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Block. I would I would like
for us. I mean like we got

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smoking hairs all over the point of
Roland that while I'm on count play in

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the background. What's going on?
Everybody? Welcome to what another edition of

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What is Love Toward? Is I? Mister tone deaf? I am off

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camera today because I don't look like
I'm loved. So that's the nigga with

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his hair all over? Is that? That's what I don't look like I'm

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love You've growing into your look.
That that's different. I had to grow

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in it. If you have to
figure out where you want to shake them

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grades at. So you're trying to
find your length. Next, you're gonna

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find your color. No I can't. That's I gonna call it gay,

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but it ain't for me. You
haven't found the right color yet. That's

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why I don't want to tell you. Man. You get them, you

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get them all burned tips, bread
holes, go crazy. That's why I

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got locks on the beer. Now. I gotta stop doing that's supposed to

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be. That's why we're here,
what we're supposed to be doing here.

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But as you can see, we
are back in the building on this and

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I got more beautiful women y'all thought
that we just being here with niggas.

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No, we don't ever be here
with the niggas always, but shout out

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to yay coming through last week definitely
definitely what I thought you would be here

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this week. You know what.
It's funny. I asked him what he

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was doing, but I think I
never went back to confirm if he for

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sure, for sure was gonna make
it for a few episodes, and he

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gonna he gonna be back. I'll
make sure confirm. That's my fault,

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because Joe, you know what it
is. I think I never confirmed that

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we were starting at seven thirty.
I think I told him eight, but

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then I never went back to confirm
if he was gonna make it. But

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at the time, I also had
two other people who were supposed to join

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us who had to drop off the
last minute. It'd been too many people.

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So because I'm notorious for like overbooking, cause niggas be niggas, so

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I want to make sure that the
show is great. So who dropped out

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on the I suggest I was on
Facebook and I saw your story first.

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I was like, it's more fucking
line. It's all cap, It's on

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It's on CAP right here. Then
I like, then I lost the story.

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I was want to go back,
so like right, this is cap

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but good thing you didn't up so
fiving, but we definitely want to go

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ahead. And you want to introduce
family, because they not guessed. They

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fucking family. There's at least ten
episodes each of them on the network.

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We are joined by Big Red,
not the Little One, one third of

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some podcasts that decided to take a
forever break. See some podcasts. Some

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don't do that. Some that bro. I fun with her because that's family.

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I like the other two too.
That's it didn't resuscitate this time.

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I'm flat line, but we'll figure
some things out. We got to get

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the new back in. But I
do gotta give her credit because she completely

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came out of shell during that that
run. So we're making a very good

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he's gonna be out there for the
summer. For the summer sounds really canky,

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like what so you put put that
on both of our jackets. It's

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not even how we roll, that's
not even how we look at you.

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That's why, more so her,
we would say that about then you because

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she you got a whole business dedicated
to that. So that's a different story.

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What's a business? Always a business? Okay, Yeah, that's all

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you gotta say. But we are
we are joined by which you wanna go

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about ki Ki banks if you're lasting. I'm just like, I don't know

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who to call you. Just Keisha, Just Keisha comes up? See pull

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you might closer to you talk to
the dick. That's your fault. I

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mean we could when I was like, that's one. I'm just I'm here

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because it's a podcast jokes. That's
what I didn't say. Nothing was wrong,

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But you know what, bro,
I might take it on air break

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and let Johnny said there for the
summer. You got Denise and Johnny for

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the summer. I don't really know
folks like that, but that's the part

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where you learn folks like that.
You want me to get to know a

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nigga in real time, like we
want to do some of the loudest ship

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in real time, but just get
into niggas on air. That's that's consent.

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So we just disagree. Is just
that just that I would as long

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as we've been doing this, you
think I would just put someone here who

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would who would mess up the groove? Keep it a buck right, I'm

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saying not not intentionally, but it
may happen. It's been a few episodes

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that I have looked across the room
and like this one was your fault.

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And there's been times I definitely looked
like, Nigga, this is all.

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Usually I accept that, like when
she go off the rails, it's usually

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my fault. There's been a few
episodes I looked across the table like he

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fucked up on this one. But
I took that l you have than you

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most definitely, most definitely, I'm
going to the championship. You might not

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make it out the Eastern Conference fires. I'm not even in the playing damn,

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not that bad. I'm trying to
get you some hope. But we

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are here on the second stop of
the What Is Love Tour? What's Got

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the Dude? Got the Dude?
What's Love? For the second handy move?

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I felt like we just sang two
different songs. No you did.

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I'm like, that's why I said
we. Motherfucker do y'all not know what

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the definition of we is, But
what we're saying is we were good.

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You were somewhere else because motherfuckers aren't
like that, don't understand the definition of

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what we we meaning more than one. It's plural, but we saying you

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loop right because I was see fat
Jones was like, I beliveen to Team

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turner An, yet you still went
to Ji roup like no one get about

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what y'all has to say. They
wasn't playing What's Love? Got to do

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it? At work? They play
we Don't Need Another Hero? And I

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don't even know if that's the name
of the song, but that's the song

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they play, I think or absolutely
so bad that even DiAngelo, even though

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his song was called untitled, he
had to give the second type niggas like

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no, this is called how doesn't
fit right? Like it's called untitled?

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But they when they play the other
song where she'd be just all right,

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which one UH share? Because What's
Love? I loved? What's the other

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one? When I think of it, I'm gonna let you. It was

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like that's the song. She was
this, I don't want to fight.

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Oh that's not that's not this ike, that's just getting tired to get hit

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on. She telld like, look, bro, I don't want to fight.

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I don't care who I'm right and
if I got to, I put

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this on your ass. You just
beat up? Yes, you got to

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let you know that you like a
buck and fifteen. So you let wait,

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wait, you let niggas know out
the gate that you hit them.

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Yes, I don't know. We
too old to be passing lis. I'm

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not passing givings. I've always been
very sometimes people kids, Please don't please,

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don't people, you gotta go.
I don't care where she goes.

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She got to go. No,
No, I don't hear people, but

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I do get triggered. But people
sit in my face. And because I

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put my bitch in the full nelson, that's a lot of If you think

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that this is a game, I
will him big dude. So everybody is

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bigger than me. You think size
when my little stelf get upset when I

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move, I move. You do
like that, But I don't know where

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you're gonna move to? You ever
saying the motherfucker just like step to a

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wall. This is not love talk
one, It's not y'all get to y'all

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been fighting all day. I actually
found love. You found waitbay, all

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right, let me look, let
me take let me take notes, e

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bay, all right, I'm here
for it. It might be some good

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love. Ony. It's not they
selling. They selling dick on. We

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didn't say dick love becoming the okay
coming to niggas gotta do better that it's

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free. It's free. That is
not free is not always good. It's

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good, I said, I'm about
to put the price right on my corn.

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Is free. But when you go
to the olds, you get better

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quality, don't you, Not even
not even the good ones you The o

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F is the biggest finesse. And
it's the other ones you gotta go to.

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I know, because right now I
don't even got my real self no

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more. I got like a bit
yourself right now. That's subscribe. Subscribe

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that's wild. You know, you
get something like I'm gonna tied your back

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hurt. It's too many friends.
Digitize this real quick, Tom, Why

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are we here today? What?
What? What? What? What leg

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of love are we on today?
Last episode we talked about what you know,

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just definition, how to and how
to love you. This week we're

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talking about being honest with yourself while
dating and being able to tell people you're

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just not interested in them, which
I think is very hard for women these

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days because niggas don't listen, you're
true. Because Wan has really been on

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this tangent the last few days about
like just women need to accept the fact

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that you know means know now real
shit though, Like, but women be

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acting like, ain't no nigga ever
told them no? And I just don't

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believe that it's because of what you're
telling them no too. But because the

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guy he said I'm sorry, I'm
married. I respected that, like,

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oh okay, well respect, then
they be like, but but not you

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can just can't. You can't.
That's not that's not, that's not.

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But I never just had to dude
that just been straight and not married and

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and turned me down the scene like
that because I asked, I'm like,

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just ain't no, Like y'all like, ain't no nigga ever just says,

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you know what you cool, but
this we can't do. You're just not

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interested, right, And I feel
like women be like, I ain't no

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nigga ever said no, I don't
enough to. That's what you'll see.

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If women would have commented on my
post was like, yo, I don't

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really shoot my shot enough for a
nigga to say no. I would understand

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that more versus told me a couple
of you're not putting yourself out there for

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people to tell you no. Correct, So what would you That's like they're

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essentially saying, See, that's that's
what the wrong with you. I never,

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I never, I probably I probably
would like if somebody, do you

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like people? Like people? But
how do we know you like them?

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No? And I say that on
some real ship because I feel like I

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may flirt with a guy, I
may mess what you pick with you,

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so you will get the idea to
ask me. I just but that doesn't

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mean you like him though, because
y'all will flirt with y'all board, that's

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true. I feel like work on
social media. Then they come back the

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next day and I'll be like,
what like, I'm like, you act

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like I don't know her A lot
of somebody else. I know you.

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I've seen you do it. I
mean, because I'll be bored at work.

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So whoever you are when I'm on
my nine hours shift, I mean,

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you have off my full attention.
But on a Saturday when I'm not

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working, while you in my inbox, sir. This is this is why

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see a lot of niggas think that
we like to surround ourselves with women because

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we're freaky, creepy niggas. It's
not it. It's a social experiment.

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That's all I'm saying, Like,
bro, I just pick up bull shit,

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which is why I don't fuck with
people. I stay till myself because

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I know the type of time women
be on and when you own ship like

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that, you are not interested.
And if you're not interested, you're not

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gonna be interesting, which means whatever
thought I had about you, that shit's

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gone in two point two seconds because
you're on bullshit, and that's okay.

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Be on your bullshit. Just don't
bullshit me. Yeah, I usually bullshit

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people. I seem like, I
just meet you with your ship, but

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you're a really nice guy or whatever. I don't even play with you.

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I'm not gonna lead you on.
I'm not gonna mess you up for the

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next one. If I know almost
if I know my bullshit fade, most

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guys gonna get messed up regardless of
their own. You ain't gonna be your

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fault because you can tell them I'm
not here for nothing. I'm just here

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for a good time another long time, and niggas will still keep going.

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They'll know what they getting themselves into. But I'm like, but women are

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I'm telling you, like so many
ways, I'm not checking for you.

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Know your relationship or like we were
still fantasized that and and we will still

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take that little inch of piece that
he's willing to give us, and and

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built that into a whole fantasy,
even though this is sitting here telling us

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not what he was willingly, willingly
delusional. I just came out of that

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delusion for three years for no reason. It's comfortable, And actually it was

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comfortable. I didn't have to change
I have to meet nobody. He already

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saw me with my hair and saw
me with my t s. I didn't

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have to meet. I didn't have
to Nobody knew right. I didn't have

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to go above and beyond because you
already saw me in my raw state.

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So I don't have to do all
of this extra ship for somebody else who

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I'm just meeting. I don't have
to do all of this actually getting dressed

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up, doing my hair, doing
I'm like, I'm going to do these

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things for myself. But if I'm
meeting somebody knew that, and I have

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to keep up this look for a
certain period of time. But you a

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model, you always got that look. Sometimes you don't women women women do.

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Sometimes you want to do all of
Sometimes you don't want you don't want

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to put lotion on your face.
Sometimes you just good. Give me that,

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give me that we can sit down. I won't eat tacos while watching

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ab Elements. I want to.
I want to see the woman in the

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fiftieth pick in this moment, because
that's what that's what you is every day.

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This fiftieth pick with your bonnet on
or your scarf and your bare face,

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that's you every day. I just
don't want that all the time,

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though. Don't give me. Don't
give me what you look like in your

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first ten picks, because that's that's
that's what you put on for the Facebook.

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What you look like on pick number
fifty, that's that's Give me that.

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Catch me, work me, work
home. I'm like that. I

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guarantee you I'm ugly and crunchy.
Let me appreciate that. Like every day

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show, I didn't roll, I
don rolled out the bed, wash my

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face and burush my teeth, and
that was extendedly for the day. Because

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I feel like y'all spend y'all do
all this ship to how who you are,

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and then it's like, what if
this ship get like deep, super

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deep. You just spent this whole
entire time I've known you hi and who

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you are. Now I'm spending the
night at your house and I'll be like,

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what the fuck is this? So
listen before I'm like before, I'm

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like saying before, before you staying
not in my house. You don't see

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at some point the fiftieth pick because
but you're not gonna see it. But

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you're not gonna see it on week
one though, No, no, bro

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because you got to make sure you
even make it out of week one,

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like typical dating don't happen like seven
days. I want you to find out

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I'm broke week one, so you
don't expect up. They're not gonna expect

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nothing, just like you ain't gonna
expect another phone call from them. Hey

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you broke, Nigga, I ain't
broke, but I'm broke. Broke,

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but you presented yourself as broke,
so they like the Facebook videos and the

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like you broke, But don't don't
be that person absolutely absolutely wearing your money.

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Got it. Yeah, See,
that's not gonna be what they want.

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What you want. You want to
like what they want to know that

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you're gonna be stable, you're smart
with a real person wants to know real

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one want to know. Okay,
so that you fishing for something, just

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want to know can I pay for
the day? That's different. But while

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after you find out that, Here's
what I think the misconception is. I

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don't think we entertained ship on purpose. We kind of just find out the

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type of people you beat. Yeah. Like, but I wouldn't go in

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to a situation entertaining the chick that
I know. All she wanted some fucking

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money again, as like they say, niggas, do women do it too?

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You send me your representative? Yeah, bro, now I'm meant to

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check that. Oh man, the
picnic, that's fly, like all the

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ship you type on the internet,
Oh, that's fly. Then when I

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say, well, you know I'm
off on Saturday, it's nice, you

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know, let me You want to
take me up on that picnic? Oh

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no, we gotta go here and
such and such a got But then at

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that point, but that's at that
point in time, if she say let's

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go somewhere else, it is up
to you to entertain that. You can

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easily say no that I'm good,
I'm good. Love and joy you know

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what I'm saying. I don't.
I don't go there. I don't.

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I would totally take the picnic over
a restaurant I've been to a million times.

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Listen, but it's different, and
I was looking to do something different.

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Every that food. Every day I
work from eat at these restaurants all

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the time. I'm tired of that. You know what I'm saying. They

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tired of that one been there?
You different? And then a lot of

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people work from home now, so
they don't even really want to go out

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nowhere. You just can't come to
their house on the first couple of days.

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Correct, what kind of nasa?
I was like, damn you.

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You wouldn't believe how many times I've
been extra money and I'm like, sorry,

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what, I should buy him a
pair of shoes because I got the

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money. Episode because I got some
money. They hit you with it.

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No, you got the big money, nigga? What No I believe I

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told the girl I wouldn't date because
she don't buy shoes because you don't buy

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you that's what you're saying. I
want to buy your ten shoes either,

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like three hundred dollars. That's not
my problem. Ain't either, Okay,

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But see I looked at it from
a standpoint. If we are seriously dated

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then, and I like you,
I know the type of nigga that I

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am. I'm gonna go to the
end of the earth to make sure you

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have it. So that means whatever
you won't, as long as I got

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it, you got it. And
if you bitching over a pair of two

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hundred dollars tennis shoes and you're gonna
ask me for something that costs way more

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than that, and you bitching over
two hundred dollars sneakers, this ain't easy,

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but because I get it, But
I just like I'm two hundred dollars

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sneakers is the least of your worries
when you asking a nigga to be your

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provider, your protector, we live
together. When somebody kicked that door in,

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I'm the first line of the fish, You're gonna look at me like,

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hey, you bet, you gotta
get up, you gotta go do

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that. But I'm just saying these
are things that as a woman, you

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should already know what you're gonna expect
from your nigga. If I'm trying to

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be your nigga, correct And if
I ask you for a two hundred dollars

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pair of tennis shoes and you bet
your fucking hollys I slapped the mother fuckers

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off. Wait a minute, this
show is about love, and I sound

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like I got I'm very it's a
little women. Just be like, I

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ain't doing that for no nigga.
That's because it's a general it's a general

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statement more so direct. You're not
gonna do it for anybody. But if

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you're doing all of that, then
I can see I would do I would

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do that for my man. So
listen, I don't know if you say

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all that, all that nigga said, it's a nice player, George,

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make sure and I don't even just
be up at nine o'clock and just hit

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the button when I hit the button. So ship, I'm nothing to do

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that. I'm gonna cash and you
figure all that. I'm not gonna be

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shoes. Let's get however, we
got so type of the type of person

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that I am is I'm very big
on reciprocity. The energy that I give

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is the energy that I expect.
So just a couple of weeks ago,

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I heard on the radio that there's
an anime conference coming up. I know

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someone who likes anime. If we
were actually fucking each other on that level,

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I'd have bought tickets to the Anime
convention that level. Do you like

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him? I do? But there
has to be a mutual level of interest.

