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I'll start off by saying, this
has been a really unusual, busy,

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scrambly kind of a day here on
the radio show, which we're just wrapping

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up. But because it is this
thing called Access Day, and this was

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a big thing for the company and
it's actually pretty cool, but we had

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to get it just right. We
have to sell just the right things the

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right way, the right number of
times and get people to go to the

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website because it's a big sales initiative
and we're a sales company. We have

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a product, but if we don't
sell that product, our product is what's

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on the radio. But if we
don't sell that product two advertisers, then

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we're not doing our job. So
we had to make a big deal out

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of it. And Jenny has been
scrambling and running and checking emails constantly and

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it has been a busy, but
I wouldn't say totally unenjoyable day. It

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was kind of fun to have something
different to challenge us, wouldn't you think?

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So? Oh? I agree,
I agree. I just there were

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so many emails that came in and
the last week that last night is just

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checking all of the stuff because I
build like prep things for the show either

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the day before in the morning,
and so last night I was going through

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all these emails making sure I had
the most updated stuff because things have changed

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in the last few days. But
yeah, it was just a lot,

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a lot of information to be able
to get this right. Well, you

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give me an idea, but let's
maybe talk about something that we've probably not

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talked about much. And that is
how we prepare for the show every day.

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So this is the way it works. Ideas. Sometimes you get them

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from a brainstorm. Sometimes ideas pop
into my head like boom, or you

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get ideas too, or falling get
ideas too. I'm responsible for ninety percent

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of the ideas because it's my job, because that's what I'm supposed to do.

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Dave, come up with ideas.
So that's what was the one that

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I gave you yesterday. I gave
you a couple of ideas and maybe we

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don't want to talk about them,
so we will surprise you. But we

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talked about it. We're like,
that's fucked up, Dave, that is

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a fucked up idea. But Drake
laugh at his ass off. Do you

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remember what it was? I don't
want to say it. I can't.

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I can say it it involves fake
like planting something somewhere. Yes, So

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anyway, so we come up with
ideas and I'll either say, Jenny,

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here's an idea, write this down
before I forget it. Because I come

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up with ideas and I don't record
them into my Apple Watch. I've got

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a bunch of ideas on my Apple
Watching, a little microphone function on there,

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and then I'll write it down,
or I'll say, Jenny, write

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this down. And sometimes we'll throw
out on an idea and we'll kind of

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hash through it and we'll go that's
never gonna work. Sorry, you can

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delete that one. Or other times
this happens a lot fallon and I will

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come up with an idea like yeah, I guess what We're going to light

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farts on fire tomorrow, and Jenny
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I don't know if you're serious or
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guys are kidding, And sometimes we
are kidding, and sometimes we're like,

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no, it actually could work.
Yeah, there was. It's pointless for

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me to even say it, but
there was one recently in that I was

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like, are we being serious?
And you were like, well, I

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wasn't at first, but Fallen laugh. So now I think we do consider

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it, but I don't remember what
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we'll come up the ideas, and
then after ten o'clock, when we kind

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of get everything done, we run
and get a snack, or we get

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a salad or whatever. Downstairs there's
a deli, and we'll come back in

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at ten o'clock or ten after whatever, and then we'll start going, Okay,

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it's a very informal brainstorming idea session, and Jenny will say like,

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okay, Tomorrow we've got no phone
screen or Friday, we're gonna have Nerdy

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On. He's gonna be here from
eight until late thirty. We need Susan

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Collin and tell us about her whatever, blah blah blah. But we still

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need something big for seven o'clock.
And then that's when Fallon and I usually

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do things like, yeah, we're
gonna we're actually gonna murder Drake at seven

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o'clock tomorrow morning, and then Jenny'll
be like, you guys, seriously what

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or Jenny will start in and go, okay, can I'm order him?

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Can I have the first shot?
Whatever? And so we kind of fuck

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around a little bit and then we
get a little bit more serious and say,

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well, here's something we shouldn't talk
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like like yesterday during brainstorming, today's
the first day of Pride month,

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and I said, you know what, Drake, you should do something about

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how to come out, tips on
how to come out that might work for

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you, and then tips if your
kid comes out to you, how to

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handle it the dues and don't And
so we wrote that down and then we

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have this. It's basically a grid
with all these different blank spots in it,

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and there's a couple of big spots
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the seven o'clock spot is always a
big one because that's a time when a

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lot of people get out of bed, their alarm goes off at seven o'clock,

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they turn the radio on. Hopefully
we want them to hear something pretty

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substantial and then you know, so
anyway, so we plan the show.

