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Well, hello and welcome. Thanks for getting your pat on, Thanks
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Chip, it's really close to not doing a show tonight. Danny, Yeah,
you're not. You're not looking great. You looking like a little sweaty
or feverish. I'm just yeah, I don't know what happened today because I
got up regular time, and uh, I was working and doing my stuff
and then I'm like man, I was so cold I couldn't get warm,
so I actually whipped out of space here. Yeah, yeah, that's yeah.
And then I like, turn on, but I don't have a fever.
And then I'm talking to a friend of mine and they said, you
know, COVID's really going around, and uh, you know you were out
last night and blah blah blah, and I go, I don't want to
hear this, and they said, well, it's not about you, just
don't want to spread it, right, it would be polite not to spread
it to people if you could do that. And so I went and I
bought a test. And the fucked up part is I go to Walgreenes and
they sell the test from behind the counter. Now, oh, so now
you have to also admity I might have COVID and I'm I'm not, so
now I go, I feel like hipologue to protection. I have no idea.
See, this is driving me fucking insane. I mean, it's not
like you're getting the high test migraine medication that's over the counter, but under
the counter I was. I was like getting myself all pissed off because I
go, okay, hang on a second, now, So I'm normally they're
on end caps, right. So I walk in and I'm going down the
middle aisle of the Walgreens. I go to and I see the masks,
and I go, all right, the COVID test can't be far. They
gotta be on the next end cap. It only makes sense, right,
And that's where they were when I bought COVID tests back in the peak of
things. So I see a Walgreens employee, and I don't want to ask,
where's the COVID test because I'm thinking your natural reaction will be to recoil
like I have it, and I want to make it look like I'm buying,
like I almost in my head, I'm going, do I say,
I'm buying it for a neighbor? What am I doing here? My mom?
Yeah, you know what I mean, because I don't have I'm not
wearing a mask, right, So I thought, Because I mean, I
still think and I know we've had all the there's this big debate about COVID
and where we duped and did we fuck up the world? And I don't
know. I think i'd like to. I like to think that we went
with the best information possible at the time. So but at the same time,
I still think I don't know if it was a great marketing plan where
everybody's a little bit gun shy to say, hey, I don't want to
get COVID but all right, so I don't want to say this. So
I stand back at the beginning of the aisle. She's at the other end
of the aisle, and I said, excuse me, where would I find
COVID test? She sat up front by the register. I said, right
up front where I can grab it. She goes, no, you gotta
ask for it. Someone like come on, man. So now I'm gonna
ask for a COVID test. And there's a lady, an older woman,
and she's got her purse and she's putting her chains back, and I'm standing
really far away again because I'm gonna ask for a COVID and the kid behind
the counter is making eye contact with me, like, hey, sure,
what can I get you? Know? What can I do for you?
Can I help you? So then I get up there and I said,
uh, I want to get a COVID test, and he said, all
right, which brand? Then I go, I don't know, and he
goes, all right, well there's two brands here. I go, could
you tell me the difference between the brands. He goes no, I said,
then I don't care whatever one you're here. I'm like, that's a
dumbuch fucking thing. You can say to me, which brand COVID test do
I want? Unless you got the answer. Unless you got the answer.
It's not like I'm asking for Marlborough's cigarettes because I gotta have the the non
filters. Do you know what I'm saying? I need some Marborough reds?
You No, I don't use them all the time, only smoke reds.
Oh. It was driving, I mean, and I could, and so
I'm not feeling great. I'm irritable, so I'm like, well, fuck
it? Do I not? So I go home, I do the test,
and I mean, I got that thing up. I'm touching brain and
I'm not supposed to touch brain. But I have a deviated septum, so
I gotta go around from when I got punched in the face. It's up
there. It's bad. I mean, I have like an entire it like
actually arches out like this round, like you gotta really go up. Like
there are times I'll roll tissue up to try to pull shit out if it
gets stuck, like you need like a hook Yeah, I'm not kidding,
like Captain hooking, you're picking his nose. Yes, hey, I gotta
get up there. Yes, this is true. I got a blockhead,
a fucking unbelievable so I gotta go around. I'm sneezing because it things.
My eyes were water. I can't see. I think I fuck up the
first You need a second pot. Yeah, as you know, I did
the math, so I uh. So I do the first test and I'm
like, I don't know if I screwed this up. I can see,
like all of a sudden, the blue lines washing away because the liquids going.
I go, I don't know if I sucked this up. So I
take the second test out. I do it. Now the adhesive strip rips
completely off, so now it won't stay close. So I got a bottle
of tequila holding it close. This is how my life's going today. I
have shot. You know that that breakfast bar in my place, I have
the booze on the end of it. I just grabbed the bottle of tequila
and I put it on. You know what. It's been a hell of
a day, you know, But since I have been tequila here, it
wasn't a bad day. I got up, I was doing stuff. I
had a bunch of, like you know, just just work related things that
I just do that are behind the scenes that have nothing to do with anything.
A lot going on here. Well, there's just a lot of behind
the scenes shit. So I'm doing that. I'm I'm emailing stuff to clients.
I'm going back and forth and doing all the social I have U something
I'm scheduling through the rest of the day. I've got this. I do
an hour of work with my son on homework for school because it's a different
type of school where he is, and it's all this shit. So so
now I got I was fine, and then I when I didn't feel well,
I was laying on it. I was like, I'm gonna laying in
a catch I should want probably, So I ate and I laid down,
and I got a phone call and I started talking to per saying, you
may want to go get a COVID test. I would get a COVID test,
So I do that. Come back. That's where we're at. Kiel
a bottle fifteen minutes. No red line on either test, No, not
even a faint pink line. It's like Okay, I'm good. I call
you and I don't know what it is. Man, I mean you were
telling me the other day you had a stomach issue. Yeah during the show.
Yeah, I know, I know. I get here. I'm like,
man, what's going on? So I had a stomach issue. But
then I thought, while I've been eating this lentil salad that I made lentil
bean salading it out with those games podcast people for two, Oh, I
haven't. I watched the documentary called Game Changer about a UFC UFC athlete and
other athletes who went to plant based diets and just felt better and more energy.
Yeah, like TV twelve almost, I guess I don't. I'm not.
I don't know much about TB twelve. I know nothing about TV twelve,
to be quite honest with you. It's mostly plant based protein. It's
so that's so I was go, you know, want, I want to
feel better and I'd like to do this, And so I just thought quietly
without going, hey everybody, I'm gonna be one of these does play based
because that's not it. I fucking love a burger. I want a piece
of chicken. Would I eat less? Yes? Well, I put a
little spinach in an egg wrap in the morning. Yup, tomatoes. Sure,
but I wouldn't mind. And I saw this, I thought, why
not? What what the what the fuck? Try it? Yeah, if
it makes you better, who cares? Right? So that was that's what
I was thinking. But the lentil, so I made like a lentil salad,
and I was supposed to go five days. I think I eat so
much. They only went three. But I mean this morning it was like,
fuck California mudslides. Yeah, yeah, it was California munthslides. That
was exactly right. Like I thought I was done. I wasn't done.
But even that, I thought that, no big deal on that, and
anybody by this point, I don't know what it is. And then I
go, maybe it was like a residual from the bills stuff. I don't
know if I got like a lot of stretch going on. I have no
idea. I think a lot of people are tired right now because after when
changes, well, yeah, that people are back to school. Routines have
changed with this guy named Ji right now, patterns are changing. But he's
right, patterns are changing. He's right. I'm exhausted and I haven't really
done a hell of a lot. I'm just really exhausted. I'm working out
more. Tell you what, though, I had a good time with bTB
yesterday we did. You left at the right time, Billy, Yeah,
you left at the right I was listening even in the car, and I
had to turn it. The next thing I know, I go, I
need something easy. So I went over not serious to like one of their
easy listening like Blend or something like that, and they go, fuck it,
I'm coming back, and like back to Blend. I couldn't believe it
was happening. bTB would fire pizza grill in the mall Grease where we were
hanging out, and I gotta tell you, they did a great job.
