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Welcome to the award winning Minnesota Goodbye, the longest running podcast in history.

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Really nope? Oh what awards have
we won? Uh? Jenny, stop

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asking so many questions. Okay,
here we go. My name is Kaylee.

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I'm a first time writer, but
I'd love it to not be the

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last. So hopefully you guys like
me lmao. I'm a longtime listener,

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but I've never reached out. Not
really sure why. Honestly, I just

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think I equate emails to work,
and I find myself discouraged. I end

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up saying fuck it. Lol.
That's the gen z coming out in me.

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Any who. I sent Bailey a
message on Instagram, thinking she never

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see it. Of course, she
responded with the sweetest, most authentic response

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possible. Huh, and she actually
encouraged me to email in so quick.

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Shout out to Bailey, you are
awesome and here I am. Woo a

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couple of questions. I'd like to
share thoughts and questions. I think you

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guys should do a full episode of
the Minnesota Goodbye, full of improv games.

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They're fun to listen to, and
you guys have the best banner in

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between, and it brings me so
much joy. That's not a bad eye.

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Maybe one day next week we'll have
Vont come in. We'll do nothing

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but improp games. Okay, come
here front. Why is Vont not on

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the podcast? And can he be? Every once in a while? I

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feel like it's only right he gets
the opportunity to drop the F bomb every

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now and then, poor kids,
probably stalking them up. Why isn't Vont

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on the podcast? Mont just says, a lot of behind the scenes production

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during the time that we do that
do the podcast, So like I was

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never on it until honestly until I
don't even know lest point. Yeah,

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I was gonna say, because I
was always doing like a ton of stuff,

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Like I just had a lot of
work to do, and so it

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was just a time that like gave
me time to do work. So I

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wasn't here super late. Yeah,
I think it's a matter of like Vont

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absolutely could be on the podcast,
but I want to be respectful of everybody's

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like personal life. And for the
twenty minutes or so we do the podcast,

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Vont can get some things done,
which means that he'll get to leave

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twenty minutes earlier than he normally would. And if he really said Dave I

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want to be on the podcast.
They'd be like, absolutely sure. Jenny

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is always talking about selling stuff on
Facebook Marketplace. We love a motivated queen.

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I see you weather girly, So
I was wondering she could give some

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ideas on things to sell that everybody
may have and may not think to sell

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trying to make some extra cash.
Girls got to eat. Yeah, I

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would say picture frames, random home
decor. I just sold this random base

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for five dollars that I probably spent
like twenty five dollars from home goods on

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I just think like, especially if
you're like me who moved, you have

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a lot of random stuff that doesn't
fit in your new place that fit at

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an old place. So I would
just go through anything you have in storage

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bins and try to sell it and
put it up for five bucks. And

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if it doesn't sell after a month
or two, then yeah, you probably

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will just have to donate it or
if you don't get any traction. But

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I would say I've The only time
I've ever sold clothes on Facebook Marketplace was

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when it was brand new and had
a tag on it. Still I don't

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really mess with clothes, except for
I did sell well an old North face

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jacket and snow pants that well,
okay, was still in really good condition.

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Well, I think that's one of
those things where it's expensive enough that

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people would rather, you know,
get it for what maybe fifteen bucks,

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then spend one hundred and fifty bucks
on a north Face jacket or more and

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ski pants because those are going to
be at least one hundred dollars probably,

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Yeah, they're not cheap. So
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go through things that are sitting around
that I don't use anymore, and I

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put them up on Facebook Marketplace and
I try to sell them. You have

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people come to your house, Yes, they come right to your house,

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right to the porch. I just
have it right by the door. You

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don't do contact, You're like,
come pick it up. I do open

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the door and talk to them and
stuff, because a lot of times people

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want to see something first, and
I want to be a good Facebook Marketplace

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seller and be like here's this,
like you know, like I sold a

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three headed lamp recently and I had
taken the light bulbs out of it already,

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and I was like, sorry,
I took the light bulbs out,

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but I can put them back in
if you want to see that it works.

