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We're back. We made it back. I didn't know. I thought you

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were testing out buttons at first.
I didn't know we were jumping right and

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up pretty big. Gay, I
have to I was sorry. I was

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pulling up the folder. Oh okay, I was pulling up are I have

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a email folder now called I'm still
funding these emails come in, so I

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have some saved. But I told
Jenny I already had something embarrassing happened.

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Yeah, what happened? You're like, I've been here for two minutes,

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okay, because most elevators have mirrors. Yeah, so I went into the

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elevator and I have these pants on
that look weird today. And my butt

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is like a little bit weird shaped
in my opinion anyway, It's not just

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like a perfect sea. It's kind
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dan's in a little bit and it
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It's almost like I always say it's
from sitting on it for so long,

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but I know it's like just genetics. Yeah, because I think I have

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the same butt as my mom,
which I'm not a fan of. But

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these pants really accentuated the top outward
part. Okay, So I was lying

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in the mirror and I started clinching
my cheeks. The guy walks up and

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I stopped, like, I released
them very quickly, But I'm ninety nine

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percent positive he had to have witnessed
at least one clench. Okay, there's

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mirrors on three sides, right,
or is it just the one it's just

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the back? No, So were
you facing outward like you were looking towards

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the door, looking over my shoulder
a little bit back at it? Okay,

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okay, because I was like,
how were you doing that? I

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was thinking about like a dressing room
where you have your different angles, because

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there's at least two different mirrors.
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up looking at your ass, Yeah, clenching it. And I've done like

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I use that mirror a lot,
Like I'll walk in and I'll turn the

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side to see like if like the
my stomach has a pooch and something I'm

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wearing, or if like too much
boobage is showing, or different things like

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that. But I don't often clench
my cheeks, but sometimes I will do

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weird things like that. And then
I wonder if anyone ever watches cameras in

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the elevator, and I get a
little paranoid about that as well. I

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mean I would plush in that.
Okay, shit, I've never thought about

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that before in my entire life.
Yeah, so that there's cameras and that

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they probably watch them sometime. And
I've seen the security guards at our building.

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They have a I mean, not
to take away from their job.

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What do you say, I'm saying
that they seem to have a pretty casual

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job here. There's not a lot
of action that happens at the West End

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buildings. So are they just sitting
around watching people do weird shit in the

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camera? I would be. I
would absolutely be watching the creeps like I

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no chance, I wouldn't be so
anyway, sorry, if they maybe they

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listen to our podcast, I could
give up a little public apology. And

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I don't know where that guy works, and I don't care because I hope

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I never see there, because you
probably made his day. He was like,

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what was that lady doing? Okay? We first of all got our

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first email last week. Came from
Samantha and she said, I started a

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new job in two weeks and I'm
bored out of my mind. So I

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took the liberty of making this logo
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I don't know what to really call
it. I thought i'd send it over

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in case you might like it.
You will not hurt my feelings if you

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don't LLL. I really enjoy it
the podcast. So it's because our logo,

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like our image is so bad.
Yea even Tita, she wrote she

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just wrote woe or to me and
I said I know, and she's like,

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yeah, that's a judgmental witch.
But yeah. So she sent one

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which was great. I was like, oh, that's so nice, thank

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you, And then we got another
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Janette? I think that's how you
say it. I want to say yeah,

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but I'm not sure. I am
so pumped for your new podcast.

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I listened to the first episode and
I didn't even realize how much I was

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missing Fallon and particularly you two together. But I could not believe that is

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your album artwork. Lool Fallon great
try. It definitely gave me a good

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goal. I was very bored today
after work and attempted my hand at graphic

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design. Here are some mock ups
of album artwork for your new podcast.

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Take it or leave it? Just
now I'm already the podcast Biggest Fan Love

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you both have a great week,
and she did multiple, she did four.

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She actually even she did like A
one is like a drawing outline of

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us holding booze. One is a
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is the actual picture we did use, and one's just glass is clinking.

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Yeah. I like every single one
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I'm not finding this damn email in
my email box right now. That's

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fine, but they bolted a fantastic
job twenty times better than the beautiful image

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that Falon put together. But I
don't know what you're talking about. My

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image is high quality. The fact
that people are even questioning it is very

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strange to me. And I can't
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anything to do with the image.
So I think you hearted it or you

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liked it, which was showing,
which I appreciate. But yeah, I

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mean, I definitely am all game
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girls send us. I know,
but also part of me likes how reckless

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hours is. That's true, I
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the photo of us, and I
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ones without that photo in it,
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want to hold on to that photo. Yeah, but maybe just like the

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design could be a tad, what
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more than like your toddler somehow got
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start. I feel like when they
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we're starting today. I think that
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I was like, Mom, this
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a bunch of things together. And
then that's what the gems like. She's

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really fucking talented. Then it looks
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that's what we do together, yeah
we could. We could work with it.

