Made a saint John O Peace, Sunny sun On. I hadasione night.
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thank you ladies and gentlemen. W t G I f TGIF so anyway,
yeah, I talked about it on our zoom but so well, yeah,
our house is an escrow. Yes, that is just craziness in escrow.
And we have to be out by May fifteenth. That's insane. And why
these people wouldn't give you like an extra month is beyond me. I don't
know, I know, why couldn't they We tried. I can't just just
call them and just be like, guys, come on, come on,
come on, let us just you won't even know we're here. Yeah.
So this couple bought the house and they don't have kids, but they're gonna
have kids, and they want to keep all of our furniture, including the
bedroom furniture. Why is that? I don't know. I think because they
don't want the rooms to be empty. You know. By the way,
do you notice that there's like this I don't know. If you notice there's
like a layer, a green layer of just soot in my backyard. It's
it's pollen or what it's driving me? It's I got allergies. My eyes
are like puffy and red and like I'm like, it's have you noticed it?
I don't know what's going on in our area? No, it's in
my backyard. We literally, because we're showing the house, we're spraying the
backyard furniture down all the time, and it's like one minute it's clean,
and then the next day there's just a layer of like green and yellow,
thick like soot, like as if it like rained allergies onto our backyard.
Oh wow. Anyway, I don't know, but I feel like, do
you think that's a disclosure, Like if there's murder in my house? Yes,
I had to do that this week and sit with it. Is sit
with the realtor you know any meth lab happening in your house, anybody die
in your house? Any you know asbestos in your house? No? No,
no, anyway, So yes, they on our furniture, and think
I think they just don't want the house, the rooms to be empty.
They don't want to deal with it. They're gonna replace it as they go,
I guess. But all right, like, but we need beds to
sleep in, Like, so we're literally just going to be packing up our
clothes and the kitchen. It's basically it, which some say is a blessing.
What about stuff on the wall or did you just not have a lot
on the walls. We didn't have a lot on the walls, and what
we did have on the walls is now been put into the garage because the
house got staged, right, And what about all the rugs? Do they
want those? Two? Yeah? I guess so they want everything. They
can have coffee tables, like, whatever's in the house. They're just like
keep it. They're keeping it, except for like the kitchen, except for
the TVs and the stuff in the kitchen. Yeah, microwave, microwave,
refrigerator, rush or dryer everything. Why did I have trouble saying the word
refrigerator for refrigerator, fridge everything, so all appliances everything. Yeah, so
you have to just go buy a new refrigerator. Well, the plan is
is to rent. So I'm looking for a rental and I I used I
was looking and I stopped looking, and it's like everybody's like, well,
you can't rent anything until the house gets sold, you know, you get
what are you gonna do? Go pay for both places? You know.
So now that the house is still sold, it's been so now it's like
three weeks away from when we're supposed to move out at this point, and
I got to find a place. So anyway, I found a place in
our neighborhood. Is perfect. It was my price range. It was like
up the street, same neighborhood, everything perfect, kids. I took the
kids to look at it. We loved it. Then I find out on
Saturday that I said, I text the realtor and I said, get the
rental application, let's go, let's get it. And uh, he replies,
and he says, I just reached out to them. They're taking it
off the market. So we're back at square one. So now I don't
have a place lined up yet. I'm gonna go look today, have a
couple places to look at, but I don't know, we'll see it's not
there's not a lot in our neighborhood, so which I understand. So we've
expanded the search for the surrounding neighborhoods. Still not that much out there,
you know. So it's either way too high and way too much of a
house, or it's really low and like two bedrooms, yeah, like two
bedrooms one bathroom, Like that's not gonna work. But so, I don't
know. So every Monday and Tuesday, from what I understand, new listings
come out, so hopefully we'll see. So today I'm gonna go. So
is Adam trying to rent something in the neighborhood as well? Or is he
just like bye, I see a bye see. I don't know. I
don't know. I don't know what his deal is. I don't know.
I I mean, he's got to tell you that at least, right he
just won't tell you even what I don't ask while the kids are still in
town. Now, I think he's the kids said he's gonna rent someplace,
maybe in our in our neighborhood, I guess. So are you having to
compete with him for now? Not in our neighborhood, like in like you
know, like the surrounding like by his studio or something he's renting. I
don't know, but no, he's he's probably gonna get like an apartment or
something, not a house. I don't know. I don't have no idea
but an apartment where the kids could stay, or are you're going to take
primary custody? Until I think, well, I'm going to take primary custody.
