1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,839 I think a lot of the reason that so many women feel pressure to do 2 00:00:03,879 --> 00:00:08,720 the things to their faces is as a result of watching Hollywood, and so 3 00:00:08,759 --> 00:00:14,439 they see the impossible beauty standards that are upheld by Hollywood. They see Hollywood 4 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:18,199 actresses doing things to their faces, and then they're like, okay, well 5 00:00:18,199 --> 00:00:23,679 that they're the ones that are sort of setting the culture. Welcome to another 6 00:00:23,719 --> 00:00:27,760 deep dive addition of the Chicks on the Right podcast today, because it's been 7 00:00:27,839 --> 00:00:32,200 some months now that I think that we talked about people needing to stop with 8 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:37,439 their faces and we played some builder clips because there's so many women that are 9 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:41,799 turning into cats and it's not okay. It's not it's not okay. And 10 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:49,719 so you saw recently sort of the opposite viewpoint with Justine Bateman, who people 11 00:00:49,759 --> 00:00:55,399 know from such things as Families Love Love That show. I love miss shows 12 00:00:55,439 --> 00:00:58,320 like that. Just side note, I totally miss sitcoms like that, Like 13 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:03,000 we need to bring back sit comes again that actually were sitcoms and not reality 14 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:08,799 shows. Continue Are there sitcoms like a thing as a sitcom anymore? I 15 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,640 just missed that. So I don't think that people have the attention span anymore 16 00:01:12,719 --> 00:01:17,239 for sitcoms. I think they only have the attention span for like five minute 17 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:19,400 chunks of video if that, maybe thirty second chunks and that's it, and 18 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:23,120 then they have to move along because they're like fleas. Yeah, yeah, 19 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:27,799 you're right, but man, in the eight Day of sitcoms, there were 20 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:34,719 some good ones. And Mallory, who Justine played on Family Time, was 21 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:38,920 a great character and gorgeous. And so now she is a director, writer, 22 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:45,040 producer person. She's behind the camera instead of on camera, and she's 23 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:48,840 calling the shots and a lot of shows that she's producing and directing and she 24 00:01:48,959 --> 00:01:53,079 likes it that way. And but apparently, like some time ago, years 25 00:01:53,079 --> 00:01:57,159 ago actually because she's fifty seven now, but like in her early forties, 26 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:01,000 she was putting together some sort of some thing and needed a bio, like 27 00:02:01,079 --> 00:02:04,719 she needed to have her memory triggered about something that she had done. So 28 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:09,120 she googled herself and saw that the auto phil on the Google search bar, 29 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:15,400 when you said Justine Bateman, it automatically put the words looks. Can you 30 00:02:15,439 --> 00:02:20,439 imagine? Like that's and that that's what came up for her as she searched 31 00:02:20,439 --> 00:02:23,599 for herself. Yeah, and she's like, wait a secs and you know, 32 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:27,240 then she started, you know, she started talking about it more and 33 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:29,800 more, and she's like, I think I look rad you know, I 34 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:32,919 think I look really great, and she and we have a couple clips of 35 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:38,919 her that she's you know, she's become very outspoken about the fact that she 36 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:44,319 has not put any she has not fed with her face at all. The 37 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,319 only thing that she fs with is her eyes, and in my view, 38 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:51,719 she wears way too much island and honestly, I think she would look gorgeous 39 00:02:51,759 --> 00:02:54,319 without it. But that's, you know, whatever She's gonna do her and 40 00:02:54,360 --> 00:03:00,719 her whole point is that people should just do them and they shouldn't feel pressure 41 00:03:00,719 --> 00:03:05,240 by society and culture to like f with her faces. And so I can't 42 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:07,280 remember what well, the first clip is her. I think she was just 43 00:03:07,439 --> 00:03:12,439 this was part of the sixty minute special that they did with her. She 44 00:03:12,479 --> 00:03:15,680 wrote a book. I believe the book is called Face if I'm not mistaken, 45 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:19,280 And so she's talking, she talks about this and it's a it's a 46 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:23,159 pretty quick clip, but it just gives you kind of the gist of how 47 00:03:23,199 --> 00:03:25,800 she feels about her face. So here's that is there, beauty and aging? 