But I' m good they' re either or all Hello what a taste,
welcome to Luis Miguel Salvado, welcome. This is a good question.
I am very happy because today my guest is going to provide us with a
lot of data. Let' s talk about a lot of issues on the
issue of women' s health. There' s so much to talk about.
Much has been said, much research has been done. However, she,
through her testimony of her life, will impact us in a very positive
way and we will learn many things. It' s a pleasure and a
privilege for me to give you and introduce you to Helen Zárate, Helen,
how are you, Hi, Luis Mi, how are you doing, All
right. Thank you, happy, happy to be with you through this medium
and nothing much Thank you for the invitation, for giving me the opportunity to
share a little more with you and the people who see us. I have
to tell all of you that you probably see us being listened to. Helen
is an exception to the woman. I' m really surprised. I'
ve had the pleasure of coinciding with her in a business group and the truth
is that I' m surprised by her organization, by her drive, by
her attitude, because she really has qualities and I don' t say it
on her lips she knows outwards, but she really proves how Helen works and
how she strives and always makes a positive and always forward attitude. So,
it' s going to be a pleasure for me to be able to say
hello and talk to you about a lot of things. Helen and let me
introduce Helen Sabat as she deserves. She has training in hotel and business.
He specializes in costomery experience, with experience of more than fifteen years in the
field of tourism, in areas such as sales, torral, travel, service,
customer service, quality, complaints and claims, among many areas. More.
Today it is focused, as I told you, on a project of
its own to make the issue of women' s health visible with experience and
witness of its own. In early ovarian insufficiency and early ovarian ope or failure.
It' s a privilege for me to have Helen with us and all
of you, as I always say, good morning, good afternoon, good
night wherever you want to meet. If that' s all right with you,
we start to gel, because a lot of things. What a welcome
chat. I' m so glad you' re here with us. Thank
you for finally being made, but good. It is a pleasure in privilege
and this is the question I ask all my guests. That' s the
initial question. This is the only question that I constantly repeat, because I
am very interested in knowing, beyond what you studied, what you have worked
on, certifications, awards, recognitions, diplomas, beyond all that, or
rather making it a little bit more of what we stay with. Who is
Helen, Sara, welcome, well, thank you very much, Miguel.
I want to thank you for that welcome, for that beautiful introduction. I
' m happy, I' m delighted to be on your show and let
me tell you who Helen is. I, for one, am a faithful
believer, a little to coincide with what you just mentioned that you can'
t be a great professional or go a little further. If I don'
t know he' s a great person, right, then I' m
a person. I' m a woman that every day I want to be
just what I say best person. I' m not, I' m
not perfect, but within this whole world, I' m sure I have
some virtues that I would like to help me a little to inspire other people.
No, and in short, I am a faithful believer in this,
that this should be a day- to- day goal so that we can
all be better each day. And so, somehow, I know I'
m going to say something that seems like impossible, help change this world a
little bit and bring our bit of sand in a personal way so that we
can do things maybe not perfect, but there already improving a little bit each
of us. I think we can do a lot and I in this little
summary, that' s the most valuable thing for me. Not what taste,
what taste they gel at notice that one of the branches, or better
said, more than a branch, one of the experiences that most demands attention,
care, respect, protocols, patience, prudence, of all the known
characteristics and for having is precisely tourism and more in the areas in which you
have been as sales, customer service. Don' t say service, quality,
complaints claims good, you' ve been in the nicest departments, the
tallest, the most satisfied, the most conflict- filled and the most problem
- solving. I don' t want to ask you how your character helps
you or your character has been detonating to be able to work in this area
and what motivated you, on the other hand, to study this part of
hotel and business. Yeah, I' ll tell you in fact, work
in areas. Yes, they are very beautiful areas, because, after all,
you relate to different people, truth and not all people are the same.
He has contributed much, suddenly within some virtue he may have. I
am a patient person who, at the end of everything, likes to solve
things, and these more than to contribute to the problem. I am very
much looking for a solution, finding it and creating not only a satisfaction for
myself, but for the other side, for the person facing me. It
is also a long time ago to work on this important value, which is
empathy. I' ve always said that, at the end of the day,
it' s not the dilemma of day to day, but how you
say it. It helps a lot to work in tourism. It' s
been an experience for me. In fact, so far I' ve been
working on tourism, so I' ve been learning from so many experiences of
people from all over the world, and this is how wonderful you can finally
relate, more than to a customer, more than to a passenger, more
than to someone who has the need and to make a trip and pay for
a travel experience. You' re dealing with a person. So the focus
is always to see much further. So I think having a good result definitely
has a lot to do with you not thinking it' s a literal passenger
passing through, but rather creating an experience for someone else. And this is
important. You don' t know if this person who' s going to
travel is borrowing and investing all of his savings, if it' s the
first and last time it' s going to happen. We' re having
Michellen' s forgiveness. We' re in a grunt out there on audio
like something moved or something you hear me. Okay, I hear you perfect.
