1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:15,880 Made a decision have pace Sonny sun On, I had vision n what's up 2 00:00:15,919 --> 00:00:22,120 everybody, sir? Last show of the year. Yes, ah, we're 3 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:27,399 gonna miss you, guys know. And here's some people we're specifically gonna miss. 4 00:00:27,879 --> 00:00:31,679 While we were recording, we got a new name. Shout out. 5 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:39,320 Her name is Dia Hershey Like here's she kiss like a Hershey's kiss our friend 6 00:00:39,399 --> 00:00:47,159 Dia, Dia Hershey Kiss and share Bear and Kelly La Di Da and Amy's 7 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:54,159 a cunt, Katie Murphy not Ana far Aaron Hudas, Nikki call you a 8 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:59,679 girl. Leslie accostings that bag that's out of people on Leslie cool cool you 9 00:01:00,399 --> 00:01:03,359 I know, I would you think this. Being scared from being arrested in 10 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:07,840 the past would stop her, but it doesn't. Jacob is still Growley and 11 00:01:07,879 --> 00:01:12,239 we love him so much. Rita Rocks, Elizabeth Williamson's kids in our Basinette 12 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,760 and Nathena, we love your dancing, and Polly we love your pancakes, 13 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:22,200 and Valerie, Bubba Fenwick hits out of the park and Katerina y'all check that 14 00:01:22,359 --> 00:01:26,400 check your mother, and especially after you hear today's show, Oh boy, 15 00:01:26,159 --> 00:01:30,159 Gabby and Missy Oh they got jobs at the mall. They're doing Anna. 16 00:01:30,359 --> 00:01:34,560 Yeah there's one Santa. The other one's the Elf. Oh but they're like, 17 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:40,239 you know, bad Sanna. They're getting drunk in the back. I 18 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:45,519 love it. Good job girls, Ishan voshpeg Repeca, the ole band. 19 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:49,560 Kelly Brand is not your aunt, but she'll take a hip hop. Yeah, 20 00:01:49,599 --> 00:01:53,599 Alicia Escalante, Leslie stop coughing? You do you have the flu? 21 00:01:53,920 --> 00:02:00,439 Stephanie's a stinker wrinker, Aaron's a dirty Sanchez, Sarah Stefano at your know, 22 00:02:00,239 --> 00:02:04,879 Jennifer, get up, Sandra, it's not easy being green and Christa. 23 00:02:05,159 --> 00:02:10,840 You make us want a stroop. Yeah, somebody's got a dentist story, 24 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:15,120 Yes, Kaylin does. But I just want to tell everybody that I 25 00:02:15,199 --> 00:02:22,319 got my books. All of my drunks, hardcover, beautiful books came in 26 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:25,960 the mail and now I'm like excited. It's exciting. Okay, So you 27 00:02:27,039 --> 00:02:29,680 got a bunch of books, do you what you sign them? Is that 28 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:32,800 I can sign them for people. I can give them to friends. I 29 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:37,240 can, uh, I don't know, I can, just I can want 30 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:38,800 to leap on a pile of books. I'm going to bring you a book. 31 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:42,960 I brought you the advanced copy a while ago. But now I'll bring 32 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:46,800 you a real book. Okay, yeah, for your Christmas Christmas present. 33 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:52,039 Yay. I brought one to the White Elephant party that I went to, 34 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:55,159 and my friend thought it was for her, but I just brought it because 35 00:02:55,159 --> 00:02:59,439 a bunch of my girlfriends were going to be there. Who are Okay, 36 00:02:59,479 --> 00:03:01,960 so this is funny, this was like a little bit awkward. So a 37 00:03:02,039 --> 00:03:07,439 couple of those friends are in the acknowledgments. Oh, I can say this 38 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,560 here because you two are both in the acknowledgments, which you probably didn't even 39 00:03:10,599 --> 00:03:15,319 read the acknowledgments, but you're both in my acknowledgements to the book. But 40 00:03:15,199 --> 00:03:21,840 of this group of mom friends, like two of them are in the acknowledgments, 41 00:03:21,879 --> 00:03:24,919 but then like the two of them are not because like uh oh, 42 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:31,800 awkward award one of them. If you recall a Patreon like a million years 43 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:36,960 ago that somebody got mad at me about. But remember the the mom who 44 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:40,680 refused to carpool with me, Yes I do, so she were friends. 45 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:47,639 We are friends, but not even though she's one in my close group of 46 00:03:47,719 --> 00:03:51,520 mom friends. Do you ever have a friend that's in your close group of 47 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:57,360 friends but not really your close friend. Yes, she's much closer friends with 48 00:03:57,479 --> 00:04:00,599 the other two moms. I'm close. I'm close friends with two of those 49 00:04:00,639 --> 00:04:04,039 moms, like close friends, like talk to them on the phone like all 50 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:11,639 the time. And then the other few friends are like more acquaintances, right, 51 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:15,639 I know, I get that. And even though she's been in that 52 00:04:15,719 --> 00:04:21,680 circle for you know, eighteen years or something like whatever, more like sixteen 53 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:25,360 years. But like she's not the one. That's not the one I'm gonna 54 00:04:25,439 --> 00:04:28,360 I'm not gonna call her. I'm not gonna like have coffee with her on 55 00:04:28,399 --> 00:04:30,160 her own, right, we just don't have it like that. Yeah, 56 00:04:30,199 --> 00:04:35,639 And she's lovely and like fun and I we love being in groups together. 57 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:39,560 Yeah, I get I'm always happy to see her, but like she's not 58 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:43,040 She didn't make the acknowledgments right, right, you know, but that's not 59 00:04:43,199 --> 00:04:46,879 everybody can. Yes, you don't. When you write acknowledgments for a book, 60 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:50,720 you don't just like list off every person you've ever had a relationship with. 61 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:58,600 It's like, who is currently in my life that I feel like supported 62 00:04:58,639 --> 00:05:02,800 by it when I'm writing a book. Kaitlyn isn't that nice? But you 63 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:08,040 know what I mean, Like, who's been on this ride with me and 64 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,600 a couple of those people were. Anyway, the point is I brought the 65 00:05:11,639 --> 00:05:14,480 book though to show to my girlfriends because I was going to see them, 66 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:16,160 and I was excited and I'd just gotten it in the mail. And then 67 00:05:16,199 --> 00:05:19,959 my one friend who is in the acknowledgement's like thought I brought it for her 68 00:05:20,759 --> 00:05:25,199 and like immediately like took it and then put it away, and I was 69 00:05:25,199 --> 00:05:27,199 like, oh, where's the book? And she was like, oh, 70 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:30,040 I put it like in my purse with my stuff. And I was like 71 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:32,120 oh. Like She's like, did you want me? Did you want to 72 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:35,319 show it to people? And she goes Finally it occurred to her. She 73 00:05:35,399 --> 00:05:38,839 was like, oh, is that not like my book? And I was 74 00:05:38,879 --> 00:05:41,839 like, no, bitch, I'm going to sign you a copy. That 75 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:44,639 ain't it though. That was just why I just wanted to show it to 76 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:49,480 people. So she brought it back out. But then you know that Carpool 77 00:05:49,959 --> 00:05:54,040 was like, oh, am I in the acknowledgments And she was kind of 78 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:57,279 kidding. She was making a joke about like is because she opened it to 79 00:05:57,319 --> 00:06:01,360 the dedication, which is the dedication is to my children, right, But 80 00:06:01,519 --> 00:06:04,600 she was like, oh, I'm not in the dedication, but I didn't 81 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:10,319 want to flag the fact that like no, and also not in the acknowledgements, 82 00:06:10,319 --> 00:06:13,800 but two other people in this room are in the acknowledgized you know what 83 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:15,720 I mean, Like, yeah, that is uh oh, well, well, 84 00:06:15,759 --> 00:06:21,240 I'm sure it sounds like she understands, right. I can't imagine that 85 00:06:21,319 --> 00:06:26,720 she would be surprised, like, but I have a feeling that she would 86 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:30,160 be like, huh, like you mentioned these other two, my other two, 87 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:34,120 like it's in your group, right, but not me. Huh weird. 88 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:39,399 And there are stories in the book that she is a part of. 89 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:46,240 Oh, but if I mentioned her, i'd have there's like four more that 90 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:48,600 it would be than weird that I didn't mention. So it's like you're not 91 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:55,600 Yeah, everybody pluck It's like that sounds this whole conversation sounds kind of narcissistic 92 00:06:55,639 --> 00:06:59,279 to even be thinking about it. The point is that it was momentarily awkward 93 00:06:59,319 --> 00:07:00,600 because I was like, don't look at it. Don't look at like, 94 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,279 don't go look at it. Don't go like, oh, I want to 95 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:06,000 read your acknowledgments, like don't do that, Yeah, don't do that. 96 00:07:08,319 --> 00:07:11,279 Yes, it was a little bit like yeah, okay, we're done looking 97 00:07:11,319 --> 00:07:13,879 at this now. I want to show it to this person, you know, 98 00:07:14,079 --> 00:07:17,639 yeah, yeah, deeper, deeper, interesting, yeah yeah, but 99 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:23,600 it's cool. I'm excited, and it is a very excited, very personal, 100 00:07:24,839 --> 00:07:29,439 very personal book. When I was writing it, I felt legitimately uncomfortable 101 00:07:29,519 --> 00:07:34,000 during parts that I wrote, and for some reason, like I can't I 102 00:07:34,079 --> 00:07:36,879 just as long as I don't think about like what's actually in the book, 103 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:40,079 I'm like, oh, yeah, everybody should read it. But then when 104 00:07:40,079 --> 00:07:42,639 I look at some of the parts of the book, I'm like, oh, 105 00:07:42,759 --> 00:07:46,720 like maybe, like not all my close friends should be like knowing this 106 00:07:46,759 --> 00:07:48,399 stuff about me, But what you know me, I don't get a fuck. 107 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:50,720 Yeah, no, I get it. I get it's a book, 108 00:07:50,759 --> 00:07:56,399 it's personal. My life's an open book. Right. So but you guys 109 00:07:56,399 --> 00:08:00,439 can all pre order it now you would like, if you would like, 110 00:08:00,759 --> 00:08:05,439 and I think you will get the book in the mail. So the release 111 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:09,959 day, my book publication day is January sixteenth, But by the time you 112 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:13,199 listen to this, it's going to be like December twentieth. You're gonna get 113 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:16,639 you will. If you pre order the book now, you will get it 114 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:20,000 soon, or you can wait You can also pre order it on Audible. 