1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:11,080 Made a saint John O Peace, Sunny sun On. I hadasione night. 2 00:00:14,679 --> 00:00:21,679 So what's up everybody. It's Friday. Hey, that was loud. That 3 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:25,760 was loud of me. I'm sorry. Let's say how to our people right 4 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:30,800 now. Alicia Latte, Stephanie Stinker Wrinker, Christa, get the drop, 5 00:00:30,839 --> 00:00:35,039 Sandra, it's not easy being green, Jennifer, get the hell up girl. 6 00:00:35,439 --> 00:00:38,960 Aaron, you're a dirty Sanchez, Sarah. It's the fun. Oh, 7 00:00:39,039 --> 00:00:43,560 Leslie's with the coffin and the coughing and the accosting. Yeah, that's 8 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:48,399 stop accosting people. And Kelly Brant, She'll take you to Planned Parenthood. 9 00:00:48,439 --> 00:00:55,320 We're going to open. So cute Missy and Gabby just just getting arrested. 10 00:00:56,399 --> 00:01:03,719 Just they're they're having to do a stud Juvie, Katerina too late, Valerie, 11 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:07,079 Bubba Fenwick, hets out of the park, Polly, we love your 12 00:01:07,079 --> 00:01:12,079 pancakes. Athena. We love your dancing and your lipstick. Yeah. Elizabeth 13 00:01:12,079 --> 00:01:15,439 Williamson, you've got a lot of kids. You are momming it the hell 14 00:01:15,599 --> 00:01:19,359 up yo for you. Rita, you have a cute basset hound face. 15 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:25,480 Jacob, you're so growley, Nikki, call your girl, Aaron who is 16 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:30,719 not Anna faris Katie's rolling on e She's going to Wonderland. Yeah to you 17 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:34,760 know, go to a rave. Amy's a cunt, Kelly Lattie Ashley So 18 00:01:34,879 --> 00:01:41,040 Sheikh Rachel no longer a newcomer and O holy Meg malloy. Oh hi, 19 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:51,920 thank you ladies and gentlemen. W t G I f TGIF so anyway, 20 00:01:53,120 --> 00:02:00,799 yeah, I talked about it on our zoom but so well, yeah, 21 00:02:01,079 --> 00:02:07,879 our house is an escrow. Yes, that is just craziness in escrow. 22 00:02:07,319 --> 00:02:13,680 And we have to be out by May fifteenth. That's insane. And why 23 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,439 these people wouldn't give you like an extra month is beyond me. I don't 24 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:21,719 know, I know, why couldn't they We tried. I can't just just 25 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:23,719 call them and just be like, guys, come on, come on, 26 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:28,120 come on, let us just you won't even know we're here. Yeah. 27 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:34,759 So this couple bought the house and they don't have kids, but they're gonna 28 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:39,000 have kids, and they want to keep all of our furniture, including the 29 00:02:39,039 --> 00:02:44,960 bedroom furniture. Why is that? I don't know. I think because they 30 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:50,199 don't want the rooms to be empty. You know. By the way, 31 00:02:50,319 --> 00:02:53,240 do you notice that there's like this I don't know. If you notice there's 32 00:02:53,319 --> 00:03:00,159 like a layer, a green layer of just soot in my backyard. It's 33 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:07,800 it's pollen or what it's driving me? It's I got allergies. My eyes 34 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:13,360 are like puffy and red and like I'm like, it's have you noticed it? 35 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:15,479 I don't know what's going on in our area? No, it's in 36 00:03:15,599 --> 00:03:20,439 my backyard. We literally, because we're showing the house, we're spraying the 37 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:23,800 backyard furniture down all the time, and it's like one minute it's clean, 38 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:30,479 and then the next day there's just a layer of like green and yellow, 39 00:03:30,439 --> 00:03:37,919 thick like soot, like as if it like rained allergies onto our backyard. 40 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:39,840 Oh wow. Anyway, I don't know, but I feel like, do 41 00:03:39,919 --> 00:03:44,639 you think that's a disclosure, Like if there's murder in my house? Yes, 42 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:49,080 I had to do that this week and sit with it. Is sit 43 00:03:49,159 --> 00:03:53,520 with the realtor you know any meth lab happening in your house, anybody die 44 00:03:53,639 --> 00:03:57,080 in your house? Any you know asbestos in your house? No? No, 45 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:00,599 no, anyway, So yes, they on our furniture, and think 46 00:04:01,199 --> 00:04:05,439 I think they just don't want the house, the rooms to be empty. 47 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:09,520 They don't want to deal with it. They're gonna replace it as they go, 48 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:15,680 I guess. But all right, like, but we need beds to 49 00:04:15,759 --> 00:04:18,079 sleep in, Like, so we're literally just going to be packing up our 50 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:24,959 clothes and the kitchen. It's basically it, which some say is a blessing. 51 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,720 What about stuff on the wall or did you just not have a lot 52 00:04:27,759 --> 00:04:30,120 on the walls. We didn't have a lot on the walls, and what 53 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:33,240 we did have on the walls is now been put into the garage because the 54 00:04:33,319 --> 00:04:38,759 house got staged, right, And what about all the rugs? Do they 55 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:42,319 want those? Two? Yeah? I guess so they want everything. They 56 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,920 can have coffee tables, like, whatever's in the house. They're just like 57 00:04:46,199 --> 00:04:48,519 keep it. They're keeping it, except for like the kitchen, except for 58 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:54,800 the TVs and the stuff in the kitchen. Yeah, microwave, microwave, 59 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:58,879 refrigerator, rush or dryer everything. Why did I have trouble saying the word 60 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:05,560 refrigerator for refrigerator, fridge everything, so all appliances everything. Yeah, so 61 00:05:05,639 --> 00:05:11,120 you have to just go buy a new refrigerator. Well, the plan is 62 00:05:11,519 --> 00:05:15,120 is to rent. So I'm looking for a rental and I I used I 63 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:18,199 was looking and I stopped looking, and it's like everybody's like, well, 64 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:21,360 you can't rent anything until the house gets sold, you know, you get 65 00:05:21,399 --> 00:05:24,879 what are you gonna do? Go pay for both places? You know. 66 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:29,839 So now that the house is still sold, it's been so now it's like 67 00:05:29,959 --> 00:05:32,519 three weeks away from when we're supposed to move out at this point, and 68 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:38,560 I got to find a place. So anyway, I found a place in 69 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:41,639 