1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,360 bTB wood Fire Pizza and Grill and the Mala Grease Ridge kick off Summer twenty 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:09,880 twenty four on their patio kickback with a Maria taco and an ice cold beverage. 3 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:13,759 Oh what could be better? Maria tacos are something I've never had. 4 00:00:14,279 --> 00:00:19,000 I did at bTB wood Fire Pizza and Grill and they are amazing. I 5 00:00:19,039 --> 00:00:23,039 think Matt Reese was one of the first people to have these on a menu 6 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:26,600 in the Greater Rochester area. And Matt even told us when he was in 7 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:32,159 here earlier this week that Beria tacos are tough to make and he hasn't had 8 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:36,600 many good ones outside of South Carolina. But they've done it, and they've 9 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:39,960 done it well. At bTB wood Fire Pizza and Grill. It's on special 10 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,000 this month and why are there? Why not pick up a jar there for 11 00:00:42,079 --> 00:00:45,880 award winning meat hot sauce. Yeah, add that to a lot of things. 12 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:49,200 A little flavor from bTB wood Fire Pizza and Grill. And don't forget 13 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:53,439 if you have a loved one that's returning from college, they can go to 14 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:58,039 bTB at any time and get thirty percent off thirty percent off their bill, 15 00:00:59,439 --> 00:01:03,959 food and drink if they have a valid college id bTB would fire Pizzing Grill 16 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:07,959 the place to kick off. Summer twenty twenty four in the Mall at Greece, 17 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:15,599 Ridge Hold, Connors and Pharamis had two six to two comp today Comedy 18 00:01:15,599 --> 00:01:18,799 at the Carlson. If you haven't been there in a while, you need 19 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:22,000 to go because they have some of the best acts in the country coming through 20 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:26,239 those doors, and they're selling these shows out. I just saw Joe Dombrowski. 21 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:30,200 He did four sold out shows and it was unbelievable. These shows were 22 00:01:30,239 --> 00:01:34,760 great. Now coming up at the end of the month, you have comedian 23 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:38,000 Dustin Yabara. He is great. He's probably gonna sell out. So how 24 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:42,439 do you make sure you get your tickets. You go to Carlsoncomedy dot com. 25 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:46,519 That's Carlsoncomedy dot com and get your tickets. That way, you don't 26 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:49,719 have to worry about a thing. I would suggest doing it now, right 27 00:01:49,719 --> 00:01:52,719 while it's on your mind. Do it now, and then you're gonna have 28 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:57,040 a blast with Dustin. He is hilarious. But go to Carlsoncomedy dot com 29 00:01:57,239 --> 00:01:59,959 and check out all the acts that are coming up. They're doing a fan 30 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,200 fantastic job over there, market Alito and the crew. You will be seeing 31 00:02:02,239 --> 00:02:07,159 some of the best comedians in the entire country coming through the doors at Comedy 32 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:13,199 at the Carlson from the Mac of All Trade Studio in Fairport and driven by 33 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:30,439 Victor Chrysler Dots. Gee Ram, it's Billified the Bill Moran Podcast. Well, 34 00:02:30,479 --> 00:02:34,840 hello and welcome. Thanks for getting your pot on, Thanks for telling 35 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:38,960 a friend. That's how we spread the word about the pirate ship in tonight. 36 00:02:38,159 --> 00:02:44,680 A fan favorite. Everybody loves them. The Soldier, Good afternoon. 37 00:02:45,199 --> 00:02:50,159 So I've had these for a little while and are those from our Are those 38 00:02:50,199 --> 00:02:53,879 from our soccer? No, they are not from our soccer. They are 39 00:02:53,879 --> 00:02:58,000 not. Any time you hand me hundred percent, there's somebody that usually sends 40 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,599 and they're usually joke gifts and all. Well, but you're a big fan 41 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:07,400 of al packets. My friend Steve Mills, who works for Castle, also 42 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:12,240 raised al paca, and years ago he gave me alpaca socks. Oh wait, 43 00:03:12,879 --> 00:03:15,439 well, the al paka socks I had were just black, but they 44 00:03:15,439 --> 00:03:16,919 were the best things to run in and I started running again. So he 45 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:22,319 brought me in some new socks and he dropped off these and they had alpacas 46 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:23,400 on them, and I saved them for you, and I've been meaning to 47 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:27,280 give them to you for a week because you're a fan of al pacis. 48 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,000 Look at that al pacas cool. Look that's what I'm saying. The alpaca 49 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:31,879 is on there. I thought of you. I go, that's that's pretty 50 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:36,120 nice. And Steve does a lot of racing stuff if you're into uh, 51 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:39,919 his son, his son actually builds race cars and drag dragsters and stuff like 52 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:43,159 that. So this is great. This is almost as good as my matt 53 00:03:43,199 --> 00:03:47,360 Ree socks when you have met That's right. Yeah, that's so funny. 54 00:03:47,919 --> 00:03:52,520 That is so funny. Uh. I don't know if you saw this story, 55 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:57,400 but I will ask you to think about this and then I'll tell the 56 00:03:57,439 --> 00:04:01,719 story. What is your hold my beer moment? Have you ever had a 57 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:08,400 hold my beer moment in life? Like saying hold my beer? Yes, 58 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:12,159 and then you go and usually yeah, it's always like, uh, you 59 00:04:12,159 --> 00:04:14,280 know, what was the red next day before he blows off his finger, 60 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:16,319 Hold my beer? You know something like that, hold my beer. The 61 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:21,360 reason I'm asking that is in New Zealand or off the shores of New Zealand, 62 00:04:21,639 --> 00:04:27,279 there were some guys out on a boat and an orca and it's baby 63 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:30,879 were swimming by, and the guy goes, hold my beer, literally says, 64 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:34,680 hold my beer and does a belly flop either on top of the whale, 65 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:41,920 which I shouldn't laugh at, or or next to the whale. This 66 00:04:41,959 --> 00:04:44,879 is what he does, right, And I think the guy got fined. 67 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:48,600 I think the equivalent of seventy five thousand dollars. Don't quote me on the 68 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:51,120 amount of money, but I'm pretty sure he got fined by the New Zealand 69 00:04:51,199 --> 00:04:56,240 government because there are protection species. But he did a belly flop, and 70 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:59,680 I go, what is your hold my beer moment? And people were writing 71 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:02,480 in on Facebook there all hold my beer moments. I mean, I've I've 72 00:05:02,519 --> 00:05:05,560 said it, but I can't. I can't think right now what a hold 73 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:09,800 my Well, here's my here's one of my favorite hold my beer moments. 74 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:14,360 There was a time where I was in college or just out of college, 75 00:05:14,399 --> 00:05:16,079 and we used to play a lot of darts. My college roommate was big 76 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:19,800 into darts, so we had a really nice dart board in our room with 77 00:05:19,879 --> 00:05:26,079 metal tip darts, and I got pretty decent at darts, and I think 78 00:05:26,319 --> 00:05:30,199 I was losing a game and about to come back, and all I needed 79 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:33,560 was one bull and I would win the entire game, win the whole thing. 80 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:39,920 I I walked up to the board in this bar, very cocky. 81 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:46,680 I take all three darts. I dropped two of them. I looked the 82 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:49,839 firston in the face, turn around. I go right there, full's eye 83 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:53,839 machine makes off. It's big. You know the noise it does, and 84 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:57,680 I just go, that's that's my hold my beer moment. That's my hole 85 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:01,439 my beer moment where you just go boom done. That's awesome, you know 86 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:05,040 what I mean. Those are moments you get very rarely in life. Can 87 00:06:05,079 --> 00:06:08,120 you have a whole my beer moment like that? Would you feel like a 88 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:10,439 dick? Though, if all of a sudden you freaking didn't hit it? 89 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:12,600 Oh if I didn't hit it? Yeah, yeah, Well I used to 90 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:14,800 do that a lot, where I would drop the two darts just to be 91 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,079 a cock or I would throw them down so it would like stick at the 92 00:06:17,199 --> 00:06:20,480 very tip of someone's shoe if it was metal darts, and not really hit 93 00:06:20,519 --> 00:06:25,639 their toe, just to be an asshole. There's always friends of mine that 94 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:29,879 I was doing this with. Somebody said when I was at an anime expo. 95 00:06:30,319 --> 00:06:32,040 I don't even know what that is, and my friends convinced me I 96 00:06:32,079 --> 00:06:35,240 could do a push up with a girl on top of me, asked a 97 00:06:35,319 --> 00:06:39,279 random girl to sit on top of my back, and I rapped out like 98 00:06:39,319 --> 00:06:42,720 it was nothing. That's a whole my beer moment. That's one where you 99 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:45,600 got a chick involved. That's a big one. It is a big one. 100 00:06:45,639 --> 00:06:47,079 That's a big one. Matter lame. I have a lame one. 101 00:06:47,199 --> 00:06:53,000 What's your lame one? Like when in the playoffs when Josh Allen when went 102 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:58,199 on? When did a perfect game? And the year yeah, the year 103 00:06:58,199 --> 00:07:00,560 they left Skandasity thirteen? Yeah, how much? That was the game against 104 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:03,920 New England? How was at that game? Yeah? In the freezing cold? 105 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,439 So I said to a New England fan who made my life a living 106 00:07:06,439 --> 00:07:13,639 health for twenty years, I said, here, hold my beer. How 107 00:07:13,639 --> 00:07:15,839 could someone make your life a living hell for twenty zero because they were just 108 00:07:15,839 --> 00:07:18,639 a fan rubbing it in your face? Oh yeah, you know, yeah, 109 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:23,639 a lot of losing seasons and I don't know it's worse saving a losing 110 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:29,720 season or losing the way the Bills dou Yeah, Well, what do you 111 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:30,800 mean? By the way, the bills do. Oh, I break your 112 00:07:30,839 --> 00:07:34,560 heart every year? Yeah, I can understand that. I mean thirteen second 113 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:40,000 I say this all the time. Was their Super Bowl year? Yeah I 114 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:42,800 was. I mean I can I can totally see that. That was that. 115 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:46,000 I could totally see that. Somebody said jumping a moving train across the 116 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:51,319 bridge in Sacramento. This guy would would live in Sacramento, would hop trains 117 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:56,959 with hobos and then get on top and jump from car to car like in 118 00:07:56,959 --> 00:08:00,279 the movies. Wow, did you ever do that as kids? You like, 119 00:08:00,399 --> 00:08:01,839 stand on the on the roof of a car while someone drove it, 120 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:05,720 not the hood, but actually up on the roof of the car and surf 121 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,639 as a kid. I think I did it like about two months ago. 122 00:08:09,439 --> 00:08:13,439 Bullshit, you didn't get on a fucking roof of a car and balance like 123 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:16,279 that. I know, I know you didn't. I'd never balance. I 124 00:08:16,319 --> 00:08:18,120 would sit on the Oh, you would say, yeah, I have no 125 00:08:18,199 --> 00:08:22,040 balance. I took a group of my friends to axe throwing for one of 126 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:24,720 their birthdays. I was holding a baby at a far distance and was just 127 00:08:24,839 --> 00:08:28,680 enjoying being a fun uncle. So everyone could throw axes and feel were responsible 128 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:33,039 for an hour out of nowhere, my two best friends demand we have a 129 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:37,320 knife throwing competition to see who could hit the bulls eye first. We were 130 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:41,720 told knives were far harder to master than axes. I get roped in, 131 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:46,200 hand the baby off to his mom, grab a throwing knife. Someone yells, 132 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:48,519 go, I hit the bull's eye on the first throw. This is 133 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:50,840 it, This is your this is the turn back around. Pick up the 134 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:56,039 baby before the other two notice they'd lost while throwing more knives. I didn't 135 00:08:56,039 --> 00:08:58,000 throw any more of the rest of the day, so I couldn't ruin how 136 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:01,600 cool the moment was. Yeah, you can't. You can't fuck that out. 137 00:09:01,639 --> 00:09:03,200 You can't. Absolutely can't fuck it. No, no, not at 138 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:07,840 all. Well, this is like the unofficial kickoff weekend this summer twenty twenty 139 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:11,480 four. Yes, so there's drinking and partying and this is like a hold 140 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,240 my beer. This is your whole my beer weekend. This is you have 141 00:09:13,279 --> 00:09:16,240 a whole my beer week You have a whole my beer moment this weekend. 142 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:18,919 You could set the tone for your whole summer. I think I might. 143 00:09:20,039 --> 00:09:22,879 I have a big weekend. Wait, what are you doing this weekend? 144 00:09:22,879 --> 00:09:26,960 My nephew gets married on Saturday. Okay, Matt's fifty. How old is 145 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:30,440 is your your thirty four to thirty five? I think? Okay, he's 146 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,480 in his thirty Yeah, and it's a good age to get married. Yeah, 147 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:35,960 then Matt's fiftieth. We're having a dinner at a Black and Blue. 148 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:41,879 Okay, when is that? That's six thirty on Saturday. So I got 149 00:09:41,879 --> 00:09:45,600 an afternoon wedding and six thirty on Saturday. Wait, there's an afternoon wedding. 150 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:50,360 Yeah, their wedding is afternoon, my nephews on Saturday. Yes, 151 00:09:50,639 --> 00:09:54,480 and then you go right from there to the dinner. When's the reception there's 152 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:58,240 it's it's it a power It's a small wedding, fifty people. Okay, 153 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:01,639 that's nice. There about two hours. I didn't interfere with us going to 154 00:10:01,759 --> 00:10:07,200 MAT's fiftieth and match fiftieth birthday dinner. Yeah, all right. And then 155 00:10:07,919 --> 00:10:11,600 my brother lives on the water, so we'll probably be over there on Sunday 156 00:10:11,759 --> 00:10:16,000 doing a little bit of jet ski and waters. I don't know if they 157 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:18,919 have their boat, if they have their boat in the water in the yet 158 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:22,559 or not. Okay, but I think some of the people that live in 159 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:26,759 the in the area probably do. Yeah, but yeah, we'll go there 160 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:31,200 and no, and but so where's your where is your hold my beer? 161 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:33,519 Because the hole my beer could be could be moved on the dance floor at 162 00:10:33,519 --> 00:10:37,639 the wedding, could be a speech you're going to give. I have match 163 00:10:37,639 --> 00:10:41,039 fiftieth. I'm going to give a speech at uh at the wedding. At 164 00:10:41,039 --> 00:10:43,679 the wedding because they don't have a wedding party, so he doesn't have a 165 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,399 best man. Okay, I told them would give Is this a second marriage? 166 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:50,399 No? First marriage? Yeah? I kind of like this, yeah 167 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:54,279 small, yeah, I mean he doesn't he doesn't drink. And oh he 168 00:10:54,279 --> 00:10:58,360 doesn't drink. Wow, where'd you get late relders like that? Well, 169 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:05,120 he would he wishes he could drink. Let's put it that way. He 170 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:07,720 stopped. He would drink if he could. Yes, he stopped drinking. 