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So if there's not a mutual level
of oh, I know that there's

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not a mutual level of interest.
My point is there's because there's not a

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mutual level of interest. The thought
crossed my mind and that's where it stopped.

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Like, but if we were fucking
with each other on that level,

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I have no interest in anime.
I don't know what the fun going on

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cracks I'll but I would have.
I would have bought tickets either for us

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to go or he can take whoever
he wanted to take. I have bought

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two ticket, like you want me
to go with you, or you're gonna

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take somebody like I'm not even that
her person. I think you might have

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actually liked to make convention because the
way they be wilding out, trusting and

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having fun like big ass kids.
I doing that twenty three years You wouldn't

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You wouldn't mature enough for her.
You're not, but you wasn't you?

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Oh my god, oh my god. She just said like why, I'm

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like, you just make me out
this terrible person I did not. We

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gotta get agother like you didn't,
but exactly so believe it at that I

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need not. I did not.
I could be eighty five if you grin

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you you it cut deep clearly because
she called me fat coming in, I

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was like, all right, never
gonna be skinny again. Ship. I

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rode with this. That's okay.
I just it's clearly and that okay because

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you still bring the trip from over
ten years ago a cancer let stuff.

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Because some chances, I just want
to remind you that you are well.

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I will always bring up like we
have wrong. So I don't need to

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apologize on the air. We had
time. You don't need to apologize because

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I'm never gonna not find it.
I don't apologize. I'm never going to

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mercy. But I get what she's
saying. I dated a guy once and

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I had like no interest in chess, but I learned how to play chess

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because he was a chess master.
I think he would watch him beat so

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many people, and I was like, oh, you think he coldn't even

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about the injury of the fact that
you want to hold you want to but

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I found But it was also out
of time playing chess and if I learned

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the game that he loved, then
that'd be more time than we correct correct.

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So now I'm learning so I can
spend more time with you as you

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should. His chest is gonna take
up two hours with the person who really

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knows how to play, and then
that's two less hours that I had with

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you. So look the thing though, it taught me how he how he

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thinks, because yes, play chess. They think that way to life,

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and that taught me how to do
this. They always think moves ahead.

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That was a good move. Learning
that I thought it was. Learning it

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for him actually broadened my rights and
a lot of different things. So I'm

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interested in that person. I'll get
involved in what you're involved in. Just

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we can have some mutual things.
Right when I like you, I do

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my homework. Yes, thing just
like on that with one of them reality

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shows and the lady was like,
you don't know if that's your husband back.

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How you do know that's your husband
back? Because you my boyfriend,

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I can know if that's your ankle, that's that's that's the top of your

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head, I know that's the bottom
of your feet. I know every inch

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of the person I'm wake because you're
not gonna have to ask me for anything

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because I'm already gonna know how you
move. I know what movie you can

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come here. If you text me
you're having a bad dad work, I

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know how to not have that energy
when you come home. That energy when

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you come home gonna be peaceful that
day, work on me that at work,

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you're gonna get your mind off that
and sometimes a nice little relaxation,

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little blow job downes that know how
to for sure, I'm definitely like if

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my next girlfriend don't know how to
roll the blunt, first thing, I'm

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oh, my god. First thing
I had to learn how I learned how

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to roll blum because first of all, I used to I used to be

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that person that pushed off on all
my friends. And then I'll moved to

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Michigan, I had no black friends. You got nobody to do it.

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You have to do it. I
figured it out. I had a lot

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of loose blunts and a lot of
waste of weed on the ground, but

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I had to figure it out.
But when I learned that this this is

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how my man liked to come home, this you come home to, I

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was gonna be clean, dinner,
gonna be done, bl gonna be rolled.

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I'm gonna be ready. Y'all's gonna
be un locks. Let me I'm

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talking about it didn't cost me two
hundred dollars a pair of shoes. I

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bet you, I bet you'd wear
about the shoes. Off the shoes,

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take your mind off them shoes.
You got a point there, bro ain't

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took in the moment, in the
moment, right in the moment, in

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the moment, you ain't think about
them shoes moment. Maybe maybe tomorrow once

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I come, I gotta go back
to I cast that request a couple of

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two ndred dollars. Damn we didn't
forget right, Like, damn it?

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All right, man, I'm showing
them about ask them about this wig next

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week. Let me right. If
you know, these heels did just come

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out, my favorite designer, just
just release these heels. And you know,

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as a model, I got to
have these shoes. So listen,

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or Betty, I know I'm gonna
take this trip, so listen, just

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all I need to just pay for
my flight. I got the rest,

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just put my flight. It was
crazy. She was like, she was

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like, so why why would you
She was like, you would never dave

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me one? And I was like
she was like, Wow. I was

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like, I'm like, you do
not buy shoes. She was like,

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but I sucked. I guess it's
not. And I wish you would stop

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thinking how it's okay. It's not
even that you can be the best damn

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dick sucker in the world. Right
after a while, that's not what we

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want anymore. If you're not the
best damn dick sucker in the world.

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The fact that I can get my
dick sucked from almost anybody out here in

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this day and age, so you
gotta come better than that. Can only

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sucking dick because I can get just
like y'all. Just like y'all say,

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a man who presents you with nothing
but dick is not a big deal to

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y'all because y'all can get dick from
anywhere, right and can and can because

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regardless of how ugly a woman is, she can get dick from somebody.

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There's a lot of ugly bab I
got. I mean, it's it's probably

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a couple of y'all out here,
like, no, bro, I can't,

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I can't do that one. But
it's a lot, but it's a

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lot more of y'all. But it's
a lot more of y'all, who man,

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listen, she got a fat ass
though, and that but that as

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that as women. But there are
a lot of guys who look past the

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face because they got ass and I
hate titties or both, like I really

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do. And then they wonder,
Then they wonder why women. I'm not

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gonna say it's the right thing to
do. However, they wonder why that

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same woman dog the ass because she
wasn't really in it for you. You

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just and she's seen you. You
weren't really in it for her. You

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just wanted some pussy. So I
mean, in turn, she gave it

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to you, but also she dogged
your ass. So you give what you

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go looking for, you get what
you're going. I was a nice,

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cute, little skinny, flat booty
girl right there that liked you, and

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you just couldn't see past that,
past that. Speaking from experience, well,

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yeah, why didn't to come at
her like that? That was not

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even that he doesn't take a shot
at you, Yes, you are shot.

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I was speaking speaking from experience like
that was kind of that was kind

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of uncalled for. That's what you
want. Hold on, hold on,

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hold on. Do you remember the
time about twenty five minutes ago. How

404
00:32:37.559 --> 00:32:43.440
passionately I felt about that, right, Okay, you get passionate and you

405
00:32:43.559 --> 00:32:46.480
feel the certain way because you get
triggered because it's usually an experience that you

406
00:32:46.640 --> 00:32:52.279
had that was like that was the
lame we was going there? Are you

407
00:32:52.400 --> 00:32:55.960
speaking from experience? Yeah? I
have been Okay, Okay, we're human,

408
00:32:57.440 --> 00:33:02.839
we are nigga say no, women
say no. I've had that was

409
00:33:02.880 --> 00:33:07.599
a nice cleaned up on the bush. I've had. Yeah, because I

410
00:33:07.680 --> 00:33:09.559
definitely shot. It was a shot. But at the same time, it's

411
00:33:09.720 --> 00:33:15.960
still podcasts. You know people you
know, people past, you know,

412
00:33:16.279 --> 00:33:22.200
they're just wipe bluff on me.
You have you on Facebook dating? I

413
00:33:22.359 --> 00:33:25.599
am on Facebook? Are y'all on
Facebook? I am on two different pages.

414
00:33:25.599 --> 00:33:28.480
I don't know, mind. I
got one on me and and one

415
00:33:28.519 --> 00:33:34.599
for females. There's nothing. It's
really not the same. Damn people and

416
00:33:34.799 --> 00:33:37.599
like and with Facebook dating, I
don't know if you've ever been on that

417
00:33:37.680 --> 00:33:44.039
side of the world time I have
not Facebook. It tells like it's show

418
00:33:44.119 --> 00:33:46.480
you who they be friends with,
so you already know who they connected.

419
00:33:46.519 --> 00:33:51.559
It's like I've seen you in passing. Like when I look and see who

420
00:33:51.640 --> 00:33:57.319
you friends, I'm already of time
you been, ain't nothing here for you.

421
00:33:57.599 --> 00:34:00.480
See. To me, Facebook dating
is stupid when using the actual dating

422
00:34:00.599 --> 00:34:05.000
app, once they tell you who
you're friends with, you just go to

423
00:34:05.039 --> 00:34:08.559
their friends. Yeah, just find
you. Secondly and me, and you

424
00:34:08.679 --> 00:34:14.119
know this for a fact, if
two to three people we personally know a

425
00:34:14.320 --> 00:34:23.679
Facebook it was like anything. He's
like he said something about big to the

426
00:34:23.760 --> 00:34:27.480
other. He was like my little
brother right there with his freaking ass.

427
00:34:27.559 --> 00:34:37.199
I'm like nigga YouTube that's saying certain
people are friends with them. I'm just

428
00:34:37.280 --> 00:34:40.199
not gonna go. It's not worth
going. And it's not because they've done

429
00:34:40.280 --> 00:34:44.960
something with them. It's just a
simple fact you automatically get associated with a

430
00:34:44.960 --> 00:34:50.679
certain crowd. Correct, And it
may be an unfair assumption, but it's

431
00:34:50.760 --> 00:34:53.360
a safe one. Yeah, it
is. It is safe one, especially

432
00:34:53.480 --> 00:35:00.280
if if that person is friends or
you are Facebook friends. I mean depply

433
00:35:00.400 --> 00:35:06.599
that with an X. You definitely
can't be that person's You can't go there

434
00:35:07.840 --> 00:35:12.000
because like, why do you know
this person? Are you the reason why

435
00:35:12.360 --> 00:35:15.679
me and that person is not together? How long have you known this person?

436
00:35:15.960 --> 00:35:19.840
Did you know this ship already know? If that person is friend?

437
00:35:19.920 --> 00:35:22.840
How many degrees of separation? You
are from my excuse I've been. I've

438
00:35:22.840 --> 00:35:25.119
been already through the pages, like
I like to hacking the ship because I

439
00:35:25.199 --> 00:35:32.000
can, like even when like I
hacked in my my cousin friend ship,

440
00:35:36.039 --> 00:35:38.039
but because I'm just taking I'm just
too smart for my own good. Like

441
00:35:38.119 --> 00:35:43.880
I just this here, just this
here, just big, and it's just

442
00:35:44.000 --> 00:35:46.840
no ship. So I broke it
to my cousin boyfriend Paige on your phone

443
00:35:46.880 --> 00:35:52.599
one time, and just on a
humbugs. I was like, I had

444
00:35:52.920 --> 00:35:58.079
know you know what I'm saying,
because I could, because simply simply because

445
00:35:58.800 --> 00:36:00.960
simply because she could, because I
knew how to break in his phone without

446
00:36:01.159 --> 00:36:06.960
I'm pretty sure I can start knocking
niggas out, but I won't. I'm

447
00:36:06.960 --> 00:36:09.679
pretty sure I could. But that's
I feel like that's a that's another level

448
00:36:09.719 --> 00:36:17.719
though, like you are hurting people. No she's not. You didn't release

449
00:36:17.760 --> 00:36:22.199
this information to him, Okay,
so it's just between y'alls, but still

450
00:36:22.239 --> 00:36:27.039
you did it. So let's go
do some prop Let's go do some like

451
00:36:27.119 --> 00:36:30.440
robber thanks no IP hacking niggas Facebook? Why would I could just I can't

452
00:36:30.440 --> 00:36:32.599
say that on here, but why
would I go physically rob a baker,

453
00:36:32.639 --> 00:36:37.079
I could just do a different way. You're working too hard. I'm not

454
00:36:37.159 --> 00:36:40.199
trying to break no sweat and go
to jail. She just said that she

455
00:36:40.400 --> 00:36:44.519
is techy. I know that's that
was the point for you. See,

456
00:36:44.800 --> 00:36:51.000
Yeah, you see okay, because
why if you can break into my Facebook?

457
00:36:51.000 --> 00:36:57.199
Why the were physically going in the
bank. But at the end of

458
00:36:57.239 --> 00:36:59.480
the day, the end of the
day, I do it. It's not

459
00:36:59.639 --> 00:37:01.880
necessary again, got to don't make
this out about me. Don't go looking

460
00:37:01.920 --> 00:37:07.480
for something that slide. You ain't
gonna find something. I'm sorry. Did

461
00:37:07.519 --> 00:37:09.400
you forget where you was? I
know where I'm at. You wonder if

462
00:37:09.400 --> 00:37:12.920
you forgot who he was talking to? And we bring on some love?

463
00:37:12.960 --> 00:37:15.119
Do we need into I don't know
what he's on today. I don't either.

464
00:37:15.360 --> 00:37:20.039
I'm taking I'm not taking a shot, take the shots and podcasts.

465
00:37:20.199 --> 00:37:23.360
Just gonna let y'all know that y'all
are loved over here. They love.

466
00:37:23.760 --> 00:37:31.480
I love y'all space because I always
says very such one is all. I'm

467
00:37:31.519 --> 00:37:36.000
safe space win you. I don't. I thought I was coming to see

468
00:37:36.039 --> 00:37:39.920
my favorite fat guy, but I
don't know you are. I'm not thinking.

469
00:37:39.960 --> 00:37:43.960
I mean your feel if I had
him, but that's how we feel,

470
00:37:45.159 --> 00:37:51.639
Okay, if I had them first
question, Yes, because you read

471
00:37:51.679 --> 00:37:53.360
the first you have called such a
command. No, I am, let's

472
00:37:53.519 --> 00:37:59.960
let's let's stop. Okay, we've
been rightnutes right, and the show was

473
00:38:00.079 --> 00:38:02.480
only an hour and a half.
You're just sucking up half the show gone?

474
00:38:02.519 --> 00:38:07.480
And he all right? Have you
ever struggled with being honest with yourself

475
00:38:07.920 --> 00:38:12.199
about your own interest and your level
of interest in somebody else? So the

476
00:38:12.239 --> 00:38:15.239
summing up in a nutshell, have
you ever really just like, I love

477
00:38:15.320 --> 00:38:17.679
this nigga, but I really don't
love this nigga. I love what this

478
00:38:17.840 --> 00:38:22.039
nigga do for me. So love
is a strong, very strong word for

479
00:38:22.119 --> 00:38:24.320
me, So I'm not gonna use
that. But my level of my level,

480
00:38:24.480 --> 00:38:30.400
my level of interest has definitely been
Like, I like him, but

481
00:38:30.639 --> 00:38:34.159
really, how much do I like
him? For real? Do I just

482
00:38:34.280 --> 00:38:38.559
like the convenience of him conveen or
do I just like him as a whole

483
00:38:38.920 --> 00:38:45.199
like everything? So yes, the
answer to that question is absolutely, because,

484
00:38:45.840 --> 00:38:47.840
like you said, conveniency is a
thing. Like I got a question

485
00:38:47.920 --> 00:38:52.159
for both of y'all. I don't
think this is y'all, but I don't

486
00:38:52.159 --> 00:38:55.800
know how y'all are dating, because
I ain't dated. Y'all are y'all fixers?

487
00:38:57.840 --> 00:39:01.840
Meaning like eject, you see something, but you know something ain't right,

488
00:39:02.280 --> 00:39:06.280
so you put forth the effort to
try to get him out that like

489
00:39:06.400 --> 00:39:07.880
you might see mama issues in that
nigga a little bit, but you know

490
00:39:08.320 --> 00:39:12.159
that you just need someone to hug
you a little bit more than normal.

491
00:39:12.320 --> 00:39:14.880
That was my problem, and I
had to really look back, like I

492
00:39:15.000 --> 00:39:17.239
love this guy, but do I
really see a future with this person?

493
00:39:17.320 --> 00:39:22.199
Like is he really gonna be more
than just this? So even though I

494
00:39:22.360 --> 00:39:24.440
was comfortable for those three years because
you know, I'm a god, like

495
00:39:24.519 --> 00:39:28.239
we do everything together. You already
know my jokes and you already know my

496
00:39:28.280 --> 00:39:30.480
attitudes, but I have to really
sit back and be like, is he

497
00:39:30.639 --> 00:39:34.360
really gonna be more than this?
And this is what you want to tie

498
00:39:34.400 --> 00:39:37.719
yourself to and trying to fix.
Oh. I can help you with it.