our neighborhood. Is perfect. It was my price range. It was like 70 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:46,920 up the street, same neighborhood, everything perfect, kids. I took the 71 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,759 kids to look at it. We loved it. Then I find out on 72 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:54,879 Saturday that I said, I text the realtor and I said, get the 73 00:05:54,959 --> 00:05:59,240 rental application, let's go, let's get it. And uh, he replies, 74 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:01,720 and he says, I just reached out to them. They're taking it 75 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:09,759 off the market. So we're back at square one. So now I don't 76 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:14,399 have a place lined up yet. I'm gonna go look today, have a 77 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:17,240 couple places to look at, but I don't know, we'll see it's not 78 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:23,000 there's not a lot in our neighborhood, so which I understand. So we've 79 00:06:23,439 --> 00:06:29,720 expanded the search for the surrounding neighborhoods. Still not that much out there, 80 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:32,800 you know. So it's either way too high and way too much of a 81 00:06:32,879 --> 00:06:39,839 house, or it's really low and like two bedrooms, yeah, like two 82 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:45,600 bedrooms one bathroom, Like that's not gonna work. But so, I don't 83 00:06:45,639 --> 00:06:49,759 know. So every Monday and Tuesday, from what I understand, new listings 84 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:54,279 come out, so hopefully we'll see. So today I'm gonna go. So 85 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:58,319 is Adam trying to rent something in the neighborhood as well? Or is he 86 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:02,040 just like bye, I see a bye see. I don't know. I 87 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:04,279 don't know. I don't know what his deal is. I don't know. 88 00:07:04,399 --> 00:07:10,040 I I mean, he's got to tell you that at least, right he 89 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:15,240 just won't tell you even what I don't ask while the kids are still in 90 00:07:15,399 --> 00:07:18,879 town. Now, I think he's the kids said he's gonna rent someplace, 91 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:24,560 maybe in our in our neighborhood, I guess. So are you having to 92 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:29,839 compete with him for now? Not in our neighborhood, like in like you 93 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:32,600 know, like the surrounding like by his studio or something he's renting. I 94 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:36,399 don't know, but no, he's he's probably gonna get like an apartment or 95 00:07:36,439 --> 00:07:40,680 something, not a house. I don't know. I don't have no idea 96 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:43,959 but an apartment where the kids could stay, or are you're going to take 97 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:48,160 primary custody? Until I think, well, I'm going to take primary custody. 98 00:07:48,279 --> 00:07:51,360 Yeah, they're going to be with me, oh pretty much the whole 99 00:07:51,439 --> 00:07:55,879 time most of the time. And he's fine with that, I guess, 100 00:07:55,959 --> 00:08:00,680 so yeah. I mean he can come see them and take them out to 101 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:03,839 dinner, they can go to visit him in Malibu. I mean, they're 102 00:08:03,879 --> 00:08:05,879 gonna be eighteen. They can figure it out, you know, Yeah, 103 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:11,040 totally. And we almost made it like why is the mom? I mean, 104 00:08:11,079 --> 00:08:15,199 this is just a globe, but this is a rhetorical question. But 105 00:08:15,319 --> 00:08:18,360 it just seems like in life and not all men hashtag not all men. 106 00:08:18,399 --> 00:08:22,839 Okay, god, my god, calm the fuck down, people, But 107 00:08:22,959 --> 00:08:26,879 it seems like we're the ones the default parenting, Like we're the ones thinking 108 00:08:26,959 --> 00:08:30,879 of like you could never be like, well, whatever, right, guys, 109 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:33,360 I'll just go get an apartment. Yeah, have fun kids, You'll 110 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:35,759 figure it out. Right. You can't be the one to say that, 111 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:39,519 right, Like you have to be like, even if it's for one month, 112 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:43,080 my kids are graduating high school. They need a place to be where 113 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:46,679 that's still close to their friends, close to their school. Right, how 114 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:52,759 come you're the one who's making sure that happens. Yeah, I mean, 115 00:08:52,759 --> 00:08:56,159 I don't know, it's just kind of always been that way. I don't 116 00:08:56,200 --> 00:09:01,080 know. Yeah, it's it's from me. Well, I want my kids 117 00:09:01,159 --> 00:09:07,159 with me, like you know, it'll be it'll be nice, you know, 118 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:13,039 m Yeah, you want your kids with you, right yeah? Yeah? 119 00:09:13,639 --> 00:09:20,240 Yeah. And also you know, we here's the thing. We almost 120 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:24,919 made it to their graduation, you know, and we were gonna we knew 121 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:28,600 this was going to happen sooner or later. We were just kind of hoping 122 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:35,000 that they could have like made it past the week of their graduating and turning 123 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:39,960 eighteen like a day apart, first week of June. But they don't just 124 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:43,240 move out of the house the day they graduated. High school kids are home 125 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:48,200 for the summer, right, like they go to their new location you know 126 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:52,320 when college starts. Yes, so there, it's it's not this finish line 127 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:56,639 that's like, you know, they and they don't want to be homeless right 128 00:09:56,320 --> 00:10:00,480 for the summer. No, No, I don't. If you're going to 129 00:10:00,519 --> 00:10:03,000 be homeless, summer is a better time. Summer is a better time. 130 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:09,360 Yeah, I don't know, it's all stressy, Yeah it is, but 131 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:13,440 you know, I want to I want them to have I want them to 132 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:18,840 be settled before they go off to college and have their home base and I'll 133 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:20,919 just like, you know, rent for a year and then I can have 134 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:24,799 a good year to find a place, you know, to to live. 135 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:28,279 Yeah. Yeah, yeah. You don't want to have to like, you 136 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:31,000 know, call them at college and be like, okay, so I'm moved. 