He' s here now Something' s happened. You can repeat this
part to me. You were telling me in the sense that you didn'
t know if they were investing all their money, if it was their last
trip, etcetera, and that you were generating it. That' s just
not an experience. That' s right, we create experiences rather than travel.
We create experiences for people. Then we' re always looking forward to
it. I personally take care that this passenger, this person who is going
to travel, I have a complete experience as if it were the only thing
and the last thing that still comes in his life, because, obviously,
what I was telling you we don' t know if this person is investing,
we know about his savings or he had to take a loan to make
a trip. So, valuing this point is so important and because, besides,
it' s going to take you to another level, it' s
going to lead you to understand and put you in this person' s place.
You just said forgive me, you just said a lot of things.
I have to interrupt you in order to hit not here to something that caught
my attention a lot. First, you tell us you generate an experience.
Today, in the digital world, on social networks and so on, we
have seen how many people want to keep sending a message instead of generating an
experience. On the one hand, on the digital issue, it is presumed
that I know if you say, I am the best, I am the
only thing, I am the most beautiful, the cheapest, the most pleasant,
the highest or the lowest or the most seems. It didn' t
seem like a healthy exercise. However, it does not produce results until you
change the message that I give you because of the experience you live, which
is totally different. Now this is a way to work, it' s
a way to be who taught you, because today I think not only in
Mexico, but the whole world. If we really made our own this philosophy
you' re talking about, because I' ll change a lot, absolutely
everything going to the bank going to a supermarket, and going to a gas
station would change the experience of companies, brands and organizations a lot. Who
taught you that, where you learned it, how you rented out these clients,
and how you solved it. Tell us yes, look, yes,
definitely, I fully agree with you if we applied in the day- to
- day what we say and what we have written in a paper and in
our organizational culture, and all this nice if we really put it into practice.
Eye is nothing more than putting it into practice, but putting it into
practice from the heart. I treat others the way we want them to treat
us. So this is key together and it goes way out of hand with
what I was saying, it' s not what you say, but how
you say it, okay, there' s a lot of things, right,
but there' s certain things even that will help you make a difference,
that is, the fact that you know how to express something or that
you know how to transmit something. He' s definitely put you on a
side step or a step forward. Congratulations, and that' s true.
Now how he turned it on. And this also to answer your previous question,
how do I enter the world of tourism. Why I decide to study
or devote myself to this. I' ve been working since I was about
seventeen. I' m super into it. Today I have thirty- seven
imagine man, if you look like eighteen. Thank you, yesterday you started
or what woman, no. I am thirty- seven years old and notice
that I started at seventeen in a train company, with which I am super
grateful, because I have learned so much. I' ve learned a lot.
I never wanted to study tourism, that is, my first options will
be communications, journalism, psychology, law. Then nothing to do with tourism.
But for things of life, I go to work here and thank you.
That' s where I started. Let' s say my adventure with
tourism, where I' ve been able to learn a lot, where I
really, I tell you, I went to work. Imagine seventeen years old,
he wasn' t even an adult, he worked with a permit,
he didn' t speak English. Then I was barely there. I had
finished school, not long ago then, but I was already involved in a
world of work, seeing every day, different people, different personalities, different
ways of seeing, each one of them and most of the people where I
worked and everyone were already great adults. Then I was like the smallest,
but I was always rescuing that one thing and another from each other, not
just from my bosses, so to speak, who ultimately headed and liberated.
But there I have learned a lot and then, at some point, I
said to see I am already within this world. I' m already learning
why it doesn' t lead to a race on the part. And so
it was. I did stay in tourism and I am very grateful for everything
I have learned. Of course I need to learn a lot more. And
this is what life is all about. This is da mira. I had
heard that, for example, at Walt Disney. Now this is a comment
that I want to make that I am not aware of. There are things
that I am told, there are things that I know, that I have
contrasted, that I have the absolute foundation, but in this comment that I
am going to make I have nothing to say. I want to clarify it
in advance. I imagine you should know more about it even, but I
have been told that Disney has the policy of smiling at everyone, from the
one who sweeps it to the one who makes it Mickey Mounse or has that
obligation inside Disney that the one who doesn' t smile and attends kindly runs
it. According to this, we have seen in theme parks like this,
an exceptional tension, not most of the times and where they are kind gentiles
and you say you feel in a world apart what you said soon ago resonated
with me because I think we also need to know how to respond. It
' s not the fact of answering for answering, but how this is how
tourism gives it to you, that is, you go. For example,
when someone comes in and tells you listen, it' s how I might
have loved my room. And it' s all messed up. I can
' t imagine that you already have phrases made to be able to debate,
to be able to talk, to be able to put the client in the
zone of calm. We' re gonna figure it out. Don' t
worry, you have some room to negotiate and then I invite you tonight to
dinner so you don' t get mad anymore and so on. It'
s either that way or everyone responds as they want. This does not vary
in each company. Let' s see. I have been in companies where
customer service standards have always or almost always been handled. So many times they
even tell you how to answer the phone. You have to answer the first,
the second, the third season. You' re already missing, so
you' re governed by certain customer service standards so you can measure the quality
you' re giving. True, as companies, yes, it is true,
but long ago also the personality one has. I' m telling you,
I' ve seen cases of girls and boys who have ended up crying
because a client arrives and doesn' t agree with anything, and the client
never thinks it' s the company. In most cases, at least he
thinks it' s you and it' s your fault and you can solve
it. Then the first person to face is always the one on the fronttest
or, at the counter or in the coutra. Then it will always be
the one to take on this challenge. But yes, indeed, you have
a manual, you have standards and you have to meet them, because if
you don' t, as you rightly say, they can draw your attention,
they can admonish you verbally, they can even withdraw you from your work
if you don' t do them. But then it' s just as
valid, because you' re already in knowing the rules and you' re
going into a place where your job is finally smiling all the time, right.