499
00:39:37.800 --> 00:39:39.360
Oh, I can show you you
can do this, he can do

500
00:39:39.440 --> 00:39:43.719
that, But I have to understand
that he just had no interest of being

501
00:39:43.880 --> 00:39:46.599
more than what he was already.
Right, because you're you are a very

502
00:39:46.719 --> 00:39:52.360
skilled woman, and I don't mean
that in no like random sexual shit,

503
00:39:52.639 --> 00:39:55.239
actual you know a lot of shit, because we both know a lot of

504
00:39:55.239 --> 00:40:00.039
shit together. Do you find yourself
trying to look bruh? You need to.

505
00:40:00.679 --> 00:40:04.599
You got this going on with you. You can do a B C

506
00:40:04.800 --> 00:40:07.800
D. Have you thought about doing
this or have you gone here? Or

507
00:40:07.880 --> 00:40:09.920
hey, let's get you enrolled in
this. And then the nigga was like,

508
00:40:10.840 --> 00:40:14.719
damn, I'm just not interested that, and you was like okay,

509
00:40:14.800 --> 00:40:16.960
but I still love you, so
whatever, we'll figure something out. Yep.

510
00:40:17.119 --> 00:40:20.760
That was the last situation, just
trying. I set up a whole

511
00:40:20.880 --> 00:40:25.719
fucking hold fucking trucking company. Whole
fucking trucking company. I even got motherfucking

512
00:40:25.800 --> 00:40:31.239
funding for the truck and company.
Hold on, you know he bought tennis

513
00:40:31.239 --> 00:40:36.719
shops to flaws and look good on
social media. I'm like trying to start

514
00:40:36.760 --> 00:40:40.119
a business, like I'm opening up
a whole store. I got you the

515
00:40:40.159 --> 00:40:44.760
funding the start a business, and
you worried about tennis shots so you can

516
00:40:44.800 --> 00:40:46.960
show the bitch on social media that
you got the tennis shoes. So I

517
00:40:47.039 --> 00:40:52.519
have to take the money back because
you ain't We ain't invited. It's not

518
00:40:52.639 --> 00:40:59.199
about That's what I'm saying. Like
we sit down, we sitting down.

519
00:40:59.239 --> 00:41:02.800
We discussed and then once the money
hit and we I'm like, okay,

520
00:41:02.880 --> 00:41:07.079
now we talked about this money.
Here, let's do X, Y and

521
00:41:07.199 --> 00:41:09.880
Z. And your focus is let
me get this bitch attention. Who ain't

522
00:41:09.880 --> 00:41:14.559
paying me no attention? Why I'm
trying to get money? You in my

523
00:41:14.679 --> 00:41:15.679
way? So now I got to
take the money back. You go over

524
00:41:15.719 --> 00:41:19.719
there with your tennis shoes, and
your bitch said, you figure life out.

525
00:41:21.519 --> 00:41:24.079
I don't understand. So yeah,
I've been that person who trying to

526
00:41:24.079 --> 00:41:29.199
fix your trying to because I come
from such humble beginnings that I always try

527
00:41:29.280 --> 00:41:34.320
to look and say, maybe if
they just had an opportunity I do that.

528
00:41:34.599 --> 00:41:37.000
I end up staying too long in
that ship. Correct then knew that

529
00:41:37.039 --> 00:41:39.559
ship wasn't gonna work. I should
just carry my happy ass on a long

530
00:41:39.599 --> 00:41:43.760
time ago. Yeah, long to
get people. Too much time trying to.

531
00:41:44.239 --> 00:41:52.079
I don't say I have a think. I felt I felt too tis

532
00:41:52.079 --> 00:41:57.440
shoes. She looked, sorry,
you said, you said the top all

533
00:41:57.480 --> 00:42:00.800
that, But you know what I'll
tell you, My priority ain't never been

534
00:42:00.880 --> 00:42:04.320
fucked up over in the tennis shoes. Well that's all that matters. As

535
00:42:04.360 --> 00:42:08.480
long as as long as your priority
is straight with those tennis shoes. That

536
00:42:08.920 --> 00:42:13.639
you know something I don't know because
I I ain't never. I ain't never

537
00:42:13.800 --> 00:42:17.360
did no goofball shit and fucked up
none of my money, just trying to

538
00:42:17.360 --> 00:42:22.719
buy some sneakers. Okay, I
give you that bill. Bill's paying on

539
00:42:22.960 --> 00:42:24.800
time. I ain't got no kids, I ain't got no bitches. So

540
00:42:25.199 --> 00:42:29.119
what else am I gonna do with
my money? You're sitting here waiting on

541
00:42:29.199 --> 00:42:31.400
the drop day? Lee, All
I'm saying, bro, I don't have

542
00:42:31.559 --> 00:42:37.039
no other responsibilities outside of what I
do. So once all my responsibilities is

543
00:42:37.159 --> 00:42:40.960
done, I can buy shoes and
I can flex for the bitches when not

544
00:42:42.079 --> 00:42:45.639
paying me. No, but let
me ask my boy shoes. I'm a

545
00:42:45.639 --> 00:42:49.519
sneaker. He let me ask you
a question. You got a girl who

546
00:42:50.199 --> 00:42:53.159
likes you. She told you she
like you, right, Okay, she

547
00:42:53.320 --> 00:42:57.639
checks off ten of your thirteen boxers, got you. You got to learn

548
00:42:57.760 --> 00:43:00.599
the other three of their that comes
in time. It's to drop day,

549
00:43:01.800 --> 00:43:06.159
but it's also the day she wants
to go to Chicago and do some ship,

550
00:43:06.559 --> 00:43:08.679
right, which when you choose it, now we gonna go to Chicago.

551
00:43:08.880 --> 00:43:12.880
You're gonna miss it. It's the
phone pole that you've been waiting on

552
00:43:13.920 --> 00:43:19.760
some ship is just some ship come
before that. But but at the same

553
00:43:19.840 --> 00:43:23.920
time you're talking to wanm so before
she even spring the Chicago ship on me,

554
00:43:24.719 --> 00:43:28.199
I know already put my money to
the side because I knew the ship.

555
00:43:28.400 --> 00:43:30.000
I knew for effect the shoes was
coming. I didn't know about the

556
00:43:30.119 --> 00:43:35.239
Chicago ship. So what you got
dip in your shoe budget? Nah see?

557
00:43:35.480 --> 00:43:39.199
But once I already know something that's
already taken care of. You know

558
00:43:39.280 --> 00:43:43.960
how most niggas saved for the ship. They saved for a rainy day.

559
00:43:44.039 --> 00:43:47.039
I got a shoe fum. Even
if you got dip in your shoe budget,

560
00:43:47.199 --> 00:43:51.519
I got a shoe fump. I
never have to do that. I

561
00:43:51.639 --> 00:43:54.039
never have to dip in the shoe. He should be invested in the shoe

562
00:43:54.079 --> 00:44:00.199
company for what? So you can
make your money? Makes money? This

563
00:44:00.400 --> 00:44:07.719
is this is where you cross.
You tell your girlfriend what she should be

564
00:44:07.920 --> 00:44:12.840
doing. That's not what she's interested. So you got the opportunity to make

565
00:44:12.960 --> 00:44:15.719
money. Why can't you do both? I'm not saying that you can't do

566
00:44:15.920 --> 00:44:19.400
both, but what don't you do
both? That's a good question. But

567
00:44:19.519 --> 00:44:23.039
you can't force what you think I
should be. I don't want to do

568
00:44:23.880 --> 00:44:29.480
it's notally That's essentially what she was
saying is that she started my fuck a

569
00:44:29.519 --> 00:44:32.320
whole trunking company, but because he
wasn't interested in that ship, he bought

570
00:44:32.360 --> 00:44:36.599
shoes with the money, and she's
like, no, fuck that. So

571
00:44:36.880 --> 00:44:38.960
if you if this was the fun
you want to do, then I'm gonna

572
00:44:39.000 --> 00:44:45.239
move around and let you and your
shoes have your way. You drink all

573
00:44:45.239 --> 00:44:49.039
your liquor. Bro, you feel
bad because that's not I feel. That's

574
00:44:49.039 --> 00:44:52.840
not good, that's not that's not
what we're doing. Plan. We talked

575
00:44:52.840 --> 00:44:55.800
about something. We discussed something right, and a lot of a lot of

576
00:44:55.960 --> 00:44:59.840
problems that we have as women.
As I have as a woman is I

577
00:45:00.159 --> 00:45:01.800
always have to be the head of
the household, even when I'm with a

578
00:45:01.920 --> 00:45:07.320
man, because they don't have They
have no initiative to want to lead or

579
00:45:07.400 --> 00:45:10.239
want that responsibility. They just want
to be. And then some men wonder,

580
00:45:10.679 --> 00:45:15.320
I wonder, why, ask shit? We act the way that we

581
00:45:15.440 --> 00:45:20.199
do. We're we're almost forced to
act the way that we do until someone

582
00:45:20.639 --> 00:45:25.840
comes in and takes over that responsibility. We're forced to be masculine or hard

583
00:45:27.039 --> 00:45:34.199
or whatever other adjective that you want
to use, because but if I if

584
00:45:34.239 --> 00:45:36.239
I see that you're not doing the
ship, and I'm not, well,

585
00:45:36.280 --> 00:45:37.880
who the fuck is? Don't do
it. If I'm not doing it,

586
00:45:37.960 --> 00:45:39.920
you're not doing it. We don't
know too much fucker's here. So it

587
00:45:40.000 --> 00:45:43.519
got to get done somehow. So
if you're not gonna do the ship,

588
00:45:43.599 --> 00:45:45.280
then obviously I have to do the
ship that I've been doing. I just

589
00:45:45.360 --> 00:45:47.719
feel like men in these days and
I'm not gonna say, oh man,

590
00:45:47.800 --> 00:45:52.480
but some of these men these days
have got so consuming what women get to

591
00:45:52.559 --> 00:45:55.079
do and what women get and what
women they try, and they want to

592
00:45:55.159 --> 00:45:59.320
be They want all the stuff that
women want, get so bad like they

593
00:45:59.400 --> 00:46:01.800
lose a sight that you a man, and this is why you Okay,

594
00:46:01.960 --> 00:46:08.559
so as as women do, y'all
acknowledge the fact that times have changed.

595
00:46:09.079 --> 00:46:15.880
Yes, times have changed. I'm
not I'm not saying that, yo,

596
00:46:15.079 --> 00:46:21.360
man gonna be a woman. I
just feel like there there there aren't as

597
00:46:21.559 --> 00:46:29.159
many traditional old school niggas as women
would like, because there are a lot

598
00:46:29.280 --> 00:46:37.960
of I feel like there are more
men who grew up like me versus somebody

599
00:46:37.039 --> 00:46:42.199
else. When I say that,
I'm like, well, you know you

600
00:46:42.320 --> 00:46:45.559
grew up and you watched your moms
do that ship. So when you watch

601
00:46:45.639 --> 00:46:50.559
your mom do that ship, when
you go out and you look for women,

602
00:46:51.400 --> 00:46:52.960
most of your first reference to what
kind of girl you want? You

603
00:46:53.000 --> 00:46:59.000
want somebody like your mom. If
I watched my mama get it out the

604
00:46:59.159 --> 00:47:01.320
mud and do that ship. When
I come to the relationship, I'm looking

605
00:47:01.360 --> 00:47:04.360
at like, well, this could
be fifty to fifty because I know what

606
00:47:04.400 --> 00:47:07.679
I'm a bring. I'm just saying
that's how niggas be looking at it.

607
00:47:09.239 --> 00:47:15.559
Why is that mother? No,
no, no, I'm saying that.

608
00:47:15.760 --> 00:47:17.800
But what what my point is?
I disagree with both of you. So

609
00:47:17.920 --> 00:47:22.960
my point is, so, yes, your mother had six jobs, race

610
00:47:23.039 --> 00:47:29.039
ten kids on her own, two
side hustles, miss me like all of

611
00:47:29.119 --> 00:47:30.960
this ship, just so you know, she could provide for her kids.

612
00:47:31.039 --> 00:47:34.880
Her roof over, your head lights
closed, everything that y'all want to y'all

613
00:47:34.920 --> 00:47:37.039
never wanted for nothing. So now
you're looking for a woman to the exact

614
00:47:37.079 --> 00:47:40.960
same thing. Absolutely, the I'm
looking for my woman to wake up and

615
00:47:42.119 --> 00:47:45.119
not have a problem with going to
work. I'm looking for my woman to

616
00:47:45.280 --> 00:47:49.920
win. When I say, all
right, this is these are the bills

617
00:47:50.239 --> 00:47:57.280
what you want to split type ship. So I don't. I don't,

618
00:47:57.480 --> 00:48:00.800
I don't, I don't necessarily,
I don't necessarily disagree with splitting my My

619
00:48:01.039 --> 00:48:07.760
only issue is so you say you
want a woman like your mother, But

620
00:48:07.960 --> 00:48:10.000
like she said, first of all, I'm not. First of all,

621
00:48:10.039 --> 00:48:17.000
I'm not. First of all,
I'm not your mother. Secondly, just

622
00:48:17.079 --> 00:48:22.679
because you watched your mother do it
all nine times of a teen, she

623
00:48:22.880 --> 00:48:28.679
was probably struggling one straw, one
wrong move, and all that shit was

624
00:48:28.760 --> 00:48:32.000
crashing down, So you shouldn't want
your woman to be in the same predicament.

625
00:48:32.119 --> 00:48:36.480
You should want to come in and
see that nine times of team,

626
00:48:36.760 --> 00:48:39.840
She's already doing it all by herself, kids, no kids, whatever the

627
00:48:39.920 --> 00:48:44.440
case may be. She's already doing
it all by herself. As a man,

628
00:48:44.480 --> 00:48:46.159
you should want to come in and
take a load off. Let me

629
00:48:46.320 --> 00:48:49.760
help you. You comeing in and
want to just pay a half of a

630
00:48:49.840 --> 00:48:52.920
cable bill, A half of that
ain't hand a hole. Listen, Really,

631
00:48:53.079 --> 00:48:57.159
I'm already taking care of my entire
household on my own. Now you

632
00:48:57.239 --> 00:49:01.559
come in talking about splitting shit.
What I've been I've been doing this shit.

633
00:49:01.639 --> 00:49:04.559
I've been doing the sh it on
my own for a long time.

634
00:49:04.679 --> 00:49:07.280
Okay, Okay, you're right,
you've been doing it on your own,

635
00:49:07.519 --> 00:49:13.360
but now once you decided to merge
your life with someone else, it is

636
00:49:13.519 --> 00:49:16.159
a us thing. Absolutely. This
ain't your house, it ain't just my

637
00:49:16.320 --> 00:49:22.119
house. It's our house, so
definite. Okay. So my definition is

638
00:49:22.199 --> 00:49:28.119
splitting could be completely different than someone
else's definition of splitting. Right. I

639
00:49:28.159 --> 00:49:31.079
ain't saying if the light bill is
fucking two fifty where or half that.

640
00:49:31.239 --> 00:49:35.800
I'm saying, well, if I
paid the light bill, grab the table

641
00:49:35.840 --> 00:49:38.400
bill, that's the lesser of the
two bills. That is what I look

642
00:49:38.440 --> 00:49:43.079
at is splitting because I got to
see how my mama got it out the

643
00:49:43.199 --> 00:49:45.880
mud, and then I got to
watch my step pops walk in and be

644
00:49:45.000 --> 00:49:46.960
like, you ain't got to worry
about it. You ain't got to worry

645
00:49:46.960 --> 00:49:52.800
about that. I got it.
And so I'm like, that's that's absolutely

646
00:49:52.840 --> 00:49:55.000
how it should be. Because again, if a woman has been doing it

647
00:49:55.079 --> 00:50:00.719
all for X amount of years,
they're looking if a man comes into her

648
00:50:00.840 --> 00:50:02.960
life, she's not still looking to
do what all because at this point you're

649
00:50:04.000 --> 00:50:10.039
just another dependent. I don't want
I don't want another I don't want another

650
00:50:10.519 --> 00:50:14.199
dependent I don't. That's not what
I need in my life. I need

651
00:50:14.360 --> 00:50:17.079
an equal I need someone who's gonna
meet me where I'm at niggas away talking

652
00:50:17.079 --> 00:50:20.119
about some what you bring to the
table? I bring the table to the

653
00:50:20.199 --> 00:50:27.119
table, motherfucker, what do you
bring this already? You know what you

654
00:50:29.320 --> 00:50:34.480
hello your table? I bring a
whole nother table. So the question is

655
00:50:34.679 --> 00:50:38.679
do we put these two tables together? That a lot of these asking you

656
00:50:39.800 --> 00:50:44.760
bring you bring to the table?
They got a chair to they don't even

657
00:50:44.800 --> 00:50:53.239
got to bring it to the table
and use a suitcase. It's the same

658
00:50:54.000 --> 00:51:05.679
we're gonna get from his girl you
and you you your cold cash correctly suitcake

659
00:51:07.000 --> 00:51:10.480
at the same time. But you
got women who'll be like what you bring

660
00:51:10.599 --> 00:51:15.000
to the table. What if what
I bring to the table your table came

661
00:51:15.159 --> 00:51:20.320
hand? Your table? Wow?
Your table? Wi we gotta prop your

662
00:51:20.360 --> 00:51:22.960
shut up with a book. You
know what I'm saying? Like you what

663
00:51:23.119 --> 00:51:28.039
you got to entertable table? You
got a card table? This ship the

664
00:51:28.079 --> 00:51:31.039
bottom ship made the oak is a
sturdy like everybody always saying, what you

665
00:51:31.159 --> 00:51:35.440
bring to the table, bitch,
you don't got a table. You don't

666
00:51:35.440 --> 00:51:38.119
got a house to put the table
in you down, man, just like,

667
00:51:38.639 --> 00:51:44.320
why don't we your cousin house?
Are you talking about this house?