They did a great job. It's a lot of fun. If you're a
Bills fan, get out there. If you're in any fan of any sports
team. The food is great. There's not a bad seat in the house.
Oh there is welcoming to everybody. Yeah, you live in Western New
York. It's gonna be primarily Bills fans. Let's not be assholes about it.
I mean real quick though. Yeah, so after the game ends,
of course, the place is like you stayed all the way. I stayed
the whole time you did. Oh dude, I was gonna take a chance
at miss any of the actually be batbs. How about when he plunks it
off in big banks in everybody's like thought, I thought it went. I
thought it deflected back because you can't tell. Yeah, And the people were
like, oh it's good, Oh thank god. Now what But I'm still
like walking around like everybody celebrating, like I just got to celebrate until we
win this game. But after it ended, right, there's this guy waiting
for it to go to a big black dude, right, just funny guy.
And he's got this big, like suburban type truck with like these matted
rims and stuff. Right, and he and he and I are like parking
right next to each other. My wife and I walking out, he's walking
out. He goes, I'm an Eagles fan. I'm getting the fuck out
of here right, Well, maybe you want to drown your stars in a
flaming hot cheeto chicken Sammy. We talked to Stephanie who makes all that stuff
over their last night phenomenal fried chicken coated in flaming hot cheetos, lettuce,
tomato, onion, served with fries, that's a special. This month,
I had the Hollopeenial Burger. Highly recommend it so good. And of course
on Sundays you can go in there and get some brunch from ten to noon
before the kickoff for the NFL. And they've got breakfast pizza you know,
buy one, get one, Mimosas and Bloody Mary's. And of course they
have that one that deal that goes on all the time Tuesday. Yeah,
it's it's a large, thin crust, well wood fired, wood fired pizza
with one topping for ten bucks Tuesdays and Fridays. A great pizza. My
wife and I've had three so far. You will find them in the in
the mall of Grease Ridge. I was very disappointed in what happened last night,
but at the same time, I go, this is kind of awesome
in a way, and this is terrible. I don't like seeing guys like
like Aaron Rodgers. I was hoping that it was tape up the ankle and
maybe you don't play the rest of this game. It's come back. Yeah
right, Well it looked like a hero. Well, now you got Aaron
Rodgers out of the way. He's gone for the season. It was the
achilles and he saw his calf. They talked about the calf will vibrate,
you know, and it usually starts with the calf strain for guys, which
he had, and then the achilles it wiggles down. Yeah, before you
know what you're like, I say it, Thomas, whether your achilles sliding
up and down your calf. It just it looked terrible. So he's gone
for the season. And you know, look, that defense gave them fits
last year. They're a little bit better this year because everybody's got more experience
and stuff, both front end back end of that Jets defense is tough and
and Greg Connor said before the game, and I put it on a on
a piece that I put out today to you know, promote the podcast.
It was basically like, I think the Jets will win because the defense will
make Josh have to do things and he's gonna have to rise to the occasion.
And I think the Jets win. And it's the first game of the
season, so maybe we get this bullshit out of the way. He sat
there, he looked like someone shot his puppy, Josh Allen, And when
he said things like it's all on me, it was all on him turnovers,
he took his medicine like a man. And I gotta be honest with
you. I have never as a Bills fan. I have never watched an
entire country Bills fans included all blame one guy in Lockstep yeah and like Danilovsky,
Kyle what's his name? All these I stayed away from the local media
because they were all like full of crap before the game. I'm not gonna
listen to him after. Why do you do this, dude? Why how
do you do this? Dude? Dude? Was I wrong? Was I
wrong? Billy? Was I wrong? You get angry about stuff I get
asked, dude, No, you get accurate. You have you have an
ax to grind you do. I'm gonna bring something up. Go ahead,
a little bit and a little bit and a little bit. I'm gonna bring
something you're gonna bring up. I'm gonna bring something up because I saw something
that no, not, No, I didn't, I did not. I
didn't look at anything. I got be honest with you. I watched ten
minutes of ESPN in the morning to see they did this whole thing on Hey
man, everybody ships all over dak Scott in the preseason. Why aren't we
calling out Josh Allen. He has more interceptions, he's turned the ball over.
But this is the good and the bad of Josh Allen. This is
what you get with this kind of a maverick. I get it. He
should learn, he should know. But if he connected on one of those
passes and they win that game, he's a hero. And I think that
everybody who is of that personality has at some point in their lives gone too
far trying to fix a situation, no matter what it was, take it
away from a sport, put it into life. We've all been there,
and we've all gone, I'll never do this again. And we find ourselves
in a similar situation and do it comfortable because we think that we can fix
it. I got that. It's all us And as they said, sometimes
he's got to know when to take off the cape. Here's what I think
happened, Danny. And you tell me if I'm right or wrong in this,
because I am not into sports the way you are. You go so
deep, you say shit that I go, it's it's fucking it's acoustic music
in way it's classical. I don't get it. I think that that he
was getting frustrated last night with that defense, and he was getting impatient and
he wanted to make something happen. He's Josh Allen. It's a big game,
it's a big stage, a lot of pressure, a lot of talk
leading up to this one. He's got the big contract, he's the franchise
guy. The Bills have not been this good in a long time, or
not been expected to be this good. They were very good last year,
they were very good this season before that. So I think in his mind
he was getting impatient and he was like, well, I'm going to make
this happen, right, And that's the bad way to be. Take what
they're giving you, make right right. That's what when Bill Belichick decided to
pivot to Tom Brady from Drew bled Sow. The knock on Bledsoew was that
he had incredible arm strength. He was amazing. He couldn't run, but
he had incredible arm strength. And guys like Parcels and then after that Pete
Carroll would rely on that arm strength and it was high risk, high reward,
and it became more risk than reward. And here comes Brady, and
Brady was gonna do everything Belichick told him, which was just take whatever they
give you and be patient, and it would frustrate the hell out of Brady.
But at the end of the day, Brady listened to him. And
last night, and I'll credit the guys from hashtag Sports and Cover one both
said this, They go, guys were open. Don't blame the offensive coordinator.
We went back and watched the film. Guys were open. Josh was
like, no, damn it, I'll throw the ball up. Yeah,
and it was on Hallet. That's when it comes back to my original point.
Everybody, Bills fans, national media, everybody was like, it's on
one, dude. And you know who else said it? Greg Conners.
I don't know. I don't know what local media. I was just I'm
sure they didn't they didn't know, but they did though, but it didn't
pay too much attention to them because I said, like, during the preseason
ago, we got a problem and the local media was tweeting out the fact
that the Bills weren't practicing very well over at fish they were they were,
and then the preseason kid and I'm like, how do you just erase that?
You can't? And they all did because I think that in the air
of social media. They don't want to hear it from the fans, and
I get that, but at the end of the day, you gotta be
you gotta be true that you have to have a loyalty to the truth here.
And the loyalty was they're gonna go I thought they're gonna be get beat
by the Jets and Aaron Rodgers. They got beat by Zach Wilson. Actually
they got beat by Josh Allen. Yeah, and it was Josh Allen.
Josh did, Aaron Rodgers did for the entire season, and by the way,
and by but by the way, though, Dan Orlovski, who a
lot of people love it, I think he should be in the booth.
They'll be in the booth next Monday night for one of the two games.
He said. He goes, look, we're paying if you're the Buffalo Bills,
you're paying this guy two hundred fifty million dollars to f up and not
so many words I know. He goes, it's time for you to grow
up. Yeah, but maybe maybe this is it. This is what I'm
saying, Like, Look, they lost the opener. We said that against
Cincinnati, we said that against my might, but they lost the opener in
against Pittsburgh, and so they never really came out of that. They won
some easy games and when it came they lost the Jacksonville but they won some
big ones when it when it mattered, and look you go, he'll play
up to his competition. The Bills a couple of I think when Bledsoe was
there, they the opening game, they beat the Patriots at home with Brady.