But of course, that' s another topic and we' d go
somewhere else. But yes, indeed, that' s how it works,
as there are companies where they don' t have any of this. And
this is already going to depend on everyone and remember that not all people are
the same. We don' t all like to smile and that doesn'
t mean we' re bad people. We never know the truth. I
love to talk about these things with you, too, because the introduction is
here beyond being professional and in this I' m running to follow this conversation.
We' re people, so let' s not judge and we don
' t know what' s behind someone. Right. Now it' s
a little complicated, because finally, if you' re behind a counter or
a couter that although there are limits, but you' re to give solutions,
then not so you don' t have a manual or a standard to
meet is going to depend a lot on you and you have to be very
capable and you' re going to be like this. You know. It
' s not overnight. It' s a long way to learn, to
have the experience. I mean, I' ve really had experiences where I
' ve had to call security, that' s just the experience is going
to give you a certain knowledge. Then hear how they influence your daily life,
all these standards, all this learning, because if I have something to
recognize in Helen, if something is to recognize in you is that I always
see you with a smile, with a real egylo, in all the meetings,
very organized, very punctual Wow you have standards of attention, of care,
of respect, of listening, of a proactive analysis. Not now,
we will talk about the issue of the solution, because I also believe that
this world would be different if we focused instead of giving pretexts, like a
certain President of Mexico, whose name I do not want to mention, in
that all blame outwards. Everyone' s what and outside is to blame?
It is welcome to Mexico that they have to put it that way, but
imagine if a President of a nation, he blames everyone. And, on
the other hand, there are people who solve, who are looking for a
good solution. It' s very important. First, how it has affected
in everyday life, with your family, with your friends, with your work
initiatives, these standards and if they have helped you, how they have helped
you. And on the other hand, how is it that this part of
problem solving has become a personal ideology, because I see Helen who does not
see the mountain, but sees the other side of the mountain. And that
' s a very interesting mentality, because it invites you to if there'
s a solution. I don' t know how it' s likely,
but we' re going to find him and we' re going to find
him and talk to me, please, I' ll tell you. I
continue to tell you that I am grateful, because everything you learn many times
and now this depends on each one of you truth, because suddenly you can
say this of my life nothing to see. Reality is different. Not in
my house no one makes me smile. But I complain that in my case
and in my everyday life, I can honestly tell you that I always try
to apply this, I always try to find a way out, a solution
and if you finally don' t want this, then there are ways to
avoid certain things. Now I believe a lot that things are solved by talking
to you. He' s had my times there You know half a boxer.
Not clear about this, but today, if I' m very prother
let' s talk about it, check it out and sort it out.
What' s the worst thing that can happen to leave the ego aside for
a little while. That' s gonna affect you on something not. On
the contrary, I think that' s gonna make you even a much better
person. Not because letting go of the ego for a little while doesn'
t mean it' s gonna make you less than someone. Quite the opposite.
Sometimes we also think that shouting, raising your voice, blowing up against
the other person makes us stronger and nothing to see. Quite the opposite.
So, when we get to understand that we don' t really need to
get to these extremes and I' m talking about an everyday life, then
we can already find a solution. And if I' m a lot of
myself I' ve learned a lot from pro. Let' s talk about
what' s going on? I' m not saying if I' ve
been able to sit with someone in any company and tell them what' s
going on. Let me help you. We' re gonna figure it out.
I want to hear why I couldn' t do this in my house.
You don' t and there' s always gonna be people who are
gonna tell you ah, but you' re ah. But this isn'
t ah. But this isn' t a workplace that doesn' t,
that doesn' t affect you. You go on because you realize that applying
all these things, that you are learning out in your life or that it
fills. Yes, they help you and I exist they take you one step
ahead. Then fix the problem Helen then doesn' t focus. I mean,
there are times when we think that solving the problem is always positive.