171 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:16,759 I think my phone sends me or I shouldn't say sends me, but in 172 00:11:16,799 --> 00:11:22,159 my feed I will get from time to time, you know, stop drinking 173 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:28,799 ads. Really I haven't even gotten those. Ship stop like the benefits of 174 00:11:30,799 --> 00:11:35,440 no longer drinking. And I don't know. I swear to God, our 175 00:11:35,639 --> 00:11:41,480 everything's listening to us. Everything it is because all of a sudden Today, 176 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:46,039 I had my iPad out and I was trying to do some stuff with the 177 00:11:46,039 --> 00:11:48,559 iPad, and all of a sudden, I hear it goes, uh, 178 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:54,879 what was that? And I look over and it and then it goes it's 179 00:11:54,919 --> 00:11:58,879 it's Siri and it's like listening, and it freaks you out. I'm used 180 00:11:58,879 --> 00:12:01,879 to by now, well, I always think, like, what are they? 181 00:12:03,399 --> 00:12:05,679 Who's the day? This is the thing I always have to go back 182 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:09,759 to because it's very easy to take a blanket statement go, well, they're 183 00:12:09,799 --> 00:12:11,559 listening to us, we're giving up our freedoms. I don't know who they 184 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:15,559 are, and I don't know what they're doing with the information. Could it 185 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:20,240 just be a technological glitch that it just kind of went off and nobody's listening? 186 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:24,159 What gives the fuck about us? You know what I'm saying? Yeah? 187 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:26,080 I do. I do. It's like, you know, they're gonna 188 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:30,200 if they're gonna really listen to somebody, it's gonna be somebody. You know. 189 00:12:30,639 --> 00:12:33,440 Well, shouldn't we feel that way? Shouldn't we feel that way about 190 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:37,200 everybody? Though? No, we shouldn't. No, Like, what do 191 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:39,679 you mean by no? I get up? Okay, who wants to listen 192 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:43,600 to me, I get up, go to work, come home. No, 193 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,960 No, what I'm saying is what like you're saying, who cares what 194 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:50,480 they're who's listening to us? But when it becomes like someone we're close to 195 00:12:50,759 --> 00:12:54,200 or a friend or whatever, and we hear, we think they're judging us 196 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:56,840 in some way or whatever. Oh, don't we get weird? Yes, 197 00:12:56,919 --> 00:13:03,759 you fucking get very weird. Don't even Yeah? Why why why? Why? 198 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:05,120 Why? Why do we all do it? I mean, I do 199 00:13:05,159 --> 00:13:09,639 it too. I don't under I don't understand why. Sometimes I'm debating whether 200 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:13,639 i'm I'll say this, I'll talk to you off air because I don't know 201 00:13:13,639 --> 00:13:16,559 if I should get into something. Didn't just do it? No, I 202 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:18,159 can't do it? Do it? Should? I meet the MIC's and then 203 00:13:18,159 --> 00:13:20,960 we decide no, no, no way, but no, we'll talk about 204 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:26,440 it. I just let's put this way. I'm really, I am. 205 00:13:26,519 --> 00:13:30,399 I'm I'm fucking paranoid and I shouldn't be because I'm heavily medicated. I should 206 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:35,720 not be paranoid. But I feel like at my job nobody likes me. 207 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:39,360 Oh, I feel like I feel like that every day and I and I 208 00:13:39,399 --> 00:13:43,360 know it's made up in my head. You know, it's an interesting thing. 209 00:13:43,799 --> 00:13:48,879 Yeah, but I know what I mean. I mean Mary, you 210 00:13:48,919 --> 00:13:50,279 know mari Anne is like you know, tell me every day she is in 211 00:13:50,279 --> 00:13:54,039 your head. It's in your head. And if they don't like me, 212 00:13:54,080 --> 00:14:00,320 why do I give a fuck? Anyways? I because because it's a human 213 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:01,919 trait. We all want to be liked. We all want to be liked. 214 00:14:03,519 --> 00:14:05,759 We all want to matter, we all want to be liked. We 215 00:14:05,799 --> 00:14:07,320 all want to feel like we have some self importance. This is why a 216 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:11,480 lot of times we create the drama and we do the stuff. And if 217 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:13,960 you could all of a sudden step outside yourself and just sort of laugh, 218 00:14:15,279 --> 00:14:18,799 it would be fine. If you took yourself less seriously, you would be 219 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:22,480 more fun. Think of the moments you've had the most fun in your life, 220 00:14:22,559 --> 00:14:28,279 and what were you thinking in those moments? You you weren't even thinking, 221 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:31,519 You weren't thinking it was you were just in the flow. But this 222 00:14:31,639 --> 00:14:35,759 is because you're a fish out of water. You're in a job you've never 223 00:14:35,799 --> 00:14:41,919 done before. You are you've pushed yourself to do something that you're unfamiliar with. 224 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:45,360 It's only been a couple months, it hasn't even been a year. 225 00:14:45,879 --> 00:14:48,360 Right, You're talking about people who have been at the job for a long 226 00:14:48,399 --> 00:14:54,080 time or are freshly out of college with the latest right, and some of 227 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:58,440 them are more educated than you are because they have masters and things like that. 228 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:01,120 I don't have a master's. Great, So all this shit, yeah, 229 00:15:01,159 --> 00:15:03,919 it's in your fucking head. If you just go be you. You're 230 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:05,519 a likable guy. You know what I hear about you. I'll tell you 231 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:09,759 what I hear about you on the podcast. I'm gonna tell you. I 232 00:15:09,799 --> 00:15:16,039 didn't like Mark when he started, okay, because you know, all the 233 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:18,440 stories and stuff, and I wasn't sure what to think. I have come. 234 00:15:18,639 --> 00:15:22,360 This is a message I got. I've come to have him become one 235 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:26,320 of my favorite people on the podcast. Really, he is just a lovable, 236 00:15:26,519 --> 00:15:33,840 sweet guy and I love when he gets worked up. And I I'm 237 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:35,559 not kidding, I love when he gets worked up. That's what they said. 238 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:39,559 But he always has a point that this was a message, and I 239 00:15:39,679 --> 00:15:43,120 might be taken actually more than one message and kind of conflating them in my 240 00:15:43,159 --> 00:15:48,159 head. But that's it. So where's my hate mail? There isn't any 241 00:15:48,559 --> 00:15:50,759 man, there isn't it. You're not doing your job. You don't get 242 00:15:50,759 --> 00:15:54,679 hate mail. It's funny because I played old air checks yesterday. I played 243 00:15:54,679 --> 00:15:58,519 some uh stuff when like when I was sending out air checks to other stations, 244 00:15:58,559 --> 00:16:03,360 when I was on CMF more part time or something, and I was 245 00:16:03,399 --> 00:16:06,840 doing I was basically like the greaseman shit and you had to hear it, 246 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:11,639 and I sent it out. I no wonder, no one ever fucking hired 247 00:16:11,679 --> 00:16:15,000 me. For God's sake, who would fucking hire this? I think I 248 00:16:15,039 --> 00:16:18,399 think I have it, but you always, yeah, you worry that no 249 00:16:18,399 --> 00:16:21,559 one's gonna like it, And you know, I wish it wasn't that way, 250 00:16:21,639 --> 00:16:23,480 you know what I wish. I I wish I didn't give a fuck 251 00:16:23,919 --> 00:16:26,559 when I was at You know. All that means is you care when when 252 00:16:26,559 --> 00:16:30,080 I owned back to abilities, I didn't give a fuck what anybody thought of 253 00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:33,200 me. Yeah, because you were the owner, because it was mine, 254 00:16:33,279 --> 00:16:37,480 yes, yes, and you had a little bit of power, right, 255 00:16:37,559 --> 00:16:40,480 you were in control. In a liquor store I worked at, I mean, 256 00:16:40,919 --> 00:16:42,279 nobody liked me there, but I didn't want to be. I mean 257 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:45,759 the customers most of them, like, most of them did like me. 258 00:16:45,159 --> 00:16:48,080 Some of them didn't. But I didn't give a fuck. But I mean 259 00:16:48,159 --> 00:16:51,279 I'm kind of working, you know, the new one. I don't know 260 00:16:51,480 --> 00:16:55,279 it hit. It's in my head all the time, all the time. 261 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:59,080 It's bad. Does it affect the way you do your job? Do you 262 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:03,519 do your job at a fear of them like firing you or no? Because 263 00:17:03,759 --> 00:17:10,759 no, I and I'm and I'm not an at a boy type of guy. 264 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:14,000 Yeah, a boy you're doing. Yeah, but it'll be nice to 265 00:17:14,039 --> 00:17:17,799 get some feedback, nice feedback. And I don't really I really haven't gotten 266 00:17:17,799 --> 00:17:19,400 it yet. Yeah, and I even really asked for it either. I 267 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:22,279 mean every people, every person I work. I mean, this is the 268 00:17:22,279 --> 00:17:26,200 biggest opportunity I've ever had. And I love it there and everything everything's going 269 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:30,559 great. It's just my mind that you know that. Please have you done 270 00:17:30,559 --> 00:17:33,359 this all your life? You sabotage yourself? Oh? Absolutely, you do 271 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:37,279 what? What? What? I has always been referred to in my life, 272 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:40,759 And my father said I was a master at this. I would you 273 00:17:40,799 --> 00:17:45,000 know, it's always snatching victory from the jaws of defeat, in other words, 274 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:48,160 being successful. You know most people fail at this. You you somehow 275 00:17:48,319 --> 00:17:52,680 power through and get it. My father would go, you have the jaws 276 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:56,279 of victory and somehow you snatch defeat every time you fucking like it is. 277 00:17:56,359 --> 00:18:02,759 It's like a self sabotaging way because I'm not good enough, I don't look 278 00:18:02,799 --> 00:18:04,839 good enough. I'm not this, I'm not fine. Whatever it is, 279 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:08,160 whatever it is, whatever it is. That's a really relatable thing that you're 280 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:10,960 talking about. I think there's a lot of people who are like, well, 281 00:18:11,039 --> 00:18:15,680 here's the thing though. It's like, there's no I have no drama. 282 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:18,359 I go in and do my job and I leave. Yeah you know, 283 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:22,160 I mean, so you liked trauma. I don't anymore. I would 284 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:27,480 think that's true A long time okay, after uh, after Beta Billies, 285 00:18:27,599 --> 00:18:32,400 Yeah, that was enough drama for for lifetime, for a lifetime. But 286 00:18:32,519 --> 00:18:34,680 this so you go in, there's no drama, no drama, don and 287 00:18:34,759 --> 00:18:40,720 so and what happens? What? What? What are people doing that you 288 00:18:40,759 --> 00:18:44,119 think that they don't like you? Do they not include you in things? 289 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:47,640 You're in a predominantly at if I can speak, And I don't want to 290 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:49,200 say exactly what it is because you haven't, so I don't want to do 291 00:18:49,279 --> 00:18:55,599 that. But from what I understand, it's predominantly women, yes, mostly, 292 00:18:55,880 --> 00:19:00,480 and predominantly women probably somewhere around twenty years younger than you probably. Yeah, 293 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:06,680 what so hot, dude, you're their fucking dad. I know. 294 00:19:06,759 --> 00:19:08,400 I don't want to hit with your dad problem. That's the problem. It's 295 00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:11,559 not a problem. Get that, But it's not a problem. It's just 296 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:15,799 dad whatever. Yeah, I know. I'm just I'm like I said, 297 00:19:15,799 --> 00:19:19,160 I mean, I mean, I'm staying. I'm not going anywhere, you 298 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:22,599 know what I mean. So it's like it's gonna be different. And when 299 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:25,039 I'm there for a full season, I think so, I think I agree, 300 00:19:25,039 --> 00:19:26,680 you know, I mean I went in, I went in at the 301 00:19:26,759 --> 00:19:30,319 end of the season. How are they? But has anybody made you feel 302 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:33,960 welcome? Yeah? Of course, of course there's always there's there's you know, 303 00:19:34,599 --> 00:19:37,839 and the ones that didn't we want a fucking parade. Yeah, I 304 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:44,200 was the the Fuck's wrong with me? But I don't. I have no 305 00:19:44,279 --> 00:19:47,680 problems there, there's no drama. I go home and it's great. Yeah, 306 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:49,759 I don't. You know what I mean. I have no really personal 307 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:56,440 relationships with anybody, which is a good thing. Uh, it is. 308 00:19:56,519 --> 00:19:59,680 But every job you've had prior to that has been more intimate. Yeah. 309 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:02,319 When I saying intimate, I don't mean like hooking up and all that, 310 00:20:02,519 --> 00:20:06,240 but animate you would talk to people. Radio was was well, we talked 311 00:20:06,279 --> 00:20:10,599 about almost incestrable with the people hooking up and stuff. But but you had 312 00:20:11,599 --> 00:20:15,319 that became your social circle. Yes, and you got to know people beyond 313 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:19,000 what they did. You get to know them as people. Same thing at 314 00:20:19,039 --> 00:20:23,880 when you were at Time Warner. Yeah, and then the liquor story, 315 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:29,160 you saw all kinds of shite and now this is like completely different, totally 316 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:34,160 different. It's a total different animal and it's it's actually and I love going 317 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:37,240 in every day. I do. I do. I don't hate. I 318 00:20:37,279 --> 00:20:41,319 get up every morning. I I don't you know, I don't mind going 319 00:20:41,319 --> 00:20:47,680 in. Yeah I have. This is a find this funny. I've been 320 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:55,319 there three months. I'm June June fourth, and I have not missed a 321 00:20:55,400 --> 00:21:00,839 day. Okay have you normally in that stretch of time you would miss time? 322 00:21:02,039 --> 00:21:07,720 Yeah you would, yeah, okay, I mean yeah, yeah. 323 00:21:07,759 --> 00:21:11,680 But the expectations are higher. You got to dress a little bit better, 324 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:15,319 and you probably feel good about yourself because you feel like you're making a difference. 325 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:17,440 I do you know, and I I mean, I know. All 326 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:19,440 this shit sounds really corny and people know, what are you talking about? 327 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:22,920 Tell me a dick joke. But think about this for anybody. If you 328 00:21:23,039 --> 00:21:26,559 don't, if you're not excited to get up every day for your job, 329 00:21:27,279 --> 00:21:30,960 find something new, find something that does excite you. That's the when people 330 00:21:32,039 --> 00:21:34,400 say do what you love, that's what they're talking about. Do what you 331 00:21:34,519 --> 00:21:38,000 love. Sometimes it takes a while to find that, and you set yourself. 332 00:21:38,039 --> 00:21:42,079 You just said it. How many you know? When I say abatage? 333 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:45,880 I mean am I you know? And I'm not going to You're not 334 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,279 going to. No, not this time, you know, but I have 335 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:51,279 before? Sure you have? Yeah, we all have. Yeah, yeah, 336 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,640 I get it. So I totally did. Dude, I totally fucked 337 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:59,039 myself. I totally did. Oh, I know, well what in what 338 00:21:59,079 --> 00:22:03,319 way? What? What are you thinking of your radio days? Yeah? 339 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:07,680 Which one? I mean? There were so many there's so many sections of 340 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:14,119 the of Bill Muran Radio. There are. Actually everything went pretty well after 341 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:19,920 nineteen ninety nine up to about present day. Not bad, not bad. 342 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,039 I had a lot of battles along the way, but everything was good. 343 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:33,400 Yeah. I think the one where I really screwed myself was God, well, 344 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:34,720 I might as well just tell it. This is bad. This was 345 00:22:34,799 --> 00:22:41,680 kind of bad, and to a certain extent, my father will still bring 346 00:22:41,799 --> 00:22:45,359 up this person in a negative way in my life all the time, all 347 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:48,480 the time. A woman, Yeah, girl, Yeah, do I know 348 00:22:48,559 --> 00:22:52,039 her? Yes? I know it is you do. I totally know it? 349 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:55,079 Yeah you do? Yep, you do. Should I take a moment, 350 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:56,759 come back and tell the story. Yeah, I'll take a moment. 