They're on the cover of Sports Illustrated. They win their first Sam somebody
had told you one of those two teams is gonna go and win the Super
Bowl, you would have thought it was us. It ended up the team
that got beat thirty one. Nothing that was it. So I mean,
look it's early, and that's why I'm saying that maybe all of this I'm
holding blessing your lips to God podcast actually made the Jets in a way somewhat
beatable. I thought the defense looked pretty good last night. I know that
they were able to they didn't stop the run at certain times it was important,
but still now okay, So now Aaron Rodgers is gone, and that's
like a an NFL butterfly effects. So now some other team's gonna step in
there in their way now and take that spot in the whole AFC now kind
of changes around that because Rogers he added instant credibility. He would have blown
the bills out last night. And if you think Alan would have gone toe
to toe with him, he would have done more of what he did last
night than he did against the Jets. It's more hero ball and we can't
have it. And hopefully finally this will sink in with him after everybody,
clude probably his mother, going dude, you've got to grow the f up
and just wait. Your mom ever said it to you? No, she
ever had to. Oh my god, my mother. I'm not bragging about
it. My mother never mother never had did, because you're fucking boring,
that's why. Yeah, well you're right, you know, I don't know
that my mom ever did either. I wasn't in the Mira Animal. I
was like the exact opposite. My father goes, Danny, you are the
exact opposite of me as a child, So you can only imagine my father
was like, yeah, I like to hang out right like that guy on
stage or Tommy, that guy. I want to hang out with that guy,
not you. Yes, that's exactly right, that's my father. Yeah,
well you know what, if you're if you're feeling a little low and
you want to get feeling better, get over to Leo's. They have the
Pearl after school or school lunch snacks for kids. I would have camped out
there last night if they were open. You know what, it becomes one
of these things where like when you're stressed out. I love eating cookies and
things. Oh yeah, but I eat a lot of them, and Leo's
has some of the best. You can get twelve packs of Colleges, all
made from scratch right in Leo's Bakery. And we went back there. They
it is. It's phenomenal. Everything's operation, very clean, professional organized.
You can choose from chocolate chip, marble sprinkle or oatmeal raising cookies. And
while you're there you can pick up meals to go from Leo's Delhi. And
remember Leo's has fresh baked French bread for just two dollars a loaf every day.
What's the best thing about Leo's Everything, Billy, That's right on desk
Batch Drive in East Rochester and open every day. I did notice, like
you were saying to me earlier, when I'm going I just not feeling well,
like good, You're burning at both ends. And there is a lot
that goes on one of those Josh Allen personalities. Billy, you go to
extremes, you think so oh yeah, you think temperance. And now our
word for this quarter is Josh Allen. Well right now, I mean,
what am I gonna do? I get it and I want and look,
you're doing well though, man, yes, doing well. People come up
to be going, man, Billy, he hit the lottery. I don't
know if he hit the lottery, but he's doing well well. I got
a call today from a guy. Uh. I'll give him a shout out.
His name is Tom Rickey. Maybe you know Tom Uh, great American.
Yeah yeah, I thought his last name was Ricchi. And I think
I offended him once because I said, but Tom is a big personality,
fun guy. Uh has a beautiful family and Uh calls me up and I
and we're not real close or anything. We've you know, touchpas from smiling.
He just called me out of the blue just to say I'm loving what
you're doing. And I'll tell you what that means a lot. Uh,
And it's very cool and I love what we're doing here. I absolutely love
it. But it is something that that is an all day affair. For
me, It's an all day affair, yeah, you know, And I
think, el, what do you mean? Yeah, but here's supposed I
like it. I like working, I enjoy that stuff. I enjoy what
I what you do? I mean? So they say there are certain aspects
of it, maybe I don't love all of it, but ah, that's
terrible. I but so I think i'd probably you know, I'm getting a
little burned out. This is my thing that that was why I was like
tonight man. But on the other hand, there's other stressor things, you
know, like with my kids and stuff. I mean, and I'll I'll
bring this to you a little bit over something that I was going to bring
up. But I will say that a lot. I've said this on the
podcast many times. Life is never going to stop coming at you, and
people are going to say things about you. And I think most of us,
most of our suffering in life is the Buddhists would say, is from
our wanting of something else but not but not being able to get it,
or miss feeling as though we can't get it, missed expectations right, So
expectations right but so, or or that people are seeing us the wrong way
and all that. So I have really worked very hard on myself to not
let those things bother me. And it's been decades of that, you know.
I mean from comments when I was on the radio, from people would
say you suck. I even had a friend of mine and write me recently,
go man, I read a bunch of stuff about you online and all
my I guess everybody feels about you the way I do. And I think
my reaction was like, it's nice to know you're not alone. And I
think that disappointed the person. I don't feel like getting down into the muck.
I don't want to hear what people say. I don't give a fuck
to be quite honest with you, like I literally do not. But then
there are other things where there are people that I care deeply about, and
those would be in particular my kids. I mean, I love my children
eventually, but I did assign papers for my youngest son in particular to move
out of state with his mom, and I thought at the time that was
the best situation as to why I did the things I did or decisions that
I made. Uh, those were decisions, you know. Some people say,
oh, it was weak, you should try to work things out.
I felt like things were at an impast I'm not going to get into any
of that stuff. You made the best decision you could with the information I
thought I did. Yeah, I thought it. That's all you could do.
You have the dinner guide. But that was my thing. So and
I'm not, but there are people, and I gotta be I don't want
anybody to think like this is not somebody people love to commits, right,
So yeah, well somebody will hear this and they'll run back to their mom
and say he was saying stuff about you. I'm not, but I know
that there were people that were close to my children that did say very negative
things to my children about me. And I I know this because they told
me. And in particular, one of them told me, who just has
I mean, just has the inability to lie? This guy just can't.
Yeah, just just it's just him, So you know, and those are
the type the things that can really bother you. And so my only answer
back to that was how do you feel? And the person the kid said
to me, I don't want to discuss it, and I don't agree,
and I said, great, that was it, and I never brought it
up again and a lot of but you can hold the grudge. You could
be angry about that. And the only thing that I thought in the time
was the one thing you can always be in someone's life is consistent as possible.
I hope that my youngest son doesn't think I said move move away from
New York, because I don't care. That's not true at all. I
thought in the situation that would be what was best. I think that,
but being consistent, that's why you know right now he's in a different style
of school. He's mom and I talked. I think he's a genius talk.
I'll give him New York kid in Alabama. Dude, he's on the
track to be a valedictorian, so maybe it will skip ninth grade. I
said, you know, you get all your teeth, of course, so
you know we're trying to you don't do that that sort of thing and put
put the time in. But I'm listening to you last night, and is
it true what you you have made reference to this a few times? Okay?
Is it true that you have a list of people that have wronged you
in your life? Do you seriously have a legitimately a legitimate is it in
your head or is it written down in twenty eighteen. I wrote it down.
It was twenty eighteen, and I wasn't growing up. I don't realized.
Listen to me. Listen. I've said some things over the last few
podcasts that I came back. I'm like, why the hell did I say
that? Well that I don't. I don't care if it's not what I
think. No, I know that. I know I'm saying in general for
people listening, they're gonna think I'm a crazy nut. Well, yeah he's
a crucier. Okay, no, no, no, no, but he's
a good person, like you're human. Yeah. I don't. But in
twenty eighteen, I had a motivational list. This is your motivation. I
had a motivation. In fact, if I look, I think I may
still have it. No, I had a motivational list and all the people.