137 00:10:31,639 --> 00:10:35,240 I'll send you the address for when you come home, right yeah. 138 00:10:37,159 --> 00:10:41,559 So yeah, it's just the thing is as stressful as the three I mean 139 00:10:41,879 --> 00:10:46,559 three weeks. Like at this point now it's we got three weeks and this 140 00:10:46,759 --> 00:10:52,559 weekend I'm losing because I have to take Natalia stage coach, which on one 141 00:10:52,639 --> 00:10:56,279 hand, I'm like, you know, it'll be nice to spend time with 142 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:58,639 her, you know, But on the other hand, it's like, spend 143 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:03,000 fucking bad timing And how did I get roped into this? You know, 144 00:11:03,159 --> 00:11:05,600 it was a trip that she was supposed to go on with her dad. 145 00:11:05,799 --> 00:11:09,879 She went last year with her dad. They had a great time, and 146 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:13,519 they were going to do it again this year and he got her the tickets 147 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:18,039 or whatever. But now he's got a he's not going to be in town. 148 00:11:18,639 --> 00:11:26,159 So now I'm getting the Airbnb and taking you know, because yeah, 149 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:28,399 it's hard. Right before they turn eighteen, the first trip LB took out 150 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:33,519 of town by herself or some friends she was eighteen. They all wait till 151 00:11:33,519 --> 00:11:39,840 they're eighteen because when you're eighteen, you can get the airbnb. So right, 152 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:43,320 yeah, she's got one friend that's eighteen. Oh well, why doesn't 153 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:48,639 that friend. Is that friend going to Stagecoach? I don't know if she 154 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:54,799 is or not, but she, Natalia wants me to go because like when 155 00:11:54,879 --> 00:11:58,600 she went last year, you know, like it was they had breakfast together, 156 00:11:58,799 --> 00:12:01,240 Like I don't know, she wants to spend you know, she wants 157 00:12:01,279 --> 00:12:03,840 me to be there, and my friend Melissa is gonna come out and she's 158 00:12:03,879 --> 00:12:07,600 gonna which will be nice because then I don't have to be there by myself 159 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:11,960 while they're at stage Coach because I'm not going to the concert, So you're 160 00:12:13,039 --> 00:12:16,879 gonna go and just be at a place. But stage Coach is happening. 161 00:12:16,639 --> 00:12:20,200 Yes, I'm gonna be picking them up from the shuttle is what I'm gonna 162 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:24,840 be. Now, are you staying in Palm Springs proper Indio. Oh okay, 163 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:31,480 okay, yeah, because that place we stayed last time for our meetup 164 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:37,000 was not great. Oh yeah, that that hotel motel? Yeah, yeah, 165 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:41,080 that was not nice. No, we're not don't stay there. No, 166 00:12:41,159 --> 00:12:45,159 I'm not staying there. He's not listening. No, he's not. 167 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:50,360 No, right, Klein, Uh No, I don't. I don't think 168 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:54,200 so. No, I mean it wasn't nice, right, I mean, 169 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:58,080 it wasn't terrible. It's I don't think cale. Yeah, I didn't think 170 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:00,440 it was that bad. Oh, I mean that's the second time I've stayed 171 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:03,399 there. I thought the rooms were pretty nice. Oh. I didn't think 172 00:13:03,399 --> 00:13:07,440 it was that bad. An upscale motel to me, Yeah, exactly, 173 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:11,240 it's an upscale motel. Well, ours wasn't that upscale. Remember we couldn't 174 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:15,320 get I couldn't get into the room because the wing with it, you had 175 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:18,600 issues looking the door was broken and they never fixed it. And then you 176 00:13:18,759 --> 00:13:24,000 had to like you had to. It was just impossible to get the door 177 00:13:24,039 --> 00:13:26,159 to open. I don't know if the thing was warped or you know, 178 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:30,799 you couldn't get the door open, the front door to the to the bed 179 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:35,240 the room. Yeah, and then didn't like the sheet weren't the sheets dirty 180 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:41,480 or yes? Oh they were stained and had like hair on them. Oh 181 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:45,759 god, yeah, they were really stained. Remember I took pictures of all 182 00:13:45,799 --> 00:13:50,360 the stains. Yeah, I didn't see it. I didn't see the stains, 183 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:54,080 but I remember you telling me about it. I took pictures. I 184 00:13:54,159 --> 00:13:58,039 posted them. I think on you did. Yeah, not on YELP. 185 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:01,480 I think, I just you know, But also then I remember, I 186 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:05,039 I remember I went down a rabbit hole of reading yell p reviews and they 187 00:14:05,039 --> 00:14:09,279 were not good. Oh of that place. Yeah, okay, yeah, 188 00:14:09,919 --> 00:14:13,840 all right. Anyway, well not to bring us down, but you're gonna 189 00:14:13,879 --> 00:14:16,440 be in India, which is nice. Which yeah, that'll be nice. 190 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:18,320 Yeah, get a nice place. Yeah. But I'm losing time, like 191 00:14:18,519 --> 00:14:26,000 I just, you know, second of every day I'm packing or cleaning out 192 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:31,159 closets, and I'm trying, like all weekend I've been like barely made a 193 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:33,720 dent, like you know, moving you think like oh this, oh there's 194 00:14:33,759 --> 00:14:37,879 not much in this room, like now there is, like shit's shoved into 195 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:43,000 drawers and it's just you know, and then the kids's closets, which they 196 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:46,919 are doing. Actually I got them started on going through their ship and getting 197 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,720 rid of stuff. So they're doing that stuff. But just like the kitchen, 198 00:14:52,039 --> 00:14:56,879 I mean, it's just a lot, and you know, it's it's 199 00:14:56,159 --> 00:15:01,519 it's every you know, it's it's it's scary when there's a timeframe on you 200 00:15:03,279 --> 00:15:07,600 and clock's ticking, and then on top of it, you don't have a 201 00:15:07,639 --> 00:15:11,519 place to move to. That's the no. I can't imagine. So when 202 00:15:11,519 --> 00:15:16,159 I got that news on Saturday, I was just like, ugh, the 203 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:22,639 worst, the worst. But so sorry to keep asking about this. But 204 00:15:22,759 --> 00:15:26,559 so is Adam. You don't know if he's also stressing out about having to 205 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:31,039 move. No, he's