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And the person was like, I
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yet, man like me see that
it works. I was like, yeah,

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no problem. Yeah. Lamps and
rugs too, Those are like always

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on Facebook marketplace. So if you
have an ugly lamp that you're or a

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lamp that you're just like, I
don't need this lamp, sell a lamp

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or a rug. People are always
looking for lamps and rugs. Really,

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yes, Okay, because we have
a big rolled up rug in the basement

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that's still got plastic around it.
We must have bought it for something and

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then decided we didn't need it,
so it's a giant area rug in the

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basement. Wow, this is a
great idea. Let me see pictures of

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it. Maybe I'll buy it from
Okay, maybe let me see. Lastly,

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Kaylee says, I wanted to say
a quick thank you to all of

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you for just showing up in the
morning to do your job and performing every

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day. I also work a job
where I'm required to show up and perform

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in quotes, so I relate to
what it feels like on days you may

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struggle and not have as much willpower
to do so I just want to remind

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you all that your voices are so
important and just you all showing up is

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so important to so many of us. You have all become such a consistent

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factor in day to day life and
is something that remains stable even when your

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life gives you chaos, which can
be so debilitating. Sometimes the work you

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all do can be so hard.
So just know that I see you,

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and I appreciate all of you,
and I think you should get thanked a

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hell of a lot more for your
time and efforts than you currently do.

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You all are a reason I get
out of bed in the morning. So

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thank you. Wow, that's very
powerful. Sweet, thank you. This

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is I don't really have trouble coming
in and performing, maybe because I've been

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doing it for so long, but
I enjoy it so much that even if

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I'm in a shit mood, I
put everything aside for the four hours that

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were on the radio. Yeah,
and it's not hard. It's not like,

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well, life is shitty, but
I'm gonna put on a happy face.

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It just makes me happy. Right
Like even today you're like, well,

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Bailey, my bones hurt so bad, my bones and then we're like,

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oh, we have five seconds.
And then you were like, so

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we got coming up on war the
Roses today, and you would have no

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idea that your bones hurt. They
might do. And I don't know why

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my feet hurt, and I'm really
puzzled because I thought it was the shoes.

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I bought a new pair of hiking
shoes because the ones I'm gonna wear

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up Pike's Peak are a little bit
too heavy. So somebody said, you

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need light, high tech hiking shoes. I went down to ARII bought a

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pair. They were too small,
took them back at another they were too

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big. Then I went, okay, well that model's not gonna fit.

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I get another one and it squeezed
the motherfucking fuck out of my foot.

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And so my feet are now sore
and the shoes are muddy. So I

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can't take them back? Now?
Can they take them back to ARI?

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You can do? Yeah, you
really can. Really you could bring I've

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heard stories of people who have gone
on full boundary waters trips and returned like

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half of the stuff that they bought
for founder waters. Yeah, it's just

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their policy, and I'm not encouraging
people to do that, but Arii's policy,

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Like I'll remember that. Yeah,
I hate to take it back and

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there's like a you know, twenty
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and I feel like I'm scamming them, you know what I mean,

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They're full of mud. Oh,
they're just there to get paid their hourly

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wage. Care Okay. She concludes
by saying, that's it for now,

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folks. Sorry, not sorry for
all the randomness. I hope to write

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in again sometime when I get the
willpower to do so and think of interesting

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things to say. Have a great
day. Oh all right, thank you,

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Kaylee. Yeah that was really nice. Kaylee, please write in again

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and welcome first time writers. So, yeah, if you want a staff

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writer sticker, how does she get
one? Send your address and she did,

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so you get one in the next
few days. Yay, Hello morning

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show? Did I miss a memo? Who is the new nightgirl on KATIEWB?