Not that that people wronged me, but people told me either I couldn't
do something, I wasn't getting up at doing something. Some of these people
didn't deserve to be I believe, didn't deserve to be in the positions they
were in. Yes, and they got their come up, And I think
it still comes out in you a little bit it does, and I'm ashamed
of that. Well the work and pray to be better. No, no,
no, because I'm ashamed of what I said last night. Okay,
I'm not take that away. I know what you're referring to. Yeah,
I know what you're referring to. Back then, I would have wanted to
do that. But let me just say what I think. I think that
when sometimes when we're talking sports and stuff, I think you feel like you
were so overlooked and discarded by certain people in the business that there were times,
like even last night, you were saying stuff that it was like three
or four deep in this coach that coach, and I'm like, most most
people aren't going to get it, but I know where it's coming from,
right, and I don't give a shit. I just like and I just
like a top. Kevin kept like interrupting it squirrel, and then the whole
like, and I lose my train of thought. I was getting like like
frustrating. He was trying to bring it back to something right, to make
it relative whatever it doesn't The camera fell down, Okay, and well that
was me. I knocked the fucking but you gotta see this thing. I
gotta tape around it, but it's gonna work. I'm going fuck it.
It works better the one that's on, Danny, look at that. It
works perfect safe. But the all I would say to you is, see,
that's the thing is I always feel like because I've been there, and
everybody listening to this has at some point been there, and vengeance is better
than anger because it gives you a little innovation. Oh yeah, and you're
gonna do and it's a little bit better. And that's climbing the emotional scale.
And you can't get to come on, Dan, be positive. Fuck
that, nobody can be. Can't do that. But you can't get a
positive, but you can get a little bit better, right, you can
go a little bit better. And what I would say is Michael Jordan had
a nephew list. I understand, you know, and I'm not saying I
have an aphew list, But I think that that just keeps you like angry.
And I've been the same way I've been. Fuck it, I'll do
it myself. And didn't I even say that o times many times on the
bingo board. And I think that this is evident of the evidence of the
same thing. However, I don't feel I'm as angry like I look,
I could be as angry as me. No, no, no, no,
no, as angry as angry as I have been in the past,
in the past, the same about myself. I don't feel like like for
this whole thing. There are rumors about why I'm here and why I'm not
over on a radio station, there's a lot of rumors. People love to
talk. They loved the first episode was answers. They got it. All
these people are geniuses. I know the truth these and my thing is a
lot of the host talk shows. But all I did was but my thing
was I will put my head down and just go. But it doesn't matter.
That's just noise. Those people aren't going to be paying my bills,
and they don't give a shit. And you're in today's thought and you're not,
and nobody really thinks about you as much as when we say well,
everybody will think. No, they won't. They may look at it for
a second and maybe they'll laugh at you, But believe me, they've got
a ship ton of other stuff. Because we're all selfish and we're all self
center. You're really not another people's minds as much as you think they are.
So it's your own narcissism that makes you think that they all so when
even with this anger, I'm going to show them, why don't you show
you? Why don't you love you? And go? You know what,
You're worthy of being the best, and you're worthy of being heard, and
you're worthy of being and stop this other stuff. And I only say that
because I think that so many people are exactly where I sort of felt like
you were last night. I sometimes still go to and believe me as a
hothead. You've seen me. You have seen me, Yes, blow the
fuck up at people and scream and do all that stuff. You don't want
more animals reth And at the at the other end of the day, what
good does it do? It doesn't none. It just makes things worse,
of course it does. You'll start walking the eggshell. Yes, they don't
want you want Jimmy. You want a Jimmy Fallon article written about you.
I don't know if I look, I can't say one way or the other.
But I believe that the less of that article is real than than the
majority of it. I really do. However, that doesn't mean that there
wasn't a moment somewhere that somebody had an uncomfortable moment or was right, it
happens, I think, what it is? You don't want that? Yeah,
it's like that, I've let him down. Oh oh no, And
then it just spiles, it gets it goes in through your head and cycles
and cycles and cycles. Before you know it, you're more further removed from
that person than you should be because of your own head. Right, And
that's all I'm And that was all I was thinking. And I was thinking
about it today, even with my kid and stuff like that, and I
go, you know, I hope he never feels this way. And I
know people have said this, and I thought, the only thing I can't.
I can't. You can't control anybody else, no matter what somebody says.
And we're all reactive, but when we get up and we're just reactive,
that's where we fail as human beings. You can't just be reactive.
You've gotta get up and realize it's going to come at you and stay where
you are, right, stay where you are and see it for what it
is and realize sometimes what's coming out and somebody else has not a goddamn thing
to do with you, right, absolutely, But it's hard, Yeah,
you're because you're a rational mind, actually guide your rational mind, and you
have to remember in these moments to stop thinking. Switch, let the rational
mind guide the irrational because the irrational mind's always gonna go running right right.
You got those two animals fighting in your mind, but you gotta switch and
let the other animals take the lead. I would tell people to daydream.
Daydream as big as you can. Think of exactly what you want. Think
of everything you want in life, all of it. Think of it,
that's all. Don't think of how don't is it? I'd have no idea.
I want a lot of wives. Okay, he dropped big. I
want a lot of it, I think like. But I would say dream
big, and don't put the rock and picture yourself in a stream and it's
just running. Man, it's leading right to where you want to go.
But just don't put rocks in there going. Oh but but that'll never happen
to me. Who's to say? Go with the positive thought doesn't mean shit?
How do you think some of the these people got there? Ever?
Look at somebody and go, how did they get that? They didn't deserve
that, they didn't do that, But yet they're happy. Things just seem
to happen for them. They're they're positive. Even when things go a little
you know, left, they seem to be able to swing it back.
Yeah, because it's all up here. It's all in your head, and
that's where most of it's lived. And even with these other people and things,
whether it's somebody saying something to my I can't control that. No matter
what we say. There's no assertion, there's none. You can't assert something
on somebody else. No, No, you can't, you really can't.
Can't. And as much as it feels like they're keeping me down there,
nobody. Ultimately, at the end of the day, I am the designer
of my own deskin. You got it. You can also ask and future
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Com twenty percent off with the code Bill twenty So there's something very funny.
And Kevin actually sent this to me and I didn't. I didn't see it,
and I have not listened to it, to be honest with you.
But a bar in Wisconsin where Green Bay happens to be in Wisconsin, and
I don't know if this was a green Bay bar or not, but they
were having a h if the Bills beat the Jets. I think they were
buying your drinks. Okay, let's see what this. People showed up at.
The people were coming out out and then when Aaron Rodgers got hurt four
plays into the game, they you just hear this enormous cheer go up in
the bar and last night, yeah, I know, Oh my god,
I like to play. I'm almost embarrassed. This one guy's like dah,
a few Rogers get out that cart and suck it Like whoa, there there
was that there the fuck you go change your tampa. You guy's wife sitting
right next to if you go, you got a yeast infection. I'm like,
oh my god. All right, so here, let me see if
I can pull this story up because this was I started to watch it and
it made me laugh. Personal, I mean, I'm not I'm nothing.
Here we go, We're just gonna keep going. Another condition is Aaron Rodgers
must start the game, but the rules says we're just gonna keep going.
Another condition is Aaron Rodgers must start the game, but the rules say nothing
about him having to finish it. This is when he gets hurt. Wild
roar when Rodgers leads the game hurt in the first quarter. So we fancy
it's nothing personal. I mean, I'm not necessarily opposed to Rodgers, but
tonight I'm thinking with my wallow said still, I'm going to say they'll be
flying high regardless of the outcome, because after Sunday's game they're in love.
I think we can work around that, especially after Jordan Loves from all Right,
so Jordan Love wins, they're all happy. This is in Wisconsin.
They're going crazy and this story the news is there throughout the game. So
they're doing this package throughout the game. So let's continue to listen yesterday.