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And our next email Jennifer, this
is our final one for today,

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okay, and then the podcast is
over. I just listened to your new

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podcast and I love it. Not
too short, not too long. Your

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dynamic is the best. The topics
were awesome, especially the real life struggles

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that we don't talk about. I
can totally relate to sweating on the laser

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hair removal table that butcher paper does
not breathe. I'm from Julie, so

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should we dive right into going to
Ewhite's wedding this weekend. There's something else.

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I want just say one thing to
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been a DM instead of an email. I can't remember anymore, but I

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remember answering it and they asked me
if laser hair removal was worth it,

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and I was honest and I said, well, this was only my first

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treatment. I have like five more
to go, so I really can't answer

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that right now. But Fallon has
done it, and I'm pretty sure she

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likes it, so is it worth
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yeah, I think that. Say
yeah, for sure. I said that.

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Anyone I've talked to that's done it
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So I'm very much looking forward to
doing it. But I have a lot

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of treatments left to have an answer
to that. But I mean, I'll

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be honest. I got I've had
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for me to say it's worth it, quote unquote because I didn't pay for

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it. However, with my results, I would pay for it. Like

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I said in podcast one, my
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they and they've even been like,
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must have like an ashy color to
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my bikini are great. Good,
so like a couple of strays have come

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back. Yeah. Other than that, I'm good a show. So e

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whit's wedding. Yeah, we drove
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Friday was all of my daughter's birthday. And Jenny was like, hey,

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can you text me the address because
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is Julie, by the way,
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then I'm at dinner, I'm not
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like six text messages from you,
and You're like, did you even look

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up how far away this address was? And I'm like, no, I

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haven't done any research at all.
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and Duluth. I saw it was
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I'm like that's close enough, and
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away, and like Andrew and I
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Uber's hard to come by in Duluth. Yeah, So I was a little

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bit stressed because well I wasn't stressed
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I had heard recently that it's a
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and I think that's true. I
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I thought about that, because originally
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for this, yeah and so,
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guys at that and split that.
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girl's got a cabin and Joluth and
I said sweet. Yeah. So I

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was even a little bit stressed from
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I figured we'd figure it out whatever. But when I saw the address,

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I was like, oh, that's
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don't want to be stressed about worrying
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which I usually can't make it past
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the off chance because John Serrito in
turned John was in town from DC and

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stuff. I mean, you just
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each other, what the night might
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said it's a little bit far like
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next morning, and I just started
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terms of places near the venue,
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around the corner. Perfect. So
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hey, I think we're actually just
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book the hotel. And you were
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care one way or another. No, I didn't, so I was like,

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cool, I mean for a Motel
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cheap. It was still two hundred
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seriously, I was like, shock, No, no, it's not.

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None of it is your fault,
I know, but that's so Expensively,

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I know a dog and on motel
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some pretty nice motel eight days.
I think it's a Motel six. Is

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there a difference between an eight and
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because it's both, maybe six is
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and so I look up on Google. It says it's a two star hotel.

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I know what we're getting ourselves into
for the most part, but we're

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just going to sleep. You're not
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literally going in to get changed,
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was no us hanging out at the
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of this hotel. So we get
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grab lunch whatever, hang out,
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at check in time, which is
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thirty. It's right around the corner, so I wasn't concerned about its taking

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a while to get there. But
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and the front esk girl goes,
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actually aren't ready to go, we're
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okay, well we have a wedding
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we talking here? Like how soon
can you have a room ready? And

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she goes, well, I can
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there and stared at me for a
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had to give her permission to go
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for you a situation. And I
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Like I was very friendly. It
wasn't like being mean or anything,

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but I was like, yeah,
go fucking look, like, I need

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a room, I need a change. I'm literally on sweatpants right now,

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and I need to be at a
wedding in an hour. It's cozy in

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that moment, though, you know
you're ruining her day. So Andrew and

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I just are sitting in these chairs
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back and she goes, you guys
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out like they're checking to see if
there's a room available, and then another

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one goes, they got a wedding
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goes, let me see what I
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these people never checked in early,
and they paid for an early checking,

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but they didn't check in, so
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I was like, all right,
okay, I'll take it. And so

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they're trying to get that figured out
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says classy, but I like to
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vibing for these ladies, like having
a good time whatever. But then they