351 00:22:56,799 --> 00:23:00,000 I'll come back. I'm looking forward to the story. I will tell you 352 00:23:00,079 --> 00:23:06,240 the story. And it is literally how I sabotaged myself. And I don't 353 00:23:06,279 --> 00:23:10,640 understand because I've done it over and over and over again in some way, 354 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:14,319 and I you may make me get to the root of it. We'll see, 355 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:15,319 all right, we're gonna do it. We'll get to it. Next 356 00:23:15,519 --> 00:23:18,759 Cobblestone on Maine at one on nine West Main Street in the village of Webster. 357 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:22,680 If you're looking for a delicious burger this Memorial Day weekend, why not 358 00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:26,359 stopping to Cobblestone on Maine. You can bite into Bliss with their burger. 359 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:32,400 It's juicy beef, tangy goat cheese, and pickled red onion, a flavor 360 00:23:32,559 --> 00:23:36,480 trio. 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And then you got 376 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:55,839 junk Yard Field Trip, always a Rochester favorite, making it back to the 377 00:24:55,880 --> 00:25:00,680 stage that Whiskey built. Then on Sunday the Acoustic Sunset Sessions again at three 378 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:04,119 point thirty with the Sideburns duo. These guys are great. They're returning to 379 00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:10,880 Iron Smoke and on Tuesday a very special show with the Psychic Medium Jenny Marie 380 00:25:11,039 --> 00:25:15,000 and Iron Smoke. Better check to see if you can lock those tickets down. 381 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:18,480 She always sells out at Iron Smoke Distillery. Fund out more at Ironsmokedistillery 382 00:25:18,559 --> 00:25:37,119 dot Com is right here in Fairport, New York. Baby, all right, 383 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:42,319 I'm playing the song for two reasons. For two reasons. The first 384 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:48,240 reason is I would say, you like me, You get knocked down to 385 00:25:48,279 --> 00:25:51,079 get up again. That's what you do in life, right, what's the 386 00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:52,960 rocky thing? It's not what I think it was from Creed or maybe it 387 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:57,680 was rocky when you get when you get nunch It's not how many times you 388 00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:02,240 get hits, how many times you get back up? That kind of shit 389 00:26:02,319 --> 00:26:06,079 right, corny as it is. It's fucking true, yes it is. 390 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:07,799 But the other thing is you also have to look at it. If you 391 00:26:07,839 --> 00:26:12,480 think of just the positive things, life becomes much easier, right Because I 392 00:26:12,519 --> 00:26:15,759 always say, every subject's two subjects, and if we can look at the 393 00:26:15,839 --> 00:26:19,359 lack of something, or you can find sort of the positive the other end 394 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:23,839 of that same subject, that's positive. So Mark and I were talking about 395 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:29,559 snatching defeat from the jaws of victory. You're about to win and you go, 396 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:34,440 ah, you fucking all to be true. So uh, probably the 397 00:26:34,839 --> 00:26:40,119 best case of that for me was in the mid to late nineties. I 398 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:45,240 know then you did, and I was doing afternoons on CMF, and I'm 399 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:48,200 going to take you back. I'm going to tell the whole, the whole 400 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:52,839 fucking story as to this. I've never done this, so it's not this 401 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:56,920 is all off the side story that you never heard. No, you ever 402 00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,799 heard it like this ever. I've told portions of this, but I I 403 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,640 ever told it like this, and I am going to tell it like all 404 00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:08,559 the way through, and it's all your fault. So it's nineteen mid nineties 405 00:27:10,079 --> 00:27:14,880 and in Rochester, New York, where we are now basically Fairport, but 406 00:27:15,039 --> 00:27:18,599 Rochester, and I was on Rochester Radio at a station called w CMF that 407 00:27:18,759 --> 00:27:25,559 had a morning radio personality that has was so successful. He's in the National 408 00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:30,680 Radio Hall of Fame out of Rochester. National never syndicated, but you know, 409 00:27:30,519 --> 00:27:33,839 briefly I think to Buffalo or something, but not in a national sense, 410 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:40,599 not in the traditional sense that we know syndication. And he got he 411 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:45,960 had a health scare at the time, Yes, and thought that he had 412 00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:55,559 potentially pancreatic cancer. So with pancreatic cancer it's usually a death sentence for most 413 00:27:55,559 --> 00:28:00,680 people. Yes, and now his wife, I think she was his wife, 414 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:04,240 then got him into a great hospital. But meanwhile the radio station is 415 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:07,799 freaking out because he had huge ratings, a lot of money attached to him. 416 00:28:07,799 --> 00:28:11,160 He was, you know, the big the big bucks for the station 417 00:28:11,319 --> 00:28:15,200 was that morning show. And they decided they needed to build what they called 418 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,440 a bench in case anything happened. We'll have other people we can move to 419 00:28:18,519 --> 00:28:22,480 mornings and and hopefully not Sky. I remember when they brought in I remember 420 00:28:22,519 --> 00:28:26,079 when they brought in Yes, I produce I produced her show. Yes, 421 00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:33,519 So they go and they get so at the time I'm doing afternoons and they 422 00:28:33,759 --> 00:28:37,279 just bought a new signal. It was a station that that was broadcasting I 423 00:28:37,279 --> 00:28:41,839 believe Spanish music. I think it was a Hispanic station, and they were 424 00:28:41,839 --> 00:28:47,920 going to change the station and it became known locally as the Zone. And 425 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:52,079 at the time it was going to play more of a modern ac whatever that 426 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:55,480 format is. But things like Chumbawamba that I just played, That's why I 427 00:28:55,519 --> 00:29:00,480 also played it. So they come to me and they say, and we 428 00:29:00,559 --> 00:29:03,319 have a position. We're looking for a morning show, and they were going 429 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:07,519 to make me mornings and they were taking me off afternoons on the rock station, 430 00:29:08,079 --> 00:29:11,480 and they were going to put me on this other station. And so 431 00:29:11,519 --> 00:29:18,519 they were bringing they were putting Bull and Bjshay who's now on another station in 432 00:29:18,559 --> 00:29:22,480 Seattle. He had been on k W I think he's somewhere else now either 433 00:29:22,519 --> 00:29:26,200 way, So BJ and the Bowl, and then at night they were taking 434 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:30,640 a comedian who became very popular because of the Brother We Show, Beth Donahue, 435 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:34,240 and she and I became really good friends over the years, and she 436 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:41,039 came in and did nights. So during this time, this is a great 437 00:29:41,079 --> 00:29:45,359 this right here in this time was a great time in my life. That 438 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,160 was the most fun I ever had. I was doing We's show, I 439 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:52,200 was doing at the show I used to call Beth. She would go, 440 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:59,799 Amy, cap you drunk. I have other Beth stories they could tell you 441 00:29:59,799 --> 00:30:04,039 too. Oh man. Yeah. So during this time, I'm engaged to 442 00:30:04,279 --> 00:30:10,920 somebody I went to college with, and I wind up going out to a 443 00:30:11,039 --> 00:30:18,000 Nighthawks game and I had gotten tickets through the radio station and the sales crew 444 00:30:18,079 --> 00:30:22,440 is there, and that's never good. Some of the sales crew is there, 445 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:26,759 so then we go. There's an after party. So there was always 446 00:30:26,799 --> 00:30:30,839 an after party after The Nighthawks were a lacrosse team, and it was Major 447 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:34,839 league lacrosse was kind of big in the nineties, and this team was very 448 00:30:34,839 --> 00:30:41,160 successful in the Nighthawks. So we went to an after party and we're, 449 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:44,200 I don't know, dancing around and all of a sudden, and all of 450 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:48,799 a sudden, this chick jumps up and wraps her legs around me, around 451 00:30:48,839 --> 00:30:52,039 my waist and her hands around my neck. So I don't want her to 452 00:30:52,079 --> 00:30:56,559 fall, so I wind up kind of scooping her up, and the next 453 00:30:56,599 --> 00:31:00,119 thing I know, she's like making out with me. And I didn't I 454 00:31:00,119 --> 00:31:02,839 didn't know what I was like, whoa whoa, whoa, whoa whoa happened? 455 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:04,920 So fast, yeah, yeah, and then it was one of these 456 00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:11,680 things where she then needs a ride home. Oh boy, that's never good. 457 00:31:14,279 --> 00:31:18,119 Nope, that's never good. So see, things like this don't happen 458 00:31:18,119 --> 00:31:19,160 to me. And I don't mean to cut you off when I give a 459 00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,200 woman. When I gave the last woman, I gave her ride home to 460 00:31:26,039 --> 00:31:29,440 beck, I freaking smashed up my car and got a d W I you 461 00:31:30,039 --> 00:31:33,119 you go, and you look up with somebody. Well, but I wasn't 462 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:37,240 looking to no, and I didn't know. And if I look back on 463 00:31:37,279 --> 00:31:45,160 my radio career, I was uh not to sound. But most of the 464 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:48,599 guys radio were kind of slobs. I wasn't. I wasn't very I was 465 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:52,200 less slobby than the others. I'll put it that way. Well, you 466 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:53,960 were, you were. And they wanted me to be the night I didn't 467 00:31:55,039 --> 00:32:00,000 understand why, but they wanted me to be the love guy on the soft 468 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,759 rock station at night. And the reason they wanted that, and I didn't 469 00:32:02,759 --> 00:32:06,400 know it at the time until I was older, I kind of figured it 470 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:07,960 out. In the business is they could sell me to go out and make 471 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:14,880 appearances and I wouldn't disappoint. Oh do you understand what I'm saying I wouldn't 472 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,680 be the big fat guy. I would be a semi okay guy. You 473 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:21,799 could put out and you can't bring bull out. Well, you could bring 474 00:32:21,839 --> 00:32:23,480 bull out, but you couldn't bring out the guy they had who looked like 475 00:32:23,599 --> 00:32:28,160 he stepped out of the guy they had doing it locally. Looked like he 476 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,200 stepped out of a far side cartoon. He really did. Oh I know, 477 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:35,599 he was like a human far side car pizza ones. Okay, So 478 00:32:35,599 --> 00:32:39,440 so anyway, now back to this. So this chick and I have my 479 00:32:39,519 --> 00:32:45,279 college roommates with me. He had come with me and he he I'm giving 480 00:32:45,359 --> 00:32:51,839 him ride home, and he goes drop her off first, and she is 481 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:59,359 somehow she says to me, drop him off first. Now did you know 482 00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,960 her at all? A little bit? A little bit to the point where 483 00:33:04,519 --> 00:33:07,319 I, if you asked me, and I found out she was single that 484 00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:09,640 night, I thought she was married and had kids. Those were her nieces 485 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,720 or whatever that was up. Oh yeah, so I had no idea. 486 00:33:13,519 --> 00:33:20,960 Okay, So now I I dropped him off first, and I wind up 487 00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:25,880 going to her place and I remember nothing. I mean, things happened, 488 00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:30,480 but not the thing. There was no sex or anything and I just remember 489 00:33:30,519 --> 00:33:35,720 feeling awfully guilty, and I remember in my head and I don't know if 490 00:33:35,759 --> 00:33:37,559 this was a fucked up thing or not, but I'm like, yeah, 491 00:33:37,599 --> 00:33:42,599 I've done this sort of thing making out with somebody, even though I'm only 492 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,440 twenty four to twenty five, I'm supposed to be I this isn't this isn't 493 00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:47,799 right. You don't do this to somebody else. If you're gonna get married, 494 00:33:47,839 --> 00:33:53,079 you just can't. So I broke that off, and this relationship I 495 00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:58,440 can't. I kept on. So now you've got overlapping relationships. The best 496 00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,920 thing to do is if you're gonna and something, end it with everybody, 497 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:05,759 give yourself some time, maybe three months, figure things out. I didn't. 498 00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:07,440 So now I'm in, and I'm in. Now I'm in with this 499 00:34:07,519 --> 00:34:12,679 other person, right okay, And there's all kinds of stuff. And now 500 00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:17,119 there's a holding pattern for me because I've been moved off afternoons on CMF and 501 00:34:17,159 --> 00:34:21,760 they haven't launched this new station yet. It took a long time to launch. 502 00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:25,199 It took a long time to launch. So now when my engagement goes 503 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:30,360 south, I get pulled into the big Boss's office and the big Boss says 504 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:37,840 to me, don't sabotage yourself. See we're just talking about don't don't blow 505 00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:42,719 this up because they were kind of counting on me to be the fun upbeat 506 00:34:43,079 --> 00:34:47,360 you know. Uh, you were kind of the new I don't know the 507 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:52,880 friends. You were basically the show friends on radio, and you were in 508 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:57,360 a relationship and all and all of that, your whole lifestyle fit this in 509 00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:01,239 their mind. So I go, okay, so I had I wasn't more 510 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:05,000 animal or wasn't any of that shit, And I was going, well, 511 00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:08,840 relationship goes sideways. They put me in I'm doing production, and then this 512 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:15,440 chick says, hey, this is where it's so bad, and I did 513 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:21,639 it. Why don't you get a pager so that way I can let you 514 00:35:21,679 --> 00:35:24,519 know when I'm free and you can call me. Because this person was a 515 00:35:24,559 --> 00:35:30,960 salesperson, had a lot of time in the car so I could call you. 516 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,280 So pay I'll page you and let you know what I'm free, and 517 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:37,039 that way you can call me anytime. So now you're so I go, 518 00:35:37,199 --> 00:35:43,280 oh, great idea. So I wind up. Yeah, terrible idea. 519 00:35:43,519 --> 00:35:45,639 So I go, I do it. And so now I'm on the phone 520 00:35:45,679 --> 00:35:49,960 all the time getting out of work later, you know. But I'm I'm 521 00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,719 dicking around. I'm deciding, you know what, this is great. I 522 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:54,159 don't have to prepare a show. All I gotta do is make commercials. 523 00:35:54,559 --> 00:35:58,800 Leave me in fucking production. This is this is fucking easy. Well, 524 00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:01,840 this is great creative wise, it's fine. I'm not getting up at three 525 00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:06,199 o'clock in the morning. This is awesome. Now I go and I start 526 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:14,039 doing the show on the zone. I have no idea really top forty music. 527 00:36:14,039 --> 00:36:17,079 I've only done rock. I was this other mir Animal, all this 528 00:36:17,119 --> 00:36:20,480 shit, so I'm trying to make all that work. There was a transition 529 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:24,039 and you weren't getting great coaching because the program director, and I've mentioned him 530 00:36:24,079 --> 00:36:28,559 before, we got rest his soul, Rick mackenzie, and I called him 531 00:36:28,559 --> 00:36:31,719 Prick mcpansey, which wasn't very nice of me, But I just he and 532 00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:35,280 I didn't get along. We didn't see ey die yea. I have a 533 00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,360 lot of people who me no wreck, Yeah, I'm sure not, and 534 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:43,239 so he and I did not. So anyway, so I'm in there and 535 00:36:43,519 --> 00:36:47,360 I'm kind of going through but I'm still now. But I'm with this chick. 536 00:36:47,599 --> 00:36:52,519 She represents beers. She's out most nights I'm meeting her, I'm drunk, 537 00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:54,880 I'm taking a nap in the afternoon, and then I'm out till ten 538 00:36:54,920 --> 00:37:00,880 o'clock a night. And then I had one of the sales man see me 539 00:37:00,039 --> 00:37:02,840 out and go, hey, you should really get home. You got a 540 00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:09,280 morning show to do tomorrow. I don't. Oh boy, so you know 541 00:37:09,679 --> 00:37:15,719 I kind of slink out of there. Well then this continues, right, 542 00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:22,840 So now now there's in an event they want to have a weekly appearance for 543 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:28,280 me. Would be money in my pocket at a place with a reggae band 544 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:32,679 that plays every week. The reggae band. Oh boy, I'm just telling 545 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:37,199 you how I sabotage myself. This is all it. No no, no, 546 00:37:37,199 --> 00:37:39,159 no, so I no know it gets good. This would be great. 