's right, the friends, 686 00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:46,880 the friends that leave shit right. But whatever happened, how did the car 687 00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:51,159 set the truck situation get resolved? Did you tell Natalia to tell her friend 688 00:47:51,159 --> 00:47:53,519 that gets her truck? Yes, and she finally did. She came and 689 00:47:53,559 --> 00:47:57,320 picked it up on Sunday morning, and I told her, I said, 690 00:47:57,360 --> 00:48:00,960 don't part. But then somebody else left, like last night, left their 691 00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:04,440 car in my in the driveway. So I'm trying to back out and I 692 00:48:04,519 --> 00:48:07,760 can't. I got it like it's too like I park in the garage and 693 00:48:08,519 --> 00:48:12,079 they don't see my car. So they just pull up and right in front 694 00:48:12,079 --> 00:48:15,679 of the garage, and it's like there's plenty of room pull over or park 695 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:19,719 on the street, right, just park on the street. Yia's boyfriend parks 696 00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:22,519 on the street always. Never it's her girlfriends. It's just coming, you 697 00:48:22,559 --> 00:48:27,000 know, whatever they think. They're just always pulling up to a valet. 698 00:48:27,599 --> 00:48:30,880 I know. It's like, come on now, I feel like you have 699 00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:37,159 told me this now several times. But when is Natalia getting hurt? She's 700 00:48:37,199 --> 00:48:40,280 got she she has an appointment. She had to cancel the appointment because she 701 00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:45,079 got sick the first one, the first one for the GMV right then she 702 00:48:45,119 --> 00:48:50,599 had scheduled another one though she has this another one scheduled, but it's after 703 00:48:50,679 --> 00:48:53,960 Thanksgiving. Okay, they don't have any openings until then. We tried all 704 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:59,559 the DMVs in the area too, okay, So the closer, the soonest 705 00:48:59,559 --> 00:49:04,159 that they can takers after Thanksgiving. Yeah, she can't wait to get her 706 00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:07,400 life right after Thanksgiving or think it's like a couple of days. It's like 707 00:49:07,559 --> 00:49:10,000 the week after, right the twenty eighth or something like that, right, 708 00:49:10,199 --> 00:49:15,480 okay, but yeah, but she's already done with her driving lessons and all 709 00:49:15,519 --> 00:49:22,400 that. And how Sadie doing. Sadie's doing well she is driving, gonna 710 00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:25,119 drive with John today. We always have the best intentions of driving with her 711 00:49:25,199 --> 00:49:30,719 every single day to keep her limber, and then like we drive with her 712 00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:34,079 and then we both need like some recovery time. Right, It's just nerve 713 00:49:34,119 --> 00:49:37,559 wracking, I know. And then John will always take her out driving and 714 00:49:37,599 --> 00:49:40,880 go like she did great, like but then I don't know why he doesn't 715 00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:45,199 just do it every day, right, But I don't know. Yeah, 716 00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:49,559 I know, it's just it is nerve wracking. I hated driving with them 717 00:49:49,599 --> 00:49:52,519 at first, Like it's not pleasant, No, it's really scary. You 718 00:49:52,559 --> 00:49:58,079 feel aut of control and you feel like what if they're gonna like hit somebody, 719 00:49:58,119 --> 00:50:00,079 you know, like we talked about like yours are gonna come off. 720 00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:05,559 Yeah, It's just it's not it's yeah, so I do sweat it out. 721 00:50:05,639 --> 00:50:07,119 I thought I was doing better with her, but then the last time 722 00:50:07,119 --> 00:50:10,800 I went, the old anxiety came back and I was just like felt like 723 00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:14,719 I was jumping out of my skin, like and it can't be pleasant for 724 00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:17,840 her either, to have her mom sitting next to her like gripping the right 725 00:50:19,119 --> 00:50:22,559 oh god handle like constantly, and then I'm always like you're fine, No, 726 00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:28,599 you're doing great, and I'm like, my hands are white from gripping 727 00:50:28,679 --> 00:50:30,639 so hard. I'm like, no, no, no, that's just me. 728 00:50:30,039 --> 00:50:35,639 Don't even worry about it. You're doing great, right, Your spatial 729 00:50:35,639 --> 00:50:42,480 awareness is fine, like like I know, no, no, no, 730 00:50:42,559 --> 00:50:46,199 that was just me. That was just an involuntary reaction, right, good, 731 00:50:47,519 --> 00:50:51,119 Like every two seconds, I think the airbags are going to flow, 732 00:50:51,599 --> 00:50:58,000 you know. I know. Yeah. It can be mentally exhausting, that's 733 00:50:58,039 --> 00:51:01,039 for sure. Because my thing is like I have enough trouble driving myself. 734 00:51:01,159 --> 00:51:06,199 Like sometimes when I'm driving, I'm like, oh God, that looks too 735 00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:08,599 narrow. How am I going to get through there? You know, You're 736 00:51:08,639 --> 00:51:13,440 like driving up a hill and there's a car coming down the hill. In 737 00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:15,000 the streets in LA, they're so narrow, and I'm like, I didn't 738 00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:20,239 sign up for this, Like I have pull over like camp out for the 739 00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:22,280 night. Let the car pass, you know. I'm like, if that's 740 00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:27,239 happening when I'm driving and I've been driving for forty years, like what you 741 00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:29,480 know what i mean, I'm like, how the fuck is she supposed to 742 00:51:29,559 --> 00:51:31,840 