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do get us set up and we
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fifteen, three twenty at this point. There was a little bit of time,

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but I walked in and I just
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Yeah, just the environment felt sketchy. The situation with the check in process

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was super sketchy to me. And
then I literally like go outside to get

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the luggage. Andrew's going to the
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Yeah, Andrew and I were having
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to use the bathroom like immediately.
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wasn't ready, we both looked at
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going to shoot ourselves in this lobby? Right? And so I'm out getting

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our luggage and I forgot a key. You need a key to get back

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into the hotel, and then obviously
to get in the room, and some

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guy like beligns it from way across
the parking lot and like lets me in,

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and he's in a different section of
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little creeped out as a female for
that. And then he offered to help

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with my luggage and I said,
no, I got it, even though

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I did not. I had so
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myself because I had andrew stuff too, and like stuff on hangers and whatever,

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and I was like, no,
I have it because I like,

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just as a female, was like
I don't want this person knowing where we're

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staying. I understand with Andrew,
but still and then we finally I get

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to the back to the room,
and Andrew is still on the toilet,

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can't get up to let me in
as I'm polling as a kid off the

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toilet. It out me and then
one of the workers is just walking past

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and she's like, I can let
you in, sweetheart, I just can't

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look in there as I opened the
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her whole body against the wall and
then like hits the door. So we

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got in. We got to the
wedding. It was fantastic. It all

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works out if you could just like
take away everything outside of the room itself,

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because the room itself wasn't that bad. Yeah, it wasn't a bad

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place. Like it worked for what
we needed, you know. It was

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just the whole process of getting there
was like are you fucking serious? Yeah?

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Well, and I know she listens
to the podcast with shout out Julie,

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but she was so nice. She
lives in Eau Claire. She drove

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like two hours. Oh wow,
yeah to say, and I was like,

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you do not need to do that, and she mowed the lawn and

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then she left like little breakfast snacks
for us and like the nicest things,

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and I was like this is way
too kind, like thank you so much.

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But Eric's wedding was great. It
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kind of situation where the ceremony was
like twenty minutes. They had coffee when

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you go in. Then it was
like open bar mostly they had select drinks

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and everything, and it was super
fun. I drank a decent amount for

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me and never really got drunk,
which was surprising. Yeah, Jenny did.

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And here's how I know. And
I have a video, and I'm

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gonna I'm gonna get Jenny's permission to
post this video. Yeah okay, And

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there are two different stories that I'm
going to share with you involving this.

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Jenny, can I post this video? Most likely? I think I know

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which one you're talking about. Oh
yeah, it's Jenny. I think she's

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eating her third piece of pie and
she's dancing to Sandstone or what's the group

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of Da Pump and she's hammered.
And so here is the quote of the

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night that I wrote down from Jenny
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I don't even know what at what
point in the night this happened,

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but she literally says to the table, guys, if you catch eating butter

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later tell me to go home because
there are butter packets on the table for

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the bread. They serve the fact
that she was afraid she would start eating

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butter packets is a whole thing.
Another point, she goes to the bathroom.

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She runs out, literally runs to
our table from the bathroom and has

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an and full of advil, and
she's like, guys, guys, take

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take this. You're gonna want this. You don't have a hangover. Start

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hands it handling out. So we're
all like, okay, sure, we

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all took some. But Tina leans
in him and she goes, I usually

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take six if Tina I know bed
for you. Oh god, well I

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think I brought six out total.
So I took two. She took two,

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and you took one at first,
and like, or maybe I should

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take two. We're like, yeah, take two. And so Tina is

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just a little over the counter drug
pusher. Yeah, I take as many.

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She's the drug cocktail queen, which
and not like, obviously I'm not

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talking about hard drugs, but she
has like anytime someone sick, she has

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like a bag of like drugs,
and she's like, you need to combine

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this and this for this hour,
then then two hours combine these two things.

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You're like, oh my god,
she really could be She's like a

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on the streets pharmacist is what she
is. She's sketchy. But it was

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a really good time and actually stayed
till almost midnight. I know, did

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you go do anything after the way? No, we didn't. Walked back

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to the room. I was definitely
intoxicated by that point, like super drunk.

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I needed to go home, probably
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left. And Andrew was also a
little bit all over the place, so

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gathering us up, he forgot his
jacket, had to like go back and

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grab it, and so I walked
like part way back to the hotel,

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which it was literally like around the
corner from the venue by myself. But

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I just felt awful yesterday because I
don't really drink like that anymore. And

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it wasn't just because of that.
I woke up and had I have a

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weird cycle in terms of a female
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often. It comes randomly because of
the birth control I have. But I

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was having what felt like severe stomach
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I was like working in the hotel
room, like when I woke up that

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morning and I stood up and felt
like I like needed to crawl into a

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ball. So I did, and
I sat there and like cried for like

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a minute because my stomach hurts so
bad. So you're mixing that with like

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barely in his sleep because I sleep
lash when I'm drinking, and then a

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bit of a hangover added in there, and then what felt like period cramps.

