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Day. There's a great opportunity right
there thinking about Valentine's Day and manner of

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speaking, which is more than roses. It's romance? Is it romance and

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roses? The romance of your relationship? How do you keep it alive?

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You pay attention to the other part, the partner in your relationship? Right

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what drives you to be passionate for
that person? You have passion in your

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life at all? Are you embracing
something or someone? When you wake up

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in the morning, do you think
about love? Do you think about romance?

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Do you think about where you you
know, what your roots are?

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Did your mother and father demonstrate to
you of anything about romance? And it's

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really it's kind of a pure It's
the purest of all motivations. Is love?

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Is it not? And this is
a celebration of love. Hasn't always

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been that way? There was you
know what? We have boxes of chocolates

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and lots of flowers and roses and
stuff. This was originally known as Saint

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Valentine's Day, and this goes back
to ancient Rome the Christian faith. As

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usual, the Christians, the leaders
of the Christian Church, grabbed all the

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pagan holidays, and so you know
that it was a religious holiday to begin

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with, about Saint Valentine, who
was a Roman saint martyred after helping couples

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get married in secret, defying the
Emperor of Rome. So that's where it

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came from. Kind of started is
anything but love. This guy was a

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martyr, he was imprisoned, he
was put to death, he became a

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saint. And so from that point, the fact that he was responsible for

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marrying people that the church didn't want
to see married, It's like today,

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how long when was it first okay
in the Catholic Church to be married if

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you were gay? How long ago
was that? It was? Not that?

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Oh that's a good question. Not
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new, Yeah, twenty fifth.
It hasn't been long. Yeah, hasn't

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been long at all. So anyway, I guess that I want to hope

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tomorrow will be all about passion and
how it'll be about encouragement for a romance,

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no matter what the relationship is.
Yeah, it sort of began as

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man and wife, women and men, but then it has become a whole

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different mix. And you know what, if you have love for somebody else

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and you want to be with this
person, what could be wrong with that?

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It may not be your cup of
tea, but if it's somebody else's

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cup of tea and it makes them
happy and they create good because finding good

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is something that's difficult. Life's too
short to be wasting time making judgments about

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people. In my mind anyway,
in my world, just yeah, no,

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let's make this as good and strong
and loving as we can. That's

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the whole deal here. I was
kind of concerned. There was an American

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woman who was killed in a drug
dispute in Mexico at a beach resort.

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My daughter had gone to Mexico to
spend the weekend with three of her college

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friends. Hadn't done They hadn't been
together for a long long time, and

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it was her birthday and they wanted
to celebrate it with her. So it

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was there a treat for her to
come and join them. I don't know

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what the resort was but it's not
this one. The way this American woman

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was there killed apparently she didn't have
any connection at all Jay to the drug

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dealer. She just got in the
shooting was on the beach of this resort.

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Yeah, right, And in the
name this is in the name of

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drugs, in the name of money. Look at all of violence, look

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at the killing those of you who
use. I had dinner last night with

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a radio friend and we were talking
about people who used drugs at one point

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or another in their lives. If
you use them and you don't you know,

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they they say, well, I'm
not hurting anybody else. Well,

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the very fact that you're buying them, and you're getting them from somebody who

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got them from somebody else to trickle
down the line at some point there is

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there's the possibility of violence because of
the money that's attached to it. Right,

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Think about all of the various steps
from the production of the drug itself

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to the sale of it, and
there's always four or five different hands involved

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in that. Because there's so much
money in it. It's a scourge.

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So I'm not here to accuse,
but I am here to make note of

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the fact that if you use drugs
of any kind. You're contributing to this

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kind of violence. You just aren't. We can't negate the fact that addiction

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is an illness. Well, but
you get started on it, there's a

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why do you get started? It
is an illness, you're right, but

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how do you get started on them? What's the motivation for you the first

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time to do drugs? Do some
kind of gaossity recreationally prescribed pills that led

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to addiction? Okay, reasons,
and you know what the ramifications are of

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doing it, That's all. And
what I'm saying is think not that it's

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going to get You know, the
people that I'm talking to probably already agree

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for the most part with what I'm
saying. Maybe you do, maybe not.