I mean, we have you and I a discussion and thinking that in solving
the problem is that we have to pay off at the table always with a
positive response for both sides, but sometimes not solving the problem is suddenly saying
we' re not going to talk today, we' re going to talk
tomorrow. No. That is also part of a solution. How you handle
this issue of solutions and what conflict brings you when you suddenly say or listen.
It' s not that it' s impossible, it' s not
that you can' t. It' s not that it' s very
difficult. Like in Mexico, we have what we have to see. What
I can tell you is that you have to lose your fear in order to
express what you really feel, because many times even out of fear of saying
something or being wrong or wrong, we don' t say something that can
lead you to a solution. Then fear really has us all tied up.
I leave our mouths covered, but it' s totally valid to say today
I don' t want to talk we see it tomorrow. Today we leave
it this way on the condition that tomorrow we can resolve it. Because,
right now, I' m cloudy. I know this in a daily life,
right, of course at work you' re not going to tell a
client imagine he' s going to claim something for you. Right now,
you don' t talk anything tomorrow. Yes, in everyday life you can
handle it this way. It' s much better if you give it a
solution at the moment, if you can congratulate it, but if you don
' t give it a chance, don' t be afraid to express yourself
and say this moment. I don' t like it. We talk tomorrow,
Ahorita, my mind is not here and I don' t know,
but that' s valid. I mean, I think it' s an
important key not to be afraid to express what you feel, because if you
shut up and shut up and keep it and keep it a lot longer than
at some point you' re going to explode with everything, at that moment
you' re not giving the opportunity to be able to give, to have
a true solution and, as you well say, the solution doesn' t
necessarily, that is, to find something positive and that everything is pink.
Many times the solution is to put the ego aside and understand that you are
not always going to win and that losing is also good, because, at
the end of the day, you are learning and it is part of the
day- to- day and life. One thing that really caught my attention
is that, after that, more than fifteen years in this job. In
the day to day you make the decision to start a project of your own
to make just a health issue visible in women that almost seems to be a
taboo or a secret in itself. There are issues, there are certain issues
on which we do not share it, we do not share it. It
is easier to say I have a flu, no, because it is obvious,
but this type of disease problems, or this type of health experiences in
women, has usually become a subject as a secret taboo, that is,
an ovarian kiste, an ovarian failure, because it is not so pleasant to
be commenting and then the woman isolates herself, the woman shuts up, sees
the specialists. You don' t understand why it' s a subject that
we' re really not so familiar with talking to. A little bit,
what was your experience and how this project arises to help more women, and
if not to do it in a more colloquial and normal way in a dialogue,
but to seek help suitable to be able to solve this problem Totally look
at this, this project is something that I am very attached at this moment,
if you mean we go like this, very committed. Okay, this
is born out of a very own experience that I have. I was also
telling you I am thirty- seven years old, but I, before I
was twenty, have an operation. I have an operation. Let' s
say that at seventeen years of age I' m being removed from honorary.
So, as a result of this, I have been facing and facing an
early ovarian insufficiency? So, you, you say, and some people say,
but what is that insufficiency or early varicose veins? Are we going to
say it' s also a failure or early varicose veins? So it takes
you or, in general terms, premature menopause. So, imagine yourself,
Luis Miguel, if today talking about menopause is a completely clear taboo. Menopause,
in fact, is a process. Menopause as such is a natural process
that all women are going through or going through. However, and this may
occur, it may vary, it may occur between forty- seven fifty-
five, forty- five, fifty- seven years forgiveness, then it may
be very relative. It even depends on which country you are then, not
necessarily, all women go through and not all with the same symptoms. In
the end, this is a natural process, but society has put you in
the head that being with menopaussia is old as such, is that your woman
' s life is over and that' s it. Not as a woman
I' m going to say it the way you serve it. No.
That is the mentality that has been created. That is why women do not
have the freedom to speak of menopausea as such, to express it. Menopause
is the end of your menstruation. You come in with different symptoms, but
far beyond the end of a menstruation. Let' s put it this way
in general terms. It' s an open door to different diseases that a
woman can go through. That' s why today I' m very committed
to this project that it may not save your life or maybe it won'
t give you the solution and measure, something that you might be tending and
it' s going to return to melopausia or take it away from you,
because it' s a natural process. But yes, at least I am
trying to make this issue visible with the means, the resources I have and
because it is important that not only women who are aware of this. We
should all have this commitment, because the woman can be married, she can
have children, she has family and she can have a little bad time,
but one and ah is a menopausal. That' s how your hormones upset
you. True, then we are always falling into the same thing but we
do not understand that having menopause as such affects even your development, your emotional
health and your mental health, your cognitive health, is complicated. So,
imagine if a normal natural menopause, which should be, which should be,
would have to be talked about everywhere in the most normal way in the world.