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I don't know, still don't know
if that's exactly what it is because

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my system my cycles all over the
place. But yesterday was a very long

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day for me, and we still
managed to go do a hike like outside

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of delou with after me. Yeah, because I was like our goal for

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Sunday, We're like, let's go
hiking. We're up here. There's so

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many amazing hikes around here. I
would love to have gone on like some

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kind of hike because the leaves were
not changed yet, but they were starting.

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There were a little like pops on
the way home, and but I

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was like, I don't know,
you, I get so I feel guilty

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when I'm away from alive and like
my mom's weather. So I was like,

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let's just go back, like first
thing in the morning. I didn't

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even share this either. As soon
as we got there, we went to

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like one of my favorite restaurants,
and I will say what it is,

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but we split. We're like,
let's plit an egg salad sandwich, and

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first Biden James like, oh,
something's really crunching. We pulled out a

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piece of plastic like usually fancy or
restaurants like you would never get something like

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that. Yeah, it was funny. And then of course, you know,

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we get the check. She took
the sandwich off, but it was

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still like almost seventy dollars and Jake's
like, pretty fucking expensive bill for a

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rushert bet ast fucking plastic. I
was like, well, they never said

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they were gonna was a discount.
He took the egg slid sandwich off the

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bill, but he was kidding.
Yeah, and then yeah, we just

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we kind of like a pretty lazy
day, went to the park. We

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went to grocery shop. I mean
the soup because yeah, it was like

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it was still it was a late
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know, you never sleep as well
in someone else's bed or I hope,

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then yes, we kind of like
lounged around a lot yesterday. Yeah,

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we like did the State Park hike, went to a little cafe nearby to

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grab some coffee and food. And
because we hadn't had anything, that was

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a poor decision. Like I was
so hungover and dehydrated, just like walking

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around and I wanted to do this
big loop and we started going and go,

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let's turn around. I don't think
I think we still hiked like two

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and a half miles, but I
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four to five had we done holy
But we were so excited for food and

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coffee. And once again I'm not
going to say where this was, but

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it was the worst coffee I've ever
tasted in my life. And my food

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was okay, but Andrews was really
bad. And did you go to a

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coffee shop. It was a little
cafe that I offered like some like a

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sandwich and soup and little bites and
stuff like that, and so the whole

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way home, we're like, do
we stop at McDonald's, like we're still

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angry, but we both didn't.
But then at like six last night,

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we're just sitting around watching football,
I go, bucket, let's go to

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McDonald's. And so we go.
And then I also decided because yesterday was

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the two year anniversary of me buying
my house. Yeah, so I saw,

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let's make this like like our tradition
on the anniversary, house anniversary,

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whatever you want to call it.
And so we decided next year on that

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day we will go because I this
McDonald's is pretty close to us. Yeah,

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I have never been there once since
I've lived there for two years.

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It would be a downfall of me. Yeah close. And I was so

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shocked that I've never been there.
I've gone through the drive through to get

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Andrew something like once or twice and
bend in the car with him, but

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I've never ate there. So I
how much did you spend? How much

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the two of you spend on McDonald's. We spend thirty seven dollars? What

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the fuck did you get? I'm
not I'm so know when McDonald's got so

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expensive because I don't eat there.
Very well, it is more expensive than

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it used to be, Like,
oh my gosh, it is like eight

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dollars or whatever now when it used
to be if it's like five or six,

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you know. But okay, so
we're both had a hankering for mcflurry's.

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Yeah, so that was like our
dessert. But I got the number

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seven, the two cheeseburgers meal,
and then a four piece chicken McNugget,

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and then Andrew got to double cheeseburgers, a medium fry, and a spicy

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chicken sandwich. Okay, so his
probably was a little bit more than mine,

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and I did not that much,
actually I know I did. So

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I ended up eating one burger,
all the McNuggets, and like two thirds

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of the fries, and the other
burger and fries went in the fridge.

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If they're still good, who knows. I'm sure I'll still eat it.

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And then I saved the mcflurry for
like a couple hours later when I was

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not feeling like garbage and super full. But I just couldn't believe how expensive

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it was. I remember paying a
dollar for baby burger here and there,

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and I was like, this is
how much we prayed for this, Like

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fifteen dollars is probably what my meal
costs and Andrews was probably like twenty.

