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A passionate instigator and dynamic problem solver. Doctor Kevin ross Emery, the host

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of the Doctor Kevin Radio Show.
We'll be taking you outside the box,

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behind the curtain and identifying the load
of bs we are fed every day.

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And now Doctor Kevin, Hello,
Hello, Hello, and welcome to the

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Doctor Kevin Show here on Home Times, where we're changing the world wait for

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it, one ome at a time. So I want to welcome you to

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this week's show. As those of
you are following me for a long time

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now, I on a semi consistent
basis, only semi do a hot topic.

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A hot topic means something that gets
me hot under the collar or makes

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me warm the cockles of my heart. Unfortunately, with a lot of things

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went on in the world today,
I find that my collar tends to be

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warmer than my heart. So I
got a pretty warm heart for a lot

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of things, but for some reason, they just don't get discussed as much,

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um you know. And I was
going to do a hot topic that

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was that was warming the was that
was hot under the collar. But I'm

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going to change that to one that
has warming the cockles of my heart,

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which is this young man that I
read about who has now graduated and get

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several degrees um and he's like twelve
years old. And I wasn't prepared to

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do this story. I ran across
it. But you know, his parents

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learned discovered at a young age that
he just had this incredible ability to learn

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and bring it in and but instead
of happening, what happens a lot of

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times is that very highly intelligent children
because can can become not only outliers in

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some ways, but they can become
problems in the classroom, especially at a

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young age, because they're going to
be bored. And some of those are

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correctly and some of those are incorrectly
diagnosed as being ADD or ADHD, where

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oftentimes they're encouraged to be put on
a path of medication which helps them fit

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in better with the grade level and
the students they're with. I used to

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call that drugging them up and dumping
them down, that somehow, highly curious,

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highly energetic, highly intelligent kids just
didn't do well in the average classroom

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and then we're going to act out. Now. I don't know any of

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this child's history. I look through
the story some I know that his parents

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basically got on the train of allowing
him to get to this young age and

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graduate high school, graduate college,
get master's degrees, get all of this

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other stuff. Now as he emotionally
mature enough to be out in the world

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working a full time job, or
should he be at this age. That's

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a different set of questions. But
one thing that was clear was these parents

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didn't look at their whatever issues or
uncomfortability. They're extremely bright child may have

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been creating, and I'm sure there
were some. I'll bet my bottom dollar

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on it. I'll keep the ones
that are all on top of it,

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mind you if I lose the bet, But I bet that there were some

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terse conversations when this child was very
small and very young, and clearly very

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distracting, because if he's got all
these degrees at this age at five,

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he probably wasn't very happy learning to
count numbers, were sat contentedly learning his

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ABC. I bet he was already
way beyond that. And though it warns

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the cossles of my heart is whatever
it took his parents supported him to feed

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the bottomless curiosity of his intellect.
That he was this huge funge of wanting

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to learn and know and do this
and mean And he got a few different

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degrees. And so again I didn't
prepare. I had a different story prepared,

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but tonight's guest convinced me to do
a different story. He didn't know

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he convinced me to do a different
story. And I'll be introducing him in

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a minute. But I just decided, why you know, why worried?

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Be happy? Why focus on the
negative? We can't Well, maybe we

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can change it, but sometimes let's
focus on the positive and what's the message

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there? And maybe it's time to
destroy our current education system and build something

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that is less like an assembly line
the children get lost in and fall off

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of. And maybe it's time we
create something that bellas better celebrates all of

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these kids that seem to be coming
up, that learn in different ways,

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experience education differently, and when given
the opportunity, can really knock get out

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of the park instead of feeling like
we need to chop them up so that

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they can be the square peg to
fit in the square hole of a very

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outdated ucation system. So on that
note, I'm going to introduce my guests

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for the evening, and we're going
to talk a little bit about his new

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book and what he does and all
of that stuff. But My first question

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to him is he is from Canada, and I want to know how do

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they deal with really great kids in
Canada. But I'll be asking that a

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fame to do something. So Tonight's
guest is Cecil McIntosh. He is a

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relaxation expert and Barbadian spiritual teacher.
I love that author. He immigrated to

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Canada from Barbados age twenty, where
he was raised by his grandma and the

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village. I also love that we
definitely need a lot more village rating.

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After graduating from Ryason University, he
began his career in sales, always hustling,

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worked day and night to outperform his
peers, and subsequently lost everything with

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divorce and bankruptcy in the same week. See it's called getting your just deserves.

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No hanksrupts, he said him on
a quest to find clarity and see

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problems through new eyes, one day
he heard a voice telling him there are

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words for people that hear voices in
their head. Just so you know,

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I've been called them a few times
to teach what he had learned. He

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followed this guidance and had since helped
countless people with getting off the hustle hamster

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wheel and be in their flow state, at peace and free of worries.

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He has a new book out called
Drawback the Veil and Cecil. I've known

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Cecil. We are cross paths many
times. I've known you, yep,

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and fifteen years. Maybe that's why, Seas, what do I do with

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bright kids in Canada that they trying
to drug them up and dumb them down

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as much as they do here in
the States. Well, I think it's

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I think it's a universal thing,
and it's universal because of our conditioning.