48 00:03:27,319 --> 00:03:31,199 Aren't you really saying, do you think it's possible for other people to 49 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:38,599 find aging beautiful? And like, I just don't give it, Like I 50 00:03:38,639 --> 00:03:45,960 think I look rad I think my face represents who I am. I like 51 00:03:46,159 --> 00:03:54,919 it. And so that's basically the end of the road. I love that 52 00:03:55,039 --> 00:03:59,479 so much. I love it. And then she and she talked about how 53 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:02,400 if she did a bunch of crap to her face, it would erase the 54 00:04:02,439 --> 00:04:08,159 authority that she has, which I think is interesting because you know, you 55 00:04:08,199 --> 00:04:11,639 look around and you see some of these women who have like, you know, 56 00:04:11,719 --> 00:04:19,959 the puffy, stretched out catlike faces, and do they command authority? 57 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:25,199 I don't know. You look at Madonna, like with the with the Grammy 58 00:04:25,439 --> 00:04:30,519 debacle, and I you know, I don't know do people respect her more 59 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:36,560 because she has that face and she doesn't even look like Madonna anymore. She 60 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:42,360 barely looks umine at this point. She looks like an alien. Like I 61 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:46,160 made fun of her. I don't, okay, I didn't really make fun 62 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:48,759 of her. I don't want to say that. I put a picture of 63 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:54,839 her on my Facebook wall and I said, can we make aging grade again? 64 00:04:56,439 --> 00:04:59,839 Maga mega? I put can we make aging grade again? On my 65 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,199 Facebook all and I put a picture of her right after, like the day 66 00:05:01,199 --> 00:05:04,560 after the Grammys, because I was like, what is going on with Madonna? 67 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:09,839 As was like seventy five percent of the country. I mean, we 68 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:14,199 all were like wait, especially gen xers, because we remember Madonna as being 69 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:18,600 Madonna and not a you know, some feline alien, and so we were 70 00:05:18,639 --> 00:05:21,199 like, what the Hell's going on with Madonna's face? So I put her 71 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:26,040 picture on my Facebook wall, and so many people were like, Oh my 72 00:05:26,079 --> 00:05:28,160 god, Yeah, what's going on with their face? Like what is the 73 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,800 deal? Like she should just you know, be kind of normal. It'd 74 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:34,639 be so great if she would just you know, age kind of normally and 75 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:39,360 gracefully, and wouldn't that be need to be so refreshing. And then I 76 00:05:39,439 --> 00:05:45,319 had a couple women who I know from high school and college who were really 77 00:05:46,519 --> 00:05:51,920 but heard about that because they took it personally because they do the things things. 78 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:57,240 You know, they're the ones who have the lip injections and the you 79 00:05:57,240 --> 00:06:00,120 know, the real housewives work on their face. You know what I'm saying 80 00:06:00,399 --> 00:06:04,279 that when I say the housewives work, you know, they have the stretch 81 00:06:04,319 --> 00:06:08,519 and the pool and they have the look. They have that look. You 82 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:11,800 know what look, and everybody knows the look you do. You know the 83 00:06:11,879 --> 00:06:15,439 look. It's like the Kardashian A five look. And there's always a couple 84 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:19,399 that you know from like high school or college that have done the things and 85 00:06:19,439 --> 00:06:26,399 they it's like they ever, it's that look, and it's becoming so commonplace. 