not, well, were he he doesn't have to 206 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:33,720 move? Well, oh, no, he's doesn't have anything to move. 207 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:39,639 He's he's pretty much has an office in the house. Okay, that's pretty 208 00:15:39,679 --> 00:15:43,159 much yet, and he's got like he mostly all of his stuff has already 209 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:46,600 moved out to Malibu. Yeah, so he doesn't have anything to move. 210 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:52,159 No, And Adam doesn't worry about that kind of stuff. He's got guys 211 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:56,159 to do that stuff for him, right Right. It's just you know, 212 00:15:56,759 --> 00:16:02,320 I don't have Roberto and al row right anymore. No, I have the 213 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:08,639 help of Olga when she's there, right, So that's a lot won't be 214 00:16:08,759 --> 00:16:12,679 there much longer either, even just like a bathroom, like all this stuff 215 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:17,279 in the back in you know, I'm sure you have multiple just all that. 216 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:19,399 Are you going to just throw a ton of stuff away? Yeah? 217 00:16:19,519 --> 00:16:26,080 Start off early. Yeah. Ah, you've had to do this more than 218 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:30,399 a person I'm going to have to do. And as long as I've known 219 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:34,559 you, you've never wanted to be the one moving. No, you didn't 220 00:16:34,639 --> 00:16:37,799 want to move into this house in the first place. If I couldn't defend 221 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:44,919 you for a second, you were like against it. Remember the second house. 222 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:48,919 There's the Yeah, there was what there was. We moved into one 223 00:16:49,039 --> 00:16:53,799 house that we didn't really we never I'd never understood why we moved, right, 224 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:59,639 but that Yes, and then this house that you are living in now 225 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:02,840 is suposed to be your envelope house. It was supposed to. Yeah, 226 00:17:02,879 --> 00:17:07,960 it was either build the envelope house or we could move into a house that's 227 00:17:08,039 --> 00:17:14,079 already built that has all the features that you know that we wanted, and 228 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:18,160 then we don't have to worry about like spending years of building a house. 229 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:23,039 Instead we have this house that Yeah, this one I was okay with. 230 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:27,720 It was the other house in between the two houses, which I didn't understand 231 00:17:27,759 --> 00:17:32,559 why we had to move from the first house from the first house, which 232 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:36,279 was the house that you couldn't get the washer and dryer into. Was that 233 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:40,799 this house or that it was this house? Okay, yes, okay, 234 00:17:40,839 --> 00:17:45,519 because the driveways every single time I pull out of that driveway and by the 235 00:17:45,599 --> 00:17:51,119 way too. Another thing about that house the the internet. The power and 236 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:56,279 the internet go out almost on a daily basis at this point at least. 237 00:17:56,720 --> 00:18:02,960 Yes, yes, it went out on Friday. It's Saturday, and Sunday 238 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:06,240 it went out. And this morning I woke up and there was no internet. 239 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:08,759 It was out. It's either the power goes out, then the Wi 240 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:15,119 Fi goes out because there's no power, or the Wi Fi just goes out 241 00:18:15,599 --> 00:18:18,880 and it's like Spectrum is you know, sending you a text that the Wi 242 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:22,559 Fi's out. It's like motherfucker like. That is one thing I put in 243 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:26,279 the disclosure. I said, the power and the WiFi goes out a lot. 244 00:18:26,799 --> 00:18:30,599 So good luck to you guys. Yeah, have fun. I mean 245 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:34,960 that's my biggest nightmare because I teach classes over zoom, so I have to 246 00:18:36,039 --> 00:18:41,680 have dependable internet. I can't teach if it's not the last time our internet 247 00:18:41,839 --> 00:18:44,640 was out, I had to go to my friend's house to teach my class. 248 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:48,440 But that's but prior to that, when we had AT and T, 249 00:18:48,799 --> 00:18:55,720 remember I had that incredibly frustrating period of time where AT and T the internet 250 00:18:55,960 --> 00:19:00,319 was spotty. So it was like it it would go out. I always 251 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:03,640 had an unstable connection, and when I would do an internet speed test, 252 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:07,119 it would say it was at zero and then and it would cut off my 253 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:11,039 Zoom, but then you check it again and it would be normal. So 254 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:15,279 it was doing it all day long. So we called and we told them 255 00:19:15,279 --> 00:19:17,160 and they're like, yeah, we don't see any problem. You know. 256 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:19,680 They try to diagnose it from a way they check your speed and they're like, 257 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:23,559 no, your internet's fine. I'm like, no, it's not fine. 258 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:30,119 It's far from fine. It's far from fucking fine. And I would 259 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:32,319 then I would like take a screenshot and be like, can I send you 260 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:36,839 the screenshot of it saying it's at zero, and they're like no, or 261 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:40,559 it would go down to like it wouldn't go out completely, but it would 262 00:19:40,599 --> 00:19:45,319 be at like five, you know, where it's not enough to have the 263 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:48,039 Zoom stay connected. So then we got the we got somebody to come out, 264 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:51,880 No, can't find anything wrong with your internet. I'm like, but 265 00:19:52,039 --> 00:19:56,440 there is. And it got so bad where I was like, this is 266 00:19:56,720 --> 00:20:00,680 not sustainable. I'm trying to run a business from my house. And they're 267 00:20:00,759 --> 00:20:03,960 like, well, we'll send out what they sent out somebody else. And 268 00:20:04,039 --> 00:20:11,279 I remember it was the twins' birthday and the guy came over and I was 269 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:14,200 like trying to show him on the screenshirt. He's like, I can't find 270 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:15,920 a problem. I'm like, come in the house and come and he's like, 271 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:18,599 no, I can't come in the house. I'm only the guy that 272 