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We're conditioned to behave a certain way
and it doesn't matter where you are that

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that's the conditioning. So until we
see things a little differently, it's going

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to happen. They are gonna be
acceptions to the rule where people will keep

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people differently. But generally speaking,
it's it's this is the way to do

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it right. This is the way
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you're and the other team, when
you have bright children too, it's a

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challenge because most people don't know how
to deal with them. There's no system

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the deeper bright kids. So the
challenge, the challenge, sorry, go

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ahead, no, no God.
So the challenge is that that is not

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something that's in place. If you
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can do it. But Jenner speaking, there's nothing in place to say,

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here's some bright kids, here's what
we're gonna do with them. Here,

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here's the systems to take them through
from or eight to point B. As

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you suggested. All we tend to
do it if you go to medication,

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Jenner, because it's the easier way, the faster way, and it's you

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know, it seems it seems to
fix the problem, but it doesn't.

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No, it actually exacerbates the problem, makes it worse. It gives a

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temporary fix with a very long term
cost. That's right, So tell me

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so thank you for that. I
do know that there have been some impressive

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studies because as you may or may
not remember, I have several books out

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on ad and do a lot of
work in that area, add adhd Um.

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But and there was some impressive h
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proved medication was not as successful and
came with some emotional and I mean and

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this was like a twelve year study. I mean, like Bank really did

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it right up there, but everybody
down here ignored him because it didn't tell

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them the message. They wanted to
tell them which way to medicate those children.

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E give those dollars the big pharma, give them into the system.

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And because bright, creative kids tend
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things. Ah, that's right now, when we talk about creative intelligence and

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rebellious, that's the perfect introduction for
you. Okay, do you deny any

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of the charges? Low, because
I'm glad you brought it this way,

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because this is what we can be
talking about for the balance of the evening.

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This is where we're going. So, Harris, what's happened? We

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have not as people in general,
we were never encouraged to ask questions.

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So for example, you've got you
when when you have your condition? For

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me a mom, the school,
the media, the church, and for

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me specifically, if I were to
ask the question, especially to the pastors

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or to my parents, they would
I get spank and put in a corner

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because I wasn't supposed to ask the
question. The problem is they didn't know

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the answer. So that's what happened
to me. What I have discovered and

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what I work and what I teach
now is that we need to ask questions.

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However, you need to come to
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addressed without judgment or without criticism.
And that's the challenge we have. There

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are very few places that you can
go and you can ask questions in your

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ignorance and someone's going to answer you. That's what I do because well,

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I teach so ahead. No,
Well, you know one thing I want

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to comment on that is that you
know where where I myself was not.

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But many people that were raised in
traditional society with the tradition, the major

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traditional religious backgrounds and the whole you
know, coming from the children should be

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seen and not heard or that whole
thing the power. The people in power

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start at a very young age to
indoctrinate the concept the questions are that and

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because they don't want to be questioned, not just because they don't have the

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answers, but sometimes because the answers
are because I want to have a better

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life off the back of you,
because I want you to be a cog

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or a wheel in my assembly line
and make me lots of money while I

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treat you like a piece of crap. I want you to be subservient to

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me like that. Somehow, you
know, and our institutions reinforce. You

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know, in India they call them
cast systems, but you see that happen

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in this country and I'm sure in
Canada, but correctly if I'm wrong,

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through you know, it's inherently built
in with what side of the track are

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you born with? What is your
authenticity? What is you know? What

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do you get a good quality education
offered? You are a crappy one,

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are you? You know? Like, there's all sorts of ways in which

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we do that. But it's not
just we need to ask questions, but

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the people that are getting that are
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with an open minding curiosity and that's
a big missing factor. What are your

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thoughts? Well, but they can't
because they're conditioned to behave that way.

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It's like hitting the brick wall.
It's impossible, right, you cannot use

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this. You've been conditioned by your
mom, your dad. That's that's what

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you're supposed to do. Now you're
telling me, okay, now I'm supposed

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to listen to you. Well,
I don't know any better. So and

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to support them, they're operating the
ignorance, But the point is it's still

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happening. They don't know any better. But people like you and I are

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trying to teach them better. Correct, But that's where I'm coming from.

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They don't know any better. Right. Let let me give you a quick

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story about that. When it was
at university, I was president. I

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was president in businesstudent society at Arson
and one day to being a business and

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president of Arson. Success. You've
done a good job. What are you

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going to do when you graduate?
And I said, I'm going to get

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a job and selling kept doctor Kevin. Imagine two white men looked at me

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and said, in Unison, they're
gonna hire you, say you less and

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fire you. And I'm saying what
No. I worked four years part time

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on tiptop tritos and the people there
are men who high school. They told

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me I was good at selling,
but that was that was just the thought

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that I couldn't do it, But
they didn't know I had done my homework.

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They're sorry. It was just like
everybody else because that was their conditioned

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way of thinking. So that's my
personal experience of where this is what they're

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thinking, but they didn't know that. People are ready told me you're good,

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although it was different. So this
is where the issue comes in the

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lack of education and lack of understanding
is the ignorance that exist. Oh and

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let's let's let's put the old spun
life right on the truth of that.

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They try to train us that different
is bad whatever that different, But what

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they said is that maybe it's more
specific. Toronto is not ready for a

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black salesman. That's what they said
to me. Now, Sethel, I'm

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shocked. I've done you all these
years, and I'm shocked. I've known

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you all these years and you never
told me you were a black man.

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Why did you hide that from me? I didn't hide it. This that's

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what they said. I'm doing me. I had definitely do it. But

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let me let's take us a little
bit more it or now I'm in sales.

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Now, let's since you go there
the adult piece of that. I'm

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in stales and I'm working and um
and when the sales, when the sales

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managers switch around, they all would
want me to be a part of They

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would all want me to be in
the system. So this white guy,

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Kim comes up to me and says, sex, you don't drink, you

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don't smoke, you don't go,
you don't you don't know go to cottage.

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You don't give a downboad anybody?
How can when the white managers do

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what they do, they all want
you to be on your team. I

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say, because I'm black, He
says, no, I what's going on?