do? Maneuver that? I know? I always think too. I'm like 743 00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:36,960 ELB is like Elbie's been driving for years now and she's a good driver, 744 00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:39,280 and I still don't want to drive with her. Yeah, Like, given 745 00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:43,960 the option of me driving or her driving, I'm gonna drive every time, 746 00:51:44,159 --> 00:51:46,119 right, like, And it's just more relaxing. And I'm just saying, 747 00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:50,800 honest to God, she's probably a better driver than I am, yeah, 748 00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:55,280 because she's younger and has better reflexes and she's experienced r and you know, 749 00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:59,800 but I'm like, as you get older, your reflex is kind of like 750 00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:04,000 when I was driving Phil the other night to the hospital at night and the 751 00:52:04,119 --> 00:52:07,760 rain, I was like, I'm getting old, Like I feel like like 752 00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:12,440 I'm uneasy, Like I'm driving the speed limit, God forbid, you know, 753 00:52:12,679 --> 00:52:15,400 just because it's raining, and it's like this is not like when I 754 00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:17,159 was younger. I could handle it. Now it's as you get older, 755 00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:22,679 it's and my eyes at the nighttime driving is not exactly I know. Got 756 00:52:22,679 --> 00:52:25,920 to eat more carrots. Yeah, all right, listen, this has been 757 00:52:28,199 --> 00:52:31,400 fun. Next, Okay, we have a Patreon for you, m H 758 00:52:32,559 --> 00:52:36,760 which is I think it was a good be good. Yeah, it was 759 00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:43,559 very It's about the college angst and something that something that happened apparenting moment. 760 00:52:44,119 --> 00:52:47,039 Yeah, I feel a good moment. Yes, you might have a different 761 00:52:47,039 --> 00:52:50,599 opinion. I don't know what you're going to think, but it's all on 762 00:52:50,679 --> 00:52:54,159 Patreon. We already recorded that. And then on our Friday episode, I 763 00:52:54,280 --> 00:53:00,280 was thinking, we need to talk about this Twin Flames shit show documentary that 764 00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:04,440 I've seen all three episodes of, and I got a lot to say. 765 00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:08,039 But we have a new business shout out and it is our friend, uh 766 00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:13,280 well, it's our friend, Aaron Diamond. But here's what she's saying. 767 00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:16,639 Her brother and his wife are having their first baby in February, so she 768 00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:22,639 wanted to promote his plant nursery. It's called The Backyard and it's in Coasta, 769 00:53:22,679 --> 00:53:27,199 Mesa. So if anybody's near Coast to Mesa and you need plants or 770 00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:32,159 a Christmas tree, please support her brother's small business, The Backyard now. 771 00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:36,880 And he's also you can follow him at all if you're not in Coast to 772 00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:39,679 Mesa, which probably many of you are, not. Follow him on his 773 00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:46,840 social media platforms at Backyard CA. So Backyard Ca. And he doesn't know 774 00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:50,679 she's doing the shout out, so don't mention it if you see him, 775 00:53:51,039 --> 00:53:52,840 just just follow him on social media. That's so nice. That's nice. 776 00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:55,880 Nice of you, Aaron, You're nice. You're a sweet, sweet lady. 777 00:53:55,920 --> 00:54:04,280 Also, my friend Adam has a business where he will help you get 778 00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:07,719 a car. Yeah, Now, if you're in California, there's no cost, 779 00:54:08,079 --> 00:54:14,280 he gets the kickback from the whatever, there's no fee. But if 780 00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:17,960 you're out of California, there is a fee. But he will promise to 781 00:54:19,039 --> 00:54:22,159 save you money. You're not gonna be able to get the price that he's 782 00:54:22,199 --> 00:54:27,440 gonna get you. He has arrangements with different dealerships. Anyway, I don't 783 00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:30,119 need to go on and on about that. But what you're gonna want to 784 00:54:30,159 --> 00:54:34,800 do is go to Adams got a car and just get in touch with them, 785 00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:39,599 say I sent you. Also Storybook World Travel, it's not just for 786 00:54:39,679 --> 00:54:43,679 theme parks. They will help you plan travel anywhere you want to go. 787 00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:46,599 And there's never any cost for her services. She just wants to help our 788 00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:53,480 FCL listeners. And she can be reached at storybook World Travel on Facebook or 789 00:54:53,519 --> 00:55:00,960 Insta or you can email her at Christine b at Storybookworldtravel dot com and basic 790 00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:05,639 Becky, it's our girl. No mugs right now, she's mugged out okay, 791 00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:08,880 but I think T shirts. If you're looking for a gift for somebody, 792 00:55:09,519 --> 00:55:14,480 get your T shirts, get something personal. Go shop her website, 793 00:55:14,639 --> 00:55:19,800 Basic Becky, just Basic Becky dot com or Basic Becky on Facebook. Perfect 794 00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:22,440 the rest. I love you, guys, Thanks everybody. Thanks Haylen, 795 00:55:22,519 --> 00:55:30,960 Caylen, you're a parent now, don't f it up. It's good letting go.