I'm not too down in the dumps after that. So and the mood has
changed considerably. That is because the Jets free drinks. If the Jets lose,
free drinks. If the Jets lose, Aaron Rodgers has to start the
game free drinks if the Jets lose. Just won the game on a long
touchdown in overtime. You could take a look. This is the reaction from
a bar where people are real the bar tabs they've been racking up all night,
thinking, certainly with Rogers hurt, the bar was gonna be paying that
tab. It is setting in they were gonna have to go to the bar
and pay that tab. That's where we're at. This offer is going to
be an effect for the for another twelve games. This season. As long
as the Jets and Packers are not playing at the same time. This Jets
lose you in promotion is an effect Tonight, Bill and Natalie the House one
didn't take your chances, so it was always the possibility. Yeah, it
did do this. Do this? Fans kind of deserve it for cheering for
a Packer's Hall of Famer and a Super Bowl champion and four time MVP to
get injured. I don't think that they were cheering for the injury bill as
much as they were cheering for their odds of having a free night of booths
on the house. So they were gonna have to pay for it. It
was a thought at least when Rogers got hurt. I have a feeling that
come tomorrow morning, a lot of these folks are gonna wake up unhappy about
the bar time towns to pay, and unhappy that some of them showed up
on video clapping and waving at the screen when a Packer's legend got Maybe how
much they decided to drink when they thought the bar tap was on the housebo
hej thank you very much. A wild ride from start to finish. Mean
to laugh at others misfortune that misfortune. That's funny. That is great.
It's a barn in Wisconsin and Jets lose, you win. So they're doing
it for the next twelve games. Okay, that's cool. I mean they're
willing to do it. But Aaron Rodgers has to start the game, yes,
and so he's get stuff of the season. This guy cash in.
Good for him? Do you know that? Last night over because of Rogers,
right, a lot of people wanted to like get a mulligan with fan
Duel and Draft Kings and all these because there's all these like you know,
gambling sites that you could go online and forty four different states now and they
said, well, look we should get a mulli good for that, and
people writing articles like, no, it's called gambling for a reason. It's
the NFL, you know what you're getting into tough crap. So good for
this guy. Well, I think that one of the things we don't like,
we don't think about, is injuries part of the game. It is
unfortunately, don't play on paper, no injuries part of the game. And
it just shows you, you know, it's hard to win in that league.
I mean, that is a tough game. And that was where you
know, Josh Allen. I was even hearing guys for the ten or fifteen
minutes that I watched ESPN this morning wake up and I was going to go
to Good Morning Football, and I didn't. Uh. They were saying,
you know, Josh has got to get down as well, like he's just
reckless abandonment with his body, and it is this idea that he's gotta just
take, you know, he just takes it on himself. But you know
what the funny is, who's the punter for the Bills? Martin? So
Sam Martin. So Sam Martin's out there. Did you see when he's running
now that that play? I know everybody's going, well, it should have
been called back, okay, miscalls or miscalls. It shouldn't have been in
that position to begin with. So they kick a field goal and beat you
that way. But he, uh, when I see the punter just put
his hand out like yeah, no touch me. Yeah, and then I'm
like, man, lower to the shoulder, wrap up and try to knock
the guy down. First of all, it's his fault. He putted the
ball like straight up in the air. It was a short punt. Also,
Emanuelatch, I don't know if you know him. He's from he's from
FS one, he's a former player. Goes, look, I sucked that
was on special team, so I know that this play went bad. And
here's why. He goes, we need to have an emergency special teams made
to get the Buffalo Bill's locker room. And he broke down why the play
a dark yeah, And it was like, oh my gosh, he's right,
But how about the guy that got it for the Jets? Not great,
a great, feel good story, A guy who came it was basically
as close to a walk on as you can be. Yeah in the NFL.
Now absolutely, I mean he and I think his whole story was the
one that people followed in hard knocks. And now he gets a touch down
and he's a rookie. It's like all right, you know, for a
fan base where the season is not going to be what you thought it was,
it's just not. Yeah, I mean it was. It was a
bittersweet moment for the Jets, but I mean it was much worse for the
Jets last night than it was for the Bills. I think as much as
we are pain is only gonna be like, okay, now it's on of
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interesting oh yeah, in the NFL. Maybe you can shed a little more
light on this. I did not do a whole lot of research into it.
I did see that Pro Football Talk had tweeted this out. And who
is Jim Trott. Jim Trotter was has been a writer for a long time.
He's covering the NFL. Hes to cover with the Chargers. He worked
for the Athletic and he also covered the NFL for NFL Network. And he
asked Roger Goodell a question I forgot where it was. It might have been
Super Bowl week or it was a public question about a year ago, and
he asked him about, you know, the lack of diversity and head coaching
hires and whatnot. And a few of the owners apparently didn't like that.
Now. I don't know if this conversation was a response to Trotter asking this
question or whatnot. But Trotter got let go, and a lot of people
thought was because he asked Goodell these questions about diversity and whatnot. And according
to a lawsuit filed by Trotter for wrongful dismissal. Let me pull it up.
It appears I have some of it here too. Danny, tell me
if this is the same thing, because I have like three four, five,
six seven, almost like somebody like a lawyer laid this out, yes,
and it says, yeah, this is like like a lawyers stationary basically
for in the lawsuit they have to write the lawsuit out and they have it
all. Bullet pointed out it has already been acknowledged by many in the media
that the NFL retaliated against and took vengeance on mister Trotter for him having taken
the NFL to task on discriminatory practices. Now, when they say acknowledged,
that could be just their opinion, it doesn't mean it's fact. They're acknowledging
it. This is our theory. It hasn't been proven. The NFL's treatment
of mister Trotter is consistent with a documented history of silence, retaligating against,
and blackballing black men who speak out about such conduct. Mister Trotter's a black
reporter back, that's okay. The NFL's modus operandi and part of the fabric
of the league. This is the NFL's modus opera. It's the way they
They're moo there, right. But mister Trotter's experience with discrimination and retaliation was
not limited to his termination. Throughout his employment, mister Trotter witnessed and observed
discriminatory and and or hostile conduct by his employees, including by NFL team owners,
that went entirely unchecked as a matter of standard operating procedure. And here
we go number five. As one such example, Terry Pagoula, owner of
the Buffalo Bills, stated, in reference to players protest against racial injustice,
that if the black players don't like it here, they should go back to
Africa and see how bad it is. Mister Trotter raised complaints and concerns about
this remark, but no remedial action was taken. And the number of paragraph
six. There's another example. Jerry Jones, owner of the Dallas Cowboys,
responded to a question posed by mister Trotter regarding the dearth of black professionals in
decision making positions for NFL teams by stating, if blacks feel some kind of
way, they should buy their own team and hire who they want to hire.
Mister Trotter raised complaints and concerns about this remark, but no remedial action
was taken. I I so, what do you do when a situation like
this? What do we and what do we think? Because could this be
trouble? Yeah, we're in twenty twenty three. People are sick of this
shit. And you know when we we've heard black lives matter, and where
you stand on that almost doesn't matter because until you've lived a certain way you're
you kind of can't experience the discrimination. And we can say, well,
it's all like we got different water fountains were sent any different schools, any
want to come on? Many separate but equal? Yeah, I mean yeah,
said America back by one hundred years. But all I'm saying, all
I mean is there's still there's still stuff that's exclusionary and tougher to get in
and the boys club and all that. Okay, So I talked to someone
who is black today and I said, are you aware of this? And
they said yeah, And I said, I am curious. Would you comment
on it on the podcast? And we talked for a while and the person
was very very open with me, but just wasn't comfortable I think, say
I and I totally get it. I get it, you don't want to
say. But they brought up an interesting point. Their answer to me was
people speaking emotions. You know, emotionally, people speak on frustration. If
they don't like it, go back to Africa. See like, that's a
frustrated person who's frustrated with some thing, and probably wouldn't say that, but
now that we live in a world where things get out quickly or at some
point are more likely to get out, especially if they're a hot potato like
that that you know. So the person said, take it with that.
And I don't think Terry Pegoula is racist. I think, I mean his
wife is not the majority, as they said, so I went not too
much, as she's a co owner. Yes, you don't have any other
women owners in the NFL, and I know she's not in the best,
but she was a co owner. So I don't know what you think it's
terrible. We we can't say that. We can't say, well, if
you don't like it. Because I said to the first I go, you
know, if I bitched about something, they're not going eah go back to
Ireland. See, I'll go to the fucker because if we did, if
I did a I don't know what twenty three and me, I'm I'm my
mom did it? You know what? My mom is ninety nine percent Irish
from a twenty three meter or whatever. It was ninety nine percent Irish and
one percent Northern European. That's the fucking Vikings that came over, right,
they took over. Why do you think we fight so much and drink so
much? Just a fucking Vikings knocked up with great grandmother. Probably where you
are? Where do you think the redheads come from? You know? So
all I can say is, uh, but that isn't said to me.