86 00:06:26,439 --> 00:06:30,040 Like when and that started what, Like, I don't know, in 87 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:33,800 the mid to late two thousands, I think is when everybody, I say 88 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:39,000 everybody, when a lot of women started doing that stuff and it became younger 89 00:06:39,079 --> 00:06:42,439 and younger and younger, and now like twenty somethings and thirty some things are 90 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:47,240 doing all of that crap to their face and they claim it's preventative, like 91 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:51,959 they're doing it to prevent aging, which I don't know if that's a thing 92 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:56,959 that you can do. I mean, we're all gonna get there. 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They never like, 120 00:09:03,759 --> 00:09:07,120 I don't want to look like Kim Kardashian at all, and I don't. 121 00:09:07,159 --> 00:09:11,600 I definitely don't don't want to look like Madonna looked at the Grammys. So 122 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:16,799 if I'm gonna have like some wrinkles and stuff, I'd much rather I don't 123 00:09:16,799 --> 00:09:20,440 know, I'd rather look like that than look like an alien. I don't 124 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,919 know. There's so there's something to be said for aging it. And I 125 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,759 do like some of the things that Justine Bateman says, which is, you 126 00:09:26,799 --> 00:09:31,799 know, having the authority on your face and like living a life. And 127 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:35,360 then there's this one clip that she you know, she when she was interviewed 128 00:09:35,399 --> 00:09:39,000 about her book and about the sixty minutes interview. This clip was really cool 129 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:43,519 because I just liked the things she said in it and it spoke, um, 130 00:09:45,399 --> 00:09:48,360 it hit a nerve with me. I just thought like, Wow, 131 00:09:48,759 --> 00:09:56,240 this face, fully functional face right has smelt from my whole life, from 132 00:09:56,559 --> 00:10:05,440 in the womb to out, has smelt everything I've smelled, has said everything 133 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:09,159 I've said, has cried every moment I've cried, has laughed everything every time 134 00:10:09,159 --> 00:10:13,399 I've laughed. And so am I now gonna go, Yeah, thanks for 135 00:10:13,519 --> 00:10:18,480 all that, Thanks for everything you've ever did for me. Whatever, Now 136 00:10:18,519 --> 00:10:22,120 I'm going to cut you up because I don't like you. Isn't that kind 137 00:10:22,159 --> 00:10:26,720 of neat? Yeah? I kind of love that. I guess it's like 138 00:10:26,759 --> 00:10:30,440 the same reason that you, you know, I get really pissed off nowadays, 139 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:33,080 because you know, when you go through the menopause, you get really 140 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:37,320 pissy because you all of a sudden you've gained ten pounds overnight, and you're 141 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:41,960 like, what the hell is this? What is this garbage? But then 142 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:46,000 you have to you have to take pause and no pun intended and you have 143 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:48,960 to go, Okay, Well, this body has done a lot of good 144 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:52,519 things for me, you know. I mean, it's taken me through three 145 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:56,360 pregnancies, one that actually came to fruition. It's like, I've had a 146 00:10:56,399 --> 00:11:00,360 lot of surgeries. I've been through a lot of crap in this body. 147 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:01,799 I've been through a lot of journey. I hate the word journey, but 148 00:11:01,879 --> 00:11:05,759 I have been through a lot of crazy journeys in this body. And it's 149 00:11:05,759 --> 00:11:09,200 gotten me through some crap. And so you have to be grateful for the 150 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:13,720 and I you know, and I have all my limbs, you know, 151 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:16,600 I've I've made It's like I look at the stuff that you've been through in 152 00:11:16,639 --> 00:11:20,360 your body and like you're we're still alive. We're on the We're on the 153 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:24,600 right side of the dirt man. So right, well, that's why I 154 00:11:24,639 --> 00:11:30,159 mean, as as difficult as aging can be, it sure as hell beats 155 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:33,240 the alternates, that's the thing. And so you know, I remember like 156 00:11:33,519 --> 00:11:37,840 hanging out with my grandma, because you know, both of my grandma's and 157 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:43,240 obviously my great grandmother's they're gone now. And I remember hanging out with my 158 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:50,080 great my great grandmother in particular, and her skin was so paper thin, 159 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:54,879 and she was very wrinkly, and I there was something endearing about that, 160 00:11:54,519 --> 00:12:00,480 something about like her life was so lived, like she had been through so 161 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:03,840 much and like the and she was wise, and you know, obviously she 162 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:07,720 was old. She was freaking old, and she had lived a life, 163 00:12:07,759 --> 00:12:11,000 and like you look to her to tell you stories and and give you advice 164 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:16,759 and be this, you know, person that had been through so many years 165 00:12:16,799 --> 00:12:22,120 of living and it you know, she wasn't stretched and puffy and waxy. 166 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:24,799 And can you imagine, like if she looked like a car I don't know, 167 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:30,279 would just be so different like going to her and asking just I just 168 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:35,360 can't imagine her being a person that had all that work done to her face, 169 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:41,600 or if she didn't want to embrace aging. I just I feel like 170 00:12:41,639 --> 00:12:46,559 she probably felt beautiful because she had lived a life and not because of crap 171 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:50,519 that she did to her face or and or her body. You know. 172 00:12:52,159 --> 00:12:58,360 Well, I mean, the whole thing about Justine is is great because I 173 00:12:58,399 --> 00:13:01,039 think a lot of the reason that so many women feel pressure to do the 174 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:07,039 things to their faces is as a result of watching Hollywood, and so they 175 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:13,080 see the impossible beauty standards that are upheld by Hollywood. They see Hollywood actresses 176 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:16,360 doing things to their faces, and then they're like, okay, well that 177 00:13:16,639 --> 00:13:20,159 they're the ones that are sort of setting the culture right. So then regular 178 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:22,080 everyday women are like, well, crap, if this is the standard, 179 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:26,440 I gotta hold myself to that. I gotta get with the times and f 180 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:31,840 with my face. And so it's I think it's more impactful when someone like 181 00:13:31,879 --> 00:13:35,159 a Justine Bateman or I know we've got a clip too of any McDowell, 182 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:41,279 when other actresses, other people in Hollywood, other influential celebrity types are taken 183 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:46,200 a stand against all the FFing with our faces, so that regular people can 184 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:48,519 be like, well, if they can do it, then I can do 185 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:52,600 that too. I can age just like a regular person instead of trying to 186 00:13:52,639 --> 00:13:56,000 beat a clock that I'm never gonna beat. I'm never gonna win that fight, 187 00:13:56,159 --> 00:14:00,320 So what's the point of even engaging in the battle, you know. 188 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,759 So my baby girl is getting ready to go to two camps this summer. 189 00:14:03,799 --> 00:14:07,519 She's going to two. 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We get the insults, you know, so, and we 218 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:56,080 didn't have this when we were growing up. You didn't. Social media in 219 00:15:56,120 --> 00:16:02,840 itself is just this medium where people are cruel and they say things about your 220 00:16:02,879 --> 00:16:06,919 appearance. Whereas you didn't get that when you were you know, when you 221 00:16:06,919 --> 00:16:10,399 were growing up or even your twenty even in our twenties, like in college, 222 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:12,039 we didn't have that. There was no forum for people to pick you 223 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:17,480 apart. And so you just you you were you were your own worst critic 224 00:16:17,519 --> 00:16:21,440 in the mirror. But you didn't have a you know, a huge, 225 00:16:22,399 --> 00:16:27,120 a huge gaggle of people looking at you every single day and and and critiquing 226 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:33,080 all of the flaws that you already know that you hate, you know what 227 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:36,639 I mean. And so it's it's totally different now. And I listen, 228 00:16:36,679 --> 00:16:41,120 it's not just us, it's everybody you put yourself you just everybody's on social 229 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:45,120 media. Everybody is putting their pictures on social media, so everybody's opening themselves 230 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:49,039 up to critique, and so there thereby