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Sorry, you can't afford McDonald's anymore, Jenny, that place was that price

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of all that was double how much
we spent at lunch that day for two

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big coffees, a sandwich and a
big bowl of sayeh, and it was

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double at McDonald's. I was shocked. We did Duluth Coffee Company and it

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was good coffee, yeah, And
then we went and had horrible sandwiches at

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Hardy's. I didn't even eat it
was so bad, and I was like,

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they weren't Hardy. Is it supposed
to be like known for like anyway,

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it was a ship one. I
wanted to say which location. But

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Jake did stop at a Toby's.
He says, it's famous, Yeah stop,

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never stopped there before. So he
loaded up on donuts. By the

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way, now that I'm thinking about
it, I did not see him eat

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those. So now I'm curious what
that little fucking chipmunk squirrels been doing in

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the middle of the night, probably
eating them like little secret doses because he

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got himself from donuts, I don't
know. But he also going on breakfast

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pastries he made this week and he
embarrassed himself. Well, he was being

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nice and made all of a number
four pancake every year for for all of

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our birthdays. He has like a
pancake in the shape of how old we

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are? And then he served me
a pancock. Dylan came up stair.

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He's like, oh god, why, and I was like, I'm sorry,

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I don't know. I didn't make
a pancock. He didn't. Then

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chicks like you want a pancock and
he's like no, oh, and I

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was like, this is why,
Like for us, this is funny humor,

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and Dylan is going to be sixteen. He even when he was like,

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I don't know fourteen and he got
a cast, all his friends drew

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dicks on it, you know what
I mean. So whatever, maybe we

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shouldn't subscribe, but we do.
And I had never had a pancock before.

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Well what I thought you might when
you said that was like it just

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turned out lumpy, so it looked
like I was did wait as an actual

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he deliberately wanted it to be in
that shape. He honestly is a pancake

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artist. Because the tip of the
dick even had a little like little dant

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so he really went all the way
with the Pancock But if you want to

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surprise your partner, might I recommend
Pancock's didn't taste good classic pancake taste.

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Yeah, nothing nothing special to it
other than that. I mean, also,

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you could look at that as that's
messed up because he had just made

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a number four for our beautiful daughter
for her birthday. But I say,

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did she see what you were eating? As she was, She wouldn't have

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known. I wasn't, but she
didn't see I had the counter, she

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had her little kid's table. Oh
my god, you're funny. Another thing

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that I started researching yesterday. So
I'm about to turn a big age.

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And I told Jake, I'm like, I don't really want like I just

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know he's going to feel like he
should do a surprise party or something for

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me, and my sister will be
like forcing it, I bet, because

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I threw her a surprise party and
part of me wants to be celebrated.

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Part of me also hates that idea
so much. Yeah, so I have

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said I would rather save our money
and do not pay for like renting a

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space or and he knows to not
host it at our house ever. Again

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he threw me a surprise party at
our house one time, and I was

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like, please never throw me a
surprise party at our house because when you

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do that, it makes me feel
like I have to host yea and clean

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up after people, and honestly it
just kind of made it like not as

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fun, right. But I mean, he so, I know, he's

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not anyway, we'd have to have
a space and all this stuff and like

409
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pay for all this crap, and
I know, I really I'd rather use

410
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our money for like a trip or
something. So we started talking about it.

411
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He's like, well, you probably
should start thinking about it because you

412
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want to book it, and I
don't know what to do. So I

413
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said, oh, he was like
how everything he said? Of course?

414
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I was like now, And then
I was like, what if we did?

415
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You know, kind of like a
big sir O, Hi Santa Barbara

416
00:24:56.039 --> 00:25:00.039
kind of yeah. But he was
like, what if we did? Since

417
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we're not doing a national park trip
next year because Davy, his brother was

418
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getting married, so we're not doing
a big family trip. He's like,

419
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what if we just said if a
national park? And I said, well

420
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I would want to do Alaska?
Then yeah, but the one I want

421
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to go to is like the one
where it's constant bears, and he's like,

422
00:25:14.880 --> 00:25:18.240
we cannot take olive to a park
like that. I guess I didn't

423
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think about and then and then I
started thinking. I'm like, I guess

424
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that's true, but they're safe.
But also I don't I guess I haven't

425
00:25:26.720 --> 00:25:29.799
hinds. I looked up the actual
national park. He's like, fallon,

426
00:25:30.039 --> 00:25:33.440
look at their instagram. So I
looked it up and the national Park is