668
00:51:45.000 --> 00:51:49.000
What I bring to the table?
You? You women in the basement of

669
00:51:49.079 --> 00:51:52.199
your anti sensul my brother house and
you're trying to ask me what do I

670
00:51:52.280 --> 00:51:57.480
bring to the table table? Because
you don't got you ain't got ship.

671
00:51:58.239 --> 00:52:01.480
You asking me for a ride to
work? Like, so what we need

672
00:52:01.559 --> 00:52:07.519
to do? Well, we need
to start doing everyone at some point at

673
00:52:07.599 --> 00:52:08.960
some point, Yes, okay,
you need to look, I got that.

674
00:52:09.719 --> 00:52:13.400
At some point. Does this sound
like this gonna come back and bite

675
00:52:13.480 --> 00:52:16.840
folks? No, But at some
point I need you to get your life

676
00:52:17.039 --> 00:52:22.920
together. Okay, as as a
grown adult, there are there are some

677
00:52:23.519 --> 00:52:29.320
that there are some things that should
be No maybe you, I'm like,

678
00:52:29.679 --> 00:52:34.519
maybe you. I'm not taking those
time soon, I'm here, But there

679
00:52:34.719 --> 00:52:39.760
are things that you should have as
a minimum. And so I can understand

680
00:52:39.800 --> 00:52:45.159
that if at a point in time
you don't have those things. Obviously life

681
00:52:45.280 --> 00:52:49.960
is not fucking easy. We're not
fucking billionaires, so we don't have everything

682
00:52:50.159 --> 00:52:52.119
all the time. We don't have
money at our disposal. So I can

683
00:52:52.239 --> 00:52:57.960
understand at some point things get hard, you fall off shit happens cool,

684
00:52:58.320 --> 00:53:00.840
But at what point do you regroup, look and get your life back together

685
00:53:00.960 --> 00:53:07.119
and get back on track. Hold
all that, hold on you haven't.

686
00:53:07.840 --> 00:53:12.000
All that you said is nice and
ship like that. But everybody in this

687
00:53:12.159 --> 00:53:15.039
room, the majority of people that
listen to this show, it's like thirty

688
00:53:15.119 --> 00:53:21.360
four and up. That basic necessity
shit, it doesn't matter if you ain't

689
00:53:21.360 --> 00:53:27.239
got a car, a crib,
or a source of income. We're not

690
00:53:27.360 --> 00:53:30.360
even considering you. It's correct.
I'm down. I ain't got none of

691
00:53:30.400 --> 00:53:34.480
that, and I still slang that. But that's all you can slang.

692
00:53:34.639 --> 00:53:37.280
That's all you got, though,
bro, And after a while it slanging

693
00:53:37.320 --> 00:53:40.800
dick becomes empty. But just don't
call you after a while, so you

694
00:53:40.920 --> 00:53:45.239
starting that rotation all the way over
again. Now you're back on Facebook date

695
00:53:45.360 --> 00:53:49.280
looking for the next bitch to accept
the fact that you're just slanging dick,

696
00:53:49.719 --> 00:53:52.920
and the shits get hollow. Then
you turn thirty eight, and now you

697
00:53:52.079 --> 00:53:58.639
slanging dick to a twenty five year
old. Enhancements and stuff you have to

698
00:53:58.679 --> 00:54:01.079
meet the enhancements and all that,
don't you all start to go bad In

699
00:54:01.159 --> 00:54:07.280
the late thirties and forties, I'm
thirty, still work I can get it

700
00:54:07.360 --> 00:54:22.559
up. I am in my forties
and I will gladly show you what love

701
00:54:22.679 --> 00:54:28.840
it. So I heard different men
say that, you know, when they

702
00:54:28.880 --> 00:54:31.719
get to me and forty, they
start to have some issues. But that's

703
00:54:31.920 --> 00:54:37.239
natural. That's natural. Everybody's body
changes when you get older because we start

704
00:54:37.519 --> 00:54:43.119
doing things differently, Like with so
many of us now working work from home

705
00:54:43.280 --> 00:54:45.679
jobs. We're not as active as
we used to be. We're gaining weight

706
00:54:45.800 --> 00:54:51.159
or we're losing excessive weight. Therefore
our bodies is acting different. We're starting

707
00:54:51.199 --> 00:54:53.320
to get joint pains because we're not
moving around like we used to be and

708
00:54:53.400 --> 00:54:58.719
whatnot. So as you get older, you're gonna have issues period, unless

709
00:54:58.719 --> 00:55:01.800
you nip it in the bud early. But at the same time, you

710
00:55:01.920 --> 00:55:07.400
can only go for so long looking
for physical love only after a while.

711
00:55:07.960 --> 00:55:13.880
Where is the intimacy right after a
while? Where is the camaraderie after a

712
00:55:13.960 --> 00:55:16.119
while. Where is the someone that
you can be like, yo, I'm

713
00:55:16.199 --> 00:55:20.480
having a rough day and I just
want to be able to vent to you,

714
00:55:21.079 --> 00:55:23.159
And they don't look at it like
you vent. Before you even get

715
00:55:23.199 --> 00:55:28.320
an opportunity to say this day is
fucked up, they asking you already how

716
00:55:28.360 --> 00:55:31.199
your day is while rubbing your scalp
and playing in your hair, you know

717
00:55:31.239 --> 00:55:37.159
what I'm saying, Or you walk
in the door, or you simply want

718
00:55:37.239 --> 00:55:43.760
to be in that person's Like you
come home and it is Monday, so

719
00:55:44.000 --> 00:55:47.320
just thiggas wrestling and either they in
there asking you questions about it because they

720
00:55:47.440 --> 00:55:51.440
notice what you're into you though,
they will give a fuck, or they

721
00:55:51.599 --> 00:55:53.559
leave you alone. Look, I
ain't got no problem asking questions. Ask

722
00:55:53.679 --> 00:55:57.239
me, Hey, ain't that such
and such? Yes, it's not the

723
00:55:57.360 --> 00:55:59.800
rock. No, he's been not
been here all the time. Please don't

724
00:55:59.800 --> 00:56:02.119
go crazy over you. Get out
of my room. You know it was

725
00:56:02.199 --> 00:56:07.280
cool with that somethink some for some
For some people speak okay, I don't

726
00:56:07.280 --> 00:56:13.159
want to say something. For me, being in my person's presence is enough.

727
00:56:13.639 --> 00:56:16.519
Like I just want to be with
you, be around you. You

728
00:56:16.599 --> 00:56:20.599
can do whatever you want to.
I don't preferably I would like to be

729
00:56:20.719 --> 00:56:23.199
touching you, but I don't even
have to touch you. I used to

730
00:56:23.280 --> 00:56:27.079
be like that. You can be
on this couch, I can be on

731
00:56:27.239 --> 00:56:32.920
that couch. I'm we're in the
same room. We're experiencing each other's presence,

732
00:56:34.559 --> 00:56:37.440
watching TV. You're like you said, it's Monday, you're gonna watch

733
00:56:37.480 --> 00:56:39.039
wrestling, all right, I don't
know what the fuck going on, but

734
00:56:39.159 --> 00:56:43.480
I'm gonna watch this ship because this
is what you're watching. And eventually you're

735
00:56:43.519 --> 00:56:45.800
gonna find somebody you're gonna like,
and next thing you know it, you're

736
00:56:45.840 --> 00:56:52.119
watching it on Monday with me.
Yeah, that's how I got into certain

737
00:56:52.159 --> 00:56:57.760
TVs. So into football and basketball
now, like I'm watching college sports and

738
00:56:57.840 --> 00:57:04.239
all this stuff just because you're sitting
there right now interest And now I'm making

739
00:57:04.480 --> 00:57:08.119
GPTs to help me get my prize
pick, so you know what I'm saying.

740
00:57:08.199 --> 00:57:12.440
So like I get into it,
like I get interest that I'm with

741
00:57:12.599 --> 00:57:15.880
because you naturally just want, yes, I want you want to have commonality.

742
00:57:16.239 --> 00:57:20.280
Like say, he got into reality
TV is because of that. I

743
00:57:20.440 --> 00:57:24.199
got into watching cooking shows because the
girl's mom used to watch all that ship.

744
00:57:24.639 --> 00:57:27.679
Next you know, we sitting up
there at the talk. Hey,

745
00:57:27.760 --> 00:57:30.360
man, did that one chick make
it past next to her? Then fuck

746
00:57:30.400 --> 00:57:32.000
her dog? That bit sheld have
went home instead, Like I'm more to

747
00:57:32.079 --> 00:57:36.800
the show to the point where I'm
getting yelled at cause I'm four episodes ahead

748
00:57:36.800 --> 00:57:37.800
of you. Like, look,
you've been at work too much. I

749
00:57:37.880 --> 00:57:45.800
have to figure out they are watched. Keep watching my show. I bet

750
00:57:45.920 --> 00:57:52.519
you won't write. That's that's why
for every but that's why for every streaming

751
00:57:52.639 --> 00:57:57.000
service. Their family one and there's
mine. I can go over here and

752
00:57:57.079 --> 00:58:00.079
watch all my ship and you don't
know. I'm ahead of you. I

753
00:58:00.239 --> 00:58:01.719
go back over here and now watch
and I'd be acting. I could be

754
00:58:01.840 --> 00:58:05.639
in my phone. I'd be looking
up ship and then be like, oh

755
00:58:05.880 --> 00:58:08.559
damn, what through that bitch didn't
know. I already know what happened three

756
00:58:08.599 --> 00:58:15.880
weeks ago. That's a nasty rabbit
hole of my life. Rabbit holes the

757
00:58:16.159 --> 00:58:21.599
reality TV. Like, Bro,
that's it was so nasty. I was

758
00:58:21.719 --> 00:58:30.719
looking forward to this ship, like
I know that, like all that ship,

759
00:58:30.800 --> 00:58:34.000
love and hip hop or what like
whatever that block and it was crazy

760
00:58:34.000 --> 00:58:37.360
because that block is on Monday.
I was giving up wrestling for this,

761
00:58:37.480 --> 00:58:42.079
bro. I was loving you.
I was like, I watched the replay

762
00:58:42.159 --> 00:58:50.320
on wrestling but love it hip hop, watch that going through now ship.

763
00:58:50.400 --> 00:58:52.920
That's how I got to watch a
Keisha the way it is. She was

764
00:58:52.960 --> 00:58:57.079
into that ship and like why am
I here? Why am I here?

765
00:58:57.280 --> 00:59:01.320
Why am I here? But fuck
Nephie. You know, there's certain refts

766
00:59:01.360 --> 00:59:04.280
that I don't like. It's certain
teams that I don't like. I got

767
00:59:04.360 --> 00:59:07.159
players on teams that I got beef
with. Yeah, people you don't even

768
00:59:07.159 --> 00:59:08.440
know, they don't know, But
when I see them in the streets,

769
00:59:08.440 --> 00:59:14.280
they're gonna have to see me because
how they did, how they did my

770
00:59:14.440 --> 00:59:16.920
lebron there gonna have to see me. That's another reason why I noticed,

771
00:59:16.960 --> 00:59:20.559
like, over the course of the
last couple of years, we got a

772
00:59:20.679 --> 00:59:23.639
lot of random Bucks fans. We've
been getting a lot of random Packer fans,

773
00:59:23.920 --> 00:59:27.920
And I'm like, have you been
just don't like this shit? Because

774
00:59:27.920 --> 00:59:30.519
you wasn't liking it before. So
while you're all in it now, Oh,

775
00:59:30.559 --> 00:59:31.360
you just here because we winning.
And I thought about it. No,

776
00:59:31.400 --> 00:59:35.400
it's not because you're winning, because
she's because you're spending time with your

777
00:59:35.480 --> 00:59:37.320
man. And because you're spending time
with your man, your man got you

778
00:59:37.440 --> 00:59:40.880
watching all of this. So now
you you're a Bucks fan because that's the

779
00:59:42.039 --> 00:59:45.239
only team you really pay attention to. You don't know who everywhere else.

780
00:59:45.639 --> 00:59:49.039
Before I started, I was Bucks
and Packers. Now I got my backup

781
00:59:49.039 --> 00:59:51.360
teams because my Bucks and Packers tend
to fuck up sometimes, you know what

782
00:59:51.400 --> 00:59:53.760
I'm saying. Then I be there
wishing and praying and thinking about how can

783
00:59:53.800 --> 01:00:00.639
I make this petition to get this
coach off this team. I want to

784
01:00:00.679 --> 01:00:04.480
get people five like you need to
go. You can't help. You cannot

785
01:00:04.519 --> 01:00:07.760
be a black hairen. That's just
not how this works. Sound like,

786
01:00:10.679 --> 01:00:14.159
have you having money on ship?
Karen? Just be doing it? Because

787
01:00:14.239 --> 01:00:16.159
Karen be doing ship. They've been
lost me like two hundred dollars. That

788
01:00:16.199 --> 01:00:22.280
was a week. Stop, got
you got another question for a couple of

789
01:00:22.320 --> 01:00:24.760
weeks. I've been on everything.
God, you got to learn how to

790
01:00:24.840 --> 01:00:28.519
live your life. You've got to
enjoy it. Stop trying to get paid

791
01:00:29.400 --> 01:00:37.039
nor you know, I'm like,
you make some money, why not?

792
01:00:37.079 --> 01:00:40.760
Why not be a whore? I
said, wor why would you do ship

793
01:00:40.840 --> 01:00:45.119
for free? Said? I never
understood that. No, No, I'm

794
01:00:45.159 --> 01:00:51.079
not saying horror, like sexually horror. Just you do stuff for money anything

795
01:00:52.119 --> 01:00:55.079
and this and this is coming.
It's money everywhere. Come on in this

796
01:00:55.239 --> 01:01:00.840
world an American way. I'm gonna
maran all American looking the money and everything.

797
01:01:01.000 --> 01:01:06.440
All right, question, how can
you effectively communicate your boundaries and limitations

798
01:01:06.800 --> 01:01:09.639
without feeling guilty to your partner,
cause that seems to be the big thing

799
01:01:09.760 --> 01:01:14.079
right now too. You don't like
something, you're not interested in it,

800
01:01:14.199 --> 01:01:17.760
but you do it because he or
she can sexualized the spectrum likes it.

801
01:01:19.719 --> 01:01:22.079
How do you let them know without
feeling like you feel bad for doing that?

802
01:01:22.559 --> 01:01:30.760
I don't you just horrible. My
boundaries are my boundaries, and if

803
01:01:30.840 --> 01:01:37.840
you don't like them, then we're
not We're not a match. Like this

804
01:01:37.039 --> 01:01:42.199
is bad, y'all being together.
I want you to watch wrestling. You

805
01:01:42.320 --> 01:01:45.440
give no fucks about wrestling. You
tried it, don't work, so but

806
01:01:45.599 --> 01:01:51.400
listen, some some things, some
things are non negotiable, and then other

807
01:01:51.519 --> 01:01:55.920
things are okay. Because I like
you, we fuck with each other.

808
01:01:57.559 --> 01:02:01.880
You're probably tolerated some bullshit that you
have no interesting are never going to do

809
01:02:02.519 --> 01:02:07.960
or watch again. But for the
sake of me, you tolerated it,

810
01:02:07.480 --> 01:02:14.760
so like like you know, damn
well, you nothing to like anime tolerated

811
01:02:14.760 --> 01:02:16.679
it? I think correct. I
think I would like you more if you

812
01:02:17.239 --> 01:02:22.880
respect my family, like because it's
just some ship that like it's cool,

813
01:02:22.960 --> 01:02:24.000
we could do it together. But
at the end of the day, like

814
01:02:24.079 --> 01:02:28.360
some ship, you gotta understand that
that's my lone time. Yeah, I

815
01:02:28.440 --> 01:02:30.119
get that. It's cool if you
want to every once in a while.