Yeah, they're going to be with me, oh pretty much the whole
time most of the time. And he's fine with that, I guess,
so yeah. I mean he can come see them and take them out to
dinner, they can go to visit him in Malibu. I mean, they're
gonna be eighteen. They can figure it out, you know, Yeah,
totally. And we almost made it like why is the mom? I mean,
this is just a globe, but this is a rhetorical question. But
it just seems like in life and not all men hashtag not all men.
Okay, god, my god, calm the fuck down, people, But
it seems like we're the ones the default parenting, Like we're the ones thinking
of like you could never be like, well, whatever, right, guys,
I'll just go get an apartment. Yeah, have fun kids, You'll
figure it out. Right. You can't be the one to say that,
right, Like you have to be like, even if it's for one month,
my kids are graduating high school. They need a place to be where
that's still close to their friends, close to their school. Right, how
come you're the one who's making sure that happens. Yeah, I mean,
I don't know, it's just kind of always been that way. I don't
know. Yeah, it's it's from me. Well, I want my kids
with me, like you know, it'll be it'll be nice, you know,
m Yeah, you want your kids with you, right yeah? Yeah?
Yeah. And also you know, we here's the thing. We almost
made it to their graduation, you know, and we were gonna we knew
this was going to happen sooner or later. We were just kind of hoping
that they could have like made it past the week of their graduating and turning
eighteen like a day apart, first week of June. But they don't just
move out of the house the day they graduated. High school kids are home
for the summer, right, like they go to their new location you know
when college starts. Yes, so there, it's it's not this finish line
that's like, you know, they and they don't want to be homeless right
for the summer. No, No, I don't. If you're going to
be homeless, summer is a better time. Summer is a better time.
Yeah, I don't know, it's all stressy, Yeah it is, but
you know, I want to I want them to have I want them to
be settled before they go off to college and have their home base and I'll
just like, you know, rent for a year and then I can have
a good year to find a place, you know, to to live.
Yeah. Yeah, yeah. You don't want to have to like, you
know, call them at college and be like, okay, so I'm moved.
I'll send you the address for when you come home, right yeah.
So yeah, it's just the thing is as stressful as the three I mean
three weeks. Like at this point now it's we got three weeks and this
weekend I'm losing because I have to take Natalia stage coach, which on one
hand, I'm like, you know, it'll be nice to spend time with
her, you know, But on the other hand, it's like, spend
fucking bad timing And how did I get roped into this? You know,
it was a trip that she was supposed to go on with her dad.
She went last year with her dad. They had a great time, and
they were going to do it again this year and he got her the tickets
or whatever. But now he's got a he's not going to be in town.
So now I'm getting the Airbnb and taking you know, because yeah,
it's hard. Right before they turn eighteen, the first trip LB took out
of town by herself or some friends she was eighteen. They all wait till
they're eighteen because when you're eighteen, you can get the airbnb. So right,
yeah, she's got one friend that's eighteen. Oh well, why doesn't
that friend. Is that friend going to Stagecoach? I don't know if she
is or not, but she, Natalia wants me to go because like when
she went last year, you know, like it was they had breakfast together,
Like I don't know, she wants to spend you know, she wants
me to be there, and my friend Melissa is gonna come out and she's
gonna which will be nice because then I don't have to be there by myself
while they're at stage Coach because I'm not going to the concert, So you're
gonna go and just be at a place. But stage Coach is happening.
Yes, I'm gonna be picking them up from the shuttle is what I'm gonna
be. Now, are you staying in Palm Springs proper Indio. Oh okay,
okay, yeah, because that place we stayed last time for our meetup
was not great. Oh yeah, that that hotel motel? Yeah, yeah,
that was not nice. No, we're not don't stay there. No,
I'm not staying there. He's not listening. No, he's not.