So I don't know. I don't know where this goes. It's it's is
you're gonna go back to a couple of terms. I think we'll hear the
establishment, uh, white old men, the boys club, the you know.
Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. I don't even know
what you said. I don't even know. Like if I'm a lawyer and
that stuff shit said, or if that said, I go, I just
kind of throw up my hands and go, yeah, I guess you're right.
Yeah, it's pretty bad. I don't know. I'm gonna I'm gonna
read a comment another comment that came out today. Good, and you tell
me what you think of this. So this is are now, this is
you want to look at the source, say what you want about Jerry Sullivan.
But Jerry Sullivan has been a hell of a report fifty years. I'm
a fan. I know I'm a fan of Jerry Sullivan too, and I
got a raw deal. It was an emotional moment. We'll see that's this
is okay. Yeah, so that's exactly what the first and I spoke to
said. It's an emotional You know, people say things I oh god,
that is I even I said, thinking stuff that I don't really mean a
buddy, did you ever? I almost edited it out, but I didn't.
I feel bad. You know what, I own it. Well,
I would never do that, I know you, and I don't mean that.
If the guy wants to sit down and talk, not that he want.
Don't underestimate me. Don't underestimate me. I'll knock somebody. I'll knock
somebody. See that because I'm sitting there going, I'm imagining this boss that
you describe kicking somebody's bag down the hall. That's humiliating. Of course it
is I would take a pretty face into the wall, and I mean that
you don't have to edit that out. That's bullshit. I understand that's that's
bullsh. I think that that probably wouldn't happen today. But that was.
That was literally twenty It's an act of power, like you can't do anything
to me. Watch this. It was and it was also I think it
was done. I think the people had to. I think the person that
was done too had a relationship outside of work that with that person, So
that was lifelong. And I think it was. Yeah, and I think
it was also done. Yes, that changes, Well, it does,
it does, and it doesn't. It doesn't, it doesn't, and I
think it it turns it into a I'm going to use you as an example
to scare everybody else. I know. I know of a place this is.
I just thought of this now, No a place of a place where
I could go and get my ass kicked. Yeah, where they would hire
a bunch of new people and they would get one person was a plant and
they would just fucking blow up and fire the person to scare the ship out
everybody else locally. No, okay, no, no New York City law
firm. Oh, no, yeah, yep, yeah, of a buddy
who would went wow, I went to Fisher with who went on to watch
get one of those jobs like that. All you're gonna do is you're gonna
do You're gonna be there and you're gonna do something like you're gonna you're they're
gonna give you something to do and you didn't do it, and so they're
gonna come in and go where is it? Or it looks like you palmed
it off to somebody else and they want you to do it, and you
know this and that and this would be like the third strike and they just
fucking melt down on you and like the whole play. I mean, it's
just you know that awkward silence where everybody's like afraid to breathe, and you
all of a sudden you hear like somebody's phone go off, and go,
oh good, please shut your fucking phone off. Yeah, like because you're
yeah, yeah, they do that like everybody's Momo number five, your spinker's
this d D D off. Yes, so yeah, okay, so I
think in the situation of that, but I even do that to me.
I'm just thinking if that if that was me, if that was me,
No, I know, but that's where my heart and my head went.
Yes, I know, so go but so Jerry Sullivan, not to Jerry
Sullivan quote. He tweeted this out about an hour ago. I recall Pegoula
making a joke about Byron Brown and Ted Black. Now Byron Brown was and
still is the reigning mayor of the City of Buffalo. And if you notice
anything in Buffalo last twelve years, that city's on a complete one eighty.
They used to have a control board. That city used to have a control
board running the show. I mean they were spending money like Erie County was
a mess. City of Buffalo was a mess. Byron Brown came in and
the whole city's undergone a renaissance. It's Gordon. That's before even the Pogoula
has gotten into the act. Ted Black used to be the president of the
Sabers. So their last name is Byron Brown, the African American gentleman.
His last name was was was mayor, was lost being lost. He lost
the primary primary, so he wasn't even on the ballot, and then everybody
wrote him in. Yeah he was. He was a writer and winners the
incumbent because they didn't want to win the primary because India Walton was like a
communist that they didn't want, or a socialist. They didn't want a socialist
running the city of Buffalo. But here's the problem. We don't pay attention
to the primaries and they fucking knew it. Yeah, you have to,
right, So Ted Black is white, Byron Brown is black. I recall
Pegoula making a joke about Byron Brown and Ted Black, suggesting that Brown was
blacker at a public event and Buffalo a while back. Jerry says, I
was accused by savers pr of calling Terry a racist. All I did was
report to comment and say that he shouldn't be allowed to speak publicly. By
the way, that is not the first time I said it as a joke
out public. Yeah, he goes as blacker, like it's kind of a
joke. Right. You could see like a guy Terry Pogoula's age saying something
like that, right, Hey, you know, okay, it's like this
is this is the generation. But that's the shit. I fucking love you
want to know why, because I don't think in his heart he meant anything
by it. Of course he goes and maybe I'm maybe I'm wrong. I'm
not in that skin. I can't say it, but I don't see anything
in there that was marvelishizing anybody like he can't, or discriminator, discriminatory or
keeping you out of so to me, but we are pointing out a difference,
and I know, and I know in my head, I'm going I
would never say that, but I fucking loved it. But so Jerry Cellivate
is saying, he's telling the Sabers, Hey, look, Terry shouldn't speak
in public. And oh, by the way, the Sabers for years have
taken that stance and only let Terry speak when it's absolutely necessary. You and
I and Tommy Wants interviewed him and it was one of the worst interviews ever,
not because it was bad content, but because he didn't know how to
answer questions. I don't remember he's not He wasn't very loquacious. Did he
sit down with us? No, No, he was on the phone.
It was after he bought the Sabers, not the built. He bought the
Sabers and we talked with him. And because we were the Saber station at
the time and time is brou that was freaking terrible because tom he's gonna say
it like it is. And this guy called guy I just put, he's
put a franchise, saved it for relocation. All you gotta say is pro
it's terrible. Rod's terrible brown. He just can't talk. And people tried
to hide Terry. They let Kim be the front person. Well, now
that's not a pot, that's not an option anymore. And so a lot
of this stuff is now coming out, even though that was all before Kim
got you gonna be If you want to be a great ceo, yeah,
you hire people who are are great at certain things, find the people that
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the future owner or maybe the future coach, because he called it Greg Connors.
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I didn't know that about Terry Pegoula. And by the way, this
story that's come out that you've tried this lawsuit, like Matthew Faber reported about
this years ago. Yeah, we just don't pay attention, we don't care
rights. And he also I think he made a point. Actually, no,
I won't say that because I don't know the full Norman clature the discussion.
But like, this isn't the first time that Terry Pecoula people said this
about him. I don't think the guy is racist. I don't know him.
I don't think so. I mean, I think I don't believe that
either. But I do think that there are certain things that we probably shouldn't
be saying anymore. Yeah, we just should you're a position of power exactly
because it does put off the idea of you were pick you're you're pointing something
out that's different. Why when we should be all inclusive right right? Right?
I mean inclusive. I mean now like Dan Snyder's out in Washington,
Yes, the guy from Carolina, like was out, Jerry Richardson was out
several years ago, so now it's like, Okay, who who's next?
I mean, it's it's a scary thought. And if you're a Bills face
at that stadium going up right and uh gosh, and the franchise is now
probably worth twice as much as what Terry paid for, he'd be like,
you know, the hell with us, go ahead take it. I'll sell
it to you. I don't need to deal with this, and why should
he? That's a scary thought if you're a Bills fan. Yeah, I
I I don't know that that'll happen. I don't think it. I don't
think that'll happen. I think that that sound they have to versify. Got
to go there? Well, a job to go there? Oh your worst
case scenario? Dan, Why do we got to do this? Always with
the scenarios. You're you're like my mother, You're worst case scenario day.