115 00:08:20,879 --> 00:08:22,199 This is not an ad for Audible, by the way. I know you 116 00:08:22,199 --> 00:08:26,560 guys love them, but it's not when. But if you pre order it 117 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:31,720 on Audible, like I guess on publication day, I mean it's all recorded, 118 00:08:31,759 --> 00:08:35,159 then you'll get it. So you're done recording it. Oh yeah, 119 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:39,879 it's it's ready to release. I can't wait with me reading it to you. 120 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,600 That's awesome. If that's how you like your book, I'm going to 121 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:45,679 download the shit out of that. But if you want, I know, 122 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:48,559 it's expensive because it's a hardback, so it's like thirty bucks. It's like 123 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:52,240 twenty seven dollars. You go to Amazon. You can go to Amazon. 124 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:54,639 Yeah, Amazon, Barnes and Noble whatever wherever. I mean, you get 125 00:08:54,639 --> 00:08:58,759 your fine book. I mean, I know Amazon is not like the greatest, 126 00:08:58,759 --> 00:09:01,399 but I love them. Yeah, yeah, I don't know. Jeff 127 00:09:01,399 --> 00:09:05,399 Bezos is a really good friend of mine. A lot of people, so 128 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:09,320 like I want to support him, yeah you know what I mean. Yeah, 129 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:13,080 and what he's doing. I have a good friend that interviewed for like 130 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:18,879 his assistant. Oh really, she was like the second and I don't think 131 00:09:18,879 --> 00:09:22,480 she wanted to take it because it was too hardcore, like a lot of 132 00:09:22,639 --> 00:09:24,919 Oh, he's supposed to be a fucking nightmare. Yeah, and I think 133 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:28,440 she was like no, but yeah, she came pretty close to being. 134 00:09:28,759 --> 00:09:35,039 And that company is just like a toxic work environment. I've known many people 135 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:39,480 who have worked really in corporate Amazon and they all hate their lives. Yeah, 136 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:45,679 seems like I'm a shit show. But yeah, so there's that little 137 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:48,799 tidbit. Yeah. I think Amazon though, is like I think they're doing 138 00:09:48,799 --> 00:09:54,519 well. They might stick around, you think so anyway, Okay, that's 139 00:09:54,519 --> 00:09:58,360 all about my book. I'm excited. I'm excited. Are you going to 140 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:03,720 do any press or anything? So right now? I guess the Today Show 141 00:10:03,759 --> 00:10:09,360 passed on me, which is fucked up. I don't know why. I've 142 00:10:09,399 --> 00:10:13,080 done the Today Show for every other one of my books that has come out. 143 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:16,759 I still am holding out a little hope, but I am. I'm 144 00:10:16,759 --> 00:10:22,679 being considered for Drew Barrymore talk show, for Kelly Clark, Kelly Clark Show, 145 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:28,639 I'm being considered for I'm doing something for CBS Saturday Morning. Yes, 146 00:10:28,799 --> 00:10:31,879 I am going to be doing some press and they're probably going to send me 147 00:10:33,279 --> 00:10:35,799 to New York on my publication week and I think I'm going to take LB 148 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:39,080 with me. Did I mentioned that before? Yeah, No, you didn't 149 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:43,279 mention that. I think I feel like I said I might do that. 150 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:46,720 So John took Sadie and Xander to New York right for like a week, 151 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:52,360 I don't know, last spring break break, so like less than a year 152 00:10:52,399 --> 00:10:56,879 ago. So I was like, damn, if I if I do get 153 00:10:56,919 --> 00:11:00,360 flown to New York, alb, I should just bring her and if they 154 00:11:00,399 --> 00:11:01,720 put me up for a couple of nights, I can just extend it. 155 00:11:03,039 --> 00:11:05,240 That would be So whatever the hotel is, stay there for like two more 156 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:09,360 nights, that's us, and then like just go like she can come with 157 00:11:09,399 --> 00:11:11,879 me to do any press that I have, and then we can like just 158 00:11:11,879 --> 00:11:16,559 go screw around for her show. That's great idea. Totally should do that. 159 00:11:16,639 --> 00:11:18,879 Have them fly me back like a little bit, like a few days, 160 00:11:20,279 --> 00:11:22,279 you know what I mean, like stay for like five days at least. 161 00:11:22,639 --> 00:11:24,840 Yeah, Oh my god, I'm so excited for you. I know, 162 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:30,559 I can't wait. Yeah. So I don't know like if any of 163 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,000 the press will pan out. I hope it does. I think. So 164 00:11:33,519 --> 00:11:37,279 I'm gonna there's gonna be some of the stuff I've done. There's gonna be 165 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:41,600 a write up on me, an interview with me on Shonda Land, which 166 00:11:41,639 --> 00:11:46,559 is a pretty big website. Yeah, it's kind of a it's Shonda Rhymes. 167 00:11:46,639 --> 00:11:52,320 Yeah, that's the other she died. Oh remember she was a get 168 00:11:52,600 --> 00:12:00,679 the pay the political intern right right right? Who is Sha Shanda Shonda Ryme's 169 00:12:00,759 --> 00:12:05,600 Yeah, of Grey's Anatomy fame. She has a pretty big website that's like 170 00:12:05,399 --> 00:12:11,759 very big in the black community, really like like mini Oprah. Yes, 171 00:12:11,399 --> 00:12:16,320 she's kind of a anyway, that's a pretty big website. And then I'm 172 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:20,840 going to be on a podcast called The Last Day, which is a pretty 173 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:26,879 big podcast, and I'm excited about that. That's free interviewed for that. 174 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:30,360 I think my interview for that is maybe the week of my book coming out. 175 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:35,360 I don't know. I've just done a bunch of podcasts. I did 176 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:41,360 Shameless mom Our friend Sarah Dean's podcast, and that's going to be a girl. 177 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:45,000 Yeah, So a bunch of podcasts and hopefully some TV stuff that'd be 178 00:12:45,039 --> 00:12:50,120 great. I'm excited for you. Thank you. I know, it's exciting. 179 00:12:50,159 --> 00:12:54,399 It's like I feel like I wrote the whole book ironically in a blackout 180 00:12:54,519 --> 00:13:00,240 because like it was so so writing books for me is very stressful, but 181 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:03,759 like I brought it on myself. Like I literally wrote my old publisher and 182 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:05,919 was like, hey, I think I could write a book about this, 183 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:11,159 and they were like okay. And then I ship myself. But you know 184 00:13:11,279 --> 00:13:15,039 what, that's that's part of it, of course. Yeah. But I'm 185 00:13:15,279 --> 00:13:18,200 I'm I can't wait to read it. I can't wait. Thank you. 186 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:20,559 I'm excited me too. Yeah. So, Caitlin, you went to the 187 00:13:20,639 --> 00:13:24,559 dentist. Yeah. I had a bit of a week last week. Yeah, 188 00:13:24,639 --> 00:13:31,360 tell us. So I at first I thought after we recorded on Tuesday 189 00:13:31,399 --> 00:13:33,960 for the second time, I was like, oh, my stomach isn't feeling 190 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:37,919 so good. And I was like, I think I might have got whatever 191 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:41,919 Lenett had. Boy, my stomach was feeling pretty weird that whole day. 192 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:45,519 But luckily it wasn't that bad, Okay. So then the next day it 193 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:48,399 was done. That was fine. Okay. So then I worked like Wednesday, 194 00:13:48,399 --> 00:13:50,919 Thursday, and then I got up to do my pawn work on Friday 195 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:54,440 and I was like, oh, man, I don't I don't. I 196 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:58,720 don't feel right. This doesn't feel good. And so I essentially just kind 197 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:03,279 of came down with a like cold on Friday, which I had the cold. 198 00:14:03,559 --> 00:14:07,159 I came in with it on Tuesday. You think you exactly feel like 199 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:11,360 I think I did because I woke up that morning with like a really bad 200 00:14:11,399 --> 00:14:15,120 sore throat. But I took some motron and I kind of decided I was 201 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:18,720 in denial and I was stuffy nosed, but I was like, could it 202 00:14:18,759 --> 00:14:20,639 be allergies? It couldn't be what Lynette had because I'm not sick to my 203 00:14:20,639 --> 00:14:24,720 stomach and it's the next day, right, So we all came in on 204 00:14:24,799 --> 00:14:28,600 Monday and then you went home, and then we rescheduled it for Tuesday, 205 00:14:28,639 --> 00:14:30,919 and I was like, well, I can't not come in because like we're 206 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:33,000 all coming in and we have to get this done now. So I came 207 00:14:33,039 --> 00:14:37,840 in. But maybe I also woke up with a sore throat that morning. 