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What happened is most people when when
a camp didn't know that I had

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saw I had worked with black people, do it was white people before?

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Because in Barbados there's no difference between
white and black. There's no there's no

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you know, we just eat breakfast
together. So everybody think that I am

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different. Now I don't know what's
going on, and it's like, excuse

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me. But the thing though,
that was important, Kevin, is that

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I respected and my grandmother taught me
to respect everybody. That was the key

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for me. So long as you
respect somebody, it doesn't matter who they

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are, ship size cutter. Just
respect everybody. And that was my ticket.

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Now, how do you deal with
it with that respect is not returned?

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Oh no, no, no no
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I respect myself. You cannot disrespect
me. I will not give you

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that privilege. You cannot you no, no, you cannot disrespect me Because

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I respect myself. I'm solid and
that no matter what you do, as

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long I've journed this long ago,
you can't stop me. You can't.

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No, no, no, no, that cannot happen. I will not

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give you the opportunity. You've brought
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again. You know Cecil mackintosh dot
com. If you go to the doctor

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the Doctor Kevin page Facebook for the
ductor Kevin Show page, you can see

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the link to his website. We
are going to be talking about his book

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drawing Back, draw Back the Veil
draw not Drawing Drawback the Veil Um,

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which you can get on his website. Um but dot said, you made

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a very interesting point because here in
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his bat in Canada or not.
We're going through a particularly vitriolic time of

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of a renewed racism in this country
like I haven't seen in thirty years,

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Like like everybody just racist is out
and proud about it. But you brought

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up that in Barbados, blacks and
whites are raised equally, so they don't

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see a difference. That's what I
heard you say, there's a difference,

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but it's not if we know it's
a difference. But we have, we

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have we eat together, we have
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games together. There's no you know. So that's that's where they come from.

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Okay. Do you think that there
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color in Barbados would be or would
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people who have gone through all of
the stuff we put them through if they

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were raised in the US. And
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I mean, do you feel like
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the society is going to do what
it said it's gonna do right that their

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conditioned to behave that way. I
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Where I look at it. I've
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and say, okay, now I
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What do I need to get it? I don't care which society, I

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mean, what do I need to
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it. So I think that from
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the society which is bigger than us, which we cannot win, but where

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we can win. It's if we
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we can stop tabbling the waters where
we're coming from. So I addressed it

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from that perspective. How can that
change in spite of what it is in

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front of me? Well, and
I call that a form of being in

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power. That's are of it that
I'm not going to give you the ability.

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You don't have the ability to make
me feel less. You don't have

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the ability to suppress me. I
have the ability to allow it. But

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if I don't allow it, it
cannot happen no matter how hard you try

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it. Thank you. So i'd
like to you know, before we start

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talking about your book, which we'll
talk more about the book. I know

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you're already kind of talking about stuff
in the book right now, but we'll

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do a throwdown, bigger conversation in
a little bit. But tell me in

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retrospect. I always like to hear
the retrospect being who you are now and

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looking back at the you you were
that in the same week went through bankruptcy

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and went through divorce. How did
all of that happen? Where do you

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look back? Can you look back
and say those are the points where I

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lost touch with who I was or
I lost touch with what I was doing.

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What do you see looking back at
that one at that at that sessil,

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It was a wonderful experience. And
let me explain to you what happened.

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My grandmother was my business teacher and
my spiritual teacher. She's one of

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the most influential people in Barbados now. She taught me everything that she's a

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businesswoman. She ran business as where
I learned more money back from. So

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when I came to Canada and I
started Bright Lights of the North work,

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I said, and I went to
university, says my grandma. She doesn't

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annoy anything. She didn't go to
university. So I am may because of

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what I'm based on what I heard
from the president, and being a business

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I made her to make money to
prove a point. So I mean,

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in the fifteen years, I made
lots of money. But what I discovered

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is that I was so attached to
money. But my grandmother never taught me.

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Yeah, she says money is important, but it's not the only thing.

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So I actually forsake the values of
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avatives and I lost all that.
But then after I meant to what I

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meant to on my journey. That
little voice was very rude to me and

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says, hey, you thought your
grandmother didn't know anything. You're rude to

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your grandmother. Now go go open
your home and teach you what you know.

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I know, I'm teaching what my
grandma talk. So that's my sisters,

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is a beautiful experience. Okay,
but you were making lots of money.

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How did you end up in bankruptcy
because I wanted to make more money?

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It was greedy, Okay, I
could say, I can see the

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forest from the trees. You got
seduced into the golden handcuffs and then okay,

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okay, I mean, I'm just
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the most important early teachers in my
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get both my grandmothers. I get
the grandmother thing. I have the grandmother

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vibe going, and I know they
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And I know that there were some
of those things that I forgot and had

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to remember because we have to go
out and we have to experience life as

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who we are. I mean,
life is our greatest teacher at the end

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of the day, if we allow
it, we can decide not to allow

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life to be our graded teacher,
and then we have a much harder life.

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Yep. So, but you entwined
that was the divorce because of the

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bankruptcy or they totally different, separate
things get together because in the context that

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because it was triggered by the Dina
business, in the president of regenstaying you

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can't make it, because that was
a trigger, all right, and I

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say, hello, I'm going to
prove you wrong. And because I took

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on that attitude, I actolutely ignored
my family. I was only interested in

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proving the point I can make the
money. You can't tell me I can't

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do it. I'm gonna make the
money. That was the mistake on me,

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if you want to call it a
mistake, because my grandmother never taught

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me about making money only so I
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one of the things I will often
share with listeners, and I'm going

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to share with you now, as
you know, I came to this point,

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you know, a couple of decades
ago now. But when I came

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to the point that I realized that
I'm here to be enjoy and enjoy I

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can have all of my material needs
taking care. Yes. You know when

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people say to me, what do
you do for work? And I go,

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I don't do work. I do
joy. I get up every day,

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I get paid to be me.
It doesn't get any better than that.