No, right, Klein, Uh No, I don't. I don't think
so. No, I mean it wasn't nice, right, I mean,
it wasn't terrible. It's I don't think cale. Yeah, I didn't think
it was that bad. Oh, I mean that's the second time I've stayed
there. I thought the rooms were pretty nice. Oh. I didn't think
it was that bad. An upscale motel to me, Yeah, exactly,
it's an upscale motel. Well, ours wasn't that upscale. Remember we couldn't
get I couldn't get into the room because the wing with it, you had
issues looking the door was broken and they never fixed it. And then you
had to like you had to. It was just impossible to get the door
to open. I don't know if the thing was warped or you know,
you couldn't get the door open, the front door to the to the bed
the room. Yeah, and then didn't like the sheet weren't the sheets dirty
or yes? Oh they were stained and had like hair on them. Oh
god, yeah, they were really stained. Remember I took pictures of all
the stains. Yeah, I didn't see it. I didn't see the stains,
but I remember you telling me about it. I took pictures. I
posted them. I think on you did. Yeah, not on YELP.
I think, I just you know, But also then I remember, I
I remember I went down a rabbit hole of reading yell p reviews and they
were not good. Oh of that place. Yeah, okay, yeah,
all right. Anyway, well not to bring us down, but you're gonna
be in India, which is nice. Which yeah, that'll be nice.
Yeah, get a nice place. Yeah. But I'm losing time, like
I just, you know, second of every day I'm packing or cleaning out
closets, and I'm trying, like all weekend I've been like barely made a
dent, like you know, moving you think like oh this, oh there's
not much in this room, like now there is, like shit's shoved into
drawers and it's just you know, and then the kids's closets, which they
are doing. Actually I got them started on going through their ship and getting
rid of stuff. So they're doing that stuff. But just like the kitchen,
I mean, it's just a lot, and you know, it's it's
it's every you know, it's it's it's scary when there's a timeframe on you
and clock's ticking, and then on top of it, you don't have a
place to move to. That's the no. I can't imagine. So when
I got that news on Saturday, I was just like, ugh, the
worst, the worst. But so sorry to keep asking about this. But
so is Adam. You don't know if he's also stressing out about having to
move. No, he's not, well, were he he doesn't have to
move? Well, oh, no, he's doesn't have anything to move.
He's he's pretty much has an office in the house. Okay, that's pretty
much yet, and he's got like he mostly all of his stuff has already
moved out to Malibu. Yeah, so he doesn't have anything to move.
No, And Adam doesn't worry about that kind of stuff. He's got guys
to do that stuff for him, right Right. It's just you know,
I don't have Roberto and al row right anymore. No, I have the
help of Olga when she's there, right, So that's a lot won't be
there much longer either, even just like a bathroom, like all this stuff
in the back in you know, I'm sure you have multiple just all that.
Are you going to just throw a ton of stuff away? Yeah?
Start off early. Yeah. Ah, you've had to do this more than
a person I'm going to have to do. And as long as I've known
you, you've never wanted to be the one moving. No, you didn't
want to move into this house in the first place. If I couldn't defend
you for a second, you were like against it. Remember the second house.
There's the Yeah, there was what there was. We moved into one
house that we didn't really we never I'd never understood why we moved, right,
but that Yes, and then this house that you are living in now
is suposed to be your envelope house. It was supposed to. Yeah,
it was either build the envelope house or we could move into a house that's
already built that has all the features that you know that we wanted, and
then we don't have to worry about like spending years of building a house.
Instead we have this house that Yeah, this one I was okay with.
It was the other house in between the two houses, which I didn't understand
why we had to move from the first house from the first house, which
was the house that you couldn't get the washer and dryer into. Was that
this house or that it was this house? Okay, yes, okay,
because the driveways every single time I pull out of that driveway and by the
way too. Another thing about that house the the internet. The power and
the internet go out almost on a daily basis at this point at least.
Yes, yes, it went out on Friday. It's Saturday, and Sunday
it went out. And this morning I woke up and there was no internet.
It was out. It's either the power goes out, then the Wi
Fi goes out because there's no power, or the Wi Fi just goes out
and it's like Spectrum is you know, sending you a text that the Wi
Fi's out. It's like motherfucker like. That is one thing I put in
the disclosure. I said, the power and the WiFi goes out a lot.