208 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:39,879 Oh, and I was just but it wasn't that bad. I couldn't tell 209 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:43,960 if like you know, sometimes I just don't have water at night and I 210 00:14:43,159 --> 00:14:46,679 wake at the stot throat anyway, So it didn't like hurt that bad, 211 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,559 but just the whole day and then Friday, my pond day is like it's 212 00:14:48,639 --> 00:14:50,879 just work, work, work, all day. Yes, you know, 213 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:54,960 physical just going from one place to the next, so that probably didn't help 214 00:14:56,240 --> 00:14:58,559 that I was just you know, burning myself out all day. So then 215 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:01,519 over the weekend, I've just I've been sick, mostly with sinuses, and 216 00:15:01,519 --> 00:15:05,440 I have like a sinus headache which is just really annoying, which I have 217 00:15:05,559 --> 00:15:09,879 right now and I think it's starting to go away. But I had to 218 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:16,159 go to the dentist on Saturday. On Saturday, on Saturday, yeah, 219 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:20,879 just because like a week earlier, I just got this really bad toothache right 220 00:15:20,919 --> 00:15:26,399 in between my last two teeth on my top row and my gums hurt so 221 00:15:26,519 --> 00:15:31,600 bad, and I didn't know what it was. But every time i'd try 222 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:33,919 to I thought there was like something in my teeth. But every time I 223 00:15:33,919 --> 00:15:37,919 would try to floss it, it would like it would sting really badly, 224 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:41,879 like and then it would hurt hours afterwards and nothing would come out. So 225 00:15:41,879 --> 00:15:43,159 I was like, Okay, I don't know what it is, so I 226 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:46,320 gotta go see it. I hadn't been to the dentist in like two years 227 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:48,799 anyway happens, so I was like, I can't tell if there's something in 228 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:52,200 there or it's just been long enough, and you know, there's something going 229 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:56,519 on with my teeth. So I had to get a new dentist down in 230 00:15:56,559 --> 00:16:00,679 Long Beach. So I'm looking around on Yelp. I find one that's five 231 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:03,360 stars with like one hundred and fifty very good reviews. So I'm like, 232 00:16:03,399 --> 00:16:07,519 Okay, I'm gonna go to this one. Go to that dentist on Saturday. 233 00:16:07,639 --> 00:16:11,440 While I'm sick worried that I'm they're gonna have to like numb me up 234 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:15,679 and do something or other. I go in there. They're all very nice, 235 00:16:15,559 --> 00:16:19,960 very easy. Dentist comes in. There was something stuck in my in 236 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:26,159 my tooth. It was like a sunflower seed, like the casing of a 237 00:16:26,159 --> 00:16:29,039 sunflower seed, which is like thin and long, but it was like wedged 238 00:16:29,039 --> 00:16:33,360 in there. And how did they get it out? Though? He just 239 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:34,679 he just kind of picked at it for a little bit and you know, 240 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:38,039 shot some water air in there, and it was just kind of picking and 241 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:41,679 then he pulled it out and they were both like, wow, you had 242 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:42,840 this thing stuck in your tooth. And I was like, yeah, it 243 00:16:42,879 --> 00:16:47,159 was so wedged in there. I couldn't even like really when they were digging 244 00:16:47,159 --> 00:16:49,039 around in there though. No, not too bad. It was it only 245 00:16:49,279 --> 00:16:52,960 it was like a you know, that dull pain. That's how it was 246 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:56,840 constantly. But whenever I would flos said, the floss would get in. 247 00:16:56,000 --> 00:17:00,559 Then that's when it would sting like a sharp a sharp stick. But were 248 00:17:00,639 --> 00:17:03,119 they trying to fos No, they didn't try to floss. He was able 249 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:06,079 to just get it out with that. And as soon as he got it 250 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:07,920 out, they were like, wow, this, I can't believe you had 251 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:10,160 that stuck in your tooth. It's gonna feel better now. I was like, 252 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:11,880 Okay, great, while you're at it, why don't you just take 253 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:15,599 all my X rays and let me know what else you haven't been there? 254 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:18,519 Yeah, right, exactly, take all my dental insurance. No, and 255 00:17:18,599 --> 00:17:22,000 the other dentists that I've been to for all my life up here. I 256 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:25,119 liked them, and I would come up here to go there, but they're 257 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:27,039 just way too expensive. Yeah, And the last time I went there, 258 00:17:27,079 --> 00:17:30,000 like, oh, you have like this thing that needs a procedure and this 259 00:17:30,079 --> 00:17:33,200 thing that needs a procedure and this thing, and it's going to be like, 260 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:34,079 you know, like twenty five hundred dollars. But you know, we 261 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:37,480 could do it now. And I was like, oh, well, I 262 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:41,359 don't know about that. So in the back of my head, I thought, 263 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:42,359 Okay, I have all this other stuff that needs to get done. 264 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:45,319 So it's like, why don't you guys just take a bunch of X rays, 265 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:48,240 tell me what you gotta do. They took the X rays easy, 266 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:51,880 they were nice. The whole visit was cheap. It was just fifty bucks 267 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:55,880 to do all that stuff, to do X rays, to do the X 268 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:57,079 rays, and to get the thing out of my tooth, they charged you 269 00:17:57,119 --> 00:18:02,119 fifty bucks. The whole thing was fifty bucks. Oh yeah, wow. 270 00:18:02,279 --> 00:18:06,319 I was like, oh, this is great and uh and they he said 271 00:18:06,319 --> 00:18:07,640 like, oh, you don't really have any problems with your teeth. You 272 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:11,359 just need a deep cleaning and this filling is starting to come apart, so 273 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:14,119 you're gonna need to get this filling redone. And I was like, oh, 274 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:17,319 this is really easy. And I probably should have known, like when 275 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:19,119 I signed up for it. It's like the whole thing is like holistic care, 276 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:22,240 you know, dental, like holistic whatever. And so I go to 277 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:26,359 schedule. You go, oh, you need the deep cleanings in this filling, 278 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:27,599 and I go, okay, I don't like the word holistic. I 279 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:36,440 don't like, yeah, go fuck yourself, yourself, your vegan. You 280 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:41,000 know, Vegan's coming next, right, supplements and you know, right? 281 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:45,240 Yeah. Uh. And I've said before like I had a major needle phobia 282 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:48,839 in my life, but then after my blood clots and I just had to 283 00:18:48,839 --> 00:18:51,640 get my blood drawn, blood drawn so often, I got used to it. 284 00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:56,599 That hasn't translated to them in my mouth, Like I'm still getting shots 285 00:18:56,599 --> 00:18:59,279 in my mouth, is like the worst thing ever. Really. Yeah, 286 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:02,000 So I they were like, okay, you need to get all this done, 287 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:04,079 and I go, okay, you're gonna need to numb me up for 288 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:07,559 that, right, that's going to require a shot. She's like yeah, 289 00:19:07,839 --> 00:19:11,599 maybe probably. I go, okay, well you're gonna give me the I 290 00:19:11,599 --> 00:19:12,960 can get the gas for that, right to call me down? She goes, 291 00:19:14,079 --> 00:19:17,160 no, we don't. We don't do the gas. We're organic. 292 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:21,880 Yeah, we're holding sack and so we care about your body. Yeah, 293 00:19:22,079 --> 00:19:26,359 we will burn's age. Yeah, we'll light a clove candle, so that 294 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:30,359 should help ease your pain and anxiety. So then yeah, I was like, 295 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:33,720 oh bummer, I really like this place. And so you said that, 296 00:19:33,759 --> 00:19:37,000 now I got to go find another dentist. I'm not the dentists without 297 00:19:37,039 --> 00:19:40,759 gas. So all right, thanks, thanks for what you did. Yeah. 298 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:45,000 So yeah, that was like when I was gonna have to have the 299 00:19:45,279 --> 00:19:47,960 implant, second one, and I was like, well, I'm not going 300 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:51,400 to go to my og doctor who I love, because it's going to be 301 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:56,119 too expensive. I was like, let me shop for somebody that can do 302 00:19:56,880 --> 00:20:00,559 the implant. And I had had to have the tooth taken and the input 303 00:20:00,599 --> 00:20:02,880 blah blah blah. You know, you know my story. That's why we 304 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:06,960 have to warn Katerina every time. And yeah, and I remember I called 305 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:08,839 the one guy and they were like, oh, we can do all of 306 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:14,920 this at the same time. Like we'll do the I mean, you come 307 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:18,160 back for your crown after, but we can. We'll pull the tooth, 308 00:20:18,759 --> 00:20:22,119 put the implant in there, right, you know, put the do the 309 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:26,000 bone graph thing all that, and then you come back and you get your 310 00:20:26,039 --> 00:20:30,079 