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Just curious? Does she come from
another radio station in the cities or

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out of state? Jenny, do
you know anything about this? Her name

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is Kayla and she does actually do
the night show from LA so it's kind

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of complicated to explain the technology.
But yeah, she is out of LA

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so she lives there. But she's
very sweet and I don't hear her show

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too often because that's my bedtime.
Yep, but she's very nice. Uh

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okay, next one from Carrie,
I'm late to the party. I just

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listened to your one thousandth episode.
I was most intrigued by the beginning of

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that episode when I found out you
were very surprised that high school students were

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drinking coffee, pertaining to Dave talking
about carrying around Stanley cups being an accessory

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or status symbol. When Dave mentioned
she didn't drink coffee till college, it

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made me think that, yes,
I didn't have a desire to have coffee

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until college and my freshman year,
my idea of coffee was a sugared up

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mint condition frope from Caribou. Yes, no, judge, We've all been

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there. Besides Dave with his non
fu fu coffee. Don't worry, Dave,

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I soon switched to all black coffee
after graduation. I've been a faithful

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cold brewer, especial girly ever since. Any who, I'm now a middle

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and high school teacher, and it
does not phaze me or other adults when

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students have their morning coffees energy nutrition
teas, you know, the ones with

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crazy amounts of caffeine, and my
first hour class of eighth graders contained about

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sixty of my class having at least
one energy drink for breakfast Monster usually Wow.

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Throughout the day, other students would
be seen with their energy drinks and

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many would carry multiple around. My
recycling would be mostly cans by the end

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of the week. It sounds scary
and sad typing it out because we educated

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adults know the caffeine can be harmful
and like any other drug, is addicting.

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Of course, telling a sixteen year
old dad is like telling them any

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other thing. They don't want to
hear, and Dave one thing to know.

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Stanley's are out and oh wallas are
in. Yes, we are a

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different like just a different water bottle. That's trendy. Oh gosh, I

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haven't even heard of that. Yeah, o w a la, I think

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there is. Granted, I saw
TikTok once where this woman had a nowala

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and then she realized that she was
like getting sick, and it was because

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there was like mold inside of like
a weird compartment of the straw. So

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you have to make sure that you
really take it apart when you clean it.

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Anyway, A Wala's interesting, teacher, tell your tell your students to

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clean their a walas. So the
Stanley people are over there going fuck,

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yeah, we were on a roll
and now the fucking O Walla people are

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taken over. It's probably because they're
super colorful. Maybe that are you googling

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now? Yeah? Because I mean
they're like multicolored, and they're cheaper.

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God, they're I mean they're cheaper
too, but they're not that different than

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half the shit that's on the market
already. Yeah. What is it that's

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so funny that something could be so
trendy like immediately. I don't know what

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why water bottles in general are trendy, but I mean I'm glad that like

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drinking water is cool right now because
we should be drinking water and promoting that.

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Unless they have coffee in them and
they're drinking forty ounces of coffee,

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that's probably terrible for you. Uh
She said, Uh yeah, I am

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guilty of writing first class on the
O Wala bandwagon. I guess we'll see

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what the fall trend will bring water
bottle wise. Sorry, the long message

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just my experience too. I know
not every educator is the same as well.

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No, not a long email at
all. I think that length versus

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length correlating to interest level, like
it's interesting, Like a lot of people

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will send a really long email,
but it's not particularly interesting. So if

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it's long and it's interesting, then
that's fine. Yeah. I said something

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earlier to Bailey, and I said, I would never say this on the

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radio, but I'm gonna go ahead
and bring this up and tell me whether

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you might remember you were out of
the room, Jenny, I said,

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I think there might be a correlation
between stupid and chatty. Oh I was

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in here? Yeah, were you
in here when I was in here?

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Maybe Bailey wasn't. I said,
I think there might be a correlation between

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stupid and very talkative. Now,
not in every case. There are definitely

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people who are chatty and very intelligent, and there are people who are very

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quiet and very stupid. But I
think that this is a bold, experimental,

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like see what you think kind of
a statement because some of the stupidest

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people I know are some of the
chattiest people, because I think they don't

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care about filtering the shit that they
say, so they just say anything.

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And sometimes people that are not as
intelligent, they're not comfortable with any kind

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of silence, whereas I think intelligent
people are more comfortable with being inside their

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head. I'll give you an example. My son in law, Justin He's

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quiet, probably one of the most
intelligent people I've ever met, so intelligent,

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but he doesn't just ramble on about
stupid shit. He's comfortable with being

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silent. I've got other members of
my family that they are not very bright,

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but holy fuck, can they talk
your ear off. So is there

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a correlation between stupid and chatty?
Anybody want to pick up on this?