You don' t talk because it' s still taboo. Imagine yourself,
then, how menopause is being managed before age 40, before age thirty
or even before age twenty, because this was happening in teenagers and even in
girls. Then they' re things we don' t know. So we
still have that taboo that the gynecologist has to go after forty years, nothing
to do with it. Does the gynecologist always have to leave like this?
Don' t have symptoms like that, it doesn' t hurt at all,
because women have to be strictly and prudently controlled over our female health.
Now you could tell me hears genius, but a minor, how a minor
is going to go to the gilicologist. Today there are processes to be able
to do review, although they are not invasive and I always say, I
always recommend it. If the case exists, then a minor must always be
accompanied by a responsible adult, because that would already be another matter of touching
truth. But we' ll be on another subject now, but we have
to look for security as well. We have to look for protection, security
and, above all, we have to look for a specialist who can give
us all the guidelines that the tools can give us and who can make a
proper follow- up to our particular cases. That' s a big problem.
I' m Peruvian too. This happens in Peru. I' ve
lived in Chile for a while and it hasn' t been easy to find
a point either. Let' s say a good health professional, a good
gynecologist. Now I' m living in Mexico and I' m looking for
a good specialist to follow me up, because cases of insufficiency or early varicose
veins need to be followed up. I mean, we' re talking about
an ovarian failure before your natural process, so you got ahead of it,
so that doesn' t end up being normal and you need treatment. Let
' s find out what kind, because not all homo women alike. We
don' t have the same thing going on with me A treatment doesn'
t mean it' s gonna do you good Forgive me or another woman.
Right, so what do we always recommend. Or I recommend that you please
go to the gynecologist, to a good gynecologist, that you have no shame,
that you are not afraid, that you feel completely free to say that
it hurts me that teenagers can have the freedom to talk to their mothers,
to their fathers, to say I have a pain here, down in the
and in and in and speak things like that without hiding anything, that is,
losing fear. It may help us not to prevent, but it can
help us find a great way out and a solution, because there is.
The important thing is that you see it in time and it is very important
to have an emotional accompaniment, because from the moment you feel lonely as a
woman that I do not want to generalize today, but we do keep dragging
these taboos. I' m a better woman, I' m not telling
you the truth. So since nobody else talks about it and I don'
t say it either and I' m dying of pain and I' m
hoping to have something worse and I' m not going to treat myself.
I mean, a lot of people say this happens to you after you'
re forty. So I, under my own experience, tell you that this
happens to you even when you' re a teenager. Then it' s
not a normal thing and the idea of my hormones. Just this project,
which wants to help make the issue as such visible. It' s about
that which can be understood that it can happen to you at any age and
that you have to treat yourself and that there is a solution and that you
have to seek help, that you have to lose your fear and you have
to lose your dragüenza. The name is very interesting, my hormones, the
truth is that it is also very interesting, because at the end of the
way, that is, I think fundamental, hormones are part of your being,
but they are not your being, that is, you have to understand
that they are also processes, as well as when we came to this world
and we had to grow and there were many changes in our mind, in
our feelings, in our body. Obviously, growing up is also going to
change things and I think it' s part of life. Change is part
of life. Then, evidently, in a healthy body, if in a
healthy body. In other words, you have to take care of yourself,
go to the doctor, prevent yourself, check yourself, etcetera. For more,
when you feel a pain, discomfort or something, it is better to
go check in time to have a solution in time. I' ve heard.
I insist I am not an expert on the subject, but I have
heard that a cancer, when prevented in time, can still be attacked and
you can control diseases that are inevitably fatal in time can be attended to.
So here' s the recommendation that these three steps really have that we'
re told Hellen one attend to go to a specialist, look for a specialist,
two be accompanied and cared for with someone who can have that emotional affective
responsibility towards you and three. You don' t see it as an expense.
Health will never be an expense will be an investment why, Because of
your family, your partner, your children, your parents, your friends,
your peers, they need you. So I think it' s very important
to be able to really raise your hand at the moment when it' s
necessary. Don' t wait now with this project that makes me very interesting,
my hormones, what we can find for people who still don' t
follow you to people who still don' t what kind of content is you
upload And in one other way, if someone is going through something similar or
has doubts that their daughter, their cousin, their sister, can contact you
so that you can help them, so you can channel them, tell us
a little bit about my hormones, the kind of content and what help we
can find with you perfect entry. I mean, I' m not a
gynecologist, a gynecologist, or a health professional. Everything that is spoken of
in my hormones begins as a personal blog and is just based on my own
testimony, but I do always go hand in hand with professional doctors. We
don' t dare, for example, recommend any medicine because it wouldn'
t be wise if you don' t have a previous checkup, but more
where the health care professional tells you to do different tests. Right. However,
we can channel and I have had many comments, for example, about
a young girl, that is, who told me to see gele. I
say this to my mom and my mom tell me that' s bullshit.