crown and it's all like like half the price, you know. And I 311 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:33,240 was like, okay, but how much is it for the anesthesia for like 312 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:36,640 you know, and they're like, oh, you won't need that, like 313 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:41,079 that's we just do it with like novacan And I was like, are you 314 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:47,000 high right now? Are you saving all the gas for yourself. You are 315 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:51,599 this crazy that you think I'm not going to sleep to have a bone gra 316 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:56,119 Like the word bone is in there. If the bone is in there at 317 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:59,960 any well, what are you crazy? Yeah? I had it and then 318 00:21:00,039 --> 00:21:03,319 didn't put me to sleep. I for some reason, don't mind the dentist 319 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:07,759 at all. I don't know why, but like and so I told I 320 00:21:07,799 --> 00:21:11,160 tell my kids two things. Like, when you're on an airplane you feel 321 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:15,599 the turbulence, just relax, like just let it lull you to sleep, 322 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:19,359 like, let enjoy so my kids don't get scared. Then the other thing 323 00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:23,039 is when you go to the dentist, just relax and like put your earbuds 324 00:21:23,079 --> 00:21:26,079 in and just zone out. They're gonna have to do what they have to 325 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:30,319 do. You're not gonna be able to stop it. You might feel if 326 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:32,480 they say they're gonna give you a shot, might be a little pinch or 327 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:34,920 whatever. So the kids are like fine with it when they go to the 328 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:38,160 dentist. I just hate that you're sitting there and they're going around in your 329 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:41,960 teeth and you're just waiting for it. You're just waiting for that hurt to 330 00:21:42,039 --> 00:21:45,160 happen, and that happens. Yeah, So you're just sitting there the whole 331 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:48,160 time, waiting, waiting, waiting, and then it happens. Yeah. 332 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:52,160 But it was funny because I, you know, I island Blake. They've 333 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:55,160 never been to the dentist yet, but I mean they brush their feets every 334 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:56,480 day, so they're very good about it, so they haven't really needed to. 335 00:21:57,160 --> 00:22:00,319 But you know, we were sitting there and I was like, I 336 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:03,400 think I was telling Amy or Mom was like, oh, I got to 337 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:04,920 go to the dentist today. And then they both looked at me and I 338 00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:07,799 went, I mean, I get to go to the dentist today. How 339 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:15,079 far Such a damn hilarious. That's funny trying to get them excited about it. 340 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:18,799 Yeah. The first time I ever took Elbe to the dentist, we 341 00:22:18,839 --> 00:22:22,680 went. We took her to our family dentist. So it was I guess 342 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:26,759 she was like in preschool and her one of her classmates, one of the 343 00:22:26,759 --> 00:22:32,240 preschool moms, was a dentist, so we started going to her right uh. 344 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:37,279 And so we brought Elbe and oh my god, she and it's not 345 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:40,839 even like we had I didn't bring any negative connotations to it. I was 346 00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:44,319 just like Yeah, it's time for baby's first dentist appointment, you know, 347 00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:48,200 bring her in there. Hell no, Well, well, because she had 348 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:49,759 anxiety and we didn't know it at the time, so I was just like, 349 00:22:51,519 --> 00:22:55,799 she would not open her mouth, crying, screaming, absolutely not. 350 00:22:56,039 --> 00:22:57,799 She just she wouldn't open her mouth. She was like so scared, and 351 00:22:57,839 --> 00:23:00,960 we, honestly we were like, what are you I don't even understand what 352 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:04,000 you're scared of. And you're gonna get a toy? Yeah, I open 353 00:23:04,079 --> 00:23:10,279 the treasure chest and pull out something from the dollar tree and like it's gonna 354 00:23:10,319 --> 00:23:12,920 be fine. It's she's not and that she was super nice. She was 355 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:17,079 just like, honey, I'm not even gonna I'm not gonna do anything. 356 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:21,279 I just want to look like you know, and she nope, would not 357 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,880 do it. Had to take her all the way back home, called my 358 00:23:25,039 --> 00:23:30,519 friend, my friend who's got the a gracie right, my friend with a 359 00:23:30,559 --> 00:23:33,880 single mom with a gracie called her, was like, what are you doing 360 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:37,799 for this? She's like, oh, I've got a pediatric I had to 361 00:23:37,799 --> 00:23:45,440 take her to the most default mom you got to close personally, like hi, 362 00:23:45,759 --> 00:23:48,240 there, little girl, puts your headphones on, You're gonna watch a 363 00:23:48,319 --> 00:23:53,400 movie and there's fish tanks everywhere, thanks toys everywhere, and it's like they 364 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,440 just they freaking trick them. They did. So they're just like close your 365 00:23:56,440 --> 00:24:00,759 eyes for a second and open your mouth for surprise. So we looked at 366 00:24:00,759 --> 00:24:03,440 your teeth, you know, and then I don't know, somehow that she 367 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:07,480 calmed her down and she yeah, And we went there for like a few 368 00:24:07,559 --> 00:24:11,039 years. Yeah, we did too. We went to the same place with 369 00:24:11,079 --> 00:24:15,279 the like fish tanks and stuff and toys, and they would look forward to 370 00:24:15,319 --> 00:24:17,680 it because so that they could get a toy which ends up at the bottom 371 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:21,359 of my car. They never take the toy out of the car. They're 372 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:25,920 done with it. But it's the same toys that they litter those goodie bags 373 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:29,559 with. It's the same stuff that you get from Oriental Trader or whatever that's 374 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:36,359 like you know a sling shot or mini slinky or finger track or you know 375 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:40,920 the rubber ball against the paddle right yeah thing, yeah, yeah, And 376 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:44,839 then they think they won the lottery or they're like, I get this toy 377 00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,960 and you're like yeah, and it ends up at the bottom of your car. 378 00:24:48,079 --> 00:24:52,759 Yeah, But so we still go because the way insurance works. I 379 00:24:52,759 --> 00:24:56,680 don't know if this is all over the country. It must because it's Obamacare. 380 00:24:56,000 --> 00:25:00,119 So when kids are minors, so we don't have dental insurance, we 381 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:04,160 already pay two thousand dollars a month and it doesn't include vision or dental, 382 00:25:04,599 --> 00:25:08,519 which sucks. But like dental insurance is like another three hundred dollars a month, 383 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:15,759 which for what like you know, so, but Obamacare, dent certain 384 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:22,400 dental stuff for minors is all covered. So their cleanings like simple cavity or 385 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:26,160 tooth extraction, like that's covered for them. So we went to another. 386 00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:30,359 We moved from that dentist because they are far but we're with still a pediatric 387 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:37,119 dentist that's like, how are you? Like sos, everything's still toys. 388 00:25:37,839 --> 00:25:41,759 Sadie and Xander still go there. But Elbe is now nineteen. As soon 389 00:25:41,759 --> 00:25:44,400 as she was over the age of eighteen, I called this place. I 390 00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:47,920 was like, hey, so like keep the continuity. I still want to 391 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:52,440 send Elbe to you, like for whatever tooth cleaning. Oh. It was 392 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:55,000 like they're like, oh yeah, that's click two hundred and fifty dollars. 393 00:25:55,319 --> 00:26:00,559 I was like what yeah, So now I'm going to send Elbe to my 394 00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:04,880 regular dentist who's like much less expensive. Right, that's how they get you, 395 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:08,079 though, It's how they get you. Yeah, you know, speaking 396 00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:11,319 of dentist, I don't know if if you see you have peacock Now, 397 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,079 yes, I do? You do? Yes? I do? Okay. 398 00:26:18,559 --> 00:26:25,119 Because they have this show about like old sitcoms or like I Love Lucy, 399 00:26:25,839 --> 00:26:30,279 like the story behind Gilligan's Island and blah blah blah. I was watching the 400 00:26:30,319 --> 00:26:33,839 one. I think it was Gilligan's Island. I had an old dentist. 401 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:38,240 This guy that was talking about that knew everything about Gilligan's Island, looked exactly 402 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:42,400 like my dentist. He was even wearing one of those Hawaiian shirts that Dennis 403 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,640 wear, and I was like, that is my I know that's my dentist, 404 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:49,160 but his name is something different because he wrote a book about Gilligan's Island. 