547 00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:45,079 So now I have gone from being in a steady, stable relationship with 548 00:37:45,079 --> 00:37:51,840 a really lovely human being to now being with this person who's basically partying fun 549 00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:55,480 and all this and has a different schedule than me. I'm not focusing on 550 00:37:55,519 --> 00:38:00,280 my job, which is launching a new station and a brand new morning show. 551 00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:04,800 I'm still clinging onto this chick because she's fun and I don't know, 552 00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:07,719 maybe I have this fear of being abandoned or whatever the fuck I was going 553 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:12,880 on. So I'm out drinking almost every night of the week. I get 554 00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:16,000 caught. I'm told by management go home, stop fucking being out. Basically, 555 00:38:16,039 --> 00:38:20,079 they I mean, in the most polite way, stop being out with 556 00:38:20,119 --> 00:38:22,400 this broad Go home and go to bed. You got a fucking show to 557 00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:27,880 do. You're gonna blow this all up. So then the reggae band was 558 00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:36,800 fronted by her former boyfriend Okay, who was also one of Brother Weez's best 559 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:39,920 friends. She dated him for a really long time. He had a reggae 560 00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:43,760 band, very successful reggaeman, and it was gonna be like a weekly thing, 561 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:46,280 and they wanted me so I she said to me, you can't do 562 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:52,480 that. He you can't do that. His thing's there, and I'm like, 563 00:38:52,559 --> 00:38:55,000 ah, so now I'm torn. What do I do? So she's 564 00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:58,079 like, you're gonna have to tell him no. And they don't want you 565 00:38:58,079 --> 00:39:01,239 out at night anyway. So that's why it's gonna be one night a week. 566 00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:02,800 You know, you know what I'm saying. I mean, it's one 567 00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:07,360 night a week, take a fucking nap and go. So then I'm hemming, 568 00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:10,559 haunging. I don't know what to do. I'm twenty five years old. 569 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:15,280 Pussy's over here and the job's over here, she says to me. 570 00:39:15,679 --> 00:39:21,159 Even my mother said, I can't believe he was gonna do that gig. 571 00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:22,639 So now I'm like, all right, fuck it. So I tell them 572 00:39:22,679 --> 00:39:29,719 I'm not gonna do it. Oh oh you just just that sound you made 573 00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:31,400 is the greatest sound. I go, I'm not doing it. I'm not 574 00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:35,800 doing it. I can only imagine, and I know who you and I 575 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:37,440 know who you told us to it. I can only imagine who did I 576 00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:39,360 tell it to. You can say, just give me the first name and 577 00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:43,960 I'll tell you it was BM right, No, there he was, But 578 00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,440 for that station, it was t O t O Okay, okay. But 579 00:39:46,599 --> 00:39:51,800 I tell the sales guy, who I really liked, I'm not doing it. 580 00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:55,079 So they come, They come round about at me four or five different 581 00:39:55,079 --> 00:39:59,760 ways, and I stick to my guns. So now I'm not doing it. 582 00:40:00,039 --> 00:40:04,039 And it's because I'm using the excuse. Well, you guys are saying 583 00:40:04,079 --> 00:40:05,960 I need to go home, go to bed, I gotta get up b 584 00:40:06,039 --> 00:40:09,880 bah blah blah blah blah. Right after that, I must have gone out 585 00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:19,159 with this person drank and I oversleep and I'm at her house and they're calling 586 00:40:19,199 --> 00:40:24,360 my house and I'm not answering, So then they call her house and she's 587 00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:37,760 like kicking me. It's like six twenty the show started thirty. I'm gonna 588 00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:38,960 stick up for you a little bit, and no, but you get in 589 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:45,239 a minute. So now I'm fucking racing, fucking race to the radio station, 590 00:40:45,559 --> 00:40:47,199 my heart to my throat. I don't know what to do. I'm 591 00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:51,039 in the elevator. I'm hoping no one's there. My head's pounding. I 592 00:40:51,079 --> 00:40:53,920 go in and this is when I think this may have been the day. 593 00:40:54,000 --> 00:41:00,119 There was a became Wanda Miller, who was a local news personality replaced this 594 00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:04,679 person. But there was a person I'm not going to say their name because 595 00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,800 but this was the day. So I get in and right away we just 596 00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,519 start with the news. I think I got there by six point thirty. 597 00:41:10,519 --> 00:41:14,400 Maybe I got up at six fifty. All I know was after six. 598 00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:17,360 I'm pretty sure I saw a six two zero and I needed to come from 599 00:41:17,559 --> 00:41:25,719 the Bay on the Irondoquoit side to Henrietta. Oh yeah, oh yeah, 600 00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:28,719 we're still over there. Oh yea yeah, yeah, went and road. 601 00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:32,880 So I'm doing a million miles an hour down five ninety yeah. So I 602 00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:36,639 get there, and I could have gotten there and within ten minutes or whatever. 603 00:41:36,639 --> 00:41:38,519 But I get in and we're going to do the news first, and 604 00:41:38,559 --> 00:41:46,400 the person does says there was petit larceny. Now petty is not spelled like 605 00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:52,480 tom petty. It is spelled like petit, but it's petty. So I 606 00:41:52,679 --> 00:41:57,480 let it go. And then at seven o'clock news comes around again. She 607 00:41:57,519 --> 00:42:01,159 does the story again and I to look at her. I go, petty 608 00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:07,079 larceny and she's like, or petit larceny and she goes yeah. I said 609 00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:09,679 hmm, I said, I think you're saying that wrong. Third time. 610 00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:15,239 Now it's seven thirty. We hit the news again and she goes, uh 611 00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:17,880 and there was a petit larceny, and I go, what is that? 612 00:42:19,079 --> 00:42:22,320 Robbery by midgets? I what is wrong with you? The word is petty? 613 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:28,440 You said it wrong three times. So now she's crying. My head 614 00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,920 will wait a minute, I just thought about who it was. Who was 615 00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:36,639 it cam? Yes, yes, yes, I remember this, Yeah you 616 00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:42,599 got it. So now she's crying. My head's pounding, and the management 617 00:42:42,639 --> 00:42:46,199 wants to now meet with me after. And now I'm told I can't comment 618 00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:51,960 during the news anymore. I can correct people, but I have to do 619 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:58,880 it off Mike. And where was I this morning? And if you need 620 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:04,760 a backup alarms, most morning guys have two. This is all They're screaming 621 00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:08,719 at me. Mark, And I've basically sabotaged myself. And then so now 622 00:43:09,199 --> 00:43:14,199 I've got that. I said no to a gig. Right, I've overslept 623 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:17,639 for a show. I've gotten into a fight on a basically a nice Hey, 624 00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:22,400 good morning. Everybody hate seventy five degrees in Rochester. If you're working 625 00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:25,679 at FedEx today, shout out to FedEx. Here's chumbawamba. That's what they 626 00:43:25,679 --> 00:43:30,480 want. Yes, that's not what I'm giving them. So now I'm hungover. 627 00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:36,639 So I've overslept. They've seen me out drinking later at night than I 628 00:43:36,679 --> 00:43:38,039 should be. I mean ten to eleven o'clock. I got to get up 629 00:43:38,039 --> 00:43:44,320 at three. Probably not a good move. I have said no to doing 630 00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:47,360 a gig that was going to be like the first major appearance, weekly appearance 631 00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:51,440 for this radio station, which was really how you marketed it and how you 632 00:43:51,519 --> 00:43:53,639 marketed a new show. Get the face out there. No, I'm not 633 00:43:53,639 --> 00:43:57,880 going to do it because my girlfriend's ex boyfriend is the front. Okay, 634 00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:05,280 so all this shit and then I wind up one day a sales guy says 635 00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:07,280 to me, hey, can you I come out with a van. I'm 636 00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:09,920 gonna take a van out. I think I had a car that they were 637 00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:15,519 gonna detail for me at this detail shop. And I like these guys because 638 00:44:15,519 --> 00:44:17,519 they were race guys and they had all this stuff and they did some really 639 00:44:17,599 --> 00:44:22,199 great fabrication and body work. So I loved going out there. I go, 640 00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:23,760 yeah, man, I'll go. I'll follow you out and I'll give 641 00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:30,880 you ride back to the radio station or whatever it is. So I leave 642 00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:36,239 and there are I wish I could show it on my camera here, maybe 643 00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:37,840 I'll do it on your camera. Just real quick. I just want to 644 00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:43,960 show this on camera. So what you have on a board they call these 645 00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:47,760 they're called pots, but basically they're the volume. Like there's Mark's mike. 646 00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:52,679 If Mark talks and then I turn it down, go ahead Mark, Yeah, 647 00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:54,639 so you can't hear Mark. So it's this. It's basically this is 648 00:44:54,679 --> 00:44:59,280 what even a radio board looks like this, So you would put it into 649 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:02,760 automation and so instead of basically it's volume. Right, if Mark talks. 650 00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:07,880 We can make them soft, say something and then soft and hard. There 651 00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:12,840 you go. Right, So what I did was I took two of these. 652 00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:15,039 I left them down, but they were for CD players or they were 653 00:45:15,079 --> 00:45:19,719 for the machine, but they played through these. This would be the volume 654 00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,280 for number three. This would be the NIVE from four whatever. I left 655 00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:30,119 like three and four down. So now they're all the management is out in 656 00:45:30,159 --> 00:45:35,760 a hotel and they're listening. They're listening to the radio stations this day because 657 00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:37,719 we're about to get into the big ratings period and we want to make sure 658 00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:42,400 all the stations are in the right vein. Did you know that they were 659 00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:45,239 in a hotel? I did not, Okay, I did not, or 660 00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:47,519 maybe I did. I don't know. I don't think I did. Now 661 00:45:47,559 --> 00:45:52,199 I couldn't have. So I'm done with my show. Everything seemed to be 662 00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:55,480 fine. I leave, I leave the volume down on two of these. 663 00:45:55,519 --> 00:46:00,840 So now it goes Chumbawamba, dead air, and then it would be like 664 00:46:00,159 --> 00:46:02,719 I don't know, the police, and then dead air, and then it 665 00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:07,599 would be a commercial and then dead air because every other one was left down. 666 00:46:07,159 --> 00:46:15,960 So they go in and the engineer goes in and comes back because they 667 00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:17,039 think there's something wrong. What's wrong with the station? What's going on? 668 00:46:17,079 --> 00:46:20,679 We're listening to this? So they're calling engineering. The guy goes down, 669 00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:24,280 he checks, and he says, uh, yeah, he left the volume 670 00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:29,280 down on a couple of CD players. So I get a call. It's 671 00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:36,719 like I'm home in my apartment and I get the hey, did you leave 672 00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:39,559 the multi million dollar product? This is how the call goes. Did you 673 00:46:39,639 --> 00:46:45,480 I'll never forget it. Did you leave the multimillion dollar product that we put 674 00:46:45,519 --> 00:46:51,000 in your hands every morning? Did you leave with the volume down? You 675 00:46:51,039 --> 00:46:54,000 didn't double check. It's a multimillion dollar product, and you didn't double check 676 00:46:54,159 --> 00:46:59,119 that you did this? And I said, yep, I guess, So 677 00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,519 I go, I mean, what am I gonna say? I go, 678 00:47:02,679 --> 00:47:08,320 No, not me. Someone came in and sabotaged it. I probably should 679 00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,280 have said that, but I thought, ah, I guess I did. 680 00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:14,360 I didn't. I didn't realize, well, you know, we want to 681 00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:17,920 see you back at five o'clock. Oh so I know. Yeah, So 682 00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:22,480 now I know I'm getting fired. I know it because, like I said, 683 00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:24,960 and I used to after this, I referred to it as my the 684 00:47:25,039 --> 00:47:30,159 bat blue period. I did that because Van go had his blue period when 685 00:47:30,159 --> 00:47:32,599 he was depressed and he chopped off his ear. Okay, I said, 686 00:47:32,639 --> 00:47:37,039 this is my bat blue period because I was drunk and waking up in some 687 00:47:37,159 --> 00:47:39,639 chick's bed when I shouldn't have been. This is terrible for my children to 688 00:47:39,679 --> 00:47:44,079 hear, but it's true and it happened, and uh it was way before 689 00:47:44,159 --> 00:47:49,119 their mom and I uh so, yeah, I go in there. It's 690 00:47:49,119 --> 00:47:52,239 five o'clock and I figure I'm gonna walk like and they go, you can't 691 00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:57,679 go past the lobby and they go what they go, they gotta sit right 692 00:47:57,679 --> 00:48:00,719 there, can't go in. So now all the same house people come back. 693 00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:02,239 Heay, man, what are you doing here? We're not I used 694 00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:06,480 to seeing you this time of day. What's going on? Blah blah blah. 695 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,440 I don't know. Hey, everybody's talking to me, stopping. What's 696 00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:13,519 happening? You know? All this that, and then and then I get 697 00:48:13,559 --> 00:48:16,320 called back and I'm fired. That's why radio people are dicks. Why they 698 00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:21,079 should have put you in a conference. So okay, so yeah, I 699 00:48:21,119 --> 00:48:24,480 agree. So this is where and I've told this portions of this story, 700 00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:30,199 but not the whole thing with the electronic I mean, I was I don't 701 00:48:30,199 --> 00:48:34,119 know what it is. I was getting late, I guess, and so 702 00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:38,400 I agreed to a electronic leash. And I kept going out and I didn't 703 00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:42,159 care, and I wasn't you know, I keep drinking. I just liked 704 00:48:42,159 --> 00:48:45,920 hanging out with this chicken. It was fun and not thinking. So uh, 705 00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:50,159 yeah, they pulled me in and that's when it was me and the 706 00:48:50,159 --> 00:48:54,239 program director and the guy who's in charge of the stations, right and I 707 00:48:54,320 --> 00:49:00,679 they say something and I go, and that's something my contract says, mark. 708 00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:04,800 Uh. Throughout my radio career, I didn't read my contracts. Yeah. 709 00:49:05,639 --> 00:49:08,760 I missed a raise one time. They gave it to me retroactively because 710 00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:13,000 I didn't even realize I missed a raise. I just didn't care. It 711 00:49:13,039 --> 00:49:15,360 wasn't about the money for me. I just have fun. But in this 712 00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:20,679 moment, years later, when I got higher and higher, like bigger and 713 00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:23,039 ras, I got an agent because I knew the contract and they would