It' s running through the exact house these ovarian things and everything doesn'
t, no, no, and that' s not what you talk about.
And that didn' t exist in my time. Then. Happy I
am happy to be able to receive all these questions, of course you can
contact me. Probably. What I' m always going to recommend is to
start visiting a good gynecologist, a good eye gynecologist. It is very very,
very complicated, Luis Miguel, to find the specialist who will deal particularly
with your case gynaecologists. There are so many and really from my own experience,
I have been years and it is very difficult to find a specialist to
tell you to see this is what happens. We' re going to take
this treatment, ask you to take the time, ask you for tests,
the tests necessary to be able to identify what' s going on, because
the normal thing and I belong to a community also of girls with Iope that
is called early menopause and they are on Instagram as such and I' ve
heard many cases where most say the gynecologist told me the first gynecologist or the
second I visited tells me that everything is so normal, that nothing happens,
that I' m young and that this will not scare me. But it
' s not about age. Not age today can no longer be a reference
on health. Yeah, we' re young, we' re stronger and
all this, but it doesn' t mean nothing' s happening to us.
Then we have to know, demand, insist without fear and shameless say
but I have something my body is talking to me and I have stonces.
Through there we can channel all the comments, all the questions. Happy,
happy, relished to be able to receive them, because, besides that,
it is about that and the type of content that is offered is a content
let' s say, responsible informative, wonderful. Yeah, yeah, totally,
because social media can really be a double edge. Totally. Then let
' s not trust everything he says on social media either, because I insist,
what' s good for me is not good for another woman. So,
recommend something, a medicine even and play a little bit with this health
issue, let' s not take it with tweezers, with a lot of
finesse. The first recommendation will always be visited by a gynaecologist. Many times
don' t expect even a symptom and the first symptom you feel, don
' t hesitate. Go on, you can find help in time, please,
tell us what Helen feels like, how you feel when they get close
to you, when they ask you, when they consult you, when your
testimony is very useful because at the end of the way they say, hey,
it happened to me. This didn' t happen to me when I
was 20, when I was 30. I didn' t expect this and,
suddenly, I felt this and your testimony serves as an important vehicle to
positively impact many women. What do you feel behind this effort look. The
first time a woman contacted me, I cried, I really showed myself maybe
excited. He started asking me a lot of questions and it was on the
social network that you showed age was in Kikto and I felt emotion. I
felt relief in any case after him, because she, she, I was
wondering, she had good, she was a young woman, that is,
young, but in menopause age let' s say she and she was already
fifty and I didn' t know why she had all those symptoms. He
told me I feel everything I just read and my head aches and I'
m irritable and I don' t have any more menstruation. Not then did
I think there too and say to see without judging it. Of course,
I was kind of looking forward to hugging her and telling her quiet, quiet.
I help you no, because at the end of the day, it
seems and I have the full disposition and there also caught my attention and received
many comments in a post that I made of women of menopause age who did
not know what they were having. Then I' d say to see what
' s going on. I mean, clearly this is still a taboo and
I have heard in cases also where already at a prudent age, not where
women who have told me that I have not told my husband that I have
menopause because I do not want him to think that I am an old woman
who already know all those things. I' m like I' m always
in favor of empathy. I put myself in his place and I can swear
I can feel that pain. I say no, it can' t be
you have to talk, I' m so grateful to God because yes,
I can' t complain. I' ve had the accompaniment of my family
had. I have always been cared for protected in this subject and from the
zero moment that this happens to me, I have the accompaniment, I have
that hug that we should all have, because emotionally it affects. It hurts,
it hurts so much. Now there' s a theme too. Allow
me to say that it is very associated with this When you talk about ovaries,
when you talk about menopausea, when you talk about a lot of these
things associated with female health, it is immediately associated with fertility. Yeah,
you got this, so you can' t have kids. Yes, yes,
yes, and that pointing out in this way is cruel laughing. Many
people, that is, no one knows what happens to the other person.