405 00:26:49,759 --> 00:26:53,400 And my dentist is so quirky that I thought that it's gotta be him, 406 00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,839 and I googled it and it I can't. I found him, but 407 00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:00,440 it doesn't tell me if he but I swear to God, that is my 408 00:27:00,559 --> 00:27:04,720 dentist up there. It's weird, right, Maybe it is, maybe it 409 00:27:04,799 --> 00:27:08,319 is, but anyway. Yeah, but they have different names. Yeah, 410 00:27:08,319 --> 00:27:12,440 it's like Tony Parker or something like, you know, like like I'm thinking, 411 00:27:12,519 --> 00:27:15,200 is that his like maybe it's a pen name. Yeah, that's what 412 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:19,160 he wrote about Gilligan side. He's not going to use his dumb like he's 413 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:22,759 got like this normal, weird name, you know, ordinary name. I 414 00:27:22,799 --> 00:27:26,680 don't know. Maybe maybe, but I swear I swear it to him, 415 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:30,960 but I don't know. I don't know. You got to ask him. 416 00:27:30,079 --> 00:27:34,119 I got to ask him. Yeah, that's so funny. Yeah, so 417 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:40,519 what are you watching on well over the weekend? Like, so, I 418 00:27:40,559 --> 00:27:44,799 haven't watched season two of Winning Time by the way, Oh I know, 419 00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:48,759 wait have I Yeah you have liked it. Yeah, you guys were talking 420 00:27:48,759 --> 00:27:52,799 about it at the time. Yes, I loved Yeah. I was waiting 421 00:27:52,799 --> 00:27:56,920 for it to like pile up and then I completely forgot about it. And 422 00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:00,519 so then like last night, I was like, I'm just me and Sonny 423 00:28:00,559 --> 00:28:03,039 were home and I was like, do you want to watch something? And 424 00:28:03,079 --> 00:28:06,559 I want him to watch it. So he's like, i'll be in. 425 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:07,960 I'll be in in a little bit, you know. So I went to 426 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,480 the living room, I started watching it, and I was like, look, 427 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:12,880 it's Winning Time, like, look, that's that's pat Riley Like, 428 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,079 look, look, why don't you you know? And he's like watch and 429 00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:18,079 he's like yeah, yeah, okay. He's like, do you want to 430 00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:21,359 watch a movie? And I was like, like, can we want to 431 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,039 watch Winning Time? I've told him a million times about and he's like, 432 00:28:23,079 --> 00:28:26,880 I'm gonna watch it. He doesn't like TV shows right now because he feels 433 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,599 like he's got a finish whichever TV show he's watching, which is Game of 434 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,960 Thrones he's still been on for like a year now. He's trying to get 435 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:38,559 through it. So but he wanted to watch Flowers Uh Killers the Flower Moon, 436 00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:41,599 Killer of the Flower Moon. And it's like eight of four hours, 437 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:45,599 I know. So it's eight o'clock. I'm like, I got to get 438 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,839 up in the morning go to work, like no, and he's like come 439 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,200 on. I was like, no, let's find something. So then we 440 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:56,400 couldn't find something, so then we settled. I just watched Uncut Gem. 441 00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:59,599 By the way, have you guys seen that? I watched that like a 442 00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:03,160 couple of years ago. It's good, it's Adam se Yeah. I was 443 00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:07,160 like people were telling me, oh, you should watch it for a while 444 00:29:07,319 --> 00:29:08,240 and I was like, I was at the condo. I'm like, I 445 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:12,480 only watched this. I loved it very good. It's great. But that 446 00:29:12,559 --> 00:29:17,160 movie made me just so uncomfortable while I was watching it. Yeah, gives 447 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:18,319 you so much anxiety throughout the whole thing. Is like, oh, yeah, 448 00:29:18,319 --> 00:29:21,559 this is a great movie. I hate how it made me feel the 449 00:29:21,559 --> 00:29:25,319 whole time I was watching it. Yeah, that he's going to suck up 450 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:27,920 or make another stupid bet or something. Right, Yeah, I liked it. 451 00:29:29,039 --> 00:29:33,160 I watched I just watched the Robin Williams documentary, Oh, which was 452 00:29:33,279 --> 00:29:41,839 really good. Where is it? I mean, yeah, on Hbobo it 453 00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:45,480 was good, really good. I really really liked it. Yeah, but 454 00:29:45,559 --> 00:29:48,440 I was remembering I mean, I was a fan of Robin Williams, like 455 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:55,359 when I was little and watching Yeahdy or watching him. I was never into 456 00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:59,880 Mork and Mindy, but his albums, his comedy albums right which I now 457 00:30:00,119 --> 00:30:03,160 can't remember the names of, because I was thinking of Steve Martin, Let's 458 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:06,480 Get Small and Connedy Isn't Pretty. We talked about that, but Robin Williams 459 00:30:06,519 --> 00:30:11,599 was a big one I listened to over and over and over just watching just 460 00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:14,640 I just a lot of stuff about him that I didn't know. It just 461 00:30:14,799 --> 00:30:18,920 it made me think of it because Adam Sandler doing a serious role. Robin 462 00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:25,119 Williams, who was this you know, comedic genius but then was so good 463 00:30:25,119 --> 00:30:30,680 in his some really serious roles. Goodwill, Hunting, Awakening, Awakening, 464 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:37,960 such a good movie. I love that movie. Yeah, remember that movie. 465 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:41,799 Oh it's great. It's a really really good DeNiro in it. Yeah, 466 00:30:41,039 --> 00:30:44,519 deniros what the star. The two of them are stars of it. 467 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:48,680 Yeah, he plays like Oliver Sacks. I think when they came up with 468 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:55,240 a way to get Parkinson's or the Parkinson's patients that were like in a like 469 00:30:56,119 --> 00:31:00,759 lost they were like in their own world kind of, and he came up 470 00:31:00,799 --> 00:31:03,599 with anyway, It's like it's really good. It's really bad though it is 471 00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:07,799 sad. Yeah, I remember watching it a long time ago. But I 472 00:31:07,799 --> 00:31:11,240 think that would have been a good movie for Sonny and I to watch. 473 00:31:11,319 --> 00:31:14,160 Yeah, this is one of his favorite movies. Is One Flow Over the 474 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:17,599 Cuckoo's Nest. Oh he would love a way, now he would. He 475 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:22,480 loves de Niro. Yeah, yeah, great movie. Yeah, you know 476 00:31:22,599 --> 00:31:30,920 a movie that everybody loves that I tried to rewatch Silver Linings Playbook. I 477 00:31:30,599 --> 00:31:34,839 don't like that movie. I don't know why. I watched it the first 478 00:31:34,839 --> 00:31:38,680 when it first came out, and I don't know, I can't. Yeah, 479 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:41,680 it wasn't like whoa, that was great. I don't know it was. 480 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:45,000 It's like, just okay, didn't it win a bunch of Academy Awards? 481 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:49,000 Did? Yeah? And it propelled that director David O. Russell I 482 00:31:49,039 --> 00:31:52,000 think it is his name, And then every movie he made after that, 483 00:31:52,039 --> 00:31:56,119 I was like, I'm not really into these. I did like Silver Lying's 484 00:31:56,119 --> 00:31:59,039 Playbook a lot, but then he made like American Hustle I think he made 485 00:31:59,039 --> 00:32:00,359 after that, which I think you watched recently, Yeah, I did. 486 00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:05,039 And then he made another one with Jennifer Lawrence where she's like, I think 487 00:32:05,039 --> 00:32:09,079 she's like a single mom selling like a mop. Yeah that was something like 488 00:32:09,119 --> 00:32:13,319 that. That's a good movie, that Jennifer Lawrence movie. She plays. 489 00:32:13,359 --> 00:32:17,200 It's a true story the woman that developed the the specter, the swiffer. 490 00:32:17,359 --> 00:32:21,640 Yeah, the swiffer huh so, But yeah, I like that one. 491 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:27,359 But speaking of Bradley Cooper, he has his movie coming out this week on 492 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:30,720 Netflix called Maestro Oh, which I think is gonna be really good. He's 493 00:32:30,759 --> 00:32:34,839 been working on it for like six years. I heard him on Howard Stern 494 00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:37,799 talking about it. It's all right, I can, I can cut it 495 00:32:37,839 --> 00:32:42,680 out. I'm gonna watch that. Yeah, that's coming out on Netflix Wednesday. 496 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:44,920 I think that's gonna be really good. I think he's probably I think 497 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:49,759 he's probably gonna be favored to win the Academy Award for Best Actor Directing. 498 00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,640 I bet. Yeah. Yeah. So is that how it works now? 499 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,319 They movies can get their release on Netflix and still be up for well, 500 00:32:55,680 --> 00:33:00,079 they technically release it in the theater first, you know, like Maestro, 501 00:33:00,519 --> 00:33:06,039 Napoleon, Killers of the Flower Moon, they all get released in the theaters. 