So good luck to you guys. Yeah, have fun. I mean
that's my biggest nightmare because I teach classes over zoom, so I have to
have dependable internet. I can't teach if it's not the last time our internet
was out, I had to go to my friend's house to teach my class.
But that's but prior to that, when we had AT and T,
remember I had that incredibly frustrating period of time where AT and T the internet
was spotty. So it was like it it would go out. I always
had an unstable connection, and when I would do an internet speed test,
it would say it was at zero and then and it would cut off my
Zoom, but then you check it again and it would be normal. So
it was doing it all day long. So we called and we told them
and they're like, yeah, we don't see any problem. You know.
They try to diagnose it from a way they check your speed and they're like,
no, your internet's fine. I'm like, no, it's not fine.
It's far from fine. It's far from fucking fine. And I would
then I would like take a screenshot and be like, can I send you
the screenshot of it saying it's at zero, and they're like no, or
it would go down to like it wouldn't go out completely, but it would
be at like five, you know, where it's not enough to have the
Zoom stay connected. So then we got the we got somebody to come out,
No, can't find anything wrong with your internet. I'm like, but
there is. And it got so bad where I was like, this is
not sustainable. I'm trying to run a business from my house. And they're
like, well, we'll send out what they sent out somebody else. And
I remember it was the twins' birthday and the guy came over and I was
like trying to show him on the screenshirt. He's like, I can't find
a problem. I'm like, come in the house and come and he's like,
no, I can't come in the house. I'm only the guy that
looks at the outside line. I'm like, well, I don't know what
to tell you, but if you don't, if this doesn't get fixed,
I'm changing internet providers tomorrow. Yeah, And he was like, be my
gut. He did not give a fuck. I don't give a shit.
No, So the next day I was I was like, John, I
can't I can't fight with AT and T anymore. This has been going on
for weeks and I can't teach my class right. So we called Spectrum the
next day, your favorite company right now, and then Spectrum fixed it the
next day and you know, knock on, knock on one phone. I
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Did you watch the Brandy Hellville documentary? Now you haven't watched it yet?
Now I got stuck on what did I oh? The OJ thing on
Netflix? Like never heard that story before. Let me see what this OJ
guy's all about? Seriously, you mean that was is there a new thing?
They went back and good? I don't know, like when you open
up Netflix because he just died, there's like o Made in America is what
it's called. And it's on Netflix and it's a five part or six part.
It was like a thirty for thirty done like that. Oh it is
fascinating new, right, No, I think it's from like twenty eighteen,
but it was new to me. You know, I really did not pay
attention to most of you know. I mean, look, I'm not a
big football player, so I you know, I know it was a number.
Thirty two was his number. That's about it. So you know,
I watched like his early life and stuff, and just it's sad. It's
so sad. You think, like, yeah, it's become a cliche now,
like, oh, Jay's become this caricature. But when you first of
all, fucking yeah, he's a killer, but he's a babe. He
was a babe. He was so good looking back in the day. He
was a good looking guy. Uh huh, very good looking. I know.
I mean look, I mean you're like, you're like, look,
the guy's a murderer, obviously, not for nothing. I can appreciate a
good looking guy. He was a good looking guy and he wanted to be
I never knew this about him, but he wanted to be liked so much
by everybody, everybody, and you know it. It's just it's but he
was a different person behind closed doors. So a lot of people are already
going to know this. But I was listening to this American Life and they
had this story about this guy. It was like supposed to supposed to be
like the weirdest gig he ever did. Did you know that? After the
murderers? Sometime later after them, OJ did a prank show. Yes,
yes, they showed it. They did. Yeah. His tagline was you
got juiced and supposedly did you know this? Kaylan? No, Kaylan,
is not like being part of our show today, just like doing other things.
What are you doing, Kaylin? I have one, two, three,
four other podcasts that I have to do today between here and Long Beach,
so I have to do some research for those. Okay, but you
know, you know you're supposed to be a part of this show, right.
I'm not really interested in OJ anyway, to be honest, everyone's so
interested in OJ. It's all OJ was like, I don't care. Yeah,
okay, yeah, you're a little young. You know, he killed
his wife and everyone is always talking about him, and it's like, I
don't know, everyone is always so obsessed with OJ all the time, and
I don't care, Like current day, yeah, OJ is always every five
years I hear OJ OJ OJ, like, just stop giving him a now
he's dead. You know that he's getting attention, Like I got to hear
about it again now and now won't you just go away already Jesus? And
now when that's bringing up the fact that he was really hot, he's a
hot piece of pass. Now, then that's like I want to do OJ.