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But that's flipping it around, you
know. I know that when I

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first started my own business, just
thirty three years ago. Now that I

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started my business and people would come
and I was started it by doing professional

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psychic work again, and they'd sit
across my table and I would start to

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tell them what I was getting for
them, and I say, I start

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with what Spirit wants you to know? And you know, and people would

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be like, well, I have
questions. Well we'll get to your questions

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if we don't run out of time. I work for Spirit and I'm going

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to tell you what Sara wants you
to know, and what sort of wants

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you to know is more important than
what you think you want to know.

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So if it's important that you you
know, And a lot of times people

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would say you answered all my questions
before I could ask them. We'll be

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minute time. I also in my
ramblings at the beginning of the show forgot

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to mention it is a live call
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be part of this conversation and Cecil
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five seven, and you can ask
either one of us any and all questions

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you want. The other thing we
ask is that you be respectful. So

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again to five seven five seven,
give us a call, ask us the

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question would be more than happy to
answer, so you know, before we

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let on break. I think one
of the points that I was actually trying

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to make is I think that your
grandmother understood the concept of when you live

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in joy, the world will take
the spirit, the joy spirit, whatever

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you want to call it, will
take care of you. But I can

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go ahead if I can give you
an example of where I noticed that is

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my grandmother used to dig potatoes.
Dig the potatoes, she go into the

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ground, dig it out as she
sewed it. So one day I was

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at the home and twelve people came
to the home and they dropped off by

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the sugar flower coconut teas at her
host And I'm saying to myself, who

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the heck is my grandmother? So
when she came home, she says to

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me who dropped off that? I
say, donkey, Kurt, bicycle,

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motorcycle. She everybody that dropped the
doctor. What was fascinating is the twelve

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parishes in Barbados, and somebody came
from each parish. I'm saying, how

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can she be so powerful? How
can she be so influential that people from

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all over the country would come to
this little home and pop things up?

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That is what you're talking about.
That's where I'm sorry for her. She

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actually lived it. That's where I
got it from. Yeah, you know,

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in in her own right. So
she never had a shingle, and

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she never had a you know,
an education from a university or whatever.

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My grandmother was really kind of like
the town healer. And then people would

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would come to her and they would
respect her. Of course, in a

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lot of indigenous cultures, wise women, wise men, shaman, they're not

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expected to do anything but be who
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and they're recognized in the value for
the value of that. And you know,

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in the western world, we've really
got an ass over tea kettle and

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inside out on what we value and
what we don't value. So that it's

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so twisted that I couldn't explain it
to a child. Why, you know,

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their teacher who is taking care of
them barely makes enough to live and

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somebody that can shoot a basketball gets
to be paid twenty million dollars. I

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can't explain the logic behind that.
There is no logic, there's no justification.

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So yep, drove back the veil. What led you to write this

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book? Can you tell us some
stuff about this book? And this is

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your first book? Is don't I
remember you have another book out? I

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have another book out, but that
I really didn't push it too much because

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somebody says to me, the book
you've written, doesn't it was missing something,

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So I just I just parked it. Oh, I parked it.

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So throughout back in the field.
For many years, I've been teaching people

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entrepreneurs more specifically, what like I
caught my grandma what my grandmother taught me

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along with some other people, and
most of my people that I worked with

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then did extremely well. Right.
So, for example, Jenuma came to

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me. He was a millionaire,
he had no relationship, high blood pressure,

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couldn't sleep. He got whatever he
wanted because of working with me,

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he got everything he wanted. Right, So that's what I was teaching.

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But although I was teaching this and
I was getting amazing result, there was

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something that was missing to me and
I didn't know what it was, but

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was that little something they want?
I got a headache, evented, my

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wife and I went to the hospital
and they checked me out. The doctness

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is nothing wrong with you, and
there's a bit of research on the internet.

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And then I discovered the piece that
was missing. It was I saw

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this video by Moji and it was
all about what they calls self realization.

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And as soon as I saw everything
around me spun, my whole life change

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and I realized that's the piece that
that's the piece that's missing. Now,

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why is that important? That's important
because most entrepreneurs. They have a gift.

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That's why they do what they do. But what they don't have is

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they don't know who they are.
There's a condition self that that the function

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ads. But then you find out
who you are, when you emerge your

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gift with who you are, then
it's what you talk about, the living

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and joy. So that's what the
book is all about. That's that's how

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the drawback the veal kim because draw
out the villa means it was hidden.

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I didn't know it was there,
and I think about it. It was

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right. I have it. I
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It's like the story this lady she
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used to she used to going upon
and she would wash her here. She

409
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came to the city and there was
no in her opinion, she lives in

410
00:36:22.440 --> 00:36:28.360
a apartment, but she couldn't wash
her here. So she's for the whole

411
00:36:28.400 --> 00:36:30.199
week she's complaining she can't wash her
here. Somebody in the village says,

412
00:36:30.440 --> 00:36:34.480
go to that wise man down there
and tell him your problem. So she

413
00:36:34.599 --> 00:36:37.039
goes to the wise man telling the
problem. The wise man says to her,

414
00:36:37.199 --> 00:36:39.559
do you live in an apartment?
Yeah. Do you have a bathroom

415
00:36:39.639 --> 00:36:44.239
here? Do you have a toilet? Yes? Do you have Is there

416
00:36:44.239 --> 00:36:46.000
a curtain in the bathroom? She
said yes. She says, do me

417
00:36:46.039 --> 00:36:51.280
a favor, go home, pull
back the curtain, come see me tomorrow.