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Most everybody, see I'm an anomaly. Most everybody, at one point

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in time or another in their life, whether it's college, you know,

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high school, young adulthood, first
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you just suggested, drugs. So
I'm trying not to sound judgmental here because

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I saw so much abuse of drugs
and things when I was a youngster.

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I just have no tolerance for it. I have no patience for it.

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I have no interest or desire.
That's me so without me sounding judgmental,

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the fact is that if you use
drugs of any type, you are,

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as the end user, contributing to
a business that is wholly unwholesome and not

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only unhealthy, but it's it's it's
counterproductive. Maybe that's the nicest thing I

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can say about it. Anyway,
I'm more concerned about this sort of thing,

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and I am was concerned what I
saw this first day because Megan had

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been down there for the weekend,
not in this particular area, but it's

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so prolific in Mexico it is so
and then you the further you go into

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Central America and into South America,
it's more of a controlling factor in governments,

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in businesses, in everyday life because
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Okay, I'll stop being Joel Ostein
and move on into something else. Today

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is election day in New York City, where George Santos was a Rep.

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Ah. How can we forget George
Santos? So right, yeah, So

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the race to succeed him, as
you might expect with politics being the way

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that it is, today is the
election. This is a New York City

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suburban area and so the type of
people running, you know, or you'd

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think a little bit more gracious,
a little bit less, But it's the

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same everywhere. It's Trump versus Biden, you know, on the local scale

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and the right I think about all
of this stuff. Certainly, it's unusual

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to have a special election at this
time. This is more a primary.

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But because Santos is gone, there
is a contest between former Congressman Tom I

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believe his name is Swozy, who's
a Democrat. He's facing off with a

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Republican lady named Mazzi. I think
it's Pillop, who is a lawmaker in

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the county, and the you know, the go back and forth. This

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is again in the suburbs of Long
Island, and I think there's a small

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corner of Queens that's in it.
But is this the way strategically this whole

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year is going to go right?
The messages that have been involved in this

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particular race are about immigration, are
about abortion. So those are the two

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big ones, right, Abortion with
Republicans, that's the number one issue that

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is negative in their camp, and
immigration is the number one issue that's negative

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in the Democrats camp. So they're
back and forth on those two issues and

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the stuff about public safety certainly is
part of it, and so you wonder

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whether this is it. It'll be
interesting to see tomorrow at this time what

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the turnout was. The is this
is what bothers me about the news media.

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Well, let's expect it to be
low. Not many people are interested

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in the race, or they even
know so right away their turn people off

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right using that kind of language,
Well, not many people are expecting.

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So people see that or they hear
and they think, I guess there's not

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much point in me going to vote. If nobody else is going to go

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to vote, why should I bother? That's sick and we Yet it is

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all over the place, and it's
been a big thing on the political talk

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radio stations in New York City,
and it's played over onto the local newspapers

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and things in on Long Island.
I don't know. I just I don't

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like to see the the the back
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Okay. Apparently this guy Swosey was
the representative there for three turns before,

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pretty much in the middle. He
didn't like it, nor did he come

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across as someone who is liberal there. You know, that doesn't play well

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on Long Island. So he says
he can work with the Republicans to make

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things. You know, that's another
one of the themes. It's abortion,

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it's immigration, and it's can you
work with the other people? Right,

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that's the one of the big deals
here. And so yeah, exactly,

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you've already seen it. When they
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Exactly. So, speaking of that, another Democrat from New York, majority

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leader in the Senate, Chuck Schumer, pushing the folks in the Senate to

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finish the job, to get that
ninety five billion dollar foreign aid bill across

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the finish line. Today Ran Paul
who is a vocal opponent of the bill,

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filibustered on the floor yesterday and then
Schumer, you know, went after

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him. This is something that funds
Ukraine, Israel, Taiwan, all kinds

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of stuff. But there are flaws
in it, to be sure. Do

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we need it when we need something
to take care of the immigration issue,

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that's for sure. Tomorrow is Valentine's
Day or V Day, victory victory day.