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We leave here. What time we
leave it always varies for everyone, but

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it can be anywhere from like eleven
thirty to like one pm. Sometimes not

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usually not, but I was there
one on Tuesday, but it was because

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of helping out with stuff, because
people aren't vacation, okay, right,

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and then we go home and we
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day free, but we're still kind
of like we're doing social media and we're

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thinking of ideas and if something comes
to you while you're out on a run,

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you will you write it down or
remember it or whatever. And then

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later in the day, by five
six seven, we all check in on

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an app and say, here's what
I did today, or Hey, just

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thought of something. We got to
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Or I went and saw a movie
tonight and it's so good, we

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got to talk about it tomorrow.
And then the rest of our show prep

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is basically go to sleep and have
a life and go to sleep. Yeah,

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because I always tell people, because
I coach radio shows, I say,

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you gotta have a life. You
gotta go do something. You can't

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come into work every day and say
I watched a lot of Netflix. I

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mean, that's funny once in a
while, But if every day you do

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the same thing, you're not going
to be that interesting. And I think

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one of the life's lessons is that
goes for anything. If you're a stockbroker,

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if you're a firefighter, or a
nurse. Every day. You're going

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to do something. Not every day, but you got to do some different

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things once in a while, or
you just become boring and predictable. I

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agree. That's why I play in
a kickball league, and I like to

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talk about my kickball league all the
time, even though you guys don't like

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to always listen. But let me
tell you, I switched positions from being

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shortstopped and nobody cares. Nobody cares. You probably play like a beast.

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You're probably like the people on my
daughter's volleyball team who were just beasts.

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And I don't mean the way they
were built. I mean the way they

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played. Just aggressive. Just it's
kickball, Jenny, you're taking it too

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seriously. All right, let's get
on the email and see what we have

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going on here. I will say
that the emails are kind of a scramble,

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but let's see what we got.
When you guys talked about having dreams

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that become coincidences, I thought,
finally I've got something to write in about.

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For as long as I can remember, I have always had crazy intuition

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and felt like my dreams were letting
me in on little secrets. I won't

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bore you with examples, but one
time in particular sticks out. My best

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friend of twenty years got married a
few years ago and moved three hours away

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from her hometown. One night,
I had a dream that something was very

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wrong with her, but no matter
what I did, I could not go

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get her in the dream. I
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I felt such sadness. I was
scared. I could not shake the feeling

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for the entire day, and I
had a pit in my stomach. The

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next night, her dad had a
massive heart attack and passed away. I

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can't explain it, but I just
know I was being prepared for the moment

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the phone call came. It was
such a shock at twenty five to experience

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your friend losing a parent, but
it really opened my eyes to how short

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life can be. Anyway, love
the show and everything you guys do.

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Thank you. That is from Kendra. I'm sorry that you know. I

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was really worried. You're gonna say
your friend died. Yeah, and I'm

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not saying I'm relieved it was her
dad, but I was definitely happy that

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it was not her. Okay,
Dave and team, I've been on worst

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date Wednesday. I've also had many
encounters with Dave throughout the years. I

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don't know if this is taboo enough
for group therapy, but I'm gonna pickle

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my best friend of eight years.
This is from a guy, by the

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way, is in love with our
mutual female best friend. She friend zoned

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him way back in the past because
he wasn't her type. When she was

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going with her through a breakup with
her X, I was there for her

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and recently went through a breakup of
my own. Her and I actually connected

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and entertained the idea of dating.
Everybody is pushing for her to go for

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it, and I really want to
as well, but the best friend is

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the reason why we aren't. So
it's kind of like a love triangle.

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Is this is a situation we just
let go or do we talk to him

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about it? Neither of us to
lose him as a best friend. I

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know I couldn't handle it. Oh
my god. It's definitely not taboo.

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It's very interesting. I bet there's
a lot of love triangles where you both

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like somebody. I think sometimes the
problem is that somebody doesn't like either of

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you back. But in this case, it sounds like she likes you back,

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not your friend. I think one
thing that I've learned in life is

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if you are in love, pursue
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the other person is willing to help
you pursue it, don't pass up on

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that. But also make sure it
really is a strong love, not just

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a lust, not just I want
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thing. That's probably not worth it
losing a friendship over. But if you

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feel a real bond, like you
can see yourself going on vacation with this

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person and you know, maybe one
day getting older, retiring with this person.