I could tell you to see in my case for so many years with this
I' ve heard of everything and somehow I' ve become non- hard,
but yes, I' ve learned that these things can' t affect
me and it doesn' t affect me and let' s say the normal
fresh step I can talk about the subject without any inconvenience. It doesn'
t bother me when they ask me questions, but I have and know people
who do and it' s painful that they suffer, that is insufficiency or
early varicose veins. It' s much more than fertility. Or infertility is
a woman' s health. It' s your health as a woman to
take care of your bones. It is to understand that if you have these
hormonal disorders, you can have risks of osteoporosis, that is, you can
have risks of heart attacks, because actually the hormones we are going to tell
them that the estrogens or soldiers that protect our hides, our body truth and
our organs, when these no longer have it or are decreasing, begin to
attack you and open a huge door for different cardiovascular diseases. I was telling
you about bones, urinary infections, skin changes, mood swings and not only
physical things, but also emotional mental things. It' s proven and cognitive,
that is, from one moment on. Things are beginning to forget you
and you don' t understand why. Then no one explains why. And
everything went well, so we suggest or serum mu jericol so we have an
answer here. One thing that is very important is that I believe that a
disease even more serious than this is ignorance and is machismo. These two diseases
are truly serious. They are truly delicate, and in the case of ignorance,
it is a disease that, if not dealt with literally soon, ends
with the lives of men and women. And then being ignorant and matching what
you see on a TV show, on a YouTube video, of a misinformed
person. Today we all have the possibility to transmit and be heard, but
there are people to people and then it is very interesting and very important,
more than interesting to know how to take the source of the information, because
to equate infertility with a problem of these is an absolute ignorance that I believe
must be fought on the basis of precisely that, with knowledge with Mexican questions,
we have the painful characteristic of judging without first asking ask to report take
this information as something very serious, so that later you can already issue a
judgment, if that is that someone has authorized you to issue a judgment on
the subject. What is important is that neither dear Hellen are you doing a
job. I think it' s very important. I don' t think
I' ve heard a lot of women in this job. This is a
real sorority for me. This is a elbow- to- elbow issue for
me. No. I believe that the subject of feminism in some cases has
gone to an extreme of mandalism, in which, because I, who am
a woman, can scratch and I can paint and I can attack whoever I
want. Not today is this part of sorority a genuine support and help for
women. I think it' s a titanic job. Congratulations. I encourage
you and encourage you for those times when you know it' s not so
easy, it' s difficult, there are secrets, there' s a
woman looking for is more concerned about how the husband is going to take it.
What you were telling us a while ago, not for your own health.
So there are many, many barriers that need to be broken and I
think you' re doing very well. Now, my dear Helen, I
' m going to change the subject a little bit. Oh Jorge here,
good question. There are no good or bad answers. Let' s play
a little with the imaginary. There will be quick questions, there will be
interaction, because the idea is to know a little more how you think and
have fun. You think so, too. I think it' s very
good, because look at this part. I' m gonna ask you.
You have to answer this question as quickly as possible. Tell me, please,
three things you find in a bathroom. In a bathroom, I find
a toilet paper, water and soap, tell us cos, three phone companies,
cell phone, of course move. That' s very good. Tell
me, please, three things you know how to do very well with your
fingers, makeup me ok nar, yes, in the bar that goes that
very well, very well. Tell me, please, three things or three
products that are sold in catalogue, jewelry, perfumes, clothes, hey,
all right, all right. Let' s go now, please, to
the next part. Where I' m going to ask you what you prefer
to or b ok Let' s start from less to more what do you
prefer the cold or the heat? Heat coffee or tea coffee, exercise,
outdoors or in gym, outdoors, beach or mountain beach. What do you
prefer to be a millionaire or a spiritually powerful person? Spiritually powerful. OK,
all right, tell us, please, what would you rather be invisible
or read people' s thoughts. Reading thoughts seriously must be a whole subject
imagine you' re going to read. You saw the movie. There'
s a thousand Gibson movie that' s what they want. A thing like
that, no, no, yeah, well, I recommend it. It
' s a movie, I think it' s mel Gibson and it'
s called what they want. I' m looking for her and I'
m making a mistake after I send her to you. But it' s
where a man hears everything women think and literally is going crazy, it must
be a topic. No yes, it must be a topic, but you
can also beyond gossip, you can kind of know what a person thinks and
beyond also to please, understand and be able to say. Ah I know
what you' re thinking, I know it hurts or what hurts you,
I know it makes you happy. Then we handle things well, or beyond
pleasing and I' m going to do it and I let go of myself
because if not knowing how to give joy, happiness and avoid. This question
is a little weird, but I have to ask you. What do you
prefer that people believe when you tell a lie or rather, what do you
prefer that people create all your lies or that you detect all the lies of
people that I detect all the lies of people. It is also a subject
that must be very complicated. I don' t mean, it' s
like when you know someone lies to you and you say. Please, I
know from you. Women have an impressive capacity for that. So you have
to have a sharp jet, a peddled jet. Hey, tell us,
please. Now let' s go with the answers yes or no. OK,
you can only answer yes or no. There are some questions that are
complex, but let' s try to answer them. Okay. We'
re gonna miss more. And the first question would be you' re happy.
Yeah, you' re happy with your physique. Yeah, you believe
in life after death, yeah, extraterrestrials grow. I wouldn' t want
to live on a distant planet. Yeah, what do you prefer to go
back to where you' d rather be undressed for a year? Or not
being able to bathe for a whole year being undressed for a year? Every
day for me the name my my joke hear us, please. How are
you with the subject of waiting? I' m asking you this because the
question I was going to ask you right now is you' d like to
wait, or rather the question is this one I' m going to ask
you what you prefer. Never have to make a row or a queue,
as it is said here in Mexico when you go to the super or the
bank to check, never make a row or have a place to park always,
have a place to park me always. Okay and here the question would
be how are you with the subject of waiting? Are you patient? You
' re not patient. I' m patient, but when it' s
so long, I start what do I do? What do I do?