502 00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:08,839 Yeah, but then a little bit later, you know, I think 503 00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:12,880 Apple has the rights to Flowers of the Killer Moon and Napoleon, and then 504 00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,240 Netflix says the rights to Maestro, but they do, I think, have 505 00:33:15,279 --> 00:33:17,200 to release in the theater still, which I think it's I think it's in 506 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:20,880 the theater right now. But who's going to the theater to see it? 507 00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:25,559 Yeah? I know. Sarah Silverman's in it. Yep, wow, in 508 00:33:25,599 --> 00:33:31,119 Maestro. Yeah, she's a good actress. She is really serious part. 509 00:33:31,319 --> 00:33:35,400 Yeah, she's good. All right, Well, sorry, we had to 510 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:37,279 take a little break. There was a leaf blower that wouldn't shut the fuck 511 00:33:37,359 --> 00:33:42,359 up next door. It was very loud. It was like he was clearing 512 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,720 out the you know, I don't know, it wouldn't leave. It was 513 00:33:45,799 --> 00:33:50,559 just still in one spot. You can still kind of it sounded like he 514 00:33:50,599 --> 00:33:52,079 was in the room with us. Yeah, he got really at our feet. 515 00:33:52,279 --> 00:33:54,799 Yeah, you know, like if you're in a restaurant and they start 516 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:59,960 like vacuuming and they're like by your feet, right, or you're ever at 517 00:33:59,920 --> 00:34:07,920 the gym, are you and they're starting to see him like like like the 518 00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,760 floor, like right out of your seat. You're like, you can't wait 519 00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:13,519 until, like, I'm not gonna be here forever. I promise you that, 520 00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:19,760 right, Yeah, I okay, So I just got, like I 521 00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:24,480 said, not paars out peacock, peacock. And there's a lot of good 522 00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:30,199 stuff on there. But the reason I I really did pull the trigger was 523 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:35,679 because Cecily and I we started talking. We're covering over on Rose Pricks, 524 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,760 We're covering Beverly Hills Housewives. Yeah, this season of it, and which 525 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:45,199 is insane, and we have very different views on it than a lot of 526 00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:50,360 the world. Right now, but because so we also decided that for our 527 00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:53,119 bonus episodes, we were going to cover Ultimate Girls Trip, a new one. 528 00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:57,840 So I watched as much as there's a new season, there's a new 529 00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,280 one, seasons. It's all like it's leg see, it's all New York 530 00:35:00,639 --> 00:35:07,199 Housewives. It's really good. It started already, it started already. But 531 00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:13,760 you can you can get the first three episodes on Peacock. But I don't 532 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:15,840 think they're all out yet. I think only the first one's out for everybody 533 00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:21,559 else, for all the plebeians that don't you know, so what chance? 534 00:35:21,599 --> 00:35:25,679 So it's on Peacock. It's on Peacock only. Yes, okay, I 535 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:30,119 think it's on Bravo. The first episode I think is out on Bravo. 536 00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:34,400 But if you subscribe to Peacock, you can get the first three right now. 537 00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:37,119 Right. So then I went back. I was like, just I 538 00:35:37,159 --> 00:35:40,719 was. I had a cold all week, so I was like, well, 539 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:45,199 I'm gonna I'm going to go back now that I have this pie, 540 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:50,159 I'm gonna go back and watch season one of Ultimate Girls Trip, you know, 541 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,320 and like, oh my god, Brandy is out of her mind. 542 00:35:53,800 --> 00:36:00,039 Yes, Brandy is Brandy Glanville, who we had on our show a million 543 00:36:00,159 --> 00:36:05,199 years ago, because you went on her show, and I remember that I 544 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:08,280 used to talk a lot of shit about her, and our audience was just 545 00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:10,760 like, Oh, now you're gonna have her on your show. Now, 546 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:15,400 I wonder what Stephanie's gonna do, Like, is Stephanie gonna like call her 547 00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:16,920 out? And I'm like, of course, I was not gonna call her 548 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:21,679 out or come on. And I was like, oh my gosh, Brandy 549 00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:24,679 was such a big fan of yours, Like of course I wasn't like yeah 550 00:36:25,039 --> 00:36:30,760 what yeah, but she is ridiculous. Well, you know, it's funny 551 00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:34,800 that you brought that up because I forgot how much I love Big Brother. 552 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,960 So I went back and I was like, oh I should I haven't watched 553 00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:39,880 it in years, so I'm like, you know, she'd watch old episodes. 554 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:43,639 So then I was like, wait, there's a celebrity Big Brother. 555 00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:47,760 So I watched the first scenes and she's in it, and she drinks a 556 00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:52,840 lot, and they were making fun of like the point is is like, 557 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,079 they don't they give you a little bit of alcohol, they don't give you 558 00:36:55,159 --> 00:37:00,400 a ton of So she kept going can we like they were showing out takes 559 00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:02,559 and she kept talking to the camera, going, we need more alcohol, 560 00:37:02,679 --> 00:37:06,800 like other people are like I need a new razor. Can you somebody give 561 00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:08,719 me a new like nose hair clipper, you know, or I need a 562 00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:13,320 charger or whatever it was. She was constantly like, can we have more 563 00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,440 alcohol? Like more out? And she was drinking and she was just like 564 00:37:16,639 --> 00:37:20,960 calling people like she was They're sitting around drinking one night and she and you 565 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:23,199 know, Julie Chen is the host, right, and she'll go, I 566 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:28,440 dare does anybody have anything could somebody say something bad about Julie Chen? Like 567 00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:34,000 something like not not like you have nothing bad to say about Julie Chen. 568 00:37:34,159 --> 00:37:37,559 So she was more like who wants to say something bad about Julie Chen? 569 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:39,840 Like I'm gonna get you guys talking, you know. And then Julie Chen 570 00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:43,519 had to fucking, you know, confront her when she got kicked out, 571 00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:45,880 like do you have anything bad to say? And she's like, oh my 572 00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:49,800 god, I'm so sorry, Like I was drinking. Yeah, she would 573 00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:53,400 be drinking a lot and she's she is a lot and she still is. 574 00:37:53,559 --> 00:37:58,880 I think yeah, because this ultimately she is entertaining to watch. This girl's 575 00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,360 trip was just oh no, because that was the first season of it. 576 00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:06,039 So she's not on this latest season? Is she not on the latest season? 577 00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:10,159 No, she's on New York Okay, so she was on the season. 578 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:15,440 Derinda's on the latest season and she was also on she So isn't that 579 00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:19,920 the one Brandy was on the one with Derinda the Blue manor? Yeah? 580 00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:23,039 Yes, that's second season, isn't it. I get I guess you have 581 00:38:23,119 --> 00:38:28,039 to watch the first season. The first season was really good. I feel 582 00:38:28,079 --> 00:38:30,559 like maybe the first season had people that I don't didn't know. This season, 583 00:38:30,679 --> 00:38:35,440 I'm watching, Jill Zarin shows up. Yes yet, yeah, yeah, 584 00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,880 yeah, and it's yeah and Derinda. Oh so you haven't have you 585 00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:45,599 watched the whole thing yet? No? I think I'm on like episode two 586 00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:49,480 or I think I've watched like two or three episodes. Oh, I think 587 00:38:49,519 --> 00:38:53,480 it's only like six Episodesnda gets crazy. Yeah, Derinda is one of the 588 00:38:53,599 --> 00:39:00,320 worst alcoholics I've seen on Real Housewives. People make that claim about a lot 589 00:39:00,599 --> 00:39:05,920 of women on that show. But Derinda from the Beg from her first season 590 00:39:06,559 --> 00:39:12,039 is just the meanest drunk and it's these classic signs of alcoholism where you know 591 00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:16,559 her personality starts changing right after like two drinks, you start noticing the slurring 592 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:22,599 and the meanness. She's just so mean. She has a different personality. 593 00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:27,760 Like some people say that when you have it like that, your true personality 594 00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:30,360 comes out. I don't know if that's true, because I would even say 595 00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:36,000 for myself, like I was a pretty fun drunk, Like I would get 596 00:39:36,119 --> 00:39:39,000 in cry sometimes or get upset or like get in fights with John when I 597 00:39:39,119 --> 00:39:44,079 was drinking because I would think things are upsetting me, that I was probably 598 00:39:44,119 --> 00:39:50,119 being over sensitive, right, but I would I'm not like, like I 599 00:39:50,159 --> 00:39:53,320 don't become a different person like a monster. Like oh, like Derinda just 600 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:58,639 goes crazy, like goes off on people and will not stop, like we'll 601 00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:00,159 just hammer it you and hammer it you, hammer at you. Yeah, 602 00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:06,360 Like that scene from I think it was her first season she got so mad 603 00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:10,800 at Heather. Remember Heather hey, mamah yeah yeah Heather of yummy Yeah, 604 00:40:12,039 --> 00:40:15,519 yes, yummy tummy or whatever, yeah, which I don't like that one. 605 00:40:15,639 --> 00:40:19,800 What was her thing? Her tagline was like, uh, hey, 606 00:40:20,639 --> 00:40:22,000 I don't know, I don't remember, but she thought she was like really 607 00:40:22,079 --> 00:40:25,000 in with the black community. You remember, because she worked with like P 608 00:40:25,199 --> 00:40:28,920 Diddy, right, and she was always like yeah, well Diddy said or 609 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:30,519 whatever, and people did not like her, but I kind of liked her 610 00:40:30,599 --> 00:40:35,800 because I just thought she was you know, I thought thought she was like 611 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:37,679 a little bit more down to earth than the other ones. Yeah she would. 