pull 714 00:49:23,079 --> 00:49:27,000 all kinds of shit out of it, and I got to see every shitty 715 00:49:27,039 --> 00:49:30,159 thing they put in these contracts. By my agent would go, he's not 716 00:49:30,199 --> 00:49:31,079 doing that, take it out, take it out, and they would take 717 00:49:31,079 --> 00:49:35,039 it out because they were taking it out for others around the country, but 718 00:49:35,119 --> 00:49:37,920 in Rochester they think give a fuck that you sign. It was always one 719 00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:43,039 hundred percent in favor of them, not you. They had all the cards, 720 00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:45,679 so I mean, there were things like you had to do free, 721 00:49:45,679 --> 00:49:47,079 and I got all that shit taken out of mind, all of it, 722 00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:53,559 even right down to you had They had the writer first refusal for thirty days. 723 00:49:53,559 --> 00:49:57,800 Who can find a fucking job in thirty days. They knew you can't 724 00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:02,239 find any job, but let alone an equivalent job in thirty fucking days. 725 00:50:02,679 --> 00:50:07,800 Right, you have to tell them within thirty days if you're before. Oh 726 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:09,199 no, it was thirty days before you could talk to anybody else. So 727 00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:13,880 I got that taken out and I was allowed ninety days, which was never 728 00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:15,639 heard of in this market. So anyway, just to let you go. 729 00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:21,320 So I lie and I go, that's not my contract, and the guy 730 00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:24,920 go. So the guy who's the program director starts stammering. I go, 731 00:50:25,079 --> 00:50:30,000 eh, no, it's not. I'm twenty five years old. Do you 732 00:50:30,039 --> 00:50:35,360 think I have no idea? So he sits there and the guy who's in 733 00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,400 charge says, we'll go get his guy. Do you have his contract here? 734 00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:39,519 And the guy says no, he goes, why don't you have his 735 00:50:39,559 --> 00:50:43,840 contract? Here? He goes, He goes go get his contract. So 736 00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:47,519 the guy goes scurrying off. All I wanted to do was remove the Pannyweight 737 00:50:47,599 --> 00:50:51,760 program director out of the room. And I look at this guy and I 738 00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:57,239 go, you are a real piece of shit. And he goes, what 739 00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:00,440 I said, You knew you were doing this when you called me this morning 740 00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:04,920 that we couldn't have met for lunch, but you got to prade me back 741 00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:07,480 here at five o'clock. You're gonna be here till seven o'clock time. You 742 00:51:07,519 --> 00:51:13,320 couldn't have me come at seven and fire me? Then you knew at at 743 00:51:13,679 --> 00:51:15,840 as soon as those volumes were down, you knew. And I'm not saying 744 00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:19,840 I didn't deserve to be fired. I said this to him. I get 745 00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,559 it. I know what I did, but you made me sit you fucking 746 00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:29,320 cunt. Sorry damn, But I didn't say cunt. I decided. I 747 00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:30,920 just said I did. I said, you're a piece of shit. You're 748 00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:34,079 a piece of shit for making me, and this is somebody who you liked. 749 00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:37,039 I was okay with the guy. Uh, we've had I had problems 750 00:51:37,039 --> 00:51:40,719 with him later on after that too, on a personal level with something, 751 00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:45,719 but that had nothing to do with anything, and uh and then so I 752 00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:50,039 get fired, and I remember walking out of the station and being so fucking 753 00:51:50,159 --> 00:51:53,039 pissed that I launched my keys because now I didn't know what I was gonna 754 00:51:53,079 --> 00:52:02,440 do. I launched my keys across the parking lot and now I'm stuck and 755 00:52:02,599 --> 00:52:09,239 I can't I can't find them. Oh man, you can do it. 756 00:52:09,599 --> 00:52:14,519 I can't fucking find my keys. Mark. I've launched them now in the 757 00:52:14,639 --> 00:52:17,480 back big parking lot along this building. It's dark, it's dusk. I 758 00:52:17,519 --> 00:52:22,559 don't even know what time of year was. I fucking rah, it's that 759 00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:24,519 of piss because that's me. I get so pissed that. I mean, 760 00:52:24,559 --> 00:52:30,199 I've broken this hand from boxing. But also once it breaks, it's easy. 761 00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:35,239 I've hit walls. That's why I always in boxing classes say first two 762 00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:38,880 knuckles boom that way. But it's easy. When most people punch and they're 763 00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:43,880 hitting with these you don't want to do that's fragile bone. I say that 764 00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:46,280 because I know it. But so I threw the keys, and I had 765 00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:51,760 to have that chick come out with a flashlight and look, and we found 766 00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:57,239 the keys. Did anybody walk by you. When when when you were out 767 00:52:57,280 --> 00:53:00,239 there and they would he come by you. It's just standing there. He 768 00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:02,960 was had to be standing there by yourself. I was. I think I 769 00:53:04,119 --> 00:53:07,599 was like up against the building. I don't know. I was in the 770 00:53:07,639 --> 00:53:08,800 back. Most people went out the front, that's true. Yeah, so 771 00:53:09,119 --> 00:53:12,519 I didn't. But there you go. That's it start to finish. How 772 00:53:12,559 --> 00:53:16,159 long was that were you at the zone from from I don't think I lasted 773 00:53:16,159 --> 00:53:19,679 a year. I think I was there nine months. I think I was 774 00:53:19,679 --> 00:53:22,400 there nine months. I think I was on the station nine months because afternoons 775 00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:25,800 was going fine, and I understood what they were doing, going and getting 776 00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:31,519 BJ. They they were very scared about what was happening with Weeza's health at 777 00:53:31,559 --> 00:53:35,920 that time. Right now, we don't know what happened with Wees's health later 778 00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:37,960 on, and we know that he did well and he's still in the radio 779 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:43,239 today, so that's that's a wonderful thing. But in this moment, they 780 00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:45,760 weren't, and so they decided, well, we should get all the people 781 00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:50,920 and at least keep this momentum going because what he did in radio, and 782 00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:52,760 I think that there are a lot of people I think he and I have 783 00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:59,920 always had a great relationship when I was on his team, and I was 784 00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,559 the biggest enemy when I wasn't on it. Well, it's not so much 785 00:54:02,639 --> 00:54:06,639 him, but I would say one or two things, but I always wound 786 00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:08,960 up carrying the water, even for when somebody else said something. I mean, 787 00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:14,039 I carried the water when like Sandra Dorley was just in the news before 788 00:54:14,039 --> 00:54:16,599 she was the district attorney. She was the she was like the next in 789 00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:21,920 charge under the district attorney. Okay, somebody on the show that I'm on, 790 00:54:22,079 --> 00:54:24,519 it was just he and I and a show called The break Room refers 791 00:54:24,559 --> 00:54:28,760 to her as the word. I just used, the awful word. I 792 00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:34,280 just spit out WHOA but doesn't say it, just says comes up close. 793 00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:38,199 But all I need to do in communication is get the idea from my head 794 00:54:38,199 --> 00:54:42,679 to yours. Right, Okay, So he did that. I had the 795 00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:50,440 DA call me and scream at me because that guy said something. I carried 796 00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:52,599 the water for all the shit like I did, it just didn't happen. 797 00:54:52,639 --> 00:54:58,599 I don't know why. It was always me so with wee'z and I think 798 00:54:58,639 --> 00:55:04,239 even on the podcast, I've said things that I know people have repeated back 799 00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:06,840 or have told me I was talking with Weez, you said you did it, 800 00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:07,360 and I go, oh, I might have said it, but I 801 00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:12,400 didn't mean it like that. My point is, at that time in radio, 802 00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:16,239 what he was doing was unprecedented in the ratings. You've never seen ratings 803 00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:20,239 like that. You can go back in the truly in the history. So 804 00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:23,519 the radio station management wanted to protect that. That was a tremendous amount of 805 00:55:23,559 --> 00:55:28,559 revenue they were getting off those ratings. If that, if he went away, 806 00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:30,599 how do we keep this show afloat? Can we get these other people 807 00:55:30,599 --> 00:55:36,559 who have been associated with him and keep it going. It's happened in other 808 00:55:36,599 --> 00:55:37,800 markets. A guy named Kik Kratick died. I think they still call it 809 00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:40,760 the kik Cratic Morning Show. He's been dead for almost a decade, so 810 00:55:42,079 --> 00:55:44,960 I mean, you know, it's not an unprecedented thing. So they went 811 00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:47,199 and they got these other people, and that's where I wound up off. 812 00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:51,400 I decided to end a relationship, and I went right in the shitter. 813 00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:54,760 See that's the problem for these women. I tell you, well, it's 814 00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:58,960 my fault. Well you were twenty five, but it's all my fault. 815 00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:01,239 I could I could have things in my pants, kept myself in check, 816 00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:06,760 kept my tongue in my mouth, and realized what the opportunity I had in 817 00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:08,559 front of me with the career and the person I was with, a lovely 818 00:56:08,639 --> 00:56:13,679 human being, really really lovely. I can say nothing bad about that person, 819 00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:15,159 right, right, But you know, I can say a lot of 820 00:56:15,159 --> 00:56:19,360 bad things about me. But you know, it's fun a lot twenty five 821 00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:22,039 years old and that kind of thing. I mean, that's what you're supposed 822 00:56:22,079 --> 00:56:23,199 to do. You're supposed to go out. I mean, still ten. 823 00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:28,079 I mean I was never on the level you were at, but I used 824 00:56:28,079 --> 00:56:31,760 to do them. I used to do the most in Coors Beer promotions and 825 00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:37,519 I would I would go I would go to Woodies and I'd stay at Woodies 826 00:56:37,599 --> 00:56:40,840 until like three in the morning. I'd walk over and go to the HSBC 827 00:56:42,079 --> 00:56:46,480 building, take a nap in the studio, yeah, on that gross couch, 828 00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:51,760 and then do this, you know, and then then help you know. 829 00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:55,480 I was assistant producer of the show at that time, and I would 830 00:56:55,519 --> 00:57:00,360 do that. I'd set everything off and stuff like that, and then I'd 831 00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:02,000 go home and sleep and I'd do it over again. Yeah, And I 832 00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:07,239 mean, but you could do that back then you could and you could too 833 00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:10,199 because you were more of a side character. Well I'm seeing you. Our 834 00:57:10,239 --> 00:57:13,679 bodies could do it. Yeah, oh yeah, our bodies could do it. 835 00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:17,079 Yeah yeah, I could withstand that. Yeah. And then as time 836 00:57:17,119 --> 00:57:22,760 went on, you know, I I once I was out of radio and 837 00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:27,840 I had another job and I didn't like it. And then there was somebody 838 00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:29,840 became in charge of stations. They were a big fan of mine, and 839 00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:31,400 they brought me back. Yes, and uh, and that was great. 840 00:57:31,559 --> 00:57:37,239 Yeah, and every and then and then I was good for the next twenty 841 00:57:37,239 --> 00:57:39,239 something years, say something years. Yeah, yeah, it was a good 842 00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:45,159 run. Somebody kept you in line. Yes, yes, yes, I 843 00:57:45,199 --> 00:57:47,599 had a person in my life that well, then you also had responsibilities. 844 00:57:47,800 --> 00:57:52,719 You're not gonna go out drinking like that and and partying and chasing skirts or 845 00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:53,760 whatever, because I had and then he had kids, and he had a 846 00:57:53,719 --> 00:57:57,159 stable family and a life and it was different. Plus she had a big 847 00:57:57,199 --> 00:58:00,360 responsibility at the same place too, so that kind of you know, yeah, 848 00:58:00,679 --> 00:58:02,639 all right, well we'll take a moment. I gave it to you 849 00:58:02,719 --> 00:58:07,960 all. I gave you the nitty gritty baby, the nitty grittyge Trata has 850 00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:12,639 the perfect excuse for you to leave work a little early. 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I asked Mark a song 876 01:00:27,519 --> 01:00:30,159 that reminds him of summer, yes, and he said this song bon Jovie 877 01:00:30,239 --> 01:00:35,880 Never Say Goodbye. What year was this? I think eighty six? Yeah, 878 01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:37,599 I'm thinking eighty six two, probably off of Slippery when it was slippery 879 01:00:37,599 --> 01:00:42,239 when my and uh, I'm hearing great things about that documentary I think I 880 01:00:42,239 --> 01:00:44,480 want to I want to watch that. I haven't watched it. The cool 881 01:00:44,559 --> 01:00:46,880 thing is is a documentmentor like I told you, ended with the cliffhanger. 882 01:00:47,039 --> 01:00:50,920 Yeah, and then all of a sudden an American Idol, you got your 883 01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:52,920 answer if he could sing or not? Ah, I got you. And 884 01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:55,440 they did it. I think they did it on purpose, especially when they 885 01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:59,880 promoted the series on Idol. They were like, oh, you can see 886 01:00:59,880 --> 01:01:06,719 the four part series. But look, I was never bon Jovi. Was 887 01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:09,159 you were sort of inundated with it, right, I always go, there 888 01:01:09,159 --> 01:01:13,280 are songs that remind you of this. I call it the sweet spot of 889 01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:15,199 life. Yeah, when you're a kid free and you did you like, 890 01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:21,559 I mean when I stopped, When I stop and think about my life now, 891 01:01:21,760 --> 01:01:25,559 I go, I don't know the drinkings. It's fourteen, right, 892 01:01:27,599 --> 01:01:34,440 it's terrible. But this there were songs that you know, Motley Cruiz stuff. 893 01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:37,639 They just became the soundtrack of your life because they were on and your 894 01:01:37,679 --> 01:01:39,840 friends listened to them. So I was never a huge bon Jovi guy, 895 01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:45,119 and I grew up down in the near Woodstock, so bon Jovi certainly was. 896 01:01:45,559 --> 01:01:49,800 I mean I heard it. I had an English teacher who taught him, 897 01:01:50,199 --> 01:01:52,079 and then I but it was the grateful dead all the time. Really 898 01:01:52,159 --> 01:01:55,360 yeah, so I was I was like, I used to make I like 899 01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:59,559 the dead, but I got sick of them. I even played a bit 900 01:01:59,639 --> 01:02:02,360 from mylast night on radio, which it could just show you how much the 901 01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:05,800 dead was in my life. Is I had a guy show up in the 902 01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:08,800 studio. He was lost and high and he's like, hey man, it 903 01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:13,199 was me sped up, but it was me talking to me. Wait, 904 01:02:13,280 --> 01:02:15,599 I think I have it here. I can show you. Let me see 905 01:02:15,599 --> 01:02:17,800 if it's if it's over here, I think it's the summer time. You 906 01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:21,440 know, you go out on the bell drowning can get a little, was 907 01:02:21,480 --> 01:02:30,440 it? The views, opinions, and sophomoric behavior expressed on this program are 908 01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:35,519 not necessarily those of the staff and management at ninety six. Whatever, it 909 01:02:35,519 --> 01:02:38,639 doesn't matter. I actually was enjoying the Bond jovie. But I did a 910 01:02:38,679 --> 01:02:42,519 thing where a guy came in. He's like, hey man, Jerry died. 911 01:02:43,039 --> 01:02:45,239 He was all bummed. He doesn't know what he's going to do now 912 01:02:45,239 --> 01:02:46,920 because Jerry died. It was like nineteen ninety five, and it's like Jerry 913 01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:52,119 died, But that was such a big deal. Well, Jerry Garcia was 914 01:02:52,159 --> 01:02:55,239 a huge deal. And this is I think. I think even the people 915 01:02:55,239 --> 01:03:00,880 who are closest to me don't even know my experien sperience with the dead and 916 01:03:01,079 --> 01:03:05,119 that whole thing. I mean, it was like, God, if they 917 01:03:05,119 --> 01:03:08,679 had ringtones back then, it was the ring tone Petuli. Everybody smelled like 918 01:03:08,679 --> 01:03:13,719 Petuli. In my high school, they all wore those woven uh hoodies, 919 01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:16,519 you know, they had the woven backpacks and it was like every it's just 920 01:03:16,559 --> 01:03:22,239 a fucking burnout, burnout stack. Yeah, so that was that was the 921 01:03:22,280 --> 01:03:27,719 deal. But uh, bon Jovi killing it. Hey, I saw something 922 01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:31,480 today, and I may take this somewhere that you're gonna get uncomfortable with, 923 01:03:31,559 --> 01:03:36,239 but we'll let you. We'll let we'll let you decide. Uh that st 924 01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:40,920 I S, which is not so sexually transmitted diseases. We all know std 925 01:03:42,199 --> 01:03:45,719 These are called sexually transmitted infections. So I would assume things that are a 926 01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:52,639 little more curable. But I even thought the diseases were fairly curable. I 927 01:03:52,679 --> 01:03:57,039 don't know. According to the World Health Organization, uh, there's reason to 928 01:03:57,079 --> 01:04:01,400 have major concern when it comes to the global increase of sexually transmitted infections. 