we're just like, it's just this 231 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:56,759 weird um circular, awful mess that we've gotten ourselves into where it's like, 232 00:16:56,919 --> 00:16:59,799 okay, well look at me, Okay, then hate me or look at 233 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:03,600 me, critique me. And it's like it just sucks for everybody. It's 234 00:17:03,639 --> 00:17:07,279 not just it's not just celebrities, just regular everyday people who are like, 235 00:17:07,319 --> 00:17:08,720 I feel like crap about myself. I got to do something about it. 236 00:17:08,759 --> 00:17:12,240 And so that falls into the whole bucket of aging two, where it's like, 237 00:17:12,279 --> 00:17:15,799 well, I can't age, I can't. I got to look the 238 00:17:15,839 --> 00:17:18,039 same way I did when I was thirty, when I'm thirty five, when 239 00:17:18,079 --> 00:17:21,599 I'm forty, and it's like, but I'm not the same person that I 240 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:23,519 was when I was thirty. I don't want to be the same person I 241 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:26,960 was when I was thirty, you know, and there therefore I shouldn't look 242 00:17:27,039 --> 00:17:30,240 the same as I was when I was thirty. I'm not the same and 243 00:17:30,319 --> 00:17:33,720 I don't want to be the same. So, um, it's like right 244 00:17:33,759 --> 00:17:37,200 now, I'm it's it's funny you and I talk about this a lot because 245 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:41,039 I hate my hair and I'm growing and I'm growing because I and I've lost 246 00:17:41,079 --> 00:17:45,799 a lot of hair because menopause will do that. Menopause is an evil horrors, 247 00:17:45,839 --> 00:17:49,359 an evil, evil bitch and so and and I've lost a lot of 248 00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:53,279 hair, and so that's just part of at least that's for me. That's 249 00:17:53,319 --> 00:17:56,680 what part of menopause has done, like not for everybody, but at least 250 00:17:56,680 --> 00:18:00,559 for me, that's part of what the hell whole process has been. And 251 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:03,880 so I'm like, well, I'm just gonna grow it out and like grow 252 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:07,519 the gray out. And it's it's weird because you know, when you start 253 00:18:07,559 --> 00:18:11,200 growing the gray out, like gray hair is for some people, it's like, 254 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:15,319 well that just makes you look old, you know, And it kind 255 00:18:15,319 --> 00:18:18,799 of does, like because sometimes there are days where I'll be like, Okay, 256 00:18:18,799 --> 00:18:22,200 well Gray, I don't want to do it, and then some days 257 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:23,240 wrong, I'm gonna die it. And then some days I'm like, well, 258 00:18:23,279 --> 00:18:26,039 gray is cool because some of the twenty and thirty something's like gray, 259 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:30,000 right, and then Gray's empowering and Gray's becoming like the thing now. But 260 00:18:30,039 --> 00:18:33,880 then other days I'm just like, f this, I'm just gonna die it, 261 00:18:33,079 --> 00:18:37,799 you know. So it's really interesting. And Andy McDowell has a she 262 00:18:38,039 --> 00:18:41,720 talks about that. She talks about the whole gray hair thing, and I 263 00:18:41,759 --> 00:18:45,160 love what she has to say about that. You are people saying good for 264 00:18:45,279 --> 00:18:48,880 you right on every it's great about it. Everybody's wonderful about it, and 265 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:52,920 I it just it makes me laugh. One said. Someone says, it 266 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:57,400 makes me look older? What do you think I look? How do you 267 00:18:57,400 --> 00:19:02,680 think I look? I'm you know, I'm giving sixty five. What do 268 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:04,160 you think I look seventy five? Just because I'll let my mirror go. 269 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:10,799 But I mean, I do know there is something that happens with our in 270 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:14,599 our brain, with women with silver here. It is true it happens, 271 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:18,039 But I don't care. I want to be I want to be old. 272 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:21,000 I'm tired of trying to be young. I don't want to be young, 273 00:19:21,640 --> 00:19:23,960 a thin young, and to be an I old a person trying to be 274 00:19:25,079 --> 00:19:27,920 young. What an effort. There's a lot of effort. I mean, 275 00:19:29,039 --> 00:19:33,200 I'm already working on stain in shape, keeping good care of my body, 276 00:19:33,519 --> 00:19:37,279 nourishing my skin, working on my brain. How much can I possibly do? 277 00:19:37,559 --> 00:19:41,079 I mean I can't. I just can't keep up the charade. You 278 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:45,960 know, it's