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:22,240 looks at the outside line. I'm like, well, I don't know what 273 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:25,839 to tell you, but if you don't, if this doesn't get fixed, 274 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:30,240 I'm changing internet providers tomorrow. Yeah, And he was like, be my 275 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:32,279 gut. He did not give a fuck. I don't give a shit. 276 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:36,079 No, So the next day I was I was like, John, I 277 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:37,960 can't I can't fight with AT and T anymore. This has been going on 278 00:20:38,039 --> 00:20:41,559 for weeks and I can't teach my class right. So we called Spectrum the 279 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:47,240 next day, your favorite company right now, and then Spectrum fixed it the 280 00:20:47,279 --> 00:20:51,359 next day and you know, knock on, knock on one phone. I 281 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:56,920 guess we haven't been going on. The worst is not having internet because at 282 00:20:56,960 --> 00:21:00,200 our house you can't watch TV with no internet. Well same at our house 283 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:03,599 too, our our TV city internet. 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Seriously, you mean that was is there a new thing? 310 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:15,680 They went back and good? I don't know, like when you open 311 00:23:15,799 --> 00:23:22,440 up Netflix because he just died, there's like o Made in America is what 312 00:23:22,519 --> 00:23:26,359 it's called. And it's on Netflix and it's a five part or six part. 313 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:30,240 It was like a thirty for thirty done like that. Oh it is 314 00:23:32,079 --> 00:23:34,920 fascinating new, right, No, I think it's from like twenty eighteen, 315 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:41,000 but it was new to me. You know, I really did not pay 316 00:23:41,039 --> 00:23:44,480 attention to most of you know. I mean, look, I'm not a 317 00:23:44,519 --> 00:23:48,039 big football player, so I you know, I know it was a number. 318 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:49,960 Thirty two was his number. That's about it. So you know, 319 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:56,440 I watched like his early life and stuff, and just it's sad. It's 320 00:23:56,559 --> 00:24:00,519 so sad. You think, like, yeah, it's become a cliche now, 321 00:24:00,599 --> 00:24:06,039 like, oh, Jay's become this caricature. But when you first of 322 00:24:06,079 --> 00:24:11,039 all, fucking yeah, he's a killer, but he's a babe. He 323 00:24:11,279 --> 00:24:15,480 was a babe. He was so good looking back in the day. He 324 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,240 was a good looking guy. Uh huh, very good looking. I know. 325 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:22,079 I mean look, I mean you're like, you're like, look, 326 00:24:22,319 --> 00:24:26,319 the guy's a murderer, obviously, not for nothing. I can appreciate a 327 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:30,599 good looking guy. He was a good looking guy and he wanted to be 328 00:24:30,799 --> 00:24:33,319 I never knew this about him, but he wanted to be liked so much 329 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:41,039 by everybody, everybody, and you know it. It's just it's but he 330 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:45,119 was a different person behind closed doors. So a lot of people are already 331 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,400 going to know this. But I was listening to this American Life and they 332 00:24:48,559 --> 00:24:52,680 had this story about this guy. It was like supposed to supposed to be 333 00:24:52,759 --> 00:24:57,039 like the weirdest gig he ever did. Did you know that? After the 334 00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:03,920 murderers? Sometime later after them, OJ did a prank show. Yes, 335 00:25:03,839 --> 00:25:08,119 yes, they showed it. They did. Yeah. His tagline was you 336 00:25:08,279 --> 00:25:17,319 got juiced and supposedly did you know this? Kaylan? No, Kaylan, 337 00:25:17,559 --> 00:25:22,720 is not like being part of our show today, just like doing other things. 338 00:25:22,799 --> 00:25:26,640 What are you doing, Kaylin? I have one, two, three, 339 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:30,200 four other podcasts that I have to do today between here and Long Beach, 340 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:33,240 so I have to do some research for those. Okay, but you 341 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:34,359 know, you know you're supposed to be a part of this show, right. 342 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:37,519 I'm not really interested in OJ anyway, to be honest, everyone's so 343 00:25:37,599 --> 00:25:41,680 interested in OJ. It's all OJ was like, I don't care. Yeah, 344 00:25:41,759 --> 00:25:44,119 okay, yeah, you're a little young. You know, he killed 345 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:47,079 his wife and everyone is always talking about him, and it's like, I 346 00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,240 don't know, everyone is always so obsessed with OJ all the time, and 347 00:25:51,079 --> 00:25:55,759 I don't care, Like current day, yeah, OJ is always every five 348 00:25:55,880 --> 00:26:00,279 years I hear OJ OJ OJ, like, just stop giving him a now 349 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:04,759 he's dead. You know that he's getting attention, Like I got to hear 350 00:26:04,799 --> 00:26:08,440 about it again now and now won't you just go away already Jesus? And 351 00:26:08,519 --> 00:26:12,279 now when that's bringing up the fact that he was really hot, he's a 352 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:19,079 hot piece of pass. Now, then that's like I want to do OJ. 353 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:34,440 I want to get juiced. But that's like but that anyway, Yeah, 354 00:26:34,599 --> 00:26:38,160 so I got stuck on that? And then what else? So I 355 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:41,920 didn't watch the Hellville your stupid Brandy Hellville thing? Sorry, I like the 356 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:48,119 O J. Simpsons story. No, and then uh what else did I? 357 00:26:48,279 --> 00:26:52,680 I did watch something else? Oh and then I got stuck. You 358 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:56,400 know when you're watching Okay, you know when you're watching Peacock. My favorite. 359 00:26:56,680 --> 00:27:00,759 If I was if I was stranded on a desert island, I would 360 00:27:00,799 --> 00:27:04,319 just want to Peacock app That's all I would need, just because it's got 361 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:08,240 so many date line It's got dateline on there, it's got true crime, 362 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:12,720 it's got reality, it's got Bravo. It's got everything. Like it's like 363 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:17,480 it's like somebody said, would Lynette, would you like, what's the perfect 364 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:22,599 app? Could we? You know? So I felt you fall asleep though, 365 00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:26,359 and it'll go to the next thing, like I don't think you finished. 