929 01:04:01,760 --> 01:04:06,920 A new report has found that new cases of syphilis have increased by eight million 930 01:04:08,559 --> 01:04:12,000 in twenty twenty two internationally, and here we are two years after that. 931 01:04:12,119 --> 01:04:18,079 So whatever you can do the multiple additionally four curable diseases chlamydia, gonorrhea, 932 01:04:18,199 --> 01:04:28,440 syphilis, and trichomisis, which I believe. I know. I think that's 933 01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:30,559 like East in fact, but I don't know. I thought it was something 934 01:04:30,599 --> 01:04:35,039 like that. We're East Bacon bread down there on account for one million cases 935 01:04:35,159 --> 01:04:42,079 daily daily, and so I'm going, why would we see why would we 936 01:04:42,119 --> 01:04:46,519 see this? So I thought it would be people are living longer, and 937 01:04:46,559 --> 01:04:50,280 we hear about places like the villages, and now we have viagra and people 938 01:04:50,280 --> 01:04:55,719 are having sex longer. And when you get older, I mean, ah, 939 01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:59,039 why am I going to put on a condom? You're not going to 940 01:04:59,119 --> 01:05:01,400 get pregnant, you know what I mean. And they're seeing an increase in 941 01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:06,559 that. That's not the age group. The age group is fifteen to twenty 942 01:05:06,599 --> 01:05:12,480 four year olds. It's spiking. Everything's spiking in fifteen to twenty four year 943 01:05:12,519 --> 01:05:17,159 olds, which I found surprising. I found that really surprising because I thought, 944 01:05:17,159 --> 01:05:21,360 honestly, God, I thought that if we was, we're living longer. 945 01:05:21,599 --> 01:05:26,400 We've now we have viagra. People are looking better. You know, 946 01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:29,119 they go and have the Sandra Dorley where their face all of a sudden they 947 01:05:29,159 --> 01:05:32,960 go from you know, droopy sixty year old to hot like right, she's 948 01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:35,559 a gilf all of a sudden, or potentially a gilf. I don't know 949 01:05:35,559 --> 01:05:39,880 if she is a grandmother, but you know what I'm saying. So yeah, 950 01:05:39,920 --> 01:05:44,519 and so all that stuff, and I was like, holy shit, 951 01:05:44,920 --> 01:05:47,199 did your parents talk to you about sex in that way? No? I 952 01:05:47,199 --> 01:05:50,800 don't think my parents ever talk to me about sex. There was never talk 953 01:05:50,840 --> 01:05:55,840 about condoms and stuff. I'm pretty sure my wife did it with the boys, 954 01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:59,000 and I tried, but they would always go, oh, you know, 955 01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:01,880 it would dissolve a h come on, dad, shut up. But 956 01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:06,360 I I mean I always thought like the greatest thing was we would sneak into 957 01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:11,239 this back room in the library and look at the uh it was probably like 958 01:06:11,239 --> 01:06:15,039 the encyclopedic who look up sexually transmitted diseases, and I mean you see these 959 01:06:15,039 --> 01:06:18,480 big sores on dix and Vagina's head like just it and you were like, 960 01:06:18,519 --> 01:06:20,800 oh my god, I never want to have sex. I'll never touch this 961 01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:24,639 you're like fifth grade. I go, that is like the biggest cure ever. 962 01:06:25,239 --> 01:06:28,400 That was our sex talk in fifth grade? What showing you all that 963 01:06:28,440 --> 01:06:33,039 shit? The sex the talk? We had the nurse come in from from 964 01:06:33,039 --> 01:06:35,880 our from our school and give us the sex talk. Man, we had 965 01:06:35,920 --> 01:06:41,320 like a three part series. They separated the boys and the girls in sixth 966 01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:45,159 grade and he got told about sex. But fifth grade, it's well, 967 01:06:45,199 --> 01:06:47,880 we were six. I just I just think of the fifth graders, you 968 01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:51,519 know, now, I just can't imagine that happening. No, I know, 969 01:06:51,639 --> 01:06:57,480 it's it's pretty weird. But I so I because I'm going, are 970 01:06:57,519 --> 01:07:01,239 are we careless? And I thought, yeah, but I can see where 971 01:07:01,239 --> 01:07:04,960 it's spreading among older people because they're going, I'm not putting a condom on 972 01:07:05,719 --> 01:07:10,320 and who cares? And I'm gonna die anyway. So if this is the 973 01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:13,079 way I go out, fuck it. But so that's why I thought it 974 01:07:13,079 --> 01:07:16,639 was. It's not it's younger people. And I thought, have you ever, 975 01:07:16,679 --> 01:07:20,239 at any point in your life been asked do you have a condom? 976 01:07:20,639 --> 01:07:28,320 Yes? And if you said no, did things end? No? Yeah? 977 01:07:28,639 --> 01:07:31,159 Usually usually it's like because you get so revved up, it's like, 978 01:07:31,599 --> 01:07:35,320 oh, it's like well whatever, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, 979 01:07:35,840 --> 01:07:42,400 or or you use a condom for like once or twice and then it's 980 01:07:42,440 --> 01:07:46,159 like yeah, fuck it kindom suck. I understand. But they're also a 981 01:07:46,199 --> 01:07:51,239 way to protect. Look Stephanie Id who was in here when she was dating, 982 01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:56,559 she would always talk about every person she made have an STD test before, 983 01:07:57,800 --> 01:08:00,320 like they had to get a blood panel. That's where we're at right 984 01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:03,000 now. She's smart, yes she is. Yeah, but that's where I'm 985 01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:11,000 going. If a chick asked you to do that, would you do it? 986 01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:14,159 It's hard to ask. It's hard. It's hard to ask me because 987 01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:18,399 you know, I was never really sexually active. So okay, so okay, 988 01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:21,479 that's a tough one. Yeah, if I liked her, I guess 989 01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:25,800 yeah, I mean yeah, I think I probably would have well, seventy 990 01:08:25,840 --> 01:08:29,000 I'd asked me if I wanted Yes, Actually, I take it back, 991 01:08:29,079 --> 01:08:31,479 yes I would seventy. I said. I think if I was asked, 992 01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:34,439 I'd be a little freaked out. I'd be a little freaked like, what 993 01:08:34,479 --> 01:08:40,239 do you mean? I'm fine, but what lurks beneath the balls? Totally 994 01:08:40,319 --> 01:08:43,359 change right now? It See, I'd asked me to be a turn on 995 01:08:43,479 --> 01:08:45,920 and I would get one in a second. Yeah. Well yeah, yeah, 996 01:08:46,399 --> 01:08:50,680 but then you're always I'd be also like afraid that it would come back 997 01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:57,279 saying something bad. Oh, I gotta say, I'm just like kidding to 998 01:08:57,399 --> 01:09:01,159 make sure that yeah, yeah, but I think that it was uh oh, 999 01:09:01,239 --> 01:09:05,560 I know you're kidding the uh I don't know, I understand it. 1000 01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:09,720 I was just surprised to see the younger people be in that way. At 1001 01:09:09,760 --> 01:09:14,119 the state with the highest STD rate, I want to take a guess the 1002 01:09:14,159 --> 01:09:19,720 state. What state do you think is the highest actual California. California is 1003 01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:23,920 probably good to be. Why would you say that, because that's where it's 1004 01:09:24,039 --> 01:09:27,399 nice there all the time. That's where people go on vacations. Yeah. 1005 01:09:27,479 --> 01:09:30,760 People are kind of more relaxed there. Yeah. Sometimes you go on vacation 1006 01:09:30,920 --> 01:09:33,520 without your significant other, you hook up. You know what happens in Vegas 1007 01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:40,159 and Tahoe and La stays there. Yes, allegedly unless you bring it home 1008 01:09:40,159 --> 01:09:45,479 in the form of an STI no, Mississippi, Mississippi, Mississippi. And 1009 01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:48,239 the reason I think it is and I had I have to see and I 1010 01:09:48,319 --> 01:09:53,079 didn't do a cross check. But someone can do this and you can write 1011 01:09:53,119 --> 01:09:57,359 me at by texting two O six eighty eight sixty six five five two of 1012 01:09:57,359 --> 01:10:00,560 six eighty eight sixty six. I think Mississippi is one of the or states 1013 01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:04,359 in the in the Union, in the United States, and I think sex 1014 01:10:04,399 --> 01:10:10,319 feels good, it's free, and it feels better without a condom. I 1015 01:10:10,399 --> 01:10:14,479 mean, she'd call them a convenience store in Mississippi, some like a drug 1016 01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:18,479 store in Mississippi. Find out how their sales of condoms are lives, you 1017 01:10:18,479 --> 01:10:23,319 know, I mean, and all of a sudden, they said, well, 1018 01:10:23,319 --> 01:10:27,199 we don't really sell too many. It makes sense, it makes well 1019 01:10:27,720 --> 01:10:30,640 according to the dad I saw, and all came out. It's all from 1020 01:10:30,680 --> 01:10:32,760 twenty twenty two. But we're not that far away. No, it's so. 1021 01:10:33,039 --> 01:10:36,000 Yes, that was the thing. You say, you weren't very sexually 1022 01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:40,199 active, but we know some of your history. Right, How did that? 1023 01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:44,439 How did that come about? And I asked this because here's the thing. 1024 01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:49,560 I think that we're very uptight sexually, yeah, and body image wise 1025 01:10:49,640 --> 01:10:54,920 in the United States. We just I had a person who owns a newdest 1026 01:10:55,079 --> 01:10:59,319 camp where you can go and camp for the summer, just west of Almany. 1027 01:10:59,439 --> 01:11:01,319 Then there's one up here called Empire Haven and we talked to her and 1028 01:11:01,359 --> 01:11:04,479 I asked her one of the things, like, well, she's been a 1029 01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:09,159 newdist for fourteen years and then it ended up buying this place. She's about 1030 01:11:09,159 --> 01:11:13,319 our age and she said. I said to her, what is it done 1031 01:11:13,359 --> 01:11:15,880 for your body image to be newis? She said, it's done, wonders 1032 01:11:16,239 --> 01:11:20,199 because all those flaws, all those things, she said, and even with 1033 01:11:20,479 --> 01:11:25,760 everybody's got something, and when the clothes are off, the only thing you've 1034 01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:28,720 got is your personality, and that's when you really get to know people. 1035 01:11:29,039 --> 01:11:31,119 And she said, and I've loved it. I've loved it, and there's 1036 01:11:31,119 --> 01:11:36,560 no judgment and there's no anything but go anywhere and ask people and naked what 1037 01:11:36,760 --> 01:11:41,319 No, they don't want to be right because we have this thing in our 1038 01:11:41,359 --> 01:11:44,880 head. So I think the same thing with sex. I think some people 1039 01:11:44,920 --> 01:11:49,000 won't ask to try something, or maybe they're curious about something but afraid to 1040 01:11:49,079 --> 01:11:53,319 try it for judgment reasons or what is the other person going to think? 1041 01:11:53,359 --> 01:11:56,640 And all that stuff. I'm just curious and I hope it doesn't get you 1042 01:11:56,680 --> 01:11:58,880 in trouble. And I don't know if you even want to answer the question, 1043 01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:01,520 but how did I don't remember if we ever got into how you even 1044 01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:11,319 discovered that watching live action was a cool thing for you. I don't know, 1045 01:12:12,720 --> 01:12:15,920 like, how does it come up? Like I'm always curious how something 1046 01:12:15,960 --> 01:12:19,319 comes up. I see a crime and I go, how did somebody convince 1047 01:12:19,319 --> 01:12:23,640 somebody else to go along with them on this? That's how the fuck? 1048 01:12:24,640 --> 01:12:29,520 Well, okay, I'll tell you for about the first time we went to 1049 01:12:29,560 --> 01:12:35,600 wood We went to Woodstock yeah four okay and Woodstock ninety four. Yeah. 1050 01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:40,199 How did you go down there? I mean, how did I go down 1051 01:12:40,199 --> 01:12:44,000 there? You went you actually went to one side and they okay, yeah, 1052 01:12:44,560 --> 01:12:47,439 did you go with We's no, I started that. I started that 1053 01:12:47,560 --> 01:12:51,439 month, so I we bought tickets and stuff. So I went down with 1054 01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:55,640 a bunch of people and we decided we went down early, so we decided 1055 01:12:55,640 --> 01:12:59,399 to stay in the hotel. Well, I was sleeping in one bad and 1056 01:12:59,439 --> 01:13:02,439 that's bad, and that's pretty much. And they started fooling around and you 1057 01:13:02,479 --> 01:13:05,680 were able to just watch, yes, and then you go, hey, 1058 01:13:05,720 --> 01:13:08,960 I kind of dig this. I was like, that's not bad. Yeah, 1059 01:13:09,000 --> 01:13:13,800 yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's interesting. And so but 1060 01:13:13,840 --> 01:13:18,319 then how do you take that to somebody else? It's just it just happens 1061 01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:21,640 you just can't. It's hard, it's hard to describe. Yeah, I 1062 01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:24,720 know, you don't do it, and I'm and I'm I hope I'm not 1063 01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:30,239 embarrassing out of pure curiosity. Just it's a it's a thing that I always 1064 01:13:30,239 --> 01:13:34,520 go that's interesting because there are live shows in other countries where you can go 1065 01:13:34,560 --> 01:13:41,079 in and watch, right right, So clearly this is something that's a form 1066 01:13:41,159 --> 01:13:45,600 of gratification for people that other countries go Hey, yeah, we know, 1067 01:13:45,720 --> 01:13:48,359 come on in. Yeah, I mean, but here, I don't. 1068 01:13:48,640 --> 01:13:51,840 I mean, could you imagine if there was like live sex acts. Look, 1069 01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:57,119 there's a massage place in Avon that they're investigating right now. It's called 1070 01:13:57,159 --> 01:14:00,119 the Candy Lane or I Forget or Candy Baker those places alone. Okay, 1071 01:14:00,159 --> 01:14:04,880 Well i'll tell you why. I think because the person that runs it is 1072 01:14:05,000 --> 01:14:13,800 a training and I don't know anything. I think I had somebody look some 1073 01:14:13,840 --> 01:14:16,960 stuff up on the internet, found the person. They say that they're uh, 1074 01:14:17,840 --> 01:14:21,920 transsexual, and but they still have the male equipment but look like dressed 1075 01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:25,560 like a female, you know, all the stuff. So you come in 1076 01:14:25,920 --> 01:14:29,439 and I think it's people going there, and I think somebody got a massage 1077 01:14:29,439 --> 01:14:32,239 and found out it was a transactual and lost their mind. I really agree, 1078 01:14:32,399 --> 01:14:34,039 I do. And I think they went, well, fuck this, 1079 01:14:34,119 --> 01:14:39,680 we're getting this place closed because I think the I think every town I know, 1080 01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:42,399 you think, like the swankie towns don't have it. There was one 1081 01:14:42,479 --> 01:14:45,880 busted in Pittsford years ago, right around the corner from my house. So 1082 01:14:46,159 --> 01:14:49,840 grease shuts them down all the time. Yeah, yeah, well it's good 1083 01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:53,520 money in it. There is good money, good money in shutting it down. 1084 01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:57,000 Probably, Yeah, I would think. I would think that there's a 1085 01:14:57,039 --> 01:14:59,840 way to and it also makes you look good to your constituents. We're getting 1086 01:14:59,840 --> 01:15:01,479 the a forraf out, you know what I mean. Yeah, I don't 1087 01:15:01,479 --> 01:15:05,960 think anybody this place. I don't know. There's been no rest associated with 1088 01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:10,800 this massage parlor. There's been no bad act. I can understand. Well, 1089 01:15:10,840 --> 01:15:14,159 they can bring a certain element that maybe you don't want. I'm not 1090 01:15:14,199 --> 01:15:16,319 going to discount that. But I think the bigger thing here is that it 1091 01:15:16,359 --> 01:15:19,439 was it's a transsexual. And I think somebody went in for a massage and 1092 01:15:19,479 --> 01:15:23,560 got a happy ending and then found out. I don't know, do you 1093 01:15:23,600 --> 01:15:27,039 ever listen? You ever? You you went TikTok? Right? Yeah? 1094 01:15:27,239 --> 01:15:30,720 Do you ever you know Candace Owans is correct? Yes, do you ever 1095 01:15:30,760 --> 01:15:33,439 see Charlie Kirk? No, you gotta check this guy out. This guy 1096 01:15:33,600 --> 01:15:39,239 like he's one of the he's in Candide Owens camp. There is he a 1097 01:15:39,239 --> 01:15:45,560 black guy? No? Actually he date candas Actually Charlie Kirk dates some Deana 1098 01:15:46,199 --> 01:15:50,720 Deana Patrick? Did I say that? Right? Patrick? The race car. 1099 01:15:51,039 --> 01:15:56,840 So what he does is he goes to colleges and he does and he 1100 01:15:56,920 --> 01:16:00,479 does talks. But he's a very he's very conservative, like very conservative, 1101 01:16:01,119 --> 01:16:05,960 and he has no college education and he trashes people to have college education. 