612 00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:42,719 So then Derinda got really mad at Heather because she said that, because 613 00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:47,079 she was like, you said the F bomb, Like that's so not classy, 614 00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:51,800 that's whole class And Heather was like what, like she up or whatever 615 00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,199 she was like. And then eventually Derinda was at this big dinner and she 616 00:40:54,360 --> 00:41:00,760 just got so drunk and then she was finally then Derinda was like fucky and 617 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:06,159 then and then they went from one restaurant to like another restaurant, and Derinda 618 00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,320 was like, Heather, you didn't wait for me, you were walking ahead 619 00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:15,440 of me. Remember it was like crazy gaslighting, ridiculousness. So I had 620 00:41:15,559 --> 00:41:21,239 Derinda's number from like the Jump. Yeah, she's done nothing but get worse. 621 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,400 Yeah, I know. And then she became just a like not on 622 00:41:24,519 --> 00:41:28,400 the show, but now she's on Ultimate Girls Trip, you know, right, 623 00:41:28,519 --> 00:41:32,400 So they took her off the main show for her drinking problem, and 624 00:41:32,559 --> 00:41:37,719 she is in denial that that's why she lost her job. Like all of 625 00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:40,639 those women drink so much, like you have to be pretty bad for you 626 00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:45,000 to be the one that's fired for drinking too much, right considering I mean 627 00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:52,400 even Sonia, Sonia, I know Sonia's like lovable drunk right right, right 628 00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:55,800 right? Okay, you know we should talk about before we go talk you 629 00:41:55,800 --> 00:42:01,400 about Clints. 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You know 638 00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:42,000 what I love is how many colored choices they have for almost all their items 639 00:42:42,079 --> 00:42:45,440 are available ons of colors, pretty colors. Yes, yeah, so you 640 00:42:45,519 --> 00:42:50,320 know they they cut the factories out and they were, you know, cut 641 00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,960 all the high cost so that they can bring you these beautiful luxury items for 642 00:42:53,119 --> 00:42:59,440 affordable prices. So you can get high quality essentials at affordable prices for the 643 00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,280 whole family at Quints. Go to quints dot com slash f c o L 644 00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:07,840 for free shipping and three one hundred and sixty five day returns on your orders. 645 00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:12,039 That's q U I n CE dot com slash f c o L and 646 00:43:12,159 --> 00:43:15,000 get free shipping and three hundred and sixty five day returns. That's quints dot 647 00:43:15,079 --> 00:43:22,960 com slash f c o L. So what else were we want talking about 648 00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:28,920 stuff to watch? But yeah, you were talking about synanon the Cut and 649 00:43:29,039 --> 00:43:32,960 that's now on Paramount because now Showtime is going away and it's becoming Paramount. 650 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,639 So I had the Showtime app. You can't go on Showtime now, you 651 00:43:37,679 --> 00:43:40,800 gotta have Paramount the fuck. So then I got Paramount and then I see 652 00:43:42,039 --> 00:43:45,519 the Cult the Living In with synanon Oh, I was like, that's what's 653 00:43:45,559 --> 00:43:47,320 that. I thought it was gonna be on Peacock, but it's not. 654 00:43:47,519 --> 00:43:52,159 It's on Paramount, so I still can't watch it. No, I forgot 655 00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:57,039 that. I have a little story for you, okay that I could have 656 00:43:57,159 --> 00:44:00,760 talked about on Patreon, but we didn't. Okay, we gave a little 657 00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:02,519 update about your life, yep, and I think that's for the best. 658 00:44:04,079 --> 00:44:08,199 But now, hold on, have you heard of this Okay, Skinny, 659 00:44:08,559 --> 00:44:13,159 have you heard of this show, The Skinny Confidential Skinny con I think I 660 00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:19,960 have. Okay, this is just this is annoying more than anything else. 661 00:44:20,639 --> 00:44:25,400 Okay, hold on, Okay, hold on, Caylin. We might have 662 00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:30,239 to pause for a minute. But okay, actually I have it queued up. 663 00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:35,840 We don't even need to pause. So one of our listeners sent me 664 00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:40,840 this. This told me, Hey, Elizabeth Vargas mentioned you and your books 665 00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:45,559 on this podcast, The Skinny Confidential. So I was like, oh, 666 00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:52,320 now, let me just give you a little context here, Solizabeth Elizabeth Fargas. 667 00:44:52,639 --> 00:44:55,599 I was interviewed by her when I was like nine months sober. This 668 00:44:55,800 --> 00:45:00,960 was a long time ago for twenty twenty an episode of twenty twenty right, 669 00:45:01,519 --> 00:45:08,840 and it was a I It was a very good experience. She was so 670 00:45:09,119 --> 00:45:15,039 nice. But what really stood out to me during this interview, and I've 671 00:45:15,079 --> 00:45:19,559 talked about this before, but she was very interested in the topic and she 672 00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:23,880 her producer, this woman named Shanna, who was so so nice, had 673 00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:28,719 called me, and I was already like a little bit over doing TV stuff 674 00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,920 about sobriety because I didn't feel like I just felt like all I have is 675 00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:36,800 my experience to talk about. It's like I don't I can't teach anybody about 676 00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:40,000 like you know, It's like I'm a fuck up and I'm willing to share 677 00:45:40,079 --> 00:45:45,280 my story, but I don't want to be an expert about it in any 678 00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:49,679 way. So but she was like, listen, Elizabeth really wants to do 679 00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:54,079 a story about like moms and drinking and like the whole wine culture, and 680 00:45:54,119 --> 00:45:58,719 she's going to actually talk to some moms who are like currently struggling, and 681 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:01,079 she wants you to be somebody to you know, just talk about your experience. 682 00:46:01,119 --> 00:46:05,199 And also Mary, the author, Mary Carr, is going to be 683 00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:07,000 on the show. So I was like, oh, that sounds like pretty 684 00:46:07,039 --> 00:46:10,440 cool. So I went and went to New York and she was so nice 685 00:46:12,039 --> 00:46:17,119 and very interested in the story, had a lot of respect for her. 686 00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,559 Cut to like, I don't know when it was. It might have been 687 00:46:22,599 --> 00:46:24,760 a year later, it might have been two years later, but Elizabeth Vargas 688 00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:29,719 came out as an alcoholic, as having a drinking problem, and my heart 689 00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:32,079 went out to her. I was like, oh my gosh, no wonder. 690 00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:35,840 She was so like into this story and so interested, you know, 691 00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:38,960 you know, like if you are thinking I might have a problem with alcohol, 692 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:43,360 but if you're not telling anybody, what do you do? Google about 693 00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:45,760 it? Like want to you know, eat soak up any stories about like 694 00:46:46,119 --> 00:46:50,280 moms and drinking whatever. So I got it, and I was like, 695 00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:53,519 I contacted the producer and I said, hey, I'd love to like get 696 00:46:53,519 --> 00:46:58,840 a message to her of support, you know, and the producers like absolutely, 697 00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:01,599 like, you know, send me, email me and send it to 698 00:47:01,679 --> 00:47:06,159 me and I'll pass it along to her. So I wrote this like very 699 00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:14,599 heartfelt, long email about how like how brave she is and like it's so 700 00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:19,679 hard. And I also i'd heard, and I'm not telling tales out of 701 00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:23,519 school, but I'd heard that like what had happened with her is that she 702 00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:27,679 was like drunk on the job, you know, and they she got sent 703 00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:32,199 to treatment, and I, like, I said, I felt really bad. 704 00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:37,119 I understood how she felt, but like I did come to find out 705 00:47:37,159 --> 00:47:40,400 that a lot of people had been pretty worried about her for like a while. 