366 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:30,039 So I was watching The Traders, which I love. I'm watching now. 367 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:34,839 I'm now on the New Zealand version because I blew through the US version. 368 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:41,279 Then I did the UK version and now I'm like Australia's version, bring 369 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:44,480 it on. So anyway, it's just like something to fall asleep to. 370 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,920 Then So somehow I thought I was done and I wake up and I'm like, 371 00:27:49,079 --> 00:27:55,160 hey, hearing people arguing and yelling and hooting and hollering and I and 372 00:27:55,240 --> 00:28:00,640 I'm watching so the MCB Dynasty. Have you seen this? No? So 373 00:28:00,039 --> 00:28:07,000 it's a family of cowboys. Okay, okay, it's like the Real Yellowstone, 374 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,200 which you don't watch, yellows, the Real Housewives of Yellowstone, the 375 00:28:10,319 --> 00:28:14,079 Real Housewives a Yellowstone, except their guys instead of women. That's what it 376 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:18,200 is. It's this guy. He's a cowboy and he's got three youngs He's 377 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:22,359 got three sons in their twenties. They're pretty young. One of them was 378 00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:26,039 Joe millionaire just recently, the recent Joe millionaire that just was out in the 379 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:30,480 last few years. I remember, yes, yeah, well there were and 380 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,640 there were two guys. There were two guys and one guy was like had 381 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:37,279 a winery. One other guy was a farmer. The guy that was the 382 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:41,960 farmer was the millionaire. Okay, I can't picture his face, but yeah, 383 00:28:41,079 --> 00:28:45,880 yeah, so he he's it's him. He's the oldest son, okay, 384 00:28:45,079 --> 00:28:52,240 and his dad built from scratch this farming and cattle whatever and out in 385 00:28:52,359 --> 00:28:56,680 like Montana or whatever. And they're they're rich, like they they he's got 386 00:28:56,720 --> 00:29:00,519 a dining he built a dynasty out of nothing, and he's raised he just 387 00:29:00,599 --> 00:29:07,599 got a divorce and he's raising his sons and they're doing the family business as 388 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:12,480 well, and fucking drama ensues and they all the three boys got girlfriends. 389 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:19,480 And then the dad who's divorced is now like building you know, even now 390 00:29:19,519 --> 00:29:23,599 he's building more companies, Like he's expanding into like the car wash business, 391 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:29,759 buying car washes and stuff. And he's got this woman that's the CFO, 392 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:33,799 but he's also sleeping with her, and then he's seeing another woman. So 393 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:37,480 now he's seeing two. He's like cheating on her, and he's allowing this 394 00:29:37,599 --> 00:29:41,279 to be televised. Yeah, yeah, he don't give it. He makes 395 00:29:41,319 --> 00:29:44,119 it no bones about it. He tells her like, I don't want a 396 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:48,160 relationship. I'm never gonna be married again. I don't want to be in 397 00:29:48,279 --> 00:29:52,279 a full time relationship. I just want to be single. I just turned 398 00:29:52,319 --> 00:29:55,960 fifty one. He's the dad. I just turned fifty one, and I 399 00:29:56,079 --> 00:29:57,319 just want to be single. I was married for a long time. I 400 00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:02,640 did my time, blah blah blah, which the girlfriends of the boys don't 401 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:07,319 appreciate very much because he's a bad influence on his son's and you know, 402 00:30:07,519 --> 00:30:11,240 and they don't want to commit either, and they're going on boys' trips and 403 00:30:12,039 --> 00:30:15,480 yeah, but the guy, the dad is like makes he tells the women 404 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:18,480 like, I'm not I'm seeing other women. I'm not. If you want 405 00:30:18,519 --> 00:30:22,000 to date me, fine, but I'm not. I'm not gonna be your 406 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:26,680 boyfriend full time or whatever. But he's good to his staff, and he's 407 00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:30,079 good to them, and he's even he's you know, he's he's a likable 408 00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:33,400 guy enough, but there's the drama behind it, like with the girlfriends and 409 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:37,440 the girl and the other you know, just it's crazy you found this just 410 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:40,319 because you were on your app and you're just looking around for something to watch. 411 00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:42,519 No, I fell asleep and it was like right, and then it 412 00:30:42,599 --> 00:30:47,160 came on. I woke up to people like arguing and I was like, 413 00:30:47,319 --> 00:30:49,039 what's this show? So I said, I started watching it and then it 414 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,240 was like a train wreck. I can stop. Make sure you like get 415 00:30:52,319 --> 00:30:56,559 wiping the sleep out of your size. You're just like, who's all this? 416 00:30:56,920 --> 00:31:00,079 Yelling? Who's doing? I was yelling, Oh, what is this? 417 00:31:02,839 --> 00:31:06,759 I was and in the morning I was. I woke up at like 418 00:31:06,799 --> 00:31:10,640 two o'clock in the morning to them and then I started watching it and then 419 00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:12,720 I couldn't stop and then I was like what And then I had it on 420 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:17,400 when I was like cleaning and stuff, and I didn't finish it. But 421 00:31:17,839 --> 00:31:22,400 yeah, it was pretty interesting. Okay, yeah I didn't watch the so 422 00:31:22,559 --> 00:31:26,960 long story short, I did not watch the Brandy Well. I watched it 423 00:31:26,839 --> 00:31:30,400 and you didn't watch it, right, Kaitlin, Why would you know? 424 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:41,400 It's less interested in that than I am. Oj bicy today? Would you 425 00:31:41,519 --> 00:31:45,160 like us to leave the room seeing get some work done? Dayl are we 426 00:31:45,319 --> 00:31:52,240 bothering? You. Oh my god, Caylin is hilarious today. I like 427 00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:56,599 this Kaylein, I too. Oh my god, you know what, he's 428 00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:59,880 starting to sound like a real like a dad. No, I don't have 429 00:32:00,119 --> 00:32:02,759 time. My time is limited. I don't want to hear this bullshit. 