But but you know what people well that nobody wanted to hire before all those
years. Good you are just funny. I just have fun. Hang on,
you are angry about that ship? Does it piss me off? Yes?
Yes it does? Yeah? Still yeah, yeah, yeah, all
right, Michael George still pissed off. He didn't make his versity basketball.
By the way, as a tenth grader, are you sitting? Are you?
Are you saying my life is so much better now than it was had
I stuck in radio that God was so looking out for me at that time
that I didn't have the vision to see it. Okay, well nobody does.
Yeah you don't. Nobody does. But if God had told you here's
what you're gonna go through, you wouldn't wanted to go through it. That's
why he reveals yourselfing self one step at a time. I know you're not
into that. I'm just saying I'm hang on, hang on, hang on.
We're of a similar coin and I am not mocking you. And I
don't ever want you to leave this No, never any any space. You
and people have been in this room, but yeah, wherever we share,
I don't want you walking away going well, they just muck me because I'm
great. No, But I I am believing that the idea of sacrifice and
suffering is complete and utter poppycock. As our friend John Paranello used to say,
right, I only that, and I say that because yes, yes
we should a shirt made. Every everything starts right And if you got everything
all at once. She couldn't handle it. So that's part of the journey.
But you should try to make it as pleasant as possible instead of this,
Oh it's down Trott and I gotta suffer it. I gotta sacrifice for
the Lord and I gotta no, no, no, I don't I know.
But but you're saying, like, go through it. Yeah, I
guess, but can you go through it in a better way? Look?
Man, you know, and I know, like with me and you,
I think that the way things go and the way you handle them determines the
outcome. Yeah, completely, And you can have a bat something that would
be. I don't believe things come out of the blue, but I'll say
they come out of the oblivion. I never saw it coming. I was
oblivious right into whatever it was or whatever it would be. But I think
that how you handle that is is determinative of how it goes. Right.
So if you keep thinking, like all this bad shit happens to me,
I can never lose weight, I can't. You won't, you won't,
but you won't. And I'm just saying that that's the rocks in the stream.
So how do you get the rocks out of the stream. You got
to start thinking like, yeah, but you know what, feeling better,
I'm eating better, I actually feel better. You know, I'm I'm I'm
mud slides out my butt so I'm losing weight immediate. Yeah, that's how
I looked at it. You know what I'm say, But this could be
a blessing man. Yeah, you see what I'm saying. Okay, well,
at least you know, you know who's pretty interesting in in in the
Christian faith. Absolutely like when he really is. Yeah, but talk about
positivity, talk about all the ship. He says, basically the same thing
I've said, you know, tune those people out. What other people's opinion,
it doesn't matter. Hell, yo, I don't care what they say.
The Lord has raised on me, I know, right, And it's
but it don't You almost listen to that and you feel better yourself. Even
if you're not a believer, you feel better man. Yeah, I mean,
yeah, he's spectacular. He's fascinated with that stuff. Right, Always
think about what you're gonna rut what am I grateful for? What am I
grateful for? Or like can you say go for the happening? Well well
but no, but but but but that's it. What am I grateful for
right? Yeah? Hey, hey man, I haven't put on any more
weight. No, but here's the thing. I didn't have to turn the
sun on this morning. No, I didn't get out and pull that tops
of the earth spins a little fat and pull that chord real quick, so
make sure we're still spinding. I didn't have any of that. So all
this shit's going on, that's out of my control, and I just expect
to be there. I didn't have to create the oxygen. I don't have
to breathe less today because there isn't enough oxygen. It's just there. Yep.
Okay, so those are all great things. Let's go, yep,
let's go. Let's move that. That's the thing. Move forward, Move
forward and get to red, white and brew baby. Oh yeah, that's
a nice date spot. Yeah. Well, my wife and our anniverse a
couple of anniversaries are coming up. I might take her there. What anniversary
when we started dating and when we got engaged or two days apart? So
yeah, so Dane's gonna be spending some money this weekend. Why why why
do you laugh about that? I don't mock you, Dan, No,
I don't mock your faith. Okay, I mocked the shit out of you.
That's true. I do mock the shit of you, But I will
not mock your faith. I'll you can mock my faith. Okay, I'm
not gonna mind everyone come at you with what I see. I'll have a
discussion. I gonna mock it, you can. The truth is the truth.
Look, man, uh, that's a very nice thing that you remember
those anniversaries. Because fifteenth of September seven? Does she remember that the fifteenth
was the first date? No, it wasn't the first. Our first date
was June first. She actually actually she has it on. Also, wait
a little heart, what's what's the fifteenth? And the fifteenth was the day
that we started officially dating. Officially dating? Yeah, officially dating? What
does that mean? We courted from June till September. There's some other court
that she was like interested in too, okay, But then she settled on
can I ask a personal question on Billy? Am I allowed to ask question?
Can't you know where I'm going to ask? I don't think so,
But go ahead? Well, was there banging and during the courting period?
I will not discuss that. Oh, come on, were we on the
hardwood? Court. I wish, I wish to assert my Fifth Amendment privilege,
mister Ran all right, but in all seriousness, like we started dating
officially on September fifteen, So what is official? Like, I'm exclusive to
its baby, Okay, nobody else? You and me? My I started
day and her. You know, she was the only when I was dating.
When she started dating me, she was seeing some other people, which,
by the way, it's called dating for a reason, you know.
And then she grew more more interested in me, and then we started dating.
She said, Okay, so I gotta go back now, but let
me pause that for just a second. Really finished this red wait and Brew,
Yeah, I'm sorry if you're courting, Yeah, and you really want
to close the deal? And Brew, I think. So. It's a
tap and tasting room that does all the flavors of New York State. So
the wines that you love from the finger Lkes you can get there in a
flight. The beers that you love from around the state, you can get
there in a flight. Same thing with the spirits, you can do the
same thing. Get a nice charcuterie board. There's no TVs. You're talking,
there's music, there's actually board games. You can play and stuff.
It's just a cool place. And I think that if you took someone there,
because think about like, let's say you are dating and someone's dating a
bunch of different people. That's a memorable date spot. You want to close
the deal, you go to one forty seven State Street, downtown Rochester to
Red Way and Brews closing. Say hi to my friend Omar over there,
and you can find out more at Red White and brew Rock. That's Roc
Red White and brew Rock dot com. All right, so back to this
courting and what do you mean back, I'm just curious. I'm curious because
so she was dating other people and you were aware of that. She she
was up front, she said, tom oh yeah, yeah. Yeah.
It wasn't like, you know, we were just like she was like dating.
It's like, it's just you're dating, right, You're trying. You're
not exclusive to anybody. You're just saying, Okay, I'm gonna go out
with this guy and then next week maybe I'll go out with this person and
see what where things go. And we started dating more and more, and
then you know, at the end of the summer, she was like,
Okay, I think you're the guy I'm like great summer eleven. Okay,
So so when she's dating other people, have you ever called her like did
you let let let me just lay this out. It Tuesday. It's Tuesday.
You're thinking about I at this this weekend. I wonder what a Beth
for you? And riding night, loved to go, I got some tickets,
this will be awesome. Call her up and she says, oh,
I've got plans. Did that happen. I'm asking if that happened. If
it did, I don't know if it did or didn't. If it did,
does your mind go. I wonder who she's with. I wonder what
they're doing. I wonder where they went. I wanted to go here?
Is there jealousy that comes out? I'm just curious because I guess I guess
I never had. There was curiosity. Yeah, like I guess I never
dated or or I just never cared. It could be both. It could
be more of that. When I really really, I really like, grew
to like her and figured it out that I liked her, I got really
curious about okay, like, what's what's going on? Yeah, inside the
mind of a guy? Right? Oh? Yeah? Absolutely? When so
you really started to like her. Did you say so was I liked her?