816
01:02:30.119 --> 01:02:32.800
I don't think you play the game
with you. But at the end of

817
01:02:32.800 --> 01:02:36.400
the day, you gotta understand that
this is how I decompressed. This is

818
01:02:36.800 --> 01:02:45.920
my alone time, and personally speaking, I'm not going to necessarily insert myself

819
01:02:46.239 --> 01:02:50.000
like just on some random ship.
Like if you ask me, hey,

820
01:02:50.039 --> 01:02:52.960
you're gonna come and watch wrestling with
me tonight? Yeah, sure, I

821
01:02:52.960 --> 01:02:57.760
don't care. But if you never
presented the idea, you wouldn't just invite

822
01:02:57.760 --> 01:03:00.800
yourself. Probably not just gonna invite
myself because now say I don't give a

823
01:03:01.239 --> 01:03:08.039
so like if this isn't doing my
own thing right, right, so I'm

824
01:03:08.079 --> 01:03:12.920
gonna I'm gonna figure out something else
that I want to do in that moment

825
01:03:12.960 --> 01:03:15.719
while you're watching wrestling. Great,
because we need to have two separate lives.

826
01:03:16.079 --> 01:03:23.280
We don't need to have everything together
do everything to great. Got no

827
01:03:23.400 --> 01:03:32.239
friends, Definitely, no, you
don't, because that means it's not even

828
01:03:32.280 --> 01:03:36.960
that. If you ain't got no
friends, that means that it's you.

829
01:03:37.800 --> 01:03:43.920
No matter what you will say that
they did, it's you, right because

830
01:03:43.920 --> 01:03:50.320
while you have nobody nobody. So
there's nobody in your life that you can

831
01:03:50.440 --> 01:03:58.159
call a friend, even times of
need and the time to be out about

832
01:03:58.199 --> 01:04:00.960
saying somebody that just nobody is just
hop it up with, like, hey,

833
01:04:00.280 --> 01:04:03.400
how you doing, Hey whatever,
my nigga, have you Friday?

834
01:04:03.480 --> 01:04:06.760
It's the weekend. Let's get it
like just some random ship like that.

835
01:04:08.840 --> 01:04:14.159
Nobody, nobody, There's there's nobody
in your life that you can that you

836
01:04:14.239 --> 01:04:19.519
can Hi. I wouldn't be suspicious
if a dude told me I don't have

837
01:04:19.679 --> 01:04:24.159
no friend, I don't hang with
nobody, because why why you don't hang

838
01:04:24.199 --> 01:04:28.920
out? Why? How many of
your ex friends baby mamas have you fu

839
01:04:29.079 --> 01:04:33.000
bro right exactly? How many?
How many? How many niggas have you

840
01:04:33.079 --> 01:04:36.119
snaked? Right? You're in back
that means you the back door. You're

841
01:04:36.159 --> 01:04:40.840
in the back door about the woman
outfel by the woman? How many of

842
01:04:40.920 --> 01:04:45.599
your your friends and your cousin's man
you don't funk with? How many cousins

843
01:04:45.280 --> 01:04:53.719
you're at the hard You're the whole. You're right, Just be like I

844
01:04:53.880 --> 01:04:59.280
see people that I funk with,
say that ship on the internet. I

845
01:04:59.280 --> 01:05:01.920
ain't got no fro, you ain't
got wine no more? Right, you

846
01:05:02.039 --> 01:05:06.960
don't got no friends, stupid.
Then they call you what you're doing nothing?

847
01:05:08.039 --> 01:05:11.599
You stupid mother? You don't got
no friends? Remember why that you

848
01:05:11.679 --> 01:05:15.639
call friends I've been having for the
last fifteen twenty years. My friends haven't

849
01:05:15.639 --> 01:05:17.719
really changed. I may met some
new associates here and there, but my

850
01:05:17.960 --> 01:05:21.480
die hard friends have been my friends
since beginning. And we don't talk every

851
01:05:21.559 --> 01:05:24.280
day. But if I called him
in the middle of the night, like

852
01:05:24.719 --> 01:05:28.320
I'm going through some day, what
you're going through? Who You're not supposed

853
01:05:28.320 --> 01:05:30.960
to talk to your friends all the
time. So I will say that in

854
01:05:31.039 --> 01:05:38.239
the past couple of years, people
who I thought were friends have been falling

855
01:05:38.360 --> 01:05:42.239
off. But I'm actually okay with
that because that it's just for me.

856
01:05:42.280 --> 01:05:46.440
It's just another level of growth.
So the falling off, it's just they

857
01:05:46.840 --> 01:05:59.559
falling, falling off, dying gone. You outgrow some and I'm like,

858
01:05:59.719 --> 01:06:01.840
that's clearly okay. Hang with a
bunch of girls like to. I used

859
01:06:01.840 --> 01:06:04.440
to have a bunch of girls around
me, young girls, and I throw

860
01:06:04.559 --> 01:06:09.280
my parties and they were young,
and they was younger. They was on

861
01:06:09.360 --> 01:06:11.800
a different level. When I got
tired of it, they didn't understand.

862
01:06:11.800 --> 01:06:14.880
They wanted to keep dancing, and
I'm like, I got skills, like

863
01:06:14.920 --> 01:06:15.920
I could actually do some ship.
You know what I'm saying, Like,

864
01:06:16.239 --> 01:06:18.320
yeah, I don't want to deal
with drunk niggas every day. You know

865
01:06:18.360 --> 01:06:20.800
what I'm saying, Like the money
is good, is fun, but it's

866
01:06:20.880 --> 01:06:24.920
also a headache, right, so
yeah, what what comes with that?

867
01:06:25.639 --> 01:06:29.800
Right? So it's like they don't
they didn't understand why I went and got

868
01:06:29.840 --> 01:06:31.679
an office job and you know,
one of got a government dollar like you,

869
01:06:32.000 --> 01:06:36.000
oh you just this this, honey. Yes, I could devil in

870
01:06:36.039 --> 01:06:39.920
the streets, but I'm I'm I'm
smart, so I don't have to swing

871
01:06:40.000 --> 01:06:42.199
around poem and shake my little titties
and my little ass. You know what

872
01:06:42.199 --> 01:06:45.239
I'm saying, I don't have to
do right, I can do that,

873
01:06:45.400 --> 01:06:46.320
but I can do this too,
right, you know, like y'all need

874
01:06:46.360 --> 01:06:48.960
to do some other ship that that
y'all can, you know? But then

875
01:06:49.039 --> 01:06:53.159
they have some kids and now you're
forced to go get some jobs now because

876
01:06:53.199 --> 01:06:55.880
that ship didn't didn't last, man, And I was trying to tell them,

877
01:06:55.960 --> 01:06:58.840
like, y'all killing that ship them
titties is high now, but baby,

878
01:07:00.880 --> 01:07:03.719
but practice season's gonna be in your
left with your kids. Now forever

879
01:07:08.159 --> 01:07:17.760
ship every day a nice, good, long titty wild ride to lean up,

880
01:07:17.760 --> 01:07:28.000
and I'm trying to lean out like
for roll ups about out the bra

881
01:07:29.639 --> 01:07:32.519
The only I have problems with deflated
titties. I don't like big teas.

882
01:07:32.679 --> 01:07:38.039
That's crazy. I don't like deflated
ones. If the woman got smaller titties,

883
01:07:38.119 --> 01:07:41.239
like like nice sea cups, I'm
good for it. You got some

884
01:07:41.320 --> 01:07:44.239
big as cities. I don't like
big as cities. I got rid of

885
01:07:44.320 --> 01:07:47.320
my big as you ever seen what
it looked like when you let the air

886
01:07:47.480 --> 01:07:54.920
out of a balloon. If your
titties look like that, I'm not your

887
01:07:55.000 --> 01:07:59.280
guy. Don't I still love you? I don't If that's about it,

888
01:07:59.400 --> 01:08:03.440
I won't love on you for a
while. I feel like, I mean,

889
01:08:04.199 --> 01:08:08.519
you know what, I won't say
that because nine times ten your tites

890
01:08:08.519 --> 01:08:10.880
have deflated. That means they were
big. You probably had a lot of

891
01:08:10.960 --> 01:08:15.039
milk when the milk dried up.
It's a lot of reasons. I will

892
01:08:15.079 --> 01:08:19.119
never body shame unless you wouldn't got
work done to get bigger, and it

893
01:08:19.159 --> 01:08:23.800
don't look right, I'll body shaky. You chose. I mean, I've

894
01:08:23.880 --> 01:08:26.479
always stated a bigger guy. You
know what? I'm saying, and they

895
01:08:26.479 --> 01:08:28.239
would be like, why are you
with me? You know I'm saying.

896
01:08:28.239 --> 01:08:31.159
I'm like, damn, nigga,
get your car this up. I chose

897
01:08:31.199 --> 01:08:35.199
you for a reason, right,
carry into a skinny dude. I like

898
01:08:35.319 --> 01:08:41.159
a little sometimes it be a little, it'd be a little funny in the

899
01:08:41.239 --> 01:08:45.560
light. Make sure you hear from
me. Yeah, but you don't be

900
01:08:45.680 --> 01:08:48.359
like why are you with me?
Like you could do better than me?

901
01:08:48.680 --> 01:08:54.000
Like that's what I hear when someone
say that you can't. That is what

902
01:08:54.239 --> 01:09:00.399
it sounds when when someone has with
me that makes me feel like you don't

903
01:09:00.520 --> 01:09:02.359
value yourself and you feel like yo, make can do better than you.

904
01:09:02.640 --> 01:09:05.319
Which is why I feel like a
lot of people do some of the pettiest,

905
01:09:05.720 --> 01:09:11.520
most insecure things in their relationship because
they know they got somebody good and

906
01:09:11.600 --> 01:09:15.680
they scared that person gonna lead them
once they figure out that you really are

907
01:09:15.760 --> 01:09:20.159
the broke one. And how do
you get on? Can you like grow

908
01:09:20.239 --> 01:09:26.399
out of being nonchalant? Yes,
yes you can. You can if you

909
01:09:26.560 --> 01:09:31.239
want to. That's active work because
you cannot care about how you perceive.

910
01:09:31.399 --> 01:09:35.159
But if it's somebody you care about
and you know your nonchalant and this is

911
01:09:35.279 --> 01:09:40.039
affecting them, You're gonna put forth
a little bit of effort to do more.

912
01:09:40.319 --> 01:09:43.279
I'm a very nonchalant, out of
sight, out of mind dude,

913
01:09:43.520 --> 01:09:47.680
fact, very like I have so
many people who I'm cool with. And

914
01:09:47.840 --> 01:09:51.119
it was like, I ain't talk
to you in the week, and I

915
01:09:51.279 --> 01:09:55.039
just ain't thought about you to care
about the figure out that I ain't talk

916
01:09:55.079 --> 01:09:58.000
to you in the week, Like
I get eyes and talk about we're gonna

917
01:09:58.000 --> 01:10:00.640
fight when I see you? Know
you not? Because who is this again?

918
01:10:01.520 --> 01:10:06.399
Like I'm that kind of NOTIONALI person, what's not that nonchalant? But

919
01:10:06.520 --> 01:10:11.399
I won't say I recently. I
won't say that I recently figured it out.

920
01:10:11.479 --> 01:10:16.640
It was recently brought more to the
forefront of my mind just how nochaliant

921
01:10:16.720 --> 01:10:20.760
I really am. And like,
so I did a I did an ig

922
01:10:20.960 --> 01:10:25.079
poll because somebody telling me I was
notchal I was like, I can see

923
01:10:25.119 --> 01:10:30.720
that. I was like, I
think I'm actually very emotional that you've been

924
01:10:30.720 --> 01:10:34.920
to Milan. You nonchalant. I
was like, I actually think I'm very

925
01:10:34.920 --> 01:10:40.279
emotional. So I did an ig
pole and it was seventy thirty like yeah,

926
01:10:40.439 --> 01:10:45.119
you nochaliant, And I was like
me, nonchalant, and then once

927
01:10:45.199 --> 01:10:47.960
it was brought to my attention,
I started noticing, like my habits and

928
01:10:48.000 --> 01:10:54.079
stuff, and how how many times
I just really say to myself, I

929
01:10:54.159 --> 01:10:57.479
don't give a fuck. What does
this have to do with me? I

930
01:10:57.600 --> 01:11:01.079
don't care? Why do you care? Why is this important? This is

931
01:11:01.119 --> 01:11:06.439
not important to me. None of
this matters. And it's not that I

932
01:11:06.960 --> 01:11:11.520
don't care, because if you don't
care, if you my friend, I'll

933
01:11:11.600 --> 01:11:15.800
try to value how you feel about
certain things. But be like this ship

934
01:11:15.920 --> 01:11:18.239
that you do care about, or
like in this moment that you're caring about,

935
01:11:18.359 --> 01:11:25.000
like that's minuscule. Yes, yes, Like I got a very bad

936
01:11:25.119 --> 01:11:29.279
habit of like I don't really I
don't know how to get off the phone.

937
01:11:30.119 --> 01:11:34.359
So when you say I'm gonna call
you back, you already enter the

938
01:11:34.359 --> 01:11:38.840
conversation. You said you're gonna come
me back. So I hang up,

939
01:11:39.039 --> 01:11:43.760
right, You got to know because
if you don't, people keep talking and

940
01:11:43.880 --> 01:11:47.520
then like I'm taking my first way
out to I'm trying to get off this,

941
01:11:47.920 --> 01:11:51.560
like I don't hang up, and
then like a minute later the phone

942
01:11:51.640 --> 01:12:00.159
ring. Gall why you just hang
up? It's a thing I will,

943
01:12:00.920 --> 01:12:06.079
Yes, you said just to call
back, or just not the call back.

944
01:12:06.880 --> 01:12:10.319
You said you's gonna call me back. It was okay, click,

945
01:12:11.039 --> 01:12:15.039
like all the one sort of motion. Okay, click like that's it.

946
01:12:15.159 --> 01:12:17.319
That's all. Not like you don't
care about it. I'm like, what

947
01:12:17.479 --> 01:12:20.720
are we talking about? You said
I'm gonna call you back. I said

948
01:12:20.720 --> 01:12:24.479
okay, and I hung up Like
that that's that you want me to say?

949
01:12:25.159 --> 01:12:27.640
You want to say, what do
you know? You hang up?

950
01:12:27.680 --> 01:12:30.680
No? You hap, I'm not. I'm not that's what you're waiting for

951
01:12:33.880 --> 01:12:43.439
you. But I guess my nonchalantness
I feel like comes from, as I

952
01:12:43.520 --> 01:12:46.720
said it earlier, I usually don't
get the same energy that I put out.

953
01:12:47.239 --> 01:12:54.359
And that's not even just in relationships, that's just overall just because I'm

954
01:12:54.439 --> 01:13:00.760
a very loving, caring person in
general. No, I'm not saying I'm

955
01:13:00.800 --> 01:13:03.800
not No, no, no,
I'm not knocking you because I believe.

956
01:13:03.840 --> 01:13:10.560
I believe it's just that we've never
seen that side of you. Yes,

957
01:13:10.680 --> 01:13:14.920
I actually am like when I when
I fuck with you, I really like,

958
01:13:15.359 --> 01:13:29.119
I'm was just like, oh my
god, like, don't bullshit at

959
01:13:30.520 --> 01:13:39.439
bring to a text. No,
it's because we've never seen you with the

960
01:13:39.560 --> 01:13:45.439
mate you tend to keep your boyfriends
or potential to yourself until he's official.

961
01:13:45.760 --> 01:13:49.439
And that's why because we you know
us, we don't bring nobody around until

962
01:13:49.520 --> 01:13:54.439
we ready for y'all to know who
this is. Because let's be honest with

963
01:13:54.520 --> 01:13:57.319
all assholes, and you got to
be prepared for us. You got to

964
01:13:57.359 --> 01:14:03.479
be prepared. You got to make
sure you stay away. That's about it.

965
01:14:03.680 --> 01:14:09.680
I'm hitting this right now. That's
all you don't get, but bringing

966
01:14:09.720 --> 01:14:13.560
you and you never bring anybody around
us because we've heard you say, well,

967
01:14:13.600 --> 01:14:16.960
I'm talking to such and such,
your close close friends you know,

968
01:14:17.279 --> 01:14:20.640
may know like Tray, may know
who would be correct. We don't know

969
01:14:21.079 --> 01:14:25.239
until we find out that's not there
no more. I'm waiting on the party.