430 00:32:05,519 --> 00:32:07,920 You're gonna give me a shopping list, make me a map. I don't 431 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:14,880 have time to be texting you and going where's the clam sauce? Exactly like 432 00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:21,319 Brandy out less than Yeah, Well, listen, you don't have anything in 433 00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:28,400 common in teenage girls clothing? No, no, well they could wear those 434 00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:30,880 clothes now, I mean that's their size exactly, exactly. Well, a 435 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:36,000 lot of what the documentary was about was the fact that the whole one size 436 00:32:36,279 --> 00:32:39,119 fits all right, and they're like one size fits nobody, you know, 437 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:47,240 unless you're anorexic, which we've known because Elbe. When Elbe was I want 438 00:32:47,279 --> 00:32:51,400 to say, she was like eleven. So do you remember when Elb went 439 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:55,720 away to camp for the first time. I have this kid who's wearing clothes 440 00:32:55,759 --> 00:33:01,559 from like Justice and you know, Carters whenever, you know, And then 441 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:05,960 she goes to camp one summer and she comes home. I remember, she's 442 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:10,079 all crying because like, all my friends wear clothes from like Brandy Melville and 443 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:15,279 these brands that I'd never heard of, Abercrombie, right, kid, you 444 00:33:15,359 --> 00:33:17,599 know, And she's like, I'm the only one. Now. At the 445 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:22,119 time, Elbie was teeny tiny. She was like the smallest of all her 446 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:27,119 friends. She hadn't really blastomed yet. She had not blossomed yet at all. 447 00:33:27,559 --> 00:33:30,519 Took her a few more years, so she had like, no, 448 00:33:30,799 --> 00:33:34,200 she was tiny. So I'm like, well, those clothes are not going 449 00:33:34,279 --> 00:33:37,759 to fit you even maybe we found her something at Abercrombie kids, uh huh. 450 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:44,799 But like, but when we took her to Brandy, shockingly, the 451 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,559 clothes she could wear stuff from Brandy. Now was it a little bit big 452 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:52,359 on her yet? Because girls, but honestly, a lot of these girls, 453 00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:57,599 their models are taller than Elbie was. But also like Elbie size right, 454 00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:01,839 size zero zero to be so small to fit into their clothes. So 455 00:34:02,279 --> 00:34:08,039 but you know, so she could wear like certain certain ones of their like 456 00:34:08,639 --> 00:34:14,199 half tops fit her like a regular top. That was cool, And I'm 457 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:15,519 like, oh, okay, you don't have to look like a total HOUCHI. 458 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:20,559 Yeah, you know. But as she got older, I started to 459 00:34:20,639 --> 00:34:23,400 realize more and more like the as we always talked about, it's like the 460 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:27,400 size of a tissue. Yeah, you're going to put that on your body. 461 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:31,119 So most people can't fit into those clothes. But apparently the bigger problem 462 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:37,039 than even the sizing is the guy. It's all weirdly owned by this one 463 00:34:37,199 --> 00:34:43,880 guy who's kind of creepy, middle aged man who's way too who had all 464 00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:51,119 these practices like finding girls just out and about if they're really really skinny and 465 00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:53,440 white and blonde, and being like, do you want to work at our 466 00:34:53,559 --> 00:34:58,760 store? And also when the girls would work at the store, he would 467 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:06,480 make them take pictures of themselves and then they'd all have to send this weird 468 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:12,519 owner that nobody really knew, pictures of all the girls in their clothes and 469 00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:17,000 so fucking creepy. It does seem pretty predatory and weird. But then the 470 00:35:17,119 --> 00:35:22,840 documentary was like spent some time on that, and then a lot of time 471 00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:28,280 like about fast fashion and what it's how it's ruining ruining our environment. Yeah, 472 00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:32,719 which is a good point, and I did realize also just just the 473 00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:40,360 guy that owns the company is just like a weird like trumper and like hard 474 00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:46,559 to explain, but very it's not libertarianism, but iin Rand uh huh, 475 00:35:47,519 --> 00:35:55,400 like just very narcissistic, like out for himself, like not caring about the 476 00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:59,960 world. You know. Anyway, I did go, oh my god, 477 00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:05,119 my John Golt jacket that I did get at Brandy. I was like, 478 00:36:05,199 --> 00:36:08,000 oh, but I'm still wearing it, oh John Golt. Yeah, I 479 00:36:08,039 --> 00:36:15,960 have character from a very yes, kind of right wing right. But but 480 00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:22,159 I had so John Galt. I had a sweater made. Yeah, it 481 00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:28,360 was It's Brandy. It's hard Brandy part of brand at Pacsun Okay, yeah, 482 00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:31,559 because I remember going like, I love this sweater. It's like one 483 00:36:31,639 --> 00:36:35,119 sweater that I have. It's like navy blue, and I love it. 484 00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:37,960 And I remember I was like where did I get this? And then I 485 00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:39,840 realized I got it at Brandy Melville and I was like, how did I 486 00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:45,800 get this at Brandy? Before an Italia wore Brandy Melville clothes back in the 487 00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:49,000 day, you probably just didn't know. You were probably just at the mall. 488 00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:52,239 Yeah, at the brand. There used to be a Brandy Melville store 489 00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:54,840 at the end. Yeah. Isn't it still? Is it the Americana? 490 00:36:55,559 --> 00:36:59,239 Yeah, I think they have a Brandy store there. Yeah, now it's 491 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:04,559 just a brand in Pact Sun. They have Brandy anyway, I have literally 492 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:07,039 have a hoodie right now with me, I'm like, well, what am 493 00:37:07,039 --> 00:37:09,079 I supposed to do with my hoodie? You know what, what do you 494 00:37:09,119 --> 00:37:14,320 want from me? You already own it? Yeah, you can away because 495 00:37:15,199 --> 00:37:19,440 you're part of the problem, right right. Yeah, but I did realize 496 00:37:19,519 --> 00:37:24,000 I did start feeling bad about like the Shean stuff, all that fast fashion, 497 00:37:24,079 --> 00:37:28,679 that really cheap ship that you just write right, and the and the 498 00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:31,760 what the factories are like, and you know, it's it's kind of like 499 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:37,079 your broccoli. Like the Brandy part is the you know, the gossipy like 500 00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:42,760 right ttalating not ttilating, but you know what I mean, scandalous stuff. 