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I guess it depends on what you
consider. Is a Valentine that is

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well placed and appreciate is that a
victory? I suppose it is depending on

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what's going on in your relationships.
Somebody are equally yoked with and a good

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match. And relationships take a lot
of work. And when you find somebody

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and you're willing to do the work
and they are willing to do the work,

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I think that is a victory.
There you go. Victory. Victory

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is our cry. V I C
T O R Y. All right,

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So here's in this celebrity news department. Here what's trending on social media?

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This portion of this hour focusing on
Miranda Lambert and in Rey k Iglesias.

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Now that I've said that, do
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the two of them? Well,
I will give you the inside scoop space

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in my heart. The duet is
Miranda Lambert Enrique Iglesias. This is being

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promoted as Texas meets Spain. So
she's certainly a country music legend and he's

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a Latin pop superstar. So they
have teamed up. This was certainly not

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something you'd see on the radar necessarily, but it sounds kind of nice.

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I thought, didn't you jay kind
of it? It's really poppy tune.

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Yeah, so this song is being
yeah, it supposed to be out next

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week. Apparently it's all over social
media, the focus on promoting Space in

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My Heart. They announced the project
by posting a snippet of the song on

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Instagram, and so that's why we're
talking about it here. It's really it's

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kind of an interesting picture if you
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the two of them. She's looking
at Iglesias, and it just kind of

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it's neat. It's an unique way
of sort of promoting it. I think,

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don't you? And it's I why
not? She said in the promotion.

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Can't wait for y'all to hear this
one. And you don't love me

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yet? But no, you will
if you only felt half of what I

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feel. If you ever go,
I will never change. There's a space

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in my heart and it's just your
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the promotional people for this, I
would have I would have announced it and

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then released it tomorrow on Valentine's Day? Wouldn't you think that would be a

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good time for this is it'll do
what it'll do. But I just thought,

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I think, you know, this
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know, singers and songwriters focus on
Valentine's Day and what it's all about if

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you were mine. It was the
last thing a pers yeah right, yeah

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sweet? All right. So there
it is Miranda and Enrique Space in my

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Heart coming out next week. I'm
Greg. I'm sixty eight years old.

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I grew up in Cleveland, Ohio. Majored in business administration. I do

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motivational speaking in addition to substitute teaching. Part of the reason for my motivational

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speaking is I kind of feel like
I have a calling or giving back to

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the younger generation. You know,
the golden rule is do unto others you'd

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have them do unto you. My
wife, Wanda, as a senior flight

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attendants, She's been flying for over
thirty years. We do laugh quite a

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bit. I think most adults will
start realizing that they don't recall things as

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quickly as they used to, or
they don't remember things as vividly as they

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intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. I mean

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that old expression love is not having
to say you're sorry. Remember that.

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Ah, that's the one I was
trying to think of it. That was

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her love story. I never saw
love story, but I've seen it now

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and Then. And there's a scenea
Now and Then where two of the characters

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are watching Love Story from the roof
of a house at a drive in theater,

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and you can't really hear it,
but they're like they're saying the words

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along with it, And that's the
life. Yeah, yeah, there it

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is. We all have a choice
to make, how about love and how

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we interpret it and how we use
it and how we enjoy it. But

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the one choice that you ought to
make is that there ought to be some

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love in your life in some way, shape or form. You got to

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have love. It is a fabulous, refreshing, enlightening feeling to have it

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for whatever. You have it for
your children, you have it for your

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spouse, You have it for your
dog or your cat. You have it

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for your job, whatever it is. Love and passion or drive us all

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that's part of the core of being
a human being. You have a choice

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to make to have love, and
even let's say you don't have you've gotten

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to the point of your life where
you're the last one standing. If you

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will, you have a choice to
remember those loving You know a lot of

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people when they get old and they
get kind of crotchety and they get angry

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because there's you know, their life
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for whatever the reason. But all
of us, every single one of us,

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can find something about our lives that
has been loving, that is loving,

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and that is worth embracing. I
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Embrace the love, embrace the feeling, embrace whatever it is. I couldn't

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imagine having a life without my children, my grandchildren in it. I've had

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lots of love, good love relationships, but the relationship that I enjoy the

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most is the one which involves my
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No, that's it, and excuse
me. I posted you saw it

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probably and you can put it on
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We went to Jay the picture of
me with Jasper at the piano. He

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decided he wanted to play the piano, so I went over to the piano.