totally reminding you and you're always like it sounds like a lot 279 00:19:45,039 --> 00:19:49,119 of work. When I saw that quipe, I was like, oh my 280 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:52,839 god, that's so much. It seems like a lot of work. I 281 00:19:52,839 --> 00:19:56,000 can only do like four things, not eight. Okay, come on. 282 00:19:56,559 --> 00:20:00,200 Yeah, you know what I was thinking about. And I do love that. 283 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:03,440 I love that clip of her, and I do think you should go 284 00:20:03,519 --> 00:20:07,000 completely silver because you have the pretty kind of silver, like it's the good 285 00:20:07,039 --> 00:20:12,440 guys. We'll see. Yeah, I was thinking about how there was a 286 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:17,319 shift and I can't tell you when it happened, but do you remember back 287 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:21,880 in the way day, like when people used to buy magazines, celebrity magazines, 288 00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:25,759 like even if it was just people or or whatever. Yes, Oh 289 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:29,200 totally I was. I had so many subscriptions, and back in the day, 290 00:20:29,279 --> 00:20:33,880 you would get the magazines and you would see celebrities at their absolute best. 291 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:36,960 That was all you would see. And then at some point there was 292 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:41,119 the shift to where it was stars, they're just like us. They have 293 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:45,319 cellulite, they have wrinkles, they have and it would literally the paparazzi changed 294 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:51,799 into getting these glamorous shots into these wolves that went after celebrities to get the 295 00:20:51,839 --> 00:20:56,799 worst sides of them and there, and I feel like that had a huge 296 00:20:56,920 --> 00:21:00,440 impact on the whole culture. And they're her line of thinking, like the 297 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:04,759 way they thought of themselves. When they would recognize that people were seeing them 298 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:07,720 as they actually are, they were like, well, we can't have that. 299 00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:11,279 Got to do a nip here, a tuck there, or whatever. 300 00:21:11,839 --> 00:21:15,000 And I just I don't know why that shift occurred, because that was I 301 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:19,240 don't think it coincided with the Internet. It just seemed like it happened in 302 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:23,279 print magazines and then of course it carried over to the Internet. And then 303 00:21:23,759 --> 00:21:29,319 what do you think that that made people more apt to be forgiving of themselves 304 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:32,559 or do you think it made them more apt to not be forgiving of themselves. 305 00:21:32,599 --> 00:21:34,279 That's the thing I don't know, man, I just remember, do 306 00:21:34,279 --> 00:21:38,640 you remember when we made fun of that episode of the Kardashians. We did 307 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:42,799 a video about it where Kim Kim Kardashian was shot on a beach without her 308 00:21:42,839 --> 00:21:48,400 knowledge, and her giant massul of area with all of its bumps and cellulite 309 00:21:48,799 --> 00:21:52,680 was on display and she was she was living, yeah, because there was 310 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:57,039 no there were no filters, there were no professional photographers to take pictures of 311 00:21:57,039 --> 00:22:02,160 her in a flattering light, and so she was kissed about it because she's 312 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:06,960 like, I couldn't control that that imagery. Yeah. Yeah. And so 313 00:22:07,039 --> 00:22:11,359 now not only do we have to deal with people like the Kardashians doing all 314 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:14,480 the stuff to their faces, but then on top of doing the stuff to 315 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:18,480 their faces, they also filtered the loving god out of that. So you 316 00:22:18,559 --> 00:22:22,000 don't ever know what to photoshop it to the point where fingers are missing. 