Okay? Did you say things like I not I love you? Did
you say hey, I took a falling for you. I could sh I
know you, I know you. That was a different Daan. No,
I think you get I think you turned into a big pile of fucking jello,
my melting cool whip on top. Alright, I might have Yeah,
well, I mean most people, most guys, Yeah, a circle of
trust, right, Bill? Yeah, But I mean like, what were
you anglingd to Angland? To what Angland? To spend the night? Uh?
Possibly? Yeah? You know, I was a big rock star building
you know, I'm playing in bands. This before this is before covid man,
the world was awesome. Yeah, you know, before I read a
thing, I followed something on I don't even know when I followed it,
but I'll admit to this. It's success addicts or addicts. I think it's
success addicts might be on Instagram and then they just put out a bunch of
means. But one day with these slides, and I just went through real
quick, and one of them said, uh, my mom always told me.
And I don't know who this quote was attributed to, but my mom
always told me, if you're in love with two people, go with the
the second one, because you wouldn't have fallen in love with them if you
were really in love with the first one. That's a great point, you
know. And so I think for anybody who's dating. You may have feelings,
You may genuinely have feelings for people, but if there's one that you
just kind of can't shake, or maybe you do fall in love. Some
people just fall in love easily. Maybe some people aren't really sure what love
is, that it is loneliness. Yeah, sometimes it's lost. Some people
confuse sex. And I think a lot of times, like with the older
generation, like if they if they're widowed, right or w they jump on
the first train that comes because they're so accustomed to being with somebody, and
oftentimes it leads to a quick, quick marriage and divorce. I mean I
know a several older people that's happened where like oh yeah, and all of
a sudden like well, because they just couldn't live without somebody. And that's
well, I'll tell you, Like I think they getting to know you period
with somebody who's important, right and and really get to know somebody. I
mean, see all faces of this moon man, You know what I mean?
You know when it when it's in its u blue moon phase. I
want to know what's coming once around the corner. And sometimes you don't,
You're you're in too deep. I know what that's like too. Yeah,
No, I know everybody does. I'm not. I'm not. That's not
it. But I think I says, so you got you remember that when
you officially started dating. Does she remember that day? Oh? Yeah,
she has. She has a whole She made a heart with all like the
important dates on it. And then I, you know, also remember the
date that we started dating, which she has on and then the day we
got engaged, Yeah, and we did. I did it right over here,
actually know it was in Pittsford by the Canal. I don't think I
remember any of that stuff. No, No, I don't think I ever
did. I don't, which I don't. I think is an insensitive thing.
Probably, I don't know. I think it's I don't know if it's
a male thing or it's just like, yeah, I don't think of my
it depends on like the personality you have. I don't think there's like a
right or a wrong way to like look at it. We're softy. I
am, Yeah, I am. That's all right. See I'm not just
like punching people. People. I'm pain too. Was my favorite. That
was, would I say, yeah, dude, no, makee me man,
I'll do it. That guy you wanted to too, though, didn't
you. Uh no, no, I didn't care. I wanted to slap
him though, because he's more slapped. I just thought he wasted time.
Yeah you know me, Well, yeah, I waste time. Yeah right,
what I used to say all the time, I hate waste. I
hate burning calories on people. That was your big billy ladies and gentle billy
would have these phrases of the month, right, like one month like January
twenty twelve, Okay, systems, we need systems, right, yeah,
we're gonna have systems in place for the show. I did hit it.
Oh yeah yeah, yeah, I don't remember then once I was like,
I'm about burning calories on this guy upstairs with Grandpa Munster on the third floor,
you know. Or gosh, there was another one like he had some
take the putt, take the gd power back and sticking up their ASTs.
I mean like so like that's the phrase of the month, Tommy, Yeah,
bro, I get your Bengo card out. Didn't know that this is
going on? Oh yeah, I mean I don't think Tommy realized that.
I go there, he goes again. But you'd have like, like this
year, I'm reading biographies, I'm already like halfway through. Steve Jobs is
ladies and gentlemen. I'm not joking. Bill Moran would come dressed like he
is right now every single day for work for like a month, wearing a
black It was like January, you wear a black like not a sweatshirt,
but like a longsleeve shirt and jeans, same outfit every day because that because
you didn't want to have to think, and you bring it up. You
bring it up in the show. You know why Steve Jobs dressed like that
because you don't want to have to think about what he had to wear every
morning and times? Is that why you've dressed in the same outfit like a
cartoon character for the last twelve days. I still do it now. Yeah,
I know I'm lazy. I buy I just picked my outfits out the
day before. Why I didn't do that? And I actually like dressing dressing
up, like if I I would wear suits and things. I like that
I'm not gonna wear a suit here, Yeah, but I would. I
would do that suits like your last job. No, okay, no,
no, no, but I would wear them if I am seat something or
I don't mind dressed it up at all or trying to pull my I would
wear college shirts and stuff. But I also love like I buy T shirts
from Classic tas or whatever, class classics you still get. You get the
text message twice a day. Yeah, so I would. I know.
I don't always. They know when I'm on the crapper too, I think
because I'm like, oh man, I'm stuck here. I don't think I
I think I opted out for the Texas. Okay, you cannot, oh
man, they okay, well let's see what they got. I opted out.
Forty five minutes later, I'm still sitting there, like, Okay,
I might buy this package you can buy like the black T shirt package,
right, I better not, because well, T shirts from Yeah, and
they're wonderful comfortable. Yeah, but they're T shirts and they look like a
T shirt. They're not They're not like anything spectacular, but I like them.
They're softer, they're they're they're fit, they're properly. I could probably
go I have extra large. I could probably go large, but I didn't
want to look like that guy because I'm fifty two years old. Yeah,
I've actually grown into that guy now. Yeah, so I don't. I
don't want to be that guy. So I just decided that. But I
love the shirts, so I'll just throw them on. I washed them.
I do laundry, and I'm by myself. I do laundry and so yeah,
I know people have commented, do you ever change your clothes? Man,
You're wearing the same thing all the time. Today I'm wearing a hat
because I wasn't feeling good and I almost didn't do the podcast, but now
I'm glad I did. Danny, Yeah, it's a good podcast. I
did. Yes, it was a very good podcast. One thing I want
to remind people if you were going through any kind of family law issue,
circu Laws the place you want to Steve Circue and his wife Merrily, uh
merrily handles all the family law stuff and they're fantastic and U I think I
think they're gonna be moving their offices soon. Oh no kidding, Okay,
yeah, down by the river. No, no, no, I didn't
mean that that. Like a lot of people like lawfases have like they're not
going far from where they are now. There, they'll remain in Pittsford.
But look, a lot of times, if you have a divorced child,
custody or any other family law matter, you're gonna want someone who cares right
understands, is going to guide you through this. Those are emotional times.
They're emotional times, and you don't a lot of times, Look, we've
talked about it tonight, Terry Pegoula could have have been an emotional What he
said and what you're gonna read online and maybe in articles and things, was
it set out of emotion? Doesn't make it right, But even for yourself,
you can make it things worse when you act from emotion. And that's
a lot of times what we have what do they call them trigger words?
Hot buttons? You're you know, somebody's pushing your hot buttons. Who knows
you're hot button better than the person that you shared a bedwidth? Probably right?
Okay, So if you're finding yourself in something that you can't resolve,
all circul walk and help you get through that. That That's what I'm trying
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all right, Danny, Yeah, it has been Uh, it's been
fun. A little different tonight a little bit, but that's cool. Yeah,
sometimes you gotta switch it up a little bit. We do. We
do. Somebody said I should, I should change this to my way because
we're doing it our way. They are, frank, but it's such a
long song. It's so slow, so I figured maybe we'll keep closing with
this, but once in a while, like throwing a little my way for
Dan Barillo. He's gonna take it seriously and he's gonna remember the day.
I'm Bill Muran, will see Tomorrowley