418
00:36:52.599 --> 00:36:54.440
When she put back the curtain.
But she saw the shower and she

419
00:36:54.559 --> 00:36:58.519
washed her here. That's that's where
the drawbaut the vela is all about.

420
00:36:58.559 --> 00:37:01.360
Everything we want is right there,
but we can't see it as a deal.

421
00:37:02.320 --> 00:37:08.079
So that's that's that's that's so funny
because it makes me think of two

422
00:37:08.159 --> 00:37:12.920
things. One is, you know, one of the books that I have

423
00:37:13.039 --> 00:37:19.079
out is called Combing the Mirror.
So it's called Combing the Mirror and Other

424
00:37:19.119 --> 00:37:23.400
Steps in your Spiritual Path, And
there's a chapter called Combing the Mirror,

425
00:37:23.599 --> 00:37:32.840
And it's when we when people are
reflecting back, mirroring back to us something

426
00:37:32.920 --> 00:37:39.480
that we are unhappy with or unsettled
with within ourselves, that no matter how

427
00:37:39.639 --> 00:37:45.639
much we try to fix them or
comb the mirror, it's they're not the

428
00:37:45.800 --> 00:37:53.239
problem we you know, but it's
and you know, and I got this

429
00:37:53.360 --> 00:37:59.800
from an actual client session where I
had somebody who didn't was partially balved actually,

430
00:38:00.199 --> 00:38:04.320
and I dragged him into the bathroom
and I gave him a comb,

431
00:38:04.400 --> 00:38:07.559
and I messed up what little Harry
had and I said, start combing that

432
00:38:07.679 --> 00:38:19.199
mirror until that hair is thick.
And he got it. It's like,

433
00:38:19.280 --> 00:38:21.480
I'm never going to be able to
fix my hair. Comb in the mirror,

434
00:38:21.519 --> 00:38:23.519
and comb in that mirror, and
I said, and you're never going

435
00:38:23.559 --> 00:38:29.199
to be able to fix your sister. Your sister is reflecting back to you

436
00:38:30.000 --> 00:38:37.000
your version of the damage both of
you got from your childhood. So when

437
00:38:37.039 --> 00:38:40.360
you talk about her discovering the shower, it makes me think of my combing

438
00:38:40.440 --> 00:38:45.119
the mirror. Slightly different message,
but a very harmony, two very harmonious

439
00:38:45.159 --> 00:38:51.159
messages with each other, you know. So, and then the other thing

440
00:38:51.280 --> 00:38:54.639
is, I don't know because I
know that we originally met at an organization

441
00:38:54.719 --> 00:39:00.920
that I was on faculty for,
So I don't know if you ever heard

442
00:39:00.000 --> 00:39:04.920
me when I was on the stage, but you know, I would tell

443
00:39:05.000 --> 00:39:08.079
people from the stage if they asked
me, what is the first thing that

444
00:39:08.239 --> 00:39:12.480
you want to do with an entrepreneur? If if we've brought you in,

445
00:39:12.599 --> 00:39:14.920
doctor Kevin, what is the first
thing you would do? People would ask

446
00:39:14.960 --> 00:39:19.039
me, And I said, the
first thing I would do is we would

447
00:39:19.079 --> 00:39:23.320
make sure to discover if you don't
know what is the vision and mission statement

448
00:39:23.480 --> 00:39:29.519
of your soul. Yeah, and
once we have identified the vision and mission

449
00:39:29.559 --> 00:39:32.159
statement of your soul, we make
sure your business is in alignment with it,

450
00:39:32.960 --> 00:39:37.440
because if you have a business that's
in alignment with the vision and mission

451
00:39:37.480 --> 00:39:44.320
statement of your soul, you cannot
fail. That's right, you're doing what

452
00:39:44.440 --> 00:39:54.280
you came here to do. So
now what is your So you have the

453
00:39:54.360 --> 00:39:58.639
book out and people can go to
your website and get the book. Correct

454
00:40:00.119 --> 00:40:04.119
book free download. Yeah, it's
a free download. Did you hear that?

455
00:40:05.199 --> 00:40:12.320
You can go to Cecil McIntosh dot
com. That a see if I

456
00:40:12.400 --> 00:40:15.239
put out see if I sell it? Right? You can correct me C

457
00:40:15.519 --> 00:40:24.519
E C I E L M C
I L or I knew I was going.

458
00:40:25.920 --> 00:40:29.840
Or if you want the book faster, they can go up to s

459
00:40:30.400 --> 00:40:34.039
C E C I L ebook dot
com dot We're getting right to the books

460
00:40:35.000 --> 00:40:40.320
cecisbook dot com. We're getting straight
to the book. Okay, And it's

461
00:40:40.360 --> 00:40:45.960
on the website. Yeah, it's
on the website. If you want.