427
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cat my kat m Ai and they're
your instagram is bears. He's like,

428
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I think they're a haven of bears
and I was like, okay. So

429
00:25:44.160 --> 00:25:45.079
we looked up to Nali and I
was like, well, there's still are

430
00:25:45.119 --> 00:25:48.440
bears, but there are less.
But then part of me's like, well

431
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what I would we want to do
like a cruise, but i'd want to

432
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do like a national park. Yeah, but I have no idea anything about

433
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Alaska, so I don't know.
So if anyone has any tips, oh,

434
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you should reach out to my friend
Tony. He did an Alaskan cruise

435
00:26:00.160 --> 00:26:04.039
and he was just as land and
water. They went on land because I

436
00:26:04.079 --> 00:26:10.240
have stuff and it's the land.
I know. People love cruises. I

437
00:26:10.319 --> 00:26:14.279
do not, but I went on
one shitty cruise, but I'm basing it

438
00:26:14.319 --> 00:26:15.480
on that. Yeah, And I
just like didn't. I was like,

439
00:26:15.559 --> 00:26:18.720
never again, I will not waste
my money. I understand that the ones

440
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in Alaska are supposed to be way
better, and obviously you're in beautiful waters

441
00:26:22.119 --> 00:26:26.480
and glaciers and blah blah blah,
and you'll see lots of whales, lots

442
00:26:26.480 --> 00:26:29.599
of different things, so maybe it
would be better. But I don't want

443
00:26:29.599 --> 00:26:33.119
to do the thing where you're only
on land for like a six hour excursion,

444
00:26:33.240 --> 00:26:36.720
like I want to be on the
land in Alaska, you know.

445
00:26:37.119 --> 00:26:38.640
Yeah. Yeah, So I don't
know. Yeah, I guess I don't

446
00:26:38.640 --> 00:26:41.200
know what the solution is to that. I just know that my friend Tony

447
00:26:41.279 --> 00:26:45.359
absolutely loved what they did and they
still were able to hike, and he

448
00:26:45.519 --> 00:26:48.519
just said that it was perfect what
they got to do. I like Tony

449
00:26:48.559 --> 00:26:52.000
and he I feel like he's good
tips. Yeah, Jake mentioned Sedona.

450
00:26:52.000 --> 00:26:56.680
I was like, Sidna, You're
like, I'm not trying to sweat my

451
00:26:56.960 --> 00:27:00.200
entire birthday. And also that he
mentioned his two and then he said what

452
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about like Napa Valley And I was
like, I'm not a big drinker.

453
00:27:03.880 --> 00:27:07.359
Yeah, I don't know, Like
he's like, but isn't it probably beautiful?

454
00:27:07.359 --> 00:27:10.920
I was like, I think it's
a lot of vineyards. Yeah,

455
00:27:10.480 --> 00:27:12.480
I just like I don't have That's
like one of those places that I know

456
00:27:12.640 --> 00:27:17.559
is such a desired spot for people. It is not something I would care

457
00:27:17.599 --> 00:27:19.240
about. I know. I've had
groups of girlfriends go out there for things

458
00:27:19.279 --> 00:27:22.279
before too, and I think it
might be an option for one of my

459
00:27:22.440 --> 00:27:27.559
friends bachelor at parties in the future, But it's not really like my dream

460
00:27:27.640 --> 00:27:32.160
either anymore, because when I go
on trips, I don't care about drinking

461
00:27:32.160 --> 00:27:34.680
that much anymore. Like, I
know, I did like to loom this

462
00:27:34.759 --> 00:27:37.880
last year for a bachelor at party, so like, yes, that was

463
00:27:37.920 --> 00:27:41.599
a little heavier on the drinking side, but I wanted to just like see

464
00:27:41.640 --> 00:27:45.440
what was around, Like I just
wanted to like explore and stuff, and

465
00:27:45.920 --> 00:27:48.960
that one in particular, we couldn't
really do a ton of exploring on our

466
00:27:48.000 --> 00:27:52.039
owns because I always like to go
walk around by myself and everyone's like,

467
00:27:52.079 --> 00:27:56.279
don't go walk around by yourself.
Whatever. So yeah, I feel you

468
00:27:56.440 --> 00:27:59.839
on the NAPA stuff that doesn't really
feel What would you do for a big

469
00:28:00.079 --> 00:28:03.279
birthday? Would you want a party. Would you want no trip? No,

470
00:28:03.559 --> 00:28:07.680
I am so not about having parties
for me anymore. I don't think.