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He started banging away on the piano, and I gave him a couple

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of chords and a couple of things
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at me and looking at my hands, and then Brendan decided to take a

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picture of That's what that picture is
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having some fun with him. That's
what it is. Love is about

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fun much as anything else. Here's
a go ahead, and you go ahead

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you want to. Oh no,
I'm just gonna say. I've heard something

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about grandparents and how like the grandparents
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just that special bond. And then
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for the special bond is more so
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children when you were that age,
and it's like you get to do it

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again for a brief moment. Mm
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far as I'm concerned. Is that
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of like true? Yeah, yeah, I think that's probably that's a that's

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a that's in an apt way of
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Thank you, thank you, thank
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life Golden Girls situation. This is
really kind of cool. Remember Blanche and

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Dorothy and Rose and Sophia. This
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they were in high school. They're
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them graduated Saint Mary's Academy in Grass
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For the past year they have lived
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It's just a couple of miles away
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So one of them said, I
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having old friends is wonderful. There's
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It's very important to me to know
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all around me. So anyway,
they knew each other at this school,

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small private school. When they graduated, they said to each other, we've

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gone our ways and we went to
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wanted to stay in touch and they
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of them moved into the senior living
facility, and you know, they all

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thought, oh well, Listen,
we're all at that age. We don't

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have anybody else, We're going to
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what they do. They all live
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because I feel like over the years
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friendships, and to have the same
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not that well, you're friends with
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people, and you are basically the
link between them. But everybody has their

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own friendship and that lifelong friendship that
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and anyone who has that hold on
to that, yep, yep, very

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important stuff. It's another branch of
love as much as anything else. It's

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loved. This is Love Week,
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All right. So a lot of
people are buzzing about John Stewart going back

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on The Daily Show this week,
and as he went on the air,

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he went right for it. In
typical John Stuart. He went right after

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Trump and he went right after Biden
the two And that was one of the

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great things about that program, and
it hasn't had it it was it went

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into the tube. A lot of
people in that operation tried to get him

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to come back again. I remember
doing a radio this program from the studios.

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One day I was invited to go
and Stewart and Lewis Black, who

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was big on the program at the
time, came in to do the program

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with me. You know. It
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York City, and those guys do
the program, they do it. They

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don't do it liveough sometimes I think
he did do it live at like ten

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o'clock Eastern, but for the most
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late night shows. They do him
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anyway, so he came in in
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He was great. I could have
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and it was fun. It was
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He's one of the few people that
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him. Probably I wish I had, because he started a farm in New

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Jersey when he got off the Daily
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preached it, if you will,
helping people. His announcement when starting the

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program, it was on Indecision twenty
twenty four electile disfunction and then he was,

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yeah, right, yeah. The
mishandling of classified documents basically referring to

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Biden is shameful. And he you
know, I mean, if you listen

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to him, he's on the road
to torpedo ring if that's the right way,

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yea torpede to torpedo and add an
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the reelection efforts, and then he
goes after Trump the same business,

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you know, the depositions and how
are we this is the best we have

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it the question that we're all asking
ourselves. We're talking about it off the

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air, you know, how how
do you figure out who to vote for?

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And most people in America are echoing
with John Stewart, And that was

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what he was so good at before
echoing what everybody or most everybody was thinking.

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It wasn't you know, what his
politics were. But it wasn't a

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political show, and he wasn't beating
you over the head with it like Colbert

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does and Kimmel does, and so
many other people who think that everybody watches

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them because they are hanging on their
every breath as to what they say about

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either Biden or Trump or the philosophy
that's there. And you know what.