462
00:40:45.400 --> 00:40:50.679
When we hang up tonight, you
can go to the Doctor Kevin Show where

463
00:40:50.719 --> 00:40:54.079
I posted about the show and put
that link in the comment bar so people

464
00:40:54.320 --> 00:40:59.000
when they listen, Okay, this
show will air six more times in the

465
00:40:59.079 --> 00:41:01.760
next week airs I do. I
shoot the show once a week, but

466
00:41:02.039 --> 00:41:06.480
then it shoots at all different time
zones because I have listeners all over the

467
00:41:06.559 --> 00:41:10.039
world. So you can go and
put put that in and the comment part

468
00:41:10.079 --> 00:41:15.440
for people to get there. What's
next for you? You've got the book

469
00:41:15.440 --> 00:41:19.280
out, you're giving it away.
Tell me what's what's that? That's the

470
00:41:19.440 --> 00:41:24.719
unfolding world for season. Sorry,
I'm so glad you asked. Here's what's

471
00:41:24.719 --> 00:41:32.280
beautiful? Then you discover who you
are, not who you think you are,

472
00:41:32.719 --> 00:41:36.920
not who you are conditioned to be, but so so who are you?

473
00:41:37.280 --> 00:41:42.480
You are that person? Writ is
joy Where there is no writ is

474
00:41:42.599 --> 00:41:45.639
harmony, whdre is no fighting,
there's no screaming, wh there's no shouting.

475
00:41:45.840 --> 00:41:53.320
It just is and whatever you want, you don't really do anything.

476
00:41:53.719 --> 00:41:59.079
Everything works through you, So there's
no working hard to make a living here,

477
00:41:59.599 --> 00:42:02.559
But everybody works true you. If
you understand that you have to get

478
00:42:02.719 --> 00:42:06.960
out of your own way, and
you're aware of that. The thing is

479
00:42:07.159 --> 00:42:12.519
unawareness that if you get out of
your way, everything that you want will

480
00:42:12.599 --> 00:42:17.159
turn up naturally, and if you
are aware and you're listening, your whole

481
00:42:17.320 --> 00:42:22.119
day will be planned out for.
You'll be told what to do each moment

482
00:42:22.199 --> 00:42:24.559
of the day if you are aware
of it. But the challenge is,

483
00:42:24.599 --> 00:42:28.000
we have all these thoughts I mean
true, and we don't we can't,

484
00:42:28.079 --> 00:42:30.159
we don't know what to do with
the thoughts, or we don't do it.

485
00:42:30.400 --> 00:42:32.719
We just got get caught up in
them. But in what I teach

486
00:42:32.840 --> 00:42:36.639
now, I teach you how to
deal with all those thoughts and all the

487
00:42:37.360 --> 00:42:39.280
factions and everything. I teach you
how to deal with that. So life

488
00:42:39.360 --> 00:42:46.360
continues the way it is. However
it wouldn't affect it. That's what I'm

489
00:42:46.400 --> 00:42:50.960
teaching and what I really what where
I'm going with this is I want to

490
00:42:50.960 --> 00:42:55.000
take entrepreneurs who have that gift and
who are interested in what I'm teaching,

491
00:42:55.679 --> 00:43:00.400
and we're going to merge them together. And what we're gonna time up with

492
00:43:00.679 --> 00:43:04.760
is what we call the freedom entrepreneur
effect. What that means is that as

493
00:43:05.480 --> 00:43:10.280
with this merging, you have that
freedom. So say you whatever company or

494
00:43:10.320 --> 00:43:15.360
whoever you work with, where you
have that essence, whoever work with you

495
00:43:15.400 --> 00:43:17.800
would kind of get a bit of
that perfume. And if you have a

496
00:43:17.920 --> 00:43:22.199
company that has a line along these
lines where everybody understands that or not,

497
00:43:22.480 --> 00:43:28.679
everybody to the top of the top
influences understand that life is beautiful because everybody's

498
00:43:28.679 --> 00:43:34.000
in alignment. That's my whole purpose. And then we're gonna have you can

499
00:43:34.119 --> 00:43:37.960
have to get together in our groups
and we have communities and this freedom entrepreneur

500
00:43:37.039 --> 00:43:40.760
scent is what's gonna it's it's gonna
be like you're gonna get a whiff of

501
00:43:40.800 --> 00:43:44.719
it. You're gonna get intoxicated,
but you don't know what's happening, but

502
00:43:44.840 --> 00:43:52.519
things begin to happen differently. That's
where I'm going. So what I hear

503
00:43:52.599 --> 00:44:01.440
you say is your goal is to
work with entrepreneurs to become into an into

504
00:44:01.519 --> 00:44:07.440
an alignment where like we were talking
about before, that they're more living their

505
00:44:07.559 --> 00:44:13.920
life and joy that they're doing what
they're here to do, that their business

506
00:44:14.159 --> 00:44:20.559
is successful as a byproduct instead of
them being the byproduct of a successful business.

507
00:44:21.519 --> 00:44:30.280
That's right, and that you want
to form that into a supportive community

508
00:44:30.760 --> 00:44:37.239
that can then support and grow and
create synergy within itself for the members.

509
00:44:38.199 --> 00:44:42.159
Did I get that all straight?
Did I miss anything? You're right under

510
00:44:42.400 --> 00:44:52.159
as usually you're right in the money. So now so you're available right now

511
00:44:52.280 --> 00:44:58.280
to work with entrepreneurs. Yes,
yes, yes, okay, So if

512
00:44:58.280 --> 00:45:04.000
they go to your website and they
want do they can they schedule an introductory

513
00:45:04.079 --> 00:45:07.239
appointment? Can they? I mean, like, how does it if?