I want to get juiced. But that's like but that anyway, Yeah,
so I got stuck on that? And then what else? So I
didn't watch the Hellville your stupid Brandy Hellville thing? Sorry, I like the
O J. Simpsons story. No, and then uh what else did I?
I did watch something else? Oh and then I got stuck. You
know when you're watching Okay, you know when you're watching Peacock. My favorite.
If I was if I was stranded on a desert island, I would
just want to Peacock app That's all I would need, just because it's got
so many date line It's got dateline on there, it's got true crime,
it's got reality, it's got Bravo. It's got everything. Like it's like
it's like somebody said, would Lynette, would you like, what's the perfect
app? Could we? You know? So I felt you fall asleep though,
and it'll go to the next thing, like I don't think you finished.
So I was watching The Traders, which I love. I'm watching now.
I'm now on the New Zealand version because I blew through the US version.
Then I did the UK version and now I'm like Australia's version, bring
it on. So anyway, it's just like something to fall asleep to.
Then So somehow I thought I was done and I wake up and I'm like,
hey, hearing people arguing and yelling and hooting and hollering and I and
I'm watching so the MCB Dynasty. Have you seen this? No? So
it's a family of cowboys. Okay, okay, it's like the Real Yellowstone,
which you don't watch, yellows, the Real Housewives of Yellowstone, the
Real Housewives a Yellowstone, except their guys instead of women. That's what it
is. It's this guy. He's a cowboy and he's got three youngs He's
got three sons in their twenties. They're pretty young. One of them was
Joe millionaire just recently, the recent Joe millionaire that just was out in the
last few years. I remember, yes, yeah, well there were and
there were two guys. There were two guys and one guy was like had
a winery. One other guy was a farmer. The guy that was the
farmer was the millionaire. Okay, I can't picture his face, but yeah,
yeah, so he he's it's him. He's the oldest son, okay,
and his dad built from scratch this farming and cattle whatever and out in
like Montana or whatever. And they're they're rich, like they they he's got
a dining he built a dynasty out of nothing, and he's raised he just
got a divorce and he's raising his sons and they're doing the family business as
well, and fucking drama ensues and they all the three boys got girlfriends.
And then the dad who's divorced is now like building you know, even now
he's building more companies, Like he's expanding into like the car wash business,
buying car washes and stuff. And he's got this woman that's the CFO,
but he's also sleeping with her, and then he's seeing another woman. So
now he's seeing two. He's like cheating on her, and he's allowing this
to be televised. Yeah, yeah, he don't give it. He makes
it no bones about it. He tells her like, I don't want a
relationship. I'm never gonna be married again. I don't want to be in
a full time relationship. I just want to be single. I just turned
fifty one. He's the dad. I just turned fifty one, and I
just want to be single. I was married for a long time. I
did my time, blah blah blah, which the girlfriends of the boys don't
appreciate very much because he's a bad influence on his son's and you know,
and they don't want to commit either, and they're going on boys' trips and
yeah, but the guy, the dad is like makes he tells the women
like, I'm not I'm seeing other women. I'm not. If you want
to date me, fine, but I'm not. I'm not gonna be your
boyfriend full time or whatever. But he's good to his staff, and he's
good to them, and he's even he's you know, he's he's a likable
guy enough, but there's the drama behind it, like with the girlfriends and
the girl and the other you know, just it's crazy you found this just
because you were on your app and you're just looking around for something to watch.
No, I fell asleep and it was like right, and then it
came on. I woke up to people like arguing and I was like,
what's this show? So I said, I started watching it and then it
was like a train wreck. I can stop. Make sure you like get
wiping the sleep out of your size. You're just like, who's all this?
Yelling? Who's doing? I was yelling, Oh, what is this?
I was and in the morning I was. I woke up at like
two o'clock in the morning to them and then I started watching it and then
I couldn't stop and then I was like what And then I had it on
when I was like cleaning and stuff, and I didn't finish it. But
yeah, it was pretty interesting. Okay, yeah I didn't watch the so
long story short, I did not watch the Brandy Well. I watched it
and you didn't watch it, right, Kaitlin, Why would you know?