471
00:28:07.960 --> 00:28:12.359
I did the big burning Man party
with my girlfriends and that was fun,

472
00:28:12.440 --> 00:28:18.640
but I had the most aggressive social
anxiety going into that party because it

473
00:28:18.720 --> 00:28:22.440
was a year over a year into
COVID, and I felt like I lost

474
00:28:22.480 --> 00:28:26.519
some of my social abilities, and
so I started getting really stressed about having

475
00:28:26.519 --> 00:28:30.640
to host this big party, and
like that entire morning, I was almost

476
00:28:30.680 --> 00:28:33.759
anxious leading up to the party.
That afternoon, Yeah, and everything went

477
00:28:33.880 --> 00:28:37.839
totally fine and we had a good
time, but afterwards I said, I

478
00:28:37.880 --> 00:28:41.200
don't want this at all anymore.
And I don't even really do dinners with

479
00:28:41.279 --> 00:28:44.680
friends for birthdays anymore. I just
love to spend time with Andrew on my

480
00:28:44.720 --> 00:28:48.559
birthday and that's all I asked for. And last year or two birthdays ago,

481
00:28:48.640 --> 00:28:52.759
he did take us up to Lutzen
at his grandpa's cabin and we were

482
00:28:52.759 --> 00:28:55.960
able to use that for the weekend
and that was just absolutely perfect for me,

483
00:28:56.160 --> 00:29:00.880
just like a little fun getaway involving
chere. I mean, my birth

484
00:29:00.960 --> 00:29:03.160
is in May, so it does
work usually did like get outside around here

485
00:29:03.240 --> 00:29:07.839
because then this past year we biked
to wy Zetta and had lunch and hung

486
00:29:07.920 --> 00:29:11.799
up by the lake and stuff like
that. So mine's April, So yeah,

487
00:29:11.839 --> 00:29:15.920
you could have maybe one joyful day, but probably not. I'll probably

488
00:29:15.960 --> 00:29:19.640
snow or something. Yeah, I
think a trip is sounds perfect for you

489
00:29:19.640 --> 00:29:22.960
guys. I mean you and I. We have a lot of similar interest

490
00:29:23.039 --> 00:29:26.240
when it comes to trips now,
but I just I don't know what would

491
00:29:26.240 --> 00:29:30.480
be that scream. Well, we
talk, I was talking about doing one

492
00:29:30.519 --> 00:29:34.119
of those big group trips again and
that would be like Europe probably, But

493
00:29:34.200 --> 00:29:38.240
I was like, if we don't
do that, Like I would be open

494
00:29:38.319 --> 00:29:41.319
to doing a trip, but then
part of me once Olive and Dylan to

495
00:29:41.359 --> 00:29:45.680
go, not that they can't go, but it will completely affect a European

496
00:29:45.759 --> 00:29:48.480
trip. Yeah, so I just
don't think I could do it with Olive.

497
00:29:48.119 --> 00:29:52.799
Dylan will be fine. But then
so it was like I don't know,

498
00:29:52.920 --> 00:29:56.359
and we're just like pulling back on
trips next year. Yeah, in

499
00:29:56.400 --> 00:29:59.599
general, because we did a lot
this year and it's like I want to

500
00:29:59.640 --> 00:30:03.599
have we can do things like the
Door County trap where I'm not having to

501
00:30:03.599 --> 00:30:07.880
spend all this money on like a
rental car and yep light and exactly.

502
00:30:08.039 --> 00:30:12.920
What about bamp that would be cool
too, because I was going to say,

503
00:30:12.920 --> 00:30:15.839
I don't know. I know,
like peak time is usually like dead

504
00:30:15.839 --> 00:30:18.839
of winter or middle of summer a
lot of times. But maybe if you're

505
00:30:18.839 --> 00:30:22.200
going in the off season, that
would be better for you, maybes.

506
00:30:22.799 --> 00:30:25.640
And then you wouldn't want the lake
to be frozen, because that's like part

507
00:30:25.680 --> 00:30:27.480
of it. That's true, it's
a freeze over I'm assuming, right,

508
00:30:27.599 --> 00:30:30.160
but I don't know, now that
I think about it, I'm not entirely

509
00:30:30.200 --> 00:30:33.240
sure. But yeah, I feel
like that would be a good one for

510
00:30:33.279 --> 00:30:37.200
you guys. But I don't mean
that there's a ton to do around there,

511
00:30:37.240 --> 00:30:40.279
because I think it's a pretty small
that's true. I feel like everyone

512
00:30:40.319 --> 00:30:41.920
shows pictures of them. I think
there are hikes, yeah, and I

513
00:30:41.960 --> 00:30:47.000
think every but everyone just shows the
picture of Lake Louise and on a canoe

514
00:30:47.039 --> 00:30:49.240
on it, and that's like all
I ever see. I know. That's

515
00:30:49.400 --> 00:30:53.000
that's the same for me. And
then there's one other one. There's another

516
00:30:53.079 --> 00:30:56.319
lake over there, Moraine Lake,
I think it is. Otherwise, Okay,

517
00:30:56.400 --> 00:30:57.640
I want to say, where would
you go for your fortieth Jenny?