514
00:45:07.360 --> 00:45:15.199
If I if I am listening to
this today and I'm an entrepreneur who knows

515
00:45:15.239 --> 00:45:20.400
I'm meant to be an entrepreneur,
but my business is ruining my family and

516
00:45:20.880 --> 00:45:24.320
is uh, you know, coming
with very high cost that I no longer

517
00:45:24.400 --> 00:45:30.079
want to play. What's their next
step? The first thing to do is

518
00:45:30.159 --> 00:45:35.039
to get the e book book asessu
ebook dot com. When you get the

519
00:45:35.159 --> 00:45:37.760
e book, it gives you a
foundation to understand I thought, why you're

520
00:45:37.800 --> 00:45:40.480
doing, what you're doing, and
what you can do about it. Then

521
00:45:40.639 --> 00:45:45.880
I have a weekly class. I
have a weekly class where I teach weekly

522
00:45:45.719 --> 00:45:50.079
some of the things that come up
with this. I teach you basically how

523
00:45:50.159 --> 00:45:54.679
to how to how to be if
you want to do better? Artici what

524
00:45:54.800 --> 00:45:59.320
consciousness is? Artisi what awarenesses?
So the more where you are, the

525
00:45:59.400 --> 00:46:04.440
easy to understand what's going on.
Then from there, um you might want

526
00:46:04.480 --> 00:46:07.400
to know more about right and there's
a contact page on my website. They

527
00:46:07.440 --> 00:46:10.000
can go and you can you can
contact me. You too to contact me.

528
00:46:10.199 --> 00:46:13.840
But we start with the book and
then we start with the plastids,

529
00:46:14.039 --> 00:46:15.559
so it gives you a little you
know, you can check me out so

530
00:46:15.639 --> 00:46:21.599
you can find out what's going on
if it's for you. I years ago,

531
00:46:28.960 --> 00:46:30.400
we actually yeah, I remember,
I remember being you and like I

532
00:46:30.440 --> 00:46:34.360
didn't know who you when I first
went to the US list and being like

533
00:46:34.400 --> 00:46:36.440
we're talking, like you were talking
about me, Like who do I do

534
00:46:36.519 --> 00:46:37.519
you should do that? Really?
Like who the heck is this guy?

535
00:46:43.800 --> 00:46:49.159
Yeah? I'm just somebody out there
being me. And it always care those

536
00:46:49.239 --> 00:46:52.559
people because they keep on thinking that
there's something I'm supposed to be other and

537
00:46:52.639 --> 00:47:02.519
I'm like, yeah, it doesn't
quite roll that way, so I assume.

538
00:47:02.719 --> 00:47:07.000
I don't want to assume, so
I want to ask. So these

539
00:47:07.079 --> 00:47:13.239
classes you hold are they on zoom
in person? Both they are. When

540
00:47:13.280 --> 00:47:15.480
you sign up for a class day
in Zoom, you get a link and

541
00:47:15.599 --> 00:47:21.239
you come to the classes. Classes
on Raines days at seven and Thursdays at

542
00:47:21.320 --> 00:47:23.440
one because I want to get different
times zooms involved. So the two hours

543
00:47:23.480 --> 00:47:25.320
the two hours you can ask me
and then you want to ask me.

544
00:47:25.800 --> 00:47:30.440
And that's there's ten dollars for ten
dollars per week, is what it is?

545
00:47:31.320 --> 00:47:37.039
Well, that's a bargain. Um. Well, then there's always the

546
00:47:38.639 --> 00:47:43.039
you know, one of the power
of classes, because I've taught lots of

547
00:47:43.119 --> 00:47:50.559
classes through the years, is not
only what you go in knowing what you

548
00:47:50.679 --> 00:47:55.559
want to know, but then participating
in a situation where somebody asked the question

549
00:47:55.760 --> 00:48:00.800
you might not have thought of asking
yes, and sometimes you know. And

550
00:48:00.920 --> 00:48:07.320
of course I'm big into the idea
that a really good teacher is one that

551
00:48:07.440 --> 00:48:12.079
goes into every class saying what am
I going to learn from this class?

552
00:48:13.159 --> 00:48:19.920
That's right? Beautiful, This says
if we, you know, the students

553
00:48:20.000 --> 00:48:22.119
go in and they think they know
what they want to learn, but we

554
00:48:22.280 --> 00:48:27.760
go in and we're kind of like, okay, spirit, what am I

555
00:48:27.840 --> 00:48:31.000
here to learn today from this group
of students? How is this people's students

556
00:48:31.079 --> 00:48:37.599
going to help me grow and evolve
and be and become more? That's right.

557
00:48:39.079 --> 00:48:43.400
So people can go into classes and
then at some point if they're like,

558
00:48:43.639 --> 00:48:46.320
hey, the class thing works,
but I need some one on one

559
00:48:47.639 --> 00:48:52.920
cessil loving, then they can create
that as well. But I love you're

560
00:48:52.920 --> 00:48:55.679
talking about. I met a genuine
once and I was working with him and

561
00:48:55.760 --> 00:48:59.480
he says to me, cecil,
I have to admit to you, you

562
00:48:59.599 --> 00:49:06.239
have love loves me more than my
mom and dad. I thought it was

563
00:49:06.360 --> 00:49:08.880
it was it touching because you have
loved me more than my mom and dad.

564
00:49:08.920 --> 00:49:12.400
You never judge me, you never
do anything. You just treated me

565
00:49:12.519 --> 00:49:22.360
as a person, you know,
and as that When I hear that,

566
00:49:22.960 --> 00:49:27.800
and I've heard that, I've heard
people say that to me as well.