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I mean, so in your situation, I can understand that, But I

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also date someone who is so fucking
chatty, and I think that Andrew is

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very intelligent, So I don't know. I don't know where the line is

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drawn too chatty versus like they're just
kind of a personable person. So maybe,

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but yeah, And that's what I
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Andrew is very intelligent, but but
I've never seen him really chatty.

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When I get around him, he's
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chatty, So I don't see that
chatty side. But I know that you

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say he's chatty, But Bailey,
you're being awful quiet on this. Phow

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I'm letting you guys talk gosh because
I'm so intelligent. Uh uh huh.

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I think it's like if it's like, you know, street smarts or like

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social intelligence, like being quieter and
knowing when to speak because if you don't

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have something quality to say, then
you're not going to speak up. And

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I guess that's like an intelligent way
of going out about a social situation versus

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someone who is socially dumb, versus
like like academically dumb. Like I don't

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think chatty. Being chatty and being
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maybe being socially dumb, they're like
I can't read a room, so I'm

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just gonna blah blah blah blah.
Black kind of thing is like a dumb

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thing to do, that's for sure. My uncle, my uncle is really

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really into Roman history, and when
we go to his house for Christmas every

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year, he makes us fucking go
look at his books he's written. We've

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heard it a million times. He
goes on and on and on, and

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he's so smart about it, but
he doesn't shut up, So I really

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that's his Like emotional intelligence isn't as
high in those situations okay, because he

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is not understanding that our eyes are
glossed over and we're literally have a foot

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out the door trying to get into
a different room. Yeah. Yeah,

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Yeah, I think I'm very guilty
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So if I'm in a social situation
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bring up something about the twins,
I think it over and I think whether

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I should say it and how it
will land. And if it doesn't seem

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like it's going to land, well, then I don't say anything. But

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the problem with that is you end
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a bump on a log. And
sometimes in social situations, I don't have

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a lot to add, And sometimes
I look at chatty people and I go,

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how can you come up with so
much to say? How can you?

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How can you you have so much
content in your head that you spout

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content constantly And I don't. Yeah, I also think it's it's kind of

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like a I know at least a
lot of my friends. I have a

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lot of neuro divergent friends who talk
constantly. I love my D and D

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group. I swear they're all talking
at the same time at any given point,

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and I just sit there quietly throughout
all of D and D unless it's

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my turn, because everybody's talking at
the exact same time. But they're all,

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you know, doing a thing that
they're super interested in, like your

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uncle's Roman history stuff. And they
all have you know, like this platform

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here to all just chat with each
other constantly. But they're all smart people,

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They're all yeah, they're just I
don't know, special people who really

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like D and D and just keep
on talking. But I have tons of

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friends who are so chatty but super
smart, and it's because they're neurodivergent.

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Okay, all right, So anyway, just a thought. Maybe I'm absolutely

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wrong, let me pa EIGHTYHD.
Maybe who knows. I feel like that

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would contribute a lot. What are
your ADHD that you would be very seeped

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chatty? Yes, yeah, I
knew somebody who was ADHD and they took

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medicine for it, like medication for
it, and they chatted all the time.

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As a matter of fact, one
time we were riding in the car

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and I was exhausted and I finally
had to say, can you just please

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not talk for a few minutes?
And it really hurt their feelings. They

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told me later it really hurt their
feelings, and I said, I'm sorry,

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I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. I just could not listen to

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you talk anymore. I just could
not. One of my former coworkers said

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that to me. We were on
like a like a work field trip and

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we were driving somewhere for like a
couple of hours, and at one point

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she turned to me and she said, I think now's a good time for

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the van to be quiet. Oh. And I was like, I think,

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oh wow. And it hurt my
feelings a lot, and I can't

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understand that that would totally hurt your
feelings. I also get like very overstimulated

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sometimes, so I do need that
silence also, I mean, if it

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makes you feel any better. Andrew
goes on a group trip with us coworkers

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and literally none of them want to
sit by him on the plane because they

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know he's just going to talk.
And they're like, I'm not sitting by

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you. Wow. I get the
whole overstimulation. I just thought, man,

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I'm the only one in here talking. So I didn't realize I was

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the over stimulation versus like my D
and D group when everyone is talking.