317 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:30,359 You're like, wait a second, one of your fingers is gone. Like 318 00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:33,279 it's like, we know that this was photoshop to hell? What this isn't 319 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:37,279 right? Yeah, So I mean it's ridiculous, absolutely ridiculous. Yeah, 320 00:22:37,319 --> 00:22:41,480 we know it's I mean, you we know a lot of us know that 321 00:22:41,519 --> 00:22:45,200 it's not real, but we still look at the image, the imagery is 322 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,400 still in our faces, and it's still you're just kind of are rolling your 323 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:52,240 eyes. And then you have people like their their mother Chris Kardashian who has 324 00:22:52,319 --> 00:22:56,680 aged like you know, I mean, like not a normal person. She's 325 00:22:56,720 --> 00:23:00,880 not aging normally. None of those women age normally. You don't see a 326 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:03,319 lot of the only person that I've really seen in Hollywood, Like, there's 327 00:23:03,319 --> 00:23:08,799 maybe a handful. There's like the Emma Thompson's, the Helen Mirren's maybe you 328 00:23:08,839 --> 00:23:14,359 know, she's genetically gifted and aging normally. But there's a couple. There's 329 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:18,480 like a handful of those women that are out there. Maybe um Meryl Streep 330 00:23:18,599 --> 00:23:22,079 is sort of Jamie Lee Curtis is one of them. I mean, there's 331 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:25,279 a handful of them that I have decided I'm not gonna put a bunch of 332 00:23:25,279 --> 00:23:27,759 shit in my face. I'm just gonna, yeah, I'm gonna age like 333 00:23:27,799 --> 00:23:32,000 a normal human being. And then we're just gonna We're gonna go with it 334 00:23:32,039 --> 00:23:33,359 because I've got a ton of money and I don't care. What do I 335 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:37,160 care? You know's And it just seems like it just seems like a lot 336 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:41,319 of work a lot of upkeep, and I'm just gonna I'm gonna go with 337 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,440 it, and I'm gonna be photographed on a beach with all my cellulight hanging 338 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:45,839 out and I just don't care, you know, I'll do I'm gonna stay 339 00:23:47,039 --> 00:23:49,839 as in shape as I can, and there's gonna be some gravity. And 340 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:55,279 that is just the way that life deals me a hand, you know, 341 00:23:55,880 --> 00:24:00,319 And that's that is that's reality. It's I'm not gonna be perfect. And 342 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,920 I think it's cool that some of them are doing that, and because that 343 00:24:04,079 --> 00:24:07,799 is reality. And so when I when I put on my Facebook page, 344 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:11,839 you know, like make aging great again, and there are actual people that 345 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,599 I know in my life, I got pissed about that. I was like, 346 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:21,119 well, I feel like that's your problem and not mine, you know 347 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,119 what I mean. I was sorry that that struck a rb with you, 348 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:26,400 But I mean, you know, take that up with somebody else, because 349 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:30,319 I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to make aging great again. Because 350 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:34,720 my grandma and my great grandma they made it look cool, you know, 351 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:40,480 they seemed to. They made it look great, and I don't I don't 352 00:24:40,519 --> 00:24:42,720 think there's anything wrong with that. 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Use code chicks well, and it's it's The difference now too, 383 00:26:52,279 --> 00:26:56,240 is that instead of trying to be instead of using all the fillers and 384 00:26:56,440 --> 00:27:02,240 the plumpers or all the stuffs, d of using those things and surgeries to 385 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:07,640 look youthful, people are using them to look ageless. And that is not 386 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:12,519 normal. It's not normal to look not human. And that's what all of 387 00:27:12,519 --> 00:27:17,960 those catwomen look like. They look like age, just the like carbon copies 388 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:21,599 of themselves, and they don't look youthful. They just look like they have 389 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:25,440 no age. And so I guess, great, you know, congrats to 390 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:29,240 them that they I can't guess what age they are, but they look like 391 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:32,240 aliens and I don't know that. It's a fantastic point because one of the 392 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:36,720 things that Annie McDowell said, and as a follow up to the clip that 393 00:27:36,759 --> 00:27:38,079 we just played, and she's like, listen, I don't judge people that 394 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:42,039 put stuff in their face, like fillers and stuff like that. And I 395 00:27:42,079 --> 00:27:45,559 