Something I have to do yes, I mean I never hope you' re
upset, but I say I' m already what you do when when the
cell phone is there, you talk to someone, I call someone, I
start the messages or I' m doing some post I' m like I
can' t just sit still waiting not ok ok ok really good. Now
let' s imagine you won a Czech prize, the prize. You won
a prize to go to the moon for a month on a trip. Ok
the prize is a month traveling around the moon. You can' t take
people, you can' t take pets. You can only take three things.
What things you take on a trip to the moon thinking that you have
food, that you' re going to have oxygen, that you' re
going to have not things to survive, but what additional things you take can
be people, not people, not people or animals. I' ve got
it all, I' ll take my car, okay. No one had
answered that, uh, but let me tell you that one day she answered
someone. I' d take my comal and my dishes to cook rich things.
Me and the car is the next question. Or a car. I
' m taking my car, I' m taking it, I' m
taking all my skinker, my sunblock, okay, okay. Yeah, and
I' ll take some weights. That' s where you know the rhythm
of exercise. Women with iope are forced to do a little bit of pesitas
or look. It' s not optional, it' s mandatory. Look
what a father, what a good tip? Now I want to ask you.
Imagine you' re on a boat, the boat is sinking and you
' ve seen that there' s an island and you' re swimming to
the island. What would you prefer to be on this island with the person
you' ve had the most conflicts with, with whom you' ve had
the most discussions. You know, we all have that person who suddenly pulls
green hairs out of us today, as we say in Mexico. Either you
are alone, alone or being accompanied by that person alone, ok ok ok
Now tell me, please, in the same scheme of being on this deserted
island, to be with a person who does not stop you from talking.
You know those people who talk and talk and you say right now that I
breathe and I' m not sure, the other person on the other side
that you don' t get a word out of him? You know about
those people you tell him, do you hear me? How was your trip
in Europe six months and they answer you well, not what you prefer the
one that speaks that does not stop his mouth or the one that does not
say a word, the one that does not stop his mouth. Seriously,
yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, no, no, you
wouldn' t be like that. Yeah, please, sleep and shut up.
At some point, I' d have to make it true. Let
me sleep now. Yes, but then it' s much more than a.
S It' s easy to communicate if we' re on an island
and abandoned you know. OK, that context. It' s much easier
to communicate with someone who talks and talks to someone who won' t know
what they feel, who hurts where we' re going, who won'
t contribute to the north or the south. He' s not gonna help
me find the way out. OK, all right, halen, we'
re getting to the final straight. I want to thank you very much for
your willingness. Thanks for everything you do. Thank you very much for the
great support you give to all women. Thank you for this voice that you
' re raising. Evidently, the microphones are open for a second or third,
a fifth talk. I don' t send you a big hug,
but before I finish, I want to ask you to give us one last
message. But this last message you' re going to give to the whole
planet earth. It will be translated into all languages, dialects, languages,
languages, etc, and will be broadcast on the Internet, on radio,
on television internationally. We' ve already been told that tomorrow morning, at
ten in the morning, Iel at Sarah Te Uretta is going to give us
a message. What would this message be? My last message would be never
be afraid of anything. Give all the love you can give. I'
m sure love is shelter, place, safe, love heals wounds. Then
that' s what it would be to me. He doesn' t love
everything you can and if you' re wrong on the way, it'
s valid. Love respects others. Don' t judge. Don' t
judge And above all that I think that my whole message would be associated with
love, respect, empathy and that if we encourage you to believe that yes,
you can change the world by starting with yourself. No, and if
something doesn' t change, let' s change ourselves, then rock wonder.
Helen, thank you, real hug, thank you with all my love
and all of you who heard us that you saw us there is Helen to
get in touch with her. Share this video. If you think any woman
has to listen to him, he comments, and I really thank all of
you. I' m Luis Miguel Salgado. This is what a good question
we see and hear in a next chapter with a new interview and a new
talk. Thank you very much, Luis Miguel Thank you very much for this
time. Thank you very much for this opportunity. I' m very happy,
very happy. The issue of female health is immense. I hope that
with this little bit we have been able to learn a little bit and that
little bit helps us a lot to understand, to know and not to ignore
certain things that are happening to us. And not just women, but everyone
is welcome to this world. So, thank you very much, many blessings
for everyone and that you do great in everything you do. Thank you,
Helen, thank you and thank you for having very good morning, very good
afternoon, very good night where you want to meet soon. Thanks, s
ras, gran s