1102 01:16:06,560 --> 01:16:12,479 And he's right. I mean, this guy is smarter than somebody that's standing 1103 01:16:12,520 --> 01:16:15,239 in front of him that thinks that they can they can talk, you know, 1104 01:16:15,279 --> 01:16:19,399 they can overpower what he thinks. And he just has a lot of 1105 01:16:19,399 --> 01:16:21,960 good points. And it's like, and I'm not a conservative, I'm not 1106 01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:25,640 a liberal. I'm just like right in the middle, you know. And 1107 01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:29,560 it's like, but I like, we've gotten to a point in this country 1108 01:16:29,640 --> 01:16:32,560 where you're either with me or or against me, but there's no in between, 1109 01:16:32,760 --> 01:16:35,000 right, And I think that's a bad place. I think so too. 1110 01:16:35,159 --> 01:16:40,760 And I even watched this Harrison Butker is at his name the kicker for 1111 01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:43,359 the Kansas City Chiefs. So can you in to me a favor? Can 1112 01:16:43,439 --> 01:16:47,359 you tell me that story? Because I don't know. Okay, So Harrison, 1113 01:16:48,199 --> 01:16:50,399 I hope I got the right guy. I might I might be saying 1114 01:16:50,399 --> 01:16:55,560 his name wrong. He's the kicker for the Chiefs. And he was invited 1115 01:16:55,560 --> 01:17:00,680 to a conservative Catholic college to give a commencement speech, and he gave a 1116 01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:04,479 twenty minute speech that I don't think most people have listened to the whole thing, 1117 01:17:05,159 --> 01:17:11,079 and some of it would be he said, some of you. I'm 1118 01:17:11,119 --> 01:17:13,880 speaking directly to the women. I think you've been sold to bill of goods, 1119 01:17:14,279 --> 01:17:17,399 he said, because I think that most of you may be sitting here 1120 01:17:17,439 --> 01:17:21,760 thinking of the accolades you're going to get for your career, but you're probably 1121 01:17:21,800 --> 01:17:26,199 going to get a greater satisfaction. And maybe I'm paraphrasing, and we should 1122 01:17:26,279 --> 01:17:28,359 take a break and I'll play it, and we'll find it and play it. 1123 01:17:28,960 --> 01:17:32,640 But basically, he said, you'll get greatest satisfaction of being at home 1124 01:17:32,680 --> 01:17:38,039 with your kids and having kids. And so I think most people heard that 1125 01:17:38,079 --> 01:17:43,840 as a women's place is in the kitchen. Isn't that so I think that. 1126 01:17:44,680 --> 01:17:46,159 But so somebody asked me, what do you think of it? And 1127 01:17:46,159 --> 01:17:49,479 I said, well, it doesn't matter. He wasn't speaking to me. 1128 01:17:50,239 --> 01:17:55,439 Nobody at the place where he made the speech got up and was offended. 1129 01:17:55,760 --> 01:18:00,520 They weren't, not one person that he was speaking to the audience of this 1130 01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:04,560 place that he was right in line with the way they think. So they 1131 01:18:04,600 --> 01:18:09,560 weren't offended. And this wasn't for you. This was for them. And 1132 01:18:10,159 --> 01:18:14,439 what makes our societies great is there's conservatives and there's liberals, and that we 1133 01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:16,359 get to pepper it all through and we try to find a balance somewhere in 1134 01:18:16,399 --> 01:18:20,680 between. I'm not I'm not going to comment whether he's right or wrong that 1135 01:18:20,840 --> 01:18:27,760 he made to get outraged, to be outraged by this. He's not going 1136 01:18:27,840 --> 01:18:30,640 to control things. These people are going to make their own decisions. You 1137 01:18:30,680 --> 01:18:34,960 can make your own decision. But the people who that this speech was intended 1138 01:18:35,000 --> 01:18:40,199 for liked it, were not offended by it, And so what the fuck 1139 01:18:40,239 --> 01:18:44,199 do you care? It was my thinking. I agree, and I'm not 1140 01:18:44,279 --> 01:18:46,880 saying one way or the other. Whether I'm not in any way saying he's 1141 01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:50,800 right or he's wrong, I'm not what I'm saying to you is why are 1142 01:18:50,840 --> 01:18:55,239 you getting upset? You can have your own opinion, but you didn't go 1143 01:18:55,319 --> 01:19:00,600 to the conservative school, didn't You didn't attend that Catholic college he was. 1144 01:19:00,159 --> 01:19:04,920 He's right in line with what they teach and what they the way they think. 1145 01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:10,920 I would I would believe because nobody from the institution, and nobody from 1146 01:19:10,920 --> 01:19:14,119 the audience that I've seen anywhere, and we all live in a world where 1147 01:19:14,119 --> 01:19:17,359 everything comes out now has said anything negative about it. The only thing that's 1148 01:19:17,399 --> 01:19:20,920 been negative is everybody else and is the NFL. And all had backed away 1149 01:19:21,359 --> 01:19:28,479 because why because you're afraid of backlash from people who are gonna make a snap 1150 01:19:28,600 --> 01:19:31,479 judgment on a clip. Maybe, and I haven't seen the whole speech. 1151 01:19:32,119 --> 01:19:36,560 I say this all the time. Maybe in full context what he said makes 1152 01:19:36,760 --> 01:19:40,159 makes sense. Maybe you can look at and go, Okay, I don't 1153 01:19:40,199 --> 01:19:43,439 agree with it, but I see his points. But instead we take a 1154 01:19:43,479 --> 01:19:45,640 clip, it gets out. It's viral. He wants women in the kitchen, 1155 01:19:45,680 --> 01:19:48,079 and I don't know that that's the case, but I do know this. 1156 01:19:48,560 --> 01:19:53,319 The audience he spoke to was not upset. And it's funny you see 1157 01:19:53,319 --> 01:20:00,399 that because it's like, remember when when McDermott. Remember when reporter talks about 1158 01:20:00,399 --> 01:20:04,479 what McDermott said a couple of years ago about the Yes, yeah, and 1159 01:20:04,520 --> 01:20:08,079 you played and I was all pissed off. Yes, then you played it. 1160 01:20:08,119 --> 01:20:10,000 We played it, and you played it for me. Yes, And 1161 01:20:10,039 --> 01:20:13,159 they missed a big piece of what it was, what he was trying, 1162 01:20:13,319 --> 01:20:15,039 what that reporter was trying to reporter was trying to do. It's just show 1163 01:20:15,079 --> 01:20:19,840 a pattern of of a guy who isn't connecting with his players, right, 1164 01:20:20,399 --> 01:20:25,600 and the nine to eleven thing we all jump on as though it's the most 1165 01:20:25,640 --> 01:20:27,359 horrible thing. We go, Oh, it was a mistake. It was 1166 01:20:27,439 --> 01:20:30,239 just one where he came back and he did apologize. It was years ago 1167 01:20:30,359 --> 01:20:34,159 and and so. But yes, I think that sometimes we have to we 1168 01:20:34,479 --> 01:20:40,039 everything comes now in sound bites. Our attention span has gotten shorter and shorter 1169 01:20:40,079 --> 01:20:43,479 and shorter. I think TikTok's up to ten minutes. Tell me anybody who 1170 01:20:43,479 --> 01:20:46,399 sits through a ten minute of TikTok? Has anybody sat through a ten minute 1171 01:20:46,399 --> 01:20:49,800 of TikTok? If they're if you? If you have? I do all 1172 01:20:49,840 --> 01:20:54,319 the time, okay, because I will be honest. There are times so 1173 01:20:54,600 --> 01:20:57,600 where if I get the gist of what the TikTok is, and it's ten 1174 01:20:57,600 --> 01:21:00,359 minutes and I'm three minutes in. I'm on, I'm onto something else. 1175 01:21:00,359 --> 01:21:02,680 And I think most people are that way these days. So again, if 1176 01:21:02,680 --> 01:21:06,840 we see a quick Butcker, if I hope I'm not mispronouncing his nam but 1177 01:21:08,439 --> 01:21:12,119 the Kicker for Kansas City's speech, you're seeing a snippet. I'm not going 1178 01:21:12,199 --> 01:21:15,840 to say that. Maybe in context of your your first opinion is the right 1179 01:21:15,840 --> 01:21:18,800 one to have. I don't know I'm saying. 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You're a fan 1215 01:23:57,439 --> 01:24:00,399 of Burl Jam kind of, I'm a fan. I like this guy, 1216 01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:06,239 Glenn Hanster. He's Iris. He's an Irish Irish singer. He is in 1217 01:24:06,319 --> 01:24:13,159 the movie Once and Addie Vatter has brought him on tour with him and has 1218 01:24:13,199 --> 01:24:15,800 opened up. He's given him kind of a shot the you know, mainstream 1219 01:24:16,159 --> 01:24:20,479 we'll see this guy because he's really talented, and so yeah, I mean, 1220 01:24:20,600 --> 01:24:26,000 yeah, yeah, I think I went to see him. My college 1221 01:24:26,039 --> 01:24:28,880 roommate was really into. We used to go to the House of Guitars for 1222 01:24:28,960 --> 01:24:33,479 the midnight release of the imports on the Input imports like recordings from overseas and 1223 01:24:33,520 --> 01:24:38,119 stuff and get their import album. My college roomate, Scott Finzich, was 1224 01:24:38,159 --> 01:24:43,520 very into that. But I play this because you told me that because of 1225 01:24:43,560 --> 01:24:48,840 Harrison Butker, Kansas City canceled and it's just and I don't take this the 1226 01:24:48,840 --> 01:24:54,399 wrong way. It's not true. I mean it is not true. It's 1227 01:24:54,439 --> 01:24:58,560 not true. Snope says has it here, and I'm gonna break it down. 1228 01:25:00,079 --> 01:25:02,760 Kansas City cancels three Pearl Jam shows at Arrowhead Stadium. We stand with 1229 01:25:02,800 --> 01:25:08,720 Harrison Butker because and there is video of Eddie Vedder going on an anti Harrison 1230 01:25:08,760 --> 01:25:13,800 Butker rant. We're going to play two. I'm going to play two clips 1231 01:25:13,840 --> 01:25:18,119 from Harrison's twenty plus minute speech at Benedictine College, and I will again go 1232 01:25:18,239 --> 01:25:25,520 back to my thoughts on it, but we'll see this Originated as satire. 1233 01:25:26,239 --> 01:25:31,279 May twenty first, an ex user at Justice posted a meme displaying photos of 1234 01:25:31,319 --> 01:25:36,159 Pearl Jams Eddie Vedder and Kansas City Chiefs kicker Harrison Butker with the words Kansas 1235 01:25:36,239 --> 01:25:43,479 City cancels three Pearl Jam shows at Arrowhead Stadium. We stand with Harrison Butker. 1236 01:25:43,880 --> 01:25:46,000 The Chiefs play home games at Arrowhead Stadium, located in Kansas City, 1237 01:25:46,000 --> 01:25:50,079 Missouri, and it says after Pearl Jams Eddie Vedder went on anti Harrison Butker 1238 01:25:50,159 --> 01:25:54,880 ran the front office at Arrowhead Stadium canceled three of the band's upcoming shows. 1239 01:25:55,039 --> 01:25:59,520 We stand with Harrison Busker and his admirable moral values veteran. His band can 1240 01:25:59,560 --> 01:26:02,479 find somewhere else to play. The move will cost the band about fourteen million 1241 01:26:02,520 --> 01:26:05,359 dollars. Ouch is what they write, and then there's the picture as I 1242 01:26:05,399 --> 01:26:11,279 saw this. So then people started this whole thing on all kinds of social 1243 01:26:11,279 --> 01:26:16,199 media. It spreads like wildfire, and they start saying things like go woke, 1244 01:26:16,319 --> 01:26:20,800 go broke, meaning that well, the truth of it is, Kansas 1245 01:26:20,800 --> 01:26:26,920 City was never on Pearl Jam's tour schedule from the beginning. Yeah, they 1246 01:26:26,960 --> 01:26:31,279 were never playing they were never playing there. Somebody did this. But we 1247 01:26:31,359 --> 01:26:34,399 live in a world where it makes sense that that would happen, right, 1248 01:26:34,560 --> 01:26:40,199 does it not? The power play and the whole thing with the going woke 1249 01:26:40,279 --> 01:26:42,920 and Butker and we're going to stand with Butcker and we're not going to stand 1250 01:26:42,920 --> 01:26:47,319 with Bucker And it becomes a political thing when I don't. I mean, 1251 01:26:47,399 --> 01:26:50,880 three nights of narrow had made sense to me. Of course, of course 1252 01:26:50,920 --> 01:26:55,600 it does. Three nights at a huge stadium. They're selling out. They 1253 01:26:55,680 --> 01:26:59,560 think Pearl Jam could sell out three nights of a stadium, like damn, 1254 01:26:59,560 --> 01:27:02,159 maybe one night maybe, I don't know. I'll tell you this that I 1255 01:27:02,239 --> 01:27:05,720 was I was going to go this weekend and my plans changed to see the 1256 01:27:05,760 --> 01:27:12,439 Stones in met Life Stadium. And I think you can get tickets on the 1257 01:27:12,520 --> 01:27:15,239 floor for one hundred and eighteen dollars. If you try to get tickets on 1258 01:27:15,239 --> 01:27:18,600 the floor in Cleveland, they're five hundred and sixty five, six hundred bucks 1259 01:27:18,640 --> 01:27:21,920 for the Stones. Yeah, I think that. I just think they're not 1260 01:27:23,039 --> 01:27:25,880 selling as well. I think the economy is weird, and I think it's 1261 01:27:25,920 --> 01:27:29,920 a bad weekend. It's a bad weekend people are going, so that's why 1262 01:27:29,920 --> 01:27:31,279 I thought it would be great to go. And then my plans changed and 1263 01:27:31,359 --> 01:27:34,560 they I don't know if I'm ex I was excited, and then I'm all 1264 01:27:34,560 --> 01:27:39,159 of a sudden like I've seen him a bunch of times and I would love 1265 01:27:39,199 --> 01:27:42,960 to see him at eighty and one last thing. I wanted to take my 1266 01:27:43,039 --> 01:27:45,079 mom. Her plans changed and I was like, okay, then you know, 1267 01:27:45,640 --> 01:27:49,399 but whatever, So Harrison, Butker, so this is not true. 1268 01:27:49,439 --> 01:27:55,159 That that statement is not true. But Snopes dug into it. Somebody did 1269 01:27:55,159 --> 01:27:59,000 it thinking it was funny, and it caught wildfire because in the world we 1270 01:27:59,039 --> 01:28:01,880 live in today, it makes sense. It makes sense. It's something like 1271 01:28:01,920 --> 01:28:08,239 that that could happen. It did not happen. Let me go over to 1272 01:28:09,560 --> 01:28:14,439 the Harris Doctor's speech and see if I can get Okay, So I'm going 1273 01:28:14,479 --> 01:28:16,560 to play this this portion of the speech. This is something I hadn't heard 1274 01:28:16,560 --> 01:28:20,279 but when I was scrubbing through. And I apologize because I have listened to 1275 01:28:20,359 --> 01:28:24,720 the whole speech. Will I will say that from the beginning, but I'm 1276 01:28:24,720 --> 01:28:28,399 going to play this, this one piece, and then I will make a 1277 01:28:28,439 --> 01:28:31,520 comment and then I think that the comment will kind of stand with you'll see 1278 01:28:31,880 --> 01:28:38,159 my thoughts on this follow I am certain the reporters at the AP could not 1279 01:28:38,319 --> 01:28:42,920 have imagined that their attempt to rebuke and embarrass places and people like those here 1280 01:28:42,920 --> 01:28:46,840 of Benedictine wouldn't be met with anger, but instead met with excitement and pride. 1281 01:28:47,640 --> 01:28:51,000 Not the deadly sin sort of pride that has an entire month dedicated to 1282 01:28:51,039 --> 01:28:57,960 it, but the true God centered hang on, hang on, I see, 1283 01:28:58,079 --> 01:29:03,399 I see your face, and I stand on the side of I think 1284 01:29:03,880 --> 01:29:09,279 that if you believe in God, God doesn't make mistakes, and if God 1285 01:29:09,279 --> 01:29:14,720 made somebody gay, then they're gay, right And for I said this last 1286 01:29:14,800 --> 01:29:16,880 night, we did a bit when it was me and Tommy doing the break 1287 01:29:16,960 --> 01:29:21,479 room where we learned that guys on the download would back into area parks. 1288 01:29:21,920 --> 01:29:27,000 So we went to Genesee Valley Park and we backed in to see who would 1289 01:29:27,000 --> 01:29:30,920 get hit on first, because who was the hotter one, who is the 1290 01:29:30,960 --> 01:29:35,439 bigger gay attraction? And I remember Phil Sherman was part of our show, 1291 01:29:35,800 --> 01:29:41,720 Phil Backson and a guy, an older man sixty five, smartly looked at 1292 01:29:41,760 --> 01:29:44,640 like the happy grandpa. You could see him where all the kids would love 1293 01:29:44,680 --> 01:29:46,479 him and just a big, loving family, like the head of his family 1294 01:29:46,560 --> 01:29:50,119 right, and everybody loved him. He says to him, Hey, what 1295 01:29:50,119 --> 01:29:54,479 are you doing? And Phil goes, oh, and he goes, you 1296 01:29:54,520 --> 01:29:56,680 want to want to take a walk, is what the guy said. That's 1297 01:29:56,720 --> 01:29:58,560 what he said, you want to take a walk. Because they would go 1298 01:29:58,560 --> 01:30:02,520 off into the woods. And Phil says, nah, I'm I'm I'm married. 1299 01:30:02,600 --> 01:30:05,680 And the guy goes me too and holds up his hand. Phil goes, 1300 01:30:05,800 --> 01:30:08,920 I'm waiting for my wife to bring the dogs. We're going to take 1301 01:30:08,920 --> 01:30:11,800 a walk. He goes, Okay. Now the man never said another thing. 1302 01:30:11,880 --> 01:30:14,640 He didn't hit, he didn't press, he didn't make anything uncomfortable. 