It's less interested in that than I am. Oj bicy today? Would you
like us to leave the room seeing get some work done? Dayl are we
bothering? You. Oh my god, Caylin is hilarious today. I like
this Kaylein, I too. Oh my god, you know what, he's
starting to sound like a real like a dad. No, I don't have
time. My time is limited. I don't want to hear this bullshit.
You're gonna give me a shopping list, make me a map. I don't
have time to be texting you and going where's the clam sauce? Exactly like
Brandy out less than Yeah, Well, listen, you don't have anything in
common in teenage girls clothing? No, no, well they could wear those
clothes now, I mean that's their size exactly, exactly. Well, a
lot of what the documentary was about was the fact that the whole one size
fits all right, and they're like one size fits nobody, you know,
unless you're anorexic, which we've known because Elbe. When Elbe was I want
to say, she was like eleven. So do you remember when Elb went
away to camp for the first time. I have this kid who's wearing clothes
from like Justice and you know, Carters whenever, you know, And then
she goes to camp one summer and she comes home. I remember, she's
all crying because like, all my friends wear clothes from like Brandy Melville and
these brands that I'd never heard of, Abercrombie, right, kid, you
know, And she's like, I'm the only one. Now. At the
time, Elbie was teeny tiny. She was like the smallest of all her
friends. She hadn't really blastomed yet. She had not blossomed yet at all.
Took her a few more years, so she had like, no,
she was tiny. So I'm like, well, those clothes are not going
to fit you even maybe we found her something at Abercrombie kids, uh huh.
But like, but when we took her to Brandy, shockingly, the
clothes she could wear stuff from Brandy. Now was it a little bit big
on her yet? Because girls, but honestly, a lot of these girls,
their models are taller than Elbie was. But also like Elbie size right,
size zero zero to be so small to fit into their clothes. So
but you know, so she could wear like certain certain ones of their like
half tops fit her like a regular top. That was cool, And I'm
like, oh, okay, you don't have to look like a total HOUCHI.
Yeah, you know. But as she got older, I started to
realize more and more like the as we always talked about, it's like the
size of a tissue. Yeah, you're going to put that on your body.
So most people can't fit into those clothes. But apparently the bigger problem
than even the sizing is the guy. It's all weirdly owned by this one
guy who's kind of creepy, middle aged man who's way too who had all
these practices like finding girls just out and about if they're really really skinny and
white and blonde, and being like, do you want to work at our
store? And also when the girls would work at the store, he would
make them take pictures of themselves and then they'd all have to send this weird
owner that nobody really knew, pictures of all the girls in their clothes and
so fucking creepy. It does seem pretty predatory and weird. But then the
documentary was like spent some time on that, and then a lot of time
like about fast fashion and what it's how it's ruining ruining our environment. Yeah,
which is a good point, and I did realize also just just the
guy that owns the company is just like a weird like trumper and like hard
to explain, but very it's not libertarianism, but iin Rand uh huh,
like just very narcissistic, like out for himself, like not caring about the
world. You know. Anyway, I did go, oh my god,
my John Golt jacket that I did get at Brandy. I was like,
oh, but I'm still wearing it, oh John Golt. Yeah, I
have character from a very yes, kind of right wing right. But but
I had so John Galt. I had a sweater made. Yeah, it
was It's Brandy. It's hard Brandy part of brand at Pacsun Okay, yeah,
because I remember going like, I love this sweater. It's like one
sweater that I have. It's like navy blue, and I love it.
And I remember I was like where did I get this? And then I
realized I got it at Brandy Melville and I was like, how did I
get this at Brandy? Before an Italia wore Brandy Melville clothes back in the
day, you probably just didn't know. You were probably just at the mall.
Yeah, at the brand. There used to be a Brandy Melville store
at the end. Yeah. Isn't it still? Is it the Americana?