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If you can see that, then
that's love worth pursuing. But if

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it's just like, yeah, you
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they look like naked, well that's
not worth losing a friendship. What do

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you think? No? I agree. I mean they always say that it's

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best to have good friends that have
different taste in men. Well, like

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in my situation, because I did
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her and I always like the same
guy, and she was hotter than me,

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and so the guy than you.
She the guys definitely went for her

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more than me, and I was
used to it, so it never like

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really hurt me. But what would
hurt me is if I like didn't get

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invited somewhere because they were like,
well, we don't want Jenny to come

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because so and so is going to
be there, and I want to be

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able to flirt with him and not
have her there since she has a crush

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on him too. And so it's
like like Tina and I web girl Tina

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that used to work here. We
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we are, but also we have
completely different taste than men, like neither

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like what she found attractive was not
something I did, and vice versa,

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and so that was always like great
in our friendship. No, that's good.

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So you're not both like hitting on
the same guy. It's like,

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well I saw him first. Next
one says, good morning, Dave.

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My boyfriend and I were having dinner
at my parents house tonight and afterwards,

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my mom surprised us with a dessert, t Rex Cookies fresh from the oven.

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My mom informed me that they sell
four pack of frozen t Rex cookies

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at cub for ten bucks. Thought
you might like to know, so you

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can have your favorite cookies whenever you
want. As I'm writing this email,

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I remember you trying to get fit
ha ha, So I apologize if this

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is unwelcome information. L O L. As a side note, my brother

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calls the indns and waffles flavor holes. I thought you'd get a good laugh

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from that. That is a good
point, because I mean they do they

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add the flavor because if you get
it airs it, it ariates your waffles

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and therefore adds flavor to it.
With love from Joyce. And Joyce actually

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points out I'm not an old lady
because Joyce's tends to be an older woman's

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name is Dave, an older guy's
name. It kind of is. My

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girlfriend is engaged to a Dave.
He goes by David too, but it's

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both. And I mean, there's
Dave Fallon's brother in law, but I

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guess that's Dave. I don't know
if his full name is Davy or if

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it's Dave, but I don't really
I think Dave is kind of still universal.

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Okay, somebody wrote in and the
subject line is mental strength, but

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it hooks me to a next door
page and I don't remember my next door

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sign in. So if you are
Dan and you wrote in about mental strength,

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screenshot of whatever you're trying to say, send a screenshot, because I

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am not I don't know my next
door log in, so I'm going to

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delete that one, Dan, but
I'm gonna encourage you to send a screenshot.

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Nixt Wan, please don't say my
name. I thought the conversation of

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intuition on the Minnesota Goodbye was interesting
and I wish there were more stories that

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you had or people can contribute.
Although I've never had this sixth sense,

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my cousin has a wild recent story. My grandpa passed away a year ago

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unexpectedly early in the morning. My
cousin, who was very close with my

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grandpa, actually had a dream that
same night that he was riding a motorcycle

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with my grandpa. He was trying
to tell my grandpa something important. Actually,

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he was trying to tell him that
his wife was pregnant and they were

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going to name the baby after him, but my grandpa couldn't hear him.

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Then they crashed and he never had
a chance to tell him. My cousin

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was woken up from the dream to
a phone call saying Grandpa passed away.

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His response was, just I know, gives me the chills to think about

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it, But I really do think
my grandpa had somehow weaseled his way into

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my cousin's dream immediately after passing,
clearly the favorite grandchild. Smiley face.

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I am absolutely obsessed with the show
and I cannot get enough thanks for being

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with me on Thanks for being with
me on all my boozy summer night walks.

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Ha. Wow, that is I've
heard of stories like that where you

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just get a feeling, or you
get a chill, or you get something

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and then the phone rings or something
like that. That has never happened with

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me. I've never had any kind
of experience like that. You ever get

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the thing? You get this once
in a while where a friend will call

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and say, hey, are you
okay? Or text and say you okay?

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Yeah, Why I had a dream
you died last night. Have you

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ever gotten that before? No?
I haven't, but I've I've texted a

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friend or two that before because I
have had like bad dreams like that.

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I had one really bad one a
few weeks ago. Okay, that was

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about Andrew dying, honestly, and
I woke up and I was like having

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an anxiety attack because it felt so
real and I didn't want to like talk

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to him until like later that day. I didn't want to like spook him

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or like bring that to fright right, But I did eventually tell him because

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I woke up so upset and I
was like almost in tears because I dreamt

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of that because it can seem so
real, and it's like, are you

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okay? All right? That's going
to wrap it up for the Minnesota goodbye.

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