970
01:14:25.399 --> 01:14:29.439
So we don't never see you in
love, that's what. And you

971
01:14:30.279 --> 01:14:35.039
not something like you said until it's
actually something worth mentioning. You't, So

972
01:14:35.119 --> 01:14:40.479
that's why we say. Even though
you're saying, my sister, probably the

973
01:14:40.600 --> 01:14:51.039
only my cousin I was thought was
holy child, I am by definition,

974
01:14:51.239 --> 01:14:55.720
I absolutely am an only child.
However, I have a cousin who I

975
01:14:55.800 --> 01:15:00.319
grew up with. We talk every
day. It was just fun that she

976
01:15:00.399 --> 01:15:08.319
said, sister, and we like
what your dad, Like, we've only

977
01:15:08.399 --> 01:15:16.520
seen you in your mom so like, you're right, but you never talked

978
01:15:16.520 --> 01:15:21.760
about him. Hold on, but
stay there. How much does he play

979
01:15:21.760 --> 01:15:26.399
a factor in what you look for
in men, because you'll relationship ain't as

980
01:15:26.399 --> 01:15:29.600
tight as yours and your mom's correct. But does he play a factor in

981
01:15:29.680 --> 01:15:32.159
your decision when it comes to me? No, like, because he hasn't.

982
01:15:32.279 --> 01:15:38.239
He hasn't played that much of an
influence in my life to be like

983
01:15:39.640 --> 01:15:44.840
I do or don't want somebody who's
like my dad. So he wasn't like

984
01:15:44.960 --> 01:15:53.399
my dad that I try to up
feel like he's like my father was the

985
01:15:53.960 --> 01:15:59.560
man that was there in the critical
moments when she counted for real, for

986
01:15:59.680 --> 01:16:03.479
real, he was absolutely there all
the major milestones, he was there,

987
01:16:03.920 --> 01:16:08.399
but some other things that you know, I may have wanted him there for

988
01:16:09.079 --> 01:16:13.640
he was like, and I'll see
and then he just decided later on,

989
01:16:13.800 --> 01:16:16.479
I hate that. Nah, I'll
see what I can do and don't do

990
01:16:16.680 --> 01:16:21.239
that's not my bye. I'm married. Welcome to the discovery of your nonchalant

991
01:16:23.000 --> 01:16:26.039
I married my husband. Didn't realize
he was like my dad because I didn't

992
01:16:26.039 --> 01:16:28.680
know my dad at the time I
married my husband. I married my husband

993
01:16:28.760 --> 01:16:31.640
I was twenty and I met my
dad for the first time when I was

994
01:16:31.720 --> 01:16:36.199
twenty three. Oh, and that
was right around the time I realized that

995
01:16:36.319 --> 01:16:41.880
I was in a very very abusive
marriage and I wanted to get out.

996
01:16:41.960 --> 01:16:44.079
And then when I met my dad
and the things that he was saying,

997
01:16:44.119 --> 01:16:47.560
I was like, these fuck,
it's kind of like you know what I'm

998
01:16:47.560 --> 01:16:50.439
saying, Like I really went out
here and found somebody exactly like him.

999
01:16:50.439 --> 01:16:58.000
Because the way they had the mindset, the way they thought they wanted to

1000
01:16:58.039 --> 01:17:00.960
beat the boss. They wanted to
do everything that the man had. My

1001
01:17:00.720 --> 01:17:04.600
ex husband and my daddy, they
weren't all the titles and all the benefits

1002
01:17:04.640 --> 01:17:06.960
of come for being the man of
the head of the house. So they

1003
01:17:08.079 --> 01:17:13.079
just want none of the responsibility,
all the parts, right you are,

1004
01:17:16.640 --> 01:17:20.079
don't want any response? How did
that work? And it's so crazy because

1005
01:17:20.079 --> 01:17:23.399
I met when I met my dad, I went down to Texas and I

1006
01:17:23.560 --> 01:17:26.319
I met his wife and she was
from Africa, and you know, she

1007
01:17:26.399 --> 01:17:29.199
didn't know a lot of things,
and she telling me that's all the God.

1008
01:17:30.319 --> 01:17:31.359
Let me tell you this. Me
and my daddy fell out. We

1009
01:17:31.439 --> 01:17:33.399
met for the first time and we
fell out right in the same week,

1010
01:17:33.840 --> 01:17:38.399
in the same week, because his
wife is telling me how hard she has

1011
01:17:38.479 --> 01:17:40.760
it. She's like, I had
to take your sister, little sister,

1012
01:17:41.560 --> 01:17:44.479
you know, to the doctor,
and it's one hundred and eighty dollars every

1013
01:17:44.520 --> 01:17:45.640
time. I'm like, why are
you paying out of pocket? You know

1014
01:17:45.720 --> 01:17:48.680
that's free health care in this country. No, what do you mean no?

1015
01:17:49.319 --> 01:17:51.640
You say? She's like, oh, and then we have to you

1016
01:17:51.720 --> 01:17:56.039
know, we have to buy food, and you know I'm shopping at the

1017
01:17:56.079 --> 01:17:57.840
good wed Like, why are shopping
at the good one? That's a walk,

1018
01:18:00.039 --> 01:18:03.800
says I'm telling her all this something
in this country for nine years and

1019
01:18:04.039 --> 01:18:08.600
never told her all this stuff.
Had this woman paying out of pocket because

1020
01:18:08.640 --> 01:18:14.239
he didn't want to go on while
he's not working. Boy, if you

1021
01:18:14.279 --> 01:18:24.479
don't get the fuck, I'm sorry
me asking for a pair of tennis shoes

1022
01:18:24.600 --> 01:18:30.000
Compared to whoa women subject themselves to
it, I'd be like, what she

1023
01:18:30.359 --> 01:18:34.760
got her? She left my dad
and got her African But he got upset

1024
01:18:34.800 --> 01:18:36.880
because before I left, I was
like, where are your phone book at?

1025
01:18:36.960 --> 01:18:40.880
She's like, I don't even know
what agency to talk to. I

1026
01:18:40.920 --> 01:18:43.000
just need the front of your phone
book. Honey. This is how long

1027
01:18:43.039 --> 01:18:45.479
ago? It was like, and
I went through the front of her phone,

1028
01:18:45.520 --> 01:18:47.119
like I said, this is who
you call for your your food stamps,

1029
01:18:47.479 --> 01:18:50.439
and this is who you call for
your health care and you don't pay

1030
01:18:50.520 --> 01:18:53.359
for shiit else. And she's like, what do I tell him? You?

1031
01:18:53.600 --> 01:18:55.640
What did they ask me by my
husband? You give them his name.

1032
01:18:55.800 --> 01:19:00.279
You don't tell her that you give
him that nigga name. Name is

1033
01:19:00.319 --> 01:19:05.000
Harold, Yet he ain't from ship
you got. You ain't paid for ship

1034
01:19:05.039 --> 01:19:09.279
for me. You're gonna pay for
somebody listen, okay, hello? And

1035
01:19:09.600 --> 01:19:12.359
he got mad at me because I
before I left, I signed to Ruff

1036
01:19:12.359 --> 01:19:15.720
for everything, because why is she
paying one hundred and eighty dollars for wellness

1037
01:19:15.840 --> 01:19:19.840
visits but she could be getting the
ship for free. Can't trust the nigga

1038
01:19:19.880 --> 01:19:26.840
name Harold. I don't even eat
hero. He got like five sons and

1039
01:19:26.920 --> 01:19:30.520
name and all of them Harold,
Harold something. And ain't there for none

1040
01:19:30.560 --> 01:19:31.680
of them. You just wanted them
all to know your name, so you

1041
01:19:31.760 --> 01:19:38.880
gave them me. Ain't no creativity
there, George. I don't even respect

1042
01:19:38.960 --> 01:19:43.880
him for doing that ship. I
don't know he got name all five of

1043
01:19:43.960 --> 01:19:49.319
your kids, George, that's just
on the eighteenth birthday. We gotta change

1044
01:19:49.359 --> 01:19:59.399
this. George sixteen, I'm getting
emancipated the sex name name me Georgia.

1045
01:20:01.840 --> 01:20:05.000
Come on, I actually I actually
agree with you when you said welcome to

1046
01:20:05.119 --> 01:20:12.560
your nonchalantness. I actually agree with
you on that because my mother, when

1047
01:20:12.600 --> 01:20:15.000
I say I like, I think
I'm very an emotional person. But in

1048
01:20:15.079 --> 01:20:19.680
conversations with my mother, she tells
me a lot of times that I act

1049
01:20:20.199 --> 01:20:26.079
like my father. So I can
absolutely understand that and say, well,

1050
01:20:26.840 --> 01:20:31.359
actually, you're probably right because he
is very mild manner, super chill like.

1051
01:20:31.960 --> 01:20:35.239
He's never raised his voice at me. I've never seen him get out

1052
01:20:35.279 --> 01:20:41.600
of character. He sound like he
asked you, but did you die there?

1053
01:20:44.760 --> 01:20:49.119
That's that's their near. That's that's
that's their near. His attitude,

1054
01:20:49.239 --> 01:20:59.520
he's just yes, very like problems
in life. Everything comes across. Not

1055
01:20:59.560 --> 01:21:03.560
because I'm chilling his respienses. Okay, because he ain't gonna stress up.

1056
01:21:04.439 --> 01:21:09.159
He might be going crazy inside.
We'll talk, Okay, Yeah, that's

1057
01:21:09.199 --> 01:21:14.039
fine, Well we'll figure it out. Understand that a wretched luxury shirt.

1058
01:21:14.199 --> 01:21:17.640
It is heavy on the luxury.
Do he ever figure it out? And

1059
01:21:17.760 --> 01:21:23.159
he does so? Did you die. I did not, but I'm definitely

1060
01:21:23.159 --> 01:21:28.640
going to stress up for a minute. We are all right, We got

1061
01:21:28.720 --> 01:21:31.279
one more question. Then we're gonna
go home because I gotta get y'all home.

1062
01:21:32.079 --> 01:21:34.720
I gotta go home. So you
got to go home and get me

1063
01:21:34.840 --> 01:21:41.199
home. I'm not taking you home. Get you home, and I take

1064
01:21:41.279 --> 01:21:45.840
you home. Shout to Jimmy Fox, which one yo, you know what,

1065
01:21:45.880 --> 01:21:50.359
I'm actually upset. Michelle is here
right now, Kay, Michelle.

1066
01:21:51.880 --> 01:21:57.640
Yes, I think I asked Booty. It's not that big. She definitely

1067
01:21:57.680 --> 01:22:00.560
got no. I like I like
the that to look on her. I

1068
01:22:00.800 --> 01:22:05.720
like I like the regular hell and
like China. I like how they look.

1069
01:22:06.720 --> 01:22:10.720
Yeah, you take all that at
Booty off, and you just naturally

1070
01:22:10.880 --> 01:22:15.920
you sposed a proper hip to ask
Ratio right, because she had got so

1071
01:22:15.039 --> 01:22:17.479
wide at one point I thought that
she was going to flow. Yeah it

1072
01:22:17.520 --> 01:22:20.600
didn't. I'm glad she got rid
of that that. I love her for

1073
01:22:20.720 --> 01:22:28.039
that why and I wanted I wanted
my down for so long and then I'm

1074
01:22:28.079 --> 01:22:31.840
glad you got I started seeing the
fucking the booties that that didn't come out

1075
01:22:31.920 --> 01:22:33.439
right, and I'm like, look, I ain't got no money like that

1076
01:22:33.520 --> 01:22:39.199
only got one shot. She's gonna
be on Botch like I need you to

1077
01:22:39.279 --> 01:22:45.960
fix it. Speaking speaking of that
with this little Kelly Kels because her movie

1078
01:22:45.079 --> 01:22:49.039
Botched, which is actually about BBLS, is the number one movie on to

1079
01:22:49.239 --> 01:22:53.399
B I gotta go watch that.
I watched. It's funny as hell.

1080
01:22:53.439 --> 01:22:56.479
I gotta go watch that. I
love her. She is hilarious. She's

1081
01:22:56.520 --> 01:23:00.079
funny, but she's more serious in
this movie than she's funny. That's I

1082
01:23:00.279 --> 01:23:05.600
like that. Seen her do something
in a while, and it's funny because

1083
01:23:05.640 --> 01:23:12.640
she plays the role of somebody giving
bbl But if you've ever seen her,

1084
01:23:13.159 --> 01:23:19.159
it looks like she got asked.
But it's all. That's all exactly.

1085
01:23:19.439 --> 01:23:21.920
I've been a fan for a long
time, you know. I watched that

1086
01:23:23.000 --> 01:23:29.000
as love. Ladies love her for
me, I am Afred. I want

1087
01:23:30.319 --> 01:23:34.439
how do you strike a balance between
being honest about your feelings and also respecting

1088
01:23:34.479 --> 01:23:40.199
the other person's emotion. So how
are you telling people that you don't y'all

1089
01:23:40.319 --> 01:23:45.079
nonchalant but you really don't care without
hurting their feelings. That's a struggle.

1090
01:23:45.920 --> 01:23:50.319
I'm like, that's a struggle because
me telling you I don't care as soon

1091
01:23:50.359 --> 01:23:54.119
as you say I don't care.
That's going to be a trigger right there.

1092
01:23:54.479 --> 01:23:58.800
It's very hard for me because I
don't don't care for you to get

1093
01:23:58.840 --> 01:24:00.800
to my emotions that I have such
a I have the wall, abusive place,

1094
01:24:00.840 --> 01:24:03.199
the women abusive place wall for me. So when you get to my

1095
01:24:03.319 --> 01:24:06.800
emotions, I have to really really
fuck with you. But up until that

1096
01:24:06.920 --> 01:24:13.640
point, I just it don't matter, Like why what are we talking about?

1097
01:24:13.760 --> 01:24:19.079
Text? But just say it's some
someplace she wants to go, she

1098
01:24:19.239 --> 01:24:23.239
wants you to go. You really
just don't want to go. Brouh,

1099
01:24:23.840 --> 01:24:28.880
you're not a cluber for an example? What about their family to drag you

1100
01:24:28.880 --> 01:24:30.199
around the family? You don't like
their family, like I really I don't

1101
01:24:30.239 --> 01:24:33.520
want to That's that's even better.
I don't care because you know their family

1102
01:24:33.640 --> 01:24:38.720
is important to her, But you
really just don't like being around her dad

1103
01:24:38.760 --> 01:24:45.880
because her dad is full of shit? All right, So I'm a very

1104
01:24:46.000 --> 01:24:49.800
honest person, at least I try
to be. So if I'm at this

1105
01:24:49.920 --> 01:24:53.760
point where I'm telling you that I
don't want to go, that must have

1106
01:24:53.840 --> 01:24:56.800
been I've been here a few times, right, and I've told you that

1107
01:24:56.920 --> 01:25:00.119
these experiences I have, which I
found pleasant not pleasant. So on this

1108
01:25:00.319 --> 01:25:04.960
trip, I'm gonna set out MM. So whatever you're going to So when

1109
01:25:05.000 --> 01:25:08.760
they say where, why there,
or why you ain't bring your boyfriend?

1110
01:25:09.079 --> 01:25:12.800
He went to work. I could
be at home and my drawings playing mad.

1111
01:25:13.199 --> 01:25:15.560
You tell your mama I was at
work. Now, Mama cool.

1112
01:25:15.760 --> 01:25:21.199
But daddy is the one who's always
now for my daughter. Now, you

1113
01:25:21.319 --> 01:25:26.640
may be doing everything that makes her
happy, but because you don't check his

1114
01:25:26.880 --> 01:25:30.960
boxes, you always got a problem. That's a conversation. I'm not dating

1115
01:25:30.000 --> 01:25:38.760
you, right, and that's a
conversation that that's a conversations like I get

1116
01:25:38.800 --> 01:25:42.000
it to my mother so much because
you're not gonna talk to me any kind

1117
01:25:42.039 --> 01:25:45.479
of way, and you're gonna respect
me as a woman. I'm not your

1118
01:25:45.640 --> 01:25:47.239
child. This may be your son, but as a woman to a woman,

1119
01:25:47.279 --> 01:25:50.399
you watch your tone. Who are
you talking to because you're not my

1120
01:25:50.520 --> 01:25:54.279
mama. At the end of the
day, I'm gonna show you some respect

1121
01:25:54.359 --> 01:25:57.279
because you are an eld. But
at the same time, you're gonna show

1122
01:25:57.319 --> 01:26:00.840
me something too. And I go, I've been calling all my name by

1123
01:26:00.880 --> 01:26:04.920
people mothers for no reason at all. I'm sitting here being as pleasant as

1124
01:26:05.039 --> 01:26:09.359
day and trying to be respectful,
and your mother keep getting out of pocket,

1125
01:26:09.520 --> 01:26:12.840
and I'm gonna eat it. Maybe
the first time, maybe the second

1126
01:26:12.920 --> 01:26:16.520
time. Again. It's gonna be
whatever the fuck is gonna be at this

1127
01:26:16.640 --> 01:26:26.119
point because your mama is disrespecting mamma. Sometimes my mama washed you relationship.

1128
01:26:30.039 --> 01:26:33.720
If I got a swing on your
mama, that means you're not stepping up

1129
01:26:33.760 --> 01:26:36.279
putting your mama in the place.
Correct. If I got to swing on

1130
01:26:36.359 --> 01:26:39.800
your mama, you're not doing what
you do. You should be handling your

1131
01:26:39.840 --> 01:26:42.880
You should because I gonna let my
family disrespect you, you should be.