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I just wouldn't say anything. I
wouldn't be like, would you shut it?

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Guys? Could everybody just shut it? So that's the vibe of the

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group is just chatty and fat.
Chrisco used to work here on the show,

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and he really is a dear person. He really is, but he's

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also a giant pain in the ass, but I love him anyway. Chrisco

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is so uncomfortable with silence. So
a lot of the time, this is

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back in the days of intern John, Steve, Lena and then Chrisco didn't

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have a chair in the studio,
so he would stand up right between where

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you two are sitting, and Steve
would be working on something, I'd be

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working on something, Lena would be
working on something. John would be working

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and Chrisco. We didn't trust him
to do anything, so he would stand

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there and he would get uncomfortable with
the silence. He'd be like, oh,

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you guys watched Family Guy last night
show. Yeah, Peter drum that

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he was in the AHA video and
so anyway, so yeah, and then

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blah blah blah, and it was
like, Chrisco, shut up, We're

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trying to concentrate. Okay, sorry, guys, Yeah, I know I

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talked too much. You guys watched
that Twine game yesterday and he just he

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was very uncomfortable with silence. But
he was the guy that you wanted to

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have come to your house for a
party because there was always somebody talking.

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Yeah, so it's good and bad. Yeah, I mean I don't mind

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chatty people, but that's me.
I think it depends on the person.

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Yeah. Again, I have a
relative in my family and they're wonderful,

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but they won't stop. They won't
stop, and sometimes it's like fucking shut

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up, just stop all right.
Next week earlier this week on the Show

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and on the Minnesota Goodbye, we
got into a little territory that was kind

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of like a naughty thing where Jenny
or Bailey had found a woman on TikTok

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on a nut barstool sports sid call
her daddy where she said when and it

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gets a little dicey. So just
a little heads up. When a woman

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says to a man during sex,
I want you to come, I want

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you to come, she's not doing
it because she is like really wants to

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that experience. She's like, I'm
done, I want to get this over

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with. Yes, right, that's
exactly what it is, so we didn't

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realize that, and a lot of
guys were like, what, I didn't

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know that? And a woman will
also A woman will also fake an orgasm

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so the guy will stop pounding away
and just get it over with, Okay,

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So I won't say her name.
First off, I've been so swamped

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with work lately and normally only listen
to Minnesota Good Bible driving, so I

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just remember to sit down and reply. But I always have something to say.

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This isn't really naughty Tuesday, but
I was listening during lunch on Monday

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and I heard Jenny's take on when
a woman tells a man, I want

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you to come during the love and
I just kind of laughed and nodded in

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along in agreement. To be clear, I am a big fan of sex

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with my husband, but sometimes especially
his parents. As a one year old,

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we don't have a ton of time, so if it's taken too long

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and I'm already done, I will
absolutely do some talking to attempt to encourage

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him to finish without telling him I'm
over and you need to hurry up,

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because that's much less sexy and can
kill the mood. Yes. Also,

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I second that it's not necessarily gross
when a guy finishes on your stomach,

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but I have a deep any belly
button, so depending on our birth control

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plan, I would definitely prefer not
to have to dig out my belly button

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after sex. Thanky. This is
making me like smile because it's just so

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stupid and graphic. Thanks for reading. If you do, I definitely qualify

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as a p one. Was very
sad when I wasn't listed as one of

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your top staff writers. Again my
fault since I haven't been writing. But

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I will try to rectify that moving
forward. Love the new lineup, cheers,

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and I will go ahead and give
you a shout out Sidney and you'll

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remember maybe Sidney from being on the
show. Yeah, I'm the staff writer.

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Y. Maybe you were going to
say their name at the beginning.

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She didn't say not to. Okay, she didn't say not to. And

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that is going to wrap it up
for the Minnesota Goodbye, Thank you,

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