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It's such that that audience is dwindling, mostly because of the control of the

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Republican National Committee and the Democratic National
Committee have on the politics of their of

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their party. And you know the
whole business Trump's trying to get his what

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is it his daughter in law,
who is the what's the woman's name was,

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or his niece or somebody to be
the chairman of the Republican National Committee,

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and you see this as one of
the Trump ladies. That is it

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his niece? I forgure what her
name is, but I know that I

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saw something about him trying to get
her into that position. And that's the

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kind of stuff that Stewart says.
He wanted to have a place to unload

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his thoughts. Isn't it great that
you can call up the producer of progres

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said, Hey, I'm the former
host and I want to go on back

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on the air and tell everybody what
I'm thinking. And so he did and

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that's yeah, that was good.
His hosts for Mondays now, yeah,

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right, too bad. He's in
the host every every night because we can

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use some of that. He played
a clip of Kamala Harris assuring that in

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a closed door meeting that Biden was
smart on his game and on top of

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it and then managed to take it
apart. She's worthless. My god,

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what a disgrace anyway, all right, so that's the return of John Stewart.

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Remember last week we were talking about
this mother who's the children that she

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had an only fans decal in her
car. Children. Yeah, they were

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from the school pickup line. Right. Well, now the children have been

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expelled from the school. Not only
should not pick them up, they threw

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them out of the school. Yeah. Name is Michelle Klein. She was

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told to cover up her decal or
risk being her children getting out of thrown

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out a liberty Christian preparatory school.
And so that was the end of that

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because that's what they did. The
intolerance. You know, it's a private

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schooling can do what they want they
want. It's still sad and yeah,

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really not doing anything. She's not
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x is a focus on a social
media threat made against the Pittsburgh Public schools,

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and so the couple of school districts
have made some changes. One of

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their students reported a threat to This
is what West Mifflin School is. How

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it looks like a district officials say
schools will not receive any visitors. This

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is excuse me, this is so
it's just ruining everything. These damn social

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media connections are great, but then
they're not. This is ruining a lot

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of good, important social development time
for youngsters. And it's just it's sick.

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It is. Pittsburgh Public schools are
operating on a modified lockdown because of

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the threat the whole school system.
I don't even know. I'm not going

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to repeat the threat. I don't
see it here anyway, but the fact

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that it is taking hold as it
has. Some people say it's not a

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big thing, you're overreacting. But
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than to react and be wrong?
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I'm saying. So go do a
sweeps and everything, and then the modified

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lockdown is that only existing appointments or
meetings will still be honored. Nobody else

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is permitted to come into the building. There will be no outside activity.

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So if it's an elementary school where
they typically would do outdoor recess, they

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have to stay inside. And it's
just it's it's scary even just the thought

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of any of it. Yeah,
but yourself in that position with your children,

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I guess that's the reason for it
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day or so is what was the
best Valentine Date? You ever had.

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All right, hey, we start
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Date you ever had? Oh?
Man, I don't know. We I

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don't my husband. I don't celebrate
Valentine's Day. The last time we celebrated

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was our first Valentine's Day together as
a couple, and it was such a

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miserable time because it was a restaurant
we always went to, and we could

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tell that for Valentine's Day, they
brought in extra tables, extra chairs.

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There was no space, barely move. You were basically on quadruple dates with

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all of these strangers, and it
was just so miserable. But our thing

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is, I guess this is our
best dates are we go to the grocery

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store, we get great ingredients,
and then we cook together. We cook

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our own dinner. Oh, I've
had a few. I will tell you

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the worst one. When Tony and
I were married, I was like a

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kid that was James. I was
younger than James when I got married and

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didn't have a clue. So in
the first Valentine's Day together, we went

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to a restaurant and I gave Tony
a telephone and she looked at me.

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She we'd had a rough time.
The first we got married November. We

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met in July, and so by
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She'd been in a convent. She
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half years in an infant school down
in North Carolina, and then she had

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a little thing with a priest and
that didn't set it well. So she

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got out. She came up to
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that she was in had a brother
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of school up in Framingham, and
he hired her and I met her very

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shortly after that, and so we
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a moderate romance and decided, oh, this will be fun, let's be

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married. She never she said she
always was. She was happy to tell

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me all the time that she never
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to lose weight and keep it off, and also by Previgent keeping your brain healthy.