1132
01:26:43.960 --> 01:26:45.760
So if I got to put my
hands on your mama, I'm prepared to

1133
01:26:45.800 --> 01:26:48.960
fight you too. And then it
is what it is. What if Mama

1134
01:26:49.159 --> 01:26:53.920
jump? But what if Mama jump
bad first? Then mama get a ass.

1135
01:26:57.760 --> 01:27:00.560
That's a conversation I gotta have with
my mama. Why you out of

1136
01:27:00.920 --> 01:27:08.800
you got why? Correct? I
mean that you she caught the girl still

1137
01:27:08.840 --> 01:27:15.079
in silverware? Gottama, the fuck's
silver? Where you want some more advice?

1138
01:27:15.319 --> 01:27:18.479
More? I mean, granted,
that ain't type of bitch we need

1139
01:27:18.520 --> 01:27:24.159
to have around us. You still, but now what I think that I

1140
01:27:24.199 --> 01:27:29.640
would have to do with dating is
I would have to give my girlfriend to

1141
01:27:29.880 --> 01:27:39.279
be okay with like not taking everything
personal, because I like, I'll fair

1142
01:27:39.399 --> 01:27:43.600
warn you for you walk in this
like I'm my mama's son. So this

1143
01:27:43.840 --> 01:27:46.680
notionalized ship that you get with me, that's where I got her from.

1144
01:27:47.279 --> 01:27:53.479
She is okay, that's cool whatever. I ain't tripping type type of person,

1145
01:27:54.520 --> 01:27:57.800
So like, don't take it as
my mama, don't like you,

1146
01:27:57.880 --> 01:28:00.560
Mama, don't like nobody. That's
what has her my mam, but they

1147
01:28:00.560 --> 01:28:06.439
don't like he like everyone. I
just like getting women to be like I

1148
01:28:06.479 --> 01:28:12.239
ain't saying comfortable, but just like
just not to take everything so personal.

1149
01:28:12.920 --> 01:28:15.960
Like it's one of those things.
It's like it's like when she opened up,

1150
01:28:16.119 --> 01:28:18.840
she gonna open up to you,
but she wanted to know that you

1151
01:28:19.039 --> 01:28:24.000
for real, Like I can't.
You can't bet the mama to a certain

1152
01:28:24.039 --> 01:28:28.000
extick for some mamas. Some mamas
don't understand their sons, ain't they man.

1153
01:28:28.800 --> 01:28:30.560
That's also what I'm saying. So
then you got to deal with that

1154
01:28:30.760 --> 01:28:34.479
mother who put they son in the
role of they man for so long and

1155
01:28:34.600 --> 01:28:41.800
she actually gets a girlfriend now it's
like to take my place. Yeah,

1156
01:28:41.800 --> 01:28:44.039
I got to deal with your mama
feeling like I'm taking her place, and

1157
01:28:44.079 --> 01:28:45.840
I got to deal with your baby
mama's who place I actually did take.

1158
01:28:46.119 --> 01:28:48.600
You know, it's a lot of
ship that you ain't take that place because

1159
01:28:48.640 --> 01:28:53.640
that was never wiking in the first
place. So my mama like, you

1160
01:28:53.800 --> 01:28:57.359
like this nigga, you can have
them. Get this nigga the fuck out

1161
01:28:58.039 --> 01:29:00.920
you get me. I can roll
with the punch of telling people like I

1162
01:29:00.000 --> 01:29:02.920
come from a ship talking family.
So if if your mama just wanted them

1163
01:29:02.920 --> 01:29:06.239
ship talking, mama just just got
something, I probably don't already heard it

1164
01:29:06.279 --> 01:29:10.079
before. It's funny and she come
off like my mama. But if your

1165
01:29:10.119 --> 01:29:12.680
mama is the one that's jabbing,
if your mama is a Mama D,

1166
01:29:13.000 --> 01:29:15.880
we probably ain't gonna make it.
Make it. Your mama is a Mama

1167
01:29:15.920 --> 01:29:18.600
D. That's in the mass,
that's that's stirring up, that bringing in

1168
01:29:18.680 --> 01:29:27.520
the other girl for the best girlfriends. I ain't got the energy washed all

1169
01:29:27.560 --> 01:29:30.640
the girls that I thought Bamby was
gonna get to her, but they grabbed.

1170
01:29:31.640 --> 01:29:36.279
I want I wanted so bad,
get a get a just jacking up

1171
01:29:36.359 --> 01:29:40.560
for something. Lord, just overhead
swap. I'm okay. With that.

1172
01:29:42.520 --> 01:29:46.600
I've never talked to that. My
mom like, yeah, that's cool,

1173
01:29:46.720 --> 01:29:51.279
minimum minimum interaction. Yeah. I
don't bring a lot of people people,

1174
01:29:51.319 --> 01:29:54.800
Mamma, I'm like actually dealing with
you, like you could pick me up.

1175
01:29:54.840 --> 01:29:58.159
I'll come see you. Whatever.
I dated people for from the time

1176
01:29:58.279 --> 01:30:01.479
my kids was in like middle go
to high school, nobody outdated came past

1177
01:30:01.560 --> 01:30:04.000
my threshold. You didn't come in
my house and sit on my couch.

1178
01:30:04.079 --> 01:30:08.079
You didn't spend a night, You
don't do nothing. If I wasn't serious

1179
01:30:08.079 --> 01:30:10.880
about you. And even the one
dude that I was serious about we was

1180
01:30:10.920 --> 01:30:12.960
together for four years, he never
spent out on my house. I always

1181
01:30:12.960 --> 01:30:15.680
went to his house. I ain't
like to have all those trailer people and

1182
01:30:15.159 --> 01:30:18.000
in the Oregon Trail through my house, around my daughters and my sons seeing

1183
01:30:18.039 --> 01:30:20.720
that shit. You know what I'm
saying. That was what I did at

1184
01:30:20.760 --> 01:30:24.800
home. Outside was outside when I
was home. I was home. I

1185
01:30:24.880 --> 01:30:27.319
would like to Dan to check that
down. Got kids. I just don't

1186
01:30:27.359 --> 01:30:30.279
think that's a reality. I gotta
check that got a kid right now.

1187
01:30:30.359 --> 01:30:34.279
It's it's nice, that's not a
reality. He ain't got No. I'm

1188
01:30:34.319 --> 01:30:39.800
not saying her as an example but
he ain't got no kids, and y'all

1189
01:30:39.840 --> 01:30:43.159
about the same age. So they
out there one, they out there.

1190
01:30:43.640 --> 01:30:48.319
But I understand. I understand what
he's saying because now you that's hard because

1191
01:30:48.760 --> 01:30:56.239
the correct now. So I feel
like it anybody fucked them, hold on

1192
01:30:56.560 --> 01:31:01.279
all the same boat, bro,
not really so yes, and now from

1193
01:31:01.600 --> 01:31:09.159
from my perspective, they might let
anybody fuck them, but one I don't

1194
01:31:09.199 --> 01:31:13.000
think. I don't think because I'm
not that person, but I don't think

1195
01:31:13.600 --> 01:31:17.279
that they're letting anybody fuck them wrong. Right, Look, bro, if

1196
01:31:17.319 --> 01:31:20.760
you got three kids and all three
of your baby daddies ain't ship, you

1197
01:31:20.840 --> 01:31:29.279
weren't letting anybody. And I'm stunning
on that. Kids, that's the business.

1198
01:31:29.319 --> 01:31:31.399
I'm a stunn on this one.
That's because his daddy went to prison,

1199
01:31:31.439 --> 01:31:33.359
and his daddy would have been went
to prison. I feel like all

1200
01:31:33.399 --> 01:31:36.479
my kids would have been with the
same person. My last my first one

1201
01:31:36.520 --> 01:31:39.720
had his own daddy. He went
to prison. But then my last three

1202
01:31:39.800 --> 01:31:43.479
is with my husband. So I
feel like, if it wasn't for him

1203
01:31:43.560 --> 01:31:45.760
going to prison, all my kids
have the same daddy. A lot of

1204
01:31:45.840 --> 01:31:51.000
misconceptions friends not friendly. I can't
just sleep with anybody but I have to

1205
01:31:51.039 --> 01:31:54.840
have a connection. I have to
like you to actually want you. Actually

1206
01:31:54.840 --> 01:31:58.159
got to have a value, And
I actually feel like I feel like that's

1207
01:31:58.239 --> 01:32:04.399
why I do fuck with I just
recycle because I don't like a whole lot

1208
01:32:04.439 --> 01:32:06.800
of people to the point that I
actually feel like I want to sleep with

1209
01:32:06.880 --> 01:32:12.279
you. I don't even touch I
want you touch me. Physical touches my

1210
01:32:12.399 --> 01:32:15.319
love language. But I actually don't
like very many people touching me if I

1211
01:32:15.359 --> 01:32:20.239
don't like you while you're touching me, Like, what does recycling cause problems?

1212
01:32:20.600 --> 01:32:24.840
Like? Can you even find someone
else out there? When you know

1213
01:32:24.920 --> 01:32:27.960
that the minute you see a red
flag it might be a small one,

1214
01:32:28.680 --> 01:32:30.279
but a red flag you like not
I want to deal with that. I

1215
01:32:30.359 --> 01:32:33.800
can always go back over here or
I know again it's comfortable for me.

1216
01:32:34.119 --> 01:32:39.760
For me, Yes and no,
I would say no just for the simple

1217
01:32:39.840 --> 01:32:44.560
fact that, like, like as
we stated earlier, I try to get

1218
01:32:44.600 --> 01:32:46.880
people the benefit it out. So
I see the red flags and I'm like,

1219
01:32:47.359 --> 01:32:51.600
I like red. I'm red It's
a flag? How hard how hardful

1220
01:32:51.680 --> 01:32:55.680
could it be? Let's let's just
go past that. It's all right,

1221
01:32:56.079 --> 01:33:00.439
we'll figure it out. And then
three or four or five red bags down

1222
01:33:00.439 --> 01:33:02.079
the line. I'm like, I've
seen that first one. I just ignored

1223
01:33:02.119 --> 01:33:06.439
the ship. Yeah, and I
ignored that. My thing is I would

1224
01:33:06.560 --> 01:33:11.119
ignore the red flags if the sex
is good. And I'm like, well,

1225
01:33:11.319 --> 01:33:13.199
you know he eat my booty a
little, you know, you know,

1226
01:33:13.319 --> 01:33:15.119
to hear it is good. So
yes, he is a liar.

1227
01:33:15.279 --> 01:33:24.199
But eating as a reason why nigga
can stay around for another month. But

1228
01:33:24.319 --> 01:33:29.359
it's the truth. There's there's there's
a munket to the reasons why niggas stay

1229
01:33:29.399 --> 01:33:32.319
around. You find a reason to
keep this. Either he's paying for something,

1230
01:33:32.800 --> 01:33:36.560
right, he's he's licking something,
or he's sticking something. It's something

1231
01:33:36.600 --> 01:33:41.399
about him. He got one good
quality. So it's transactional. Yeah,

1232
01:33:41.760 --> 01:33:49.359
yeah, four transactional relationship correct situation. Ship that chick tells me in the

1233
01:33:49.479 --> 01:33:55.640
process of courting or getting to know
her that she liked to recycle Boom red

1234
01:33:55.680 --> 01:34:01.520
flag understanding to be because I don't
you said what I said, that's crazy?

1235
01:34:01.880 --> 01:34:04.760
Is that crazy? You gotta have
that one person you can you could

1236
01:34:04.760 --> 01:34:08.800
go back to that and that's cool. You can have that one person.

1237
01:34:08.920 --> 01:34:13.199
But I'm not dealing with bitches with
pre existing connections at least at least I'm

1238
01:34:13.239 --> 01:34:17.439
trying. My heart is not to
I say about if I had ten axes,

1239
01:34:17.520 --> 01:34:20.399
I'm friends with seven of them,
I can still call and we can

1240
01:34:20.439 --> 01:34:25.800
still we still have fun. Then
we can have sex. I don't have

1241
01:34:25.880 --> 01:34:28.279
to end every relationship with an enemy. You know what I'm saying. Some

1242
01:34:28.399 --> 01:34:34.720
ship just that you can't move forward
none. I tell this to I tell

1243
01:34:34.920 --> 01:34:41.720
this to my cousin all the time. You want to know why you're not

1244
01:34:41.960 --> 01:34:46.199
gonna have no prosperous relationships because you're
stuck in one even and it's not a

1245
01:34:46.279 --> 01:34:53.199
real one. Ain't no, no
nigga got a shot because you're always gonna

1246
01:34:53.239 --> 01:34:57.560
have this point of reference that you
can always go to. I'm not gonna

1247
01:34:57.600 --> 01:35:01.840
fight for my life in a fight. I know I can't win, That's

1248
01:35:01.880 --> 01:35:04.479
what I'm saying. So like when
mother's like, nah, I'll be spending

1249
01:35:04.560 --> 01:35:08.720
blocks, Okay, keep spending.
I'm not with you like that. But

1250
01:35:08.800 --> 01:35:11.119
if I don't feel like beginning in
a relationship, I don't feel like date

1251
01:35:11.239 --> 01:35:13.520
nobody. If I know that you
clean and I can fuck with you,

1252
01:35:14.079 --> 01:35:15.760
and I'll just call you back.
Like why I go try to meet somebody

1253
01:35:15.840 --> 01:35:18.960
new just because I just need to
give my rock off today. I know

1254
01:35:19.119 --> 01:35:24.399
this, this is safe. That's
fine for you. I'm speaking as a

1255
01:35:24.479 --> 01:35:30.720
nigga who's this is what I run
into motherfuckers who are like this is safe.

1256
01:35:31.039 --> 01:35:33.520
I think i'd be cool and it's
like, okay, I see what

1257
01:35:33.640 --> 01:35:41.479
you want, Like I gotta go
back to I feel like I feel like

1258
01:35:41.520 --> 01:35:45.079
I only spend the block if whatever
I was doing and whoever I was fucking

1259
01:35:45.119 --> 01:35:49.840
with didn't work out. But in
the meantime, while I'm actively trying to

1260
01:35:49.960 --> 01:35:55.319
get to know someone, and I'm
we're actively, you know, trying today,

1261
01:35:55.399 --> 01:35:58.520
we're talking on a regular basis,
then I'm not even thinking about them

1262
01:35:58.600 --> 01:36:02.000
niggas like that, like I can. I probably couldn't have blocked if I

1263
01:36:02.119 --> 01:36:04.680
wanted to, But I'm not.
I'm not thinking about that. It's not

1264
01:36:04.800 --> 01:36:09.239
I to me, it's not a
point of reference. In my opinion,

1265
01:36:09.239 --> 01:36:12.159
it's not a point because I'm focused
on you. My attention is on you.

1266
01:36:12.399 --> 01:36:16.479
It's just safe sex. I mean, everybody's but I thought exists.

1267
01:36:17.439 --> 01:36:23.119
I mean, there are point there
are people who are like fam like y'all

1268
01:36:23.279 --> 01:36:28.239
cool like this, even though me
and this nigga can't be what I wanted

1269
01:36:28.359 --> 01:36:32.840
to be always gonna find it cool
over here versus trying some new ship that

1270
01:36:33.039 --> 01:36:35.640
may work, may not work.
I know that this is the safe space.

1271
01:36:35.720 --> 01:36:40.720
This is guaranteed though, no matter
whatever the situation is, I need

1272
01:36:40.840 --> 01:36:43.680
something I can I can call on
that. But like if I'm I'm looking

1273
01:36:43.720 --> 01:36:45.439
for a relationship, if I'm like
she said, if you have my attention,

1274
01:36:45.560 --> 01:36:50.000
you have my attention, I'm not
really gonna feed nobody else my time.

1275
01:36:50.159 --> 01:36:53.359
Like if I'm checking for you,
I may be dating a few different

1276
01:36:53.359 --> 01:36:55.640
people. He may be the nigga
I go to the movies with. He

1277
01:36:55.720 --> 01:36:59.359
may be the nigga that feed me
throughout the weekend. Don't don't ever tell

1278
01:36:59.399 --> 01:37:02.880
me just feed you. I will
never feed you again. All my niggas

1279
01:37:02.880 --> 01:37:04.960
that feed me live out of town, so they can't do anything but feed

1280
01:37:05.000 --> 01:37:08.359
me, so they feel good about
feeding me. Hey baby, did you

1281
01:37:08.439 --> 01:37:12.000
eat yet today? Did you what's
for lunch? Hey? You in Mississippi.

1282
01:37:12.039 --> 01:37:14.199
You can't see me, but yes, you can send me lunch.