567
00:49:29.320 --> 00:49:37.280
And you know it used to it
used to always like warm the cockles of

568
00:49:37.519 --> 00:49:45.400
my heart that I could be there
for somebody in such a powerful way who

569
00:49:45.519 --> 00:49:49.800
needed it. But then there was
always a little part of me and there

570
00:49:49.840 --> 00:49:57.639
still is. That. That's a
little sad that that when we have every

571
00:49:57.719 --> 00:50:05.280
major world religion preach love is the
way in one form or another, when

572
00:50:05.639 --> 00:50:08.159
we have songs about it and books
about it, and we have all of

573
00:50:08.199 --> 00:50:16.920
this stuff, and yet unconditional loving
and acceptance is so rare, And that's

574
00:50:17.000 --> 00:50:27.280
so sad. You know that.
And hopefully through the work you're doing,

575
00:50:28.000 --> 00:50:31.559
you will be corrupting people to bring
more of that into the world. Oh

576
00:50:31.599 --> 00:50:37.920
I love that word. I love
that word, which watching parts corrupt.

577
00:50:38.760 --> 00:50:45.400
I think that's beautiful. I think
that's beautiful. My staff used to talk

578
00:50:45.480 --> 00:50:47.760
about, you know, when I
would speak on a stage and I would

579
00:50:47.800 --> 00:50:52.159
get all wound up and I would
inspire and I would do all this stuff,

580
00:50:52.519 --> 00:50:54.559
and then they'd say, we always
have to be prepared for those people

581
00:50:54.639 --> 00:51:09.039
that caught Doctor Kevin Fever called it
ductor Kevin f And Yeah, but I

582
00:51:09.239 --> 00:51:16.440
think that it is really powerful and
really beautiful because there are not enough of

583
00:51:16.559 --> 00:51:24.679
us out there holding non judgmental,
unconditional loving spaces. That's right. And

584
00:51:27.599 --> 00:51:34.320
you know you learned it from your
grandmother. Yeah, she's a foundation of

585
00:51:34.360 --> 00:51:40.599
everything I teach. I learned it
from my grandmothers as well. Um And

586
00:51:42.400 --> 00:51:45.199
and I'm going to say in my
case also that Papa taught me. My

587
00:51:45.360 --> 00:51:52.559
father, Papa's taught me unconditional love. Um. So I was lucky because

588
00:51:52.599 --> 00:51:57.239
I had three people that in each
and every one of them in their own

589
00:51:57.320 --> 00:52:05.039
way. And I think that unfortunately, there is a tendency in society,

590
00:52:05.119 --> 00:52:09.960
and it's one of the ones that
you and I in touching people and the

591
00:52:10.079 --> 00:52:19.559
work that we do that we really
need to try to change this false reality

592
00:52:20.519 --> 00:52:27.559
of the way that people who often
are unconditional loving and non judgmental are seen

593
00:52:27.679 --> 00:52:37.400
as weak or less or not as
somehow that that somehow, it's almost you

594
00:52:37.480 --> 00:52:39.960
know, the old like, well, you know, that's what you call

595
00:52:40.039 --> 00:52:46.800
a sucker type of thing. And
I think that it's very woven in because

596
00:52:46.840 --> 00:52:52.679
again, our institutions fear unconditional love, and they fear people coming from a

597
00:52:52.760 --> 00:53:00.719
place of non judgment but discernment,
because they know all their asses would get

598
00:53:00.760 --> 00:53:12.960
fired if people really discerned what they're
doing. But yeah, what did we

599
00:53:13.159 --> 00:53:17.400
look at It is that we who
we who are discerning, need to be

600
00:53:17.480 --> 00:53:21.800
able to be standing in our power. So it doesn't matter what people think

601
00:53:21.840 --> 00:53:25.880
of us, so that they will
think of you in different ways. But

602
00:53:25.960 --> 00:53:29.960
as soon as you're standing that power, it doesn't matter what you think.

603
00:53:30.159 --> 00:53:34.119
The secret is to touch more people
and keep on touching people and get a

604
00:53:34.280 --> 00:53:37.280
really said. That's why I talk
about the movement, the freedom entrepreneur movement.

605
00:53:37.440 --> 00:53:40.840
We get that effect going, that's
what we're going to change turn things

606
00:53:40.880 --> 00:53:47.199
around. So I don't know if
you were I don't know if you remember

607
00:53:47.280 --> 00:53:51.360
this, but of course you know
we'd be at CEO Space, and they'd

608
00:53:51.400 --> 00:53:55.519
be all these business owners entrepreneurs want
to be entrepreneurs, and a lot of

609
00:53:55.599 --> 00:54:00.280
them be in business suits and ties
and stuff like that, and yep,

610
00:54:00.559 --> 00:54:04.199
and you know, and kind of
have that sort of straight lace thing.

611
00:54:05.320 --> 00:54:08.320
And by the last few years I
was teaching, one of the things I

612
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was known for was my doctor Kevin
hugs, and people would come and say,

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I was told when I came to
CEO Space, I needed to get

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a doctor Kevin hug, to the
point that the last few times I taught,

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I would stand there in a line
would form so everybody could get their

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hug. That's right, and we
need more of that in the world.

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And I'm really happy that I know
that you're out there actively trying to create

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that. Thank you. We are
going to be running out of time any

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minute now. Any last thoughts or
things you want to say, any other

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things. What is the closing message
you would like to leave to the Doctor

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Kevin audience today? I would like
audious to know that the moment they have

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the clarity and realize that they have
an issue, and they take ownership of

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that issue, and they're looking for
another, and they're looking for another,

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they're looking at life. If they
can embrace this awareness that there are not

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who they think they are, but
we are all connected. If they understand

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that whole concept, then there's nothing
else in life to be concerned about.

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So I go back too, even
though it's not a perfectly aligned cultural connection.

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I go back to where I started
this interview, which is, don't

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worry, be happy. Yep,
yeah, that's all. Thank you for

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joining us in the doctor giving bye, right,