706 00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:45,599 Anyway, she never responded to the email and that's fine. I was 707 00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:50,440 like, okay, Like now, I talked to her for a long time 708 00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,159 when I met her, and I talked to her before the interview and after 709 00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:57,559 the interview, like I felt like we'd it's not like we were friends, 710 00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:00,280 like Steven, I thought we were friends, right, you know. And 711 00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:06,559 then I did find out later and I kind of was irritated about it, 712 00:48:06,599 --> 00:48:08,760 but in a funny way. But I found out that afterwards she went out 713 00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:13,800 to lunch with the other author who was on the show, Mary Carr, 714 00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:15,320 who was like, was a much bigger name than me. But I was 715 00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:20,400 like, you kind of all three gone out, I know, like, 716 00:48:20,599 --> 00:48:22,559 how did I get hurt? Yeah? I flew to New York for this 717 00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:30,800 too, you know. Anyway, so then she wrote a book about her 718 00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:37,000 about sobriety. Anyway, in my book, I wrote a whole chapter about 719 00:48:37,639 --> 00:48:42,159 that bitch, Katie Coreic and how she like kind of fucked me on the 720 00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:45,840 interview I had with her. And I also talked all about my beautiful interview 721 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:51,000 with Elizabeth Vargas and how kind she was and how brave she is, and 722 00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:54,840 I name checked her book and I gave some of her credits. So now 723 00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:58,760 do you have to clear it with these people that you brought. No, 724 00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:02,639 I guess not at either talking about Katie Couric or Elizabeth you don't have I 725 00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:07,639 didn't really. I mean I'm telling you that I that I had a really 726 00:49:07,679 --> 00:49:13,079 bad experience on Katie Couric. I toned it way down for the book. 727 00:49:13,119 --> 00:49:17,000 The book, I didn't say anything that would I mean, I did wonder 728 00:49:17,159 --> 00:49:21,360 if they were gonna Here's the thing when you write about people in a book, 729 00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:23,360 if you're telling the truth, you can write whatever you want to. 730 00:49:24,199 --> 00:49:28,679 What I was writing my experience, the experience I had with Katie Cork, 731 00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:32,280 right, Okay, I wasn't writing it in a like I'm gonna get Katie 732 00:49:32,519 --> 00:49:37,559 or who cares, nobody's gonna It's not an expose and Katie Kork, but 733 00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:43,559 I told a story about her and I actually said that I am actually kind 734 00:49:43,599 --> 00:49:46,880 of grateful to her in the end because it doesn't read the book. But 735 00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:52,519 anyway, but I said all this nice stuff about Elizabeth Vargus. So I 736 00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:57,000 contacted the old producer and I was like, hey, like, is there 737 00:49:57,039 --> 00:50:00,480 any way I could get the book to Elizabeth Vargas to possible give me a 738 00:50:00,559 --> 00:50:04,719 blurb like she's written her own book about sobriety, like right, like sister's 739 00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:09,360 help insist us. Yes, right, I'm not thinking she's not Madonna's like 740 00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:14,679 she's a journalist. Like I didn't know why she would be that hard to 741 00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:19,559 get a blurb from, right, But the producer was like, sure, 742 00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:24,079 absolutely sent. And I sent the producer the book, the chapter first, 743 00:50:24,199 --> 00:50:28,599 and she was like, oh that's so nice. Yes, absolutely, send 744 00:50:28,639 --> 00:50:35,440 a book and include a personal note for Elizabeth. So I I wrote a 745 00:50:35,599 --> 00:50:37,440 letter, like a little letter and like thank you for reading this, and 746 00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:42,519 like there I spoke about you nicely and the blah blah blah, and you 747 00:50:42,599 --> 00:50:46,559 know whatever, put it in the book. Took it myself, like sent 748 00:50:46,639 --> 00:50:50,440 it, you know, fedexed it to her to her office. Then I 749 00:50:50,639 --> 00:50:53,880 followed up a little later because I didn't hear anything. I followed up with 750 00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:57,719 the producer and she was like, oh, you know what, send me 751 00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:00,719 a copy as well, and I'm going to walk it over there too. 752 00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:06,320 So I do it. She's like yeah, I made sure she definitely got 753 00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:09,719 it, and I'm like, thank you. So never ever heard anything about 754 00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:15,519 it, right, right, never heard anything about it again. But she 755 00:51:15,679 --> 00:51:22,679 does mention me on this skinny confidentially, here we go, doctor that they 756 00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:28,599 have like wine night and like then it starts later on to become a problem. 757 00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:30,760 So oh yeah, the woman, the woman who wrote the book Sippy 758 00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:35,679 Cups Are for sartin Ay and Nap Time is the New Happy Hour later had 759 00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:38,360 to quit drinking. And because she admitted she too was an alcoholic, she 760 00:51:38,559 --> 00:51:42,079 just wrote a brand new book in fact, and sent it to me to 761 00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:45,480 read or maybe to give a blurb or something. I haven't read it yet, 762 00:51:45,599 --> 00:51:52,639 but it is a very common like fuck off, Elizabeth Fargas, Like 763 00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:58,599 what was that was literally like nine months ago? Like you? Yeah? 764 00:51:59,639 --> 00:52:00,920 That? And first of all, that's not the name of the book. 765 00:52:01,199 --> 00:52:05,840 It's called it's not called sippy Cups or for Chardenay. It's called sippy Cups 766 00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:09,599 Are not for which. Now I don't want to sound totally ungrateful. Now 767 00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:14,679 I actually missed. She didn't know my name, Okay, so she doesn't 768 00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:16,440 mention me by name. She just it's like it's coming to her, like, 769 00:52:16,559 --> 00:52:21,360 yeah, that woman that wrote these books about alcoholism and she came out 770 00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:24,039 as an alcoholic. Yeah, I guess she wrote. She even wrote another 771 00:52:24,159 --> 00:52:27,239 book. I don't know. She sent it to me, I haven't read 772 00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:30,000 it, right, It's like, wow, I have you obviously didn't even 773 00:52:30,079 --> 00:52:34,559 read the note that I gave you inside of it, Like and I listen, 774 00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:38,480 that sucks. I understand that she's crazy busy. I really do. 775 00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:43,360 She's a she is an award winning journalist. I get it. But like 776 00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:46,960 you got time, you're doing a podcast. I know she's done several like 777 00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:52,440 podcasts and guests on podcasts, but like, ill, come on, man, 778 00:52:53,599 --> 00:52:58,159 disrespectful, right, very disrespectful. I would have hated that if that 779 00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:01,320 if I were you, when I first act like, I was like, 780 00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:06,159 oh she mentioned me, Like yeah, I mean she doesn't mention your name, 781 00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:07,639 she doesn't say my name, she gets the name of the book wrong. 782 00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:10,360 And then she like, I don't know she sent it to me for 783 00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:15,079 a blurb, Like like I'm begging for her to help me. Now I 784 00:53:15,119 --> 00:53:17,360 didn't even read it. That was nine months ago. On that ship has 785 00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:21,800 sailed. The book is coming out with no blurb from Elizabeth Vargrass, which 786 00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:24,000 is fine, she doesn't owe me a blurb, right, But I will 787 00:53:24,079 --> 00:53:29,960 say that, like almost anyone who's ever sent me a book for a blurb, 788 00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:34,199 I can't say that I've always read their books. But I have always 789 00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:37,159 been like, if it's something that seems up my alley, I'm like, 790 00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:38,760 yeah, it tell me what the book is about, or I'll read like 791 00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:44,880 a pages like you know, I feel that I'm generous in that way and 792 00:53:45,039 --> 00:53:47,440 not everybody has to be. But like, come on, I know, 793 00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:52,599 but you didn't even say the title of my book, correct, I know, 794 00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:57,599 and get that like the author's name, like yeah, she just or 795 00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:00,480 saying about I'm going to read it. Hey, if you're listening, I 796 00:54:00,599 --> 00:54:04,079 will read your book at some point, like just say, why are you 797 00:54:04,199 --> 00:54:07,599 being like dismissive about it? I know, so you don't think I'm being 798 00:54:07,679 --> 00:54:10,960 like overly sensitive. I know I would thought it would be rude too. 799 00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:16,599 It's totally rude. It sucks. That sucks. I feel bad. You 800 00:54:16,639 --> 00:54:20,719 don't need her anyway, I know, but I'm like, all right, 801 00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:23,000 at least she said I have a new book coming out. Maybe, but 802 00:54:23,079 --> 00:54:27,000 are actually fans will be like, oh thanks for the heads up, right 803 00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:34,159 right, So thank you Elizabeth for nothing. God, Well, anybody everybody 804 00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:37,840 can go pre order the book now, go get go pre order it if 805 00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:40,360 you want to. You know, maybe you could pre order it for somebody 806 00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:45,000 for their Christmas game would be great, right, and they just show them 807 00:54:45,039 --> 00:54:49,360 that you pre ordered it. Yes, and it's gonna be Christmas yea, 808 00:54:50,159 --> 00:54:53,880 yeah, do it? Okay, before we totally go, we got Christine 809 00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:59,679 Black. She's from Storybook World Travel. Even if you're a travel making a 810 00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:02,119 plan for a trip that's coming up soon, you know, why not halten 811 00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:07,920 her. She it's free. 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