1283
01:37:14.319 --> 01:37:16.159
You can't send up my daughter that
you can't send that cash. That's when

1284
01:37:16.159 --> 01:37:23.479
the kick in. I'm hungry,
whine me too, but I'm very hit

1285
01:37:23.520 --> 01:37:30.800
A woman up somebody I need thirty
for lunch because he's gonna be upset that

1286
01:37:30.880 --> 01:37:33.680
I made the post anyway, So
I'm not really looking for any dude on

1287
01:37:33.760 --> 01:37:36.800
Facebook. The mind be lunch.
I'm just telling my nigga looking nigga,

1288
01:37:36.840 --> 01:37:40.279
I gotta make this post because you
ain't. You ain't ask me what I

1289
01:37:40.359 --> 01:37:43.640
want for lunch yet today. So
we see that white while you're on Facebook.

1290
01:37:43.960 --> 01:37:45.279
Shoot, you finished send me lunch
then, because I'm hungry. I'm

1291
01:37:45.279 --> 01:37:49.560
on face because I'm hungry. It
just be late, you at home left

1292
01:37:49.640 --> 01:37:56.079
over. I just want this nigga
to see that you you late. He

1293
01:37:56.199 --> 01:37:59.359
must have been had my meal here, right, I don't funk around like

1294
01:37:59.479 --> 01:38:02.199
that. You want please talk to
me directly? Yeah, I do that

1295
01:38:02.279 --> 01:38:05.079
too, but sometimes I play games. I got a lot of different personality.

1296
01:38:05.319 --> 01:38:10.319
You can why that key can get
the hell up out of here now,

1297
01:38:10.680 --> 01:38:12.640
I mean, and that's why I
don't check, because you may't go

1298
01:38:12.720 --> 01:38:15.800
with me, but this key may
go with him to figure out which you're

1299
01:38:15.840 --> 01:38:23.920
talking to. That's a slayer,
right, not how our PG works.

1300
01:38:24.039 --> 01:38:29.680
Your thoughts are unattractive, but then
y'all to you know people, people thoughts

1301
01:38:29.720 --> 01:38:40.600
are unattractive and when you see someone
again. That's how the pussy all the

1302
01:38:40.720 --> 01:38:45.279
time. Because I'm I might think
you are attractive from a distance, I

1303
01:38:45.439 --> 01:38:50.760
might see how you move with other
people. And I've never heard you speak

1304
01:38:50.800 --> 01:38:57.479
before. I've never heard you speak
of on anything of relevance. Before we

1305
01:38:57.560 --> 01:39:00.680
didn't talk. We may have had
a couple of conversations and bullshit conversations,

1306
01:39:00.760 --> 01:39:04.720
all right, whatever, But once
I hear your point of view on something

1307
01:39:04.800 --> 01:39:11.800
irrelevant, and I see like,
like, that's how you think, that's

1308
01:39:11.880 --> 01:39:18.119
what you think, no versus way
like what like what you want from this?

1309
01:39:18.720 --> 01:39:28.600
No, it's just you get to
talk about Most men articulate, clearly,

1310
01:39:28.720 --> 01:39:30.880
articulate what he's trying to say,
if he's stumbled across, just trying

1311
01:39:30.920 --> 01:39:33.680
to get just trying to say what
he's what he needs to say. If

1312
01:39:33.920 --> 01:39:38.239
if you just come across like you
sound like you're slow, that's gonna turn

1313
01:39:38.319 --> 01:39:42.560
me off. Like you sound like
I need you to be able to hold

1314
01:39:42.640 --> 01:39:45.680
your conversation in any any room,
y'all. So I need you to be.

1315
01:39:45.960 --> 01:39:48.359
I need someone to be. I
don't won't say that I'm sucking the

1316
01:39:48.399 --> 01:39:50.920
smartest person in the room. There's
always something else for me to learn.

1317
01:39:51.600 --> 01:39:58.039
But I feel like I can hold
my own in almost any room that I'm

1318
01:39:58.159 --> 01:40:03.279
in, So I would need my
partner, whoever that I'm dealing with,

1319
01:40:03.920 --> 01:40:06.479
to be the same. I need
you to be able to hold your own

1320
01:40:08.199 --> 01:40:12.920
in any room that you're in any
conversation that comes up. If you can't

1321
01:40:13.000 --> 01:40:18.239
do that, if you you know, people don't know, you don't know

1322
01:40:18.319 --> 01:40:21.039
what you don't know. So I
get that, but it's like, so

1323
01:40:21.159 --> 01:40:25.000
you want to speak on something that
you don't know. You clearly have no

1324
01:40:25.359 --> 01:40:27.800
dog in this fight. But just
because you want to be included in the

1325
01:40:27.840 --> 01:40:32.079
conversation, now you do open your
mouth and you sound stupid. Don't don't

1326
01:40:32.119 --> 01:40:38.119
embarrass yourself from the upper crust.
The greatest answer to ship that I don't

1327
01:40:38.199 --> 01:40:45.680
know is no combat. How simple
that one a hood dude I was dating

1328
01:40:45.720 --> 01:40:47.439
on time, And this is my
mistake because I just should have just left

1329
01:40:47.479 --> 01:40:54.600
him where he was at from the
bar. He's just from the neighborhood,

1330
01:40:54.640 --> 01:40:56.600
you know what I'm saying. Like
he wasn't even a street dude. You

1331
01:40:56.840 --> 01:41:00.399
just from the neighborhood. He's a
nigga who my mo only him go from

1332
01:41:00.439 --> 01:41:03.800
corner to corner, apparently because I
took him to a military function. The

1333
01:41:03.920 --> 01:41:06.520
mistake number one, because not everybody's
built for that, right. I'm like,

1334
01:41:06.640 --> 01:41:10.840
oh, yeah, I was at
the military and something in I wasn't

1335
01:41:10.840 --> 01:41:15.119
doing it for. I took him
to a military function and he wanted to

1336
01:41:15.439 --> 01:41:19.600
he wanted to talk guns or something, whatever you wanted he wanted to talk

1337
01:41:19.600 --> 01:41:24.079
about. He just wasn't he wasn't
well versed and whatever he wanted to talk.

1338
01:41:25.640 --> 01:41:30.239
Heard him saying rap songs. Excuse
me exactly whatever he was saying it

1339
01:41:30.399 --> 01:41:38.800
was not and he just came across
so stupid, and I just looked.

1340
01:41:38.840 --> 01:41:41.920
I just was so embarrassed. They
looked at me like this is who you

1341
01:41:42.039 --> 01:41:47.680
brought guy with. I'm like,
God, about to get they about to

1342
01:41:47.760 --> 01:41:55.960
demote you, about to lose a
strike, I'm about to be in the

1343
01:41:56.039 --> 01:41:59.159
bridge. You know what I'm saying. And the way that he was talking

1344
01:41:59.199 --> 01:42:05.680
stuff was you know what I'm saying, nigga, niggas like nigga. Like

1345
01:42:05.920 --> 01:42:09.319
I was so embarrassed. I was
like, never again, never again.

1346
01:42:09.399 --> 01:42:12.399
But I ever I would go stag. I was. I would just never

1347
01:42:12.439 --> 01:42:15.039
put myself that. That was the
most embarrassing things I've ever seen. And

1348
01:42:15.119 --> 01:42:17.439
like and he and he just wanted
to talk all night like he never it

1349
01:42:17.600 --> 01:42:20.720
never dawn on him. But he
don't care talking about He's just talking to

1350
01:42:20.800 --> 01:42:25.640
everybody about left early all my life. I just got out of there,

1351
01:42:28.560 --> 01:42:31.399
out of there injecting himself a conversations. You know, you you walking up

1352
01:42:31.439 --> 01:42:34.840
to lieutenants and you just walking up
to my I can't walk up to this

1353
01:42:34.960 --> 01:42:40.720
nigga to have a conversation with this
nigga. Step step confidence of no,

1354
01:42:40.880 --> 01:42:46.520
no, no, no, it's
right, nigga can't. You can't just

1355
01:42:46.600 --> 01:42:53.319
talk to a nigga with barns bro. That's that's why we let you know.

1356
01:42:54.239 --> 01:42:59.800
That's why we corrected you down.
This was like I was new to

1357
01:42:59.920 --> 01:43:02.800
like the company, so they had
me out there like I was doing like

1358
01:43:02.920 --> 01:43:08.399
the demo ship, you know,
just a little minor ship, like I

1359
01:43:08.560 --> 01:43:11.640
funk around with everybody at work.
Hey man, somebody gonna get me a

1360
01:43:11.720 --> 01:43:15.039
chair. He looked at me like, I don't know who the fuck dog

1361
01:43:15.319 --> 01:43:18.239
is. Like an hour later,
somebody was like, yeah, that's one

1362
01:43:18.279 --> 01:43:24.680
of like the corporate niggas at the
Giant. Oh. Like I felt bad,

1363
01:43:24.720 --> 01:43:27.000
and I was like, that's a
corporate nigga to get you a chair,

1364
01:43:27.079 --> 01:43:29.359
nigga for a chair, Like,
the most you can say is you

1365
01:43:29.399 --> 01:43:33.680
don't get a chair. I ain't
say nothing. And then when I found

1366
01:43:33.680 --> 01:43:39.119
out was one of the bigger cool
with my uncle man everybody uncle the boss

1367
01:43:39.720 --> 01:43:45.239
talking about I want these people in
the military. Bro. If they if

1368
01:43:45.279 --> 01:43:48.760
they symbols shiny, you can't talk
to it. Don't let him ship shiny

1369
01:43:49.119 --> 01:43:53.039
best way to describe it, if
they ship shiny. When he talked to

1370
01:43:53.119 --> 01:43:59.319
bosses, basically that it is,
it's even so bad that bosses have their

1371
01:43:59.399 --> 01:44:03.279
own club, they hang out,
we go other places. Yes, you

1372
01:44:03.319 --> 01:44:05.640
don't want you don't really want to
get drunk in front of your boss anyway,

1373
01:44:05.640 --> 01:44:09.640
You don't, even though they get
way fucked up worse and you ever

1374
01:44:09.760 --> 01:44:12.479
will. But they can get their
ass out of trouble. See, we

1375
01:44:12.520 --> 01:44:15.079
wouldn't even if we wouldn't even thinking
alone. When I found out that there

1376
01:44:15.119 --> 01:44:19.640
are niggas in this room that I
can't have casual conversation with, we go

1377
01:44:19.840 --> 01:44:27.880
home. You everybody first face spent
the room. Mistake number one she made.

1378
01:44:28.279 --> 01:44:32.840
I wouldn't bring a regular civilian around
real niggas anyway. I have treated

1379
01:44:32.920 --> 01:44:38.119
that ship like a podcast party he
said, Hi to your people, do

1380
01:44:38.239 --> 01:44:40.520
a circle, we get to fight
out. And he was gonna act like

1381
01:44:40.600 --> 01:44:43.159
that because, like I said,
he want street. He just from the

1382
01:44:43.279 --> 01:44:46.399
from the neighborhood would be able to
have a conversation. You know what.

1383
01:44:46.439 --> 01:44:49.920
I'm ship that nigga went in their
thought and he became streets. He's not

1384
01:44:50.000 --> 01:44:59.479
talking about niggash, never talking about
about coming from light embarrassment niggas you for

1385
01:44:59.560 --> 01:45:01.239
a month I was. I was. That's another good thing about work.

1386
01:45:01.600 --> 01:45:03.520
They didn't They didn't rid me too
much because you know, I had the

1387
01:45:03.640 --> 01:45:06.199
women and I had I had to
dirt. I had the secrets. You

1388
01:45:06.279 --> 01:45:12.479
know, they are married. They
you're talking too much. You're talking too

1389
01:45:12.600 --> 01:45:16.399
much. To the end of this
episode at me, thank you for tuning

1390
01:45:16.439 --> 01:45:24.359
into this episode. What is Love? I like to thank Denise and Bella

1391
01:45:24.439 --> 01:45:30.880
me okause he out here. Hey, they're not they don't know Sergeant Jones

1392
01:45:30.960 --> 01:45:35.239
just being funny that they're not like
Sergeant Jones. Chris ain't the sergeant yet.

1393
01:45:36.159 --> 01:45:42.439
I said, Oh, they said, Joe, that's why wild How

1394
01:45:42.479 --> 01:45:46.239
did we get there? How did
we get there? But make sure you

1395
01:45:46.359 --> 01:45:49.439
check us out on all streaming platforms
that Spreaker, Spotify, iHeart Radio,

1396
01:45:50.720 --> 01:45:56.520
or wherever your podcast. Make sure
you check out the next episode. Uh,

1397
01:45:57.359 --> 01:46:00.840
we're gonna be here next time to
be the turning Actually, yeah,

1398
01:46:00.920 --> 01:46:04.000
this moment, I'm a TBA because
I know the topic. I know who's

1399
01:46:04.039 --> 01:46:08.239
gonna be here. I got a
massive topic with him. And it's not

1400
01:46:08.359 --> 01:46:14.159
their faults me because some people just
don't fit certain topics, so you just

1401
01:46:14.159 --> 01:46:16.560
don't want to put them. I
don't want to give you that you bitter,

1402
01:46:16.840 --> 01:46:19.960
just not your topic. You know, people need to learn how to

1403
01:46:20.000 --> 01:46:24.239
be more interesting. That's another thing. Now everybody is interested, and I'm

1404
01:46:24.279 --> 01:46:28.399
so uninterested in dating at this point
of all this is crazy. I actually

1405
01:46:28.439 --> 01:46:30.359
got a nice little going on right
now. I'm having a little bit of

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fun. A definitely, I'm exclusively
dating to people at the same time,

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and we all know about it.
No, I'm just say es I was

1408
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on your side. I had to
be. I had to say it for

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the right wingers. I have to. I have to. I like men

1410
01:46:55.760 --> 01:46:58.760
and I like women, and I
don't like having to choose Donald Trump.

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01:46:59.399 --> 01:47:03.399
You shouldn't have voters. As long
as everybody's clean, that's all that everybody's

1412
01:47:03.439 --> 01:47:10.399
clean everybody's for it. You know
what I'm saying. Three incomes is better

1413
01:47:10.520 --> 01:47:14.079
than one. You know, it's
big. It's bigger than just bigger than

1414
01:47:14.159 --> 01:47:17.560
wrap, it's bigger than just wrap. But it's nice. With that being

1415
01:47:17.680 --> 01:47:25.600
said, make sure you check us
out on Thursdays when episodes dropped. Kickboxing

1416
01:47:25.600 --> 01:47:29.960
will be back one day at some
point there one day well, because we're

1417
01:47:29.960 --> 01:47:34.359
doing this for almost damn here two
months, So Kickboxing will when it's really

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01:47:34.399 --> 01:47:38.760
time to bring them shoes out.
I don't want too much because it's still

1419
01:47:38.800 --> 01:47:42.560
cold outside. You know, it
can snow at any moment. And I'm

1420
01:47:42.600 --> 01:47:46.720
currently working on the Fear of Flying
series where I come from, so that

1421
01:47:46.760 --> 01:47:49.199
would be out soon as well too, so we'll be able to look out

1422
01:47:49.239 --> 01:47:55.279
for that. Uh. Denise may
or may not be on another podcast,

1423
01:47:55.960 --> 01:48:01.199
Bellame coming. This is hanging with
one awesome Uh telling me ain't leaving the

1424
01:48:01.279 --> 01:48:05.279
house anytime soon. I will be
leaving the house. I've actually got a

1425
01:48:05.479 --> 01:48:10.079
show in production called Try Love that's
gonna be going around with my following my

1426
01:48:10.520 --> 01:48:14.159
relationship on my own network. That's
gonna be popping out. So and so,

1427
01:48:14.399 --> 01:48:17.119
just we want the exclusive interviews,
we will give you the exclusive interviews.

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01:48:17.159 --> 01:48:21.199
Absolutely, I want all I want
all parties involved is you is one

1429
01:48:21.279 --> 01:48:28.079
do two girls? Just three women? Me my lady named Tia and be

1430
01:48:28.359 --> 01:48:30.920
with the guy named Rock and this
the three of us. Why niggas can't

1431
01:48:31.039 --> 01:48:41.720
just have regular I don't want to
use this regular his name is similar to

1432
01:48:41.840 --> 01:48:50.199
that. But that's what because people, people got lives and people got kids.

1433
01:48:50.239 --> 01:48:54.840
So that's what you know what I'm
saying. But we're really gonna get

1434
01:48:54.880 --> 01:48:58.119
in depth. We're gonna talk about
why we all want to be in it,

1435
01:48:58.439 --> 01:49:00.600
was our what's our vision for we're
you're going with it? And what

1436
01:49:00.760 --> 01:49:04.720
we expect to come from all right, Well, that means said people,

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01:49:05.279 --> 01:49:08.039
we are out of here now