guess I don't want to do that either, you know what I mean, 396 00:27:45,599 --> 00:27:48,920 because I really don't. I don't because if you want to do that, 397 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:52,400 that's fine, but I do. I do like what you say about like 398 00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:56,559 you can't at some point you're going to be seventy and people are going to 399 00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:00,480 know that you're seventy, you know what I mean, and then you just 400 00:28:00,519 --> 00:28:03,200 have a bunch of crap in your face. So it's like it's one thing 401 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:07,240 to like do a little bit here and there and like listen, I mean, 402 00:28:07,319 --> 00:28:11,759 I'll put fake lashes on and I used to dye my hair and if 403 00:28:11,799 --> 00:28:14,240 I need to white my teeth or something like that. It's like, there's 404 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:18,920 it's not like I haven't done some of the things to make myself look better. 405 00:28:18,039 --> 00:28:22,079 It's not like I'm not going to try to look my best every single 406 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:25,319 day. But I mean, at some point, people are gonna know that 407 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,799 you're seventy, you know what I mean. So it's you can't hide that 408 00:28:27,839 --> 00:28:30,920 for it. You're gonna die one day and it's like you're going to be 409 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,720 in a casket and people are gonna go, oh, wow, she looks 410 00:28:33,759 --> 00:28:40,119 great for her for her death. Yeah, you know, it's like, 411 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:44,440 you know what I mean, because it's death becomes her. It's you're not 412 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:48,519 gonna live forever to be ridiculous. You're gonna be exactly. You're gonna be 413 00:28:48,559 --> 00:28:52,200 the best looking ninety nine year old ever. And that's kind of weird. 414 00:28:52,519 --> 00:28:56,480 It's just kind of it's just a little weird. Remember do you remember that 415 00:28:56,519 --> 00:29:00,599 picture? I don't even know. It floated around the internet probably twenty years 416 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:06,480 ago, where it was this woman who was clearly like late seventies, early 417 00:29:06,559 --> 00:29:11,400 eighties maybe and super thin, super tan, and there was this picture of 418 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:18,160 her on a beach with fake boobs and I who's so like, she has 419 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:23,559 this eighty year old skin with all the appropriate wrinkles and then these perky boobs 420 00:29:23,759 --> 00:29:30,400 and it was so bar And that's the other thing that you're like, Okay, 421 00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:33,000 so you want to you want to hide your age a little bit, 422 00:29:33,079 --> 00:29:37,319 but but do you want to look like an absolute freak? And that's what 423 00:29:37,799 --> 00:29:42,839 these people. I bet her husband loved it. I bet her husbands just 424 00:29:44,079 --> 00:29:47,200 like he just looks for him, like the waist to be right, her 425 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:51,319 waist at her neck, and he's like, that'll do, that'll do, 426 00:29:51,519 --> 00:29:55,559 honey, Yeah, just so straight, far right. But because apparently you 427 00:29:55,599 --> 00:29:59,000 have to get those redone like every ten years, this is what I well, 428 00:29:59,119 --> 00:30:03,720 yeah, yeah, because they don't they don't stay safe or whatever. 429 00:30:03,799 --> 00:30:06,680 I don't know, it sounds that sounds like a lot of thing. And 430 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:11,799 that also sounds like a lot of work. It really does, it really 431 00:30:11,839 --> 00:30:14,599 does. I wanted to tell you that we have a couple of really key 432 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:18,759 reviews. One is a five star review that and this was of course left 433 00:30:18,839 --> 00:30:23,039 on our Apple podcast platform, which we so appreciate it. 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That's exactly right. 453 00:31:45,079 --> 00:31:48,079 I mean, he may have made a mistake offering Justine Bateman eyeliner, 454 00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:52,200 but beyond that, she did. Listen, he didn't make the eyeliner that 455 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:55,960 was man made. That's true. That's true. Know what I'm saying. 456 00:31:56,079 --> 00:31:59,279 It wasn't necessarily God. So there's that. Guys. Hope you have a 457 00:31:59,319 --> 00:32:01,480 wonderful way. Check us out on all the Things Chicks on the Right dot 458 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:05,559 com slash link. You can find us in all the places there, and 459 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:07,480 we'll talk to you next week. Bye.