1303 01:30:14,640 --> 01:30:18,520 He just did fine. What change for me was our society has taken this 1304 01:30:18,600 --> 01:30:24,000 person and made hit whatever his preference was, whatever he was at his core, 1305 01:30:24,399 --> 01:30:28,720 and pushed it into a park at sixty five years old, that he 1306 01:30:28,760 --> 01:30:31,760 could never be authentically himself, and if he came out now it would ruin 1307 01:30:31,800 --> 01:30:35,319 people's lives. He's lied to his wife as to who he really was, 1308 01:30:35,960 --> 01:30:40,720 and so she's gonna feel that way. And so now the ripple effect of 1309 01:30:41,199 --> 01:30:43,960 this guy coming out is horrible, and I thought, holy shit, your 1310 01:30:44,000 --> 01:30:47,119 whole life, your whole maybe sad for this guy. You could never be 1311 01:30:47,239 --> 01:30:50,279 who you truly are. So I don't agree with what this guy is saying, 1312 01:30:50,960 --> 01:30:57,840 but he's speaking to a Catholic college. They all buy into this, 1313 01:30:59,279 --> 01:31:01,439 but they all buy in to it, sure, Benedictine College. So the 1314 01:31:01,560 --> 01:31:03,960 audience that was there, that's what I'm saying. You know, like, 1315 01:31:04,079 --> 01:31:10,199 if you don't agree with something, then don't join the organization. There's plenty 1316 01:31:10,199 --> 01:31:13,720 of other organizations that probably do have things you agree with. If you don't 1317 01:31:13,800 --> 01:31:16,680 agree with Catholicism to this level, then fine, there are other churches, 1318 01:31:17,079 --> 01:31:21,920 there's other you know. I don't know that I have gay people at the 1319 01:31:21,920 --> 01:31:27,439 head of the church right this, But this is ultra conservative. He makes 1320 01:31:27,479 --> 01:31:30,880 that statement. That's one I hadn't heard until I was scrubbing through. This 1321 01:31:30,960 --> 01:31:35,840 is the one that everybody's talking about and was played everywhere and again. I'll 1322 01:31:35,880 --> 01:31:41,439 just play it and let you decide. Loss of twenty twenty four, you 1323 01:31:41,479 --> 01:31:44,960 are sitting at the edge of the rest of your lives. Each of you 1324 01:31:45,000 --> 01:31:48,680 has the potential to leave a legacy that transcends yourselves and this era of human 1325 01:31:48,720 --> 01:31:54,119 existence in the small ways. By living out your vocation, you will ensure 1326 01:31:54,159 --> 01:31:58,880 that God's Church continues and the world is enlightened by your example. For the 1327 01:31:58,960 --> 01:32:03,479 ladies present to congratulations on an amazing park accomplishment, you should be proud of 1328 01:32:03,520 --> 01:32:08,079 all that you have achieved to this point in your young lives. I want 1329 01:32:08,079 --> 01:32:12,119 to speak directly to you briefly because I think it is you the women who 1330 01:32:12,199 --> 01:32:15,520 have had the most diabolical lives told to you. How many of you are 1331 01:32:15,520 --> 01:32:18,960 sitting here now about to cross this stage and are thinking about all the promotions 1332 01:32:19,000 --> 01:32:23,159 and titles you are going to get in your career. Some of you may 1333 01:32:23,159 --> 01:32:26,239 go on to lead successful careers in the world, but I would venture to 1334 01:32:26,239 --> 01:32:30,720 guess that the majority of you are most excited about your marriage and the children 1335 01:32:30,760 --> 01:32:33,319 you will bring into this world. I can tell you that my beautiful wife 1336 01:32:33,359 --> 01:32:39,119 Isabelle, the first to say that her life truly started when she began living 1337 01:32:39,159 --> 01:32:43,680 her vocation as a wife and as a mother. I'm on this stage today 1338 01:32:43,840 --> 01:32:46,600 and able to be the man I am because I have a wife who leans 1339 01:32:46,760 --> 01:32:51,640 into her vocation. I'm beyond blessed with the many talents God has given me, 1340 01:32:53,000 --> 01:32:58,920 but It cannot be overstated that all of my success is made possible because 1341 01:32:58,960 --> 01:33:06,319 a girl I met in bankclass us back in middle school em faith become my 1342 01:33:06,399 --> 01:33:15,119 wife and embrace one of the most important titles of all homemaker. I don't 1343 01:33:15,159 --> 01:33:17,760 think there's maying wrong with that, Okay, but see, most people would 1344 01:33:17,760 --> 01:33:21,640 say, you're saying that women should be homemakers. He was just saying that. 1345 01:33:21,800 --> 01:33:27,159 He's saying that that he what I what do you think he was saying, 1346 01:33:27,159 --> 01:33:29,359 I'm cutting you off? That's right. I think he's saying that his 1347 01:33:29,439 --> 01:33:31,720 woman was a home man. I don't think he was saying all women should 1348 01:33:31,760 --> 01:33:34,720 be I think he said some women will be well. I think he if 1349 01:33:34,720 --> 01:33:38,600 we go back and we could scrub back a little bit, the way I 1350 01:33:38,640 --> 01:33:44,319 heard it was what you meant, probably what is going to be most fulfilling 1351 01:33:44,399 --> 01:33:48,520 for you is to be a mother and have children and be a homemaker. 1352 01:33:49,159 --> 01:33:54,239 Like you're going to get your most joy out of that. Maybe I don't. 1353 01:33:54,239 --> 01:33:56,159 I don't know. I'm not a woman. I didn't. I don't. 1354 01:33:56,199 --> 01:33:59,159 I've never had these longings to have a you know what I'm saying. 1355 01:33:59,239 --> 01:34:02,039 I like, I like, I liked having kids, but it wasn't something 1356 01:34:02,079 --> 01:34:05,880 that since I was a little person, I didn't think, well, someday 1357 01:34:05,920 --> 01:34:09,479 I'll have a baby. You know I would. It's not how guys think. 1358 01:34:09,479 --> 01:34:13,880 It's yeah, I think it is. I think or some certainly. 1359 01:34:14,199 --> 01:34:20,319 So here here My only point with this is Harrison Butker made a some what 1360 01:34:20,960 --> 01:34:26,800 could be deemed a controversial statement on two We played two of them. One 1361 01:34:26,880 --> 01:34:30,600 I write, okay, but he didn't make it to people who did. 1362 01:34:30,600 --> 01:34:36,399 He was speaking to an audience that believes this. He wasn't out just willy 1363 01:34:36,479 --> 01:34:39,800 nilly. He didn't you know what I mean. He didn't get up in 1364 01:34:39,800 --> 01:34:43,880 an auditorium and say you should be home. And he didn't do that. 1365 01:34:44,319 --> 01:34:46,800 And this is the world we live in. I don't agree with what the 1366 01:34:46,840 --> 01:34:49,680 guy is saying. I understand, Hey, if I had a daughter, 1367 01:34:49,800 --> 01:34:53,640 go be the biggest person you could be. You want to be a career 1368 01:34:53,680 --> 01:34:58,159 and do everything and get into all the boys club and whatever it is, 1369 01:34:58,239 --> 01:35:01,359 and really achieve or build your own business. Yes, yes, go, 1370 01:35:02,199 --> 01:35:06,479 I'm not saying this. But on the other hand, people in this audience, 1371 01:35:06,800 --> 01:35:13,960 he was speaking to the core. They believe this is their values. 1372 01:35:14,159 --> 01:35:16,199 This is their values. If you don't agree with their values. Well, 1373 01:35:16,239 --> 01:35:19,600 then you don't go to Benedictine College, right, You have a choice, 1374 01:35:19,600 --> 01:35:21,760 and you don't go there. They chose to go there. I don't even 1375 01:35:21,800 --> 01:35:25,479 know where Benedictine is. I mean, I don't know that I'm familiar with 1376 01:35:25,520 --> 01:35:30,000 that college. It's not a university, it's a college. So it's small, 1377 01:35:30,119 --> 01:35:34,640 it's private, it's Catholic, it's conservative. Maybe like a lot of 1378 01:35:34,640 --> 01:35:40,439 the Christian schools. People get married young. Some of the reason is faith, 1379 01:35:40,520 --> 01:35:42,199 and you want to have sex, and you can have sex. You 1380 01:35:42,239 --> 01:35:44,960 have married, so let's get married and start banging, right. I mean, 1381 01:35:44,960 --> 01:35:48,000 that's why you see a lot of young people in religions married. That's 1382 01:35:48,039 --> 01:35:53,159 what it was with Mormons. I mean, I spent time in Utah. 1383 01:35:53,239 --> 01:35:57,520 I lived there for a while or summer or first summer, and I saw 1384 01:35:57,560 --> 01:36:00,039 this stuff. Young people like, you know, married, Okay, there's 1385 01:36:00,039 --> 01:36:05,239 nothing wrong with it what he's saying. What I find odd is that everybody 1386 01:36:05,279 --> 01:36:11,319 then has to comment on what was a private speech. This wasn't broadcast to 1387 01:36:11,359 --> 01:36:14,199 the world. I mean, maybe maybe it was. You know, if 1388 01:36:14,199 --> 01:36:17,279 you had the link and your grandmother couldn't make it to graduation, she could 1389 01:36:17,279 --> 01:36:23,640 watch on watching that's it. But it wasn't like you understand what I'm saying. 1390 01:36:24,000 --> 01:36:27,920 It wasn't. So what are we doing where this guy he's not allowed 1391 01:36:27,920 --> 01:36:30,880 to have his opinions. We got to go ranting against them. And now 1392 01:36:30,920 --> 01:36:35,079 we were yelling from concert stages this guy's an asshole. Okay, we could 1393 01:36:35,119 --> 01:36:39,560 think he's an asshole, but he wasn't talking to you. He was never 1394 01:36:39,680 --> 01:36:43,239 talking to you. And the fact that the NFL has to step back, 1395 01:36:43,720 --> 01:36:47,560 why you are the home of wife beaters. We've had guys in that league 1396 01:36:47,800 --> 01:36:53,960 that finally it took a videotape of one guy dragging his girlfriend or wife out 1397 01:36:53,960 --> 01:36:58,960 of an elevator to actually get him banned from the league. But are you 1398 01:36:59,119 --> 01:37:04,760 fucking kidding me? And now you're gonna step away from from this this I'm 1399 01:37:04,800 --> 01:37:09,840 not saying that I agree with what he's saying. He didn't beat anybody. 1400 01:37:10,000 --> 01:37:14,439 He's actually telling you, have a family, have values, have morals, 1401 01:37:14,640 --> 01:37:17,680 have that. But that's what you're gonna back away from. And yet every 1402 01:37:17,720 --> 01:37:23,720 every motherfucker that beats people and gets drunk and drives fast and reckless, and 1403 01:37:24,039 --> 01:37:27,279 hey, but they're really gonna catching the ball. Fuck, what are we 1404 01:37:27,319 --> 01:37:30,960 gonna do you know you understand and that that's the problem I have in that 1405 01:37:31,119 --> 01:37:33,960 I don't have to agree with what he said, but I can't agree with 1406 01:37:34,000 --> 01:37:38,079 the fact that he didn't say it to me because I'm not a Catholic and 1407 01:37:38,119 --> 01:37:41,239 I don't have anybody going to Benedictine College. And if I did, then 1408 01:37:41,359 --> 01:37:44,640 I have to play by those rules. And if I don't want to support 1409 01:37:44,680 --> 01:37:45,760 that, then I could get got up and walked out. And you want 1410 01:37:45,760 --> 01:37:48,079 to know what happened at the end of his speech. He got a standing 1411 01:37:48,079 --> 01:37:53,239 ovation. He got a standing ovation. So there you go. That's I'm 1412 01:37:53,279 --> 01:37:56,399 sorry to Rampling. No, it's okay, but you're everything you said I 1413 01:37:56,399 --> 01:37:59,840 agree with. Yeah, I'm spitting you see spits flying out of my mouths. 1414 01:38:00,000 --> 01:38:02,720 What happens with you come in here and I get all I get all 1415 01:38:03,199 --> 01:38:11,560 fucked up and whacked out. No, I wasn't. I had never intended 1416 01:38:11,560 --> 01:38:15,640 to talk about the Harrison Butker thing. I just it just never really came 1417 01:38:15,720 --> 01:38:16,880 up. And when you brought up saying I'm not familiar with that, I 1418 01:38:16,960 --> 01:38:23,319 go, this is a good time to do it, because uh, I 1419 01:38:23,399 --> 01:38:28,520 think that uh, everything I saw on it my brief exposure to it was 1420 01:38:29,279 --> 01:38:31,560 what do we react? Why are you getting twisted about a speech you weren't 1421 01:38:31,560 --> 01:38:35,359 even an intendance at. It was never intended for you to hear that they 1422 01:38:35,399 --> 01:38:41,279 weren't speaking to you. There's a million fucking things happening around the world that 1423 01:38:41,359 --> 01:38:44,520 you don't agree with, in this country, probably in the town you're sitting 1424 01:38:44,560 --> 01:38:46,119 in, that you don't agree with. Go get pissed about that, because 1425 01:38:46,119 --> 01:38:51,359 that'll have a bigger effect on your life than Harrison Butker's fucking speech, just 1426 01:38:51,479 --> 01:38:56,279 saying And the only thing that made me laugh is when I thought about it, 1427 01:38:56,319 --> 01:39:00,000 I go, I see the NFL has made a statement. Stepping back 1428 01:39:00,079 --> 01:39:03,720 from like Patrick Mahomes says, I never talked to him. We just sit 1429 01:39:03,760 --> 01:39:10,199 next to each So everybody's going Patrick Mahomes is telling us exactly who Harrison Bucker 1430 01:39:10,359 --> 01:39:13,840 is. So now we're painting this guy evil. And I'm not going to 1431 01:39:13,920 --> 01:39:17,039 say he can have these thoughts, but I'll tell you what, Harrison Bucker 1432 01:39:17,199 --> 01:39:23,600 sounds like. He's a pretty faithful, valued guy. He sounds like if 1433 01:39:23,680 --> 01:39:29,600 I interviewed, if we talked to fathers and they said, I said, 1434 01:39:29,600 --> 01:39:31,880 hey, Harrison Butcker wants to date your daughter. He's going to be faithful. 1435 01:39:31,960 --> 01:39:35,439 He'll have a high paying job. He'll he does want it to be 1436 01:39:35,479 --> 01:39:39,960 a homemaker. It sounds like that, well she can be he makes millions. 1437 01:39:40,159 --> 01:39:43,279 Yes, yeah, that's true. That's true. He says that that 1438 01:39:43,479 --> 01:39:47,520 was her vocation, her biggest vocation, which, by the way, every 1439 01:39:47,640 --> 01:39:51,960 year I think they break down what stay at home mom should be paid, 1440 01:39:54,680 --> 01:39:58,159 like if you paid for the services. Yeah. So when he calls it 1441 01:39:58,199 --> 01:40:00,479 a vocation, it almost sounds like he's respectful, now that I think about 1442 01:40:00,520 --> 01:40:02,880 it. Yeah, all right, One last thing that I want to run 1443 01:40:02,880 --> 01:40:08,479 by you. Oh boy, what I'm sorry? This I saw today. 1444 01:40:08,520 --> 01:40:11,239 It was in the New York Post and it was a twenty seven year old 1445 01:40:11,239 --> 01:40:13,119 girl. So she had gone out on a date. Twenty seven year old 1446 01:40:13,119 --> 01:40:15,520 woman. She had gone out on a date with a thirty five year old 1447 01:40:15,560 --> 01:40:21,319 guy. Okay, and she took a pick a screamshot of the text he 1448 01:40:21,479 --> 01:40:28,319 sent her after their date. Okay. Oh man, Well why do you 1449 01:40:28,359 --> 01:40:33,840 say, oh man? Because these because it sounds like, here, I'm 1450 01:40:33,880 --> 01:40:38,159 gonna guess what this is about. Okay, it sounds like the date went 1451 01:40:38,279 --> 01:40:41,960 wrong. It does the way I'm saying it, it certainly does and he 1452 01:40:42,319 --> 01:40:46,079 and he freaking probably sent her something fucked up after the date. So then 1453 01:40:46,119 --> 01:40:50,319 she goes on her Facebook, and she goes on her Facebook and posted, 1454 01:40:50,399 --> 01:40:55,520 so everybody can see it, Okay, you're you're sort of right, but 1455 01:40:55,680 --> 01:41:00,000 not entirely. And I'm not sure that I have the actual text here, 1456 01:41:00,039 --> 01:41:05,920 but he wrote something to the effect of okay. She added the caption, 1457 01:41:06,560 --> 01:41:11,479 I have to start dating people my age. Now I'm thinking somewhere in my 1458 01:41:11,600 --> 01:41:15,720 printing that the millennial text thing for the New York Post did not not come 1459 01:41:15,760 --> 01:41:19,039 through. But basically he wrote, hey had a great time last night. 1460 01:41:19,319 --> 01:41:24,560 Have a good day. Okay, okay, hey have a great time last 1461 01:41:24,640 --> 01:41:29,000 night, Have a good day, she writes. She captions, she screenshots 1462 01:41:29,000 --> 01:41:32,760 that, and I'm paraphrasing, but you can look this up. She screenshots 1463 01:41:32,840 --> 01:41:38,119 that and puts the caption, I have to start dating people my own age, 1464 01:41:38,279 --> 01:41:41,199 but I won't. That's what she writes. So she's twenty seven, 1465 01:41:41,239 --> 01:41:43,399 he's thirty five. It doesn't seem like a big age gap to me, 1466 01:41:43,800 --> 01:41:46,880 but that's what she's saying. So then a bunch of people write, I'm 1467 01:41:46,920 --> 01:41:50,479 confused, how is this bad? And it seems to me she got five 1468 01:41:50,560 --> 01:41:56,439 hundred thousand views on her post kind of goes viral and a lot of people 1469 01:41:56,520 --> 01:42:00,159 are saying like they don't understand, and other people going, yeah, I 1470 01:42:00,199 --> 01:42:01,840 totally get it. What is you know? What is he trying to tell 1471 01:42:01,840 --> 01:42:05,920 you? So she said, let's be clear, I do not have the 1472 01:42:06,119 --> 01:42:11,239 ick. I just can't read him, and I really really want to go 1473 01:42:11,359 --> 01:42:15,439 on a second date. That's what she wrote to somebody who commented on the 1474 01:42:15,439 --> 01:42:18,600 photo. Here is my thing. This isn't an age thing. This is 1475 01:42:18,640 --> 01:42:23,199 not an age thing. This is a guy after a first date. He 1476 01:42:23,239 --> 01:42:26,520 wants a second date too, but he doesn't want to seem desperate, and 1477 01:42:26,560 --> 01:42:29,319 he doesn't want to seem too He's trying to play it cool. And we 1478 01:42:29,399 --> 01:42:31,840 live in a now an age where all of a sudden, you just blew 1479 01:42:31,960 --> 01:42:34,920 me up all over, like I'm not sure what I would think of this, 1480 01:42:35,199 --> 01:42:39,199 But he's trying to am I wrong. He I don't care if you're 1481 01:42:39,319 --> 01:42:43,000 twenty five, if you're fifteen, if you're fifty five. You on a 1482 01:42:43,039 --> 01:42:46,039 first date and the next day you get a response back from somebody, to 1483 01:42:46,119 --> 01:42:50,039 me, that's an indication of the date went well. And if he says 1484 01:42:50,199 --> 01:42:54,760 have a good day. You could write back you two and I hope we 1485 01:42:54,800 --> 01:42:59,000 can do it again soon, right, And so I'll done because what this 1486 01:42:59,079 --> 01:43:02,239 guy's being to me is a gentleman and letting you lead in this, which 1487 01:43:02,239 --> 01:43:05,720 is why how Bumble came to be. I believe Bumble the dating site, 1488 01:43:05,800 --> 01:43:10,520 at least in its origination, was for women to make the first move. 1489 01:43:10,800 --> 01:43:14,880 So how's this bad? I don't think it's old man texting. Somebody writes 1490 01:43:15,039 --> 01:43:17,000 if they text, like my dad, that's a green flag, which is 1491 01:43:17,000 --> 01:43:19,680 a nice thing to say. But I go, that's not an old man 1492 01:43:19,720 --> 01:43:25,119 texting. That's a dude who's not really sure tide himself and trying to be 1493 01:43:25,159 --> 01:43:28,800 cool. I've sent that text before. Yeah, I'm sure you have. 1494 01:43:29,079 --> 01:43:30,159 You know what I mean? Sech and I don't you know, all of 1495 01:43:30,239 --> 01:43:33,760 a sudden she's that just goes to show you what a bit she is, 1496 01:43:34,279 --> 01:43:36,279 well she is or she isn't. I think she was trying to be funny, 1497 01:43:36,319 --> 01:43:41,600 and I think she is a online personality all of that. Like, 1498 01:43:41,680 --> 01:43:44,359 she has a bit of a following, so she does things like this, 1499 01:43:44,720 --> 01:43:46,920 And she did say I really really wanted to go on a second date, 1500 01:43:47,000 --> 01:43:50,560 so she liked the guy, but it's it's take it away from her, 1501 01:43:50,720 --> 01:43:56,359 take it to anybody. If that's the case, I would think. I 1502 01:43:56,359 --> 01:43:59,119 guess the only thing I could say to anybody is, if you are going 1503 01:43:59,159 --> 01:44:00,079 to go on a date with some money and you like them and you want 1504 01:44:00,119 --> 01:44:03,520 a second date, just ask for it. Have the balls to go out 1505 01:44:03,560 --> 01:44:06,640 there. If you're thirty five, you're not twenty five, you're not nineteen, 1506 01:44:08,039 --> 01:44:10,159 have the balls. Just go, Hey, I had a great time 1507 01:44:10,199 --> 01:44:13,119 and I would love to take you out again. Everybody went out again. 1508 01:44:13,560 --> 01:44:15,439 I don't know. Doesn't say in the article interesting, but it was just 1509 01:44:15,520 --> 01:44:18,520 it just they were trying to, at least in the article, put this 1510 01:44:18,600 --> 01:44:25,000 as a gen z versus a millennial type thing, and I'm going, I'm 1511 01:44:25,000 --> 01:44:27,720 not in neither one of these. But at the same time, I go, 1512 01:44:27,880 --> 01:44:30,239 that's just a huge that's just a dude being a dude. Stop trying 1513 01:44:30,239 --> 01:44:34,239 to categories categorize everything. Wait, dude, wait, people are nowadays lucky. 1514 01:44:34,239 --> 01:44:36,399 You didn't ask her for me. Will you send me a couple of 1515 01:44:36,439 --> 01:44:44,720 tips us that's after the second day, Soldier has been fun. Yes, 1516 01:44:44,840 --> 01:44:47,760 this is great. I hope you have a great kickoff to the summer. 1517 01:44:47,800 --> 01:44:50,760 You've got the wedding, you've got the fiftieth anniversary party, you get your 1518 01:44:50,760 --> 01:44:55,680 brothers. You're gonna be a puddle. Oh yeah, will we see you 1519 01:44:55,760 --> 01:44:58,800 Monday? Yeah? Are we doing it Monday? Yeah, we can do 1520 01:44:58,840 --> 01:45:00,159 it Monday. All right. I know it. I know it's the holiday, 1521 01:45:00,239 --> 01:45:02,520 but you probably got to get up the next day. I don't know. 1522 01:45:02,640 --> 01:45:04,479 That's all right. Well, we'll check with everybody. If not, 1523 01:45:04,560 --> 01:45:10,800 we we can certainly do uh other plans for for sure. But have a 1524 01:45:10,840 --> 01:45:15,479 wonderful kickoff the summer to uh everybody in your life. May they have a 1525 01:45:15,520 --> 01:45:18,960 great one with you tipping them back all fun. I'm Bill Moran. Have 1526 01:45:19,039 --> 01:45:33,600 a great Memorial Day weekend and we will see you probably month. Know what 1527 01:45:33,760 --> 01:45:41,239 to do to you an stay