518
00:30:57.640 --> 00:31:02.599
If you could pick anywhere? Don't
Norway that's no, I wouldn't do that

519
00:31:02.640 --> 00:31:04.680
for my No, I wouldn't do
that for my fortieth. I would love

520
00:31:04.720 --> 00:31:07.640
to go, but this is because
I do not have kids in a family

521
00:31:07.640 --> 00:31:11.839
to think about. I would love
to go to Cape Town, Africa.

522
00:31:11.000 --> 00:31:15.960
Oh yeah, I would love to
do that. I had been looking at

523
00:31:15.039 --> 00:31:19.519
going to Tahiti this year still,
but that is totally probably not in the

524
00:31:19.519 --> 00:31:25.519
books anymore because there's like nothing available
and we waited too long. It's it's

525
00:31:25.599 --> 00:31:29.880
really hard for Andrew and I to
plan vacations because he does not like his

526
00:31:30.000 --> 00:31:33.640
job is very suddenly he might have
a bunch of things going on, and

527
00:31:33.680 --> 00:31:37.039
he doesn't want to plan five months
ahead of time, and I'm the exact

528
00:31:37.079 --> 00:31:40.559
opposite who has to plan five months
ahead of time. So it's been kind

529
00:31:40.599 --> 00:31:42.359
of a struggle with us planning trips
this year. And now I have all

530
00:31:42.359 --> 00:31:45.960
this vacation that I don't know what
I'm supposed to do with it, because

531
00:31:45.160 --> 00:31:48.319
I mean I'll be using it,
don't get it. Word, Yeah,

532
00:31:48.400 --> 00:31:51.200
but I like to use my vacation
to go somewhere, and now I have

533
00:31:51.240 --> 00:31:55.200
no idea what we're doing. So
I would say Cape Town or something else

534
00:31:55.240 --> 00:31:57.519
that would be like relaxing with the
opportunity of a couple of hikes. Still,

535
00:31:59.680 --> 00:32:04.480
yeah, I think that my my
top thing is which I keep trying

536
00:32:04.480 --> 00:32:07.039
to like convince Dylan to make it
like his dream senior trip is that African

537
00:32:07.079 --> 00:32:09.319
Safari, but again, that's not
something we can do with all over.

538
00:32:09.519 --> 00:32:14.640
Yeah, she'll be well when he
is a senior, do you think so?

539
00:32:14.920 --> 00:32:16.799
No? No, not, ye, it would She'll be what seven

540
00:32:16.839 --> 00:32:22.559
then? Not even it's so funny, she'll be it starting kindergarten when Dylan

541
00:32:22.680 --> 00:32:29.440
is a senior in high school.
Yeah, so Jake literally is completely starting

542
00:32:29.599 --> 00:32:35.039
over with yes, o, man, I know think about the bad thing

543
00:32:35.119 --> 00:32:38.319
is is like the saddest part for
me is Dylan, not like it'll make

544
00:32:38.359 --> 00:32:42.119
me sad now because he's such a
part of my life and like so ingrained

545
00:32:42.119 --> 00:32:45.319
in hers. The saddest thing for
me is him not being there with her

546
00:32:45.880 --> 00:32:49.799
all the time. It's going to
be hard. But we still have like

547
00:32:49.920 --> 00:32:52.000
three years. But I know how
that goes. It just flies by so

548
00:32:52.079 --> 00:32:55.279
quickly. So it's crazy because he's
a freshman right now. I know you're

549
00:32:55.319 --> 00:33:00.799
just starting sophomore. I know,
Wow, I know we're didn't know we

550
00:33:00.839 --> 00:33:05.359
are so far don't forget. You
can email us. You can send it

551
00:33:05.400 --> 00:33:08.240
to Jenny at KADWB dot com or
Fallon at KATWB dot com. Is there

552
00:33:08.279 --> 00:33:13.480
a way we want to end our
podcasts? I bid you ADO? Is

553
00:33:13.519 --> 00:33:15.640
that what you like? I like
that? Okay, like that? We

554
00:33:15.680 --> 00:33:16.759
can end on that note. Okay, sorry,