Yeah, I think they have a Brandy store there. Yeah, now it's
just a brand in Pact Sun. They have Brandy anyway, I have literally
have a hoodie right now with me, I'm like, well, what am
I supposed to do with my hoodie? You know what, what do you
want from me? You already own it? Yeah, you can away because
you're part of the problem, right right. Yeah, but I did realize
I did start feeling bad about like the Shean stuff, all that fast fashion,
that really cheap ship that you just write right, and the and the
what the factories are like, and you know, it's it's kind of like
your broccoli. Like the Brandy part is the you know, the gossipy like
right ttalating not ttilating, but you know what I mean, scandalous stuff.
And then there's the broccoli in there, which is like, also, you
shouldn't be buying from these companies at all anyway. And yeah, so I
feel like thrifting is really the way to go. It is. I love
thrifting. Okay, well let's let's take a quick break. Yeah, this
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you. Did you have anything else that you saw or wanted to tell us
about? Did I tell you by the way, that Sadie Sadie today.
Okay, so you know a little peak behind the curtain. It is Monday.
Yeah, we're recording. But Sadie is at part two of her psychological
testing for her you know, I told you I got her in at a
place that takes insurance. Oh yeah, yeah, to test for the ADHD
processing style. Yeah, so today she already she went in last week.
Poor kid. There is definitely something going on with her. We've known this
for her whole life. But she had to do like two hours of testing.
It's like school work kind of stuff. It's like spotting patterns, and
I think it's sort of like almost IQ stuff, you know. But I
think that today they're checking more for the ADHD and the actually and the processing.
So I don't know, it's all trying to see how her brain works.
But she did it for two hours. She'd had coffee before she went
and a good breakfast, and she was exhausted. I bet, And I
think that that's what part of the problem is. It's like for kids like
Sadie that are having something going on, Yeah, some kind of neurodivergent learning
difference. Her brain just works so much harder doing the same thing that like
Elbi or Xander can do, Sadie can do it, but it takes her
a lot longer and it uses so much more brain. This is what the
therapist, the counselor told me, is like Sadie has to work ten times
harder to do the same thing. And then so what they're doing is trying
to figure out what is the problem exactly, because unless you know what the
problem is. Is it a processing is it an auditory processing disorder? Is
it just an executive function? Is it ADHD? If you can pinpoint what
it is, you can kind of not necessarily treat it. I mean,
you could treat it if it's add but if it's not, it's they have
strategies and things you can do, and also stuff I can add to the
five of four. Oh interesting, you know, because maybe she needs the
notes to be Maybe she her brain doesn't work well when she's having to try
to keep up with writing taking notes from a lecture. Maybe she needs the
notes to be given to her so she can just listen, you know,
whatever she needs to help her. But but anyway, after that day she
came home, she slept for like four hours. Really it was insane.
I was like, it's my god, this tells me something about why she's
always tired, you know, And I do think it's from like the school
work, yes, the crazy Oh yeah, I mean it definitely like sometimes
when I leave here, I'm exhausted, just you know, just when you're
you know, focusing or concentrating or you know, doing stuff. And yeah,
it's probably extra harder for her, you know, it is. It's
tough because see I don't have that, so it's difficult for me to relate
to. But it's eye opening to understand that, like, oh, this
is like physically taxing on her, because when I hyper focus, I get
kind of energized, really, especially like if I'm interested. Yeah, like
I it doesn't really bother me. Only physical exertion, Like I get tired
if I go to the but you know, but I don't really tire myself
out. So yeah, I'll tell you tell you something. Yeah, but
yeah, so I will keep you guys tested. So she had we had
an intake where John and I talked all about like everything that's gone on with
her, and then she got tested and then she's getting tested again today and
this should be it. And then they do everything and they figure it all
out and they look up all their data and then will the school accommodate like
I'll be able to incorporate any Yeah, yeah, because we can show them
like here's all I mean, this professional testing. That we would have done
this professional testing sooner. But a lot of these places charge like eight grand
and it's not they don't take insurance. So we found this place that takes
insurance. That's amazing. It's in a Gora. So if you guys want
the name of the place, just message me on Facebook, okay, and
I'll send it to you. Yeah. Yeah, So shoot, can we
wrap kaylin? Uh yeah sure, okay, okay, Yeah. Because also
I'm gonna, i think on Patreon although this is Friday, so whatever,
but I think I'm gonna uh talk a little bit about my my school involvement.
Okay, have a little update all right on that? Yeah? Cool?
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