501 00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:45,599 And then there's the broccoli in there, which is like, also, you 502 00:37:45,679 --> 00:37:51,440 shouldn't be buying from these companies at all anyway. And yeah, so I 503 00:37:51,519 --> 00:37:55,079 feel like thrifting is really the way to go. It is. I love 504 00:37:55,199 --> 00:38:00,679 thrifting. Okay, well let's let's take a quick break. Yeah, this 505 00:38:00,079 --> 00:38:06,800 message is sponsored by green Light guys. As most of you know, as 506 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,880 our kids get older, some things about parenting get easier. 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It is Monday. 525 00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:40,119 Yeah, we're recording. But Sadie is at part two of her psychological 526 00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:44,480 testing for her you know, I told you I got her in at a 527 00:39:44,559 --> 00:39:50,159 place that takes insurance. Oh yeah, yeah, to test for the ADHD 528 00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:55,239 processing style. Yeah, so today she already she went in last week. 529 00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:00,800 Poor kid. There is definitely something going on with her. We've known this 530 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:07,079 for her whole life. But she had to do like two hours of testing. 531 00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:12,079 It's like school work kind of stuff. It's like spotting patterns, and 532 00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:15,280 I think it's sort of like almost IQ stuff, you know. But I 533 00:40:16,639 --> 00:40:22,440 think that today they're checking more for the ADHD and the actually and the processing. 534 00:40:22,519 --> 00:40:24,559 So I don't know, it's all trying to see how her brain works. 535 00:40:25,039 --> 00:40:29,599 But she did it for two hours. She'd had coffee before she went 536 00:40:29,679 --> 00:40:35,360 and a good breakfast, and she was exhausted. I bet, And I 537 00:40:35,519 --> 00:40:37,679 think that that's what part of the problem is. It's like for kids like 538 00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:45,480 Sadie that are having something going on, Yeah, some kind of neurodivergent learning 539 00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:51,679 difference. Her brain just works so much harder doing the same thing that like 540 00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:58,000 Elbi or Xander can do, Sadie can do it, but it takes her 541 00:40:58,039 --> 00:41:00,480 a lot longer and it uses so much more brain. This is what the 542 00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:06,159 therapist, the counselor told me, is like Sadie has to work ten times 543 00:41:06,199 --> 00:41:10,679 harder to do the same thing. And then so what they're doing is trying 544 00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:15,360 to figure out what is the problem exactly, because unless you know what the 545 00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:21,199 problem is. Is it a processing is it an auditory processing disorder? Is 546 00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:24,800 it just an executive function? Is it ADHD? If you can pinpoint what 547 00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:29,639 it is, you can kind of not necessarily treat it. I mean, 548 00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:32,719 you could treat it if it's add but if it's not, it's they have 549 00:41:35,079 --> 00:41:38,599 strategies and things you can do, and also stuff I can add to the 550 00:41:38,679 --> 00:41:44,400 five of four. Oh interesting, you know, because maybe she needs the 551 00:41:44,559 --> 00:41:51,239 notes to be Maybe she her brain doesn't work well when she's having to try 552 00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:54,519 to keep up with writing taking notes from a lecture. Maybe she needs the 553 00:41:54,599 --> 00:41:58,800 notes to be given to her so she can just listen, you know, 554 00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,960 whatever she needs to help her. But but anyway, after that day she 555 00:42:02,079 --> 00:42:07,519 came home, she slept for like four hours. Really it was insane. 556 00:42:07,599 --> 00:42:12,280 I was like, it's my god, this tells me something about why she's 557 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:16,159 always tired, you know, And I do think it's from like the school 558 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:22,280 work, yes, the crazy Oh yeah, I mean it definitely like sometimes 559 00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:25,280 when I leave here, I'm exhausted, just you know, just when you're 560 00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:30,719 you know, focusing or concentrating or you know, doing stuff. And yeah, 561 00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:35,559 it's probably extra harder for her, you know, it is. It's 562 00:42:35,679 --> 00:42:40,079 tough because see I don't have that, so it's difficult for me to relate 563 00:42:40,159 --> 00:42:44,840 to. But it's eye opening to understand that, like, oh, this 564 00:42:45,039 --> 00:42:50,079 is like physically taxing on her, because when I hyper focus, I get 565 00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,599 kind of energized, really, especially like if I'm interested. Yeah, like 566 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:59,440 I it doesn't really bother me. Only physical exertion, Like I get tired 567 00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,719 if I go to the but you know, but I don't really tire myself 568 00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:08,280 out. So yeah, I'll tell you tell you something. Yeah, but 569 00:43:09,599 --> 00:43:13,960 yeah, so I will keep you guys tested. So she had we had 570 00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,960 an intake where John and I talked all about like everything that's gone on with 571 00:43:17,039 --> 00:43:21,960 her, and then she got tested and then she's getting tested again today and 572 00:43:22,079 --> 00:43:24,559 this should be it. And then they do everything and they figure it all 573 00:43:24,599 --> 00:43:30,440 out and they look up all their data and then will the school accommodate like 574 00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:35,000 I'll be able to incorporate any Yeah, yeah, because we can show them 575 00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:39,000 like here's all I mean, this professional testing. That we would have done 576 00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:44,480 this professional testing sooner. But a lot of these places charge like eight grand 577 00:43:45,639 --> 00:43:49,280 and it's not they don't take insurance. So we found this place that takes 578 00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:52,599 insurance. That's amazing. It's in a Gora. So if you guys want 579 00:43:52,679 --> 00:43:55,760 the name of the place, just message me on Facebook, okay, and 580 00:43:55,840 --> 00:44:00,719 I'll send it to you. Yeah. Yeah, So shoot, can we 581 00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:05,760 wrap kaylin? Uh yeah sure, okay, okay, Yeah. 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